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And someone explain this to me cuz I don't really see that this is an issue. Everybody wants a good deal out of a relationship they don't want to be taken advantage of. But don't you think that good relationships are about negotiating. The reason why traditional relationships work is because the man is working to provide for his family and then the woman is doing the caregiving and housework. What if their relationships out there that are non-traditional but it works for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:57 PM
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Thanks. You too
/r/MensRights21/07/26 10:35 PM
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Certainly These are times of uncertainty.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 06:03 PM
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Well I've never been there it sounds like a great place. If it's good as you say I think we need to follow in your country's example. I mean there's just a lot of misery and complaining over here. People aren't getting married and having children as much. People are struggling financially. People are just more hostile in general. And often feels like you're never good enough. That kind of sums it up. Not to mention social media dating apps all that is what a lot of people struggle with. As I say…
/r/MensRights21/07/26 03:57 PM
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I heard that in Scandinavia it's vastly different than America. Is it true that there's less religion over there? Is it true that it's more equality when it comes to men and women over there. Cuz I've heard people say things like that. I don't know maybe dating is very good over there. Here in America a lot of people complain and a lot of men are struggling more so than women but women are struggling as well
/r/MensRights21/07/26 03:44 PM
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Yeah I know you're probably on the east side of the world right. I wish it was like that. You would think it wouldn't be so hard you know kind of a warm approach. But when I said 100% effort let me add on and clarify. A lot of men feel like they're giving and giving and they don't receive a lot of appreciation and support. This could be in the beginning stages when they're dating or it could be later on years and years with their partner. I think it's more realistic these days to want a partner …
/r/MensRights21/07/26 03:38 PM
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That's fair to say because I think it's traditional gender roles and norms and expectations that the man pursues. But these days I think there's a lot of mixed messaging and it makes sense that you would say that you would feel less feminine. Every woman is different so maybe another woman might think differently. And then the last sentence you said about energy it made me think about well usually women don't want to be pursued by men that they are not attracted to LOL. And I think a lot of men …
/r/MensRights21/07/26 03:27 PM
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That's an assumption because not all women want to be pursued and not all men want to do the pursuing. That's a traditional Norm expectation any of those have been challenged in our modern times. You said you're not from America and so over there I'm assuming is more traditional and so the courtship is different over there perhaps. It would be nice like you're saying if people could just pair up based off of vibes. Whatever that means but a lot of times that's not good enough.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 02:41 PM
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Well it's extremely hard for many people. It's like if I told you hey go and buy a Ferrari. How many vehicles do you see out driving about that are high-end sports cars. Right cuz it's difficult to obtain them. Not only do you have internal and personal challenges and barriers but you also have external. And I don't believe that men should be doing 100% of the effort.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 02:38 PM
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I don't know if I can mention the places but there are a few places which seem to be overwhelmingly women hired there than men. And a lot of them I'm miserable and they don't do a good job
/r/MensRights21/07/26 02:34 PM
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You said these women are not asking for anything they don't have to offer themselves. Okay that was a good laugh right there. Take care I'm going to shut down this post. I'm going to do a new one cuz this is funny
/r/ExRedPill21/07/26 06:08 AM
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Blah blah blah go troll somewhere else
/r/ExRedPill21/07/26 05:57 AM
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I think I already answered that I said I get practical help and I'm there for them and emotional support
/r/ExRedPill21/07/26 05:56 AM
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Yeah maybe I did misunderstood you're asking me about me personally. I'm not even talking about me. I've done a lot for myself. I know a lot of men out there as well as women do read and watch a lot of self-help material go to therapy go to support groups do a lot of self care. I think if you're asking like what am I doing to help men in general? Well I'm willing to talk to any man who is lonely and be emotionally supportive towards their struggles if they're not toxic that is
/r/ExRedPill21/07/26 12:16 AM
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I'm not used to it I would talk to anybody on the phone actually on here. That's why I telegram exists it's all anonymous. So I'm just used to just talking to folks. I don't really care about grammar I'm not doing a college essay on here. But then again yeah next time I will just reply to one point at a time. And not feed the trolls but they were a little bit entertaining for a while
/r/ExRedPill21/07/26 12:14 AM
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I'm not taking you seriously. You know how many people drink alcohol for starters. I actually don't drink alcohol. Yeah that's a nice fantasy it's a good goal to have but that's not reality. Well I guess they're better off alone if they can't get a god. Especially in this age where almost everyone is struggling financially you expect all that what you said and what is he going to get out of the woman? Is he going to get breakfast made is he going to get a massage. Is he going to get peace of min…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/26 12:13 AM
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Yeah I do think we need to be more connecting and respectful
/r/ExRedPill21/07/26 12:06 AM
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Yeah I don't have to respond to anything I choose to. You're just being antagonistic. Notice how there's not even a question. There's not even a specific response to anything that I specifically said in the post. And it appears that people on here are red pill and just live up to The Stereotype of being all hostile and frustrating. Again my opinion. Only a few people on here like three people actually kept it civil and were respectful and actually had a conversation instead of trying to get a go…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/26 12:05 AM
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I mean people are assuming all kinds of things I just saw a video and was like oh that was interesting and I have my own opinions. Some I agree with when it comes to what Mark was saying and some I don't agree with. And I quickly read what you're saying and I do agree and I'll be truthful I'm not giving 100% responses on here with sources and correct grammar. I'm just wanting to have respectful and casual conversation. I will say there's a lot of tension and toxicity when it comes to dating and …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 11:59 PM
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I completely agree with what you said. Hey finally someone that's short to the point and respectful. Appreciate that man. Just look at the other troll comments. But yeah social skills and social anxiety has troubled a lot of people out there especially men. If I may add men have to put a little more effort generally speaking because they have to approach they have to plan they have to provide in so many different ways so yeah it can be exhausting it can be sometimes fill in the blank with the ne…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 11:47 PM
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That makes no sense given that I have my messages open and anyone can message me. You're just have a big ego because you're getting likes from other people who are toxic like what are you really arguing about? What is it that you have an issue with? You'll probably bring up something that I never mentioned. Throw a lot of red herrings. And won't really engage with my statements so it is a fallacy to be thrown out so many different points. It's called Gish Gallop fallacy. If I'm saying hey stick …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 11:44 PM
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You got any more so-called intelligent insults to throw at me so that you can feel much better about yourself. Are you done.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 11:40 PM
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No I'm just not going to waste my time with trolls. Isn't this supposed to be a subreddit where people are not red pilled and not liking the manosphere. Why am I getting accused of promoting that stuff. LOL it's a huge headache to try to explain to people that I know are not wanting to have a good conversation. I mentioned one word like hypergamy and people flip out on here. I would call that getting triggered.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 11:38 PM
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Okay you got me just because you said something it must be true I guess I'm a black pill. Even though I'm not come on. You don't think I know serious people on here who actually want to have a conversation versus those who are stuck in an echo chamber. I'm going to end this conversation hope you have a good day. I will only engage with people that are respectful and courteous. You're crossing the boundary. You can say whatever you want to say but I will engage with others who are a little bit mo…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:52 PM
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Hypergamy is a sociology term. Not manosphere jargon. You seem pretty frustrated. I would suggest you take a break.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:45 PM
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Purchase I think we should end the conversation. You're more than welcome to message me. But to answer your question oh I don't know women seem the need to post up are we dating the same man. And that's getting a lot of responses. You can also check out dating app research. And listening to the testimony of many women out there who have these wild drama stories. So it was nice talking to you. I pretty much answered all your questions. It may not satisfy you and I offer you Grace
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:42 PM
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You know I'm having good conversations on here but same thing is lasered focused on and I don't understand why saying that men need care and compassion gets downvoted 10 times. My question would be why not because I could explain why. But if it's going to be an echo chamber response in which it's coming from individuals that still need a lot of healing then I'm not really interested in engaging in such negativity.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:40 PM
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I didn't name call. But okay. We'll just leave it at that cuz I'm having a hard time understanding what you're trying to say
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:37 PM
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Well now you're explaining a little bit more. I think what you're getting at is that the culture is different so over there in the East it's more group oriented and over here in the West you're saying that perhaps the men have a little bit easier because when they work they're kind of in charge of their own money and it goes to them but in the East the men over there they provide for not just their girlfriends or wives but also to the community. That's my understanding of what you're saying? I h…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:36 PM
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I don't know what you're talking about? No one is complaining and I don't watch tik tok
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:27 PM
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I think I did answer the question. I will say it in a different way I think that people, women in this example ought to carefully and thoroughly examine their own made values so that they can choose someone that is more or less in their league. So if she's a six. Guess what the range is going to be from a 5 to 7. And I'm talking about overall make value. Not just money not just looks. But every possible resource that they have that could be possibly desirable and useful to their partner. I think…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:25 PM
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Nope. I'm probably the most authentic person you ever meet because I'm telling you that I did this because of the views. Have you read other people's comments. I'm open-minded and can think for myself and I'm willing to engage in conversation if it's respectful and if people can just stick to one topic. Like give me a short paragraph. Other than that I'm not angry at all I'm having a very great day:-) how are you doing?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:14 PM
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Just being honest. I thought people would appreciate that.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:12 PM
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Yeah I watch some political or social justice stuff but I don't really get bothered by all the drama. Some stuff is good education but other things is questionable. A lot of it's entertainment. I don't really watch a lot of manosphere content but I'll see little Clips here and there.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:12 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean? But I'll just generally throw out there that women tend to be attracted towards men that match their levels of intelligence and kindness. That's a resource. And they tend to put a premium which means it's more important to women than for men that they are a good Financial Prospect. High conscientiousness is another resource that men and women highly respect and find desirable
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:09 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean but yes over here in the west it is more individual focused. I'm guessing that you're saying that in long-term relationships women do a lot more providing? I would agree with you your assessment that boys get often neglected in many ways. And I do think that for boys and girls that we had to find new ways to navigate raising and teaching them responsibility so that they grow up to be healthy adults
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:07 PM
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I usually don't engage this much but I will with you. Let me clarify by saying that you said women and I'm not saying all women. Yes some women and man but since women are mostly choosing have unreasonable expectations. Okay I tried to understand your hypothetical examples that you're giving. And I would say that he went to like the extreme like the neet who's broke living in the basement. I'm sure you know what smv is I call it make value. Yeah I mean you're not going to get someone that's way …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 01:54 PM
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I just have my life experience mostly and I'm pretty Discerning of good information out there. So I've done a lot of reading and watching videos. Well I just randomly stumbled on the video and it was interesting so I watched all of it but at the end I was like they didn't really ask the tough questions or really get engaged. When it comes to Red pillers . It seems to me like there's a lot of resentment. A lot of it is valid cuz it's very frustrating not just to not get a date and a girlfriend bu…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 01:46 PM
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Sure you can I made a mistake I should have put hey if you're going to respond can you focus on one Topic at a time. There's a fallacy out there in which you try to bombard someone to try to respond to so many different points that it kind of becomes incoherent I'd rather focus on one Topic at a time. So I took the courtesy of responding to the people that I did including you. So I may not respond to every comment on here moving forward. What's interesting is that a lot of people are responding …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 04:03 AM
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Yeah I get it that people are triggered and people love to hear hey everyone is struggling. People are having a hard time in dating but when you look at the research you will find that men not only have a lot of barriers and disadvantages but they also have a lot of struggles. So I don't see the harm in saying hey let's try to understand men and let's try to give them to help and support that they need. I feel like a lot of people see or hear that and they get upset because hey women have been o…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 04:01 AM
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Googling what? It was a YouTube video
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 03:50 AM
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Yes I advocate for average men and women which is most of the population to connect. You might say it's not about money but relationships are about stability. That's one aspect of it of course there's many you're mentioning emotional skills emotional intelligence. There's quite a few factors out there that help establish attraction and connection
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 03:49 AM
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So it varies from City to city but some places have a surplus of certain genders more than the other and that creates different issues. And then you mentioned that most women support men's issues and mental health. I'm not too sure about that. And then he started talking about misogynistic ideas I like to say violence is violence and so let's call out violence wherever it is from whoever it is. As far as the high standards go well you're more than welcome to have any set of arbitrary restriction…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 03:48 AM
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Yeah I noticed that about gaming but it's also about just being on the phone. Like right now I would offer to talk to you on the phone. You can join a free app and get a free number and we can talk on the phone right now would you do it? I've gone to different subreddits on here where they're extremely lonely people on there and they won't even do it. I don't really want to debate people on here but I tell them hey let's debate on the phone. Cuz you know text message gets messy and they won't ev…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 03:41 AM
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If we're going to have a conversation can you keep it shorter. Just saying that men need to keep up is a blanket statement over a person is ignorant. Men aren't the only ones complaining there are tons of content and videos of women crying and complaining. And I think it is true that when it comes to standards women expect way more than men and it does enter into delusional if you're wanting 100% provider and all that nonsense that you hear. You mentioned stats. Well it is clearly the case that …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 03:39 AM
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It wasn't all that great but I watched it
/r/ExRedPill19/07/26 09:41 PM
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I have varying opinions
/r/ExRedPill19/07/26 09:41 PM
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You can add Lauren rovis onto the list. She's awful
/r/ExRedPill30/05/26 03:53 AM
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Well I don't need to get gaslighted. It was a question but afterwards I was giving further information so that we can have a discussion on here. But there was a question. But it's okay I get it. I'll move on from this place. You know if you told me to edit it, this would have been avoided and I could have changed it to where I describe what had happened and then at the very end asked my question. Which was if you remember or care. Does anybody on here agree with my side of how I see things or th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:52 PM
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I disagree it is a question I'm asking red pillars which side of the debate they are on either my side or the other person's side but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:01 AM
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Tell the truth I'm still in the dark because I don't have any social media I just barely started using this but I knew what was going on. Simply put women are getting massive amounts of support and men are not. Men are deeply struggling in all kinds of ways and I think a lot of things are what you said is kind of true. I mean all I have to say is well look at this one girl look at how much money she makes online I mean women shouldn't have it that easy. Like who are these guys are just giving ou…
/r/MensRights05/05/26 03:43 PM
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I hear you
/r/MensRights03/05/26 07:27 AM
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I think you can say that men and women have it hard and similar and different ways but I just think so called Low value or whatever you want to call it whether they're men or women are just going to struggle more than high value men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:18 AM
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