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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times?		Debauchery69	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/22 11:52 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Dads with little ones. How do you do this? Document each time she threatens to hold your kid from you. If she ever does she will screw herself over	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/22 01:59 AM
2	Dads with little ones. How do you do this? So long as no one has done anything to harm your daughter she has no leg to stand on.. I don’t know the full details nor do I need them but my ex tried to do a similar thing to me off of phony accusations. Luckily we were able to mediate but that took time. I was very lucky to get 50% with my kids based off others’ stories in this group but man right now before it’s signed is the time to fight for what you want. If not now it will be 1000x harder to get a judge to reverse something.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/22 01:58 AM
6	Dads with little ones. How do you do this? My divorce finalized a couple months ago and I have them 50%. A 3 and 1 year old. It’s tough man. Is it specifically that she’s wanting to change the custody agreement that is difficult? What exactly is going on? Hang it there man… it’s gotten a little easier for me so far 🤞	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/22 01:47 AM
6	How do you avoid the rage? Hence why I said petty cash. Smaller amounts that you can justify as groceries or other expenses. Attorneys can’t do shit about that. As far as passwords go he can damn well change passwords to his own shit. No reason she needs access to his personal stuff.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 02:32 AM
18	How do you avoid the rage? I don’t really have advice besides saying now is the time to focus on yourself and file ASAP. My situation is a little different, and I wish I could advise you more, but start the process of your own healing right away. Delaying will only make it worse. Take out some petty cash from the bank every so often. Change passwords and all that. Get yourself straight then seek what you want to do. Try to worry about what you can control, and let the rest go. Stay close to friends and family and your kid…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/22 11:47 PM
5	I divorced a Psychopath I am in the middle of divorce where she has BPD as well and has no long-time friends, never was able to make new ones together, and she started to turn me against my family. 🙃	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/22 02:21 PM
4	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? Good perspective. Thanks for dropping input. I think I have a bright future ahead	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 04:52 AM
1	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? Thanks man, love the advice surrounding women. I’m not wanting to jump into a serious relationship for a while but what you have going on sounds perfect.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 04:21 AM
1	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? Thanks for the recommendation. I will check it out and I do plan on getting a life coach/counselor	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 04:18 AM
2	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? I actually like this a lot. Props to you for making an awesome life for yourself!	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 04:17 AM
1	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? Might have to try some just to chill me out a bit.. any recommendations?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 04:16 AM
2	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? Yeah I think I’m still holding in grief. Like I said I don’t want to be with her and would never get back with her. But I think I’m just still wanting a happy family.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 02:23 AM
2	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? Glad to hear I’m not the only one. It’s always a rollercoaster of emotions!	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 02:02 AM
1	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? Never been too enthused by reading books but I could definitely do audiobooks.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 02:01 AM
2	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? Being alone is such a double edged sword. Depending on your mindset/emotions it can be incredible or devastating	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 01:58 AM
3	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? That’s actually really encouraging to hear! Thanks for the input!	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 01:56 AM
1	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? Thanks for this. I might get a dog. I grew up having one and wouldn’t mind one again	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 01:55 AM
6	Advice on how to be ok with the lonely quiet times? Snowboarding, dirt biking, lots of things… then I got married. But good point that brings up a lot of good ideas	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 12:38 AM