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1

It's simple, older women are in relationship busy raising kids and working. No time for gym and being single (it isn't fun to grow old alone and you will start feeling it a few years in the future). You have to try to find independent accomplished older women. Why? because many men would be intimidated by them or wouldn't wanna be with them. They value kindness and ability to raise kids more than independence and money
/r/seduction05/07/26 11:18 AM
1

How will you even detect them? They are the hardest to notice if you don't know them
/r/seduction29/05/26 03:35 PM
10

They may assume it's to get more followers... I mean if you have all that. Why would you want to date someone starting from ig? Doesn't make sense at all
/r/seduction23/07/25 06:16 PM
0

At home probably or online
/r/seduction23/03/25 12:45 PM
9

This is kinda confusing, you said she rejected you while in the post she only said she was busy? I think it's better to ask for he number then next time you hang out to see if she's interested in dating. If she refuses to give you your number she's not interested. Some people like to hang out with someone at work (no matter the gender) just to have a nice day doesn't mean anything.
/r/seduction22/01/25 03:25 PM
3

Women can sense EGO... When you get rejected you don't like it... A man that women go for doesn't care that much
/r/seduction17/01/25 09:58 AM
8

this mindset is a turn off. You feel that cause you don't see them as a person or human, more like an object of desire... Which is extremely unattractive to say the least. The more you chill the easier it get to make connections with them
/r/seduction10/01/25 01:42 PM
2

Oh? I'm 28 and i look 24. Would invite you to a date if possible wouldn't that be hilarious lol
/r/seduction10/08/24 12:10 AM
436

Doesn't look down on people of lower status or poor background
/r/seduction29/03/23 09:18 PM
23

I think he wants to have fun AND feel secure with himself by getting girls
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:32 PM
2

He's still very young, so naturally he'd be willing to do casual stuff until it gets boring for him and realize he has other needs that casual just doesn't do it for him, he has a long way to go in life and experience but the body count and STDs can be a deal breaker for someone, one he'd be willing to settle with if he does end up finding the one for him. Let him realize that on his own.
/r/seduction27/08/22 06:02 PM
3

Delete all the nudes and keep the conversation very short and dry, if you separate with your wife, you can do what you want
/r/seduction25/08/22 06:33 PM
1

So what if they work? If someone wants something they do it.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:36 PM
1

Well, why do you give that much focus? Do you see her as a human being like the rest of the world or like someone to conquer?
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:12 PM
2

Big insecurities issues, and it could be even worse than this
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:54 PM
41

Karaoke, dancing, ice skating,.... There's actually a lot but ghe favourite activity is socializing and having fun with friends
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:21 AM
1

Use your hobbies (activities club) or online activities (not dating apps), otherwise you will have to try to travel and change your environment a bit.
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:47 AM
1

That's the thing, you can't expect anything, it can happen in 5 minutes, and it can never happen.
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:10 PM
1

No, it's all about the emotional connection, it's what matters in serious or long-term relationships, even sexual attraction isn't enough.
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:35 PM
2

Not necessarily, i wouldn't give my number to a random person even if we had ton in common, like who knows if you're a narsist or not.
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:33 PM
6

The date you agreed on initially
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:06 PM
7

Man, go for the date, it's only a red flag if she starts ghosting you after saying no in her drunk state.
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:43 AM
1

Doesn't seem like ONS, but you can't do much, dont text anymore.
/r/seduction12/06/22 11:14 PM
3

It's the type, you get attracted to women based on how attractive she is, that's not the rule for women, if i like someone and he has something I've been missing in the ones that i met, he's better than them. And no you can't fake it. This has been my personal experience.
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:14 PM
2

Most guys don't reply either once they get comfortable in a relationship. I do agree on the fact that people should reply and clearly express if they are not interested.
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:09 PM
37

Yup, this is the answer.
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:08 PM
1

Do you get hit on by girls a lot? You can just politely express you're straight
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:51 PM
3

I guess they never felt the need to or probably cause they aren't interested in deep conversation, most guys prefer looks so that's the result you get. I genuinely wish there are more like you out there as i personally find it difficult to even engage in a conversation with a guy. Extremely shallow views on everything. Same thing applies on guys too (i have some friends but god it's tough to find more).
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:37 AM
1

You sound like a complete wreck emotionally, maybe you keep yourself busy is a better option but tbh you're developing unhealthy coping mechanisms that may influence your life later on. I might be wrong though. Isn't focusing on yourself better than going after temporary comfort?
/r/seduction26/05/22 10:10 PM
2

That response looks like mine, she wasn't looking for a relationship and didn't see a reason to exchange numbers, might be the type that needs emotional connection first.
/r/seduction24/05/22 08:59 PM
1

Don't overthink it
/r/seduction24/05/22 08:54 PM
1

Hahahha you should watch kdrama, how to escalate a study session into a date
/r/seduction24/05/22 08:25 PM
2

You don't have a need to talk, imagine if you gpt lost, you wouldn't think twice it.
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:19 PM
14

He's not handsome but is good looking enough, seems like has a great personality, knows how to have a real conversation, has a life without looking narcissistic or arrogant. I mean why in the world he'd be bad at dating?
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:45 PM
2

If they act like they have nothing to say, it's the truth.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:05 PM
16

You are right, but ever asked about the reason? What's the point of getting to know someone who's only there to have fun with you, you yourself said it only lasted a few months, I'm pretty sure if they were a bit chubby or were taking some meds, you wouldn't even remember them. I'm not saying it's right at all. It is what it is sadly.
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:56 PM
1

If dating apps make you feel like that, I'd say they are tje real problem.
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:12 PM
3

No, it's not gender based but personality based, I'm stable when it comes to my romantic life, my crushes last at least a year, on the other hand, more than half of my friends would forget a date in a week, move to another.
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:23 PM
3

If she's willing to leave her current bf, i see no reason not to.
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:50 PM
1

How can you tell a hot girl wants to fuck or is looking for a relationship? Well buddy that's the first question to ask. Id say you're picking from the wrong pool in the first place.
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:58 PM
1

Her ghosting you either means she was disappointed for whatever reason she had or felt like she made a mistake by asking you out, technically you are still friends so why not like a post? It's just a picture.
/r/seduction20/05/22 04:41 PM
1

It's not too long for me, thank you for sharing
/r/seduction20/05/22 11:53 AM
1

Respond to something they consider a big deal, could be a girls only night out/ sharing about a trip and asking about it/ music recommendations..... Pretty anything you can find in common.
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:57 PM
1

For sex, you can experience it faster. For more, that's difficult, most men are only interested in sex (be it older or similar in age), I'm sorry but there's nothing to do about that. You are trying to find a gem basically. Be you, work on your looks and don't search too hard. You will get burned out.
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:43 AM
2

Do you want to be complimented or want to be loved and wanted? It's completely different.
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:15 PM
1

Hah! I doubt the last statement is true, don't give false hopes. There is a possibility, and that's it, life is just opportunities.
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:14 PM
22

You're dumb, you're not getting it.
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:50 PM
1

Well, how can you tell they aren't a gold digger? Sure, pretty, good looking, has a job... But how can you tell she wouldn't cheat or leave once he's seriously sick or jobless? Also i would add the good men are really rare whether they are attractive or not. PS : to be fair i wouldn't pick an attractive guy who's only there for fun and hooking up over a great guy living in his comfort zone.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:28 PM
1

Check if he's genuine and is starting to really like you rather than say the right thing, there's a big difference between the two, that would help you.
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:22 AM
1

I personally answer with getting to know people, that's basic and simple.
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:37 PM
1

I doubt hookups culture would work anytime.... That's what you find mostly during college.
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:40 PM
8

Maybe establish trust with a special person? Could help, also had a high chance of working out if you want a relationship rather than just hookups
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:48 PM
1

Tbh if you don't enjoy dating and find it hard, why date in the first place? I don't think it's fair to just blame your gender for it.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:41 PM
4

No
/r/seduction03/05/22 04:29 PM
1

Seems like you don't have any female friends, never actually put effort into understanding women.
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:32 AM
2

Another version of feminism, for God's sake, grow up!
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:18 PM
1

You weren't receptive to the environment, it takes a bit of practice.
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:02 PM
2

Try to get comfortable with each other, finding/sharing common interests might help, get to know each other without any pressure.
/r/seduction24/04/22 07:00 PM
7

Break up with her, i mean you don't really like her. But don't cry if you can't find your dream girl later on.
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:21 AM
1

Well, you can check all the right boxes, i do understand where you are coming from though, but if you don't meet the right person for you, what are you going to do? I don't think there's a place where you will find her, it's all about luck sometimes.
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:13 AM
1

Hey OP, give up on her and talk to me instead haha, just kidding, don't expect too much from dating apps.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:01 PM
13

Dating apos aren't the best way to meet ppl in general, its the easiest as long as you have more potential.
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:16 AM
1

Not interested to get to know you, as the same thing happens when a guy isn't interested in a woman on apps.
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:41 PM
1

Honestly, you should ask someone close to your age. Find someone else and even if she shows she's interested later on, ignore her.
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:12 PM
3

I think she isn't getting attention or interested in anyone particularly, her wanting to keep things secret is major red flag, cut contact with her.
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:05 PM
0

I bet you don't know how to text them or bad at talking to them especially in that age.
/r/seduction30/12/21 11:51 PM
1

Yeah that move is great.
/r/seduction25/12/21 12:50 PM
0

The competition is real
/r/seduction20/12/21 12:33 PM
1

Yes, there are still people like that.
/r/seduction10/12/21 11:49 AM
1

Lol you've got it wrong, I hate it when I ask about something to find I was ignored.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:51 PM
1

He's not interested in you, he just wants Sex.
/r/seduction10/11/21 05:06 PM
3

It's good to see you're putting effort, the right one will come around,don't worry about it too much, sometimes you might do all the right stuff and nothing happens.
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:48 PM
1

I think you should drink your medicine.
/r/seduction04/10/21 07:58 PM
9

Spot on!
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:56 PM
1

25, I don't think dating is good for me and I definitely hate its culture nowadays.
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:55 PM
1

Just fucking study or give up meeting her all together -_-
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:19 PM
3

Make friends first, lol then make yourself clear that you don't want anything serious but fun! Repeat it again but don't bring FWB until they bring it up first.
/r/seduction09/08/21 07:16 PM
1

Maybe she realized it was going too fast for her.
/r/seduction07/08/21 12:22 PM
1

Apps, especially chatting apps...
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:59 PM
1

Well it's different when you act like a man, do women spend enough time with you to get to know you? People change their perspective on others all the time, nothing new about it.
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:47 PM
1

Depends , do you live on attention from women?
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:52 PM
1

No parting isn't that great, try to learn new languages or volunteer. Other than I think you're good personally.
/r/seduction28/07/21 08:01 PM
6

I always do it
/r/seduction28/06/21 10:43 PM
3

Really?! I must be attracting wind lol
/r/seduction27/05/21 11:40 PM
2

This 💯
/r/seduction03/05/21 11:47 PM
24

👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:53 PM
1

What does it mean when it replies to your comment?
/r/seduction01/05/21 03:09 PM
2

What's a Shakespeare generator? I really want to know since I had a comment changed.
/r/seduction01/05/21 01:53 PM
5

He can just work on it when he needs to, at least he is honest about his needs, most of the relationship fails cause guys only want to date for Sex as a goal.
/r/seduction28/04/21 12:00 PM
12

Nothing wrong with it, I hope all the guys wanting Sex just skip the dating phase if that's what they want. Rather than confusing and lying about themselves.
/r/seduction28/04/21 11:56 AM
5

So What if the person is "too sensitive"? Isn't it worse if the person is" too insensitive"? I see a lot of break ups because of it.
/r/seduction27/04/21 09:54 PM
1

Congratulations! Big up for not getting upset about it.
/r/seduction16/04/21 12:55 PM
2

I guess it depends on the wanted outcome, most desire a balanced mix between fun, brain, looks and maturity.
/r/seduction12/04/21 08:32 PM
25

More on the first case , it's just someone who isn't engaging much who prefers to be himself , holding his own ground sort of.
/r/seduction12/04/21 08:23 PM
1

Well, I do agree on this in theory but reality proves otherwise.
/r/seduction07/04/21 07:20 PM
3

Funny enough, I always meet older or immature guys, the others are either married, dating or committed to their job.
/r/seduction31/03/21 07:42 PM
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