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If you’d rather dodge the issue then do it. I just hope I got through to your subconscious
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:21 AM
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Read the edit and if you still can’t figure it out good luck
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:04 AM
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Then act like a 24 year old and not a 14 year old If the only way you have of getting attention is through pity. Take a step back and reassess, otherwise you’ll be part of the illustrious 99% who die miserable
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:01 AM
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What the fuck is all this trauma talk, and justifying why she didn’t text you? How old are you? Share traumas? That’s not something I’ve ever opened up with anyone despite dating plenty of girls, even some which I eventually fell in love with. Women aren’t there to comfort you. Talking about these ‘deep’ topics is off putting to everyone and the reason you do it isn’t because you like talking about them, have you ever seen anyone with genuine PTSD ‘enjoy’ talking about their traumas? It’s becaus…
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:47 AM
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This is the shittiest possible response
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:40 PM
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Oof. Smoke a little bit too much weed while hanging out and notice all of it. It just be like that, no one’s an exception. Just like with women, if your friends are in a position they can choose anyone, and they choose you, that’s the only real true friendship. The girl will only truly love you if she can choose anyone, yet chooses you. Just like shy guys who marry out of necessity will cheat if given the chance. They didn’t choose anything, it’s what they were dealt
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:36 PM
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Relatable. It’s a value exchange though, you had no social value, no reason to invite you out socially. Still gets me bitter though. Middle schools kids who were dating the prettiest girls tell me “you’ve been living a lot these past years”. Turned me cynical towards everyone, but when the table flipped I was the one not calling any of them. It’s, just like game, a game of values. And that’s when the world turns grey isn’t it?
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:35 PM
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If thats all youre thinking about day in day out, thats gonna be what you want to talk about. Go watch movies, read books, etc. Your conversations will flow more
/r/seduction03/09/22 03:53 PM
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Everywhere
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:21 AM
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Just think the following when it comes to any online forum: The percentage of people who’s opinions you’d listen to in person who also post online, is nearly 0.
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:50 AM
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Fucking 50 over 6 years is pretty average… that’s one every month and a half. If you go out 3+ nights a week, it’s not ridiculous to assume one bang a week at least. My best streak I was doing one every two weeks when I learned about pua. Then I evolved into ‘qualify her to generate attraction’ to ‘qualify her to see if she’s actually my type’. And when she’s not, I just drop it because empty sex isn’t fun.
/r/seduction01/10/21 04:44 AM
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Google.com
/r/seduction21/05/21 08:25 PM
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Zero filter, free association, practice.
/r/seduction21/05/21 06:19 PM
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If you can’t keep a conversation going, it’s not because you have nothing to express, it’s because you’re stuck in your own head. I can talk about nothing for hours.
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:34 PM
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Agreed, sometimes let her talk. People love talking about themselves, if she’s spiraling talking about herself (qualifying to you, and investing in the interaction), yes, the chances go up. But at the same time don’t have conversations through text. That’s the number one rookie mistake with the current generation of teens/young adults.
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:32 PM
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For cold approaches- people I have zero affiliation with, I don’t give a fuck. I go until the set is CLEARLY bombed. More than once I was in an interaction thinking it was going awful, but not beating myself up over it, and it ended with a pull. Sure, your time and my time is valuable, if you have something else to do, fuck the approach. But if you’re just looking to have fun, there’s no need to cut approaches short as to not waste your time. Just make sure you don’t lose momentum/confidence fro…
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:29 PM
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Even the guy who got a girlfriend in that subreddit, 15 days later posts thinking now is his time to die, supposedly because his girlfriend broke up with him. What an awful negative feedback loop.
/r/seduction21/05/21 03:46 PM
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This. You already presented yourself like this to her. You can try to change things, but chances are, she’s gonna spook because that’s not what she’s expecting. The right way to more forward would be to escalate now, likely get rejected, and move on as a better man, who makes his intentions known early and is needless of anyone’s attention.
/r/seduction21/05/21 03:43 PM
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Not to be a Dick, but I don’t think someone who is active on /r/lonely should be giving relationship advice. Even though your intentions are pure, by giving advice when you’re not ‘qualified’ to do so, you’re only fucking up the social skills of people who are looking to improve them. I hope you understand my point and stop giving relationship advice throughout Reddit like you’ve been doing, you’re doing more harm than good.
/r/seduction21/05/21 03:41 PM
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So you’ve known her for a few weeks, and you want to randomly start acting different and not like yourself? She’s gonna spook, especially because she will feel that’s not the ‘real’ you.
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:31 PM
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Lowkey good advice to build confidence. For these women all u gotta do is approach and pass a shittest or two “my son is your age”, “you’re right you probably wouldn’t keep up”
/r/seduction19/05/21 02:58 AM
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“I text my mom all day. It’s lovely”
/r/seduction19/05/21 02:47 AM
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I personally never go for the same girl as my friends because I’ve seen enough infield to the point I can shut them down completely, the one time I did it, next day I went to talk to him and he was mad about it. So Unless it’s a very interesting girl I just let go, I have the mentality of abundance that none of them have, so it’s no big deal for me. What’s tough for me, though, is in social situations where I’m not motivated (girls are ugly, I’m tired, not in the mood), I feel left out and make …
/r/seduction19/05/21 02:44 AM
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Be less reactive, and cause more reactions. Naturals don’t know how to deal with you other than looking up to you if you have more success (more approaches, while in a club go off by yourself and show up with a random chick, introduce them to the random chick’s friends), and you’re less reactive. My main group is all naturals, one of the first times we went out I pulled a girl out of the club, into the bathroom of a ‘mall’ close to the club, and after that they respected me to a whole new level.…
/r/seduction19/05/21 01:54 AM
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Ahhhh misread that probably works actually thanks
/r/seduction31/03/21 02:58 AM
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I’m saying it’s the opposite because they’re all in the same social circle, if I walk in and start pulling girls it’s not good for social circles. Gotta have some social acumen
/r/seduction30/03/21 11:40 PM
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Living and learning, next time something like this happens immediately go to him- not mad since that’s jealousy- and tell him he’s being disrespectful to you and to your girl and making her uncomfortable. Even if he’s dead drunk, the switch in his head will flip to ‘real shit’ mode and he won’t feel superior, he will feel like a toddler who just got told. Just honestly showing what you’re feeling is 99% of the times the way to go. Don’t ask your girlfriend if she’s uncomfortable, if he tries to …
/r/seduction30/03/21 05:23 AM
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Magic Bullet is a great one for starters. Next I’d recommend is Models. Also videos by pick up guys, I personally like: Madison, Tyler, Julien (his IG is great). These are the three only people who I watched before/while polishing my social skills, I felt like I learned the basics and stuck to books after, remember it’s wrong to follow everything to the tee, any material provides only opinions. By yourself you’ll really get to the root of attraction and charisma. It’s important to put what you l…
/r/seduction27/03/21 09:55 PM
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The demand for attractive (not handsome, attractive) men has changed because people nowadays have shitty social skills after spending their childhoods talking to others through phone and computer screens- myself included until I found this community ~4 years ago. It’ll keep getting worse and it’s gonna be easier than ever to hook up with girls. At the same time, reading methods on what to do only gets you so far, like yeah maybe some men will get stuck at that and not develop, but 99.9% of men w…
/r/seduction27/03/21 09:50 PM
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I see what you’re saying, but there’s literally autistic, poor people who developed their seduction skills and have slept with thousands of women now. Look up RSD Tyler. Guy is on the spectrum, was born poor, started a company to help others with social dynamics after he learned it, and now he’s a multimillionaire who teaches guys how to fuck women. Anyone can do it.
/r/seduction01/02/21 10:30 AM
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You’re comparing a one-on-one social conversation to a formal speech? But to prove your point wrong- again- I’ll ask you one question: do you act the same way in a job interview as you do with your friends? You don’t, because it’s a different level of formality. If you base the appropriateness of everything by comparing informal situations to formal situation, you’re living like a housewife in the 50s, living in fear of what her husband will think/do if she expresses her true feelings, while I j…
/r/seduction10/12/20 11:13 PM
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But I’ll give you a scenario. Weird creepy guy has a bunch of women friends, he calls one of them a bitch, and they say “what the fuck creepy guy? That’s sexist yadda yadda”, he apologizes. Same girl, I see her at a club, smile back and forth, 3rd sentence while talking to her, I say “you’re such a bitch”, she laughs and play-punches me. That’s not because of camaraderie, that’s because my frame is stronger, which no girl wants to contest even if it goes against her morals. If someone criticizes…
/r/seduction10/12/20 05:44 PM
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You commented 5 times in 10 minutes. ALL your posts are filled with rage. Take a step back buddy, if your life isn’t the way you want it to be change it, don’t go complaining about people who are in a good place. The complainers who instead of chasing a better life, talk about the people at the top, are at the bottom of the bottom. You keep going toward this hate-fueled path, no one is going to like you, much less love you. Meditation is great, you should try it to get rid of your pent up rage. …
/r/seduction08/12/20 06:33 PM
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It do be like that sometimes 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction08/12/20 08:57 AM
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it’s a minority of people who go clubbing to dodge their problems. Most people go to celebrate or have fun meeting new people, not to forget their issues. Same people who go to forget their issues are the ones who drink and do drugs out of boredom/to dodge problems. Bottom of the barrel
/r/seduction08/12/20 01:22 AM
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If only women knew what they wanted...
/r/seduction06/12/20 10:13 AM
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You’re missing my point. Re read my post if you’d like
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:43 AM
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Nah you didn’t, you’re a lethargic person who lives for short term wins but long term losses (Excessive videogames, weed). Definitely not a virgin, but you haven’t fucked more than 1 girl per year on since turning 18. Kind of sad you’d lie here, I wonder how it feels to want to be someone else so badly that you lie about shit like this
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:21 AM
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Females feel more lonely than men even. Don’t be harsh toward them because they aren’t giving you what you want. The most valuable and universal human currency is attention, everyone wants it but no one is entitled to it. You have to learn how to get people’s attention, and how to control your attention, to whom it goes, and how much of it you’re giving out. It’s a fine line. Currently you’re giving too much attention to women (negative hateful attention). Clear your mind, everyone’s a human, wh…
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:16 AM
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If the girl’s clicking with me, I’ll have sex with her no problem. But it’s not about sex, sex is 10% of it, and if that’s your goal you’ll never be satisfied.
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:12 AM
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Don’t waste your money awarding here. I love seeing these comments and DMs saying I helped them, or that my content is good. Finding this website was great as a pastime during the pandemic, especially because of the anonymity combined with how controversial this ‘hobby’ is. Love teaching people this since it’s a skill I wasn’t born for, but through practice, I learned.
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:11 AM
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I call my main girl a bitch to her face and she loves it. I call her a bitch in bed and she loves it. The first night I met her I called her a bitch and she laughed. Same goes for a few dozens of other women, it’s one of my favorite words. It’s not about what you say, it’s how you say it. If I ever approached you and you tried giving me this sermon I’d leave you be because it’s obvious that we’re not compatible. The message I’m conveying to people is exactly this, if you’re not compatible with s…
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:03 AM
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This is the mentality of someone who doesn’t get laid, or someone who’s a nymphomaniac.
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:02 AM
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“Lucky” offends me and every other person who worked hard for their results
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:00 AM
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😴 love seeing people who criticize what I say then trying to see if they have any interesting pertinent content in their profile as credentials and seeing the opposite of that. The same way you’re seeking help with your body issues, people here are seeking help with seduction. I wonder how much you would appreciate if people in /r/bodydysmorphia had no clue what they’re talking about, but pretended they did. By the way, that same girl who I asked that is the one I took home, then later had to bl…
/r/seduction05/12/20 09:56 AM
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We have different views on clubbing then. I met most of my friends clubbing, made new business connections, met all of my GFs, and most of my fuck buddies. One night stands were girls who I liked at first then realized even though they were great, they weren’t for me either for personality or geography. I get your point, but saying you should take whatever the night throws at you at all times just to get some pussy is ridiculous. I don’t find that attractive in girls, and girls who reject other …
/r/seduction05/12/20 09:56 AM
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Why are you so invested in your comments with all these elipses and caps? Chill out. Meditate, do relaxing shit man, it changes you, I’ll pinky promise
/r/seduction05/12/20 01:03 AM
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If you’d been in a relationship with a hot girl this post would resonate better with you. You feel a whole higher level of valuable when the Instagram influencer with blue checks in her DMs is begging you for dick
/r/seduction05/12/20 01:02 AM
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Once you can make a girl cum more times than you with one round you have enough experience
/r/seduction05/12/20 01:00 AM
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You’ll get there, believe in yourself
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:59 AM
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You’re in the wrong subreddit buddy
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:58 AM
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Don’t go for them. It’s essentially a vice that once you succumb to, you’ll have a lower value mentality which you’ll have to work twice as hard to mold out of yourself
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:58 AM
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Privileged implies there was no effort and I was born with pussy juice on my pacifier. To get to the point where I am, which is still lower than many other men in regard to seduction, it took a lot of hard work, reflection and failures.
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:56 AM
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I don’t think I’ve ever used that specific phrase. I usually do something more natural, so natural I can’t even remember what I said exactly to which girl. Usually more flirty like “you look like a future doctor” which basically implies the same thing
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:51 AM
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Time to clean up, get back in bed, get on my phone until she starts speaking and make me want that energy out
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:50 AM
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Mans really ignoring his post but clarity like that damn
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:49 AM
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Well said
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:48 AM
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This guy fucks
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:48 AM
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Props to you. Girls who are too attracted to me with no real reason are a huge red flag. Means they’re lonely and desperate for male attention, not high value
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:47 AM
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Then he really did choose to ignore his post nut clarity. If I nut in 7s and already have life-changing post nuts, then that man had no self control at all
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:46 AM
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When I started game, late last year, every mistake I committed I blamed on myself without dwelling.
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:45 AM
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9-10s are awful in bed because they are always in relationships with high value men, the free ones are the recently converted 9-10s, or the ultra-high value women who are inaccessible to most people (ultra wealthy, ultra high status, etc.)
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:44 AM
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Damn ur cool
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:41 AM
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It’s not impossibly crippling difficult for men. Just stop giving a shit about the outcome and have fun.
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:40 AM
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It is just sex. But look at men who are seen as role models in our society, Brad Pitt, DiCaprio, entrepreneurs, etc. they aren’t having dozens of regret-fucks every month even though they could arguably fuck 99.9% of women in developed countries
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:39 AM
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21st century philosophy
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:37 AM
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One day I woke up really really really sad 😔
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:37 AM
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Although I stand by what I said, I stand much more for keeping a good momentum going. If you stop having sex regularly your entire frame changes subconsciously (this is why men on relationships are generally more attractive than men not on relationships- all this means is: a man who can get pussy whenever is more attractive than one chasing). Also, pandemic has made it so that there’s a lot of time being wasted regardless. And also, if you feel like you want the experience for the sake of the fu…
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:35 AM
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This guy has the right frame of mind. That’s why Disney love is different than real love.
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:31 AM
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👀 stop kink shaming me you male oppressor
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:31 AM
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Yeah, this is one of those things. I said that on the post, I used to be driven by horniness/emotions, and I’m not anymore. That led to me being a higher value man, and feeling more grounded.
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:30 AM
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Wasting time on a one night stand who will have no long term value is just wasting time. Going home after rejecting that hot girl who would definitely even let you tap her ass, because you were incomptible, day in and day out make you feel really good. Not for rejecting them, but for knowing that you’re a person who doesn’t waste time, and who can avoid waste of time. The way I see it is that men who fuck pointless girls are wasting their time and would be higher value men than those who fuck an…
/r/seduction05/12/20 12:29 AM
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Good perspective
/r/seduction01/12/20 01:59 AM
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You don’t want your face out there? What? Approaching girls and seeking relationships is normal, the same people who will see you, will be seen by you as well. The same logic applies to approaching girls in person. None of this shit matters, if you looked at me out on a date with a hot girl, you’d want to be more like me, but what you don’t see is that hooking up with girls is also about getting rejected HELLA times, my current favorite girl is smoking hot and even my friends tell me they wanted…
/r/seduction30/11/20 10:17 PM
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It’s a slow process for me tô open up, and I like that. By the time I’m comfortable to share deep emotions, I’m invested, and in my opinion this is how it should be, not flooding the person with emotions when you barely know them, then you’re just ranting. Setting boundaries is different though, and for me it’s basically a knee jerk reaction that when I see a person that I’m getting to know doing something I don’t like, I call them out.
/r/seduction30/11/20 10:08 PM
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Yes, women (people in general) test other people to see their personality. Think of you interacting with a little kid, sometimes you just annoy them a little bit to see how they’d react, in your head you aren’t thinking “I wonder how he’ll react” you just feel compelled to do it. Women do this to men who they’re considering as potential partners. The way to pass these tests is to be non reactive, or setting boundaries if the test pushed your boundaries. If you’re happy with the pace, maintain it…
/r/seduction30/11/20 08:29 PM
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I’m happy for you dude! Finding someone who feels special is a special feeling in itself, what happens to many people, though, is that they forget they only started to get to know her and go head over heels. Remember she’s a person like you, she values her alone time, and you don’t have to talk all day everyday. Don’t get to know her through text, and remember you’re the man. Mamba mentality
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:48 PM
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That bootcamp booty hit different 🤤 I’d still be skeptical of fucking where I eat though
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:38 PM
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Read the book Models (Manson 2017), then Magic Bullets (Savoy 2009) they are detailed and have all the basic information you want, then apply it during social situations and you’ll get better
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:36 PM
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Toxic boyfriends have the girls locked on one emotion: fear/frustration. Show her she won’t feel those with you, always give girls feelings they don’t have before meeting you. Any girl in a stale relationship (most relationships) will fall for you if you: make them laugh, show how little you give a shit about everything that doesn’t pertain to your future, and that your lifestyle is better than her boyfriend’s
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:31 PM
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People will say be attractive, yes be attractive, but being attractive isn’t about looks, it’s about the vibe. I’m not the most attractive person ever, still get called hot often because I live a fun lifestyle and have the right vibe. Make sure your pictures are high quality, go to your settings, change video to 4K 60FPS and instead of taking pictures, take a video then select a still.
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:29 PM
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Movies are awful: can’t get to know them, can’t bail in the middle, it’s a 2hr commitment. Movies is perfect for the date right before sex that isn’t the first (2nd or 3rd). Soft dates: Coffee is what I go with if I’m iffy. Basic lunch date in a nice looking place, then walk around Mall under the guise of “I gotta buy a perfume/new clothes,” see where it goes then ice cream or a full meal Museum/family friendly places Night dates (usually leads to sex): Bar hopping with my friends, and the girl …
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:25 PM
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It’s a well understood phenomena in every type of activity that involves taking action. So many books on starting businesses, cooking, coding, etc. have the same effect on newcomers This is a natural problem, and at the very least, all the information absorbed by the lurkers here will still be in their actions subconsciously
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:17 PM
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If anything it’s anger with myself for being spineless for so long. Seeing some incel comments in this subreddit make me nauseous
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:13 PM
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You’ve got incel mentality while you should be going for Mamba mentality
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:11 PM
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Make sure none of the friends dislike you, so they don’t cock block. Pulling from a group is an art because you have to make sure the friends at least see you as OK and you have to pull her in a respectful way so that she isn’t seen as a slut by her friends. Thin line, like you learned how to hook up with women one on one, learn to do groups by practice
/r/seduction30/11/20 06:13 AM
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All you need is 10 seconds of insane courage to make you the happiest you could ever be.
/r/seduction30/11/20 06:10 AM
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High quality girls (not necessarily the hot ones, but most of the times the hot ones), have no reason to approach a guy since they’re used to having guys approach them. According to the law of averages you’re due for a hot girl to approach you
/r/seduction30/11/20 06:09 AM
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I feel that as well. Everyone that I become close with says that I have the vibes of an asshole until I talk to them, even though I’m never rude or disrespectful. If you saw a guy in a restaurant with 20 girls on his table, you’d see him as an asshole until he talked to you and invited you to sit with him. People are envious, it’s human nature and what fuels most of us, especially regarding girls and money, actually most people are in this sub because at one point in their life they looked at a …
/r/seduction30/11/20 06:07 AM
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All love
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:51 AM
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Thank you for the feedback. I’ll give you a personal example, at the start of 2020, I had fucked 4 girls in my life. January 13 college started, I made friends and started going out, I had no options, and was still rejecting girls who I felt like: Weren’t up to my standards, or who disrespected me. Every time you step foot outside your house, you have thousands of options ripe for the taking, you just gotta polish your social skills. I noticed that a lot of people here come from a very informati…
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:51 AM
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From January to March I was going out 3-4 times a week and averaging 6 lays per month. Since COVID I’ve maintained contact with two of the girls I met, and fucked two new girls, from going out twice
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:46 AM
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I use simp as a criticism to men who put pussy on a pedestal, BBQ with the boys on a Saturday then go clubbing, or go on a first date? You pick the girl, you’re a simp.
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:44 AM
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Having game is about drawing the right feelings from the girl, if you can do that to seduce her, it’s not hard at all to do that to keep her. It’s a developed skill, like social skills. Guys with no game don’t make good boyfriends, they make good husbands, completely different, and he’s not a good husband because of how he makes her feel, he is because he provides. Having no game makes it so you’re not anyone’s first choice, one thing I always have in my mind is: If Brad Pitt approached my girlf…
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:41 AM
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I can relate, if I don’t know what to say and I’m not super excited about the girl, I just don’t say anything
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:36 AM
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Props for you bro, you got that Mamba mentality. What I learned is that hot girls are normal girls, but they look good. Personality wise, the only differences are things that stem from social interactions like more self esteem, and no antisocial tendencies. Vibe is the most important thing of all, actually from person experience I’d say that the first 10 seconds on EVERY meeting (not just girls, but family and friends too) are what set the tone for the rest of it, even if you’ve been dating for …
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:35 AM
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It absolutely does, when I’m hitting it off with girls and they start simping, I lose interest My current favorite girl just went on ‘vacation’ for 9 months to her family’s house for COVID,she’s stunning, probably one of the hottest girls I’ve seen, and living in a big party city, that’s insane. Before she left, she was simping over me HARD, and that definitely made me want to break things off, a few days later she travelled, and she’s been simping over me for 9 months over text, although I set …
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:30 AM
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Or rather, treat them with respect until they lose it. No reason to be disrespectful with everyone you meet until they earn it, then you’re a Karen, and no one likes a Karen.
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:24 AM
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😴 you don’t know what you’re talking about and spreading this is more bad than good
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:23 AM
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Ignore these dumbass replies. Treat everyone with respect, but put yourself ahead of everyone else. Respect means treat them well, not bend over backwards for them, not fuck yourself over for them. Give me an example of when you’re routinely disrespected.
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:21 AM
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I’ve suggested coffee dates before, to be honest all dates I’ve gone in, I’m the one who made the plans. Sure enough, I do coffee dates with the ones I’m more iffy about. Pointers: this man knows how to set boundaries he does not like coffee dates, he will let you know. That makes panties drop. You’re grounded in yourself, have your own opinions, even though they might be polarizing, and you stand by it. Props
/r/seduction29/11/20 10:55 AM
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I’ve thought about that since I was a kid, couldn’t have left it out.
/r/seduction29/11/20 10:47 AM
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I personally go with: “excited for our date tomorrow <comment>” Ex: “Excited for our date tomorrow, I can almost taste their Salmon Rolls 🤤”
/r/seduction29/11/20 09:38 AM
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Why are you trying to get to know her in the least effective way to actually get to know her, over text/snap? Meet up with her, call her, whatever it is, but don’t develop relationships through text. If you’re texting her because you’re ‘bored’ you’re being a selfish person, using someone else to kill your own boredom, and it shows.
/r/seduction29/11/20 09:31 AM
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Being 100% candid here: Most people who have ‘no game’ (90% of men) is because their parents fucked up raising them. Raising a kid isn’t easy, so not to blame. When you’re taught a language, but your pronunciation is shit, you talk to a teacher and learn the correct way. When you do a sport, but want to get better, you read about it, and analyze yourself. Same thing goes for picking up girls, it’s called “having game”, because it’s literally a game. Some people interpret all the information that…
/r/seduction29/11/20 09:29 AM
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If you had a PUA mentality, you wouldn’t be worrying about hair, height, low status, etc. it would come naturally, like it does for many of us. If you’d say that this anxiety is ruining your life all I can recommend is to go to a psychiatrist, explain, and say that your anxiety has made you lose: relationships, Jobs, friends, and more importantly your morale. And he’ll probably prescribe your something. You’re 35, you’re not old, but you’re getting there, fix your life however way possible and e…
/r/seduction29/11/20 09:24 AM
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Good FUCKING post mate
/r/seduction29/11/20 09:16 AM
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Why. The. Fuck. Do you want to text her tomorrow? You were on a ‘date’ with her and she left to fuck a guy she met on the street. You don’t respect yourself, so you can’t expect people to
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:04 PM
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There’s three “I”s in the first message. Whoever sent it is definitely trying to prove themselves to the girl, which doesn’t work
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:01 PM
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Yea I never talk about how intoxicated I am with the girls I’m flirting. Generally speaking I never talk thru chat (iMessage/WhatsApp), just to plan things. But when they send me give me attention usually I answer with “Doing <<whatever I’m doing>>, let’s meet at <place>” if she’s texting me that (or really anything) because she’s bored, then my attraction to her definitely takes a small hit, since I’m rarely bored I like people who are rarely bored as well. With the girl I’ve been hooking up wi…
/r/seduction28/11/20 01:27 AM
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That’s a good sign, if they were, like the other guy said, using you as a second option they wouldn’t show you their cards and be straightforward about wanting attention. And I usually get these texts after they’re very comfortable with me. I try to keep things at a cycle, I have to be aiming at 0 at all times in regards to giving attention. For a week I’ll give them attention (going toward -1) until a certain point, then draw it back slowly, add some drama in the middle to spice things up (or s…
/r/seduction28/11/20 12:46 AM
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