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I asked him out on a date, I initiate all the sex, I organise and plan everything in our lives, I decide on any big purchases and take care of the budged. Bugs don't bother either of us. On the other hand he cooks all of our meals and does the grocery shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 01:37 PM
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Neither is a deal breaker or really anything that would bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 01:03 PM
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I have never lied about my sexual past as I am not ashamed by it. Having said that I do pref guys with very little experience and I understand if he wants the same from me(hasn't happened so far).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 03:25 PM
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Ideally 0~2, but I do have a strong preference for virgins so there is that. Anything above a 5 starts being a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 08:37 AM
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Literally noone hit on me in real life back then and it really hasnt changed even now. The only time in my life someone has hit on me on the street I am 99% sure was a redpiller and his coach. If by online you mean when I make a dating profile....well yeah a ton. About 70%-80% is just sexual messages and then another 10% are just "heys". So far I have asked out every SO I have had and have only had to turn away one dude,he was one my friends on/off bf of sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 08:20 AM
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Again you are talking about people you have known for a long time. He didnt. And its disrespectfull to their relationship to comment on her shape. Not because she is owned....where did you even get that from?.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 04:44 AM
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I hope for that,tho I dont see how.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 04:41 AM
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So you believe its normal to sexually harass another human being? If its not why would you try to defend it. Didnt Trump say that she is in great shape and beautifull? And you think thats ok to say to the wife of another president? I dont know where you work,but I wouldnt be ok if random people at work kept on telling me how I am in great shape and oh so beautifull.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 05:27 PM
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The OP is insisting the ptesident should be allowed to compliment women in a WORK SETTING. Cant be any more clear then this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 03:53 PM
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You contribute very little to the debate as per usual. A few comments ago you can read OP saying exactly that and another poster saying its inappropriate for a work enviorment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 03:42 PM
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Nah see what you are doing right now is ignoring my points,cause its impossible to defend them. You cant be all like "men should be allowed to compliment women all the time",but then start balking when scenarios are presented where its not appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 03:36 PM
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Did you use the words "body parts" in any of your comments to me? The answer is yes. Now stop trolling and just accept you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:55 PM
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Can I ask how old you are and where you are from originally? If you use body parts in your comments as defense on why "beautifull" is appropriate,but "great ass" isnt,I will attack that weak defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:51 PM
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What was without the body part? Are the eyes not a body part? Or the nails? Hands? Its all body parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:48 PM
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And you said calling someone beautifull doesnt reduce them to a body part. Where I gave you examples of other body parts that according to your own logic would be unacceptable as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:41 PM
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Two comments above. Your comment I just quoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:36 PM
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"It doesnt reduce her down to a body part tho."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:31 PM
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Is telling someone having a great ass not a compliment? OP is defending the right of men to compliment women. So either proove this isnt a compliment or agree its not appropriate to say it at your work place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:09 PM
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So beautifull eyes,beautifull smile,beautifull nails? They all reduce you to a body part and are unacceptable then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:07 PM
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Why? Is saying she has a great ass not a compliment? You are complimenting a particular part of her you find attractive instead of the more vague beautifull.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 01:26 PM
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What is the ptoblem then? Men should be allowed to compliment women in all kinds of settings by what you wrote. So is it appropriate to tell your boss she has a great ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 01:16 PM
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Are you sure you are responding to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 12:48 PM
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My ex-best friend. She is everything TRP talks about sadly. Her story is just epic,she started with cheating and then just cheated on every single guy she dated. After her last LTR ended about 6 years ago she couldnt hold a guy for more then a couple of months no matter how much she tried. I dumped her ass for good a few months ago,cause the depression and crying and whinning that she couldnt find a man was just annoying at this point. Last I heard she is living with a dude she has known for abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:14 AM
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It actually takes effort and money to be attractive and they must know that. Yet we all pretent that attractive women were just born hot apperantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 08:10 AM
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And as I have said this 20 times now,I literally said I just feel insulted. Never did I mention screaming at someone that they are creepy. You attacked my right yo be disgusted by someone,which is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 03:51 PM
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Its a positive action for you,not for the woman. You think that and want that. Refusing someone may be viewed as a positive for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 03:50 PM
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You very clearly said I dont have the right to be disgusted,now I have the right apperantly. Can you make up your mind? Its hard to debate when you change your opinion with every comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 03:48 PM
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Whats the problem with refusing someone the way I want to? Yes you can hit on whoever you want and I can respond in whatever way I see fit. Its literally that simple. Can you show me where I said I scream "CREEP" when refusing someone? Really can you fine any evidence that happens? Women think those guys are creeps,we talk about it with our gfs and use that word and yet the dude will never know. Again please go check out creepyPMs,thats all the evidence you need. Pointless bullshit is the way to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 03:46 PM
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But where did I disagree with OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 02:50 PM
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But that is the whole point. I dont want sympathy,I want people to debate me on my views. From what I read guys are full of logic and so rational its scary....and yet every time I come for a debate its full of guys going the easy route and attacking my looks( really pointless btw,I am pretty full of myself) or just being straight up bitter. Yes and he will get called a creep. The end really. He is a creep,I am insulted....whats the debate here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 07:36 PM
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Ok I will bite dude. Start backing up your claims. I want you to link me at least one research saying guys find tattoed chicks less attractive. One study prooving runaway models are pref to instagram models and are therefore hotter. Really anything except pushing your type on the rest of humankind. Its fine if I am not your type,I dont really want to be,but your type is not everyones as well. If you give men an anorexic runaway model and an instagram model....most of them will pick the instagram…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 07:23 PM
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Ah sorry English is not my first language,so I make a ton of spelling mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 05:44 PM
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Then we agree :) Both genders are miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 05:40 PM
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Not sure what a MCT is lol. Like not even the faintest idea. You believe in perfect happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 05:08 PM
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I was payed less then my male collegues,even tho I have been working here for one year more then them and I have a better education then them. I am not bitching about it. The only reason I am getting equal pay now is because my boss lost 6 fucking discrimination cases. As I have said already,I do not understand why the vast majority of you stay in a place where its so bad to be a man. The redpill is only really true for America(I have seen such behaviours here,but they are so rare it doesnt matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 05:07 PM
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You should really check out the Balkans,any english speaker can be a teacher here. A lot of the american couples that moved here bought like a whole village. You people live like kings here,pretty sure a lot of americans can find rather good jobs here. If you are a programmer as well? Well trust me you would drown in pussy. Well fuck me dude,I would love to not have super painfull periods or to be worried about pregnancy. But tough luck me apperantly. No one gets perfect happiness,so why not jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 04:44 PM
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They can live,I have not said anything about killing them. Would you feel fine if someone tried to get the same job as you,even tho they have no education,put 0 efford into the job itself and are really just not suited for it? I mean you are in huge debt,cause you went to college for the degree,you stay overtime to make sure your job is done properly....and yet someone that has done nothing thinks they deserve it. Would you like the sugared version where I talk about personalities and how I neee…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 04:29 PM
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Ok first of all I dont live in America,so things are much better here. Also something to be considered,if its really important you have a woman in your life....move. Just leave America and move. You would literally live like a king in the smaller countries of Europe. If I was a 5 guy living in America I would bang prostitutes probably,if even half of what I read is true its not worth it to pursue a relationship there. Maybe go the sugardaddy route and just pay hot chicks to pretend to like me. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 04:24 PM
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And if you insist on going for the 8 then you should accept being called a creep. Its kinda pointless to whine if the guy is a 4 and goes for an 8. While your examples are correct,the guys I call creepy are exactly what I described. One of the dudes currently trying to hook up with me(even tho he knows my bf) is a skinny dude with extreamly bad teeth that showers once a week. The lines are not as blurred as people make them out to be,but he isnt attracted to his female equivalent so why should h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 03:11 PM
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I find it insulting to be honest. I work out,use light make up,have well fitting clothes,cut and style my hair,get my nails done....etc. I make sure I look at least presentable. And then an overweight dude,that hasnt showered in 4 days,with greasy unkept hair and awful clothes hits on me. Its insulting,cause I actually put effort in how I look,while he rolled out of bed. I get people cant choose who they are attracted to,but at least try to get close to the attractivness level of the girls you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 01:38 PM
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Purple,leaning Red. Female. INTJ. Not sure what learning by stories would mean. I dont like anecdotes, I pref facts. I suppose instructions sounds a lot more appealing then stories tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:34 PM
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From my own limited expirience women date older guys for money/security. And its still not a 20 year difference,more like 5. Saying this one of my closer friends is married to a guy 11 years older then her,she was happy and very attracted to him....he is now pushing 40 and while he does look good,he looks good for a 40 year old guy. For the past year she has been "in love" with our much younger collegue,he is about 3 years younger then her. He is very similar persobality and looks wise to her hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 03:24 PM
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27 female. 5 dudes and 2 women(not sure you care about them,but still)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 06:25 PM
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I dont want children and I wont marry ever....realisticly thats why I would need a man and shit. Being single have honestly been my happiest moments in life,its easy being single. There isnt another human being with their own issues and problems in your life. That said being in a relationship is hard,but fullfilling in its own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 06:23 PM
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No one taught me anything, but was also a nerd in high school and got no attention from guys. Weirdly I also had no interest in relationships. But I listened to my girlfriends and what they did and how guys reacted. I also watched what guys did and who they liked. So when I started dating around 19-20 I had no problems. I do think that if you make bad decisions in dating while young you create a toxic pattern for when you get older. From my own observations that has been true 100% of the time so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 10:39 AM
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Can you link me to anything about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 11:18 PM
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Because your room can be recognised and you can get doxxed right? And every single dude on TRP is some high level dude with a very unique and easily recigniseble body? Until someone gives me real reasons for why they are afraid of doxxing, that's a moot point that sounds just funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 11:06 PM
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It may largerly be filled with fat neckbeards as well. Or maybe 15 year olds jerking it to the stories? Hell it might be full of women. We would never know. So it's safer to not think of them as jacked pussy slayers as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 11:04 PM
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Usually people do post pics of their achievements and especially on a sub like TRP it's almost expected. When 99% of people don't show anything for all of their talk it's time to start doubting how true the FR are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 11:02 PM
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On what am I going that you are a person? Because that is the truth, those are the type of people in need of TRP. Why are all the reds fighting on silly things today? TRP by definion can't be full of Chads, cause they don't need TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 11:00 PM
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A hand full out of 100000 subscribers? Seems like only a hand full actually lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:55 PM
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He has not helped 100000,not even 1000 prob. So a lot is relative. If it's not public knowledge how do people know it's true? Is it cause TRPs said so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:45 PM
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You are one person, in general that's the type.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:41 PM
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We are not talking about the whole internet. TRP has a particular type of people going there. They lack a social circle, have not seen the inside of a gym, no style.... Those people need to help?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:39 PM
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Neither TRP or TBP are actually mainstream tho. Most of reddit doesn't even know about the pills. So 100 people whinned on the internet....yeah that never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:35 PM
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Is TRP not an online resource? I have seen multiple people from TRP say it's tough love and full of like minded individuals. So seems pretty reasonable to ask there instead of looking for yet another place. And really 99% of TRP never posts anything that could be considered proof of them actually putting in the work. Not a single guy needed any advice from the sub that involved a picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:34 PM
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It's military to game? Wow your military is rather different then ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:30 PM
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Yes and those people are supposedly confident alpha man that at no point from beta losers needed any help. They all had friends in real life to help them in the gym(even when they have never stepped into one before TRP) and they all took to lifting like a fish to water. Sounds plausible? How about the part where 99% of the sub doesn't post? If a few posters we're shy and had high profile jobs they we're worried about that would be pretty reasonable. But beta Billy working retail? Or random dude …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:29 PM
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Yes you are gonna be identified by your room. It's a very special room and almost every person on earth is a redditor that knows about the pills. Wait none of that is true. That's just a weak argument. Insecure people don't post on the internet, not in the way you mean. It is a validation thing yes, but to post requires you to not hate yourself. I would go as far as saying you gotta be confident. Yes I have a giant and rather unique side tattoo, that's why I never post my face. A lot of gonewild…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:14 PM
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Yes the TRP are usually the guys with huge social circles before finding TRP. They also have amazing social skills and a great physic....and why do they need the sub again? TRP is for people with pretty bad social skills and out of shape nerds, they read the materials and change. Except you see thousands of posts about the mental improvements they made and exactly zero about the physical ones. It's a lot more likely that they skip on the training or do it in reduced size. The only thing that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:09 PM
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You don't know much about Bulgaria clearly. Sorry I am way past my party stage at 27 and much prefer to stay in playing games. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:02 PM
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In Bulgaria?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 09:36 PM
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Doesn't have to be a face picture, the sub always advices on going to the gym. So why are there no fitness progress pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 09:30 PM
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It's midnight...I think I prefer being alive and inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 09:25 PM
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The chance is....nothing tho. Are you suggesting people can find out who you are from a shirtless pic of you? It's a bit silly that out of 100000 subscribers almost no one is proud of what they accomolished.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 09:01 PM
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No need to post your face or even tattoos that are rather memorable. My side tattoo is pretty damn memorable, but as long as I don't post my face it can not be proven it's me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:52 PM
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But there is no need to post a face pic for most of the things I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:50 PM
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It's not designed to influence women, come on. Do you think ignoring a men has a different effect then on a woman? How about kino? Dread game? They are gender neutral in a lot of cases, but women think differently then men. It doesn't even occur to a woman to use those things to gain control and most of them are submissive to a fault. But really I am not here to debate that. Same way you know it works for you. I tried it, it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:50 PM
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But I didn't say to post nudes. Or are you saying the content of TRP would be the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:30 PM
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Dude come on you are basicly proving my point. You are acting like an angry child. That's what you want people to think about TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:29 PM
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I don't know how to spell techniques. I am guessing that's more appropriate. And no worries I don't expect people to always understand what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:28 PM
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That's an easy one. Never link nudes to your face, you never know what kind of a job you may have in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:27 PM
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I have posted quiet a few pictures on Reddit and I live in a pretty backwards country.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:26 PM
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I didn't say he should post a video of fucking the chick, but it does bring a lot more credibility to what he says if his post history is full of his actual progress, of his journey if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:25 PM
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I am sorry that English isn't my first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:20 PM
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That's just a silly argument. Let's argue now that no one on reddit knows what a smart phone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:17 PM
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I am a woman and I use a few of the redpill tricks on men. Works as well as expected. I am not debating if it's successfully, but how much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:16 PM
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I intent to lose weight, but never take the action.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:15 PM
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But that is the whole point. There seems to hardly be any proof that people on TRP follow the books. One of the first things TRP teaches is lifting. And yet no fitness progress pics from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:13 PM
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He is hot, he knows it, he ain't shy. Sounds like what TRP advices. No need to post a dick pic even, a simple fitness progress should be useful on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 07:59 PM
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Suuuure. That's the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 07:56 PM
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So TRP does not say to become the best men you can be, to be the prize that women want, to not do it for pussy but for yourself? Those are all things frequently said on TRP and MRP. The more we talk the more I realise I am right. None of you are improving yourself then, but hoping to trick chicks into wanting you with a set of "tools"? Attraction can't be negotiated, that's said on TRP as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 07:55 PM
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He is physically hot. He has a top notch body.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 07:50 PM
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So TRP is not a self improvement sub? I thought getting chicks was secondary to becoming the best man you can be. So a simple fitness progress pic(no face needed) should actually be pretty common, with a question on what he should focus on now. How about a pic of what he wears in general with a question on how to get a better style? Those seem like pretty reasonable things in my eyes. So it has been done and no one remembers it and people keep saying only a couple of TRP dudes have posted pics. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 07:47 PM
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Riiiiight of course, the mighty doxxing threat. This is the usual excuse. It's a sub on how to improve yourself and be successfully with women....and yet zero guys post pics of their progress or even just pictures asking about style or a good hairdo. It's all just words. A simple picture of how your body looks after swalling the pill would motivate others and you can get advice on what to work on....and no one does it. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 07:35 PM
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If we go to a knitting group where everyone brags about how successfully their knitting projects are, how they have won a bunch of knitting competitions and how they run a super successfully knitting business.....but no one posts a single picture of their knitting it's safe to assume they are either average at it or bad. TRP claim to be above average after swallowing the pill, it is a sub for improving yourself.....and hardly any fitness progress pics, style help pictures....nothing. Rather stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 07:32 PM
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Johnny Depp for me, I have had a crush for the dude since I was 12 probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 07:06 PM
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That's why I doubt the pussy slayers of the RedPill sub, not even one posts any pictures of himself.....even tho they are all 10/10 Chads. I believe they are mostly average dudes with super exaggerated stories of fucking different 9/10 Stacys every night. They probably do have a lot more success, but the chicks are also a lot less hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 07:04 PM
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I literally can't find a single thing about kids appealing. Have never wanted one and would never have one, this is one of my deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:58 PM
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We are not discussing what's considered love tho. But what's "true" love, which is not something that could be proven with science as people can't even agree it's real. So I asked her if she would still love someone that completely changed and she switched it to a mothers love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:20 PM
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Thats a lot different then your first comment. Are you saying only "true" love is what a mother feels to her child?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 02:42 PM
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He would act completely differently, but hey if it helps that deep deep down he is the same person, then sure nothing changed. Ah so by "true" love you mean.....what exactly? Being able to cut off people from your life, but helping them if they really need it? Then I think that's where the misunderstanding came from. If "true" love existed then you should have no problems staying with those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 01:05 PM
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So if his personality did change a lot(say he found the redpill or a similar forum and started practicing what they said) you would still love him? It won't be the person you fell in love with at all. By what you say as long as someone was hot and with a personality you liked at the moment of meeting him you would stay with this person no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 12:56 PM
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You will love them just as much of they lost the personality that attracted you to them in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 12:39 PM
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In America yes. But it's not something they want, they just have no other choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 07:20 AM
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In my family my dad worked and did no chores and zero child rearing. My mom also worked full time, but did all the chores and all the child rearing. When I was much younger we had a discussion at school about chores and who does what at the house, I was excited to go home and share what I have learned. Boy was I in for a shock. I asked my dad why he does no chores and he said he does plenty, like when something breaks he fixes it. I agreed that's true, but told him my mom does her chores every s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 04:04 PM
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I have commented before about this. I agree there is no wage gap in America from what I have read. But it does exist in other parts of the world and feminism should actually fight for those places and not silly bullshit like how everything is rape...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 05:39 PM
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I have never heard of that. Here after two years the position becomes "free" in a way and they fire the chicks. But there are also no bumps in salary for specific people(there are a few exceptions to this), either everyone in the company gets a raise or no one. That's why I read your original comment as you thinking maternity pay should just be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 03:42 PM
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Here you get full pay for one year of maternity and then half pay for the second year. Six months is way too short in any case. Yes people should be able to support a family before having one, but maternity leave pay isn't a handout. The woman is literally giving birth to a new human.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 03:23 PM
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So 90% of people should not reproduce simply cause maternity leave pay is "silly"? Well yes that makes total sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 02:40 PM
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Ah I responded in the morning. Didn't read the comment too well. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 12:48 PM
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I don't understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 12:38 PM
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The husband makes more money? I don't really agree with that. If there was no attraction since the start you will hear the usual bullshit " I desire men I have known longer, let's wait for marriage before sex, I have just been stressed lately. " Attraction won't just appear out of nowhere, the man in this case would have to change significantly and this still doesn't mean his wife will want him. On the other point. So a man is happy as long as the wife is pretty. What happens when she gets older…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 06:52 AM
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A lot of dead bedrooms exist as well....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 06:31 AM
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She may value him, she may respect him....but she won't be sexually attracted to him. It would be duty, starfish sex so he stops bothering her with that shit. I want to be valued for both, duh. The initial attraction comes from my looks, then he gets to know me and my personality can be the thing to make him stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 06:12 AM
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Oh I am sorry, did you not read that SAHMs never existed where I live? My great grandma worked as an accountant, no one supported her thru shit. Even if we go with the American bullshit, things changed. If they we're perfect for everyone they wouldn't change. Everyone wants to be wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 06:10 AM
1

Where I live you can't survive on one income and part time is almost nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 06:05 AM
1

Should no one have kids then? Where I live people can't survive on a single income, so if the woman gets nothing when she leaves to have a kid....well they won't be able to afford having a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 03:43 PM
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Are you suggesting rich men are common now? Pretty sure even average Joe can waste 200$ for a hooked/sugar baby. But they aren't. Not to mention rich dudes fuck thanks to their status and rarely pay anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 02:49 PM
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Again if that was true, sugar relationships would be a lot more common. They aren't. No matter how unlucky guys are with women they don't want to pay for her to pretend to want them. So the scenario would be possible for a rather short amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 02:20 PM
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So they wouldn't want to be in this situation. Cause they can get it even now, get a sugar baby or a hooked and you are all set. Seeing as almost no one is jumping on that idea, it's clearly not something men desire. I am against marriage and there have never been SAHMs and the like where I live, women always made their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 02:02 PM
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Sooo you are saying most men would love not being sexually desired? Well that's news for me, but hey you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 01:25 PM
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That would make both genders miserable,so it wont stay. Yes more men would be able to get marriage (what the women would require in this situation) and we go back to what it was once upon a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 09:59 AM
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Would a man want to support a woman that isnt sexually attracted to him and is with him out of need?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 09:46 AM
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We dont have the welfare of the States, a single mom cant survive on welfare and there is no one that can make you pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 07:13 AM
2

Bald,ultra religious drug addicts? My god....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 02:03 PM
2

I think those are really reasonable criteria actually. The dating market where you live must be really fucking bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 01:51 PM
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I dont want any kids at all, I dont care they are his. Even 18 year olds are going to be in his life until the end. Hell I live in my countries capital so even for iniversity the kid is gonna live with us. I am also really not attracted to older guys. So far I am fine, I just worry my SO will decide he wants kids in a few years or that he is secretly thinking I would change my mind. I have told him from the begining that i will not change my mind about marriage and kids,so hopefully it works out…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 01:44 PM
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Missing a lot of the super awful shit pregnancy does to women. And then of course you have to actually spend 2 years with the child and almost no other social outlet. Your whole life becomes diapers and puke. I really just hate kids to be honest, dont have a valid reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 01:29 PM
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Its kind of expected of women to want kids tho. People in general want kids,which sucks for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 01:26 PM
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I think Bulgaria is slowly moving in the direction as well. I am noticing single mothers for the first time in my life, they are around 16-20. Younger people don't marry at all ( I agree with that one), but also slut it up a lot more( both genders).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 01:07 PM
3

I live in Bulgaria if it helps any. From simple observations that's what's happening here. I usually say between 30-35 they start wanting kids and ppl rarely have kids outside of marriage(it's more common with the younger generation now), there are very few divorces if any, so it's not a bad deal like in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 12:47 PM
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Where I live getting married and starting to pop out kids is the norm. It's extremely strange and uncommon I don't want even marriage. It has been fine so far, but I do date guys younger then me. When guys hit 30 they all of a sudden start proposing and marrying, that's what worries me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 11:58 AM
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Sign me up! He wants exactly what I want and would treat me as an equal. As long as we are both loyal I don't need a piece of paper and have never wanted it. I find kids....not something I would ever want, which does limit my options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 11:45 AM
1

A lot of really wrong assumptions actually. I am not interested in any of the dudes I talk about, I have so far had no problems getting the ones I do want. I do believe in some of what the RedPill teaches, but I use what I learn on guys. Works as well as it does to women. Not everything, but enough. The guys I am talking about are from my own social group, where maybe 2 of them wanted to commit to chicks they picked up. We have one Chad in the group, the rest go huge periods of time with nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 08:55 PM
1

I am a woman just so we are clear. So again I speak only from what I have seen. A lot of dudes don't want to commit in any way before late 20s, even if they can't get anyone else. I really can't comment on the mental state of the bottom 20%, but all of the dudes that can't get even one partner have some significant, but fixable, physical flaw. Bad skin, awful teeth, chubby/fat...that type of thing. The 5% that can't get anyone are people with disabilities/illnesses, I work as a rehabilitator and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 02:21 PM
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I am talking from simple observations, most guys don't have 2-4 new partners per year. Most guys can get into a LTR tho, but don't want that. Bottom is prob around 20%,but that's just lazy guys not putting in the work with maybe 5% that no matter what have no chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 01:55 PM
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While I understand and agree that this sounds like a good sex life, prob 80% of men will never have that. So it seems the expectations are rather unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 01:35 PM
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9 years seems a little long for dating before marriage. But around 30-35 seems to be when guys start wanting to settle down. So it's more likely that they meet their future wifes later in life. In general I was more curious what men consider a full filling sexual life....like having a partner every x amount of months. But it seems as if he can have a mix of LTR, ONS and FWB he would be happy. So it's about having choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 12:27 PM
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Am I to understand you got married at 24? I am sorry that's just what I got from your comment. From what I have seen almost no guy wants to marry this young tho. Which would mean the number has to go up the longer he wants to party. In general it seems the best strategy is to stick to LTRs and FWB, ONS seem to unreliable and it's literally sex one night, that won't really help with anyone's needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 12:05 PM
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What is a modestly succesfull love life tho? Is it being able to get LTRs or ONS? And how often really?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:44 AM
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100% true, I even ignore guys on dating sites that I consider too hot or out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 09:39 AM
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Short version: be a douchbag. Longer version is a lot more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 04:34 PM
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The % is higher for guys that are in relationships, but for guys that have a choice of a few women the % might be even lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:56 PM
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Sadly the RedPill works on all kinds of women. One of my friends is a really succesfull banker, she is very classy, very educated....she falls for the same tricks as the high school drop out in our social group. It doesn't work on all of them, but 80% is pretty good to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:50 PM
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Important of course, getting lady blue balls sucks. It's not like it's even hard to get me off. I have never had an ONS seems like a lose-lose situation for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:47 PM
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I always go Dutch, once we start dating we alternate who pays. When I was much younger I had a boyfriend that whenever we fought brought up how he pays for me....he meant buying me a 2 bucks soda once. I learned pretty damn fast that guys resent paying because a lot of women use them just for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 09:45 AM
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Injuries have to be healed if they happen, food has to be taken a bit more regularly. The women's skills are actually better then his right now. He prob does have some drive to survive, so he will break and keep helping, maybe rape one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 10:54 PM
1

Wait if one woman cooks and the other hunts pretty sure they both stop giving him shit. He is making one of them fuck him, the group would hate him. Raw meat still means he dies before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 10:37 PM
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The argument is that Mike doesn't wanna survive basicly. Really we can go all dark and the group can torture him or try to make it on their own. The thing is Mike isnt offering anything extra for the sex. If the women say yes to sex, but stop feeding him he still loses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 10:35 PM
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Let's say their skills are getting food for the group. Chances are Mike will need food before they need a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 10:32 PM
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Wait you said all four have cool skills, guessing the womens skill isn't fucking. So he stops healing them, can't they stop doing their thing as well? Sex is like a bonus in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 10:26 PM
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You are arguing nothing. I am saying a certain person is this number according to me. Maybe my threshold for sex is a 6,same as your scale of who is fuckable. Your scale is true only for yourself and it's a lot more vague then mine. Instead of numbers you put words and think it different. That's your fancy argument. Anyways I am done as this is pointless and you are arguing the same thing in another thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:10 PM
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I don't know how that would even be measured, but it's pretty simple when you talk to an American and then to a Russian person. At least to me the difference is pretty big. You just agreed that the higher the number the better. Doesn't matter if it's not by much, could be better by 0.0001%...that's still better. Maybe being average and fat is again an American thing, here people are chubby and rarely straight up fat. I have prob seen only a few obese people and they had medical reasons for it. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:46 PM
1

My mom had exactly one extremely awkward conversation with me about periods and growing up. Nothing about sex or how to protect myself. Then Always came to my school and gave us like a lesson/advertise of their product, was a great lecture and I learned a lot. Still nothing about sex. I can't exactly remember where I learned how things happened, but I have never been confused about how it works and the dangers that come with sex. Probably the internet as I was glued to my computer back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:08 PM
1

You want research on how people in Bulgaria don't care about fee fees? I do hope you are aware all of those bullshit laws to protect everyone's sensibilities are mostly an American thing. Dude you are missing the point. The true rating will always be the one where more people rate. Could be a 1000 or 10000,do you believe that the rating of a 100 people is more accurate then that of a 10000 people? Make Johnny Depp not famous, but what's with the rotten teeth thing? Do average people have rotten …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:01 PM
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The only TRUE number is always going to be if every single human being on Earth rated someone. There is no arguing that. A random 100 people rating may get you closer to the TRUE number, but it won't be. I also don't live in America where my fee fees have to be protected, people here are pretty outspoken and don't just lie to not hurt you. Ugh can you stop with the condensending attitude? I don't do maybe closer to real number, cause 100 randos said that's his rating. Either everyone gets a say …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 07:07 PM
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It's all pointless. I can consider someone whatever number I want....because I am rating them on how attractive I find them. My friends reactions to this person would help in determining if I am super out of touch with reality. They can also rate someone on how attractive they find him. But there is a chance that the person is unlucky and does get rated an 8 by one set of a 100 people and then a 3 by another set. The only true way is to ask every single person on Earth to rate him. You either do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:49 PM
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Sadly the 10/10 have awful personalities so I would stay away. I would prob go for an 8 at least tho. If I was a 2 I would prob be able to date up at least a couple of points, so imma be pretty save.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:36 PM
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So we are all between 4-6 now. Slowly you are using more numbers in this extremely pointless discussion on semantics. So if a 100 people rate someone a 8(impossible cause we are all between 4-6) ,but then the next 100 people rate him a 3...we average it out again? Only way you can get a real number is if every single human on Earth rates this person and then you average it out. Seeing as that's impossible, I think it's pretty OK for me to rate people on how I perceive them and how my friends per…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:29 PM
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Yeeeep, hasn't fucked in at least a year. I know with a 100% certainty lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:58 PM
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I am not assigning anything to you lol. Was just explaining, because AF/BB is an RP term and most of them think it's bad. Your whole point is that women don't do it at the same time? In many cases women do have steady bf and cheat on the side, as you can see there are some responses on your new thread confirming it. Not to mention that a successfully guy won't even get into an LTR while he is young, as long as he can fuck as much as he wants. In the end we all go for stable partners after hormon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:57 PM
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If we are all 4-5,by the way you are using numbers which should be meaningless, then attractiveness shouldn't matter. We are all the same amount of attractive. Who would decide on the attractiveness of other people? You just said it's impossible. Are we gonna have 100 people decide on the score of attractiveness of another person? How are they qualified? Are we just picking an average from all of their scores?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:45 PM
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I don't think you really dated anyone if you had side pieces, but that's just me. The idea is you didn't commit to those women and instead picked a stable partner to have a family with. Literally what women do. Is the problem that the women weren't dating nice guys, while banging Chad on the side? Cause that seems pretty shitty. Yes AF/BB is a strategy, it's neither good or bad. Except RP is adamant it's bad and women are awful for doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:41 PM
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That would be me. But you should have just asked for the reasons women cheat, instead of giving the answer in such a way....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:37 PM
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I don't cry in general, hate sweet things and I am a pretty balanced human being. When my period hits I start crying at fucking commercials man, I crave chocolate even tho I find the taste so gross and in general my temper shortens. I am emotional and hormonal, thankfully it happens for about 2 days every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:34 PM
1

You will ask women about cheating? I think we both know they will lie and say they have never cheated. If they do admit it, it would involve the words "my ex abused me" or some similar shit. What are the difference? If you date the party girl you never plan to marry in your 20s and then marry a low n-count church girl, you are doing the male equivalent of AF/BB. You are not less sexually attracted to your wife and you haven't settled for her, you were just looking for someone to have a family wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:28 PM
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It's pointless to judge people on their attractiveness? No one can decide if anyone is attractive? So we are all the same, attractiveness wise? Then why don't people date the first person that appears with a personality they like? Why does it even matter how you look?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:24 PM
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Where is your proof of that? Maybe in America you have completely different women, but here cheating is just that....cheating. So far exactly zero chicks have cheated and left their current SO, from my social circle at least. Same for the men as well, none of them leave something "safe" to go try their luck with someone new. It's a lot easier to just fuck on the side. The men seek sexual relief and just a different chick to fuck, the women wanted validation basicly. I used AF/BB to show it's a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:07 PM
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It's my opinion about my own attractiveness as well. What is the point of your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:00 PM
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That's a pointless statement. Just because you said something it doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 03:49 PM
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Clearly something is different if your past girlfriends couldn't hold you down for more then a few months. You can use the same argument for when women cheat, as long as she just wants a side piece. We all get bored. Pointless to put a new name on the same thing in the vain hope of making it different. People are pretty similar in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 03:19 PM
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Both of the chicks with the thousand demands have no boyfriends, haven't had a serious relationship in years. I don't think they can afford being so picky. I am not really on board with being super greedy and always looking for the newer model, the best looking guy/girl, the richest guy. When you really get down to it I find most people to be pretty similar to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 01:52 PM
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My bf is around that range, I have realistic expectations for life. I am not a 10,so I don't go for 10s. I am sexually attracted to him and he is pretty cool. I understand a 10 chick to want a 10 guy tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:59 AM
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I watch porn, prob too much of it and it has never made me think I deserve better. I won't touch a romance anything, so moot point here. People just have to be aware of what they bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:52 AM
2

OK so do you agree that 6-7 would be decent looking? And 8 and above being good looking/hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:51 AM
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I live in Bulgaria and I observe the same things. Refugees here are second class people and even worse, they live in small camp-like places and people are scared of them. No one is running off to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:50 AM
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Isn't decent looking basicly not hot and not ugly? Or maybe like a 6-7?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:43 AM
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Behaviour of course, I ignore the whole hate women part. Nope, has been proven right in the many years I have known her. She is almost always single, no matter how much of a "Chad" is trying to hook up with her. And she is into alpha man, just a very particular kind one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:02 AM
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Shockingly it was my girlfriends that made me believe in the redpill more. They all have really long lists and a lot of the "criteria" is downright ridiculous. Hell one of them won't date anyone that doesn't listen to the kind of music she enjoys, right down to exactly which bands he is supposed to enjoy. He should look like he listens to that music and be super tall....and a ton of such silly things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:57 AM
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Settle for someone that looks good, shares your interests and won't emberass you? Settling sounds awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:54 AM
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Oh I am sorry I thought you were the guy I responded to, my bad. That's what I don't like about the RedPill, lots of fancy names for the same thing. By AF/BB I mostly mean the whole thing with fucking alphas in their youth and then settling down with betas. Which is literally what the dude did. Both genders do it, it's nothing special and it's mostly pointless to discuss. The genders go after different things in their AF/BB, but again both date different people for different things. You won't da…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:52 AM
5

So you fucked around, cheated and tried new sexual things when younger and when you got older to picked someone that's good for a long term monogamous relationship? Yep sounds very different ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:06 AM
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That's American women tho, most other women live without all those things and have no problems at all. So it isn't female nature, it's American laws/society that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 07:29 AM
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Isn't what you are doing basicly AF/BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 07:12 AM
1

Eh he is a good dude, I think you two would get along great.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 07:10 AM
1

The biggest player I know is a huge nerd like me, super into games/comic books and shit. He is also extremely jacked and looks great tbh. When he isn't gaming a chick he is rather quiet and forgettable kind of guy, a little bitchy/whinney as well. And then he sets his sights on a chick and it's like a switch turning, he is completely different. Super charming, funny, the center of attention of the whole party, applys such amazing subtle kino. Pretty sure he reads redpill as well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 06:15 PM
1

Chick of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 01:58 PM
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So one of my friends was "dating" this dude for about 2 months, maybe less. Her birthday comes up and he buys are a super expensive watch, it costs as much as my salary for the month. I was shocked, but then the night progressed. He was hitting on chicks on Tinder right there, on her birthday, in plain view of me. He saw that I have seen him and winked at me, as if it was our secret. I told her. She didn't dump him, but shared it wasn't the first time she has caught him cheating....in a two mont…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 12:47 PM
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Those are not average man. Hell I go to Serbia at least once a month and don't see such "average" man walking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 06:10 AM
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But not enough to fuck every few days as you say. You also have to consider that bars/clubs are pretty empty during the work week. So I will have to do most of my game on the weekends. I will also need to do some chores/eat/sleep. I have completely ignored meeting friends/family or actually doing some hobbies just for enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 09:51 PM
1

I am a woman, I have 3 spare hours each day during the work week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 09:47 PM
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Each day I have 3 hours to spare yes. I don't see how that's a shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 09:46 PM
3

Apperantly according to PPD. All man have only free time and just lack the motivation to fuck a ton of chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 09:43 PM
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My spare time is maybe 3 hours a day during the work week. I highly doubt 3 hours would be enough. It's possible if you are a rich bastard that doesn't have to work, has no hobbies or friends or any family obligation. So its possible to work for a very tiny amount of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 09:42 PM
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How would those people survive if they just devote to chasing pussy 24/7? Don't they have a job or school? Or you know just a normal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 09:28 PM
1

Eh as I am looking for LTRs that's good for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 08:16 PM
1

Pretty much that. My average friends have a couple of LTRs and a couple of casual hook ups. Some of them are alone for years, but usually the ones that never could get a relationship. The others are sometimes alone for a lot of months and then settle for low value much younger women(I know that sounds great, but it really really isn't). I don't believe in the 80-20 exactly. I do believe a really small % of men get most of the casual sex, but not all the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 08:04 PM
1

I literally am agreeing with you. Do you even realise this or are you too far up your "woman bad" bullshit"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 07:47 PM
1

So if both of them work and neither pays for the other, the guy is automatically Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 07:42 PM
3

Then maybe he shouldn't cheat? Novel idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 07:41 PM
1

OK break it down for me. He starts having relationships at like 20. He has a few, even if they are only one year long(which is nothing), he would be like 25 at least. Throw in a few ONS every couple of months and he may go around 27. So then he starts his multi year dry spell? This is the best case scenario for you. But usually LTRs are a lot longer then 1 year and there is some down time between them. So he would be closer to 35 without a stable relationship and wanting to keep on dating around…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 05:05 PM
1

When what ends?? That after they fuck around and date around when they are young, no one wants them when they are 40 year old trying to still do the same? So there is a wall for guys as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 04:39 PM
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I live in the capital city of my country and I am a woman. So the dude I talk about in my comment is not a player? He had a completely new, young and hot chick every couple of months. You are saying that if he had literally no standards he can hook up with a different chick every day. The hook up culture is not a thing here and we lack an obesity epidemic, but I can kind of see your point. For him tho and he is not average at all. He is an ex-model for fucks sake. My average friends don't have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 12:53 PM
1

Yes, but an LTR isn't a month long. So if they had multiple LTRs and some ONS, when did they get the time to be alone? The math doesn't add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 12:49 PM
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Hahahhahah 2 new women a month?! I am in an alternative reality now. The biggest player I know fucks a new chick every 2 months or so. And sometimes he has had a dry spell lasting more then 6 months. This claim is just absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 03:37 PM
2

This is so true. Have an upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 09:54 AM
1

If they have a relatively high n-count and do LTRs.....and yet go on huge periods of time with nothing.....how old are they? Cause it seems they would have to be pretty old at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 09:33 AM
2

I love fit guys and I am fit as well and yet every time I actually say I prefer that the guy calls me shallow. Guess there is no winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 09:05 AM
1

Not an emotion really and I have always been in LTRs, but at some point me not wanting children/marriage becomes a problem. I am always upfront about it and yet they all expect I will change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 07:52 AM
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At least here, adoption is always a bad decision. Almost all of the children(95%) have some kind of a disability, mental or physical, a lot of the parents can actually keep their parental rights, even if they leave the child for adoption. So you have to go thru a huge court battle to maybe be allowed to adopt the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 07:45 AM
1

Um when I was a virgin my boyfriend at the time waited like a year. I was insecure and scared and shit. I think it's prob normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 03:11 PM
1

That's how I flirt with guys(excepting picking them up of course), does that mean I treat them as children?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 07:58 AM
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Ugh you are on to something, but missing some key elements. If the other woman is uglier then me and he is flirting back it actually makes him even less desirable. If the dude is low value, even a chick flirting with him won't won't be enough. Other then that I have felt something like curiosity/jealousy when a dude was being flirten with in our group. It passed rather quickly, but I did watch him for the rest of the night to see what he does with the chick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 09:26 PM
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The most Alpha guy I know literally changes women every 2-3 weeks. I have never seen him "date" anyone for longer then a month. You would think he is happy. And yet he is not the one doing the dumping in most cases, he wants a stable long term relationship, but none of the chicks want that with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 06:30 AM
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He is saying that women don't use their degrees so it's pointless for them to get one. Then says except some women. That would imply that every guy uses his, which is really not true. How would he know that the people he allows to get degrees are gonna use them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 04:45 AM
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But how will you know each individual person is going to use the degrees they earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:50 PM
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I am more curious how he will know which men and which women will use their degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 08:30 AM
1

What does genetic make up closer to mine even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 07:00 AM
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I think every culture evolved with the need to breast feed...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 06:55 AM
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Would I set up an ex with one of my female friends? Why would I do that? We have broken up so clearly he isn't a perfect human being. You are basicly asking if I hate my female friends and want them to suffer. Won't even go into the whole part where I wouldn never date the ex of a friend, it kinda feels like getting sloppy seconds. I know it's not logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 06:14 AM
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We are now a help sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:48 PM
2

And I just said that. Women don't have superhuman abilities. The men are just unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:18 PM
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So your whole post is that women don't want you cause you are ugly/autistic. It has nothing to do with any superhuman ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:11 PM
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I do believe men prefer younger, feminine women without children in most cases. I also know for a fact that if they meet an older, tattooed single mother with a good personality they will prob wife her up. Personality is important in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:08 PM
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Most women really can't tell. There are a few that can somehow screen for douchbags, but most women really can't. The harsh truth is you are either autistic or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:06 PM
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But this sub shows a minority, you will prob never even meet one of those men in your life. I like the sub for the simple reason it shows you what men/women really think. It probably has more to do with them being rejected harshly in their youth by attractive females and they started to believe it was the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:01 PM
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Wouldn't that just make it so only the super hot and genetically gifted men get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:53 PM
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Sorry that happened to you. I have had men yell out random shit at me, but I really don't count it as harassment. The things are usually sexual and I give them no mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:50 PM
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OK I have not seen that as well. I don't really have super unattractive female friends, but generally no one stops you on the street to insult you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:42 PM
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I can't really agree or disagree with this. I don't live in America so I will take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:29 PM
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What a strange question. Like did I ever randomly notice an unattractive male on the street and stopped to harass him? Well shockingly no. I really don't notice those guys, so if they don't go out of their way to talk to me they are invisible to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:27 PM
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That prob has a lot to do with their religion tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 01:17 PM
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Ah yes UK and France seemed rather accepting when I visited.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:49 AM
1

Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:49 AM
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Every person has to decide for themselves how important dating is for them. And sadly make sacrifices, no one is gonna love you as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:48 AM
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Can't help them there. Same way I was ignored by people when I was younger, made me change. Always a positive in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:47 AM
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Bulgaria. And yes, it's not even a hidden thing. If your skin tone is slightly darker people immediately assume you are a gypsy. I am extremely pale, so it has never been towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:46 AM
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Eh at least I am not mean to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:43 AM
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I don't know man, in my country being even a little mixed is a dead sentance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:42 AM
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Can't say I even notice them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:35 AM
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Nah, never had one of those. Told you, ego is too big. He looks young, I am really into younger guys. He has pretty good hair and an amazing body.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:58 PM
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It means hot people win at life. My ego is way too big to allow anyone to talk to me like that. If he was cool tho he would totally get my number.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:24 PM
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They believe that it's the guys job. I have had a lot of discussions with them about this, one refuses to even call the guy first. All in all my country is a lot more "traditional" then America, so it's a popular belief that guys have to lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:07 PM
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Could be possible, they really don't approach. The thing is the quality of men is worse, even if the women approach the men, quality won't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:37 PM
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OK so I am gonna be 28 in a few months and all of my female friends are around the same age. It's all over the board tbh, from easily finding relationships to pump and dumps and to being alone for years at a time. The quality of men has mostly dropped from what I can observe, but not the quantity. I don't think it matters how old my female friends have become and mostly that they date guys only a few years older then themselfs. As they get older they date older guys. Most guys past 30 fall into …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:13 PM
1

I am bi, if anything I pay more attention to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:27 AM
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Get in shape, shave his head(duh), dress well....work on himself basicly. But really change his personality and kind of realise what his league is I suppose. If all else fails and he still wants a relationship there is always paying some chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:08 AM
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I kind of agree here. In my country most women are skinny or at worse chubby....most dudes are really really out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:02 AM
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Of course some things can't be changed....but there are also a ton that can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:01 AM
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It's so much easier to whine and do nothing then to actually change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:30 AM
2

My dad passed away last year, but if he didn't they would still be together. PurplePill leaning Red.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 08:20 PM
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My dad was Chad for sure and my mom was a redpillwife in essence. They didn't divorce, as divorce is extremely rare in my country. I caught my dad cheating when I was 10,he never knew. I lost all respect for him. My mom had a full time job, did all the chores and she rised me and my sister more or less alone. This all taught me that no matter how much my mom did for my dad, it was never enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 08:03 PM
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Some women do it, some dudes bitch on internet forums. No one said all dudes bitch on RP and no one said all women bitch on girl nights.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:20 PM
1

It would suck indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:18 PM
1

Of course not. Men watch it way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:17 PM
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I watch it daily(yes yes I know it's bad) and I have never been into the artsy bullshit. I am into pretty extream stuff at this point or just something different...normal old vanila porn never did it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:17 PM
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I am into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:12 PM
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Ugh isn't that like online dating? Mostly dudes tell you they wanna fuck you and 99% of those offers are rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:10 PM
1

You just don't have a reply for what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:51 AM
1

Most men can pay for platonic convos if they wanted, but they don't. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 04:34 AM
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Those who want to pay for Platonic convos can totally do that. The point is most women don't want hook ups. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:19 PM
0

Whatever man. Stay fat if it makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:59 PM
1

How come the obesity epidemic is mostly in America? Weird it's the place where fat acceptance is a thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:57 PM
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It's super strange how I don't see fat acceptance movements outside of America...most people aren't actually fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:55 PM
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It's not moralizing. It's counterproductive to enable fat people to keep on being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:54 PM
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Are you suggesting I play a guessing game with you? I do not know you or your life story. I am telling you it isn't from the autism, take it from someone that works with way worse cases of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:52 PM
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Shouldn't fat people want to stop being fat? Catering to them and accepting them sounds counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:50 PM
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You want the whole package in a woman, why should she settle for less? You either accept your standarts are way too high to be realistic or you make up for your inabilties in some other way. Could be paying her/spoiling her or could be cosmetic surgery for you or you could actually go and find out where your obsession comes from, cause it ain't the autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:46 PM
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But you aren't hot. She is hot and with a great personality, you only have your personality. So you gotta make up for that in some way. Autism may contribute in a really small way here. It usually makes you obssess over exact things, especially in more severe cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:38 PM
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But she doesn't get that from you. You care for how she looks, as per your post of meeting super nice, but not hot chicks. BTW I work with a lot of people with autism, this is actually part of what I have studied. You aren't fixating on hot chicks cause of autism :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:28 PM
1

Then pay her. Like a sugar relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:21 PM
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I agree with this 100%,but realisticly PPD is discussing American problems and not society ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:57 PM
1

It was their loss then for not noticing it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:06 PM
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Would have been rather strange if you got comments on your boobs to be honest. Hey I have never even met a red neck, so I guess we are even.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:02 PM
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I have been there and it wasn't all that impressive. Most whiney guys are American so...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:57 PM
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You immediately assumed, speaks volumes. Have seen plenty as well, so hey fellow traveler.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:50 PM
2

Yeeeep world is so much bigger then America.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:34 PM
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I finished school at around 6pm and was home around 7pm. It was already dark out and for fucks sake I live on the Balkans, people drink a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:32 PM
2

So one thing that happened 30 years ago in one country? Well yes then that proves it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:24 PM
2

And again that doesn't happen in most places that aren't America.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:16 PM
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4am?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:15 PM
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Cause she can, she got a fine and kept her job lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 10:30 AM
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It's a government job, we are rehabilitators. That's what I meant by similar work experience, they have been working for almost the same amount of years. Here they calculate how many years you have worked and add it to your paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 09:36 AM
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And again the world is actually a lot bigger then America. I have already said before, but maybe feminism is useless in America, but it is needed in other places. If in the near future I get equal wages as men I would agree, but not before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 09:02 AM
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Same position, same education. One of the women actually had more education in the form of expensive courses then the others. They all have similar work experience, but that's actually calculated here. The woman was getting payed a lot less then the men and at that time she was the only female with comparative work experience to the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 08:56 AM
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There is literally a new discussion right now about the wage gap in America and a lot of comments say feminism is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 08:54 AM
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I agree with you. I was around that age when two drunken guys stopped me to tell me how they will fuck me. I was coming home from school for fucks sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 05:04 AM
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You are missing the point. That would be all the messages you get. People wouldn't know if you have the money, they will just ask for them. You get nothing out of it. That's online dating for most women. Sure some hook up with guys and some get money from dudes online. It's not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:46 AM
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Around my SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:39 AM
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It's fine, I understand we are supposed to fight our own battles. But it's kind of annoying when every post talks about how feminism is useless at this point, it very well may be in America, but not in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 07:54 PM
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It's a government job. And I gave it as an example, it's actually pretty common here. Feminism apperantly won in America and it focused on retarded things, fuck the rest of the world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 07:45 PM
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Irrelevant. Some chicks do it, some men bitch on RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 07:33 PM
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Oh I wasn't clear. Girl nights usually start with a complain towards a particular dude and end with "all men". Can't say women are bitter about it, but that is what's being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 07:06 PM
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So some men on forums do this and some women in real life do this. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 06:56 PM
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She payed the females less,in the same position as males. She is still my boss as well. Court made her pay a fine and thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:43 PM
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Wage gap exists outside of America. My female boss just lost 6 cases in court because she paid a lot less to females. I really hope people realise that feminism isn't just about America...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:16 PM
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Ugh not like girl nights are different. We all bitch about our boyfriends/husbands/hook ups. Women use a much harsher language when they are unhappy with men. Is the difference that they don't do it on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:13 PM
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Marriage isn't losing popularity just in America, but in my parents generation there were barely any divorces. Hell when I hear how some chick or dude has had 2 divorces by the age of 25 I know that's in America. So if it isn't divorce, how come people still don't wanna marry in the rest of the world.?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:09 PM
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Soooo of most couples do it...we are arguing for the minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:46 PM
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Well of course, they didn't keep me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:05 PM
1

Waiting on it to happen!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 02:33 PM
2

No really need a short version.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 01:12 PM
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Need the short version. Don't respond like a chick tho, looks>personality when it comes to men choosing women. All of my exs downgraded after me and kept trying to make me take them back, it's a great ego boost. I am guessing men feel the same way when their ex gets an uglier dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 12:53 PM
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Jealous her ex is hitting on someone way less attractive then her? I would be fucking overjoyed, means I was the best he could get and now he settles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 08:38 AM
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So I have always been attracted to the same type and always date guys pretty similar to each other. On the other hand my best friend had a huge list of what her man has to look like, act like, what his career has to be, etc. The fun part is she has fucked a ton of dudes that meet 0 of her criteria and she always gets hung up on those dudes. The guys that mostly meet her "ideal partner"? She almost never dates them or sleeps with them. It's possible she is just one woman like that....except most …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 08:28 AM
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Women like good sex. Good sex doesn't happen in random hook ups. Women get offered random hook ups. So you love getting messages from people asking for money? They will not give you anything for the money, they will just take them. We both know what you say isn't true. It's not validating to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:49 AM
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Live in Europe? I would hope that's evidence enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:18 PM
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So you are debating it's at least as bad as in America, but can't find any prove easily. The list of slights you had for American men... this doesn't happen anywhere else. If it does happen it's on a much smaller scale and only a couple of things from your list. So Europe is either two developed countries with exactly one law you find bad or it's Muslim countries? There are many Christian countries and if it's worse for men here you would have no trouble finding some prove. Why you mentioned Afr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:08 PM
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So the only law you found is in only two countries in Europe. Can you find a list like you did for America? And possibly for more then two countries. So far you are prooving that the problems discussed on PPD are American problems, not society ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 01:49 PM
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Go on then. Worse to men of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 01:12 PM
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But that makes it an American problem, not a society problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 12:43 PM
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He is fixing them both,but he isnt thinking they are equally serious. Noone is taking them equally seriously. They are both taken as seriously as the problem warrants,finger can be like a 2/10 and cancer 8/10,if it helps putting numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:41 AM
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So in fantasy land the doctor perceives them as equally serious. You know I act with children in the same way,pretend the issue is as serious as they believe it. It is not and of course I dont actually believe it is serious. We live in a society where people just whine about everything and we all pretend the small insignificant issues people have are super legit and important,just so no fee fees are hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 03:59 PM
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He is not taking him equally as seriously as the cancer patient. Getting treatment when sick does not mean equal seriousness of the illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 03:49 PM
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He will be taken less seriously of course. Its not a serious injury/illness. Should a broken pinky get half the staff of the hospital just so they can feel their injury is just as important as cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 02:30 PM
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Equally as seriously? You are saying someone whinning over a broken finger should be treated equally as seriously as a cancer patient? Of course they will get different treatments,but they are not equally serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 02:19 PM
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You are trying to derail this into a different discussion about how often it happens. Its pointless to spam this thread with such information. You are assuming I call you a virgin,everyone has something they are insecure about. You would feel insulted if anyone insulted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:52 PM
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My comment would be so unpopular,but I enjoy the attention as long as it stays online. Dont need randos fucking up my daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:50 PM
1

So you take a person with a broken pinky as seriously as a person that has cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:48 PM
1

They dont need as much help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:46 PM
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If I only insult you sometimes instead of all the time,would you not feel insulted? The point of the discussion is that women are insulted for being called a slut,simply cause slut is an insult. No one is insulted when you tell them their make up is on point,because its not insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:45 PM
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I think I meant slut shaming in that comment,but I am on mobile right now. Realisticly slut is used as an insult to women and virgin is an insult to men. The point isnt how often you have seen it happen,just that its insulting and people are insulted by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:23 PM
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Yeah I hope to become extreamly rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 11:00 AM
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All people are shitty,dont know why everyone is still shocked about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:53 AM
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Most people can spot shitty women and yet RP is full of divorce raped men. Its easy tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:51 AM
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So religious people dont shame it. Hippies didnt shame sluts. Prob most tribes dont care about that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:50 AM
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Do you like it? Are you gonna give money to random chicks? Women feel the same way about all the sex messeges.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:49 AM
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After certain age to be a virgin is insulting. And again neither word in itself is an insult,but society made them so. I dont see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:58 PM
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If I call a dude a virgin he will get offended,cause he himself knows its bad,if it wasnt he wouldnt be offended. The word "slut" isnt bad,the word "virgin" isnt bad,but society has made both into insults. So of course a person will be offended when you insult them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:26 PM
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Cant return the sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:21 PM
1

I will go with sarcasm on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:56 PM
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What if she dates a nerd guy and he beats her? You cant tell what kind of a person someone is simply by how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:48 PM
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God dont I know the feeling,Bulgaria was a big country,a real power at some point. Now its full of corruption and thiefs. No one will care tho,for the history or greatness of either country.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:41 PM
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Thats the problem,but if the robots are realistic enough and can fake at least some emotions it could work for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:40 PM
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Because the incel dude was saying its not only about sex,then proceeded to list a sexual relationship where he is desired. I simply pointed out they really only care for sex and sexual validation and not personality. If robots could validate them somehow,even having 0 personality,they would gladly fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:22 PM
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It matters if you let it. Embrace it without being emberassed about it and literally noone would give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:18 PM
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Yes men want sexual validation/attention and thats what they offer women. Women want someone that loves their personality so they offer friendship. My point was that sex robots wont work not because they lack a personality(men dont care),but because it will bring them no validation to fuck a machine that doesnt desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:16 PM
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I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:09 PM
1

Then change your life and not some randos. Your country does not define you,trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:09 PM
1

Thats pretty shitty I agree. Well you are a better person then me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:19 PM
1

There is literally no wellfare in your country? May I ask which country that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:02 PM
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Ugh just go and reread the comments. Mine is a response to another one. I am not for sex robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:02 PM
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I mean that the jobs are stable. Country is shit,so thats why I travel. Best case scenario would still mean you prob retire in your 50s. And all of that so you can help people that dont even have the motivation to help themselfs. I have no motivation to help the entitled people waiting on a miracle. I work as a rehabilitator with disabeled people,mostly children. They deserve help,its not their fault they were born like that. But people living in slums are 90% drug addicts living off of welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 11:43 AM
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I am on mobile,but my comment was literally one sentance in which I said personality doesnt matter. You responded to it by saying I wouldnt know cause I am hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 11:18 AM
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You can imagine old age,then what do you think your thought would be like? "I lived a fullfilling life of no regrets" or "I worked like crazy for all of that cash,but I am not old and tired so I wanna just stay infront of the TV". I realise we all get old,but we also only get one chance at this whole life thing. I would be kinda mad if I saw only the inside of my office for most of my life. It will kind of not be worth it. So that you dont think I am some silly lil girl I am already putting smal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 11:16 AM
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I am sorry I am going to say this,as I am not a native speaker as well,but I cant understand anything you said. It seems as if it went thru google translate. I will try to respond to what I think you said. Men and women are simply different,of course you love your gfs personality,but thats not what made you like her in the first place. Hell if she and a much hotter girl both wanted you,personality goes out the window. Women give some more leeway here. By lazy I dont mean just people that dont wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 11:09 AM
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I already mentioned my lack of interest in money? I make decent money where I can support myself,in a hard job that I love. Of course I can find a different,less fullfilling job and be miserable for the next 40 years just so I can have money that at 70 i wont have anything to spend on. I pref to travel and make memories while I am still young,instead of when I will be forgetting my own name. The chance of me actually retireing is slim to none. With the rate of makeing the age of retirment higher…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:57 AM
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Thats normal where I live and even bulgarians are payed trash money with the age of retirement being pushed higher and higher. I think its like 70 for men right now. No one can live off of their pensions and people keep working until they are literally too old to function. So you cant make money working a normal job? Finishing a course/education so you can work in a high paying position? You sound young,but you are also trying to just make quick money. As I said only risks I can think off is try…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:35 AM
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Yes! So I was being unclear,I need to practice English some more. If you are fat and decide to turn your life around and get in shape,does it involve the kind of risk I talk about? How about to stop smoking,drinking and taking drugs? Maybe change yourself to be more outgoing and social? None of those involve risk. Making quick money involves risk and if thats your jam more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:26 AM
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Hook up culture is still a mostly American thing,with really young people picking it up here as well. Its not a thing with older people,but pumps and dumps have happened way before Red Pill was even a thing. You would be wrong on all accounts,cause you presume I am single. What I stated was that its hard to find quality man,I realise I wasnt very clear about that. The same way there is female nature,there is also male nature. I take both genders for what they are. I have also been really happy i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:05 AM
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Can I just use the classic RP defence and say people lie on surveys? Or maybe the more fun part of the world is not made of the USA? Pump and dumps would not be considered relationships tho. They would be a one time thing,that almost no one would admit to doing. Would you consider people taking measured risks with low rates of failiuer,scared to fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:46 AM
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He did. America isnt the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:31 AM
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I am 27,waaay past the party scene and college. Its the nature of things. Neither men nor women are perfect lil angels. Thats just a lot of pointless words thrown together to sound wise. Even in bussiness a person can take small measured risks and slowly succeed. He can also take huge risks,succeed faster a few times and then lose it all. Its always smarter to play safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:30 AM
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Not an internet thing,it happens a lot more then you would expect. Its not fear of failiure,its a desire for winning. I do not like to lose and I do minimise risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:21 AM
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Then fucking prostitues should be the go to for all incels,but its not. Cause paying for sex doesnt make you feel wanted....cause you are not. Oh yes Bulgaria the wealthiest country in the world. Its quiet possible I relate badly to men,but so far I have never went thru the fun things like being pumped and dumped,being cheated on or actually being broken up with. So imma stick with my ignorance <sup>_</sup>^
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:14 AM
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That is my point tho,men dont appreciate women for their personality and thats what a woman wants. A men wants to be appreciated as a sexual being,so being friends is useless to him. I do not support lazy people,no matter the gender. I know people hate leagues,but they exist. I am not attracted to fat people,so I work out a ton to attract fit people. Trust me I am way more harsh towards my female friends and their expectations,as I said dating is harder for dudes. This whole "support me for this…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:04 AM
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I am dating a guy I find attractive,he is 5'7(get away tall guys),he is fit,has a great job. Took forever to find him and a lot of luck was prob involved. You responded to my comment,so thats why I thought you had a problem with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:55 AM
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Men have no trouble being orbiters and being appreciated for their personality,but thats not what they want. So you agree with me and I dont understand while we are even having this discussion,cause thats what I commented. I am sorry that as a person that works out 5 days a week I would like someone similar. So far I have found fit guys,but the guys chasing me are anything from chubby to straight up fat. I dont find most guys hot,that would mean I have literally no standarts. Most guys also aim …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:19 AM
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So you were considered hot in college. I have multiple "options" as well,I will prob sound conceited,but a fat balding dude 15 years older then me is hardly what I consider an option. I am not arguing what women want,I am simply saying that to men personality doesnt matter. Men want to be desired sexually,because thats what they lack. Women want to be desired for their personality,because thats what they lack. I am not for sex robots,I am arguing that men dont like them not because they dont hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:57 AM
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Exactly. Man will date anyone available. Thats it. I didnt say I am hot,I said I consider myself hot. By anything I have seen/read I should be doing pretty well in dating. But I am simply not whats considered hot where I live. Yes I get guys,not top % guys. I know how to manipulate rather well and I use this to get relationships. At what point is personality a factor tho? Man will fuck whatever is available,wont date the plain girls in most cases tho. I responded to the incel saying basicly that…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:40 AM
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One of my close friends parents divorced around 15-20 years ago. There are 4 children,the father is prob in the top 5% of earners in my country. He had to pay 34 dollars a month total for all 4 children,he could see them as much as he wanted. He didnt pay a single dime,met them a few times and just went on with his life. Mom worked 3 jobs so they could survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:31 AM
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If where you live you are considered average,as a woman,can you imagine how your life would go? Come on that aint even hard,you are gonna get passed up for someone hotter all the goddamn time and seeing as man give a flying fuck for your personality...well I suppose you get to settle for someone. I find myself hot,I love how I look,I keep in shape. If I lived in America I would have prob had a super easy life. I know how to get a guy,but its not thru looks and its about 10 times harder then peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:22 AM
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If the whole point of men is to compete so only the best survive....there would be no problems. Cause literally only the best would get women. Sadly every dude thinks he deserves a woman for exsisting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:14 AM
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Ugh I will worry he will relapse,happens fairly often. As long as he stays in shape who I will admire the dedication. I know how hard it is to take care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:11 AM
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I have prob written this a 100 times now,I do not live in America and where I am I am not even a 7. It really does matter where you live. There is also no defending that guys dont give a fuck about personality,be hot enough and they put up with a ton of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:07 AM
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Love how personality matters...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:39 AM
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You would love to get messeges asking for money? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:54 AM
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For the last time,this is a debate sub,I dont care to change you. Your point has nothing to do with messeges. Your point is that Chad gets everything he wants,no matter how lil effort he puts in. Average Joe even with a huge amount of effort gets little or no results. A woman wants resources. So Stacey gets them no matter how little effort she puts in,while plain Jane wont get them no matter how much effort she puts in. Do you now understand? I can not spell it out any simpler.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:57 AM
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Majority of women are like that and the chance of you meeting one that is happy to be dominant is almost non existent. Better try to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:45 AM
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There are a bunch of subs that are the same as incels. My point is that attractive PEOPLE can get away with a lot of things ugly people cant. Your comment was about how Chad can write the same as the average dude,but he is found to be funny. I said that a 10/10 woman can ask for money and she will get them,while the ugly one cant. Attractive people win,gender has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:42 AM
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All people have the potential to be murderers. Pointless to point it out as most people arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:18 AM
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You know this is a debate sub? If you wanna whine go back to r/incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:16 AM
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She is not looking for casual sex,you are missing the point. Thats like me judging you on wanting to be friends with women and pay them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:11 AM
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You are judging women based on what man are looking for. Women want resources and not casual sex. An ugly woman cant get the resources she wants,while a hot one can easily get them. Attractive people get what they want with minimum effort. By your logic a guy can just pay a woman to fuck him,low effort and he gets what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:56 AM
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It is. If a 3/10 female wrote "sex now" she will get a lot of hits. Even from much more attractive males.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:29 AM
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If you are a 10/10 female you can just write "send moneyz" and it will work,if you are a 3/10 female and do the same it wont work. So attractive people win at life. Shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:07 AM
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Would you love it if you got 500 messeges a day from fat,unattractive women asking you for money? Highly doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:05 AM
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Here only a tiny % of men are the sole provider in the household. America isnt the whole world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:55 AM
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So every men deserves a wife simply for being born? Can I petition for getting a castle,simply cause I exist? I think I really deserve one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:06 AM
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I say I am a 8-9 in my posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 05:13 AM
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And you immediatly jump on the 7 for guys and 2 points for me. Why not a 6 guy and I am a point above him? That would make me a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 04:51 AM
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No. Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 04:45 AM
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Again you are trying to argue fee fees. So if a woman not only works,but takes care of the house/children she should listen about decisions from her useless husband that has in some way lost his job. If she makes more money then the super logical superior husband,she should defer to him cause if the car breaks down he will make the logical desicion to fix it. There is 0 need for "man skills" at this point,the car service is a phone call away. If anyon wants a feminine woman taking care of the ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:59 PM
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How does he take care of the family? If the wife is best in a support role,wouldnt she do it better while at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:58 PM
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A few comments above you were against non-traditional relationships. So explain to me what is a traditional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:52 PM
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I wont and I shouldnt need to. Defend your point. You want a woman that works,which isnt how a traditional relationship is. Are you gonna help with house chores and child rearing? She is working so you should,but that would mean you are equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:48 PM
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You wouldnt know if you are 100% straight if you dont try a gay expirience. No need to try something that you are 99% sure is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:40 PM
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Thats not a traditional relationship then,thats an egilitarian one,which is what BP advocates. You cant want a woman to submit to you and know her place when you as a man cant take care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:39 PM
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So the woman isnt working,then the men needs an income high enough to support both of them and their future children. Do you agree with that? Its not even bulgarian. With this you are mostly insulting my country and lamguage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 05:00 PM
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Being condesending by trying bulgarian makes your argument even weaker. Do you consider that traditionally women dont work,but instead take care of the house/children? Just answer this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:52 PM
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Why are you not responding to my questions? You are the one that is for traditional gender roles,so defend your point. What do you consider traditional gender roles? Cause what I explained is exactly that. It does not matter if he wants his children to be richer,his wife brings no income,they literally cant survive if he cant support them. You are making the case that only rather well off men should marry. Please dont use your fee fees when arguing on a debate sub and do try to answer at least s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:42 PM
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Not at all,you are saying how traditional gender are the way to go. So traditionally women dont work and instead they take care of the house/children. It does not mattet why the men cant support a family,cause his wife is not working,she has no work expirience. What is that family gonna do? Should I even go into the whole thing where younger guys wont see any pussy until they get a carreer that enables them to support a family? You want traditional roles,those are the traditional ones. The wife …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:32 PM
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Its a simple question,should men that cant support a wife and a child never marry. I live in Bulgaria if it helps you,but it shouldnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:07 PM
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What confuses you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:05 PM
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That literally doesnt proove the sex was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:52 PM
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80% of men here cant support a family on their own. Should they never have one,cause traditionally the woman shouldnt work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 09:54 AM
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Only date shorter men,I am 5'7 and have no problems with way shorter guys. They are simply very hot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:20 PM
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I am a rehabilitator and I work with children with disabilities. Its really hard work and it pays trash money. I really dont care about money as long as I have enough to live,but I do care for some equality. I am a grown ass woman and I dont need to use men and make them pay for me. A man can support and help in my ambitions,but that would make me the main character in the story...which would certainly not mean he is higher SMV then me. On the other hand I must be brain dead if I cant figure out…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 08:12 PM
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You have literally not given me no reason to go for a higher SMV guy. What is high value exactly? I have my own money and I always pay my way so him having a great career is cool,but not a plus. Maybe later on if we decide to buy a place together,but I would still wanna pay half....so again pointless. Maybe he is hotter? I am very attracted to current SO and wanting someone even mooore attractive is stupid and pointlessly greedy. Not to mention we all get old and ugly,so its really worthless to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 08:00 PM
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Pointless. A lot of hassle for nothing. I dont need anyone to pay for me,dont need him to make the plans and fun activities in the relationship,dont want kids or a family. So higher SMV then me would mean someone that would prob try to cheat,no thanks man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 07:42 PM
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Yep I have mentioned it before as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 07:30 PM
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That does sound awesome actually,but they are still 1-2 points below me in SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 07:02 PM
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I have dated so many different types of guys physically. From chubby dudes to super fit guys. Only thing that persists is that I find younger guys in the 5'6-5'8 range super attractive. Personality wise he just needs to be a nerd and hopefully a gamer,I have no problems leading the relationship and making all the plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 07:50 AM
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We are not comparing a 4/10 20 year old and a 9/10 35 year old. So if you were the same shape at 20 and at 35,you would be way hotter at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:38 PM
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Eh what can I say...urges and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:36 PM
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So an older woman dating a younger guy,that is way more attractive then the guys that are older then her makes no sense? Not only is the guy hotter,can get it up a lot more,has no crazy exes but you also get to teach him exactly what you want and it most cases the guys are super happy to date a mature woman that is past her party days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:54 PM
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There are women that make men marry against their will?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:46 PM
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Its mostly women that want guys making money and we all know why. And women wanting kids and marrige,I dont want either of those things. So the only things older guys bring to the table are grey hair and wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:41 PM
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Proove it as I said. Its all words how older guys are better. I simply find them not as attractive as the younger ones. They also have stupid hang ups from past relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:36 PM
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That would matter only if you proove older dudes are somehow funnier. If everything else is the same I would always pick a younger guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:32 PM
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I dont know why,but older guys just dont do it for me. And I dont mean 50,I mean like 30+,so I always date 1-2 years below my age. I really dont think any human being gets hotter with age,we all get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:22 PM
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Never dated a masculine guy at all,at least not by my standarts. I have dated super jacked guys with great careers,but somehow I always lead in the relationship. All of my boyfriends have been 5"7-5"8,which I just love and have followed my lead,so I suppose they were all emasculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 05:51 AM
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The moment I became more girly the gap was all of a sudden not scary. Always watch what people do and never what they say :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 05:40 AM
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Not for the people living here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 05:38 AM
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Of course it matters,but it shouldnt be the complete oppossite. It should be more or less the same everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:01 AM
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Bulgaria.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:55 AM
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I dont know about America,but here girls always date down. The quality of men is pretty low,so the guys that are 7s and above want to just fuck. Yeah I have many options....fat,jobless guys hit on me all the time...I cant imagine how anyone consideres them options for fucks sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 07:38 AM
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Some were mutual friends,some were guys I met thru my nerd interests. It didnt matter how long we knew each other,they always went for the girly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 06:11 AM
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The whole point is that I knew a bunch of gamers and nerds in real life and exactly 0 of them payed any attention to me. Funny part is I look more or less exactly the same as now. And the whole online bullshit argument is pointless,being hit on by 12 year doesnt count for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 05:05 PM
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I do play online games,but I also dont live in America. So the attention of a 12 year old american boy doesnt really mean much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 04:21 PM
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The sad part was that I was invisible to all guys,including fat slobs and the like,when i was younger. It was when I got confident and aggressive that I started having some success.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:32 PM
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I have always been skinny,but I never wore girly clothes and make up and exactly 0 guys hit on me,much less gamers and nerds like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:22 PM
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As long as I dont have to fuck them...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 08:17 AM
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Hardly shocked,but as I said previously a lot of edgy stuff are said on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:39 PM
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I dont buy that anyone thinks that sorry. Prob feel happy and gratefull and shit she was down with somerhing like that for him. But to be thinking how you would degrade her and that she is such a disgusting slut? Not seeing it with a person you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:28 PM
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Then you should report my comments and let them fight their own battles!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:16 PM
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Then why are you doing it? They both seem like smart and capable women, you defending them like that makes them seem less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:01 PM
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Dude what? I am sure that the women on this sub are perfectly capable defending their own arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:54 PM
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Then you should maybe try to actually argue your point instead? Its shocking how well that goes in a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:52 PM
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Personal attacks? Looove arguing with women :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:40 PM
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Ah I dont get grossed out too easily,but I do clean extreamly well before anal :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:40 PM
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Blowjobs can be painfull,please dont make me link you to that. So basicly the factor is shit and thats gross. Ok,fair point. You can actually clean really well and there would be nothing. So really you just dont wanna,there are no reasons for it. Actually you are being rather aggressive and trying to act like you are better then the rest of us sluts :) I enjoy pleasing my partner and exploring difcerent things together,sorry for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:39 PM
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I personally have never met people that cared what happened in others bedrooms,so I am lucky I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:34 PM
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Most people have a short list of acts they would never do,but hey I suppose there could be short lists of things they do in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:33 PM
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As long as you find another vanilla person who even cares what others say?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:32 PM
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So you really think about how you arr degrading the woman that you love and how you love making her do depraved shit? Ok then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:31 PM
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I am a woman...so I dont do much sticking these days. Fast for two days?? Where the fuck did you learn that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:30 PM
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Good job?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:29 PM
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Why superior tho? There are no pleasure receptors in the mouth,of course you dont feel pleasure. Please explain the difference. Sorry my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:28 PM
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No one should ever do anything they dont want to as I have already said. My whole point is that anal does make for a more exciting sex life and the majority of men want it,hell a lot of women here want it just as much as vaginal sex. You are fine with a vanilla sex life and as long as your SO is happy it really doesnt matter. But most couples practice it and it does make for a healthy sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:27 PM
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So you decided to just spam? Cause what you responded with brings nothing to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:24 PM
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So you feel no pleasure from blowjobs,the mouth is not really made for a dick to go inside....whats the difference again? By your logic we should all have vanilla vaginal sex and never try anything different. I am starting to see why americans divorce so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:24 PM
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Did I respond to you by mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:17 PM
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Are you now saying that it feels nice to have a dick in your mouth? The concept is that putting a dick into a different hole does make for a more exciting sex life. She can have preferences,but at some point oral was considered taboo as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:16 PM
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She said there are many ways to make vaginal sex more exciting,that arent a dick in another hole. Oral is literally putting a dick in a different hole. So clearly the concept works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:13 PM
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Boundaries are a tad different,then having a list of the acceptable sex acts. Yes there are many things beside anal you could do,but you seem to be against a lot of sexual things(just from the way you talk),so in the end what do you personally do in the bedroom to spice it up? Why is the dude against pegging? Has he tried it before? Of course I am not for her to force him to do it,but it should at least be talked about and considered. A relationship is made of two people,not just one. Your SO wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:12 PM
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So if she is into pegging she should never offer it and just be happy with the vaginal sex she is getting? Do you have a list of sex acts that are acceptable? You just said there are a million ways to spice up vaginal and anal sex,prob a mistake on your end. And really if you are so against a dick in another hole,you must be againat oral as well. Either putting dick in a different hole does make for a more intresting sex life or it doesnt,but you cant be for oral and still insist that using a di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:58 PM
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I am almost 28 so I dont know if we are still the same generation lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:49 PM
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I hope you realise that illnessess like yours are not something 90% of women suffer from? To even mention it is making the argument into an emotional pity party. You have a valid reason for not doing it,but most women dont. I was asking about the ones not having a legitimate reason. No one is gonna tell you to do anal when you are sick,so its even more pointless to mention it. But clearly you wont try it even without the sickness. Of course vaginal sex is fine,so are burgers. But every once in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:48 PM
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Dont know about ATM,not something thats even considered here. I am just asking if you really think they are thinking about how awesome it is to degrade the mother of their children? I think its more of a taboo thing and just the new thing noone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:42 PM
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At least once a week for facials and anal is about monthly. Dont really know anyone here thats against either of the acts,exceptions being crazy virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:36 PM
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No I legit dont think they have such a thought in their heads. On the internet we all say edgy bullshit,but noone wants to really degrade the mother of his kids or the woman he just had a super awesome date night with. Come on we are all humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:35 PM
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Oh I realise Americans are still kind of prudes when it comes to sex. I still cant understand not trying it even especially as a few weeks ago I actually had a discussion with a few chicks about how you should totally duty starfish for your SO. So starfishing good,anal bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:34 PM
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Hardly think any SO thought "Oh man I cant wait to degrade the person I just said I love you too,its gonna be great!". Prob has to do with porn,I dont know,but I like it. And its not even every time,same as anal,something different so the sex life doesnt get stale.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:31 PM
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Am a woman,actually like them,only ask to watch the hair. Why would I do them? My god thats rich. Cause my SO enjoys them,even if I didnt it literally costs me nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:29 PM
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Sorry meant the facials
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:24 PM
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Oh I am sorry I meant the facials,where apperantly women can stomach them a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:24 PM
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I am kinda of shocked so many of the women dont consider oral/anal kind of normal in commited relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:18 PM
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Basicly if you arent hot you are screwed. Or an average female in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:01 PM
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Sorry dude its simple biology,no matter how amazingly hot he is and how attractive I find him,if he cant find my clit I wont cum. Seriously jackhammering doesnt feel like much on our end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 07:28 PM
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He isnt getting sex by staying with her either. Really just dont get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 07:23 PM
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Only thing I had a problem with was that you said women actually cum from bad sex,cause it was with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:59 PM
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Thats diffetent tho,she isnt cumming with either of them by your logic. She is fakeing it with Chad so she can keep on fucking him and she isnt for hubby. The real world is prob gonna be a tad different tho. She will cum for hubby,but still feel like she settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:47 PM
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So yet again I ask you...does hottness somehow make her get an orgasm when Chad just jackhammered her for 20 min and didnt even look at her? Of course she wont cum,his hottness might convince her to not care she doesnt get an orgasm but thats different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:24 PM
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So now hottness overrides any physical sensations? Can the woman get off simply by staring at the hot Alpha Chad??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:03 PM
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Again marrige has nothing to do with ltrs. Do you believe only married people count? And really you have not answered my most intresting question. Does your SO love the feel of dry pussy and vaccant eyes? You are saying duty sex is good in ltrs,does that mean you enjoy it when he fucks you with 0 desire? Isnt sex supposed to make you feel desired and hot and close to your SO? If its just busting a nut he can totally mastrubate or use a toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:54 PM
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You took 3 random quotes from 3 diff parts of my comment so I cant guess what you want me to see. Are you insulted by what I said? Thats how I see marrige.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:24 PM
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Hey I get it you think marrige makes you the most amazing person,cause you chose to throw away freedom and now have to pay for it. This advice is totally for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:05 PM
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So the two problems you present are stress and gained weight,both are valid reasons. If I am stressed out at work,but still at least think of sex it may help to unwind with some intimate time with the SO,but if I am having problems at work that make me depressed,having to do another think I dont want to wont be helpfull at all. If I am repulsed my how my SO looks after he gained so much weight it would be pretty much impossible to even fake any entusiasm during sex with him,much less genuine aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 05:33 PM
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My whole point is arguing against OP and she is promoting duty sex as a healthy way to keep a relationship going. In some cases is needed,but not what is desired by either party. Does anyone really think men looove dry pussy and vacant eyes and totally get off on that? Does anyone really think thats doing anyone a favor? Thats how deadbedrooms happen really,instead of people breaking up they keep on forcing it until they both hate each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 05:26 PM
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You still ignored a lot of I think decent points. Should you while depressed do the duty sex? Are you still insisting that low libido all of a sudden in a relationship that was fine before is there without a reason? Better to fix the problem then to just keep hoping sacrifices are gonna be enough. Just because I dont believe duty sex is a good option does not make me judmental. Dress it how you want,but the spark is gone and duty sex is there to keep the husband fron a divorce. And thats somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 05:12 PM
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Ah so marriage automaticlly buys you another persons body? So when we get married can I demand I know deserve new clothes every 3 days or maybe a higher standart of living? If he put on 60 pounds and I now find him sexually repulsive,am I still obligated to fuck him simply cause I married him? I am actually trying to imagine my SO comming to me and demanding sex from me and then somehow enjoying my dry pussy and blank stare. I cant,I wont enjoy knowing he doesnt wanna fuck me and just popped a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:58 PM
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She gets horny after they start as well,thats not the case for many. I dont remember her mentioning the relationship has to even be long. I do not see how I am judgemental when the mere suggestion that my body is not for the use of another persons,especially as I dont want it,is making you somehow think this is a shocking awful idea. How much would you sacrifice before its too much? Hell isnt it the same if he sacrifices some pleasure for your comfort and happiness? I am not saying to not fuck h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:45 PM
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Oh I am sorry are you under the impression this is continuing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:21 PM
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Withholding sex means I am doing it with the full knowledge of whats happening. Not lack of desire on my end,but in a way punishing him for something,which is not what I said. And yet OP doesnt suggest breaking up,doesnt say how many times you have to "sacrifice" for your partner. Just keep on doing it times infinity apperantly. If you believe that would not build resentment in a human being,you are bring naive. Makeing my SO happy is nice,but my own happiness is not tied to his. Both of the lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:16 PM
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Its cool,if duty sex does it for you thats the important part :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:53 PM
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Can you show me the part where it says you should WITHHOLD sex for a set amount of time? And again who decided how long is too long? Someone said 2 times a week is fine for them,but if you ask 100 people you are gonna get a lot more answers. I have been in 2 long relationships and I have never thought "Gah I dont wanna fuck this dude,but it has been a month so I better starfish it tonight,so he doesnt leave me", I maybe foolishi consider long term relationships 2+.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:52 PM
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Wow glad you are all happy with the one month pity sex in a relationship where apperantly the spark is gone. I am certain the starfish sex is keeping it going tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:40 PM
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Why never fuck him?? Like when did I ever say you should never fuck him?! I said you should only fuck when you both want to,its not rocket science. You are all acting as if I suggested killing babies. The mere thought of wanting to fuck your SO is so foreign to you? Maybe time to change the SO,instead if giving him some pity sex once a month so you can keep stringing him along. This is not a discussion about my personal life for Christs sake. Would you be ok with me asking you personal questions…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:33 PM
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No one is born just deserving sex simply for existing. No one should be getting the pity sex once a month,just so they stay. The advice from OP is just a sure fire way to build resentment in a relatiinship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:22 PM
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Of course dont respond to anything. Lets all just say random things!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:49 PM
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How is that the same? The OP said very clearly that you should have sex even if you have no desire for it. I will gladly express sexual desire in comments towards him,but if I literally dont want to have sex I wont just lie down and "Think of England" so he can get the amount of sex he wants. How is no one seeing the problem? So when I said I want a guy to fuck me 5 times a day,everyone jumps to the poor guys defense,but when its the women she should just do it. Lool. Also yet again I will drop …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:49 PM
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A couple of times a week is fine for you! Like thats just a number. Clearly for a large portion of women once a month is fine as well. A compromise might be once a week or even every two weeks and not just spreading your legs and accepting it. If you think thats how LTRs work...damn. I will ignore the comparison between sex and some bitching. Cause thats silly on too many levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:46 PM
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Again if toys were the answer then OPs post is pointless. I am saying that having to just endure sex to satisfy someone else is a bad relationship. Simplest thing is gender reverse it and its all of a sudden not fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:39 PM
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He literally said he doesnt want to work,but does so cause of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:37 PM
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Ah so man decide when its too long? Cause so far no one has really said how much time is too much. 10 years? 10 days? Should I only fuck my partner a day before the amount is reached? This whole post is moronic,but you are all trying to defend it. Sure force yourself to have sex you dont want to,cause reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:37 PM
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You are the one saying he shouldnt work cause he will get an ulcer lol. P.S. Leave America,its better lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:05 PM
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Having sex 3 times a day is unreasonable? According to who? Then I can just say sex once a month is fine,as many women have chosen to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:04 PM
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Let me sooth your fee fees,woman wants to fuck 5 times a day. Not a huge unreasonable number right? How many man can fuck 5 times a day? 1% at best. Hell most cant go even 3 times a day. So he cant fullfill her needs,but she gotta fullfill his.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:52 PM
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But that literally has nothing to do with attractivness,we are talking about if every human being decided they dont wanna work,just wanna have fun,but blame other people for their lack of motivations. That means old and ugly and fat peole as well. P.S. Man you have low standarts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:49 PM
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Proove I said that,otherwise pointless to throw it at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:45 PM
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But I didnt say you have to take care of her,same as I dont have to take care of the guy that doesnt wanna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:40 PM
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Then answer the same thing with 5 times a day,guys still cant do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:31 PM
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Why would it matter if the chick is hot? You will prob never meet her :D Same thing with the dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:29 PM
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So you are saying man should be popping pills every day to potentially ruin their bodies,cause I want sex 5 times a day? If its toys,then guys should fuck a pocket pussy and have sex with their partner as much as they both want. If its once a week,its once a week and he can fuck the pocket pussy the rest of the time. Cheating wasnt part of the discussion and neither was changing your partner. OP is saying to just suck it up,clearly a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:35 AM
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Didnt hear you ask about the dudes hottness level? Maybe you forgot. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:31 AM
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So if a women wrote that she doesnt wanna work and man are to blame for her lack of motivation yiu would still be fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:21 AM
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So he wants to not work at 30 and I said thats fine,be homeless. I even continued with we should all do whatever the fuck we please,cause reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:15 AM
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OP also said that even if you arent in the mood you should still fuck your SO,because SHE got in the mood after starting. So if women should fuck when man want to,then man should do the same. If we even go with 5 times a day,how many man would be able to keep up? Whats a long period of time? 10 years? 10 days?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:13 AM
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Like are we gonna have 20 comments where you insist that because I am not 100% feminine your point isnt challenged? Lookwise I am more feminine looking then masculine,while personality is a lot more masculine then feminine. So for me to answer your thread you have to tell me if I am a feminine or masculine woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 10:21 AM
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Dissapointing answer on your end. You are arguing that feminine looking women have feminine personalities,so I gave you proof that this is not true. I really dont need validation,I have a mirror after all :). If you want a real discussion please give some examples about what is a feminine woman and whats a masculine one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:57 AM
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So now my body is not feminine? There is no such think as perfectly feminine or perfectly masculine looks. I am more feminine looking then masculine and yet I am not feminine at all in personality. I dont do ONS,dont need an emotional connection I just want to not catch STDs and actually get off. I wont get off with a rando the first time in all likelyhood,so that is pointless. I am very much for open relationships. What kind of frustrations? It would be more helpfull with an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:33 AM
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I even took the test,I had a super low feminine score,but even ignoring that you can easily go thru my comments. After 3 of them you will agree :). Some high points: dont want kids,dont want to marry,dont cook or take care of SOs,high sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:21 AM
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But my personality is clearly not feminine. So I look feminine,but I am masculine. Thats what I disagree with :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:17 AM
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None of those,I have pics posted on gonewild and from your description I am super feminine. My face is round,so I lack the cheekbones/jaw like stuff you describe. You are not born with your personality btw,so judging how a person is by their genes seems unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:01 AM
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How someone looks has nothing to do with their personality,if you cant even answer such a simple question,why even bother with the thread? So we are clear,I am such a person. I have a very young,cute looking face,even my body looks very young. I have the whole big innocent eyes going on as well. And yet clearly I am not feminine at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:51 AM
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Doesnt answer my question tho. I do mean literally look feminine,super cute feature and everything. I did not even mention dress feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:43 AM
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You can look extreamly feminine,but have a very masculine personality. So are you feminine or masculine in that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:34 AM
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So why do you think women work? Cause nature made them not lazy? Lol. Dont work then,be a homeless dude eating trash,if that makes you happy. Dont train if being a fat ugly slob is what makes you happy. Hell we should all just do what makes us happy and fuck civilization,it was the wrong move from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:23 AM
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It does say that tho. Set a quata that is enough for YOUR partner,even if you have 0 desire to that much. Later on in a comment she says man should do the same. So 5-10 times a day is what I need to be happy,a man will never be able to satisfy me then. But for the simple reason that women dont need to get hard,she can just bear it and fuck him as much as he wants :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:20 AM
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Come now its normal where I live. Of course I took care of her,I love her more then anything in life,she has given me more then I can ever repay. Dont blame the dude,he didnt know about my dad. I have only shared that with my bff and my current bf. He was kinda surprised,but happy I was all of a sudden intrested in him. Maybe I didnt communicate right with him,but after the first time we fucked,as we are just lying in bed,he basicly said how happy he was we were dating. I set him straight and ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:17 AM
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If you cant deffend the position its pointless to comment :). I can come a lot more then a man,that should still not mean he has to fuck me until I cant anymore. Even 5 times a day will be pushing it for 99% of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:11 AM
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Ah so we are going with the same BS that every single woman on the face of the planet can not live without children and a man. Wont even comment on the part where you say she will still be ugly after plastic surgery,thats just silly. Oh yes the misery she would feel as an extreamly successfull woman that gets to fuck only people she finds attractive,we should all pity her. So your solution to the whole thing is cheating? Riiiight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:09 AM
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So then women are simply better then man and they should be the one leading,while man should just do what they are told. I also feel rather sorry for you and your naturel way of being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:05 AM
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So you are saying that a beautifull women should settle for a Beta now? You just keep on prooving my point. Also the manager analogy is just bad. A very beautifull woman would want an Alpha,but her beauty will decline with age,so when he leaves she would not be able to get another Alpha and will settle for a Beta,be miserable and prob cheat. Lets go with a smart woman instead,she makes a ton of cash,gets plastic surgery,doesnt have to commit to anyone if she doesnt want to. Can prob keep on fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:22 AM
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I fucked Chad for months,but he still didnt get the kind of sex my bf gets now. He was exreamly happy with what he was getting apperantly,so go figure. And its not even just sex tbh,but thats what all man want. Ugh it was a bad period in my life. My dad got diagnosed with cancer and after months of treatments and surgeries he passed away when no one was expecting it. So I had to take care of my mother that could barely function,she missed him so much. A few months passed and I just wanted to lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:19 AM
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Seriously? I am actually pretty happy right now,seeing this behaviour made me step up my game. Be aware I am a woman using RP strategy on man tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:12 AM
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You are saying beauty>brains. You are giving examples of how this is true. So in the case where the dumb person is left alone,with 0 life skills and prob a lot less beautifull then when they started,what is this person to do? Cause it seems that brains will always be superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:01 AM
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So he got awesome sex for a bit while my bf is getting way better sex for way longer? Weeell who am I to judge mans logic. I have never been cheated on and have never cheated. The story with my friend is a long one,but yes he caught feelings and tried to trap me in a relationship with him. It just prooved to me I gotta work on my vetting process more. As far as I know they didnt do anything while me and her dated,but he was manipulating her and banking on me loving her to get a threesome. From w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:59 AM
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Person B enjoys the hard work of Person A right? So what happens when A leaves? B isnt smart,hasnt done any work so far,so he/she is out of luck. The world is not only America,there is no such thing where I live,so if I followed your advice I would have fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:53 AM
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So when you were younger you didnt know you wanted a family? Like yet again,you know what you want so why arent you motivated to do it? Skip on the personal attacks,its childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:46 AM
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What happens when Person B leaves you? Oh yes now you are stupid and are used to someone else doing everything,good luck out there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:41 AM
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More of a "Have no idea how to find friends" type of thing. At this point in life its usually thru work that people find new friends. Nah I have seen the same behaviour from man in real life as well,they go crazy for the super made up girls and they do hit on them. Its fine by me,I have enough options to be happy. Yep people still think I am a teenager,even people I have known for years somehow think I am around 19 at best. I hope I do get a more mature looking face soon tho. Dont know,I talked …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:39 AM
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I came here thinking Blue Pill is right....and years later realised I saw more Red Pill behaviour in real life instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:34 AM
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You are almost 30 and yet you think you need a woman to get your shit togethet? God man are lazy,no wonder woman dont marry anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:31 AM
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What if I,as the woman,want sex 26 times a day? Should my SO kill himself trying to please me? If you whole relationship is you enduring sex with your boyfriend,its time to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:25 AM
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Aww thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:33 AM
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Its time for work lols
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:05 AM
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How are you awake at this time of night I an guessing? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:57 AM
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Its pretty hard to find new friends, so I just stick with the ones I do have. The dude isnt depressed,no idea why he wont shower. He drives a bycicle tho for a loooot of the time,so he sweats a lot and smells just disgusting. Even here on PPD, in the threads with hot women,the super fake ones were the ones given 8-9/10 so at this point I have accepted it :D. It is a feminine hobby,that I dont approove of it doesnt matter,its whats in demand. So if I ever lose my marbles and decide to date a real…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:56 AM
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Eh I have traveled some around Europe and it really just depends on the place. In Turkey almost every woman had some kind of a piercings,but I rarely see any tattoos in any country. I dont know on what its based lol,just a super great movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:42 AM
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Ah so you saw my point,but what you said are simple statements. No one is ok when they KNOW they settled. Only difference is man have no options,but that doesnt make them better. If a hotter chick wanted them they would cheat or branch swing,same as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:59 PM
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Sooo man settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:18 PM
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Well its all over the place really. I know a bunch of young attractive dudes and they arent Chads,but they do hook up in their social circle. Then a know a nice guy that is just entitled and does 0 upkeep on his apperance,doesnt even shower. All of my young collegues are single,but none of them are ugly. I think the most common reason is that they all aim for the super made up chicks that are of course after money and totally ignore the not so perfect chicks that would make pretty good gfs. Ugh …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:09 PM
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We dated for like 9 months,her parents werent religious,but bulgarians are still pretty backwards. You wouldnt see gay couples outside at all,piercings and tattoos are still considered very taboo and only like rebels and shit get them. Fave movie is Blindness,its not a horror but i swear its worth checking out. I have a semi-weak heart and strong coffee makes me keel over lol. But I do drink the weaker versions of it,just that a coffee/dinner date every 2 days is kinda boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:52 PM
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I met Chad in an online site,saw him and wrote to him,met him for coffee and then we fucked. Had a FWB with my friend that I regret to this very day,but it lasted around 6 months. The secret is in Kegels....which is still a secret to bulgarian women,so I prob just shock the guys the first time we fuck. I play jungle and bot lols,but I really wanna learn mid. Way bigger impact on the game then an adc. Of course I went to parties,but they are nothing like the american ones,its more of a small get …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:37 PM
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I have never done the one night stands and my casual hook ups were with Chad the Bitch and a friend of mine. What I talk about is mostly stories from my close friends,I have never had those things happen to me lol. The cumming too fast part is a normal accurance at this point,especially the first time and I am fine with it as long as I have also finished at least once. We can chat and play a match of league and then go for round two. But a lot of what I have said happens frequently to my sluttie…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:11 PM
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Actually most guys are shickingly single :D. I only have a couple of male friends that are in relationship,but thats still like 20 guys,where online its 2000. Better odds and RP is right,its a numbers game. Everyone wants more options,not only women. Well I try to respond to most messages and after a few sentances it turns to asking me to come over or pushing their weird fetish on me. Maybe like 1% of guys are actually worth it,but it takes forever to find them,so I accept that I will die alone …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 02:50 PM
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Oh man I sometimes miss my second girlfriend so much,she was sweet and cooked and was awesome to cuddle. She was also afraid to tell her parents/friends she was dating a woman,so I was done with that shit. But she just looooved shopping,I think her fucking paycheck went to clothes and shoes only. She would have like 23 pairs of summer shoes and go buy 3 more cause she had nothing to wear :D. The biggest problem when I was dating chicks was the lack of common interests,I love horror movies....the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 02:26 PM
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Lets be super honest,if I could cum and get horny the same way a guy can I would have gladly fucked prob thousands of people. But it is not like that at all sadly enough. So from a casual hook up I will prob be getting 20 seks of fucking while I am still dry and it would take him longer to put on a condom then the actuall sex. Like that has 0 appeal to me,I cant even explain the difference between a guy going down on me and a women doing the same. Even if we go the road of casual dating/FWB the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 02:02 PM
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Emotional arguing is probably one of the most awful things I had to endure. The chick made no sense and just used her fee fees as arguments. Endless hours of shopping for cutesy bullshit that my girlfriends didnt even need. Romantic comedies. Bitching about weight,but never training. A lot of things really,there were great moments as well,but women are pretty annoying at points. After my first gf I tried to curb any such behaviour on my end.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 01:42 PM
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Its cause I can meet only a few available guys,that are my age,single and I find attractive if I ignore online dating. Its not even Chads that get all the attention on Tinder,mostly women just want a wider pool to choose from. But the scenario I described happens a lot with my friends,I rarely survive more then 3 weeks with the online dating stuff. That things sucks time like craaaazy. I have a collegue that is 55 and pretty skinny,she wears her daugthers clothes,which I would never wear and I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 01:39 PM
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Thats my point tho,they HAVE to cultivate a good personality or they get used for sex and no one ever commits. From all of my female friends,can you guess how many have any hobbies? I dont mean the hobby of shopping and putting on lots of make up,but real hobbies. I can think of one and she is married. Its not hard,break the other persons frame and you win. Meh casual sex seemed the same as dating for me,in the begining it was fine to meet up and have sex,but he started to demand a lot more time…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 01:22 PM
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So if a woman said thank you when you pay for her it would make it fine? Thats really bad reasoning. You are still paying for someone,that is an adult with a job,for no good reason really. And really I will say it again,how do you people date such awful human beings? I have dated both man and women and have never met anyone so entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 01:14 PM
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It helped me see what man see when dating us lol. I have always known what I am curious in trying sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 01:11 PM
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Come on,pick anyone with tattoos or piercings and at least a lil personality. Look at his fucking lips,almost feels as if he will steal my lipgloss >.> Dont play the dumb game of where you ignore what I say,its a good discussion so lets keep it that way. Seeing even Johnny Depp wont make me wet,no matter how hot the guy is its not enough. So you know how I look. I clearly take care of myself. A guy that takes no care of himself does not deserve me. Sorry if I sound arrogant,but it is the fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:20 PM
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I have no problems controling man,I dont offer just a pretty face and some sex,which is the mistake of 90% of women. Yes he wanted a relationship,but we had nothing in common and he was just my try at casual sex. We managed to see each other for around 10 months I think,but since month 2 he wanted me to commit and did a lot of crazy stunts. Nope,she is in great shape,has a great job and education. Her face is maybe a bit horse looking,but its not even a major thing. I cant really answer that,she…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:10 PM
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Yep,I have had 2 relationships with women. Really helps with understanding some stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:03 PM
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Thats easy,like seriously. It is literally validation,you go on Tinder and 1000 guys tell you how pretty you are,even if you are a 3/10. You pick the hottest one,cause we all want the best in life,fuck him and think he will commit. Of course he doesnt,so you keep fucking him in the dumb hope he sees how amazing you are and decides to settle down with you. He doesnt,you cry. Go back to Tinder and do it all again thinking you have gotten smarter and will do better. You pick the same type of douchb…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:02 PM
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The funny part is that in my group of friends I am the only one to have fucked a Chad...I made him my bitch in 2 months and dumped him,so I dont know if he was the real deal. My sluttiest friend with a N count of 30+,has never fucked anyone that physically would be considered a Chad. Cause I am a gamer and a huge League of Legends player so of course him being amazing at it makes me wet. Again man and women dont think the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:46 AM
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Cause he will hog the mirror when we are getting ready to go out. Um sure,you can have her btw. Totally not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:43 AM
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Ugh now old and ugly yikes lol. Its just that shockingly man and women are different,I dont go around all day thinking of sex,its way more reactive. Man and women would never think of sex the same way,so it would be easier to just accept it. Not every man deserves someone like that in their lifes tbh. So many guys dont even have their shit together at 30 that its getting scary. God he was probably one of my fave SOs,we had sooo many similar interests that we could talk for hours. Sadly I was lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:42 AM
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Seriously cant believe anyone is buying into the bullshit that woman want/feel sex the same way man do. Sex feels awesome when its good....which is almost never the first 10 times with a new guy. Casual sex isnt for getting off,its for validation/thrill. Its really the power of being wanted. Relationships are the end goal for like 99% of women and not like we are all dumb and dont know man want sex. Controlling a man thru sex is like the oldest trick in the book. Its like you have never talked t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:36 AM
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Can ya stop linking gay guys? But even if we consider that this guy is somehow a 10/10 to every woman,she would still not want/think about sex as much as him. I have a rather high sex drive,so I am usually the one initiating...and I have fucked all of my SOs the same amount more or less. I have had a chubby programmer as a boyfriend and a super fit "Chad" and the only ptoblem is usually how many times the guy can go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:30 AM
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You mean his boyfriend prob.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:27 AM
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I am a woman and I pay my part of the date,have done it in all of my past relationships. I would feel used if I have to tell a SO to pay his half,especially with him having a job. Well now your boyfriend is doing what normally women do to man. Everyone should pay their share so that there arent any bad feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:26 AM
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I mean sure,who am I to judge. Just seems strange that you pay for all of the dates when he is working and should be able to afford to spend 10 bucks on coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:52 AM
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Dont hamster,RP is about actual facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:47 PM
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Are you suggesting they want it as much as man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:06 PM
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And what is that woman getting out of the whole deal? Noooothing. You are going with the way man think. She doesnt want sex,but a relatiinship. Smiling more and talking less will hardly be helpfull for her to feel happy in the "relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:26 PM
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Are we pretending again that women think like man? Thats silly. Of course women care more about status,trying to make her say what you would say in her situatian is a bad way to proove an argument. Also I want the skinny pro league player as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:21 PM
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So he can afford stuff,but you pay for him? My god I dont think I have anything to say to this. Do you think you cant do better then someone that needs you to provide for him? I mean he isnt a child,there is 0 reason for him to be taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:16 PM
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Hey if you are ok with taking care of a fully grown man thats fine. In your scenario you pay for him on some occasions where you wanna do something extra/special,but being a provider means paying for everything all the time. I understand you are ok with the situation,but I wouldnt be. Yes he has debt,but if he cant live without you paying for him,he clearly lacks basic skills involving money managment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 01:18 PM
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I dont think anyone enjoys paying for another fully grown adult. How is it usefull to pay for everything in any relationship outside of like sugar ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 10:17 AM
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Which parts of TRP are we talking about tho? Getting fit and learning how to not dress like a hobo? Cause that aint RP,just being attractive. Or are we talking having 5 plates,while you dread game your SO and ignore what she says?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:29 AM
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Beta. Alphas really dont offer anything,but looks...and if they are both 10/10 no point to the Alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:49 AM
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Then why would you feel the need to ptovide and make decisions for another adult person? It makes you feel good paying for everything and doing everything in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:46 AM
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Provider does not mean you decide anything about the other persons life. So it has nothing to do with what I say. If women are children then you are taking care of an overgrown child :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 06:26 AM
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Dont know what to tell ya,I am 5'7 and have had one guy that was tall and I hated sex with him,it was awkward and pretty awful. Wouldnt date a tall dude ever again. Thats the average guy in America??? I am literally moving there if thats true lol. Average guy here is....lets not talk about it. Nah we are talking Alpha Chad 10/10,I also dont mean beating her up. Just the normal RP stuff,dread game,not taking her seriously,not commiting. He is not treating her well,the 8/10 guy is. Here is the thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 09:23 PM
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Omg the BODY can be fixed to get in shape. Dont like anyone above my height of 5'7 so thats a moot point on my end. Do you even know what average means? But suuuure 8s are average dudes. But again you are not really making an argument that the 10/10 is worth the abuse. So no woman is happy with 8/10 guy and they are never attracted to them? Looool. Being alpha is more then looks,can we agree on that at least? HA. I dont hide like 99% of the posters on PPD,so you are welcome to check my gonewild …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 08:05 PM
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So why would you change this 7/10 cutie thats good to you for a 10/10 Chad that acts like an asshole to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 07:34 PM
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So how about a 7/10,non Chad? I think thats reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 07:24 PM
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Like are you missing half my point? You said face and hair cant be fixed,we all agree body can be fixed. So a 8/10 face without a 10/10 body can be fixed super easy. Are you making the argument that a chubby guy with a cute face is a Chad now? :D Dont need to pick Chads for literally anything,you are telling me I am missing out in a tiny better loiking guy. If I could only pull 5s you can make the argument,but Betas are usually 7s at least and in a lot of cases 8s,being hot hardly makes you an A…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 07:10 PM
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And again does he have to be 10/10 face and body to excite you sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 07:06 PM
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And I already said he isnt hideous or ugly,really not having a 10/10 face is hardly a compromise. So if my attraction to his face/hair isnt 10/10,but 8/10 I am settling? Get real people,not dating a Chad is more of a win then a loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 11:51 AM
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What attraction? He isnt ugly,sure he aint a 10/10 ripped guy,but thats fixed waaay more easily then a shit personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 07:08 AM
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Do you know what hypergamy is? Cause what you are talking about isnt hypergamy. I said that taking care of someone by buying them gifts,paying for everything makes it so you lose attraction. I did not even specify man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 04:42 AM
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How? Thats really what RP says. But I will gladly hear anything,not involving your hurt feelings, on this topic. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 08:01 PM
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What is she really losing on tho? Not money,he isnt hideous,he is loyal. So what is she compromising really?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 07:42 PM
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And people told me I was wrong to be the dominant one in my relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 07:37 PM
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If you need someone to control every aspect of your life,take every important decision for you so you have no accountability for your own self you are weak and need someone to take care of you. So many red pillers are getting mad about me saying what they preach. If women are children then of course they need to be taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 07:24 PM
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Oh ok then. My PERSONAL EXPIRIENCE says you are wrong,cause you know...um literally thats what my fee fees are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 07:22 PM
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Of course they exsist and women lose attraction to them at some point. Its not attractive to need to be taken care of,not in man and not in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 04:25 PM
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Except thats not what RP says :). Are you looking for a woman to dominate you in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 04:17 PM
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And yet again wrong man. A woman that wants to be completly dominated by a man,thats lets be honest is gonna be an asshole to her, is a woman with low self esteem and not especially bright. Of course every single RP and RPW is saying how smart they are or how much of a unicorn their SO is,but the truth is simple,weak people need someone to make all the decisions for them. No it does not make you strong for basicly standing around looking pretty and saying yes. But TRP is targeting such women,the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 08:58 AM
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Again even if 70% of women want what you offer,by TRP logic(I agree with a lot of it) they would be the hypergamous,bitchy sluts. You are literally following a strategy to get the women that I am guessing most people dont want,but settle for. And yet again this is totally fine and I understand why you would plate them. But the 30% of women wont want you and there is a high chance they are the decent human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 08:42 AM
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Your reply has nothing to do with what i said. Sure it attracts a lot of girls,but they are a specific type of girls. Props to you for wanting them,but they are not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:45 AM
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Lets pretend that most women like fit douchbags,its possible they are the same type of women. So when RPs whine that all women are manipulative,hypergamous sluts its because they are marketing themselfs to attract that kind of woman. Could be great advice if you want that,but if you are into a different type of woman it may be best to actually market yourself to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 05:31 AM
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To be honest I throw the "lets stay friends" line out of pure politeness and hope he says no. Its just so awkward when you have been friends for awhile and he tries to make a move. Of course in 100% of cases they wanna stay friends and start hitting me up to hang out 3 times as much as before...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:43 AM
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Yes women are more accepting,but also more back stabbing and hold grudges forever. If I am sick I know a female friend will come and take care of me,so they are more nurturing,but if I have an argument with a woman even if I apologise in most cases she wont forgive and forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:39 AM
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Chill bro,its just a discussion. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:35 AM
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Hahahha I really wanna help him,but no way am I opening that can of worms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 06:27 PM
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Yeeep,once every 2 weeks. His clothes and hair are awful,but he isnt bad looking,he could get a girlfriend...if he didnt smell like a hobo....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:49 PM
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See I can actually understand this,but to take 0 pride in your appearance and yet always go for rather hot girls isnt youthfull stupidity...at 28. Like he doesnt actually shower...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:30 PM
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He has a rather good job,when he tries he is like the life of the party and he is in amazing shape,but like 0 relationship skills and so far women above 22 somehow smell it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 04:22 PM
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Seriously? Being fit,funny and older. Older chicks dont want him beats me why. Probable cause they have met his brand of fuccboi and know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 02:25 PM
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I have no idea about exact numbers,but the dude has a new "girlfriend" every month,they stick around for a couple of weeks and then leave him. He is pretty attractive(when he puts in the effort),but also pretty miserable and is constantly trying to find a serious relationship. Problem is that his game only works on super young girls,like around 18-20,while he is gonna be 29 this year. Of course the younger chicks have no idea what they want and they are pretty immature,but the older ones are too…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:57 PM
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You cant cherry pick whats considered human nature,its not only what you need an excuse for. If human nature has such a great impact on our lives that we,as sentient beings,cant control ourself and go beyond our base desires then we should be attracted to what i have said in each of my comments. So all around you in France women with narrow hips are considered attractive,that is then by default what is attractive where you live. That you want to be a special snowflake does not change the fact th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 10:51 AM
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Reading this thread makes me realise that different parts of the world have such different standarts lol I have 2 friends with N counts 30+ and where I live this is considered pretty slutty. One is a banker and was my BFF for a loooong time,15+ years,but we are really different people at this point. She actually lied to her first boyfriend that she was NOT a virgin(to look more cool I suppose) and fucked a total stranger to lose her V card. After that she has pretty much cheated on all of her bf…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:27 AM
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N count is 4 guys,2 girls and I am a woman. There is no such thing as appropriate N count,but I wouldnt even touch anyone that goes above 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:00 AM
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Dude seriously your original point was how it was all nature,but with every passing comment you are trying to make it more about society. If a man cheats he is spliting resources which by your original point is bad,if a woman cheats and doesnt produce a child it should be totally fine,no paternity fraud. So its worse when man cheat! See I can totally make baseless claims as well. So now its not unhygenic,but what peoples fee fees say about it? This is hardly an argument. Not to mention that fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 03:56 AM
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Your first comment said its fine to have some extra sex outside of marrige,I asked if its fine for women to do as well and then you went with the whole its in mans nature to cheat. At least try to keep track of what you say. First of all hair is not in any way unhygenic,second of all you say you want her to shave at least sometimes same as you,this is not how nature created anyone. Should i even mention that a lot of women have mustaches,hairy nipples and the like,which I highly doubt you would …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 02:18 PM
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Seeing as I mostly agree with RP it would be strange to bash them. I am against using bullshit claims to defend one gender,but say the other gender is wrong by doing the same thing. So you would be ok dating a completly hairy chick? I am not sure that you can actually even imagine it lol. You would not be trimming your legs or arms on the first date prob,so its really not something you can compare. Actually being fat for women was good,it meant she could survive winter. Women werent the hunters …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 12:55 PM
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You are going off topic. Again if we are hardwired in one way we should be unable to change. You dont mind hairy women,but dont date them? Kk dude. There are a ton of things that make a person attractive according to nature. Being hairy is not masculine,we perceive it as such,being fat should be attractive to men for the simple reason that it means higher chance of survival in the wild....and yet tiny,skinny,hairless women are whats found attractive. You cant just pick the traits you like and ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 12:22 PM
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And yet we hardly follow our nature at this point,so saying that nature made us like that is a silly argument. Nature made us all hairy,but clearly man arent attracted to that,so we are not going by simple instincts. Who perceives cheating as such things? I have never heard anyone using those terms. Cheating on someone you married has nothing to do with nature,its a moral thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:42 AM
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Yes of course,man that have married the woman should cheat cause nature. Women that marry and cheat are hypergamous sluts...cause nature! Clearly neither man nor women at this point act according to nature,so you are just trying to justify cheating :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:14 AM
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If there is nothing wrong with cheating when married...why are you all so hung up about women doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:06 AM
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No one deserves anything in life,saying you deserve to have a woman simply cause you think you are nice is entitlement for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:34 AM
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I hate children and would never have any,it makes sense to be careful. Still in a LTR after 6 months I usually drop the condoms,but tbh they rarely finish in me. Still better safe then sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:46 PM
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And yet there are guys out there using the words " I am nice to her and we have so much in common,she should date me. I deserve a relationship waaay more then the douchbag she is dating ". I already had that argument a few days ago and was told I am making up stories. Then one dude didnt like the words I used. There are entitled people in this world and it hardly has anything to do with attractivness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:28 PM
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I am wrong cause you say so. Lol k dude. I am out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 09:10 PM
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Sorry entitlement is not a slur,no matter how much incels want it to be. At this point it seems we are just going in circles,I dont know a better word in english. But you are welcome to learn bulgarian so we can have a better disscussion :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 06:01 PM
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You can want anything in life,but to think people wont judge you for that is silly. As I already explained this is the closest word in my limited knowledge of english,I really dont know what else to do here at this point. You are basicly saying he can desire and pursue whoever he wants,no matter his looks/personality and he should not be judged. He can do whatever he feels is right,but that does not mean its womens fault they dont want him. Of course you can have sky high standarts and wait for …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 01:18 PM
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Thats it? But I already answered that jesus,he of course wouldnt use those same words. But he does think he deserves a girlfriend simply cause he exists without putting any effort in it. I am guessing you have a problem with my wording,but english is not my native language and those are the best words I can use. The expectation that no matter how you look/act you deserve someone that wants/loves you,bonus points if the ones you want are super hot. Thats my definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 12:56 PM
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I reread your entire response yet again,so clearly I am blind. Please be a dear and copy what entitlment is for this old person. I saw you said I am confusing desire with entitlement,but nothing about what entitlement actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 12:12 PM
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So a lot of talking and yet you didnt answer...what is entitlement? You are waiting on me to give you an explanation so you can try to attack it. Not gonna respond to anything you say if you dont give me your definition of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 10:33 AM
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How about responding to anything i said? Are you really saying bad hygine is actually a pwrsonality trait? Cause if it isnt,then why is he simply not showering if he wants someone to love him? Are you saying he doesnt realise he has to shower? Suuure I want someone that loves my personality,someone with the same interests...and yet being a slob is actually not a hobby. You could argue that being an asshole is part of his personality,but it shouldnt be the main part. The dude has a hobby he is re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 05:48 AM
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Why would any woman decide to date the unwashed creepy weirdo even at 50,when she could easily pick just a normal average dude? No need to eat from the trash lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 05:22 PM
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I HIGHLY doubt it,at 28 he should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 04:11 PM
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I am not sure which attention we are counting. If I am on a dating site and I get matches...does this count? Or we talking man actually stopping me on the street to ask for my number? Like if I am literally looking for attention I dont think it counts as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 03:17 PM
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Stop playing the victim. The first time you put pepsi? Sure its the manual at fault. But if you do it again? All you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:09 AM
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Thats a bad analogy. Thats like reading the sky is green,even tho you can see its blue. For fucks sake put pepsi instead of oil,see the engine fuck up...would you put pepsi again next time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 07:39 AM
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And I am saying how we are not children and we can think on our own. If you try to get with 10 girls and they all reject you,normally you would consider you are fucking up somewhere and fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 04:46 AM
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So now we are changing the meaning? Cause i mentioned funny as well. Really I dont understand the logic,women are told different things then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 08:42 PM
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You have only seen the advice to shower and get fit on PUA sites? Strange as a female i fucking knew to not be a disgusting fat pig somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 07:47 PM
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Lets get real...expecting a girl to initiate sex with you after you tricked her to sleep in your bed,for the simple reason you are not a douchbag(his reasons btw) is entitlement. And really if you put 0 effort in your apperance expect girls to shockingly not want you. He wants someone to love his lack of personal hygine? Thats not who he is,thats not anyones personality. On new years eve he asked me to introduce him to a chick,she is a legit 8,dated the only fuccboi I know. Before that he tried …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 07:46 PM
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So when they taught you Santa was real...you couldnt figure out the truth later in life? Lets just drop the excuses,we all fucking know being fit is attractive,showering is awesome,being funny rules...nothing new,but easier to whine and bitch and do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 07:33 PM
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He believes sexual innuendos and jokes are enough for women to realise he wants them....but he talks like that all the time and to all females.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 04:43 PM
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Pretty words dont change how the world is. You can make your SO feel like a million dollars and he would still prob be the chaser in 99% of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 04:41 PM
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I cant even tell if you are joking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 01:15 PM
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Dont feel bad for either of them is the correct answer. Dude can actually become pretty decent looking if he spend any effort/money on his appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 01:09 PM
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Yawn...nothing you say or believe is real,cause you havent shown me any evidence,only stories and anecdotes. All I ask you at least make them believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 01:07 PM
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So I am lying? Your argument is basicly "I dont wanna believe it,cause its not the reality I have made for myself".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 12:33 PM
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Dont feel bad for her,she has friendzoned him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 12:29 PM
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The dude has said this multiple times,that girls should want him as he is. Any girl that doesnt want him is into douchbags,he doesnt even look at girls that are not pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 12:10 PM
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Ok so one of my friends got into bikeing last year where she met a bunch of ppl. This dude tho(calling him S) kinda isolates her from the group and makes it so he is her only link to them. S organises a trip to the sea with about 3 other ppl,him and her. They are gonna sleep in his parents villa,but he forgets to tell them there are only 2 functioning rooms in the place as it is under renovation. They get there in the late evening and there are like only 3 beds,but now its too late to find anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 11:30 AM
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My "nice guy" friend was shocked that one of the girls in the group didnt jump his bones after he tricked to sleep in the same bed...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 10:51 AM
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If you check my previous comments you would see I agree with a lot of RPs ideas. Everyone here gets so deffensive when its said that men chase and woman choose,but its the truth. And its biology so there is no need to shame women for it. If you are an average man and go after an average woman,you would think you are looksmatched and she should want you. But thats what you want,the truth is she can have a higher SMV man then you and yes he would prob still commit to her. Do i deserve anything for…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 10:50 AM
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Oh I know a few nice guys and they are entitled. One of them is a skinny dude that showers once a week at best,has just awful teeth he has done nothing about,thinks conversation with anyone is basicly him makeing inappropriate sexual jokes. This dude thinks that him simply existing as he is means he deserves a girlfriend....and not even an average girl,but like a hot one. He offers nothing,but wants everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 08:54 AM
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Your argument has devolved into feels,so far I havent used anything you have not already said. He was with you while you led and you pushed for him leading. Have I said something untrue? You actually used the words "pushed him to lead",so by simple logic it wasnt something he felt strongly about and didnt push for a different kind of relationship. You,right now,are trying to make it seem as if it was his idea that you just voiced,but so far it sounds like he didnt try to dump you while you led. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 01:14 PM
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Its simple,if he was miserable at the start when you were leading he would have left. You were the one being discontent and worried he would leave you because of you being more dominant then him,so you did change him for yourself. He wasnt the one to come to you with his worries and saying he wants to lead more,you were the one to push for that. I dont understand why it feels like you hate men that are naturally more submissive,they arent less then dominant men,just a different personality. Hell…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 11:35 AM
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He was not naturally dominant,by your words you pushed him to lead more. Now you are saying that because you asked him if he wants to lead and of course he said yes he must be way happier. He would probably be more happy by being his natural more submissive self,but didnt want to lose you and agreed to what you wanted. This actually explains a lot,you were very dominant at the start,then asked him to lead more,he agreed as he has done before and now he is "leading". He is just happy being with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 11:10 AM
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You changed him for your own reasons and you are trying to justify it. Hell I think I am somehow controling my SO less then you do with yours at this point. Your whole point was how your body is sacred and only for the eyes of your boyfriend,now you are changing it to mean that only posting naked pictures is unacceptable. My point is that your body is hardly sacred and lots of ppl see it every day,no point in trying to make it into something it is not. By your own logic every time you dress in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 07:12 AM
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You pushed him to lead more after you got into a relationship with him,that means you got into that relationship with the idea to change him. I am against that,I understand changing superficial things about someone,but not his core personality. From your previous comment i understood that you dont do those activities without him. Why get dolled up without him then if you only need his attention and dont want other men to sexualise you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 10:09 PM
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The illusion of power isnt real power tho. You directing him to leading is you leading,but making him think its his decision. I understand and do the same thing,its very helpfull when building up confidence in someone. Consider another way when I am happy and my boyfriend is happy? That seems like trying to fuck up something good. Also you seem to not consider that my boyfriend is naturally submissive and pushing him to lead might make him miserable. Being a leader or a follower has nothing to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:40 PM
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Being a good girlfriend is not a list with checkboxes,if your boyfriend is happy with you and the life he leads with you,you are a good girlfriend. You could be cooking,cleaning,doing everything sexually for him,supporting him in everything etc. and if he isnt happy with your relationship,you are not a good girlfriend(not sure that made as much sense as it did in my head). Delegation means you are still leading by giving him tasks to do,no matter how you try to represent it thats still leading. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 02:05 PM
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So you are not really a leader,you may be in a leader position,but I dont think you are a natural leader. Ok what if you both want completly different things and there was no way to compromise? I bet you are gonna say its 50-50 again,even tho you agreed with me thats not possible. Of course the personal attacks start when it turns out your argument is on the weak side. I am confident in how I look,I love showing off and knowing people want me,but the best part is my boyfriend is into it. I suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 01:19 PM
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How do you turn off being a leader just in your house to your men? So it makes you weak when you listen to him? I dont know what else you want me to say,are you waiting on a schedule of how often we fuck with my SO? A list of sexual activities we do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:47 PM
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You are still not answering most of my questions and ignoring most of my answers. So I think we are done here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:41 PM
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I didnt ask if women were more or less sexually attractive by being submissive. A submissive men is weak in your eyes,but you dont want to answer the same about submissive women. I already answered,maybe to another poster,my SO is the same person i started dating so my sexual attraction to him is the same. He is not less of a men in my eyes because he realises I am a better leader. According to your logic no woman should ever lead any men. So you admit one of you has more power in your relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:06 PM
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Do you feel like women being lead by men are weak useless blobs then? You are trying to make your relationship sound equal,but in a prevoius comment you said you want to be submissive at home,cause you lead in your daily live...or maybe just submissive in bed,sorry if I misunderstood. Then you say he takes care of you way more then the other way around...its not a bad think to have more power then him in a relationship,it could be 60-40,but pretending its exactly 50-50 at all times seems silly. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 05:06 PM
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I have never dated someone that is lower SMV then me if that makes sense. I do pick guys that are not as attractive as me,but thats hardly something i care about. As i said above I have dated Chad and once you break his frame he gives you less then Beta Billy. I dont know what kind of control you are imagining,I just lead in all of my relationships. I wont waste my life living someone elses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:12 AM
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You are trying to do what a lot of people do on PPD,make it seem as if my relationship is somehow worse then yours,because its different. I have heard the whole " I dominate in everything else,so I want to be dominated in bed/at home ",so when you get to your men your turn off your personality? You realise certain traits make you a leader, I cant turn them off just because I went to a different place. Lose attraction? He is literally the same person I started dating. I want a relationship where …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:08 AM
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Generally not benevealent. I see where you are going with this,but I already know why I pref such relationships. My dad was extreamly alpha,if there is such a thing,he controlled everything in the house. By RP logic I should have respected him and I should have learned how to be submissive....except when I was 11 I found out he was cheating and lost the small amount of respect I had for him. So instead of submissive I became a dominant,prob so I am sure my partner is always more invested in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 08:23 PM
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I will be 28 in august,so my social group is around that age. Where i live around 5,but 10 is totally acceptable as well. Past 10 people start talking and past 20 you are a legit slut in the eyes of many. Edit: Sorry didnt see the part about bars. Even then past 10 partners is just begging for a bad reputation. But i would be more lenient and push all of my numbers by 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 07:43 PM
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Ah being benevolent has always been my problem! I suppose any plans for taking over the world should be put on hold. I enjoy things being done,doesnt matter too much if I do them or my SO,just that its usually me doing them. I enjoy having the upper hand in my relationships like you wouldnt believe it,so yeah I pref to lead. Of course I was trying to break his frame,thats how you win. If the only thing he can offer me is a great body and a strong masculine frame,he better be able to actually hol…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 06:39 PM
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Well according to the test I am a INTJ,so you were right on both accounts. I have dated 2 programmers,mostly cause of shared interests and the ease with which they follow my lead. On the other hand 2 years ago I dated an alpha...and broke his frame as you people say in about 2 months. So far in my expirience all men fall for the same tricks. I dont think you are an oddity at all,your ideal woman is what all men want. The things is that I have set my expectations according to the men i actually m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 05:54 PM
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Those are too rare,if they even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 05:17 PM
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Yep,makes my life pretty easy tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 05:11 PM
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I am into all things nerdy _^ I cant say I believe in those kinds of tests,so I have no idea what these letters even mean. Being extreamly girly/feminine I have found is more of a turn off. I have to look feminine,but not talk about it and not have an interest in such hobbies (i prob make no sense). Really? My general expirience is women think being female is enough,hardly any of them strategies or try to be unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 04:46 PM
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I have gotten mistaken for a dude on this sub a few times now. It is a play on a thing from Futurama and a nickname. Ah you are thinking I am using rp to become/appear feminine,young and innocent...which is really wrong. I am using rp techiniques on men to gain the upper hand in a relationship and control it. My point was I now better know what annoys or puts off men,so I just make myself appear as a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 04:26 PM
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It means very little to me as I am a woman and rarely go for women. But it doesnt make it less true,just easier to sell myself as a special snowflake to the men I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 03:51 PM
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I am pretty neutral,but when I learned about the pills I thought the redpill was full of crazy people living in fantasy land. I kept reading the pills subs tho and slowly started to see the behaviours the redpill was talking about. So at this point I am 50-50,dont believe AWALT,but a pretty decent portion of women are very irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 02:40 PM
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Dont know how to proove otherwise. I believe in a lot of the things they say and a lot of their tricks work on men too. Just so we are clear I dont believe all of the bullshit they say,just some of the tricks to manipulate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 09:10 PM
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I have no idea what that means,just see no point in pretending to be morally superior on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 08:59 PM
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Not really a concious reaction on my end,but I am self aware enough to know where it comes from. I have never had anyone cheat on me and have never cheated. All of my past boyfriends have tried to get back together for years after the break ups,so I know I am doing enough things right to hook them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 08:58 PM
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I doubt many women will admit to it,there is a stigma in wanting more power in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 08:55 PM
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Well everytime we meet should be a decent frequency? Havent had complains this far and I am open to trying everything at least ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 08:54 PM
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Most desirable: Game developer that lets me play all the games. Least desirable: Anything with children
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 03:44 PM
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There is the other thing as well,while I am attracted to super hot guys I would never date them for the simple reason I am not hot enough. I will constantly worry he is cheating on me or even worse...that he wants to just pump and dump me. Whenever a hot guy on dating apps writes to me I dont respond and a few of them have approached me in real life and i rejected them. I always gravitate towards guys 1-2 points below me,so that I know he wont cheat on me and I would have the power in the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 03:37 PM
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The whole point of the debate is that marrying a virgin is the best course,you wouldnt know what kind of a person the virgin would be in bed tho. So while she may want to make you happy,there is also a high chance she wont like the same things as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:41 AM
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So you are saying that no person on the planet hates oral? Pleanty of people hate it,not dislike it or dont care for it,but hate it. Making someone do it for you when they hate it would make me not get any pleasure out of the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 04:46 AM
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So you are saying women can start likeing men they dont find attractive? Why are you not dating ugly girls then,make yourself like them! Make yourself attracted to them and make yourself not attracted to hot chicks. Noone can demand anything really,you are saying tho that somehow by simply not being Chad that makes you nice. A picture will tell you everything about a person? If you saw a picture of Elliot Rogers,without knowing who he is,would you be able to guess what kind of a person he is? Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 07:40 PM
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And try at some point...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 07:13 PM
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Yes its such an outlier to go for looks. And really if you want a virgin you might have to actually consider ugly girls,so that you arent used and abused. We should all date people we find repulsive so we can have the coveted dead bedroom. Its crazy how someones advice on finding a men to date is literally date awkward,disgusting dudes....while he says the most important thing he looks for in a woman is looks. What does staring at a picture of her ex gonna give you? If he is hotter then you she …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 07:13 PM
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Hey if you are happy with a pretty boring sex life thats fine,but isnt it true that a woman that has had sexy is simply better at it then a woman that hasnt had any ever? How would you even know who the guys were? Here its pretty normal for coupled to stop using condoms in monogamos long term relationships (2+ years),and the smart ones get tested before they drop the condoms. So you believe there is a way to in a way make it fair or better? Do you agree that women can do same then and make it al…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 04:54 PM
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Yep,dont have to sleep with 500 dudes,but some ecperimenting before settling down is for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:31 PM
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So you would be perfectly happy if she never dresses in lingerine or does anal? Even if its something like a quick fuck in the park for the trill of it? Kinks dont have to be extreme,but a very vanila sex life is unsatisfying for a lot of people. And if you are to marry this woman,that would mean 30-40 years of literally the same thing over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:30 PM
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So you are willing to never get a blowjob from your virgin wife? Or to maybe only get missionary sex? Thats a compromise...if you make her suck your dick,while she hates it and get pleasure from that...something is very broken in you. You will be getting off on the fact she is performing something she detests just to get it over with. You may consider that something between the slut and the virgin is the best choice. A woman with a N count of 2-3,from monogamus long relationships will know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:27 PM
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I really dont think it has to be a bad expirience either,her husband can be the best lover ever,but she may still not be into his kinks/fetishes. Maybe he likes for sex to be more rough and she pref slow,gentle lovemaking...now they are both miserable,but stuck with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 02:50 PM
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You would want your SO to do things she hates and that would actually bring you pleasure? Like you will KNOW she hates it and yet you will still enjoy the act? Is it the same for women...as long as her safety is not threatened and there are no other chicks involved? I will not even go into how many kinks/fetishes exist where your personal safety is fine,there are no other dudes and yet i am certain you will refuse to perform them. So you are saying that a 16 year old sheltered virgin should have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 02:40 PM
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I gave oral as an example,but what if I was into more extream things? He should keep doing them to please me? So why are you shocked my virgin friend has started to resend her husband after for years doing what he liked?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 02:07 PM
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Right its EXACTLY like that. Its more like my bf tried oral with an ex,he hated it and now doesnt do it. If getting oral is so important to me,i would not date him. But if i marry him when he is a virgin and then realise he hates oral...well i am stuck now. With a girl with a higher N count you know exactly what her likes/dislikes are and can pick one that fits you. Edit: If he can find a better deal then her I would personally pay for his divorce. He is not a redpiller,just a normal natural alp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 01:51 PM
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My virgin friend has no idea how to even express her wants to her alpha husband,its not about being selfish,he is leading the relationship. So you want someone to do sexual acts they hate with you,because they tried them once before?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 01:39 PM
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Someones hamster is spinning,but i dont think its mine. I didnt deffend her,but her being a virgin makes the risk of her cheating a lot higher. Its oh so very strange how all of the sluts that married are not only being faithfull,but also rather happy. The one friend married to an alpha is looking to cheat tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 01:37 PM
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So you are saying you dont want someone that has their own likes/dislikes. Lets say your virgin wife hates blowjobs,do you think she will change her mind just because she has only had sex with you? Do you think that women only start hating sex stuff after trying them with a bad partner or do you think some women will always hate certain acts,no matter how good is her partner? And of course I have to share my personal expirience. The one friend I have that married her first and only sexual partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 01:16 PM
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Thats something i dont get...so if i am a stay at home woman,i wont be working right? So arent i just using my alpha husband/boyfriend for his money,because I always hear how easy it is to stay at home. And just to be clear,where I live women work full time jobs,do all of the child rearing and all of the household chores and yet TRP is still becoming more and more popular here. Like what else do you want??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 01:00 PM
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I live in Bulgaria,which i am guessing is still behind the curve. The one chick i know that has had sex on the first date realised the dude wasnt relationship material during the date and then turned him into a FWB. I dont know how else to explain it,here its considered that you are boyfriend/girlfriend after you have sex,with very few exceptions. There is no exclusivity talk,no open relationships,no cold approaches....a very different place then what i read about on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 08:57 PM
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Where i live (Europe),to have sex by the 3rd date does happen,but its not the norm. People date for weeks before sleeping together and this is completly normal. I dont have sex with a guy unless i get commitment,so far i have waited a month with my last 2 boyfriends and a lot longer with my first. Its not that i am not attracted to the guy,but i dont want to be pumped and dumped and my strategy has worked out so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 03:31 PM
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Have you tried? Cause its pretty easy to find rather well paying work for americans where I live. Yeah its a small country,but you would be living like a king. If dating is so important and where you live its so bad....I would move.
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Why are you ignoring most of the comment? By your own logic you dont have the right to feel disgusted,no matter how you refuse. Pointless babble,thats how I know you are a man.
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You said I cant be disgusted tho. Your point is basicly if I politely shove poop in your mouth you would be fine with it. You are twisting your own words,I never said I call guys anything. My original comment does say I feel insulted by it tho. I also said that if men insist on hitting on much hotter women they should accept the rather high chance she calls them a creep.
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Ah now its morally wrong. If I come up to you and shove poop in your mouth....do you have the right to be disgusted? If you react negatively apperantly my fee fees will be hurt,so you dont have the right.
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And the dude is a child and not a mature human being? Why cant he not hit on someone much hotter then him? So its always what women can do to protect men. Go to creepyPMs and tell me again how guys are just misunderstood and have no choice in the matter. Stop hitting on much hotter people and then whinning when they reject you in a way you dont like. Was there a point to those sentances? Couldnt find it.
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Doesnt give me the right to be DISGUSTED? Tell me you misspelled a word or something. I can be disgusted. By a dude,by roaches,by kids....I do have that right.
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So if a guy is creepy and I reject him its my fault again? Please give me clear guidelines in whats accepted when I reject people. Well no,only when I reject men as they have very fragile egos apperantly.
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I already answered that a few comments ago. They can hit on women they find attractive and out of their league,but then they should not whine when called creepy. They are being creepy to those much hotter women,not to mention its not this womans fault some other chick rejected him.
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You are posting from a throwaway,hiding behind a screen. Between the two of us I think we both know who is insecure. So a tattoo and me posting on gonewild(something the dude doesnt know) and my style make a greasy dude with bad teeth in my league? And that here is why we have creeps,they are basicly trying to find things about a hotter girl and pretend those things make her a 4 like them. It is funny. Are you saying that the anorexic twigs on runaway shows are hotter then instagram models? I al…
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Its ok to be bitter and attack me personaly instead of try to argue against the points I made. This is reddit after all. We can talk about instagram models and how "down to earth" they are or maybe do the Tinder experiment and only swipe on the hottest chicks. We can even go out and only hit on 9s and 10s and the results will always be the same. They are not the "down to earth models" you speak of,but I am sure that your friends are as hot as you say and as down to earth as you say. I always bel…
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Not religious in the slightest,which I find really strange.
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I actually work with autistic people and she doesnt exactly show the traits. I think its her upbringing.
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Not exactly shy per se,but she got extreamly weird if you did something normal like touch her hand while talking to her. Hugs(from females even) were an awkward affair that the group just stopped giving her as she seemed super uncomfortable. We thought she was religious for a time,but noooope not at all. She was living with her super coservative grandma that told her any contact with men made her a whore. She didnt work and she was still only in her second year of university at age 27.
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From all of my female friends and aquiatences I have only met one that didnt care for sex at all. She was 27 and a virgin,she just viewed everything even remotely sexual as gross. Was a weirdo to be honest. The rest of them thought about sex,watched porn and got frustrated when not getting any....all to different degrees. If I had to guess they didnt think about sex as much as a guy,but also a lot of our conversations did involve sex in some form or another.
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So if you have this project you are supposed to present infront of all the CEOs of your company,its super important and you start talking. A woman just randomly goes "You are so beautifull". Thats totally appropriate? You compliment each other if you are at least aquintances,but to a complete stranger? A bit inappropriate.
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Why is it a strawman? Are you saying this isnt a compliment?
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Is having a great ass not a positive thing? You are complimenting her on her great ass.
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So you think its normal and appropriate to go to your boss and tell her that her ass is so nice?
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