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Oh man, that needs to be pinned to the sub!!!
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 10:26 PM
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I think that you're not truly and deeply understand that other people's experiences don't yield the same outcomes as you've gone through. YOU had a good family, he clearly does not. Therefore you have no basis to understand how it really feels, what he wants to do, what he wants to feel afterwards, etc. Regardless, we have very different viewpoints on trauma, so I'm going to dip out of the conversation. This isn't constructive.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 08:21 PM
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I truly hope so. I definitely didn't deserve the cruelty they dished out. 😔
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 08:18 PM
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he needs to find strength. This is about as useful as the "smile more and you won't be depressed" rhetoric. Numerous studies have repeatedly shown that individuals growing up in abusive and dysfunctional homes experience significant challenges in their self-esteem and ego development, as well as various brain-related issues. Dysfunctional homes often exhibit widespread chronic dissonance, dissociation, and even DPDR (Depersonalization-Derealization Disorder). Many children raised in such environ…
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 04:25 PM
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Yikes, Brother. I offered starter advice on how a person can deal with their current situation and you're talking about quantum physics. As fun as that might be, it has nothing to do with my advice.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 03:59 PM
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I've been studying it for many years, including other human behavior, neurology, trauma, etc. There is quite a bit of overlap, especially when it comes to the ACT program and CBT. The problem is people believe they'll be cured in a month and don't realize it takes years to undo damage, process old stuck memories, heal the nervous system, come down from survival mode, heal the brain, etc. It's not just talking. There is A LOT going on in modern therapy. Comparing apples to oranges is not how I wa…
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 03:56 PM
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If you're TRULY RedPilled, you would not be saying most of this. Remember, truth is truth without our input.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 09:54 AM
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Manosphere influencers are being picked off one by one. I hope Romania and the United States use his case as an example of what justice can look like for hundreds of thousands of abuse and trafficking survivors. I'm a trafficking survivor of a Manosphere man and even his time is limited. They're coming for them all. I'm trying to have patience, but it certainly is hard.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 09:50 AM
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He had a lot of money and used bots. His popularity isn't organic and most people can see through his lies. It won't last.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 08:50 AM
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Modern therapy is based in Stoicism, you dunce. I've been studying Stoicism for a decade.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 08:46 AM
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"Ideological subversion." Say it with me. When there is financial motivation to lie, groom, and gaslight people, it will continue. This is exactly why de-platforming is so vital. Imagine what the Holocaust would have been like with the internet and without cancel culture. All this is a prime example of that, so of course they'll turn it into entertainment in an attempt to skirt laws and moral responsibility. Remember, the love of money is the root of ALL evil.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 09:33 PM
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Being utterly convinced of beliefs via contextomized data is a massive problem within the Manosphere. It's all cherry-picked to death to create an alternative narrative that unfortunately tricks a lot of people who are unaware of these marketing tricks. It's sad.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 09:28 PM
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I think they mean trope.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 09:26 PM
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Haha, right. "Physical touch" encompasses many things of which they will feel "loved" by doing it. Something that fills their figurative happy cup.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 07:47 PM
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It's called narcissistic mirroring. They do it so you fall in love with them. It's part of the grooming process.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 07:46 PM
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I want to express my deepest sympathies for the pain and trauma you have endured within your family home. Your courage in sharing your experiences is commendable, and it's clear that you've endured a great deal of distress. The toxic environment you described, characterized by abuse, transphobia, substance misuse, and psychological manipulation, can have long-lasting effects on one's well-being. As you navigate the aftermath, it may be beneficial to explore certain psychological concepts that ca…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 07:43 PM
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Can confirm. I was raised in a toxic and abusive den of narcissists and flying monkeys. They're utterly exhausting to deal with. Many times, the other person's "role" in the dysfunctional family system can give away their behavior and help you predict why they're doing what they're doing and why they enable it. Sometimes it's truly because they're scared of the main narcissist for whatever reason.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 07:40 PM
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I believe in the concept of "love languages" and have personally experienced the positive impact they can have on relationships. By understanding and acknowledging the love languages of those around me, I have been able to improve my relationships significantly. When it comes to men, I've noticed that many of them tend to value "touch" and "acts of service" as their primary love languages. Unfortunately, their partners often fail to reciprocate in the same way, leading to hurt feelings and misun…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 02:05 PM
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2 here for sure! I'm so tired of half-ass love.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 12:12 PM
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Maybe r/GuyCry too for the emotional stuff?
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 11:07 PM
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That's fine. I can still read it. :)
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 09:36 PM
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Well, this is certainly a lot to unpack, but we've seen worse here. The good thing is you're in therapy, but you want to make sure your therapist is using the right methods to untwist your mind. They did mind rape you. It's horrible what they did to you guys when you needed someone the most. Granted, I don't know you, but I sense you may have both psychological trauma (maybe C-PTSD) and OCD. Both are completely understandable from the abuse that the Manosphere dished out. I would make sure your …
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 09:31 PM
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Why can't you talk about it here?
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 09:22 PM
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It's because this version that got popular is the stolen group. The original did a lot of the same stuff, but it was NEVER used to smear the other sex. It used to be a fun way to get to know the other sex, learn to seduce each other better, learn safe BDSM, etc. There was like zero hate. I don't understand this transition.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 09:20 PM
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LOL I just visualized Trevor as a Chad.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 07:14 PM
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I think it's fair to say that pills have become quite the description of why "free speech" can be dicey when used to exploit useless standards. They're like psyops, plain and simple, and the younger generation seems to be falling for it because they haven't dealt with this kind of stuff before. Back in the day, the era that Red Pill nostalgia commonly adores, they wouldn't have tolerated such mentally unstable ideas. They would have emphasized community, feel-good vibes, and companionship instea…
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 07:09 PM
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I already left my comments on AJW's video on the last post about it, but can I just say that DarkMatter2525's video was absolutely powerful throughout the entire thing. A+ work on breaking down a lot of the rhetoric. Not only does he come out and call this whole movement the dark tar soul cancer that it is, but he backs up his reasoning for it with great information on the biases, cognitive distortions, and fallacies that Red Pill uses to hook people into that mental ideological subversion trap.…
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 04:22 PM
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I'm loving how The White Pill is taking off. I'm totally here for it. 🤍 Thanks for sharing!
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 10:38 AM
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I had higher hopes for this, but he rambles on without going into detail about the dark patterns marketing that's being used on these channels. These "influencers" are financially motivated to create content that enables doom scrolling, misinformation, sensationalism, extremism, fear, etc. They have very little motivation to telling you how you're being tricked and how biases, cognitive distortions, and fallacies are being weaponized against the viewers for profit. Doing so would cut into their …
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 01:32 AM
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So he's self-snitching online about grooming barely legal girls for sex acts that are very likely being done through extortion from the edited evidence. Sounds like a common trend.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 10:02 PM
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Ahh yes, another Red Pilled "influencer" that edited evidence against their targets, for public consumption, for the purpose of stochastic terrorism. I found out all that is suuuper illegal when it happened to me. We basically were able to prove they removed over 95% of the original content and context to create an alternative narrative that isn't true in an effort to destroy these women's lives via proxy, many have died.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 09:42 PM
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I wish I could upvote this to a million.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 12:44 PM
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I wouldn't say it's healthy because even initially they were promoting non-consensual Master and Slave dynamics (called the Capitan and First Mate back in the day), but it was never violent. Not once in the years I hung around them before I tried to leave them all in 2016ish did any of them ever speak of violence against women. So the rise in violent acts is new. The rise in abusive mind control, identity brainwashing, etc. Like none of this is what RedPill was and I think that's what newer gene…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 12:54 AM
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HAHAHA!
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 11:34 PM
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All the ones I would have named have gotten de-platformed, one died, others have been arrested for obvious reasons. The recent 2 I would have said also got the axe. Thankfully I escaped this madness in 2015, so I only watch things by actual educated people with IQs above room temperature. 🤓
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 11:26 PM
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Because believe it or not, RedPill wasn't this violent before. It promoted punishments via Pavlov-level stuff, but it was never about "SHUT UP, BITCH! OR I'LL CUT YOU WITH MY MACHETE!"
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 11:24 PM
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I do not believe she's Autistic. Autism isn't just having low self-esteem and being hyper-focused on one topic. It's more than that and she displays much more than that. I believe that she's a paid influencer who took her channel to the extreme because of the money. She, along with others, were just the fall guys. I think she may just have an ugly heart.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 11:21 PM
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Yes! I remember talking to several men who did not realize they were passing around edited studies! You're right!
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 10:38 PM
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American conservatives have not been like this for decades or longer. This is all a manifestation of Trump causing chaos, triangulation, and division like a textbook malignant narcissist and wanna-be dictator. They all use the same playbook. I remember playing video games with my male friends and we'd, too, discuss the sex wars, but it never got so violent as it did until after 2015 (that's the time I got sucked up into it as well, though thankfully I saw some janky things I didn't like and left…
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 10:37 PM
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Isolation is key for proper cult indoctrination. Removing the possibility of love from the equation would also keep him IN "the Matrix," wouldn't it? The constant quest for money and fighting for a place at the top is classic. Good ones!
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 10:31 PM
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Education is a valuable asset, as it equips individuals with the skills to excel in their chosen fields. When it comes to content that raises concerns, it is worth noting that educated individuals tend to be more critical. Exploring different perspectives through research can enhance cognitive thinking, analytical skills, and understanding of biases and cognitive distortions. By engaging in independent research, we can uncover valuable insights and make more informed judgments. My best suggestio…
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 10:28 PM
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Yes, I know. That's why I asked if there was other connecting factors first. I found many people seem to confuse ED with asexual (as you can see in other comments), which you're right, aren't the same things. One of my ex FWBs had it because of mental health meds, so I'm aware of it. Thank you. :)
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 04:38 PM
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It's tragically ironic, how some of these "coaches" insist on fabricating sweeping generalizations about women who have passed a certain age threshold, but themselves aren't what they demand. This, to me, just seems to mirror how the beauty industry has made women feel for decades. From my perspective, true beauty cannot be confined within the confines of a 'barely legal' age range. We all inevitably grow older, men and women alike, and it's a fact of life. It's disheartening to observe the leng…
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 04:35 PM
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I cry a LOT more than I use to because it is extremely frustrating and stressful. I feel traumatized. I completely understand. I'm very sorry you're going through that. And you might be. I ended up with severe C-PTSD after my Red Pillers got done ravaging me to bones. Right now he's basically got half the internet telling him he's not a "man" unless he does X, Y, Z. Even if we loved him deeply before, they're targeting his insecurities like the beauty industry does to us. It's clearly a psyop si…
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 01:05 PM
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Of which they're all allegedly splitting a cut of the profits in an effort to fool F&F simps. They've proven time and time again they're men screwing over men but gaslighting them to make them believe they're on their side. Sus AF.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 04:49 PM
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Right, literally everything he's exhibiting can be tied to getting recruited into a cult using identity-based brainwashing. The dissonance causes them to fiercely protect the narrative as a trauma response, according to the professionals who have assisted me with my own case (I was forced in using sexual exploitation, trafficking, extortion, intimidation, etc.) You can't attack it, you have to get him to talk about how he's rationalizing it. He interested, just stay grounded. Ask him to explain …
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 03:27 PM
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It's amazing what happens when you strategically and unethically edit content to remove parts of the conversation that don't confirm the biases you're trying to weaponize against your audience, huh?
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 12:56 PM
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Right, but social sciences are also incredibly wrong too. Think about how they fooled everyone into thinking someone was lying to you if they didn't look you in the eyes. Then they rolled back because everyone was accusing everyone of lying when they weren't. But regardless, Red Pill has been proven to be contextomized. So they'll only show you what confirms their biases. It's like Theranos of the dating world. Plus, trauma and neurology "experts" have already said these types of abuses wreck th…
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 11:45 AM
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You just do. That's the whole point of unbrainwashing yourself. Say it to yourself. Every day.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 09:33 PM
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That's some great self-reflection! 🖤
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 09:29 PM
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Thank you for sharing your experience and insights, and I'm glad to hear that therapy has been beneficial for you. It sounds like you have made great progress in improving your relationships with women and yourself through therapy. May I ask if you know what specific models you used? Like ACT, CBT, EMDR, etc.? Understanding women is indeed complex, and oversimplifying them through ideologies like TRP may hinder a deeper understanding. It's important to recognize that women, like any group, are d…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 06:02 PM
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I'm not Spanish-speaking fluently, but I can assist you with translations using a translator. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. However, please note that as a woman, I don't have personal experiences of male experiences, and may not have a deep understanding of specific gender-related topics.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 05:59 PM
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Unfortunately, I have endured a significant amount of abuse, but positively I have Autism, so I intellectualize a lot as a cope. The weird mix of trauma and books has created a writing style many enjoy. Thank you for the compliment. 🫶
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 01:11 PM
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Brother, I didn't insult you, nor did I insult Red Pillers who only used it for "self improvement." I was very specific with my insult. If you're not part of that, then you're offense is on you. Red Pillers are not all the same, but it doesn't take away from the fact that numerous experts have called out the program as ignorant, contextomized hogwash.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 01:07 PM
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Wow, this is incredibly insensitive. Asexual ≠ erection issues. Asexuals rarely have the desire for it. That's very, very different than your 'issues.'
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 01:03 PM
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Before we go further into discussing your ED, it's important to know your preferences. Despite having this condition, do you still have a desire for sex? Do you enjoy it when you're able to get and maintain an erection? Or would you prefer a partner who is okay with not having sex because of the condition? Knowing this will help me give you the best advice, so let's establish your frame of reference first.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 06:34 PM
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One significant factor that I've observed (through others and personal experiences) is how society, in its pursuit of "freedom of expression," has inadvertently normalized and trivialized harassment. Social media platforms, for instance, have become breeding grounds for unsolicited comments, invasion of privacy, and derogatory remarks. There seems to be a general lack of empathy and consideration for the well-being of others, as people freely engage in online discussions that often escalate into…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 05:41 PM
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So: “Always date immature women, and never forget women are woefully immature.” This is weaponized confirmation bias. 'Date what we say so you'll see what we say.' This is why dissent is heavily shamed and punished. Women are also after your money and “resources”. Because they can’t get it together to figure their own shit out. Because they trick her into being "submissive" and stay-at-home first. She's actively prevented into being a well-rounded woman and then they get mad that she did what th…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 02:12 PM
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Right, but then watch what he does if you use those same "science" journals and studies that counter what they're brainwashing into him. They become so enraged by the dissonance that many cannot function. It's a really hard place to be mentally because you WANT to help them, but Red Pill drives them further into insanity by isolating them with cult argot. It's so sad that people have to continue to divide and prop up old dysfunctional ideas just to avoid changing into better, more well-rounded p…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 02:06 PM
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So you have a bunch of boys entering puberty with unrealistic expectations of what men and women, are, getting their world absolutely wrecked with their first encounters with women. Women can and do have sex based on shallow pretenses just like men, and no they don’t need you to provide for them like that alone is good enough for romance… and many more world shaking realizations. When do we get to the stage where we start connecting these ideas to the magical worlds gaslit into us by religion as…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 02:03 PM
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I think sooooo many people to visit the sub lack the understanding that "science" is what drove Red Pill. They threw whatever study at someone to justify and validate weak excuses to abuse women instead of just learning how they work and working with women having more autonomy. They act like they're owed things without playing their "role" of the provider and protector. They wanted, nay DEMANDED, one-sided relationships and then got mad that women didn't want to participate after they had been t…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 01:56 PM
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I'm pretty sure she's paid to say all that garbage. She was saying the exact same shit that the recruiters from my generation were saying.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 11:17 PM
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Especially when you can buy that many for like $5 on bot sites. I used them a lot when I was trying to make my case to my team about some janky shit with Manosphere coaches. That's how we caught them buying it. Most of their traffic wasn't organic, it was bought. I'm pretty sure most of Andrew Tate's are too. The numbers he gets just don't make sense. This whole thing was an internet joke that got way out of control and the Capitans have decided to go down with the ship, I guess.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 11:14 PM
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It'll always been something. ALWAYS. It's called "moving the goal post" within narcissistic abuse situations, which the Manosphere basically was. It's a trap they deploy to always keep you chasing their affection. They created the demand for Red Pill, got ya'll hooked, and now you can't stand anything less than Madonna herself. Everyone else is a whore. I dunno though, I was raised by my Grandparents and have never fit in because I was a 'different era' kid, having a lot of interest in Crooner m…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 11:09 PM
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Yeah, but it doesn't always need a hero. Maybe the point is to fear what these guys make you. Not everyone was benefited. Most people I've spoken with were made worse. They deserve a storyline too.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 11:01 PM
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That number is mostly made up. There are very few women who are actually in that range and they're usually the partier types anyways. If you're wanting to start serious relationships with those types, then you've got wonky perspectives on personality types (no offense intended) that needs review. And to be frank, I very much doubt there is an "evolutionary" reason for this. If we were left strictly to nature with no moral code, rapes would be rampant because that would be considered "natural." I…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 06:48 PM
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I believe that many of them are in an older type of thinking of a woman being a virgin meant some magical thinking and it was going to solve all the relationship issues if they were a virgin. Obviously this isn't true, but when you're raised with that idea, it's hard to look beyond it. Personally, I waited into my early 20's too. Mine was due to my faith, but also because I was deathly afraid that an accidental family was going to derail my goals and ambitions. I wanted a family, but I wanted to…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 06:24 PM
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As a woman who is white-passing, this was really hard for me to cope with when my male friends got sucked up into it. At first, we got along really well, then the comments about other ethnicities started and I could only feel shame for something I can't even control. I'm mainly Portuguese and Italian, but I was being seen as some lesser than despite being pretty well educated, funny, mostly mentally put together, etc. The shift for me was around 2016 though. I got targeted during GamerGate and i…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 06:10 PM
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Yes, that is what a shill is. Which is against the rules of the sub. This sub is openly against Red Pill and talks about the reasons why in great depth. So much so that academia is on this side because millions of people witnessed first hand how contextomized and slaughtered "facts" can become distorted to promote a dangerous agenda. Please keep in mind, many people have lost their lives because of this cult.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 01:58 PM
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Okay, well if you're just going to be an aimless shill, then you're not really here to engage in quality conversation. The unfortunate thing about "Red Pill" is that there was a good group and a bad group. One didn't instruct others to harm others, the other did. Then they splintered even further from there. One taught about abuse, codependency, how to fix it, etc. from actual professionals in their field, the other complied various books, most of them not from professionals in their field of st…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 01:55 PM
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Can you please lay it out? Who did you watch and read? Be specific. And no, most of these self-proclaimed coaches never charged. Their damages were via proxy from their channels and what they instructed.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 01:48 PM
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Man, I'm so sorry to hear all of this. Every story I hear just breaks my heart. To know they do it for profit pisses me off to no end. I don't really have much advice other than to go to therapy as it seems to have impacted your life a great deal. Steve Hassan's books helped me do the walk back that helped me escape when I had friends trying to coerce me into it all. They're full of information about cults, why they 'work' but only temporarily, how to heal, the brain stuff, and all that. Maybe t…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 09:49 PM
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Attraction is no excuse whatsoever for behavior that might cause someone harm, needless confusion, anxiety, or trauma. Particularly when it comes to their first sexual experiences, and intimate relationships. I 'dated' a guy who was 9-years younger when I was 30 and my life was literally, not figuratively literally, but literally ruined from it. I'm a woman. I'm Autistic, so I was already behind in regards to intimate relationships because I struggle with a few things, but he said he understood.…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 09:35 PM
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It describes most of the last 2 generations. We were conditioned to be that way by narcissistic parents. Recovery groups talk about it all the time. It was and still is systemic. That's why it's basically the Boomers vs. everyone everyone else now because elder millennials have been busy waking everyone up for the last 8 years and now the younger millennials and Gex X are pissed they they got conned like we did. We just aren't letting them get away with Boomers sucking our souls out like Demento…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 02:33 PM
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No no, there are absolutely people working to destroy it. Pointing out the newspeak does it by itself it seems, but they weren't part of that. They're both grifters just trying to profit before the ship goes down.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:37 PM
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Last I heard 2 major ones got deplatformed, but I haven't confirmed yet. Apparently it was Fresh and Fit and Pearly Davis. They were both very trashy channels. Edit: "The Tragic Tale of JustPearlyThings | The Un-Pickable Pick-Me" https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=x81gguSPGcQ
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:32 PM
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It's because it's an obvious shill. This sub has been around since the beginning and every time a coach gets canceled, the shills and trolls show up. Until he names people and coaches he learned from, we cannot confirm what content was taught. Most of the "good" Red Pill wasn't actually Red Pill.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:22 PM
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Yes, it's called cult argot. They do this often because they know they're doing bad things.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:17 PM
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Right, but that's not "Red Pill." That's simply realistic and encompasses more human behavioral wisdoms. The problem is the data points Red Pill taught were not connected to their correct counterparts with the label. This has already been debunked by people actually in their fields many times over. This is exactly why they're all being canceled because people already figured out what it all really is. So can you specifically name people you learned from?
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:16 PM
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The idea of the redpill isn’t to learn how to control and manipulate others, it’s how to become a person such that others want to be with you, respect you and listen to you. At least this is what i have gained from it. You appear as if you learned an older version that hasn't been talked about since around 2015. What coaches and sites did you use, if you don't mind me asking. That would be able to help us discern on whether you're a shill or someone who actually benefited from a much older versi…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:14 PM
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I was in a terrible relationship with a Red Piller for 8 long years that had a severe impact on my mental well-being. My therapist explained that it was a 100% a form of narcissistic abuse and not any form of "codependency" eliminating behaviors, which created an addictive and Stockholm Syndrome-like bond with him without me knowing. These experiences are well-known across the board. Very rarely are the women happy. Throughout the abuse, I went from being successful and accomplished to feeling l…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:11 PM
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You are spot on. I would definitely put money in that pot. I'm already writing an article about this to make it easier to read and with "real world" terms. Hopefully it helps against those claims. We'll see!
/r/ExRedPill24/11/23 09:37 PM
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I do believe we call that collective gaslighting and propaganda. They have a motivation to continue to spread this narrative and until that motivation goes away, we won't see the end of it anytime soon.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/23 08:35 PM
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In my personal view, I believe that both men and women possess the potential to be better, good, and moral beings. However, our society, driven by the demands of capitalism, doesn't always prioritize cultivating these qualities within individuals. Unfortunately, the lack of recognition and rewards, such as higher pay or better job opportunities, discourages many from striving to embody these virtues in today's world. Consequently, there's a noticeable decline in collective behavior as people fin…
/r/ExRedPill24/11/23 08:32 PM
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I'm genuinely excited about this! I can't wait for the media to finally disclose the discovery made by the former mods about the edits made to peer-reviewed studies from years ago too. It was quite shocking to learn that they were recruiting people based on fraudulent data. It's going to be a significant revelation. I'm eagerly looking forward to seeing it all come to light. This Balrog doesn't stand a chance! 🤓 Edit: I've abandoned the companion guide as my business started getting attacked. Th…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/23 10:23 PM
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This is great, but it's wild that even in AI his voice is obnoxious. 😅
/r/ExRedPill23/11/23 10:15 PM
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The down side is that not everyone is capable of those deeper conversations. I love those conversations, but I've found that if you guys can't blend and flow together after any initial akwardness, she may not be interested. She'll want to tell you about herself if she is. She'll want to ask you questions to see if your values match, about your hobbies, etc. She'll just want to and you should pick women who show that interest. Know your worth. Find someone who wants you back.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/23 10:11 PM
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The easiest thing I suggest is to treat her as if she's a person, like you. Most scoff at that idea and believe they do, but you'd be shocked at how little value we hold in society and generational biases have been deeply ingrained into people. What do you really enjoy doing? What traits would make a good girlfriend for you? Guide the conversation there. What are her values? What does she like doing? All that. It's only hard because a lot of us are in our heads and over think things. Also, some …
/r/ExRedPill23/11/23 01:51 PM
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They absolutely push psychological abuse. 100% facts. And Pickup Artistry caused new laws to be formed to prevent "rape by deception." Be real.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 10:25 PM
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Ego-based people are all the same. They've got all the answers. They are all-seeing. They speak for God. 😅
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 10:24 PM
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OP, on top of this, understanding that her brain is literally fighting against her will help you stay calm. If she's been bonded, she'll fight you with everything she's got, especially if she doesn't have anywhere to go or have money. Patience is key.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 10:19 PM
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It's always intended to be this way. It's called "ideological subversion." Tate and all them are just the buttered up fall guys. If you compare the old Red Pill handbook to what they talk about now, it was clear as day that this is a very typical blueprint of a stolen name for the purposes of creating ideological subversion groups. That's why most of them want to ban books, erase history, eradicate the 'lesser' human forms like trans, put women back in the kitchen, silence the women they hurt, a…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 06:27 PM
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Brilliant!
/r/ExRedPill17/11/23 04:42 PM
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You are very welcome! I've intentionally designed it in a way that is truly helpful: no ads, no screaming and drama, no editing interviews to create fake sensationalism, no hooks, no relabeled terminology, etc. I hope that it's beneficial to you in your own personal journey (despite me making boring to our dopamine receptors 🤭).
/r/ExRedPill17/11/23 04:38 PM
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You are very welcome. I've been reading similar stories for years and it's awful that so many people got caught up. I think telling people what happened could help others out and hopefully before their life is utterly destroyed too. I'm praying I'm right.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/23 04:35 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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