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Decimus_Stark/r/RPChristians06/04/20 11:06 AM
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Decimus_Stark/r/RPChristians06/04/20 07:33 AM
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Yea, I agree avoid having kids with her, PROPERLY dispose of condoms and keep sex at a low level to minimize risk. This one is right oit of the rational male, Always be in control of the birth. Really if this falls through, go celebate, your not good at vetting, if you did youd seen this, or you were in denial. Either way this marriage is going to be hell for you. Your right, your going to have to get comfortable probably till she abandons the marriage and justified for divorce. My condolences. …
/r/RPChristians08/07/20 12:54 AM
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This was no 3 some attempt, thats ego projection. Women are usually open verbally or situationally to that sort of thing. This was a shit test. Yes, it was. Lets dig into it. "Anyway, her friend wasn't that good looking compared to her. She dared me to kiss her friend on the mouth and neck. I had kissed my original date last time we met. The question is, did I f**k up when I kissed her friend? Like showing that maybe I would get with a girl with lower SMV than her." A: Women know exactly where t…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:03 PM
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I like Rollo Tomassi and Rian Stones stuff more. They go into psychology and basic physical principle and topics like frame and relationships. They're not Christian but good resources.
/r/RPChristians24/06/20 07:06 PM
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Ok, so frame is the way you hold yourself, its an acknowledgment of ability and value thats been proven. So he has good self esteem, confident, doesn't take crap from anyone, etc. I can go on but you should get the drift. Another way to look at it is, women are attracted to bad boys, the reason why is not because of the bad traits like everyone thinks, its because he has the good qualities of frame naturally when nice guys are usually the opposite.
/r/RPChristians24/06/20 03:26 PM
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Well everyone is narcissistic to a degree, the traits aren't bad but theyre not authenticated or earned. the narcissistic person tries to force it. But a guy with frame doesn't, it happens naturally to him as if its second nature. Since your female, your hypergamy already supplies the ruling stick. If you test him on something and he freakes out, red flag. If he shuts up and backs down, red flag (mind you this doesn't count when the guy is quiet naturally and rarely speaks, thats discipline but …
/r/RPChristians24/06/20 08:20 AM
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"I dont believe in love, as much as I would like to imagine a perfect fantasy love life I don't think it exists." You jumped from blue to black pill without passing go and collecting your $200. Love exists its just a lot more complicated and not as mysterious as you once thought. You still love, you just love differently then women, as men do. Its good to have monogamy as a goal or end result but you need to vet and test the waters. Im not going to lie, this is insecurities derived from your low…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:10 PM
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Listen start reading Rollo Tomassi's Rational male blog stat, start with "There is no one", and "the soul mate myth." Better yet pick up a copy of "The Rational Male" and "No more Mr. nice guy." by Robert Glover
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:52 AM
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Whats the book on jewish evangelism?
/r/RPChristians30/05/20 02:19 AM
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The book
/r/RPChristians27/05/20 06:54 PM
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I agree but she isnt either, denying her spouse his needs and such isnt Christian either and in his defense we are only seeing her side of the story. In short the relationship is already in bad shape. This isn't the best either partner can give. This trauma she has is probably the stumbling stone of a lot of problems. The best way to get both to do their best is by applying oil where dry and rusty. She need to find a way around this trauma and this is going to lead to him cheating and such other…
/r/RPChristians18/05/20 09:17 PM
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No, but your missing the point and the problem, the problem is that his needs aren't getting met thats why he's doing this. Hes not getting his needs met which is what a relationship is all about. You might not think he's justified in doing that but thats not the issue. Every action has a reaction.
/r/RPChristians18/05/20 08:53 PM
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Thats not how reality works.
/r/RPChristians18/05/20 06:31 PM
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This is almost right out of the appreciation section of the rational male. The roles are just reversed. I have the same mentality as your husband and its bore out of our internalization of our burden of performance. Look at it from your husbands point of view. Besides maybe you what he mainly does is a thank-less job. No one appreciates him because its expected of him. Now to put that on a woman isn't probably something Id do. Theres a lot of problems with your marriage because of it already. I …
/r/RPChristians18/05/20 06:03 PM
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You actually have an advantage as a virgin, because yes your body wants sex but it can't make a full connection to the feeling of the pleasure of sex. Really more discipline is required. I feel the same, Im 23yr. Old Virgin but Im a voluntary celebate so I chose this for myself. Leaning in more on Christ will help sate the urges, but it wont go away. Whst you really need to do is choose are you in or are you out. Do you want a wife or not? Then go from there. Quit pulling yourself in to separate…
/r/RPChristians17/05/20 07:45 PM
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Yea, I probably should have told you to change some of the terminology but he probably would have got you on something else. That mods got something out for the red pill.
/r/RPChristians17/05/20 05:38 AM
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I agree but this state driven divorce racket the state is operating isnt for the good of everything. Divorce is bad and shouldn't happen but it does happen and its a lucrative business.
/r/RPChristians16/05/20 05:41 AM
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I wouldn't unless your experiencing low T, supplements can really mess up you natural T.
/r/RPChristians16/05/20 05:25 AM
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This is something that the Christian marriage sub needs to see.
/r/RPChristians15/05/20 11:20 PM
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Here: https://www.unmarried.org/common-law-marriage-fact-sheet/ https://family.findlaw.com/marriage/common-law-marriages-faq-s-what-states-recognize-common-law.html If you move to lets say a state that has common law marriage, and if you parade around saying your married, that state will acknowledge it and if your already in one and move, yoj have to file for divorce. Info in links.
/r/RPChristians15/05/20 09:23 PM
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"I sometimes entertain the idea that he had a wife but she left him when he converted so he never remarried. Maybe he had a wife and she died. Maybe he really was never married." This is most likely impossible, not only was paul college educated, which would take up many of his early years. He also traveled a lot. Even transferred to Israel to become a priest. I think he was way too dedicated and mobile for that. Which his time trying to become a priest leads into Acts. After his conversion, his…
/r/RPChristians15/05/20 06:32 PM
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Just better make sure that your not in a state that enforces your relationship as if its married by how long you live together.
/r/RPChristians15/05/20 06:25 PM
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"1 week I'm gone and she gets married." Wait crazy chick did something crazy. Im shocked truly!!! "In response I go on a hooker fucking spree." Way to jump from one end of the spectrum to an entire different spectrum. Whats the correlation between these two things. No response was needed much less this stupid response. You sure some of that crazy didn't rub off on you?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 07:39 AM
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Idk if women are necessarily being nicer, but Ill say this since this Covid-19 stuff began, Ive been seeing people thanking nurses, necessary business employees, etc. For the good jobs that they do, by making commercials, or writing letters, or street art, ect. All Im going to say is its not men doing these things. Women were always people pleasers but now they have to step up that game.
/r/RPChristians28/04/20 07:33 AM
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I agree
/r/RPChristians27/04/20 05:23 PM
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Let me guess, the ID2020 thing is whats got you a scared. Now its true the ID2020 is something to avoid, but is it the mark of the beast? No. A lot of things have to happen before we reach that time. The 7 seals have to be released, which will be devastating to the world, and etc. Western Christians are flipping out thinking this is the end of the world because weve been safe from this. Other countries have been through worse and we've been long overdue for this pandemic. The only difference is …
/r/RPChristians27/04/20 05:23 PM
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"They make the low-n count part of their frame." Agreed
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:25 PM
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The thing is, its mostly not about you, shes a girl who has had other guys so much, her quality has diminished. Shes probably so use to giving out sex she became easy. You don't ready need too much game for those girls, just a little frame. And if sex is your only goal, why not only fuck 5's or 6's who will be easy lays, and don't challenge yourself to go after the 10's because the 10's are harder to get with. In my mind that is scarcity mentality, for only going after easy lays because that's a…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:46 PM
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He probably meant he fucked her on the first date, which is a red flag because it means the girl is easy, and doesn't have a problem with having sex with other guys, so if an LTR was formed, the risk of being cuckolded is increased. Also the chase for a virgin is a smart thing to do, because women sho have over 5 sexual partners, will statistically have a harder time par bonding. The virgin is a strategy if you can pull it off, is the highest percentage of being locked in a relationship and lowe…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:20 PM
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Yes but their are a lot of versions of the book, Idk, which your suggesting. Providing a link would be appreciated.
/r/RPChristians18/04/20 02:16 AM
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Could you site the book to read of the theology of the body?
/r/RPChristians17/04/20 11:22 PM
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Ok, so first off, because of some passed abuse she isnt sexually attracted to you? Thats probably the biggest red flag out of this. By telling you that she literally overtly told you what your role in the relationship would be, and your like, sure. WTF, what are you doing, you have zero frame, you stepped into her frame just by doing this. Everyone else is saying it and I agree she friend zoned you. "3.I think God is leading us in this relationship. My prayer and quiet time seem to indicate a ca…
/r/RPChristians17/04/20 07:38 PM
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"You cant negotiate genuine desire." But your works too.
/r/RPChristians17/04/20 07:08 PM
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Yes, but they never where promises, their comparable to royal decrees. There are promises in the Bible but the commandments shouldnt be taken as such.
/r/RPChristians17/04/20 12:13 AM
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A agree with most of this post but I think the OP is really going off the idea that this "alpha posturing" is a frame that you hold. A frame isn't what you hold its who you are. Frame dynamic is so ingrained in us you cant just maintain a frame. You have to internalize it, become it, or the frame is useless. Like with the gospel if you don't believe, your not saved. Its the same with frame. I agree theres a lot of trash in the RP but the Holy Spirit gives us the ability to discern, to find what …
/r/RPChristians13/04/20 09:59 AM
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Sadly your white knight situation, wont get better. Continue ignoring him. Wk's will be Wk's
/r/askTRP12/04/20 12:49 AM
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Really dump her or escalate, shes pitting you against him as a shit test. Kind of like knights dualing for milady. Shes the only factor in this problem. Shes telling you either shit or get off the pot but adding pressure to see if your vulnerable to intimidation, and to see if youll lose your frame. It sounds like You don't know how to be attractively playful, don't be physical unless its for escalating, and it sounds like your trapped and don't know how to proceed, or are too afraid to. (Im und…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 12:30 AM
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Your being really generous on that, research shows past 5, women lose a lot of their par bonding potential.
/r/RPChristians10/04/20 10:16 AM
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Ok, WTF, why was this so important to you? Your trying to control her. That's not alpha. What you did was pressuring her into doing something she didn't have the desire to do (obligational desire.) If you had a truely had the dominant frame, she'd do this without being told. Also you somewhat shown your hand by telling her you liked that. And got angry (lost frame) when she stopped doing it. If you truly didnt like that, you should have withheld your attention, then get angry with her. Remember …
/r/askTRP08/04/20 08:38 AM
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I'll have to think about it. Thanks.
/r/RPChristians07/04/20 07:39 PM
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Im also a Christian celebate so I would have much to offer in the way of relationship advice. So I want to participate and the way I can is talk about Red Pill topics and how they fit into a Christian biblical lens.
/r/RPChristians07/04/20 07:35 PM
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Let me copy it to edit and ill take it down.
/r/RPChristians07/04/20 06:58 PM
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Yes, the Spirit is in us, and we are being sanctified, to conform to His will on a daily basis. A chase for excellence in God is an amazing goal but your already making God Your mental point of origin because your considering what, would benefit Him. What would He want me to do? This is a/should be a Christians primary/ first thing on our minds. But is the chase for excellence in a lot of Red Pill men out of a godly stand point or is it more primitive and debased? So I disagree that we can maint…
/r/RPChristians07/04/20 06:54 PM
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Much obliged.
/r/RPChristians07/04/20 05:38 PM
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It wont just get ironed out, its all by intention, if the intention is for themselves, it'll be for themselves, look at what paul says about all his personal gains, he now counts as loses, for the sake of Christ. Hard work is supposed to be what every Christian is motivated to do, but if its not done for Christ, if its not there to benefit his Kingdom, if its not God fruit to the Lord, it goes into the fire. We are not to chase earthly wealth, our hard work should be about ministry and helping p…
/r/RPChristians07/04/20 05:30 PM
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True, wisdom is knowledge and knowledge is related to information, but information can be aquired and used many different ways. Wisdom is no Specifically objective information but experience information, and knowledge, and knowledge of when and how such information works. So widom cannot exist in the absence of information, if you don't have it your not wise, or if you don't have it, the Holy Spirit supplies it for believers. At the end of the day, you still have to acquire said info to be wise.
/r/RPChristians06/04/20 06:24 PM
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I agree that why I said the Red pill is a worldly wisdom. But what we have to ask is does this produce good fruit, for scripture says: Matthew 7: 15-20 15 “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves. 16 You will know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes from thornbushes or figs from thistles? 17 Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. 18 A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear go…
/r/RPChristians06/04/20 05:55 PM
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Finally, someone thats not antagonistic. Yes, Im a native english speaker, just on my phone not a computer. So gets get started, "if" all that is meant by chasing of excellence, is a purpose for hard work and that purpose is the Lord then I agree. But I sense that there is a negative meaning behind it being used some times in the shere. Like the pursuit of money for instane, im not against hard work, like you said its encouraged in the bible. For the last part what do you need clarifying on?
/r/RPChristians06/04/20 11:41 AM
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Dude, Eve wasn't even made yet when that verse was said.😂. Also nice job butchering the quotation.
/r/RPChristians06/04/20 11:27 AM
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/r/RPChristians06/04/20 11:07 AM
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It is worldly wisdom the red pill will not exist in the next age it will not exist in the Lord's Kingdom get it through your head. And if you're not in going to biblically justify your arguments then there's no point In continuing this I laid out biblical scripture for you. The scripture is not on your side. I've presented my arguments. I eagerly await for more responses or any disagreements that maybe had.
/r/RPChristians06/04/20 09:43 AM
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And how does the red pill do that? Yes, It builds man up yes but I'm talking from a spiritual standpoint not an objective standpoint of worldly wisdom. Actually quote me actual scripture please in the future thanks. It's true that God gives us the ability to make wealth but this wealth is solely for him. Matthew 6:24 “No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money.” Hebrews 1…
/r/RPChristians06/04/20 09:23 AM
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Ive read rollo, have all 3 rational males and read his blog. You totally went and over looked where I said that improving yourself is ideal in fact the best thing for a man but the chase for excellence is ambiguous. Pls narrow it down for ne if you can but, from what Ive read they don't. Also Rollo is good as a beginner but he isnt Gospel. Don't fall for clubhouse mentality, No ones going to respect you for it. Use your own head and Discern for yourself. If you can't do that then you then you're…
/r/RPChristians06/04/20 08:33 AM
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Well, I had become Christian (Saved) very young. Still a virgin here, so that has its advantages. Sex is interesting to me, I guess its evidence my sex drive is still there and I can lose control and go PUA at any moment (always have had a lot of attention from women.) So I don't watch porn, had to do that the hard way, had to sever all connections to it. Literally jad to give hundreds of dollars worth of electronics to a friend evenif there was a connection to it, it was gone. The first month w…
/r/RPChristians05/04/20 06:05 PM
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First off, your looking at it wrong, the male sex drive is a very powerful thing, what you did by setting a goal is actually giving yourself permission to do it by drawing a line that is easily accessible and that shows lack of resolve. Next time don't make a goal. Cold Turkey it all. Your sex drive has more domaince over your psyche then you think, my advice you need to be fully committed if you do this. Your brain makes connections to retain memory, this is one enemy, because you rely on that …
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:13 PM
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Most guys even voluntarily celibate guys have troubles with their celibacy at times. The male sex drive is a powerful thing, and if you underestimate it, your doomed to failure. Discipline is necessary for it, but incels are blessed without realizing it. You can develop yourself in areas the player can't, such as discipline of sex and such. They just need to learn how to tap into it.
/r/RPChristians05/04/20 11:35 AM
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Went that way a while ago, best decision ever.
/r/RPChristians05/04/20 11:30 AM
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Definitely a red flag, not wife material. Next her.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 07:20 AM
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Your fine, but know the limits, I don't really want to grill a new brother of the faith. But seriously read the Bible. Especially the stuff about divorce and sex. Ill let the bible say it for me. But don't try doing everything at one motivation is temporary but discipline is permanent. Strive for discipline. Really Id say women shouldn't even be on the radar for you, you need to work on yourself. Go monk mode for a while, then reask the question.
/r/RPChristians05/04/20 12:57 AM
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Ok, slow down buckaroo. You have a lot going on. You just got out of a bad marriage, and you want to date again this soon? Bad idea, you need to reflect and learn or the bad things that transpired from your end will come back to haunt you. Its great your in the faith, and going strong but learn this bright flames may burn the brightest but also burn the shortest. Your trying to tackle too much at one time. Planing is easy but execution isn't. Motivation and discipline aren't the same thing. You …
/r/RPChristians05/04/20 12:25 AM
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I agree with your premise, but we have to be careful about frame and God in the same sentence. What I think you didn't clarify enough is, God is the one who has the frame in our relationship to him, we're to conform onto him. So on that side there is no maintaining frame because we don't hold it. Now, to the world we have to hold a frame. Stand our ground and do what needs to be done. We "accept" God's frame, and we "maintain" frame with the world.
/r/RPChristians04/04/20 04:30 PM
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Amen!!! I couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/RPChristians01/04/20 08:39 AM
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