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The people that make comments to female victims (who they are trying to "get back") probably agree with what they are saying in these comments too or find it hilarious. Why wouldn't they it's just as heartless.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 01:01 PM
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These are consequences for the women who do actually respect women's rights maturely who probably do feel like they can't reasonably call themselves a feminist anymore, but theres no consequences for the ones that actually ran it through the dirt because they don't give a damn surprise surprise.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 11:40 AM
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It is so wrong to label a young boy as having "toxic masculinity"... What happened to schools just teaching kids to be good people? So backwards
/r/MensRights23/04/26 12:13 PM
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Probably when I was like first getting into what advocacy is. I couldn't say for sure but it probably started off with feminism and researching the unfair treatment of women and that naturally led into the other side for me. I can be quite OCD about topics because I don't like to think information or opinions I keep are damaging anything or anyone wrongfully , so when stepping into feminism I never saw it as competitive to drown out mens voices and opinions. There can be problems both genders ex…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 11:31 AM
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Yeah exactly this. I grew up hearing this and was terrified of marriage as a young girl. I was around failing marriages as well and 40% of marriages do fail and you would hear the bitter terms "the wife" or "the husband". Even just the jokes of the cheating husband or the nagging wife. Marriage isn't what it was and is now probably for the trophy wives or just because they can flaunt wealth at venues, the strictly religious, or the legal benefits. Oh and the ones who are trying to steal your mon…
/r/MensRights20/04/26 09:21 AM
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I meant ridiculous as in to assume that most if not 100% of men did this, because I'm generalising an entire sex. I might be pedantic but I think it's a really important distinction to say "some men" instead of just outright men. Or women obviously. Otherwise you start talking like an extreme feminist lmao.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 07:23 PM
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Okay if you're saying this as a result of purposefully suppressing, even if you internally actually want to have children and are only peer pressured socially not to, then I see more where you're coming from. I can't say from experience anything myself to say yes or no this would have mental health effects but it probably would be close to that as with any peer pressure to conform in such a large manner usually is. I read your original more like "any female even independently choosing not to is …
/r/MensRights19/04/26 07:17 PM
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Anyone in a losing argument online falls back on these. The reality is they're scared to be the one to perhaps see your view and then be attacked themselves. These kinds of people want to be on "the winning team". It's like trying to convince someone to change their favourite sports team just because they've lost, they most likely won't especially if their family and friends support the same team. No matter the losses. Though this doesn't mean it will happen with every person you argue, your wor…
/r/MensRights19/04/26 03:10 PM
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I'm sorry I don't agree. This is such a reduced view on a woman, that if they don't have kids they develop a mental illness? I don't want kids as a woman and I never did from a very young age, so you are going to assume I'm lying or suppressing it or do you want to just straight up start diagnosing me? I get you're not obligating it but you are also suggesting these things? If I said the male instinct is his sexual drive and if he doesn't get that from a woman he either: has a mental disorder or…
/r/MensRights19/04/26 02:50 PM
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Does the US actually do anything to combat post partum psychosis though? As in are parents taught about it and what to look out for? Also not defending this woman but do some women possibly avoid seeing doctors about symptoms to avoid prescription charges? Sorry it's not too relevant but I'd never thought about that before since I'm not familiar with that type of healthcare system. Its just interesting to know because this type of murder on an infants life should be and could be more avoidable.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 08:34 AM
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Well they do tend to work differently depending on the gender, but you're right! Hormones are not a thing to use as an excuse not are they a way to "understand" or belittle your opposing gender.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 12:18 AM
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Reading that was actually foul. I couldn't even fathom trying to make a story from that.
/r/MensRights31/10/25 10:55 AM
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I agree with you. To be honest I wrote before in this thread that my family had a lot of social care children. Any and all reports or yellow flags were met with inspection. Men with clipboards coming over for talks in our house etc. for things like getting a new phone, a small game console, school reports ... Like very minor stuff was met quite heavily by the agency response. So when it said she put it as a yellow flag, I thought the Canadian social work agency would work the same. But Im clearl…
/r/MensRights30/10/25 09:48 PM
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Really I didn't get to read that anywhere.. but that would make more sense. I re-read it and it makes even less sense that she stopped being their social worker in 2020. But the boy passed in 2022. So another social worker had the files, read them (supposedly) and ALSO didn't do shit for 2 years with their medical information and all the written reports? Like I said it looks like the social workers don't have a clue on how to do their job. The entire agency needs investigating.
/r/MensRights30/10/25 02:58 PM
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I could understand that but I don't think that's the case here. Even if he wasn't reporting it, you'd think he'd want to address and at least try to help a boy of high risk of cardiac failure? He didn't even check! Also he had reported it way earlier in the beginning of his care under the women, stating slight vague concerns, but nothing was done(obviously not the doctors fault here). And still he neglected to check later on... Sounds like these systems don't know what the hell they're doing or …
/r/MensRights30/10/25 02:48 PM
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"fighting age men" Yeah because let's not make them seem human, or let it at all be seen as men to sympathise for, for what they have been through. It just reads like they want an outrage for them fleeing.
/r/MensRights30/10/25 02:45 PM
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But this wasn't even just this social worker. The doctor was heavily involved with the negligence too. 'Duncan admitted that during the checkup, he didn’t ask L.L. about his eating, examine him with his clothes off or take his blood pressure while he was lying down and standing up — all recommended by the Canadian Paediatric Society to determine the physical impacts of a patient’s malnutrition.' This after determining extreme weight loss and malnutrition he attributed to "an eating disorder". To…
/r/MensRights30/10/25 02:07 PM
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My family used to take in social care kids A LOT when I was growing up. The temporary babies, young kids and even ones that stayed a lot longer for years. I'm from the UK but literally anything, even minor things like the kid stole something at school, or the kid got a new psp console, their social workers had to come check it out for safety practice. Their yellow flags needed checking regardless if it was not red. I remember the hours of mostly men with clipboards sitting in our living room or …
/r/MensRights30/10/25 11:44 AM
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I don't think the social worker is in control of if and when they send someone out to inspect a report. I thought that was in the agency itself to send another out to it? I think the doctor should have the harsher punishment tbh. He completely neglected a young boy he should've known was under severe cardiac risk. Edit: I might be completely wrong, the Canadian social care system is not easy to search up on. I feel like it is more of a system issue but now honestly I don't know. What a mess! If …
/r/MensRights30/10/25 11:24 AM
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What a fucked up system. A social worker flagging yellow flags and yet they sent no one out to respond to it? Added to the prior letters from doctors before expressing concerns with the women's complete disregard to better the children and 'safety containment was more abusive than therapeutic,'? And then in the medical records, the young boy had 'eating disorders' while with them. How many yellow flags does a Canadian social care agency need before something is done? Before they actually send so…
/r/MensRights30/10/25 11:22 AM
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Yeah it's precisely right. Anyone who tries to ever use the arguement of hormones against a gender is an idiot. The only way it can ever effect you if you have really badly fluctuating hormones otherwise you being an asshole, is YOU being an asshole... Arguements like testosterone makes men more aggressive or estrogen makes women moody and irrational, is all reductionist bullshit. There are factors so wide and varied that make people do things that they do (like is talked about vaguely in the sh…
/r/MensRights30/10/25 10:58 AM
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I'm not American so maybe I'm missing a chunk of data? How is street drug overdose deaths related to direct personal poisoning? I thought America was cutting their funds to helping addicts, Medicaid? Isn't that more plausible? I'm sorry if I'm wrong please correct me.
/r/MensRights29/10/25 10:46 AM
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I honestly would try again, I would've thought if you state that you are the parent of this child and absolutely do not consent to the photo being used online, that they would take it down? I assume you'd report it under some illegal photo use or something similar as a tag. Maybe you can get through to a different support who will actually help. But other than that don't stop documenting. Make sure you have screenshots of that gofundme, the photo, the insinuations. Again I'm not too good with th…
/r/MensRights29/10/25 10:27 AM
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I personally disagree to the take. I honestly think it is more social media and media in general wrongfully indoctrinating women from even a young age to believe they are oppressed. We know they use disproportionate news to make men appear like consistent predators of assault or of social class, and echo chambers of what can sometimes be very foul ideas and opinions of men. Not that I don't believe that some women might think this way or that they may deem "low profile men" as lesser. I just don…
/r/MensRights28/10/25 06:45 PM
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Well for one it is a meme take? Are you really going to tell me this is 100% why "women" feel "perpetually oppressed"? Come on dude this just reads like some form of feminist rage bait...
/r/MensRights28/10/25 05:50 PM
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The only disturbing trend is your take on life and people as a whole... Women's most productive state is to harbour offspring, high performing men in technological or scientific fields? This reads like an ego issue to equate people to high or low performing, to which I can guess you believe you're high performing because you have a good job... You assume that women on dirt paths have more respect? Assume? But you also assume the reason is because of high performing men inventing advancements to …
/r/MensRights27/10/25 11:57 AM
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Punishment is ambiguous and it would be his own depiction of it that he was referring to. You're reading this wrong, I just wanted to know.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 03:45 PM
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Is this punishments as in physical beating or asserting control onto things like not allowing your partner to use her car or phone, or even just verbal punishment?
/r/MensRights17/05/24 03:44 PM
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What does the husband forcing himself onto his family mean exactly? Well what does it mean to you is more of the question.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 03:35 PM
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I wasn't saying I accept this behaviour. Just stating that just because a woman gets cheated on and is manipulated to stay, doesn't necessarily mean she sought out that relationship with a stereotypical bad boy in the beginning. I don't believe in settling down for partners either, it's not a real relationship in that way. The simple fact that women are allowed to get away with it, is the only reason why they continue to behave so childishly. When I had went through puberty and the bashings of m…
/r/MensRights17/05/24 03:31 PM
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It's unfortunate because this type of self harm is not as easy to identify. Punching walls and fighting people can be seen in different ways and you won't know which is which unless you are the man self harming. And it will not ever be met with sympathy in the same way typical self harming is. It can easily cause a downward spiral when your self harming makes you deemed violent and an uncontrollable danger to others. More awareness needs to be brought to this because it's so hard for others to i…
/r/MensRights17/05/24 01:18 PM
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Sometimes it is sometimes it isn't. Being emotionally manipulated and being promised the world after someone has been cheating on you, can absolutely be reason enough for some people to stay. It can be that quick fix they seek after feeling broken down. Sometimes they don't want to let go of the love they feel for the partner. Some women are also brainwashed into thinking all men are going to cheat on you, I had a friend always say things about my boyfriend if he was ever away staying that when …
/r/MensRights17/05/24 12:42 PM
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Yes saying anything about something you never have or might never be able to experience is "easy to say". Doesn't mean you're not allowing to speak or have an opinion on it, or even be concerned. Same thing could be said to women that have never had children, that they cannot have a say either.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 12:20 PM
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I'm sure there are other places you can go to see that too but Im not into it so I couldn't tell you unfortunately. No one's stopping you from enjoying it on the off chance it happens but I wouldn't say that gives reason to allowing it either.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 12:55 AM
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Yes most men? Most men if they want to can definitely go see some breasts if they want to, more specifically online for free.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 10:59 PM
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The glans clitoris can, which is what is being referred to. The glans clitoris is a part of the external clitoris and is located on the vulva just above the urethra. FGM aimed more towards clitoral FGM (since they are more types of FGM like sewing the vaginal opening or removing the labia but for now let's stick to a better equivalent) can either be the removal of the hood (the foreskin that covers the glans clitoris) or the actual removal of the glans itself. Obviously the hood removal is liter…
/r/MensRights16/05/24 09:34 PM
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Yeah I don't think that's what she was going for 🤣
/r/MensRights16/05/24 08:13 PM
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Hm yeah I think we are done talking to you now, because you and I both know that we were not talking about me exclusively.. have a good day
/r/MensRights16/05/24 07:49 PM
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Tell that to her 30k onlyfans subscribers in 2 days, I'm sure she's doing great. This was literally her plan.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 06:28 PM
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I honestly don't care if it is legal. If you want to go out topless for your sun bathing then go ahead, but this clearly isn't that. It's literally fetishist behaviour and she did it for promotion on her only fans. Do I think it's traumatic to kids? No. Do I think they should still be involved in her porn promotion and fetish behaviour? No of course not. I don't want to be either to be honest, I don't want to see anyone expressing exhibitionism in front of me. I don't think that's thrusting mora…
/r/MensRights16/05/24 06:24 PM
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If we lived in a world where roaming around naked was the norm then sure. But it sure as hell isn't and there's something called a time and a place. The only reason when people don't abide to this is when they let their fetishes get involved like exhibitionism, which is creepy. Getting off on unsuspecting people is disgusting. Sure a lot of men think that might be a dream come true but there's also a lot of people who don't want to see your boobs, much less being involved in your fetish. Same wa…
/r/MensRights16/05/24 03:40 PM
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Most men can definitely see breasts outside of the public eye, the majority of women have them and can display them openly anywhere else. It's disgusting behaviour to do in public, in front of people who probably don't want to see your breasts, especially children. Why are we encouraging women to become indecent and to treat themselves as sex objects? I thought we were pulling away, seeing as how many podcasts and videos go up with people especially men saying how much they hate onlyfans models …
/r/MensRights16/05/24 02:38 PM
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But why is the woman celebrated, it's weird and disgusting.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 01:54 PM
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No, there's being a provider and then there's wanting 90k?! That's not provider as in he works and pays the bills and what not. That's just giving her 90k straight up, she wasn't being provided for, she was just stealing his money!
/r/MensRights16/05/24 01:03 PM
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I get that, but the same people aren't posting it and they probably aren't even aware if they don't look at previous posts here. I don't think it's any cause for your response still but I'd just say leave them be. If new people want to discuss it, let them. It's a lot less frequent now, it trended on tiktok for the women's side and now it's taking its time to trend here too.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 10:26 AM
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I agree, I'm surprised mods haven't really acted, there's a lot of these posts that will just harbor the same responses although they have become less frequent now. Before definitely was too many of the same post. I don't understand the child like text though, are you trying to look like a troll on purpose or do you think laughing at people will make them listen to you more?
/r/MensRights16/05/24 09:44 AM
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That's exactly how I feel after getting angry too. I do feel like it would stur me up even more if I did it. But yeah if someone people want to do it that's fine, I just don't understand how that's healing from it personally. As long as they don't start screaming and beating sticks around in public then they can go ahead.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 01:07 AM
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Yes we should be worried, it's promoting unhealthy habits. Screaming should not be a way you deal with things. Especially not anywhere near people. Screaming is a response to bad things as it is happening, why would you want to take your mind back to that in such a way that stimulates all the negative feelings surround said events? I feel like this has the opposite effect more than anything, most of the time mental healing is being able to look at something and accept it and then move on. Not sc…
/r/MensRights15/05/24 03:57 PM
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What's the message that's cut off? Was it personally written or some blabber about rules?
/r/MensRights15/05/24 03:44 PM
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I know I know, I was kinda of worried about it putting it since I didn't know if I'd have mods after me for some type of misinformation spreading. I think you're right though I'll change it. Thank you.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 04:16 PM
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She had sex with a 16 year old pupil, that she waited for. I thought that was pretty illegal even if she "left", I thought the AOC of 18 would still apply? She still spoke to the kid when she was a teacher with intent on sleeping with him later. If that isn't a crime then that is very stupid and sounds easy for a pedophilic teacher to get around? But yes it's scummy and creepy as fuck. It should not be happening at all.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 03:13 PM
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I've asked him if I've gone too far a lot and he laughs at me for even asking, in fact he constantly laughs at me when we do it because he calls me Noodle arms. I'm not exactly hitting him with hard jabs or slapping him harshly! Besides he doesn't ask me when he does it back and he certainly doesn't ask if I like him slapping my butt quite hard (which can actually hurt might i add). But we both find it funny and if he ever goes too far or anything I'd tell him too. We don't really have to ask ea…
/r/MensRights14/05/24 10:41 AM
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I guess it could be me, most friends were doing in college or work settings. They all began great but then there wouls be something and it would ruin it completely. It wasn't horrendous, but it certainly wasn't nice. In the male groups I had 2 guys on separate occasions say they were going to rape me one outside my house and the other knew I was going shopping that day and said they'd be there and they went into some horrid details. My partner's friends would constantly make comments in front of…
/r/MensRights14/05/24 01:08 AM
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Me and my partner do this but not on the head. Could poke an eye. It's playful and light and no one minds.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 11:45 PM
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Sure but I personally wouldn't say it's the cause or anything, the lack of father relationships probably but not male friendships. I used to have male friends but I had bad experiences with them, some very bad. Same with females, in both male and female friendships I probably amounted 1 or 2 actual decent friends. But not anymore really, most people seem to be jerks now. I think the problem is definitely sexual objectification but more so from the media younger generations are growing up with. I…
/r/MensRights13/05/24 05:19 PM
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Alcoholism is an alcohol use disorder, it doesn't have to be everyday. She clearly has a pattern of her uses of alcohol and when she does she is a danger to herself and those around her. That is definitely a use disorder, that is definitely alcoholic behaviour, you're absolutely correct.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 02:44 PM
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Housework is something to be discussed fairly and also incredibly dependant on the work done outside the house. But yes women care too much on being judged by the state of their homes and appearances. I do the exact same thing while my partner watches me run around like a headless chicken in and out of rooms that probably won't be seen. Hell I even go as far as hiding things small things like our Bloodborne game figures and dinosaur figures. But the best thing? These are not my partner's, their …
/r/MensRights13/05/24 11:49 AM
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American women prefer circumcised men to uncircumcised men though, so the statement of every feminist being against it is a blatant lie. I've seen many discussions around this and there is always a decent handful of women that say they would never have intercourse with an uncircumcised man. It's deemed unattractive and unhygienic by them. Even a lot of American men share this same idea around circumcision, that's why they like to ridicule those that oppose it. They've all been brought up with th…
/r/MensRights10/05/24 01:05 AM
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Honestly it's a weird one. When I look at the MONA website there's no drabbled about feminism blah blah blah. Just ladies only eventing, which I don't think is bad. Supposedly there's some picasso artworks installed due to him attending such parties before (says in the description that he attended the curators grand mothers parties or something, idk how true though), which actually kinda defeats any feminist driven purpose given the history of picasso, not something to have tea over at least. Ki…
/r/MensRights08/05/24 11:18 PM
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No because they are nurturing "MANS best friend". If anyone could be friends with a MAN they must be inherently evil too. Gosh I'm so glad the park ranger clarified it for us because obviously none of you know about animals. -I'd like to clarify this as a joke, seeing the "park rangers" comment has genuinely made me realise that someone might actually say this.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 12:44 AM
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Literally any type of tiktok "theories" or slang that's mostly exclusive to tiktok is probably one of the biggest signs if they use them.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 12:35 AM
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Haha I wouldn't disagree with you but I also think we took the context differently. I take the "encounter" a bear situation obviously a bit more directly I feel like the encounter is literally having an interaction. I'd also assume the bear would be a grizzly bear, I think that's everyone's typical go to in these fake situations. Maybe I was being too imaginative and assumptive on my take.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:04 PM
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Even if the question was rapist/murderer or bear. I'd still go for the rapist/murderer, I think my chances of living were surely higher? Like I'm more likely to outrun or possibly out strengthen or do some weird escape manoeuvre or whatever you call them, with a random dude than a bear. You know human error (because murder is not your average experience even for serial killers) or the animal that's killed to survive it's whole life? I'm going with the rapist/murderer. And in the actual question …
/r/MensRights02/05/24 01:25 PM
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I know that everything about the incident is written down in a few places, even detailing of the weight that fell and so on is recorded. I don't know how you would go about evidencing the strapping and securement for that though. I have also expected that ACAS won't do anything about the comments but I think going ahead with health and safety might be worth a good try at least. He's already saying he wants to leave and find somewhere else. I'll ask if he wants help looking definitely, and don't …
/r/MensRights02/05/24 11:40 AM
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It's HSE, but they weren't put on because he didn't actual sustain major injury but I do think you can contact them. I hadn't really thought about that, I think I'll look into my partner says there's a lot wrong with their practices too.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 10:34 AM
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Thank you for that, it'll be in our discussion about where he decided to move on to for sure. I really appreciate you mentioning it.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:56 PM
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Honestly I think it is the same all contractors round my area are very shoddy, met many scammed out of their wits. He's definitely been weighing all that up prior to this though, I think he'd prefer the tech route though honestly. But who knows I guess.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:11 PM
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Yes honestly no matter if anything else happens he has to leave even he can admit that. I hope that given time the owner can see the mistakes in what the business is doing for it's employees.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:04 PM
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Definitely can be but I hear it's an iffy road but idk much about it. To be honest I use hardware engineer as a general term because I don't know much about it myself 😅 I think he'd also go for a technician route obviously more on the hardware side I guess. He does have prior experience in that at least, working for a small company that unfortunately went under a few years back.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:59 PM
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He definitely wants to go down the tech route and I think hardware engineer is what he really wants to go for.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:33 PM
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Yeah I know, luckily for me my father worked in the same shit before and was also a bit of a know it all tradesman. Hes always told me about it, and I've become more wise to his views as I've aged. There's so many aspects of life soiled by so called equality movements, society seems to care about the wrong things now. I just can't stand how out there it is, and yet there's nothing we've yet to do that has worked. I'm attempting to get into contact with some more places, someone has quite generou…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:29 PM
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Yeah he hasn't been planning on staying there long, we both want that for both of us. He's just stuck to a job to afford to get a motorbike for better travel. It won't be long now though really. But yeah I know he'd do well if he did do some sort of vocational training especially in something he more so can enjoy or get more out of.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:23 PM
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Yes I've been scared of this too. There used to be one older woman who harassed him and nothing was ever done or said he just had to get on with it. But I think that woman left so at least thats a lessened risk right now. But the thought of him working with other women was always a bit unsettling although I never voiced it, from what I heard though the women working the labour jobs aren't that bad, some even appreciative sometimes. It's the office women he has to look out for.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:16 PM
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Yeah I also thought this to myself, I don't imagine they'd have a good time if he left, I really don't think they would. I think right now he wants to leave as well so it's something we gotta figure out now.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:13 PM
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Thank you so much for the links, I briefly looked at GMB before but I didn't at first see any means of contact but I did through your link. I'll be on him to sign up and we'll write or call them up since ACAS doesn't want to answer currently. Idk if we can sue, he may have took that fall but he didn't sustain any major injury or anything. I think the only thing was a torn ligament on both wrists but even that was a year ago and he still frequents for some sort of therapy on the wrists. But yeah …
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:11 PM
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Yeah a lot of people are saying that. Although I'll be honest in that the women he works with seem to be at least a little bit appreciative and some of them did hear what his manager had to say about him. And he said a lot of them agreed. It's a family business that grew you see, and they work the offices, it's them with the massive issues. So idk about the bad guy in terms of the people he regularly works with but I don't know too much about it. He tends to keep away, they are a bit of a drama …
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:01 PM
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Yeah it has very blatantly gotten to him especially after what was said. I've tried to do some things for him and I've been trying to make him a bit happier when he's home, small stuff right now because I can't take him out, he's way too exhausted for that stuff. I've always told him he was doing good, I've also been buying some stuff that might help muscle soreness, and bought some of that protein stuff idk how right I am but I heard it can be helpful to up protein when working hard at work. I …
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:58 PM
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No your okay, comments definitely help garner more comments. But what you're saying isn't completely irrelevant either, it's just the sad truth now.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 03:37 PM
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Thank you, I'll definitely let him know about the work stress thing. But yeah the discrimination sucks, the only thing we can hope is that it might just be better working elsewhere.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 03:28 PM
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Ok? Thanks for commenting then, have a good day.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 03:24 PM
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It really sucks, he wants to just leave and not do anything because we both just don't even know how to go about doing anything at all. I hoped that ACAS would reply to him but he hasn't had anything yet and they're supposed to give out advice like that for employees so I thought next best bet was here. But yeah it does happen and I've heard many stories from other men with this experience too. At the end of the day they just see if the boxes get ticked. Whether that means a few people are holdi…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 03:22 PM
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When did I say I bullied him? Do you want to assume everything?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 03:13 PM
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If the disabled spots get taken up by people who aren't disabled then please let the women spaces be taken up by men 🙏🏻
/r/MensRights16/04/24 09:31 AM
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Haha I've told people this for ages! I see it all the time!
/r/MensRights16/04/24 09:30 AM
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Hm you think so? I thought our mods were quite strict and Im honestly surprised it stayed up for so long, I saw it still going on about 14 hours after. I thought the whole schtick was they had to be strict on things that can seem like woman hate on fear of getting the entire sub nuked. But you may be right 😅
/r/MensRights10/04/24 08:47 PM
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Your last 3 slides are very powerful. It's sad to see the polls, because it is scary to speak out. Even online when you're behind an anonymous mask you can't speak out. This subs disclosure speak volumes about that. Being instantly banned from other subs for joining or posting anything here. On a mens rights sub?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 02:32 PM
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For sure! I don't really go round mens lib myself but anywhere to share some good ideals is always good! Just don't let anyone tell you off for your own beliefs, you can question yourself and maybe find out you weren't right (which is a healthy habit) but just because a thousand people shout at you doesn't exactly mean your wrong. Reddit has a lot of that, that's for certain 😅
/r/MensRights10/04/24 02:23 PM
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Yup I was thinking about this myself today and then also thought holy shit. Is this why some men think that female teachers raping or grooming male students is a good thing? It's well known that roleplay like that situation in porn happens a lot, is liked a lot and it's pedophilic. So I mean is porn actually grooming men into objectifying themselves and other younger males? It's not a hidden fact that watching porn can be started at a young age for boys, so growing up with that, thinking it's ri…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 12:03 PM
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You totally can be both. I also support a lot of women's rights , like you said shouldn't everyone? The thing is here, feminism is definitely a buzz word and you cant blame them. The term now is quite lose. A feminist could be someone like you or I, or they can be a straight up misandrist. I'm sure you have seen the men bashing in female equivalent spaces too. We get a lot of them here making satire posts or just coming here to insult men. Same thing kind of happens here unfortunately. People au…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:59 AM
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Yeah what the fuck has been up with that. Saw 2 posts that seemed like they were up for discussion. But their posts would read something about having large breasts and the other was petite and compared herself to a minor and 99% of men were larger than her. Yeah real relevant huh 😐 Could they be any more obnoxious, seriously. If anyone wants to have a discussion I literally don't care their gender, any discussion is a good discussion even if I don't personally agree. It's the people that go to i…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:28 AM
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Sure it happens but I mean for the textbook law. You know if it's proven you engage in sex that involved bodily harm you are guilty. That's just that, it's an illegal act during sex, whether you mean it maliciously or not, you're guilty of it. Just because it doesn't seem wrong doesn't mean you cannot still be found guilty of going against the law. Should he be guilty of murder? No. Manslaughter? Definitely. Police detain suspects and are not judges. Do you know how many men have previously call…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:14 AM
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Yeah it made zero sense, it's fishy to say the least. Yeah it sucks because NO ONE wants to help anymore. Like I'd definitely prefer a guy to step in than and old woman but you can't expect it when the guys have given up. Walking on a tightrope of being expected to not (because of allegations that can and have been made and obviously the fact that you can't chase and attack someone if they're not actively still committing a crime) and being expected to step in at the same time. You'd just rather…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 12:01 AM
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Kinks like that can get extreme, I don't think you should rule it out as not ever being possible like I said. If you like being choked, it's probably the same thing as the kids strangling themselves to chase that high. They keep pushing and the other complies because they think that their pushing is still safe grounds. Until suddenly it's not. There's a lot of idiots being involved in sex and probably even more in kinks. Again I don't agree with it either. Just being picky!
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:55 PM
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I don't think he's bragging about accidentally killing his wife lmao
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:51 PM
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You definitely can. It's like one of the most well known kinks in sex acts. The other person can get you to push too far and so on. Not saying it's right though but it's definitely possible to not mean to.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:49 PM
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Maybe not but it's illegal because it can't ever be proven. Even with written or recorded prior consent you can't prove that they didn't withdraw halfway through and the other person has used prior consent as a leverage to murder.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:48 PM
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It might be the "extreme sex" part. I don't think it was on about just drugs alone. Not saying it's right but I think that's what they are referring to.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:44 PM
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I hope it is a reduced sentence. I can understand it to an extent because of the drugs, because that's generally where they say consent can't be given and such. And more context is needed for the "extreme" part because obviously BDSM, bodily harm and so on, not legal. It is kinda your own risk to do so in the event that something happens to the partner. Its another case of law Vs morals really. But yes if is all it seems, that really sucks for the guy. The real issue is claiming it was sexist? Y…
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:42 PM
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It's disgusting for them to say that but I hope they say if for the "laughs" and don't really think that. I just cannot fathom having that kind of mindset realistically.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:28 PM
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In terms of your relationship, if your wife disagrees with mens reproductive rights too then I wouldn't say that when she's upset hers has been taken away as well. Personally of course. But uh yeah it's a giant ball of fucking shit right now and both genders should be mad, but yes men have been angry and unheard for longer with a multitude of issues. Both things need re-evaluating but looks like neither will. I believe both should be sorted out but how the fuck you go about it, I dont know.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:25 PM
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What point are you trying to make? If a man punches you I don't think he's going to be up for debate on whether it should have been a woman or not... But if a woman is attacking a man then you get what you get. But there are legal limitations of how much damage you can do to someone in defense without it being excessive. So there's that. I don't get why you've come here to share no point and just infantilize yourself by comparing yourself to a minor? You've either written this poorly or you aren…
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:17 PM
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Honestly I don't think it's about protecting women, the group I mean. Well I feel like we could all tell because there's no way it'd ever work. It's just too full of biases. It's a fantastical make believe world to think that group actually might weed out a few degenerates. Even if they did now, no one would believe them because all the female degenerates ruined that chance. It's a gossip ground for women to share to other women how hot they think they are because they have an entire roster of m…
/r/MensRights09/04/24 05:03 PM
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Yeah I know what what you mean. But guys that think like this and the fake mra's seem to think this is what is accepted here. So they both come here really. I'm still on the fence myself but I'm leaning on the hunch that he's the real deal.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 03:57 PM
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I think this is someone who has had bad experiences in life. He's been taught not knowing how to handle certain situations without violence. He thinks its the "manly way". Sure some things can call for violence to break out but the things he's described? No. And obviously has had some reasons to hate women for, because let's be honest you don't abuse someone you love. The guy probably needs help and needs some self reflection because his history says loads. Talking about women wearing crop tops …
/r/MensRights09/04/24 02:55 PM
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I disagree because it just doesn't work like that. Your daughter will see you making her more traditional and smacking her in the face all while she knows in her onlyfans or wherever she's posting she has these lovely men telling her all these great things. What do you think she's going to prefer? Shell just go deeper down the rabbit hole. The problem is these girls are being told how great it is, you don't have to worry the money flows in and so on. If you had a conversations and long conversat…
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:56 AM
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Yes I completely agree which is why I said just because she acted that way during that situation doesn't mean she is necessarily (better fitting word) withholding sex. Context is important! She could very well be like you said which could have caused this sort of behaviour, but to be honest I didn't really think of the guy acting like that because of this reason. Also don't worry I understand what you mean. I've had a few situations where you try explain reasons behind something but that doesn't…
/r/MensRights08/04/24 07:09 PM
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I think you're right too many men I see are misinformed thinking that their partner won't change much even after pregnancy but they can and most likely will. Some people are just not mature enough to go through those changes with their partner yet either. I also see a lot of men and women claim that either they or someone they know was really skinny after pregnancy cause she just didn't give into cravings. It's all bullshit, it's most likely gonna happen. I wish more women could be pushed for ed…
/r/MensRights08/04/24 03:53 PM
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Ha traditional! The tiktok women have gotten their hands all on it. Just an excuse to leech while pretending to be holy.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 03:42 PM
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I mean I've been buying mens clothes for the last month or so now, women's are just skimpy but not in style they're just always stupid thin materials and shit. Mens always seem thicker and they have so much better style than the women's. Although I live in the UK our women's style is pink tracksuits 🤣 The period product arguement is a hard one, it sucks to pay but I also cannot relate it to toilet paper because it is a bit more than that. But yeah they scrapped the VAT on tampons now, so that's …
/r/MensRights08/04/24 12:35 PM
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That's some amazing advice, everyone should know this. I wish this sort of info could be pinned on here. Police are very good in scare tactics and just outright lying to you to just get that one bit of info on you. Well done for standing your ground.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 11:32 AM
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I feel like some people are putting this the wrong way. I would not appreciate my partner touching me had I explicitly told them no and stop much more if in public like other people have mentioned. It is scary to be touched by a man who is quite well drunk, I don't care if it gets me downvoted, it's true. My partner absent mindedly hurts me in day to day I really couldn't fucking imagine him drunk and trying, it's just asking for an accident. Not only that but if it's in a home space and he's as…
/r/MensRights08/04/24 10:44 AM
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It is nice to see people who can overcome the bad that can come with families like that. Anyone at any time can still grow and learn to be the type of person they want to be. I'm sure it wasn't easy though. You have a great day too, and good luck with your studies.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 12:42 PM
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Honestly while I was writing it I had the exact same thought pop into my head about other ways uti's can be treated. But i wasn't too sure when it came to infants. I've also heard that they can be more common with American parents not being capable of properly washing their children due to their own stigma regarding it. And yes like I said the penile cancer one is odd since the statistics don't point out those with phimosis which again does call for needed retraction of the foreskin, as some stu…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 10:55 AM
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Everytime there's an arguement there is a woman that just say they prefer it circumcised. FGM is also used for aesthetic reasons. I come from the UK so it is not all too common for circumcision here. I've never heard any women complain about foreskin so I think that goes to show how they have been made to think that. I honestly don't even know what studies to believe anymore in relation to circumcision. Tbh I'm definitely wavering on the practically no effect option since America profits off of …
/r/MensRights04/04/24 09:54 PM
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Just remember that feminists only seen one half of the world which is the only half they will ever be involved in. And as such will only see one half of the statistics. They don't see men's rates being higher or rising. But they can see a small rise in female rates and that is what they talk about, that is what they act on. No matter what feminism just hasn't ever been about men. A single feminist could care about men and being pretty good like that but feminism just isn't that. And a lot of the…
/r/MensRights04/04/24 12:13 PM
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I've never really liked Chloe Roma or at least from videos I've seen, she's never really provided much input. You can just watch the videos she plays before she starts talking about it, she kinda of just repeats it. There's no real need to watch her because you probably won't miss anything. I mean any positive content around it is positive content sure but I dont like to particularly consume it from her page. But if this is true that's even worse. She also has some weird videos putting women dow…
/r/MensRights04/04/24 12:03 PM
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I don't think you understand, I didn't say men slapping their partners arse is a bad thing. Actions like that can be playful and although the action might not particularly seem positive, the other partner can enjoy it. You just can't really tell off of the comments what they or their partner like.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 08:27 PM
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Gross but Reddit comments lack context, it might be so minor for the guy they actually don't care. Men slaps their partners arse all the time too, and they can do it to the point of pain just like pimple popping. I just didn't see any comments saying their guy really hated it, they maybe joke but I just don't think this is too bad. If they expressed that their partner really didn't like it and they kept going, that is a different story. If you don't personally like it that's perfectly fine, I ho…
/r/MensRights02/04/24 11:21 PM
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That would be a better way to put that yes but I also mean not just being able to lift heavy weights in a gym. I think the proper word would be proving they can be good fighters or protectors.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 10:47 PM
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Oh I wholeheartedly agree, just came out of education myself. I knew 2 students who already started using ai writing methods. Copy off a science page online, get AI to rewrite it to get past checkers. I never heard anything happen to them. Educations seem to be getting slower and slower in catching up with technology. AI checkers need to start being a regular thing in schools now unfortunately. Well you sound like you'd be a good teacher, I'm sure a lot of students can appreciate you.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 10:44 PM
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Again thank you, I just got finishing the first link some crazy stuff in there. I like the part where it says that studies done where test scores favoured males could actually be to do with the female willingness to almost be rewarded for being more involved in their education if they came from poorer backgrounds, whereas the males would not be present thus bringing down female results. That shook my mind, it was some nice analysis, really well written. And then the published studies that were u…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 09:04 PM
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Yes exactly this, women can see it more like their male partners exercising their strengths in a way that can directly apply to a situation. Like proving their worth. You could call that evolutionary traits carried over in women, I'd your a weak female, youre going to want to pair with a strong male, there's only one way they can prove that. But we can also blame popular media, books, movies, that a lot of young women can be exposed to and it can certainly shape what they think is attractive. I …
/r/MensRights01/04/24 08:25 PM
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This opinion seems to be the most common one here, especially the female teacher comments. It also correlates with mens harder lives, a lot of men do not even want to be teachers for the dangers of can cost them. Do you believe that having separate classrooms would benefit both genders then? Or maybe that boys would be better if homeschooled?
/r/MensRights01/04/24 08:03 PM
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Oh right thank you for correcting yourself and the link. Greatly appreciated!
/r/MensRights01/04/24 07:34 PM
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I don't understand why you are being so rude or why you deleted your previous comment. I'm not here to argue or to fulfil whatever superiority complex you think you have over a stranger online. I am not too well versed in how to search for my own studies through social science, scientific, or policy databases as you call it. And there are many unlinked behavioural studies that I probably cannot solely search for that can be helpful to understand academic issues. I am much better rehearsed in bio…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 07:32 PM
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That's really heartbreaking to hear. I agree as well that they seem to be slowly eating at breaks for kids. I know that in the UK we have seen many schools not allow the kids outside anymore after eating. I'm not old at all but I really like the way my old primary school handled break. Kids would go outside, be absolutely mental for 20 minutes, come back in and it I remember the smell of lavender, calming music and guided relaxation. You'd never hear a room so quiet. Whoever orchestrated that in…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 07:16 PM
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Yeah Im definitely seeing some patterns in these comments. Do you have any more information in the redesign you speak of. It's okay if you haven't but I am struggling to understand what sort of change that might be? I can't really get my head round how math can be taught in a female centered way. Unfortunately the people in charge of our education systems seem to be sleeping on everything. I was in education when COVID hit in the UK and the amount of times I wish I could scream at the guy was la…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 06:59 PM
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I'm sure there are some studies that can still be applied to education systems though, although not as specific as we may like. I don't really understand how you mean by the last part. This sub is kind of the only reason I use Reddit, I'm sorry if that makes you think i am some kind of troll account. I can see the reason why you might think that, I don't generally like to point out my gender. But I think it's important when I can't relate to certain male experiences, and I think it can be benefi…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 06:49 PM
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No I think you're right. I think quite blatantly men and women have different processes in thought. Sure everyone does but you can see alot of women or men in groups who seem to sort of click in the same way as one another. Boys struggling to sit still and pay attention does sound about right, you see a lot of boys who struggle in school systems particularly in being tossed around in behavioural programs and such. And yes I do think it's important to note factors like our education systems being…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 06:40 PM
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Oh that's definitely an interesting take, although admittedly rather hard to look up anything about it. But still gives that idea on boys struggling to be steady and focused and the same time.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 06:35 PM
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I think you're right about the writing part very much. I also noticed that females dominated English classes and we're a lot more likely to pursue it than males. You know all the wishy washy artistry type stuff. I never thought about being bullied into it either, but I can totally see it happening. Female bullying is a lot different compared to males or as far as I've seen. Males are a lot more peer pressuring into doing stupid shit type thing whereas females was just straight up insulting bully…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 06:28 PM
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Most podcasts are like that and it is stupid. As if men don't already have enough reason to despise women. But then again any self respecting women I know wouldn't jump to go on a podcast. It's not an atmosphere that attracts that type of person but it definitely attracts some dumb attention seekers. And then also no one would watch it without hearing some attention grabbing ridiculous take on something.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 05:08 PM
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Of course it does. It's horrid to even think it doesn't or is somehow lesser. And all the apologies do not mean a thing from that woman. She definitely planned it to lead in that way. Hell she might have even planned for the guy to be there that night. No one should ever go through that.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 05:04 PM
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Ah okay that makes much more sense! I think it's a shame that society and a lot of women do not value themselves more. I think too many women are very relaxed in the process of abortion and I do think it is jarring to say the least. The perfect world should have minimal abortions for special instances and sexual partners should both be honest and upfront in their intentions. Or an even better world will have more options for contraceptives with little failure or misuse rates. But we don't have t…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 04:57 PM
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Are you thoughts of self harming or harming anyone else is the important question here? I don't judge I just want to know. I'd like to know what type of thoughts exactly you are having. It might be a good idea to try and see if you could have a mental disorder that can be diagnosed or perhaps you have gotten yourself stuck in a depression rut and some lifestyle issues are present??
/r/MensRights01/04/24 01:20 PM
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As a woman, if I ever get a positive test result, I will not be keeping it. I've never had to have one and I hope I never will. No I'm not going stop having sex because my partner actively wants it. Does that mean I'm going to unprotected sex and just throw it all out the window? No. Have me and my partner talked about the risk of pregnancy no matter how low it may be and agreed on medication abortions. Yes. I take pregnancy tests every 2 months because I do not want to abort a further gone preg…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 12:53 PM
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I thought that too 🤣
/r/MensRights01/04/24 04:42 AM
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You truly agree with all of what they have said? I'd understand the gender role portion maybe like the submission. But the whole women not being able to be proud or not be able to give a shit or that they don't think they are human at all? I'm sorry for asking so much but I don't think op seems as willing to talk as you do.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 04:41 AM
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I am so confused. I don't even wanna attempt to break this down because I cannot tell if you are going through some major mental exhaustion or if this is some whacky trolling attempt. or some weird religion because that first half was insane. I'm going with this is a female troll because of the use of "delulu" because that is some tiktok woman slang right there. In short, women cannot be generalised. And to make a point that all women submit is funny because a lot of them are abusing their power…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 04:33 AM
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I wish I didn't have to see those comments tonight and I was having a good night. How fucking disconnected is social media making these women, that they can all laugh at multiple people dying as a group and think it's some kind of justice to women. And I can bet that none of those women have ever been through anything like the sorts in their life. Tiktok women make me furious, they all think they are victims. Could do with shutting down.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 04:11 AM
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I don't claim to think there was none but I've never seen it. But yes anyone saying that is alarming. Usually I'd say you can expect a minority to go against what usually is right or wrong but in terms of sexual harassment, you're right. Only one type of voice should speak out in this video where let's be honest it was sexual harassment, and it should be that she is in the wrong. I'd still like to be thankful for that majority though.
/r/MensRights31/03/24 10:44 PM
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I don't get it. It's just a genre. It's just marketing to a group? Idk can you explain further?
/r/MensRights31/03/24 04:43 PM
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I have not seen a single comment that displays hate towards the cast member. And this video has been reposted a lot. A lot of people hate the woman in the video for her behaviour. I see no wrong.
/r/MensRights31/03/24 04:37 PM
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We have seen a rise in younger men having ED. It is quite possibly or most likely due to the "demonisation" and just like the article explains, religion and anti-sex backgrounds, but in our instance now it no longer needs religion. Its now just as simple as everyone deems it wrong in our society. Reproductive health is never black and white, you can view the same men that think pornography content has caused their ED but it can even be as simple as being dehydrated. Erectile dysfunction works in…
/r/MensRights28/03/24 03:38 PM
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I never really saw it as controlling to be honest, I complied because it gave him more comfortable thought. I don't know if he thinks it's because I'll cheat or because you don't know what kind of trouble someone like that can cause. I didn't really ask questions. I just knew a lot of guys don't like it and we'll he does a lot for me so that was that.
/r/MensRights27/03/24 06:28 PM
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Legit why does it exist 😂 use your heads man! Ah yes the group full of dumped women surely won't be bias to the guys they mention! I tell you what though, men have a "Are we dating the same girl" group too. It's actually the same one, if she's posted on there, you know have a look it might be innocent. But if she's a top contributor, STAY AWAY 😂
/r/MensRights27/03/24 01:37 PM
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I hate how most of the guys are trying to stop anything from happening to the woman. Also the I can't breathe thing is ridiculous! "I can't breathe!" Proceeds to scream and struggle like hell 😂 Not only is it a lack of accountability but a need to be a victim in a place where they've just commited a crime! I'm pregnant, I can't breathe, you're hurting me! It's child like but even then I think children have the common sense to not fuck around with police.
/r/MensRights27/03/24 01:25 PM
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When most women say this they don't mean they want you to be in touch with YOUR emotions, they want you to be more in touch with THEIR emotions. Women seem to grasp emotions a lot quicker and better than men. I've gotten upset in front of my partner many times and he doesn't understand why and afterwards I'm like how the hell didn't he know, to me it would be obvious. Previously in front of women though, they mostly already know why you're upset. That is what they want. That and for you to be mo…
/r/MensRights27/03/24 01:03 PM
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Yes exactly and this is one of the things that victims struggle with the most afterwards. That feeling of did I cause it or encourage it and is it my fault? Because their body responded to it they believe that deep down they must have enjoyed it, it must have been consented. But it's not and no victim should ever have to hear those words from the mouth of another. It is and is always victim blaming. There's no doubt that raping a male and raping a female is different. It's different anatomy but …
/r/MensRights27/03/24 11:33 AM
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That's absolutely insane man, it's literally an endangerment risk to male children to have it so female centered. Kids need more sexual education for shit like this. That's so wrong, I hope you're doing a lot better now, your story is genuinely shocking. Stay strong
/r/MensRights27/03/24 11:23 AM
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I'm so sorry it was sarcasm! I should have put that down! Just a swipe at therapists, they do a lot of shit like that because they can't tell you you're an asshole. Therapists are also terrified of women, if they say anything like they're unjustified, a woman can go cry to a higher up and say their downplaying my mental health or some shit. Seen it happen a lot.
/r/MensRights27/03/24 11:17 AM
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I'm curious do you think number 2 is an asshole move? I've done number 2, to some of my friends, both male and female to be honest because my partner either didn't like them and thought they were no good (for the girls, he was right but I was giving the benefit of the doubt way too much), or because he said that any and all guy friends just want sex and they will wait for it. I wouldn't like it if women stalked around my partner for sex, but even if it wasn't true, I don't want my partner to hav…
/r/MensRights27/03/24 11:02 AM
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Yep, that's how my therapist told me to deal with it!
/r/MensRights27/03/24 10:19 AM
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UK here and no helpline numbers but the first I get is: Husband yelling: "Reasons could include high stress, anger, mental health struggles, childhood patterns, poor communication skills, insecurity, or wanting to assert control. But whatever the cause, abuse is never justified. Stay calm, set boundaries, suggest speaking later when emotions have cooled, and disengage if yelling starts." Wife yelling: "Yelling between spouses is common, but frequent yelling indicates deeper issues in the relatio…
/r/MensRights02/03/24 03:40 PM
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Yup was gonna say this. A smart man will not be going into those restrooms. That is now solely a womens restroom. I mean come one whoever was in charge of the facilities should have been able to do something, isn't that what the people fucking pay for?
/r/MensRights19/02/24 09:24 PM
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I mean you could always ask what saying that is going to do. Like what statement are you trying to make? Is it a factual statistic? No because obviously it's not every single man. What is saying this really going to do? Nothing, it solves nothing you're just pissing people off and rage baiting for no reason other than to make your movement look like it's full of assholes. Why do we need to bother getting at one another's throats it's childish and is proven to do nothing. I'm sure men and women c…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 09:15 PM
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I've always found it a bit iffy myself but not enough to where I find it horrendous. 18 -19 years just feels too young. Most haven't really done anything in the world and still are new to most "adult" concepts. 18 year olds are still stupid, but it definitely changes in the following years. I think also the entire "barely legal" shit also makes it seem a lot worse than it is. I think the barely legal thing is quite well known. Hell I even know it and I don't really know shit about porn, never ev…
/r/MensRights13/02/24 12:04 PM
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And the sad truth is why they expect it. It's taking advantage, because the majority of men are like that with their partners.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 12:16 AM
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No way that's a thing I've never heard of seen it as one sided, that's awful. Just like the recent trend of women getting upset that they didn't get asked to be their partners valentine. Bullshit, just want more pity points. It doesn't even have to be about the price or even item it's about the bonding that comes with it. God, you can all have my regards this valentine's. You're all doing a good job, stay safe.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 12:15 AM
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Sorry what was the questionnaire for and who was it conducted by?
/r/MensRights04/02/24 09:01 PM
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Yeah school is shit and lots of boys can't handle it. It would definitely contribute to depression since it such a stressful subject for students. Although in the UK I don't think it's legal to drop out without some form of other education system when you leave. Everybody is different at the end of the day and school just doesn't cater to that and it's such a young age to understand that you just gotta ride this shit out. I think it gets worse in teenager years, rules start to make less and less…
/r/MensRights03/02/24 02:27 AM
1

Oh damn! That's very odd and very backwards. Sorry if it was a stupid question but I had no idea.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 06:16 PM
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I'd never heard of neuroticism before but I think you're right, I'm no better than anyone else but I have seen female friends being a total wreck over very simple medical issues, jumping from one very serious self diagnosis to the next. But when they visit a doctor it turns out it was none of what they thought. I don't like this way of thinking though it is like willing something worse on yourself. I also wouldn't have thought about Chinese medicine ill have to attempt it if my next trip doesn't…
/r/MensRights01/02/24 02:23 PM
1

You say potential buyers? What do you mean by potential?
/r/MensRights01/02/24 05:58 AM
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I'd like to speak on my experience personally, of course to be taken with a grain of salt I am only one person after all. I have recently myself been dealing with womanly issues and my doctors keep and keep passing me off and away. Is this misogyny? I'll vote no I'm scared that I'm being passed off and I'm angry that I feel like I'm not being taken seriously, of course I am. Don't get me wrong I'm not badly struggling to move and what not but I have had a lot of interferences. But when I think m…
/r/MensRights01/02/24 05:55 AM
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Study psychology? What do you mean more specifically than this? Also what does a woman who doesnt get turned down look like? Oh and I honestly thought men didn't really like being stoic I know that most men are but I thought it's because you are afraid or incapable of expressing emotions due to the way you've been brought up and the fact that it isn't the social norm? Sounds like you need to make an online community tho it's not irl as you said but community is community.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 05:33 AM
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I have never watched a match of anything in my life so please help me out here. I get that women are not as good as men and that but like why don't you want to watch it. Is it really that bad?
/r/MensRights01/02/24 05:22 AM
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Yes I mentioned that in a further reply I'm pretty sure where I live (UK) it's entirely legal to be a sex worker and to buy one. Brothel owners, and pimps however are not. It's odd that it isn't the same for the US and Canada. Although since a safe place isn't legal to own, obviously there is a higher risk of sex work related crimes. But my neighbour is a sex worker and I know a few more and their brothels have operated for a long time. I don't think it is a high priority for police.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 04:56 AM
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I dont think you can really make a case on a victim for not running away, just like you can't with women with abusive partners really and most of the time they don't run to the authorities immediately. And even so they could turn around and say they were threatened if they left. But yes it is definitely wrong to punish one and not the other. I can't really speak too much on it since as far as I'm aware it is legal to be a sex worker and to pay for a sex worker in the UK. The only thing that is i…
/r/MensRights01/02/24 02:02 AM
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You have to remember that sex workers can definitely be victims, it's a shady trade and if they need more workers then they probably will scout out young girls and lull them into the work. But you're right that it isn't always the case. I don't know much but I would take a guess that it's hard to distinguish the victims and the women choosing to be sex workers. If they started arresting them I'm sure they'd all claim it was non-consensual. How can the system prove it? Whereas the people buying, …
/r/MensRights01/02/24 01:02 AM
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"History is written by the victors" That's why you don't see these articles fling around
/r/MensRights31/01/24 09:44 PM
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I hate how true it is, but the worst thing is when you check their bios when they speak out about it. They are ALWAYS selling something, like those stupid self defense sticks. Fear mongering for profit and it's sad.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 01:58 PM
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Tiktok is fucking horrid, my page was either filled with pro anorexic content or someone selling defense items against men, they were all pink and fluffy too. Like wtf?
/r/MensRights28/01/24 02:56 PM
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This. It's about the actors skill and separating them literally from the art. You don't get mad about an actor winning just because they played the role as Joseph Stalin or Adolf Hitler, because your not celebrating them you celebrate the actor 🤣
/r/MensRights27/01/24 04:51 PM
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I mean who doesn't want this? To be financially cared for and all you have to do is clean? I'd accept but I dont feel entitled to it, which I think is an important aspect. It really irritates me seeing women online flaunt their rich lifestyle when they've never had to do anything, and all they can do is moan or act like it's tough. Its jealousy I know that, but it's one of those things where someone has it perfect and all they seem to wanna do is ruin it. I don't care if I become traditional or …
/r/MensRights27/01/24 02:32 AM
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Im a woman and I say whats worse an only fans grifter who gives awareness to men's rights or a girlfriend/wife who gets all the money in the world from her partner and bitches about men all the time? I'd rather her get money for saying something that's right on a large platform than something vile and wrong. Now who wants my only fans special deal? Only worth your entire wage!
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:18 PM
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I found the concept funny when I first watched it tbh Partners are allowed obviously to make fun of each other as long as it's mutual. It's up to both parties if they want to share it online. I do agree that the comments are (as usual) out of touch on the videos. "It's 'weaponised incompetence'", no it's just missing a life skill or not having done something once more over to get it.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 02:12 PM
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Woah that's actually really cool. Hormones are absolutely crazy to learn about. Our processes are so much more in depth that what we originally believe. I notice Robert sapolsky has a few books, more noticeably his determined book about science and free will. That is super up my alley, so thanks I'm definitely going to get this when I can!
/r/MensRights14/11/23 03:32 PM
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"keep taking up space" 😂
/r/MensRights14/11/23 10:55 AM
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Yes I think you're right. I also have noticed the push that women seem to have towards more soft featured men. Of course having a type is good and all but my general thought was that women liked the sort of hypermasculine men. I'm not too long coming off of schooling and I know my female friends seemed to go for these types (more so as in celebrity crushes) but I always assumed it was a phase. I didn't understand what you meant by the pill at first, although after searching around, that is crazy…
/r/MensRights14/11/23 02:34 AM
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I think you might be thinking too much on a general scale like inner workings of the body and such. Im not the smartest cookie in the jar but my first thought reading this was the possibility of race being connected. We already know that certain facial features come from certain areas of the world. I mean is it possible that maybe as individuals we have evolutionary lines from our literal ancestors on what race we preferred and then from then on the facial features found in such races that are c…
/r/MensRights13/11/23 07:56 PM
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Ah ok I see what you mean that's quite interesting actually. I still personally wouldnt call it on par with a teenage boys stupidity and aggression. The testosterone after all is still lowering in women after already being at least 700 Ng/DL lower than an adult mans in terms of an adult women before menopause (I could not find any stats on testosterone at perimenopausal periods in women nor a pubescent boys so for the sake of me not searching hours we know pubescent boys will be slightly higher …
/r/MensRights13/11/23 07:45 PM
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That sounds more like a typical sociology class, where is the psychology in that? I would hate to do the study on that, my psychology teacher loved letting us go our own way into thinking about studies. But this sounds stupid because it already sounds one sided. Psychology is rarely ever one sided, because there can always be another perspective. Sounds like someone isn't equipped to teach properly based off of this. Psychology should be about mental disorders and discussing human behaviour. May…
/r/MensRights13/11/23 01:11 PM
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Yes I was thinking this as well. It just turns into a whole big "how can we override men". Blaming so called toxic masculinity on men's issues. And then it will be how to teach men on reducing sexual assault and rape attacks. And that will be it. Either that or all these ministers will be transgender.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 11:13 AM
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I don't normally watch Piers but he is absolutely right. Why is it so wrong to have both? Why are feminists so against it, I mean Piers literally sat there listing and listing real men's issues and statistics which I can say I am fully behind, but supposedly the men we already have in authority are doing that. Yeah looks like it huh. We need to stop letting people on twitter have opinions, they have the most brain dead opinions I have ever witnessed. Literally unfathomable ideas about anything a…
/r/MensRights13/11/23 11:10 AM
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I didn't claim that she had no idea but the articles literally say that the footage shown (and the young woman victim had said too) that the caller instructed nix to stop before anyone came back in the room. And therefore nix and the woman would back away or whatever and she would put the apron back on. That is just what articles have said. I'm not claiming it's the truth it's just what I've read. Idc woman or man if summers was only involved in strip searching and not the dancing or oral sex (w…
/r/MensRights12/11/23 11:49 PM
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It depends where it was shared. Have you tried contacting any admins of the group (assuming it's in a community type group). Explain the situation and so on.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 10:09 PM
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Idk if I'd say that, it is literally sometimes mistaken for early dementia in terms of "stupidity" or confusion. I'm not aware on how you can call the aggression the same if the hormones are completely different because that is the main change in both of them. "Crazy" teenage boys go through quite a high increase of testosterone. Perimenopausal women go through a reduction in estrogen, progesterone and testosterone. I may be wrong but if you have data to suggest it's the same I'd love to know.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 03:24 PM
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Okay that's kind of funny and cool that you can see it. In the grand scheme of space junk a tool box is indeed tiny compared to what NASA has left orbiting the earth. "around 23,000 objects larger than 10 cm and about 100 million pieces of debris larger than 1 mm" Additionally Apollo 11 had left over 106 items on the moon and literally made a trash site on the moon. I think NASA don't really have the right to call a tool box a slip in comparison to what they have done and what they are ultimatel…
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:35 PM
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But the article I had heard didn't describe penetrating her vagina but it did say she had to perform oral sex. And also it is said that donne summers had only commited the act of stripping her down and that she left nix with her (which is her second fault). Donne summers supposedly had no idea about the dancing and oral sex that nix had made the woman do. It was only until she had watched the camera footage that she knew what had happened. It was something about the caller making sure that every…
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:23 PM
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Exactly. Business is business and I bet they'd never pull anything like that ever again. It'd be funny how quickly they'd let this crumble and really showing they don't care. Just marketing to the majority.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:01 PM
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I don't get it, what are they "rallying" for? It might be bad translation but it makes it sound like it's supposed to actually be women's history in science and around ETH. But what can you rally about for that? What can they even talk about? Why does that make the entirety of science female?
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:58 PM
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Well either way it's up to you how you see me. I don't see anything wrong with it in some comments because another perspective is nice and sometimes it's a learning experience for me to be told that because of this I'm seeing it this way when in fact it's not. I have different experiences because I'm a woman and that is a fact. Sometimes I feel like sharing it and sometimes I don't.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:45 PM
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It's not needed out in public, you're right. Sports clothes definitely is an odd thing to parade around in. Some women that do might like the attention it brings. Which begs another question. Is it alright if a woman wears it for the attention or are you more concerned that men can't do it without looking weird? Are women really to blame if the market for gym wear is just filled with these clothes? If you're a beginner and don't know what to wear you'd typically go with what the rest are wearing…
/r/MensRights12/11/23 03:38 AM
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Damn well said. Trust doesn't matter anyway, if they didn't specify their gender then it wouldn't be an issue because it's a good message. Anyone could be superficial here.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:45 AM
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Some posts (or comments rather) I say it and some I don't. I almost feel it an obligation here because I want to be discounted for being a woman, because I don't understand a lot of the issues faced. I don't want to give dating advice if I haven't struggled the same way or give advice sexually and so on. I don't want to give the wrong advice if me being a woman is clouding my judgement in a way I'm not aware. I do of course want to be told if I'm being an idiot. I've had many people argue me her…
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:27 AM
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Because it's literally written in the post? His wife is literally going through that and that's why there's no sex. If you were trying to have a general conversation that's fine but it doesn't seem that way when your replying under this specific post about his wife and perimenopause.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:06 AM
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I can understand what you're saying but she's going through perimenopause, I'd say in my opinion that that's a bit of a different scenario. Perimenopause is nasty and can change a woman physically especially in the genital regions and libido. It's completely normal and understandable if a woman doesn't want to have sex. There are ways to sometimes solve it but that doesn't mean to say it isn't hard for a woman to do. I've known my own mother go through it and it's like I lost her. She came back …
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:02 AM
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Idk know what red pilled is but if you think it's made you a better man then well done and well done for standing up for yourself. Your wife is lucky and you have every right to god damn boast. Jesus me and my partner have been trying and looking for ways to even earn 100k between us. And I feel guilty about it because that's all I want, but my boyfriend is not so inclined to it as me and would happily sit in a lower income. But even as that he has admitted to trying and he is going out and tryi…
/r/MensRights12/11/23 12:56 AM
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Definitely. Do not make the same mistakes I did with them either. Don't leave out any detail even if you think they're embarrassing or horrible. And don't be afraid to ask for someone else if you feel like they're giving you the wrong advice. But you definitely sounds like you could do with the added help, just try to stick to it.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 12:21 AM
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I think maybe you're right, maybe you are going through a sort of emotionless patch or a numb patch. It's not an uncommon thing to happen to a person. But persistent numbness is probably a sign of mental disorders (usually depression). Depression doesn't have to be sadness it can be a lack of feeling too. Don't get too hung up on it because it sounds like you're trying to force it back and prove to yourself that maybe you haven't lost it. You need to get professional help because in this case it…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 02:01 PM
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Tbh I completely ignore any statistic like that now, there's always another statistic that says different but the places posting them don't input any data on how it was conducted. So I don't bother looking because it's never there. I don't doubt the statistic was pushed up but I hate it because of how believable it was because I myself do believe that a lot of women have went through it. And so when you base it off your own personal experience it seems more common and it makes the statistic beli…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 01:54 PM
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Try not to take it to heart. You don't know what that girls boyfriend is saying to her or what both of their ideas are of how a relationship should work (like her not talking to other guys). Or if not she's just crazy and probably not worth holding too dear to you. However I will say this which no one else has mentioned. Your friend shouldn't have ever needed to prevent you from doing anything. If you feel like that ever again you must talk to someone or try to book yourself in somewhere. And lo…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 02:23 AM
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My sexual education taught us this also but there is such little understanding in (especially) female orgasms. I think some women are incapable but I also think that creating this stigma that its the "man's fault" will ultimately end up in a sort of spiral situation. I think women during intercourse or foreplay need to clear their mind because if you get doubts, anxiety or you focus too much, you lose what's happening and it gets very dull very quickly. If you go in expecting your partner to be …
/r/MensRights09/11/23 04:02 PM
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I've never really watched porn myself, seen it online but never sought it out. I don't understand the addiction particularly but I think if you begin to really struggle with it, you should find help. In my opinion no fap is kinda rubbish, I think it should be a month of trying without porn but not without masturbation. Learning to try something else out without using porn as a means to do it? I feel like no fap is just going cold turkey and that's probably why it doesn't work for you. idk that m…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 12:34 PM
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Living traditional is hard now even if you have a partner. Or at least this is how it feels in the UK, it's just not affordable. I do think of moving to places which support this more but getting there is also hard. We've completely decimated the ability to live traditionally financially and romantically.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 10:48 AM
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Oh no I don't doubt that at all ! When I say emotionally immature I'm not limiting the actual age, physical and emotional maturity are completely separate.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 10:42 AM
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I suppose that is something I'm not used to in the UK or my region 😂 but I know I saw it popping up from tiktok. But I still think that one is a little bit more ridiculous if the rule is that it's to protect women from cars. The idea is nice but not the reasoning for me. I also think we should do more of these things but now you just want to avoid everyone, because you meet more and more horrid individuals. One of my favourite things that I'd love to do is bake for my neighbours. Unfortunately I…
/r/MensRights08/11/23 07:34 PM
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More word play from the news "engaging in a sex act" wtf But why did they have to use a photo of her smiling like that, it's disgusting.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 06:22 PM
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Didn't know who she was and I've checked a few videos and her account. She sells audio erotica for men which is probably why she is "progressive" for them. And all the man hate and practically no firing at women, is because she knows damn well she's on a female opinion dominated platform. She's doing it for their engagement. Whether she actually hates men, I do not know. But damn does it look like she's playing into her business, trying to get both sides at the same time to profit from. Or at le…
/r/MensRights08/11/23 05:42 PM
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I like the footpath rule as a woman, but not for the cars. I just feel tucked away from people and the chaos outside. But if he don't walk that side, then he doesn't. Ive never said it to him, but it is a nice feeling to walk on the outer side of the path. We are talking about a "rule" that came from tiktok. They all read weird ass fanfiction over there. Their boyfriend probably doesn't love them if they don't have vampire fangs too ☹️
/r/MensRights08/11/23 05:23 PM
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Emotionally immature women do. Not all. Finding any decent person at all is hard to find now. People need to learn to talk, not argue and scream.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 05:15 PM
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Pretty much. And as well as "feeling" like it, you can legally change all your legal documents into said gender. No one will take advantage of that surely...
/r/MensRights08/11/23 11:24 AM
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Yes which I also don't get why a few months back it was popular for women to talk about having it done like it was some amazing alternative to condoms. Some very cruel way to get at men over abortion rights. Not the best way to go for it.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 12:19 PM
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I found the movement whilst taking my a level exams and writing my own reports for biology and obviously differences of men and woman. I found it odd that many of men's medical issues were not talked about and very hard to find although they were very common. Especially when my research moved onto the mental side and more specifically suicide there was nothing at the time but I do believe there's alot more now. I stayed here when I read depressing posts off young lads struggling and I still read…
/r/MensRights15/09/23 12:04 PM
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Interesting though because it is also hinted that some violence towards women can go ignored too. Id love to see a statistic but I know that isn't very possible. Alot of people tend to avoid confrontation or believe the next person will do something (bystander effect). But does the bystander effect change when it's a man or woman wherein it's less likely to happen? Idk but it'd be interesting to see but I do definitely think that men are obviously alot more inclined to help more specifically if …
/r/MensRights15/09/23 11:44 AM
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No because alot of women still want protectors and providers even while pushing about toxic masculinity. The best type of masculinity I've ever seen are those who don't fall for this shit.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 11:31 AM
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Idk anything about tubal ligation but for god sakes if someone is trying to get you to undergo this procedure or is telling you the supposed "benefits" of itz DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. I've said it here before and I'll say it again. There are huge "professional" pages spouting absolute nonsense about vasectomies and I've seen plenty of other people say stupid stuff about it too. The amount of times I've heard that its "reversible" as one of the pros is actually sickening. This is…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 11:34 AM
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It's ok, I'm sure talking has helped you get everything out on the table. Again I can't really give you advice or knowledge on what's happening but do try to take a bit of my advice and keep yourself from getting to the point of exhaustion and map out the days and time you spend trying and give yourself time when you're not. Set some time aside for yourself, talk to someone maybe and I'm sure there are some online resources for ideas for how to calm yourself down and get right back to yourself. …
/r/MensRights12/09/23 05:15 PM
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I cant give you much good advice because I'm a woman and I don't know how to romance women but I think you're only making it worse for yourself. Youre changing yourself when you don't want to which is stress enough on you as is, and then when it doesn't work that's elevated it further. You shouldn't get yourself stuck in that kind of cycle. I'd personally suggest getting into a good cycle. Do what your normally do when trying to find someone or try something different, idk. But don't do it consi…
/r/MensRights12/09/23 03:24 PM
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It's not the suffering you appreciate its the opportunity suffering gives you to move on or learn. You should be proud of that, it's very easy to adopt a very different mindset after going through certain struggles and yet you chose to keep going. I haven't really ever struggled like I've seen others struggled but ik that when I went through mental health problems that I had sort out on my own, I appreciated such simple and small things when I got myself out. It sounds silly but my greatest prid…
/r/MensRights12/09/23 03:10 PM
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People that say that really couldn't give a damn. It insults men and has become a large buzz word even if they don't understand what it means. It's all child's play, you make a point, I call you a name and laugh over what you have to say, I win. It's almost similar to calling someone a "retard", which is supposed to mean that someone is intellectually disabled of some form. Now it's used on someone you argue with or hate, or even used as a joke. Incel has changed meaning to the people that use i…
/r/MensRights12/09/23 02:53 PM
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Could you actually be a bit more clear on where women's struggles are invalidated here, I'm not trying to make it sound like there is none but I just want to know what that is. Also when you say that you want the sub to stop being men Vs women where do you draw the line? Can a man speak out about how all the women in his life are being misandrist and disgusting or talking about the mass amounts of false accusations created by women? Or practically talking about anything that can be deemed as unf…
/r/MensRights12/09/23 01:12 PM
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Tiktok is disgusting. I'll admit I still have it myself but only for art inspiration because the search is alot better than Instagram. I see blatant misandry to extreme levels, a mom reading a book about consent to her 4 year old son or whatever so he "doesn't become a monster". Comment sections like a cult commenting "smash" under a 10 year old girls post. And then even more of those comment under the mass amount of thirst posts there are on there. And in my experience jam packed full of get su…
/r/MensRights12/09/23 12:39 PM
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It's not even that, what is saying that going to achieve, serial killer or not. She either shouldn't have checked through Instagram or just tell the truth as to why she was actually looking through it. Saying stuff like "checking you're not a serial killer" does seem to be a trend that women are using like a way to joke about men she's dating. There are many ways to keep yourself safe as a man or woman when dating someone you don't know. Saying it aloud definitely does not help.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 12:25 PM
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You can't be wrong about feeling a certain way if someone insults you, that's ridiculous. Do you really want a girl that's going to do shit like that? Its very clear her reason was not because of this, she just wanted to snoop around, and then blatantly lie about it. I can guarantee that her and her friends wanted to find something to laugh about, which is something I've seen many girls do. Trust me I'm a female and I've had many of my friends try to joke about their partners with me. It's just …
/r/MensRights12/09/23 12:19 PM
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There is nothing wrong with defending women's rights. The thing that you don't want to do is to blindly follow everyone and support every "right". Think for yourself on what people are disgruntled about and think about any other side to it, so you can figure out whether you want to join specific causes. The main issue here is that not all women are nice and it's alot easier now for women to take advantage of men just simply because of how accepted it is. Nothing is wrong in defending rights that…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 12:23 PM
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Of course misandry exists, the word must mean something and there is almost always a second side to anything. Even if men weren't treated badly today, it would still be viable to call someone who was blatantly being sexist towards men misandrist ( that's what they're being!). You don't start excusing behaviour cus it's "less likely". The people that spout this are all the same. They all think the same petty and childish way. They've been taught by the others in with them how to argue in a way th…
/r/MensRights02/06/23 08:11 PM
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Ive read it to be true that men do have a 24 hour cycle. Highest testosterone in the morning lowest in the evening. In the perfect situation I believe a heightened testosterone would in fact help in exercise by helping your muscles as that is a core function of testosterone but I have seen little studies that suggest you do it in the morning where it is high. Although a quick look online seems to point out that morning exercises would be better to do although I honestly can't say that's true. In…
/r/MensRights01/06/23 01:29 PM
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Woman hating? I'm getting so annoyed trying to think up how this could be woman hating, because it just isn't. A wonderful woman who assessed her own children feeling secure her daughter's would be most likely helped and that her sons were not. AND SHE STEPPED UP!
/r/MensRights29/05/23 12:23 PM
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This is a perfect way to put this!
/r/MensRights28/05/23 02:14 PM
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People that say that to just get ahead in being a victim are just attention seekers and probably lack the empathy to understand anyone else's struggles. Don't ever try to outcompete them, it's a fruitless attempt. I just came out of my worst period I've ever experienced and to a younger female it's quite horrifying to experience abnormal periods in fear something is wrong. I had no help from the doctors and as a result I had to endure 23 days with it (from the usual 6 days). The only reason I'm …
/r/MensRights28/05/23 01:10 PM
1

Yeah it is absurd. The video didn't prove anything at all. As a woman who does play games (for some reason this sentence made me cringe), which can sometimes be competitive or just chat based, I've watched alot of people become racist and homophobic or whatever to any random guy on the game, even if they just speak a word. It's everywhere. I do however believe that women are more likely to be offended or upset by such things online. I can watch my partner laugh and brush off everything said to h…
/r/MensRights27/05/23 12:45 PM
1

I wasn't aware of this, I was quietly thinking about how I knew someone who went through horrific menopause too, but didn't get any help as she is much older and probably didn't have the same opportunities for help as she could've now. Glad to know there is something though because I'd never wish any of it on anyone, neither the physical or mental aspect.
/r/MensRights26/01/23 03:13 PM
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Idk the nature of it but perhaps it's community driven in the sense that a few people reported the women's joke on bot and they just haven't bothered to update the men's as good enough. I went on it myself and duplicated the question and one time it came up and used the women's joke answer. However the women joke line was consistent from what I knew at least. So yeah I'm not sure how to feel about this one. Perhaps it's just a little inconsistent fault from what I could tell but idk anything abo…
/r/MensRights15/01/23 08:26 PM
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I actually have a story on one of my male teachers in my secondary school history class. He was extremely young for a teacher I'd say he was early 20's. No idea if he experienced what was said in this post (but I would honestly presume so) but he did literally experience forms of harassment from his own students. He was an incredibly nice and fun teacher, never really did anything wrong. The classes I sat with him, had many females in there that constantly made very rude, very sexual remarks. So…
/r/MensRights09/01/23 03:27 PM
6

Ex-feminist in the innocent way of believing the terms was being used for protecting women's rights? Yes I was never like feminists that sought out advantages and double standards. Once I learnt that women of my younger generation were abusing power coming off of the viral me too movement, I began to look further. Seeing my female friends very openly abuse their boyfriends in front of me and then when they broke up took up rape claims that they would then forget about a few months later, really …
/r/MensRights07/01/23 08:59 PM
3

As an outsider, America seems like it has little protection for their children.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 12:26 AM
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I'm sorry this has happened to you. People need to learn that they can't just mess with their children's bodies unless it is medically necessary. Teach parents the truth about hygiene in intact children, and the truth of circumcision.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 06:31 PM
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After a quick search, yes he technically can. The only requirement is that he would need to get a GRC (gender recognition certificate). They would go off of this rather than the assigned gender at birth. I think a GRC requires at least 2 years of identifying as the gender and a gender dysphoria diagnosis to obtain.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 02:18 PM
2

Oops got that the other round lol. For men it's 11.11 and women is 13.54 to complete under
/r/MensRights06/01/23 02:07 PM
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Standards are there for a reason, if you can't do the test, work harder so you can make it. Some guys can already barely make the test, they also have to do the work. Men aren't gifted tickets to get in from the get go. My partner wants to go into the RAF in the UK, the fitness test for him to get in is different for women to, and I have looked at it myself, it's not just 1 or 2 less. For example press-ups in the fitness test is 10 less than men, the 2.5km run is 2 whole minutes less too. Edit: …
/r/MensRights06/01/23 01:54 AM
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Usually for relationships my advice is always communication, I don't like telling people that my opinion is they should just outright leave. But seriously leave. You don't deserve that, it's blatant abuse. A relationship should always have respect and she clearly does not respect you. No one should be forced into sex, no one should be punished for not having sex and no one should ever be gaslit into having sex.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 10:43 PM
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I don't think that is too solid of evidence. It's two completely different cycles after all. Different types of hormones too. Also hormonal changes in women are not exclusive to days when the lining has shed, it's a monthly cycle where the hormones change throughout the days within the month. Men and women are different and it's hard to determine who has it worse and what not, because we can't swap bodies to experience it and our science is not fully knowing. People should stop trying to compare…
/r/MensRights04/01/23 01:07 AM
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Feeling alone is common for alot of men, I hope you can seek comfort when you talk here, talking can be such relief to just know someone heard you or someone relates. You don't sound like scum, good people get wronged unfortunately. You might give up on being consistently and intentionally good, but you still will never be scum. You wouldn't try at all if you ever were! Seek help or at least try to practice good mindfulness, everyone's different but there's surely something that will help lift y…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 04:04 AM
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I get the feeling you seem to think your not a good person by your title. You didn't want to be here with us mens rights scum but now you have succumbed to it? That was my first impression. Obviously a bit more exaggerated so you can understand my point lol. Alot of people think all of us are women haters or something negative but the majority of us are not. This sub is standing to help you, you have not fallen in bad ranks, you just obviously need help and a place to vent to. But I hope your ci…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 03:12 AM
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Haha it was more of me trying to come up with stuff generally and it was more aimed at relationships between men and women. My guy has held the door for me more than I have, it's something that he will purposely think about before I've even noticed the door lol. I couldn't tell you the answer to your question though, I personally try for everyone as long as they're not an awkward length away.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 01:49 AM
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I think they mean traditional gestures like opening the door for women and so on.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 07:09 PM
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I want to laugh but I just can't knowing how serious that lady is.. If my guy were to do a strip dance in front of me, as a woman I can confirm that, that would be sexual. I wish women like this would stop pretending like they don't get aroused or have their own sexual desires or at least stop trying to put other women in with them. Sure women don't have the same sex drives averagely but it still exists (or at least as I have previously read, I'm all open to be wrong about the difference).
/r/MensRights02/01/23 06:58 PM
1

Some people lead very angry lives and since it's socially accepted, it's a very easy way to vent it out and project onto others.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 02:11 PM
4

Are you mad because you feel more lied to or solely because of the information? And try to think more about the now, this woman has chosen to be intimate with you and only you in this relationship right now after all. Surely that is quite important too? You're okay to not like it, and it's your decision whether you want to end it completely with this woman. But my suggestion would be too try and get a clearer head before making decisions first.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 01:21 PM
4

Hitting your partner should not ever been normalised, especially in the form of a marketing campaign.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 09:03 PM
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No I agree that I also couldn't excuse any rapist, but I do think it's important that we understand them more so that it can be tackled before hand, especially in cases where it isn't motivated by mental health issues. And yes it's sad that men are judged by whether there are a virgin or not and if they are a virgin they're treated as scum. It's even worse when you find men that are unable to find any partner as it is, not even adding onto the fact of how they might think of you if you were sexu…
/r/MensRights06/10/22 12:37 PM
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Unfortunately they see it as undermining and they shouldn't really. It's to make a point that alot of men do it and in their eyes that's every man they encounter and that they are victims to this. The reality is that men who commit rape either have a mental health issue or have been in an environment surrounded by very toxic beliefs around how to be "a man" and get with women. To me this doesn't sound like an average guy. We should not make rape seem like it's normal by putting it with normal me…
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:06 AM
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In some aspects I can understand because I'm sure there are rapists out there that blend very well and that's not really an issue to me. But then you have the opposite problem where if it's an average everyday guy, you're going to live a very unhealthy life with this obsession of every man is out to get you. Then you have the men who it affects, no one likes to be judged before their character, especially over something they can't control. You're allowed to be wary of people under certain circum…
/r/MensRights06/10/22 10:43 AM
1

I've never been sexually abused long term, but I have been sexually assaulted and I have experienced pedophilic teachers especially when I was the only female taking on computer studies at the time of high school. It's not about empathy and kindness, I am kind to those around me and I can guarantee they all will take advantage of it one way or another. People are like this. And at the time, I did not want to say anything. One friend did it and pleaded with me not to say anything and I didn't. An…
/r/MensRights05/10/22 03:32 PM
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I literally don't know what to be more annoyed at, it's a gold mine of instability and childish remarks. Not the type of face you want for women's rights is it?
/r/MensRights04/10/22 11:00 AM
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This is just proof that these types of people don't think. Also wasn't that statistic debunked? I'd consider myself to have been sexually assaulted in the past but I still think that number is alot higher especially considering the way the study defined sexual assault. Do they not think in what the consequences to this type of mindset leads to? Imagine if all 90 % of these women adapt to the mindset of "I hate all men". Alot of people would take it differently of course but to associate men so n…
/r/MensRights04/10/22 10:37 AM
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In my area I am most terrified by other women and I have my reasons to believe a woman would probably not be the best type of people to go to for help. I had an older woman drag me to her car when I was in my first year of secondary school, I've been woken up every night in the early hours to screeching women fighting in the streets, women who don't even live here who turn up in their cars full speaker to fight, women who marry drug dealers to get out of debt, I'm scared to walk past the one wom…
/r/MensRights03/10/22 10:25 AM
1

But isn't the split fairly close to equal? I do agree that it isn't sexist but looking it up quickly now it appears to be 48% female and 52% male.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 12:56 PM
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No, not really. I'm a woman I play games and I've played a load of games where there just are no women in sight and it is mostly strategy games based on real events of war and battles. When that occurs, that's realism and the games are still fun and it's not sexist. Other games do tend to make overly sexual female characters or customisation options but you don't have to play them and for the most part when I've seen games that have this, most of them seem to have a balance where there is the gr…
/r/MensRights01/10/22 12:23 PM
2

I think that could become difficult to be honest. We would still have biases in women committing crimes and men committing crimes. At that point, what we could call an equal crime could not be labelled as such. If a woman with all her might attacks someone I still believe that assault will be seen as less so than a man giving it his all. They probably end up with different results due to strength but they both had the same level of aggression. And in that case the worst assault a man commit can …
/r/MensRights01/10/22 11:32 AM
0

I did not think abortions could be carried out legally at the 3rd trimester . The only viable and legal abortions at this stage are of which the pregnancy is a life risk, which wouldn't make sense in this case or at least as I know of in the UK and I have no idea for the US. That is why I put the 24th week as that is what I personally know as the legal and obtainable cut off (as well as my own stand point, I don't think abortions should be available after this point unless necessary but that's a…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 02:31 PM
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Yes I agree, there should be consequences for the mother to conceal it. Just a question of how can it be made official that the pregnancy was revealed, do we start signing and dating medical papers? Also, I wonder how it would turn out if a woman had one of those "invisible and undetectable, until you give birth in a toilet" types of pregnancy?
/r/MensRights30/09/22 12:01 PM
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I don't see how you could laugh at it, I got to that part of the interview and teared up myself and it was a real depressing moment. He is right about it, why in the case of males is the marginalised not given a voice. He summed it up perfectly. You'll see feminist's trying to tear it down because as he said in his own interview, his voice is being ripped and clipped with no context. They hear the word incel and his support of it, and they rage like wild fire. The word incel has become so common…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 11:12 AM
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I agree but there should obviously be a cut off where you can't relinquish it such as the 24 week mark or just before perhaps. You wouldn't want to be a woman and keep the baby for the man to just leave when you can no longer receive an abortion.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 11:04 PM
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You can be whatever you want to women (of course within reason) but I'd just remember that what your putting out there to women and what type of women you might end up attracting long term. No one is expecting you to stop the rain for a woman you're on a date with but you shouldn't do the complete opposite and come off as an ass. If you're not just in it for sex, try specifying it to them and when they try and gaslight you, you can comeback with what you first off stated. It is hard and there's …
/r/MensRights29/09/22 11:00 PM
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A term to define actual toxic traits that are deemed more masculine such as violence, dominance, and repressed feelings. All these traits harm the individual commiting it as well as those around them. Additionally a term that has been hijacked and deemed without a real term by certain people and feminists, as it is used for impact (and not for its definition) in order to undermine a man's arguement and discussion around feminism (sometimes not even then).
/r/MensRights29/09/22 03:33 PM
2

You know what this person is half right (about the medical part) Within the medical sector people in general feel like they have been under or misdiagnosed. Sometimes this is just lack of medical knowledge but sometimes later on they finally get their diagnosis. I've heard about lack of female testers and yes it would cause alot of issues when women start taking these medications. Additionally we have a lack of understanding the menstrual cycle, not knowing what's right and wrong and sometimes p…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 03:08 PM
1

Oh that sounds really painful and I'm sorry to hear about that. Though, I couldn't say how painful a circumcision is but I think that if consent was needed in the future, that would begin to be a factor for that decision. But I'm sure if an individual really did want to have that procedure, there would be some prescribed pain killers before or after to ease it. But it is a procedure where it can go wrong in many different ways although these are just further factors men should be able to conside…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 01:25 PM
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Yeah I mean your allowed to like it and do as you please, I just think alot of people are mistaking you for advocating it wholly, or just not understanding your take on it. It's quite a sensitive issue after all.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 12:39 PM
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Yes but you have to think about how irreversible it is as a whole. Spending a few years to get circumcised or never being able to reverse it? Alot of people will agree that the former (edit because I mistakenly wrote latter) is the better option, even if they would want to get circumcised at a later date until at an age where consent is possible, because it gives everyone their own time to decide and choose for themselves.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 10:34 AM
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The figures might not be confirmed and this is the recent information they have on how many females? I dunno I just find it odd how disproportionate the post makes it seem, so I doubt it's 640 men. But I am open to be disproven about it don't get me wrong. Even then it's still pretty sad that men aren't included in the title. Alot of men have stepped up to it and I think it pretty inspiring.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 06:22 PM
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Some children can go through puberty very early on in childhood, so ovulation is possible in some quite rare cases for a 5 year old. Very unfortunate and evil.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 12:59 AM
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The only derailing I see is the original title. Taking away the fact that an innocent has suffered at the hands of such an evil person, just to preach at men. This is the highest form of derailing I've seen included in these comments. Can't they just be respectful and do it elsewhere instead of using such a personal post of a victim at least?!
/r/MensRights26/09/22 12:55 AM
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I'm really sorry to hear about that, you deserve support and I hope you can find a level of peace for your mental health. You don't deserve to be mistreated for such things that were never your fault, some people are just so backwards sometimes. I hope you can enjoy your day or any day for that matter!
/r/MensRights25/09/22 01:10 PM
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I am no man but from what I've heard/read, the act of circumcision obviously comes at its own risks within the procedure. There are a lot of risks, some more rare than others but there are many out there. But the biggest thing that's more personal to men later in life is really just the loss of the foreskin of course. The foreskin is full of never endings and is known to be a huge erogenous area of the penis. So basically a loss of pleasure/feeling during whatever you do for pleasure. Plus alot …
/r/MensRights24/09/22 11:27 PM
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Yes let's treat men like pets and "punish" them when they don't adhere to my beliefs and rules! This will cure the world surely!
/r/MensRights22/09/22 07:54 PM
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This video is horrific but do you know what's worse? The amount of comments detailing their own similar experiences is worse. Where is the education on the help these men can receive as well as help in identifying abuse. Some men and women really don't believe a man can be abused because they're a man! We need to start trusting men more and give out better justice no matter what the gender is. It shouldn't even need to be said. I just can't believe people are asking why he didn't give her the sp…
/r/MensRights22/09/22 07:51 PM
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Wow the article literally just saying the guys who got offended by it have no sense of humour and don't understand double standards. No I think they do understand double standards, no one said they don't think women get shamed for body size and other bodily appearances. But the real double standard is the fact that you can only make jokes in this topic about men and not ever women. Do they even know what the words they type mean?. But yeah, imagine asking female accounts to re-enter their weight…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 12:23 PM
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If the op wants to do this, then he can, what am I to say. No it doesn't suit my opinion but I never claimed to not like what he was doing, just that I can see why it was controversial. To me he seemed to think very low of his partner and that to me was probably the main reason why he didn't get answers. Additionally borrowing a car and borrowing jewelry to me at least, is a very different standing thing, for I have never witnessed anyone "borrow" someone's jewelry (not to mention for a long per…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 12:10 PM
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It's not that though. It's the hate he seems to give women sometimes. As I stated I didn't mind with what he said on some points, but taking on male validation then slating women is never a good strategy for mens rights. It just attracts more hate to mra's, by making us all seem misogynist. Main audiences don't matter because when you get men quoting him, women will most definitely pin him as a misogynist whether he really is or not. Again why would the men's right movement want this kind of fla…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 12:06 AM
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No, I don't like sneako as much because sometimes his videos seem to add nothing to any subject. Some videos were just calling out women for saying they were attractive or women who didn't know basic geography. Seemed very pointless to me especially without him explaining. If a woman did this I'd see it no different. I have little to no quarrels with him calling out double standards, the majority are true. I'm sorry if I have seemed to have offended you somehow though.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 12:02 AM
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I don't disagree with the fact that it does hurt, just the fact that their own adjectives and words made it out like medieval torture. If they'd have described it as well as you had, I wouldn't have a problem. Words like theirs scare people and a lot of women do it, I just don't want younger women to not go through with it because of these horror filled stories. And I don't know what it's like where you live but alot of women I've spoken to were offered different speculums, so that was a more pe…
/r/MensRights18/09/22 11:59 PM
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Yeah a stupid arguement. It's alot easier to create this kind of product as opposed to how to get a swab from your cervix without opening the vagina. With any equipment opening the vagina like that might be painful and uncomfortable, this is just an unfortunate truth. Additionally through looking it up, the reason why they don't use a numbing cream is not to cause discomfort to female patients, but it so as to not disrupt the test results. I have yet to have this test on myself, and I imagine I …
/r/MensRights18/09/22 06:30 PM
5

One of your comments explain that you will keep the ring after your present girlfriend has left, and then pass it to the next girlfriend you have, or at least along these lines of course.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 05:52 PM
5

I've seen a few posts that say that they feel like they are starting to feel unsettled towards women. This is not to say that they are pin point exact misogynists, just that I feel lingering too long here will depress you, even more so if they have also experienced alot of what this sub talks about. We definitely need more awareness and discussions around this, because these aren't bad people saying this, they just feel trapped in. I feel for them, since when you get stuck in a cycle of such bad…
/r/MensRights18/09/22 05:48 PM
1

Yes I also wondered this as I was typing, if you know the game then play into it. Only issue is that, well even if he is or isn't doing that for this purpose, it still sends alot of unnecessary hate to any MRA's way through association.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 05:42 PM
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Tbh I can see why there's a bit of controversy around it, I get where you're coming from but you just seem like you're already waiting for the next girl. Sounds like you have very little faith in your current partner from the way you write about the topic in the post itself, so why bother?
/r/MensRights18/09/22 05:36 PM
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To be honest I'm not really certain on that, again they just don't reach anyone, as they never receive any popularity. I've seen someone named sneako and he's quite similar to Tate but so far he's made some good points but you really have to take him with a pinch of salt. He really exclaims differences and double standards between men and women, but sometimes I feel some of his videos kind of really just target weird things women say, more than advocating the validation of men more. I've also se…
/r/MensRights18/09/22 01:59 PM
2

Yikes, that just sounds awful! I couldn't ever imagine wanting to ever do that, where's the respect? I don't get why it has to look nice for them though and I also don't really see the appeal to circumcised men specifically, neither have anything wrong with the appearance, it's so odd. And the urology part is definitely an alarming thing to hear, especially coming from a medical care background.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 01:44 PM
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I do wish the popularity would be shed on someone else with this whole view to make men feel more validated but unfortunately for someone like him, having some very odd and extreme views gains popularity fast. I don't like Tate but I've probably heard 2 good things he's said out of the thousands of recommended posts I've seen of him. But yeah he makes women look like trash in some of his videos. So thats a thumbs down for me because I'm not after a man's wealth, I'm not going to be a stay at hom…
/r/MensRights18/09/22 01:38 PM
4

I had a friend show me her "boyfriend" when we were like 14-15. Literally a picture of a fully grown man about in his 20's! But it was so common in my school, so bizarre and quite frightening.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 01:23 PM
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Under it there's a mod comment pinned to the top, that's preserved the original post
/r/MensRights17/09/22 09:30 AM
9

Yes I am too! The more the merrier!
/r/MensRights17/09/22 09:19 AM
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Take that back!
/r/MensRights16/09/22 12:46 AM
1

People shouldnt expect anything off anyone. If a woman thinks the guy should pay, she should discuss beforehand
/r/MensRights15/09/22 10:13 PM
1

God why is this not in sex ed?!
/r/MensRights15/09/22 10:11 PM
2

That does sound quite funny but I can only imagine the awkwardness, good remark too! I bet you're glad that one guy broke it up with the laughter though! I'd hate to imagine how long that interval of awkwardness would of continued.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 07:18 PM
1

That's awesome and yeah quite uncanny! You should totally go for it, and if you struggle, just do little steps at a time,that's what I do when I procrastinate lol! Good luck though, I wish you well.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 09:40 AM
2

I won't comment for you asked so I'll just say what I enjoy doing personally to maybe spark an idea. I enjoy more creative stuff as I'm sure most people do and I draw almost every day and my art caters towards aircraft and sometimes DND artwork (although I do this for my partner as I do not play it personally). Ive been playing guitar for about 4 years and I absolutely love it, and I think iron maiden songs are the most fun for me to play (although this is truly bias because I love iron maiden l…
/r/MensRights12/09/22 09:40 PM
1

Sure though I do have to warn you my memory is far from good lol. Essentially the post detailed a previous discussion the op had with a woman. The woman practically had said that her boyfriend said something to her along the lines of all men like underage girls and it conflicted her but she still wanted to be with him, as well as also claiming that she believed men do think like this and she blamed it on porn and some other thing which I don't recall. Although I can say it was hard to tell what …
/r/MensRights12/09/22 04:59 PM
1

I'd like to know what guys actually think of this type of porn because I for one don't feel to inclined to the nature of its contents as a female. To me it feels like if you want to watch a porn star that resembles a younger female like someone underaged, you could be substituting it for child pornography and I'm not too sure if that's the healthiest get around for that kind of urge. I'm sorry if that offends anyone but that is my take on it personally. I really would like to know other people's…
/r/MensRights12/09/22 03:15 PM
1

I am also within this age group (although near the older end) and I know exactly how you mean, although I've never directly experienced it, but I've seen it. I've seen my male friend's conversations on specific "dating" apps and they are just used for meaningless sex but the worst thing is, is the way they all speak to eachother. It's all degrading eachother and only sex. This isn't dating and I don't think people should try to use it as such, holding conversations with these people is definitel…
/r/MensRights12/09/22 02:57 PM
2

Well if you're so certain, I wish you good luck, just be vigilant!
/r/MensRights12/09/22 12:16 AM
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Narcissism is very twisted and really is a mental disorder, not just a small little trait that can be changed. It is not something that can be changed by the click of your fingers and only therapy can help in them dealing with their behaviours and outward look on reality. I just imagine getting twisted up in their world and trying to force the reality on them won't go as expected and could possibly lead to a worse situation my friend. Just wanted to put that out there because I wouldn't want thi…
/r/MensRights11/09/22 09:36 PM
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I've seen it to, doesn't It make you wonder though? If the only people that cant see the abuse taken place are women? It makes me wonder why they don't see it as abuse and is domestic violence against men higher than proposed? Honestly we need more education on violence against men as well as sexual assault while we're at it. It feels like both genders don't seem to remember the definition when a man takes a hit. Absolute insanity. The fact that women have the audacity to do this in the first pl…
/r/MensRights10/09/22 10:43 AM
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I'd hate to see how I would score on your scale man, I thought she was pretty... I guess my ratings are very different from yours lmao
/r/MensRights10/09/22 12:54 AM
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Yes I agree with this, and trying to change "your type" by going for women you wouldn't usually (as long as it's a good positive type!). Also expressing the fact that you're in it for a long connection is key. And also showing it in what you wear and the topics you talk about, when dating, not hooking up...dating. Can't say anything about education though, university was not my thing and didn't offer what I wanted!
/r/MensRights10/09/22 12:31 AM
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I think the reason does matter, recognising the root cause is the first step into fixing it. I'm just saying that I've experienced it for a long time. I could not toughen up from it, I had to undergo specific dietary needs and specific vitamins as well as exercise. it has caused me grave mental issues I could not control within myself, so from my own angle I can see it happening to other women with other symptoms. It doesn't mean it's an excuse buts it's a cause and there are ways to prevent the…
/r/MensRights08/09/22 10:59 PM
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Alot of people here want her to get out, but try talking to her about it with her. Try and put emphasis on the fact that you're more worried for her well being (I say this because I feel that it may anger her if she feels like you're attacking her). Sometimes hormones are a bit funky like this, I've experienced them and they can be rough. Hormones can also be out of balance and cause some issues like sever mood swings. Perhaps booking an appointment may help and recieving advice on how to balanc…
/r/MensRights08/09/22 10:14 PM
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Yes there are alot of misconceptions and just general lack of knowledge for alot of men. I don't understand why most education's have to sperate boys from girls, everyone should be in the know. I always tell my partner because I get quite depressive moods and just general exhaustion from it personally, so I mean it's better to let him know and he doesn't mind it. For women, getting past that feeling of shame or embarrassment is the first big step because alot of women were taught to hide it away…
/r/MensRights08/09/22 09:47 PM
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I hope he gets something good from it, I do feel for him. I still don't understand it, it wasn't like his role was about the act of having menstruation, it was to help the availability of the product. Which on his end doesn't exactly sound like he needed the knowledge of how a period feels in order to fulfil that role. As a biological woman, I in fact feel it would be better to have the sympathy of a man towards menstruation. With women's I feel like they have too much of a personal experience w…
/r/MensRights08/09/22 12:25 PM
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Yeah I can agree to most of that. Although I've been judged by alot of people for my appearance, I still managed to grab an absolute gem of a partner. Which I feel like if I ever were a man this probably wouldn't be as obtainable )unless by some miracle masculine me has a better face!). I wouldn't say suicide rates would go down that much though as I'm sure many factors play in this, more specifically in other pressured roles men are cornered into. If a girl you like has that high of a standard …
/r/MensRights08/09/22 12:45 AM
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Well first of all prepare for the top dog at the top of the charity ladder to have very full pockets! It's quite a nice little thought provoker/experiment, really makes your head see the upside down though. Very sad to think more on too.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 07:48 PM
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Sheesh you want to pray that this is pre-consented. You imagine that's your job and you have a god damned family and this woman just does this while you try to work. It's the assumption that all men want it that drives me up the wall... Something's has went wrong somewhere and I, at the moment believe that the generation has been brought up and been exposed to overly sexualised media. Because lots of women do this in the name of empowerment and I think this comes from over sexualised media durin…
/r/MensRights07/09/22 07:41 PM
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Jesus Christ can we pay particular attention to the replies to the first comment?! What on earth are these people taking?!
/r/MensRights07/09/22 07:31 PM
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I believe that it's because they still themselves are ashamed of their periods. People like this are just selfish and do not think of our next generation who through men like this, can help that generation of both girls and boys be less embarrassed about menstruation. Not to mention help in period poverty!
/r/MensRights07/09/22 02:17 PM
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I thought it was quite funny when I first saw it, but I thought people were mad because he wasn't exactly too qualified in female anatomy, not because he was a man? I may have gotten that wrong but that's what I had heard (perhaps that was on the foundation of men can't understand female anatomy no matter what and not actually if he had knowledge on menstruation). Anywho I don't see any problem with a man doing it if it's to help with period products and their availability, why not gather that e…
/r/MensRights07/09/22 02:12 PM
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This sounds like an Andrew tate mindset. If I were to cheat on someone because they didn't provide things that are more material, then I never had respect for that partner in the first place. If I were to cheat on someone because they didn't provide me with much emotional support or anything emotional, then I am immature and unable to simply communicate and therefore probably don't deserve relationships. Some people have different views on cheating and believe it's healthy but that is only reall…
/r/MensRights07/09/22 10:36 AM
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The term of feminism is so that women get more rights to become equal to men, not for men and women to achieve equality (as stated by definitions). Men's rights is here to achieve the same as this, to achieve full equality but on the men's side this time. Feminism just wouldn't be able to notice men's issues if their primary focus is women's rights, that's just a given. So why not create the men's version of this? I'm personally for both kinds of rights, if something isn't fair then something ne…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 11:16 PM
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Very true.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 09:36 PM
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It's just childish "revenge" for the abortion laws. They're just trying to say crude things for men because they think that will do something and send a message. Just another way to be mad at sperm. Unfortunately for them it does make them sound absolutely insane since I can understand banning abortion 100 times more than this. And I don't even support the ban. But following their line of thought. Kicking a man in the balls is attempted murder or even just murder, and it should be held in court …
/r/MensRights08/08/22 12:53 AM
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Definitely not!
/r/MensRights07/08/22 05:00 PM
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Gotta start em young..
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:07 PM
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I agree but I don't think this is ignorance. Seen too many posts floating around giving some real bad information regarding vasectomies recently. It's quite scary because this has obviously come around with the roe v wade overturning.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 12:39 PM
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I agree. It's stupid to say that and obviously is selective in how and when they say it. I think it's come up alot more now because they have lost a right that they had and there's alot of fear in this and what comes next. Fear changes alot of people and again it's that male stereotype of men wanting to control women's reproductive rights and so on, leading to this automatic hate of men when they join the debate. I think this just shows that they're not really thinking in what they're saying, th…
/r/MensRights06/08/22 12:29 PM
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I saw a video on Reddit with a sex toy shop littered with presumably all male sex toys (I want to disclaim that this was on my recommended page, I personally despise sex toys because my body sucks). They were like fleshy thighs with parts between, but the legs were moving! Creepy but I mean they did it for a reason I'm sure. I think there are many out there, it's just because it's taboo right now that they seem hard to find. You could probably look on a sex toy subreddit and find a bunch of diff…
/r/MensRights05/08/22 11:36 PM
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Just watched the trailer with my partner, again looks great. I'll try to watch it sometime. It's nice to have a movie list for once thought so thank you!
/r/MensRights05/08/22 09:47 PM
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Because the court cannot legally call it rape. It needs to be changed because no one thinks rape is a gendered term. Sexual assault or Rape? Who sounds like they've had it worse here? Because to me the connotations are worse with the word rape. It really takes away from male victims.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:52 PM
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I'm glad we're finally getting more contraceptive options. I just hate seeing that there's side effects. I hate taking mine for its side effects and I've ran out of other options for contraceptives, since hormonal is not possible. Hopefully long term this contraceptive will be good for use!
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:35 PM
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Thank you for this! Got a new movie to be excited for! Looks amazing, can't wait now lol
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:21 PM
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You did do a good job, please don't neglect that, because you did. I bet it was exhausting and scary because that's just unfortunately how the process goes. But you helped not only your wife but your child in their birth. The amount of strength and determination you had shown was phenomenal if a father I know it was probably worse with your partner getting angry but don't take it to heart. The hormones, fear and pain definitely brought that out of her. I think more so the fear since women feel t…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:55 AM
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Yes let's! And thank you very much for the award! Have to bring out the good drink now!
/r/MensRights03/08/22 04:56 PM
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Wow thank you so much for the award and the kind words! I appreciate this alot so really thank you, I hope you have a really pleasant day/lifetime!
/r/MensRights02/08/22 11:14 PM
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So far, I have yet to be called a pick me on Reddit! Where is my award?! To be fair, its probably due to me not addressing my gender much, but I do when I think maybe it's a bit relevant to do so. I have however been called that more recently by friends (who are no longer friends). And you know what, I have them to thank for it. They taught me huge lessons when I started out questioning everything, they were huge feminist hypocrites who actively took part in publicly hitting their boyfriends ( n…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:33 PM
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Yeah I get your point. But unfortunately EA is not the only company to push such things. I know what you mean when it feels so forced and out of place that it's like they're trying to scream it in your face. The implementation was odd, out of the blue, and I was skeptical.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 05:46 PM
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With all this tied in, you make a valid point. I especially agree in working out what your relationship is and how both partners can better it. Change is possible in relationships but it can be hard.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 05:38 PM
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Yes I completely agree with that, some people just made it out to be the only factor involved. Maybe to some that's the only priority..
/r/MensRights02/08/22 05:29 PM
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Thank you for answering. Its good to see things through what you've experienced and I'm sorry if my question seemed rude. I re-read it and thought it sounded really rude but my thought process was a bit more scientific, so I kind of bypassed that line of thinking. So basically these two modes have a higher chance of these different outcomes. That's interesting and I'd love to know where I come under.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 03:55 PM
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I see now, thank you!
/r/MensRights02/08/22 03:40 PM
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Oh okay thank you. From recent posts I've seen, it started to make me think it meant just men of higher wealth, but this makes alot more sense.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 03:38 PM
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Oh if you're on about the one with the girls in the ice, I completely agree. I was fine with most of the stories but that one was a large stretch outside of reality. And there are plenty of outfit options as well as vehicle skins and weapon skins in the game. All of which you can purchase with their purchasable in game currency, which I don't know why you'd want to. Aswell as elite skins they provided. Many people just didn't like that customising didn't involve the gender changes and there were…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 12:55 PM
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I have played quite a few battlefield games like 2042, 5 , 1 , 4, and 1942. Only two of these games had the female soldiers option to be customised and played. I can't tell you how much I freaking love battlefield (maybe not as much anymore...2042 (because every aspect of that game sucked)). But I am myself a woman and I knew there wasn't female soldiers and honestly I didn't care. Female soldiers existed, but as far as I'm concerned they were a rarity amongst the amount of male soldiers deploye…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 08:41 AM
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It's a good observation for some women, but don't you feel like maybe these are the type of women you personally attract? Also can someone actually explain what a high value man is? Is this a general high value man, or a man that suits an individual woman?
/r/MensRights02/08/22 08:24 AM
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Don't worry about it, it's very good of you to change it and be calm and understanding so thank you too! I hope we can get more answers on your actual post too!
/r/MensRights01/08/22 11:44 PM
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That's fair enough! I'm sorry for the droning, but translating tones and jokes through text is iffy lol
/r/MensRights01/08/22 11:35 PM
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I can see it being true to be honest since it makes sense. But I do not really know much either. Id just ask to refrain from calling one sex inferior. The whole reason why we are here is because some people see it the other way round and treat men as so. We don't get anywhere with hate. There are a lot of bad people in this world that take advantage over many things especially people. We can't just say it's this one gender because that's not equal nor is it true or by any means quantifiable. Plu…
/r/MensRights01/08/22 11:31 PM
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Yes because calling out police officers who do their duty and have probably been through some shit, who actively try and help you, is burning the patriarchy... These people need to wake up and realise that real patriarchy's exist. I can agree that not everyone is all equal yet and there are some disparities for women. But we are talking about real countries where women cannot do anything. They are married off with no education, have medical rights taken away, have set duties where less go into c…
/r/MensRights01/08/22 10:52 PM
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I really couldn't tell you exactly but I think it's just from the overall viewpoint society has of men. Misconceptions like men men not being able to be raped or that men shouldn't show feelings, that they should be manly and dominant really ties into it. If a man becomes a victim of rape, then most of these factors at that time weren't true and they view that as a time they weren't a man. I think after that point you wouldn't want to share to others about your time of supposed weakness.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 08:47 AM
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Aw thank you, that was actually really good to hear. I felt a bit worried to post but I wanted to be honest!
/r/MensRights29/07/22 11:57 PM
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Were you the one guy?
/r/MensRights29/07/22 01:51 PM
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I think i was just mostly told that I'd have to be less lazy and that I'd need to every household chore aswell as working. That's it really. My parents never spoken about me in a relationship much but I think they did raise me on a general belief of respect. Its hard to really name what I bring to the table for my partner. I didn't even bring sex to the table for over 2 years because I couldn't. Even now I still struggle with it so I still don't offer that. I'm not very pretty either and I feel …
/r/MensRights29/07/22 09:11 AM
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I think that's the best quality to have in a partner! Finding someone is hard, but I believe you'll find a good someone that will appreciate your traits.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 10:50 PM
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You are very strong indeed. I'm sorry you had to go through this as you were growing up. Please don't shy away from any help, of course if you feel you need it. Strong people can break too. I hope you are doing much better now and I wish you well for the further future.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 10:38 PM
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Cute! Well done dad!
/r/MensRights28/07/22 10:36 PM
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That's a great achievement you've made especially in a year. I can't really relate to you too much but I don't think you should shy away from anything related to your body. Who cares if people think youre showing off, you have every right to do so! You've worked hard for your body, dont let it be the reason for you not to do things. You've learnt to better your body but now you need to learn to accept your body. I've also been meaning to start my own business but Jesus is it scary to start. My f…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 10:35 PM
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That's really great to hear, so many awesome father's here! But I think you belittle yourself too much. You've managed to raise a great man that you can be proud of! If that isn't a testament to how great you are, I don't know what is! So many parents don't manage this because parenting is hard, you should be proud of yourself too.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 10:28 PM
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Oh would you mind me asking what you're currently working on?
/r/MensRights28/07/22 10:25 PM
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You have some big aspirations, I hope it all works out for you. I've subscribed and I'll try and watch as much as I can. I can't stress enough how much I enjoyed it, and I hope I can see more in the future, no matter how long it takes! Oh I also saw your drawings on your profile! You're a very talented person in many fields, it's honestly awesome!
/r/MensRights28/07/22 10:24 PM
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Yeah I feel you, I went through a hard hitting time with mine too. My local doctors are not very good and notorious for being so, meaning I got dismissed for very stupid reasons. But i do believe most doctors are still worth it and seeking out people just to be heard is also very good. So I hope you can stay strong through what you're going through and know that you're not alone. I believe in you and Im sure everyone that has replied do too.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 10:21 PM
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Wow that's so heartwarming! You sound like a very genuine and caring person and let's not forget charitable. I bet everyone wishes there were more people like you in the world.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 10:12 PM
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You sound like you'd be a good teacher father! You're right about children's reactions to new things though, everything to them is shocking and magical, it's nice to see things in their perspective sometimes.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 02:32 PM
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Inspiring to see that you want that change for the good of your children, they have an awesome father!
/r/MensRights28/07/22 02:29 PM
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Loving yourself is sometimes the greatest challenge people will face and sometimes never get over. It's amazing you've been able to do that and take advantage of who you are. Keep to your guns, individuality is fun and vibrant.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 02:27 PM
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This made my heart melt. People who care for others are the greatest people on our earth. I think you'd be a great father too with this in mind.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 02:25 PM
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Ooh I like that one, youre only enemy is yourself in terms of that. Keep at it!
/r/MensRights28/07/22 02:13 PM
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Well I'm sure everyone here is glad to have you in this sub. As bad as it is, it's good to know people can see through it.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 02:03 PM
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You have my respect. I still can't do one! I might have to join you in trying to get my first one down.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 02:00 PM
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That is so inspiring, the dedication you have to your arts! I just finished watching your recent film and it really exceeded my expectations since I saw that you did just about everything to create it. All of the shots were beautiful and I especially loved the dramatic shots with the lit fires throughout. The scene with the childhood friend was also really tense. With redshank seeing what was there and the changes in the talking with the friend whilst he reaches for his gun. The intrigue was als…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 01:59 PM
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Yes! I'm proud of you too!
/r/MensRights28/07/22 12:54 PM
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Good luck to you then, I've heard it's quite difficult, but I'm sure you can do it!
/r/MensRights28/07/22 12:49 PM
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I'm not as certain on how GPA stands compared to UK grading but from searching I can tell that that's a really good grading. I'm happy for your achievements though and I hope it leads you to some good opportunities that you deserve!
/r/MensRights28/07/22 01:34 AM
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That's great! Ive always been slightly envious of people that speak other languages besides their own because I wish I could too. And from what I'm seeing you have taken to English well. Well done because sometimes I can't even speak my own language lol
/r/MensRights27/07/22 11:24 PM
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So they see a post or a single comment that hurts their feelings because it's not exactly pro-women or is anti-women every 20 days from scrolling so far (if they are even true and not planted there). Some men on here might have strong opinions that aren't very nice, they're right. I could make a subreddit against any other and claim theyre misogynist and start raiding their posts too. It happens, there are bad eggs to every group. The point of this subreddit is to empower men where their rights …
/r/MensRights27/07/22 09:19 PM
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Maybe you should specify your comments to that then. If you don't ask you don't receive.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 09:01 PM
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Of course youre going to get downvoted. Did you not just say you know many MRA's don't do it. You want many of them to upvote you saying they're hateful?
/r/MensRights27/07/22 08:50 PM
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Really? And they even tagged the intactivism sub too? What the hell is endangering about intactivism? How much hate do these people have to give?
/r/AntiFeminists27/07/22 08:48 PM
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No one said that they hated women being portrayed in a good light. What was said is that having alot of our new music catered to telling only women how great or sexy they are, is a bit much and could be quite unhealthy for both parties. And again the statement was about newer music so decade old songs aren't too relevant here. In these new songs I'd say I've heard alot more that seem to degrade men alot more than I have women. And coming away from that the original arguement is that the new musi…
/r/MensRights27/07/22 08:42 PM
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Could be either to be honest. It was just a speculation for her leave as well.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 03:12 PM
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Oh no, I agree that this is definitely no excuse, and she has been horrible to her students. I was just explaining that this is probably how the leave has come about. Sorry I did explain it more in the last post, kind of forgot to put a little bit more context on what I was saying on this one though.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 12:05 PM
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I commented on your last post and stated that she probably has troubles at home more specifically with man troubles, and is projecting that onto you guys in her classes. The stress leave is probably from that. I would bet any money on that.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 09:56 AM
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I'm sorry you experienced that, you shouldn't need to detail your past experiences so that you can explain simple things to an idiot. You wrote that out amazingly and concise though and if they still can't realise it, then they really are an idiot of the purest form.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 09:49 AM
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It is definitely a double standard on most parts. Not only that but the fact that women can only think to criticize a males sexual anatomy or experiences most of the time is quite disgusting and perverse.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 01:06 AM
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I'm curious is this real? And is it backed by actual behaviours other than this? I've been taught slightly about Freud in the past but alot of it was passed off as just some odd psychology. I'm a woman myself and I don't think I'd want a dick in that way, or that I'd be hateful to men that have dicks themselves, to take away their rights reproductively. Would womb envy then also be viable for men that oppose abortion rights aside from being prolife?
/r/MensRights26/07/22 11:12 PM
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Yep and a quick search has told me that if you live in the UK, chances are you've already given power to this sign, since this "woke artwork" comes from government funding into Artichoke Trust who made it. Oh goody!
/r/MensRights26/07/22 09:57 PM
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Wholesome racist and sexist sign 🥰
/r/MensRights26/07/22 09:46 PM
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Okay guys we've had enough now, come on. Give up ALL that power you have now to me please. What on earth is that poster meant to do though?
/r/MensRights26/07/22 09:43 PM
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It's a shame because I really like the song played in the background too..
/r/MensRights26/07/22 07:40 PM
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Every time this comes on I can't help but cringe. I've joked about it with my partner a few times but it's a horrid ad and we both agree on it. Like seriously you want to talk about the jokes on women who play football. Have these people not seen the other comments on other non women players? Most importantly, stop sexism with sexism!
/r/MensRights26/07/22 07:39 PM
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Excuse me, the fucking what now?! Keep your liquids to yourself please everyone. Seriously though wouldn't the majority of that liquid be discharge? I would never do that because that's gross and that's also defeating the purpose of those fluids. I'm not looking to get free infections just so my partner will "notice me more".
/r/MensRights26/07/22 06:40 PM
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Nothing wrong with the regular incels since they just are without a partner. It's the guys familiar with the extremities of the incel community. Especially if they've ever been actively involved with that incel site.. It's those guys you don't want, they're downright insane.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 06:31 PM
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I'd still take it up there's only so far she can go with that before they realise she's pulling way too many of these types of cards and she's ruining her students education. There can be no negative outcome if you tell a higher up, trust me. Someone has to go and do it before she takes it too far on some poor student. The school won't just sit there and allow her to continue no matter what card she can pull out, their priority is with the students.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 05:03 PM
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Honestly you're best to keep telling someone higher up along with some other guys to back you up. She's obviously projecting some male issues she has from home. Of course that isn't right though and she's being a bitch without any excuse to. I hope someone can hammer her back into shape if you decide to tell someone. I wish you well in your education though so good luck!
/r/MensRights26/07/22 01:11 PM
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First step. Ensure no pregnancy can happen since you're screwed if it does. Try doubling up with contraception. Maybe your porn should do a little less of semen entering inside the vagina.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 01:03 PM
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You're being too extreme. Some subs would have a field day with your comments and mark it as this whole sub being extreme too. Your best words would have been to make the claims punished by the same amount a rapist would be, since that is more accurately deserved.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 12:55 PM
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Take your friend as well as trying to take another lad who experienced it and take it right up with someone higher in your school. Tell them it was a sexist remark as well as wrongful punishment that makes you uncomfortable being in class with her since you don't know what further punishment you will get from her lies. If you have similar experiences with her bring it up aswell. Idk how your school works but they should mostly try not to make you feel uncomfortable or unsafe in a classroom, so u…
/r/MensRights26/07/22 12:49 PM
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He's an idiot that just says things loudly and matter of factly, when in truth I don't think he's ever made any valid point. I don't think I've related to a single thing that guy has said about women. I'm also fairly certain alot of men can say the same when he speaks on behalf of men. I only ever agreed with women respecting their man, by not having nights out without him, but other than that I have not seen anything.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 08:11 AM
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I think I better understand now. Perhaps pregnancies should be treated like marriage on paper, wherein it needs to be both consensual before conception occurs, otherwise they both have the right to withdraw from parenting equally within the same timeframes (probably before the end of when an abortion should be carried out). Obviously less legal ways of pregnancy or "consent" would make the original consent to pregnancy void though. Better yet, bring in more education so that less abortions or wi…
/r/MensRights26/07/22 02:58 AM
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I've seen a few comments on here where some guys here may not particularly like women and have made comments on such, but I would never classify the sub as that. It's just a single negative to this sub that isn't even a large negative since its not so common. I think the incel comment is because it's a male community about males. Also mixed in with a few guys that don't like women aswell. People like to nitpick at small faults so they can generalise the whole sub as that, just for it to suit the…
/r/MensRights25/07/22 04:01 PM
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Oh maybe that's why then. To me it read out like you're saying that the women are like high rate or being too much in a way.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 02:48 PM
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I'll be honest and say your post doesn't really make any points to discuss. You don't mention in what way or ways you feel men are being mistreated or scrutinised for and then you blame women for not being "chill" all while mentioning their loss of abortion rights. I'm sure you didn't mean it to be this way but I read it like that and maybe that's why it was restricted. It's just my take and idk how far a feminist sub will go to take down a MRA's post, but it just reads a bit sour. I think it's …
/r/MensRights25/07/22 02:34 PM
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I don't think I understood your sentencing too well? You want father's to be able to withdraw as being a legal parent so that they do not have to pay for their children during the first stage of pregnancy? I'm sorry but I tried re-reading but maybe my lack of sleep is catching up to me right now lol.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 11:59 AM
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People start throwing around strong terms over nothing and they don't realise how it begins to diminish the term for themselves. I don't get how they can't perceive their own gender as having women that have faults in the same way a man can. Perhaps it's just a way to keep the attention and be the oppressed so someone will feel sorry for them. It just sort of reminds me about teenage girls that will fake having depression, anxiety and all other kinds of mental illnesses to gain attention and sym…
/r/MensRights24/07/22 07:27 PM
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Oh god and I thought with all the people on the roads now, the bar was already low enough! I think the instructor is right though. More men are gonna have more practical experiences, as most car enthusiasts are male. I think they're just offended because they want to become the perfect gender in every field they find.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 07:12 PM
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Ah I remember taking maths on and being mansplained by an elderly tutor whenever the topic included anything to do with bearings. He had even announced to me that he knew women struggled with the sort. At the time it was slightly annoying but I knew my own abilities and just sat through it and then continued. It was belittling but I never wanted to say anything because of the pure innocence and old timely manner of this man. I'd say this was the only time I experienced it as in my definition, ma…
/r/MensRights24/07/22 07:03 PM
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Or just scrap the word penetration and use non-consensual coitus instead. In my opinion penetration will always be seen as a male on female act and I don't believe having these connotations are good in terms of how the law is laid out.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 02:14 PM
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I don't feel confident in this to be honest. Most petitions either don't make it or they're just downright refused and just repeat the sayings of the act only being for penile penetration. But you never know though, so thank you for sharing and I hope we can see this reach its goal.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 01:30 PM
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Oh I didn't think the relationship was that far, my bad for assuming that. But they sound nice in general. Hopefully it'll be sorted out. Personally I fell in love with the singer from The Calling when I was like 10. The one that sings wherever you will go lol. And I can tell you that my crush lasted way too long on that guy.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 12:24 PM
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Maybe have a talk with your girlfriend and see if loosening the ties is an option you can do. At least your girlfriends stuck to her guns, don't lose that one! I also can't help but laugh a little at the aqua thing. I hope you told your girlfriend in the end because that one is definitely an interesting one lol.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 10:36 AM
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The fact this hasn't even been acknowledged by them. They probably can't be bothered to sit there and read, they just did it to try and annoy people, not to learn. Good feminist.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 10:30 AM
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Thank you for the shame. Good bot.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:23 PM
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Do you not stop and think that doing that back is completely counter productive? Also why do you want to hold grudges over centuries if these are now modern men? Additionally making fun of men that you have no idea on how they perceive or talk about women's features? It seems like your the only sad and weak person here my friend. If someone told me my boobs weren't good enough I wouldn't go on the internet and tell every man his penis is ugly. In fact I've had more women in my life judge my body…
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:18 PM
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I disagree with that. But you can think what you like I guess.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 06:21 PM
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Well I think vaginas are alien like and penises are more so like it's actually human. Unless this is size we are on about, because that's a different road. This is just people not understanding anatomy properly and not realising that vaginas are not just one size fits all. Your cervix can be high or low and you're not going to get anything past that no matter if you've got a guy packing 15. If the sex your having with your partner doesn't work out, you can most definitely fix it. These are proba…
/r/MensRights09/07/22 06:05 PM
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I think alot of women who actively participate in the name of feminism just love that extra piece of attention. I think this is centred around that more so than it is them fighting for people to understand them. For me it just screams "What I went through was worse than you!" And its their main reason why they'd want to try and belittle a man's past experience to try and prove that, so they can stick to the 'all women are victims' idea they have as well as the fact that they don't believe a man …
/r/MensRights09/07/22 10:40 AM
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I wouldn't listen to that person anyway, they don't seem to know what they're on about throughout this post. They seem to neglect that people have different aspects in people they like and there's not just the one perfect man everyone likes. I sought out my guy through games since I wanted a partner who'd join me in it. I think me and him are far from lazy if I can say so myself. Also that sounds really sweet that you play with your daughter, sounds fun!
/r/MensRights09/07/22 09:34 AM
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I always feel like this would have consequences in the long run. Hormones have a way of doing stuff like that. But I am always jealous of people who can take hormonal contraceptives due to this reason. That and they can have easier birth control methods lol.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 09:15 AM
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Attraction is definitely a combination of personality and physical appearance, but I do not think that height is anything to be casted away for. It's been too much of a trend recently where a man should be 6 foot at least and I think it's quite an outrageous thing since the women are about 5 foot 4. I do not see the difference a few inches is going to make for your relationship. I think I should've clarified that the risky factor is more so in people that require this exact height when it's dras…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 01:53 PM
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I'm also with you on this, it's too common unfortunately. But I definitely think alot of them can be swayed given the right question were asked for them to reflect.i think people jump on bandwagons too soon especially if they have been given a mindset of a huge gender split/war where they should stick with other women. Thank you as well for your words, you seem very kind and I wish you well.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 01:34 PM
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It depends how you go about it and how lenient/less controlling you can be around it. You'd obviously want to make it clear right off the bat that this is how your relationship will go. Additionally, being consistently reminded that if you make a wrong choice of move that there will be a breakup over clothing to me feels a bit controlling. I wouldn't want my partner to remind me that if I wear this one shirt he will be gone. Subtle reminders and more gentle approaches would be appreciated especi…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 10:16 AM
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If you're into women: I'm pretty sure that's taller than the average woman, so yes. Personally I don't care and my boyfriend is not as tall as me by a few inches, so even then there are more taller women that are very accepting of shorter males, that's if you do too. If you're into men: That's still taller than the average man I believe, so it's more of a definite yes. But I'm not sure if guys really care themselves on that since many I have seen prefer either to be honest. In general terms: And…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 10:01 AM
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No problem it's a good question to pose, and I think more people would find empathy given they had thought of it in this way. Again I wish you well.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 06:44 PM
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I definitely have a feeling women in general wouldn't like it, at least those that we know have quite string misandrist view points. I don't think they'd like to have connotations that they make people feel unsafe, and ultimately demonising their own gender. It kind of goes against their general thought that women are only victims. I'm also unsure as to how this what steps women could take to make men feel safer but assuming that was figured out I don't think I'd mind as long as they're not dras…
/r/MensRights21/06/22 10:18 AM
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I am aware but this was stated in response to another reply asking it's whereabouts on social media. The initial trend has died down on social media regarding specific comments or posts.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 09:47 AM
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Reminds me of a recent video where a mother and daughter were at a gym. As I read the story, it detailed that the mother was trying to prove she could be the equivalent of a man and lift a barbell, for her daughter. I'm very certain she was crushed to death shortly after her attempt. I thought that whole idea was immature and they surely couldn't believe it. However, seeing that shook me up because that woman genuinely believed it to be true. I could have the story wrong still but it was quite j…
/r/MensRights21/06/22 01:51 AM
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I had a post ask a somewhat similar question and while I cannot personally relate since I'm a female, I can say that alot of men responded and they felt the same way. I don't really know myself but I do know that the first thing you can do is to tell them to stop and inform them you will take further action and call the police or nearby security members. Alot of people aren't properly taught respect and some people will harass others. Although, you sound genuine and Im very sorry that you feel d…
/r/MensRights21/06/22 01:40 AM
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I don't think so, it sounded like OP's mom was describing how well it would do in court, it didn't sound like a personal opinion. Still messed up though since it would probably be a lesser crime that the girl would be done for, if that even happens.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 01:05 AM
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That's really disgusting, what a shallow creep she is.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 10:39 AM
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You deserve way better, no one deserves what she had given you. She played you with guilt tripping and the consistent need for attention which when she wasn't given resulted in arguements. All while she had been previously cheating. Stuck to that career because you've worked hard to get to the oath you're on and I'm sure you'll do very well. Maintain that block and don't speak to her either because clearly nothing changed then and it won't now. Learn from this mistake and realise now what you sh…
/r/MensRights20/06/22 10:23 AM
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That's a shame but I'm sure you'll both enjoy it soon! Better late than never
/r/MensRights19/06/22 02:23 PM
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Happy father's Day everyone, a good deserved day!
/r/MensRights19/06/22 02:18 PM
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If you look then you can definitely find many frequent calls to kill all men. In my experience however the exact calls to kill all men have diminished significantly although it wasn't too long ago when there was a huge surge in it. Every post i saw was talking about it and alot were for it (more so because of a lesser prior mention of kill all women or rape all women that put kill all men in motion, so I believe) There are still many frequent posts on social media that deem men useless or natura…
/r/MensRights18/06/22 01:47 AM
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I supported feminism very heavily upon knowing the word, I mean why not support my own genders rights, right? I think I started questioning it in my later education years especially when I met my first and still only boyfriend. He is the person to debate everything in the world and he alone has taught me alot from doing so, including feminism (although this wasn't his primary subject). I think other aspects would be watching my own friends over time (that are thankfully no loner anywhere near me…
/r/MensRights17/06/22 07:34 PM
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I've seen some people mention that it isn't meant to be interpreted in that way based off the whole movie, but I haven't watched it myself, so I cannot say. It may just be a poor tasting title where they were just trying to be artsy and cryptic.
/r/MensRights17/06/22 07:18 PM
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I got a sickly feeling reading and watching most of that. Those women seemed like they were so high and mighty with this so called knowledge they had over their own sons. I really don't think you can be a mother at that point because how much do you have to hate an opposing gender, that you neglect the basic principles of being an actual parent. If anything (especially in my area) the female children should be taught more on respect. I've been respected alot more by men where Im from and I've me…
/r/MensRights20/05/22 11:18 AM
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Trust me I'm a female, had female friends, I know. Had my (ex) best friend say their boyfriend raped them, I didn't believe them because I knew what they were like. She never charged for it and seemed to forget about it later. But her friends didn't and they quickly outcasted him and spread what they believed. I don't know how that turned out because I lost contact with the guy, but I know his brother and I think he's doing good for himself now, thankfully. There were other claims like this too,…
/r/MensRights19/05/22 09:35 PM
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I know that misdiagnosis is common and all that but seriously reading these stories about how men should keep up a tough act in a hospital, or not even attend one is ridiculous. I hope this doesn't happen again to you , or prevent you from seeking help in the future. I'm glad you followed through with your diagnosis though.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 08:09 PM
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Yeah and the oh look how lovely she is now when she's doing her gardening. Some real rehabilitation right there huh.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 07:40 PM
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Yes it's absolutely wrong. My boyfriend is slightly shorter than me but quite noticeably according to other people I've encountered. My female friends hated this fact and would openly joke about it to me, expecting I'd join. Nope. To be honest I feel like that's because that's the only thing they could scrutinise my relationship for because they weren't as abusive or toxic as what they were used to. I also don't think I could ever use a dating app (not that I need to anyway) because it just seem…
/r/MensRights18/05/22 05:26 PM
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I hope she is never allowed anywhere near her child again since she devalued their life based on how only she was suffering with suicide. That right there was no mother.
/r/MensRights18/05/22 03:57 PM
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I can't give any direct advice (because I'm not a guy and I don't think I'd be too helpful) but I don't think you should become emotionally manipulative or promoting yourself in a way that isn't truly yours. You are already doing the maximum of everything you could be and acting fake around women is probably going to be too much stress for you and it may also affect your relationships with your friends too (if your stressing or acting differently). But in the long run, look at what you've built …
/r/MensRights11/05/22 12:28 PM
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These are just stupid "attractive traits" displayed massively online just like men with muscles or women with the perfect curved body. So I may be wrong but in my personal opinion almost everyone discriminates to what they deem their perfect fit. And alot of people seem to think they deserve this person because they too are as perfect and need a matching partner. I was going to try going into more detail but it's a seemingly touchy subject, so I don't think there's much left for you to argue wit…
/r/MensRights05/05/22 05:09 PM
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I understand that and I could have put more effort into it but sometimes it lacks haha. I do know what conception and pregnancy means, but I stuck to the definition of conceiving, so I cannot help that it may or may not be infactual based on its second meaning. I'll try and avoid it in the future too as it's understandable that it's quite confusing, even if it's noted by a dictionary. It's been good to talk and I hope your day goes well.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 07:55 PM
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I got more than a passing grade I got the equivalent of an A*, and I do understand them, it's just I could really be bothered to spit out information on a post with an already distinct answer. I can say fully that it was not the best comment or most knowledgeably written, but I feel like I gave out the jist of what I wanted to convey is all. I did say it was very half assed as I was in the middle of preparing a model spreadsheet, which if you didn't know is just repetitive and laborious. I can p…
/r/MensRights29/03/22 07:12 PM
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I am a native English speaker. Just wanted to clarify that because that was a strange conclusion to create. Conception is not pregnancy, I again said "conceiving". I did need to look this up in a dictionary, as it would make sense that conceiving meant conception, but this actually has two meanings of conception and pregnancy. Again conceiving has this definition not conception. And I did also say that the genetics and DNA bit was just me being lazy towards an odd post by the OP, and not thinkin…
/r/MensRights29/03/22 06:35 PM
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This is a very pointless comment, I don't get why you need to swear at me for talking briefly. I never mentioned conception, I mentioned conceiving which unfortunately seems to have two meanings (to become pregnant and of course conception). And I never mentioned anything about being less than 50, this is how you interpreted a "small part", so I'm sorry you interpreted something with no actual statistical meaning this way. I could have put half but what was the need, they both pointed out that s…
/r/MensRights29/03/22 04:58 PM
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Very confusing title? Biological women are the only gender that are able to conceive children. And "our" offspring? Isn't offspring the joint creation of both parents. The sperm does not solely create the offspring, its just a small part of the DNA and genetics put into creating a child. Perhaps you were trying to talk about another topic, but poor wording?
/r/MensRights29/03/22 11:55 AM
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I do understand that and perhaps that should only be done to people you know aren't toxic or who actually care on a more personal level. I do also say that you can ease off anger through expressing emotions through activity outlets, that let off some energy or allow you to express what you're going through. Obviously the first way is ideal but if you care about your mental health and feel like no one is there to actually listen, I'm sure there are many sites that detail hobbies or activities you…
/r/MensRights28/03/22 10:48 AM
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There are alot of women that also deal with emotions with anger I feel, or I've experienced. But obviously there are slightly more men prone to it, I'm guessing because they were brought up and shown to "be a man", or obviously that can be a more personal choice. My take is that anger isn't the nicest expression for others around you to deal with, if it's that big of an issue you have, then anger is quite justified. I think that when around friends or partners you should try a calmer approach to…
/r/MensRights27/03/22 09:15 AM
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This has my hopes up, I can't take any hormonal contraceptives due to medical reasons, and many of the others that are non hormonal have higher chances of failing. The IUD has been the only option for me but even then it causes quite a side effect. It would be nice if this supposed pill has rare or less harmful side effects, it can become a good alternative for those that need it.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 12:56 PM
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Yes it is an odd occurrence that it's not as celebrated but if it is of any consolation, I do know that there are many countries that celebrate men and male fertility (can't quite name them but I'm pretty sure China is up there for celebrating phalluses). But we are in a newer age of easily accessible knowledge and we are not so brainwashed by society as we may have once been. So people are out there that fully support men, I can be a testament to that, and the change may be gradual but it will …
/r/MensRights21/03/22 11:32 PM
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Oh no its not your fault at all, Im just not too good in conveying what I think sometimes. Thank you for being equally nice too!
/r/MensRights20/03/22 03:02 PM
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Uhm I think your confused? Even one of the guys that commented here actually sent me a documentary, so I think they're real? I don't get why I'm being scrutinised for asking a simple question? If you could tell me why you think this I'd be inclined to listen. How am I even meant to justify that this isn't a PR company? So confused rn.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 08:45 PM
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What? Where has this come from, I fail to see and idk why that would be done?
/r/MensRights17/03/22 06:03 PM
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You know I do understand what you're implying because i do also believe in the requirement of self defense lessons. As a woman and being around other women, we are definitely made to fear from media and lessons taught by parental figures and schools. But today the media is definitely the worst cause of irrational fear and hate by making everything seem substantially more likely to happen. I have been trying to control myself for a while now in terms of this, because I have nothing at my side to …
/r/MensRights17/03/22 01:10 PM
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No one should be shamed for it, it's horrifying for anyone to be forced into doing. Hopefully this will be it though and required drafts won't ever need to be used after this point. But again we can only hope.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 01:16 AM
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Yeah sure call me what you like, I said it how it is and now you've contradicted yourself and have also ended in a derogatory statement. So good job you passed white knight school, since thats what you class it as. If you don't want me to say that and hurt your "fee-fees", then don't say you want women to suffer more than what men already have, it's just sick. I'm done with your stupidity, because you still can't voice why you'd specifically want women to suffer more by creating sadistic scenari…
/r/MensRights17/03/22 01:12 AM
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What is wrong with you? Okay let's give you a false sense of freedom and then force you to fight! Men that were drafted didn't get this so why is this all of a sudden "boohoo". You want women to suffer more now? If I knew I was dealing with someone that doesn't actually want equality, and just wants women to suffer more than what the men drafted have, I wouldn't have replied this far. Have fun with your sadistic fantasies.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 01:00 AM
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I'm guessing this was a way to make men feel ashamed of not enlisting then. That had a more deep rooted explanation than I originally thought. What a horrid way to cast people out for just simply not wanting to risk death. Thank you for letting me know.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 12:49 AM
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No I'm not. Please hear me out, because I can't keep trying to come up with different ways to explain. No one in Ukraine has done anything wrong To become equal, yes men and women should be drafted to protect their country or no one is drafted at all. It seem really sadistic to me and distasteful that you want women to feel as though they are free and then give them a false sense of freedom, by quickly tearing it away, by not letting them through borders and then making them fight. This is a mor…
/r/MensRights17/03/22 12:46 AM
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The point is these women haven't done this okay? This guy is using suffering women as a point to get at other women in order to call them sexist. He can say ANY other women and I'd be FINE. I'm sorry that I think using women suffering as a point to call people sexist is immoral and the setting you used was very sick. I also literally said I don't believe men being forced to stay is right so why aren't you getting this.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 11:49 PM
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Yes I'm new here but I know what you mean. Don't be discouraged by this, change will come, otherwise no one would be here.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 11:48 PM
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Idk why that got deleted, clumsy hands I guess. Like I said I don't agree with ANYONE going to war. I especially don't like men being forced to stay and fight in Ukraine. My point was actually to not use the women of ukraine who are facing a literally war should be used to try and one up toxic feminists. These women have not forced inequality on anyone, and have not done anything to deserve someone saying they should be cut off from the world so they can fight. Most of these women have children …
/r/MensRights16/03/22 11:44 PM
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Just signed, thank you for bringing this to attention. I'll try to spread it where I can too and I hope others that might see it will do the same.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 11:34 PM
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Oh I see that actually, sorry. I usually try and sum up what I'm saying and yeah not my best one so far. I don't think anyone has to protect anyone, I was trying to say that no one is made for war but didn't know how to put it. I though cannon fodder would imply they're not meant to be there in the first place, but this isnt the case. Definitely needs a change. I don't want to kiss anyone's ass, I've chosen to be here for the same reason you probably are. I don't support men in war as much as th…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 11:13 PM
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Unfortunately yeah many toxic women do have a set of weapons, namely taking victim or oppressed roles even if they've never truly experienced either of those. I'm sorry but I don't know what white feathers are in this context? Flight response??? Sorry I couldn't find it when I searched either.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 11:06 PM
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It isn't really, at least I don't think. Like I said it may have been possible the person thought you were implying the injury occured solely because they were a female driver? Which relates to sexist stereotypes of women being bad drivers. Just a speculation on my end, as that's the only way it could be misinterpreted as sexist, even if that want your intention.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 06:55 PM
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Perhaps they took it the wrong way. If you meant to just add extra detail which I'm pretty sure that's what you meant, then that isn't really sexist. They may have seen it as sexist because of the stereotypes around female drivers in general is very poor, and assumes all women can't drive. It's understandable why this may have been their reaction, so don't worry too much on it.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 06:43 PM
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Yeah they really do sell the feeling of oppression very well, it's almost sad because it's just so self absorbing and nothing more. I saw many posts where they were forcing men to just apologise for existing but if a man or women debunked alot of mentions then it all just went to ruin, quickly becoming little attacks on other things they could grasp at. Its not right that they actively suppress mentions of men actually being victims to many aspects of laws, societies and cultures, just to push a…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 06:38 PM
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Yeah I know it's very prominent in the US and I think some other countries but I can't directly name them as I don't really know. Thanks for specifying about cleanliness aswell, didn't want to jump the boat in thinking 8ntacy men were more clean if that wasn't the case. But since it is, it just adds to list as how wrong people perception of it are. Yeah I do think you're right about culture as we have since dropped many traditions because they're now viewed less highly in the past. Circumcisions…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 05:46 PM
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Yes I have seen and heard of this im many cases surrounding men's rights. I do prefer it here in men's rights groups because none of you actively want to hate women as much as what I saw in feminist groups hating men, and it's extremism has downplayed men's rights too much. All this group asks for is equal rights as men and there's nothing wrong with that and it shouldn't be such a controversial subject to feminists. I don't consider myself feminist anymore and so I won't take offense to that, a…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 05:37 PM
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I'm sorry if that may have seemed offensive, because I can understand the reason why that may be. I would say you're right that I don't really understand. It hasn't really been that long since I stopped calling myself a feminist actually. I wanted to be a feminist purely because of equality and in here I learnt that I can support women's rights and men's rights for equality, without labelling myself as a feminist (because it can cause assumptions that Im apart of the mass toxic side of it). I th…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 05:01 PM
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This makes alot more sense to see why that's being said. It is sexism and when feminists can reach some humanity and hear out men when they say they don't want this procedure forced on them or never wanted it, they can finally understand that they are not the only gender that has had their fair share of suffering.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 04:46 PM
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I didn't want to imply that all military actions were violent but it was a response to the comment of make the women of Ukraine turn back and "tell them to fight". I wasn't too aware of the 15% statistic, though which is quite surprising, perhaps more people should know this so that they may be more inclined to take up positions available to them, if time ever willed it to happen in their country.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 04:26 PM
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I do like that analogy with the little finger because it really is like that now that you compare it to that. Every comment I get on here just further blows my mind that it is still a thing to happen to men. Please don't worry about the graphical parts, it is honestly fine and for people Iike me who can't understand what exactly is being permanently taken away from men, it is a crucial thing to know in order to compare between. Although banning may not be an option, I'm sure religion won't crumb…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 04:15 PM
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It appears that people were not understanding my comment the way it was meant to be interpreted, so here we go again. I don't think you should use Ukrainian women in the specific example, instead state how you'd want other women to take place in the war. It feels distasteful that you stated you'd want the women to have a sense of freedom then strip them off that quickly by not letting them cross and forcing them to fight. It just is slightly morbid to me. Women and men should both be equally dra…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 03:51 PM
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Ive yet to have heard about the skin thickening and I can't imagine that it's that comfortable to have especially on such a highly sensitive area. Again I also saw on the sites that I enhanced sexual pleasure but then you have men and science basically telling us this is not the case. From further looking into it I only think that they can say it enhances it due to the glans not being covered. Not a man here but I am pretty certain that this can partially be achieved without surgical procedures?…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 03:27 PM
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Yes I was also taught almost the exact same values especially when I started to walk to and from school. Perhaps because of the fear instilled into us (even more so with media now), we can't erase this fear completely. I get that this is a hard thing to remove because there still are chances. Fear is okay to have and it's human but as women we can't discriminate between all men, which I feel many give off the impression of doing. Additionally, we need to stop the continuous act of women telling …
/r/MensRights16/03/22 03:11 PM
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Yes you definitely have an excellent take on this. Thank you for taking these statistics out again it gives a good insight to how much it is just not needed even more so as an infant.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 02:15 PM
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Its quite a horrifying thing to believe. If I ever met anyone with such fantasies I know I would not be going in the same direction as them. But in a morbid and odd sense I am so curious on these men (if they are real) that want this. Because I do wonder how they come to want this and if it is a general form of a disorder or something internalised deeper. But I feel no such thing for the women because it just feels like a pure form of sick hatred they've somehow gathered for ever man on the plan…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 01:09 PM
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Yes I can certainly agree and I only really asked because I am just not at all familiar with any part of its concept. My first real thoughts on it were exactly that it was a crazily unnecessary procedure that so many men have underwent. Not only that but in infancy. I don't see how you can tell people about circumcision for exactly what it is (an unneeded mutilation of a young infant or a forcible peer pressure, or even non-consensual mutilation of an older males naturally occuring body part) an…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 01:03 PM
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The sites I saw on the benefits never stated statistics and definitely made it seem like a drastic drop between the rates of each factor you stated. This in itself says something. I also agree that there needs to a legal age requirement for the procedure because it's unnecessary as the benefits generally aren't needed until they are older and the chances of these factors become more likely to happen as the percentages surely aren't representatives of infants. All the advantages and disadvantages…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 12:57 PM
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That hurts my heart to know that nurses would neglect elderly men's hygiene just for being intact. Like come on their whole field revolves around quite non-hygienic settings. I'm not saying that they deserve to be around more disgusting hygiene, but they know what field they're in and it's just so blatantly ignorant to hold a natural occuring body part as more dirty than what I'm sure they deal with anyway. I've never actually heard of premature foreskin retraction but it does make alot of sense…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 12:48 PM
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Thank you, I never really thought to look for it through Reddit that's really helpful!
/r/MensRights16/03/22 12:39 PM
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Now knowing that FGM is fought for by women in different cultures, feels rather insane but if the reality is that they want the more minor procedures carried out than it really isn't so insane. It's crazy how far FGM has been pushed to the point where its too much on other women want it back as part of their culture. But for MGM, no such advancement has been made. The least they can do is give a legal age for it to happen and make it completely illegal for non-medical practices in circumcision t…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 12:38 PM
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It's so odd that these great amount of nerve endings are removed but it was insisted on the sites I seen that it increased sexual pleasure. I wonder if that is based on the glans being less covered, because there's no real basis on how circumcision actually "enhances pleasure". It also strange how something based in a Victorian era can still stand today without contradiction as everything else has move away from these outdated advancements. I've never thought about the repercussions of when a ci…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 12:23 PM
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That's almost relieving to hear, good on you for pushing for it. I'm sure your children will thank you for that decision, and if not you know that you can explain why it wasn't done.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 12:15 PM
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I struggle to find this statistic acceptable. So please hear me out. Is this statistic based in them admitting afterwards that they actually enjoyed it and wished they could have that happen to them again kind of thing? Because rape can make women or men doubt if they really hated being raped. This is because the body responded with pleasure because just like hearing, we can't turn off that organ, it's not possible. So perhaps the statistic is their body enjoying it and the victim being confused…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 12:12 PM
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I think I at least know two women who unfortunately had went through this. And I've heard through chatting with other women who've known others who have been. I do also know of some people close to me who have went through this when they were drunk. I'd never blame them for what happened but for one of them it was someone they knew in their friend group, and he was always very creepy and odd (them and some other people are the only reason why I never attended those parties, that and I don't care…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 12:07 PM
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I may be wrong but the clitoral hoodectomy doesn't sound as though it is a genuine enhancer of pleasure. From what I know, the hood can physically be pushed back without any complications or much movement. So unless for some women that action isn't possible, I do believe that this procedure may not really be what it seems. Again I'm not a biological scientist or anything but basic knowledge brought me to that conclusion. Even if it's not true I don't get the risk of so much just to receive somet…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 01:46 AM
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I nearly couldn't even read the methods and devices used. I don't even have a penis and it made me quickly become uncomfortable. There are a lot more circumcised men in America then I had previously thought and the mentions of infections and other complications are really unnerving. It's such a high risk procedure especially on an unknowing child and for no real reason other than fraudulent acts (as I've heard from another comment). That second comment made to you is quite a thing to say as well…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 01:36 AM
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That had some crazy statements on there. Before asking I had read on supposedly why MGM was not as bad as FGM. The main reason was that FGM aimed to remove pleasure. From this and it's other devastating effects,MGM also seems to remove pleasure because it is just removing highly sensitive nerve endings. I did not know that corrective surgery was a thing afterwards either and that there were clear chances of death? Thank you for the site, that is definitely alot to take in and people should know …
/r/MensRights16/03/22 01:15 AM
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Works great now, thank you!
/r/MensRights16/03/22 12:58 AM
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Yes, I'm on mobile so that might be the reason?
/r/MensRights15/03/22 11:51 PM
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Perhaps during the beginning you may want to express some form of sympathy for ALL in Ukraine as we can't discount the women or children as it's not their fault for men being left out of media portrayals. This also gives the comment a good breather from sounding to preachy on men's rights (which would be fine usually but obviously war is a heavier subject of suffering and loss and we can't miss this fact out). Of course this is just my opinion, do what you will, it's a good comment overall. Well…
/r/MensRights15/03/22 09:15 PM
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I mean the castration was enough but keeping testicles and turned on by horses which I mean is a sexual attraction to an animal?! Who are these people like how can they sit there and write that out for other people to see and go yep this is what people would love to read? I mean I'd love to know the male side to this because if you didn't, I'd say you should look at the comments, there were supposedly actual men agreeing and wanting it to happen to them. I think fantasies are fine but can't we r…
/r/MensRights15/03/22 08:58 PM
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I want to hope and pray that the majority of these are ONLY FANTASY. I mean that doesn't excuse how sick it is but I know there are also rape fantasies and more fantasies involved with harming another. As long as no one is actually harmed, I mean sure the sad creeps can have fun with that I guess (maybe not go telling other people what you like in your fantasies though?). But where the hell do you see a legitimately made website collecting rape fantasy settings from different people. You don't, …
/r/MensRights15/03/22 07:11 PM
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Wow I might have to take some of these quotes for myself. I do personally love the final quote as it doesn't denounce all fear, just irrational fear that spirals. And they're very true obviously as it is clearly shown in this issue and many more. Thank you for grabbing these quotes, some great lessons are to be formed with them and I'm grateful that you have shared them.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 03:56 PM
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It's not really the interest that's creepy it is just the blatant unnecessary actions that they've commited. Of course we can worry about potential interest in anyone we meet but when their actions prove odd or overly sexually related it is just odd and worrying. For the walking comment, I do have a post where many expressed their feelings over it if you want to look. I'm a woman and I have been fearful when walking past men in the past but it shouldn't be dictated that only men can do this. Whe…
/r/MensRights15/03/22 01:33 PM
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How can someone let alone a group have the confidence and that sick of a mind to commit sexual assault physically, it is horrifying to think what kinds of people those women were on top of this. But that sounded nightmarish, I hope your okay now though.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 12:45 PM
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No I don't think that's the case though, men and women will state at most things that are available to them. Unfortunately we can't turn off our eyes from catching glimpses of most things. However when it is just a continuous cycle of intentionally staring to the point where she is waiting for the op to even move into her vision is incredibly creepy. Having someone stare at you in they eyes with prolonged eye contact is even creepy as no one does this, so it's even more so when it's sexually sta…
/r/MensRights15/03/22 12:40 PM
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I can agree that the whole Ukrainian situation has media focusing on women for no reason at all other than to try and blame men for being "crazed war addicts" or another. But the animal thing came a bit out of the blue? I don't think this is the right place to try and convert others? I'm sure there are other areas where the individuals will be more open to listening than here as this does primarily focus on men and men's rights. Why not post where more types of people are available?
/r/MensRights15/03/22 12:27 PM
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I can't seem to access the site properly, can anyone give some context?
/r/MensRights15/03/22 12:16 PM
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I was referring to it in daylight hours as fearing during the night is a completely reasonable response as long as it's not male specific I feel. That's a good point that you made with self defense. I'm also in total agreement that teaching as a way out of the irrational fear is definitely the main key to halt women from experiencing this.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 10:15 AM
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I think when the media and toxic feminism makes women believe that they are prime targets for men, for them it definitely becomes an instinctive response (by that I mean it's everyone for themselves or perhaps even every woman for themselves) and they do become self absorbed and really don't tend to think much more of the flip side. Fearing in the night and that generally anything could happen is obviously a more rational fear. But when it pushes so far as to say almost all men can and will do t…
/r/MensRights15/03/22 12:22 AM
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A great thought to take on this, and I can say I do love your quotes as they are realistic and honest. I said before that companies are allowing this to happen and I've seen faulty products sold to women as self defense. This just proves the push to make women fear more by making them feel powerless enough to need self defense items. I'm not against self defense items but using them to discriminate against men is a completely different thing. No one in this world should be expected to owe anyone…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 11:12 PM
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Thank you for taking the time for putting out these links. I have come to realise that these feminist that don't stick to the traditional agenda have steered feminism as a whole into the wrong objectives. Many of them are counted as real feminists and actively try and oppose men and equality as a whole. I'm completely against this now as it is just a horrible lie to convince other women to be apart of,by acting as though they're majorly oppressed and it's men's fault. These links have such outra…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 11:04 PM
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Yes that is unfortunately an expected response and it shouldn't even be caused in the first place. From reading the comments many do agree it's a fear mongering tactic made by toxic feminism and media alike. I have seen so many adverts and pages online advertising products that are for "self defense" as a direct response. Many people have actually called out many companies for selling faulty products which is absurd when you think about how they've begun to profit on women fearing and the discri…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 10:46 PM
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I didn't mean to make it sound like fear should be taught and your right basic self defence is needed nowadays there are some crazy individuals out there. Hopefully when we come to this point we can quit the discrimination of one singular sex as although statistics may say it is one gender mainly doing it, we can't all fear this one gender because if it.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 07:07 PM
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I have found to have the biggest laugh with Scottish people and it is definitely the bluntness that brings it on haha. I'm glad you are fine now and it's admirable to see how strong you've been through it and I hope all is well in your future.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 07:05 PM
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Ah ok thank you for clearing that up. I understand that it's mainly men that are accused and I've had my own fair share in matters like this that yes I'd consider it sexual assualt. But to openly make all women fear all men is a bit too much. To teach is a better option and this does not mean a one of school lesson but a full on tutoring on this matter. Fear has never been a good option to take and leads to unfortunate situations where men feel ashamed and women irrationally fear men.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 04:22 PM
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Oh I can definitely agree to this. Both genders are to be taught to take care in their actions and that assaulting anyone in any way is not okay. I'm not sure on the statistics as I heard some words thrown around that their meaning of sexual assault was not technically sexual assualt in the study? Even with this though, men shouldn't be the first word or thought taken out when you hear about sexual assault. This is the only thing I'm against when talking about safety around other people. It will…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:53 PM
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That's so nice of you to say and I am sorry you experienced friends that express this ideology. I hope you never take those words to heart because it is so wrong and it's sad that they were drove in that direction to where they believed it. You seem very intelligent , and its people like you who make people like me understand more into men's and women's rights alike. I do really hope you have a good day, it has been a pleasure to hear from your side.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:46 PM
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I don't understand what you mean by this? Of course I am incredibly sorry if they do not hate women and that was wrong of me to say. Just didn't understand how to take what they replied to me when saying "what's not to hate?" I'm sure you'd be perplexed in the same way?
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:27 PM
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I have never seen that but that is interesting and quite a disturbing factor. Makes you wonder why and how they're convinced they want their own gender killed off. I mean even as a whole women wanting to kill men in general is a horrid statement and opinion to make. Is it just less so that of an actual killing then it is to make a large drastic statement? A statement of which tries to tell all men that they're all the worst and every woman wish your gender didn't exist? All in all, it feels like…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:01 PM
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No, not anymore would I accept that as a challenge. I have stated that from all the comments and replies it's clear that what I really am is an egalitarian since the toxicity in feminism is unfortunately too far gone. It is hard as a woman to drop this term as other women put you down for it as they make it out like feminism is the only way to advocate for women's rights. I know this isn't right now and have changed, since I want to support both men and women's rights for equality, without being…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 02:42 PM
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Yes I find this completely agreeable and rational. I wanted to put this post out to understand how people such as yourself feel and how you interpret it as a whole. Please don't feel yourself out to be a "cunt", this is definitely not the case and your feelings of being unmoved are definitely valid. Often when we don't experience or understand things it undermines the people who actually have went through these experiences and are dealing with it. I don't want this to occur nor do I want men to …
/r/MensRights14/03/22 02:06 PM
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I see, putting it in this way has definitely put more light onto it. It is easy to see why and how you resent it. It's a very tough situation and topic but the only real thing I can say to you is you either do without women in your life, find the perfect one that will never expect anything from you, or you can try and teach or let future partners know that you're not ok with this type of behaviour. I know this shouldn't be the case but you either continue to resent or try and bring women out of …
/r/MensRights14/03/22 01:55 PM
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Yesterday was definitely an eye opener onto this fact. I wasn't ignorant to many toxic feminists and toxic feminist movements but feminists drone at women who aren't feminists. When they do this it seems like feminism is the ONLY way to support women otherwise you don't, but people with great insight such as yourself on here have shown me that this isn't the case. It makes feel a bit better about my naivety on this subject by hearing your experience on this so thank you so much!
/r/MensRights14/03/22 01:42 PM
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Yeah I get it, I really want to try and remove this irrational fear as afterwards when I really think about it, it's horrible. I could've been fearing such an incredibly nice person, and it breaks me to think that there are also people out there who try their best to look as though they don't want to harm you. Until yesterday (I'm new here), I labelled myself as feminist (and I later understood how much it went against men's rights as I was under the false impression it was for equality and now …
/r/MensRights14/03/22 01:36 PM
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Men and women should be allowed to be careful as who the hell knows what you will come across, but blatantly telling and scaring other women into believing the next man they come across could do anything to them is ridiculous and obviously very sexist.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 01:16 PM
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I have to say that you have made such a stunning response, I don't think I could ever create anything that truly shows the absurdity in it. Media is definitely a big factor in making it seem as though these statistics are alot closer to how you could be next kind of thing. Being attacked and almost kidnapped by this deranged woman Id met on my way back to school years ago definitely opened my eyes to the discrimination of males. I was scared for a week or 2 but never brought about weapons or sel…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 01:11 PM
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You can throw out my opinion because I'm a woman and from an inside perspective, perhaps I don't see as well as yourself. But you must decide what you actually are hating on, is it women or is it how the society has come out to benefit women more and allow them to do more? I have a boyfriend of 4 years and I, personally have sought out higher paid jobs and I have wanted to attempt side businesses. I feel in the past I was pushy on him too for getting a higher paying job but I have now stopped as…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 12:56 PM
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I did say I couldn't tell and I didn't mean to say it as though I meant to call them out for something they werent. The confusion lies when they say "what's not hate?" Hate can quickly fuel what has happened to modern feminism now and can therefor generally allow hatred of all women to seep into a great movement for men's equality. (I don't know how Reddit works so I cannot absolutely reference the text but it is there). I also brushed past the fact they may hate women,as if they did hate women …
/r/MensRights14/03/22 12:03 PM
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I'm sorry if it was not obvious but my edit does state an overturn of my comment. I want to support both men and women for equality (so egalitarian) and I don't want to destroy my support for men by claiming I'm a feminist (which I will no longer claim to be if it means men may believe I'm against men's rights, as this is what feminism has now unfortunately become).
/r/MensRights14/03/22 11:58 AM
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Yes and this is why I will not be doing that from now on. As much as I hated causing quite a heated disagreements, I am thankful I can learn from this and yes, I definitely do not want to name myself under a feminist if it means that I could potentially be a misandrist to other people that don't know me. I want to support full equality with men and women, which I can't do when I keep calling myself a feminist, if it completely goes against MRA's
/r/MensRights14/03/22 01:05 AM
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I cannot tell if you want to hate women or not but, I'm only here to justify and explain that you can read my edited comment now. You can further dispute with me if you still feel it is incorrect although I was never here to hate and I'm sorry if me calling myself a feminist has made you feel this way (again you can ready my comment). I was never here to police what men can or can't say either and thank you for replying it has given me great insight. This could've been resolved more peacefully h…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 12:35 AM
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Although I'm against how far the term feminism has been soiled, I do not want any MRA's to think I am against their movement. You can read my edit but in short I want to drop this term of feminism for myself, if it prevents men and women from mislabeling me as someone who hates men.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 12:30 AM
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I'm sorry but you can't erase a definition. If they don't abide by the definition by having different actions, then they are now under a new term. I'm not offended at all by MRA's, I was trying to correct an incorrect term that mislabels feminists as women wanting men killed, which is incorrect. I understand that actions named falsely as feminism are wrong and are against equality and need to be recognised. It is kind of unbelievable you'd want to pass off women here who want to help MRA's. You …
/r/MensRights13/03/22 11:42 PM
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Yes incredibly put, it is hard to mention this group of people without using the term feminists, as obviously they're disguised under this term falsely. Also thank you for justifying this, I felt like I was on thin ice for a moment, I didn't want to undermine the fact that alot of people think this way about men, by picking crumbs at the terms used.
/r/MensRights13/03/22 10:38 PM
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I'm a feminist on the grounds of the original meaning of the term, and I want the most amount of women to be equal to men no matter the context. Although I haven't been on here long, I have commented and tried to help out on here, and I by no means hate men. And I have learnt and read new inequalities men face today, which I can completely get behind and support (Edit: Not supporting the inequalities, supporting Men's rights - sorry). Of course I hate certain men that I've met that have been jus…
/r/MensRights13/03/22 09:50 PM
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Just get away and limit your interactions with them. If youre relationship with parents or other members is well then do muster up the strength to visit or call. However when visiting, perhaps (only in your head) you must in turn forgive your sister. I'm sure you've had times where you got along, and unfortunately in her own life journey she's been turned in a wrong direction. I only say the forgiving part so that when visiting family and she's there or another circumstance, you lose hatred of h…
/r/MensRights13/03/22 05:57 PM
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I can't tell you how to feel and this is my first comment on Reddit but there's alot that goes on in the outside world, mostly awful. We all know the media can be bad in any situation and only wants what the drama needs, but you have to look away from it sometimes. We can acknowledge and sympathise with tragedies like any other but we must ensure all is well as an individual. Find your own talents and strengths to make yourself feel happy, even if it's not acknowledged by another, but soon I'm s…
/r/MensRights11/03/22 05:25 PM
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