| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | As a young person that doesn't want to use tinder, dating apps etc - am I severely limiting myself? | DeckardCain666 | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 10:23 AM | |
| 5 | I don't want to use Instagram, but it seems the best/easiest way to pull these days | DeckardCain666 | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 10:53 AM | |
| 4 | Anyone not use social media or dating apps? | DeckardCain666 | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 10:51 AM | |
| 2 | 'Practising' approaching women? | DeckardCain666 | /r/seduction | 20/05/18 05:15 PM | |
| 1 | Not going out solo just puts up obstacles | DeckardCain666 | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 11:53 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Anyone not use social media or dating apps?That's reassuring actually! I just don't like using social media for dating, chatting up girls etc - but I've always felt as if I'm missing out not using it | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Not going out solo just puts up obstaclesFucking love your attitude man! It's refreshing | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Not going out solo just puts up obstaclesNo worries dude, I'm not trying to preach or whatever - just telling you what helped me. I was in exactly the same position. I'm above average in looks, but I had ZERO confidence. I used to just play guitar and video games (hence the user name). I told myself if I want to be in a different situation, I need to do something different. As simple as that. Again, I don't want to lecture, but man please give it a go. The *ONLY* thing holding you back is your mindset. Trust me, I had clinical depressi… | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Not going out solo just puts up obstaclesYeah true! For me it just takes out any factor of having to keep another person happy. I've always been a bit of a lone wolf in life :( | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Not going out solo just puts up obstaclesOh yeah, never done that haha. It just gets awkward if one of the girls you make friends with fancies you! | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Not going out solo just puts up obstaclesI'm more interest in the 'non cold' approach and an example of it! Could you give me an example? | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Not going out solo just puts up obstaclesBut who cares man! Pushing yourself so far out of your comfort zone will feel amazing - and you've just got to go for it! Unless they are analysing you, in which case they are a judgemental fuck or a bit weird, nobody will neither car nor know you're alone. In a bar they might, but just go chat to another dude bro! You don't need to talk to a girl straight away. You'll probably end up tagging along with him and his buddies - which is great because then you have no obligation to stay with them an… | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Not going out solo just puts up obstaclesOhh I see! Tbh I don't know if it's seen as weird, but it's worked for me. So how would they recommend approaching women? Doing the standard wait for eye contact, smile etc? Or something different? | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Not going out solo just puts up obstaclesCheers! What do you mean by classic indirect cold approach? | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Not going out solo just puts up obstaclesI normally just say something like "Oh they bailed on me, and I was really looking forward to a night out so I came out anyway" or "they went to a different bar but I wanted to stay here". Just show confidence, if you have an aura of low confidence when you tell them you're alone you will maybe come across as a bit weird. However, having a confident 'dgaf' attitude shows alot about a guy who is able to kick it solo. Most guys wouldn't dream of going out solo with fear of being judged. I genuinel… | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 02:24 PM |
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