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I've also read the book. Wicked good read.
/r/seduction22/12/15 05:00 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction18/12/15 04:24 PM
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Bro......... this is the most intriguing shit I've seen on the SUB ever. On a side note, what you may consider a problem, hinderaance, I would consider a gift from the gods. Not trying to be like oh, value what you have, just trying to let you know, I personally, would kill for that.
/r/seduction17/12/15 03:14 PM
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Top kek, man 10/10. Good to see some fruitful humor here.
/r/seduction08/12/15 09:37 PM
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Actually, that book sucks. "The Charisma Myth" is better, in my experience Your choice words say otherwise.
/r/seduction08/12/15 09:36 PM
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When it comes to one-on-one conversations and romancing, I don't feel connections Dude you may be pleasantly surprised to know there are people who suffer from what you expereince, but also on the complete flip. I cannot for the life of me participate in group convos or events, etc. I mean I'm not autistic or anything I can swing my way through it, but I feel zero connection with a group function unless I've established a one on one with them.
/r/seduction07/12/15 04:51 PM
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Versace, got it about 3 weeks ago, have been getting compliments from both Genders.
/r/seduction07/12/15 04:48 PM
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Lol, no. No you don't. This internet fight is over.
/r/seduction17/11/15 04:34 AM
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You can easily work out on a calorie deficit? Cut 500 calories from your diet and still hit the gym. Your ambition won't overcome nature and you will fatigue yourself within a week. You are suffering from believing a fallacy. 100%
/r/seduction17/11/15 03:48 AM
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I disagree. With all due respect, this is a fallacy. It is physically impossible to turn fat into muscle. You must either lose weight or gain weight. Weight can mean mulitple tihngs - fat, water, muscle. To lose weight, you must have a calorie deficit. To gain, the opposite. This is the ground, fundamental basic gym knowledge that all newbies must first learn
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:58 PM
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Comments section gets funny on the article
/r/seduction27/10/15 04:57 PM
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Talk about it in person. Texting ain't for conveying feelings. I had this problem the other day. I said "thanks for covering me for the other day" she replies, "ya, you're welcome, but this is the second time, usually people only get one" I took it as like a "fuck you" when she was really saying "you're special enough to get 2 strikes" See what I mean. Do it in person.
/r/seduction02/10/15 07:30 PM
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I've definitely met more than one girl that says "omg if he doesn't pay i'm so not into him." Yes, they're shallow, but I don't really give a fuck - I just wanna smash. Anyone see the irony in that. I'm going to be real with you, I always pay for a girls drink. Always, but that's not what matters. What matters is your intention, what are you conveying. Because if you're not doing that, doesn't matter how bad you want to "smash" Many may disagree and probably have valid reasons, but I am oldschoo…
/r/seduction02/10/15 04:39 PM
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From a seduction standpoint, never From a relationship standpoint: You reveal them when they reveal them to you. If you ever get the opportunity to undergo this it's quite an amazing bonding experience.
/r/seduction02/10/15 04:32 PM
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Don't ask questions promote feelings through statemetns of the same thing. When she said Im ok. I need to come to my class today or else I'll lose points. I'm okay denotes she's a lil upset about the situation, to which I would have just replied Damn, that sucks! Queue emotional downpour of how SHE feels about it. At the point you ain't even gotta say antyhing, just sit and reap it up.
/r/seduction29/09/15 08:30 PM
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To be quite honest, that whole mentality that I thought was initially bullshit: Super hot girls don't get talked to a lot because lots of guys are too scare and timid / Don't really have that many girlfriends because girls treat super attractive girls like shit To me I find to be more true almost every day. It all started when I met this incredibly beautiful chick, who was really tall too at a bar celbrating her birth. I walked by her and and thought how cute she was while going to bathroom. Whi…
/r/seduction29/09/15 08:27 PM
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We cuddled a little, real tame stuff, No man, you cuddled a little.
/r/seduction02/09/15 02:56 AM
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Agreed well said. Some people find this out when they're young. For example fear of jumping off a cliff at a summer getaway. Then they jump once and jump 150 times after. Same principle.
/r/seduction01/09/15 11:28 PM
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There is no trick to conquering approach anxiety. Simply believing so characterizes and ultimately dignifies it as something that is controllable. It is not. AA is the same as any other fear and can not ever be controlled. It can only be conquered the same as any other fear. In simpler terms AA can only be beaten by approaching. Nothing else.
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:11 PM
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Yes why are you even wasting time tyoing this
/r/seduction24/08/15 09:33 PM
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You pretty much won the game when you asked if he could hold your drink for a second. GG no rm
/r/seduction24/08/15 09:31 PM
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Depending on the girl. I ask this one question that always sparks conversation up "What's the most illegal thing you've ever done?" Usually gets them all sparkled up and cheery. You also get a solid feel for what type of chick she is.
/r/seduction24/08/15 12:29 AM
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Hey bro, to me in sounds like you deep down you want a girlfriend. That's great news and there's nothing wrong with that. You must need to put your focus on attracting girls you want. You're basically screening girls to see if they are potental ltr material. With this is mind your shift will focus not entirely looks but more qualities they posses. You'll in return find on our this conquest, that there are MANY girls that are NOT looking for real relationships. Stray from. Remember now you are in…
/r/seduction22/08/15 11:11 PM
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I actually went on a date last night. It went very well. About 45 mins in. I noticed the girl was playing with her necklace a lot. I asked her if she was nervous and she went and spilled out how she was, made me realize girls are just like us guys human. I asked her she wanted a hugg to tone things down. She did. Rest is history.
/r/seduction22/08/15 10:31 PM
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If she has beautiful straight teeth and is obviously more attractive than you, then she will reject you. The truth is, you're wrong. And your mentality is wrong. I'm not going to reply so take this ill-mannered attitude elsewhere, it doesn't help anything.
/r/seduction21/08/15 03:48 PM
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Now, all women have guys approaching them on a daily basis, You don't approach girls do you. Cuz I think at the end of the day, you're too much of a pussy and use some bullshit like looks, height, race or all that other bullshit pussies that are FEARFUL to approach women say, because they are scared of the rejection. Pimpin' I'll tell you straight up. Ladies love getting approached, LOVE it. Some of them are dying for it. And yes, some are gonna reject you, but most of the time they are very fri…
/r/seduction20/08/15 06:52 PM
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damn, bro, you having a bad day? http://i.ytimg.com/vi/jTIFSBlHzR8/maxresdefault.jpg
/r/seduction20/08/15 06:48 PM
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Your number 2 on TAKING ME BACK TO YOURS even turned me the fuck on. God damn. I understand erotica novels now.
/r/seduction20/08/15 06:28 PM
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her self with guys (which have no game or know how to seduce her) shut up with that shit Listen, she seems like a gem, so you gotta play this one cool. Gotta play it slow. You gotta find an avenue in which you can kinda just "run into her" you know. Then pull off a "hey" in an slightly excited manner. Match her excitement or lower. Ask her where's she went, how she's been yada yada. Then aight, gotta go, see you sometime. Do this a few times before you go in and ask for the date. Say something c…
/r/seduction19/08/15 01:21 PM
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Took me a long time and about 300 gay guys telling me ima a good catch to realize this. Meaning we're often much better than we perceive ourselves, and would never think a girl to be nervous around us. Today was at the store and had 2 girls cash me out. One was in training. Girls were so nervous they didn't know what do with themselves. Takes a lot of actual confidence and comfortablability to actual admit its because of what OP said If you work out, take care of yourself and. wear good clothes,…
/r/seduction18/08/15 02:34 AM
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Get off tinder man, I'm usually swiping while wiping. Don't let that app ever substitute for main account for revenue. Ever.
/r/seduction17/08/15 01:58 PM
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This comes off as more braggart than anything. Love the message you're sending, just try to tone down bragging a bit. May not have been your intention, but is perceived as so. I'm not particularly keen on the HB0-10 scale, although there's mixed feelings about it on the subreddit, however going meta into it listing an HB[7.5] makes you kinda sound young, bro'ish, and slightly lame. Hope this Helps, good luck.
/r/seduction17/08/15 01:56 PM
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Nah, to play mtg man.
/r/seduction16/08/15 07:16 PM
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Diff Stokes for diff folks, when I was younger and into the club and drug scene I'd get most of my lays there. Asbi get older going to friends gatherings or parties is probably my main objective Day games never been a profitable experience for me. I get a lot more numbers day gaming but I find much harder to close for me. There was a period in which I was sober for a bit and I'd actually go to meetups. For like board games, magic the gathering, etc, no disrespect for either of those, but they us…
/r/seduction14/08/15 05:23 PM
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Reply to awesonekay, he likes you
/r/seduction14/08/15 05:19 PM
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I got a dope living room its like 12 x 12 not that big, but mounted on the wall is a 60 inch. We usually chill and when I ask to put on a movie, I shut the lights, the TV makes the perfect amount of lighting for snuggles Also I have a sauna coal bed with a circular piebe of glass as a coffee table. Everyone always asks omg is that real, to which ibreply of course lets start it up...
/r/seduction13/08/15 12:34 AM
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You got a shit ton to learn, and I feel this trolling to be quite honest. The word Alpha in my book is a retarded logic of insecure guys that can't get women because they're looking for the proper way to nab a girl by acting a certain way. In essence however, the Alpha is typical the one who can lead and provide the most resources. What most chumps fail to see is the key word resource varies on the women. Justin Bieber is an alpha male, Gandhi was an alpha male, Tyson, Nelson Mandela, etc. Get t…
/r/seduction27/05/15 07:58 PM
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Most of the time people are trying to suggest it's easy, so that you're more willing to relax a bit and absorb the info. If a math teacher say's were about to learn the hardest part of the book, you might get wrapped around that get a little tense and be more likely to make mistakes. I think when you read the title or anyone is saying IT'S EASY, you're perceiving it as some sort of braggart way because in experience it may or may not have been easy for you, and that's ok. On the contrary though,…
/r/seduction22/05/15 03:41 PM
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What was your favorite and least favorite story and why?
/r/seduction22/05/15 03:20 PM
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THe stories are what drive the point home. The reason he doesn't just list things off is because you'd fail to see the most important element. Sincerity. None of his advice works without being genuinely sincere. The stories (which are true) provide an empathic connection towards the sincerity. Too many people are just getting the short version and wonder why the application still fails. They're not being genuine. It's essentially all the morals we've learned in kindergarten but have forgotten th…
/r/seduction21/05/15 07:40 PM
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I've been to clubs where girls we're complete fucking stuckup snobs. Why did you go to that club? Do you frequent other clubs in which girls act differently? What was your game plan? Responses like this grind me up a little bit. Bro had some pretty solid advice, but for some reason, you felt the need to shit on it because of the title. That is what happened right? Solid advice being overshadowed by it's title, because you had a bad experience? Sounds like this has more to with you.
/r/seduction21/05/15 06:53 PM
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Can't be friends with a girl without something happening... Not even in the sense of pua or anything. Friends get drunk. Friends get lonely. Friends share feelings. These are grounds to breed some sort of sexual intimacy. And in my experience it always happens. Sometimes its forgotten sometimes it makes things word. Also if you actually get a gf, my exp is shell act ok that you have friend girls, but god damn will she try to make you hate her Just my exp YMMV
/r/seduction05/05/15 10:25 PM
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You must be < 5 6 or something.
/r/MensRights27/03/15 03:25 PM
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This dude reminds of me pretending I was spider man when I'd wear my spider man PJ's. lol nice sunglasses, chump! rocket red, I feel like i'd see this dude roller blading to pick up girls being edgy and unique.
/r/seduction03/02/15 09:16 PM
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Like I haven't dated a girl in years Neither have any of TRP'ers. Don't worry. If you want to learn to start opening your heart, try your mom or loved ones.
/r/seduction01/02/15 03:18 AM
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Trp opens your eyes Lol, how's that working out for you. I just can't help but feel absolute pity for you. I really do. You sit here and say you can then behave accordingly with women So you weren't before? Tell me do you have a gameplan for acting accordingly while alone, at work, on the bus? Developing some systematic formula in which to behave "accordingly" in front of women is still letting said women dictate you. How about you just act like the way Idontlikekarmawhores normally behaves? The…
/r/seduction01/02/15 03:13 AM
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Honestly, I don't intend to appear as coming off overly deep and psychological, but I'd take a moment how you developed those redpill/misogynistic feelings in the first place. Only then will you be able to understand that you are responsible for how you feel, and how you intend to change that.
/r/seduction01/02/15 03:08 AM
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I don't know if anyone's gonna seee this shit, but to me tinder is a last resort type deal. If I'm on tinder it's because I need to fuck badly and tonight. Granted a majority of you are going to think what I'm saying isn't true and impossible, you're wrong. The quality of girls isn't going to be optimal, but believe me, you can get a girl in 3 hours on that shit. Get a match Say what's up. If don't reply, move on if they do, say I'm just chillen on tinderl, bored how was your day, omg no way hey…
/r/seduction29/01/15 09:26 PM
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You ain't no model, but you ain't freak either, you're just average like the rest of us.
/r/seduction29/01/15 09:08 PM
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But real gangsta-ass niggas don't flex nuts Cuz real gangsta-ass niggas know they got em
/r/seduction22/11/14 02:43 AM
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I doubt you have BDD, less than 1% of the population has it. Have you been properly diagnosed?
/r/seduction18/11/14 05:04 AM
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I can assure you, there's not contest
/r/seduction13/11/14 09:11 PM
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Please don't insult me with your passive aggressive bullshit. I did not insult you once, furthermore encapsulated in my post contains the same protocol to follow. Best of luck, amigo. my humble post was to express how to make a nice and good use of said number... Like how to amplify attraction and little stuffs like that. HEY Hey What's up? NOT MUCH HEARD THAT DRAKE SONG haha, no way, just hold on we're going homeeeeee! WHAT ARE YOU DOING? I'm just cleaning the house a little bit, WANT TO HANG O…
/r/seduction13/11/14 08:49 PM
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Ya, look, I'll give you all the real deal on texting..... Getting a number means nothing. Literally nothing. You souldn't be tripping on what to text a girl, if you are that means you're probably betting on the outcome of a slim possibility. What I'm saying is you wouldn't be trippin if you had multiple numbers, yknow? You got one bet to put on a roulette number, you're going to think long and hard about the number. If you have 20 bets, you'll probably just randomly pick numbers. I always 100 pe…
/r/seduction13/11/14 08:23 PM
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Any girl that plays along with witty banter turns me right on. Especially if she out wits me, and leaves a lingering victory smirk. I just can't wait to jump out on round 2.
/r/seduction13/11/14 05:27 PM
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Pimpin' you're thinking way too hard. Seriously. I swear to god on my life, if the situation arises again, look her in the eye and say the truth in whatever vernacular you're accustomed to. Be suave about it man. For example say, babe I can't wait to 69 the shit outta each other, let's freshen each other up, or as simple as, "I'm taking a shower, you're coming with me" If you got a girl at your house already it's fair game. Seriously, if a girl is in your crib, treat her like she's your wife alr…
/r/seduction13/11/14 05:22 PM
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I'm wondering if it's worth investing two years (money and time) to get a great body if it's not going to make all that much of a difference to 99% of women. lol, what a boy toy.
/r/seduction29/10/14 04:32 PM
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I know, I only hang out with gay guys. It all depends really, but this guy seems to be more on the femmie side. Just struck me as odd, I've heard the guys name a lot, just never put a face to it.
/r/seduction18/08/14 07:33 PM
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Dude's got solid advice, but I'm pretty sure he's gay.
/r/seduction18/08/14 07:26 PM
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"Of all the times my dick has overpowered my brain, why is my brain winning now?" then my nuts chime in and say "because you're a bigger bitch than her"
/r/seduction18/08/14 07:22 PM
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Can we get this post deleted? And possibly this user banned. This shit is ridiculous... You see what he's replying to some people?
/r/seduction18/08/14 01:40 PM
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Go up to a girl you don't find attractive. Approach her, slowly climb your way up to where you can do it to anyone anywehre. Even approach guys if you have to. You don't gotta flirt with him obviously, but just get used to being friendly and saying hey. My favorite is doing it to old ladies. They're much more receptive and will openly flirt with you back so you get a feel of good/bad vibes.
/r/seduction18/08/14 01:37 PM
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You get downvoted because it gives nothing to the conversation at hand. You're not even speaking a hard truth that many want don't want to hear, but need to. You're just randomly shat out undigested protein shake out our mouth, swallowed it back up, and then shat it out on a keyboard.
/r/seduction17/08/14 03:54 PM
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Go out and game by yourself. Then you'll truly see if you're not getting girls because of your friends, or because of you. When you go out alone, you have no one else to blame for your misfortunes but yourself.
/r/seduction17/08/14 05:44 AM
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Disagree all you want, as long as you're promoting good, logical material getting others to think and converse, I'm all for it. PS I think if anything he is in her hook
/r/seduction11/08/14 10:23 PM
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I made a post on here earlier describing how most this subreddit is equivalent to that of a hockey subreddit where users are asking how to skate. The metaphor is that you need to be an extremely proficient skater before you even start playing hockey. Similar to how to you need to have at least 100 approaches before you even try applying anything you learn here. I can't stress this enough. Just going up and doing minimal 100 approaches is a prerequisite for this hobby. It's detrimental, required,…
/r/seduction11/08/14 08:45 PM
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Props to OP, and bro, lose the bread, it's too many carbs with all that jelly. I'ma tell you straight up, I don't know about the type of testosterone you got going on in your sack, but the kind I got, would fuck the shit outta any girl he's got in the pictures, and I didn't even look at them hard. And at the cost of doing it at my home using my fingers? Please post pictures of your gf.
/r/seduction08/08/14 07:53 PM
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Kinda, acknowledging how you feel will free you of it. Just sit around and ask your self, why am I so nervous right now? Contrary, that exact quote, the article also mentions, saying shit like why am I so so sexy right now?
/r/seduction08/08/14 01:40 PM
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The PUA community has gone from innovative thinkers who enjoyed sharing tactics, techniques, and a little bit of flavorful bragging to a AA meetings for people who have troubles talking to girls. It's sometimes mind-numbing. I get everyone has to start somewhere, I do, but sometimes I consider this a hockey subreddit and people are asking how to skate. There a shit ton of side bar links, books and dozens of posts covering the basics of this hobby. The number one answer to just about 99% of all q…
/r/seduction07/08/14 04:28 AM
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