TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Defiant-Past6997 Archive

View 0 posts and 39 comments by Defiant-Past6997 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

i kind of agree, but man, when I went travelling around the US it was like night and day compared to the UK!! Everyone talks! Even at bust stops and stuff! This does NOT happen where i'm from lol Some places are culturally much harder when it comes to cold approach where just talking too a random person on the street or something is generally met with a lot of suspicion and shock etc. In America, you can walk up to someone and literally say 'hey! : -what's your name?' and she'll give you her nam…
/r/seduction06/06/24 10:31 AM
8

uk people think it's super weird when a stranger starts talking to them Hell, even in Bars and social places it is often met with a fairly negative reaction It's just the way it is. You need to get lucky and find not only the girls who are attracted to you, but who are also unusally social and friendly
/r/seduction06/06/24 10:30 AM
2

exactly. When you open a girl who thinks you are hot it is all so damn effortless!! And conversely, open a girl and she's not attracted to you, it will be like pulling teeth and you are simply wasting time and delaying the rejectinon by trying to 'game' her
/r/seduction06/06/24 07:08 AM
1

correct
/r/seduction06/06/24 07:07 AM
11

it basically never ever happens to the actual pro coaches (watch infields - they always bang teh girls who are clearly extremely receptive) YOu can't force attraction in someone. Game or no game
/r/seduction06/06/24 07:06 AM
1

exactly! It's just a numbers game of finding the girls who are into you
/r/seduction06/06/24 07:05 AM
6

it's always teh same When you pull a girl, you will know fast that it's on as she will be contributing to the convo a lot and will often even being flirting etc before you! And when a girl isn't contributing at all or ignores you, tells you she insn't interested in you etc, then it will never ever lead too sex. just move on to the next girl. Your negs and pushpulls and 'charisma' and whatever else you think of as 'game' will fall of deaf ears edit: i'm talking about cold approach as opposed too …
/r/seduction06/06/24 07:05 AM
1

Edit: technically you could still charm her lol
/r/seduction05/06/24 09:01 AM
0

problem is, if he says: 'I open direct and tell them they're cute and ask what they're up too' everyone will reply. 'That's why! Never open direct and tell a girl they're cute!!' If he says 'I open indirect and make a situational comment and then maybe a cold read about them' people will say 'that's why she ignored you!! Never open indirect. She needs to know that you think she's cute!!' etc It's all hindsight BS. She basically decides before you've opened your mouth
/r/seduction05/06/24 08:11 AM
1

A skinny short guy with charm (game) will fuck your girl. lol, no she doesn't care about 'charm' if you're not her type. At all! lol
/r/seduction05/06/24 08:09 AM
5

fields reports are kinda useless, tbh THe writer is like 'I opened her and told her she looked pretty and that I wanted to see if she was cool, too and then she told me she wasn't interested and walked away'. And everyone replies, ''never tell a girl she's looks hot. That's why she rejected you! You need to open with a neg to make her want you!' Then someone else writes a field report and is like 'I opened a girl and have her a neg about her nails but she just ignored me and walked away'. and no…
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:29 AM
3

this is just completely normal People want people hotter than them, basically. The ones you really want are probably the stunners. But they know they can do better. They are busy trying to seduce the male 10's The girls who want you and who chase you and make it super easy aren't quite as hot and are likely a little bit below you. But you don't want them! (like how the first girl didn't want you lol) Its basically life
/r/seduction04/06/24 08:47 PM
6

people need to realise that there are NO magic verbals or verbal techniques etc that literally CREATE attraction. It's ALL marketing, people!! I'm not saying that 'game' is pure fantasy, but it's more there to try to stop you from sabotaging a lay up lay. Nothing more. The 'power' of game is basically non existant You could have read and understood every pua/game concept ever too exist, and it will not help at all if you open a girl and you're just not her type. Even infield footage from profess…
/r/seduction04/06/24 12:58 PM
1

lol
/r/seduction02/06/24 11:56 PM
1

There are plenty of concepts and strategies out there that plenty of people have never even heard of, because it's all behind the scenes and a paywall. most of us have all still seen it despite the paywall. It's quite easy to access all of the paid stuff for free if you know where to look I think I own just about every single premium product that's ever been released lol
/r/seduction02/06/24 09:38 PM
1

unless you have SERIOUS issues where you literally can't hold eye contact and stuff, its just a massive waste of money. There's no magic lines and tricks etc to force attraction in a girl.
/r/seduction02/06/24 05:34 PM
2

there's really nothing to learn from a rejection unless you literally spat on her as you spoke or something lol She's either into you, or she's not. If she is, it all goes smoothly and everything you do 'game' wise, works And if you're not her type, nothing works. It never was gonna work! (on that girls) so it's a waste of time thinking 'Hmmmm....maybe I should have done a cold read and then a neg' or whatever.
/r/seduction02/06/24 05:27 PM
3

“Why are you talking to me” isn’t a rejection. It kind of is, tbh. I've never seen an infield where the PUA bangs the girls who react like that after the open. If she was attracted to you, she wouldn't even say that. When they're interested in you, they're way more polite and receptive
/r/seduction02/06/24 05:25 PM
2

it's a numbers game. Just gotta keep approaching until you find the girls that want you (you'll know when you've found them as everything will feel quite effortless in terms of the conversation and stuff. She'll be trying more than you! )
/r/seduction02/06/24 05:00 PM
1

he probably just wasn't their type. Girls who aren't into you basically refuse to engage in converastion in any meaningful way as they don't want to encourage you. They want you to leave
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:59 PM
1

his friend wasn't 'charming' though, lol
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:16 PM
1

everyone knows about game nowadays. It just doesn't cut any ice if you're not her type. You can't use 'game' and expect to be able to compete with much better looking guys, tbh.
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:15 PM
2

that's never good lol. I used to have a very very good looking wing. All that happens is the girls want him and not you lol.
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:12 PM
1

of course it's so funny when people try to tell you otherwise, too Even infield footage from the 'pros' confirms this!!! (e.g you know whether it's gonna go well or gonna be a rejection before he's even finished his opener lol) As you very correctly say,, it really is all about teh girl. That's why it's a numbers game as opposed to a skill game
/r/seduction02/06/24 03:05 PM
2

yep. He needs to learn to be much taller and much better looking
/r/seduction02/06/24 03:04 PM
10

yeah, it's honestly all just a crock tbh lol. Marketing to takes mens money Even the best coaches get rejected a shit load and can never turn a clearly unattracted girl into a lay with his 'game'. The girls they DO bang as just the small percentage of girls who were obviously attracted to him as he approached. Same as me and you and everyone else We all bang the 'yes girls'. Just that for good looking guys, most girls are 'yes girls' lol
/r/seduction02/06/24 03:03 PM
7

Every guy who has a really good looking friends eventually realises this, tbh. Girls chase THEM as opposed to PUA's trying to turn a no into a yes (which isn't even possible)
/r/seduction02/06/24 03:01 PM
3

if you wait for an IOI your chances are a million times better. Lots of PUA's don't even bother approaching without an IOI as in all liklihoold, he's not her type (if he was she'd give an IOI) and so he knows he's just gonna be wasting his time trying to turn a no into a yes which just isn't possible I personally approach without an IOI. I approach hot girls. But of course statistically, it's the ones who give me an IOI who I close (sex). And the ones who I close without an IOI (TINY percentqage…
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:52 AM
5

on the street maybe. In bars and clubs they approach like it's going out of fashion on the dancefloor and stuff! lol
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:59 PM
7

I agree and tend to think it's pointless It's literally impossible to take a girl who is clearly not at all into you and turning that ship around with 'game' and then sleep with her. Never seen it. Either in person or with pro PUA's There's lots of coaches who adovate it, but the thing is, infield footage seems to confirm that it's like a 1 in a million time it works adn the coaches themselves can't do as they preach. if you watch infield footage from all of the professional pickup guys, you see…
/r/seduction31/05/24 12:26 PM
39

i've heard that before. And whilst it might be true that the super hot girls might be slightly less bitchy (although lets not forget that mystery said the hottest girls are more bitchy so as usual, ,everyone disagrees!!) i've found that it's all quite random Sometimes a 6 is rude as hell. And this weekend I approached a 9 in a bar (maybe 18 years old and as hot as holy hell!) and after I said hi and tried to chat, she basically looked at me like a homeless man, put her palm near my face as if to…
/r/seduction31/05/24 11:28 AM
6

bingo! I think in like 2002 the answers to to this question would be more like 'just learn 'game'. Neg her in order to make her attracted' and stuff like that. But all that stuff it just marketing, tbh and the fact you do'nt seen them sort of answers much nowadays implies everyone knows that nowdays. It's all quite simple. Be her type, don't be ridiculously weird, and have the balls to escalate. She'll make it easy if she's attracted to you and impossible if she's not
/r/seduction31/05/24 07:25 AM
7

I don't think you necessarily HAVE to be of the same 'architype' (for example a chav who wears jewellery, northface jacket and baggy nike sweatpants who drives a VRX!) - although it probably makes it easier! I think all that matters is that you are her 'type'. That might sound like a contradiction, it's not. by 'type' i don't mean 'He must have green eyes' but more that she just thinks you're good looking. Just like how I think both prime Mila Kunis and prime Margot Robbie are hot and 'my type' …
/r/seduction31/05/24 06:09 AM
1

tbh, he wasn't like painfully shy. (I don't want you thinking he was some sort of super anxious, shy guy! The point u/gutenshmeis was making was that if you are ridiculously shy and awkward then even if you are handsome, you MIGHT still struggle a little bit with some girls, and I probably agree) It's more that he really wasn't someone who everyone would say 'wow, he's confident!' (whereas my boss was. Boss was loud, comfortable in all situations, self assured and just generally clearly a vey 'c…
/r/seduction31/05/24 05:48 AM
3

I don't know if it's 'Confidence Attracts Women' as much as it is, 'Lacking Confidence Turns Women Off'. you took the words right out of my mouth. I was just thinking that and then saw your post. There's tonnes of guys who are 'confident' but you know for a fact that if they went too a bar and hit on the hottest youngest girls there, he'd basically certainly be going home alone! Being confident simply doesn't = sexual attraction! There's many very 'confident' comedians who can get on stage in fr…
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:24 PM
0

i've always found the opposite to be true, personally. (e.g good looking friends CRUSH it and girls make it ridiclously easy for them, My fat short friends get rejected again and again) And I have a decent lay count, BUT I certainly get rejected my fair share and I tend to know within 2 seconds whether it's a yes or a no, basically. I bang the girls who think i'm hot (and they can't hide it. The eyes never lie! lol)
/r/seduction30/05/24 01:35 PM
1

Since i put on some weight and got a little older (more winkles etc maybe?), i've noticed my approach to lay ratio getting worse and worse, but more importantly, lots of approaches are met with a kind of rude reaction. Some flat out ignore me, some just say 'i've got a boyfriend' even If I just said 'hi' or used a situational opener etc (I tried using pickup lines from pros for when girls say 'i've got a boyfriend' but none helped) And other interactions are more just that I'm talking to a brick…
/r/seduction30/05/24 09:36 AM
2

Since i put on some weight and got a little older (more winkles etc maybe?), i've noticed my approach to lay ratio getting worse and worse, but more importantly, lots of approaches are met with a kind of rude reaction. Some flat out ignore me, some just say 'i've got a boyfriend' even If I just said 'hi' or used a situational opener etc (I tried using pickup lines from pros for when girls say 'i've got a boyfriend' but none helped) And other interactions are more just that I'm talking to a brick…
/r/seduction30/05/24 09:32 AM
1

tbh, I tend to find game doesn't work on the girls who don't think i',m hot haha
/r/seduction30/05/24 08:55 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter