Dear-Tank2728 Archive

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3	Its getting very scary to be a woman, or am I just paranoid? Nah your not paranoid, but it didnt become, it always was. This shit was why i stopped even engaging with anything about gender entirely. Its hard to criticize women when people like that exist.	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/26 08:20 PM
-1	Can we all agree black pill is wrong? Eh, i think the end game is best of them though. Whitepill is truly one of the best outcomes for a man today.	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/25 11:47 PM
1	How often do women hold other women accountable ? Its my experience watching a woman defend a man that was caught red handed raping her sister. Behind every CSA incident is an enabling woman. Its also my experience watching women continuously dating bad partners, getting fucked over, then doing it again despite others advice against it. Not mine but you can actively find false rape reports that ruin peoples lives and reporters get no investigations. Other than those id probably say towards promoting feminism and not being reactionary. Women say…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 03:27 AM
1	Men are lonely because women are changed. Whoa hey now speak for yall selves! I want more masculinity. Pls i need an androgynous gamer gf tgat wears baggy shirts and cargo pants whis just like, really chill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 08:15 PM
–	The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by society In all fairness them radicalizing is necessary to fight against patriarchy. Too bad they are going the opposite direction and hyperfeminizing. Feminism has until recently been about breaking the status quo and is right to do so. Men staying the same is just more indicative of how bad theyve always been in that field.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 08:09 PM
4	Our culture promotes consent and mindfulness more than ever in history, yet people fuck less than ever I actually think alot of sex back then was just rape justified. Nobody thought of it like that because it was just normal for women to feel pressured or "giving in" going into a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 02:16 PM
8	A Swedish NGO released a dating manual aimed at lonely men The "how to tell what their feeling " part was actually pretty interesting. Not bad ideas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 01:45 AM
5	Women clown on lonely men for turning to porn, but are also hostile to the idea of men going out and approaching them I dont think you realize what it means to have only men friends. It not like having women friends. What dude friend groups tend to be is considered sexual harassment with women and after awhile you kinda forget how to interact with women in any meaningful way as friends. As for other guys friends chances are low. At best you got a friend who has a girlfriend whos friends may or may not be single, Maybe. Thats if they arent one of those women who usually dont have a female friend group and instea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 02:10 PM
3	Women clown on lonely men for turning to porn, but are also hostile to the idea of men going out and approaching them Ofc dont put it off for too long though, if you just be friendly and dont show any interest they sure as fuck womt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 11:18 AM
6	Women clown on lonely men for turning to porn, but are also hostile to the idea of men going out and approaching them ... Most of these guys' friends are other guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 11:15 AM
1	It doesn't make sense to ask women to lower their standards Yeah actually, because its the truth. False hope breeds entitlement so we need truth bombs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 11:12 PM
3	Men in college and early 20s should focus more on getting really good at sex than being a good relationship material to have more dating success and even relationship success a bit. In all fairness getting good at sex is something more independent vs a relationship where realistically you need to be good at sex and a relationship at the same time which for some folks is alot harder than sleeping around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 12:43 AM
–	Women’s advice to men hurt women more than it helps women I think thats the problem. Appropriately is too vague when most people who fall into this stuff are autistic	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 08:34 PM
–	Women’s advice to men hurt women more than it helps women Yeah i get that but most men arent applying it like that, they take it at full face value down to not even striking up conversation. It also conflicts alot with treating women as humans. When i sit next to dudes at work we talk shop or whatever. Same out and about inline for a concert or whatever but thats a complete no go to a woman. I think thats at the root of his argument but he doesnt realize it. His flair is uhhhh, telling of how self aware he probably is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 05:19 PM
–	Women’s advice to men hurt women more than it helps women While true, you dont really make friends from not talking to people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 05:13 PM
–	Women’s advice to men hurt women more than it helps women Idk about wanting it but i will say that women just seem to not want men around them at all but still seem to desire relationships. I think it more nuanced than wanting or not wanting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 05:12 PM
–	Women’s advice to men hurt women more than it helps women But in social situations its kinda different and it seems hes talking about more than just sex but also about just talking to women in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 05:10 PM
–	Women’s advice to men hurt women more than it helps women Damn, thats quite the conclusion jump to, maybe he just didnt think about how it sounded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 05:08 PM
1	So what if no girl fucks with you at all? That happens, all the self improvement stuff are pre requisites to maybe getting to be in the right place at the right time. Still gotta be an extrovert, have alot of friends, put your self out there, be an interesting person but not TOO interesting lest you put people off, dress nicely and have a sense of style, be open in who you date but not too open, blah blah blah. Its all bullshit. We live in a world where women have enormous control over their lives for one of the first times in history. …	/r/ExRedPill	08/08/25 10:55 AM
1	What is truly the black 💊? Other answers have covered your questions but i will say i get where you are coming from. Alot of people call anything critical of womens part in dating Blackpilled or incel stuff when it just isnt. Mgtow, volcel groups also exist as well as positive ideologies that are about not dating.	/r/ExRedPill	17/06/25 08:57 PM
10	Many women are attracted to psychopathic personality traits according to study These women who educated about psychopathy are fascinated by it rather than this being a women as a whole thing.	/r/ExRedPill	28/03/25 02:02 PM
8	What is the deal with men warning against marrying career women? Fear mongering based in insecurity. Realistically just be with one who doesn't sign a prenup and live fine knowing if it doesnt work out, you can do some nice gender role reversal.	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/25 02:07 PM
3	Incels should just date men (humour) Yeah true. Honestly men also have their problems and that would be the best.	/r/ExRedPill	24/02/25 01:18 AM
5	Incels should just date men (humour) Humour? How about just true. If I could be attracted to men and completely not care about women whatsoever i would. I wish out tap water was turning the frogs gay, then thered be hope for my love life.	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/25 11:41 PM
1	Black women are mostly queens of size compared to other races, or does it have nothing to do with race? I mean, thanks for sharing? Idk wgat im supposed to take away from this.	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/24 08:54 PM
1	As a woman, what signs should I look out for in a man that might indicate whether or he is a misogynist? What, screaming into the void at people who dont really care either way?	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/24 03:58 PM
0	As a woman, what signs should I look out for in a man that might indicate whether or he is a misogynist? What do you mean, you literally just defined it with bigotry. Bigotry and hate are not the same thing.	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/24 03:55 PM
-1	As a woman, what signs should I look out for in a man that might indicate whether or he is a misogynist? Basically that boiling down misogyny to simply just hating women isnt helpful. Thats like saying Misandry is just hating men. Its not its a deep prejudice based on social expectations. I wouldnt say a woman who hates men because they on average have higher chances of being a rapist is a misandrist. Thats very real and very understandable. That wouldnt make them inherently some asshole bigot. The same goes for Misogyny. Some of these men out here are called misogynistic for no other reason than h…	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/24 03:50 PM
-7	As a woman, what signs should I look out for in a man that might indicate whether or he is a misogynist? Hating women can be said for too many things to be true anymore. Either that or hating women for valid reasons like not being any better than men outside of rape and abuse would be misogyny. If it is then most men are misogynists and have a right to be.	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/24 01:21 AM
19	As a woman, what signs should I look out for in a man that might indicate whether or he is a misogynist? It depends. Humans are way too variable in nature but some I notice are -Are they excessively nice in stereotypical ways? Any man I know whos been a real piece of work doesnt show it till he gets what he wants. Atleast not to you he wont. -does he willingly display his flaws? This is the main difference between a man whos caught up in a culture he cant help but be a part of and someone who thrives and wouldnt be any other way. And a question for yourself is -what do i consider misogyistic? Just …	/r/ExRedPill	21/07/24 08:20 PM
1	Going to sex workers. Yeah, men arent like women, thats the point. As for the above, thats all assuming theres disgust and and a care for what "normal" sex is. Whatever that means. The last paragraph is genuinely a problem, I can agree to that. But not on the terms that prostitution itself is bad and more so the government leaving prostitution in a crime category leaving women no means of protection by law. Thats a situation where society is bad, not the act of selling sexual favors for money. Most of these problems …	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/24 05:17 PM
1	Going to sex workers. How does that differ from a job with manipulative boss for someone who doesn't romanticize sex.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/24 04:10 PM
1	Going to sex workers. Really its a lack of demand. The gay scene where im at isnt particularly strong and i dont think women would provide steady work.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/24 03:39 PM
2	Going to sex workers. Then what is other person supposed to to do by being there?	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/24 02:01 AM
2	Going to sex workers. But does being there do anything? It matters more what shes doing in the first place. there is likely not to be any intimacy from someone paid to sleep with you.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/24 01:54 AM
1	Going to sex workers. Who cares about inceldom, what do you get out of it other than a lighter wallet and middling experience. The same amount of money on some toys and some time and elbow grease put into self exploration does wonders for a good nut. Otherwise its intimacy with a woman. are you paying her by the hour to sit and cuddle? Eat a takeout meal nude by the firplace with some nice Moscato? Unless its worth her while or shes got nothing to do after its probably not gonna happen. Youll get a 1 dimensional expe…	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/24 01:44 AM
0	Going to sex workers. I dont know what men you are talking to that wouldnt for pay.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/24 01:33 AM
-2	"90% of men are incels" Its is stupid but if you take a look at wider society then kinda. Id volcel and incel though. Once you include dudes who just flatout dont like women its still not 90% but I know ALOT of em	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/24 02:48 PM
3	How do people date people they aren’t physically attracted to? It depends, if they disgust you, you really cant. If its just a neutral feeling, then its really a matter of how much you appreciate mind over matter so to speak.	/r/ExRedPill	23/06/24 03:56 PM
9	Why is "LetsGetLaid" the first recommended dating subreddit? I think theres a counter intuitive aspect to sex that happens after. "You just need to get laid" is kinda a common thing someonewhos wound up and crazy gets told and for some purposes theres a degree of truth to that. Some dudes out there do simply need to get laid in a since because thats one of the easiest confidence boosters there is. That doesnt mean to objectify women in any way. Its kinda like a less mean and more direct way of saying "go touch grass". Tldr: some people out there just need…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/24 05:59 AM
1	Decoupling sex and intimacy I think it wont do much as women also have their own way of coupling sex and intimacy. Atleast anecdotally ive usually had to have sex to get other forms of physical intimacy. Infact alot of those type of things that are complained about for men, women also do/have. Often time without any self awareness. If these problems were 100% men it would have been solved a long time ago.	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/24 01:11 PM
1	Red pillers are going Insane Bruh that thread is hilarious. Another example of incels getting a good idea for all the wrong reasons. I think theres an argument to be made that trans women having atleast known how men are treated personally would make them better partners if any of these guys could get their head around having to try and understand them as well instead of treating them as replacements and answers to their problems.	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/24 07:35 AM
3	Should women prove themselves Well the thing about that dissonance is that its based on their feeling and not any logic. Id say there is a good argument as to why women should be the initiators but it sure as hell isnt for egotistical reasons like these. As usual, dudes just be coping.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 08:13 AM
32	So how many men are actually having casual sex? Regularly? Probably not, but every now and again an opportunity presents itself.	/r/ExRedPill	16/04/24 02:41 AM
4	Is Gerbert Johnson good or bad? Hes definitely more on the chill side. He makes some good points and doesnt get lost in absurd shit as often as hardcore -pill influencers. He definitely has more nuance and understanding than them anyways. Im mixed on him.	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/24 05:14 PM
1	I don't think I've seen any proof of physical attraction being subjective in any way that's meaningful to me Lets set some rules 1: Women are human 2: Men are human 3: As humans, they are imperfect. Lets observe men first. Id say the most observed body types that men are attracted to are the skinny model with big boobs and hourglass. Usually others are still attractive but its not their first picks. Id argue its the same for women a nice tall lean-shredded dude or straight jacked, followed by dad bods, etc. Saying that looks are subjective is misleading but it certainly isnt a complete lie. My roomate …	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/24 06:27 AM
2	People claim on Incel Tears that they can spot an incel in real life a mile a way, is this true and if so how? Its pretty much odds. If someone looks like they have given up and dont do/know how to do "basic" grooming or self care then you can reasonably guess that one is an incel will become one. Bonus points if they show signs of Autism.	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/24 05:56 AM
1	This community is so blackpilling. I never felt as bad or as hopeless as I do now until reading through here. Sorry bro my bad.	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/24 05:50 AM
3	Did you have unrealistic or idealistic standards about women before you became a redpiller? While I do agree that it is anti trans i do think that there is something to note about gender and the way it forces people into a mold that they otherwise wouldnt conform to. I do hope that one day gender disappears and expressing one self is decoupled from sex and how we as a society perceive it. Ill have to check out the rest but Contrapoints is baller. I also like Kiddology and Leeja Miller.	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/24 07:16 PM
1	Did you have unrealistic or idealistic standards about women before you became a redpiller? Im just really mad and full of hate. When I talk to other people who are actually blackpilled or whatever the convo usually hits a wall when its starts getting to outright conservative mysogny. Im not sure how to hate someone enough to devalue their basic rights yet still want for them. Honestly incel blackpill is something i always say to boil it down. The closest internet subculture ive found that is close to my beliefs and attitude are femcels. Like I dont think looks are the end all be all n…	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/24 06:48 PM
1	Did you have unrealistic or idealistic standards about women before you became a redpiller? TW also kinda a vent Kinda a combo. My moms kinda a tomboy and autistic so she gave me sorta false expectations as to what women are like on avg. Then going through middle and high school had some bad experiences with women romantically. One of the worst is when a friend of mines sister sat, baby in hand, next to her husband who was caught in the act sexually assaulting my friend. I was testifying what I knew as i was considered in her close circle. I remember it was the first time I connected m…	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/24 04:16 PM
8	Did you have unrealistic or idealistic standards about women before you became a redpiller? Yep, pretty much all of those were things i thought at some point. Its a huge part of why i went towards a blackpill mindset. Growing up just hating talking to most men and thinking highly of women really fucks one up when they realize women are just as trashy and horrible. Women are just men with less rape and domestic abuse on average. Better, but thats like drinking gutter sludge and thinking its good because its not shit water. Thank god i grew out of blackpill into just pure misanthropy.	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/24 10:47 AM
0	Why are specifically male suicide rates so high ? Honestly when i start thinking its always something surefire to kill me.	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/23 08:49 PM
-1	What are alternatives to redpill/PUA/manosphere stuff that can help men be better with women? 🤷 id say just give up and find lifes beauty elsewhere. I think if the Black Pill wasnt so focused on women and trying to dissect relations then they might actually come to the understanding and emotional development required to truly just move on with minimal residual animosity.	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/23 11:45 AM
32	What turned you off of Red Pill? Having good friendships with women prior. Something ive noticed is that dudes who hard into this stuff never really had a good relationship with anyone, not even mom	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/23 01:03 PM
0	List of redpill/Blackpill content creators? Its weird sometimes hes right on the money and then other times wildly off target	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/23 02:30 AM
1	Do women like bad guys? I have nothing of value to say so this masterpiece will do https://youtu.be/Ga2r8bpzo5k?si=JT7Y7xfyUBUhFZsx	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/23 11:02 PM
2	Do men have friendships with women ? I dont personally. My mom was too independent and gave me a taste in women that are incredibly rare, both in relationships and friends.	/r/ExRedPill	02/11/23 10:28 AM
1	Have you tried to unpill someone? Every time I meet with friends I always look out for seeds in their words or jokes and definitely redirect them or dispute them	/r/ExRedPill	29/10/23 02:35 PM
1	This video explains what the red pill does get right but why it's useless ultimately Interesting video. Maybe tge redpill movement will loop back around to what the prevailing thoughts were about dating circa 2010. I mean thats basically his whole talking point. Its just advice youd have heard from the avg dude those days.	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/23 05:59 AM
8	What is all this average men and average women? This is just immature. Its the high value part that gets me. Like is there even such a thing? Like yeah Dating is kinda a market as far as supply and demand goes and in how cetain things have more appeal than others but id argue it isnt as clear cut as "high value men and the average masses".	/r/ExRedPill	21/09/23 02:15 PM
2	How many of you at one time identified as incel? It was really hard to. They put so much emphasis on physicality that its dumb. Knowing your issue is having a bad personality and not being able to connect with people normally for some reason made me a volcel.	/r/ExRedPill	21/09/23 06:41 AM
9	The Art Of Being Dominant Nope, being an alpha only takes humanity so far. Eventually to progress humanity needs to collectivize and make way for science and mental progress. Alpha male shit needs to be dropped like a hot potato.	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 09:46 AM
7	Get out the Redpill as fast as you can. Especially the black pill which is poison. Real shit but what do you do when you dont take any pills, its an internal development?	/r/ExRedPill	16/09/23 08:23 PM
13	is there a link between autism and red pilled men? Oh 100%. Thats pretty much the target demographic. It was also the same xase with Anti SJW stuff as well.	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/23 08:16 AM
1	Worried about my inexperience being a deal breaker I get that, Im 22 and I have to remind myself that Im still young and there still time to hope. It doesn't really stop the overwhelming sense of dread and hopelessness I feel though.	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/23 07:50 AM
0	Interesting dating experiment done by sociologist I clocked out a third of the way through because this shit is too complicated. Whatever reasoning there is for redpill shit is ultimately misdirected. If these men really wanted to stick it to women, they can through not dating or being with them and encouraging other men to do the same. Theres simply no excuse to be an asshole and demean some ones fundamental rights even if it didnt start as "Sinister". If they believe Dating is a market like they say, then just boycott it. And yes women are ba…	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/23 07:07 AM
6	How to exit redpill when I had to learn about biological human attractiveness at uni? She aint a feminist. Thats just cope. Personally I would make a blanket choice to hate all or love all depending on whether you have a negative or positive outlook. I would say that women have it easier in some specific regards socially but overall their life quality is pretty bad. Whatever benefits gained from being generally desired is massively offset by having your rights and feeling constantly ignored. Men just put an importance on things like relationships, looks, and sex to the point wher…	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/23 01:28 PM
7	Since I stopped listening to RP... Nice, now what do you do when the anger comes from within is the question.	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/23 07:58 AM
4	What do men want from women? I dont blame women if they think we are completely lying and seek to exploit them. Some dudes I know are hella traditional but nerds so the want a house, kids, wife, and video games /comics then others are that but seem keen to enforce patriarchy directly, holding women to standards that are unreasonable but they justify it by holding themselves to unreasonable standards. One has a happy relationship and the other is only together because they had a kid at 19, can you guess which is which? Perso…	/r/ExRedPill	27/08/23 12:38 PM
7	As an exredpill, what's your stance on this recent Internet drama involving Dillion Danis, Logan Paul and his fiancé? It makes sense when you consider that redpill bullshit and UFC has alot of overlap. Naturally all the guys who are tough wannabe fighters also are into that alpha male shit.	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/23 12:53 PM
1	Can women be trusted? (Seriously) Yes? Honestly he should try not having sex for a while, let some tension build up, you know, give the sexuality some time to breathe, and if that doesn't work, then rethink his priorities.	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/23 09:31 AM
2	Does TRP seriously harm women? If so in what way? Mostly agree except one part and that it will be gone if women give zero tolerance. Itll probably just evolve or move to another community and become a problem there. I think no matter what happens this will be a problem for the long-term future like it always has been. Patriarchy and misogyny will just take whatever form it needs to to survive and pop up later.	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/23 09:20 AM
1	no idea exactly what happened with my (28f) ex(28m) and I. This will be propagating a double standard but im less worried about a F being a fan than a M. Then agin its probably just trauma from being a metalhead online.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/23 01:26 PM
9	no idea exactly what happened with my (28f) ex(28m) and I. Nope, wouldnt recommend think on him more. He sounds like a Varg fan and thats already a massive red flag.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/23 12:19 PM
2	Why I left the red pill - Accepting my genetic destiny Hell yeah brother, i found a few friends over time who ive gotten to do just that. Now we go mountain climbing and talk about whatever and just enjoy eachothers company and even be there emotionally, like crying and shit. Hope you have or will find such friends. Its really hard living in a world where so much importance is placed on being in relationships and being expected to not be yourself. Women in sexual and romantic relationships? Nah Manga, Games, and exploring the boundaries of emotional…	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/23 10:05 AM
6	The problem with red and black pillers and their view on what women want I think the real problems all the pills miss is just being unable to talk to people who arent like you. Alot of these dudes have friend groups or interests that are very out there, niche, and rough/crass so when talking to others is weird and theres no connection it goes one of two ways, realize its your problem and cope, realize its ur problem but you are not sure what the problem is so take a guess like looks, or you just blame the otherside and deflect any self responsibility.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/23 09:28 AM
1	Imagine how much better the world would be if there was no gender wars. I know right? Im pretty usre alot of people feel that way but but everyone believes in a different solution which is why it doesn't happen.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/23 09:50 AM
1	What percentage of guys in society actually have an incel mindset? Not many I know follow it but there are bunch who are at risk. Its a struggle keeping them and even myself sane. One dude might be all about AT and be full on then another doesnt like women and just doesnt date them. Plenty who have the ideas but handle it better with healthier coping mechanisms.	/r/ExRedPill	12/08/23 01:34 PM