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10	What do you talk about in the first 10-15 minutes of a date? Congratulations on your first date! You're going to be nervous and scared, and that's alright. There's only one way to get better at dating; experience. First off, I wouldn't worry too much about bringing up boring subjects like "What do you do?" because if you leverage her answers you can use these simple questions to start an interesting conversation. The key is to listen to her response and expand on what she says in a meaningful way. For example: You- What do you do? Her- I'm a waitress at S…	/r/seduction	30/01/17 07:21 PM
3	Getting over self-fulfilling prophecies & rejection. Ready for some blunt honesty? Nothing is wrong with you. You are like every other guy on this sub and there is no magic trick that is going to solve your issues. You're 27 years old and you need to get over the idea that your upbringing caused you to have low self esteem. When you're 18-21 I can kind of buy that excuse, but you've been an adult for 9 years and it's time you take responsibility for who you are. I'm not saying that to be a dick, but telling yourself that what happened to you when …	/r/seduction	08/05/15 06:30 AM
3	Being needy Vs trying to keep intrest Have you tried to initiate hanging out? Instead of just random texts about things that aren't related, ask him if he's free for lunch or drinks or something. If he says no then try again in a few days, if he always says no then it's time to move on. I for one am horrible at texting conversations so I always stray away from them if I can. When someone initiates via text it needs to be very direct. "Hey you busy tonight?". He says "no". "Let's grab some drinks (or food or watch Netflix) then." No …	/r/seduction	08/05/15 06:18 AM
2	Dissapearing question I would text her on Saturday night or Sunday and ask her what she's up to. If she still ignores you or if she tells you she's back with her ex then you should move on to the next one.	/r/seduction	21/03/15 01:02 AM
1	How do you stay excited about dating/seduction when faced with constant rejection? If you're being rejected ALL the time then you should really start thinking about changing something up. Getting turned down is bound to happen, but you should be more successful the more you work at interacting with women. Do you have any areas of your life that you can work on? Getting in shape is always a good place to start, so is changing up your wardrobe if you haven't bought new clothes in a while. You need to have high confidence to succeed in dating. A good way to determine if you are j…	/r/seduction	20/03/15 03:23 AM

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