DeclineNDash Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
282	If a woman had done this, her career would be DONE.	MALE DEPRAVITY	DeclineNDash	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 01:42 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	A decent strategy guide to land a man /s I totally forgot. My bad. How else is she supposed to treat me? I’m a KING! 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/22 08:59 PM
422	A decent strategy guide to land a man /s Disappear after establishing friendly rapport with them a few times (bonus if you had sexy time). Then reappear 3 months later to ask if they want tacos. Everyone loves tacos and this keeps your partner on their toes!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 05:34 PM
20	"f around and find out" as a mindset makes it easier to block 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 they’ll learn today!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 05:23 PM
8	This level of betrayal from the person supposed to love, cherish and hold you sacred. What an asshole. And semen analysis labs aren’t expensive (compared to her labs) so he’s even more of a prick. I hope she leaves him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 05:17 PM
24	I lost track of how many red flags I heard. FiveDollarFuckery is what this is 🥱 ETA: if my formatting is off, my bad. I blame the Reddit app.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/22 03:01 AM
68	I lost track of how many red flags I heard. I peeped that. What a loser. 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/22 02:57 AM
4	Ok what is up with this man and sleeping hats? ITA. God forbid WOC or any curly haired woman actually try to take care of their natural hair. 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/22 12:48 AM
16	The truth about "the wall" YESSSS, You hit the nail on the head. They need us more than we need them & it infuriates them. They can’t (healthily) cope.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/22 07:25 AM
43	"The Tinder Swindler" on Netflix is a parade of red flags 🚩🚩🚩 Right! My Stranger Danger radar just exploded. Plane…out of the country…stranger???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 11:20 PM
12	I'm acting like an idiot around my crush Pretend like he’s in a relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 11:17 PM
5	Is it a crime to wear fake brand? Yeah…I’m not sure how this falls in line with FDS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 11:09 PM
3	Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst. This is why I choose violence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 11:04 PM
23	If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . . I haven't used OLD in over a year and my life has vastly improved academically, socially, and financially. I really believe that OLD is like thrift store shopping for humans.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 04:28 AM
28	If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . . We really do. Men are social pick-mes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 04:25 AM
2	This is one of those things that sounds "Cool" and "Empowering" when we are young with no responsibilities, but once you get saddled with a parasitic man that takes everything and gives you nothing, you will realize just how NOT cool or empowering this is. Much better! ☺️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 04:26 AM
22	FDS haikus for your entertainment and viewing pleasure Reciprocity. You get what you put in, sir. Don’t get caught lacking. 💅🏾 Dearest Pickmeisha. You should learn to love yourself. That scrote’s for the streets! 🚮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 04:23 AM
11	High School Boy Taught Himself to Sew Because His Prom Date Couldn't Afford Her Dream Dress I was gonna say that she reminds me of Cinderella but Cinderella WISHES her Prince Charming could listen to her needs & make her a dress (no farm animals needed lol)!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/22 05:43 AM
15	Queen of the Pickmes Ghislaine Maxwell found GUILTY on all counts of sex trafficking This is frightening but true. I have an ex friend like this and every now and again I tip toe around the idea of us being friends again but your comment solidified the reason why that’ll never happen. It’s sad because we’re supposed to be able to trust one another (re: sisterhood) but at the end of the day, we have to protect ourselves and keep an eye out for red flags within our inner circles too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 06:43 PM
13	Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about. I challenge any woman to reply with their thoughts on their sex toy collection, anytime a man mentions anything about ~ViBeS~ 🙄 Then if the idiot (and they always do) tries to steer the conversation to sex, end the conversation by saying how much the toys are better than him and require even less effort than his lame ass pickup line.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 06:32 PM
85	This should be how women approach sex. If he can’t make you orgasm he can’t get access. 💅🏾👑 “if you can’t make me cum, away from you I am gonna run” THIS IS THE ANSWER. ✨ Also, this guy’s a doofus. Yes, SSRI’s decrease libido but maybe she just isn’t attracted to him sexually? I’m on Lexapro and foolishly tried to wean myself off of it to increase my libido for a guy (yes, I was a 🤡 of the highest order) and not only did it obviously not work but I magically figured that I could actually orgasm without him—he was just an asshat.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 06:24 PM
101	If a woman had done this, her career would be DONE. Right! We saw what happened to the woman (an EMT, I believe?) who had an OnlyFans account which was much more tame than this. If we’re going to “expose” individuals, that shit needs to be equal opportunity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 03:36 AM
45	If a woman had done this, her career would be DONE. Not to my knowledge but local viewers also haven’t seen him on air in a bit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 03:32 AM
254	Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrate This is weird and should’ve stayed in her diary, tbh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 06:47 PM
11	PickMes be like: “It’s OUR nest!” 🤣🤣🤣 the nest reference will NEVER get old.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 06:43 PM
37	Flip that script and call a spade a spade! BINGO. It's literally the phrase, "Don't hate me 'cause you ain't me." Sorry not sorry that some women are living reminders that you need to level the fuck up. Any well adjusted person would use it as motivation to better themselves but scrotes gonna scrote.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 01:12 AM
114	Even in Imperial Russia, where women had to get married, community dick and age gap relationships were avoided. That’s it—I’m adding “well-used” to my personal lexicon for these losers. All jokes aside though, it’s true. No young woman with her life ahead of her should have to live with some weathered man in a house full of bad vibes due to male indecency.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/21 11:44 PM
6	So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men: I’d rather be saucy than a pick me! 💅🏾	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 04:41 PM
35	Vetting Strategy: What is He Saying About Simone Biles? I was so pissed when he supported all of those jokes about Simone! Like, what the hell has he done to contribute to society? I wish SNL would remove him. Honestly before his raggedy comments, I didn’t know of his existence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 04:38 PM
4	Ikea knows what's up Whew!! This is gold! I’m definitely putting this in the group chat with my girls 🤣🤣🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/21 06:04 PM
3	Don't be afraid to get that ring! The only ring that matters! I’m in favor of making this a movement, whether it be new house keys, apartment keys, car keys, whatever! We can collect assets on our own!👑	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/21 05:02 PM
4	Don't be afraid to get that ring! This is a good tip! Thank you for sharing!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/21 04:59 PM
24	Cries in spinster. Oh no! ☹️ weeps in non-toxic relationship status & overall improved wellbeing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/04/21 02:14 AM
11	We 👏 Don’t 👏 Chase 👏 Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner! 🍾 Seriously though, these scrotes don’t deserve a response. Let them starve (sexually and food wise)!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 07:08 PM
24	We 👏 Don’t 👏 Chase 👏 “Stone cold bitch” is kinda badass though. 🤷🏾‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 07:04 PM
43	This trend where women are showing how happy they are single, is everything This is such a mood. I can’t wait to just have fun with my friends (spending time with those who deserve it) and not try to date anyone. Just maintaining that Queen Shit vibe.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 05:07 AM
3	Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in It stems from when I used to delivery via DoorDash and would decline taking orders less than a certain amount. Now it applies to declining bs from LVM and gtfo. 💃🏾	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 05:00 AM
1	Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in Congrats!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 11:35 PM
1	Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in That guy is an idiot. If any guy that dated had even an inkling that he could do bettr, I'm out. She should leave. It's better to find out 8 months in versus a few years of marriage and then have to deal with the shitshow that is divorce.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 11:31 PM
3	Male Infertility Needs To Be Talked About! Ha. Love it. Thanks for the publication, I'll be sure to read up on it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 11:25 PM
2	Finance bros are the jesters of the Scrote Serfdom... Shit happens 🤷🏾‍♀️ But what really matters is how we handle it in the future! Sending hugs your way! 🌷	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 04:56 PM
6	Why do so many LVM ask you to plan the date? Laziness is a given but are they looking for a mother figure? So true! Back in the dark ages of my Pickmesha days, I used to match with guys that were new in town and didn’t know of any of the cool local restaurants. Now I refuse to give them any ideas so that they can look good for their next victim. They can use Yelp like the rest of us. 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 04:46 PM
16	Male Infertility Needs To Be Talked About! Right. I work in REI & sometimes I wonder if male factor infertility is just biology’s way of weeding out fuckboys from procreating.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 04:42 PM
30	I was really excited about a first date, but I'll be canceling due to some mini red flags... This is my personal farewell. Same! When courting, he should be on his p’s and q’s. And that comment about being “worthy”? Haha ok...hope he knows that he’s worthy of that block!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 04:37 PM
2	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. “Lady”, “woman”, etc are all better than “girl” or “female”. Did I state that “woman” was an issue? If so, please show where I did. *ETA, since we’re downvoting... PS: Appropriate titles, such as “wife” in this case are even better.💅🏾	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 04:15 PM
-2	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. “Lady” sounds much better. 🌷	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 02:31 PM
3	Males pretending to be women so they can get an FDS Newbie flair trying not to mansplain so they don’t get caught I agree. They thrive off of any energy, whether it be good or bad. They are scum (that hopefully gets bred out by no one procreating with them) and don’t deserve any of our energy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 02:25 PM
2	The pandemic is making me take the company of my own for granted - posting this to remind myself that only I can give me lovely things I crave for. Throwback to the time I took the train for 1 hour in heels for pancakes and coffee alone 🥞 Never settling for "walking dates" again Yum! Treat yo self, queen! 👑	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/21 01:48 AM
12	Hear, hear! Here for it! 👏🏾 Learning what our limits are (and sticking to them) is key to self love!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 02:41 AM
24	wOmEn HiT a WaLL aT aGe 30 aNd mEn aGe LiKe FiNe WiNe. Such an abomination.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 09:56 PM
11	The Gaslighting Is Over-Black Women and WOC? Wear Your Hair HOWEVER You Want, Including Straight, Extensions etc. Keep It Realistic and Healthy Looking and LIVE YOUR LIFE. I know! I aspire to be like Moira Schitt with a wall full of wigs, so their opinions are definitely not in line with my goals lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 09:00 PM
29	Ladies, how do we identify a high value man on a dating app? I honestly don’t think HVMs exist on dating apps and I’ve just decided to remove myself from the apps as a result. There was one guy that I was talking to that didn’t understand the importance of courting a woman. Another felt that taking a woman out for dates after sleeping with her would “mess up the vibe”. Then there are the ones that are just...incompetent. They want to meet up but don’t have enough initiative/drive to actually plan a date.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 08:59 PM
73	wOmEn HiT a WaLL aT aGe 30 aNd mEn aGe LiKe FiNe WiNe. Some of these males are getting dad bods before they even turn 30. How?! It’s the laziness for me. 😶	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 08:50 PM
30	The Gaslighting Is Over-Black Women and WOC? Wear Your Hair HOWEVER You Want, Including Straight, Extensions etc. Keep It Realistic and Healthy Looking and LIVE YOUR LIFE. It’s such bullshit. Honestly. black woman wears weave “Why don’t you wear your natural hair?” black woman wears natural hair “...so when are you getting your hair done?”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 08:46 PM
32	I shoveled my neighbor’s steps today for Valentine’s Day. She’s another single lady with kids and this sub has taught me how important it is to help out other women. Tomorrow I’ll get her sidewalk cleaned off. That’s very sweet of you! We really have to be allies for one another. ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 02:51 AM