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Ask the dudes in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:50 AM
3

In 1 my request was fulfilled. The request was never about him going anywhere. I wanted to go out, I went out. I think it's very strange that you think doing something independent of your spouse constitutes capitulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:41 AM
3

That's not capitulation lol. That's compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:38 AM
4

Negotiation is literally compromise. The compromise in the example you gave is one of 2 things. Okay, I'll go by myself and you can hang out at home and relax/order in. Nobody capitulated to anybody and both parties got what they wanted. Or Okay, we can reschedule for Sunday.- nobody capitulated, we negotiated a delay for 1 party that was mutually agreed upon. Maybe the fact that you think everything has to be a power struggle is why your marriage failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:35 AM
9

Any man that decides I'm beneath him will fuck right off out of my life. Because I get to decide what they are to me. I am nobody's subordinate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:29 AM
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Are you not familiar with the concept of compromise? How weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:28 AM
8

Because I'm an EQUAL not some dudes subordinate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:26 AM
5

Lol whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:25 AM
7

We're supposed to be independent trailblazers who do our own thing and who aren't afraid to express sincerely held disagreements. literally what you said. what exactly does this mean champ? why aren't women supposed to be those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:17 AM
6

Fine semantics. You wrote that only men SHOULD express their "strongly held disagreements" Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:10 AM
6

Obviously you weren't since you're getting fucking dragged, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:08 AM
7

Literally in the comment I replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:07 AM
7

Well then why don't you clarify what they're fucking up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:06 AM
10

I've been married 20 years. We work our disagreements out as a team
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:06 AM
3

I don't care if he fucks a bunch of women. That's not doubt the best
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:05 AM
6

Except down thread you did. Your exact words were "when women set the course they fuck up the lives of everyone around them" Got a source to back that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:05 AM
10

Why should women not have the right to "express strongly held disagreements"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:03 AM
14

"Women fuck everything up" yeah, that's literal sexism buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:59 PM
15

You don't need 2 leaders. You need 2 partners. There's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:59 PM
4

As a woman, I would never be with a man who is an asshole to everyone but me. That's just an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:58 PM
7

Subordinate nails it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:55 PM
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They actually mean submissive. But that's a red flag, so they changed the language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:54 PM
5

That's a disgusting outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:35 AM
3

You don't care about the impact of human trafficking on women as long as sex is "affordable" because it knocks women down a peg. What the actual fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:33 AM
0

Got any sources to back up the idea that this is "hardwired into our DNA"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:00 AM
7

This isn't hardship. It's abuse.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/22 12:35 AM
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so you want prostitution to be free but promiscuity and sexual advertising to be illegal? am i understanding that correctly?
/r/ExRedPill22/02/22 05:50 PM
4

Because putting down women to earn men's attention is weird and gross. It's not exactly rocket science. Pick-mes are assholes to amuse men, how hard is if fo just not be an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:28 AM
0

That's not what polygamy means but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:46 PM
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So you're just a full blown hypocrite pretending to be progressive to manipulate women into sex? Weird thing to brag about on the internet but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:51 PM
1

We probably don't need trend analysis from a guy who can only find companionship by paying for it. Your post history is public, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:51 PM
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And you spent all your time stalking your female employees so you could draw insulting conclusions about their significant others. You must be proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:49 PM
2

15% is also not "a very common" occurrence by definition, butthole
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:43 PM
2

LMFAO the audacity of you telling people to be better is hilarious considering how much you're showing your ass on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:42 PM
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How many women do you employ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:41 PM
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Not if they're red pillers who think all women are out to get them, we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:41 PM
2

6% of your shitty sample is not a "very common occurence"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:40 PM
2

How is 6% not an outlier?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:40 PM
3

How do you know he's not also on his way to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:39 PM
3

And probably illegal. I feel bad for this guys employees.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:39 PM
4

Wow 36 whole people! This is obviously a missed scientific breakthrough. What an incredible sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:37 PM
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So you've "seen" some flimsy anecdotal evidence in a single industry that you work in but haven't actually talked to aby of these women? Got it. You're clearly an expert. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:36 PM
5

As an educated career woman, I second this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:35 PM
0

AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:13 AM
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I've been married almost 12 years, together 19. We just had our monthly relationship check in last night and we both said we are happier now than we've ever been and still very much in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:20 PM
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Are you really defending lobotmoies as a good thing? Good God.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:18 PM
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I straight up ask potential partners what their political views are. If they're conservative it's an immediate 100% deal breaker and I don't want to waste my time. Refusing to answer the question is also a deal breaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:16 PM
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I know that RP ideology is mysogynystic, so yeah. It stands to reason that people who view all women as liars and golddiggers waiting for the first opportunity to ruin your life because that's the ideology you follow, that the misogynist shoe fits. Also oh boo hoo I had a typo. You obviously understood the intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:13 PM
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Maybe that's a red flag you shouldn't be red pilled. jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:16 PM
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Yes women will typically outright reject you for being honest about being a mysogynyst. Why wouldn't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:27 PM
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I imagine eventually they'll let some mysogynyst bullshit slip. Or they'll have a RP podcast on in the car or something. Ideological belief systems are usually way more obvious than people think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:25 PM
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Lol I didn't realize red pill had fight club rules. That's so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:24 PM
2

Why did you specify straight? Lol are gay people not looking for LTRs? As a bi woman, yes. I've been in my relationship almost 2 decades. If I became single again, I'd look for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:36 AM
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Yes, as long as they're clear of any STIs and don't have a bunch of children they're not taking care of running around. My husband (married 12 years together 19) had a couple dozen partners by the time we met and he was my first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:46 AM
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You'd probably have some integrity at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:52 AM
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you think lying is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:24 AM
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This comment is what disgusts me about men's sexuality. you got poisoned as a teenager and now you're lying to multiple women and proud of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:24 AM
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until men are socialized to view women as holistically as women view men, i.e. as people instead of objects. i just don't see that ever happening. Not in America anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:22 AM
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yep, this. of course men are more conservative, social conservatism benefits men and shames women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:08 PM
2

I'm not angry at all. I'm quite used to your particular brand of bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:38 AM
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Yeah, neither of us is gay. And I'm Trans (female to male). And non-monogamous. In my state I've been fired for both. I've had housing threatened over being Trans. You, a white Christian traditionalist woman in a red state adhering to strict bullshit gender roles have no fucking idea what it's like for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:36 AM
3

I get 0 financial stability from being married. I'm the breadwinner in my home and always have been. Unfortunately, I live in a disgusting red state where we could lose our homes and our jobs for being queer so we have a straight marriage to hide behind until we can get the fuck out of this shithole country.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:32 AM
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Yeah we have to play by the rules until we are able to change them. It's not hypocrisy, it's fucking SURVIVAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:29 AM
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Keep dreaming boomer. Younger generations are coming for your bullshit. It's only a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:23 AM
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Lmfao what part of WE was it you missed? He's got a whole ass 2nd partner of 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:21 AM
2

They wouldn't anyway. They dont have any of our personal information including address or phone number and we had set up living wills long prior to getting married. It gets updated regularly because he has a child with his 2nd partner that we share equal custody of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:20 AM
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Lmfao. We got married because my grandparents promised us a check and we were poor. We still actively fuck other people. The tax break is fine and all, but I'd give it up for a tax overhaul and removal of app government involvement with marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:19 AM
6

I don't care what your opinions are. My point is that you don't get to share them as facts. They are opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:15 AM
3

I hate my husband's last name and we are 100% no contact with his shit bag family. I would never even entertain the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:14 AM
6

Tradition doesn't make something either fact or good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:58 AM
5

I've been married 11 years, together 8 before that. Never took my husband's name. Was never embarrassed to not be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:57 AM
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No. You're not entitled to my labor and you're here in bad faith. Besides, my feeble lady brain is less capable of it than your big man brain remember. LEAD and do your own fucking homework.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 02:31 AM
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I like to read the stories about people coming to their senses. This is a support sub not an evangelical religion. Nobody here is trying to convert you. You came here, remember?
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 02:23 AM
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Literally any scientific study. A survey of the people who listen to a red pill show is going to be a fucking echo chamber. And if they're not live streamed, dissenting voices are edited out. Seriously do some objective research from actual scholarly sources. Not pundits and pick up artists. And no, I'm not going to spoonfeed it to you. I have a high paying management career to attend to that you think I should have left for a man so he'd be able to better attract a mate. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 02:22 AM
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He'd talked to hundreds of women who listen to his biased nonsense. Talk about a bad sample.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 02:12 AM
21

The thing is, and I'll be blunt, nobody gives a fuck if you quit TRP. You can follow whatever dumb shit philosophy you want. TRP is a massive turn off to women. I've never met a single woman in all my 36 years on this earth as a woman, who is interested in being with a man that views women as less than himself. You said yourself you think men should be in charge of women, therefore you see them as less capable of taking care of themselves than you. You can say you respect women all you want but …
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 02:10 AM
2

And nobody ever calls it out. When you do you get told "that's not real poly". And like; no yeah. It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:23 AM
2

Yeah. As a polyamorous person, the poly community is proof that heavily left leaning groups can still attract garbage pails looking to exploit a philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:09 AM
1

It's definitely a VERY VERY small minority and I don't want to give the impression it's representative of the philosophy. More that a gross mysogynystic philosophy inevitably attracts even grosser subsets of awful humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:01 AM
1

I don't really have any views on it? I'm a woman but I masturbate pretty much daily, usually in the morning before work. I like that little hit of endorphins before I start my day. So personally this challenge sounds dumb to me and I'd never do it. But I don't really care what men I'm not involved with do with their dicks lol. I wonder how my husband would feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:00 AM
2

But do you enter into conversations with women from a baseline of mistrust and then make them "earn" your trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:53 AM
2

Do you trust women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:52 AM
3

why don't you explain it like i'm 5 because there are other RP'ers on this exact thread who are saying it's just "feminine nature to lie" and that's a key tenet of the RP philosophy. Why would a woman want to sleep with a man that views her as an inherent and uncontrollable liar? Explain it to me like I'm 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:29 AM
4

You think assuming all women are liars and gold diggers is neutral? Come the fuck on, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:32 AM
4

And why would any woman choose to have sex with someone that actively despises them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:55 AM
5

Yeah there's a small piece of the RP community that's a gateway drug to pedophilia the same way there are small sects of RP that are gateway drugs to white nationalism/nazism and being an incel. Or the roundabout pipeline of RP to incel to nazi
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:43 AM
6

So you don't care if the people you want to have sex with reciprocate that? Do you just not care about whether or not you have sex or do you plan to have non-consensual sex? What's your end game?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:38 AM
10

If you want to be in a long term relationship with her, you probably should. But thanks for demonstrating exactly why nobody wants to date RP men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:35 AM
10

Right and they think all women are liars and gold diggers. Why would a woman want to be with a man that already doesn't trust her or even like her before they've met?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:34 AM
8

There's a significant chunk of the RP community that thinks it's "natural" and healthy to have sex with 15/16yr old girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:29 AM
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So you want to fuck women but you don't respect them? Sounds about right. Explain to me why a woman would want to fuck you if you don't respect her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:26 AM
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But red pillers inherently distrust all women. Serious long term relationships are 100% incompatible with a lack of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:25 AM
7

This is all really good points. Do red pill men even actually LIKE women enough for marriage and families?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:21 AM
5

The entire philosophy would have to change. Why would I want to be with a man who views women so negatively? If you believe all women are users, liars, and manipulators why would I think you view me any differently. And if you don't respect me and you think I'm a liar, how could I possibly ever love you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:17 AM
1

who said anything about triads? nobody. triad =/= unicorn hunting. there's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:37 PM
5

That's fair. I'm no statistician nor sexual anthropologist so I honestly have no idea. I strongly suspect due to some neurodivergence I'm more sexual than average. I perhaps border on hypersexual, personally. So it's fair to accept my anecdote with a grain of salt. I was mostly just trying to be witty so I hope it gave you a giggle lol. That said, I know a lot of women who have high libidos and there's a pretty good number of us on the HL subs so while a high libido woman like myself is a minori…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 05:54 AM
2

Hey that's how my dysphoria manifests too! High five 💕🥰
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 05:37 AM
12

As a constantly horny woman, I promise we are not humoring the patriarchy. Forgive my candor, but I love dick. ETA- Ace women exist and are valid wonderful beings. I just promise we aren't all secretly ace lol.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 05:36 AM
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My continued attraction to men is often proof sexuality is not in fact a choice.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 05:35 AM
11

Yikes. It sounds like maybe you're just straight? And projecting some issues onto the entire gender. The way you phrased it makes it sound unhealthy. As a bi woman, yeah women are attractive lol.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 05:34 AM
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I'm a marketing executive in Telcom/cybersecurity and trust, men are VERY easy to advertise to. Especially when it's b2b advertising. B2c is a little bit trickier but honestly not by much. Humans in general are highly and easily influenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:40 PM
1

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:39 PM
2

I caught my partner having an affair with an ex who had sexially assaulted me. The affair lasted 3 years under my nose, in the middle of which we got engaged and then married. He fucked her in my bed the night before our wedding. When I asked him why, his answer was "it was the most hurtful thing I could do to you. I figured you'd kill yourself when you found out"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:58 AM
6

Big time same
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:42 PM
4

It's not funny. They're usually unicorn hunters who are poly exclusively to fetishize and be predatory to young bi women while also voting for those same bi women to have their rights revoked. It's fucking disgusting and abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:21 PM
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I know a ton of conservative/red pill poly people and kinksters. Every last one of them is a huge piece of shit making our local community toxic and awful, but they exist proud of their hypocritical glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:45 PM
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We run a small business together. He tends to work 10-12 hour days at a fairly physically exhausting job. We do our best to split that work and house work evenly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:24 PM
1

Women are indeed capable of doing heavy lifting and manual labor. I'm sorry your world is so small you've never met a strong woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:12 PM
1

That doesn't explain why you're not holding him accountable for literally abandoning you.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 10:11 PM
1

Something tells me living a 60lb item will be less difficult than a 160lb. Why are you so triggered by women who are capable of maintaining their own homes without male assistance?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:58 PM
1

You clearly don't understand that I've done construction work and electrical work alongside my dad since I was 4yrs old. I know EXACTLY what it entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:47 PM
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I can left a 160lb seizing mastiff into my car without assistance. A 60lb chandelier is nothing and I'd do the wiring myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:27 PM
1

Lmfao, been married going on 12 years. I have a man. I don't need a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:14 AM
4

Theb they'll also commit crimes regardless of marital status.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:23 AM
6

Also refusing to fuck men they're not attracted to isn't a crime. Men's version of "behaving badly" is LITERALLY crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:55 AM
6

You're making women responsible for men's fulfillment. Why aren't the men accountable for the crimes they're committing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:54 AM
5

If it makes you feel any better 36 makes me a "geriatric millenial" so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:15 AM
3

Roughly 10% of the population is gay. So 1in 10. Some people believe it's probably closer to 1 in 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:44 AM
5

What should I accept responsibility for, specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:44 AM
3

I never said a lot of women don't pick horrible men. My mom picked a horrible man. I literally Literally fucking said that in this thread. Are you reading words that weren't written? What does women picking horrible men have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:43 AM
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Also I literally am taking responsibility for my choices. By being independent enough to meter NEED a man. Needing a man either because you're incapable of doing your own manual labor or you need a romantic relationship is the trap that women fall into that often causes them to stay with toxic, abusive, or philandering men. I will never do that. I've lived alone, I can do it again. I'm partnered because I have a partner who treats me well and respects my independence. Though it's probably nice f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:39 AM
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Okay and? So should men. If you're picking women who treat you like an ATM, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:37 AM
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And? I really don't understand the point you're driving at. You know women like me IRL yet you claim that all or most women need men? What about lesbians? Do you think they also need men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:36 AM
3

She's never minded an empty home. She was an army wife for 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:35 AM
3

Right now? Mostly because we own an established small business with about 50 regular clients and 100+ irregular or one time a year clients. And because my mom and grandma are here. When grandma passes, we will probably leave the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:34 AM
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I never said it wasn't possible. Just not how the cards got dealt for my mom. I got a completely different deck because I'd never need a man so badly I'd allow that kind of treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:33 AM
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I'm not defensive at all lol. Maybe you need to expand the circle you're "observing" then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:31 AM
3

Not in my experience. Granted I'm an atheist but the 50-60 and up women in my grandma's church (united methodist) are all living their best lives. They went zip lining today 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:30 AM
2

Fair enough. Whatever trips your trigger. The last thing I want to do when it's 117*F out like it is 8 months of the year here is go outside 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:29 AM
2

Maybe your rules are wrong if every woman you recounted is an "exception". Every woman in my circle is just as self sufficient as I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:28 AM
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50s is the Gen X elders, not boomers but agreed. Well you see my mother was raised to believe that you needed to marry to survive and then brainwashed by religion into believing you "stay together for the kids" So she let a lazy abusive piece of shit leech off her for 36yrs. Frankly we are all happy to be free and she raised her daughters to know their worth and to be able to do all of their own home, car, and automobile maintenance with the same amount of skill as any man. My grandfather also d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:27 AM
2

I haven't had any issues in Arizona. I just had an electrician over a few weeks ago to do some wiring for new lights in our doggy daycare space. I can do most of my own electric but I don't really enjoy it and don't keep an ohm meter on hand anymore so I just hired someone. He was great, reasonably priced, and did lovely work. I may have him back next month. Thinking about redoing the lighting and adding surround sound to my office to celebrate being promoted to VP this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:22 AM
5

I will also say, in 2020 we watched my dad die at 56yrs old. My mom is now 54 and single. And the happiest she's ever been. Soooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:10 AM
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I'm already almost 40. What do you think is going to change in the next 3 years? And ss I said, I don't need to shovel. I live in a warm climate. My 82 year old grandma still uses a push mower to mow her half acre backyard and harvests her own fruit trees because my grandfather died 17 years ago. My stock is pretty fucking strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:53 AM
2

They'll eat my cheese?!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:52 AM
2

Mine lives in a room with a closed door and the can has a locking metal lid to keep the dogs out so I don't really have that issue. Can usually get away with every other day or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:52 AM
3

Women's friend circles typically grow as they age because married men die first and women tend to live a decade or 2 longer relying on their church groups and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:49 AM
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So your assertion is that it's women's responsibility to babysit men so they don't commit crime? Why not just teach men and boys not to commit fucking crimes? At what point do the men become accountable. Single women are not responsible for single men behaving badly. That's asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:45 AM
8

Nobody wants to take out the trash lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:41 AM
6

I'm 36. Take out my own trash. Mow my own lawn. Change my own oil and brake pads. This past weekend I did a clean and tune up on my HVAC unit so it's ready for when I need AC in February/March. We don't need men anymore. And guess what? We can make our own money to HIRE one if there's something we need done. At least contractors are insured and won't eat my cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:40 AM
8

LMFAO. I can shovel my own driveway thank you very much. But I solved that problem by simply choosing a nice warm climate to live in. There's plenty controversial about rhe RP, you're absolutely delusional if you think otherwise. But then again RP men usually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:38 AM
5

No. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:37 AM
6

Soundsike you're bitter and should seek help to heal instead of being sexist on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:37 AM
3

That's not normal for people in their 30s and 40s now. I'm in my late 30s. See my married friends as often if not more often than my single friends. Including the ones with kids. The activities have changed since our 20s but if you spend your time building a strong community around you, you don't need a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:36 AM
5

You don't need a relationship to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:35 AM
6

Have I lived alone? Yes. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:31 AM
6

Do you not have friends? Being single doesn't mean being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:31 AM
2

Who says they have to be alone? Lol. They'll just live with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:30 AM
11

I'm 36 and I'd rather be alone than with a red pill man. What could possibly make life so hard without a man? What would I NEED man for at 36 that I didn't theoretically need one for at 22?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:29 AM
3

If you think everyone is mostly treated good in western countries, you're choosing to be deliberately incorrect. America has the highest maternal mortality rate in the developed world.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 07:31 PM
5

You don't think calling all women liars is negative? L.ol
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 07:28 PM
7

Whatever you say, kiddo. You made your intentions crystal clear. Enjoy being bitter and alone
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 07:23 PM
5

Yeah feminism and red pill are NOT even close to comparable.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 07:18 PM
9

You think assuming all women are lying to you comes from a good place? Lol. No. That shit comes from anger and hatred the same way assuming all RP men are abusive comes from anger and hatred. You just wanted an excuse to call women liars
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 07:17 PM
8

here's a source, fuckface.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 07:05 PM
7

Where did I say "all" I said some women are murdered by RP men. Intimate partner violence is the number 1 non medical cause of death for women between 18-45 years old.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 07:05 PM
7

Oh so just hate women. Got it.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 07:04 PM
3

Why isn't that a good thing?
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 07:01 PM
10

They're manipulated and abused by RP men. Some are even murdered by red pill men. I'd say that's a pretty fucking negative impact.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 07:00 PM
5

Only 12% of women cheat compared to 28% of men.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 06:55 PM
6

Or maybe they're not benefitting because it's not a beneficial philosophy
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 06:52 PM
3

Your dad is the one that cheated you out of a dad. Why aren't you holding him responsible for cheating in his fiance and being promiscuous?
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 05:13 PM
5

If you're not seeing fat people in social spaces, you're deliberately ignoring or not seeing them. Almost half of the US population is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:43 PM
2

You're arguing in bad faith. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:28 PM
7

Is he being up front about his intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:44 PM
2

Was he honest about the length of his commitment or did he lie? And lying by omission counts as lying for the purposes of this discussion. Did he lead the woman on to believe it was going to be a long term relationship in order to get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:43 PM
2

Okay and? Nobody owes anybody anything but failing to keep your word is a shitty disrespectful thing to do to another human being regardless of gender. So like yeah, you don't owe anyone a commitment but if you say you're going to commit and don't, don't complain about being called a disrespectful sack of shit for not keeping your word. Actions have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:41 PM
3

I said they don't care what women's preferences are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:25 PM
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Because it's all about getting their ego stroked by other men. They exaggerate and lie to seem like they're doing better than other men, to impress. Not because of women's preferences. It's fairly evident the kind of guy who hangs out on this sub moaning about n count don't actually care what women are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:14 PM
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Men exaggerate it because they don't actually care about women's preferences. That exaggeration is for other men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:06 PM
1

yeah here you go. shaming doesn't work. Why would you care if women are paying eachother compliments - fake or otherwise - unless you've decided the subject doesn't deserve them? Why the fuck does it matter to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:23 PM
1

You DO have the right to know. Anyone can request a DNA paternity test. They're 28.99 at CVS. My point is, it doesn't need to be enshrined into law because the option already exists and no one is stopping you from opting in. I'm just not going to fucking PAY for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:24 PM
1

I'd compromise on partial coverage as an elective procedure unless medically necessary for some other reason. Insurance is a scam but its a pool and again, I don't think I should be responsible for your suspicions. There's 0 medically relevant data on that test.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:59 AM
0

It does if he wants it because he doesn't trust her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:41 AM
1

As long as it's not enshrined into law (none of the other birth stuff is) or covered by insurance unless there's a medical need for it IDGAF. you can ppt-in for it in vitro at 9 weeks. Most obgyns offer it with the genetic abnormality testing. It's on the same form with all the other optional tests. But it costs more and doesn't provide any medically relevant testing. We had the option when we had our son 4 years ago. We opted not to because it was like an extra 150 bucks and we didn't see the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:32 AM
0

K
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:29 AM
1

I love that you think I'm pompous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:18 AM
1

"Is it fair that he raises a child he thought was his?" Weird how you suddenly don't care about kids in broken homes 🙄 As for equality of information, fine. You're free to get a DNA test if that matters to you and you truly don't suspect your partner. Just do it on your dime. And deal with the fallout from whether or not you're charismatic enough or have a solid enough relationship that your partner buys that. None of that justifies me paying for you wanting a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:13 AM
0

trust
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:04 AM
0

Why would you stay with a woman you don't trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:32 AM
1

I said if a man doesn't trust his partner he shouldn't have kids with her. Why would you even WANT to have kids with someone you don't trust? Why do men stay with women they think are cheating? That's stupid. ETA INB4 someone says some dumbass shit. Yes I feel the same way about women who think their men are cheating on them. If you don't trust your partner FUCKING BREAK UP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:31 AM
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So Father's shouldn't face consequences for suspecting their wives of infidelity? And you want to enshrine that in law and take money out of my pocket to fund it. Lol the fuck outta here with that bullshit. Of course it can be seen as suspecting infidelity - THATS WHAT IT IS. there's literally no other reason to request this except that you don't trust your partner didn't fuck someone else. If you can't maintain the trust in your relationships, that's on you and your partner. Why should I have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:29 AM
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Lmfao no. They're 28.99 at CVS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:26 AM
1

No. You're deliberately and intentionally misunderstanding the definition of the term. If he didn't consent, it's cheating. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:23 AM
0

Polyamory/ethical non-monogamy and swinging all have a standard accepted code of ethics. There's tons of communities online and IRL and lots of literature on it. Generally speaking "lying is unethical" is fairly fucking universal and you know it. I'm done with your attempt to troll me for the evening. I know you're arguing in bad faith but I had time to burn. Now I'm going to have dinner with my husband and his other partner to celebrate my new job promotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:18 AM
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If you agreed not to eat those cookies, it's a violation of the relationship agreements. Would I use the word cheating? No. Have I seen polyamorous people do so? Yup. Generally speaking though, cheating is generally accepted as being defined as "lying about whether or not you're fucking someone besides me" in polyamory. Just be honest and explicit. I'm a big proponent of discussing the type of relationship you're willing to have in the pre-dating phase of talking to someone. You should know befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:15 AM
8

Soma!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:25 AM
6

I'll tell you what red pillers tell women about deadbeat dads - date better women. Or get therapy if you're that incapable of trusting that it makes you physically anxious. Maybe spend less time with incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:25 AM
1

Marriage won't die as long as it has government and employer provided benefits attached to it. I'm a woman and I didn't grow up dreaming of my wedding day. My partner and I only married because we needed the incentives associated with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:19 AM
1

It's entirely possible to cheat in a poly relationship too. By breaking explicit boundaries or lying. This isn't a monogamous exclusive problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:18 AM
1

Both for not communicating their relationship boundaries and expectations. But the person who was actively "practicing" polyampry is the one who's obligated to obtain the consent of their partner. It's a crucial piece of being ethically non-monogamous. Without the consent of your partner, it's not ethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:17 AM
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Lol no it doesn't. I'm in a polyamorous marriage. My concept of "cheating" comes from the fact that if you don't uphold your relationship agreements, you're cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:09 AM
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Where did I say that all women are wonderful? Fucking nowhere. I said if you don't trust your partner, you shouldn't have kids with them. I stand by that. You came out swinging with rhetoric about how trusting your partner is naive because tons and tons of women chest. But nowhere did you discuss men cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:02 AM
0

...no, a paternity test would not show its ethically non-mono if the man believes it was a mono relationship that's just cheating. In order for it to be an ethical relationship both parties must consent. And it's not about whether or not he's a good father. If my partner doesn't trust me on a fundamental level, having kids together is a shit idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:00 AM
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I think you're misunderstanding why I specified monogamous relationships. If a relationship is ethically non-monogamous or polyamorous then there's a reasonable expectation that a woman who has multiple male partners who could have fathered the baby. If they're monogamous no such reasonable expectation exists so literally the ONLY reason to make such a demand is that you're suspicious your spouse cheated and if it's already gotten to that point, then it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:57 AM
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The fact that 2 people are in it. I really don't feel like playing 20 questions. If you don't want to clarify your one sentence buzz word responses that's fine but I'm not going to jump through a bunch of riddles to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:06 AM
1

Not all relationships are monogamous though. I don't understand what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:42 AM
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I hardly think 12.9% is frighteningly common. . Also studies show that men are still cheating in higher numbers than women. so your assertion that women are gaslighting you is simply stupid. I can back up my claims with numbers. Can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:39 AM
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That's their right. I kind of agree. If you're in a monogamous relationship and think a DNA test is necessary, you shouldn't have kids. If you don't trust your spouse before becoming parents, parenting togerher is going to be fucking NIGHTMARE. And if you were my partner and your justification for asking me for a DNA test was more or less "well lots of women lie", we'd split up. My question would be why am I being punished with suspicion because of what other women who have nothing to do with ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:51 PM
1

Hmm how is what I said enforced monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:42 PM
2

No you're missing the point. Legislators aren't doctors. They shouldn't have opinions that impact any aspect of Healthcare. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:23 PM
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A fetus is not a person and I'm not ashamed to say that. I've had an abortion myself and I'm not ashamed of that. Abortion rights are Healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:20 PM
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Nope because I don't think the government needs to be involved in any aspect of Healthcare beyond regulating prices and safety approvals. And I don't think the govt should be involved in ANY aspect of familial or romantic life. At all. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:10 PM
1

That's fine. I'll look at those links after work. But nobody would put any weight on YouTube videos as a source. It's not a good source.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:09 PM
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Ethically no. I still think it's a stupid unnecessary mandate and as a queer person, I don't particularly want the government to legislate any aspects of romantic/familial relationships or as few as possible beyond safety. If we had UBI and universal childcare and universal Healthcare I wouldn't even want the government to mandate child support and alimony. I also don't think it's the governments place to legislate any Healthcare. A DNA test mandate is a slippery slope to eugenics and other heal…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:08 PM
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That's your bias to have. I just don't want my tax dollars paying for your paranoia
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:47 PM
1

YouTube isn't a credible source.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:35 PM
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Then they're obviously suspicious and broken in other ways. I stand by my original statement. If you can't trust your spouse enough to trust the kid they put their body through hell to have is your kid, don't have kids and get out of that relationship. Otherwise it's an individual problem and not one my tax dollars need any fucking involvement in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:32 PM
2

Broken doesn't even begin to cover it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:31 PM
2

You think the government is on the side of women? LMFAO let me introduce you to pay gaps, legalized discrimination, abortion laws, medical neglect, and insurance refusing to cover contraception because some CEO is a Jesus freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:17 PM
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It's reddit of course you're allowed to post links. And no, you made the claim. The burden of proof is on you. I'm not in the mood to do your research.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:16 PM
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If they're happy why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:15 PM
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Yeah in the US for it to be mandated and done at a hospital would cost literally thousands. When my son was born the hospital charged 500 dollars for "skin contact" literally 500 dollar bill for holding my own kid. And mandates require legislation, supply distribution. Logistics. Who pays for all of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:14 PM
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if the test is relatively cheap and can be opted for easily, I think the individual can go himself to see the if the kid is his or not how is this different than spending 19.99 at the drug store? this process is literally already in place
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:06 PM
3

how does your wife feel about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:59 PM
1

you still haven't provided a source for that number.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:57 PM
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and how do you think the medical freedom people are going to respond to forced DNA tests? lol you're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:56 PM
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Yes, it isn't likely that the woman will agree to a paternity test so the discreet way seems to be the best. you can't perform tests or medical procedures on an infant without the mother's consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:54 PM
2

have you been living in a different society than the rest of us since the pandemic started? people who opt out of vaccinations are literally celebrated right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:53 PM
2

who's going to pay for the mandatory tests?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:51 PM
7

abortion is it's taking a human life. no it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:50 PM
1

men in the UK alone who are victims of this crime what crime exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:49 PM
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i think if you're in a monogamous relationship and you feel a paternity test is necessary, you have bigger problems in the relationship and shouldn't be having kids to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:45 PM
1

"Truth" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:57 PM
2

Most of what people consider "ugly" is things that can't be "worked on". But even if it could, science has shown that shaming and criticism doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:10 PM
5

no, it's not normal for a 30 year old man to want to date a 15 yr old. it's just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:21 PM
1

That's kind of my suspicion as well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:59 AM
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what i want to know is why do you care? why is it so crucial to you that ugly women hate themselves and never receive any kind of positive reinforcement in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:52 PM
1

You don't think abuse is real?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:59 PM
2

That's what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:35 AM
1

Yes. Yesterday he proudly declared that we should employ Eugenics to eliminate the existence of homosexual, Trans, and disabled people. He also openly states that women have no value in society except to be subservient to men because they're not smart enough to do anything on their own and that white people are the only people capable of building and maintaining culture. Check his comment history. He won't admit he's an outright nazi but uhh..checks all the boxes from where I'm sitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:10 PM
1

They wouldn't be respectful and kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:07 PM
0

So you've seen literally every single Trans woman in the world and know that they're all individually unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:07 PM
1

Shreddz is literally a nazi. Save your energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:05 PM
0

Super straights were using literal nazi imagery in their shit. They deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:01 PM
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Yeah. At least not any weirder than I am about women's emotions lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:39 PM
1

Yeah that's fair. I guess for me it's always just kind of happened naturally that as relationships progress we become more vulnerable to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:29 PM
1

i find it to be kind of manipulative to intentionally create an emotionally charged issue/moment for the sole purpose of testing your partner. from either gender cuz i know women do that shit too. that said, i guess if this tactic has been used on me i've always passed because all of the boyfriends i've been with have always been comfortable with vulnerabilities like that with me. my husband has always been a crier about very emotional things and it's never bothered me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:17 PM
2

Imagine the level of irrationality to think white men are the only people who have any value in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:13 AM
2

So you've spoken to most people who exist in the world? That must be very tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:10 AM
2

Wowzers. I was prepared for delusional misogyny. Not for literal nazi propaganda and eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:06 AM
2

And you're not a woman who's needed to have an abortion. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:02 AM
1

So you're in favor of eugenics. Would you also be in favor of preventing the existence of gays and non-whites? Also, it's no longer standard of living now it's nebulous "possibility" when faced with a source showing that the US doesn't even rank top 10 for quality of life. Quit moving the goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:02 AM
2

The pill failing was why I had my abortion. /shrug/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:57 AM
2

It's not basic common sense to call an entire group of people dysfunctional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:56 AM
2

You don't seem to understand what the word objective means. Everything you say is subjective opinion or easily debunked faulty science.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:56 AM
1

No man, the only one with hurt feelings is you. My feelings are just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:53 AM
2

Are you a literal nazi?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:52 AM
1

So the reason that none of your conclusions can be backed up with facts and are easily debunked is that you draw arbitrary opinion/emotion based lines around who is and isn't valuable to society? Got it. Do you also favor eugenics and exterminating disabled people?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:52 AM
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No buddy. It's opinions. The opinions of a closed off, narrow minded, sad, lonely, angry little man who wants to justify being alone and detested by women because of his personality by hating them. It must suck to be so bitter and delusional, I feel bad for you. You're going to die angry and alone having missed out on the beauty of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:43 AM
2

But they are raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:41 AM
1

You're an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:36 AM
1

Then why isn't the US even top 10 for standard of living? Your claim was that we had the highest standard of living by far and for a reason. Yet not even top 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:36 AM
2

No birth control is 100% effective. But I'm not shocked you don't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:32 AM
1

Who leads in lesbian relationships? Who follows in gay ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:31 AM
2

And women are incapable of being "competent" right? So therefore it's crucial that all women be subservient to men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:31 AM
2

I don't personally care. But the difference is your neighbor is a whole human being. An embryo is not a person. It's an embryo. And it's feeding off of my body so I own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:30 AM
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Obedience and silence are not meaning and cooperation, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:20 AM
2

But you're in favor of fewer rules and smaller government. Why do you care about anybody else's embryos? I should be free to do whatever I want with my embryos as it has no affect on you. Just living by the principles of less rules you espouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:19 AM
1

Hoo buddy your decision runs DEEP if you think the US is a strictly capitalist country or has the highest standard of living in the world. Neither of those things are objectively true. Workers in this country are badly exploited, slavery is still literally legal in our prison system, all of our education and infrastructure is made up of socialist policies, and we didn't even rank top 10 for standard of living lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:18 AM
3

Sexual dimorphism is about physical attributes. That's not the same thing as gender roles though I'm unsurprised you believe they are. It explains a lot about your stupid world view
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:09 AM
1

Lol that's not gender roles. You're really grasping at straws now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:02 AM
1

You've been proven wrong by someone who actually owns sheep in this thread and you're still chest pounding about it. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:02 AM
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I said most not all for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:03 PM
4

You're deliberately misunderstanding because you don't want to admit that you're a misogynist. It's fine, really. Most liberal men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:24 PM
2

So it's magically different because it's day time? Lmfao. Okay pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:01 PM
6

So you don't know what the word empowered means. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:00 PM
9

Well they need others input, otherwise reddit forums for men wouldn't exist. What they claim to not need is women's input on what goes on in her own home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:00 PM
1

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:59 PM
4

Lol asking for a sexual act to be performed on you is not the same thing as requiring someone to perform sexual acts on a third party for your visual enjoyment. A real equivalent would be if I demanded that my husband be bisexual because I like to watch him suck dick. And yes, I'd say the same thing about fetishizing a man's bisexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:58 PM
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Why don't you clarify what you mean when you say she's not empowered, not allowed to go out with her friends, and not allowed to ask for attention or for her needs to be met? Those were 3 of your many bullet points here were they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:33 PM
5

The question was for redpillers. Red pill = conservative/right wing 99% of the time. If you're not red pill, I don't know why you answered the question. And making bisexuality a REQUIREMENT for your partners because you want to watch your own live action porno is absolutely fetishizing. That's literally how you described it. You literally stated it's a requirement because you want to watch your partner eat pussy. That's textbook fetishization.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:31 PM
10

As a bi woman fetishizing our sexuality like this is a huge turn off to most queer women. And most bi women won't date right wingers who vote against their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:24 PM
11

So you want a woman who has no voice of her own, no means of supporting herself, and no friends? Lol good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:18 PM
3

It doesn't matter if they want to fuck her as long as she doesn't want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:17 PM
3

Rabbits don't have gender roles either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:09 PM
2

Female big horn sheep also have horns, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:08 PM
2

Tigers don't have strict gender roles. Snakes don't have strict gender roles. Most species of birds don't have strict gender roles. Dogs don't have strict gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:07 PM
3

You're literally describing American capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:05 PM
2

So you're pro choice and pro abortion rights, correct? Cuz less rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:04 PM
5

Lmfao "what I need her to do" you're so fucking full of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:03 PM
3

To be fair shredder here also thinks women have no value in society. He loses most arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:01 PM
3

What is "workable discipline"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:57 PM
15

Boompa outright states that's what he wants. A doormat who and I quote "never challenges" him and his decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:56 PM
1

I've never really had "standards" beyond am I attracted to them and can they reasonably take care of themselves. I've also never really "aimed" or sought out people to date. I met guys and let friendships/relationships form and end naturally. But I've also had no issue landing a couple of very good looking guys (like 8-9 level good looking) that were really fun sweet relationships. And I've also dated guys who are extremely financially successful and had fun sweet relationships with them too. My…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:28 PM
1

No. I've never used online dating. I've always met my partners in real life. Usually through work or friends. And honestly I've never had an issue dating because of my looks. I've dated a couple of guys objectively way out of my league looks wise, but they were super into me. I didn't really understand it tbh but I also didn't really question it. They were always very caring and our relationships ultimately fizzled out because we were headed in different directions. I've been told I'm a 3-5/10. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:25 PM
8

I'm fat and objectively ugly and have never had any trouble finding men who treat me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:27 AM
9

Yell me you don't understand the psychology of abuse without telling me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:06 PM
1

Lolno. Block me if you don't like it. I don't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:36 PM
1

Nah, the only one with no value in society is you bud. I have work to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:34 PM
1

Now you're moving the goal posts. Which isn't hugelt surprising since you're whole thing is just hating on and degrading women. Again, your assertion was that women have never done or invented anything. That's factually incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:56 PM
1

Your original assertion was that no woman had ever invented anything. I showed you several examples where that's incorrect. That was the extent of my goals in the conversation. To prove you wrong. Which I did. I'm done now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:21 PM
1

you don't think computers are important? lmfao. okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:12 PM
2

Circular Saw, Fire Escape, medical syringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:03 PM
1

I blame your parents for allowing you to become so damaged and deluded. I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:36 PM
1

Do you really think that no woman has ever invented anything? Your hatred of women is sad and frankly fucking delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:34 PM
1

So you think all men are running around committing murder? Your delusion is DEEP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:32 PM
1

Nope I don't feel the least bit bad for saying fuck. And nope, not a man. Born a woman. Guess that's another way your theories are wrong too huh? I thought we were all warm and nurturing and needing your male approval. But I don't want any of that fucking bullshit from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:31 PM
2

So they disprove all your biological "truths" too? Interesting how there are so many ways to blow holes in these supposed universal truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:30 PM
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you've stumbled on to the biggest issue with MGTOW/red pill - cultish rhetoric used to gaslight and manipulate you into doubting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:21 PM
0

if that was the case no one would ever be able to recover from addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:17 PM
1

Fuck no I will not. You're not my dad or my boss lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:54 PM
2

But they're men and women. Why wouldn't they also be slaves to biological urges?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:49 PM
2

Lol fuck off. You're not going to tone police me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:49 PM
1

So I'm proof all of your beliefs are fucking bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:49 PM
3

He probably isn't a troll but he probably also thinks voting is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:48 PM
2

what about lesbians who prefer no men in their lives at all? how do homosexual men and women fit into your theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:44 PM
3

man is from Mars and a women is from Venus. That’s obviously not exaggerated. lmfao that's obviously not an exaggeration? so you think we're literally from different planets? this is the dumbest troll fuck shit i've seen on this sub in a hot minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:43 PM
1

lmfao, what biological urges am i fighting exactly? i've been with the same man for 20 years, married 12 of those and have 1 kid with him. i outearn him and he's a stay at home dad. i fucking exist. i just disproved your entire theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:42 PM
3

i don't need to prove anything to you, all you did was shout a bunch of dumb fucking opinions into the void
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:36 PM
2

wrong again, i'm also not on birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:28 PM
1

There is no situation where a woman is ever happy with JUST 1 MAN as their partner. prove it. prove that I a woman with a single male partner who is under 6ft and under earns me (and has our entire 20 year relationship) don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:27 PM
3

got any proof of that or just more of your "beliefs" and opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:25 PM
5

Opinions and beliefs aren't facts. You believing that men can't have fulfilling relationships with women because you can't doesn't make that a universal truth. Sounds like you're trying to make yourself feel better by blaming "biology".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:05 PM
1

I married a guy who made less than I did at the time and has for most of our 20 year relationship. Last year was the first time he made more than I did and it was neck and neck most of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:18 PM
0

Bro did you read your own source? Toxo only affects immunocompromised people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:18 PM
1

There's no science that says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:14 PM
2

My opinion is that you're a judgmental douche who's likely going to miss out on meeting a lot of cool people because you have an idiotic preconceived notion. And I sy that as someone who doesn't even like cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:11 PM
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"Whats wrong with self-reporting" Self reporting is considered junk science because people lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:57 AM
0

This is about menstrual cycles. It absolutely cannot be extrapolated to the conclusions you're drawing from it. It's also shitty science based on self reporting and has never been replicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:51 AM
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You need serious therapy. Like a lot of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:17 AM
0

Show me the science backing it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:13 AM
0

So your solution is women not having any rights? Am I understanding that correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:12 AM
1

I ignored it because it's fucking stupid. ALL people deserve to be treated with dignity and respect regardless of whether or not you want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:08 PM
1

yeah, that's definitely a bad thing. you shouldn't be walking around with the sole intent of using people. if that's how you live your life, therapy is probably in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:33 PM
1

So basic human decency is treating eachother like shit? That...doesn't make men look real admirable you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:57 PM
1

Yeah man it's generally frowned upon to blame other people for your problems and have a victim complex. You're taking complaining to a whole nother level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:43 AM
2

Yeah a victim complex isn't exactly an attractive personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:02 AM
0

Oh fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:37 AM
0

Blow Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:20 AM
2

What the fuck does that have to do with the conversation at hand? We were discussing period pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:15 AM
6

That's already my existence, so if you have a pill that magically removes my ovaries I'm fucking here for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:09 AM
3

Wiw you're a fucking disgusting waste of oxygen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:05 AM
5

So men are only putting forth the bare minimum of effort to be decent human beings for sex? And thats not disgusting and dehumanizing how exsctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:02 AM
0

I get the feeling your issues are tied to your insufferable personality and have nothing to do with your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:59 AM
7

This. Seconded from a woman who has constant passive suicidal ideation and has actually attempted twice. Get help. Bitching about it on reddit so red pillers will validate you isn't going to help you, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:57 AM
3

So you're wealthy then? What the fuck do you have to complain about exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:56 AM
2

Pregnancy can and often is life-altering. A woman's health is literally never the same after childbirth. Getting pregnant physically displaces your organs. America also has the highest occurrence of medical neglect, almost entirely neglect of women. Our pain is dismissed as "hysteria" or we are told all of our problems will be solved if we lose 20lbs, resulting in missed and incorrect diagnoses that kill women daily. America also has the highest maternal mortality rate in the world, women die be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:53 AM
4

"A bit of blood" My period causes physical pain that's an easy 9-10 on the pain scale and there's no treatment for it. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:42 AM
1

When I encounter a man worthy of my worship, he'll get it. But what makes you think you deserve to have the ground you walk on worshipped at all?;
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:27 AM
1

No the red pill doesn't view women as human. It views women as tools or objects for men. Even this post is whining about how "modern women" don't want to change themselves to please men. No women are asking you to change yourself, we are just telling you that if you're going to act like a disrespectful misogynistic ass we aren't going to be around you. What you want to do with that info is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:04 AM
2

That's what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:04 AM
7

It was literally the title of his post - "why are black women dirty and disgusting?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:35 PM
24

A guy brings up a topic about not wanting to date a particular race of woman and the comments are flooded with backlash from women before it gets shutdown. oh come the fuck on now, he didn't just "bring up a topic". he called all black women dirty and disgusting. that's racist as fuck. and btw, women who say the same shit about bi, asian, and indian men - spoiler alert, THEY'RE ALSO FUCKING RACIST.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:21 PM
6

That's exactly what he's doing. It's not a simple preference when you announce that an entire race of people is "disgusting". It's just going out of your way to be insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:56 PM
2

Lol what other conclusions should I draw from someone openly stating they're against jews and afraid of white genocide? That's some literal nazi shit, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:53 PM
3

No you're a racist because you think an entire race of human beings is disgusting because of the color of their skin. It's textbook racism. Your continued denial and deflection of that doesn't change the definitions of words lol. And yes, those people are also racist. It's racist to say any entire race of people is disgusting. Women who won't date Asian men are also racist. Them being racist doesn't make you less so. And yeah LOTS of people are racist. That's why systemic racism exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:07 PM
2

Lol nice shift of the goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:01 PM
3

I don't really care how you express yourself. You're allowed to say and feel whatever you want. But you're going to get called out. You're here whining and carrying on like you're some kind of victim because your racism is being called racism. If your preferences are so benign and wonderful why do you feel the need to defend it so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:00 PM
4

Look kiddo, I know that's what you think. But when you call all black women disgusting and fat, that's racist dude. You haven't seen every black woman in the world and it's impossible to know whether or not you'd be attracted to them. Deciding that just because they're black they're automatically "disgusting" is racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:55 PM
5

Lmfao the level of your delusion is sad and hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:50 PM
6

So you're just a full on neo-nazi white supremacist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:40 PM
3

Those women are racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:35 PM
1

Yeah it's not okay to be racist. That really should go without saying. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:34 PM
0

Yeah but that's not what we are talking about is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:21 PM
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No sympathy from me, the harassment just equals out the benefits they get. yeah death and rape threats are totally a fair trade. you're just an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:19 PM
1

whoa you're just really going all in on the racism and xenophobia huh? does that get you red pill points?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:16 PM
5

it's the personality that matters right? yes and overwhelmingly, Fedora Guy's personality sucks and he's entitled and rude to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:09 PM
2

yeah that sounds super healthy and not at all like it's going to backfire and create violent incels. yep. you're right on the mark with this one. ​ ​ /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:05 PM
4

This is ableist and shallow as fuck. The best time to delete this comment was before you hit post
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:53 AM
12

Lol men are so vain. "Surely the only thing that can possibly frustrate women is male rejection" 🙄 no. Women venting about life's problems is not "mostly" or even often a response to being used by men. Way to tell on yourself though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:37 AM
6

As long as you're being honest and not lying to them about wanting a relationship, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:28 AM
4

Let me guess you also just happen to think that white men are the most intelligent humans just because they score higher on IQ tests than other races?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:34 AM
7

I don't know what pr who Gardner is but I do know that IQ has been studied repeatedly and found to be flawed on multiple levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:33 AM
8

IQ is a notoriously bad way to measure intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:19 AM
1

"I rarely learn something new" - that's because you're close minded and already sure you're right. You won't even consider any viewpoint that doesn't confirm your preconceived biases. That's not a reflection of the people you're arguing with kid, it's a reflection of the fact that someone brainwashed you as a child and you've buried your head in the sand believing all of your own opinions to be universal truths. It's immature, frankly and a little sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:26 AM
1

Go to Seattle. You'll see it all over the place. That's my point. You're so sure you're right and you've seen literally none of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:07 AM
1

So you hang out and fuck all the same type of people and think your opinions are universal truth. Man the world is going to slap you in the face with reality and it's hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:05 AM
1

As long as he doesn't turn out a future angry incel like you, I'll be satisfied chum.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:00 AM
1

There's that assertion that your opinions are facts again. This has been a fun way to waste my last daya before I take my Christmas vacation but I'm logging off now. You're delusional and you're perfectly satisfied with your delusion. The world will teach you, but I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:59 AM
1

I'm guessing since you're too young to have any real world life experience you're also too young to have met a statistically significant sample size of women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:55 AM
1

No kiddo, your analysis isn't meaningful and it's going to leave you a miserable shell of a person by your 30s but those are the choices you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:52 AM
1

Yeah i have a child so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:51 AM
1

I know plenty of women in STEM. I've worked with app development and cybersecurity teams that are either mostly or entirely comprised of women. It's a shame you're so delusional so young. Your strict adherence to tradcon nonsense is going to make your life a lot lovelier and you a lot angrier than you need to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:50 AM
1

So you're out here telling me that I have no value in society but you're the one who's actually done literally nothing to better society? Fuckin got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:39 AM
1

Lmfao I've never craved submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:39 AM
1

Also what "treatment" do I crave and benefit from?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:23 AM
1

Lol my son would certainly disagree about my effectiveness as a mother. And I'll emphatically disagree with your assertion about my happiness. I LOVE my current station in life. My partners both treat me wonderfully and my family couldn't be prouder. Now I'll ask again, what do you do for a living that "builds society"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:23 AM
1

Nice backpedal, champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:14 AM
1

Except I'm not the one doing the caretaking you dolt. I'm the engineer designing and maintaining the systems and initiatives for the caretaking. And yes, I manage a direct team of 20 managers. So yeah I am doing the "manual labor" because I'm the one building the apps and managing their data. Wanna try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:50 AM
1

Want me to teach you python? I'm a certified course instructor I using python for machine learning and data management. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:48 AM
1

No I absolutely wouldn't. I've spent the last 20+ years working and thriving in male dominated industries (STEM/tech/coding mostly) and trust that they've tried. It never ends in their favor. I can and do hold my own in a boardroom against a c-suite entirely staffed by men. No part of me is programmed to be submissive. So much so that I've been offered (and turned down because I'm not interested in that line of work personally) professional dominatrix jobs by such assertive and masculine men. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:47 AM
1

Lmfao. I've been described as lots of things but agreeable and submissive, are not 2 of them. Not at work anyway. I'm sure my partner would say I'm agreeable but he knows better than to accuse me of being submissive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:30 AM
1

I already explained that in a comment. I work with thousands of disabled and retired military vets and other senior/elderly people who don't have family. I take care of the society builders. What do you do to build society?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:29 AM
1

I can't do my "job" in society? Wooooowwwwwwwww. Well the thousands of people who rely on me all say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:07 AM
2

Furthermore studies show aptitude in male and female children to be almost exactly the same until boy children are pushed into STEM and girl children are pushed out. What you're claiming is nature is actually a byproduct of nurture. You literally have no idea what you're talking about and yet you think just because you have a penis that what you say is absolute truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:04 AM
2

Lmfao actually people with lower testosterone perform better at math, cognitive, and spacial reasoning problem solving
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:02 AM
1

I notice you chose not to reply to either my comment asking what it is that women are so naturally adept at that makes them incapable of being in the workforce and my comment about my job. Interesting what happens when your "logical truths" are challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:59 PM
1

Then you're not interested in discussing this in good faith. Because what you're talking about isn't universally observed in human history and you know it. And even if it was, every systems engineer alive knows that "this is how we've always done it" is a dumb fucking reason to keep doing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:57 PM
1

Lmfao you've made it more than clear you're not interested in an intellectual conversation about this. I'm just matching your energy, dork. Cite your sources and back your argument up and maybe my tone will change. But as long as you continue to spout misogynistic bullshit OPINIONS, you'll get that same energy back. My opinion just happens to be that you're a dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:03 PM
1

What a delicious word salad with no substance. You keep saying this stuff is biological and universal truth. If that was the case, there'd be science to back up your truth. Yet you won't share that. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:02 PM
1

So I'm a biological female. Explain to me what I should be doing? Popping out babies? Can't. Cancer took my reproductive system.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:01 PM
1

I don't share that kind of specific information on the internet but my salaried job is focused on improving quality of life in senior care facilities across the U.S.. I drive health and wellness, entertainment, and community connectedness initiatives for elderly people living in memory care, assisted living, and independent living communities. Basically, I'm the QoL lifeline for thousands of elderly folks and military veterans across the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:00 PM
1

Lol what's shocking is that you truly think your idiotic opinions are a universal truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:52 PM
1

If thatbwere true women would be incapable of working outside the home and yet. I'm sitting at my 6 figure a year job right fuckin now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:51 PM
1

God it's adorable that you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:49 PM
1

And what, since you know me so well, am I "naturally adept" at?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:48 PM
1

Nope. Try again. Most of the time the stay at home spouse controls and manages the money. You just think men are superior to women, you're wrong and it's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:37 PM
1

"The natural order" got a source to back that shit up, buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:36 PM
2

So much this!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:35 PM
1

LMFAO you know most stay at home wives are actually the ones who manage the family finances because the working husband is out of touch with what the family actually needs and how the house runs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:35 PM
1

You're an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:33 PM
1

A working woman is LITERALLY competing with men in the world 🙄 just because you think we aren't capable doesn't mean that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:32 PM
5

Now that, is a bad faith answer. Obviously if it explained itself everyone would understand and this problem wouldn't exist. But it does. So again, please explain the why? Your argument is full of holes which I've pointed out with scientific sources even. Here is your chance to solidify it and prove me wrong. Why can't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:40 AM
3

Yes you said that. But you are still not explaining why that is. And even if it is the xase, why don't don't just stop putting themselves out there then? You accuse me of arguing in bad faith but you're still refusing to provide any reasoning behind your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:16 AM
2

I looked it up and all sexual dimorphism Accounts for is the physical difference in appearances between the sexes of any given species. IE sexual dimorphism in humans is penis and vagina. Doesn't say anything here about who's job it is to protect society from consensual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:57 AM
3

Wait, how does it do men no good to say no to sex? Isn't that the basis of like an entire movement? (Mgtow) But again, you keep just saying a few words like they're fact. Why is that women's job? What exactly about dimorphism makes it impossible to hold a accountable for where they put their dicks? And why can't the men simply control the women if women are submissive by nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:55 AM
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Yes we covered that. So there must be another reason or factor rendering men incapable of saying no and solving this problem. What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:39 AM
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I'm not conflating men with rapists at all. In fact I accused women of being rapists and that's why the men having sex with them can't be held accountable for their actions. Surely if they're unable to say no, the men are the victims of sexual assault right? Or...Is there some other reason that men don't have to be held responsible for their sexual behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:32 AM
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Notice you dodged my other questions. You keep stating things as fact but don't have any supporting evidence and your argument has a lot of holes. If by your assertion men are the stronger, wiser, smarter, more dominant sex and women are weak, unintelligent, immature, and incapable how can we possibly be expected to solve a societal problem that men are creating by having consensual sex with us? Why don't you just eliminate the "shitty men"? since the "Better men" you're talking about are, I ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:19 AM
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Okay so you're saying that the men creating these sluts are having sex with them consensually. If the consensual sex is such a problem for society and our leaders see that, why aren't they just saying no and solving the problem? Are they too weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:17 AM
3

Well prison rape is also men committing the crime. Women can hardly be held responsible for men committing crimes against other men in prison. Im asking if these sluts are out raping men, and that'd why the men simply can't say no and end the problem. Why is that? And what are the "other things" men are being held accountable for that women get "easy mode" on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:13 AM
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I agree women should be accountable for their behavior but I don't understand why men are somehow not required to be accountable for their behavior? Are you so weak-willed and incapable of leading that you're just incapable of saying no? Are men being raped in alarmingly high numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:04 AM
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So if it's an issue of picking better men, then that implies shitty men exist, correct? Why are you not holding shitty men accountable to their actions? I thought men were the leaders of women and my job is to submit. So doesn't it make more sense to hold the leader accountable? You don't hold an employee accountable for a mistake if it was made by a shitty manager right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:58 PM
2

Yes you keep saying that and I keep asking why. Why are the expectations different and who made that decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:54 PM
2

But are Jamal and Chad not men? Couldn't they just not put themselves out there and completely solve this problem? If no men were willing no women could be sluts right? What am I missing? Obviously we women aren't capable of solving the problem and your shaming of us doesn't seem to have the desired effect. As leaders in society, why are men not recalculating their leadership strategies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:53 PM
1

Git a source to back this drivel up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:39 PM
2

At least I'm not alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:37 PM
7

Lmfao plenty of monogamous people contract STIs. Enjoy your judgmental solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:32 PM
3

But why? It takes a man to nut in a woman. Literally a woman cannot be a slit without willing men correct? So if the men simply refused and held themselves to their own high standards then you wouldnt have to rely on weal willed woman- surely as the stronger smarter superior sex they're CAPABLE of holding themselves to the standards they've set right? Or are men so incapable of controlling themselves that they somehow cannot be held sccountable foe their actions. Please. Explain it to me. You ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:28 PM
3

But it takes men to make them sluts. If the men simply lived under the same expectations they have for women wouldn't that solve these problems or are men entitled to premarital sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:21 PM
3

Sure physically. But how are the societal standards they're held to different? Why is it okay for a man to have multiple sexual partners but not a woman? I mean isn't a man who has multiple sexual partners defining women and thus ruining them for other men/society by your standards? How is that not harmful to society? How is what's good for the goose not good for the gander? Why won't you just explain it since it's a principle you live your life by? Hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:04 PM
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Oh I see. You're not actually interested in having a conversation just hating women. Got it. Enjoy your double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 10:38 PM
6

Why won't you answer any of my questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 10:35 PM
3

I think we live by the same rules in society. Do you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 10:35 PM
3

My grandma is actually very progressive so I don't know what stereotypes you're talking about or what the evidence is that they're true. Why won't you explain it for my feeble lady brain? Why can you fuck a bunch of women but I can't? And if you're fucking trashy women, what does that actually say about you? I'm trying to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:59 PM
7

Both those ends of the spectrum are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:56 PM
1

In what way exactly. Explain it to me like I'm 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:56 PM
0

I married a guy with a much higher body count than me. I don't care about anyone's sexual past as long as they don't have any communicable STIs at the time of being with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:34 PM
3

Why the double standard? Chum?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:32 PM
3

36f - lost my virginity to a 20m at 17yrs old. We've been together for 19 years and married for 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:34 PM
2

I (36f) make in the high 5 figures and will likely cross 6 figures in the next year or so. I don't have income requirements for potential partners. I can handle myself, as long as they can handle themselves it's fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:15 PM
1

It kind of depends on geography. It's definitely more common in the middle and south of the country. The Bible belt skews the demographics but they're definitely not the majority. Though, studies have found that even in very progressive households with husbands who believe philosophically in egalitarian marriages, women are still doing the majority of the domestic labor. There's generation's of unlearning to do still in the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:49 PM
1

I wouldn't go that far. This particular flavor of American evangelical/incel terrible is a minority. A loud, shitty fucking minority but a minority non the less
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:35 PM
3

Thanks, you too! Nice to have a rational conversation once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:22 AM
1

I'm allowed to date too, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:21 AM
1

Lmfao no chum, none of what you're spouting is normal or healthy but I don't have any more energy to engage it. Seriously. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:15 AM
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Not on the side, haha. We are polyamorous. So we are allowed to date. I don't, personally but he used to. We've been in this family configuration for just about 10 years now and all coparent our son as a team. On paper it sort of accidentally looks like a sister wives situation LMFAO but in our case the women are also permitted extramarital partners. She and I simply don't want to because we are busy mostly lol. We are like any other boring married couple, there's just 3 of us 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:03 AM
2

That's interesting. I am familiar with trade work. My mom is actually a tradeworker who's been in the same field for 36 years, cosmetologist. My dad was also a tradesman when he worked, electrician and construction and autobody. I'm about to enroll in a trade school myself 🤣 possibly 2 lol. My guy has always pulled his weight, for sure. But he did spend a couple of years completely unemployed and we lived comfortably on my salary then. We could again if needed. He pulled his weight in other ways…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:14 AM
2

That makes sense I guess. Though a lot of the salary data is changing and that's probably only going to increase as women continue to outnumber men in college graduation rates by IIRC 2 to 1. More and more women are going to start earning more than men on average. All 3 of the adults in my family are effectively stay at home spouses now (thanks, covid) because his gf and I both work office jobs remotely. We both outearn him though and I've outearned him since we met. Not intentionally, he spent …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:53 AM
6

It's not biology. It's weaponized incompetence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:50 AM
5

How would a child who is by redpill standards being homeschooled and staying home with their mother ever observe the father when he's away from home all the time? Your arguments literally make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:49 AM
6

Knowing what you lacked means you need therapy not to be in control of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:44 AM
2

Yeah plenty of stupid Americans believe his drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:42 AM
6

Don't you know wiping your own ass is emasculating and gay? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:41 AM
10

Yeah dude, you need help. Most healthy people don't have a deep rooted need to control other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:41 AM
4

Lmfao someone doesn't understand that it's usually the stay at home parent who's actually running the show in the house. When you're gone 40+ hours a week, 10+ hours a day, you're not actually "leading" anyone in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:38 AM
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I'm genuinly confused. What exactly needs explaining about SAHDs? And why would that definition differ from "explaining" a SAHM? I was raised by a stay at home dad. For the first couple years of my sons life, my husband was also a stay at home dad. He must have plenty of value because he has a wife and a girlfriend who both out-earn him and neither of us has tried to fuck any of our coworkers or dump him in 19yrs (me) and 10yrs (his gf)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:35 AM
0

Lol and reading comprehension also isn't your strong suit. Read that question again, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:16 PM
1

So you only have your own visual evidence from a single country? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:54 PM
11

Good for you! It's rare to not find a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:18 PM
3

Do you have some source that says the "average" Asian woman has these specs? what kind of Asian are we talking about? Chinese women and Indian women are both Asian but have dramatically different average body types.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:08 PM
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Oh I have nothing against anybody desiring a healthy BMI. I'm working towards having one myself (about 15lbs away after 18 months of hard work). What I called out is that 1. These are teenager proportions and 2. The low end of his "range" isn't actually healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:46 PM
3

Lol my height is 5'8", so I don't meet his specs regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:38 PM
2

No. I live in a red state. I know how many people use Christianity to be abusive. I've seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:29 PM
1

My only advice to you is to get psychological help. There are plenty of online options for it. I personally use Cerebral. It's a chat based app that connects you with a whole team. The time you've been wasting on reddit, you could have been seeking help to learn how not to be abusive and how unhealthy it is to want "deep emotional control" over another human being
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:28 PM
2

"Just because it's classy" Yeah, you're definitely not mature enough for marriage. You're vapid and abusive. Please. Genuinely. Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:15 PM
1

I'm sorry you won't seek the help you so desperately need to be a functional adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:11 PM
2

Or "conservative values" like its okay for you to fuck your sisters friends but you don't want a partner with a sexual history? Also you sound like you're a 15 year old incel LARPing as what you think a hIgH vAlUe MaN is. I'm almost certain we aren't in the same generation. Whatever it is, you need serious psychological help and I genuinely hope you seek it out before you try to destroy any women unlucky enough to buy into your narcissism. Nothing about what you've written here today is mature o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:10 PM
3

Lmfao "conservative values" like emotional abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:08 PM
1

"I do dream of having deep emotional control over a partner" Bro that's literally abuse. Abuse is not limited to physical abuse. In fact emotional and financial abuse cause longer term and longer lasting damaged. You're literally fucking deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:06 PM
3

here's a BMI calculator so you can see that 4'11" and 90lbs is not a healthy weight for an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:01 PM
1

Of course not, but if you're going to list your requirements that your romantic partner have a child like appearance in public you're going to get called out for it. Because wanting someone so small they're literally putting their health at risk is fuckin weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:00 PM
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Also there are brands of yoga pants where a single pair is 250 dollars. Your classism is also gross and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:59 PM
2

You should really consider therapy then. There's nothing healthy or appealing about being a narcissist. In fact, you're literally just admitting that there's a very high likelihood you're abusive. Why do you want to be abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:58 PM
2

Sure you do. I'm sure you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:57 PM
5

I'm not butthurt. It's not my fault you want an unrealistic and alarmingly young body type. The BMI you're describing is literally unhealthily underweight in adult women. You're the one looking for child proportions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:56 PM
7

Yeah, nobody believes you have any of those things if you have to brag about them on reddit and none of that changes the fact that controlling your partners wardrobe is abusive. Your standards aren't high, they're abusive and controlling. You present yourself as a walking red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:54 PM
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Lmfao I actually generally wear all black or dark colors. I just call out controlling abusive behavior when I see it. And controlling the type and color clothing your partner wears is abusive as fuck. It's okay, you'll be single forever and I've been married 19 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:50 PM
5

I treat them like less special. yeah so you're abusive with caveats? okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:42 PM
7

Most women are rather clueless in their pursuit of a man and are traditionally horrible at picking a partner. nah, most women just aren't interested in men who think they're entitled to control what color clothing we wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:40 PM
2

are you a virgin wanting to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:38 PM
7

between 90 and 115 pounds, between 4’11 and 5’4 this sounds like you're looking for a literal teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:37 PM
11

yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:35 PM
1

I've dated sex workers, I have no issue dating either a man or woman who does sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:13 AM
-5

Don't understand what the word literally means?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:02 AM
-6

Show me this woman who LITERALLY has fucked more than 6 million people. Or were you just trying to throw some sneaky holocaust denial in for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:46 PM
-3

Hurling insults and death threats over rejections is abusive, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:33 AM
-3

how is expecting basic human decency "fucking ridiculous"? way to defend abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:24 AM
1

Have you tried communicating with her instead of acting like you're entitled to sex on the internet?
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