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| 1 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveI cannot speak for the bi ladies. I will say I suspect that any double standard could have something to do with the fact that a lot of people don’t see lesbian sex as real sex while they see gay sex as an abomination. Also men and women are different and attracted to different things. This can also explain why some heterosexual men associate bisexual women to “yay threesomes!” while the straight women who like bisexual men don’t react the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:15 PM |
| 4 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveNope. Always these elaborate theories about female insecurity that are pure cope. I’ll give it to you ‘straight’. Some of us find them gross. We are strictly monosexual, attracted to strict monosexuals and we find anything else off putting. Their choice, just not our thing. Want to call it a phobia? Sure, whatever. Next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Why do so many women end up choosing the guy who was simply more present?Yes. For me, a man who doesn’t make his interest known is invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:33 PM |
| 14 | Why do so many women end up choosing the guy who was simply more present?There is no reason to waste time thinking about the motivations of a guy who seems indifferent when other options are putting time, energy and effort into connecting with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Passport Bros aren't leaving the western dating scene for genuine desire, they are leaving for a chance at genuine desire, which is more than they would ever have in the west.But Chaaaaadddddd!!! /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: When you genuinely like a guy and feel like the interest might be mutual, what do you actually expect him to do?I would not have any expectations because him being interested, does not mean he has to or wants to do anything about it. I would HOPE he would find ways to be around me as much as possible, talk to me every chance he gets, start flirting when he realizes that I’m very receptive to him, and be attentive towards me in a way he isn’t with anyone else. Non-romantic example: when I want to be friends with a girl, I’ll find ways to talk to her, create some inside jokes only she and I share, give her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 02:47 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.No it’s not. For a lot of women, rape is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man?See “brain dead decisions”. And yes I expect this comment to be deleted by the overseers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man?I will let other women share their perspectives themselves. I will say however that there are a million reasons a woman would pass up on sex with randos that have zero to do with ‘reputation’. Sex is a personal decision that impacts your health, your self esteem, your mental stability, your future, I could go on. When you make mistakes (which I personally see at poor p*ssy management), they blow up in YOUR face. You will be the one having to live with yourself in the aftermath because ‘my body m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man?No. My desires are not contradictory. For me, sex only exists for men who court, invest and commit. The idea of having sex with randos makes me want to throw up in my mouth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 04:42 AM |
| 3 | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.There are absolutely women who have never dated a loser. I could never in a million years be with a man who does not have his life together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.Sex drives also goes down for a lot of women due to perimenopause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?The number one quality I need in a man is for him being a go-getter about the woman he wants. I don’t care what man is interested if he’s not going to do something about it. From the get, he shows me he will never be able to give me what I want, because we are fundamentally incompatible when it comes to the sort of romantic dynamic we prefer. As for his intentions, they’re not hard to figure out if you’re aware of male nature, expensive (and that doesn’t mean only finances, you can be expensive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 07:45 PM |
| 1 | What % of your attraction to a man is physical and what % is everything else?Physical is 20%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeablenessThis sub is fascinating to me. I have the same experience to the point that I’d be uncomfortable around a man who insists on splitting because it’s so unfamiliar. From dad to brothers, to male friends, to of course, significant others, I’ve never dealt with that mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:45 PM |
| 4 | The reason why young people are having less sex is pretty straight forward.Well said. I agree 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 05:40 PM |
| – | How do you know when a man is truly interested?Simple. He has to get to know me as a person and let me get to know him as a person with no sex on the menu. That means TIME, consistency, dates, a boatload of in-depth conversations about who we are, our dealbreakers, what an ideal relationship looks like, what each of us require to be happy and satisfied, how we approach sex, how we define love, monogamy, transparency and information sharing in a couple, our boundaries, each other’s roles and duties in the relationship, STI testing, contracept… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexI confirm. I’m one of those women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Woman, would you date a detrans man? Why or why not?No. The kind of men I’m into have zero confusion about who they are. The idea to deny their biology would never cross their minds. They also don’t see gender as an “identity” you can hop in and out of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Would you change your views and behaviour?No. When women are no longer forced to pair up with men for survival, you have to become someone she WANTS to be with. No. I don’t give non-platonic attention to men for specific reasons. No. My mission in life is have sex with as little men as possible. It’s reserved for men who give me what I want in exchange and I’m expensive : courtship, investment, resources, commitment, and jumping through all the hoops with a good attitude. Why would I freely share something that must be earned? He gets a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Nope. Do these men have anything else going on outside of charisma? And not everyone is a size queen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Same for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Hookups for women would amazing if it actually guaranteed safety.I’m sure this would make a difference for a segment of women. All the safety, care and human decency in the world would still not be enough to make hookups appealing to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 11:16 PM |
| 4 | How and when does a woman create a "type"?I said more than just successful. Professional athletes are successful. Not my type. Egalitarian men with money, not my type. Disorganized heir to a family fortune with his own thriving businesses, not my type. Real estate tycoon with zero interest in the world outside of his country, not my type. Effeminate professional singer with a million sponsorship deals, not my type. You focused on one aspect when it’s a combination of things. You have to have it all in 1 guy. That’s a type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 03:23 PM |
| 2 | How and when does a woman create a "type"?I built my type based on my dad. Disciplined, driven, ambitious, successful, structured, cultured, generous, provider protector. I can throw a rock in a crowd and find the finance/politician/real estate guy raised in a traditional family and the hottest thing I’ve ever seen is a man in a suit entering a high rise. 🤣 I developed this type because I observed that he’s the all-categories winner. When I looked at other type of men, they just don’t compare to me. I don’t think my type limits me. It’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?I have to stop you right there because of the blatant lies in this post. “All women” have not had casual sex and it’s tiring that women like you keep spreading this lie and insist on speaking for the rest of us. Some of us have enough sense not to “risk pregnancy or social stigma for a lousy dick”. We are not all infected with the disease of poor pussy management. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 10:12 AM |
| 9 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?I don’t feel anything. I’m a lot of work and I only care about the man who is able and willing to do the work. Everything else is just noise and not a part of my reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?There is nothing anyone can do to market men as objects of desire for me outside of making me the Bachelorette and only selecting men who already check my boxes. I’ve been dragged to the strip club twice for girlfriends birthdays and I was turned off. I don’t like to see possibly gay for pay men oiled up and gyrating. It’s just not for me. I also hate community peen so I don’t understand why I would look twice at a gigolo when there are more than enough regular men to go around. The idea of payi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 05:23 PM |
| 3 | If the orgasm gap wasn’t a thing and you orgasmed every single time you slept with someone, would you increase your casual encounters more?No. I see casual sex as an aberration and only grant access to my body in the confines of a clearly defined, serious relationship. Sex is for men who invest and make themselves extremely valuable to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Older women are in high demand with younger men. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?It’s a free country. I personally don’t care for that sugar mama dynamic and think these women are being targeted by low effort men looking for easy sex. That could never be me but everyone is free to do what they want! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Would cold approaches feel less awkward or intimidating if men offered their number instead of asking for yours?No. It’s pointless to me. The reason a man approaches is because he had some interest. I did not seek him out for his digits. Why would he give them to me? I’m also more traditional and I don’t like certain role reversals. I would never pursue a man by calling him first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Nice guys should accept being aloneYou can also ignore the noise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you think BDSM is healthy/fair, either in the context of the bedroom or as a lifestyle, why or why not?I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Doesn't this fact indicate that most women aren't straight?“Most women”? Where is your proof? I would not sleep with a woman because I’m straight. It’s not about who’s more attractive. I’m not a lesbian, I’m not bisexual, pansexual or sexually fluid in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 06:10 PM |
| 0 | It would be easier to focus on the type of women you want rather than getting upset you cant succeed with most women.They love to pretend those women don’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 08:32 PM |
| 4 | How quickly does your mind go to sex when you meet an attractive guy?Thank you. The idea of sex divorced from love and genuine connection is a turn off for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How quickly does your mind go to sex when you meet an attractive guy?It doesn’t. An attractive man is a beautiful painting. I will look at it like I appreciate a piece of art, feast my eyes, feel thankful for the show, silently congratulate him on his good fortune in my head and move on. The only way a man can trigger sexual desire that I want to satisfy (very important, I have to WANT to satisfy it. Desire existing does not mean I deem the man worthy of touching me) is by courting and investing emotionally. Sex only comes into play under a specific set of circum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible for a man to move from being viewed as “long term” to “short term fun” or vice versa?Your train of thought is incomplete. It does not account for women who will never have sex immediately no matter what man is in front of her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 06:53 PM |
| 2 | What defines woman's immediate decision, if she wants to get to know the guy better and invest time and effort into learning his personality?It’s not one thing, it’s a package. “Looks” is first because that’s the first thing I see. By that I don’t mean must look like Henry Cavill, I mean no features that are dealbreakers. For me that means he’s at least 5’8 (I’m 5’6), he dresses a certain way (clean cut, not super colorful, doesn’t show too much skin), wears his hair a certain way (short), has nice, white teeth and no beard, is not flashy or edgy (no earrings, piercings, ostentatious jewelry, tattoos). Masculinity is second. Now that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Do you understand what men mean when men say that the risk is not worth the reward, in reference to women today, and approaching women, and being in relationships with women?I don’t really care that some men think that way. It’s their right, it’s their prerogative. Lord knows many women are telling the truth when they say they’re fine single. Why would I think men who make the same choice are lying? And it’s not “men” , just “some men” because it’s not my reality. I know plenty of men who see things differently from OP. I could never be hurt by the “men” who choose to go their own way. The idea to try to prove a rando wrong is absurd. Why would his opinion matter to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 07:54 PM |
| 2 | What comes to your mind when you hear of a straight guy with many female friends but is still a virgin?Could be they perceive you as possibly queer, or not very masculine, or passive. There could be a lifestyle incompatibility (specific religion, culture). Could be mannerisms associated with neurodivergence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Do you think men should have the legal right to renounce parental responsibility in cases of paternity fraud?Yes, he should have the right to renounce all parental rights and responsibilities. The age of the child, the mother’s financial status or whether the bio dad is known should not matter. The man is not responsible for the mother’s poor vag management. It is my personal belief that a woman should never put herself in a situation where more than 1 man can be the father of the child. If she chooses to pass it around like a blunt, she’s the one gambling with her womb, her life, and the child’s futur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 07:59 AM |
| 0 | What’s a common mainstream/blue pill dating belief that you think is incorrect?“Be yourself”. Nope, some people need to become an entirely different human being, or accept that their current self is incompatible with attraction. “The past doesn’t matter”. Oh yes it does, and only people looking to remove your ability to give informed consent think it’s okay to hide things they know are dealbreakers and indicators of degeneracy. “It’ll happen when you’re not looking”. For some people, yeah. I wouldn’t bet on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:34 PM |
| 2 | How do women view friendship with men?I don’t have friendships with men. Plenty of absolutely lovely acquaintances, but I have no desire for friendship with men. My friendships with women are one of the most fulfilling part of my life. To connect with beings who can practically read your mind and you theirs is such a miracle. I live life in a state of permanent oxytocin drunkenness. The amount of emotional closeness and safety my type of friendships come with, could not be replicated with a man without things getting messy, due to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:19 PM |
| 5 | Q4women would you date a trans guy?I don’t have a flair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Q4women would you date a trans guy?No. I like men and I don’t date biological females. No. I like straight men and a man who dates biological males is not straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 04:45 PM |
| 6 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”I only have sex when I’m in a committed relationship so a man who wants me always has to wait. I also think having sex with randos is degenerate low value behavior. Men trying to equate damaged self-destructive behavior to “genuine desire” is not something I take seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Dating, marriage and sex are overrated.A date only includes wine if you want it to. I don’t drink alcohol at all. For women who do, they still have the choice to stick to water and remain clear-headed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.Not true. He can never be “that guy” to me with no money. I also cannot be “pulled sexually” because I don’t have sex outside of a relationship, ever. And… I don’t have relationships with men who can’t afford the lifestyle I’m used to. I’m unapologetically hypergamous and always prioritize money and status over looks. Looking good is my job. His is to maintain my soft life and not look to me to keep the lights on. If he’s unable to do that he doesn’t even register just like men who are shorter o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Do you offer to pay for your own food and drinks in the early stages of dating?I do not offer to pay for myself. When I’m dating, I’m vetting for compatibility. If I see potential, it’s important I don’t misrepresent myself. I don’t do 50-50 nor do I entertain men who do. He needs to make an informed decision so I never make a move towards the bill. I make it a point to express my appreciation for his generosity after. If I don’t like him, I will RUSH to pay for my part so I can get out of there. Me paying means there won’t be another date. Down the line, I’m the type to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Is having sex similar of a good laugh for women?The laughing analogy does not work for me because laughing is a basic, no-stakes activity I partake in constantly and with everyone. The amount of laughing I do everyday at work, alone! 😂 Sex for me is a fancy, expensive trip to the top of a hill. On top of that hill, there is an enchanted garden full of magic. The journey can be unsettling because I don’t like heights, but once you reach the garden, it’s a euphoric, transformative experience that imprints memories of the day you were there and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 06:32 PM |
| 0 | What do you value?Option 2 easy. I come from privilege and money is a baseline requirement for me. What makes me fall in love with a man however is his personality (once the basics are covered, for the hard of hearing in the back). I take my time getting into anything intimate so instant physical chemistry has never been a priority. I’m also incapable of maintaining attraction for men who can’t afford the lifestyle I’m used to and whose personalities I find inconvenient. Man 2 will become attractive because he fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How promiscuous do you consider yourself to be?Not promiscuous at all. I think it’s nonsensical to share your body with a man who has not proven he’s emotionally invested and in it for the long haul. • Only have sex when in a relationship. • No sex before 3 months. • No ONS, FWB, or hookups of any kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: If I can guarantee to you that all future hookup experiences will be like the typical male hookup experience, would you sleep around more?No. Sex is reserved for men who invest and commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?🏆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 03:17 PM |
| 0 | The hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance a lot of progressive women have make it super easy for red-pillers to slam dunk on them.It’s not a learned social judgment. It’s a visceral, biological repulsion. As a straight non-queer woman, my counterpart is a straight non-queer man, period. It’s non negotiable, it’s not up for debate and since I am not a sniveling, people-pleasing leftist, I am impervious to the rapey and sexually coercive ‘phobe’ accusations levied at women who exercise their human right to decide who gets access to their body. I see the old ‘cry phobe’ method for exactly what it is and it’s tired. It’s nothi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:51 PM |
| 3 | The hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance a lot of progressive women have make it super easy for red-pillers to slam dunk on them.It’s his prerogative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:08 PM |
| 3 | As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better.Glad it works for OP. I’ve given back their numbers to all the guys who tried that method with me. I still think it’s an efficient method. The women who like me do not pursue men as a matter of principle, will quickly remove themselves from that topsy turvy situation and the man can stand back and wait for the egalitarian type of women to send him a text first. No time wasted for anyone! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 08:24 PM |
| 1 | So many women are married to gay men and they don't realize itNone of this is a win for an actual straight woman who has actual girlfriends, is attracted to actual men and wants an actual husband. I’d be out of there SO fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 06:46 PM |
| 3 | QFW: Assuming you’re talking to a man who is level headed, genuine, and wants to engage in an honest discussion, how do you respond if he believes that “women have it easier in society nowadays” and in turn, “men face way more discrimination”?I would not converse with a man who approached me with those talking points. He is profoundly ignorant about life, history, geography, biology, true injustice, etc. He is welcomed to stay where he is. I’m around too many sane, intelligent and actually levelheaded men who understand life and how to manage it to waste a second of my time “educating” some piller about this world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?Your therapist is a liar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with menI will touch on women feeling betrayed that a male friend put an end to the friendship after being rejected. Yeah I always gave a side eye to the type of women who complain about being dumped by a male friend after they rejected his romantic advances. I mean what did you expect? Why would he put himself through the torture of being around you while choking on his unrequited love? He lost something. The hope of the two of you being something more. Accept that you have to lose him too. This posses… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?Same here. I love having female friends and do not seek out males for friendship. I’m bubbly and friendly with everyone and I get along just fine with male acquaintances at work and in life in general. I enjoy their company. I treat them with kindness and respect as long as they reciprocate in kind. That said I would never help a man “get laid”. Introduce him to the kind of women who are looking for serious relationships? Sure, if I find him to be a man of good character because I know the woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 01:57 AM |
| -1 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?I understand what you’re trying to do but for me the argument falls apart because it attempts to equalize a female bestie to a an unvetted male vying for my affection. They are not the same thing. They are profoundly different scenarios that come with different rules, benefits, drawbacks, and expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:21 PM |
| -2 | Apparently even progressive women have a habit of demonizing sexuality of average dudesThey are not the same women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 06:21 PM |
| 1 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.Masculinity, leadership, ambition, integrity, chivalry, discipline, protection, provision, commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:53 AM |
| 8 | Too many men just want validation and admiration, not love.See their anger at being rejected by “land whales” they targeted for “slump busting” duties. That one always tickles me. Rrraaahhhhh! How dare she not be grateful that I want to use her as a dumpster? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Yes. I absolutely do not care about variety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Would you date a bi man?No. I like my men strictly clitly. No. He can call himself whatever he wants, he will never be straight in my eyes. No. I don’t date pansexual men. I’m the only one who should be into males in my relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum?I’m mostly conservative myself so I’m only attracted to conservative men. I love providers and protectors who are comfortable in their masculinity, and who were raised to be competent leaders in traditional family systems. I would also be completely incompatible with any man (anybody really) who espouses far-left ideology. A lot of it sounds like mental illness to me. No love for rabid MAGAs though. Their King is insane, and I fear he will blow things up so thoroughly the pendulum will swings aa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Would u be able to date an attractive women if u were a Male??I would do well. Because I have the appearance, upbringing, resources, mental fortitude, healthy self esteem and passion for the job. All I have to do is look at my brothers to know I would have a nice face and masculine physique. Like them I am ,and would continue to be a well-read, connected, driven, money and status-loving/seeking human being. They are both happily married with kids and have the leadership qualities more traditional women like (I would go after those women exclusively because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?The woman who told you that is lying. She’s projecting, which is classic. She IS a hoe. I don’t believe in hoe phases. You’re either a hoe or you’re not. Consciously or unconsciously, she selects her social group to exclude women who are not like her and concludes that she speaks for all women. And I can’t begin to express how much I hate that. I hate hoes (of any gender). They are a bane on society. But what I hate even more, are hoes who are hellbent on spreading the message that everyone else… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:28 PM |
| 2 | The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women.Some women never have casual sex. It’s not about bringing “sufficiently turned on”. You also misunderstand what turns some women on as physical attractiveness is not the only thing; which is how many women can see a drop-dead-sexy specimen, take note and still be on their way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 09:53 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?Eh, not true. I judge women who have casual sex harshly but in silence. I also don’t see any equivalence between a woman who is exercising her right to have non-committed sex (her body her choice), and a man who is having a transactional with a sex worker. One is using her own body, the other is using someone else’s. In a perfect world where minors don’t get pimped out, women are never drugged, kidnapped, brutalized and put on the street, etc., meaning sex workers are all willing participants, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What lie that a man tells you to get into a relationship/into your pants, would be seen as the biggest betrayal?I don’t have sex before months of courtship / vetting / testing / commitment so I would discover a hidden wife, a public criminal record, kids you signed a birth certificate for, or an STD contracted before testing. Biggest betrayal would be filming me without my consent or lying about being same-sex attracted as I go out of my way to express clearly and often that I do not consent to a relationship and sex with a non-heterosexual man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?I do not. Sex does not exist outside of emotional connection, commitment and romance for me. The only way a man becomes attractive enough for sex is by giving my all 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 11:10 PM |
| 3 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.I live by this and it has never failed me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:10 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Would you rather be the king's mistress or a peasant's wife?This is the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Why are women more likely than men to want to date and marry for convenience and confort and safety rather than for love?Comfort and safety are not separated from love. I could never love a man who does not provide both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 02:34 AM |
| 1 | If you were a man what would be red flags in women you might want to date?Vulgar Loud Tatted up Fluid Far-leftist Atheist Promiscuous Egalitarian Aggressive Disagreeable Poor communicator Emotionally disregulated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Why are you on this subreddit?I’m here strictly for entertainment. I stumbled upon this sub by googling the pills after Chris Williamson mentioned them on one of his podcast episodes about ‘in-sales’ (I don’t post much and I don’t remember if this word is allowed or censored). I never debate. That’s one of my principles of life. I don’t debate men. I don’t care to and never had to. I will sometimes drop a comment when the delusional takes about women get so foul they start stinking up the place. I stayed here because this pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men?I would find it weird and lose respect for her. Being attracted is not the problem. 20 year olds are well, youthful and therefore tend to be attractive. Noticing it is not a crime. Getting together with one as an older woman is gross. One, he could almost be your son. Gross! Two. Stay in your lane and let him find someone age appropriate. I don’t care if you don’t find men your age attractive. Those older men are your counterparts, like it or not. Deal with it and let the kids be. Ugh, this enti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Polyandry is the answer to male lonelinessThank you for this thoughtful response. I agree with your post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Polyandry is the answer to male lonelinessThis solution implies that women are interested in having a harem. I wouldn’t take one if you paid me. I’m a staunch monogamist who detest poly lifestyles. I like my men territorial. The type who would have enough self-esteem to leave if he can’t be the one and only. You also mention removing the stigma attached promiscuity. Nope. Let’s keep it, and work on expanding it to men. Degeneracy is gross from either gender. Society should stop celebrating it. Then you mention the concept of having a ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 10:43 PM |
| – | Do you think shy men wishing for women to initiate and be more proactive are against women's autonomy?I do not think the men who are wishing for a change or suggesting it, are looking to violate women’s freedom. One, they cannot force any woman to initiate and be proactive. Two, those men are merely exercising their right to express themselves and advocate for their needs. From where I stand, the men who are wishing for this change may have a gap in their understanding of how a lot of women ‘work’. *** DISCLAIMER: I said ‘a lot’ not ALL*** I see those men as tortured souls, screaming into the vo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?I have no fear of rejection and nothing could make me initiate. I am actively turned off by men who do not show naturel leadership qualities, initiative and do not see it as their role to be the pursuer. Never in life have I needed to approach a man and I will never put myself in a dynamic where the man takes on the passive role. It’s the most unattractive thing ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 09:24 AM |
| -2 | Women should approach moreWeeding out men who want sex is very easy unless you’re the kind of woman who rushes to bed and doesn’t care to vet for emotional investment… or has fallen for the lie that no man will wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of a guy making you wait for sex?She did not share your values when it comes to intimacy. I would say good riddance but I personally have a negative opinion of people who rush into sex and will never see them disqualifying themselves as any kind of loss. I also take into account that men and women have different experiences with dating and you may very well see it differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Women don't approach men because of other women.You are welcome not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 11:03 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of a guy making you wait for sex?Green flag but I doubt a man could “make me wait” for sex because I always wait. Sex is not on the menu until we taken the time to get to know each other, integrated in each other’s lives, discussed the future and clearly defined our expectations and commitment to each other. You just need to seek out women who share your values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 06:22 PM |
| -1 | Why do women ghost a man during regular, amicable conversation after both parties have shown interest?Something he said revealed he’s the opposite of what she’s looking for. Examples based on experience. she likes to travel: he talks about having all the entertainment he needs in his small town/city/country and has no interest spending money on touristic pursuits. she likes the finer things in life and is used to be spoiled: he mentions bring frugal, a minimalist lifestyle and his opinion that Valentines Day is a scam. she likes men who are polished: he demonstrates what she sees as a lack of re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 07:47 PM |
| 5 | What do you think separates women who have good experiences with casual sex from those who don't?That can also be damage and low self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 09:21 PM |
| 0 | Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefitNo they don’t. Woman we go are into casual love it. Do not speak for the many women who find it unappealing to downright repugnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 11:39 AM |
| 4 | What makes a woman want to sleep with a man, regardless of intentions?Passing all the tests and vetting milestones that led to the commitment. I only have sex if the man has invested time, energy, resources and is in it for the long haul. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 11:29 PM |
| 4 | What do women actually disagree with each other on?This confrontation idea seems strange to me. It’s controlling and associated to a desire to deny somebody else’s agency and free will. I don’t negotiate with people attempting to put limitations on my freedom so why would I do this to someone else? Why would I confront a woman about her right to her ideas in a world that has burned us at the stake for the crime of free thought? I simply classify her as not one I want as a part of my inner circle and leave her be. I disagree with women outside of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 12:52 PM |
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