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| 1 | Danced with a girl last night in the club, and then she ended up running awayActively start practicing SOCIAL AWARENESS AND EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE. Make sure she knows you're there. It's creepy when you hover without a clear purpose for the girl to see. Get a proper feel for the situation. Work on your nonverbal communication. Is she actively engaged when you look her in the eyes? Is she having fun with you or looking for a way out? Start small with the physicality and escalate. This can be slow or fast but you HAVE TO BE ABLE TO RECOGNIZE AND ACTUALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT TH… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | I (21 M) messed up bad with this girl (19 F) on vacation. Where did I go wrong and what should I do to avoid this in the future?Next time keep things fun like it sounds like you were. Don't be upset about the past. Bring up the fun memories you two had on the last trip and build from there. You gotta pull the trigger man! She gave you plenty of chances to take things to the next level. You waited too long and she found her fun somewhere else. One thing I'm picking up from your story is you wait for the validation of others to act on your impulses. You already know where you went wrong, you knew what your friends were gon… | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 07:46 AM |
| 3 | Why improve yourself for people who don't care about you?Yeah dude, don't improve yourself for people (unless you are improving things for them in a 100% unconditional way) Seems to me that you're overthinking all this. You obviously have all the shit you need so if you really want to meet girls that want to be around you then GO DO IT! It sounds like you need to take some time and work through your mindset. "I'll be happy when someone loves me back." does you no good when there isn't anyone there to love you. It can really suck ass sometimes but you … | /r/seduction | 23/11/20 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Age Doesn’t MatterI need to keep reminding myself of this!! I know that I am not old at all (21) but for some reason feel like an old man and am ready to drop that mindset because I know I need to live now. It is weird to understand for me. I'm fit, positive, social, more energetic than most people I know, have hobbies and am decently comfortable with being alone but for some reason I feel like I don't vibe with people my own age. I know it's definitely a mindset thing I need to work on but any discussion is appr… | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 03:58 AM |
| 10 | How do girls feel about a guy who is nervous approaching them?I call bullshit. Failure is the default. Part of growing up is taking those "No's" in stride and trying anyway, not stressing over the outcome. That's in all aspects of life. | /r/seduction | 19/09/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | I’m a mid-30s ‘OG’ PUA who started in the Ross Jeffries days. I’ve had hundreds of successes over the years and have coached PU sporadically. AMAI'm not big on using canned material. It's just cool to watch how people present themselves and I love figuring out the mindsets people have that bring them success | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I’m a mid-30s ‘OG’ PUA who started in the Ross Jeffries days. I’ve had hundreds of successes over the years and have coached PU sporadically. AMAJohnny Soporno seemed real as hell! It was nice to get a different perspective. My brother got me started with the Mystery Method my senior year. He is still stuck on that. He never looked for anything else. I'm interested to see how that works for him since he is newly single after 10 years. I took a quick break after mystery and the started following RSD in early 2018. Fast forward to now and they deleted all their old content. I feel like that old timey old man swagger is missing from a lot o… | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I’m a mid-30s ‘OG’ PUA who started in the Ross Jeffries days. I’ve had hundreds of successes over the years and have coached PU sporadically. AMAThanks man, I'll check these out. | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 2 | I’m a mid-30s ‘OG’ PUA who started in the Ross Jeffries days. I’ve had hundreds of successes over the years and have coached PU sporadically. AMAQuick information then question: I have always been very social but back in highschool I was weird. I have been in the game since my senior year. After graduation I pretty much had to start from scratch with my social circle. I am 21 now and even with the pandemic this year has been my most productive yet when it came to making real connections. I'm fit, driven, social, keep myself busy and am just "that guy" that knows someone wherever I go. I could talk for days but my biggest sticking point r… | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 05:40 AM |
| 2 | My boyfriend HATES lingerie (and seduction in general?). It’s been my go-to way to turn on past partners. What else can I do?Talk to him about it, find something that works for both of you. Find some new dick if it's too much of a problem🤷🏾♂️ | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I've spent enough time trying to find women through the internet, Tinder, sliding into DMS, all that virtual bullshit for a life time. It takes basically no real courage, and I feel, for me, it has a low success rate. I know it's COVID era, but I want to know more about meeting women irl these daysLol that is what I started with. | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 08:32 AM |
| 4 | Male body language that shows interestThere are a lot of things you can do but they aren't going to REALLY work until you feel natural doing them. People can feel that awkward vibe of discomfort. To work through that you need to actively practice interacting with strangers. -Steady eye contact/presence- Don't be so shifty that you look like you're trying to find a way out of the interaction. Stick that shit out. -Open posture- Be comfortable taking up space, don't hold things in front of your body, relax your shoulders and release t… | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 01:14 AM |
| 2 | I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake tooI have been dealing with something like this recently. Met an amazing girl 5 months back, super interesting, intelligent, talented, driven AND attractive. We hit it off and things went well but neither of us really wanted a relationship but thoroughly enjoyed each other's company. We would cuddle but recently she said she needs to stop that because she was starting to catch feelings. I didn't think any of this was a big deal. Just hanging out and having a good time. The last time we hung out tho… | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 07:27 AM |
| 2 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayTL/DR: Write field reports, go out consistently and be your honest self! Hey man, something to have in the back of your mind is that failure is 100% OK and something to learn from. It's part of the process. If someone only has success then chances are that they aren't trying as often as they should be to grow in that area. From failure you can learn a lot! Don't see it as a negative thing! Part of being an adult is being able to respond to things that don't go your way in a mature, constructive … | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 09:01 AM |
| 1 | From pitiable “incel” to success with high quality women. My story + 5 suggestions for others. [Long post]After so long, if you are consistent a lot of the little thing you do to grow become natural parts of you life. All you have to do is start and hold yourself accountable! | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 08:33 AM |
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