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| – | The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heardI mean, I’m in the age group of women you’re talking about. It’s definitely true that in general, my age group is by far the most physically attractive, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that dudes aren’t exploiting the power dynamics of being with someone younger. Wouldn’t say age gaps are necessarily bad, but it leaves a lot of room for weird and controlling behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 04:24 PM |
| -1 | “Sex is neccessary but insufficient” is a lie if you only want to talk about sex and physical “intimacy”.No need to wait for me, just re read your post a couple of times. There’s a reason you always respond to me last in your posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 09:05 PM |
| 0 | “Sex is neccessary but insufficient” is a lie if you only want to talk about sex and physical “intimacy”.Not necessarily, it’d depend on a lot of things, I definitely wouldn’t take it personal, and would possibly keep exploring it, but, I think both of us would probably get bored as I wouldn’t budge and neither would she. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 08:16 PM |
| 1 | “Sex is neccessary but insufficient” is a lie if you only want to talk about sex and physical “intimacy”.Yeah, definitely relate to this lol. This is just my norm, but I’m Gen Z and grew up in one of the largest American cities. I think it’s just a lot of socially reclusive types, people obsessed with morality, and religious ppl who say a lot of wacky shit in here haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 07:31 PM |
| 0 | “Sex is neccessary but insufficient” is a lie if you only want to talk about sex and physical “intimacy”.Sure? not really sure what point you’re trying to make, it works for me and the women I’ve dated didn’t seem to mind at all. People should do whatever they’re comfortable doing. I don’t see why emotional intimacy and sexual exploration can’t happen in parallel, maybe that’s not the case for you? Communication matters, obviously, but compatibility isn’t just something you talk into existence. Some of it is experiential. If waiting is what makes you feel safe, do it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 07:29 PM |
| 1 | “Sex is neccessary but insufficient” is a lie if you only want to talk about sex and physical “intimacy”.I don’t commit to anyone before at least a month or two of getting to know one another. In practice, anyone who’s stuck around that long hasn’t wanted to wait, so that scenario isnt something I can relate to. I’ll take the hypothetical for fun tho. In theory, I’m not opposed to it as a value. Personally tho, I wouldn’t feel comfortable committing myself to monogamy with someone whom I haven’t determined sexual compatibility with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 07:15 PM |
| 9 | “Sex is neccessary but insufficient” is a lie if you only want to talk about sex and physical “intimacy”.So what you’re saying is, a person is incapable of simultaneously wanting a relationship with someone and desiring sex with them. And that, for an individual to want sex as one of the many pillars of their relationship, invalidates their desire for a relationship. This post honestly feels intentionally facetious LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Many here Post stuff that is simply just not TrueI think a big problem a lot of posters have here is that they’ll see a behavioral trend /phenomenon happening within certain subgroups and/or subcultures, and then essentialize it to all men or women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Contrary to popular PPD beliefs, lower testosterone levels in women are not responsible for lower libidoWell, you’re arguing that testosterone has to little to no effect on a woman’s libido, not that women’s hormonal fluctuations and properties are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 02:33 PM |
| 14 | What do you think about some women being happy single and “not needing men”?I’m more of less indifferent to the concept of “women needing us less”, but I do believe it, I believe women are just better at maintaining their relationships with friends, family, and wider social webs, lot of guys these days haven’t made a new friend since high school. So yeah, I’d say women are probably on average happier single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Besides the amazing sensations, seeing her genuine enthusiasm for the experience and feeling connected/intertwined with one another, even if casual is still foundational to the fun of it. In sex work that part of the experience is completely stripped, which just kills the idea of it to me and seems like it provides a hollow experience, I mean, may as well just rub one out at that point. Also, aren’t reputable escorts ridiculously expensive, seems like you’re not really escaping the cost of seeki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Average men should get a free pass to cheatYet the outcome remains the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Average men should get a free pass to cheatLmao, how about just keeping your word, if you want pussy on the side tell her that, you’d be surprised how much more women will respect you when you’re honest about something that could jeopardize your position with them. Very pathetic philosophy here, and by the same logic, why wouldn’t a woman choose to sleep with a highly competent and successful man? Those men are even rarer than gorgeous women, should your girl be able to fuck exceptional men just because they’re rare? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Men here present all men in a terrible light and then act surprised when women call them outSometimes I will shoot out of my perceived league just to feel my nerves tingle 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Men here present all men in a terrible light and then act surprised when women call them outYeah this is based, I wouldn’t call myself a chad or pretty boy, but dating has always been “easier” for me, dating like a woman is so much fucking fun and honestly I think most men would if they could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:31 PM |
| 6 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!Lmao, at that point just rent a girlfriend or get an escort, I can only imagine desperate chumps participating in this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 03:54 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?Awesome, I can’t wait to read your work, I’m sure it’ll entertain me 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:19 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?Thanks lil bro, lmk when you release that fantasy novel yeah? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:17 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?No it’s the laugh at delusional posters lane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Those who do not believe delayed sex is a cause of concern, how would you respond to this scenario?In this specific case? No, I wouldn’t be interested n anything beyond a sexual connection if that what was she was bringing to the courting stage, it’s a turn off, but not a moral failing, I typically always have fuck buddies when I’m single, even if I’m seriously courting someone, but I feel like it’s one of those don’t ask don’t tell things, because if I figure that out it will just turn me off on a gut level and my mind will default to only seeing you as a recreational relationship regardless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:15 PM |
| 1 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:10 PM |
| 10 | Men and women are quicker to defend the use of porn than they are to defend SA victims.Haha this may be the dumbest shit I’ve seen on this sub so far, if watching porn and punishing illegal and anti social behavior are regarded with same moral weight to you, you’re an unserious person. Are you really assuming all pornstars are victims of sex trafficking? Have you ever actually spoken to someone who does sex work, or even done some research on the topic? Which men are shaming others for not watching porn? If anything, Gooning is seen as a negative trait and those people are typical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 09:48 PM |
| 0 | What if men and women halted all support for each other?Haven’t you realized it’s over already, be selfish, and just find your favorite liar to enjoy your time with in this short life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy DiscussionPersonally speaking, I would not formally be in a relationship with any woman I couldn’t see myself deeply loving and settling down with, in those cases, I am strictly monogamous(with an exception here and there), however, if I don’t have any woman in my life whom I feel that way about, I just casually date/sleep around, have fun, commit to one and do whatever I want whenever I want, as I see fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:33 PM |
| – | Sexpat destinations are going to disappear as countries become more developed.As they should, everyone who partakes in that is a loser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:27 PM |
| – | Most women in "open" relationships would instantly break up if their husbands or boyfriends slept with another man.Are you into him? Viscerally so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Most women in "open" relationships would instantly break up if their husbands or boyfriends slept with another man.I agree, I think the only case in which open/poly dynamics work is if that was established from the get go and is the foundation of said relationship. I think, transitioning into non monogamy is probably one of the worst mistakes you can make as a couple, I’m sure there are exceptions to this though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Most women in "open" relationships would instantly break up if their husbands or boyfriends slept with another man.I don’t think this is true, most poly ppl I’ve met man or women would not clearly categorize themselves as straight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:50 PM |
| – | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.Are you in your 20’s? Maybe it’s just an age thing and my generation is loose, In my experience typically only women who have strong religious upbringings or have some form of social ineptitude are waiting months to have sex with someone they like. I’d also like to say, when I was single, I wasn’t only dating “promiscuous” women, or women who are super sexually active. I felt like, I was with a variety of kinds of people, and not all of them fell into the “promiscuous” category, and if they were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 04:46 PM |
| – | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.Born and raised in America, in a top 3 city as well, most women I’ve dated wouldn’t even wanna wait a month to be intimate. Life moves too fast for that. Personally tho, I don’t necessarily have a timeline for sex, more so a timeline for expression of desire on her end, and that expression just so happens to be sex most of the time. Also, let’s say you were dating/getting to know a guy, if he was sleeping with women on the side, while you guys were getting to know one another, is that something … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 04:37 PM |
| – | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.A month is immediate? Haha who’s setting that standard? To me immediate is the first time we see each other. Why do I feel like every one of your posts is just projecting your own dating practices on us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 04:30 PM |
| 3 | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.What are we considering “immediate”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 03:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotThis is based, and honestly, I’ve scored some pretty unexpected shots by being graceful and chill about rejection, like rejection isn’t even absolute, I’ve had women change their minds, or maybe they were just testing me haha, nonetheless, it’s all about having fun, creating safe environments for both parties and sharing cool moments, dating shouldn’t be so stressful or “optimized” just go out there and shoot the shit with pretty girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 04:34 PM |
| – | Q4M: Do most men really want trophy wives/gfs (or bfs if they’re gay/bi)?I don’t think wanting an attractive woman means you want a trophy, also I’m not old yet but if I was I can’t imagine dating someone around my age, wouldn’t even date a 19 year old and I’m in my 20’s lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 10:34 PM |
| – | What do you think is the best solution for dismantling the supposed "patriarchy"?You could apply to this anyone who isn’t at the very top of the hierarchy, This is such an uninteresting and lazy way of approaching the topic. If I said “You’re only alive because the state has not decided to kill you” I’d be technically right, but what are we achieving making that assertion, what is the actionable advice, what’s your next step? It’s just boring and achieves nothing, please do better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | A woman below the top-tier can either have Chad or have exclusivity, but not bothExactly, lots of dudes just assume any guy who can get women is going to have a roster until they die. News flash, even dudes who can get women enjoy companionship and fulfilling unions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Case Study - Where do you categorize this man?When I say weak dick, I’m not talking about size, although that does matter. And sure I guess it would, but I’m skeptical of those statistics, how does it determine whether or not they can orgasm, is it that they can’t, or that they just never have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 03:52 PM |
| 5 | Case Study - Where do you categorize this man?They’re lying, everyone likes to orgasm. The only ones who’ll tell you that are women with men who have weak dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 03:40 PM |
| – | Trying to pretend like you can vet someones character on a first date is very ignorantOn the flip side tho, people are much more honest when they don’t have a stake, or at least feel like they do. I actually feel like you can get some great nuggets and insights on the person in those first couple of meetings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Sought after men's behaviour is making it hard for normal women to get an LTRYeah, why would I commit right away to just any girl if I can have most of them, and then I get to arbitrarily choose which one I want to take seriously after I’ve had my fun. OP, why WOULDNT I do that? What incentive is there for me to settle down right away when I could have my cake and eat it too. Are you saying it’s immature because the guy you wanted didn’t choose you? I sympathize with you, but this just seems like cope. Dating is competitive, and I think that bothers you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 01:28 PM |
| 2 | If expectations regarding your gender make you uncomfortable, it probably wasn't made for youThis is kind of based but a bit too nihilistic, I have mixed feelings lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:17 PM |
| – | When Casual Turns Romantic. Are Different Dating Styles Being MisreadPersonally speaking, I’ve only ever dated in the ‘casual to potentially serious’ way. I respect women who completely separate the two, but that way of dating wouldn’t work for me. I don’t see the incentive of doing all of the courting if I can court someone whose already on the same page as me sexually. Both of my LTR’s grew from a casual situation and I much prefer that way of dating. In my experience, women who completely separate the two tend not to weigh attraction as much as I’d like. I don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 08:46 PM |
| – | How should men react in an age of female expendability?Any human who is not and was not in the elite classes of society, are expendable, and even they are in some sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Misogyny and misogyny denialI agree, It’s actually ridiculous, so many of these manosphere influencers are corny freaks, but have so much pull with dudes in my age pool (Gen Z). There’s a certain sub group of gen Z men that make conservative boomers look like progressives. Sigh, I fear for human relations in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:56 AM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsI don’t do this lmao, you don’t need to sell a girl a dream for her to desire you, these are lvl 1 thug/crook tactics. Get back to the grind you have much to learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 05:50 PM |
| 7 | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?Did anything I say sound misogynistic or imply misogyny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 04:46 AM |
| 6 | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?Pretty big leap at the end there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 03:59 AM |
| 3 | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?I’ve had something similar happen, it did not have even half of the affect yours did, but it did really fucking suck and in hindsight I was definitely a rebound she got carried away with, the 180 she did in under 24 hours felt nearly inhumane 😂, at the time I thought I was the shit and she humbled me, looking back I probably needed that L to ground me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 07:55 PM |
| 17 | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?Being used as a placeholder, and being valued for what I can provide rather than who I am independent of those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Would you marry a woman who would not take your last name?I wouldn’t care, i personally would never take anyone else’s last name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.And? Her shame has nothing to do with me, I have plenty of standards and impose them as I see fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.This, idk why men have so much trouble accepting that women are simply better off single, you have to add value to her life outside of having a dick (even if it’s bomb) and a paycheck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.You named off a bunch of qualifiers just like the women you’re complaining about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 04:24 PM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Man this is so true, there were so many socially inept dudes in college that it just all felt too easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 03:57 AM |
| 7 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?Speak for yourself, my girl gives me plenty of it, as well as literally every female friend I’ve had | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 03:41 AM |
| 4 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?Different perspective, being around women provides a nice polarity, a softness to life, it’s an energy thing, there’s a reason boys who grow up without a mother’s love are likelier to be anti social and cruel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 03:24 AM |
| – | For “Men can want sex AND relationships” to be believed, they can’t despise non-sexual relationship activities and the vetting process.I’m not endorsing unspoken dynamics as some ideal, I’m pointing out that they exist whether we like it or not. A majority of human communication is non verbal, cues, behavior, escalation, pacing, not just explicit statements. Dating also isn’t a business negotiation or a contract. Attraction and desire don’t operate through checklists and verbal agreements, and pretending they should doesn’t make those dynamics disappear. It just ignores how people actually assess interest and bond in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:18 AM |
| – | For “Men can want sex AND relationships” to be believed, they can’t despise non-sexual relationship activities and the vetting process.I think where I differ from you is that dating isn’t just people clearly stating intentions and behaving ethically from the start. There’s an unspoken negotiation happening, and most of it isn’t conscious. Men tend to test desire through escalation, women tend to test intent through pacing. That tension isn’t manipulation by default, it’s just different risk profiles interacting. This reads less like men despising relationships and more like your discomfort with that dance. For a lot of men, sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:08 AM |
| – | For “Men can want sex AND relationships” to be believed, they can’t despise non-sexual relationship activities and the vetting process.Man, every time I see your posts, you hit on something real, and that’s why they resonate. But I think you consistently talk past what intimacy actually looks and feels like to men. Not in a malicious way, just from a different lived perspective, and then strong claims get built on top of that gap. I don’t really think this post is about men misunderstanding women. It reads more like wanting men to self select out of the dating pool by adopting your pacing and framing of intimacy, without much e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:36 PM |
| 3 | What are the signs that a woman is genuinely desired - and not just settled for as the available option?I don’t see sex and monogamy as intrinsically linked. Your approach is valid, but it’s too binary for me. Connections can exist outside commitment, and pretending sex is emotionally neutral doesn’t make it so. When I said “make her care,” I should’ve used different language. Attraction and attachment aren’t things you manufacture. You show up as you are, and people decide for themselves what they feel. As long as expectations are clear, adults are allowed to engage knowing that emotions might de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:26 PM |
| 3 | What are the signs that a woman is genuinely desired - and not just settled for as the available option?Not saying you "ought" to do anything, and I don't think two people caring for each other in a non-committal arrangement is evil at all, so long as both parties are honest. I was just responding to your point about “her not caring about you if she only wants sex”, which can be and is true a lot, I just think, as a man, you've gotta lot of room to wiggle if a woman desires you in that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:12 PM |
| 2 | What are the signs that a woman is genuinely desired - and not just settled for as the available option?True, but if she wants to have sex with you there’s a solid chance you could make her care for you. That’s been my experience, not so much on the contrary though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 09:45 PM |
| 1 | What are the signs that a woman is genuinely desired - and not just settled for as the available option?Yeah I’d say unwilling to be selfless and or eat a little shit for you to be happy, even in times where money was tight, I always made something work, even if it set me back a week or two. Obviously tho this has to be within reason, or else it’s just financial incompetence lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 09:43 PM |
| 1 | "Men/women are worse" is a pointless debateGood post, I agree with most of it, anyone who doesn’t acknowledge men are far more dangerous than women is intellectually dishonest or sheltered to the highest degree. Not sure I’d ever buy into the “men are worse” idea though. Ultimately, I believe that men typically do the “worst” much more than women, things like murder, rape, theft and etc, however, these things in and of themselves are exceptional actions and do not represent men on any population level(as far as the US). I believe if you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 09:21 PM |
| – | It's generally not as good to socialize as a man than as a woman.If your only goal of socializing is to fuck, then yeah you’re probably right. There’s a lot more to gain from good conversation and new connections than some pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 06:09 PM |
| 1 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.You’re asserting a lot very confidently without actually backing it up. There isn’t solid data showing “most women stop after two hookups,” that number seems pulled from intuition, not research. Validation also isn’t synonymous with low self-esteem, it’s a baseline human drive, socially healthy people seek it all the time, including you, I promise you’re not an exception. If we’re going to critique generalizations, the same standard will apply both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 07:14 PM |
| 2 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.I think you’re reading “payoff” as a moral justification, thats not what I’m saying. I’m using it descriptively, whatever someone expects in the moment whether it’s attraction, validation, novelty, curiosity, intimacy, etc., even if they later regret it. Framing casual sex as only something women do out of low self-esteem, manipulation, or coercion actually removes a lot of women’s agency, which I don’t think is accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:19 PM |
| 2 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.I think desire, behavior, and regret are getting conflated here. Some women regret hookups, sure, but that doesn’t mean desire wasn’t present at the time or that women broadly dislike casual sex, it shows that context and payoff matter more. And It feels less like women want sex less, and more like they’re more selective about when acting on said desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:01 PM |
| 0 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.Hmm, maybe I’m too informed by own experiences and those around me, but in my college years and even afterwards up until I got in a relationship, hookups were very accessible, and was more or less the default relationship dynamic until of the two parties realize it’s either going somewhere or it’s not, and I don’t view myself as a “chad”, this was the case for my most of my friends too. And most of the women I know aren’t in relationships, they just have a couple guys they fuck here and there. F… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 05:30 PM |
| -1 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.I think a lot of your points are based and true, but I think women love sex just as much as men if not more, and are just as much into hook up culture as men are, if they weren’t, we wouldn’t even have a hook up culture, there are just typically more barriers of entry because of the inherent risk of being a woman in a sexual encounter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Nobody cares about men’s problems.I’m not single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Nobody cares about men’s problems.I think both should be proving themselves, all the women I’ve been with, I test them consistently just as they test me. I don’t see anything wrong with it, obviously you don’t explicitly test them, you throw them into certain situations and closely observe their behavior. There’s one thing women do really well, that I think men should absolutely be taking notes on, and it’s realizing how expendable and replaceable we are, In my opinion, no women is above being demoted or summarily left and or gh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Nobody cares about men’s problems.Idk about you but I expect my women to bring shit to our relationship hahaha, if you’re operating from a place of dignity this doesn’t even really come up because women can sniff out that you actually care about yourself and are more than willing to lose her if it means preserving said dignity. I do think you’re right tho, no one cares about men’s issues besides your close friends and family. Such is life, all that matters is that YOU care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsI don’t fear those things, and neither do any of my friends. I’m not a “Chad” either, just don’t do weird shit and you won’t be a social pariah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsI’ve never been labeled any of those things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsI’ll respond point by point. This is valid, the over saturation of options isn’t great, but it’s not enough to prove they wouldn’t last a day in our gen. Would you last a day in the 50’s-70’s without all of the modern luxuries you have? Not once in my life have I worried about being metoo’d, only men who are engaging in weird sexual behavior or have no experience deal with this fear, or on the off chance they’ve been wrongfully metoo’d which is probably less than 1% of the male population. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 10:08 PM |
| 11 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsI find older men to be much more grounded and realistic about dating, yeah some of it is outdated, but there are absolutely nuggets of wisdom in there, like with ANYONE else, you don’t take it at face value and determine what you can extract from it to make your life better. Nowadays most dudes my age are nihilistic losers who’ve resigned themselves to misery and passivity, and pathologize every little aspect of mating/dating. Hard for me to resonate with that, as to me, that is inherently a los… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 07:20 PM |
| 0 | how many dating problems (specially for men) would dissapear if the economy was great or at least decent enought?No I don’t think they’d go away, hate to be that guy who sounds cucked but men need to learn how to be in their feminine more and women need to be accepting of it. I don’t mean feminine as in being more submissive or flamboyant, but in all of us exists a polarity of feminine and masculine energy, jung explored this through the anima and animus, I believe men tend to swing in the extremes of these two “entities” that exist in us. Women have taken on more masculine roles in society, while still ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on the "good guy" vs "former hoe" relationship tropeYou’re selecting for a lot of exceptional qualities if we’re using healthcare workers as our sample lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 05:12 AM |
| 11 | Thoughts on the "good guy" vs "former hoe" relationship tropeBingo, I’ve almost always ended up with women as “socio-sexual” as I am, and the times I haven’t, that mismatch of values absolutely reared its head in the dynamics with those more “traditional” girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Chasing casual sex for men is more about ego than pleasure.Pretty based take, although I don’t think it accounts for human beings having an inherent need for connection outside of the platonic, don’t necessarily agree with your take on “men could just Masturbate all day” we all know it’s an extremely cheap dopamine hit and leads to nothing substantive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:36 PM |
| – | why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral?This is based and the only way to view them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.I think psychologically this is true, as in men and women both share many pitfalls of the human mind albeit it typically manifests differently, but the reality is that men have much more capacity for violent acts coupled with the male physiology just makes for far more dangerous men than dangerous women. And that definitely counts for something. I agree with the sentiment to some degree though, but even with conceding the fact that both genders share the underbelly of human psychology, women ten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 10:56 PM |
| – | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayUnironically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 12:16 PM |
| 2 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayMaybe you’re just dating women who don’t like you, this is not my experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Would you date asexual person?Absolutely not, Ace people should only be with other Ace people, respectfully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Alot of our issues wouldn't exsist if female biology was tuned a bit betterYeah honestly it’s Joever lmao, none of us really need each other anymore. Mating issues will be so much worse in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Guys, One Woman is Enough.Depends on what kind of person you are, I think it’s very unwise to only have one woman if you’re shopping around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 07:08 PM |
| 2 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Lmaoooo based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Has being on this subreddit improved your dating/romance life?Dude this is so true smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableEveryone is replaceable, women are not exempt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 05:34 PM |
| – | Most Men Do not truly want a relationshipMmm I don’t know if I agree with this, it all just depends on where you’re coming from. Personally after years of casual hookups and situationships I was definitely craving something that’d challenge me, fulfill me and have someone to witness my life, and achieve goals with. Very happy with my decision to not just prioritize sexual gratification, I’m happily monogamous now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedGo outside dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 08:06 PM |
| 9 | Society should encourage Women to become single moms.lol if this is real you’re misguided at best evil at worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying.I think you’re on the mark with this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 08:56 PM |
| 7 | Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying.I’ve actually found women to be much more dishonest when it comes to trying to find a LTR/monogamous relationship. They seem way more honest and carefree in casual relationships in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 08:55 PM |
| – | If TRP wasn’t accurate, blue pillers would not be trying to censor it so aggressivelyVery rare, 99% of red pill I’ve met and known are such losers it’s laughable, nihilistic with no drive for anything. Only dudes who have been “organically” red pilled are like this. Typically very attractive or womanizer dudes who have seen the worst of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 04:43 AM |
| – | If TRP wasn’t accurate, blue pillers would not be trying to censor it so aggressivelyLol red pillers love essentialism, it’s a dog shit ideology that has bits of truth and preys on weak and insecure men with no direction in life. This is coming from someone who used to be obsessed with it as a teenager. It is a devolved way of thinking, that leaves no room for individual thought and at its core pines for the attention, validation and affection from women, very beta unironically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Do women have a kind of "Madonna/whore" complex but toward men? A "bad boy/doting husband" complex?Very based humility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:45 PM |
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