Debaser626 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	To the divorced men who visit prostitutes why do you? Doesn’t it make more economic and moral sense to stay celibate or at least to hookup with regular women? Most of us are being coerced by ex-wives and needing money to go to our regular jobs… and for a fraction of the stated pay. We share something in common with prostitutes in that we are both getting fucked, whether we like it or not.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/26 04:33 PM
5	What I Wish I’d Figured Out Sooner About This Divorced-Dad Thing (It’s Definitely Not the Big Stuff) Thanks for this. Makes me wonder about what I'm doing. My situation is a slight deviation from the norm, though. I'm currently renting a room and can't have my 4 kids over (or any guests, really). Trying to save up money for an apartment, but can't get much traction as I'm spending too much with the "gentlemen's agreement" of 30% of my check going to the kids, keeping the kids occupied when I have them since there's no "home base" (lots of lunches, dinners, snacks, activities to keep them engage…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/26 05:30 PM
8	Told not to attend first Important event post Divorce And Given that attitude, he’ll probably know what OP feels like soon enough. Lol.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/26 07:59 PM
2	When someone leaves but never closes the door — what does that actually mean? I'm about 3 months into this now, and I agree. The "official" reason is that she doesn't have the money to file, and I shit as sure ain't paying it.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/26 03:13 PM
1	Pretty new to this Give it time... just wondering if have you made amends as part of a program of recovery? I haven't yet, and I'm currently 3 months separated and things are so up and down and all over the place it makes my head spin. As a recovering alcoholic myself, I had to realize the depths of betrayal my sneak-drinking caused. I used to pride myself on my fidelity and loyalty until she said that I didn't even have the decency to cheat on her with another human being. In hindsight, the booze always seeming t…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/26 04:02 PM
3	I ruined my marriage and now getting a divorce. You may or may not ever reconcile, but truly and fundamentally improving who you are as a person can do wonders. It can't be faked, wished for, or merely emulated. But if you put in the work and follow suggestions of others, you can achieve that change. Stay consistent with the work, and everyone will soon be able to see it within you. Now, whether your spouse is willing to give you another chance... that is beyond your control. Regardless, you'll be happier, healthier and more serene.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/26 07:18 PM
2	Any men in this financial situation with their divorce? I can’t say I have… but JFC, I’d be tempted to fake my own death.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/26 11:49 PM
1	The Last Day I Hugged My Family (A true story about love, loss, and finding a way forward) Don't protect her from the consequences of her own actions. No judge on the face of the planet is going to assign 100% of your earnings to her, even if what she said were true (and it's not). Give her 50% if that's what you feel you should contribute, but hurting yourself (financially or otherwise) isn't going to make anything better.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/25 09:28 PM