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| 2 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?Yep I’ve heard there are women who also like less experience because they don’t have any either. It just depends on the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How to understand what is your league?You can asses your face and body comparatively to the average, just takes a little researching and working out to see your genetics. Then there’s social ability as well and how many assets a person has that’s it. Theres always exceptions to standards some people don’t care others do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:58 AM |
| 2 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?I have done it before but only because she made things obvious. I’d never try a complete cold approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 07:24 AM |
| 2 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?I’m asocial so I wait for women to make moves. If I don’t see us being good friends I don’t really bother. I use Reddit and YouTube but not for dating. I’m here cause I feel like I’m missing out sometimes and want to see what people are thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulMy ex and I are platonic friends and she’s mentally crippled so I’m helping her save up for her own place since she’s stuck in a very abusive household. I use to volunteer in teaching kids how to self infuse for their hemophilia but recently I’ve been prioritizing my own health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 07:19 PM |
| – | Would you get into serious relationship with a girl who has done ONS/FWB before?I don’t like hook up culture so no. I’m not a hypocrite about it so I think it’s fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 07:53 PM |
| – | The only real way to fix the dating market is to globalize itMen need to boycott the apps. Men need to stop being simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Men often don’t really know what they’re attracted toYeah i think people are hyping up what being an agreeable person actually means. To some extent you need to know your partner has a backbone with opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 06:45 PM |
| 2 | If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault.A woman with a knife is still largely gambling her life it has to be something like a gun to guarantee control. And even then when sickos want to abduct you they don’t usually want to shoot you on the spot cause they wouldn’t get what they want out of you and it would arise attention. It’s just not as easy for them to get away with by themselves. I’m not talking about the people that cause random aimless murder, but the ones that make plans to capture and abuse others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 09:08 PM |
| 4 | If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault.Men who can’t get what they want will be more motivated to do sexual crimes out of depravity. Also when you take hormones and strength into account it makes sense they’d do them more and get away with it more often. As you said women still do these things but lacking testosterone and rage is what will keep women passive more often then not. I’ve seen cases in sociopathy when the woman would say that it took too much work to accomplish her entire plan. If a woman isn’t in a group or armed with a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain aboutThats like asking kids that got exploited by adults if they enjoyed it at the time (very extreme example I know). Despite their consciousness they weren’t of mind to really psychologically defend themselves. I don’t try to save simps I will tell them how it is but that’s it. You never know what words can do for someone success or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 02:38 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.There are minorities that are also men. But that recognition doesn’t get assured when they read something like this. It has nothing to do with how society views men in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain aboutIt’s not about saving people, it’s about doing the right thing. Not taking advantage won’t get you killed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 12:06 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.That’s because it’s stigmatized, and it’s not surprising to me at all. Those same men scoffing at it are the ones who probably need it the most. Men who feel prideful about not using the resources they have are the same ones who kill themselves when that mindset falls apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain aboutI’m not religious but what jesus did was considered an honorable sacrifice. If someone you know is struggling with addiction do you just egg them on because they seem happy when they’re high? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:11 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.More campaigns for men’s mental health in general would indirectly affect the dating market. A lot of men do not have a handle on their mental well being and the result of the statistics on apps is just one symptom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain aboutSimps by definition don’t have self respect, it’s a real problem. Conceding and letting women take advantage of them isn’t right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material"You don’t have to be at the top percent to get laid by attractive women. Dating apps are different though, so men should stop flooding them. Men have to try harder because we as a collective make it harder on ourselves (too many simps). Yes men have to build their value, it’s just how it is. There’s too many of us throwing ourselves at women and it devalues us. If you are with a woman who doesn’t crave you, you’re practically simping for her just leave with respect. If you’re with a woman that’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Would you choose the woman or the bear?Women can’t eat punches like men can, and men pound for pound deal more damage per body weight. It has to do with bone density and upper body strength. I’m not saying to go test it out but the reality is women should just never pick fights with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Would you choose the woman or the bear?smaller men are still more likely to overpower larger women. If the women wins it’s cause she’s probably stronger then normal or the man was disabled, elderly, or a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.Yes, irl men aren’t all dying of desperation if they don’t like their options. I know other men who are also more selective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain aboutIf you actually want to test the chemistry and vibe of others, irl is just superior in every way honestly. Some people act and look different from online as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain aboutSo true going out is nothing like dating apps for men. Women aren’t hard to talk to when everyone is drinking and whatnot you don’t have to be a giga badass to get laid. Being chronically online will hurt you no matter what your life looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain aboutThere aren’t enough women for the amount of simps that there are. I wouldn’t care about how they live their lives if it didn’t also affect the dating market. Apps have a gross ratio of like 1:3 or something it’s crazy to me how men haven’t wised up yet. I’m more so complaining about men’s standards not that they have to be simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain aboutAlright I skateboard so probably not more then 150 a year just for that hobby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 11:17 AM |
| 4 | Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain aboutI agree with the date thing but it’s the men that validate and gas up women sadly. Men and women are even on attractiveness but there’s too many simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 10:06 AM |
| 9 | Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain aboutWe need to boycott the simps somehow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.This is good reason. Gendered issues aren’t the exact same, but it doesn’t mean the struggle is much different when you break it down and observe how it affects people’s lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.Bias by assumption of no evidence they can see or won’t look for. The most lonely people I’ve known have been women (observation as a man that also has lonely male friends). Despite having better outlets than men typically it doesn’t mean they will find meaningful connections and wont get used in the process of looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.I read you saying, “Its not that men value women for body parts…they hate women for having them and restricting access,” as you disagreeing with the subject of women being valued for being women in a social sense. I’m trying to probe what first came to mind when you said that because it can branch out meaningfully depending on what you meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 03:00 PM |
| 6 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.Needless hatred aside, it begs the question why do so many men feel socially restricted by women? There can be more answers than one for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:54 PM |
| 9 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.Perhaps if it were phrased “Women are less likely to be in a situation where they aren’t wanted/valued for something”. It would be more realistic. I know women can be lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 07:53 AM |
| 13 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.You aren’t wrong, none of this stuff is absolute in truth just generalizations being compared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 07:40 AM |
| 0 | Women have more bodily autonomy than men.That’s true actually, I almost died for mine lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 07:31 AM |
| -3 | Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry.This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Men spend a lot of time trying to humble women, and then claim women are overvaluedYeah this comment is based, they just get more attention in general so negative comments will come but there are always the simps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.Hating on simps has been a things for years but it changes nothing sadly lol. Until men change women will just cash out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 12:36 PM |
| 3 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.Yeah I don’t get why it’s so hard for people to say this. It’s just something women have the advantage in and that’s life. Men need to change and have standards but in mass to see anything out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 12:03 PM |
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