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And the men who have these women as sisters/daughters/wives will just sit there an do nothing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:30 PM
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Are you really advocating for men to rape and abuse women they want but who don't want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:26 PM
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Insulin pumps provide a necessary life component that all humans need. If diabetics don't get the proper amount of insulin the will die. Because their needs are not being met. ​ People won't die from lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:55 AM
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Then you should phase it as just wanting sex. And if that is the case maybe you should just fuck your friends. Or hire a proustite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:13 PM
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Do these guys not have friends they can hang out with and enjoy their company? Why does company have to be in the form of getting sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:27 PM
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Relationship Market Place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 10:57 PM
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And denying that it could even possible be a concern is...silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 12:56 AM
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Oh, but don't you know? When a guy is really pushing for sex, he isn't worried about your ability to get off. He's pushing for his orgasm because if he really wanted it to be a pleasurable experience, he would have stopped pressuring you when you said you were clearly not in the mood. ​ But at that point, they mostly just see you has a pocket pussy. It's a gross feeling to be used that way. Which is why sex when you aren't into it can be really damaging to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 12:48 AM
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Maybe they need to loosen their grip a bit. If they can't feel the walls of a vagina they may be using to too much pressure at other times. Because dude, even the largest vagina should fit any penis comfortably...unless it is perhaps a bit on the smaller/bigger* side. Which is fine, but even so one should check to see they aren't giving themselves deathgrip. ​ EDIT*
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 12:42 AM
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Oh lol well, yeah maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 04:10 PM
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This is a total aside, but I think the last time I posted more often, you were engaged. Congrats on the wedding! That's awesome. I hope you guys are very happy together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 01:44 AM
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Do you always refer to your kid as "they"? Yes because the internet doesn't need to know anything about them. That is odd. I think posting all the information about your kid on the internet is odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:12 PM
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Good teachers should work hard because they financially benefit from it Please continue talking about things you clearly don't know anything about. It's fun for me to read how out of touch you are. The super teacher model isn't sustainable. You aren't wrong which is why teacher burn out is a real problem along with first year teachers quitting. Which is why I say that being a teacher is not easy nor is it overpaid. Look at your classroom. The money is already there, so if you don't make this muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:39 PM
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What I take from what you say here is that you don't need to work hard, but you personally do because you care. What I'm saying is that good teachers try because they care. And I agree teachers should make at least $60k.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:22 PM
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Teachers work over the summer and during vacations. People who aren't teachers really should not talk about how much or little teachers make/work. Not to mention some teachers don't get paid over the summer and have to have summer jobs. But yea, it's really hard to determine what makes a good teacher. Is it people who are able to get their students to memorize and pass standardized tests? Is it someone who gets the students engaged and interested in the content even if those same students can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:19 PM
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It is not easy or overpaid for the vast majority of teachers. I think that fact that you are in a certain socio-economic status (and so is the family of your niece) may be blinding you to the rest of the teaching world. (Or the teacher has a masters/doctorate degree and tenure) Your bonus was probably a good portion of my yearly salary. I mean sure, I could maybe phone in my lessons and not try so hard to make sure the students are getting all their educational and emotional needs at least somew…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:34 PM
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I have friends that moan about it all the time, but from a parents perspective it looks like one of the easiest jobs and most overpaid jobs in the US. I'm sorry, you think teaching is overpaid and easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:20 PM
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Yeah, this is on point. Personal note to back up my opinion: ​ Okay so I had a baby 18 months ago. I had 12 weeks of (half) paid maternity leave then I had to go back to work (teaching). My husband had 2 weeks of paid leave. I worked full time until Covid hit and locked everything down a few months later, at which time I started working from home. This was great and terrible as the baby was at a stage where I really did have to devote the majority of my attention to them while trying to teach in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:24 PM
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I wouldn't put up with all the shit my husband puts me though if I didn't love him. In some ways, life would be so much easier if I were single and/or lived alone. Even with raising a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:44 AM
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Having sex is compromising one's character?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:18 PM
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And how is that not acknowledged as a problem and that they should consider it when approaching ideas surrounding dating and different aspects that the behaviors take?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:43 AM
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People who don't have standards for dating/sex are just sad and desperate individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 08:27 PM
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Does it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 08:16 PM
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All of my friends are either married or engaged. I don't really have any friends who are not in a committed relationship. I'm perfectly happy with where my life is. My husband is the bees knees, our dog is such a good, and our child is cuter than Grogu.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 08:07 PM
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Ah, yes I did know that but I often forget since I use my own chicken eggs so I know that they are healthy. At least haven't gotten sick so /shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:50 PM
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Now I feel dumb, isn't all cookie dough edible? Or do you mean like...edible edible?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:45 PM
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Yo there is a blue full moon on the 31st (Halloween) which also has 13 hours of nighttime sooo...what you making then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:38 PM
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Yeah I always hate these kinds of threads because what I bring to a table is completely different from what you (or any other chick here) brings to a table. Just like how different men bring different things to a table.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:34 PM
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That's not a relationship. That's hiring a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:29 PM
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You paid her to be your gf or like you paid for dates and such?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:02 PM
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but that doesn’t count Wait, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 02:15 PM
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How many relationships have you had total vs how many were "Good Relationships"? One, and it has had it's ups and downs but overall it is amazing and I wouldn't change any part of it (even the bad stuff) for the world. How old are you? How long did/has the relationship last(ed)? Currently in our mid thirties, we started dating at 14, got married at 22. Is there a difference or consistency you've observed in what causes a relationship to be Good or Bad? (Settling and compromise vs breaking up and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:48 PM
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The grass may look greener but that’s because it’s fertilized with the fantasy of something new and better. The grass is green where you water it. So get off your neighbor's lawn and pay attention to your own. (This is not directed at you, but just something I've come up with when I come across the "greener grass" thing)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 07:06 PM
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I started dating my husband when we were 14. We got married at 22 and didn't break up or "take a break" that entire time. We are now in our 30's. We stayed together because we love each other. We, of course, have had trying and difficult times but we always worked them out together instead of letting them tear us apart. I've never met someone who was better for me than my husband. That doesn't mean I haven't met more handsome, or taller, or career motivated, or whatever, and while some of those …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 07:04 PM
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My husband and I have been together since we were 14. I come here mostly for the rage porn, but also to argue once in awhile. And yeah, I kinda agree. The only advice I can give is: pick a partner who wants it to work as much as you do. Figure everything else out together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:29 PM
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Not wanting to do a certain sexual act is baggage? She would be wasting her time and money with you once she discovers your baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 06:50 PM
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How is it at your expense? If you aren't sexually compatible just break up and move on. No need to try to force something they aren't interested in. That's just selfish and being a bad partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:59 PM
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Ah yes, women aren't allowed to have personal preferences based off past experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:51 PM
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Even stable relationships are thrown into chaos by adding kids. I honestly think that anyone who wants to have a kid needs to apply and get a permit to do so or face heavy fines. I had to do more to be able to teach kids than when I decided to have a child. And honestly having a child is a much heavier burden than teaching them (duh).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:49 PM
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Maybe you should go out and meet more people then. Oh! I forgot about my step brother, 5'8'' married with a kid on the way!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 05:14 PM
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I also know a 5'4'' man who is married with 3 children, a 5'9'' man married with 2 kids, a 5'8'' man married with 2 kids, and a lot of other "short" men who are married with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:33 PM
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Half of marriages end in divorce. Ugh no they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 02:13 PM
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Oh I don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:51 PM
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Sounds like a "you" problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 02:26 PM
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Dating is often filled with catch-22s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 02:16 PM
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Why do you automatically think that being in a monogamous relationship is living a life of mediocrity? And just because you feel controlling/insecure in a monogamous relationship does not mean others feel that way. I feel very secure in my relationship, I know that I've been able to attract and maintain a long lasting relationship that can weather shit storms and zombie attacks with someone of character and worth. Why would I want to trade that for slumming it up with people who can't? But, pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 02:15 PM
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I knew a chick who was really into a guy but he told her that she was too fat for him. So, she lost all the weight. They started hooking up (he refused to commit at first), then eventually they got into a committed relationship, got engaged and then married. They now have 3 kids and she's obese again. He's no prize himself (fat-skinny) but I kinda find it funny especially when he tells the story about how he once refused to get with her due to her weight like it's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 02:03 PM
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Ah I see. But still, she wanted you to be something other than what you were, not really yourself. So therefore she "loved" her version of you, not really you. This happens a lot. It can suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:59 PM
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How could she love you for you but also want you to change into something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:45 PM
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So she wasn't giving you space to be an individual. Which is her failing to give you something you need in order to continue a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:45 PM
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But I bet she wasn't giving you something else that you needed in order to continue the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:49 PM
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Yeah, Playboy was a failed idea from the get go...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:04 PM
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Those aren't really good objectifying examples though, maybe because you are doing it in a complimenting way. It would be a problem if when she was giving an opinion on something and you told her to shut up because no one cares about that and that she was ruining the good view. Therefore implying that the only thing of value she offered is her looks and not her thoughts. My husband often compliments my on my looks/body but he never does so in a way to imply that those things are the only good th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:28 PM
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The meanz wimmenz keeping the poor men down huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 01:00 PM
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I think if you ever took a US History class you would be educated enough to know that you are silly to think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 12:59 PM
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Sorry, I'm having difficulty reading "coward."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:52 PM
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If women waited for only other women of influence to fight for their rights, women still wouldn't be able to vote. But sure, do nothing and complain about the lack of change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:47 PM
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Women voting (or owning property/businesses, or gaining custody of children after divorce) are only considered "basic human rights" because women fought for them. If you don't want to fight for rights you view as important you don't get to complain about no one else fighting for them. QUICK to come into practice because fighting against it made no sense. You know that it took over 100 years for women gain the right to vote right? Do you know that my grandmother had to fight in order to maintain …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:37 PM
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That is honestly just so silly. Do you think that the suffragettes were just "given" rights and that they didn't have to face huge social, political, and physical push back? Why are men so incapable of facing the same issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:11 PM
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Oh this is going to be lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:32 PM
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Whatever happened to "Men built society"? If men built society, maybe they should put in more of an effort to make it the way they want/would benefit them and not worry about some women making mean tweets/posts on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:30 PM
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I'm sure the current economic climate has something to do with it. Being overwhelmed with educational debt and having fewer options for high paying jobs doesn't lend itself well to getting married young and having lots of kids. Add in that society has changed its views on premarital sex, having children out of wedlock, cohabitation, birth control, and women who decide not to get married, of course marriage/birth rates are going to drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:51 PM
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Goddamn it, take my angry upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 03:18 PM
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HAIRCUTS!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:04 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 06:08 PM
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I love my roomba, but he is very well treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 05:12 PM
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I don't really see how this relates to your post though? How does how a sex feels about the opposite sex writing their sex relate to "how women lie?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 11:48 AM
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A link to the post may be helpful so we know WTF you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 11:21 AM
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Men are generally awful at telling who's wearing make-up in the first place So freaking true. I've been with my husband for almost 19 years and he still can't tell most of the time. I don't wear makeup often and with WFH it's even less, and when I do put some on, it's usually just mascara and he almost starts a mini fight every time because he thinks I put on more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:12 PM
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Not to mention breast implants.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 12:49 PM
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Nah it really isn't. Go back and actually read what they wrote. EDIT: so buttmad you downvote? LOL at least attempt to follow the subs rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:31 PM
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So, you think all you need a guy for is free personal protection? That isn't what they said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:23 PM
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My husband is the only person who truly "gets" me. Sure I have really good female friends but the connection that my husband and I share is just...on a different level. Part of that level is physical attraction and sex, I don't think you're going to find many women (at least here) who want commitment from a man but who is also disgusted by sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:02 PM
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Those magazines are the bottom of the barrel type stuff. No one really reads then anymore or even takes them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 03:58 PM
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Who are these "women" who are complaining about men not wanting to commit?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:53 PM
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It's not really new data. It's kinda old, divorce rates are dropping and at the moment (so are marriage rates which just means that people are taking it more seriously and it's linked to socioeconomic status), if you are in your late 20's/early 30's (before 32) have at least a BA your "risk" of divorce is really only around 30%. The reason why the 50% statistic is often toted is that divorce rates climb due to the people who get married and divorced multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:06 PM
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50% of marriages do not end in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:45 PM
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We're here. And that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:52 PM
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I would like to see the evidence to this claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:42 PM
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negatively impact their ability to pair bonding ability Or women who tend to sleep around already don't "pair bond" there is no reason to try to put the cart before the horse here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:29 PM
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So, you changed and developed after some self improvement. Do you not think that other's are able to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:27 PM
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"Men" can have whatever feelings they want about a "woman's" n count. But they shouldn't be all surprised pikachu face when they get called out if they are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:08 PM
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Ehhhh I don't know how true that is. But again, people are emotional but they just tend to exhibit different emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:33 PM
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Every woman is emotional. Meh, people are emotional they just display said emotions in different ways/times. I cry maybe twice a year, I think the last time was when I was getting the epidural when giving birth. My husband on the other hand can't go a week without some sort of angry explosion over something. So which of us is more "emotional"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:23 PM
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You don't really love being with your baby - you still think of yourself as a college girl with her life and "having fun" obligation. Is there anything you would dedicate your life to? Is there something more than you that deserves sacrifice? You are so silly. Please don't even try to pretend like you know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:48 PM
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men are just beasts - they can sleep next to their barebell, within reach of the fridge and they will be fine. Ummm, my husband is the one with the lower "mess" tolerance so whatever, but even so, it's both of our jobs to keep the house livable. Due to Covid-19 I'm currently working from home with our 9 month old child. Don't get me wrong I freaking love seeing them grow and develop everyday and witnessing first hand how much they learn but GOOD GOD I cannot wait to go back to work. Maybe it wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:41 PM
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Same! Save I'm older...ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 09:03 PM
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32F, N=1. But my husband and I started dating at 14, married by 22 and never broke up during that time. So we are each other's one and only. EDIT: LOL at all the buttmad people downvoting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:27 PM
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Welp, I guess that sucks for him. But if it works for y'all it works for y'all. Just would not work in my relationship. I both need and give emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:56 PM
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Ugh my guy is with it for everyone...save maybe me. so special
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 08:51 PM
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without a woman doing it for them OMFG Yes. If I didn't constantly reach out to family/friends my husband would never see anyone. Even after he constantly complains about missing them. Which is fine, I do it because I love him and I need to be social at times too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 05:22 PM
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Men are more likely to be diagnosed with autism but that doesn't mean they are more likely to actually be autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 05:19 PM
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Whining and “breaking down” to the point that I worry he won’t be able to fulfill his responsibilities to the family, no thank you. I mean yeah, that sucks. But it mostly sucks because it's the person you are supposed to love the most in the world and seeing them in pain is awful. But if you care about upholding your vows you do your best to support them through the bad times as well as the good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 01:04 PM
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My husband cries at movies, songs, video games, weddings and personal issues (family, etc). He's still the strongest man I've ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:53 PM
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Nah man, that's just "advice"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:19 PM
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I don't have an account on that so I have no idea if the people are average or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:29 PM
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Average? No. Rich white people yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:32 PM
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I said mine as anecdotal as well. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:12 PM
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I'm still waiting for my free cash and prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:43 PM
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Anecdotal: I teach, my female students are doing really well with online learning, the boys not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:03 PM
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Better a gram than a damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 12:37 PM
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Encouraging people to take a drug that would lower their inhibitions and change their natural behavior is drugging.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 12:36 PM
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Ummm drugging people so that they act in ways that benefit others? That's already illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 10:07 PM
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How the fuck would this be ethical?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 07:57 PM
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I didn't downvote you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 02:07 PM
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Oh goodness. Tinder, casual dating and random sex just does not appeal to me at all. If I were to somehow become single (assuming he dies since that's about the only way it will happen) I don't think I'm going to be dating, especially since I have a young child and would not want to expose them to such turmoil. The fact of the matter is, when I was in college I had a core group of 3 other female friends, and none of us were having random sex. I was the only person who was having any (re: husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:19 PM
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Even though I'm technically "purple" I have lots of problems with the redpill. Oldest teenager in the house, hypergamy, "it's just your turn," and their beliefs of the prevalence of the CC in college. (and lots of other things but whatever) My life is just a direct contradiction to most of it. I've been with my husband since we were 14, got married at 23 and have been very happy together. We've seen each other through really rough times and I've supported him through a few different mental break…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:16 PM
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And then there's the other people who don't go to any of those other subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:14 PM
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turning him off Soo...he lost interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 07:15 PM
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Yeah, introspection and self improvement is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:55 PM
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But what if you don't have sex with them until you have the bond, it can't be inversed that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:20 PM
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Sexbots won't change a thing. The losers who can't get sex will continue to not get sex, but the rich losers will buy bots. They will probably enjoy their waifu for a bit but then realize that they can't really get the satisfaction they want due to programming limitations. And if the bots are so advanced that they perfectly mimic human feelings/thoughts/emotions they are then human and need to be treated as human instead of slaves. Goodness y'all, let's not have a robot uprising. Hell, I even th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:05 PM
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oh derp my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:04 PM
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I guess you are entitled to your opinion. But it doesn't really match up with my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:24 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 12:00 AM
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And that's just a silly reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 11:56 PM
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This is honestly a silly question. Because of course everyone is going to say that they are going to stay with the person that they vowed to stay with through sickness and health, richer or poorer. I married my husband at 22 and it's been 10 great years, even though we've had some (really) hard times. And it never even crossed my mind to leave him during those bad times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:53 PM
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So I reject a fat girl because I don't find her attractive. She loses weight and becomes attractive to me. I know someone who did this. Straight up rejected the chick because she was fat, and told her so. Six months later runs into her again and she is thin and attractive. So they start dating, end up married and now have 3 kids together. Oh and guess who is fat again? (Well, they are both fat, but she's basically obese) Either way, I don't think he was wrong to reject her because he wasn't attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:55 PM
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Being in love and loving/loved by my husband is the best thing that ever happened to me. We've been together since we were 14 and being able to grow up together and with each other has been the ride of my life. I know that he feels the same way. I honestly feel terrible for people who aren't lucky enough to have what we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:10 AM
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Thank the devs it's finally over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:31 PM
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Men don't shame women? LOL thanks the devs this is purge week or I'd think that you were serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:22 PM
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I'm getting tired of having to subsidize your gender Then get men to not abandon their young.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:33 PM
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I recently learned (probably from reddit) that the term Spinster came about to refer to women who became so proficient at spinning yarn that they didn't need to marry and depend on men for money. And men tried to shame this by creating a negative connotation around the word. And, it worked, spinster still has negative connotations when really it should not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:30 PM
1

Take my shock-guilty laugh upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:03 PM
1

Look at your name and flair in this sub, you should see a little blue text that says edit then you can select the custom text at the bottom. This is assuming you are on your computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:04 PM
2

Vulcan or some shit Nice, I'll take it. Tell my mother I feel fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:59 PM
3

Yeah, maybe, but that's one of the reasons why it's such glorious rage porn at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:35 PM
3

His gf is is left hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:53 PM
3

Video games are great. And anyone who doesn't understand this has their own issues. Now if you excuse me I have to go check on my Animal Crossing island and see what the Nook boys are buying turnips for, then maybe I'll go kick Hell House's ass and finally make sure that I get all the marks I need for the seasonal going on in my MMO of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 12:14 PM
1

Why would you know about your bosses sex life? And side note: I can't take you seriously anymore after what you just said. It's just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:17 PM
2

Let's be real for a moment. RedLetterMedia is a National treasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:37 PM
1

Lol nah thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:07 PM
1

And you like an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:55 PM
4

Very true. In general we humans kinda suck at putting other's needs ahead of our own wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:55 PM
1

Just because you are sexually attracted to them doesn't make them slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:51 PM
1

Chokers aren't slutty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:15 PM
3

RedLetterMedia is much more clever than anyone who posts on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:09 PM
3

You should be open about your feelings, just don't become a whiney bitch and start treating your gf like your personal therapist. You have to spread that shit out to multiple people. Women tend to already do that with their family and friends, men seem to think that they can only do it with one person. And it gets exhausting being that dumping ground, maybe guys should stop shitting on other guys for being open so men can spread out their negative feelings to family and friends, the same way wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:08 PM
1

Not really, it's a simple blood draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:58 AM
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We can literally only see the top part of her shirt and it's not even a slutty top. Where the duck did you get that she's wearing a slutty outfit? And even if she was wearing a "slutty" outfit it doesn't give people the right to harass her (per panel 3).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:54 AM
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A virgin but also a porn star at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:24 AM
0

No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:14 AM
1

Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:13 AM
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But like, she probably won't be fucking you whilst being your boss so it doesn't matter if you take her seriously or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:24 AM
2

Back at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:10 AM
2

No it fucking isn't. The pill doesn't protect against STDs retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:43 AM
5

Yeah but if a woman only wants that stuff with a person she is in a committed relationship with, does that make her a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:41 AM
7

bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:11 PM
1

LOL why are you acting like I'm new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:04 PM
1

Maybe because you are taking things too personally/seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:53 PM
32

Yeah, who would have guessed that women like different things in different situations. Aren't we all just one dimensional creatures designed to become whatever men want from us?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:37 PM
1

Finally someone gets it!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:29 PM
1

Ah, I see, welp good luck then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:19 PM
1

Nice cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:19 PM
1

I don't disagree that people are broken, but I think some are more broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:18 PM
0

We are all weird in some way. And you do know that this is purge week yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:16 PM
1

Ha, sucks to suck. (Seriously though, how long have you been doing that? Do you like it?)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:15 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:19 PM
1

Good ol' US of A.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:18 PM
1

Welcome to purge week. (goodness I can't wait for it to be over) Also, I learned in second grade girls have cooties. I maintain that position. Which is why you gotta make sure you circle circle dot dot Now you've got your cookie shot. EDIT: I meant cootie, but I'm gonna leave it because I like it and it would make the following conversation silly if changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:17 PM
1

Its just luck. Nah man, it takes a lot of dedication. And a lot of them dont have happy marriages because they always wonder what else was out there. Because they've only been with one person their entire lives. And a lot of them are super happy because they know that they are just better than most people. how social you are Nah fuck man. Of course how social you are determines how often you meet people. And how often you meet people will help influence your dating range. Most young women arent …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:16 PM
2

He didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:40 PM
4

A lot of guys are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:37 PM
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Because the only person responsible for your reproductive health is you. Don't want a kid? Wrap it up. You should never rely on someone else to take those measures. Also pills don't stop STDs so doubly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:24 PM
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Then you're an idiot. I hope you learn from this in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:17 PM
7

Buuuutttt they deeeessseeerrrvveeee the hot model tier women!11!!!!1
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:17 PM
6

Did you not wrap it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:15 PM
13

Because they are just so desperate and thirty that they don't understand/know how to vet for someone who is actually compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:09 PM
1

I genuinely chuckled. Well played.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:27 PM
1

Damn, and I just made a (shit)post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:15 PM
2

Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:08 PM
52

Someone can be physically attracted to someone and not want to date them. Shocking I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:31 PM
8

Everyone with a functioning brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:40 PM
1

Wut, they are allowing dic pics now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:28 PM
1

Fucking shitbulls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:15 PM
7

I think you meant to say sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:16 PM
5

I'm glad you are doing better and it is very wise of you to take some time to heal. Jumping into a new relationship could cause you end up back in another abuse one. We humans are terrible at knowing what is right for us and feeling comfortable in a relationship since it feels familiar. I can't believe someone downvoted you, like wtf. 1. It's crummy to do when someone is sharing something personal and 2. it's against the subs rules. So many triggered snowflakes. (not you, whoever downvoted you)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:26 PM
1

My god that's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:08 PM
7

bore the brunt of unimaginable amount of psychological (and on occasion physical) abuse. I am truly sorry that you had to go through this, I hope you are in a better place now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:54 PM
2

And marriages actually do confer parental rights to men that are harder/more complicated to obtain without marriage Last year after I gave birth, my husband and I were hanging out in the postnatal room when a nurse came in with some paperwork. After asking a few verifying questions, my name, baby's name, DOB etc etc, she gave the side eye to my husband and slyly asked what our relationship was. I said that we were married and she visibly sighed and thanked us for being married as it makes everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:01 PM
3

I feel like since TRP was quarantined, more and more posts here are just Red Pill circle jerks. I don't agree with the statement about women's sexual nature (written as if it is a given instead of still up for debate). As for the rise of SM, that individual salesmanship is still super important. Like always, looks get your foot in the door, but if you don't know how to be engaging and charming it's never going to go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:14 PM
3

First time I saw my husband cry was when we were like...16? And guess what, we are still together and have seen each other cry on more than one occasion since then (usually multiple times a year). (Taking a page from Poppy's book) "Liar!" EDIT: damn you guys are butt mad. Maybe try not to be so sensitive (LOL) and follow the rules of the sub by not down voting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:21 PM
1

The examples you are using are not necessarily manipulation. Being manipulative would be like lying to get what you want or withholding affection/important information to get what you want at the determent of the person you are using it against. Like maybe that guy is getting her to do those things because he is dangling the idea of having a relationship with her but has no intention of actually following through. Same with the chick in your OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 12:09 PM
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I love being married and find great joy in the relationship/life that my husband and I have built. I want others to have the same happiness, but I know that isn't possible for everyone so I only encourage people to get married if they A) are in a steady relationship where they seem happy and B) have expressed a desire to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:34 PM
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You don't care about STDs? Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:03 PM
1

A baby is both a parasite and the most precious thing in the world depending on how particular woman feels at the time, and all other women agree. IME, they are both at the time...even after they are expelled from the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:49 PM
6

How is it possible that married women are having more sex than married men? They asked different parts of a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:30 PM
2

Oh, so no real sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:25 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:03 PM
2

a lot of bitterness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:20 PM
2

Imagine thinking that this is only about "lower taxes and more self-responsibility" because it's not. Not by a long shot. EDIT: Awww poor little buttmad guy having to downvote. Grow up and attempt to follow the subs rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:31 PM
5

Scary alt-right MAGA incels. Push women down so that they feel they've risen up. Makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:11 PM
5

I'm to the point and brief. Though I'm generally a happy person so I usually do so with a smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:39 PM
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I can only speak to my experience, but my husband is a truly good guy/person and has always had a ton of options, but still picked me/the right thing to do. Not to say that I'm the right thing to do, but like in situations where he had options to do good or bad he always picked the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:14 PM
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You have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:52 PM
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I've never met a religious woman who wanted a man with a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:30 PM
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Ummm, if a woman's husband cheats, the other woman gets pregnant, and he has to play child support (and she chooses to stay with him) she will be helping him financially support a child that isn't hers. Or if he cheats, OW becomes pregnant, wife/husband leaves, she is then hurting her own financial security and that of her child/ren. Knowing that your partner will not fuck around on you is super important to both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:17 PM
2

taps nose
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:14 PM
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It's a pretty flawed nutshell with a lot of cracks. Because if someone is vetting for being in a good relationship it makes sense that they would want to have someone with a similar background. Which plays out in real life, most people end up with partners who have similar sexual histories.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:01 PM
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Of course it is, but they shouldn't have ridden a lot in their lives either. Or you can be a hypocrite. That's fine, just don't get buttmad when you (general you) get called out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:59 PM
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I said it was "more likely" for them to be religious. I don't want/need to "prove you wrong" because there are, again, confounding factors (education level, age of marriage, just wanting to have sex so not really vetting for compatibility) that play into the religious people getting married and then divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:56 PM
3

How is this different from sexually uninhibited men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:51 PM
1

Or are only women allowed to have standards? What a silly strawman. When have I said that people shouldn't have any standards? EDIT: oh don't be butthurt enough to downvote thus breaking the subs rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:51 PM
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I’m not going to waste time wondering or investigating whether that one slut i met is less likely to cheat. That’s not my job Yeah why waste time getting to know if someone is a good partner for you or not. Seems like a fool proof way to find a happy relationship, by just blindly picking someone based off one factor of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:37 PM
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Because you aren't recognizing the why of the body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:35 PM
3

Because there are, again, other contributing factors such as education level and age of marriage. (and other unknown unknowns)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:35 PM
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Oh course, but wouldn't that mean that the man (or woman) would have to have a real conversion and not just a "I'm going to do this so I can get a low body count wife/husband"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:32 PM
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correlated Again, correlation does not equal causation. conclusion are we supposed to make? That there are known unknowns. Such as: morals of the individuals involved in the study, religious beliefs, personal feelings about sleeping around, past trauma which might influence future behaviors, opportunity, and I'm sure many other factors which I'm not thinking of right now. And then there are probably unknown unknowns, such as we don't know what we don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:33 PM
4

Actions > words Who's actions and who's words? Because my actions line up with my words perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:28 PM
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In caveman days men didn’t have paternity tests. In caveman days, they often had sex parties (for lack of a better term) and they didn't know who was the father was from any children who came from it. positively correlated with cheating. Correlation does not equal causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:25 PM
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And a woman who gets it to age 30-34 with a body count of 0-1 is going to be very disinterested in a reformed slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:19 PM
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I’d even argue that high n count in men, in and of itself, is attractive to women Gross. No. On the other hand, a man is more concerned with n count because that’s the only way he can ensure his paternity certainty That's so silly. How would you know unless you get a test? Because a woman married is just as able to have sex with multiple men as a single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:18 PM
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A religious woman is not going to want to marry an non religious man. And they aren't going to want to have sex before marriage. Which is fine, but a lot of men (here and on TRP) want to have sex ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:16 PM
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A woman (or man for that matter) with a body count of 0-1 at the time of marriage is more likely to be religious than a person with a higher body count at the time of marriage. Someone who is religious is also less likely to seek divorce. A religious woman who has a body count of 0-1 at the age of 30-34 is not going to want to marry anyone who is is not cut from the same cloth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:50 PM
2

I wish that he was working from home, not only for the safety factor but because I miss him during the work day. At least he's able to text me a lot (though that isn't new, we've always texted throughout the day). It'd also be nice to have him around so that he can see the drastic day to day changes/developments our baby is going through. She's so close to crawling it's not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:35 PM
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I've been with him through more than one serious mental break with reality, losing his job would be a cake walk in comparison. And I already do make more than him so /shrug IMO/E women don't leave men who lose their jobs because they lost their job, they leave because the man becomes bitter or mean or despondent without trying to get themselves out of it. Similar cases for if/when a woman starts to make more. The man starts to feel threatened and often takes it out on her. The evidence you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:55 PM
3

But for women, she's either attracted to you or a friend. For example, you can be vulnerable with a friend and she'll gladly be your shoulder to cry on, but do that with your girlfriend and she'll dump your ass so fast. TIL I'm not actually friends with my husband. All those years of laughing, crying, and growing together wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:41 PM
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I wish I didn't have to hide the fact that I'm a woman when I play MMOs because it turns into the whole "oh you're good...for a woman" or "OH DO YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND?!?!" "WANNA BE IN IN GAME GF?!?!" "WhY DoESN't UR bF pLaY?." Oh and having to deal with these players: They would take over and ruin the hobby. The ones that are there are already actively doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:51 PM
2

Being vulnerable and open is fine, being a little bitch about them is not. (IMO and IME)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:55 PM
5

Men are generally more thirsty than women. Water is wet. More news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:50 PM
2

How often to you hang around gay bars/clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:36 PM
3

I think you might be looking at it through rose colored glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:32 PM
2

It's not acceptable for men to work out? Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:32 PM
2

Are you saying gay men don't get disappointed by their partners penis size?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 06:51 PM
3

It wasn't two weeks after she got married that Wanda started gettin' abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:02 PM
2

I'm mostly just worried that it'll bring about the robot uprising since not even bots want to have sex with incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:06 AM
1

Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 01:03 PM
1

Why are y'all even trying to date atm. Take a couple weeks off. Or just text /call for fun. Might have the added benefit that you actually get to know the other person instead of just jumping into bed together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 01:01 PM
1

incompatible lifestyles Not unconditional then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:18 AM
2

Unconditional love is something you get from a dog, maybe a parent. And are you saying that you would give unconditional love to girl? Even if she were to abuse you? Cheat on you? Get fat? Disrespect you? Refuse to have sex? Neglect her side of the relationship? I hope not, because that's how you get taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:14 AM
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No they don't. And the divorce rate is decreasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:14 PM
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Marriage isn’t “religious” or “spiritual” anymore That really depends on the individual doesn't it? I'm not religious anymore but I still feel a "spiritual" (for lack of a better word) connection to my husband and I'm glad that we were able to express that in a ceremony. And "the state" has always been involved in marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:54 PM
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If a woman truly loved you why would she need a marriage license - a legally binding contract - to make it official? Hahaha omg, you can't be serious with this. Because it can just as easily be said: "If a man truly love you why would he not want a marriage license - a legally binding contract - to make it official? You think that celebrating your love in an official way and sealing it legally, religiously, and spiritually would not be that big of a deal."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:47 PM
4

When I was young I was obsessed with tall guys like really tall guys, but as I got older I realized that anything over 6'1'' was just too tall for me. Like I couldn't stand how freakishly tall they were and the idea of trying to have a physical relationship was...just not doing it for me. But to be fair my husband is like 5'11'' so he's still pretty tall. And he seems taller than he is due to his size.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:48 PM
2

How is it hard to be born with the genetics to be tall and attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 04:49 PM
4

Congrats! I did too and it's been great!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:02 PM
1

Someone who is "involuntarily celibate."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 04:32 PM
2

I married the person I started dating at 14 when we were 22. It was the best decision of our lives and have brought us lots of joy and love. There have of course been difficult times but I love knowing that I have him next to me for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 04:02 PM
5

Same place I am now as I married the person I started dating at 14. We went to the same high school and college and got married a month after graduation. It'll be 10 years this summer and we welcomed our first (maybe only) child to the world last year. I hate my job but I love everything else about my life. Working on the job, trying to find something better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:01 PM
1

B Gata H Kai.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 04:02 AM
2

The Stallion and I weren't going to have kids and while we did get some backlash it wasn't anything extreme. I'd say the first three years of marriage was kinda an unending barrage of questions but stopped by year five. Boy was everyone surpassed when we announced me being pregnant around year nine. As for why they kept asking those first couple years? They wanted grandchildren /great grandchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 04:01 AM
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Exactly. All those other things listed are huge turn offs for me. Esp the spitting. Like WTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 07:27 PM
2

I've been with my husband for 19 years (this winter), he struggles with paranoid delusions, depression, and ADHD. It's hard, but he's worth the work even though we have had some really rough times. But I think since he tries so hard to manage them and seeks help when necessary (or when I insist) it makes it easier. If he refused to get help I don't think we could work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:27 PM
1

...Do people not know that there can be external stimulation during PIV?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:51 PM
2

Being able to orgasm together is kinda a big deal to me. And the feeling of PIV orgasms are the best. And like another poster (or two) said, having to spend that much time working it with my hands or mouth is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:55 PM
1

This would probably end up killing the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:23 PM
2

I've never known someone who was of sound mind/mental health to knowingly date a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:00 PM
1

My word is my mother fucking bond, mother fucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 05:04 PM
1

Well, my child's grandparents are boomers, but they do a pretty great job watching the baby. I would much rather have them watch the baby then to pay for strangers to watch her (or quit my job since it would be useless to go back to work to pay for childcare).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:48 PM
5

I was telling the husband that next year for Halloween we should go as Mando, Cara and Baby Yoda.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:07 PM
5

I'm smart, witty, and pretty. Though I'm probably considered post wall and have a kid. But since I'm married to the father of the kid I think that's a plus. Oh and the child is legit the cutest kid ever. I'm not just saying that, it's objectively true, people stop us to tell me how cute she is. And, I don't look like I gave birth 6 months ago. But most importantly, my husband thinks I'm high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:52 PM
5

I've never heard another woman say that to a man. Def heard "suck it up" or "maybe you should jump up and down a bit to get the sand out of your vagina" but never "man up." I'm assuming it means to own your shit and get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:21 PM
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You become suitable by getting an education and career for yourself. And then dating within your socioeconomic sphere. If you want to outright buy a wife you need to go to an impoverished country, then as long as you can afford her you are suitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:19 PM
3

No, but I married the guy I was dating then and I was (am) extremely attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:55 PM
1

Video games, movies, tv shows, politics, work, books, pets, things that they find interesting. Same/similar things they talk about with their friends. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:44 PM
1

You would be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:42 PM
1

The commercials are the reminders.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 04:48 PM
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Thinking of the men I share blood with. One was a terrible husband to my mom and a pretty shitty dad for most of my life (and kinda still is, but is better now). My brothers: one is a sociopath who I haven't spoken to in over 8 years and the other is a religious fanatic that I put up with but do not particularly like. My husband, father-in-law, and grandfathers-in-law are all wonderful (if flawed in their own way) humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:21 PM
2

simply dont care. Which is why they have commercials focusing on men buying expensive shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 06:08 PM
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Because (most) women don't need to be reminded to do/buy nice things for their loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:17 PM
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And that guy is usually handsome and charming. Oh also: well groomed, social, interesting, and again (usually) rich. No one lied to men, especially Disney, save themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:22 PM
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They are too dense to notice that the guy who always gets the girl just happens to be handsome, tall and (usually) rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 12:16 PM
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Late to the party for a deleted thread, but... I was talking about this with the husband last night. He says that if anything these practices are targeting men. Because men want to be Mando and have their own baby Yoda. Or in gaming, they want to be Sam Porter Bridges and have their own BB. He then picked up our child, held her at an angle on his chest with her facing out, and starting stomping around the room quoting lines from the game. Then he said "But those RP losers would probably call Man…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:51 PM
2

I love baby Yoda, I hate Troll Dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 12:35 PM
1

Same!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:52 PM
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Strong, empowered, bitchy women Wow, how sad that you feel the need to have someone weak, disenfranchised, and un-opinionated to make you feel like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:58 PM
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Thank you for providing the link, I was checking the answers before I went to search for my own to post. And agreed, our wedding day was a fucking blast and we still love talking/remembering it. It'll be 10 years this year and if we could do it again we would in a heartbeat. But, we also just love weddings in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:01 PM
1

I wanted both (and got both).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:58 PM
2

And gamer girls never date gamer boys. Funny how that works, isn't it? Gamer girl married to a gamer boy. We have our own rigs (which we built ourselves), multiple systems and an "old" systems archive for our old consoles/games.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:06 PM
3

Sure, just use a surrogate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:57 PM
0

It's not that sex is a need. It's the emotional connection and validation that comes from having a close interpersonal relationship with another human being which leads to sex. If it were just sex, men would be fine with going to hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:44 PM
2

It's not sex that is the need, but the emotional connection/validation that comes with sex. Otherwise these sex starved men would be just fine doing to hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:41 PM
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Man, I'm just happy that my marriage is not like one you imagine relationships to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:05 AM
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(that and wanting to thoroughly not be associated with incels/blackpills) Yeah, probably a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:25 PM
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Good job! But it's obvious even from the pictures just how much more confidence you have, which is what draws people in. But then again, going to the gym helps build that confidence so... /shrug I actually think that going to the gym is great advice, but it's not RP exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:35 PM
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either purposefully ignorant or, well, simply ignorant and obtuse. I mean...these are the same guys who feel lied to by Disney because they didn't realize that the Prince was handsome. (and rich)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:32 PM
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Except he says he does care and he shows me that he does by surprising me with gifts/whatever. anything else is just extended foreplay I don’t really want or need. Yeah, because women hate extended foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:00 PM
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Or maybe you just weren't there to see his face light up and say that's an awesome idea and that he'd love to go to the event.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:59 PM
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Again, I'm not mad. But I don't think it's unreasonable to want your husband/loved one to make strides to celebrate/acknowledge a special occasion. But maybe I'm not mad because I know that he will more than likely surprise me with something later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 08:00 PM
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Now I'm by no means complaining about my husband but I think I get where this is coming from. Example: I recently found an activity for us to do to celebrate V-day early. I thought it would be fun, so I asked him if he'd want to go. He would! Cool, found a babysitter and bought the tickets. Then I asked him if he would want to get some food before we go, yes again. Great, here's a list of possible restaurants in the area: where do you want to go? He picked one. Neat. Then I found a place for us …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:49 PM
1

Looks don't matter until women have less power?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 01:44 AM
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Then they are damaged and aren't relationship material. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:21 AM
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And/or working out to build up certain areas. And no need to be pissy and downvote, just follow the sub's rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 07:26 PM
0

You do know how one gets "fat" in the right places right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 07:10 PM
0

The current trend of being "thicc" would like to disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:21 PM
2

I find it incredible that guys don't know that looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:10 PM
2

Married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:45 PM
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Pretty much my experience too, save my parents were divorced and I didn't want to do that in my life so I made sure to notice relationships that seemed to work and those that didn't. I guess the difference is that I was always attracted to the "alpha" guy (sports, exercise, fit etc) and was able to get the object of my desire because I was also those things. But we were both secret nerds so I guess it might not count. Anyway, we took each other off the market at age 14 and we would have both bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:26 PM
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So that works for you. Cool. We just like to send each other meme dumps throughout the day. And that works for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:46 PM
2

A lot of women here don’t like me saying my H is my best friend. But that’s the reason we’re coming up on 15 years. My husband is my best friend too. And I know I'm his, it's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:53 PM
2

Well, if you don't want to talk to your wife during the day that's on you and if that works for y'all more power to ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:48 PM
1

That sounds miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:47 PM
2

And what do the husbands have to be focused on?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:43 PM
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Constant check ins, sharing interests, taking interest in your SO's hobbies/likes, common goals, going out of your way to spend time together, laughing together, sex, etc etc. Honestly though, all the above is important, but can really keep people together: hating the same things. EDIT: Husband and I started dating at 14, married by 23, in our 30s atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 04:02 PM
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I don't really have a problem with guys not wanting their girls to go to the club without them. But then I would assume that they are also not going to the club without their gf. But, I think it's also important to note that I hate the club. I've only been to one and it was just not for me. So while I get the whole "I just wanna dance" feeling, I generally do so at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:34 PM
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You generally behave in a stoic manner, which somehow includes getting ready to fist fight a guy, shoving girl, storming out and then fist fighting that same girl. Wow what frame. Oh sorry, I mean bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:35 AM
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Wait, the family unit is destroyed? I guess I should tell my husband that we have to put the kid up for adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:38 PM
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You can't say that you don't get bored eventually then Umm, yes I can. I'm also just saying it is more likely that it won't be as good for her, which I believe is reasonable to say. Do you plan on sucking at sex? That same woman might want me to have had +100. I very much doubt that a low count woman is going to want a man with that many partners. People generally want to have similar sexual histories as their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:38 PM
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I think the statistical likelihood of someone having had sex with 150 people is crazy. I'm pretty sure that the average woman sleeps with like 7 men. Firstly you can say that having that many partners can affect you spiritually, which some people believe One could say this, and they would be silly to do so. You can also say it's morally bad to use your body that way Who's morals? one with >5 I think you mean <5. The pacman (or alligator) wants to eat the bigger number. Also having 150 partners m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:58 PM
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How does the amount of dicks a woman has taken affect her ability to produce a child (assuming no STDs)? If all you care about is useless sex and nothing else, sure. Then yeah maybe you can say that person is a "loser" but, again, biologically all our genes care about is being passed on to the next generation. EDIT: no need to be butthurt and downvote. You can just admit you're wrong and not break sub rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:12 AM
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Thank you, this isn't really something one gets over, just something one deals with for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:22 AM
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Sok, I don't like to post about this but... My husband has experienced some serious mental breaks with reality over the years. It sucks and it's hard to combat imaginary forces, but it's something that can be worked through if one is dedicated AND the person wants to get better. Add to that he also struggles with alcoholism it's... Trying, but again, he wants to be better so it's worth it. If he didn't want to better himself (and take steps to do so) I'd be out the door. We made vows to each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:09 AM
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I disagree with almost everything in this post. But if we are talking biologically, more than likely those "stable beta guys" are going to be the ones having babies with those women, this they really are the "winners" but again, I don't agree with anything in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:36 AM
3

My husband got baby rabies at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:30 AM
2

Ha, nice Simpsons. It's the aurora borealis that are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:36 AM
2

So therefore, face matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 07:48 PM
5

Then why is "Butt-her-face" a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:40 PM
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Basically, by law, you should put an end to this That's such a bullshit image. Not to mention sextet. All men would not be happy with all women because all women (and men) are not interchangeable. They have different likes, interests, hobbies etc and finding someone to share enough of those things to be happy is much more difficult than pulling a random person out of a bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:24 PM
1

In America, the dollar sign goes before the amount of money. Example: $20 not 20$.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:38 PM
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Women (like most females of a species) are picky because they have to put in much more when it comes to bringing life into the world. I think everyone should read Richard Dawkins' The Selfish Gene.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:47 PM
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Lol OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 10:55 AM
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Did you not read my fucking OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:57 PM
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Do you not know what "satire" is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:50 PM
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Yes, and? Women and being arrested/getting fucking lashed and they are still fighting for their rights. And the women who fought for and gained the right to vote were arrested. Guess what: still gained the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:48 PM
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Iran does suck for women atm, but to claim that there* aren't women fighting for their rights is disingenuous. EDIT: more down votes, y'all are triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:18 PM
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The fact of the matter is: there will never be a time when all (let alone a majority of) men decide to strip away the rights of women. Pandoras box is open, and just like in the original story floods and other natural disasters were released, they came with hope. Women will not go quietly into that dark night. They will not surrender without a fight. They will fight for their rights and there will be many who fight with them, from families to husbands to sons. Crazy fucks may win a day or two, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 08:51 PM
1

Did y'all break up? If so, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:19 PM
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Silly person, women don't know anything. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:27 AM
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No thanks. He doesn't need me to kowtow to him to make him feel like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:13 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:06 PM
2

What's w/r/t?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 09:56 PM
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Hell, I'm the same person and I have arguments with myself...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:24 PM
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Hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 11:49 AM
2

A lot. It's two words.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:05 PM
1

A lot. It's two words.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:04 PM
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How does media lie to men? The beautiful women always end up with the handsome men. The women are always thin, attractive, and sweet (sometimes spunky), and the men are always tall, buff, handsome, charming (and sometimes rogue like). How did you not see the truth right in your freaking face?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:09 PM
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Which I think would be better served as a "discussion" than a question. EDIT: Follow forum rules by not downvoting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:16 PM
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From my probably permantly single, never to be married, inexperienced observations I would have to say it is not worthwhile for any man to get married. It rarely leads to joy but rather untold rainy misery. EDIT: Follow forum rules by not downvoting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:56 PM
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Yes. And this should be CMV since you are making an affirmative personal statement within your question. EDIT: derp I meant to say "personal" instead of "affirmative"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:54 PM
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And here I was searching for how to phrase this. Thanks for doing it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:48 PM
2

I just come here for the lolz.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:53 PM
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Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 09:06 AM
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My husband makes me want to be the best version of myself. He's my best friend. We've only ever been with each other and our chemistry is wonderful and fulfilling. He helped me create the cutest baby and he is the best dad to both our baby and doggo. He's physically and mentally strong. He's funny, witty, and intelligent. He's caring, loving, and considerate. He puts his own wants behind the needs of his family. We have fun hanging out together and enjoy each other's company. He tells me every d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:02 PM
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The study is about 20 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:40 PM
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Sex should be a "two yes, one no" thing. Meaning both parties have to agree, much like marriage, or when to have kids (assuming healthy relationship). There's a word for when sex occurs but only one participant agrees to having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:39 PM
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Oh derp, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:32 PM
1

So what is the outcome of this? I never saw a thread about it yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:23 PM
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32 female. One relationship. Love is the ability to accept all the strengths, flaws, quirks, and weaknesses of your partner and being willing to work through the difficult times together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:18 PM
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My shit bag behavior? You know nothing about me or my hobbies. Adding you're unironically using "normie" like it's a slur, you're just laughable. Have a good day if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:11 PM
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So... You're asking to get "what's coming to you" for your past "shit bag" behavior? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:01 PM
1

Lol OK then champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:31 PM
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People in power always show their true self. It's not that "absolute power corrupts absolutely" it's that power allows people to behave exactly as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:58 AM
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If my experience is anything, having a child is the second/third best thing to ever happen to a mom. And why would I want a sexy son? What am I Joscata? Gross. Also, why would I want a son when my daughters are the ones who will pass down my mitochondrial DNA?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 02:05 AM
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Ah so you're just petty and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:54 AM
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There is when you are trying to limit what others consider a hobby. Ya know, something that someone else does for fun and that they find interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:23 AM
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This is the silliest argument. How can you r/gatekeeping what a hobby is? That's so...silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:38 PM
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My husband cares about the feelings of others regardless of their gender. But he's a pretty exceptional guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:55 PM
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Only women listen to music now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:50 PM
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I know I did. And I appreciate the clarification (esp your later comment), so thanks for that boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:32 PM
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I don't think selfishness and altruism are necessarily mutually exclusive. One can be selfish at times and altruistic at times. There are even cases when one can be both at the same time. But again, I don't think the issue of women not wanting to "deal" with their SO's problems is linked to feminism at all. I just think it is linked to having a shitty partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:29 PM
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I don't really think it's a feminism issue but a selfish person issue. EDIT: again: follow the subreddits rule by not downvoting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:38 AM
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I guess I was confused by what it was supposed to mean, thanks for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:06 AM
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Ah I see. Thanks. Managing social calander/relationships does suck lol But if there's something I don't want to do I just leave it up to him up plan, do therefore I get a nice day at home XD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:05 AM
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Huh, interesting. TIL, thanks for the clarification. I guess I think it's silly to be upset that your loved one comes to you in their times of need.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:03 AM
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This is the phrase I was looking for. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:58 AM
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I like big arms/chest/shoulders, but I'm turned off by people who dress in a way to show them off...intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:58 AM
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I never thought that emotional labor had to do with listening /helping with problems of your SO but more doing all the "extras" around the house. Like taxes, laundry, cleaning, Dr appointments, children's schedules, bills, grocery shopping, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:53 AM
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No FDS until Monday.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:53 PM
1

lions with their manes to lionesses Those manes are for protection during fights not to attract females.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:44 PM
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"A lot" it's two words. EDIT: downvoting is against the rules, no need to get your feelings hurt over being corrected. Thought you liked teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:29 PM
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I dont really believe in women exercising anymore Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:08 PM
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It was posted really early for most of the US. I'm only awake because I had to feed the baby. But I haven't been single since I was 14 so I can't really comment on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:47 AM
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Or just able to take care of my own "needs."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:23 PM
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I came in here to talk about religion. I was told over and over again to never have sex before marriage. And birth control information was not given and was considered a terrible thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:43 PM
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Only 6 months of healing?? After being together for over half our lives? Damn man, it's gonna take years to "heal" and even then I doubt that I will be able to ever be completely whole. As for you "worrying" about my chances of being able to keep a person around, why don't you just let me decide that for myself if it ever happens. But again, I doubt I ever will re-enter the dating world if I were to somehow become single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:29 PM
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I "made" my husband wait 4 years before we had sex. But we were 14 when we started dating, so there's that. If I had to go back to the dating world now (lol not going to happen even if I do somehow become single) I have no idea how long I would take before we had sex. Probably at least 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:15 PM
2

(fds) I don't know what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:30 PM
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A high value man (for me) is someone I can laugh with, find attractive, has similar interests, enjoys my company, laughs at my jokes, has similar core values, and who I respect/respects me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:36 PM
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As soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:38 PM
1

What are the most important things a woman has to consider when dealing with other women? If they want to be friends and if they get along socially/click with similar interests etc. What are the consequences of not being part of the FSM? Advantages, disadvantages? I guess it probably more depends on your age. In HS it's probably close to impossible to not participate in some form. But once you hit the workforce you can decide. Being married is also a quick way to exit. Do men directly influence …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:30 PM
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Women don't become infertile at 30 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:16 PM
1

Are men unable to control themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 09:30 AM
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Analogies only work if they are true. In this case it doesn't. Women aren't designed to lock sex away from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 09:20 AM
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Women aren't locks. Men aren't keys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 03:42 PM
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The only thing that will love you unconditionally is your dog. But we don't deserve dogs, they are too good for humanity. To answer the question, TRP expects women to love them like their dogs would (or sometimes mothers) and want to be able to treat their women with little regard. Then they are surprised when their women realize they can be healthier and happier alone or with someone else. I love my husband with every fiber of my being, but if he were to start cheating on me or abusing me/our c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:58 AM
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Wait, why does this only apply to women? Shouldn't you be considered gross by the same token? Why should women take you seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 05:15 AM
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You aren't debating, and I couldn't care less about what you think I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:52 PM
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You're just being obtuse. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:47 PM
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No, exaggerated points are silly. Especially when you conflate "fair" (somehow being forced to pay for dinner when the person may or may not have had a different man pay for dinner to get sex) to rape (because you should somehow be able to rape women since you are generally stronger, maybe a buff gay guy should have his way with weaker straight men). It's asinine. One isn't even something you have to do if you don't want. The other is an illegal activity that became illegal because rape (and mur…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:42 PM
1

Men can't roam freely?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:34 PM
1

Ah yes, conflating "fair" with "illegal activities (rape)."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:31 PM
1

Oh no! You figured out the big secret! Life isn't fair! Maybe if you dislike paying for dates: don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:27 PM
1

But women aren't inanimate objects designed to keep sex away from people. They have their own thoughts and feelings and if they want to engage in sexual relationships with many men they aren't being sucky locks, they are just having sex and fulfilling their own prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:01 PM
1

So you only care about cuckholding. Do you care the same amount about men fathering children with women who aren't their wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 10:48 AM
1

Are you mostly concerned with cuckholding or just women cheating in general? And if just cheating in general, are you also concerned with the rates of male infidelity?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 10:19 AM
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Sure it could, I'm not dismissing that, but expecting another person to care if your personal DNA makes it to the next generation and then wanting them to do something about it is... Silly. If you really want to make sure your DNA makes it to the next generation, find someone who also wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:26 AM
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Oh derp, my bad. Thanks for the clarification. However, one person's biography doesn't prove that cuckholding was the epidemic people are claiming. It's really only like one or two percent of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:23 AM
1

And why would you care about poor African kids unless you are a poor African kid? And why should poor African kids be considered?" Yes, horrible, life threatening living conditions are the same as not allowing/wanting men to use women as pocket pussys and incubators.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:17 AM
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Ah yes, one woman's biography proves all women cheated and lied to their husbands causing them to unwittingly raise another man's child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:13 AM
1

Happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:27 AM
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because we should help each other not step on each other Ah, now I think you're either trolling or an idiot. You literally want to step on* women to fulfill your own selfish wants. I'm done with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:14 AM
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Where is your evidence that women "cucked" their husbands? Isn't it possible you have an inflated opinion of yourself? Sure it's possible you are passingly attractive, but if you are anything like this in real life I wouldn't get within 10 of you. I only want them to do that out of their own free will But why should they? Doing so would not benefit them at all in any way, save in your own personal belief. Which, again, why should they care?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:30 AM
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Throughout most of history women didn't get to pick their mates. Their mates were chosen for them. And most of humanity is discarded in one way or another. Why don't you just pick women who no one wants. Don't pretend like they don't exist, they do. Just take off your pretty* girl glasses. Again you can't force women to have sex, carry babies, and raise said babies with people they don't want to. That's not equality, especially not for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:13 AM
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Why should anyone but you care if your genes are passed on? Especially if they are expected to mix said genes with their own, spend 10 months growing the genes (at risk of their own health and life), and then who knows how long raising it (which can affect their career). You can't change who people like. And why would you want to unless you're a loser? And why should losers be considered?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:15 PM
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Wait, stop what? Women deciding who they want to have sex with? Or do you think that all women should just lay back and let whomever have their way with them to make babies? That's just...silly. Oh and nice mix in of racism. "Africans ...wont come as immigrants and ruin things here." Goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:37 PM
3

Diaries are traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:32 PM
1

I hear you about that. Though I'm just thankful to be out of the every 2 hour feeding. The baby usually only wakes up about once a night now. Getting closer!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 01:51 PM
1

OMG YAY TWINS! (not the babies, but us) Congrats! How are you enjoying being a parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:34 PM
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Thank you, was busy (and happy) taking care of the new baby. Now I'm back at work and need to be with other miserable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:19 PM
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Both TRP and FDS are trash, filled with trashy people, doing trashy things to the opposite gender. What does that have to do with feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:41 PM
2

LOL don't pretend like you know my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:52 PM
4

Yes. My husband's roommates (men) were whores. They all had an N count of at least 3 (excluding my husband who has an N of 1).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:15 PM
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Yes. But I have no idea what they have. We lost touch after college, but by graduation, only one other roommate had an N count of 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 05:29 PM
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About a decade ago, my N count was 1, which was the highest off all my roomamtes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 04:05 PM
1

Other than having to teach other people's shit head kids, I'm pretty happy. I have a wonderful child, great dog and the best husband one could ask for. But I come here to pass the time at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:04 PM
3

But men wont do that because they want to be able to grope women if they want. Just like people don't want to tax the rich because they may one day be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:30 PM
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I was going to make a post but it seems like you've summed up my experience as well. We just celebrated 18 years together and even though there have been difficulties and struggles, they have been well worth it and have made us better people since we come out of them together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:27 PM
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Discovering new things to do together. Could be as simple as a tv show or video game or more involved like an outside activity (walking the dog even). Sharing funny memes, laughing at old jokes, making plans for the future, honestly the options are only limited by your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:27 AM
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I don't mind her leaving alone that's fine, stealing the kid is the issue, if he tried the same thing it would be just as bad. It really doesn't matter what you mind or not, it is what happened. And, again one side of the story, but if he was a neglectful husband she may not have felt it was safe to leave the child with him (and/or his parents). Neglect is a form of abuse, especially when it comes to kids. We'll probably never know. The fact is, she may have taken the kid and left in order for h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:45 PM
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would be very willing to work on, Would he though? We have no way of knowing. She may have been begging him for years to just spend time with her and he either couldn't or wouldn't. We don't know because outs one side of the story. exception of abuse We don't know what kind of abuse she suffered from his parents or by his hands. Again: one side of the story. around 3+ years The kid is 3, she shouldn't fall for the sunk cost fallacy. "Oh I've been miserable for 3 years, guys I'm too far deep now,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:27 PM
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There's more to our relationship than sex shop I'm assuming that we would keep on keeping on. It would just take work. But since valuable relationships take work anyway it's not much of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:12 PM
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So, watched the video. The man's an idiot when it comes to his relationship. He thinks that throwing money at a problem will fix any issues and doesn't get that it's not the amount of money he spent that's insufficient, but the time. He wanted her to just suck up her feelings about how his parents treated her instead of putting her first because he's too focused on making sure he gets money from his parents. And L O L at the idea that she would feel "guilty" for getting money from his parents in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:55 AM
3

You mean: are we both adults and responsible for our shit? Yeah that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:48 PM
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No thanks to either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:33 PM
3

There's: my husband the most amazing and annoying person in the world. All other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:57 AM
9

Some people like to meet up for quick and meaningless sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:47 AM
2

I was about to recommend a cast iron skillet. They are wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:43 AM
1

My husband is an amazing gift giver, so it's impossible to pick a single one so imma give some highlights. He bought all the parts needed to build a custom gaming computer, then taught me out to set it up. I got a box sex of guides to my favorite video game series. A cuckoo clock for our fifth wedding anniversary (it's the anniversary for wooden stuff) Various figurines that we like from our shared nerdy interests. And a host of other great things. My husband enjoys gifts (guys favorite so far h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:40 AM
2

theyre so small though Only if they skip leg/lower body day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:29 AM
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I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:02 PM
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Team sports have as much as a positive effect on girls as they do boys. Girls who play competitive team sports are less likely to develop eating disorders, anxiety, and gives them a boost in confidence and social situations. (I'm not including cheerleading in this category because while it can be a competitive sport, it does not help with these issues as much as like soccer/hockey etc) Just fyi, team sorts are fantastic for all genders and ages. Husband and I already have discussed what sports o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:48 AM
2

Would you also not encourage your daughter to join team sports? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:27 AM
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Depends on the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 11:31 PM
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Assuming that social media was important to me (it's not, I don't have any), I'd wonder if they were willing to give up something they enjoy to the same extent that I enjoyed social media. Like video games or whatever. Either way, I think those kinds of conditions for marriage are a sign that one shouldn't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:55 PM
2

Tom wonders why he needs He doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 08:31 PM
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I wish they just sticked it out and stayed together for the kids, even if it was rough Dear gods no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:10 PM
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Maybe because the post is about what you expect your spouse to do in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 01:06 PM
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she did a complete 360 on all of us. I think you mean 180
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:56 PM
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Sirens are some of the coolest mystical creatures so I'll be fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:07 PM
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Current n count of 1, picked a guy who also didn't have an n count at the time. I wouldn't have dated someone who had an n count due to religious up bringing. We started dating at 14 though sooo. ​ I'm not religious now, if he were to die (or cheat/leave/start to abuse me causing me to leave him) I don't think I'd start slutting it up. I'd probably just be a giant flirt who has no intention of sleeping with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:07 PM
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Lol agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:28 PM
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It's the silly idea that out of all the people in the world there is only one person meant for you. Aka soulmate. That least that's my understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:42 PM
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18 years, 31ish woman. There is no " one" but my husband is the best person in the world and I love him with very fiber of my being. There are of course times when I'm pissed at him or he's failed me, but that doesn't mean I'm going to throw in the towel. (Just like how there are times he's pissed or I've failed him, but he stays with me) I have no doubt that we are in it together forever, like the great psychic Katrina says "bad times are just that, times that are bad." And we get through those…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:41 PM
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Sure, I could, but how would that be helpful or productive? I should save my constructive criticism for him and not random people on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:43 AM
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Woman, absolutely no desire for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:41 PM
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Male thirst. Low standards for casual sex men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 11:59 AM
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I'd say they are about the same. We locked each other down at our "peaks" but have stayed attractive, could both go out and get random sex if we wanted (well, maybe not me since I'm preggo atm and I don't think I'd be ok with sleeping with a guy who would want to sleep with a woman who is obviously pregnant and who they obviously didn't impregnate).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:56 PM
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Cersei?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:50 PM
4

Never knew they were a thing, but I think the "traditional" bachelor parties (strippers etc) are better suited for these divorce parties than right before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:14 PM
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I'd rather we both be head over heels about the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 02:39 AM
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18 years. Don't think I'd be happy in a relationship where we only gave half of ourselves to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 12:11 AM
2

Huh, tell me, how long is your longest relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 12:04 AM
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Nah, you just don't realize that both parties have to put in everything in order to make things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 11:52 PM
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I want a 100/100 relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:17 PM
1

Lol in fucking high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:40 AM
1

You're worried about missing out on love and you're not even able to legally drink (in the US). Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:29 AM
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if the love of your life is your first and only sexual and romantic partner This is my life. I don't know about the simpler part though. We never really learned how deal with jealousy in a productive manner (we're both stupid jealous). And the idea of either of us going to a bar/club (alone or together) is abhorrent. Our friends don't get it, they think wee should trust each other (which we do) enough to let the other do whatever they want (which no, we put the needs of the other ahead of our ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:40 PM
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Oh yeah, I totally understand that too. Even with these issues I'm considering having a second one so we might get one of each.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 01:47 PM
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And yeah you need some new pieces of clothes but a lot of them can be worn after too. Yup, I bought like 5 dresses that can be worn after and was given some pants/tops from a co-worker who had just had a kid. I plan to pass those along when I don't need them. Congrats on your little one!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:05 AM
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Ok so, I don't necessarily think you're wrong, but I don't think you're completely right either. Being pregnant (for me) suuuuccckkks. My first trimester I basically lived off bread, sugar and , my "morning" sickness was "basically all day" sickness and eating was hard. Second trimester, I could eat a bit more (no meats) and dealt with "round ligament" pain, didn't even know I had those. This trimester I'm feeling the best I've felt all pregnancy, I can eat what I want (but I'm almost never hung…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:56 AM
1

Or, like I mentioned earlier, social pushback. Or men gatekeeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:06 PM
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It doesn't silly person. So why do men make such a big deal out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:05 PM
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Oh so I should intentionally go out of my way to not reveal in a woman. Yah that's totally different from "hiding" the fact I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 02:53 PM
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Or they would be playing other games. Like Zelda, Kingdom Hearts, Pokemon, Skyrim, Fallout, or any other game they wanted. But guys feel such a need to play gatekeeper or become so annoyingly clingy that many young girls (or women) just avoid the whole scene. EDIT: final fantasy, WoW, Blade & Soul, Black Desert, animal crossings, all games that I introduced (female) friends to that they fell in love with and play. But, as for the MMO part avoid the grouping systems if they can due to guys gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 02:51 PM
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I don't? What did I say that lead you to believe I go around telling everyone I'm a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 02:28 PM
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Lol get out of your bubble dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 02:00 PM
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The games I play that require a headset I claim that my mic is broken. Idk if they know I'm a girl or not. They refer to me as "she" but I play female characters. And I mostly just play with other women I've found in said games. But also, how shitty is it that I have to hide the fact I'm a girl just to enjoy a game?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 01:55 PM
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Games are played mostly at home now, but let's try to think about the past a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 01:54 PM
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haven't seen much pushback in my life. Oh, so it must not exist. I guess I'll leave my experiences at the door. Sims I didn't say anything about the SIMS. not as dreadful We'll see, but I have a pretty large library.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:20 PM
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But it's true. Given that most girls escape games, Still annoying as shit. And IME girls play just as many games, they just didn't advertise it to the general population because of social pushback. "Video games are for boys!" "So, you like to play (game they view as lesser) said in tone of disgust?" Or "You only like Nintendo games? That's not real gaming." (Which, let me show my hypocrisy, I don't think mobile gaming should fall under the same category as console/computer gaming.) I think more …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 11:46 AM
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And being surrounded by thirty annoying guys is awful. I don't want someone to want me on their team because I'm a girl, I want them to want me on their team because I'm a good player. But even after I prove myself to be a solid player I still have to combat their thirst and listen about how rare it is to find an "actual good girl player." Stream is cool and all, if you want to wait for things to download or update, or make agreements again and again for old games that you bought years ago but n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 11:24 AM
2

If it's passing the turners test, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 11:09 AM
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I'm sure part of it is not having to go to male dominated areas (arcades, game stores, etc) to be talked down to about your options/opinions/games that you like. Or creeped on when you're just there to pick up your next game or see what selection the is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 11:08 AM
1

Where would they get the eggs?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 11:00 AM
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ragnar Yes. But omg all those other pictures are just no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 05:59 PM
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It's the stupidest shit I've ever heard. People really say no green bubbles? How shallow can you be? IPhones are trash anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:37 AM
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Even when controlling for lower marriage rates, divorce rates are still falling. Which means that that people who are getting married are more likely to stay married. And the fact still stands that "most" marriages do not end in divorce, even the divorce rate was higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:43 PM
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Most don't. That's just not true. Divorce rates are actually going down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:25 AM
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How old are you? Edit: aww triggered by the question so you downvote? Maybe read the rules of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 12:21 PM
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You didn't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 12:18 PM
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Yeah and women never have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 05:11 PM
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It: puts women on a pedestal, gives women all that power in choosing, makes them "objects," makes it seem like you have to put up a face to "earn" them, and imo, both people should be sought after
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 03:31 PM
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Statistically speaking divorce rates are going down for the college educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 11:23 PM
1

But are they really "supposed "to act this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 01:32 AM
1

supposed Are they though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 01:25 AM
0

So not very attractive women face the same issues as not very attractive men. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 11:00 AM
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Attractive to who? If they themselves are attractive then they shouldn't have a problem. If they aren't, then they face the same issue that all other not very attractive people face. That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 10:47 AM
1

Maybe don't be so slow to start looking then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 10:20 AM
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Ok so why not marry a man who is sexually desirable as well as a good husband/father? Never had any issues trusting my really buff husband or finding him sexually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 01:54 AM
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Or you could just find an attractive man who is also a great husband/father.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 01:30 AM
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Because you've denied years of actual science that's been verified multiple times by multiple people just because you haven't "seen a real picture." Just like the flat earthers, who think that all the images we have is Earth are fake (for what reason? ). Or the anti-vax parents who ignore all the benefits of medicine and look to the one (discredited) study done by the one (discredited and de- licenced) doctor who created the original "study" of how vaccines can cause autism. It's so simple to ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 01:23 PM
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Your world view is just silly and ignores reality. Like flat earthers and anti-vax parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 01:04 PM
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The point is what do you think keeps your alive? And why do you believe in some things you can't see (oxygen molecules) but not others (electrons). Also, you are aware that crispr is a thing that is all about manipulating genes right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 09:33 PM
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You've seen oxygen molecules? Or just models of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 09:23 PM
1

So do you not believe in gravity or the wind or oxygen molecules?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 09:14 PM
3

So you don't believe in electrons? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 08:20 PM
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You don't believe genes exist? Or electronics? What did you use to type out this post? Can you explain that a bit more?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 07:14 PM
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A person's looks, personality, history, preferences, prejudices, friends, family, hobbies, job (to a certain extent), and je ne sais quois make up who a person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:19 PM
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Posting nudes online is stupid as shit. Allowing nude pictures to even be taken with technology hooked up to the internet is just as stupid. And, imo, play stupid games, win stupid prizes. If someone posts nudes they are idiots of they don't expect, nay want, others to masturbate to them. He's such an orbiter it's not even funny. Never. And if they did and I found out, instant break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 01:11 PM
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Cheating or abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 10:33 PM
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Partner. I love my friends, but my husband is the best person to hang out with since we just get each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 12:56 PM
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It's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 11:13 PM
2

Been with my husband since we were 14. The idea is being single... seems like the worst time ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 08:29 PM
1

The body does not make any distinctions between "regular sex" and "baby making sex." The mind does. And you should know that female sexuality is much more mental than it is for men. Then it is irrelevant to the discussion. No it's not. See above.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 02:00 AM
3

Purpose and necessity are two totally different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 12:18 AM
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Trying to conceive. And no baby making sex is not necessarily sex trying to make the woman orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 12:09 AM
3

Did I say it was necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:59 PM
1

Are they also telling you what kind of toys they use? Also, they doesn't mean they are scared to use the stronger ones, just that they have prefer something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:58 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:54 PM
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female orgasms don't have a purpose. Provides reason why orgasms would be important. eh but...that doesn't matter because we're here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:54 PM
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How do you know that most women do not orgasm when TTC? From my experience, and reading others, baby making sex is more likely to lead to orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:49 PM
0

Moving goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:01 PM
2

Is this what they call moving goalposts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:00 PM
1

They are afraid to use toys and thus spend an average of 20 minutes with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:00 PM
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My husband and I didn't live together before marriage but we spent 4 years together away at college and went on several week long trips together (granted with family and no sleeping in the same room). The transition was super easy after marriage, but I would only suggest my child to live with their partner if they had a solid plan as to when they were getting married. Ie only move in together after engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 10:59 PM
2

most women are afraid to use them? Lol wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 10:49 PM
9

Female orgasms help pull the sperm deeper into the body. Thus increasing chances of getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:12 PM
3

No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 06:03 PM
4

This is why RP fails. You build unstable relationships based on manipulation, lies etc, and then when you find someone you want more with you are unable to build a solid one, because the foundation is already rotting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 10:20 AM
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nine months of pregnancy, Fun fact, it's actually 10 months. And yes, (my) pregnancy sucks. Not looking forward to giving birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 10:48 AM
1

Marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 11:55 PM
2

Thank you it's exciti-fying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 07:05 PM
2

I'm currently six months pregnant with our first. He's been amazing through it all and I couldn't imagine having any one else's child. Maybe one more after this... Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:49 PM
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All of his/our friends were having kids and when my brother had a kid, they asked him to watch it on a certain day of the week, he agreed since he had that day off. I thought it would convince him to not want kids. It did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:52 AM
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My husband was the one who changed his mind from not wanting kids to wanting to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:13 AM
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Our oldest two are boy-girl twins I'm so jealous, I wanted this. Guess I'll have to roll the dice and go through this whole pregnancy thing again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:08 AM
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This question was asked of me a lot when I first found out I was pregnant. I'll tell you what I told them: I'm hoping for a puppy. My husband secretly wanted a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:04 AM
1

Huh ok, well that is a bit different. Thank you so much for answering my questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 01:02 AM
1

Just out of curiosity, what does the average Russian make a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 12:46 AM
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I think it's a shit ton of time. In my state (in America) I'm going to be getting 3 months of unpaid leave when I have my kid. Which is all that is required by the state, of course different companies have different policies, but legally all companies have to offer is 3 months unpaid. Lol babysitters and/or daycare is expensive. We're lucky that my husband's parents are retired and are willing(fucking happy) to watch the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 10:10 AM
1

I honestly don't know anything about maternity leave in Russian. Hence the shock of learning it was 1.5 years. How much time do women usually take off? Is it paid?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 10:01 AM
1

Well, the maternity leave is 1.5 years. That's ASAP? I'm going to be getting 12 weeks of unpaid leave. The fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 09:55 AM
3

let’s all agree or pretend to agree that women are hypergamous by nature No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 12:55 AM
3

Same. My husband also struggles with depression (and other mental issues) and it only ever brought us closer together. I love that he is so open with his emotions and isn't scared to show them. Of course or hasn't always been easy, but nothing in life that is worth a damn ever is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 01:27 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/btb5m6/guy_gets_publicly_humiliated_by_a_group_of_girls/eovnmae/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 08:11 PM
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They were at a restaurant that sells alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 08:08 PM
3

Nope, they directly told him to leave. And he argued with them about it. He's an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:43 PM
14

When someone directly tells you to back off and leave them alone and you ignore/argue with them, you become an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:22 PM
3

Thanks for posting the reply, didn't know it existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:21 PM
2

Ehhhh, sometimes they are linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:12 PM
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He's friend told him to not go over. He refused to listen, went over bothered some young person (and her possibly underage friends), was unable to see that they were uncomfortable, refused to leave when directly told that they were uncomfortable, so yeah. If he's not an asshole, his at least an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 06:41 PM
2

Considering that the vast majority of abortions occur within the first 13 weeks of pregnancy, we'll just have to agree to disagree then. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 02:34 PM
2

That's what a fucking abortion is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 02:20 PM
1

It can be about both. Unnecessary surgery in order to "hope" that the fetus lives is just silly when there are safer options. Which is kinda the whole point, keeping the woman safe and secure in her body autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 02:13 PM
2

Japanese documents show records of induced abortion from as early as the 12th century. That's not very modern.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 02:09 PM
1

It is about body autonomy and part of that is not having to undergo invasive surgeries when there is a less invasive alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 01:14 PM
2

No thanks. C sections are much more invasive than abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 12:45 PM
1

Maybe they don't feel the need to put down a reason since they aren't required to have one other than: they just don't want to be pregnant. And since no one can force you to use your body at any other point in time to save someone else, pregnancy should be no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 11:48 AM
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It's not moving the goalposts, it's properly defining the reasons behind why people should have access to abortions. Maybe they are too young to care for a child. Maybe the child has some sort of genetic disorder. Maybe their health would be put at risk if they carry or birth a child. Maybe they are pregnant with multiple babies and want/need a selective reduction. Maybe they themselves have a mental disorder which could be exacerbated by pregnancy (not allowed to take many medications, includin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 11:36 AM
2

I think you should educate yourself on the history of abortion. Because they have been occurring long before "modern advances."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 11:30 AM
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You have no control over what happens after that. Literally no control at all. Save we literally do have a choice. We can take steps to stop it from progressing. And people have been making that choice and taking those steps probably for about as long as there has been an understanding of sex leading to pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 02:32 AM
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But you see, we've overcome many natural processes. Just look at medications for birth control, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, antipsychotics, ADHD, and many many more. Souls those also be banned because it's stopping unwanted things that their body does naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 12:05 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 08:39 PM
1

When dealing with students who are being disruptive and dangerous to themselves and others in the classroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 08:36 PM
1

Choosing to list 3 injuries instead of the complete list is not the same as not being able to. And since when is a fractured arm considered minor?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 08:29 PM
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Men can choose not to be parents just as much as women. They just face different consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 08:28 PM
1

Moving goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 08:18 PM
1

Moving goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 08:18 PM
3

Although if we'd pull our heads out of our assess and legalize it, we could better control the safety of it. Kinda like how keeping abortion legal allows for better controls for safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 08:17 PM
5

I've had my arm slammed in the door (causing a fracture), stained my rotator cuff pulling a student out of a dangerous situation, had to talk down students undergoing mental breaks who have weapons on their person (no injury but it was dangerous), and a few other situations over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:40 PM
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Ah til that all the injuries I've gotten from my students didn't injure me. Or that people who take care of the elderly are not often abused. Or that police don't get shot at or put their lives at risk whilst on the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:12 PM
3

IVF.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:53 PM
3

No, you stated that the only reason why people are pro-choice is to have consequence free sex. Which is just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:47 PM
2

Teaching, nursing, mental health care, elderly care, policing, firefighting, lots of jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:46 PM
4

Having an abortion is a much bigger consequence than changing the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:44 PM
7

But, that's like, allowing people to have consequence free sex! If they really want consequence free sex they would raw dog it every time!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:43 PM
4

So condoms and other forms of birth control should be banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:40 PM
1

Yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:40 PM
3

Oh right because STDs and that like don't exist. Sorry I forgot about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:36 PM
1

You think that having an abortion isn't a giant fucking consequence compared to maybe changing the sheets?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:34 PM
2

Getting rid of the pregnancy via an abortion is a consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:28 PM
4

Sadly no bud. Having to get an abortion is a fucking consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:27 PM
3

Nope. EDIT: taking responsibility for ending the pregnancy is a consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:26 PM
0

Oh yeah, that too. EDIT: Please follow the rules and don't downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:20 PM
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Lol, no that's not the pro-choice true justification. The true justification, which is often stated but ignored, is that women shouldn't be forced to carry a pregnancy to term if they don't want to. EDIT: please follow the rules and don't downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:14 PM
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Oh please. Some women engage in hookup culture but it's no where near the levels that you are describing. This is just yet another example of confirmation bias. You go to places (clubs, parties, etc) looking for behaviors that indicate that people are engaging in casual sex, you see those behaviors (because, duh, that's the purpose of those places), and some people do engage in casual sex, but not all of them, even the ones who may be drinking and flirting. And I seriously doubt that you are sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 03:01 PM
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Having sex for pleasure doesn't necessarily equal "wanton hedonism" so idk why you can't teach ssage sex practices as well as offer abortions for unwanted pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 09:29 PM
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Meh, I don't necessarily agree with the "regardless of conditions."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:12 PM
2

Why can't we do both?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:11 PM
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Is it better for millions of children to be born to uncaring or unfit parents? Imo that's more morally repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:02 PM
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I would not have a baby outside marriage. I'd also abort if I learned the child was going to be deformed in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 05:03 PM
6

Also called the handsome bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 10:58 PM
1

Men aren't fair either. /shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 05:05 PM
8

Life isn't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 02:15 PM
1

Even if it was a much more popular channel, it would still be good practice to summarize without vague terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 02:17 AM
2

So do you expect us to research him to give our opinion? Or could you summarize his points without using vague terms?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 11:38 PM
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The fact that you can only see two options for relationships means that you don't know how to relationship. Of course love is real, it takes work and dedication from both parties to make it work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 02:24 AM
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This has not been my experience here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 12:33 PM
1

Lol yes that's what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 12:27 PM
3

I wonder what the gap (if any) of having an organism is though. (self induced or otherwise)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 11:25 AM
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Yeah, it's really fucked up, and fucked me up for a long time since I was hearing it from not only the church but my parents. But, yay for being a black sheep, the youngest of four to divorced parents, and somehow convincing them to let me go to public school and state college (only kid in my family who never went to a religious school/college).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 10:22 PM
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Sounds about right. Save Baptist. And we got married in a Methodist church. Oh and, for a while when I was much younger, your virtue is like gum, you only want one person chewing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 09:57 PM
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You don't know my life. The fact is, it doesn't matter who tried to steak or (or him) we are loyal to each other, and no one could be more valuable to me than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:24 PM
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Bullshit. I've spent over half my life with my husband and many have tried to pull us apart but all have failed. The only thing that could work was what I said in my OC.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:05 PM
1

Why make a thread if you aren't going to take the answers seriously. Talk about not in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 06:41 PM
6

Because muh male imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 06:37 PM
2

Bullshit. Never. If he starts to abuse me, our kid, or our dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 05:49 PM
3

Omg this is so true. I work with a couple "boy mom's" and they are the worst. Constantly bitching about girls and just oh so happy that they don't have girls at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 10:02 AM
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If we go by what he tells me everyday, he's very happy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 10:01 AM
1

Lol I'm happy to be able to write it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 11:26 PM
12

Gender/sex discussions are interesting and sometimes good sources of rage porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 11:01 PM
9

Third! 31, married, 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 10:47 PM
2

Very much so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 10:46 PM
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Female, 31, USA, n=1. We started dating at 14, married at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 09:38 PM
1

You should read "The Selfish Gene" by Richard Dawkins.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 10:57 AM
2

So...different people are different. Or different strokes for different folks. More news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 02:02 AM
2

But hypergamy is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 12:03 AM
2

Women who are repulsed by male emotionality themselves are unemotional You mean, Atlas is turned off by that. But, that's not all women. From what I've read about her marriage, my husband and I are much more emotional with each other, and it's the way we like it. But, different strokes for different folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 11:47 PM
1

And men face the exact same issues, assuming they want children. Wonder if that's why marriages are supposed to be a partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 12:06 PM
1

Because that's not all marriage is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 04:27 PM
1

Which is just false, but if you see no value in getting married, don't get married. No one will hold a gun to your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 03:42 PM
3

Women, as a whole, are not systematically discriminating against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 02:12 PM
3

Marriage means much more than security.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:53 PM
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Yeah it's never your fault. It's always society and the media telling the evil wimmins what to do. Best not to do any self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:49 PM
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Maybe women hate you once they are with you, but my husband is the light of my life and makes my day better just by being with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:42 PM
1

WW isn't a Mary Sue in the movie either. Did you miss the first half hour? You're like the people pissed that Arya is the one who killed the Night King and calling her a Mary Sue even though they spent literal years watching her get training to be a super secret assassin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:35 PM
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Lol I'm sure that my years of experience, training, personal charm, and education have nothing to do with why employers want to hire me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:32 PM
0

Nah, just terrible less than human beings that they have to trick in order to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:31 PM
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What's the point of yours? I don't feel the need to sell myself in order to keep my husband happy nor does he feel the need to buy me. We are together because we want to be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:30 PM
1

So like superman isn't considered too good for this world? Dude, read a comic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:28 PM
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Love? Companionship? Fun? They want to be with the person forever? Lots of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:27 PM
3

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 05:10 AM
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They get sex in exchange for money and security. I make my own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 02:57 AM
1

never portrayed as a mary sue in film. How is Superman learning to fly is like 2 minutes and being able to defeat a military general who had years of physical and weapon training on his side (and who also learned to fly in like two minutes) with relative ease not the definition of a Mary Sue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 02:29 AM
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marry sues. I'm sorry, but fuck off with that shit. WW is the complete opposite of a Mary Sue. She was trained for fucking years to have the abilities that she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 10:27 AM
1

Sisko tbh Great Capitan. But I still prefer Janeway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 10:24 AM
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r/unexpectedSeinfeld Thanks so much for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 09:30 PM
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Wait, I can't include reading fiction in my list of hobbies? That's just silly and what kind of gatekeeping is that? My free time includes going for walks with my dog (and husband if he is around), grade papers for work, study for my class, preparing for the baby, clean, playing video games, and yes, reading fiction or watching stupid shows on Netflix/Amazon/YouTube to relax. I guess I don't include "talking to friends" on that list because I do that via text most days even when I'm not technica…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 01:31 PM
3

Oh so men are just worried about what others might think and not what they might say/do. Such a better perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 02:07 AM
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I've heard/seen lots of men make fun of/question their friend's choices in relationship partners. Or, more often, men refuse to seriously date a woman because they worry about the backlash they would get from their friends. Like the moped theme. They are fun to ride, but you don't want to be seen by your friends when doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 05:35 PM
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People make fun of their friends for dating someone who is not their looks match (or better) regardless of gender. Why? IDK might be because people project their own standards on to other's relationships. Or they feel threatened because they feel like that relationship makes them look bad because they are not actively dating someone unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 01:59 PM
1

Easily. By loving and being loyal to the man who loves and is loyal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 07:32 PM
1

If you know your enemies and know yourself, you will not be imperiled in a hundred battles; ... if you do not know your enemies nor yourself, you will be imperiled in every single battle. Something I plan to teach my daughter and other hypothetical future children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:24 PM
2

I don't think that men getting raped in prison means they "go homo" by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 07:12 PM
1

I hope that they can find a man who doesn't want kids and that they can be happy together. Oh and that the man (or woman) don't change their mind years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 02:18 PM
1

Thank you, sometimes I don't feel worthy. But then I remember how awesome I am too. (I say, I say, that's a joke son)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:55 PM
2

Dog's life absolutly. And I'd get cats and rabbits since the husband is allergic and can't have them now. He lived with his allergy to rabbits for like 5 years since we didn't know until the bunny (and I) moved in, and I love him for it, but I couldn't ask him to go through it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:53 PM
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RIGHT? People just don't get it, we've spent over half our lives togehter and the idea of like trying to start over (we are still fairly young) is just baffling. Like, why would I want to be with someone who doesn't understand all my references?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:50 PM
1

That's so sweet! He's a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 10:22 AM
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Men hinder your career. My husband was the person who helped me achieve and succeed in my career. He helped me study for and pass important tests, he even drove with me to the testing site the day before the test so that I wouldn't be nervous getting there the day of (and quizzed me on the information on the way there and back). Men hinder your social life Meh, while I love my friends and all, I much prefer to hang out with my husband. Also, who else can I safely gossip about all my friends with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:32 PM
3

Making babies is not a job. Nor is it the only one available to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:35 PM
1

Setting aside the different types of love and only speaking to romantic love, IMO romantic love cannot exist without attraction. I'm not saying that the attraction has to be constant and unbending, but then again romantic love will ebb and flow over the course of a long term relationship. The key is to remember the good times and that bad times are just that - times that are bad. And if you work with your partner to put the other's needs above your own wants then it will work out. The RP viewpoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:42 AM
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Having a partner in crime to experience all of life's ups and downs is pretty awesome. Having someone to go home to is also pretty nice. Not to mention someone I can depend upon and love and who loves me has been the best thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 08:33 PM
2

Wait, you expect men to be honest? Also the average PPD user is not the same as the average RP user.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 02:30 PM
2

Karen wasn't wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 01:39 AM
1

So it's not like Pam was keeping anything secret from Jim either. Except she did, Jim didn't know that she was crying and upset which lead to boom Mic guy comforting her thus causing the first time he got in trouble with his crew. She went to parties yeah because she was at college. You can go to college without going to parties or putting yourself in sketchy situations. And maybe if she partied less she wouldn't have failed. she came back anyway because she cared about being with him. Or becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:57 PM
1

Did she flirt with him? She was thankful for him protecting her and thought it was unfair he was fired, but she was never into him. In fact didn't he come onto her and she rejected him? You don't have to be in to someone to flirt with them. Again that was a guy coming onto her and she rejected it and came back to Jim. She had multiple friends at college, they never showed her developing anything with one particular guy. But she didn't like drifting from Jim so came back. She also spent many nigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 11:10 AM
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Emotionally and physically cheating on Roy. Active participant in many of those pranks on Dwight. Made her own pranks when Jim was gone. Self centered. See the episode where she put her desire for a new chair over the group desire for a new printer. Flirted with having another emotional affair with one odd the film crew when she and Jim were going through that rough patch. When she was in NY for school she had another emotional affair with that guy, enough so that he felt that trying to get her …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 10:04 AM
3

Have you not finished the series? They go through a lot of shit together and even get close to breaking up. Also, they are both huge jerks and terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 10:16 AM
2

I'm prettier, he's more handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:40 PM
2

...The Pitbull would laugh I think you mean snap and go on a killing spree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 01:36 PM
1

What's the point of this thread though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 07:36 PM
2

Women only want to fuck STR-worthy men. That's just silly. Women want a man who is "relationship material" (which varies per woman) but who also is attractive and they want to have sex with. And the fact that you are casting every woman in the world into this one little pigeonhole is...doubly silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 12:41 PM
5

You seriously don't think that Chad has at least one woman (aka orbiter) who wouldn't jump at the chance to have a relationship with them if given the opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 11:36 AM
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Lol so you're totally blind to why women would want to commit to a man who probably doesn't have random kids running around?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:00 AM
13

Huh, funny. Almost similar to why women will sleep with some people quickly but not others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 12:55 AM
7

I can't speak to anyone but myself. But for me, setting the terms I was comfortable with, wasn't about power or control, but about what I was comfortable with. But then again I never did the whole casual sex thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:17 PM
3

Having sex for fun does. And then getting relationships on your terms does too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:58 PM
6

Again? I think some new topics are in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:19 PM
7

Then my answer to the OP is: Because men let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:18 PM
3

Same reason for the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:17 PM
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Why will (some) men happily sleep with women they view as sluts, but will not wife them up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:09 PM
1

Yeah I totes remember all those ugly actors and actresses in all those movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:55 AM
3

Lol then you're just suffering from lack of abundance mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:38 PM
2

But how can men be both at the same time? How can men be both stoic and sensitive? Having contrasting likes and even to a certain extent personalities is pretty normal and human. One can enjoy stereotypical guy things (sports, shooting, action movies) and still have a softer side such as enjoying the movies you like. One of the things I absolutely love about my husband is that he's a rough and tumble guy who enjoys sports, but isn't afraid to enjoy "silly girly" things or puppy talk to our dog, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 05:42 PM
3

But, if no one tells me how I'm supposed to act how will I know what I am?!? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 04:20 PM
1

How would they train men to be "men" if they aren't what men ought to be. (Unless that was scarasm, then ignore this response.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 04:09 PM
2

Who would be doing this training?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:08 PM
3

90%of the time when a link leads to a YT video I hastily hit the back button, but Queen is a world treasure. Thanks for posting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:24 AM
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This year my husband and I will celebrate 9 years married, 18 years together. We got married agreeing to no children, we are bringing our first child to the world before the end or the year. What constitutes a happy/ideal marriage for you? I have 0 regrets about how we've lived our lives. There have been some really shitty times in our lives/marriage, but I wouldn't trade even our worst day together for a wonderful day with someone else. He really is my best friend. Practically every night we cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 01:26 AM
1

Because in the case of Trump, they are probably getting money or some other asset out of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:54 PM
1

Maybe it's the first thing they mention to you because they aren't interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:45 PM
1

I hate to do this but: https://www.revelist.com/dating/short-hollywood-men/11027/bruno-mars-is-a-steamy-55/1 So yes, as long as it comes with celebrity status/money/style. EDIT: I disagree with Johan Hill, he's not attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 05:45 PM
1

I would love it if people would leave me the fuck alone out in public. But this goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 01:50 PM
3

I don't know what the average atheist believes. I just can speak for myself and it was a lot of reasons. Wanting to be "official," making things easier on us due to outside religious pressure from family, having a disdain for people who never fully commit, and honestly wanting to have a huge freaking party to celebrate us staying together so long and overcoming so many things together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 07:11 PM
6

I'm still hoping an atheist will comment a solution that still allows them to marry Okay, keep everything as it is by keeping it within the bounds of government.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 06:53 PM
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There are many legal reasons to keep marriage the same. One being the rights that one is granted (visitation etc) when married. Another being that you can move interstate or internationally and your marriage will continue to be recognized. And lastly, people who are not religious get married all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 04:45 PM
5

Exactly, guys are much more likely to respect (even a fictional made up) man's claim on a woman than a woman telling the guy she isn't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 08:58 PM
1

Woman, I wear makeup randomly and rarely. If I do most often it's like just mascara on my upper lashes. For formal events: eyeliner, eye shadow, mascara, lipstick. As for why, I don't really like spending time putting on makeup unless it's for an event. Also I'm a teacher and I don't think it is appropriate or necessary to come to work with a full face of makeup in front of pubescent boys and girls. Also, I'm pretty lucky in the skin department so it isn't needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:36 PM
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If I knew everything about how my life would turn out when I first started dating I would still have gotten married. Easily that best decision of my life. But, I would have done a few things differently such as what I majored in (and my job) and a few decisions relating to the wedding itself. But other than that, it'd be same old same old since I'd worry about messing up the timeline continuum. I totally believe in marriage, it's been a wonderful, stressful, but fulfilling life and I'm excited t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 11:40 PM
3

Austin has a huge video game industry. But they are probably more liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 02:43 PM
2

Ha, it's not all sunshine and rainbows. Since trying to treat others as human can be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 01:39 PM
2

Ah, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 01:37 PM
4

Maybe some women but seeing my husband (or when he was my bf) cry didn't cause me to lose attraction to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 12:54 AM
14

Concern, the desire to help, longing to make him laugh again, and mostly wanting to ease his burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 12:34 AM
1

Damn, I missed what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 12:04 AM
3

That's just bullshit. Especially when you try to ascribe those aspects to me and my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:24 PM
3

It is incorrect though because I know lots of men who's wives stay with them through lots of shit, emotional breakdowns included.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:07 PM
12

Don't pretend like you know me or my relationship. Because you clearly don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:01 PM
18

My husband cried in front of me when we were dating. And seeing anyone cry in public is distressing regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:00 PM
3

That's gross and incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:58 PM
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For me and my husband it's a myth. Can't count the number of times I've held him to cry, or listen to his worries, or ease his insecurities, or help him fight his personal demons. But then again he does the same for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:27 PM
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Because most men aren't RP or MRP idiots. And as for your question at the end: proper vetting and keeping the marriage healthy and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:21 PM
3

I think it's both to paint 50% of the population as something that they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:57 PM
13

No, it's stupid and dangerous. It is important to protect one self, but thinking that everyone is out to get you is psychotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:25 PM
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Nah, marriage isn't a contract. It's a legal (and for some religious) document. Also, my marriage is great, The Stallion seems happy in it too. Side note: when denoting currency in American, the dollar sign goes in front of the number, cent sign after. Example 1: I make $14.50 an hour. Not "14.50$"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 10:32 PM
5

I've gotten better results this way, so I'm sticking to it. Ah yes, lying/hiding important information on your profile. Such nobility.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:32 PM
5

When did PPD become a redpill "field report" area?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:30 PM
1

To lock down a quality woman who won't stand for being a forever girlfriend. EDIT: again don't downvote, it's against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:13 PM
1

It wasn't really a moment but a series of events that led to one day (freshmen year in college after about 5ish years of dating) where we met in between classes time get lunch and I looked at him and thought, "I really am going to marry him."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:11 PM
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EDIT: Also, the best method to get paternity testing is to frame it as screening for [sex based] recessive genetic disorders. As someone pregnant and going through this shit, genetic screening is completely different from paternity testing. And there are different types of genetic testings at certain ages of the mother (I don't qualify for some of the testing due to my "young" age). In addition, it is often not covered by insurance and thus would be thousands of out of pocket dollars during an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 01:25 PM
2

Not to so much of an extent I asked him to take a blood test to prove himself to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 08:28 PM
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If my husband asked me to do this in our situation, he would be burning our relationship to the ground. He have been together since we were 14 and are each other's first and onlys in every aspect of our sexual lives. We planned on having this kid and worked together to make me pregnant after years of actively not trying to get pregnant. Him then asking me to get this test done would literally destroy everything that our relationship is built on. It's very possible that I would feel differently i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 07:04 PM
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Nah, it's an accusation. "I think that there is the possibility that you cheated on me and thus I'm asking for confirmation that, if you did, you aren't trying to pass the kid off as my own."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:49 PM
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I agree. If someone isn't confident that the person they are with, and who is pregnant, is actually carrying their child they should ask for a paternity test and not worry about the consequences to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:48 PM
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If he has no peace of mind then he shouldn't be in a relationship with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:41 PM
2

Well, he isn't saying that because he trusts me enough to not ask for one. /shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:15 PM
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He generally tells me straight up why he's late before I even get to there. Or he texts before letting me know. Also it's completely different situations. Asking him why he's late is not the same as accusing him of cheating, especially if he was doing something we agreed he would do causing him to be late.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:15 PM
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No, I'm holding the relationship to my standards. If he thinks I'm a person capable of cheating he can leave. EDIT: remember man, downvoting is against the rules. Don't be butt mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:12 PM
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LOL no. Indirectly calling me a cheating slut is not something I can stand by.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:53 PM
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If he didn't have peace of mind, he could ask for it. But it would ruin my peace of mind and result in the end of our marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:40 PM
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Losing a loving and committed relationship, one that has seen you through mental breaks with reality & losing your favorite family member, stood by your side during your worst times & celebrated with your during your best, and one that pushes you to be the best that you can be as well as has shown 0 signs of cheating or falsehood over your own fears? One who's track record is longer than half your life span? You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:38 PM
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If he isn't sure that I'm not some lying slut then he shouldn't be with me, so sure, ask for a paternity test and deal with seeing your kid 50% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:25 PM
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My husband and I talked about it a lot. Part of me understands the desire for a paternity test, but in our situation (dating exclusively and continuously since we were 14) I'd be very hurt if my husband were to actually ask for one. Especially now when I'm miserable all time carrying the child he wanted me to get pregnant with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:15 PM
1

No, it's not flaired as W4Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 09:48 PM
1

It's not a Q4M so therefore individuals can reply with their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 07:22 PM
6

Thank you, it's exciting. And terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 02:43 PM
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Is it wrong for parents to take their children to such a place? Not inherently. But its also fucking awkward and weird if the purpose is to get young boys horny. Who wants to see their children be sexually aroused? I mean WTF. This is what I agree with. It's kinda creepy to try to "force" your child into puberty this way. Also, if you can't bring in people for the food maybe you shouldn't call yourself a restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:49 PM
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Going on the pill wasn't a huge deal for me. I was on it for over 10 years and was dating/married to the same person before going on it (a man who has always been super masculine and strong looking). The only huge difference I noticed when I went off was that my sex drive was much higher naturally when before I would have to psych myself up. But now I'm pregnant and my sex drive is all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:32 PM
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My husband and I have been together since we were 14. We went through HS drama, family deaths, college, and college drama, family drama, friend drama, arguments, mental breaks with reality, stress, and a host of other issues. Anyone in a relationship for any extended period of time will tell you that they take work and dedication.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 09:43 PM
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I've: shit tested (everyone does, men included), liked a guy for a good physique (most people like fit, attracted people, men included), been emotional (most everyone is at some point, men included), sought attention from men (same above, lol men included), idk what you mean by being different from men most women are in at least one aspect of their life. I'm NAWALT, I only dated one guy, never cheated, and married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 07:51 PM
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Murder? Nah, he would just go on a long trip. One which he never comes back from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 03:53 PM
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Thank you, we don't know right now, find out in April. Though I dreamt last night that I gave birth to a boy...a talking male dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:30 PM
2

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:30 PM
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I didn't want kids, but my husband does and he's the only man I could imagine having kids with, so we're having a kid. Maybe more, idk this whole pregnancy thing sucks and not really sure I want to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:13 AM
2

Conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 07:32 PM
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Imo both genders are the gatekeepers for both since we (or I at least) don't live in a society where one person can force someone to do something they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 11:15 PM
1

Good bot. And thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:25 PM
2

Only if you consider people getting married to their HS sweetheart ordinary. But in all honestly, if it wasn't part of the plan to get married after college (in HS) I would not have gone to the college I went to nor would I have stayed in his preferred geographical location. And conversely he would have gone to a different college/geographical location.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:11 PM
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First one dating, but the second one is us being married now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 10:33 AM
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I invest and have a great portfolio, I just don't post/whatever on investing subs, esp on this account.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 06:52 PM
2

Wonder how that's affected with the idea that women generally work in areas where words are very necessary. Like teaching, nursing, and caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 06:35 PM
2

Any kind of dogs. They are wonderful and the best people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 06:33 PM
9

I would rather have an environment made up of dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:42 PM
6

My husband and I dated for almost 9 years before getting married. But we also tied the knot at 23. I would not have dated him much longer if he didn't seem like he wanted to get married to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:23 PM
4

Why do more guys than gals believe in conspiracy theories?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 12:19 AM
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I don't agree or buy in with the red pill idea of what love it (or isn't).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:23 PM
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It doesn't. I'm pretty tomboyish and always have been. I suppose I only appear more "feminine" due to just how masculine my husband is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 06:50 PM
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Yeah, I'm at this point too. I don't really "see" other men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 01:52 PM
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Kinda? I've always preferred brown hair with blue eye and who are visibly strong looking ("bigger" muscles and not so much wiry). I started dating my husband at 14, a guy with brown hair, blue eyes and visible potential to have great muscle structure. And he's still that way, but is strong instead of just having the potential to be so. Since I've been with him so long, I don't really "see" other men anymore. They are there, but only just.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 01:29 PM
3

That's so silly. Learning how to talk to others, is no different from learning how to dress/look attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 04:08 PM
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So making an effort to attract the opposite sex is inauthentic? Continuing on this thought process. Is working out authentic? Buying better clothes? Learning how to talk with confidence to the opposite sex? Getting an attractive haircut?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 01:23 AM
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Well, it's possible your mother is carrying the recessive trait and your male relatives are just lucky. And hair colour is actually a poly-genetic trait (I think it's like 8 genes control it) and you get half of those from your dad, so good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:39 PM
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It's not really a myth. The balding gene (a recessive X chromosome trait) comes from the mother's side, for men (for women both the mother and the father have to have the trait). The reason they say that you should look at your maternal grandfather is because since it is a recessive trait if your maternal grandfather was balding you know that your mother is a carrier for the repressive trait. But, with more understanding one can see that the mother may have gotten the recessive trait from their …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 05:50 PM
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grandfather who didn't go bald. Maternal grandfather. Paternal fathers/grandfather's have no say in that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 04:03 PM
9

Someone can just as easily walk away from a child as they can a marriage. It's easier for men to walk away than it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 01:40 PM
2

My husband is a great man. Does that mean he doesn't have his flaws? Of course not. We all have our flaws, what makes someone "good" is how you deal with your flaws and everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 12:59 PM
1

Well, everyone is different and has different needs/wants in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 08:47 PM
1

steeples fingers Excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 07:35 PM
2

That's really adorable. We change the words to songs too, but mostly we just change it to the dog's name to make him happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 06:44 PM
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He has done so many romantic things it's hard to list. He is a fantastic gift giver, he cleans the house, we go on dates, he listens and cares about my day/experiences, he texts me though out the day and tells me he loves and misses me (or to share funny memes), and my favorite: when he gets home he gives me a big hug and tells me that he is happy to be home and that he missed me. Oh and after being home for a while he usually tells me that he feels so much better being home or that he was in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 06:34 PM
1

agree childbirth is tough but there’s hormones that make them want to do that, I think viewing childbirth as just pain is stupid. I think unless you are facing childbirth it's just plain stupid to talk about how those "hormones" make us want to do it. Because I don't. At all. And I'm pregnant (which I didn't really want to do anyway). They have maternal instincts, did you know that they forget the pain right after birth and want to have another baby? Ahahaaha, omg. No. So many family and friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 01:29 PM
2

Good for you and them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:23 AM
3

I guess I could have done that as a girl but I think I'd just be discouraged by everybody. You would have. Especially if your family was religious. Speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:25 AM
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When I was younger the answer would have been an absolute yes. I hated being a girl and having to do "girl things" and getting the side eye for enjoying "boy things." (Or worse getting barred from participating in said things) I have no problem approaching, I approached my husband, but now that I'm older and don't have to live under a religious thumb I'm happy with who I am/ being a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:20 AM
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You'll be okay. Esp once you realize it's a play off my username. EDIT: I'm def not going to call him Mr. Pony lol. Or Mr. Debate, though I suppose that's not terrible, but I'm not going to change what I've been calling him (here) for the last couple of years because you cringe. I think it's hilarious you felt the need to respond at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 01:53 PM
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I've never been approached when with my husband. Though in HS when we were sophomores, this new guy to the school (who was a junior and didn't know I was dating anyone) tried pulling the whole lean over and place the hand next to the girl's head thing when I was at my locker and my husband (bf at the time ovb) was down the hall talking to a friend of his. I froze and was internally freaking out, all I can remember is making eye contact with my husband who had stopped his conversation mid sentenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 10:22 AM
1

Happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:05 AM
3

I'm much more comfortable with mess than my husband is. But I think that is because my mom was kinda a hoarder and his family was much more clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:11 PM
2

Fuck perfume. Smells in general make me feel suffocated. The most I can do is hair spray/mousse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 09:12 PM
1

Agreed. I love him, but he sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 03:59 PM
5

Garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 12:31 AM
1

Then you should realize that having a "fantasy" of being "raped" is a lot different than the reality of having a man try to put a 10 inch dildo in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 05:48 PM
5

Movie stars throughout the ages has been handsome and beautiful. IMO it's only been recently that movie stars haven't been top tier level of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:59 PM
2

Meh some women. EDIT: lol don't downvote, it's against the rules. Sorry you are triggered by the idea that not all women enjoy or have rape fantasies. And it's like you don't understand the difference between "fantasy" and "reality."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:02 AM
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Sometimes I worry that they don't care if it feels good for us, only if it stimulates their silly lizard brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:07 PM
13

And that huge ass dildos don’t do it for me, sorry lol. It's more for them. Which, imo, is insane and directly related to porn usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:59 PM
5

I'll let you know when it happens. So far it's been almost 18 years and I still think he's pretty awesome even with all his faults.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 07:18 PM
8

Average size is just over 5 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:36 PM
2

And wouldn't it be wonderful if everyone did the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:53 PM
6

Are red pilled women ultimately worse than blue pilled women? That's a fairly subjective question. Worse in what way? This is a funny observation since many of the RP women here are also married, how can they be anti men and married to a man? (Maybe they just found their unicorn?) Are RP men worse than BP men since they say "mean" (though often untrue/not supported with evidence) things about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 02:40 PM
3

But like you said, it's hit and miss. Most women don't go to hit and miss hairdressers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 11:35 AM
1

You can read things you find interesting without posting silly stuff like this here. It's no big surprise that guys don't mess with you when you're a big guy or that girls find you either intimidating or comforting. That's basic knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:30 PM
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Do yourself a favor and ignore those stupid terms internet bros try to label others. Just live the life you desire. Have standards and a backbone when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:23 PM
2

What kind of thoughts are we supposed to post? I think it's fucking stupid that you posted this here and it'd probably be beneficial for you to stay away from the pillsphere in general. Go work out some more or just hang out with real life friends/girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:11 PM
1

Oh I hope she is... unless it's a reference to something else by the same name. Then I'm just out of the loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:02 PM
2

Stardew valley. Never thought I would see a reference to this game on PPD. What a wonderful time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:59 PM
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How do they make it work? The same way all couples make it work. Dedication to each other, communication, shared values/goals, all that jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 02:34 PM
3

Why would you ever get married if you are actively eroding the ideals of the commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 12:11 AM
1

we are now going to have a kid, Congrats! Us too! Preggo twins!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 02:01 PM
0

Well, if we had tried to do that we would have been 16, and even though my family is religious, they aren't that kind of religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:26 PM
1

Thank you! We're celebrating 9 years married and 18 years together this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:04 PM
1

Yet he didn't get the object of his desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 06:12 PM
6

Other than living together and bothering us to have kids the first five years, not much (family was too religious to be cool with us living together before). However, if you count in society viewing relationship as legit, being able to have them on your insurance, being able to say "my wife/husband" (which imo is so nice), or the ease of owning joint property, a lot. But, we were dating for almost 9 years before we got married and knew all the ins and outs of each other and our relationship. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:55 PM
3

Happens to the best of us. Scarasm is difficult to read online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 02:51 AM
4

No they got rejected by the handsome prince. Goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:39 AM
4

Quasimodo, Lefou, Jafar, all very unattractive. Heck, look at the evil twin step sisters, both their behaviors and looks are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:34 AM
7

There is no "should" there is only what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:24 AM
6

Ugly when compared to the men they actually get with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:23 AM
9

It was a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:23 AM
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Ovbs every Disney movie because the beautiful princess ends up with the ugly sidekick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:42 PM
1

Like most everyone else has said, it will vary by couple. For us it's (trying) to explain things that bother us in a non accusatory way (of course we fall at times being human and all) and even we come across a problem facing us as a "us vs the issue" situation and not a "one vs thr other" situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 07:02 PM
1

Equal in what ways? Able to lift super heavy things? Able to give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 01:03 PM
7

Exactly this. A woman who goes out to clubs/social events in the city is going to get approached much more than a woman who lives in a more rural area who only goes out to run errands/work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 01:04 AM
2

Yeah I just saw the edit a little while ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 12:00 AM
3

Oh derp, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 11:48 PM
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Your girl isn't really yours and realistically she's shared her body with a lot of others and will continue to when you stop seeing her. How is it any different from men having sex with different partners in different relationships? Men appearing weak is unattractive and being or appearing consistently weak will drive women away. Not all women, but most women. Moving goalposts. And what about AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 11:36 PM
3

All of these are RP beliefs. I guess it's good that you disagree? Maybe you aren't completely RP. /shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 11:32 PM
4

Aww and here I went to the trouble to make a list. Silly female mind, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 11:27 PM
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Oldest teenager in the house (women stop maturing in their teens). "She isn't yours, it's just your turn" That women will leave at the first sign of weakness. The idea of women (and not men) being overly damaged by casual sex. Their lose their ability to "pair bond" if they have too much casual sex (but men are somehow immune). That they are all just secret sluts waiting to branch swing. Those are just a few of the ideas floating around TRP which I find gross and plain wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 11:18 PM
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My problem with RP is that their "truths" aren't actually true. But they have convinced themselves (and others) that they are, with little to no real scientific backup. EDIT: oh and all the misogynistic views they hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 10:32 PM
6

Then you have taken her off the pedestal without throwing her in the gutter. Oh I like the way you worded this. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:50 AM
3

Ah, such respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:36 PM
1

Heck, every person has at least 1 X chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 02:16 PM
3

That's just silly and nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 02:14 PM
4

From my understanding, the oldest teenager in the house theme isn't talking about protecting and caring for women but more referring to their emotional and maturity level. RP states that women stop maturing in their teens and thus one should not take them seriously. That's not respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 12:26 PM
2

Yeah, they don't understand that correlation does not equal causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 12:15 PM
2

Lol way to take responsibility for your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 12:03 PM
9

screeching...screaming it at above-pain-threshold volume level. Wow, such emotional language.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:55 AM
6

Referring to women as the oldest children in the house and all the other silly things is trying to kick them into the gutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 04:24 AM
11

You can take someone off the pedestal without trying to kick them into the gutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 04:08 AM
2

Thank you, should archive if not done already so they can't delete their own comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 03:00 PM
2

I appreciate the linked archives you posted (that Mercedes saved). From what I saw there was some interesting points, I kinda wish now that I participated or at least lurked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 12:01 PM
3

Anyone have any of the comments that were deleted that made them look like fools?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 11:31 AM
1

We were both 18. I am 3 months older.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:05 PM
1

Yup, even taught it in church.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 10:39 PM
5

The man who is responsible for the child? No I don't see a issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:39 PM
3

Or they could just get child support. Which was created so the state didn't have to pay for the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:25 PM
3

In cases where they participated in acts of terror against said state.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:59 AM
4

You mean what's the difference between a person becoming a terrorist and expecting to come back to a nation that they hate and someone who wants to have sex with someone they are attracted to, maybe gets pregnant and then the father leaves (or they leave)? Yeah, that's a real head scratcher.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:29 AM
2

I guess I thought it was a no brainer that women would want good sex. But I suppose I can edit and put it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:40 AM
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That any and all women leave at the first sign of weakness/emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:59 PM
3

I assume that if you find someone attractive, and they find you attractive, you guys will have sex if in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:48 PM
1

I like to think that The Stallion and I have "true love" but it's not something that fell down from the sky and randomly hit us. It was (and is) something that we work very hard to maintain. It's putting the other's needs above your own wants. It's communicating and compromising. It's laughter in the midst of an argument (I'm very mad at you but that's very funny). It is not agreeing to a shitty deal or losing yourself though. Both of those situations would completely suck and if the parties tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:19 PM
1

...Enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:12 PM
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They want someone who they find attractive, is attracted to them (and only them or at least never speaks of being attracted to other people), who can take care of them (financially or emotionally or both), and who can make them laugh. EDIT : since it isn't obvious, they want to have a good sex life too. One that they feel fulfilled by and cherished in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:43 PM
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A couple hundred dollars though...? Yeah, I'm not about that. I think once I hear the heartbeat and get the results from the genetic testing I'll feel much better. EDIT: testing covered by insurance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:03 PM
2

Yeah...that sounds like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:21 PM
2

Thank you and congrats to you too. I'm still in the "terrified about everything" stage, we have our first ultrasound next week and I hope I'll feel better once I hear its heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:01 PM
4

I was on hormonal BC from the ages of 18 to 31. Went on it for "not getting pregnant" reasons (still had bf use a condom anyway until we got married) and since I was super worried about mood swings and such I kept a close eye on my behavior. Thinking back there were a few times when I did indeed act unreasonably, but it is probably just life/growing up/being human. With that said, after going off of it I had so much more energy and exercising was less of a pain (see more energy). My mood did get…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 12:52 PM
1

I always thought of god as the ultimate Jew and that if they didn't put the blood over their door they wouldn't be exempt, but you know much more about it than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 02:30 AM
1

But pretty sure that the Jews were warned and told how to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 02:12 AM
2

Lol right? Maybe during the first passover? But pretty sure that the Jews were warned and told how to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 02:06 AM
2

In history cuckold was quite common Citation needed. As to your questions. Most: mother's mother for a multitude of reasons, more likely to still be alive and due to gender norms more likely to have experience raising children. Least: father's father, again with the gender norms about raising children (and health) add in that women generally seek out their parents when pregnant. I feel this must be a troll comment because we've discussed how rape is terrible time and time again. Not only is it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 02:04 AM
4

Fucking love boots.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:38 PM
2

No one compliments a stranger. Was picking up a prescription yesterday, told the pharmacist that I liked her nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:37 PM
1

Complements on my looks: my husband. Compliments on my abilities: anyone (if I believe them, which is rare)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:35 PM
1

Well, fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 11:19 AM
2

Nah, I was saying that it's possible that people with high n counts start off with having a difficult time bonding (which is why they end up having a high n count), not that having a high n count makes it more difficult to bond. Maybe. There needs to be more research on it, but it would be difficult to track.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 11:06 AM
1

Validation, making someone happy, possible future attention, present attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:31 AM
0

Which is pretty much what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:02 AM
4

Or you could look at the fact that a selfless act redeemed her from her earlier silly decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:02 AM
4

This reminds me of the OP wherein we were told that the sirens of Greek mythology were beautiful carefree girls who just wanted to sing and have a good time. No! That didn't happen! Please god no!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 01:02 AM
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Fictional doesn't mean that they don't exist, just that they are made up. You can use "invented" if you prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:55 AM
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They are fictional though. I mean they aren't correct, a la your statement about lack of souls and them being shit. The vast majority of women in Greek myths aren't Zeus' swan rape babies either. Or having their lives played with by the gods for shits and giggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:48 AM
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Lol such anger. The fact remains though that in the original story of The Little Mermaid, she gave up her life in order to gain a human soul. It's tragic, but beautiful if looking at old stories. Stories can be beautiful even if they aren't true. As for Helen, I recommend that you perhaps look into her origin story and note that she was forced into her marriage. Also lol at your tirade against a fictional religion but totally accepting the made up behaviors of Helen and proclaiming them to be AW…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:39 AM
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Take Illiad for example. It is a tale of how female beauty can cause men to go fully retarded and destroy themselves in the tens of thousands. You mean male pride and greed. Or in the original Little Mermaid where there was no happy feel-good ending But, she got a soul, how's that not happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:49 PM
1

Usually men who aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:14 PM
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Correlation does not equal causation. It's possible that people who start out having a difficult time committing end up having more partners, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:13 PM
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Lack of imagination, or the ability to read older threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:11 PM
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And, IMO, the thought experiment ends when you realize you don't want to be a POS liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:10 PM
2

If they were born XY.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:36 PM
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Does your word mean so little to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:31 PM
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No. It was with my HS boyfriend (now husband) after we had been dating for 4 years. I wouldn't describe it as magical, that came later, but it was very nice, even though I had to deal with guilt after the fact (religious upbringing). Even so, I wouldn't change it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 12:50 PM
1

Meh, no more than a woman pays to be in an exclusive relationship with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:17 PM
1

Nope I was talking about time spent together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 05:57 PM
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I don't know, you'd have to ask them. If I try to think critically: the man gets to reproduce (usually, but with the recent widespread "acceptance" of single mothers this may change). The men who get married generally do have longer lasting bonds than the men who shared a night or five with the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:36 PM
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Then don't settle down with someone you don't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:26 PM
3

I've only ever told the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:25 PM
1

Considering they would have be dating before 18, def predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 01:48 PM
3

Only if you let it color your worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:47 AM
7

Ah so this is an incel post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:40 AM
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The ability to have sex is desirable, but actually being a slut is not. I should probably speak for myself, but men who actually sleep around are not as attractive as men who have the option to but don't (or don't choose to do so to a crazy extent). I guess I'm saying as long as someone isn't a sperg and is relatively attractive they should be successful in finding sex/relationships. And if they somehow get caught up on a difference in sexual partners between themselves and their SO then they pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:31 AM
4

Do they really though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:17 PM
3

How is this related to PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:59 PM
1

Lol touché.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:26 PM
2

This guy thinks porn is real EDIT :though I suppose that doesn't mean he isn't a sperg. /shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:33 AM
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I don't go to clubs/bars/those types of place. I wear conservative clothing when I go grocery shopping/walks. I generally avoid unnecessary eye contact/smiling to random men. If I do have to talk to them I'm to the point but polite. EDIT: I forgot: when talking to male coworkers (because it's unavoidable) I generally talk about my husband all the time, and/or make "we" statements about our plans coming up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:38 PM
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I wouldn't. I'd rather be alone with my animals than share my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:31 PM
1

Yeah I had to argue with The Stallion about not buying me flowers because they are too expensive. He pouted but agreed. We'll see if he follows through, he didn't last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:37 AM
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Omg both of those are wonderful. You are very talented.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 09:22 PM
1

I've always been a fan of star patterns. Oh and animal patterns because I have the mind of a 12 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:21 PM
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LOL so somehow his love would still be going but mine would end? Dude, don't pretend you know me or my husband. And no, I do not currently have children, so again don't pretend you know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:20 PM
1

Oh thanks, I thought there was just something wrong with my work comp XD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:13 PM
1

Ooo thank you! Those are beautiful!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:06 PM
3

Everyone loves conditionally. Everyone. I've been with my husband for over half my life but if he started beating me or cheating on me I would be out of the door. Same goes for his love for me, if I started cheating/beating he would leave me in a second (or as he likes to say, find me & the lover and kill him in front of me before he leaves). Well, maybe save your dog. Dogs are too good for us humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:02 PM
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Oooo! What is your favorite quilt pattern? I love sewing, quilting, knitting too, it's not something that The Stallion likes, but he likes seeing my work, just like I like to watch/see the end results of his Lego building. I haven't gotten into cross stitch. Any suggestions for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:59 PM
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I would avoid it unless it was of course some sort of official government business where I'm the "heir" to the Presidency. Besides, I don't see just how alone they could ever be considering all the servers that would be around. But, since I'm not cool like that, I don't have meals with men alone (unless I'm related to them) and I expect my husband to hold himself to similar standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:57 PM
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For us it has been: Putting the other's needs above your own wants. Hanging out and enjoying each other's company even if we aren't doing anything together Being attracted to the other and make effort to keep the "spark" alive. Working as a team to achieve our short term and long term goals. Having fights/disagreements but not letting them get in the way of loving/respecting each other. Shared interests and hobbies Listening to the other's interests that we may not share but learning about them …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:51 PM
2

Pretty sure a lot of the MRPs had this happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:00 PM
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Goodness, I guess depending on how you qualify "asking them to open up" it could be considered daily. "How did that make you feel?" "UGH, were you so annoyed when so-and-so did that? How did you respond?" When talking about our days. But then again he's pretty open with me anyway, so it's nice. He asks me to open up as well (same kind of questions) daily if we are including those kinda of things. If we aren't, we check in with more serious "How you feeling about x?" whenever necessary. X could b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:02 PM
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Agreed it's going to be such a shit show. I may go lurk for the lols, but that quarantine makes me think is too much trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:18 PM
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You may not, but the amount of people I've read who say this, and believe it, is more than you might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:18 PM
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Nah because you're trying to change my original statement (getting offered sex when they are walking to the car etc) into something else (being offered friendship/relationships for the same activity).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:11 PM
1

Or we could just not move the goalposts and leave it as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:05 PM
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Ah well, duh of course the future is never absolute, but if the past is anything to go by (over half our lives together, battling family deaths, illness, mental break downs, financial issues, drama, disagreements, and a slew of other issues) I think we can tackle what is in store for us. Together, which is how we work. And their crab-in-a-bucket mentality doesn't have any effect on us. Because we know we are just better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:59 PM
1

So the point of this response is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:53 PM
1

Meh, I'd say it's probably closer to a centillion. Which is why we are just plain better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:44 PM
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No where did I say it as a woe is me. I'm just pointing out that it doesn't happen as often as some men believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:45 PM
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IDK, you'll have to ask women who participate in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:35 PM
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Sex can be a pleasurable experience. However, it rarely is, for women, during a ONS or random hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:22 PM
2

Look how far you've moved them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:21 PM
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Most women do not get cat called just by walking to their car, or to get the mail, or just by existing. That was the entire point of my comment. But then you tried to move the goalposts by talking about when it does which, who cares about when it does. My OP was about how most women do not get sex offers getting into their car, or getting the mail, or existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:12 PM
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Shame you? Not so much. Just pointing out your crazy. Oh and you know downvoting is against the rules right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:01 PM
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Maybe, which would be another thing that men should understand about the female experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:56 PM
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And stating that casual sex offers are somehow things that women should value. EDIT: and it's happened: It doesn't matter how valuable casual sex is to women, being offered sex has nothing to do with how much you value the offer. If I offered to give you a penny, and you decline because 1 cent in your possession isn't worth the effort of having loose change, you were still offered the penny. Again, goalposts moved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:48 PM
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No it's not. Casual sex has very little value to women, you'll see it in my second post here. But whatever, I don't expect you to read well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:38 PM
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Sigh no. Not only do the vast majority of women not get offered sex doing the above things, but when it does happen it holds very little value to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:38 PM
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Being offered sex has very little value to the average woman, especially when it comes from some rando on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:30 PM
5

Judging by how often this is said I would think that too many people believe it to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:30 PM
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And what value would that have for the woman? Why would they want to have sex with some rando?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:29 PM
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Is cat calling a serious offer for sex? What do they expect the women to do, chase them down and throw themselves at their feet to suck their dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:58 AM
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No idea, probably when they dress up, put in effort and go out seeking offers. But again, casual sex holds very little value to (the vast majority of) women compared to (the vast majority of) men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:52 AM
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LOL yes, I forgot about this part.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:49 AM
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That the vast majority of women do not get offered sex just by walking to their car, getting the mail, just existing, or other mundane activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:45 AM
2

Aww no need to be jelly. Some people just suck at relationships. You don't need to feel bad about this failing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:13 AM
1

Omg, yes this is the life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:24 AM
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Lol I don't mind being on a high horse. All the better to see the inadequacies and failings of others, the only thing better is an ivory tower. Also, horses are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:25 PM
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My husband and I like to talk about how everyone is stupid (at relationships) but us. It's a fun bonding experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:40 PM
2

Jess? NOOOOOO!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:41 PM
2

Yay for remembering the terror of saying the wrong name/nickname!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:39 PM
5

Nah, why waste time with someone you aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:35 PM
4

So you think that each and every person needs to get to know each and every other person before dismissing them as a possible partner? Who has time for that? Best to just sort out those you aren't attracted to first before diving deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:32 PM
3

Jess Oh no! Look what you did! hides
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:30 PM
5

Why should anyone pursue someone they see has less than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:36 PM
5

LOL my mom was very, very upset at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:31 PM
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100% of the time. I saw him in 7th grade and chased him shamelessly until we started dating in 8th grade. I even broke the "girls don't call boys" rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:05 PM
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No where in your post did you mention 75% full. But maybe she wanted you to take it out then because in the past you forgot in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:34 PM
5

First: what do you mean by nagging? Second: do you believe all women (and no men) engage in this behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:51 PM
3

If you want to find someone trustworthy you need to be trustworthy and vet for trustworthiness when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 06:33 PM
2

Maybe I should take back my hivemind comment. Because I was going to say something about how I met my husband at 13 and started dating him at 14 and would only give my prime years to him because he was also 100% loyal and faithful to me. But if we had broken up it would be different. But I thought that was a bit idealistic for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 06:32 PM
3

You did realize that women aren't a hivemind right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:30 PM
2

The only social media I have is for my dog. And he gets lots of likes because he's a good boy. But he doesn't post often, it's hard to with his paws.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:10 PM
1

Religion is... for others. I personally do not believe in any gods. Yes. But not in the "destined" way, but in a more real sense. As in we choose to love and be loved by someone we care deeply about. In my experience/opinion, it's beautiful, hard work, and worth every second. It'd be very hard, and something I've already gone through, don't knots if I'd be willing to do that again. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:28 AM
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Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 12:55 AM
2

Mu husband is the cook in our family. I'm the baker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:37 PM
1

Yes. I don't see why I cannot be loved and cherished as well as understood and respected. I love and respect my husband even knowing about all his "warts."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 01:56 PM
3

Quite right. The Stallion and I are in the same boat. I "gave up" moving to my preferred geographic location, he "gave up" moving even further north and trying out for (professional sport). And we both "gave up" on dating around. Overall could not complain about the outcome. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 12:19 AM
2

Re-read and see the humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 02:35 PM
1

Nah, we have free will. We don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 02:31 PM
3

There's no such thing as destiny. We have free will in all areas of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 11:08 AM
1

Who da thunk, mentally disturbed people are attracted top other mentally disturbed people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 12:06 AM
2

No it's not you fucking retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 07:18 PM
2

So now we've established that rape is the way short or ugly men get sex. Hold up. Just because you've started as fact doesn't make it so. Rape is a brutal act in which one person exerts their will and desire over those of another person, often at the expense is the person they are doing it to. Just like murder, or theft, or any of the other crimes humanity has deemed as unacceptable. Logically it's nothing more than a few minutes of sex yet it's often punished worse than maiming someone. You are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:31 PM
2

Yeah it's really cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:42 AM
2

Komodo dragons are the shit. Did you know that if there are no male dragons around the female can produce a clutch of eggs, all of which will be male?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:49 AM
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I'm think I'd rather live on the rabbit or deer island. But yea. Alone forever with the animal friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:19 PM
1

Yes, and I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 10:17 PM
4

Because you married him and we all know that women only marry for betabucks. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 03:49 PM
3

31, 1 time. Met my husband at 13, started dating at 14, admitted to being in love around 15. It's been wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 03:48 PM
1

The short answer is: it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:05 AM
3

What's more noble about wanting a person who: makes money, is strong, looks good and can fix stuff over your list (which basically boils down to the exact same thing)?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:38 PM
3

I read that list, and it seems like all of them fall into: Making money. Physical strength Being handy Physical appearance Not that there is anything wrong with liking those things, but I don't think you should feel shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:22 PM
3

Find people who don't like social media. They exist, just hard to find since they aren't on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:39 PM
1

I don't think the commercial is particularly good, and I think that they have alienated a lot of people with it (see this thread and all the other stupid posts about it). It's going to be interesting to see how their sales are affected next quarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:35 PM
1

Is the message really that anti-masculine? I watched the ad and I didn't see anything hating on being a male. But maybe that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:08 PM
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The creator of that film admitted in the past that he picked very carefully which answers he decided to exhibit. Also note that he didn't ask any (very) unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:26 AM
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What's the fucking point of this post? Is just baseless claims with no proof to back them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:23 PM
2

Mixed with that? No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:50 AM
6

If the island has everything I need I'll break down the wall. Or ya know, just use the technology there to contact the outside world and give my location.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:49 PM
16

I'd build a ship and go home to my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:47 PM
7

Oh no an innocent, leave while you still can!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 09:34 PM
1

But you're the one asserting these "facts" with no proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:39 PM
1

So you want me to do the work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:35 PM
1

I'd really love to read the peer reviewed study that you got this information from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:08 PM
3

I'm completely honest in my intentions. Not my fault you can't see past your own limitations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:41 PM
4

So why even be here? Talk about not in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:33 PM
1

What about the other posters here saying the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:28 PM
0

About as comprehensible as your last response.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:27 PM
1

What does that have to do with the price of* eggs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:24 PM
1

So we agree, casual sex people will have casual sex. How does that lead to men somehow magically being unaffected by having multiple partners when women somehow become "used goods?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:21 PM
5

Awww someone would rather not have their worldview questioned. Maybe it's a bit too fragile to stand up by itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:19 PM
5

If women made that as a typical judgment for who they slept with, that would make sense. You don't think they do? At least for men they want to commit to? Maybe they don't care about having a quick lay with some hot guy, but find out he has kids? More than likely going to put a damper on any long term plans. I imagine it's similar for men. They aren't, it benefits them for sex however. And it doesn't benefit women who want casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:11 PM
5

Maybe some women aren't but you're lying to yourself and others by saying that no women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:06 PM
13

You're looking at this from a completely male perspective. If a man sleeps around* there is a huge risk that he has children out there. Which means he either is supporting the children (good, but it pulls resources away* from any future family you have with him) or he isn't supporting them (meaning he's untrustworthy as a father and partner). However, the OP isn't talking about that. It's taking about the mental toll it takes on an individual. Some people call it the "thousand (whatever) stare."…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:59 PM
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Why don't you just tell me what you think it means since you think it means something important?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:47 PM
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Because they don't understand that humans aren't inanimate objects but have thoughts, feelings, goals, dreams, and desires of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:37 PM
13

Gross. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:35 PM
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Because something something good keys something something bad locks. Basically: they want to sleep around but want to have a 11/10 virgin porn star waiting on the wings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:29 PM
2

That's a nice abstract but I think it fails when it comes to the more nuanced cases of romantic relationships. Especially cases of dating, no ones going to admit they dated a 4 (or whatever) at the same time they thought the person was a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 12:26 PM
3

A person she's rating as a 6/10. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 12:09 PM
12

I think most of the men who are on TRP come from single moms, hate them and blame their moms (and Disney) for their messed up views on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:58 PM
8

Is that why there is a literal and acknowledged "anger phase?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:19 PM
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Nah they totally want to give sympathy to men who are "divorced raped." And the whole idea of AWALT is just sympathy for men because of the evil feeeeemales. "It's not your fault bra, it's those bitches, they are just always like that!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:57 PM
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Men who date/marry shit women shouldn't get any sympathy because they should have known better. However, it doesn't seem like the person you're quoting is asking for sympathy, she just seems to be sharing her experience. Some people refer to this as the ''Alpha Fux Beta Bucks'' concept - that's one way of calling it, I refrained from using that term though (even though I am a RedPiller) here. LOL did you though? Because you def used it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:46 PM
1

I've been given advice (the following) but IDK why someone would pay attention to advice that doesn't jive with who they are as a person. I certainly didn't (at least not for long). Things like: don't let anyone know how much you like video games, video games are for guys and guys don't like girls who play video games. Stop showing interest in contact sports, (same reasons as above) Only look for guys in (religion), they are only worth your time. (Not overall bad advice for someone religious, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:46 AM
1

Filing for divorce falls under the "emotional labor" category. So women are more likely to do it. (This is half a joke)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:50 PM
2

You mean they (probably) want to find the person responsible to raping an unconscious person?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:28 PM
2

No skin off my nose. (I'm not a mod, just letting you know)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:57 PM
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This is a question for women, men have to answer under the automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:38 PM
1

Lol only on Thursdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:07 AM
0

Title should read: Discrimination in sex toy acceptance. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:39 AM
2

What* about them hosting a sex doll and VR porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:38 AM
1

My mom married my father who was 8 years younger than her, my mother-in-law is like 4 years older than my father-in-law and I'm older (lol 3 months) than my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:39 PM
3

Only if you consider people who have no honor or don't abide by their word.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:23 AM
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Yet somehow you didn't include it in the OP. Nor did you include women being blamed for producing only female children. Do you even know how many women were "put aside" or outright killed for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:38 PM
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Or, Scenario 4: wife fertile, husband infertile. Wife doesn't cheat. Doesn't get knocked up. Blamed for being infertile wrongly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:22 PM
1

If everyone you meet smells like shit you should probably check your own shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 09:02 PM
4

Going to have to prove that they are eroding first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 12:45 PM
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1) My husband didn't ask for my father's permission, we just told him we were engaged. (Although somehow my father believes we actually did ask him, it's not worth the fight, he can believe what he wants) 2) Mr. Stallion wanted me to take him name (though he didn't push) and I was happy to do it (though I wish I kept my maiden name as my middle name or something because transferring accounts over has been a pain in the ass, and it is something I still have to deal with 8 years later).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 01:13 PM
2

Marriage is about more than sex. At the very least it was about bringing two families together to consolidate power/resources. If the only reason someone has to get married is for sex, then they are doing it wrong considering one party could cut off the supply at the drop of a hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:17 AM
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Meh, I don't claim to speak for all women and thus I'll disregard men who claim to speak for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 08:40 PM
10

Marriage is about more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:28 PM
2

Huh, wonder how many different breeds it knows. I could give it to my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:11 PM
3

Life goals I think you mean "death."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:07 PM
1

Damn them and their tricky cloven hooves. Who knew they could be so great for typing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:05 PM
2

I think a goat is cool. Even though I dislike real goats.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:02 PM
1

Trucks. Or Tien. Or Android Krillen. Or Yamcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 09:50 PM
1

Purge 24 hrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 09:44 PM
3

Fuck goats (not literally). My mom has them and I couldn't leave the house fast enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:23 PM
0

Oh look. More claims with no proof to back them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:52 PM
1

Oh oh my bad. However I disagree that most women would be ok with sharing a "Chad."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:32 PM
1

Wait, isn't being sexually successful just being able to have sex? So therefore everyone who is sexually successful are having sons (and daughters).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:26 PM
1

And it's blatantly creepy to all for details of someone's sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 03:44 PM
1

I'm not going to go into details of our sex life on this. But no, no other people are involved. Have fun trying to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 12:44 PM
1

I don't care what "men" do. And imo it's just a fantasy to believe that men en masse will leave the dating game. But hey, you do you, have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 02:05 AM
1

So don't date. No one is forcing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:52 AM
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Nah, I like being a wife and having a husband. He also wanted to get married so it made sense. But hey, don't want to get married? Don't. No one's holding a gun to your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:48 AM
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Marriage was/is important to me for a myriad of reasons. Religious obligations. Status. Societal expectations. Not wanting to be a forever girlfriend. Wanting to make that commitment in front of all our family and friends. Wanting to live together without dealing with religious family flack. And lots of other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:35 AM
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You aren't very imaginative are you? But I suppose that isn't an issue for us. We've always found ways around those concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 10:08 PM
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