DeepNeed Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How do you end a multiyear dry spell?		DeepNeed	/r/seduction	01/08/17 03:23 AM

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0	Game is 100% about perceived value Inner game can only get you so far when you aren't getting any actual results.	/r/seduction	02/10/19 09:20 PM
2	So I requested to join the RSD Inner Circle in San Diego four days ago... but they haven't checked mine at all.... I'm 18 but have no idea if that's what the issue is or if no one just really hasn't seen the request can someone who knows how the request process works help me out? Is that group active at all? The forums seem absolutely dead. It's kind of funny with how absolutely massive San Diego is, there aren't any lairs or groups around.	/r/seduction	12/08/17 08:59 AM
1	How to actually love yourself. Yea she definitely knows you like her that's the type of thing woman talk about their whole lives and it's important to be able to show your interest without the baggage. She can feel the emotional attachment you have to the words as you speak them even if you think your being casual. That makes sense. And that baggage I have is enough to scare her away. But apparently a guy with a fucking girlfriend doesn't have enough baggage to scare her away because he's confident and has muscles. No idea wh…	/r/seduction	02/08/17 03:46 AM
2	How to actually love yourself. Do those women actually exist? Sorry I'm a bit too logical.	/r/seduction	02/08/17 01:14 AM
1	How to actually love yourself. I know this sounds gloom but who's to say finding a woman won't make things miserable? Simple, because I've already had a woman in my life for almost a year. It was the best period of my entire life and I want to experience that again more than anything in the world. Then I got it and it was nice, for just a bit. Then it became a whole new kind of hell. Maybe I'm lucky because I've never actually had a bad experience with a woman I was dating. To me my relationship with my ex was perfect. We nev…	/r/seduction	02/08/17 01:13 AM
1	How to actually love yourself. You're getting me a little confused here. The first time I asked out my current oneitis I said something like, "Hey lets go hiking at the spot you like to go to. I've never gone before so you'll be my tour guide. I'll pay you with a Jamba Juice for your services." Then she said something about already having plans that weekend. I've asked her to come with a few other things since then and she always had a convenient excuse. Though it's very possible that by that point she already knew I liked he…	/r/seduction	02/08/17 12:56 AM
3	How to actually love yourself. Socialise, its easy to meet people and make friends. When you have an actual social life you'll feel a lot less miserable. Right now you have women on a pedestal and think you're a failure without a girlfriend because you you're looking for a girlfriend to fill that huge social void in your life. I hate to be the negative asshole guy who has a rebuttal to everything, but I've already been there where I had an active social life and a group of friends. Eventually I became the only one without a g…	/r/seduction	02/08/17 12:48 AM
2	How to actually love yourself. Hmm, that's a really interesting way to put it. I've never really thought about my ego in terms like that, though I've read about the concepts of ego, ID and super ego. So trying to understand my ego, I guess I see it as a scared little boy. He's trying to make friends and be nice but is very reactionary to everybody around him. He really wants to make friends with women but they are intimidating and often terrifying. He gets angry when he sees other guys play with the girls he wants to and then…	/r/seduction	02/08/17 12:20 AM
1	How to actually love yourself. Suicide. As I've said in other posts, I don't see a reason to living a life without a woman in it. If I can't make it work by the time I'm 40, it's just not going to happen. There is no reason to grow old, alone and miserable.	/r/seduction	01/08/17 11:53 PM
0	How to actually love yourself. It should be obvious from what I've said in my previous post. Four more years of serious effort.	/r/seduction	01/08/17 11:29 PM
1	How do you end a multiyear dry spell? Stop doing things like this, meeting women should be a bonus to whatever other awesome thing you are already doing. Tried that already. They didn't come. So the next plan was to move to a place where it should be easier. I just made a big mistake in this city.	/r/seduction	01/08/17 11:28 PM
2	How to actually love yourself. I think that if you don't love yourself, then how others are supposed to do so? It's very easy. A woman love me because of all the positives that I have. I can be an awesome boyfriend. The problem is that women don't give me a chance to show them who I really am. That leads me to becoming miserable and believing that there is something wrong with me. Because if there wasn't anything wrong with me, then I shouldn't struggle, right? Have a few too many years of that thinking then the self-hate sta…	/r/seduction	01/08/17 11:26 PM
1	How to actually love yourself. I'm short and I don't have any friends. I don't think it should be enough to cause women to have no interest in me, but that's what it seems to be.	/r/seduction	01/08/17 11:22 PM
3	How to actually love yourself. Women just don't seem to like me anywhere I go. I never get any signals. Everyone I've liked has rejected me.	/r/seduction	01/08/17 09:34 PM
3	How to actually love yourself. I'm 36. I can remember being a 19 year old virgin. It's certainly not fun. But there is hope for you.	/r/seduction	01/08/17 09:32 PM
7	How to actually love yourself. Yeah it's sad and it really brings me down. But I can't deny it's how I feel. I've been single for 99% of my life and I've been absolutely miserable. That 1% that I've had a girlfriend? That was the best time of my life and it was such a relief to not have that pressure on me, and I felt normal. If I can't get a girl by the time I'm 40, I'm done. I just can not imagine living another 40 years of misery.	/r/seduction	01/08/17 08:25 PM
1	How do you end a multiyear dry spell? Do you think they are picking up on this somehow? Very possible. It's a catch 22. I'm not having any fun without women, and women don't like me because I'm not having any fun. All I need is one fucking girl to like me so I can start to enjoy my life, but it seems to be the hardest thing on Earth to accomplish. I too have to keep reminding myself to smile, specifically miming that shit eating grin Bruce Willis has been dragging around Hollywood for the last half century. It's amazing how crappy m…	/r/seduction	01/08/17 07:41 PM
0	How to actually love yourself. What's the difference? For me, giving up on women is essentially giving up on life. I know it's not the right way to be, but I don't see any purpose in life if I'm going to be single for the rest of it. Also, while I know this is wrong, I don't feel that I can love myself if women/a woman doesn't love me. How is it even possible to love yourself when women shun you? That just makes me feel like a failure.	/r/seduction	01/08/17 07:35 PM
1	How do you end a multiyear dry spell? If you don't know the reason, then I won't know, and I doubt anyone else here will. That's an interesting way of putting it. Then how about, how do guys start dating women they work with or generally people they see on a regular basis? Do they go really direct, or indirect, do they flirt a lot or a little? How do they do it? Imagine you have a world class dating coach next with you right now. How is he dressed? What colours are his clothing. Hah, after having taken a few bootcamps, he looks like…	/r/seduction	01/08/17 03:04 PM
1	Let's be Honest Here About Virginity I didn't say just have guy friends, it's have guy friends that are good with and know women. They should open the door to meeting more women and then you can go on more dates. Yes you are absolutely correct that it's important to go on lots of dates. I haven't been on a date in over two years and that's really not good. Once you get ok with rejection youll put your energy into people that actually are worth it Yeah it's important to be OK with rejection, but that doesn't start happening till you…	/r/seduction	01/08/17 02:16 PM
–	How to actually love yourself. Damn this really resonates with me. Putting in tons of effort into self-improvement and nothing seems to work. I'm getting very angry and depressed. Rejection after rejection, I went home with my tail tucked between my legs. All I wanted that night was to have someone at my side. I didn't give a shit if I got laid or not, I just needed to be with someone to lessen the pain of being alone. Absolutely me. I just want to be acknowledged by a woman. Of course I want to get laid, but that can come la…	/r/seduction	01/08/17 01:28 PM
1	How do you end a multiyear dry spell? No, that's just the basic format of speed dating. Everybody asks where do you live, what do you do for work, what are your hobbies. Have you ever done it?	/r/seduction	01/08/17 04:44 AM
2	How do you end a multiyear dry spell? Just by continually going out and failing. Rejections and otherwise is when I started to break the dry spell. It sucked, it still sucks and sometimes you feel like you want to quit. But every now and then you will get that one hit and everything would have been worth it. Over time things get easier. Just be consistent and constantly improve. That's why i started writing FRs (Field Reports you can read them in my post history) to track my progress and learn from past mistakes. Cool, I'll check ou…	/r/seduction	01/08/17 04:36 AM
1	How do you end a multiyear dry spell? While I didn't mention it, I think my job is bringing me down. It's the right type of job but in the wrong office. I start at 7 AM which is too early for me, and there are only two women under 30 out of 60 something employees. Plus I'm obsessed with one of those women and she adamantly refuses to even let me talk to her for 10 minutes yet has no problem hanging out with other guys in the office. That said I am looking for new work. I have been lifting seriously since the middle of last year. Yea…	/r/seduction	01/08/17 04:18 AM
1	How do you end a multiyear dry spell? I did indeed. And it was actually pretty boring. Imagine having the same three minute conversation with 20 people. And everybody else is having the same conversation. I actually tried to break the norm a bit a bit and make things fun. I also dressed up pretty nice; bought a couple new outfits. My reward, no matches and a half off coupon for next time.	/r/seduction	01/08/17 04:03 AM
1	How do you end a multiyear dry spell? How did you break your dry spell? What event turned it around for you? I am trying to improve myself and I've done a ton of reading on that subject, here and on TheRedPill plus many other recommended books. I also discovered the Art of Charm podcasts so I listen to one of those on my drive home. Frankly I think I'm drowning in material and now trying to figure out what is essential at this point in my life. I do work out frequently and I'm in a cutting phase. I've lost 10 pounds this year. 4% bo…	/r/seduction	01/08/17 04:01 AM
1	How do you end a multiyear dry spell? I've been through therapy though mainly for depression and self-confidence issues. Didn't help with either. Regardless the introversion isn't that extreme. I just don't want to randomly approach people on the street. That's normal level introversion and doesn't effect my daily life. I'm just not an outgoing person and cold approaching requires an outgoing personality.	/r/seduction	01/08/17 03:39 AM
3	Let's be Honest Here About Virginity At what age does it become a problem that some men can't figure out dating and sex? It's hard to put an actual age to this question. But if you are out of college (or around ~24) and haven't figured out the dating game, you are in serious trouble. After college things only get more difficult. You'll simply have less opportunities to meet women. And if you manged to get that old without figuring out dating, it means that there is something wrong with you and you have a ton of work to do. For the …	/r/seduction	01/08/17 02:55 AM
20	Abundance mentality You're really hungry and you have 5 sandwiches. Correction: You have 5 sandwiches so you aren't hungry at all. Though you know it will be a bad idea to have no sandwiches so you are always looking for more. Though since you aren't hungry you're only casually looking. and don't care if you can't get a sandwich. Why would you care, you have plenty?	/r/askTRP	04/04/17 07:39 PM
–	Want a girl at work, one of my work buddies is with her now. But he may get tired of her soon. So what? Every woman in the world is another dude's leftovers.	/r/askTRP	01/04/17 01:11 AM
–	Want a girl at work, one of my work buddies is with her now. But he may get tired of her soon. How is your reply helpful in anyway whatsoever?	/r/askTRP	31/03/17 07:27 PM
–	Want a girl at work, one of my work buddies is with her now. But he may get tired of her soon. After seeing that the first three replies were "Don't shit where you eat" I edited my post to state that no further replies like that were welcome.	/r/askTRP	31/03/17 07:24 PM
1	I went to a high-class escort and thought I'd share some details with you. Hah, not at once. Just three different girls with about a 10-20 minute break between them. The last time I went I miscalculated the amount of money I needed to spend and only had enough for two girls. I also went really late at night and was getting tired. If I go in the afternoon I usually do three girls before I leave.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/16 10:47 PM
1	I went to a high-class escort and thought I'd share some details with you. Sorry for the late reply. It's actually really simple. Park near the boarder. I prefer the lot behind the Jack in the Box, though it's a 30 min wait to park. Walk through Mexican customs, bring your passport. Keep walking to you get to the street and hail a taxi, they are everywhere. Tell the driver you want to go to Hong Kong. Hong Kong is a strip club/brothel. Every girl there is available for banging $60-80 and ~$10 for the room. The best value is the girls outside. Just walk around the block…	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/16 10:45 PM
17	I went to a high-class escort and thought I'd share some details with you. Damn that's a lot of money for a whore! I used to have a phase where I was spending $300 an hour on hookers. I did that about five times. Now I just drive down to Tijuana and screw cute Mexican girls for $15. I have sex with three girls on average when I go down and the whole trip costs me around $60. The sex can vary from starfish to Dios Mio! It doesn't hurt nor upset women at all. The majority of men are simply not realizing that most women have endless men at their disposal, literally a phon…	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/16 04:03 PM
11	I went to a high-class escort and thought I'd share some details with you. The long term escort is a sugar baby. Basically a girlfriend for hire.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/16 03:11 PM
4	Why using the nuclear option (of having sex with prostitutes) may truly be the most red pill move of them all. Hookers are a stop gap. I lost my virginity to a hooker at 22 and I've been having sex with them off and on for ten years. I took a break from them because #1 it was expensive; $300 for an hour. And #2 I wanted to do things the real way and get a girlfriend. I eventually got a GF and sex with her was just better in every way then with hookers. It was also the first time I was able to have sex multiple times in a day several days a week. Several months later she left me and I had a dry spell that…	/r/TheRedPill	07/07/16 10:59 PM