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Deapluv/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 03:39 AM
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Deapluv/r/askTRP01/08/15 02:09 PM
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One word for it is the “glass basement”, the opposite of the glass ceiling. There are brakes in society to catch women, but disadvantaged men fall right through. Society loves to victim-blame these men and shame them, but the truth is we are social creatures and it is extremely difficult to lift oneself up in the absence of any support (and even active systems to continue punishment). Strive to have compassion for your brothers, it is truely dark out there for many.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/19 06:40 PM
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Upvoted for “what we do in the shadows” reference
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/19 05:37 PM
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Absolutely. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. A different analogy would be how would his soon-to-be wife feel if she found out he had been married 75 times before, sometimes to women he only knew for a day, and spent $100k on each wedding (while only $5k on hers!) and kept it a secret.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/19 05:35 PM
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Rollo Tomassi has a great article on this on The Rational Male forum entitled “The Existential Fear - Men”. Do a search for it and read it. A man’s abhorration of committing to promiscuous women is something wired into our DNA. There is a campaign of media, social pressure, and shaming to try to change the narrative, but you can’t stifle nature. It is revolting because deep down in our gut men feel the increased likelihood of wasted resources, risk of infidelity, losing our children, or raising …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/19 05:20 PM
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Hypergamy. The dude did absolutely nothing wrong. Many guys still in the process of unplugging will believe if they can just be alpha enough, or apply the right dread game, or find a virgin, or a girl from xyz culture, then, oh yes then she will love them forever. She is never yours, it is only ever your turn. Internalize that an enjoy it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/19 05:49 PM
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A surrogate is a one time cost of $30K, a part time nanny is $45K a year. If you want kids, just get them from a surrogate and raise them yourself. If you can’t afford that, you aren’t in a position to have children anyway and should work on yourself until you can. If you think a wife is cheaper, whoooo-boy stick around a while and learn some things. There is a deep ingrained desire in all men for the blue pill fantasy to be true. But it ain’t.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 03:40 PM
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AWALT. They all look at you as utilities. Strippers and prostitutes are just less subtle about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/19 04:57 PM
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She rode the carousel until she was 31, and then chose an alcoholic with different life goals then her. Women have an abundance of suitors to chose from, and the decision is her responsibility. She squandered her youth, and makes terrible choices. Now she is complaining. Pussy pass denied. Also bonus points for the “trickle truth” claiming 35 years old in the header, and 36 in the write-up. Combine this with “together almost 6 years” which probably means 4.5 years, and I’m guessing she chose thi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/19 04:50 PM
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Easy to do... I’ll just send her a pic of mine 3 times
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/19 10:32 PM
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A woman’s youth and sexuality is something that is 100% seen as an asset by men. Despite a prolonged campaign of media, scolding, and shaming, this is something hard-wired into men and cannot be dismissed no matter how much some women wish it could be. Women may wish that their youth and sexuality is not valuable to men, and may wish that giving it away is not squandering it, but reality is reality.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/06/19 03:40 PM
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It is not that literal, it's important not to get hung up on the medium (opening doors) and focus on the message (I have boundaries). ​ OP has chosen a boundary that is clear and easy to demonstrate, often repeatably to the same person in the same night. It does not matter that it is about a door. OP is in fact likely fishing for the girl to challenge him on his boundary, so that he can stand his ground. Doing something like this, over a trivial detail which is also easy for the girl to comply w…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 04:54 PM
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This thinking is a symptom of the bargaining stage of swallowing the pill. None of this absolutely will make any difference. Thinking like this, searching for a unicorn, obsessing over N count, a girl from ‘another’ culture, somehow changing ‘society’, or a girl with this family or that religion, none of it makes any difference. Smart guys get trapped and obsessed with the ‘bargaining’ stage of swallowing the pill. First comes denial, then the anger stage. Then comes bargaining, which is what yo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/19 02:51 PM
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For anyone that has illusions that a pre-nup will protect them, they absolutely are not worth the paper they are printed on. ​ Here is what happened with my pre-nup: On the day she walked into the lawyers office, they had a court order sent to the judge within hours. According to pre-nup she was entitled to at least $50K, so judgement was for $16K which judge agreed that day and gave me 1 week to transfer or be in contempt. This money went directly to her lawyer. Her lawyer then went to work. Th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/19 05:09 AM
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Yes the lie that virgins somehow guarentee anything is one of the biggest falsehoods around. Even stone cold pimps have trouble swallowing that last red pill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/19 08:16 PM
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Upvoted for fuckballs. Also: truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/19 07:27 PM
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Ugh and they always scream about hypocrisy, that men who judge women with high N counts are hypocrites if they do as well. Sorry no, it’s no more hypocritical than a woman under 5’5 preferring men over 6’. Men and women look for different things, for example men look for a vagina in the women they marry, whereas women look for penis. Is this difference in preference hypocritical? Nope. Is it hypocritcal for a woman who makes less than 6 figures be attracted to men who do? Nope. Is it hypocritica…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/19 07:24 PM
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Can confirm. In my divorce, 2 hours after my ex walked into her lawyers office for the first time, they faxed the judge for motion to transfer $18K to her for their legal fees. I literally paid for them to go after the pre-nup. And anyone who has experience with contracts will tell you, enough time and money and lawyers can break any document.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 04:00 AM
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“but this is one who would be better off (and society would be better off) if she ended up a spinster...” Good news, looks like she is well on track for your recommendation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 02:29 AM
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This has to be a troll. No one could really think like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 02:17 AM
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There is more to lifting than the physical results.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 02:03 AM
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One of men’s strengths is rationality. Looking at a situation, considering the many possible outcomes, evaluating the risk/reward of each, and then acting on the best path. That #metoo has skewed the analysis and would lead to this conclusion “en-mass” by men was inevitable from the start.
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 06:33 PM
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Yah, screw that guy for being fun and having a sense of humor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/18 07:08 PM
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I almost wish we could see the banned comments just to revel in it. To be honest tho, it’s so predictable, rule 4, I could almost write it myself...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/18 12:21 AM
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Don’t be absurd. Even if such a place existed, a woman would be well advised to keep her headphones in, hat pulled down, and never speak to anyone even so much as to exchange human pleasantries like “hello” and “good morning”. She should save her flirting for places like nightclubs at 1:00 a.m. with men who like alcohol and make good money in the pharmaceutical industry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/18 01:46 PM
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Firing via text message is pretty unprofessional. Even if they are in another country working remotely, an email or phone call is always possible.
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 08:13 PM
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A fun thing to try, is to wholeheartedly agree that just being friends is a MUCH better idea, since she would clearly be an amazing wing woman... then put her on the spot, immediately if possible, to introduce you to women since this is what good friends do for each other. If she does, it’s a win, and if not you can tease her mercilessly for being such a bad friend and having no game.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/18 05:11 PM
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She will not hire one, her attorney will. On the first day she talks to attorney, they will file petition court for some of your assets immediately to fund her side of divorce, and file for document discovery on you. They have experts on staff that they will fund from your own money to take your life apart. If they find the slightest thread of you lying to a judge or court you will be fucked beyond your wildest imagination. These are highly trained professionals who do this day in and day out. I…
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 07:48 PM
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Not true. They will go for all bank/cc records for at least 5yrs. All storage lockers and safety deposit boxes need to be accounted for. If you lie on your submitals it is illegal and you will go to jail and they will take your assets too. Besides this whole “gambling” addiction thing is pure fantasy. How much could you possibly hide? $1000/week? That’s only 50k a year, most men have far more assets by their 30s when married.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 07:41 PM
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Dude just got a total blackout on buzzword bingo ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/18 07:26 PM
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Yo, Bang the bottom out of that for the next 3 months at least.... can’t get this whore double pregnant! The only safe bet around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/18 11:33 PM
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Came here to laugh at stupid THOTS, stayed for the Astro physics refresher!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 05:02 PM
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Ghosted before even finishing the sentence. I tip my hat to you good sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/18 07:27 PM
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The idea that “cougars” are extra horny, that somehow post wall women are sexually liberated is a myth spread by the feminine imperative. The myth is designed to make post wall hags attractive again. All women are Horny all the time for the right guy.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 01:47 PM
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Who is complaining about sluts? Sluts and hookups are awesome. Just don’t marry or LTR them lol.
/r/MGTOW05/04/18 06:29 PM
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This search and screening for a “high quality” woman is an artefact of the bargaining phase of swallowing the red pill. In that phase one believes that if they just screen harder, with an ever expanding list of qualifiers, they will be immune from AWALT. It is patently false. N-count is irrelevant (ask any of the men who married virgins), culture is irrelevant (ask any of the men from that culture abou their women) and so on and so on. If you enjoy a woman, plate her by all means. If you want ki…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 08:16 PM
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This is gold. It's easy to blow out these tests, but as OP said this is loosing a chance at pussy. Good examples of judo here to turn it around.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 12:50 AM
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Ghost immediately. You are trying to rationalize sex with her or the value of the business.This is called "the bargaining phase" Any value of your business is gone. You are a smart capable person and will find a way to make money again. Do not ever get in business with a liar. If you think this business can work with her involved you are wrong, and you will do better without her. Do not fall for the sunk cost fallacy. Do not be swayed by shame or guilt towards this liar. Let some other white kni…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 10:06 PM
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Dude, vaccines are a cornerstone of modern medicine, and likely the reason why you were able to live past age 17 without dying of pox or plague. Be grateful and don't take medical advice from youtube.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 06:15 PM
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GFTOW before you speak another word to her. No excuses.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 06:10 PM
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Absolutely disagree. Do not lay hands on her in any capacity, even a "hold". Authorities will not recognize the difference and you will end up in handcuffs. If she ever hits you, give her one warning that it's not acceptable, and the second time walk away and never speak to her again.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 04:09 PM
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It sounds like this girl is having a positive impact on your friend, helping him to get fit and clean up his act.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 04:01 PM
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There are a lot of ways to be "Alpha"... all are correct. is Jim Morrison or JFK more alpha? No need to overthink it, look at the trend line....
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 08:56 PM
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No need to overthink and be weird about it. You can just pass them the salt. You can also toss it to them to catch, or hold it up high to tease them, or continually pass them the comically wrong object, generally tease and have fun, not scold.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 08:52 PM
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I disagree. If anything women have greater sexual needs and optimize their lives to satisfy them. The distinction is that women take advantage of the fact that men will "fuck down"... ie a 8/10 smv man is ok with fucking a 6/10 smv woman. Hypergamy keeps women always fucking up. The woman will build a circle of orbiters but this doesn't mean she has a lesser biological need for sex, it is in fact HIGHER and she will be having more sex than most men do, just not with her orbiters, instead with a …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 03:38 PM
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Dude I was stealing girlfriends from rugby players when I was 125# in college. Frame and game will always win imho.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 06:45 PM
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Yes this is the sad truth that all plates eventually stop spinning. Everyb one of them. This conclusion is one of maybe a couple ways for things to end. In this circumstance, since she is willing to still have sex, consider acting understanding and invite her out. Give her the night of her life and fuck her senseless. Try to create an alpha widow as no matter how much she complains, she will always hit you up for sex every couple months or years.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 03:11 PM
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Why resort to overt communication. Actions not words. "today, I finally told her straight away "No. I won't be going out with you, because you only talk to me when you need a free ride, and I don't enjoy the time spent with you at all". You will never ever be able to "teach someone a lesson". When you give up that butt hurt fantasy you will be one step further on the path
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 03:05 PM
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All men are attracted to fertility indicators: youth, hip/waist ratio, breasts, skin clarity, symmetry Similar to the af/bb instinct in women, all men have a dualistic mating instinct, except in men it is a madonna/whore dichotomy. There are more of course, but that should get you started
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:59 PM
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These are all fake written by dudes. Discount accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 11:01 PM
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Step 1. Imagine your income if you had spent the same amount of time on learning stock and options strategies as you did on porn Step 2. Imagine your physique if you had spent the same amount of time in the gym as you did on porn Step 3. Imagine your social life if you had spent the same amount of time hosting events as you did on porn Step 4. Imagine your creative fulfilment if you had spent the same amount of time on learning guitar as you did on porn Step 5. Imagine the type of women you woul…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:52 PM
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In response to your subject - yes.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 07:17 AM
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^ this I second Martty's advice. 100% correct as far as I'm concerned.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 06:30 AM
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You refuse to masturbate because you have gf? Stop that. Or should I say start. Your moral boundaries are all over the place and frankly seem arbitrary.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 09:37 PM
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^ ^ Very solid advice! Works in almost every situation. No need to overthink or consider the transcript. Just do this.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 11:46 PM
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Sorry but being friends with a girl who is in a relationship does not make you a "cuck".
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 10:58 PM
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First off take the belittling for what it is: a compliment. If you were a hobo there would be no need to come after you. In fact, learning how to handle this as your SMV rises is a big part of game. Strategy for taking over the frame: Agree and amplify. Always works. A loud YEAH followed by amplify Then command him to ask you more and accuse him of being attracted if he stays on topic. Him: hey bro, your arms are looking small, have you been missing the gym You: YEAH! Damn rights man, I got the …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 07:36 PM
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Good luck leading her with those necessary conversations. The entire function of marriage is to strip men of any and all power. You are literally walking willingly into a gun fight armed only with Kleenex.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 03:16 PM
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Dude there is a bit of a bias towards spinning plates or being a pua here. The truth is a pimp does what he wants, I've had tons of great LTR, don't handicap yourself from peer pressure, just come at it with red pill eyes wide open
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 02:41 AM
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Absolutely! The narrative is strong, and men have their own hamster that will delude them down the blue pill path
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 02:38 AM
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Do not ghost after fucking her. This is very offensive to girls and a big blow to her ego. After fucking turn beta as fuck, cook her breakfast, buy her flowers, and confess to being too emotionally damaged to be worthy of a relationship with her.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 12:28 AM
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I'm echoing keepitpimpins thoughts here but just go for it. If you have high SMV and can hold frame (chill as fuck) do not worry about false rape claims to social circle. I have been on the receiving end of this and, mind bendingly, it actually helped my status and I hooked up with a couple girls when I was 17 as a direct result. Of course if you are in a scenario with an elevated false-rape where girl is going to the school or the cops then clearly you played it wrong. And of course absolutely …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 12:25 AM
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Keep in mind that TRP is amoral. We are not passing judgement on the instincts that drive women to want to ride the cc until they near the wall, then lock down a beta bux. Part of TRP is about acknowledging and Identifying this drive (and many of your own instincts). What you do with that understanding is up to you, and you'll find a diverse array of tools and strategies here. I, for one, reject the romantic yearning for 1950s style marriage. I think there was a lot of infidelity, conflict, and …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 06:52 PM
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This is absolutely gold post. A lot of folks see hypergamy as some sort of evil scheme by women, whereas, like you imply, it is also a burden for them. One of the ways I found my way out of the anger phase was realizing that hypergamy was literally bred into women, the ones who weren't that way never had grandchildren. Now 250,000 years later, its fucking dialed into their lizard brain.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 02:09 AM
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Kudos to OP for getting me to google "NJ incest laws"... Never thought that would be something I typed. Apparently you can sleep with your half-sister, but marriage is still out. Perhaps OP is secretly a genius who has found the key to the "Never Marry" advice from TRP, since it is legally impossible for him. Either way, thanks for a chuckle, and good luck with your chromozone-flipped kids.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 02:02 AM
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University of Alabama has studied twins and shown they do not always have identical DNA, due to copy-number-variants at certain genes. For example, there are cases where one twin has chromosomes that would lead to luekemia and the other not. It could be possible that OP has racist and homophobic tendencies, and is constructing a narrative (hamstring, if you will...) to reinforce their presuppositions.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 07:52 PM
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Haha yes I was about to say the same thing. When I watch porn I know which role I put myself in.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 07:43 PM
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Absolutely. I have seen dudes walk into the bar/club, look around, and then b-line for me just to come fuck with me because of how I look. At first I thought something was wrong. After swallowing the pill I know its because I look like a "threat" and take it as a compliment.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 04:28 AM
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This is not a new thing. It's not that average guys can't get laid anymore... they never could. Don't blame facebook, technology, phones, or watever. The top 10% will get 90%, thats the way its been, thats the way it will be in the future. Be grateful that you now have the tools, roadmap, and philosophy to put you in the top 10 if you're not already there.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 04:25 AM
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Jonman, that was a very thoughtful, heartfelt, and constructive comment from Mouthpiece. That was better advice than half the people I've ever met in real life have ever had to give. Don't dismiss it. Trust me, it aint easy, but it works.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 04:21 AM
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Under no circumstances should anyone assault a woman. This is terrible advice. The only possible explanation is that you are trolling.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 03:35 PM
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You must be new here. There are daily comdemnations of violence against women or any form of sexual assault. It is not infrequent for angry posters to be direct towards councilling and self improvement. Sheesh, stoicism is the most common philosophy here. Are you serious or just trolling?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 10:45 PM
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In my town there was a small criminal group that would use Rohypnol (the date rape drug) to spike people's drink at the nightclub. They would then wait for it to take effect and once the victim, usually male, collapsed, take them outside by pretending to be helpful friends, and rob them. I saw it happen once, and had one close friend victimized this way. I call bs on this Facebook Brag fest - date rape drugs are not the sort of thing easily come by - the results are similar to extreme intoxicati…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 10:31 PM
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Very well done except for the arm grabbing. Never ever ever do that. She was goading you to get physical in public, and you fell for it. Even if it was "gentle" touch, she will go home and squeeze her own arm to get bruises and demonstrate how "abusive you are". If a girl punches or hits you just laugh in their face. Well done with the passing of tests, sounds like a lot of your actions are motivated by her still, eh?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 01:27 PM
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Brad Pitt got paid 17mil for fight club. Edward Norton 3mil. Who was in the movie more? Who was the main character? It has nothing to do with gender, screen time, or talent. Who puts people in seats.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 05:52 AM
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Just when I thought this place couldn't get any better. Bam! Kicked it to the next level!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 05:49 AM
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Hahaha I plan on fucking 19 year olds well into my 70s as long as technology and pharmacology can keep up with my cock. Deal with it bro.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 05:42 AM
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Yo say pathetic, I say awesome. Whose "beta" now. Sheesh
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 05:39 AM
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Jesus fuck I'm 40 and hooking up with 19-22 year old girls.. Are you going to shame me too? Troll your concern for them and tell me what I should really be persuing!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 05:38 AM
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Do what ever it takes to move out. Barring some sort of catastrophe the is no way a 26yr old MAN should be living with his mom. Move with roommates, move to a cheap state, move to social housing, work two jobs. What ever it takes. If you want to be attractive, you have to have your shit together.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 10:19 PM
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Your post is lacking in any semblance of substance and as such it will be very challenging for anyone to give you advice. What is your issue? What is your proposed test? How long have you been together? What US state have you been co-habitating in? What jurisdiction did you get married In? Why are you engaging in extracurricular activities? what does that even mean?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 06:40 AM
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Man up and move out. Live in a rooming house, live in a trailer, Move to Alaska or Nebraska. Do whatever it takes to man up and control your destiny. Anything else is just male hamstering lazyness.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:24 PM
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No. You are chad now. Ignore the washed up run out 27 year olds and fuck younger hotties. It's so simple.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:10 PM
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Fantastic advice from all the other posters here. Not much to add. OP I can echo the advice to slow down. Acknowledge that your body, brain, and hormonal systems have been damaged by abuse and you need to repair them. This is why you felt addiction to cocain, addiction to video games, and addiction to online chat with this girl. Acknowledge that these are powerful, but illusionary, ways your brain gets tricked and hooked. Your #1 job is to heal your body and learn to generate seratonin and other…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 04:15 PM
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Yo check the laws of your state/province... Many times cohabitation counts as marriage after a certain period, ceremony or not.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:43 PM
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This is not a LJBF scenario. For a true LJBF rejection she is single. This was a boyfriend scenario. When a girl says "I have a bf" immediately translate it in your head as "I will fuck you, but be cool, no public affection, no odd comments, keep it covert with my friends, and now figure out a way to isolate me if you're as alpha as you seem" She even left the door open for you to plan logistics. I'm not sure what you were trying to accomplish with a butt hurt comment.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:35 PM
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You sir are in the "bargaining" stage of swallowing the red pill. It is bitter so as problem solvers us men go to work looking for the solution. Let's find a religious girl, lets find a girl from another culture, lets tweak the contract so it's in our favour. Sadly this is all just male hamstering. The only way to win is not to play. Your religious girl from another culture is driven by the same primal instincts one billion years of evolution has instilled in all women. The risks are 1000% still…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 03:18 PM
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So what is your point (heh)... Your obsession with measuring your dick against other dudes seems odd...
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 01:24 AM
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The answer is in your motives. Are you pausing because you want to influence the person, or because you are thinking deeply about their words and want to be thoughtful in your response. Trust me when I say people can tell when you are being inauthentic.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 01:02 AM
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Yo i appreciate what you're saying. You sound like a cool guy. Think though, how does this "alpha" picking on someone affect you? Why is this person picked out? Are you on your own path to better yourself? If you are confident this is a good person that you want to support, then the simplest challenge, held with strong frame will knock an alpha out. I've been in similar circumstances, and trust me you gotta hold frame like Putin channeling trump. Just say "hey, that's my bro, knock it off" "no I…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 12:58 AM
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After the anger phase comes the bargaining stage of swallowing the red pill. A common fantasy in the bargaining stage is that it's only "western" women who are like that, and if you can just go to Eastern Europe or Asia or something you'll be able to relax and be happy. Nope. AWALT. It's in their DNA Ask anyone from one of these cultures... They will laugh and share the same stories as in the west. Luckily here we have the tools so succeed, understand, and love, and the good news is those tools …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 04:03 PM
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Get the fuck out of here with this racist bullshit. Being attracted to different people from different races is not disfunctional. Please realize racism is stoked by the powerful in society to keep us distracted and fighting eachother.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 08:04 PM
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Yah I'm upvoting in hopes this troll posts again. This shit is hilarious... Keep it coming!
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 07:49 PM
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Lol I have hooked up with extremely conservative, shy girls. Been over at their apartment three times a week at midnight. Amazing amazing dirty things. I used to pick out the really religious girls cuz when they get their freak on it is free-eee-eeeaky. See these girls walking down the street, in class, their little orbiters never suspected a thing. They are discreet AF. A couple years of that and I can never look at anyone the same way. There would be just no way to know.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 09:02 PM
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Yes I feel the tradcon obsession with "the good old days" is fundamentally flawed. In the stages of swallowing the red pill, after the anger phase, I think this sort of obsession is part of the "bargaining" stage
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 08:58 PM
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Exactly! Hypergamy is not something that can be prevented, it is an instinct. The hypergamy instinct is as strong in women as the loyalty instinct in men. It is amoral, like all sexual instincts, it serves the best likelihood of DNA survival to future generations. Trying to prevent hypergamy would be like trying to prevent gravity.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 08:53 PM
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Oh yes that too! I felt the list could go on forever lol, but yes finding Jeebus is right up there. Family values!
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 05:29 PM
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Yes some women (like a lot of men too) are afraid to confront the reality of their situation
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 05:27 PM
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Excellent points on CBTs (love the term lol). I agree, and was looking mostly to keep my post concise.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 05:25 PM
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Yes, because we are all dudes here, who value loyalty and respect boundaries. Clearly this whore doesn't. Tons of girls (you know,even the good, sweet unicorns) would leap at the chance to go through your phone, your Facebook, your browser history, when most guys would just close the laptop without even a thought.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 04:18 AM
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You are being deluded. The betas make a big show of all they do and grovel and supplicate for women. It seems like that's all there is, I get it. The alphas who are fucking are unmentioned, not discussed, called at 2am, not tagged in photos... These girls will drop tons of cash on the right guy, buy trips to see him, buy food, drugs, you name it. you feel like you're being robbed?? You feel like relationships aren't fair?? Trust me there's a guy not only fucking her for free, but getting a home …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 04:09 AM
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You say you hate women because "they are boring, put themselves on a pedestal... Or any woman with >3 partners"... No offence sir but you have a problem with human empathy. I feel like this is a troll post. Many of the most experienced, long time TRP bad-asses LOVE women, just have found a way to do it outside the blue pill social narrative. I, for one, think women are awesome and am grateful every day that I get to share a planet with billions of these fascinating sexy humans. You are looking f…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 03:55 AM
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Just want to get this clear... You've been fucking a sex doll for several months and no women?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 03:48 AM
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Racism has no bearing on "sexual strategy". Get that filth out of here. Ugh. Racism is an acid that destroys the container that holds it.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 05:21 AM
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womens sexual strategy has exactly the same goal as men's: highest likelyhood of their dna surviving the next couple generations. Consider your existance is owed to hypergamy and dualistic mating strategies by both your male and female ancestors, this is why we say these strategies are amoral - if anything you should be happy they exist since they account for a lot of success of our species. Your instincts as a man create a feeling where you get horny for young fertile women. AMALT and what you …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 06:33 PM
1

After the "anger" stage comes the "bargaining" stage of swallowing the red pill. Obsessing over partner count is nothing more than male hamster trying to bargain. Soon they will move on to "acceptance"
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 03:42 PM
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I think it's absolutely an AMOG move. Especially if the girls overhear it. - by saying you have game he sets the frame and defines what you are doing - by saying you're good at it he is establishing himself as a higher authority, that he is the one judging you - by calling it game he is implying you are inauthentic and a try-hard A good follow up for the AMOG is to turn to the girls and ask "don't you think he has good game too?" That will knock your smv down through the floor. Did you end up fu…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 10:45 PM
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Absolutely can be changed by your social and game skills. Was out at the club and the girl I was hitting up asked "what are you... 6'2?" Nope, I'm 5'11. I looked taller to her because I made her horny, and only claims to like guys 6'1+ so therefore hamster skews reality to see me taller. If you give her tingles she will see you as taller, handsomer, richer, and with a bigger dick than reality. If you're a creeper, the opposite. Women don't know what turns them on. Don't fall into the trap of bel…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 11:46 PM
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Who said anything about fair? Holy shit you are out to lunch. You think life is fair for women, get a grip they have their own problems, and if you talk to them you'll find out they often envy men. You say you are virgin at 30 because of the selfishness of women. Absolutely incorrect. You are where you are because of your own behaviour, choices, and actions. No one is responsible for your situation besides you and the sooner you take responsibility the sooner things will get better for you /end …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 01:23 AM
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Whooooah there... I can rattle off six or seven examples off the top of my head where the girl cheated or left for much lower smv guys. So can a lot of guys here I bet. The first time I saw it I was baffled... The most recent, meh, I've learned they live in the moment and live for feels and fundamentally make a lot of bad decisions.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 01:18 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean by "taking a slap"... Everytime a woman has slapped or punched me I've laughed in their face and told them "you're so turned on you can't help but touch me? Go on, touch me again if it makes you wet, a little girl like you can't hurt me" Trap them in a bind where if they slap you again they're falling into your frame, and taunt them at the same time. Not surprising how often this leads to sex.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 10:03 PM
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Absolutely. Whenever a girl says she has a boyfriend or husband, she's just letting you know the rules of the game, and checking you know to behave accordingly... No affection in front of her friends, keep your mouth shut, etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:41 PM
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Looks like Dr. Huxtable will be built up to be both!
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:58 PM
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If she really is a 9, you could consider that it may be possible that no one has ever turned down the opportunity to be with her. This could mean it is her ego driving her to get back, not anything about you (apologies to your ego). If you did hook up with her again, she will have 'won' and then will quickly lose attraction and dump you within a month for some bullshit reason, then bitch about you to her girlfriends. Nothing you do besides taking her back will soothe her massive ego. Just stay s…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:55 PM
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Whoa whoa whoa there, let's not knock the DENNIS method
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:44 PM
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Absolutely echo the other responses to this. Part of the reason I picked up playing in a band. You don't even have to be good. In fact you can be downright terrible and it still works lol
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:01 PM
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So to be clear... Instead of taking action to get with her, you did nothing and put her on a pedestal in your mind to motivate you for some magical day in the future. I would highly recommend not doing this. Next time approach her and take action. If you feel you are 'not worthy' yet, you need the reference experiences to learn that yes, your smv is waaaaay higher than you think. Two more reps squeezed out is a candle to the sun of being a man of action. Edit - removed calling you a coward. That…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 06:07 PM
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Holy from the subject line I thought this was going to be a serious urgent problem. Nope, just a dude horny for other girls while he has a gf. From your writing you come off very ungrounded as well as lacking direction, discipline, or a plan. Stop smoking (we know you mean weed), read the sidebar, and work harder than every other person you ever meet, only then will you realize how trivial these girl "problems" are. FYI every guy gets attracted to women when in a LTR, the solution is to choose a…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 07:02 PM
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Humility is linked to humbleness. Many alphas are some of the most humble people you will ever meet. They are about action and results, not bragging or frame control.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 04:10 PM
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You would be surprised how minor an effect this may have on you socially. When other girls see a post or hear a story like this, they immediately go check out the guys Facebook. What is the life you are projecting? Would a girl get the impression that you a fun, reasonable person? Girls will agree with their friends while quietly seeing right through their bullshit. They may even wonder what it is about you that's got her reacting so much. Consider ignoring it, not contacting her or the brother,…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 04:06 PM
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Yes I don't understand this either. Women love dirty talk and to be bossed around during sex. Asking them to beg to fuck you also helps with neutralizing (to a degree) future accusations, and will cause her hamster to backwards rationalize you as even more attractive. Is op implying that he doesn't talk during sex?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:09 PM
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I concur. "No more mr nice guy" has an excellent section on "covert contracts" which are the source of so much butt hurt for betas when they create one. Another way to look at is every relationship has a frame that defines it. In game, the skill set is to establish a sexual adventurous uninhibited frame. This is one form of the unspoken "contracts" that I think OP is getting at. Beta game is the idea that if you buy enough dinners she will fuck you and be your girlfriend... In a sense the partie…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:05 PM
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Yes that was a little tricky to understand on first read through as well, but I have the same interpretation
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 06:57 PM
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"Have your cake and eat it too" means that you get to still possess the cake after you eat it. I.e. You ate it but it's not gone. The point is that you can't have it both ways. The OP was in essence setting different standards for his behaviour and that of his plate, when usually people hold each other to the same standard, either both exclusive or both still sleeping around.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 06:55 PM
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I don't want to alarm you, but yes she can have her cake and eat it too... She will likely marry up one of these sugar daddies when she's 28, pop out 2.5 kids, and then divorce him when she's 35 and the kids are manageable. With the money for a nanny and personal trainer she will stay in good shape and quite happy get railed by mid-20s chads who like Cougars until menopause hits. Then she will live vicariously through her daughters teaching them how to do it all themselves. Dispel any illusions …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 11:14 PM
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A sexual encounter is not something negative that happens to women because they are tricked. That is a false and limiting narrative indoctrinated into you. Consider the possibility that women love being railed... They dream of it. They seek it out. When they fantasize they fantasize of being railed. When they plan a night out they cross their fingers and rope to finally meet a man who will rail them. When they plan a trip they daydream of all the ways they will get railed on vacation. And on and…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 11:52 PM
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All men are attracted to certain characteristics, a certain youthfulness, hip to waist ratio, symmetry, and clarity of skin, and every straight man on the planet will at least get a semi-chub looking at her. What he does after this primal physical reaction, well, that is a matter of a number of factors. How dense can you possibly be to consider that the converse wouldn't be true?? Of course there are a collection of behaviours that will generate tingles in all women. And we do mean All Women... …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 03:50 AM
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Both men and women have dualistic mating impulses. Women have the much discussed AF/BB impulse, where they are attracted to alphas for short term sexual flings, and attracted to betas for long term resource sharing and family rearing. Men have a virgin/whore impulse, where they are attracted to whores for short term sexual flings, and attracted to virgins for long term resource sharing and family rearing. This dualistic attraction impulse is in everybody (including you) and is a fact of nature s…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 08:24 PM
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You are overreacting to the whole fb thing. You are thinking too much and caring too much about something transient. Girls will ignore your texts, messages, calls all the time. If she's hot she may get 50-100 lame ass "hi" messages a day, and you can get lost in the stack no matter how high your smv. Losers get butt hurt, winners ignore it and close her anyway in real life. I recommend you mediate on why a girl not writing you back on social media is enough to get you pissed for two months. That…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 11:50 PM
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I agree with the other poster. The anguish you feel is your logical nature trying to find the "truth" and fully understand the situation. This is impossible. Let it go. No need to confront anyone, no need to be angry, none of that. In fact, you can be quite friendly and have a good time with these guys, however, it is time to step back to abundance and stop giving your power away to this girl.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 11:43 PM
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This Joining her in wallowing in a pity party will not make her feel better. Walking away will not make her feel better. She will not remember how chivalrous you were and come find you in a week. She is in a negative frame. You need to bring her in to your frame. To help her you must be dominant, you must lead, take her on an emotional journey of fun, discovery, and wonder... Then you will make her feel better. With your penis.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:04 PM
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I 100% encourage any girl I'm with, plate or gf, to get as much as possible and share with me. Girls see right through these supplicative "gifts" (unspoken nice guy contracts) and though they love the attention they lose respect for the guys. Truly abudent dudes don't care. I used to you out with a group of girls and send them over to the bar to angle for free drinks and get one extra for me. Some guy gives my girl a present like flowers or a book I congratulate her and make sure it's on the nig…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:37 PM
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Sounds like you handled yourself pretty well! Not perfect but who is? I'm 39, so you at 19 are killing it to hold frame like that. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:15 AM
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Good insights here. I'm a big believer in the importance of language and framing to create the best opportunities for success in your own psychology and life. One thing to consider would be re-branding what you call "the fall" to something like "the genesis" or "the wakening" I consider swallowing the red pill one of the most positive experiences in my life, literally nothing but good had come from it.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 08:53 PM
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Yah don't beat yourself up too much. You were right to analyze the sitiuation and minamal benefit in escalating to cops. It's important to look at the outcome for yourself. No good outcome... Let it slide. A lot of dudes get caught up trying to "put people in their place" which is really not possible, and just another way of giving your power away. Sure it stings some of the shit people pull, but you are strong enough to take it, and smart enough to know when not to engage. Pick your battles for…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 05:36 PM
1

I think op means he had a 3 month dry spell, then hooked up with his cow-orker
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 05:30 PM
1

Ok that makes sense. I meant for me if I hang out with a girl Monday playing pool or something, I won't hang with her until I've gone for a cocktail or to see a band with another girl on Tuesday or Wednesday. It keeps my brain in abundance mode and is one of the boundaries I've set for myself. Going out with the same slut three times a week with no other sluts in between isn't a plate, it's a girlfriend. A girlfriend whose fucking other dudes.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 05:28 PM
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Rules for a plate: don't go out with her until you've gone out with another girl, don't fuck her until you've fucked another girl, and don't fuck her more than once a week regardless. Otherwise you are projecting orbiter vibes or angling for a girlfriend. For this slut, I recommend keep it fun and light like nothing ever happened for at least a week, then re-create the exact circumstances that led to her going home with you. If she's down, she'll go again. Don't try escalate your commitment to b…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 03:06 PM
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Racism is an acid that burns the container that holds it. I am deeply sorry for the limits you are placing on yourself, your success, and your happiness, resulting from your poisonous ill-informed set of beliefs. Take this garbage out of here.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 09:47 PM
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Have you ever heard that expression "wherever you go, there you are..." Unless you change yourself you will keep bringing the same results with women. For practical advice: start with monk mode. No dating, tinder, girls, nothing, only minimal socializing for 1 month. Take this time to read voraciously, lift, meditate and go for hikes, or play music. Reflect on yourself. A lot of people are quick to put boundaries on what behaviour they will tolerate in others, when really you should start with w…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 03:34 PM
1

Thank you this is really thoughtful. There's a lot to meditate on here
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:03 AM
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You guys are really awesome. You've given me a lot to think about. I really appreciate it and all the community has done for me. Thx
/r/askTRP01/08/15 11:07 PM
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Holy crap is it annoying to hear people blame their height... Yeah right like Tom cruise and al Pacino ever let their height hold them back. Or their race (ugh) like Bruce lee wasn't such a god damn motherfucking badass that we're still talking about him 40 years after he died. Like Russell peters doesn't pull ass. There are no fucking excuses! Period, full stop.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 08:48 PM
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Extremely well written and organized, and a useful crib sheet full of real life examples. Thank you for this, it should be a model for what it means to give value.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 08:39 PM
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This is a classic shit-test, and it comes in many forms. You lose the test if you lose frame or are rattled in any way. For example, getting flushed or angry. You pass the shit test by staying in frame, ie amused Mastery. A sneaky part to this shit-test is that if you have a "brutal" comeback, it just shows how affected you are! Ignoring works, smiling works, contnuing to be polite works. A really fun way to manage tests like this is a form of agree and amplify where you misinterpret everything …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 10:14 PM
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Monk mode means cutting external validation, and learning to generate it from within. Your posting your "journey" to a blog was a way to seek validation from outside. Don't let your hamster convince you otherwise. Stop posting publicly about your journey. A monk wouldn't do that. Shut the fuck up and improve yourself. It only takes about 2-4 weeks to rewire your brain to generate its own validation if you go cold turkey. It will hurt but you will come out the other side better. Monk mode means s…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:54 PM
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The "community" here is extremely diverse, and your comments paint a broad brush. Nowhere here are women considered "lesser". Different absolutely. Women have a AF/BB sexual strategy, men have a virgin/whore sexual strategy. Women all want a mor powerful higher status mate, men all want a younger tighter mate. The "community" also acknowledges similarity - men spin plates, women ride the carousel, men and women both use a hamster to backwards rationalize their decisions. I'm going to guess your …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 08:20 PM
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An "alpha" guy, and a TRP guy, expects that a woman, a plate or ex or whatever, will seek out and find her beta. How could this possibly bother you. I actively encourage my plates to get a beta bux guy on the side, and I'm happy for any ex who gets one. Let that guy deal with her bullshit, I'll stick with the fucking.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 12:06 PM
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The "bux" in beta bux covers a lot more than just money. The bux means value, whatever of value the beta has that he gives to the woman, this includes money, but that is just a small part of the value given away. There is also first and foremost - time and attention. The beta gives the woman value by spending time on her, listening, and being there for her mental energy - the beta gives away his value by devoting space in his brain to thinking of her, where she is, what she is doing, what he can…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 11:41 AM
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Meanwhile, during your month-long courtship, I'll have gamed her up while she was out celebrating her recent top marks on an exam, made out in the parking lot, fucked her senseless on her coffee table and again in bed the next morning. I might pick her up for one more go after one of your more emotional dinners you have with her, but our intense affair is over within a week and there's time for her to freshen up before your storybook LTR. This will be the third girl I've fucked like that that mo…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 08:06 PM
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In order of importance for "getting women" it goes: Frame, Game, physique, and fashion. In addition, it's a log scale, so frame is 10x more important than game, and game 10x more important than physique. Money isn't even on the list as far as I'm concerned, and can actually put you into BB category and you end up cock-blocking yourself. Beta guys have no frame and no game, and often no physique. That's why they're obsessed with fashion, like expensive haircuts, flashy watches and cars, and money…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 10:38 PM
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Who gives a fuck if people judge you as childish. Who gives a fuck about how they judge you at all. All that matters is that you are happy and crushing your goals.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:03 PM
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A "paper unicorn" as you call it is still just another girl. The way to have abundance mentality is to not be so attached to the outcome. All LTR will end, it's a fact of life, and as certain as gravity. Accept it, and learn to enjoy the ride. Sure your paper unicorn may have less likelihood of poor behaviour, but we are dealing with powerful societal and psychological forces beyond our ken. The future is literally unknowable, as is the fate of any LTR, so protect your assets, be kind, be loving…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 06:41 PM
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Yah spinning plates can be tricky business. Fun tho lol. Most girls won't stick around without some potential to escalate the relationship... Ie they may go for a one night stand, or week long affair while travelling, but a few months of casual sex will leave them wanting more. Consider ways to give her the impression that you would escalate the relationship if she just "tried harder" or "did more"... Combine with dread game and really rocking her world in the sack can be potent. Then go radio s…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 02:46 AM
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Yes, it always amazes me to see the short sightedness of some branch swings... Friend of mine got dumped by LTR and within 6 mos she's dumped by her new guy, broke, and living in a basement. Her guy was loyal, hard working and back on his feet within a year... I guess the tingles can't look that far ahead. It's just baffling to watch.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:46 PM
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We can often recognize in others the things we wish we could have fixed in ourselves earlier... The desire to rescue someone can be in a sense a desire to rescue ourselves... To show that the issues could have been trumped if only we had been shown the way. It comes from a bit of ego. In truth, your brother in law is not in mortal danger or anything... Just slightly awkward. You've offered help in your own way a couple of times and he hasn't changed. It's not likely that anything you say or do w…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 01:51 AM
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