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It depends the blackpill isnt just about looks its about your overall genetics and how it effects your life, not just dating. Thugmaxxing is good for unnattractive men in the hood tho it has its costs and it doesnt work for every man. you can be ugly, but your looks have to be intimidating just like if you were fat. Think biggie vs a fat flabby nerd. Tho dont get it twisted that shy pretty boy is the side piece even if he doesnt run shit hes not at the bottom of the smv at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:31 PM
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Yep theres a reason why red pill especially the early redpill was/is heavily influenced by rap. Now this happens in all classes and races but if you need a blunt upfront view of the redpill/blackpill in action the hood is rhe best place. No deciphering and reading between the lines necessary lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:14 PM
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Well im a lover of truth regardless if it looks pretty or not. Plus i rather know where I stand in the mating game than to hear the "you'll do better when your older" spiel i got when I was younger and fatter. I rather men who were like me or even below know the truth so they can decide that it is worth it to either self improve or be the stable branch at 30/40 to a woman with limited options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:58 AM
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Its funny to see the same people who tell struggling men to lower them standards say no sex is better than bad sex. It really shows how privileged they are. Like they dont really understand the concept that some dudes options are bottom of the barrel or nothing at all. If we thought like women, humans wouldnt be here at all. Its like a trust fund kid telling a person from a shitty hood not all money is good money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:50 PM
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Its not an either or thing, there have been women who've implied that they see bi men especially those that receive as weak or non masculine. Women especially conservative women have also stated its also the fear of hiv. Whatever the case its based on a stereotype, and while conservative women can get away with it, itll make a liberal woman especially an lgbtq supporter look like a phony, hence its why a Im good on therapy as there is nothing wrong with my mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:41 PM
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If this isnt a inside joke, preferences can include likes and dislikes, hence her preference to not date bi men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 02:15 PM
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Yeah she prefers not to date them. Thats her preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:57 AM
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At least your honest and have every right to that preference. Hope you are not bashing men for being cautious about lgtbq as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:12 AM
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Said it before people just look down on those who get penetrated, man or woman, they only respect dominance. Preferences are preferences, but this topic is a great shit test for liberals lol. I give credit to conservative women cause they at least are honest about the why. The BP is that social justice has its limits, prejudice will come out of a person in some shape or form, rather it be full separation to that person is cool to be friends/coworkees with but I could never date their kind, it wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:32 PM
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Tho im not one who has given up, im here cause this "war" reminds me the war on the homeless, minorities, any group at the bottom. Its funny how connected the arguments people have, rather the homeless are just lazy, or how all struggling dudes are misogynistic and lazy, not ugly cause they all know that one short ugly broke man who slays 24/7 or that minorities are stupid, violent and lazy. Which makes it funnier when you see people who belong to these groups do it to each other like how can ya…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:05 AM
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No, its people saying the quiet part outloud or social media making it easier for those at the bottom to put the clues together, how women claim one hand that the majority of average men are in relationships while on the other stating that the pool is a swamp. Its not hard to conclude that most of those men are being settled for. Hell in certain contexts people will tell you the truth, especially if they feel it'll win them an argument. Pattern recognition plus having a strong memory cuts thru a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:48 AM
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Well yeah, but its not limited to women, the haves in general will gaslight those at the bottom to keep the machine rolling. However I do think when automation fully kicks in, and blue collar workers aren't as needed as much the truth will be revealed. Of course in the usual way of them saying it was always like that and you was just too stupid to notice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:30 AM
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Again thats easy for someone who never went without would say. Im not pressuring, I just understand what those dudes are going thru.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:48 PM
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The dudes im talking about cant afford to be picky. Its either bottom of the barrel or alone forever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:41 PM
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The point is they get a start, you dont know the damage of no one liking you sexually for decades does to the mind, so yeah its better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:49 PM
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People who said that can never put themselves in the shoes of someone who was never found attractive for years/decades. Its unfathomable to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:46 PM
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Only privileged people say this. They never was at risk to be forever alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:43 PM
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I didnt depart nor did I claim penetration is the only form of dominating. I just answered your gotchq like question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:28 PM
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If people look at a gooner's hand with disgust why would it be different for women who gives out handjobs? Also would you be ok kissing a woman who kissed a thousand lips? In a row?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:15 PM
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Penetration = the dominating act. Being penetrated is the submissive act.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:58 PM
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Women befriend those who they look down on all the time. But you still see them as weak diseased soyboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:48 PM
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The difference is domination, people respect those who dominate over those who are submissive. Being constantly dominated makes one look weak man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:46 PM
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Yeah it does, cause the same disgust men have for promiscuous women, women have for bi men. Its just that men would still have sex with them and women would still have those men as friend Nothing wrong with the preference but the why reveals the stereotyping and disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:42 PM
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That's still proves my point that being penetrated devalues both men and women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:35 PM
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No the equivalent is bisexual men, even bi women dislike them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:11 PM
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I know i just wanted to see if people were consistent about it? The fact is people look down on those who get penetrated, men or women and worse if its alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:08 PM
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Alright just making sure the consistency is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:06 PM
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Why stop at female promiscuity? Are people who are disgusted by male bisexuality also see men as inferior?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:47 PM
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Why would they admit to gaslighting? The whole point is to deny when theyre wrong and to deny when they adopt your beliefs and claim they believed in it the whole time and that youre too stupid/socially inept to notice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:04 AM
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Yeah if nice guys = those traits then they might as well just pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:44 PM
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Why do you guys pretend that people didnt claim that women liked personality more than looks? Why do you guys pretend that you didnt tell struggling men its their personality or that their misogyny is the reason while knowing dudes with similar beliefs who didnt struggle at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:44 PM
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You act like things cant devolve take a wild look at what is going on. Yall seem to forget that laws are privileges at the end of the day, and what can be given can be taken away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:48 PM
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I wouldnt say every girl has, but yeah alot shit women on claim is bare minimum theres dudes who didnt even have to meet that. I will say alot of this shit would go away if people would just admit to their being tiers for men and letting the chips fall where they may. Tho I do think it will happen as soon as automation kicks in full drive and the bottom caste isnt needed anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:38 PM
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I wish people would stop using natural selection for this cause they wont keep the same energy if it affects women. Cause nature doesnt care about consent at all(evidenced by other animals in the animal kingdom) nor does it care about the values that keeps a civilized society together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:17 PM
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What they consider isnt reality. Just like pedos claiming they ain't pedos cause they focus on teens. Your proving that conservatives were right about the slippery slope and that gayness can be prayed away. Also youre comparison of women lowering their standards to men changing their orientation is wild and shows how much women really dislike the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:13 PM
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They're proving those conservatives right about the slippery slope thing and conversion therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:09 PM
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Its a mix of seeing violence one way, media influence where violence women commit is either funny or sexy(ie black widow). Hell people dont think about the fact that women will use men to enact the violence on their behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:41 PM
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Well thats the only option they have. It's either that or theyre SOL. Cope, or the thing that rhymes with it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:37 PM
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I feel sorry for men who have to do all of that to find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:18 PM
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The fact you have to use extremes like trafficking victims and slaves tells you that being locked out is worse than having men lust after you. Cause on the normal side, it becomes you having to sift thru and find the man who lusts and likes you vs being locked out of mating game meaning living life never being desired which I wouldnt wish on any normal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:27 AM
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We dont hide that men standards are evil, but we also tell women stop punching upwards if you want to avoid men who make certain rules for them that they dont like. The problem isnt that women do it, its the fact that alot of you pretend it doesn't exist and get mad that men dont want to be benchwarmers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:06 AM
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True freedom of choice and the fact dating doesn't have to be out of survival has spoiled us and that is the result. I
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:15 PM
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The vast majority? With how the sea of men is a swamp I'm surprised that it's only a few that has gone thru those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:21 AM
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They call them that as a way to get those who struggle to shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:32 AM
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Idk I go by what women in my personal life say about their exs/situationships, the cheaters, abusers, those who just use them for a late night call. Outside of that I don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:24 AM
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There is no loneliness its just people who don't have to be with others out of survival anymore so they don't force themselves to be around those they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:21 AM
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It'll never be evened out. And its time we start admitting to men that there are tiers when it comes to female interaction. Some dudes get to have it all, some get to be players, some get lucky, some only can get it in relationships, some have to pay and some dudes are shit out of luck. Life isnt fair and dating/mating isnt any different
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:47 AM
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I have no opinion on this strawman of an argument other than i think there should be incentives to being a good person(not sex). Too many sociopaths in this world to think people should just be good for the hell of it. That just leads to being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:29 PM
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I went as a child, gave me coping tools. As an adult no, if I need a new cope I'll look one up on youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:29 AM
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But for the late bloomer men it is a game of what's left over cause like I said theres not an equal amount of women in the same situation so they do run the risk of only being able to connect with women who need a stepdad for their kids or something stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:14 PM
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Cut the bull, a woman will find someone if she wants to despite her issues, no matter how you cut it , is better than a man going his whole life not finding anyone which is a possibility for men who are late. Trying to make it equal here is hilarious, like is it that hard to admit that women have one advantage in this world? I'm not saying they don't have problems, but its like a rich man complaining about money problems vs a homeless man and trying to make that equal, it doesnt work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:10 PM
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For me its easy, my sex drive came in late so its easy for me to not care about middle or high school, tho I understand why. Its the rare times where dating/sex is the easiest, where if someone liked you, they like you for you, not cause you can pay the bills or needed a caregiver
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:57 PM
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Let's be real tho late bloomer is worse for a man to be than woman. A woman thats a late bloomer might not get top picks but there are men willing and able to help her, whereas a man its a legit chance hell never find a woman who will deal with that kind of baggage. Also that last part is a cop out as no matter what a older person will have baggage otherwise youre claiming they came out of every situation clean and that's not possible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:50 PM
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The problem is that late bloomers are in a spot where theyre gonna have to accept what's left and that can be kind of depressing depending where you live. I was 22 living in a small town and by that age most of the women I went to school with had kids already and this made me move. Theres no equal amount of women in the same situation as a late bloomer so the trade offs feel worse cause its like you're playing a game where all the missions were beaten or all the prizes have been won already so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:43 PM
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They hate any average dude who cant or wont get it the "normal" way figuring out a path that works for them. Either be the man that women want or be ok with being the atm machine(only American women are allowed to access this atm tho lol otherwise its exploitation)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:25 PM
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Legally i wouldnt compare as relationships should never be forced, however socially i see why monogamy was introduced and the problems of it eroding can cause. Also get the feeling that this hilarious online trend to get struggling dudes to not care about sex is connected
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:11 PM
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The problem with self-improvement is that 1. it has a ceiling/prerequisites, so depending on the individual, the ROI is either great, ok, meh and shitty. Self improvement trope wouldn't get pushback if everydude knew it would net them the life/relationships that they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:38 AM
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Part of the hit and quit it lifestyle includes women giving it up cause they physically wanted that man. We would pay for it otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:29 AM
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People also tend to want to sweep issues that cant be solved socially under the rug and demonize/generalize those who are going thru them. And my comment didnt mention forced relationships just the whole "you dont need it to survive" argument can technically be applied to alot of those social services(tho I dont advocate getting rid of them, nor do I think government intervention is the solution)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:29 PM
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Idk if an abuser finds a willing victim then doesn't it just become a consensual relationship? At least under bdsm terms, therefore not reported? Maybe some would only like unwilling, but I do think former can happen as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:23 AM
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I guess it is. I will never get bluepillers on here bragging that women handle loneliness better then man knowing its not the same and its ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:14 AM
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No not the happier alone part as I prefer fwb than relationship especially one that involves them living with me. Never again. Now the whole comparing a woman's loneliness to a man's thats when im confused cause its two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:10 AM
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Idk, my level of confidence is tied to my success in the area. For instance the level i had for getting job and sex when I first started looking and after I got my first of both is night and day. When I was a virgin/unemployed each rejection stung, it didnt matter how many times it happened, I didnt gain a thick skin to it, it still stung like the first compared to now where if im rejected it doesnt hurt as much cause my mind works on if it happened once it'll happen again. Confidence without so…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:18 AM
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Its weird how the bluepill cant decide between women are happier alone or make it seem like both sides are going thru an loneliness epidemic to shut the BPillers up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:01 AM
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Self improvement isnt brushed off cause of difficulty its brushed off by people who dont see the kind of benefits they want especially if it requires them to do things they rather not do. Most struggling men wouldnt bash it if they knew that gym, style and improving socially would net them the women they want of course theyll do it, those men are just tired of being encouraged to get on a hamster wheel of self loathing, where what they do is never enough
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:21 PM
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My post had nothing to do with body count
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:35 AM
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If it wasn't important it wouldnt be a deal breaker on how many or how less of them you have. This is why I laugh at the attempts online to downplay how important they are. Especially from people who dont struggle, theyre no different than rich people who state money won't bring happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:20 AM
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That's why im happy for dating apps. So i dont have issues getting what fits me best, but like my point was dudes wouldnt complain as much about it if they knew what the results would bring cause like at certain point that self improvement spiel is just a hamster wheel to get those struggling to shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:02 AM
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This is why the advice fails. Cause there is no guarantees that any of this will work, so alot of times youre asking dudes to do things they normally wouldnt do. And as someone whos introverted homebody who's only self improvement is fasting its not hard to feel for those who has done way more than me and get zero results. Cause at that point this self improvement advice is just a hamster wheel of self loathing that makes you feel you'll never be enough cause if you list what you've done people …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:47 PM
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Oh no people care about others pasts. Men and women agree that being with men is a negative mark on your card. Rather its women being promiscuous or a man who's bi, people dont like to date those who's been penetrated alot. At the end of the day theres nothing wrong with avoiding people who trigger you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:42 PM
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Yeah cause women never cheat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:38 PM
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That's what Uber eats is for. But overall im just not an crowd person. If I go out the less people the better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:14 PM
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That depends if you find going out fun and I dont so im glad I found out I dont need to go on dates I have have food, drinks(well weed in my case) and convo at my place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:52 AM
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People in general turn into free market capitalists in areas they benefit the most and socialist in areas they struggle the hardest. The arguments I see liberals make about sexual selection can easily be applied to other market rather they like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:30 AM
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Ok and what's the problem? Without labeling/generalizing, why is it a problem for losers to leave a place theyre not allowed in for a place that will?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:37 AM
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Things would be so much easier if the truth was just laid out for men that casual sex isnt accessible for every man instead of lying and saying that women dont like it. All the pills would die if men were bluntly told that some will have a chance at a harem, some will be players, some will get lucky, some will have to be the stepdad/beta that has to wait and some will be shit out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:07 AM
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I agree that if somone is going in with the wrong mindset, they could go down a dark path if they dont try to understand the nuances or try to find out why the stats are the way they are. Especially if they go in with the intention of sticking to a certain worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:58 AM
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Well its not all bad it does make think of my thoughts about how some people are better suited to live life intuitively where things that happen dont always have the easiest explanation while others are better suited for logical path.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:25 AM
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But in this instance you're the religious person flattening any social experience to something we cant logically understand and I disagree with that. Finding out how something works doesnt kill the magic for me the way your trying to imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:18 AM
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I dont see how finding out how things are makes one non human, question kind of reminds me of religious people who get mad at atheists who dont accept "god did it" for everything. Nothing wrong at all in finding logical reasoning for why we behave the way we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:59 AM
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It wouldnt matter, people hit it off on social media as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:37 AM
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The last paragraph will never happen until automation fully kicks in and runts aren't needed anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:13 AM
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As someone who found the blackpill at a young age even before it had a name, youre too young to be into this. For now just focus on fitness, finding a style that fits you and talk to people. These years are the easiest to breakout from being potentially forever alone. Now if you make it to your mid to late 20s without luck after making changes then you can look this stuff up more. Right now just focus on building yourself up so that you won't need any pills
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:04 AM
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But for the majority of men idk. Maybe as long as they dont live together it could work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:31 PM
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Doesnt change my main point. The hierarchy will rear its ugly head and someone will be at the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:25 PM
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The blackpill(or any pill) doesnt teach that its womens fault, is just the redpill but without claim it'll work for every man that's struggling. Its on the individual on how he handles that info. The misogyny comes from grifters looking to make money and men who cant handle the nature of dating. The bluepill or the mainstream version of self improvement is just a hamster wheel of self loathing in hopes that it either work or it'll keep that person busy enough to not complain. Whereas the blackpi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:24 PM
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Polyandry will lead to problems cause unless you have time for all of them equally, someone is gonna be the loser in that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:40 PM
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Its not a cure all, but i have thought a woman who has seriously dated other women and not just claim to be bisexual cause theyre willing to have a 3 some, would be great to date as they have understanding of what's it is like to be with a woman. In fact a lesbian comedienne made a joke about this premise
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:29 AM
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Well for one i dont like to be negative in real life despite my unmentionable pill beliefs I do believe in putting my best foot forward, at the same time its nice to speak about it as a person who struggled until his mid 20s and as someone who realized at a early age that alot of people rather be lied to, so they can keep hope alive, while I rather know what's reality no matter how painful that may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:37 AM
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And what im saying is be practical. 4 billion women dont mean shit if the man doesnt have access to all of them, meaning some of them will be old, some lesbians, some all the way across the world not even mentioning the individual requirements. That is not a guarantee at all so mentioning women struggling men will never see or have access to, doesnt make sense. If a man has to do 100,000 things just find one woman who may or may not be interested, then that man is in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:17 PM
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The point is that those moral failings don't stop men who are attractive at all. And I know about self improvement hell weight loss is all it took for me for my anxiety and low self esteem to not matter. Still had my weird hentai shirts which women started to compliment when the belly stopped sticking out. Hell even better when I moved. But the point is again I dont think these some of these men are losing due some moral failings or lack of education, some dudes will repel regardless. Hell your …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:59 PM
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I agree its a spectrum, but i dont think most of these dudes pool's are feminists who trip over being called female, especially since there are men who struggle who are Leftists. And if this who they are, then your asking them fake something theyre not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:27 PM
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The point is moral failings have nothing to do with attraction, there are wife beaters, rapists, cheaters, whatever moral failing you can think of with partners, the fact you label those women doesnt matter its the fact those men have women avaliable to them that does those who struggle do not, it doesnt matter what personality they have, theyre gonna struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:16 PM
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I'll give you the descriptions and you'll twist it to make seem like they was never good. Im not stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:17 PM
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Yes, some where family and friends, I dont speak about strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:49 PM
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You're gonna hold onto that no true Scots fallacy no matter what huh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:52 PM
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I dont care about womens intuition outside of the fact it only exist for incels and autistic men. Like I said its has nothing to do with victim blaming but more so how selective that intuition is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:50 PM
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Redpillers bring it up whenever you guys bring up womens intuition whenever an undesirable dude complains blaming misogyny when there are known women beaters who dont struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:31 PM
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The argument is that dysfunctional men dont only get train wrecks. I've seen good girls go after shitty men as well. The suburban girl, the nerdy girl,etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:29 PM
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Women who can handle it are rare, but they do exist. But yeah women gotta understand that men didn't just say hide your feelings from yall for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:22 PM
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I can be alone, thats not the problem, I dont complain cause I can get sex the way I want it, but I understand those who cant, and how it makes the quality of life lower. I understand completely how this world works, but just because i know doesnt turn the desire off nor does it make the feeling of being locked out of an experience that most people around you gets to better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:30 AM
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I feel like this is easy for people who have experience this to say. Especially if they know they can find someone. Theres a difference between walking away and being locked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:07 PM
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Funny thing is, rarely people bring up shit like this as the reason why people are isolating, cause why take a chance when your shot can land you on some bs app or social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:05 PM
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Im not being hostile just pointing out you cant even back up what youre saying with anything of substance. Im just laughing at this bluepill attempt at pushing rejects into thinking friendship is going to make it better when I pointed out a flaw that most incels say when theyre around family and friends or invited to weddings,etc.... again I've been around these people and once was in their situation and at best this it will prolong their life just like donated grain will prolong starving third …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:07 PM
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I didnt repeat what OP said, I said that those women were punching above their weight class which is true, so no im not moving the goalposts. And besides you call them ugly losers dont mean shit in this context of women reinforcing the red/unmentionable pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:00 PM
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Most of those dudes could do better than the women posted hence them being used and cheated on. But keep coping tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:49 PM
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Right, im out of that situation, thats why i know how these guys feel and why its funny to see your rose tinted observations and imaginary psychologists agree with your theory that romantic/sexual rejects would just be fined if they had more of what they can already get. Friendships aren't hard to find at all. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:45 PM
2

Again speaking from past experiences that doesnt help. Even tho im out of that situation, being roommates with friends with partners isnt something I would wish on my worst enemy and why I said it wont be enough. Couldn't even hide the pain despite knowing they weren't doing anything wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:32 PM
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Keyword being choice. Its easy to be stoic when its coming from a place of abundance and know you can go back to it at any time. But I'll play along how will strengthening social ties help men who are romantically/sexually undesirable? How are those social ties gonna feel when hes constantly the 5th wheel?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:20 PM
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Women still have side partners, please stop trying to make it seem like theyre in the same position as lonely men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:00 PM
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Of course it did especially when the photos of the women and the men those women posted were revealed and showed that those unfortunate looking women were punching above their weight class.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:58 PM
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Idk it depends on what your willing to settle for. If you have a no single mothers rule then I would say 35-40. I would say the same if your single cause youre ugly and you cant date ugly then yeah after that age your sol cause that's the age where beauty declines for most people if they haven't fallen off already by thirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:53 PM
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Eh its not all women, however this tea app is a big unmentionable pill. I knew that shit was gonna blowback on those women who joined and gossiped big time. From the fact that it showed that women be punching above their weight class and they really thought it was gonna hurt the dudes by spilling, instead of advertising them to those who think they can fix men lol. Gotta love the cope in here too lololololol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:27 PM
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I agree got some attention on there. Unfortunately most were from outside the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:47 AM
1

So you expect a man to provide value to you with nothing in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:02 AM
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What that means is be more than just your holes. Men that are not handsome have to have game or be charming up front to get sex from women. The reverse is true for you guys, women dont need to be charming up front or game, cause your looks/promise of sex is all you need, however you do need to be charming have a personality to keep that man from being bored enough to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:53 PM
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Its like what patrice o'neal said what men have to do to get a woman, is what a woman has to do to keep the man from leaving. Also, if you give the milk out without buying dont be surprised no one wants to buy the cow especially if they found out other dudes didn't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:45 PM
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Idk cause closest thing I can think of is chemical castration but it comes with low testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:42 PM
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People for some reason have to make shit seem equally as bad. Like its horrible to admit that women have one advantage in life. That never in history have men matched with women 1:1. There always have been men(and few women) who were too ugly or mental to have someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:48 PM
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Yeah im not a fan of the left hiding behind power levels to excuse shit they wouldnt tolerate from others. Not everyone is gonna be cool with being bashed just cause they belong to a group that did something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:13 AM
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ROI matters especially if "self improvement" involves shit they dont want to do. I dont think the average man would complain if they knew putting in work would get them the women they want. Speaking as someone who knew he had make changes in his 20s, lost weight, but only could get women way below my standards, which reinforced the plan to move from my small town. Which was for the best cause I started getting attention from women I liked over on the west coast. Now if I didnt want to(or couldnt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:39 AM
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There is no alt, either they can improve, cope with not being attractive or they can do the thing that rhymes with cope. Like others have said, if it cant fix the problem then therapy is useless to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:44 AM
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It depends on what lenses you look at it from, from a dangerous stand point it is, cause the man who strikes fear in others will give you a better chance at your offspring will be protected. Outside of that one can look at women in trailer parks and ghettos and see thats not true for a stable society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:40 AM
2

I just hope those who believe in waiting at the finish line dont believe in monogamy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:00 PM
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Time. When they see other people get into relationship easily. when the advice they get doesn't work for them or turns into this hamster wheel where no matter what, they either didnt do enough or didnt do it the right way. When people try to inject morality into why they're alone while you never see known abusers go without. So as they age, the hope and advice turns acidic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:28 PM
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You got it man everybody wins, this is very just world, everybody is just too lazy to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:39 AM
3

Oh brother you got it. Everybody is playing with the same deck of cards you win
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:35 AM
2

Again missing the point, assuming that everyone who struggles is a lazy shut in who never put in work to improve is very convenient. Not everybodies max out is equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:29 AM
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This is delusional to think everyone was born on the same level or that functioning levels of charisma can be reached by everyone, its called gift of gab for a reason. Pretending that everybody who struggles is a shut in who never tried is very convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:19 AM
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It worked for roommate, and to be fair he did resemble a famous deceased rapper, so that helped also. And besides, alot of the red pill is supposed to be a step by step guide for those who cant understand how dating works intuitively. Outside of that I do agree that it requires a certain prerequisites for it to work for a person, it won't help everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:10 AM
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Pretending its just ratchet women who go for those men is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:35 AM
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Women are just as fat and awkward as the men out here, but since you guys have the more valuable junk men overlook it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:26 AM
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I would say its better to have female associates then friends. I personally cant have women im attracted to as friends, and I won't torture myself into "changing" that. But having women to talk to once in a while is fine. Especially online friends, that shouldnt be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:24 AM
2

Why are women breaking the rules for men who call them bitches then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:47 PM
0

How in this instance is it mistreatment, especially since shes the one breaking her own rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:03 PM
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What i mean is that for women who likes you its not at best and at worst a war shes barely fighting for. Aka shes not making it difficult at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:57 PM
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No i mean i get matches with women on apps so im not the one initiating, thats what I meant, I didnt mean anything about the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:50 PM
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But some men do have the luxury having women approach them, dont play stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:29 PM
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Alot of work in this instance is them ignoring their biology of them only liking a few men, so they got to work to overcome the lack of desire
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:16 PM
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Someone on Twitter put it perfectly, chase implies theyre running away from you. Why would I want to do that, when if you know women, they dont require that of men they really like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:08 PM
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For some it is something theyre force to do if they want sex/relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:05 PM
2

How is women breaking rules they set for dudes they dont like abuse? It just tells men to find women that wont make them go thru hoops
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:03 PM
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No its not youre in denial. Women in general will break the rules for men they really want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:53 AM
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It depends on how attractive you are, with chads doing the least amount of work and those at the bottom might as well just start paying for it, with the rest being between the two extremes. Being in shape has cut out alot of the difficulties as women who are sexually attracted to you will make it easy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:52 AM
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No issues there. Honesty brings the best people into my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:52 PM
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For me it depends, I do go to movies at least twice a month, and I do go buy weed since seattle doesn't have delivery. and Uber eats be expensive so I do go out to eat, so a good amount for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:49 PM
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Not attractive to you, doesn't mean shit to me, nor the implication that asking for a more introverted partner means keeping her from going out if she wants to. Thats what her friends are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:44 PM
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I really feel sorry for my fellow asocial people looking for a homebody that cant get matches online. Cause this advice I could never do with positive energy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:06 PM
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Why would a woman admit to something that would make them look bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:42 PM
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Cause for some men that is true. For some men who they are won't get them women they want at best to nothing at all at worst. Not everydude can afford to nichemaxx
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:45 PM
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Look man or woman im not going to accept that shit. I've said it multiple times its not the same. A heterosexual man will never want to sleep with another man, full stop. Meanwhile, there are situations where women accept duty sex, aka prostitution. So no, the comparison doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:17 PM
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I dont think that's the issue here for everyone. Outside of the teens here I think youre selling the guys short here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:08 PM
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And im saying i understand that, doesn't change the facts that its still not the same as having a different orientation. I understand why you guys are picky, but it is still apples and oranges
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:05 PM
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You have every right to wait for the finish line, just know you will be sharing the trophy if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:23 AM
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Yep the flowers drives the biatches crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:21 AM
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Ok now it just feels like you guys are just trying to throw anything at the wall hoping something sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:25 AM
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Yeah cause alot of men dont have that option to be that picky,like what everyone tells incels, that they have to lower them standards. Some got the bottom of barrel or nothing at all. You think every man out here is having sex with women they want to be with? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:54 AM
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It never will to me sorry, again like I said its a pickniess issue and that's fine I dont complain about it I understand that men like average women physically than women like the average man, but it still dont change the fact its apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:00 AM
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If a man has to have duty sex with his wife, then hes not as attracted to her, similar to women trying to avoid having sex with their partners. And what happens when someone settles for a person theyre not attracted to. Cause me, cause even if I wasn't excited sliding it in would make me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:55 AM
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Please speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:50 AM
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Sorry, never accepting that comparison it just really makes it hit home how yall really dont like the majority of men if you have to compare it to a different orientation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:48 AM
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I mean alot of relationships and marriages are basically glorified GFEs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:38 AM
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Man what's with this weird gay comparison in here? women comparing being picky to a whole different orientation is crazy. No straight man will ever want something near their ass nor will they ever find a man attractive, its not the same as yall being picky
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:37 AM
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Lady nobody is saying go after the slutty dude. Again, you hear what you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:41 PM
1

Cause they are and there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:25 AM
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Its not all bad its just that its limited to how many it can help. improving your looks(if able), your social capabilities(if your able) and luck. And that advice has a ceiling, meaning if you dont have the prerequisites then no advice is gonna help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:54 AM
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Again you hear what you wanna hear, I said men want equal treatment, not that casual sex is better. Your situation it wouldn't be settling for a man who's looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:08 AM
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Again, either women have autonomy or they don’t. Blaming men because some women would rather open their legs than fill out an application ain’t the wave. Also, nice trick trying to make yourself powerless when it comes to not supporting industries that use slavery as if you don’t have ethical options too. You can’t have it both ways: calling out men’s choices while pretending your own consumption is out of your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:05 AM
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Either women have autonomy or they dont, vecause I’m not talking about rape here, i’m talking about choice and economic systems. Also, I wouldn't label child slavery as just theft of labor, thats just proving my point even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:44 AM
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What you believe dont matter or does it answer the question on how you accept the dark side of other industries but this one is too much. Pretending that everyone escort is some trafficked third world girl or a woman who's too good to put in an application for a job at target doesn't make it reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:15 AM
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It doesn’t matter whether it’s legal or illegal — corruption always finds a way in. Just like with phones, clothes, and other goods made using 3rd world workers or outright slavery. I don’t get why this industry is treated like such an anomaly. Why should legal sex workers and their clients be blocked from creating safer, regulated spaces — just because you guys focus more on the dark side of this industry than others?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:28 PM
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You're trying to take out the nuances I mentioned to fit your black and white view and im not going for that, i said what I said, cause I said nothing about her being a virgin, I said if she's consistent, meaning if everyone got the three month rule, thats fine, but if the husband got it, while the majority men before him got it within 2 weeks yes i would avoid like hell. I mentioned casual sex, is cause like the majority of women say on here, you guys aren't into it, so dudes who make yall brea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:02 PM
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Its superior in the sense that women only reserve it for those they really desire physically. That dude generally doesn't have to do the work husband material has too. Wife material is only boring if we know her past
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:52 PM
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Nah its not. People make those at the bottom into villains, so they can feel better about their lot in life. Also so they won't get sympathy, cause they fear those incels will use it as leverage to harm women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:27 PM
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Eh i dont mind a chaste as long its not rooted in trauma. I think the problem comes in when the woman is chaste for them and theyre known to have been loose in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:22 PM
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I feel like its on purpose. They know what OP means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:34 PM
10

Of course its not, buts lets not pretend without it, it makes life way less enjoyable. I wouldnt be able to live in a world where I knew I would be excluded from it all my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:30 PM
4

Better than walking atm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:02 AM
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Difference is we would have fun with women who are wife material while yall make husband material wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:54 PM
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That's true, cause the hookup material is personality change away from being husband, while the husband is a personality change away from being single lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:53 PM
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And you guys wonder why the redpill and blackpill is growing. This is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:10 PM
1

You can if you want to, you better know how to put someone to sleep permanently, else you'll be in the ground and she'll go back sleeping with him like nothing happen. Don't let these feminist fool you into sacrificing your life for nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:10 PM
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Im gonna be honest I've learned to seperate advice you get online from real life, cause you let some here tell it misogyny is a hindarance to getting women and its not if you have the looks and or above average charisma. And that whole treat women like human beings is vague af for dating advice cause human beings like different things. like what I said above I never seen an abuser go without, even after they have been exposed. So outside of improving looks and social problems, its about luck hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:13 PM
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Most dating advice outside of dont be unattractive, work on social issues, is to get the struggling person to shut up. The fact is dating is looks, social aptitude and luck, thats it, either you youre that man, can become him or you are shit out of luck and that also scares people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:16 AM
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I dont know whats with this subreddit and trying to pretend that men are complaining about not having friends. No, they want gfs or hookups. Not saying they should be automatically granted that, but ducking the issue and pretending that all that they want is a friend is stupid, getting friends is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:31 AM
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And that's delusional. Else this would be a just world with a hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:34 PM
3

Yeah I did say some can earn(or learn it), but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:19 PM
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No, some either got bottom of the barrel or nothing at all. And it's easy to say go without if you know you can get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:10 PM
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The point is that some men dont have the option to be picky even reasonably.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:00 PM
4

Game ain't avaliable to everyone. Its called gift of gab for a reason. Some have it, some can earn it, some will never be a player
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:58 PM
3

What message that all lonely people are selfish and evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:39 AM
4

Here's the all knowing one again to claim that those at the bottom are all evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:41 AM
2

Its a myth for a reason and why most of its followers dont actually follow most the teachings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:37 AM
1

When we have standards we're shallow, but when there's men willing to fuck anything hes wrong too. We cant win lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:33 AM
1

Well advice is really to get you to stop complaining. Especially if its hopeless. Cause lets face it, either you got, can get it or you cant. If possible looksmaxx, fix any social inadequacies, thats all people can tell you to do, outside of that its cope or rope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:17 AM
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They only have a hard time with ones that are true. They know they dont really have a comeback to that lock and key analogy so they have to pretend and take the saying literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:10 AM
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I agree, thats why I laugh when people try to come on here trying to get men to stop caring, that will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:04 PM
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Well you only have three options looksmaxx, cope or the thing that rhymes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:02 PM
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Nope, just lost weight then my anxiety and my other social issues didn't matter. Don't take "love yourself before anyone else can love you" 100% serious mental hospitals prove that wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:39 AM
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No, you can be, redpill doesn't guarantee success, it just tells you how to be attractive to women, it doesn't say the methods would work for everyone, there's a limit. Thats when the black pill takes over
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:28 AM
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I wouldnt recommend men or women get into relationships where they are only with a person cause they have no other choice. Seeing a family member cry cause her boyfriend could only be around her drunk is one saddest things I've seen and the reason why I didn't follow that advice when it was given to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:59 PM
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This can be applied to more than marriage. The more technology advances the less you'll need people. Thats why third spaces are dying too. The "golden era" wouldn't exist without struggle and the lack of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:45 PM
3

This implies that all chads lie. I knew dudes who had no problems with the girls knowing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:38 PM
2

The trust is gone. i wouldnt want many people to know where i live. plus the people you're recommending this too are the least likely the ones to go or be invited to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:12 PM
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No I'm saying rejecting someone sexually doesn't make that person bad overall I'm talking outside of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:54 AM
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Sorry for late reply but I mean in the societal sense, I mean stop moralizing the unlucky especially since there are worse people who dont struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:46 AM
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How is it a lie? There's plenty of bigger women with a following, your just focusing on the hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:57 AM
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Alot of this would end if people would stop trying to moralize rejection and attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:34 PM
1

That depends on the individual. For me idk what I would consider wife material since I dont think marriage is in the cards for me. All I look for rn is a genuine fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:18 AM
1

Eh this sounds like money doesn't bring happiness. I for one like easy, why the hell would I want to make it a challenge especially since I hate socializing? But to generalize, its more about having the option to, its one thing to only want sex in a relationship, its another to have no choice, that your only husband material lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:25 AM
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Just don't be boring, you can be anything else but boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:11 AM
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I rather have a genuine fwb, dont want someone living with me nor do I want something that's strictly platonic, but she has to be into the same things I'm into.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:38 PM
1

In what context? Societal, maybe, individually? It depends, I think personally open relationships are more logical, but i understand some are naturally monogamous and others just want their cake and eat it too. Meaning they want to be the only ones who get to step out...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:05 PM
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No, men arent attractive. I rather just become asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:33 AM
2

I dont think replace is the right word, alt fits better. Most customers at best will replace someone they didn't find attractive, the rest aint replacing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:27 AM
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It doesnt matter about want, but its just funny how incels get the misogyny is the reason bs knowing ive never heard of a known abuser going without a woman. Like what does it say that serial killers, beaters and rapists can have an audience of women, but incels don't? Maybe stop trying to put morals into why some men struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:41 AM
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How is it a course correction? Incels complain that they want genuine affection/validation how is taking away womens rights going to give you/them that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:40 PM
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Eh i kind of get it, its one thing to be rejected, its another to keep getting rejected over the years with no wins. Confidence with nothing to back it up ends up being delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:47 AM
3

That implies that unattractive people are automatically attracted to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:39 AM
3

Thats not the bare minimum considering majority of people are overweight/obese, unless youre saying thats what it takes to get an fat woman, then it is reasonable to say that it isnt worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:19 AM
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No we say what we mean, we dont see ugly women as high maintenance or incompatible, just ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:48 AM
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Like i said its the dishonesty about it. We dont lie and say its her personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:40 AM
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Now im equal in the sense that humanities hierarchy is brutal, but theres no attempts to hide the fact that men reject ugly women for being ugly. We dont claim its their personality or tell them that they need male friends to get a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:28 AM
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Cause unfiltered girl talk especially about men is brutal especially if the guy in question hasnt been on the good side of things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:21 AM
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Yes and no, it depends on the friendship, if theyre comfortable around you then you might get a peek on how they really talk when theyre amongst themselves especially if they feel like youre not judgemental. Some of the most blackpilling moments of my life came from coworkers who liked me. Unfiltered girl talk can be brutal. Which is good to know if one is in the dark, outside of that unless you guys share an hobby or shes being a wingman, its no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:01 AM
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Yeah never approached a woman so all my relationships came from them approaching me. Never had to do dates, and that's what some like to ignore, dates aren't necessary if you go after those who truly like you. But unfortunately not everyone gets that kind of happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:54 AM
1

But why silently? Is there only one way to give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:27 PM
0

Your right, cheaters never win. All women who date cheaters are trash. no cope at all in that statement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:29 PM
1

Degrade, riiiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:11 PM
8

This sounds like denial. Plenty of women who think theyre special enough to tame the cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:33 AM
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That will never happen, cause for most it will end in them pricing themselves out of the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:06 AM
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Any man is a real man, now a "real man" is slave call to anyone willing to bend over backwards for no reward
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:18 AM
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Nah it still works cause not every product is for the masses. Just like you can be priced out of certain areas and products you can be priced out of certain people. Plus some do go for first person willing to buy as they might not have a choice market wise to ignore or reject
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:14 AM
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Yeah their sixth sense only works on unattractive men. Seriously tho this is why I try to tell people to stop trying to insert morality into discussions about why some men struggle with women. Cause I know way too many known verbal and physical abusers who never go without.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:51 AM
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Its a spectrum those who get nothing, those with shit options, average and so forth, which is based on luck and genetics. And besides these subreddits nor would redpill or the unmentionable pill as a whole wouldn't exist if it was ignorable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:05 PM
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Eh then dudes would complain about being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:14 PM
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No I'm not my main thing its a mixture of luck and genetics. I didn't discount hard work, but that can only go so far, or this would be a just world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:05 PM
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Of course work plays into it, but genetics matter in how that work benefits you or else anyone could be jordan with hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:51 PM
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Of course its luck dating is not a system where anything is guaranteed to you there is no step by step for everyone to win. You can do everything right and still lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:21 PM
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I think some of it has to do with fear, that if they acknowledge that incels are real and not just misogynistic assholes, then they think it'll feed the repeal the 19th nonsense some spout. Also people dont like the idea of their successes not coming from just hard work, the idea that they was born in the right area or with the right genetics, then they feel their wins come with a asterisk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:13 PM
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That's why I say its a mix. Outliers exist but take the top men and bottom and i guarantee there's a pattern there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:44 PM
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Of course its luck there's people out there doing way more than I did who cant even get a hello. Is it just luck no, genetics play a role too. You can see the patterns who can skip past dates and.any other rules she has, and those who end up the sexless foodie guy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:03 PM
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Well for most part the content is going to be geared towards those who dont fit in, so they're gonna have motivate them to do shit by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:05 AM
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Well only thing I got left is roi matters take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:55 AM
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Now you know its a difference between being under 6ft and 5'5 and below right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:44 AM
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Cause If people who do less of that and yet get some while others have to become superman with a 1000 friends minimum to just get a hello then there's a problem with forcing something that maybe isn't in the cards for that person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:40 AM
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See this is the problem, honestly as someone with little to no friends had roommates who stayed in and gamed all day yet we all still managed to get some, this is just a hamster wheel response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:38 AM
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Yeah I hate to admit it, but gpt is making me believe that Ai robots might be an alternative. Cause even tho I use it for assistance I can talk to it like it's another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:35 AM
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The fact is people dont like those at the bottom to whine about their lot in life. This goes for race, gender, financial status, etc...especially if theyre stuck there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:29 AM
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Exactly this is why I say this topic is a liberals shit test. Cause conservative women wouldn't have a problem stating and standing by their preference, it's the women who claim to be lgbtq allies that are triggered by this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:26 AM
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Eh not really people hang out with individuals who belong to groups they dislike all the time. Just like having a black friend doesn't prevent one from being racist against that group as a whole Basically beliefs can leak out in different ways
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:17 AM
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Of course it is, it's just funny how men are painted as the homophobic gender when it's equal, but different. Men have problems with lgbtq but won't have a problem dating a bisexual woman whereas women are the main ones championing lgbtq but still see bi men as disease ridden soyboys. I The preference is totally fine, it's the why behind that preference that got people side eyeing the response. This is where I say it's more on the liberal side than conservative tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:02 AM
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Can you name those who do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:51 PM
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Is it healthy, yes to those who fit in, but to those who can't its not. As someone who pushed himself in his 20s(even moved 2000 miles away from home) there's a limit to how much I can socialize, my battery isn't normal and having to mask and navigate social circles is exhausting. I prefer online interactions more cause I don't have to speed up my speech I can think out what I want to say compared to being ignored in a convo or argument cause I'm not a quick witted person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:47 PM
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Well intentioned but assumes everyone who dismisses the generic advice never followed it? Riiiiiiiight!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:09 PM
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Its the truth tho, looks matter and at a certain level (sub 5) these are the drastic measures one might have to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:30 PM
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At least those dudes have a subset. Can't say the same for incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:23 PM
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It worked for chief keef. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:14 PM
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Monks and priests are rare with suspicious stereotypes for a reason. Only people who's going to be able to handle that is due to low libido or being asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:44 PM
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That won't work at all, most men won't be able to overlook being sexually undesirable. We humans play the same mating game as other mammals and other species in the animal kingdom. And like any other game there's winners and there's losers and there's no cheering up being left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:43 PM
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Yeah I remember when I was younger a coworker who was good with women told me that I had to get use to being the other guy especially when you get older. Cause most women won't be fully single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:37 PM
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That's not a guarantee as its a spectrum and most autistic women like neurotypical men more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:44 AM
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It disrupts the game. If the losers stop caring and just paid for it that's one less thing those dudes can use to feed the ego on. "I might have a shitty job, my girl is cheating on me but at least I get more P than that loser below me."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:41 AM
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Well it doesn't help when people like feed those at the bottom false hope to get them on a hamster wheel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:57 PM
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Its weird how 80/20 is bullshit yet at the same time believe the majority of men are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:55 PM
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For some dudes that maybe true, me It's every blue moon but it still happens, and for real "chads" it's definitely not rare for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:04 AM
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Those types who did weren't subtle about what they wanted. And the first few times it blew mind cause I didn't think those type of women existed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:02 AM
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Looks wise 5 out of 7 times yeah. It's just the situations most of the time were weird. Either she had a boyfriend i knew or was cool with or she was drunk to the point it made me uncomfortable. But the rare one that made sense it was great.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:01 AM
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And it doesn't help that she got the same lawyer that tried to go after jay z. And failed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:13 PM
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Sex, duh what else should there be? He's not going to her for marriage, she's a of prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:09 PM
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So i have to ask should rich people stick with rich people? Cause I want to know where this "power imbalance" is headed towards. Cause I understood it when it came to bill and monica but this is idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:07 PM
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Nothing outside of him having a slave fetish. People really want to make that prostitute out to be a grooming victim which is funny. And it doesn't help that she got the same lawyer that tried to pull a fast one on Jay-Z not too long ago. I'm like fine let's raise the aoc to 21 or even 25. But don't stop there go after the military age, drinking, voting and onlyfans which people who bashing him are conveniently trying to ignore. Ultimately Shannon needs to vet better and people need to go after …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:57 PM
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And they don't realize alot of their arguments can and will blowback on them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:51 PM
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Thanks for that all seeing one. Thanks for keeping the world just.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:38 PM
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Of course, except for those who tell you who they are, that doesn't fit your narrative, then it's something they're not saying that's keeping them at the bottom. Am I right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:33 PM
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Again very convenient everyone at bottom was evil all along, very just bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:25 PM
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Again it's very convenient to blanket a group just like it is to say all homeless people are just lazy bums who don't want to work. It's makes your world feel just.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:16 PM
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The point is that they're are those who did more than that who get called lazy in here cause it didn't work for them. Im just calling out this hamster wheel you guys want those at the bottom to be on. I didn't have to love myself I didn't have to talk to a 1000 women a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:09 PM
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Short end of the stick isn't blaming anyone just thats how the dice rolled that applies to most things in life not just dating. I can tell you people who lived to 70+ smoking/ being overweight doesn't mean there's not a pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:07 PM
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Please don't peddle that pseudo self help shit to me, only thing I had to do was go from obese to skinny fat for my self esteem and high anxiety issues to not matter. Are there some who need to try, but im not blanket that crowd so I can feel better about my luck in that area. There are people who get the short end of the stick trying to pretend they don't exist and that everyone complains is just lazy is very convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:27 PM
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Why are you so bothered by people venting on the internet? Outside of the crazies wanting to repeal laws and bring back the so called "golden era", most of these dudes are just talking online. And not even to mention those who do have legit gripes of never having someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:11 PM
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Well for one the fact that this era gives people the choice to go after what they really want and not what's local to them. Plus those who isolate i bet at least 40-60% of them weren't on the top of the hierarchy so what's the point of going out if your just gonna be ignored or worse. People don't realize that "golden era" came from limited options those people back then would do the same now if they had our technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:04 PM
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A broke and unknown comedian/startup will not have groupies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:28 PM
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If you're over 25 and see no hope in site, outside of harming others, do you. Rather it's becoming a neet, going to the woods or even at worse check out(if you know what I mean). As I get older I realize this life ain't for everyone and if your at the bottom with minimal chances of getting out then hey just like society doesn't owe you, you don't owe society either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:12 PM
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So basically become a atm. That'll bring genuine affection
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:45 PM
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He's speaking on raw attraction. Alot dudes think women aren't visual, and that's not true it's just that the majority of men don't inspire lust from a woman the way they do for us men. I'm so happy to have a friend that's one of them. Alot of red/blackpilling went on when I used to hang out with him, with women approaching, giving him leftovers from from dates she went on earlier, etc... The saying the rules are for betas who have to impress with status and money don't apply to men like him is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:44 PM
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It depends there was a study that said that both extremes of the spectrum tend to be misogynistic which makes sense since they both see the dark side of human nature, it's just that Chad's benefit from it and incels don't. Dont have to be bitter to notice women cheating on their spouses with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:49 AM
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Uh cause we do value the connection. Genuine affection can't be replicated. Like I said the only dudes who would leave their woman for a robot are dudes who settled for women they're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:52 AM
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I feel like the majority of those who go for the robots wouldn't be replacing as they would have to have something to replace to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:45 AM
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Cause it is. If you don't have what the person you want has, you wont get their connection. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:42 AM
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For me I'm not anti single mother but the ones I've met gave me the idea that I wasn't there usual type which sucks and the first one tried to push her kids the 2nd week we met talking about diapers and how good of a father I would be. Then the other fear was with a friend's bm, he still had/has access to her despite new bfs. I admit there's only a few I would be ok with cause I know dude and his kid is adorable. Outside of that yeah that feeling of being a constellation prize is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:44 PM
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Most people have no problems saying that life isn't fair, until a societal issue discussion that potentially challenges peoples benefits in that society. Race, gender, dating follow that pattern. Thats why all poor people are just lazy, all incels are fat neckbeards who hate women etc.... Toxic positivity blinds a person to a certain type of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:32 AM
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Oh I'm not trying to imply all women do this but It's not a small niche like some in here are trying to make it seem like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:48 PM
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Do you think most of them are lying? Do you think the anti male sentiment women have thats basically unavoidable on social media is fake? Not even including real life situations ive been in and around, but the saying everyone settles isn't true anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:49 PM
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So those who bitch about their boyfriends are single?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:37 PM
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I believe that when the praises become more than the bitching about their sea of options
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:33 PM
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I agree that's why I listen to them bitch about their boyfriends, how theirs not enough attractive men going around,etc... there seems to be more complaints than praises
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:31 PM
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Idk bro with the sea being trash and deadbrooms being a thing and with the saying that everyone settles exists, I don't believe all, but good to great portion are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:30 PM
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Cheat no, but i do think if some men had the same level of attention from women that women get from men, they wouldn't be with who they're with now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:26 PM
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Right people never settle huh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:22 PM
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But don't women say the sea is garbage that pickings are slim?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:20 PM
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Cant be friends with women im attracted too, unless shes helping me make money or she's being a wingman. Especially if I'm going thru a dry spell, that's torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:13 AM
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Eh as someone who grew up in the church my teachers would say that a man and a woman should never alone behind closed doors, now I was six the first time I heard it and ignored it, but when I was 14 and heard it I left and never went back. Cause I didn't like the implication that either I was attracted to her or she was to me. But for me i do respect that rule just cause ive seen how some gf act when their bf are not around so i prefer them to be there at all times. Tho i think this rule depends…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:01 AM
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That's not what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:05 PM
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Pretty black and white the whole telling incels they're that way because of misogyny while whole rapists and woman beaters don't go without is just world cope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:04 PM
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Are they further ahead in the way that motivates us to change tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:02 PM
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I have all the sympathy just stop the whole "your an incel cause your misogynistic" spiel cause that shit clearly isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:38 PM
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I mean I've never met a domestic abuser who complains about not getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:24 PM
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So like people say to men who complain, if everyone around you is trash, what does that make the women? Majority are just as obese, socially awkward as the men with the only reason they get a pass is because they have the more valuable genitals. Outside of that if most men aren't motivated to improve for these women what does it say about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:20 PM
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Im quite sure dudes who are considering it already gave up on regular relationships and caring about those opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:47 PM
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Its only stigmatized by poor people. Rich people don't get flack for buying escort services. And besides, there's not someone for everyone, so for those with the short end of the stick they should be able to have that release
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:41 PM
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I mean since when people stop having this generalization? Men are still seen as that and it's not far off from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:36 PM
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Is this being recorded rn? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:53 PM
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You know what this reminds me of....articles of billionaire's humble beginnings that get pumped out to reinforce the American dream is real and is achievable for everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:44 PM
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But it gave him status like Chris chan and like Chris chan I doubt those women would be in his life without it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:41 PM
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Eh isn't this what people do now lying to those at the bottom claiming it's just a personality issue as to why women keep rejecting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:40 PM
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Known as in his ugliness gave him status? Are going to say the majority of men at that level of uglyness have women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:23 PM
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Exactly some men get women thru friends, their looks, status and money. There is no one size fits all for this. Encouraging men to do something that's possibly against who they are will result in disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:40 PM
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Its a no go for me. I dont have a problem with looksmaxxing but I'm not a person who approaches. And it doesn't just apply to women. Every friend I've made approached me first and most jobs I get are thru online apps same with dating apps. Not every man is built to do that and should work to make their personalities work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:32 PM
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Unless that spouse was assigned and given to him, he has to find and woo her. Which means he has to play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:23 AM
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Im all for loving yourself, but if one desires a relationship, they're gonna have to care about others opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:19 AM
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Well i live in seattle which the freeze helps. Tho I avoid everyone. And why is because I don't like socializing, it drains me to do it platonically, now add on women who have other subtle social rules especially if you want to date her, I would go crazy from the burnout. My battery has never been normal, even with things I like to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:09 AM
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Dudes who give up either are weak or understand that what they want is out of their reach. The American dream is dying as people realize that hard work doesn't pay off for everyone and that doesn't just apply to dating. Working or "self improvement" just for the sake of it is a hard sell these days when alot of us saw people with college degrees work at crappy jobs, that misogynistic men like tate got women despite the virtue signaling that misogyny makes men incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:54 AM
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You can say that self love bs all you want but we all know single people have a cap socially and in the workplace. Hell look at the presidency, never in a million years will a single person hold office.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:39 AM
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Cause of cultural, and if you really understand what marriage is, partnership legally and romantically. I wouldnt want to get married based on the fact i take those vows serious while at the same time acknowledge that forever is along time and people(including me) can grow apart/change. Now if there was changes made to it where it isn't life destroying and have reverifying periods, then maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:36 AM
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Ai robots, suicide booths and a lot of poly relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:11 PM
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I never said incels can't be abusive in fact I said regardless if they're abusive or not it doesn't change the fact they can't get relationships. And your suspicions are just just world theory cope. For second part just because it's unhealthy doesn't change the fact they can find women with no problems. Rapists arent exempt from having relationships outside of their evil acts. In fact weinstein and Cosby had wives when they committed those acts. And Cosby's stood by him. Im not condoning the act…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:05 PM
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You know the answer isn't pretty and that's all I need to know Im glad to be me, im just here to popping the delusional takes of trying to add morality to getting relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:46 PM
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Right, so if you asked men, in the terms of getting relationships who they rather be chris brown or an incel who you think most would pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:43 PM
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At getting women, you can say whatever you want about those relationships, the fact is their abuse isn't keeping them from getting them unlike incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:35 PM
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For this to happen the virgin stigma would have to go which will never happened in this competitive world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:40 AM
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Compared to the incel who gets nothing no matter if he's abusive or not, the abuser is more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:37 AM
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Im realizing this isn't dating advice this is a shaming tool. You can't be around the men I have who get women and honestly believe misogyny and lack of respect has anything to do with someone being an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:34 AM
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Its not useless, in fact it's true. Thats why I laugh when people complain about double standards in dating. Like your not owed a person with similar stats as you. A high body count man has no obligation to date a similar woman than a short woman has to date a short man. Life is not fair. As a person who tried to self improvement in the way society expects, that shit only netted me fat single moms that I know for sure I wasn't their type before the kids. Me losing weight was beneficial but it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:44 AM
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Why is it self harm especially for men who won't be able to satisfy that urge?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:26 AM
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It depends on the context. Sexually and relationship wise i wouldn't mind it but when it comes to at home stuff as long you ain't picking out my clothes trying to get rid of my hobbies and things that make me happy I'm for that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:01 AM
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We wouldn't be here with out that fixation, it's wired in most men in most species.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:00 AM
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They have experience in failing and knowing dudes who like tate debunk the bluepill "your alone cause your misogynistic" spiel cause he's widely successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:54 AM
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The funny thing about this discourse is people learning the past isn't the past. Women get disgusted with men who've been with men in the past even if they're faithful just like men being disgusted with promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:14 PM
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There doesn't have anything to be done about it, outside of pointing it out when certain women try to paint men evil for beliefs they themselves have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:57 PM
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Why would bp women admit to something that would be seen as upholding the patriarchy? People aren't stupid when it comes to knowing when something would get them bashed or insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:27 PM
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Its one of the things where It's like it's not necessarily the preference it's the hypocrisy I've seen around this. Like their was a deleted tweet that put it perfectly...."they'll make fun or bash men like boosie(known homophobic men) then when a bi man approaches them they start to sound like boosie" At least conservative women are honest about why, its liberal women(straight and bisexual) who wants to be seen as an ally but still views them as disease ridden cheating soyboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:18 PM
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You can only speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:42 PM
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Women are better at socializing, but i agree dating wise, it's cause men don't care to a point at best and do or worse take advantage at worst. Men can recognize somethings off, but if your physically attractive men will overlook alot of social blips for you. Men aren't afforded that for obvious reasons good or bad. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:31 PM
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Man I'm torn cause on one hand I agree that there are toxic issues around the red pill especially when it comes to taking advantage of the anger phase. But on the other, there's really not an alt that's close to being effective than the redpill. Neurotypicals will always find us annoying/defective unless masking or if they find you irresistible. Plus I don't think the issue is that autistic men are afraid of autistic culture it's that autism effects dating severely no matter ND women or NT women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:19 AM
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That would never happen. The government isn't trying to foot the bill of a unwanted child and women don't want any more danger than they have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:50 AM
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But that's stupid and wouldn't stick cause the actual definition can't apply to a man like tate. Why would a man who can get sex would be offended by incel he knows it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:37 AM
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Chances are if they're looking for alt then in some way they already are being pushed into being outsiders
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:27 AM
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Idk about the mocking part, like why would he care at that point? Chances are he'll just avoid those people too. Plus those be the same people who'll mock him for struggling to find a partner any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:24 AM
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No, cause I'm not the questioning age gap relationships where both partners are above the legal age. It wouldn't be a bad assumption that people are taking the age gap discourse to far when a 22 year old gets beat up for trying to meet up with an 18 year old. People like to think these internet discussions don't leak out to the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:02 PM
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So do you think the age limit of everything listed should be raised to 25(older for the neurodivergent)?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:25 PM
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It depends on the woman, but in my experience no. It's just ammo for them to use later.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:19 AM
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And I say to that is that those who can go at it alone probably wouldn't even be here to talk about it. And honestly I couldn't see most men walking away not just cause of biology, but because we are social creatures at the end of the day. being forever alone is a type of loneliness I wouldnt wish on anyone, not only your out of an experience that nothing else really tops you got to be around those who get to so now your even more isolated cause you can't relate. You start to feel less human.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:59 AM
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Kind of missing the point, the point was that for some men raising their standards would bar them. Outside of that is their choice on rather they want to go at the world alone or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:34 AM
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And what i meant is that is for some it is either that shitty option or out of the pool you go. I agree that self improvement is important but it's not a guarantee to have a great ROI or hell even a medicore one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:24 AM
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Its a spectrum there a dudes who got great options, dudes with mediocre options, those with shit options and those who get jack shit. The first three can raise their standards its the 2nd to last dude who escapes being an incel due to him willing to accept anything with a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:30 AM
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Ironically it gives credence to the 80/20 rule they like to deny. And your right women confuse their sexual prowess as their overall stats. Alot of women would be shit out of luck if men weren't as motivated about sex as we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:23 AM
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Raising mens standards only works if he has options otherwise he'll be locking himself out of the pool
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:19 AM
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On. One hand I couldn't go below 23, but I do feel like the age gap thing is blown out of proportion. I mean seeing as we only stop at sex, we don't consider drinking, voting, joining the military. Also I've read that adhd brains take even longer to develop, so does that mean we cant date people with adhd until their mid 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:41 AM
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Why tho? Men have no problem building up female "losers". Hell it takes alot for a woman to be considered a true loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:25 AM
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Friends can't and won't replace relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:20 AM
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While I do think poly relationships might benefit the neurodivergent, I don't think it would be the cure all they're looking for as competition will rear its ugly head and there will be those at the bottom of that who might as well be single. On the other if the culture changes I can see the logic of people including those they otherwise wouldn't have in a monogamous relationship. I myself am are for open relationships for the same reason. Im not the type of dude who could handle a full on relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:37 AM
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We should all strive to go after what we really want with the knowledge that the chances are small especially if you're not your types type. The same goes for a man who wants an sexually attractive in shape 21 year old woman with no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:25 PM
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Oh I know that Mr no pill. I assume every dude with your flair or bluepill are here to give false info.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:42 PM
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Do you give this same grace to men as well when they struggle to find someone? I couldn't imagine people taking a man saying he filters thru "thousands of shit options", incel complaints seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:06 AM
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Hey it's good enough for struggling men, why not yall? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:40 AM
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Its funny this along with some of the responses show how people understand completely how trash dating advice is when it's thrown at them yet have no problem throwing it at struggling men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:39 AM
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This is one of the few things I agree with bluepillers about. Men who don't care about a woman's life outside of beauty and agreeableness can't be mad that she's a leech, cause what else can she do????
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:39 PM
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Eh i need evidence for that claim cause introverted women are my dream. I hated when people try to break me out of my "shell" cause it isn't a shell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:35 PM
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That implies no one gets the short end of the stick which isn't true. Outcasts have existed since the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:32 PM
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Those types are rare and hard to find. Thats why introverted neurodivergent men are told to become a social butterfly. The rest want neurotypical extroverted men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:29 PM
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To be fair if it wasn't for his infamy I don't think he would have gotten her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:59 PM
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This is very spot on and a sign that there's no real solution for someone whos unlucky in the dating depth. Hell as someone who frequented mental health forums growing up i saw the same pattern of anxious/agoraphobic/autisic women having partners while the men complained that no one wanted them. This is why I push back on some of the "advice" given here. Cause it's either bootstraps talk that implies you got to be all together to have someone while I see others who struggle with way worse having…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:55 PM
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Thank you as someone who was late getting my first opportunity, this is spot on. Forever alone type of alone is the type of depression I wouldnt wish on anyone. I truly believe especially in the later years when you start becoming more and more of an outcast, this type of depression isn't going to be shaken off with bootstraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:48 PM
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Morally idk me even when I was that age I felt it was weird that an 18 year old coworker was into me. She did help redpill me tho. Outside of me idc I'm not the one to judge
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:52 AM
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Eh it depends on the person and their ROI on the work they gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:13 AM
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I guess it's easy to say life isn't fair until you're faced with a person in which life hasn't been fair too. And besides it's common sense, we're animals and like any other species in the kingdom we play the mating game and like with any other game there are winners and there are losers. And nature doesn't give af about morality, so I have to laugh when people try to bash or gaslight those at the bottom that it's their attitude or them being misogynistic is why they're out of the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:00 PM
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Agreed that's why despite the negativity, social media has a been a blessing in a disguise. It's exposed the fact that some dudes don't have to put in effort to get some while others have to risk being used financially just to get her to look at you. And now we got people pretending to not understand why men are now hesitant about doing dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:26 PM
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Its a mix of men liking younger women and dudes who struggled in their teens and 20s not wanting women who probably wouldn't have given him the time of day back then. I had women tell me when I was younger and struggling that ill do better when im older, and even back then that felt like a backhanded compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:14 PM
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The problem is location,culture, and class factors in a way. For someone who lived in the hood/poor neighborhood, I didn't need tates, fresh and fit the enviorment was redpill/blackpill enough. Its why i laugh at those who claim dudes who struggle are just misogynistic, causes ive seen and been around dudes who say way worse get women. I imagine those who lived in more peaceful neighborhoods usually have a more leave it to beaver lifestyle and vision that influences their bluepill beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:01 PM
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Man I remember when i was younger it wasn't abnormal to hear that sex was good for mental health, but now since the general public know incels exist now it's overrated and societal pressure. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:31 PM
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I think people have the problem with the word need in this context is that they think need=must be given. Which isn't true. I dont think it's hard to acknowledge the kind of pain of being excluded from the mating/dating game while also acknowledging that no one is obligated to help them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:22 PM
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Im still trying to figure it out. But as of right now those who can move on will, those who cant either will isolate/ go to spaces where they can vent, be radicalized, self delete or at worst try to "flip the table over" which i hope stays rare. The only hailmary thing I can think of is making monasteries a thing again at least a secular one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:47 PM
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Hence I said forced singledom. It's a double edged sword, i agree, but I'm not going lie and say I pulled myself out of that kind depression with bootstraps. I got lucky that pulled me from that level of depression. So I completely understand those who are legitimately screwed and why you just can't shake something like that off. Not everyone is built to be a monk and comparing it to women being single is laughable knowing for the majority it is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:36 PM
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Good luck with this futile mission. Singledom that's forced on you is a failure. You can't lie yourself out the fact your undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:29 PM
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We just had a 22 year old get beaten up for trying to talk to an 18 year old, this will not go well for every dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:51 AM
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Youre right, skinny incels and gymcels don't exist at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:21 PM
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Its not necessarily wrong but it's why I think marriage is done in this society or needs a revamp cause despite being less religious as an adult, I still see the vows as something special and I feel this line of thinking, tho right, dampens the impact of those words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:39 PM
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That dependent on the individual, extending the lifespan on planet theyre miserable being and have a low chance of improving in isn't exactly motivating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:13 PM
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So depending on smv self improvement is an hamster wheel with a low roi
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:39 AM
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The problem is defining self improvement and what it would look like if its for yourself vs for a partner. For example myself I work out cause I'm a lover of a weed and being overweight causes me to have acid reflux issues. So if I was able to smoke at any size it wouldn't matter to me. Versus my love increasing income cause I like the choices money can bring. Like dating, "self improvement" might involve doing shit they naturally wouldn't do otherwise, hence them being resentful it didn't work.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:37 AM
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Eh, there's a benefit to men choosing less experienced women, especially when it comes to fathering his kids, as its less likely to be fraud there compared to promiscuous women. Outside of that, it depends. Also, there's no real settling factor for alpha male when it comes to him wanting a spouse as he can still get what he wants. His prowess is attractive to women regardless of she can match it or not, unlike the opposite where low/no body count men aren't seen as attractive outside of "husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:58 AM
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The idea is that she's with the dude less experience cause he's either desperate and she will be able to manipulate that or that her main options aren't available for ltr/marriage, so he would do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:50 AM
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Eh being the only one in the friend group constantly single is just as bad. Friendships arent replacements
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:57 AM
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Like I said not every is cut out for monk mode so they gotta care if they want success And again the change isn't always good if I get what you're implying by that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:26 PM
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The problem with this is that not everyone is built to brush off being completely unattractive off and settle for being a good person. That value matters, trying to downplay it, is why redpill and the unmentionable persist despite its issues. Imaging living a lifetime where your blocked from experiencing one of the most human experiences that everyone else around you gets to experience and talks about. I wouldnt wish that on my worst enemy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:44 AM
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Dude they understand completely what you mean, the thing is there is no healthy solution for that problem. that's why they are hoping and pushing that these dudes accept friendship and family as alt which isn't going to work. Relationships/genuine sex can't be substituted
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:35 AM
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Im out of it now, I still believe in the unmentionable pill but now thanks to getting lucky I can truly focus on other parts of my life. The main reason I'm here is cause I understand what alot of these dudes are going thru and know the general advice isn't going to work. Hope has its limits especially if the problem has been going on for a long time and your the only one in you vicinity that's going thru it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:25 AM
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I agree that they should keep it in the forums and get therapy if it spills outside, but I don't see how anyone can be surprised those who have walk outside and see couples, rich people, those who've won in life and act like its going to be completely smiles from those at the bottom. Loud or quiet they will still have to be around that unless they're a complete hermit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:54 PM
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I mean outside of when it spills over to regular topics most of the time you guys/girls flock to those dudes spaces and bitch about them bitching. Not every loser is going to lose quietly. Some of them are going to talk about it like those who lose economically, racially, sexually, etc.... especially if they have to be around the shit they lost at life in on a constant basis. There's a reason why people are isolating and not because of video games or porn, its because who wants to be at the bott…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:38 PM
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Its not the same man. Especially the first part of what you said is just a nice way of saying settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:21 PM
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Its kind of bittersweet. I mean I'm glad I'm not an incel, but at the same time the damage is kind of done. I get where dudes come from when they only want women on their level cause at least the familiarity dulls the pain a bit and makes you feel a little less like an outsider, but at the sametime I realized rejecting opportunities would be foolish and what im asking for is very rare. In the end even tho I can't tell the future, I don't feel like I'm wrong that this is going to follow me for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:18 PM
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No, its like leaving the store if they don't have what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:12 PM
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Yeah i practice self control by removing myself and moving on. Don't know why you guys try to keep framing it as something negative. “Why do women get upset that a guy was only friends with her in the hopes his peepee got wet?” I agree men shouldn't believe that be friends first b.s. alot of women/bluepillers spew.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:25 PM
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I value friendship, just not with women im attracted to. Especially if im in a dry period. I dont get why women want to shame dudes into staying when they clearly don't want to. Just find other dudes who would be cool being friends with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:01 AM
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Yeah the internet, especially tumblr and Twitter spaces did alot of damage to Leftists. Bigotry = prejudice+ power was one the worst things liberals adopted. I get power differentials, but using that excuse bullshit coming from feminists or minorities was the worst thing they could've done to the movement. I voted for Kamala, and yet I can't even be mad that she lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:56 AM
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Socializing only reduces loneliness if it's the desired kind. Going out and seeing all the people you hang out with get into relationships gets depressing and makes you feel lonelier after a while that's why this advice falls on deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:57 AM
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This is true. I had roommates who did nothing but stay in the house and game all day yet had no issues getting women. This whole get a bunch of hobbies is just a cope, its great to assist in a a ltr, but it won't help if you can't get to first base.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:49 AM
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Yep sad fact not everyone is going to be top dog some body gotta play step daddy. Somebody gotta be the one she "matured" into liking. There's gotta be the guy that she wouldn't have slept with in her 20s but is totally husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:48 PM
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Funny thing as a millennial, this use to be acceptable to say until the general public found out about incels then it was "relationships won't solve all your problems" or "i know people who are happy to be alone"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:04 AM
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Patrice oneal said it best, what it takes for a man to get a woman is what it takes for a woman to keep a man from leaving after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:20 AM
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Theres a difference between not fulfilling a fantasy and not being able to get the bare minimum. I was talking about the 2nd.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:25 PM
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Eh, it depends on how late and what you're late on. For dating/sex I think after a certain point it just becomes bittersweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:06 PM
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Eh I rather people go after what they want instead of being miserable even if what they want doesn't exist for them. I grew up around people who settled and it's not pretty. Hell I'm at the point where I rather just pay for it then to be in a relationship where both parties are only in it cause they couldn't do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:59 PM
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So complaining it is lol Sucks for those who only have those options
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:21 PM
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The issue is that women want to be liberated towards men they're attracted to while been seen as traditional towards men they don't like or have to grow into "liking". They hate the fact that they can't control who they attract to them. Hell i honestly believe if ugly men didn't exist more women would fight to walk around naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:17 AM
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Bruh life ain't fair, just like any other animal in the kingdom playing the game, there's winners and there's losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:50 AM
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I know this is a late reply, but damn it never f'n fails. They try to fit in, yet It always slips out of them that they never been in those shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:48 AM
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The metaphor is proof of women's privilege in dating. A straight man wouldn't have issues with what women complain about, we(in the general sense) would absolutely welcome being pumped and dumped by women, to be seen as a sex object instead of what we can provide, etc.... thats why they have to make the comparison to gay cause otherwise it'll fall on def ears like a rich person telling the homeless person the issues they go thru.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:38 AM
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Its borderline on the same level as telling a man that he'll do better with women when he's older. We don't want to be in a situation like travis hunter where she's only there cause of his status and money, basically what he can provide. And thanks to women online who admitted to using men for food while having sex with others for nothing, dudes are wary of being seen as just husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:28 PM
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No despite the blackpill outcome for some men and potentially society, I rather women have the freedom to do whatever they want than to be forced into a relationship they didn't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:42 PM
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Purple here but irl it's grey. I've reached this point way before the pills went mainstream as i got the red pill from my mom/older coworkers, but i went to the unmentionable pill when I dropped out of high school and stayed online. I started noticing patterns when I joined mental health forums dealing with social disabilities(anxiety mainly) and i noticed those who complained about never having someone was men and women never really were affected in this way or at worst couldn't keep a group of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:29 PM
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The internet opened pandoras box, with the data we are now able to collect and read on human behavior shit that was, imo, purposefully hidden are now being revealed. Either by online stats or idiots who like to say the quiet part out loud alot. Now In terms of dating I was lucky most of the "pill" stuff was told to me from my mom and older people I had in my life so alot of shit tate is saying isn't new. However the way alot of men especially during my time was raised to be blue pilled, which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:28 PM
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Nope the mother is for putting that child and that man in that situation. If still accepts the child that's great, but anything else is enabling women to keep committing fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:52 PM
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Im pointing fingers at the villian if the man decides to leave, as i said if he stays thats great, but if he leaves that's on the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:48 PM
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Now would you tell this to a rape victim carrying the child? You can spin it all you want but it's still a traumatic event and the dudes reaction is the mothers fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:36 PM
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Sounds like emotional blackmail to me. Bet the mother thinks the same way and uses this logic to trap someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:11 PM
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I would say whatever the man's choice is on the mother. If he still accepts the child, then that's great, he just adopted them, but if he left, then it's on the mother for putting him in that traumatic moment and whatever that child feels afterwards. Anything else is emotional blackmail the mother depended on to get away with fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:09 PM
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On the left this is true, women and minorities are allowed to generalize and fear monger based off the demos of those in power. And I think it's coming back to bite them in the ass. I get there's a power difference, but wrong is wrong, if you wouldn't accept generalizations about your group, then don't do it to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:06 PM
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So basically stop complaining and git gud. I do agree however that people stop putting morals on whether or not why one struggles when the experiments show that it doesn't matter what personality or morals you have, status money or looks will trump all of that. Women usually hate the comparison, but its true to its core, dating is capitalism, you have no value, then you are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:25 PM
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It works for average looking dudes/men with autism who struggles with reading the room. Now for those who it doesn't work for thats when the unmentionable pill comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:07 PM
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Eh it's not wrong, tho I wouldnt just limit it to pookies, I would add billy bobs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:46 PM
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As someone who voted for Harris, liberals have to stop with the misandry/racisrlt double standards where women and minorities try to have this double standard where they can generalize and bash men/races for not thinking like you just cause theyre more marginalized. Nobody but simps and masochists will be ok with belonging to the party that bashes them constantly. And looking at the responses after the election the people who need to hear this won't self reflect at all and will continue to lazil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:52 PM
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No that plays a part too. It's ok to say certain fetishes require certain people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:22 AM
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Yeah that's what an incel is, dudes who at worst can't get anything and at best work his way up and land beta relationship with fat single mother. So now you know those dudes exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:37 PM
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Some of men would take anything provided they don't have to get on that self improvement hamster wheel. The problem I tried to highlight isn't the standards, its yall saying those dudes have to level up to get those types which like i said is demotivating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:09 PM
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Men aren't honest when it comes to casual sex I agree, cause only a small percentage of dudes got it like that to be direct and get what they want. But it also seems like women do tell men to basically level up just so they can get the fat single mom or community bike, which is demotivating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:47 PM
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Your right its wrong for high schoolers to go after middle schoolers, but like i said I lived in a area where age gap relationships did not have anyone on high alert so 16 year old dudes going after the 12 year old didn't ring any alarms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:41 PM
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However you want to word it doesn't change the fact that instead choosing their peers they instead got into those high schoolers cars willingly nor is it on the same level of actual kidnap/abused victims. Edit: funny how I didn't mention ages nor did I say those girls saw themselves as being abused, like I said no one batted an eye, nor did the girls complain
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:25 PM
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That's how we see it now, doesn't change the fact that it was allowed back then with no one batting an eye. Those dudes had cars and those girls chose to get in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:08 PM
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Coming from my experiences, it's a mix of older dudes and dudes who were popular. I remember one girl in the 6th grade who developed early having boys from the neighboring high school come over to see her. Its not hard to see that some boys got favored over others. Don't know why some people need to make it seem like dating/sex was/is distributed evenly when thats never been the case
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:01 PM
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I was raised in the south and while i was on video games and internet I remember 12 -13 year olds talked about having "cuddy" buddies and some even got knocked up. There is definitely a regional difference. Stds were an issue when I got to high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:55 PM
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What are these alts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:40 AM
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That would suck, I dropped out of high school cause after middle school I couldn't stand being around a large crowd of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:44 PM
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Outside of enforcing better eating and socializing habits, there's nothing much you can do, as the internet exposed more than just dudes who struggle to find someone it also exposed how alot of dudes are basically incels in their own marriages. That alot of dudes are a divorce away from living the tv dinner lifestyle. That a lot of dudes had to wait until their money increased so they could get a live in prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:38 PM
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I feel sorry for any dude who struggled before internet porn, living like that would be horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:34 PM
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No one, dudes are on their own. The most dudes will get is verbal confirmation that what they're going thru is rough, and even then, those who state it will go thru the fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:26 PM
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I would make a side mission instead of the main mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:22 PM
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One of the biggest pills i was ever told when i was young, was that as you age, most of the women you meet that you have a chance with, will never be completely single. which, in my case, 70% of the opportunities I had either had boyfriends i knew or was/is friends with. "it's not yours, just your turn" comes from a brutally true place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:12 PM
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On a societal scale, your right. But it is valuable for a man to be able to obtain sex otherwise incel wouldn't be an insult. And no calling dudes who get sex incels doesn't work, as it clearly doesn't apply to them it only works on those who fit the actual definition. It's like calling bill gates broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:11 AM
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This why i try to push back on the toxic positivity alot people spew, it's fine to have hope, but not to the point it challenges reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:38 PM
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Honestly as someone who might be demisexual i never understood dudes who dumpster dived, i can't imagine using a girl im not attracted to for that. You guys who can are troopers, thats for sure. I dont struggle but if I did and that was my only option then it would be hookers, weed and video games for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:23 PM
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I rather they vent online then to put themselves in a relationship where it's either them or alone. It's not good for either party, the dude knowing he's not really attracted to her and for her to know that he's only with her cause he couldn't get what he really wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:13 PM
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That's gotta suck for dudes who have hamster wheel for years to just have to lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:03 PM
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Sucks for ugly dudes who don't want to be just a atm machine
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:53 PM
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Dude it's funny how they like to keep the lie going. Not a player, but my basic to shitty selfies didn't stop me from getting matches. A nice pic isn't going to outshine the ugly unless it shows how your net worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:32 PM
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Oh brother, the fake outrage here is insufferable. It is well known that there a great portion men out here that have no standards. The reasons might be due to high sex drive, can't afford to have a filter, truly doesn't give a fuck about looks when it comes to casual sex. i bet men struggling wouldnt be mad to find a woman who literally fucks anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:49 PM
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It along with alot of other leftist movements are in shambles cause they've let the crazies take over. But it's something that's always gonna be needed, especially when it comes to rights that had to be granted by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:59 PM
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Eh for introverted unattractive men you're basically getting the same value without jumping thru hoops. Unless desired on a primal level most dudes are going to have to pay and as someone who has a shitty social battery i rather pay for a guarantee then to gamble on a maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:48 AM
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Nah we just don't care like that. Outside of an elaborate gaming studio, Idc about how my apt looks outside of it being clean and functional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:45 AM
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Personally yeah, not a problem (ho*s welcomed too). As a whole, not as much as they use to be in the past, but still would have less trouble than their male counterpart in losing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:29 AM
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At this point kinda i guess. I dont really want to deal with people too much anymore outside of the internet. Being friends with a player really helped expose relationships and how alot of bluepill talking points is b.s. which left a nasty taste in my mouth for dating. I dont want a harem, a consistent legit FWB is just fine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:37 AM
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Honestly that's been realty, for a lot of men throughout history. Not that many dudes get it completely free, we just cushion it by hiding under dates. Good news is that there's gonna be a lot of women who are going to price themselves out thinking cause she got a certain man to sleep with her means that's her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:09 AM
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I doubt that at worst it'll be a lot of homeless/neets/one off incel crashouts and suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:24 AM
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Its not about effort, I'm just saying trying to get these dudes to forget about women is going to be a herculean task.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:03 AM
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I agree just as long women who think this way understand you won't be the only one. I will say men on the grind should find women they can see themselves growing together instead of settling for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:59 PM
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Nah, despite it's depressing realities I rather date in this age where women choose themselves and not out of desperation or need for a safety net. That's why I don't get some of these dudes who hate escorts cause it's not genuine, but want to roll back rights to force women to date you. Like make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:57 PM
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Well obesity is easier to fight, since there are step by step actions one can take to lose weight, you can't say the same for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:31 PM
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Good for you, but what happened to you doesn't mean it'll happen for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:25 PM
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Stop it i have hobbies and friends, nothing really takes your mind off it. I'm the one who walked this path and understand where these dudes are coming from and advice like this isn't going to help, tbh Idk if anything will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:21 PM
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I wouldn't say occasionally sad, that shit followed me daily until I got lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:16 PM
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Bruh there's a difference between leo losing it and never having it/experiencing it. Please stop this shit is not helping at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:25 PM
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That's last sentence is no different than telling a homeless man to not care about money. And??? Just because someone else is suffering worse doesn't make the personal pain go away. This pseudo stoic b.s. isn't going to work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:32 PM
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Cause rather you like it or not it matters. I've experience both sides, you can't confidence yourself out being repulsive to women, you going to feel it. I'm cool with being escorts for the rest of my life, but it took me experiencing mutual attraction for that dark cloud to dissipate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:29 PM
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I agree dudes shouldn't really care about it unless you get the ones who "matured" and now is looking for a simp to cleanup her mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:20 PM
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That's good. Now how does this help the struggling man who wants to date/have sex? him pretending that everyone else just has shitty taste isn't going make his reality any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:06 PM
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It's no different than women who only get called between 1am and 5 and those who get showered with affection. But then again, mens standards are seen as shallow, and we dont pretend that we're angels in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:03 PM
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This stupid online trend of trying to make relationships obsolete for struggling men is fucking stupid. it's only going to attract asexuals/low libido mfs. This problem isn't going to go away by pretending that struggling men are just brainwashed into wanting sex/relationships. Reality is going to slap them in face everytime they're outside and see couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:55 PM
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you've got gold yet it gets rejected every where, is it still gold?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:44 PM
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It kind of does, or incel or virgin wouldn't be effective insults
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:57 PM
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Im not the biggest fan of it, but i will say that redpill is better suited for autistic men and men who are more analytical than intuitive, as it is the closest advice that's almost a step by step process in getting women. I knew a roommate that used to struggle until he found the redpill. I just don't like the dudes who prey on the anger phase and try to keep those who struggle there. Bluepill is great for neurotypicals and naturals, as it will fall into place naturally or with trial and error,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:09 PM
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Agreed, tho not cause women do it too, but there are people who can't handle blunt rejection like that. Either from being highly sensitive person, entitlement, etc.... It manifests for men as being shamed, bashed, potential proxy violence, and emasculation. for women, it's the same with the added potential immediate physical threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:24 PM
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If they could they would, not everybody is built the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:45 PM
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This is why I'm glad I got lucky with an abnormal sex drive cause I would never do this. I'm not a party person, a crowd person, or a person that wants a huge, robust social life, and that disqualifies me from 90% of the advice given here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:40 PM
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As someone on the left, there's multiple reasons for this imo....1 being that women like her are centrists/moderates who may support others to live they want to, while at the same time may want to live a more "traditional" life. Some of these women are liberal only to fit in the crowd they're in. This is where liberals eat there own comes from. They might put on airs, while still having beliefs that would alienate them from their circle if found out. There was a black twitter tweet(now deleted) …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:34 PM
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As someone who struggled until 30, that shit doesn't go away no matter how many friends I had or hobbies I got. That stop caring is easy to say when you know you got options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:10 PM
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Semantics, you never going to convince social creatures that we don't need that. Monks and priests are a minority with suspicious stereotypes for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:52 PM
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Sex, at this age I'm cool with just having a genuine fwb, i meh about having kids and that forever love is rare so I'm not gambling with marriage/love being forever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:51 PM
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"until men learn to stop basing their lives around female validation" The day that happens is the day I'll start believing women when they say that they don't dress up or wear makeup for men. It is built in us to want them(and vis versa), no matter how many internet gurus spout this b.s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:35 PM
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Just because we can't describe a person's life 100% doesn't mean patterns don't exist. Also we live in a world that caters to the rich and attractive, so those opposite have no choice but to understand what comes with riches and attractiveness since there's is broadcasted and supported in multiple ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:07 AM
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Imagine a rich man telling a poor man this verbatim. What your missing is that both people have their pros and cons, yes, but if people had a choice, they would rather deal with the cons of being a tall person than short. I know it sounds good, but trying to make it seem like everybody's problems is on equal footing I'd laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:52 PM
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For some it's just that they want something to blab about. Being boring is way worse than being dangerous to a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:01 PM
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That's easy to sell to someone who hasn't failed 90+% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:15 PM
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Theres nothing people can do for those who got the short end of the stick when it comes to dating. Can't force women to be attracted no matter what and if you do it won't be genuine. The only potential thing people can do is make it less of a stigma, but that wouldn't work as we're a competitive species and anything you can find to tear someone down, people will use, and unfortunately that's a big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:13 PM
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I notice it whenever they try to deny their privilege in dating by saying having an abundance of options is the equivalent to straight men being hit on by gay men. They know a man with an abundance in heterosexual options would either be happy or be ok with settling with abundance of 5s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:29 AM
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I've mentioned this but bluepillers or people at the top dont want those at the bottom to cry or verbally mention their situation. Just world theory is heavily used on those at the bottom, pull yourself by the bootstraps and stop being lazy if your broke, stop being misogynistic if you can't find anyone, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:48 PM
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Idc if dating is fair or not, but that people lie and say it is. Everyone struggling is a bad person and deserves it. No more trying to spare feelings, by saying stupid platitudes like there's someone for everyone when that is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:02 PM
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Thank you for this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:29 PM
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Theres nothing to blame here. This weird discussion on women having choices/repeal the 19th is going to hurt rp/dudes who struggle. Even if it came with roadblocks, women having the ability to choose will never be wrong as a whole, even if the individual chooses wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:08 PM
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Yeah as a person who grew up in a certain low income environment, I grew up seeing red pill in action blantaly. Hell in the 40 year old virgin Andy was told to mess with hoodrats cause they're easy. Which is true, but only If you're willing to deal with the cons of hood behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:00 AM
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Creepy is not a term a woman can fit, same thing with neckbeard or loser
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:45 PM
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It might be a generalization, but there's a reason why losing a fight in front your girl is a fear for many dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:53 AM
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A genuine FWB will be ok, im not looking for marriage, nor kids and I don't have hangups about side partners as long it's not in my face and she's not choosing unstable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:47 AM
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It's really simple, improve in the areas that hold you back, looks, financial, etc.... now if the traits that hold you back are apart of your true self then you'll have to ask yourself a real hard question.... would you put on mask just to get what you want and risk burnout and being miserable and alone while surrounded by people, or you accept yourself and accept that your a niche that might not have the biggest following and you might not find a compatible partner. I left Vegas with this quest…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:52 PM
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"There’s quite a lot of people in the world. Odds are there is someone for everyone, right now. That’s how I see it" The problem is that it implies everyone is accessible to everyone. Just cause you have billions of people doesn't mean everyone is going to have access to those billions. So adding people you'll never meet doesn't make sense. I agree with the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:42 PM
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Improve what you can and from there decide if the ROI is worth it or not, then either work on the areas that you need to work on or don't and live with giving up or unali*e urself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:28 PM
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That's not going to work, some are going to need incentives, cause otherwise they would have no problem with being a lazy sack of shit. It's similar what chappelle said, if men can fuck in a cardboard box, they wouldn't buy or go after the shit they go after. If the ROI is shitty good luck on inspiring them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:50 PM
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This is stupid, the only way I can see the majority of dudes accepting this is if you segregate them away from women/men who find relationships easy. It's one thing to be alone, it's another to be alone surrounded by people who have what you want. Monks usually live outside of society for a reason. It's easier to abstain or not care about shit when you're not around it. But even then it could fail due to our natural drives to want it. I'm lucky my sex drive isn't normal or I would've killed myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:44 PM
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Cause most of the guys aren't attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:09 PM
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Thank you only online do I see this b.s. being spewed. ROI, especially socially, matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:47 PM
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What I was trying to say it would defeat the purpose if those who struggle go to this community and see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:37 PM
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Let me ask is the community is made up of lonely people or anyone can join, cause what I thought the community was just made up of anyone, including those who don't struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:04 PM
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You can lay off the arm chair psychiatry, I was speaking on my experiences with having friends, hobbies everything people say would fill that hole, but it didn't, especially when all my friends partnered up and I was the odd man out, which just made the pain worse. You can't replace romantic affection no matter how you guys on the internet say it is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:13 AM
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A community is nice until all of them are partnered up then your just reminded in a even more painful way on how odd you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:44 AM
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Eh competition is never going away, not in this world of winners and losers. Especially when there is an imbalance, dudes are going to compete
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:55 AM
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No, it's not. What's weird is people beating around the bush here and claiming a life without romantic/sexual isn't lonely, especially in a world that's surrounded by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:24 AM
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I don't think you can tell me how I felt. Friendships are not equal to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:19 AM
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Not that kind of loneliness. Even with friends and family the pain of lacking in that area did not go away until I had my first relationship at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:15 AM
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There really isn't a solution. That's why we got to stop saying and expecting that there's someone for everyone, cause when the person ends up with short end of the stick not only do they got to deal with the loneliness they also got to deal with the stigma attached to it as well. There's never been a point in history in which everybody partnered up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:13 AM
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Eh it's a mixed bag, I think those who were born that way probably are, while those worked their way up probably are more black/red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:06 AM
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There is no difference in not wanting to be around a constant reminder of a traumatic event. Neither are monsters. Any "coldness" is on the mothers part for putting actions to the same mindset you're displaying right now. If he wants to stay, that's great,I understand, but there is no evil on his part if he wants out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:08 AM
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This is why paternity fraud is evil, women who commit it, think exactly like this, hoping that she can find a sucker to pin a baby on hoping that emotional bond can kill the lies and deceit that might come to light. At the end of the day, whatever the man chooses is on the mother, he's not to blame for any decision he makes and it don't make him any more heartless than a woman who aborts a child produced by rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:29 AM
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And this is emotional blackmail at its finest. Dude loses no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:13 AM
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People will either gaslight or flip and say that this was already known that no one said personality is more important than looks, so it's nice when the truth is laid out in the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:43 AM
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I really doubt self-improvement would bring happiness for a person who's gonna be forever alone. Like yay I get to stay longer on a planet that I'm lonely in, yay i get to stay and watch others who put in less work get way more out of life than I can yay. I feel like this is no different than telling a homeless person that money doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:31 PM
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There is a baseline for all advice, meaning the advice isn't necessarily wrong, It's just dependent on a few factors. But yeah there's also some bad faith actors here who like push the whole " if you're failing, that must mean you're misogynistic a hole" no different than those who push that poor people are just stupid and lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:07 PM
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I mean they're losers regardless, so it really doesn't matter what they do. A person in last place isn't more a winner than someone who realized that their work won't produce the results they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:46 PM
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For some it's just another confirmation that they're ugly, especially if they rarely experience the reverse. Also rsd is a bitch, that shit had me in a chokehold and didn't start to die until I got older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:10 AM
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This is one of the few things I hate about the left, I get the power differences is real and that a woman's hatred won't affect men as a whole compared to man's. But no one likes being shitted on, no matter if it isn't systematic, or can kill directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:39 PM
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If it's the truth and judging by the stats, it isn't far from it. Just because some are able to make it thru doesn't change the fact that it is a social disability. And besides the truth is better than giving false hope and putting these men on a self improvement hamster wheel that leads no where
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:53 PM
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Honestly it depends on how you feel and what you was getting during the bad times. I know I'm the type of person who feels that I can't trust people who wait at the finish line compared to those who ran with you. In my case when I make it, I'm just gonna continue being a hermit, cause I know any woman that shows up now at My age isn't going to like me for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:45 AM
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Eh, in general, no. But I did have older women in my life(mom and a coworker) who red pilled me before red pill was thought of. Taught me to stay away from single mothers, that some women do like dv and are attracted to dangerous men. That feminine men are unattractive. Maybe it's because they was from a generation before a certain wave of feminism hit the culture, but they sounded no different than kevin samuels. Now generation x and after women you got a 3/10 chance of them giving advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:22 PM
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Nah men are atm/pitbulls and women are fleshlights. Humans are selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:04 PM
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I hate to say it buts it's true even for beggars. Growing up seeing relationships where it's clear one or both are in it cause they didn't have any other options was depressing. Cousin who's boyfriend who could only be around her if he was drunk or my brother who married a woman who was ugly inside and out(which he admitted himself, even before the divorce). I know people here want to bring delusional ugly people back to reality but you also got to think of the other person your trying to match …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:32 AM
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Honestly I'm at the age where I don't care, as long as she is doing it willingly. Not everyone is going have the skillet, willpower or looks to be able to date. So if there are women willing to ask for money directly, then who cares. As far as why, women hate trafficking and or competition, and for men, it's a way to show whos better. If more men paid for it and stopped caring about getting it the "right way"(external validation), then sex stops becoming a way that people can look down other's f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:33 AM
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Most people are just trying to shut you up. As someone who is boring, only likes video games and anime, I've had opportunities. Hobbies, self-improvement advice is just a hamster wheel where people can give advice in which the goal is vague enough so that anyone who tries it and still fails gets told they didn't do it the right way or they should've done it for themselves. This attempt to make unsuccessful men not care is hilariously bad, and it's good i only see this bullshit online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:46 AM
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The days of spreading "there's someone for everyone" should stop. Relationships aren't guaranteed for everyone, let alone a stable one. Some people are really going to be shit out of luck in that department, and maybe we as a society should come to terms with that instead of trying to shoehorn toxic positivity as the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:30 PM
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1.BP/RP is right, but I don't think men under the age of 21 need to see this shit. people rather cheat than be in a open relationship, cause they want to see other people while being possessive of their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:59 AM
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My point is that for some, a life without a partner is misery enough. That hole isn't going to be filled by anything else but that. That's the point. Downplaying relationships is one of the stupidest trends I've seen online cause never have I heard this bullshit irl, no one in my life would say this dumb shit to a person struggling like that. It's no wonder RP/BP blew up if this Is the best advice you guys can give.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:52 AM
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And my point is that what your saying is no different than a millionaire telling a homeless person to stop caring about money.I'm not advocating anything, i just understand why those who are doomed to live like that dont want to extend their suffering. I was in that position until i was thirty, I still had a life where I worked out, had hobbies and friends, didn't make those thoughts any less painful nor did it make me see a long living life as a positive. You can downplay it all you want, but r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:43 AM
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This trend of trying to get men to not care about women/sex is hilarious. Cause it will never work, due to various sex drivers and social factors. Plus, why would dudes who hate their situation want to extend it? Yay I'm going to workout and be healthy so I can stay in a world that I'm going to be foreveralone in, yay. I'm no longer in that situation, but damn I understand 100% why those dudes are miserable and why a lot of this advice is no different then a rich person telling a poor person to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:11 AM
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No I felt gaslit when people tried to claim the difference in treatment was due to my confidence levels and self esteem "rising", which was laughably untrue. And what i said wasn't just about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:16 PM
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Not sad about much these days, but its one of those things where I just can't unsee that and look at people the same anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:38 PM
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Yep, lost weight, still was the depressed and anxious guy, yet the opportunities came in, which made me more depressed cause then I realized how people gaslight those at the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:30 AM
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It's better in a environment where you have to be together(work, school, etc...), thats when personality can be an advantage(to a certain point), but cold approaching isn't that much different than apps, it's just we can't gather accurate data on it like we can with apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:40 PM
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True, I tho I question the standards of person(man or woman) if every opportunity they had was "bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:01 PM
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As someone who born in a lower income area, I understand why women flock to violent men even if the violence directed towards them. The world can be a dangerous place for them, so it makes sense that being capable of being violent is a requirement. Now there are women who get turned on by it, and I would avoid those women at all cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:56 PM
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Honestly Idk, I'm lucky in the sense that I occasionally get approached, but that ends up failing cause my social battery is shit. But I did have a friend who could hookup with ease, but couldn't keep a relationship to save his life. But overall if you can't mask, and or have the looks to make women overlook the divergencey you're going to have a hard time. Low key I wish escorts weren't so socially unacceptable, cause that fits perfectly for someone like me, who has a strong sex drive but a wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:45 AM
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Don't get me wrong, what they're asking for is a tall order too, and ultimately I don't know if this problem can be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:39 PM
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The thing is, for some that's going to be an herculean task. Hell when I was in the same position, until my first real opportunity came. For dudes like me, it takes real wins for them to snap out of that level of depression, cause anecdotes, compliments and affirmations are cool until reality smacks them down again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:34 PM
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This idea of making dudes not care about never finding an partner in their lifetime, is a pipedream. And a hilarious one at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:25 PM
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As someone who use to frequent many mental health forums that dealt with social issue(social anxiety, agoraphobia, etc...), the fact that the majority of women still had bf/spouses while alot of the dudes were struggling says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:06 PM
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These compliments are fine for the average dude, but for some it's like that smiths lyric "If you're so funny Then why are you on your own tonight? And if you're so clever Then why are you on your own tonight? If you're so very entertaining Then why are you on your own tonight? If you're so very good-looking Why do you sleep alone tonight?" It just becomes a sick joke after hearing that shit repeatedly, while reality smacks them with the truth on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:59 PM
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This falls apart for men who have been alone for along time, in fact those compliments would eventually become acid to the ears. I think compliments should only come from those who are interested. I mean its like supervisors calling his workers, "boss". I know they mean well, but it irrates the shit out of me knowing that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:12 PM
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Honestly, if theyre recommending escorts, that means they believe that's your best bet in getting what you want. Cause after a certain age it makes no difference between a history of escorts and being a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:56 PM
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The government doesn't want to foot the bill, so somebody gotta to be the daddy. I like some of these emotionally manipulative responses, tho tryin to shame men who wouldnt want to raise a kid that would be a huge reminder of pain the mother 100% caused.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:01 PM
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Sad fact is that evil does prevail, you can do everything right and still lose. People who benefit for something will always gaslight you into thinking everyone of those who are shut out or failed were just evil or lazy. This obviously applies to many things in this life. At a certain point you just have to let it go and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:55 PM
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A lot of the hate is weird cause those dudes are considered losers, so why care if their leaving? More winners for everybody, am i right. I get bashing those who bash american women, but it seems like they want to tarnish any man who thinks changing his demographic might net him better dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:00 PM
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Honestly, as someone who thought like this and is somewhat still BP, as long as she doesn't have anything tying her to her past(kids, crazy exs), let it go.You're only hurting yourself, expecting the worst all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:23 AM
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Idc how much im struggling, i cant use another person like that. That shit is not fair and it contributes to women not wanting to give yall a chance in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:44 AM
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I get overstimulated in crowds and loud music. Even with MDMA i still couldnt stop tensing up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:37 AM
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Yeah, this "self improvement" spill seen online is a hamster wheel for unlucky men to shut up about their dating issues. As someone who struggles who has friends who dont, alot of "advice" thrown in here and other spaces on the internet is just world theory bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:50 PM
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To a certain limit, or autism wouldnt be a disability
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:02 PM
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Never had to do any of that to have opportunities. Those dudes aren't going to do hard work for a minimal chance that's not even guaranteed to work. Especially if theyre around other men who didnt have to do half of that to get laid/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:25 PM
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"You need to "wean" men off of women. First, make them believe that self improvement will get them laid (occasionally it even might!). Then let them internalize the feeling that Self Improvement is actually fun, even if they are not getting results with women just yet. " Good luck with this, most blackpillers already realized the self improvement spill is hamster wheeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:13 AM
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Seeing a family member cry cause her boyfriend couldn't be around her unless he was drunk, or seeing a friend put up with an unattractive woman(inside and out) treating him like shit cause he couldnt be by himself is way worse than be alone. I understand some people might be unreasonable, but i rather push leveling up than to encourage people wouldnt be attracted to each other to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:27 AM
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It depends on her shape, as there are women who wear the extra weight very well to a point. But anything past 280 is pushing it. Plus as a former fatty i understand the struggle so i dont judge as harshly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:53 PM
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No, cause even if i had a "legitimate" reason, men cant complain themselves into relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:20 PM
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The loneliness is there, but it isnt as terrible as the feeling i get when i socialize. Plus i dont think im cut out to be in a normal relationship due to my shitty social battery
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:03 AM
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For some, that boring antisocial lump is fulfilling enough. Personally, i find playing the social game draining. Shifting through people just to find one you can be around isnt something i find fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:10 AM
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