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| 1 | In September I moved to a foreign country to study, now I need help starting pickup...Cool thanks! Do you "game" by yourself too or do you have friends on the same path as you? | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | In September I moved to a foreign country to study, now I need help starting pickup...Thank you very much! I started going to the gym these week.. However what's bothering me is my approach anxiety that got a lot worse since coming in a foreign country. All my conversations start with the question "do you speak english?" lol .. Do you have a tip about that? | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 10:22 PM |
| 2 | RSD Max The NaturalI'm looking for a link as well... | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Any experience in/with Kosice, Slovakia?That's cool man! If I decide I'm going there can I ask you to add me to those local groups then? Hope they are as open minded about foreigners as you said | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 03:43 PM |
| 1 | I Trying to keep eye contact but it just feels so awkward for meIt's awkward because it's forced. Keep doing what you're doing and you'll get very good at it, just give it time | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Any experience in/with Kosice, Slovakia?Thanks bro for all this info! By the way are those your first posts on reddit? Do you do pickup where you live ? | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Any experience in/with Kosice, Slovakia?How will I use being a foreigner as an advantage to a city where people are not used to them? And are you saying girls there want to be approached even more than in other countries because of how open minded they are? If I decide to study there, i will have to study a lot and I've been told I won't have a lot of free time. However I'd like to use that free time to game. I'm also a newbie and this means I won't be able to spend 5-6 hours a day just to pickup girls (to practice and get better). An… | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Any experience in/with Kosice, Slovakia?"Slovakia is too small" Does that mean I might be labeled as a "Player/Stay away from dude" some time when I'm actively doing cold approach and create a bad reputation for myself in the town I'll be living at for 5-6 years? And what do you mean you can "show me" groups? Thanks for the info by the way! When I come there I won't speak the language but I think I'll start learning it. I'm not sure if I'll come there yet, and if I decide I will I'll have to take an exam to see if they will accept me … | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Is asking girls to dance a good or bad cold approach?You extend your hand with your palm opened waiting for her to put her hand on yours.. if that was unclear imagine asking someone for a coin, extending your hand and waiting for them to put it in your palm | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 12:30 AM |
| -3 | Is asking girls to dance a good or bad cold approach?He's saying confident people don't ask. If you ask it shows insecurity. You want to dance so you go up to them, do the "hand of God" technique (Google it, although you can most likely imagine what it is) and maintain eye contact...you can also say hi or whatever as long as you're not asking for a dance. If you're rejected it's ok, whatever. Remember, no matter how they look, you're not looking for their validation so do whatever you want to do with confidence. | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Pickup in countries with conservative cultures/girls ?What does it mean for a place to be the best in the world to pickup girls? | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 08:46 AM |
| 1 | How do I cure oneitis of 7 years?You meet more people, girls preferably. When you meet them you shouldn't judge and for the love of God don't compare them with that one girl you've got oneitis for. Actually when meeting new people/girls if it's difficult not to think about her say in your head "I'm interacting with another human being right now, as perfect and human as that other girl. It looks like she's not that special after all. I want to get to know the girl in front of me better!" or something shorter than that but with t… | /r/seduction | 25/05/16 09:45 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle it if she looks at her phone on first date?I guess my real question is how to get the girl interested if she isn't and how to get her to invest. | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I evade this boobie trap"Actually, I hate you" is what I'd go with | /r/seduction | 15/04/16 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Shy girl with high social status - how can I achieve that myself and what can I do to get a social circle like that?So I'll take that as "clothing and posture"...Am I wrong now? | /r/seduction | 05/04/16 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Shy girl with high social status - how can I achieve that myself and what can I do to get a social circle like that?What? Wait are you saying that caring about the way you dress gives you a higher status? Why have I never heard of this before? | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Shy girl with high social status - how can I achieve that myself and what can I do to get a social circle like that?Yeah but how do I do that? Im more of an acquaintance than a friend and she'll be working at the club next time I see her | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Shy girl with high social status - how can I achieve that myself and what can I do to get a social circle like that?what do you mean? what could they be doing? Im pretty sure those "high status" guys I see are just like that girl. They don't seem that social to me and they are meeting people through their friends, but they are not the ones doing the work | /r/seduction | 03/04/16 07:46 PM |
| 1 | When I turned eighteen, I wanted to make a big change in my life as I was insecure of so many things and a little over a year later here are my results!Thanks man! I know about alpha m, I watch his grooming videos mostly, I'll have to check out those as well | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 05:17 PM |
| 2 | When I turned eighteen, I wanted to make a big change in my life as I was insecure of so many things and a little over a year later here are my results!Can you elaborate on how you "worked on your smile"? I work on my smile every time I'm in the mood and look at the mirror but when u start smiling I have the smile that I don't like, then I have to work on it so that I'm smiling in a way I like it but when I stop smiling and try to recreate the "good" smile I fail every time and I'm not even close to it hahaha. Do you maybe have some tips on this subject? | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How I avoid friendzone : I consider girls I find attractive as friend that I'm having sex with.I thought that was obvious because that's what I did. Technically you don't avoid the friend zone because now you friend zone the girl | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday night club pull.Oh I will try it, for sure. I'm pretty sure just 1 move is not considered a choreography though :P | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 10:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday night club pull.Yeah I guessed as much. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 09:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday night club pull.Pull it back towards your right shoulder while slipping to grab her four fingers between your thing and index finger. I don't get this, but I have a feeling that it's not as important as you spin her right after. | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 09:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday night club pull.What was that part that you talked about fingers? | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 08:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday night club pull.Thanks | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 08:31 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Friday night club pull.Yo, I don't find things like that awkward for some reason but could you make it more simple? I felt like I was reading a guide of a choreography or something..... Or maybe you can provide a video? | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 06:28 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Friday night club pull.What's that move you spoke off? If I understand correctly, you extended your arm, gave her a handshake, made her spin and put her arm on your shoulder,is that what you did? Good job pulling man. | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Will go to club on Sunday night with a friend that doesn't do pickup. Any tips?Thanks man. Appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Will go to club on Sunday night with a friend that doesn't do pickup. Any tips?Oh yes, that too. Thanks m8 | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Will go to club on Sunday night with a friend that doesn't do pickup. Any tips?That's cool. I'm pretty tall and energetic myself. Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Will go to club on Sunday night with a friend that doesn't do pickup. Any tips?I don't get what you mean, can you elaborate? I'm not gonna start talking to him about pickup, saying pickup is a thing, what's it about and how to do that if that's what you mean. I've done that twice back when I discovered it and I regret it twice, haha | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Will go to club on Sunday night with a friend that doesn't do pickup. Any tips?Does that actually work? I go to RnB/hip hop parties and I mostly dance like a beast. I think I could use that. Do you go with friends or do you go to the bar, get a drink and then move to that area? | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Will go to club on Sunday night with a friend that doesn't do pickup. Any tips?This sounds like something I would do. Lol | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Will go to club on Sunday night with a friend that doesn't do pickup. Any tips?Yeah that's true | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Will go to club on Sunday night with a friend that doesn't do pickup. Any tips?Thanks bruh, I thought as much. | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Cologne: what to get and how to wear it.OP should you put a bit more cologne on when going to a club or not? | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Cologne: what to get and how to wear it.I think they've gotten used to it but what can I say? Lol. (I can't believe I even commented this hehe) | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Cologne: what to get and how to wear it.I use "Valentino UOMO Valentino". My sisters picked it for me (Tip: If you have sisters go shopping with them) and gets them ladies wet Doesn't mean it suits on YOU though. I did a bit of a research and found that this cologne suits better for me. | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Going to greece tommorow, need tips.were all your approaches during night game? | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Going to greece tommorow, need tips.Hey, im late but i wanna ask how did it go? | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 03:03 PM |
| 6 | Has disappearing ever worked for you guys?Look. It's a fact that disappearing WORKS. However it doesnt for everyone because not all situations are the same. If shes into you and is playing hard to get, and wants you to invest in her, and you suddenly dissapear, she'll text you at some point. Also if you invest in her she might want that at first, but after that it becomes a nightmare for both. Anyway, if shes just not into you she might just not pop up in your new messages. She might be into you, she might not, and she might just want y… | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Goofy smile?Say "fuck you, my smile is the sexiest smile on earth" playfully. Its all about you. If you think your smile is goofy because they told you and feel bad about it (you shouldnt) this will make you feel insecure. You either accept your smile because you naturally smile this way, or something better that everyone has to do is; stand in front of a mirror and practice smiling. Find what you call the perfect smile that you can pull off and memorize it. Then replace that old smile with the other one. I… | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 04:13 PM |
| 1 | One of my friends wanted to hangNo, you are behind her, ask what movie she wants to watch and at the same time place your hands around her hips By hands around her hips I mean putting the palms of your hands on the sides of the lower belly and get really close, but I can't describe it really well. Of course you don't run behind her, you have to be behind her before asking about the movie. Does that make sense? I think I would do as I described in the same situation as well. Also because she's your friend I'd probably get close… | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 07:45 AM |
| 1 | One of my friends wanted to hangDo the hands around the hips thing that other guy spoke of. Never been in a situation like that myself, but can you update us with what happened when the time comes? Good luck. | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 12:32 AM |
| -1 | Girl I made out with yesterday night didn't accept my friend request. What do I do?Hmm...This makes sense. Thanks | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl I made out with yesterday night didn't accept my friend request. What do I do?Thanks | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 04:05 PM |
| -1 | Girl I made out with yesterday night didn't accept my friend request. What do I do?A few other guys approached her and she sent them away. If I understood what you said correctly, doesn't that prove you wrong? | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 04:05 PM |
| -5 | Girl I made out with yesterday night didn't accept my friend request. What do I do?Never mind the first one, I was drunk and horny laughs | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 03:50 PM |
| 1 | "How Do I (*Answers Own Question*)?"Let it be man. You don't understand this, it seems, but everyone needs a push to achieve or try something new. Most people here do it because they feel the need to hear it from people with same kind of experiences. Everyone knows what they should do in a certain situation like asking a girl out, but if someone could suggest an easier way, a push, or a harder way (so that they'll understand how easier the way they have in mind is). Also don't forget, this sub has a lot of those questions, meaning… | /r/seduction | 09/01/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How would you open to a club's waitress?I did not know that. Lol. Thanks | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 07:22 AM |
| 1 | How would you open to a club's waitress?Thanks man, I'll try it out. I have a problem, which is, I'm studying in another city in my country but now in the Christmas holiday season I'm back in my hometown for a little bit more than a week. The waitresses there are usually hot students from other cities (living in a different city for the same reason as me) and if I don't study in their hometown (so that we can meet up when she comes and I'm there) we won't be able to meet up for coffee. I can spark up a conversation but what I'm trying… | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 10:41 PM |
| 1 | How would you open to a club's waitress?Oh, yeah that's was pretty negative of me but yeah I'll try it out, why not? Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How would you open to a club's waitress?Well that's too bad (for me) :P | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 06:36 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to "good", modest girls?Oh sorry about being pulled over. Thanks for the advice. However I think this advice is for when we're at a low energy environment. What about a club? And of course it won't be us two, it will be four of us... | /r/seduction | 25/10/15 02:09 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to "good", modest girls?With a more reserved girl, the seduction is in your words, not your body. Be forward in speaking. This just blew my mind. It's always "body language this, body language that" but it seems like there are special occasions where it's not as important... alright thanks. More quiet intense seduction. Lots of incidental kino, don't ramp it up until she reciprocates. Could you elaborate on this please? What do you mean incidental kino and what do you mean by "ramp it up" ? | /r/seduction | 25/10/15 01:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys get rid of the girl you had a one night stand with, next morning?What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Last Saturday. Advice?Thanks man, I'll try all that. With other girls unfortunately, because I haven't seen that redhead since then.. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Saturday night was the first night ever I had so many girls attention. Some advice please?Test Did it work? EDIT:Aw shit thanks m9 it worked! Should I post the OP again with paragraphs....? | /r/seduction | 12/08/15 11:52 AM |
| -1 | Saturday night was the first night ever I had so many girls attention. Some advice please?And you could fucking tell me how instead of being an asshole | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 07:39 AM |
| -3 | Saturday night was the first night ever I had so many girls attention. Some advice please?Sorry but I can't type in paragraphs from my phone... T_T | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 11:19 PM |
| 2 | How to approach at night in a beach party?Thanks!! | /r/seduction | 10/06/15 04:49 AM |
| 1 | How to approach at night in a beach party?I didn't get the first sentence... English is not my native tongue and I lost you in that double negative | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | How to approach at night in a beach party?Yeah I wouldn't even feel like I do right now, I'm not really a stressed person like I am now and I wouldn't worry over such things, but I'm taking exams in my school everyday until my finals end. They end on Friday and I feel like I need some time to catch my breath... I even used to do comfort challenges until exams but being indoors all day, every day for a month is really exhausting and I'll be "rusty". I might be making excuses for no reason, I don't know. Anyway thanks! I'll try my best. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 05:19 PM |
| 1 | How to approach at night in a beach party?Stares like that make me feel awkward.... Both; giving and receiving stares... | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 05:14 PM |
| 1 | How to approach at night in a beach party?Well,about 15 of us make the party and not many people will know or meet everyone who throws the party. People here are uncomfortable starting a conversation with a stranger | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 05:09 PM |
| 3 | How to approach at night in a beach party?What?!? I couldn't possibly say hi! This is too extreme for me and I'm a beginner!! Jk, thanks bruh | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 02:36 PM |
| 2 | How to approach at night in a beach party?Thanks! | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 02:36 PM |
| 0 | I've had to tell 6 girls to go get tested for STDs in the past three weeks, four so far are positive. Always wear a condom from the beginning of sex, you big sluts.Whats semi-risky sex? | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Oral sex? [Newb]I know | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Oral sex? [Newb]Well I've known about herpes but I didn't know that it isn't as dangerous for the receiver. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Oral sex? [Newb]I think that people are not taught sex ed in any country of Europe, am I wrong? Could be wrong. | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Oral sex? [Newb]Me!!!! Oh...wait.... | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Oral sex? [Newb]I will go to college and the educational system here says I will go to college in September so it's really not long from now. I do all those things you mentioned already. | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Oral sex? [Newb]Yeah that could be true and I know it. I'm not an asshole towards them though, not finding them attractive doesn't mean I don't treat them like they are also people. Thanks for the answer. | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 05:09 PM |
| -5 | Oral sex? [Newb]You. I like you. | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Oral sex? [Newb]In my country there is no such thing as sex ed. Honestly, every girl I've met from friends has something bad about her. I've never met an attractive girl that I can thing of ( that was available) and the one I met a year ago and fell in love with turned out to be crazy (or should I say emotionally unstable?) and it took me half a year to get over her. I'm not that serious to get into pickup, I just want to drop my shyness and all these negative aspects of mine, to become more sociable and confid… | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Oral sex? [Newb]Yeah STDs are so much fun, I've been hearing | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 04:37 PM |
| 17 | Oral sex? [Newb].....what? | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 04:36 PM |
| 4 | [FR] "You're different..."Could you explain a bit how the ebook helped you? Do we have to buy it or is it free? I don't think I have the money to buy stuff that just might or might not work. Did it take you time to get the hang of what you read? Also, I see that the first result after googling the name of the book was it's website. Did you visit that too? And last, do those YouTube videos titled "Tao of badass - blablabla" help? | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?Nope,no locking eyes randomly then. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?It was her arm so I don't think it's that sensitive. It's the same girl that calls me tall. No, I didn't apologize, why would I? | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?Thanks | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?What do you mean with locking eyes randomly? I try to maintain eye contact with every person I speak to as an exercise to become more comfortable with maintaining it, as I was too shy to even look a person in the eyes for 2 seconds a few months ago. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?Well the people I interact with are limited, and by that I mean people from school. I'm in the most difficult year of school in my country right now and I gotta study to get into a good university, so I don't have much free time to go out and socialize like I did in summer... Actually I got little to no time, and the "you got better things to do" part in your reply kinda isn't true in my case. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?Won't it be awkward later if a guy put his arm around a girl and she slipped out of it? | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?But it says openers? How will it help with sharpening my attention skills? | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?Can you explain more the "press into you" part? | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?I used to be really shy but I was doing comfort challenges all summer long and I'm not shy anymore. But most people I interact with at school weren't around me in summer and I don't know if they have realized in the 1 month that we've been seeing each other in school that I've changed. However I do see maybe 2 girls hitting me playfully and constantly mentioning the fact that I'm really tall (they make it sound like an insult, but I don't think it is) which is something totally new to me. My shy… | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?I watched the scene, it wasn't THAT obvious to me... | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?How? You mean like giving those hints that I can't read? I'm a mess insert laughing emoji here | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?That's exactly how I feel, just not sure why she won't touch if she feels comfortable as well. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?Also, I forgot to ask. What does it mean when girls hit you playfully and how to deal with this? If I like the girl I grab her hand and pull her closer. Sometimes they will stay close, sometimes they won't. But what I really want to know is what does it mean when I maintain physical contact with a girl and she comes closer when we are walking (or standing still) but she doesn't touch me back? | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Tips on feeling comfortable when physically escalating?thanks. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 08:13 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First #-close, in a rather unique settingHey man you gotta tell us how things went when you meet her! | /r/seduction | 21/07/14 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Did i ruin it?well in my country teachers do private lessons to basically help the students learn because the educational system in school doesn't really do that. Anyway we don't really talk during that, I try to talk to her after that, before she leaves and that's when the eye contact stuff happens. I asked her yesterday if she was going to that stand up comedy show at night (that me and my friends were going) and she said that a friend had already invited her but she wasn't going because she was coming back… | /r/seduction | 13/07/14 10:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Finally went out of my comfort zone and approached a girl for the first time in my life.How do I get comfortable in any situation I'm in? | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 08:45 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Finally went out of my comfort zone and approached a girl for the first time in my life.You sound like you actually were pretty confident except from the moment of the approach. How did you pull that off? Any tips you can give to me for my first approach? I'm at the same age as you, try to be confident when in the past I was really shy and i try to do weird stuff in public with my friends so that I get out of my comfort zone and into "god mode". I love that feeling. However I don't have a deep voice, I'm actually taller than every person I see every day and I wear braces... Any pie… | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 12:39 PM |
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