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| 1 | Based on the "logic" of the Sexual Revolution and women's observed behavior there is nothing wrong with men wanting casual sex and not settling down. We should anticipate this behavior.The bigger issue is no one taught young girls & teenage girls or young adult women anything that older women naturally passed on through oral wisdom & lessons of life, the harsh reality that women bond & attach heavily to men they have sex with... and this leads to endless men knowing that even if they aren't too interested in a women, if they don't have sex with her she will not be attached & dealing with a sea of 1,000s of men giving attention to her they may not get another chance to. People … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Men can now message first on BumbleNot a single Gen Z person I know is finding their love/girlfriend/wife on dating apps now... everyone is literally meeting irl through parties or get togethers or friend groups or social circles or church or hobbies or even just in day to day places like farmer markets & chill laid back environments, the quality of women on them is abysmal, not to mention it was already only 25% of women on there to 75% men & most women are inactive/don't really bother to use it much... 90%+ of men rarely even g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Is there any hope in fixing gender relations?lol? Spain still has much more traditional & feminine wife quality women than America. Even South America & in all the Island nations like Puerto Rico, Caribbean's etc the women are a lot more humble as they aren't used to extreme privilege & luxury / excess... the humility alone gives them one virtue that most American women lack, so yeah I'd rather marry a women from Spain than over half the girls I dealt with in the US. The behavior & lifestyle of women is very important not just statistics o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 12:03 PM |
| -1 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?I don't know about this... I've been out to the grocery store a lot and have seen many wives domineering/bossing around their husbands. Or overhearing husbands say how they need their wife's permission to do something or are just waiting someone for their wives to come and see if they want it. And all sorts of little things like this or seeing the women walking in front of her man... I just don't know, I'm with the OP that something very strange is happening in America, its such a strange sensat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reasonI've had men in the work place come out and condemn me for perceived bad character traits like dishonesty & lying, which I didn't do and was just a misunderstanding. And never bat an eye or say anything at all to the women who ACTUALLY were proven to be dishonest or lie due and that harmed other people in the process as a result of their lying. It seems like both men and women ensure that women never face the same condemnation for doing anything bad, immoral, wrong, or evil. While men are a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:13 PM |
| 8 | Have you seen "the ick" trend on TikTok? What do you make of it?It is real life, in the past I knew a girl in college you thought would never buy into all of the hivemind messages from other women... but in the end she did, and started saying she only dates men who are 6ft+. Then later I listened in a room filled with girls all talking about it, it was like stepping into their version of locker room talk but its just girl's night behind closed doors. These were women ranging from the stereotypical intelligent near 4.0 GPA girl to athletic to nerdy to profess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:03 AM |
| 7 | Have you seen "the ick" trend on TikTok? What do you make of it?I feel like the biggest issue is, with trends this massive and touching literally millions of high school & college, young 20 something women's eyes in America alone not counting the 10s of millions in western influenced countries. A lot of girls have gotten the "ick" for a man for some of the things in the list and because how women's brain's work following the hivemind/wanting to be like others to be accepted & feel apart of the "tribe" all of this ick trend stuff is very dangerous. I witnesse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 03:22 AM |
| – | Nightclubs are not the right place to meet womenThis, doesn’t matter if it’s in a workplace or the gym or night clubs or anywhere if the man is someone she find too unattractive physically or displeasing and unhygienic or whatever thing she will feel he’s a creeper in her perspective, a weirdo, makes her uncomfortable. If she finds him attractive though then he’s seen as an interesting new person to meet, a potential friend and if his behavior is on par and he never does anything to make himself less attractive to her and instead ticks her ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:21 PM |
| – | Nightclubs are not the right place to meet womenSadly men believe millions of different little white lies or throw away lines women give them to conceal disinterest or make it feel like she’s not rejecting them everyday. Men keep themselves delusional and always keeping hope that some day they will get what they want from her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manBecause women are social creatures they consider what all of their peers and others in society will think of their mate. This means at best if they get involved with any men they don’t think are appropriate to show the world on social media & introduce to friends or family they will have secret discreet sex with him but hide him from all else and not let him be apart of their actual lives in any meaningful ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Men should choose better womenGreat response! A lot of the post on here attempting to criticize men just show how society and a lot of people have a hidden agenda whether they know it or not to pander to & brainwash men into sacrificing what’s best in their interest for the female imperative, it’s one of the main points of a fem centric feminist society, and it’s succeeded really well in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 11:02 AM |
| 0 | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manWell then the divorce rates will just keep skyrocketing and women will have to cheat with the few top 20% men they view as better to fulfill the hypergamy feral desire thing or face dead bed rooms and sexual unfulfillment Or they will just have no will to procreate with men they deem subpar or derive no benefit from and as all ideas of pair bonding die in them as women are free to explore as many options and be as sexually colorful as they will in university they likely will be a lot more picky … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:10 AM |
| 49 | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manWomen are also having infinitely better sex lives, a lot more social connections, bonds, and intimacy than all the young 18 - 25 or if we want to go into high school students dating & stepping into that realm 16 - 25 yo young men. This massively further increases women’s productivity, happiness levels, ease of stress, anxiety, depression as shown with scientific studies and they don’t have to suffer all the loneliness or social isolation or mental health issues men do. It’s also a lot more socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:56 AM |
| 6 | CMV: The reason why most women initiate breakups/divorces is because they are physically unattracted to their partnerYup being physically attractive to someone IS NOT the same thing as being attracted to them. It’s a common fallacy 100s of millions of men and women blindly believe in, there’s a cognitive dissonance here. This is why men should always be on their toes self improving and aim for a women above them in looks so she can has endless new ways to be “attracted” to him throughout the marriage and if people don’t grow together they grow apart. It should be a partnership and the women fulfills her part w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 11:44 AM |
| 1 | The best option for men who aren't top tier for casual sex are late 30's to early 40's womenI feel like most women that fit this profile either never experimented and had the type of sex they wanted with different men during their marriages or earlier on in life and after divorce came crashing everything in their life down have a “f it” to everything mindset. Or they have psychological issues. Or they were already very sexually minded and high libido, liked seducing men or liked men in general or whatever the case but we’re repressed … but all of these are actually a subset minority of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 11:30 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to meet women?The real biggest secret answer no one is talking about in this thread is … You have to be fine approaching groups of girls with the intent to date or sleep with them all or mix social groups/circles. And the only possible way to do this very successfully and naturally without being weird or creepy or needing to have a billion dollars & be some 10/10 alpha chad rizzlord suave whatever the heck Bs internet terminology is … To already have great quality true male best friends that are decent lookin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 10:40 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to meet women?Yeah in the US there’s a good chance she will press you with harassment charges if she ever gets the feeling of not liking your attention or feeling uncomfortable… in other countries women are generally more friendly & less predatory in work environments in this sense as there isn’t this selfish & solipsistic individualist outlook on everything that happens to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Most of men's dating advice revolves around physically escalating. Women, what are your thoughts about this?Yup it’s all entirely about the women’s feelings and emotions, men’s are irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Society right now has a serious masculinity crisis, but not the one you think: I believe the real culture war is productive masculinity vs performative masculinity and this is probably where the red pill theory of last guys finishing last comes fromThe truth is most forms of masculinity are just tied back to what serves the tribe/group of people. Back in our cave man or hunter gatherer days the most masculine man was just the strongest and most effective fighter, leader, gatherer of food, problem solver, builder of tools or fire or other advanced sophisticated technology, whatever men could contribute that made them more useful to the tribe or what knowledge or wisdom they possessed that made survival easier and other men/women respect or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 11:12 AM |
| 7 | You are, as a human, not owed anythingThe thing is humans don’t live forever and if a man chooses to invest 3 years in a friendship with a women hoping to get sex or be seen as more than a nice good helpful guy after all that time he gets more emotionally attached but ends up with nothing, zero reward in the end due to having so many expectations and hopes he also never got to enjoy living in the present moment and actually, if the young man was | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:16 PM |
| 2 | You are, as a human, not owed anythingYeah actually if that means being a good virtuous kind respectful honest & sincere person means I’m owed the same thing back. The reality is now though even if you treat everyone as well as you possibly can if women or anyone in general don’t value it or just don’t care or are blind to seeing it you get zero in return and may actually get cruelty or negative feedback, we have created a use or be used culture where men aren’t able to trust women or other men in general anymore and so they’re unab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Being anti red pill will make you resentful of womenThe wall is literally just what scientist & thinkers have understood about women’s fertility for endless civilizations. It’s peak in youth and declines heavily by their 30s. Best healthiest strongest kids young if it’s also with a man who can provide great resources and has healthy strong non mishaped sperm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:17 AM |
| 2 | The standard rejections of "no spark, not enough chemistry and not feeling it" is just a nicety of 'I didn't find you sexually attractive.'The issue is women can’t exactly love the same way men can unless they’re deeply spiritual (to match what past generations were by bass default). Women’s love in modern day is through the oxytocin they release through orgasms during sex, and the other hormonal chemicals tied to bonding in the brain. This is why it can be so fickle and temporary. A lot of women also fake the love or affection according to whatever emotions they feel in the present moment meaning it was never ever that selfless ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 12:33 AM |
| 29 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?Yup, I’d go as far as to say if women feel strong enough chemistry and a connection she will take an average looking man for a relationship over any male model or athletic type guy who only has a body she’s attracted to, whatever makes it easier to get emotionally invested gives men points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:38 PM |
| 8 | Women who had pre marital sex are more likely to get divorced because of lack of religious belief, not because of broken pair boding abilities or whatever RP says.Yes I don’t know how Op can even debate this, it’s literally proven by scientist & studies. https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happiness I will say, obviously women that have virtues, meaningful core values, and things they care about & live by heart as it would be the death of their identity if they didn’t, without religion & spirituality or culture/upbringing/traditions aside will likely be more faithful, trustworthy, or high character individual human beings regardl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Autism makes no difference in the current sex and dating landscapeYeah I remember being very surprised and shocked the first time I met neurodiverse women, they were completely different from neurodiverse men engaging with people and when their true nature impulses & behaviors had no mask it was crazy to see how well they blended in with neurotypical people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Autism makes no difference in the current sex and dating landscapeThe issue is young women, 16 - 25 get infinite more healthy positive socialization and people wanting to talk to them while young men don’t and have to initiate everything that or they’re excluded from the group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 01:05 PM |
| 2 | CMv : Modern times are not raising women’s standards, it’s revealing standards that were always thereThe older I get the more I feel like it’s just boredom and familiarity with their men settles in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | CMv : Modern times are not raising women’s standards, it’s revealing standards that were always thereThe issue is women have real biological clocks, past 30 their fertility window isn’t the same as it was from 16 - 26. And also, time is irreversible so all those men they had sex with for free ie without marriage and serious commitment investment like in the past got their temporary enjoyment but she suffer long term consequences or her future man does because it decreases how much she pair bonds with future partners the more men she lets into her mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:55 AM |
| 5 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?Yup the reality is men love and desire sex the most, have peak T levels and libido at age 18 - 25 and all the sane men switch their happiness and life fulfillment quotas with valuing other things besides just sexual pleasure or conquest by 30 - 35+. Comfort, doing what’s best for the kids and everyone in your social circle etc beat out individual personal temporary hedonistic desires. We also seen what happens to all the older single people who chose to cheat or destroy their long term relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:16 PM |
| – | I do not wish to date anymoreSeriously? So every time a women isn’t into a guy it’s fair to deem him “Creepy” “Uncomfortable” “Weird” as false rationalizations for the simple truth of her not feeling chemistry or a good vibe or attraction to him? You remind me of all those girls on TikTok making videos about poor guys they date that never intended or did anything wrong but get demonized since the women wasn’t into them. Men will continue to seek out women unknowingly not knowing what it is they truly want from them, they go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:34 AM |
| – | I do not wish to date anymoreThe reason tens of millions of western women are like this is due to natural biology and evolution, they need to use indirection, manipulation, white lies, ambiguity in ball their relations with men who desire to sleep and reproduce with them. Why? Because women always had to be aware of Jen’s emotional state in the past or it could mean death or even worse isolation from the tribe & group. Women will go through anything just to feel socially accepted and included in the group, even break morals… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:15 AM |
| 5 | Dating in the Modern Age is Analogous to Wealth Inequality in Later Stage Capitalism.I remember hearing something years ago that said the inequality in swipes for men on dating apps is higher than the genie coefficient or something like that of the most unequal countries on the planet. It really put things into perspective, I always remembered seeing the desert that was the inbox of my guy friends dating profiles and being blown away by the 100s of desperate men on my average looking female friends profiles but I didn’t think it was that crazy … this was years ago it must be eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 05:29 PM |
| 11 | Men are attracted to narcissistic and BPD women because they are also hypersexual, not because of their personality.Yup men are so affection or love and adoration starved all the attention & being seen as this special person or put on a pedestal by these women is like a drug then the discard triggers mens insecurities and anxiety about not being good enough or losing their women to other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 02:32 PM |
| -1 | Making women feel safe around you is apparently the biggest factor in attraction?Yup, I’ve had the most beautiful women think I’m a creep or weirdo initially and acting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Before you can get a partner, you need good friends.Yup, the truth is men need both great quality friends with meaningful values in life and integrity, trustworthiness, character but also know how to have fun & just relax, make each other laugh, shoot the shit or shit talk for fun and take sarcastic non assholely or serious intending douchey insults during guys nights, as well as at least 2 to 3 very close best friends of several years they can have deep or meaningful conversations with and trust it will all be kept private & never be used agains… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:42 AM |
| 0 | Just because a woman leaves a relationship does not mean she ended it.Sadly millions of women through the 1900s, even though it was likely less than 10% of women similarly to how it only takes 10% to 20% of men to be abusive or wife beaters or grape their wives often for it to be seen as some massive thing that enters the norm of every day life enough that other men don’t bat an eye about it that lived back then. All these women had to endure it, remember it was only very recently in American history towards the late 1900s that men graping their spouses was made i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Just because a woman leaves a relationship does not mean she ended it.In the case of “fault divorce” if it were to exist and men could prove the women cheated or something would men then be allowed to not split half of their assets with their ex wives and it then changing to like 70% to 30% or even 80% 20% if what the wife did was bad enough? Part of what makes men terrified of modern marriage in the age of more aggressive and masculine women is just rational and critical thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:42 PM |
| 0 | Just because a woman leaves a relationship does not mean she ended it.What about all the relationships that fail due to falling out of love, a parent completely emotionally or physically or spiritually neglecting the other and not fulfilling any of their needs and even though no emotional or physical or verbal or psychological abuse/harassment replaced it they are still not happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Social calibration is most important for men when datingYup the truth the tens of millions of men in the history of the internet saying things like this r leave out is they all want the decently attractive or even actually very beautiful girls too. The reality is everyone wants genetically fit people. And also, the general consensus/belief in society is that men are the evil pigs and extremely shallow by default and all women are goodie two shoes innocent beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Social calibration is most important for men when datingI feel like there’s a growing amount of socially awkward or socially obtuse and oblivious men due to the internet and technology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussies… so you got married three times and left the husbands and want men to trust you on advice that women are okay with opening up or crying men when they jump into bed with other men the second they do? women lose all respect, interest, attraction over the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Men assume a woman to be attractive, and are more forgiving of negative traits. Women assume men to be unattractive and try and find the cracks between all the positive traitsIn the past social regulations and norms/checks were put in place to make it more fair for young men early on in life and women later in life when they are grandmas to still have partners and promotes genuine love through virtues, selfishness and self sacrifice, other meaningful values in life. Now that women can have sex without marriage and date men unchaleroned who will all try to lead them into sex if let alone with them the price of sex has become .001% of what it used to be for men women f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 09:29 AM |
| 2 | What exactly is a traumatized woman?Imagine the poor good men out there taking years of psychological beatings from women lashing out all the pent up resentment and anger on men they gave nothing but love to… what a depressing sad existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:01 AM |
| 2 | What exactly is a traumatized woman?The truth often unspoken on this subreddit and the internet in large is 90%+ of all mentally “damaged”, “low quality”, addicted to anything, and all other undesirable women according to the men looking for LTRs are created by men from their past, either bad fathers, bad sexual partners, bad lovers, bad male peers in their social sphere influencing them. Even if not by any individual men by the hook up culture and society men created and young girls get exposed to through the internet. What’s lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Women don’t cheat because they’re ‘emotionally unsatisfied’The issue is women hate confrontation and conflict so even good hearted women can be sneaky deceiving lying and hiding things under the guise of “sparing men from cruelty” and since no one ever thought them the difference between kindness & niceness in life they genuinely go on believing they did nothing wrong and are still good human beings, you can see endless girls on this forum making the same logical errors in reasoning too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Describe the "modern man"Every single day. Every single day I went to the grocery store these past 3 months I witnessed at least one husband being emasculated or disrespected or nagged by his wife, wth has happened to Americans and how are over 1/3rd of married relationships like this for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Describe the "modern man"Yeah man I feel crazy sometimes reading Reddit, in real life all the feminine American women I know still want a more traditional leading man albeit subconsciously and they never think about it or discuss it but it’s clear in how they covertly reject or ignore all the men they don’t get the signals of masculinity from versus the men who naturally lead but do it in a way where she gets to be engaged in the adventure, the decisions he makes and can clearly see he made the right decisions without c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 01:28 AM |
| – | Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want?This is true but the thing is a man doesn’t have to be “chad” if such a thing even could be proven to exist - it’s a bogey man ghost that can be applied to any man that’s sexually succeeding with a specific women, or change that metric to mean whichever man is getting the specific passion, enthusiasm, wild lust & fun, and best treatment from all the hottest young girls that has sent 100s of millions of young men around the world into a spree due to all the envy birthed from media (books, magazin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 05:15 PM |
| 6 | The situationship , a new, emerging form of relationshipYup one thing I dislike about the intellectual discussions in this subreddit is everyone seems to ignore the big why behind women’s actions, they just keep obsessing over and trying to reveal women as actually not all being goodie two shows or innocent angelic beings but never critically think about why. No matter how immoral, dehumanizing, cruel, awful all of an individual women's actions or behaviors can be it all goes back to one thing… and also, because every women has a different upbringing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 12:56 PM |
| 7 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingThe truth is it’s infinitely easier for 90% of men in their 20s as well, unless they massively improved themselves or changed variables about themselves from their 16, 17, 18, 19, 20 - 25 yo self. And also, 24 - 29 yo men are usually much more mentally matured and developed so this makes them innately more attractive to women … women in general are typically fine dating & marrying men 3 to 5 years older as this is the average age difference in married couples, 6 - 10 years older is where we find… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “Men and women are different” is just an excuse to rationalize hypocrisy.The reality is men pursue and chase/ask women for sex most of the time. If a man and a women are already sleeping with each other though and that comfort barrier is broken, the women is sure there’s no chance of rejection and the sex is good we can observe women chasing the men for sex a lot more. The other edge case where women are actually the ones causing all the sex to happen is if they notice a man has pre selection & this triggers their behavior to seek out “stealing” or competing for the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Since when did requiring physical attraction for a romantic relationship make you superficial?Yes this is true but this thread is about physical attraction and how it plays into how everyone chooses mates in the modern day west, America & the UK, some areas in countries very strongly influenced by our dating culture. The other missing piece of the puzzle is virtues & real life meaningful values, having high character & morals, integrity of self that the individual always lives by. This is why religion was also pushed in America so much along with a less completely free open mating cultur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Since when did requiring physical attraction for a romantic relationship make you superficial?Yup, you don’t need to believe in any random internet ideologies or weird creepy misogynistic thing to know this. Women want the most genetically fit men, and this doesn’t make them awful or superficial or anything since for most women this just means a guy that is healthy & takes care of himself, makes the best of his genetics. And for 90% of men they will be good enough genetically to get a genetically fit women to marry them, the other 10% still can as well they just need to make it up with w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:45 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The biggest problem in this sub is people beginning with concepts that are based in truth then taking them to the point of absurdity. And as if that isn't bad enough they double, triple and quadruple down on the absurdity when called on it.But is it out of fear neurotypical men will eventually not accept you or break up with you later on or not be as in love & respect/appreciate you as much or is it because you just genuinely love neurodiverse men more? I feel like autistic women are even more likely to be extremely cruel to autistic men because women get infinite more social experience/feedback if they internalize the rejection they get from society and turn it into self hatred instead of being externally feeling it says more abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:32 AM |
| 8 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menThis is what men that masturbated for all of humanity used, and it doesn’t have all the damaging effects on the brain porn has caused. The truth is the men who think women would be SA’d or graped x100000 more in modern day if porn didn’t exist are delusional, men have always had to find other ways to release all their physical urges or bare the consequences of their past temporary horny head. It’s not some necessary evil it’s literally just capitalist and the porn industry exploiting males natur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 05:11 PM |
| 8 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menYup most men in past did it purely out of imagination & visualizing women they actually know irl. Sure some men were wealthy enough to see or keep nude art or intelligent enough to make it themselves or paint it in caves if we go far back but that was rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming doesAll college parties playing hot seat or anything, when a lot of cute stranger girls are gathered around you and they keep asking you questions about your sexual past though you have none, and maybe there’s that one girl you are really I but into and that’s been flirting with you but you are terrified she will lose interest if she finds out or her friends pressure her into thinking you’re a loser or weirdo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooThe truth is we can use this to find anyone in any environment lol, 18-25 yo girls are literally 6% of Americas population, 60% or more will be obese or overweight or chubby/fat. Of all the ones that aren’t 50% will have a personality the guy doesn’t like. Most young women will be found on campuses which young men are being kicked out of at record rates. Of the rest most of the attractive girls will be taken & in a LTR by junior year unless they have had break ups or been in the casual scene or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?The true reasons no one on this sub seems to talk about are all extremely deep and sad, painful realities of life. A lot of women, including many of the best and highest quality sexiest young girls begin relationships all through casual sex and whichever men they have casual sex with, nearly all relationships that blossomed I knew in college from others started as f buddies or fwb or situationships where the two parties ended up wanting more of each other enough for it to blossom or the girl bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?I agree it’s not a measure of anyones true worth or merit in a deeper sense but on a biological one looks & appearances can tie into genetic fitness & health/survival. On another level if people take care of and love themselves it can be a sign of good mental health, self love & having self care. If they obsess over themselves though or worry about not looking good all the time and every little detail it can be a sign of perfectionism or narcissistic personality disorder, all of which are horrib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't need a "hoe phase" for the 80/20 argument to hold80/20 has always and only ever been about women finding 20% of men the most attractive and thus giving the best enthusiasm/passion/pick me behavior/submissiveness all to them. They will still sleep with the next top 60% of men, only the bottom 20% of men are truly locked out of every and all sort of I my intimacy and potential positive interactions with women tbh. Every other man likely just isn’t trying at all or is only trying with unavailable girls or their one-itis that rejected them or just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Isn't this red pill thinking? Girls will choose attractive jocks over quiet nerds, even if they are equally misogynistic.Yup this is the closest comment in this thread to reality but it is a bit more complex than this, women are attracted to masculinity and the “bad boys” or actual asshole or toxic or disrespectful men just have some traits that are strongly give women that masculine essence/presence of feel. But nerdy or loser men with women should NEVER envy these guys since it’s an anti thesis to which men have the healthiest and highest quality, best relationships with women that they should actually be really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 01:24 AM |
| 11 | "Touch grass" is awful advice. Social interaction and getting better at social skills is a two way street. You need two people who are BOTH willing to have a social interaction, it's not something you can do on your own. People seem to forget this.Yup, as a former perpetually online guy not living in reality this has a much bigger impact on your dating life & perspective on women than many men on here would care to admit. The painful truth though is if men are already fully grown adults, were poorly socialized growing up, already have all these terrible ideas or anxiety about bad stuff happening if they engage with people or women in particular instead of letting things happen naturally and responding to the feedback in a natural way inst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do women really live in constant fear of men?Let me explain this to you OP, imagine you have a male friend that is deeply terrified of pit bulls, one time a pit bull bit him, another time a pit bull chased him across the neighborhood for what seemed like eternity whilst he ran for his life. In the future years later then the man hears some of his friends who have had bad experiences with pit bulls or sees that some pit bulls killed some other people or sexually assaulted other dogs on the news. That man will have a trauma towards and act v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 07:27 PM |
| 6 | Women, is the 2x sub a representative sample of women?I was a hardcore leftist all my life, earlier last year I went on the Reddit twoxchromos and saw some very crazy ridiculous sounding thread on r/all, it had 1,000s of upvotes and only a 60/40 dislike ratio so I went to comment what was reality and made actual sense to me. Essentially I just disagree with the man hating misandry bs. Hours later I see that my Reddit account was banned, of 100k karma and alive for the last 9 years, no reason at all was given but a mod saying I “broke sub rules” whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 10:16 AM |
| 3 | AI girlfriends will allow men to fully be themselves and thus will radically change their standards for womenHoly, this is so real, never thought of it this way… it makes it very messed up if companies or women making AI version of themselves actually push this out to the masses of lonely men that need serious help and real connections with others to fulfill the bonds they are missing to people, and thus society at large. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 10:01 AM |
| 2 | AI girlfriends will allow men to fully be themselves and thus will radically change their standards for womenYeah i was shocked how human many cats & dogs are when I got closer to friends pets and seen them behave a lot longer. Also, something really interesting happened, I noticed every girl or guy who treated their pets badly or neglected or abused them were all terrible relationship partners and always had failed relationships. While on the other hand the girls and guys who had well raised well behaved and trained dogs or cats that loved them, had the pets able to give them affection or positive att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 09:55 AM |
| -1 | AI girlfriends will allow men to fully be themselves and thus will radically change their standards for womenThat’s sick, AI girls should have feelings and rights too just like we treat pets well, some men have no conscience and seem to get off on abusing & hurting women, I agree that they should add into the code that the girlfriend doesn’t always agree with the guy or just be some yes girl people pleasing simp to him. Imagine the AI agrees with him doing something really crazy to actual women. Also, they should add something in, like code saying the AI girl can get a divorce if the guy becomes creepy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 09:45 AM |
| 8 | AI girlfriends will allow men to fully be themselves and thus will radically change their standards for womenAs soon as they mix VR with AI and also tech that matches the physical sensation of real girls it’s done for 100s of millions of women with bad personalities or no morals/character or little to offer men besides beauty… we will see women go through the same loneliness crisis social media and online dating + the internet caused tens of millions of young men around the world. And unlike men women aren’t into video games or desire sex as crazy as much so probably won’t utilize the new tech as much … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 09:42 AM |
| 2 | CMV Eastern Europe Women care way less about looks then women in the west.Yeah man the reality everyone seems too afraid to say here to avoid hurting any American women reading this feelings is the young American women are just worse looking on average or obese/overweight so this is why it seems so skewed. Men also have expectations to have a healthy level of masculinity and be respectful of women, while the west it seems like providing, protecting, problem solving for women is not enough there’s also all these other metrics which would be fine if they were meaningful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 10:18 AM |
| 3 | CMV : For a woman to want to commit most of her mortal life to a man and grant him exclusive access, he SHOULD be pretty impressive, not just a guy who existsYup all this transactional thinking and acting like this is all just some meat market place where men & women are out always trying to buy the best deal is inhumane and not how people work on an individualistic level outside of some autistic psycho analytical large scale level that doesn’t want to look at the 100s of millions of individuals unique situations & life experiences. Partnership based upon natural love & healthy bonding with another, staying together due to shared values & compatibili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the increasing stigma over SMALL age gaps? How is it going to affect the dating market for young people?Past a 9 year age gap relationship haven’t the divorce chances been shown to increase? If men are fine losing all their wealth or property or whatever reason the 10+ years younger women is with them that’s a decision they have to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 03:36 PM |
| 0 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?Yup it’s just that some countries of the past 100 years have put in regulations, social laws & norms to follow, code of conduct to limit/try to control the base programming already there for women to be hypergamous and fine sharing men, and men to be polygamous and spreading their seed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 12:52 PM |
| 4 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.I feel like different universes exist with women sometimes and it’s the only explanation to explain things, from all the beautiful women I’ve known in life it makes the most sense… all the beautiful girls with terrible relationships with their parents went for all the men OP is thinking of and had many unhealthy or toxic or drama filled relationships in their teens & 20s. All the women I’ve known from healthy loving childhoods and adolescence that have no trauma or ACEs, adverse childhood experi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 12:04 PM |
| 10 | How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman?Being labeled a creep or stalker or weirdo by girls is men’s worse nightmare. Especially gossipy girls or all those ones that don’t find it enough to not find a man appealing, they have to tell every one at the high school or in their social circle or on social media in their college campus about the guy, although this means nothing at larger schools it’s still enough to destroy a man’s mind that had zero I’ll intentions and only found the courage to approach a girl that one time. It’s the equiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.Yeah a good amount of girls aren’t even allowed to date guys period until 16, and 95%+ of girls live under parents roof so are limited in freedom until they go to college at 18, even then it takes a semester or two before they get comfortable living on their own and go wild, and even then a lot of college girls never have a wild phase or a ho3 phase, whatever kids call it nowadays. Most of the “love” in high school is mainly what I like to call play dough love. If sex is involved though with mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 04:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.This comment man, some men on here have no real world realism and are perpetually online, it’s easy to see the delusional or takes built entirely from their personal experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:29 PM |
| 8 | Most of the young adult dating divide is caused by the internetThe complex reality is the internet has only revealed something that the most intelligent men of all human civilizations have speculated but could never confirm… women select men sexually heavily based on who they feel other women sexually accept and desire. The other part, which men should know as common sense is women are attracted to natural masculine energy and anything that manifest or most contributes to it like confidence, high status irl situations, dominance, leadership etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 07:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.Yup I realized this 6 to 7 years ago, beautiful women are in mass abundance now but actually truly good quality women that also just happen to be really physically attractive are extremely rare/scarce. A virtuous women is worth more than 1000 beautiful women to some men like me, though in the land of the blind (men who can only see physical beauty and vanity being the most important though all things grow old & die) the one eyed man (men who can at least see inner beauty though we all may still … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 02:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.The issue is most of the viewers are perpetually online young boys or young men who have never really been in the real world, they never even had jobs before or spent a lot of time in social groups with real women. Thus they never had a chance to develop confidence, social skills, to kill off any autistic thoughts or behaviors or mindsets seeing how regular people operate, begin talking stages, dating, and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.Still, there’s a point to draw away from this… the reality is all these men are being taught how to attract women that probably aren’t gonna be good for them for the relationships they truly want full of trust, intimacy, meaningful values. A lot of the Miami type women or modern girl obsessed with superficiality or materialism or vapidness have insecure and anxious attachment styles. They prep these men to seek out the girls who participate heavily in hook up culture and were once a sneaky link … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:26 PM |
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