DefNotAnAlien Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Q4 All: Why are you here? Remind myself that there are some really fucked up men out there and they aren't always easy to spot. Also giving them some or ANY actual real female feedback so they can hopefully begin to realise how God damn laughable and fucked up they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/16 05:38 AM
1	What does open up emotionally mean? I've heard it all before and I genuinely believe that proponents of TRP are mentally unwell. Why should I bother putting effort into arguing with someone who genuinely, truly 100% believes that women are intellectually and morally inferior? You have a loony conspiracy theory about what I personally and what all women personally think and believe inside our own heads. You won't listen to us about our own experiences, so what's the bloody point? Why should I take you seriously about my own thought…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/16 05:25 AM
1	Are Male Standards Higher than Female Standards? Many men care about personality and how good their partners are at household tasks and taking care of kids. Everyone can improve "SMV". Sometimes both men and women are expected to settle. I wish this were not the case, but sometimes you have to (eg objectively average needs to "settle" for other objectively average, even if they'd prefer vastly above average). Many men care about interesting women and don't want a blank slate. I recommend taking some time away from TRP and RPW, you can get the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/16 08:13 PM
1	What does open up emotionally mean? As brilliant and thoughtful as its parent. You do realise that you guys talk like /r/conspiracy literally on steroids?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/16 08:02 AM
3	What does open up emotionally mean? Lol k	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/16 01:40 AM
6	CMV: women cannot be lonely, at least on the level men can be Most women deserve to suffer from clinical depression?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/16 12:30 AM
4	Does Being a Misogynist Make a Man "Better" with Women? Yeah actually in the interests of proper empathy, I probably do. :( I know some scummy people, not many but some. I definitely know plenty of women who share those kinds of stupid minion or meme images "jokingly" on Facebook. You know the kind I mean ... If really pressed, they would probably say "oh I don't really think that, it's just a joke", but I don't think that makes it okay. I think they do kind of agree with those sentiments and it makes me think less of them. I can say "not all women" …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 11:57 PM
0	Does Being a Misogynist Make a Man "Better" with Women? You're right, and now I'm kind of ashamed, but still too lazy. Sorry man. Hope things are going OK for you otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 11:37 PM
1	Q4BP: Which of these statements are correct? Sounds good. Sometimes I yell at commentors here when they are not actually the ones who are saying the real women hating stuff. That's not fair of me and is pretty awful behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 10:49 PM
-1	Does Being a Misogynist Make a Man "Better" with Women? What shaming tactics? I just think you're wrong, man. So wrong that it would be like arguing with a flat-earther.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 10:47 PM
-2	Does Being a Misogynist Make a Man "Better" with Women? It's just, I don't know a single woman who behaves or thinks in this way, not one single one, and the whole idea is just so laughable. How can I possibly respond seriously?! Please see a therapist. (I am not your therapist.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 10:45 PM
1	Q4BP: Which of these statements are correct? Sorry for condescending to you earlier man. That was rude of me. Hope your day is going ok, for realsies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 09:51 PM
2	Q4BP: Which of these statements are correct? My scale is calibrated a little differently to yours. If you're asking about my personal life, I vastly prefer to fuck people I'm in a relationship with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 09:38 PM
1	Q4BP: Which of these statements are correct? Oh honey, I don't. We just disagree on what it means to be "boring" and "unattractive". Have a great day, cupcake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 09:33 PM
-2	Does Being a Misogynist Make a Man "Better" with Women? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 09:22 PM
-1	Does Being a Misogynist Make a Man "Better" with Women? k.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 09:22 PM
1	Q4BP: Which of these statements are correct? Men and women are different (although we probably disagree on how much). We are all prone to basic human behaviour and instincts (although we probably disagree on what those are). "The one" doesn't exist. Re being constantly vigilant in a relationship - I'd rather just say, "Don't take your partner for granted." My partner is not a Death Eater. PS Don't you worry your pretty little head about number 2. I would always rather sleep with, or partner up with, the kind of man you think of as "low val…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 09:16 PM
2	Should sex acts done with exes be expected with current partners? Pretty much. ;-)	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/16 12:04 AM
5	Should sex acts done with exes be expected with current partners? He bloody well knows it. Um, I'd phrase it a lot gentler and nicer, but that's fundamentally what it is. Sometimes I might desire to please him more than I don't want to do something in particular, which is fine, but I get to decide when that is. I mean, he can ask me for stuff and we can discuss and compromise and try things out and whatnot. But fundamentally, if I don't want it (for either sex reasons or feeling neutral and why not reasons), it ain't happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/16 11:43 PM
9	Should sex acts done with exes be expected with current partners? I'm fundamentally not gonna do anymore what I don't wanna do anymore. Tough it out and walk it off, or cry me a river if that makes you feel better. I don't give a shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/16 11:35 PM
0	Why is there little to no RP discussion of "poly" or MFF relationships/households? Believing that TRP is fundamentally messed up in the head doesn't mean I expect them to have an opinion on every topic under the sun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/16 11:30 PM
1	What is the male version of a unicorn? Yeah, pretty much, although it still has those connotations of expectations that are impossible or ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/16 10:01 AM
1	Hey gals of PPD, how many of you would be into the type of guy TRP describes as beta? Sounds awesome. Is there supposed to be a catch?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/16 09:56 AM
0	Time for a brief refresher on kink Are you high?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/16 09:51 AM
2	What is the male version of a unicorn? Did you know that in the polyamorous community, a "unicorn" refers to a bi woman who is able to magically happily date both sides of a straight couple only to and exactly to the amount that the straight couple is comfortable with? It's used disparagingly to refer to when couples are looking for a toy to play with more than a real other person with their own feelings. The more you know!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/16 09:33 AM
2	[discussion] Pegging/male anal stuff I've pegged 2 guys who both asked for it first and were mad keen on it: 1 mostly dominant straight dude and 1 switch/non-bdsm bi dude. I enjoyed it the second relationship around much more, because I was already used to the idea and knew enough to invest in a high quality harness. It is usually neutral to moderately pleasant for me in terms of physical stimulation and it's also very much a fun view. Probably not surprisingly, straight dude viewed it as a bdsm reversal dynamic where he got to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/16 06:58 AM
1	Q4BP how often do you get laid BP AF, 1-2-3x a week depending on date frequency, LTR atm. I tried to have a FWB once and fell for him pretty quick, which turned into a not terribly great relationship, should have just stuck to FWB. I would happily do FWB again if I was single but I'd need to be super duper picky about who, because I want to be safe and have fun and not immediately want to fall into a relationship. I don't really give bjs as a separate thing, I include them in sex frequently but not for long at any one time be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/16 07:15 PM
3	Do women's higher empathy cause them to feel PHYSICAL discomfort by being offended / hearing different opinions? I agree with you and I think the above commentor is a loony. Just for what it's worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/16 09:13 PM
1	Do women's higher empathy cause them to feel PHYSICAL discomfort by being offended / hearing different opinions? k	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/16 09:12 PM