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| 9 | How did they awake this superpower ?Lol. I realize it's rhetoric but like others feel "seen" and "targeted." All of us uniquely have "the same story" with minor differences. It's really effing frustrating. I know that a large amount of my pain is internalization that I shouldn't be doing. Like seriously masochistically brutal because I should have been able to fix this even though it is truly 100% not me or even really about me. I'd say "but" or "well.."; however it doesn't matter. This is the new reality. As long as I protect mys… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/23 10:49 AM |
| 1 | It just happenedYou are going to be in more than the verge. And it's okay. It's okay. You can feel the sadness. You can mourn this. I am getting out of a 14 year marriage. I feel blindsided and radioactive. Ironically before this all started to go down I was wondering if there was something wrong with me for not being able to really cry. Now I cry like every other day. Just don't dwell or fixate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/23 03:56 AM |
| 3 | 14 years wasted and confused14 years. Two kids. She gave up. Doesn't want to work on it. Gave up. Not 1:1, but I get it. I don't agree exactly with what has been said here and how to do it, but I'm not going to say they are wrong. Shit gets real. Talk is nice. The past is nice. That was then. This is now. Protect yourself. Protect your daughter. Be civil. Be kind. But you don't have to be niiiiice. I got the "would you be willing to help a friend?" You ain't my friend woman. An enemy is kinder. Her mom asked if I could sup… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/23 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Divorce is just brutal.I'm scared because of the possible disconnect between words and actions. Maybe it's not fair to say it this way. But given how we were a couple, married, doing stuff and how she gets to decide she's given up, and all of these consequences; she doesn't understand how I can be afraid that she'll go punitive or why I'm afraid she'll deny me access to the kids. She says she doesn't want to do that. So why don't I believe her? Maybe because she lied. She doesn't see it that way. But she gave up month… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/23 10:13 AM |
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