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If the mother abandons it and the father takes custody, yes, he can get child support from her. It works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:43 PM
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I said your property, not your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:41 PM
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Lead what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:40 PM
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They get married all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:39 PM
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Most men don't care. It's not like you can tell who a woman has sex with anyway. I don't know why you're so hung up on this. Oh well. It's your loss. Just don't whine when you're forever alone because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:38 PM
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Wow everything you said is wrong and f'd up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:36 PM
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First of all those standards are not hypocritical. Second, where? Where do women say this? I'll bet your source is TikTok LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:35 PM
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LOL men are the worst at providing that! Literally worse than pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:37 AM
1

Women and men are equally affected by having sex with different partners. Biologically, there is no change.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:58 AM
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Why did you even ask me a question if you're just going to mansplain? I didn't say anything out of line from a standard sex ed book. Maybe you should read one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:57 AM
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Oh someone posted it on a website. It must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:55 AM
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The man decides he wants a child when he ejaculates his sperm in close proximity to an egg. I'm pretty sure all men know where babies cone from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:53 AM
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Your biological offspring have a right to your property.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:51 AM
1

No, abortion is a matter of bodily autonomy. Men don't get pregnant so they don't have a say in this issue. Their say is whether they choose to have the type of sex that results in pregnancy. With women it's more complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:50 AM
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If you don't like my answers, stop asking me questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:48 AM
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How do you know women have those standards? Because I've never heard of women requiring those things. I have heard men shaming other men for them however.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:48 AM
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Okay well I don't know why you are even talking that me. I'm talking about men that think it's okay for men to sleep around but they don't want women to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:46 AM
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If you act like her, so are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:44 AM
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It's stupid to not realize that you've failed your own test and are, by your own definition, a bad investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:02 PM
3

Men tend to not have symptoms as often and spread them more easily through their bodily fluids. It's generally very hard for a woman to give a man an STD, depending on what it is of course. Something like herpes can spread to anyone. Meanwhile men spread HIV to women and other men through sex very easily but a woman with HIV could have sex with a man and not transmit it to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:56 PM
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But if the kid is already born your consent doesn't matter. You have to take care of it, or ensure that it gets proper care if you can't provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:53 PM
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Well in that case men's biological whatever is stupid. 🤷‍♀️ Why don't you guys evolve already?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:51 PM
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Exactly and that's why both are responsible, and there should be no getting out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:50 PM
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Self report posts? Oh god.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:49 PM
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What's this silliness? There is no reproductive harm from promiscuity. Your morality is 100% feelings. And those feelings are dumb too. If a woman being with other men before she even met you bothers you, then that's pathetic!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:48 PM
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Bullshit. It's not different. If anything promiscuous men are worse because they unknowingly spread STDs more than women due to their biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:45 PM
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LOL no, they don't! Or rather, they want a woman/women who are monogamous with them, but they want to have other women on the side. Yes all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:43 PM
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I'm not telling you not to be promiscuous. I'm telling you not to judge women for being the same as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:42 PM
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Women typically don't ask for that. It's an an immature little pipe dream if anything, like dreaming of winning the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:41 PM
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It was a man's choice to put that fetus there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:13 PM
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Correct. I've seen it firsthand. It's less common than the reverse obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:09 PM
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They are the only evidence. How many religious men are actually chaste? Not many, unless they're basically incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:08 PM
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I answered your question in a thoughtful and detailed way. And your second question is pointless. Women aren't free to avoid scrutiny any more than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:07 PM
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Abortion is a special case because pregnancy involves a woman consenting to have her body used to grow a child. It's not about responsibility once the child is born. Men don't have their bodily autonomy taken away through parenthood. Once his child exists, he should have to support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:05 PM
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Oh, boy. Religious men are some of the biggest hound-dogs around. I went to a Christian college and could tell you stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:44 PM
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I'm not super familiar with how wealthy couples do things because I'm not in that world. I do know that people tend to marry within their own wealth bracket. Rich people are even finicky about whether you are "new money" or not. I don't see how that has sny parallels with promiscuity. I think you tried to gotcha me, thinking that I would agree that all women want wealthy men. Sorry bud but that's not how I view the world. And besides, having a promiscuous past doesn't matter as much as how much …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:42 PM
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Every man would if he could.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:38 PM
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That would only be hypocritical if the women were also bi. And I don't care how I look. I'm right. Men are delusional if they think that highly desirable women are just going to sit there twiddling their thumbs waiting for them to show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:35 PM
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It's not a yes or no issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:34 PM
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Rule of thumb: don't approach strangers. You're thinking women are being vague but the reality is they never want some strange dude walking up and hitting on them. It's very nerve-wracking and threatening for them. Women have their personal safety and reputations to think about, moreso than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:20 PM
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You're the one who thinks that women get welfare just for existing. I'm not being toxic, I'm being practical. A man has a choice whether to sow his seed or not. It's more complicated for women. Once the kid exists someone has to support it and I would rather it be the biological parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:18 PM
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Probably. Most wealthy couples both come from money. You don't really see wealthy people marrying poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:15 PM
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Men and women are not different morally. Men who hold women to a standard that they themselves don't live up to are hypocrites plain and simple. A hypocrite is more repulsive than a slut ever will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:14 PM
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It's difficult to grasp because men want to be promiscuous. How can they judge others when they're no different?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:09 PM
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Yep. He left his child with an abuser just because it was easier. What a champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:03 PM
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When men care about something they will literally battle to the death for it. Most men don't care about their kids at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:02 PM
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Oh well. Should have married the woman before knocking her up. Personally I don't think taxpayers should ever have to pay for people's kids. But the kind of men who are allergic to responsibility are also highly fertile, and unfortunately they are large in number and we can't have little starving urchins freezing in the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:01 PM
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The father should have to provide an adequate quality of life, and if he chooses not to then he can go to a work camp until he reimburses the taxpayers for providing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:28 PM
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Loud chewing. A stupid laugh. Being dumb. Nail biting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:56 PM
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It's a bad idea to talk to total strangers like that. Again, this is part of social skills. Men are far too confident just walking up and talking to women they've never even met before and I don't think they realize how threatening it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:47 PM
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Why would anybody want commitment from someone they aren't interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:44 PM
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LOL it's called "having social skills". I wish more men would try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:47 AM
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There's a time, place and context for it though. Get that wrong and it's insulting to the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:26 AM
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Women want men to act like social human beings instead of badly programmed androids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:00 PM
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And being unfeminine is worse for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:49 PM
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It doesn't inflate our egos. It icks us out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:45 PM
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Please don't. It's inappropriate and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:44 PM
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Complimenting a woman's looks is inappropriate no matter what you look like. Unless she's you wife or girlfriend, don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:41 PM
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There's really no such thing as leagues. Love does what it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:04 PM
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LOL keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:03 PM
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Who cares about any of that? That's just your feelings. Nobody gives a crap if you don't like dating women. My point is that many women go dutch in dates and the overwhelming majority of us pay our own bills. We don't need men for that. Men need to stop complaining that they can't just buy us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:16 PM
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I'm not talking about general treatment I'm talking about interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:12 PM
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Women can bring money and free food too. We have jobs dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:05 PM
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Women decide based on their feelings and intuition. There's literally no way you can game the system. Men need to get it through their heads that you can't make someone fall in love with you, make or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:04 PM
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Who? Who gets mad? Which woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:23 PM
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If women only bring sex then men bring absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:23 PM
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Both sides should wait until their partner wants to before they do anything. And there's no set date when that should occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:22 PM
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You're never going to make women desperately want you no matter what you do. They decide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:21 PM
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The 5th date? I like how you guys pit a number on everything, as if there are rules for when you should have sex with someone. In reality, sex will occur when both parties are ready. If you want it right away, find a partner who's into that. Don't play games, that's just scummy. I promise you, women are not "making you wait". They are trying to get to know you and figure out how they feel about you. It's called courting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:20 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/news/datablog/2019/jan/12/intimate-partner-violence-gender-gap-cyntoia-brown
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:16 PM
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Quit spamming my inbox or I'll report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:58 PM
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Okay and?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:57 PM
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Having sex with people you don't even care about is not acting like a human being. It's acting like an animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:57 PM
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No it doesn't. It shows the opposite. In fact women get similar or even harsher punishments than men for lesser crimes. I've explained this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:56 PM
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So, just ignore my explanation then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:55 PM
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Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:54 PM
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We try.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:54 PM
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Nope. In fact if I'm not already interested and he acts like that, I find it gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:24 AM
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Women get harsher sentences because men's prisons are so overcrowded, and women are less likely to be able to afford a good attorney. Women's prisons are underfunded. Juries can be sexist, especially if the woman is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:18 AM
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I guess I'm a silly triggered woman for expecting men to act like human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:13 AM
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They do it though. They get censored, cancelled and even arrested for it now and then, depending on what country they're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:12 AM
-1

I'd rather choose none, because they all lie and manipulate, it's just a matter of severity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:10 AM
-1

Men shouldn't use and abuse women. End of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:47 PM
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Women get harsher sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:45 PM
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Women's interest groups don't support female violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:41 PM
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Some do and some don't I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:45 PM

Then he will get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:00 PM

She's happier than the spiteful man who thinks his absence is somehow punishing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:00 PM

LOL talk about cutting off your nose to spite your face. "Bro, just don't date even though you're lonely. That'll show those women!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:59 PM
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Early 20's people look like babies to me now. It's all perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:42 PM

"Date". Yeah, we all know what people really go there for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:06 AM

Most women aren't using dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:18 PM
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I think part of it is how women hit on each other. Women will say things like "You're really beautiful" while men will say "You are sexy and I want to do x, y and z to your body parts". Even as a straight woman I'm more likely to respond positively to the former than the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:12 PM

I wish mine would hurry up. I'm getting pretty tired of periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:38 PM

Women take a financial and professional hit during their child-bearing years. It makes sense for the husband to be the prom bread-winner. Also this "80% of women go around chasing the same guy, who is of course just gonna use them, never commit, and leave them once they found some newer, younger, hotter woman" revenge fantasy needs to f'ing die already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:36 PM
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I don't think men need it either. I'm approaching middle age and all my neurodivergent co-workers, acquaintances and relatives are happily married, even the ones I had doubts about. These disorders are extremely common.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:36 PM

That'll because separating sex from love is sociopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:13 PM

Women want desirable men, and they're getting them. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:12 PM

How are you judging who is a "top guy" and who isn't? Not all women even want body builders and models.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:11 PM
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I know what I amd my sisters want. We want adult men, not little boys. Incidentally, do you dare men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:26 PM
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Bisexual men are not good partners for women. Statistically they usually end up with men or single and there are reasons for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:25 PM
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Chad is the good one then. Good guys don't get shelved, unless they choose to put themselves there, which is possible but extremely rare. Priests and monks do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:24 PM
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No, I label men who are unstable, dumb, irresponsible and disrespectful as not good men. These dudes fail within five minutes of talking to them. How is it worth my time to get to know them further?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:23 PM
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I'm not black.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:21 PM
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It's juvenile behavior. Once you're an adult this behavior is not okay, ever. Sorry if the dude missed the boat as a young person but trying to re-live adolescence as a grown-up will always be pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:25 PM

Probably one who uses drugs, is mentally unstable, cheats, is a welfare queen, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:23 PM
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Women are not responsible in any way, shape or form for male behavior. Each man is responsible for himself and how he raises his sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:46 AM
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So you don't know what you're talking about. I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:44 AM
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A man can be all of those things and still be an awful partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:43 AM
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Women don't make men do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:42 AM
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How many men have you talked to on dating sites?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:42 AM
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It's not women's job to train up boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:41 AM
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There are 0 good men in those DMs and they prove it with the disrespectful and disgusting things they say to us. No woman ever met a good man online. Good men don't have to resort to that because they usually get snatched up right away. They are a rare commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:34 AM
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Not if they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:25 AM
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No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:24 AM
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Women struggle to find good men. By that I mean mentally stable men who aren't abusive, aren't criminals, aren't in a ton of debt or have baby mommas coming after them for child support. We want men who will genuinely love, respect and cherish us. Most men these days don't even seem to like women. The struggle is real. Luckily though, most women can live happily single. We can find ways to be content with our lives even if we don't get what we want. We're not like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:13 AM

These angsty guys aren't any sort of catches themselves. Some might say they should settle for what they can get. Single moms and overweight women are not necessarily bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:27 PM
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That's not what the post is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:11 PM
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It's none of my business unless I'm dating the dude. I've had middle aged men try to "have fun" with me and I think it's quite pathetic, disrespectful and hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:29 PM
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I mean, I do. That's what guns and a concealed carry license are for. You're gonna stop leaving these borderline threatening comments now though boy. I and others won't hesitate to report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:28 PM
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Increasingly nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:24 PM
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Stop acting like you were born yesterday. Women don't do heinous shit compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:23 PM
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When I see women get emotional it's usually because of pent up frustration iver not being treated right. From my observation women who always stand up for themselves and set firm boundaries are not prone to emotionality. Men by contrast use their emotions to manipulate and gain power over others. They always play women's emotions too. Smart women don't let them, and that includes the media, politicians, our employers as well as our sons, brothers, fathers and husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:21 PM
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Yes. You just gonna ignore my comment about the serial killers and sexual predators that are everywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:17 PM
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Men are monsters all over the world. We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:11 PM
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Then men shouldn't vote either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:10 PM
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Precisely. And it just so happens men are doing the most heinous stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:09 PM
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Women were worse than slaves. Slaves could buy their freedom. Women were stuck serving men until they died.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:47 PM
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This. And we're not the emotional ones besides. Men base all their decisions on anger and insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:46 PM
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LOL quit projecting. Sicko.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:45 PM
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Safest is relative. We're still not safe. There are still rapists, pedophiles, human traffickers and serial killers in every city and every town. Mine has several registered sex offenders on every block. And they're all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:44 PM
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Female sexuality is generally harmless compared to male sexuality. It's bad when an older female abuses a younger male but not necessarily as bad as if the genders were reversed. There haven't been any cases of the older females in question kidnapping, grooming and selling boys into sex slavery or murdering or torturing them for example. Men do these things to young girls and women (and young boys for that matter) all the time. Society is more wary of men and male sexuality and for good reasons.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:38 PM

So you've seen it on Reddit? Okay. How does anyone on Reddit know how short, tall, ugly or attractive you are? Do you all post pictures of yourselves or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:27 PM
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Nobody is telling men not to ever approach women. We're trying, desperately, and to no avail, to tell men not to approach women in places and ways that are not appropriate. And also that it's okay to get rejected, even if you do everything right. Men have this bizarre notion that of they get rejected it's a personal criticism and that if they "do everything right" then the doors are going to open up like magic. It's probably a young guy problem. We seem to have a lot of 20-somethings still think…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:30 PM
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I legit have never seen this happen. And I'm not even arguing, yet. I just asked a question. If it's so common then you should be able to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:17 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:16 PM
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LOL no, they do not! Quit watching Sex and the City.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:15 PM
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You said men don't have sexual agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:14 PM
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Men don't have a choice of who they have sex with? That's a shit take, and kinda rapey too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:11 PM
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The guys women have casual sex with and the high value husband material guys are not the same guys. High value men typically get snatched up and married fairly early. And I've never heard of a woman brag about the kind of men she sleeps with. That is such typical male behavior, not female.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:05 PM
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Where are women telling these men anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:58 PM
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We've fought long bloody wars over it but sure go ahead and call it cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:45 PM
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Let me get this straight. These women can't find any men in their age group that are serious...and that makes the women bad mothers? At least they're not having babies out of wedlock. They're trying to do the right thing. The other side required for that just isn't there. And they've no doubt vetted out numerous men that they knew wouldn't be good fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:41 PM
-1

Maybe you replied to the wrong person? That has nothing to do with this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:18 PM
0

Yes. And it's the truth. Women don't owe men our time or access to our bodies. Your sex troubles are your own problem. Maybe men need to have accountability instead of blaming their troubles on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:16 PM
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Westen Civilization has decided that humans are not resources but individuals with innate rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:13 PM
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Women have become liberated from motherhood and marriage i.e. slavery. It's now voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:22 PM
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Women are earning their own money, are living longer happier lives and faring better through pregnancy and childbirth. We are doing better by every measure. Men are the ones always complaining about how the big scary world is changing. You just did it yourself. Edit: spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:19 PM
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We don't need accountability. Our genitals are not a resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:17 PM
-1

If they get it then that means they're worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:16 PM
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People have sex with who they want to have sex with, and they don't with who they don't. There's nothing just or unjust about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:15 PM
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Men don't adapt. Beneath the surface they are exactly the same as they were three million years ago or so. Women and girls have been liberated. Women are adapting better to the modern world than men are. Men either need to change or be left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:18 PM
1

I don't know. I would have to meet them in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:53 PM

I make almost six figures. It's not unreasonable that a man should make sure a figures if he expects to marry me. Men don't want women who earn more than them. So who is really the problem here? The men. Maybe they should step up and get that promotion or start a business istead of being content with their podunk little jobs. Women are doing it, why can't men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:19 PM
-2

He's the one with the problem while she is not. He got his feelings hurt by her. She probably doesn't even remember this interaction. That says everything. He's the one with the entitlement and expectations. That's 100% on him and nobody else. Shoulda left her alone in the first place and now he's learned his lesson for next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:16 PM
3

He shoulda left her alone if that sort of thing bothers him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:13 PM
0

That's completely subjective. The truth is you have to take rejection, no matter what form it comes in. Other people don't owe us the spit to shine a shoe. If that's unacceptable, then leave others alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:11 PM

Yes it is in fact it's very ignorant and leads to atrocities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:16 PM
-3

Nobody has to be direct or polite, ever. That's not a reflection on their character. But the entitled pussy who gets his feelings hurt by it is the one who lacks character.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:15 PM
6

It's not rudeness. Rudeness is walking up and bothering people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:30 PM

No two people are equal. It's wrong to generalize people by groups such as gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:53 PM
-3

Nobody is entitled to sex, a partner, attention or even acknowledgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:43 PM
1

I'm obviously not talking about masturbating. I said wanking it to porn. Don't be dishonest. You admitted that you are a sexually frustrated addict with numerous vices. Isn't it common sense that that is bad? Why be defensive of this toxic lifestyle? What even is your point? Do you have one, other than being triggered by me calling bad behaviors bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:40 PM

Men should think this way. Finding someone to build a family with is the most important thing in life and everything else is pretty trivial by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:59 PM

What a disgusting post. Both of you should be embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:58 PM
0

Okay well that's not healthy.wankimg to porn is sick and a type of self-harm. Same with the video games. A hobby is something that practices a skill and actually produces something. You have no hobbies. Only vices. Again, self-harm. Why not get a girlfriend, some real hobbies, and clean yourself up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:56 PM
6

Nobody owes anybody else their time, affection, or interaction simply for existing. It's not wrong to ignore people or end a conversation when you're no longer interested in it. Don't shame people for having boundaries. Women and especially girls already feel too much guilt about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:52 PM
0

Men need to stop blaming women for rejecting them. That's the core issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:45 PM
2

Should we not do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:04 PM
1

Do you look at porn? And how many hours a day are spent on video games? Do you drink, do drugs or strangle cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:04 PM
1

Oh good grief. 1. I'm right, 2 you're wrong about that 3. You're wrong about that. Try living in the real world. Look at crime statistics and study a little criminal psychology. Men are 99.999% of sex offenders for a reason. Instead of denial let's work on fixing the problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:20 PM
4

Probably. People will post themselves being ridiculous for the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:21 PM
1

Yes, men are dangerous when they are in that state and have no outlet for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:20 PM
4

I'm pretty sure all that stuff is scripted is what I'm getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:13 PM
2

Personally I do a lot more than run my mouth. I train in self defense and have a concealed carry license. Too many women and children, and yes even men fall victim to these frustrated freaks every single day. Often victims are ignored by the men who have the power to do something about it. So I take matters into my own hands, and I encourage other women to also.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:12 PM
3

Why would I listen to men or manosphere content?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:09 PM
0

All men who have sexual issues are dangerous. It always expresses itself in some way, and often in a way that harms others or the men themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:07 PM
6

They'll have to. There's nothing women can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:06 PM
4

Not if we don't have children. Check out that movement going on in Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:06 PM
1

Growing old together, overcoming the difficult times and maybe even falling out if love but sticking through it so some even greater love grows.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:02 PM
13

Why do women have to acknowledge anything? This is 100% a male problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:14 PM
3

Men who are sexually frustrated are bad men, and dangerous. It's still not women's problem to fix though. We just need to avoid these men, and protect our children from them. Good men should assist in keeping the world safe, but unfortunately they're not doing as much as they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:10 PM
2

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:04 PM
11

Not likely. If that were true we would hear them saying so. Yet the only people to assert that this is a serious issue are always men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:03 PM
23

It's funny that they think women will listen to them, as if we don't know how our bodies function and what our timeline should be. Women know what they are doing, and if we're putting off or forgoing marriage and family it's because we planned it that way. Also there's no reason a single person is more or less likely to die alone than someone with seven kids. The red pillers know this. They're just unhappy and not content with how their lives turned out and are trying to spread that to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:31 PM
3

Since when does pocking fun and mocking men stop them from doing anything. Nobody is trying to stop passport bros. They are universally laughed at though, and for good reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:25 PM
1

Gotta love it when men explain women's nature. Because I totally don't know what I'm attracted to otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:03 PM
1

I see the opposite: women being more timid and reclusive and men of all ages being verbally and physically hostile in public. Funny, I never see the men act like this to other men or even make children, only to women and girls that are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:13 PM

Men and women are the same in terms of morality. If it's okay for men to sleep around then it's okay for women. Women are the ones (mostly) that they are doing it with, and I've never actually met a man in real life who cared about "mileage" as you put it. There's no real difference between someone with lots of mileage and someone with none anyway, except maybe confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:28 PM
0

I hate to break it to you but the entire female population isn't going to change for you. And men do the exact same thing I described, so if men can slut it up women can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:06 PM

Women aren't the ones who equate short men with fat women. I only see men do that. If you listen to actual women, they say that they prefer a man that's taller than them. Women on average are shorter than men so I don't think it's an unreasonable requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:04 PM
4

You got the alphas and the betas reversed. Alpha men care about their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:56 PM
0

Competition breeds excellence. It's good to keep in mind that the person you're dating has options because ot keeps you on your toes. And you should date multiple people at the same time if you want to. If a genuine connection grows between you that's when you take a break from the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:14 PM
0

It's not a matter of honesty/dishonesty. Unless you put a ring on it or are planning to, what the other person is doing and who they're doing it with has nothing to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:12 PM
1

Live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:05 PM
2

Grow old and die celibate and childless then. Nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:29 PM
5

Trust me, we don't get an ego boost from it and we know what guys are up to. That's why we turn them down 9 times out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:54 PM
1

Boo-hoo how terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:28 PM
14

If you're hitting on everything that moves then it's obvious you're not really interested in any of them. You're just trying to get something. That's gross. I'm not saying it's necessarily wrong but it's a turn-off so at least be private about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:57 PM
1

Do you think women are not wonderful, and why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:54 PM
1

Women not being interested in men doesn't make them spoiled or entitled. Quite the opposite really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:03 PM
1

If you're going through partners like pairs of shoes then you're not high value. High value people attract other high value people and form long-lasting stable relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:57 PM
-1

Women are not attracted to assholes. Assholes are insecure guys who constantly have something to prove and are mean to people. Nobody likes that. Autistic guys who are funny, clever and genuinely kind get snatched up and married. Autistic guys who act like the world is their enemy... don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:51 PM
1

Them pickme's is wrong. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:41 PM
1

That's not what feminism is about. Hint: it's in the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:07 PM
1

It's more about social status than what men think specifically. Happily partnered women do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:00 PM
0

It literally is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:57 PM
2

You have no way of knowing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:56 PM
1

Feminists are not relevant to the issue so I don't know why you and OP are whining about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:47 PM
6

Men's issues are not part of the feminist agenda. They are neutral to that. Why don't you ask men's rights activists this question instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:40 PM
1

I'm explaining what the culture is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:50 PM
1

White women have "white privilege" while still receiving sexist treatment by our culture. Being white they get no benefits from diversity programs, while still having the disadvantages that all women have. They're lowest on the totem pole, right above white, cis, het men. They get called "Karen" any time they stand up for themselves. There is a lot of anti-white-woman hatred in these times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:08 PM
1

Your whole comment is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:03 PM
2

"Neurodivergence" and being a scumbag have a bigger overlap than you might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:22 PM
0

We don't get any of that stuff, especially our own spaces or the equal income. When companies are looking for diversity we're second to last before white straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:11 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 03:59 PM
1

First and foremost it's the best for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 03:59 PM
1

Not necessarily. Kinda depends on several factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 03:58 PM
1

Huh? Nobody is talking about hitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:53 PM
1

Yes. It's basically masturbating using another person's body at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:52 PM
0

Doesn't matter if you care or not. I'm still going to say it. Other people are reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:51 PM
1

"For sex, it inly matters how attractive you are physically." "Yet the planet’s nicest guy will be unfuckable" Okay and? Men are still hypocrites because they hold women to a standard they themselves don't live up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 08:02 PM
5

Probably not even 1% do. Humans have a breeding instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:57 PM
1

Well that's degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:55 PM
1

They're not different when they're engaging in the same behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:54 PM
1

She loves the $$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:53 PM
2

Well that's pretty hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:52 PM
0

Nope. Human nature. It's universal among the plant and animal kingdoms as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:51 PM
5

It doesn't matter what these silky men believe. Their beliefs are stupid, disgusting and immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:50 PM
3

Sex should only exist within relationships. Otherwise you're exploiting and degrading others and yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:50 PM
0

The risk is always there. Sex is for intimacy, love, bonding and procreation. It's impossible to completely separate it from these things without being a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:49 PM
-2

And I'll bet you're proud of that aren't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:48 PM
1

How do you think babies are made? And should they just be made casually?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:47 PM
0

Relationships and sex should not be separate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:03 PM
0

If you're fucking her you are telling her that she is your mate and you would potentially give her children. From her point of view you don't think of her so badly. I'll bet if you told her you think she's a boring moron she would cut you off immediately. Scummy ass men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:02 PM
8

Men are hypocrites then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:58 PM
1

Again, the women doing this are not happy healthy people. Women do not value casual sex like men do. It's degrading and humiliating to us. It's a net negative. You can get all the hookups in the world and still be desperately lonely, in fact the two go hand-in-hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:01 PM
1

All.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:49 PM
0

Nobody is entitled to my time, help or empathy. It's foolish for women to help men and that's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:48 PM
1

There are a lot of sad broken women doing stuff like that. They didn't have good families growing up. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:46 PM
1

I'll just stay single then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:43 PM
1

LOL not even once jabbed. Can you even figure out what side you're on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:25 AM
0

Your interpretations are all dead wrong. That's your fault. Nobody is gaslighting you. Now you're gonna go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:15 AM
1

You probably wore two masks didn't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:13 AM
-1

LOL I don't give a shit about Palestiniane. Don't know where you got that! Also, I never said nobody should have empathy. I don't know where you got that either. If you're here to busy my chops you can just stop right now. I'm not interested in being preached at, or yelled at, and I have absolutely no hesitation in reporting and blocking people who do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:31 PM
1

Sock accounts and bots totally aren't a thing LOL. Reddit's also not full of idiots, autistics and kids either haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:29 PM
1

Not even "below average" women tolerate their behavior. Just because a woman looks a certain way doesn't mean she's cheap. There are cheap women though, and they get with those guys. You'll have to ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:01 PM
4

Older women who's husbands are either divorced or dead are the happiest people I know. The stereotype of them using antidepressants or "cracking" is sexist and incorrect. I think a lot of women who married young and find themselves suddenly single are struggling to adjust especially financially and career-wise and that's something to address.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:48 PM
-1

People show adequate empathy for strangers I'd say. Nobody is going to be empathetic towards your deep personal issues because 1. everyone has their own shit to worry about abd 2. It's none of their business. That's why people say to see a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:40 PM
0

All women want relationships. They just don't always realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:35 PM
1

Ooh upvotes! Those matter so much!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:13 PM
-2

Nobody ever said overcoming loneliness, mental illness, social anxiety, etc. was easy. We're saying it's up to you to do it. Nobody can to do it for you. You don't need empathy from others (you're not going to get it) you need to have it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:12 PM
-1

LOL get therapy. Nobody here wants to hear this whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:55 PM
1

Because the individual benefits from a society that's built on stable families.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:44 PM
2

The point is to build a stable relationship to raise children in, because children benefit most from having both biology parents and their extended family in the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:57 PM
1

Men are actually less likely to be incarcerated because men's prisons are over-crowded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:55 PM
0

People are allowed to change their minds or misspeak then apologize later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:49 PM
-1

I'm arguing that unless you're going steady and planning to get engaged or something, it's not cheating. This girl is not your property. You had possessive feelings over her but that's not her fault. To her you were just a friend. Try looking inwards instead of always blaming others for your hurt feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:47 PM
-2

You thought her wanting to be friends and cuddle meant she was "doing girlfriend stuff". That's 100% on you buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:03 PM
-2

Okay well that's not women's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:51 PM
0

Changing the story eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:49 PM
-1

Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:49 PM
4

Better to be a whiny loser than being a criminal lowlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:48 PM
0

You said she rejected your request to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:27 PM
1

LOL where did I say anything about looks? You have a chip on your shoulder. And maybe you should listen to other people instead of projecting your issues onto them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:26 PM
1

Where do you frequent where you see that all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:38 PM
1

Yes, they were. Have you tried talking to married couples? What about your parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:37 PM
0

"Cheating" on you? She told you she wasn't your girlfriend. You mind fucked yourself more like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:10 PM
1

So all those married couples who started out as friends, which is virtually all of them, don't exist then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:59 PM
2

Women have no guilt about getting hot for hot bimbo men. In fact we're quite open and humorous about it. Mediocre men, for some reason, freak out over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:57 PM
1

And you can't make a woman love you, even if you tick all the boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:56 PM
0

Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:37 PM
1

For me personally, it was mere months after the breakup and guys I knew started swooping in, and I in a vulnerable state gave a couple a chance. One figured out what was going on and was very patient and explained to me how the psychology of it works, and that helped me. I didn't want to use anybody, but in my limited experience that's what I was doing. I've had two great loves in my life. One got engaged two weeks after breaking up with me, and the other married his "ex" while I was on deployme…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:20 AM
1

Not a relationship, it's called "rebound sex" or "rebound boyfriend". It's not a real relationship and they usually don't even get off the ground. Guys do it too after breakups. Everyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:34 PM
1

You have lived experience being female? Hey, it's the 2020's I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:32 PM
1

Sex workers don't care what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:05 PM
0

You fucked a sex worker, she didn't commit to being your girlfriend, and probably doesn't even remember you. I don't think that's how it's "supposed to" go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:04 PM
1

People have studied this. And I said that already. Can you not read?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:02 PM
1

So what if they have sex? There's even a term for it that I can't remember, where people have sex right after a breakup in order to feel better. It's pretty normal. Women think about relationships more than men. Women over-think in fact. Chances are she has a hundred reasons in her head about why it broke off, meanwhile the man's reasons boil down to her not giving him something he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:58 PM
2

LOL men think everything is fine if they're in a relationship, no matter how bad it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:56 PM
1

Let me guess, your "studies" are Reddit posts. Search it up. You have an encyclopedia in your hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:55 PM
4

You are not one of those girls or even a girl so there's no way you could know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:53 PM
7

Then you can't make statements on how women feel, just as I would never do the same to men. But based on self-reporting in the studies, men move on former lovers, ex-wives and even their own kids. It's not uncommon for them to even forget the names. Be thankful you have more humanity than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:48 PM
1

No idea. Never heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:40 PM
3

It's actually the opposite. Men move on extremely quickly. Women take longer and it hits them harder, even if they wanted the break-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:39 PM
8

Women don't move on quickly and I'm not sure why you'd think that. It's been studied. Women take longer and grieve deeper than men on average. With men it's pretty much out of sight out of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:37 PM
1

When women realize they don't have a chance with a guy, they either chill out or fuck off. They don't keep orbiting like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:50 PM
2

He's not really a sugar daddy, he's full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:11 PM
5

LOL what? Like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:28 PM
2

2 women, wow. That obviously means we all think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:25 PM
1

No, by my definition love is a choice. A plethora of other comments have already explained the difference between lustful passionate love and deeper familial love. Feel free to read them. ​ The point of marriage is to build a family for the purpose of raising children in the best way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:23 PM
2

No such thing as drunk honesty. I ate a fish out of the fish tank once while blackout drunk. Does that mean I secretly want to do that? And no woman in the history of ever (outside of porn) has said "Yeah he was and asshole but he had a big dick" yeah, you guys haven't listened to any real women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:08 PM
1

You can't do your duties as parents unless you are living together, married, and setting a good example by being genuinely loving, supportive and respectful of one another. Anything less is a failure to the child I and they will have to deal with that trauma for their entire lives. It's up to the adults to make good decisions because the next generation and society as a whole pays the price if they don't. I don't think you quite understand what the point of marriage is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:05 PM
1

Unless a woman tells me she does, and I have yet to year that firsthand, I'm gonna say nope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:01 PM
6

Shouldn't be having sex with someone you're not potentially considering committing to. Like, the relationship should be at least halfway to commitment if sex is going to happen. Men (and women too sometimes) want sex to be a casual encounter and this is a terrible idea for a multitude of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:59 PM
3

Isn't it pretty obvious that said drunk women are joking and being silly? No woman really wants to see a picture of a dick for sexual pleasure. But when they're drunk enough they find them hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:05 PM
1

If you listen to women, we'll actually tell you we don't like huge dicks. And we definitely don't want pictures of them. It's bloody gross. And your buddy is lying, probably about both getting laid and having a big penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:03 PM
1

Children of single parents are tens of times more likely to be abused, neglected and murdered. They are dozens of times more likely to self-harm or self-delete. A father's job is to protect his family. When one parent (usually the father) walks out, he's throwing them to the wolves, he is proving he doesn't care, and the children know this. When parents refuse to stop squabbling over trivial shit until it destroys their family, they are teaching their chil that trivial shit matters more than fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:58 PM
3

Men do want them. You even said it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:54 PM
1

Women with big butts and boobs are obese too. They just carry fat in those areas instead of the belly, etc. Fat is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:03 PM
1

Read the entire comment thread, starting with the part about using "vulnerability" to "manipulate" your girlfriend into initiating a breakup. It's not hard to keep up with a conversation bro, especially when it's all written out (unless comments got edited or deleted. I haven't checked in the last half hour)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:01 PM
2

Well people need to shape up, or else don't expect their kids to want anything to do with them when they get old, assuming they even survive to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:58 PM
5

He should figure it out like everybody does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:08 PM
1

Do you read your own comments or the threads that you reply to? You seem a little bit lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:06 PM
-1

No they weren't. They were being dishonest, manipulative little cowards a.k.a. jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:53 PM
0

I think it should be full on illegal to divorce if you have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:49 PM
2

It's generally better to act like adults and not shout at each other, because there are now more important responsibilities than your little feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:47 PM
1

Try looking somewhere besides a search engine. For example: actual models at an agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:20 PM
0

Yeah right. Women are not stupid and we know you men think it's clever to act like a jerk to try and get us to end the relationship. It's a very good way to have a woman disgusted AND angry with you. Why can't you guys act right? Is respecting others that difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:18 PM
3

Honey, not even models are consistent in looks. And looks aren't all that important in dating. Just look at couples. I think you're a kid or a highschooler. You seriously don't have ANY ugly couples at your school?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:44 AM
1

You like guys who look like Brad Pitt, and I don't. My point rests I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:38 AM
1

Not everyone cares about those factors, and of those that do, it's not by any sort of consistent degree. Are YOU from Earth by chance? Because you seem to think like a video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:37 AM
0

That's not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:59 AM
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I don't think people "lower" their standards. Referring to human beings as "lower" or "higher" needs to cease. People are not cuts of meat. People's tastes can and do change all the time, depending on where they are in life. We can also spontaneously fall in love with people we never thought of falling for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:41 PM
2

You are not going to successfully manipulate women into anything in relationships. They are on a whole 'nother level of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:18 PM
1

What does "vulnerability" even mean? I hate that that's the term du jour nowadays. Just be a freakin' adult and expect your partner to as well. If they need some support now and then and their friends or therapy aren't the right places to go, give them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:16 PM
2

"Caregivers"? Like in a hospice? I would say growing up in a hospice would strongly affect someone's views on pretty much every part if life. I've had people close to me who did, and they seemed like the had a lot of lost time to make up for and never managed to catch up unfortunately. I don't think the sexes of the nurses matter either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:53 PM
0

K bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:49 PM
0

Dude shut up. Go troll elsewhere or I'll report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:03 PM
0

I think Brad Pitt looked like a girl when he was young and he looks like an old leprechaun now. 0/10 looks. Brad Pitt's lifestyle is incompatible with mine, and while his personality is probably okay (he hasn't been in trouble for beating or raping anybody like most celebrities have) I'm gonna rate him 0/10 on that. So, inside and outside, I say Brad Pitt has nothing to offer me. That other guy could lose weight and work on his muscle gains and pull off that cute, ugly tough-guy bulldog look. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:50 PM
1

What a ludicrous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:47 PM
3

Who says they're higher value?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:12 PM
4

Men see this hierarchy. Women do not. One woman's 9/10 is another woman's 2/10. When women give advice to help men, it's about broadening their odds to find that one special woman that they're compatible with. If you view this advice as nagging, well, don't say we didn't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:08 PM
1

Better men aren't to be found online. They ain't there. Online dating is where you go when you're drunk, sad, or desperate for a quickie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:05 PM
0

People who do nothing but talk about themselves are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:54 PM
0

Women are responsible for their own behavior. And no, I'm not talking about being blinded. I'm saying guys will do things in the beginning but then they change once they have the woman tied down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:53 PM
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Men's behavior is not women's responsibility. Most of these guys were interesting during the honeymoon period. The problem is, virtually all men get lazy. There is nothing women csn do to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:42 PM
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I spend hours hiking, going to new restaurants and watching foreign films. It's like pulling teeth trying to get a guy to do anything. They'd rather stare at their phones. It's funny, when I go out I see all the women looking around and talking to one another, while the man their with is just staring at his phone in silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:11 PM
1

You probably shouldn't get married. You're clearly still a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:21 AM
1

So grow up and be a good husband and father and don't get divorced. You have to actually put others first in marriage, instead of just thinking about your own wants all the time. It's really simple after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:25 PM
1

Life is pretty empty and pointless otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:49 PM
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Straight people trying to get gays and lesbians into bed or vise versa is a new low. Sounds like something from a trashy sitcom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:09 PM
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Men are a real pleasure to be around when they don't have an ulterior motive. A gay man will never have any plans, schemes or ideas for you, if you know what I mean. He also will never be in competition with you like another woman would be. He's just a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:49 PM
1

Targeting women's flaws won't make them want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:33 PM
1

I expect things will change as demographics change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:19 PM
1

We have no obligation to take care of the old. They should have saved up. I know Social security won't exist by the time I'm retirement age so I plan on investing, growing assets and hopefully kicking the bucket before I start shitting in diapers and forgetting my kids' names.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:21 PM
1

Take care of your parents. The rest can work. I know I'm going to have to work till I die and that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:17 PM
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The fewer people who have kids, the more resources and care go towards the kids that exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:47 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:07 PM
1

They obviously haven't tried the right thing. Like I said, this is stuff we all learn in childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:07 PM
1

Okay well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:58 PM
1

You didn't learn any of this when you were like...12 or whatever age kids start socializing more on their own terms? This isn't something that can really be explained. IDK if no one is available you hit them up later, or they might suggest a time when they're available. Figure out what they're into and ask if you could join. It's just something you figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:57 PM
1

Have you talked with many Indian people on the matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:50 PM
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Half the men in this country are fat and they're getting married and doing alright. I don't know why folks are trying so hard to assert than less conventionally attractive people can't be happy and fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:50 PM
1

I'm saying it's unrealistic to expect monogamy from someone you're still getting to know and has no connection with yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:47 PM
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I don't know how to answer. This is not how normal people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:46 PM
1

Then the logical thing would be to ask someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:38 PM
2

What you find attractive doesn't mean jack. You are not the arbiter of what's attractive and what's not. Other men don't find them subpar, so why don't you just speak for yourself or better yet, don't speak at all. I never asked for your opinion in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:37 PM
0

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:15 PM
3

Okay and? Also, what an awful thing to call a human being. Who the hell are you to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:14 PM
3

No, regular poor fat men are too. You've obviously never been to the Midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:14 PM
1

Well that's an incredibly stupid mindset to have. They deserve to be alone if they're that shitty of human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:12 PM
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Who cares if they're pretty?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:10 PM
3

Nope. I mean regular fat working class schmo's.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:09 PM
1

LOL no they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:08 PM
1

How are you supposed to be monogamous with someone you're just getting to know and might not even be intimate with yet, let alone exclusive with? This is unrealistic. Relationships grow from friendships. I can tell you haven't had much experience in the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:08 PM
2

Men do the exact same thing. I don't think women care. It's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:06 PM
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Speaking anecdotally, men on Reddit and even my own roommate complain about that all time, especially in regards to the caliber of women on dating sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:44 PM
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Fat men get women all the time. I don't think it's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:26 PM
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Society is made up of individuals. Nothing is stopping anyone from doing better. Third spaces do exist despite people saying that they don't. They just never thought to look for them and would rather complain. Sitting on your ass complaining is the American passtime right now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:22 PM
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Insecurity and the fragile make ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:13 PM
1

Women don't get married for sex. How ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:11 PM
-1

Perhaps men should shape up and not be the wrong man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:08 PM
0

Perhaps men should shape up and not be the wrong man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:02 PM
3

It's definitely NOT working in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:55 PM
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Men in the West are the laziest people in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:54 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:14 PM
1

Are men so stupid that they don't know what someone looks like under makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:14 PM
1

None of that is true. It's 100% about compatibility. Grown-ups don't match based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:49 AM
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No they don't do either of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:59 PM
-1

What's so bad about celibacy? Why does a man's desire to get off trump literally everything else including other people's right to life and dignity?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:57 PM
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Women's main complaint about porn is exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:56 PM
2

That's not advice. And you are reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:27 PM
1

What are you talking about? What advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:26 PM
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Because they're not. They're based on dating sites and surveys which are unverifiable. And like I said, they all conflict one another. You can find a study that confirms whatever opinion you have. So why even bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:42 AM
1

None of them are "real" studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:50 PM
0

Absolutely can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:41 PM
0

The fact that there are different opinions on this proves that not to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:58 PM
-1

Doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:57 PM
4

I have used Match and only talked to about three guys. I ignore messages asking for hookups or computer sex so those are probably higher in number.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:56 PM
1

Some 30-year old man's loneliness is absolutely not my problem, nor any other woman's, with the possible exception of his mother's. Women don't need marriage. We don't really even need men in our personal lives for anything. And none if this has anything to do with morality. Life's not fair, easy or convenient for anybody and you either deal with it or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:21 PM
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Men who hook up know where to find women who also want to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:17 PM
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All dating studies conflict with each other and are meaningless. Listen to people's testimonies especially about what they find most attractive. They are not lying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:12 PM
2

Their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:09 PM
-1

There's no such things as leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:09 PM
1

Where are all these options? Boys ignored me or made fun of me when I was young. Men avoid me as an adult, except for the one boyfriend I had. Women don't have many options unless they're young, feminine and in the top prettiest/hottest category.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:08 PM
2

So, if something is inconvenient to some men, it's immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:46 PM
4

Extort and rape people with substance problems. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:27 AM
2

Same advice I'd give to the attractive ones: don't. It's wrong, it's unhealthy, it's pointless and it will get you in the long run. Sorry but the religious prudes are at least partially right on this one. Sex is for committed long-term reproductive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:26 AM
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I've had plenty of men reject me in a very disrespectful fashion. You might be better but I don't think most people in general feel bad at all about being hurtful and insulting to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:24 AM
2

Men aren't expected to lower their standards. That's laughable! People can have whatever standards they want and it only ever bothers bottom-of-the-barrel losers who are bitter that they got left out LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:34 AM
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It's not morally problematic at all. You can't tell people who to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:31 AM
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Except it's not incorrect. Different women prefer different things, wildly different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:29 AM
3

Men get told that by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:27 AM
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My happily married cousin is autistic. He has a warm and caring personality and dances to the beat of his own drum. He's never negative about the world or towards people. Women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:14 PM

You grow up and get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:43 AM

Nobody is doomed, unless they choose not to grow or develop beyond 8th grade I suppose. Jeezus. How ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:42 AM

People can tell when you hate them. You don't even have to say anything for them to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:16 PM
1

Just relax and enjoy life and I'm sure you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:46 PM
2

I used to date much older men and they definitely have a wall. It's when they start acting like grumpy, angry, whiny, entitled old geezers and it happens some time in their late 40's to 50's. They feel like the world is to blame for all their problems, they become victims and it's NOT attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:53 PM
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I see no reason to listen to criticism from men. They don't know a damn thing about how to be a woman and we don't need their approval. Are these guys gonna come pay my bills? No. They are nobody to me, or any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:38 PM

Well those men are frivolous. I'm talking about things that actually matter in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:49 PM
2

I have no idea who "Beyonce's kids" are. Perhaps you replied the the wrong person. Anyway, you don't know someone else's struggles, so it's pointless to be envious. A lot of rich people and celebrities kill themselves or die if addictions. Life is unkind to all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:23 PM
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That's misogynistic bullshit and you know it. LOL men are so desperate to believe that their penises have magical powers to alter women in some way! It's laughable and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:21 PM
1

I've never had anyone ask mine. It's none of their business and I think normal people know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:27 PM
2

No it does not. That's just misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:26 PM
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Average single women in my age group are more employed, better employed, better educated, fitter, eat less junk food, drink less alcohol, smoke less, have a better social life, earn more, are worth more, are less likely to have a criminal record, are less mentally ill... I could go on. In basically every way you can think of, they're out-doing their single male peers. And life isn't a video game. Nobody's life is "easy mode". Everyone has difficulties. You can either make them worse or better, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:21 PM
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Women are doing better than men by almost every metric. And I'm talking about single ones. Single women are working hard and killing it. Single men, total opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:57 PM
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It's definitely the average for unmarried men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:55 PM
-1

Average women are doing better then men by almost every metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:55 PM
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Unless she's got kids or STD's body count is unverifiable and irrelevant. There's no difference between someone with a high count and someone with 0, except that the latter is probably going to stink in bed until they get more experience. This obsession men have with virgins is so stupid and borderline predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:09 PM
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Average men in my age group are obese, use drugs, have baby-mommas and are addicted to videogames. You can't expect any woman to want that dead weight in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:24 PM

I don't know what "tutorial mode" is but men only like women who are feminine, young, and pretty. If you're not all three then it doesn't matter how hard you try or what you do, you're worthless in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:08 PM
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No. We do those when we are drunk, heartbroken or lonely after a breakup. The man doesn't even have to he attractive. It's definitely not a proud moment in any woman's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:33 PM

I don't give a crap about them nor did I ask to hear about it. And if you keep talking about nasty shit to me I'll report you for sexual harassment. Sounds good?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:54 AM

I've never actually seen a guy with "hoes" in real life. That whole world is foreign to me and average women I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:53 AM

I'm not talking about them I'm talking about my own opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:50 AM

How would we even know whet other women find attractive? How silly. We're not psychic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:44 AM

Who are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:43 AM

Women in general probably do find them disgusting. But some women are sluts and they obviously don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:26 AM

Nah, fuckboys are genuinely disgusting. They're degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:20 AM

Both are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:18 AM

The women who get with fuck boys aren't the ones telling men not to be them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:18 AM
5

Ignore this guy's entire post. It's a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:13 AM
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You're not even a woman so how the hell would you know all these intricacies of how they think?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:13 AM
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We're happier single because we CAN'T get into a relationship. Giving up feels good. It also makes life a lot simpler.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:37 AM
1

They're not bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:36 AM
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Single women don't date unless they're looking to not be single anymore. There's literally no point otherwise. We don't do it for validation. We literally don't care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:28 AM
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Men despise monogamy and grow to resent their wives and children over time. They all want sexual variety and view marriage as a prison. Why would a woman want to have sex with someone like that, who doesn't love, respect or even like them? Men are the ones who cause dead bedrooms. If they would just love their wives and cherish family the world would be a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:50 PM

I mean I live in the hiking backpacking capital of the free world. I just see it every time I go out is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:19 PM

I never said sports don't count. Gaming definitely doesn't. Gaming might as well be masturbating or drinking, it's not a hobby. I don't know what a "luggage hero" is. Never heard of it. I just know what I see. 90% of backpackers, hikers and mountain climbers these days are women and girls. Young men just don't do outdoor or social activities much these days. They're glued to their gaming consoles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:57 PM

I have no idea what you're talking about. Here in the 21st century, women work outside the home and even out-earn men sometimes. Not sure what century you're from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:50 PM

For a male activity, men sure don't do much of it. I'm not talking about bars and nightclubs. Single men don't go anywhere that's not related to possibly hooking up with women. Once they're married or spoken for they don't do anything at all. I see women out hiking, going to symphonies, museums, hiking, meetups, etc. Women enjoy things for their own sake. Men don't, with the possible exception of sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:01 PM

Women work their asses off and may the mortgage too, last i checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:41 PM

Go explore the third spaces I mentioned. You'll never see any men there, unless they're with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:40 PM

Go explore the third spaces I mentioned. You'll never see any men there, unless they're with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:40 PM

The bar is low but a lot of men are at the bottom of the Mariana trench. You wouldn't believe how many dudes refuse to even do basic adult tasks like washing their clothes and throwing out garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:10 PM

Did you read what I said? They're not asking you to entertain them, they're asking you to get off your lazy asses and do things TOGETHER.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:07 PM

"Fun dispensers" If all a man wants to do is play video games or watch TV he's boring. Women don't like to be bored. We want to do ACTIVE activities, that are social or physical like traveling, going out, camping, etc. Men who think this is too much to ask are just lazy dead weight. And it's not unreasonable to ask that your partner add something to your life. If they don't, then what's the point of even having them around?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:16 PM
2

You can't blame people for genetic anomalies. And genes have nothing to do with age in humans. Those studies were done on mice which were genetically modified to begin with, but that's a discussion for another sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:45 PM
1

Nobody has casual sex for healthy reasons. It ruins people and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:35 AM

Sleeping around is always a poor choice. Relationships should be for the purpose of finding a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:33 AM
0

Why is a wealthy man not likely to choose a fat woman? What does wealth have to do with taste? A lot of men and I mean A LOT of men like big girls. Big girls shouldn't give bottom feeders the time of day. They deserve to he treated as well as any other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:22 AM
1

You can believe in equality and not want to fuck everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:01 PM
1

These guys are failures otherwise they wouldn't be drawn to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:59 PM
1

There's no such thing as an equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:58 PM
-1

Fat women don't and shouldn't have lower standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:57 PM
-2

Why does the man get to determine "his level"? Also you shouldn't be having sex with people you have no plans of ever committing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:55 PM
6

What is their "equivalent"? And why do men get to determine that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:54 PM

When I and my peers were in our 20's we were thinking about college and what kind of jobs we were going to get. Men and guys were on the back burner, mist of which were goofy idiots at that age anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:54 PM
1

Who actually does this? I've never heard a woman refer to herself that way. That's demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:49 PM
-2

It's a fitting term in this case dnd i don't aee why you're saying it isn't. These men are misogynists. They don't even deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:48 PM

Women their 20's aren't even thinking about men. They're busy with more important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:16 PM
1

You're blaming women for men becoming demented and falling in love inanimate objects. That's insanity. Needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:58 PM
1

That's pure insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:42 PM
1

I'm not talking THAT young. I'm talking mid-twenties to early-thirties single guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:04 PM
-1

That's because it's not the same. Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:41 PM
0

You'd be surprised, it's not rare at all. And it's not that they're like a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:40 PM
2

Older woman have had their kids, had their romance, and pretty much accomplished everything that's most important in life. They're much more laud back about enjoying life and letting the pieces fall where they may. Younger people are a lot more discerning because they're still trying to hit those milestones. Most young women are figuring out what man they want to marry, and fuckbois ain't him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:43 AM
0

They might think they can, but if they decide wrongly they'll have a lifetime of regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:35 AM
2

Smart young guys find sexy older ladies who are lonely and just looking for a good time. Some of them can get money that way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:33 AM
-3

Not for healthy reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:44 PM
1

Women desire love and a deep connection. We don't get them easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:14 PM
1

Life isn't about hooking up with hot people. It's not a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:09 PM
2

Women don't have that desire. Casual sex does absolutely nothing for us, regardless of how hot the man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:08 PM
0

I don't understand why it's necessary for me to explain the difference between talking to a simulator and talking to a human being. Do video games replace playing sports or doing things? No they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:22 PM
2

As an unattractive person, I disagree. Fuck AI and all that nerd crap. I need real interaction with humans, pets, and nature. Real things. People talking to computers as of they're alive is the most insane thing imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:48 PM
0

None I guess. If you're choosing to be with people who don't care about you, that's pretty sad. I wouldn't want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:45 PM
0

Pretty much. But there can be redemption too. Anyone can end up in a toxic relationship, but if you choose to stay in it, repeat it, or obsess over it that's a sign of toxicity and there's soul-searching to be done
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:39 PM
1

It's not human interaction. It's your brain tricking itself into becoming emotionally invested in nothing. That's sad. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:36 PM
3

You can't socialize with a computer. It doesn't love you or geel any way about you. It's not conscious nor alive. You know that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:16 PM
0

I don't even know any. But I generally want people to be better and not suffer unnecessarily. It's also embarrassing to me to see other humans carrying on the weu they do. I don't want it in my country. They should shape up or ship out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:06 PM
-1

The things these types of men say and do are morally abhorrent. The facts speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:04 PM
0

If you're angry that toxic people are in toxic situations and you're excluded, maybe you're toxic. I don't think good men are concerned about assholes dating each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:23 PM
7

It's been completely negative. It helps men to cheat easier, all of them even married men have dating profiles and a harem of women that they talk to. And it doesn't make finding a partner any easier, if anything it makes it worse because people have nearly infinite choices now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:20 PM
3

Hm, nah. If he does this stuff he's not a player. It's equally obnoxious no matter who does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:03 PM
2

Once they stop getting high on their own supply, they might actually start working on self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:02 AM
-5

It's not hate, it's tough love. These guys need to get a grip, for their sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:29 AM
-3

A lot of nice people are pieces of shit. And if he's made it to full adulthood and still acts "misguided" he's an idiot on top of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:33 AM
0

Having a bad upbringing isn't an excuse to be a piece of shit though. Lot of people on Reddit think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:26 PM
1

"scraps of the older, bitter, used up women" What an awful way to describe human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:14 PM
1

As an older woman, let me just say we don't want these guys either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:11 PM

What would those women be accountable for? You can't control other people's opinions of you or their speech. People on the Internet shot on literally everything and anything. Ignore it. As I've said already, the opinions that matter are those of the people in your life, especially your father, male relatives and male peers. Men's rights activists ALMOST get this right. They still gripe about women and feminists too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:10 AM

It probably is. They should go to the men in their lives first. Not much good advice comes from Reddit or the Internet in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:59 PM

Point out the contradiction. Because I don't see it. You probably misunderstood me. I can clarify if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:58 PM
3

You called her an outlier and this her opinion doesn't matter. In reality you just don't like that opinion so you look for an excuse to dismiss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:00 PM

Who gives a shit about what a minority of crazies on Tiktok say? They have nothing to do with me, or women at large. Well I'm sorry that your father was absent but that's not women's problem either. Just like women's daddy-issues aren't men's responsibility. If you act like a bad person, you're gonna be called one. Like I said already, it was your father's responsibility to make you a man. Whining at women isn't going to get you anything, except perhaps mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:59 PM
2

"Simply be yourself, be nice, and be a gentleman" is just the baseline. Beyond that there is no universal advice for dating. Lotta you dudes are too obtuse and/or lazy to accept that it's up to you to figure out what to do in relationships on a case by case basis. Nobody lied to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:52 PM

This mentality is why the manosphere reeks on insecurity. "SORRY BECKY" Becky doesn't care about you(men) or what you do. Why are you worried about what Becky thinks? You men should be addressing posts like this to your fathers who raised you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:02 PM
1

I try to strike up a conversation based on things he's interested in, for example if I see he's wearing a band shirt I'll ask him about that band.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:56 PM
2

LOL so some women count and some don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:53 PM
1

Approach them in social settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:49 PM
2

Here's how you understand women: get to know an individual, be attentive, avoid preconceptions, and learn about her. That's all you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:47 PM
0

It's supposed to be self-evident what "Treat them like humans" means. Apparently having humanity is a foreign concept to some.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:03 PM

People tend to react negatively or in a mocking way when you assert that their lifestyle, which they are quite happily living, is wrong and they'd be happier doing something else. My issue with posts like this is that so many like to misuse this data to shame single women who actually are happy, as if the data refutes our happiness or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:51 PM
0

Liberal women can't find liberal men who are masculine...at all. Dating a liberal man is like being with another woman who has all the worst toxic feminine stereotypes. On the other hand conservative men often have the worst toxic masculine stereotypes. Centrists all day baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:28 PM
1

Yes, it is. Trust me, girls know how to shop for what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:24 PM
1

Because it's not what I asked. I clarified that. If you just want to have an argument I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:40 PM
-1

If you regularly fail at something it stands to reason that you're not wonderful at it. In this case, it's women who decide who is wonderful, and who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:53 PM
1

Because they're in extremely high demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:50 PM
-3

I have no idea what you're talking about. I've never said any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:44 PM
0

If they're in tech there probably aren't many women. If they want wives, they should go where the women are. This goes back to my earlier point: a lot if guys don't really try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:42 PM
2

LOL I think I know my own intentions better than you. If you don't want to answer the question that's fine. Nobody is forcing you to. Move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:40 PM
3

I'm telling you that decent regular guys get snatched up early. The exception is obviously guus who are busy bettering themselves or others through work, school, etc. and didn't bother with dating.en who consistently try, get results. They don't even have to be decent, all they have to do is try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:38 PM
7

Asking questions a five year old would ask, and making gross comments like you just did is unattractive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:12 PM
1

If you aren't wanted by ANY of the billions of women in this world, you're not regular. I can't even fathom a guy like that. I don't think they exist. More likely there are just lots of lazy men who don't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:11 PM
5

Yep. Or they admit that they're autistic and blame all their faults on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:08 PM
5

"Scientifically proven" like how? Who published that research?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:21 PM
3

They need to quit asking such stupid questions then. And they need to stop asserting that their looks are to blame when it's 100% their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:20 PM
1

Are you female?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:45 PM
2

You didn't answer my question so I specified.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:20 PM
3

I'm pretty sure that 0% of women orgasm with no foreplay, clit stimulation, etc. PIV by itself is uncomfortable to say the least. This "data" leaves out some important details.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:03 AM

Do conservative American church people want anything to do with "brown Indians"? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:56 AM

I don't know why men think going overseas will make finding a loving partner any easier. It's easier to catch a fish in a puddle than the whole ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:55 AM

I enjoy getting my mind blown at music festivals in the South.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:53 AM
2

What's the actual end goal though? What are they trying the get out of it? We can't and shouldn't seek to control other people's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:47 AM

If you don't like it don't look at them. People can do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:59 PM
1

What's the end goal here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:13 PM
2

Unless you're an admin, or know one personally, I don't see how. Everybody thinks that the rules are unfairly enforced just upon them. Everybody, including red pilled and misandrist, left wing and right wing, Jew and Muslim, atheist and theist. That's what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:38 PM
0

It's not a bad thing. This is how most relationships are formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:46 PM
-3

These rules apply equally to everyone, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:54 PM
6

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and assume you listen to what woman A says and then wonder why woman B does something that contradicts it. That does not make woman A dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:53 PM
1

The average men in my location and age group are either taken already, or scuzzy. The penalty for women like me is that while we were spending time improving ourselves financially, professionally, mentally, spiritually and in our education, the men our age were doing absolutely jack and now they're starting to get set in their crappy ways. If a man is still single by the time he's 40, there's a reason, and it ain't good!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:56 PM
4

How many relationships have you been in, with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:50 PM
5

Maybe he is equal, but he's just not into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:48 PM
5

Women are honest. Guys just don't like the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:46 PM
2

So then everyone is out of everyone's league I guess. Because someone has to do the chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:44 PM
0

The the ones the post is referring to. They don't do anything social. John st sit at home feeling sorry for themselves and drowning their loneliness in their vices. I've seen it a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:48 PM
2

A lot of these young people don't even try to date. They're to busy working themselves to the bone then go home and do their solitary hobbies. It's not healthy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:03 AM
12

Intimate relationships don't need a leader. Two adults should be able to collaborate and build a life together without one managing the other. I see a lot of couples where one is the boss and the other is dependent and it's always super toxic. That's more like a parent-child relationship. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:25 AM
2

I don't know any women who like that. You should probably not listen to those guys. They're 1. Not women and 2. Probably lying about getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:17 AM
2

I want both LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:50 AM
6

Not to mention, women love gardening!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:41 AM
3

Men in the past had better grooming and weren't fat, at least while they were young. I believe each generation has worse and worse genetics too. We've killed off too many of the good ones in the wars. But anyway, to me high value means he has is own home or apartment, doesn't live with his parents or a million roommates, doesn't have kids/past marriages, is stable and employed, doesn't play video games, has masculine hobbies, is intelligent, isn't lazy, and isn't boring. Every man has his proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:18 AM
3

Teenagers can have those and men get them too. I really think that's too subjective. The wall has a specific meaning and it's being misconstrued to bully women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:59 PM
1

We are all entitled to basic respect and the truth. If a man has no honor, he's not entitled to life. They used to duel with pistols over this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:54 PM
5

Oh well, deal with it. Nobody needs sex. I promise that it won't fall off if you don't use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:51 PM
1

I thought the wall originally meant a woman who has had children specifically. Like, she's not on the market she's a wife and mommy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:36 AM
5

And we're fine staying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:34 AM
9

They're not ready to, mentally, financially, or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:33 AM

Not enough people criticize stupid crap posted on this site. Instead you idiots downvote criticism. I'll never understand redditors. Bunch of herd animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:59 PM
0

The debate is completely stupid and unnecessary just like 99% of what's posted on this site over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:38 AM
2

That post is fake and gets reposted every three months or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:11 AM
3

Okay well, don't complain about child-support and only having single moms to choose from, because that's not going to change either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:11 AM
5

Any heterosexual man with functional balls has control over that. Learn to pull out and/or wear a condom. And don't trust that your girl took the pill or that it's working.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:18 AM
4

I don't know who that is. I'm asking men here in general, and in principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:16 AM
2

Men, get with whoever you want. Just don't create single moms, okay? You have 100% control over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:58 AM
-1

That kid probably has major issues and has psychologically filled the role of husband for his mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:54 AM
1

The kids will suffer. And they'll have a totally screwed up view of family, kind of like kids of divorced parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:53 AM
3

Men have weird hang-ups. For them sex is supposed to be an act of dominance, something that the man does TO other people. The act is degrading for whoever he's fucking but not for him. The solitary act is degrading for him because he's doing it to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:20 PM
2

I mean, most men have one kid out there somewhere. Or a divorced wife and kids. Even the low value ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:10 PM

This. I see so many cute guys of all ages not taking care of themselves and it makes me sad. They either don't know or don't care how much potential they have looks-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:45 AM
4

It's better to model love to the children. Not just romantic love but familial love and loyalty, the kind of love that makes you stick it out even when you don't particularly like your spouse in the moment. Children need to see that kind of love between their mother and their father in order to have a good view of the opposite sex and of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:47 AM
0

That's not what a fetish is. If you look up the actual definition of the word, having fetishes exists in both sexes but is more prevalent in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:02 AM

Why do men harass women broadly for it? These women and girls are not potential partners, yet men still feel the need to judge and degrade them over something that has nothing to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:54 AM

Brad Pitt is probably crazy and a pain to deal with like all Hollywood celebrity types are. Looks, money, fame, success, etc. don't make someone a good partner. You accuse women of being "frivolous" but it's you guys that seem to have your priorities backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:02 AM
-2

They do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:41 PM
3

It's a minority of girls and they have daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:40 PM
3

I am fit and have long hair, and I dress fashionably. I don't have the hip:waist ratio or the neotenic facial features that men prefer. I'm by no means ugly, just not "feminine" and apparently that matters more than anything else. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:19 AM
-2

They have strength if they survive it and teach young generations the warning signs to watch out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:46 PM
-2

"Good times create weak men" and all that. If anything, hypergamy makes men stronger because they have to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:22 PM
-2

Both are symptoms of male fragility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:17 PM
3

Men date down socioeconomically. They only date up in looks and will try to get the best looking woman they can every time. And fuck this, I'm allowed to complain about whatever I want. It's not my fault men have stupid standards. I'm higher than most men socioeconomically, and I think it's repulsive that men don't care about that and only care about "looks, femininity, fertility". I will complain all day about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:01 PM

What sex are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:33 AM

Ask her. Every woman is different. They're like people that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:14 AM

Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:14 AM
3

If anything I would rather not see any if my friend's boy toys. Just seems kinda improper. But if she gets a cute boyfriend, I'm happy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:16 AM
1

Feminism ramped all of that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:43 AM
1

Are you a bot? That was a weird comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:42 AM
-6

Women don't care if our friends bang hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:39 AM
-5

Not even close, though it's in the top five.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:37 AM
1

More consumption, double the work force, and they can pay women less than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:43 PM
1

Progressive capitalists did it under the banner of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:28 PM
1

Originally feminism was about fair pay, maternity leave, suffrage and stuff like that. The anti-family leftists hijacked the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:24 PM
1

They're used as slurs though. The intent is what matters. Unfortunately most people care what strangers think of them, I don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:21 PM
0

Well that's just business LOL. Never hate on someone's hustle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:20 PM

No most people definitely are not sociopaths. Most people have empathy, genuinely care about one another and don't want to cause harm or suffering. When we see others suffering, it's like we feel it ourselves. Sociopaths don't experience this, to them everything is a eans to an end. ASD people have limited brain function and some have difficulty feeling empathy, among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:56 PM
1

Just FMI, which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:52 PM
2

"Feminism" has become so encompassing of extreme-left Marxism that it hurts everyone. They call it "intersectional feminism" and if you're not one of them they have all sorts of slurs to call you such as "bigot" or "TERF" or more recently "MAGA". I don't think most people want any part of this and I don't blame kids for thinking my generation is completely stupid for coming up with all this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:19 AM
0

It has a stigma to it. The adulterers ruined it for everyone. But oh well. Either ignore the naysayers or stick to people your own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:21 AM
2

Who are these women using dating apps with no intention to actually date? I've never heard of that. Sounds like an expensive waste of time. Those apps aren't cheap. Are you talking about Instagram or some other social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:16 AM
2

Because they are sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:00 AM
9

Typically the timeline is thus: a celebrity will get married and have some kids, his wife helping build his career, then as he reaches his peak he'll start cheating with younger women, divorce his wife and marry one of said 20 year old tramps, and pay a gazillion in alimony to his ex-wife. That's the kind of thing people criticize.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:42 PM
4

30's is not old.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:38 PM
-2

It's not misandry to not find men attractive. Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:40 AM
2

Yep. And they don't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:37 AM
7

Casual sex/hookups should not be happening. The sexual revolution was the worst mistake ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:37 AM
1

Yes and if you fail to learn how to do that, it's on you. It's like failing to learn one if the most basic things we do as living things: to court and mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:44 PM
1

There's no such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:39 AM
8

Men love women if the following conditions are met: she is young, she is beautiful, she is fertile, she is feminine, she is motherly, she is compliant, and lastly but most important, he wants to nut. If all the conditions aren't met, he's going to be looking for someone else to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:47 AM
1

I think milestones are important and I would push my kids to be successful in all ways possible. I would definitely be disappointed if they kept failing at finding a relationship. Failing IN relationships are another matter, everyone struggles with those and it's part of learning. But to refuse to learn at all? That's not acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:35 AM
2

Because men are more than capable of helping themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:32 AM
0

Nope. If he wants work he needs to find it. It's not a woman's job to help a man, or raise a man. His daddy should have done that. I generally advise women to never support their boyfriends or husbands, nor to help them financially in any way. It's an incredibly dumb thing to do. But the post is hypothetical and I gave my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:47 AM
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Because he's not doing anything else and he spends the most time in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:08 AM

I don't want 6'5". Between 5'8"-6' is good. For me a guy needs to be white and needs to have broad shoulders and be in shape so we can do the sports I like to do together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:36 AM
1

If I were forced to provide for an adult child he wouldn't be playing videogames. Vidya isn't allowed under my roof. He would have a chores list, and they would be done to my satisfaction. I wouldn't be complaining. Either he does what I want or I can throw him out onto the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:21 AM
1

Women have always wanted men who are taller than us (doesn't have to be 6") and who are fit and masculine. That's not a trend. It's a basic requirement. Other than that not everyone follows trends, and men don't have to look a certain way. Every pot has its lid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:02 AM

Yeah. People tend to notice when you have zero interest in them as a person other than whatever you can get from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:35 AM
5

I think the traditional nuclear family is best for raising children and it's necessary for society to function. I'm definitely a traditionalist. Some on the right get too obsessed with it though. Society needs single people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:54 AM
-2

The nuclear family has existed since the stone age. Consumerism and capitalism are destroying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:49 AM

Women have value completely independent of what men think of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:43 AM

People are allowed to dislike you, avoid you or reject you for whatever reason or no reason at all. You're trying to place blame. Are women utilitarian objects to you? Does what they want mean anything? You don't seem to have any respect for their feelings and desires. Women can sense that you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:42 AM
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Don't forget gibbons which are apes and mate for life. We share traits with other apes but we're our own thing. No other ape gets married, has religion, has traditions, or spends as many tears rearing each baby as we do. A family unit with a mommy and a daddy is best for the children. It's been our way for millennia. Obviously there are exceptions but we always return to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:37 AM
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If you actually paid attention, you would see that it's mostly the same women getting with violent men over and over. Believe it or not, women aren't a monolith. They're actually individual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:34 AM
0

Most of these "nice wholesome guys" are only nice and wholesome on the outside. There's a mess boiling just under the surface. A lot of women can sense it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:46 AM
1

Humans are not bonobos. We are monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:44 AM
1

The asshole gets dumped and rejected too, he just doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:43 AM
3

Not to mention we study AND work AND party AND the point or partying it to meet people and make friends and eventually a future husband. Most couples meet at parties. Parties serve an actual function.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:41 AM
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Excuse me but who can sleep around and travel? Except trust fund kids? Most women work, including working through college. The actual rare ones are the rich girls you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:40 AM
4

A lot of us grew up in non-traditional households and realized it's not all it's cracked up to be. In a traditional marriage children and family come first. In modern marriages each spouse's happiness comes first and the children are an afterthought. It sucks. And I applaud young people for rejecting all that and having real integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:59 AM
1

Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:43 AM
1

And those women are 2% of the female population at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:31 AM
1

I've never heard a woman talk like that in my life. And if we only dated within our social circles, that would be like five people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:22 AM
1

Often we do learn to spot the signs and avoid certain guys. But people are all different. It's impossible to spot a user with 100% accuracy. Not sll women are on the same page either, LOL it's like you think we all know each other somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:30 AM
1

They're absolutely not tolerated. Ask women with experience in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:54 AM
1

Not being attractive, young and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:54 AM
1

That's manipulation therefore it's not fully consensual. As for what the revenge should be, well, use your creativity. The sky is the limit!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:53 AM
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Well you're wrong and we don't. You're obviously a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:45 PM
-1

That's designed to weed out those guys. We're determined to NOT have our hearts fucked and social media has given us a weapon against it. And men absolutely hate it LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:42 PM
4

LOL who on earth owns a yacht? I've never even seen one. You're obviously basing your ideas on social media. You DO realize that almost no real life women live the Instagram life, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:10 AM
1

You're talking as if only males can be outcasts/losers and this is really more revealing of your personal issues than anything else. You honestly think women get praise, respect, encouragement, etc just for existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:08 AM
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It should be legal for her to get revenge for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:04 AM
1

Average men and women aren't the ones struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:00 AM
1

We don't always have a plethora of choices. That's only a young/pretty girl problem. Most women get two or three chances to find love, if that. Just because you think a man is no good, doesn't make it so. A lot of guys who are successful with many women treat them well. They eventually get married just like average guys. Most people want a forever partner and to start a family sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:59 AM

Ugly guys with great personalities get the girls. Autistic guys with cute looks get the girls. And every now and then, ugly autistic guys will also get the girls, and usually said girls are also ugly and autistic. The point is: anyone can get someone. It's often a matter of luck and if luck isn't on your side, effort works wonders. There are billions of potential partners in this world. I really don't understand the point of this post at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:23 AM
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