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That's the part to internalize here, she's on the hunt for new wieners. She is keeping her options open and meeting with other possible suitors because her current man seems a little gay.
/r/askMRP14/01/20 07:50 PM
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True - see you have to account for the "didn't count" rationalization. Did it in the bathroom and never saw dude again? Didn't count - see how it works.
/r/askMRP04/10/19 06:01 PM
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If that's all she is to you, it's her fault for not adding value to your life.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 02:53 PM
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Human behavior isn't as predictable as it seems. Ask any trial attorney or politician.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 03:39 PM
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Even monkeys groom themselves. These two idiots aren't even monkeys.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 03:31 PM
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Well, we sure as hell aren't civil servants. I'm going to assume you didn't get into that to make big money.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 07:57 PM
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PragmaticRed is right, small manageable goals. A mistake I made on a similar journey to Pragmatic - I used to visualize myself as the man I wanted to be. I thought it would be helpful, but it was more harmful. I got invested in that dude and would get mad when people didn't see me as that dude. Ego was invested...constant frustration. Rian did a video that recommended the better approach. His advice was to focus on the process, not the ending, not the "markers." Don't become attached to some arc…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 07:52 PM
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I never really got mad about that but many years ago that's kinda how I thought. My idiot faggot years.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 07:30 PM
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That's a big ass lawn, 2 hrs! As long as you don't spend that extra 2 hrs doing gay shit, yeah, seems like a good investment.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 07:26 PM
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This is worthy of repeating. You can do all of the things in the post above, and then some, and still the wife thinks of you as that beta simp because that's just what you are to her. I think that's pretty rare, but I've seen it. My wife went through that for a while until she had a sudden realization. Anyway, time to cut and run. Tough to do in a marriage, esp with kids, but probably worth it for your self respect. Do you really want to do life with a woman that has perpetual dry-pussy for you?…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 07:23 PM
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I would bet it is more obvious than most men will admit. I know what happened to me is that I ignored my instincts, ignored the logic, and instead let myself believe the blue pill lie. It was easier that way. Stupid. And my wife is actually pretty damn good. Actually adds value. Still....
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/19 06:08 PM
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Discipline is used to do the things you don't want to do but are a necessary part of accomplishing your mission or goal. It's also used to avoid those things that you want, but will hinder your mission or goal. Example: I don't want to make cold calls to drum up some new business, but I do it because my mission is to grow. Example: I want to drum up new business so I'm not going to fuck around on my phone when I could be working.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/19 05:54 PM
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Read this in Samuel L. Jackson's voice, "What in the fuck is emotional acuity?"
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/19 07:56 PM
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Him or me, decide now. If there is a moment of hesitation, divorce. Hell, divorce anyway.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 05:51 PM
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Time to file for divorce. Seriously. No point in delaying it. Even if she never gets with Chad, OP is fucked. I don't know what the point is in putting effort into this relationship.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 05:47 PM
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fuuuuuuuck, that'll RedPill ya' QUICK
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 04:17 PM
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Sounds like this women is fucking up the mom part. Giving kids iPads without limits is stupid. Rewarding whiny behavior is self-defeating. She sounds lazy AF, she doesn't want to actually parent the children, that would take effort. For most of the women I know, the maternal instincts only go as far as keeping the child alive and somewhat fed. They'll also comply with the social norms of her social group. However; in order to be a better mother than that, she needs a captain. You hit the nail on…
/r/askMRP27/08/19 06:38 PM
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I think what Dan said was slightly different. He was saying that to make it through BUDS you have to tell yourself you are already a SEAL. You always were a SEAL. Now you just have to prove it. You can't fail because it's something you already are. It's that mindset vs. the "if I can get through this then that means I'm a SEAL." Subtle difference, but that was my take on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/19 07:21 PM
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Don't get ONEITIS for your kid.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 07:31 PM
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You sat your wife down and told her that she's not a bad person, you aren't going to judge, and you think of her in a positive way? After learning what you learned about her actions? That's foreign to me and probably sounded weird AF to her. What does she need to do to get you angry? You're a bit of a cuck. If she is banging other dudes, and it seems to me like she is, then you are 100% a cuck. The definition isn't up for interpretation. You took her wedding ring away? What's the point in that? …
/r/askMRP19/08/19 06:48 PM
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This is a fair question - after all, we are all trying to get the best we can. But there are two problems in the way women handle that objective. #1 - women (hypergamy) falsely believe that if a 9 fucks her, then she is capable of a committed relationship with a 9. She isn't willing to admit to herself (ego) that she was just an easy lay, some weekend pussy. She controls sexual access, but men control commitment. #2 - women begin measuring all future men against the best she's had, even if the b…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/19 02:16 PM
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Once I decided I was going to do what I wanted to do, some of the "busy" things fell right off the schedule. I realized that I was doing a lot of shit for validation and some shit I was trying to get done quickly so I could be more accessible. Rushing kills fun. Removing some of your accessibility is worth it, esp if you are bettering yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/19 05:44 PM
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If there is anything I know about Mormon women it is that they get a ton of anxiety trying to get validation from each other and expend all their energy trying to impress each other. This is so very true. I dated a few Mormon girls in college and I had no idea what Mormonism was, but I knew those chicks were super concerned with each other (they all knew each other). It actually played pretty well into my hands cause they were all trying to one-up each other.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/19 05:26 PM
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Hell, in the distant past, if a woman shacked up with the wrong man who was weak-shit, then it could mean death for her and her children. This instinct to sense a pretend "alpha" evolved from an entire family line of women who chose men who couldn't afford to be weak. Fuckin' right it's a sixth sense!
/r/askMRP22/07/19 08:11 PM
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Is it just me, or is this a weird shoulder/chest day workout? Starts with two exercises for back day and another back exercise in the middle? I get how those can hit the rear delt, but I'd just do them on back day. Zero mid-delt work? No lateral raises, cable raises, face pulls? It's like 3 muscle groups into one workout.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 05:23 PM
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This. You can use arguing as a tool to rile up some passion. Ultimately she knows I don't care about the argument because I really wasn't listening anyway. Never arguing is missing out on opportunity. Just ask an Italian.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/18 06:16 PM
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Especially the homo part.
/r/askMRP27/10/18 02:47 PM
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Because he's that big of a bitchboy.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 01:18 PM
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Nobody is telling you to marry at all. BTW - how many fuckers in this thread have to tell you to get out of this marriage before you do it? Christ man, 4 years without sex? FOUR FUCKING YEARS? Do you sleep in a dog crate at night? Have you been castrated? WTF dude, you need professional help. Stop fucking with the internet, get your divorce, get professional help immediately.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 01:16 PM
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Wishing you the best. I appreciate your contributions here. Man, I want to trip on some acid now. Never done that. Joe Rogan talks about having similar experiences on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/18 04:11 PM
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"LOL, you sound like my girlfriend."
/r/askMRP05/09/18 04:01 PM
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Make it work? WHY? Fuckin' make it work...that bullshit slogan has led to so much misery. You don't even feel passion for this woman. It doesn't get better from here. She thinks that since you moved in together then she's a lock for marriage. Now she's spending time manipulating you and making sure you stay in her frame for the marriage. Probably doesn't even know she's doing it, it's just iniate in a lot of women. Move out when the lease is up. A good way to do it is at one of these "meetings."…
/r/askMRP04/09/18 08:01 PM
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Tis true, Hulk. I don't really say much to most of my friends. I've only red pilled two men, one when he was entering a divorce and the other when he was about to put a ring on a single mom. Felt like I had to with those guys. To their credit they swallowed it down and are living good lives now. My other friends don't have a clue. They honestly couldn't handle it and would run to their wives to validate.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 08:15 PM
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Think about it like this...you are engaged to marry a woman who is willing to risk her future marriage for...a job. The second she suggested that you try long distance is the second she ended the relationship. It's already gone, man. She ended it right there. You aren't engaged anymore. Bid her good luck and count your blessings, you just got two reprieves of execution. Lucky fuck.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 08:11 PM
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Arguing with your wife, when you choose to, for reasons you understand, is Machiavellian. It's not weak, it's manipulative, which comes from a position of strength. Your advice encourages autistic behavior.
/r/askMRP26/08/18 03:44 PM
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You can lose it pretty quickly if you stop acting like a bitch. I'd bet money that you are still a bitch. Where is your Cut The Shit intro to the subreddit? How can anyone help you if we don't know fuck shit about you? Don't see any OYS posts...
/r/askMRP17/08/18 11:43 PM
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The number of times showing my rage has helped a situation or improved my relationship is exactly zero. Took me a long time to figure that out. I've seen it help. Giving a fuck about the right thing and reacting with anger, even rage, and having the power to do something about it can be attractive. But other than that, yeah, point taken. The other 99% of the time you might as well cry. Just as unattractive to a woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 04:53 PM
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I haven't been initiating as much for some reason, perhaps I'm just not as interested I went through that, it's a by-product of your anger. That's alright for a little while, but don't let it go too long. Also, wether you want sex or not, game her. Flirt, tease, take action, etc. It's fun and even if you decide to leave her at least you'll be practiced. Read Book of Pook. Also, when you are lifting really hard, your desire can wain at times. Legs days have me sleepy by 7:30, it saps some hornine…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 04:39 PM
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Good advice. It also slowly pulls you into her frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 03:46 PM
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Nice work with this plate. Oh, and checking her phone for entertainment and"science" isn't weak.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 01:42 PM
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They both got validation. They both needed it, and that's the problem. He shouldn't need it. Oh well - he didn't want to cheat anyway. Nice suggestions - esp the venue change. Great way to determine dtf without wasting time.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 07:34 PM
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Mere suspicion is enough? From what I could read, the OPs suspicion comes primarily from the fact that this dude probably *could* fuck his wife. Not that it actually happened. He's in his weak ass feelings. No evidence.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 06:13 PM
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That is a rediculous overreaction.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 06:10 PM
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That was my first instinct as well. Bitchfest over...
/r/askMRP14/08/18 03:16 PM
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My kids HATE going to Costco, no matter how much fun I try to make it. They get to sample foods, look at toys, etc. It's still shitty to them. I think it's a good thing. Hiking is the same. You need to figure out what those kids like to do and do that with them. It sounds like you don't know what people in your family enjoy. "Hey kids, lets go hiking!" - kids thinking "fuck dad, I want to get better at throwing a football."
/r/askMRP14/08/18 02:08 PM
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There is some truth to this. Women spend money. Women love to keep up with the Jones's. Women set the tithe at church.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 01:58 PM
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What can you do? Nothing. Well, you can hope he's too busy making money and crushing younger, hotter pussy that your wife is invisible to him. If not, they fuck, and you leave her. You had your turn. All the more reason to keep doing your thing. And this, gentlemen, is why married men have plates.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 01:54 PM
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I don't shave anything, but I trim up all kinds of areas and I'm not even all that hairy. You just look better. Why would anyone hesitate to do so little to look so much better?
/r/askMRP12/08/18 05:36 PM
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The problem with anger is when you show it "for extended periods of time." That's gamma behavior. You can't trust an angry person.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 11:00 AM
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I believe the phrase is "emotional tampon"
/r/askMRP09/08/18 07:49 PM
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39 yrs old, married 12 yrs, 3 kids. 6 foot 8 inches, 215 lbs, bf%=fuck if I know, maybe 11-12%? Lifts – lifting/exercise isn’t a struggle. – I’m in incredible shape, former D1 basketball player, in better shape now than back then. I lift 4-5 days a week. Usually 5. Diet is on point, but I need a little less snacking to get the other 2% bf reduction I’d like for the summer months. Testosterone – no clue, I’ll get it checked at my next appointment. Don’t see issues here. • Gorilla Mindset: How you…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 04:12 PM
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What good did telling her all that do?
/r/askMRP31/07/18 08:48 PM
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WE STRIVE TO BE OURSELVES. Thanks for the link. A wonderful letter.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 08:24 PM
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Why are you buying something outside of your financial goals? I get it, it's a bike and they are awesome, but still. You walked yourself into a corner there. Don't talk about it until you are sure you are going to do it.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 08:03 PM
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Or Italian.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 07:58 PM
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Good luck finding someone around here to take that bet, the shear length of that text indicates a strong likelihood of crazy.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 07:52 PM
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Rian is 100% right. Take it from a man who's been there, you aren't mad at her. Objectively you know she did nothing wrong. Shit man, you did the same thing. You are mad at The Big Lie. You, for a moment, saw the code of the Matrix and it angered and hurt you. Your problem is that you went fully pussy and let her see the hurt. No worries though, I did the same thing with my wife 12-13 yrs ago. You'll have to slowly recover from that because she has lost some respect for you. Read through some of…
/r/askMRP31/07/18 06:18 PM
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I kinda like the fat shaming...definitely strong frame...
/r/askMRP31/07/18 06:09 PM
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Read BobbyPeru's post 10X. He nailed it, you failed the fuck out of comfort tests. You failed to reward your woman for good behavior (nudes) and her response is on you. She is confused. You are feeling yourself a little to fucking much. Snap out of it, or some better man will fuck the confusion right out of her.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 12:52 PM
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This is the only proper red pill response to this post. Dude's wife is a shitty artist, wants feels from other men, and is willing to risk it all. Although from her POV, she isn't really risking anything cause he's a bitch-boy. Walk the fuck away. Unfuck yourself. Become a man.
/r/askMRP28/07/18 09:56 AM
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>Blue pill mainstream marriage advice creates fat fucking retarded beta men to Ensure he is so unattractive, no other woman would want to fuck him and Wives are programmed to keep you down by lowering your self esteem so that you have no chance of fucking another side chick. Truth. My wife told me the other day that she doesn't like complimenting me on how good I look because she's worried it will make me even more confident (sexy) and I might get even more women after me. She tells me I lift to…
/r/askMRP27/07/18 05:46 PM
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Same conversation with my neighborhood buddies yielded the same results. 1X for most, on a good week 2X. One dude NEVER gets head, for the rest of them it's rare. I don't think they know any better. This is their lot in life. They think I'm lying when I say 4X-5X a week. I've thought about waking them up, giving them the pill. But I'll wait until they ask for it. All but one of these guys have wives who are the oranges that aren't worth the squeeze. Why do the hard work to get that wonky body pu…
/r/askMRP26/07/18 05:48 PM
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