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| 0 | How will we convince the next generation to have kids, even though almost none of us want to have any?I mean either the dating stand off will resolve, or it won't... And the latter will not be pretty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?Women choose which men get to have sex, and this shapes male behavior. Turns out, women talk a lot of BS about what turns them on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Positive masculinity is a scam.I don't hold this double standard. I think that both men and women need to grow up and accept that we have duties to one another. The problem is that with the mess we've co-created, it's a prisoner's dilemma to escape. It's better for everyone if we all do what we should, but if one side starts doing it and the other doesn't, then there's significant cost and penalty to those who go out on that limb. Men who pay for dates or risk themselves to save women, or whatever other examples you like, whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Positive masculinity is a scam.When people talk about "we need to do X to fix our problems!" like this, there's no consideration of how it would work or happen. Do you not understand that gender roles arose naturally from biological constraints and incentives? The advocacy for returning to gender roles is because fighting our nature is making us all depressed and depriving us of the opportunity to experience many of life's greatest joys. It actually isn't that rigid to say that you should "act like a man". For pretty much all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Why do men complain about women choosing assholes but simultaneously shame men who are simps and treat women with kindness?It's so frustrating, because it undermines red pill. If someone finds out you're red pill, they'll just assume you think women are all trash and have a hate boner for them. The crazy thing is, we just got a new data drop from the New Statesman showing that 72% of men have a positive view of women, while only about 30% of young women have a positive view of men. If we're going to be concerned about intergender hate, it's kind of telling where the priority is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do men complain about women choosing assholes but simultaneously shame men who are simps and treat women with kindness?I really think so many people do not understand what simping is. Simping is supplication, it is giving attention and benefits without any reciprocation, to the point of contributing to hoeflation. The most typical example of this is paying for OF. A more subtle one is undying loyalty to a woman that doesn't even care much about you. Doting on your loving wife, or helping your mother with house work are definitely kindness, but they are not simping. Continuing to give attention to your crush afte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 09:39 PM |
| 2 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameIt's so funny how women are constantly complaining about aloofness in men, yet it works so well for so many men. If it didn't work, it wouldn't be nearly so common! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 10:47 PM |
| 5 | There is no moral failure in not wanting to sleep with whatever percentage of men.15% of men are 6' and taller. Are you unaware of how hard it is for sub-6' men to date? I'm not even short and I know the struggle. I've known men who are in great shape, are good conversationalists, nice dudes, that had an even harder time than I have, without being as in shape or good at meeting new people. Data from dating apps also supports this conclusion. Might I suggest plugging in expectations into https://igotstandardsbro.com/ ? Another one is that 40% of americans are obese, and 80% ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:48 PM |
| 0 | There is no moral failure in not wanting to sleep with whatever percentage of men.Well there is still somewhat of a difference... Men generally will be happy with women that are just excited to be doing it, not treating it as a chore or inconvenience. Women frequently are so particular with what they need that they can't even really explain what it is, and get annoyed that men don't just know what it is. With growing experience, I am coming to the personal conclusion that that isn't actually typical though, that's just the loudest complainers. I have had female friends who sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:38 PM |
| 4 | There is no moral failure in not wanting to sleep with whatever percentage of men.If you call doing what women actually respond to "deception"... This is much of the red pill, that women say they want one thing, but actually respond well to different things. Like women saying they want to feel safe, but Ted Bundy gets endless fan mail, and CNC is one of the most common kinks. What they tend to actually respond to is like... a rollercoaster. To feel danger, but also to be "in control". But boys and young men hear "I want to feel safe" and think that women want a soft teddy bea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:32 PM |
| 1 | There is no moral failure in not wanting to sleep with whatever percentage of men.You're absolutely right. The part that you're missing is that a growing pattern of doing only what serves oneself, satisfying one's own pleasures, tends to be the end of a society. We all have lives to live, does that mean it's just fine for parents to abandon their children? That people shouldn't bother with volunteering at a soup kitchen because it's work without pay? We're not arguing that men are *entitled* to sex/family, just that people probably won't like what happens when men have incent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyThe roof over the head, all utilities paid, all food and trips paid for, and the opportunity to have a family, etc, *is* the payment. It's not like they're slaves or indentured servants, they are doing this as part of a team with (supposed to be) the love of their lives. Yet redpillers are the ones accused of having a transactional perspective... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:03 PM |
| 13 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyIndeed. It is a cooperative act, not some carrot/stick situation. If there's decreasing cooperation, society falls apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:01 PM |
| 26 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyYou really think that 68% of men just didn't even want to have families? This whole antinatalism attitude is a rather novel thing, you can't seriously know much at all about history to have this attitude about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyLegalizing sex work only pours gas on the fire, like instituting UBI because inflation is out of control. The core problem is people viewing intimacy as insignificant, not sacred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyYes it is. Someone seems to have forgotten the biological imperative, that the only thing that perpetuates the existence of genetics is reproduction, and so the things that facilitate reproduction are selected for. This is why every long standing dominant religions has tenets that centered around having kids and indoctrinating them. They literally outbred their competition. This is true for women too, btw, the problem is so many being so selfish that they're not even acting to try and perpetuate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 06:53 PM |
| 5 | It’s not creepy for men to want to sleep with or date their friendsThis right here is key to how we are so messed up now. It's now *conventional* for people to try to date as complete strangers. But I think this shift happened in tandem with online dating becoming normal, and enough instances of men being rejected by a friend they get along super well with, and it's ruined the nature of the friendship. The gals think they can find someone better on the big wide internet, and the guys have learned from these experiences that it's a bad idea to pursue a friend, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 08:28 PM |
| 0 | The 50/50 model is a bad deal for women. It's just a roommate situation with sex, and it becomes outright exploitative if you have kids.50/50 can be interpreted to mean everything is split "down the middle". But it's almost impossible to ensure perfect division, and it's much less efficient than task specialization, which is a concept that is bedrock to society as a whole. If everyone has to grow their own food, then they have less time to do anything else like say train in a trade, build houses, do research, whatever. Just the same, if both people are working, then both are tired at the end of the day, and both still have to ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 07:52 PM |
| – | Let’s Be Honest: Men Can Be ‘Hoes’ and Still Get Respect Women Can’tMen *can* get respect for being hoes *because it's hard for most men*. That doesn't mean that there isn't disgust. Like, if someone won the world record for dog feces eaten in a minute, that would certainly be impressive and difficult to achieve, but still disgusting. And being a chad leaves a wake of baggage laden women behind, pissing in the dating pool. The real issue is that women treat virgin men as hot potatoes, using body count as part of social preselection. That, if he was able to get a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 07:28 PM |
| 9 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.The "either gender" thing only matters because it's simply easier to get sex with men, so the barrier to cheating is lowered. For men dating women, it really doesn't matter if she's bi or straight as far as that goes. Besides, the desire to cheat is all that really matters, not whether it actually happens. Straight women "figure out they're gay" as you say all the time, sometimes even after marriage and kids, and just nuke the family over it. I really don't think that avoiding bi people mitigate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.Sounds more like a red pill feminist than a blue pill... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: when was the last time you were too intimidated by a woman's beauty to approach?Not since I was a kid. The reason I don't usually approach in public is because cold approach is very unlikely to be successful, and is just not worth the trouble. There needs to be an excuse of some kind for the approach, or it just won't be received well. Women used to understand this better, the need to create an excuse if they want an approach, and this was even before the dating scene became so frigid and toxic. A la handkerchief drop. I like to believe that a gal being pretty doesn't mean … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4E: Is the OKcupid data about the 80/20 rule what caused all the dating discourse/gender war ?Are you sure you're Blue Pill? The idea that the apps aren't just a convenient way to meet people, but rather a way to keep us divided and sad and angry is pretty red pill... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Q4E: Is the OKcupid data about the 80/20 rule what caused all the dating discourse/gender war ?Not profitability, it's just hard to get women to go on the apps. Single women just aren't that concerned about dating, 2/3 aren't even trying to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 09:09 PM |
| – | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsAbusers are definitionally not forever alone. If they were, who would they abuse? It's kind of like how the people we see in politics or executive boards are much more likely to have dark triad traits, but most people who have dark triad traits aren't successful because they don't mesh well with people. This is the source of much of the confusion with the red pill and critics of it. Women claim that they're just better at choosing now, yet the fraction of relationships that are abusive only seem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 05:48 PM |
| 2 | The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandryYet many will argue that it *isn't* a big issue that we have so many single mothers. A solid relationship between daughter and father prevents daughter from trying to fill the hole with strange male validation that she couldn't get from her father, and the easiest way to get that validation is to open them legs. A good father will also try to protect his daughter from high risk situations, and deter bad boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 08:20 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandryIs this a claim that women cannot distinguish between having sex with and without commitment? The shame is for desire to get a train ran, to be the village bicycle, to hook up with the hottest man possible, regardless of whether he would even consider offering commitment... I would imagine only someone with a dim view of women would think that that is the extent of female desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 08:17 PM |
| 2 | The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandryWell it turns out that, when the easiest way for men to get sex is outside of commitment, men who don't care for commitment get selected for. Young men try particularly hard on average to figure out what women want, and try to respond to that. Many women will claim this must not be true, because they *say* that they want x and y, but the problem is that the men who are having success are doing z. The problem is that without any rules, people degenerate into a hedonistic backstabbing mess, with b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 07:28 PM |
| – | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?The problem with this is that "likable, socially aware, and outgoing" is very much what players are. I don't know if women seem to think that players are like assholes up front, but if they were, they wouldn't be getting any action. This kind of thing is often precisely why I say that women **think** that they're selecting based on good morals, but inadvertently are selecting for dark triad/player traits. There wouldn't be endless women out here who have been traumatized by these men if they wer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:07 PM |
| 7 | Women lose attraction to their partners due to familiarity faster than men to theirs due to aging.Yeah this thing is false. People say it, doesn't mean it's true. History is full of examples, as well as modern times, of women hoeing. The reality is that if women are shared by men, harem style, then you have a lot of sexually frustrated men that are denied their biological imperative. And that usually doesn't end too well when it goes far enough. Plus, the women that are being shared by that minority of men are not getting nearly as much protection and care as they would if they each had a ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 10:25 PM |
| 8 | There is no such thing as "platonic cuddling" between a straight guy and a womanThis is in line with how any time men say they'd like to cuddle or that they enjoy cuddling, women just assume it means sex. It's projection. I very much enjoy sex, but cuddling is nice too, and when I say cuddle I mean it. Projection, man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 10:01 PM |
| 10 | There is no such thing as "platonic cuddling" between a straight guy and a womanWho said anything about it being weird? Making out is a sexual act. That doesn't make it weird or bad. It's doing that with dozens of strangers you just met that's weird and bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 09:59 PM |
| 7 | There is no such thing as "platonic cuddling" between a straight guy and a womanYet people adamantly claim "women like sex just as much as men do" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I think women don’t lower our standards because we are expected to act like we didn’t. Thoughts?The *constant* confusion over this comes from the fact that standards aren't a linear spectrum, just like politics. Standards can be completely insane, like demanding hot and high status, but it's ok if he's a bit toxic, because that makes it spicy and "fun". Or they can be expecting a multimillionaire mid-twenties guy to take them, when they're obese. On the other hand, high standards can be expecting a man to have integrity, be a man of his word, be there for you when you need him, etc etc. Re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 09:39 PM |
| 0 | Misogyny Will Have To Be Eradicated To Stop MisandryBoth will always exist. People seem to refuse to accept that there will always be hate, scarcity and strife, and so if you want to have a better time, you have to make whatever your system is resilient to reality. We currently operate on mostly hedonist morality, and so we are led by people who are able to strike the feels of the most people, the most strongly. Whomever can offer the greatest ability to do whatever you want at the expense of others. The reason the patriarchy is a thing is becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism?Here's the issue. People are humans. It is always going to be easier and more peaceful to be alone, because everyone has tough times, it's not all unicorn farts and roses even in the best relationships. You're right, it shouldn't be a chore, but solitude can be hard to beat if you just listen to feels. It is an adult thing to recognize that having a teammate in life is probably better for you than being alone just because you don't like dealing with icky flawed human. So many adults are just chi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about itI've had women tell me that even they think that getting them to finish is like solving a rubik's cube | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 09:12 PM |
| 3 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?I've personally encountered marriage crazed women (as in, they were constantly pressuring bf to propose) who were peri or postmenopausal. Maybe you're right that almost all have that reason, but of the people I've encountered, the decent women who wanted a family didn't have to beg. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 09:00 PM |
| 8 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?It's too bad that marriage got bastardized into what it is now, because divorce is so likely, and the treatment of men is so typically unfair... makes it a lot harder to convince men to take the deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 08:58 PM |
| 1 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?You say you're bluepill, but you're arguing that women completely lose their heads because of a party that they're excited for, as if they're incapable of thinking rationally when it comes to something so seriously consequential in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 08:56 PM |
| – | If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage?It's not doom and gloom, it's just the reality that there's a lot of entitled gassed up women these days. That doesn't mean that there are not gems out there, but a small number of gems is not enough for most of us to find one. Doesn't mean that you shouldn't try, but you have to do it for the enjoyment of the journey, and not bet the farm on it. *That* is the red pill, that no one is entitled to a fairy tale ending, or that white picket fence with wife and kids, and that a *lot* of men never wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 06:40 PM |
| – | If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage?"Hitting the wall" is something that single women, or women unhappy in their relationships experience. You don't need to attract a new man if you're not in one of these cases. If you get with a good man in your peak years, he will always see that in you, and you will have given him your youth, rather than to a bunch of assholes. The concept is about how women will waste their prime years on bad men and cheap thrills, and then expect the good men to be happy with "leftovers" when the bad men have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 06:34 PM |
| 8 | Men are discouraged from approaching women they don’t know as well as discouraged from asking out women they do know.The heart of the modern dating crisis. What women tell men to do doesn't work, because the things that they say they want are chosen to make them seem better than they are, or they're just not reflecting on what they actually respond to that much. And so men either get good RNG early on, get good at figuring out what women actually respond to, and become players, or give up and become loners. And this will only make women themselves further disillusioned with dating as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsEvery age gap relationship is a woman picking an older man over anyone her age, just as much is the case with the man. The issue is that men valuing youth has been determined to be disgusting, while women valuing older men for... Well we're not even supposed to be focusing on that part of the equation, focus on man bad! DiCaprio dating under 25 is not pedophilic. These are grown ass women that can get into a lifetime of debt, vote, join the military, buy guns, cigarettes, get married, and drink … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 04:25 AM |
| 0 | Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction?No. Unless you think what wild animals do counts as the same thing, as many species also form hierarchies and fight for mating access and territory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 02:30 AM |
| 0 | Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction?Because we are not ants. Making decisions communally is much slower, and typically leaves minorities fucked over. Whereas if the most liked and levelheaded guy in the bunch makes the decision that's the final word, no fighting and squabbling, and it's more likely that minorities will be treated fairly (absolutely no guarantee on that though, but there never is). And if the leader is doing a shit job, mutiny or worse is a threat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction?Well the confusion is because controlling people is at the opposite end of the spectrum from being controlled by others. Here "assertive" is just the middle of that spectrum, neither controlled nor controlling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 02:26 AM |
| – | High value virgin women dont wan't sexually unsuccessful menThe sad thing is how many women so many of us men have met that don't put values and how good of a father a man would be before instant mindblowing attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 05:49 PM |
| – | Men try to solve the problem, women try to avoid blameI have literally explained how men raised by single mothers are 20x more likely to commit violent crime, and 4/5 rapists were raised by single mothers, and how school shootings were not even a thing until the late 90s, as the children of the sexual revolution were growing up... And the response is "SO YOU'RE BLAMING ALL THIS ON WOMEN, HUH?". Or when I ask feminists about what we should do about this crisis, they react "OH SO YOU THINK BEING A SINGLE MOTHER IS BAD, HUH?" Like, yeah, it's not fun … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.Women still give consistently worse advice, even than Tate, and he's an idiot asshole who exploited women. "Oh just compliment her" yeah, like every other guy that tries to talk to her, to the point that women literally get annoyed by compliments and take them for granted. Especially from a stranger with no rapport, and no knowledge of her to make a compliment that isn't shallow. Yes, surely that will win her over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.You won't get sued or police called on you just for approaching women. That's catastrophizing, or cope. The other reason is that women have been extremely loud about not wanting to be approached in public. Not all women, but how are you supposed to know which is which? And if you care about respecting women's wishes, and not wanting to make them feel unsafe, are you listening to the ones that tell men to stop, or the ones that tell men to please still approach (and then let slip that they just w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.Actually, private GA aviation has a higher fatality rate per hour flown per person than driving cars do. It's commercial aviation that's dramatically safer, and part of that is indeed how the people doing it fly constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:34 PM |
| 4 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.It wasn't just then, frustrated young men are *still* called incels, with all the attached venomous connotation that comes with it now, even if they don't lash out or act toxically in response to their frustration. Men are *still* shamed for being virgins, even if it's a choice. The pattern of men seeing how society and women treat and view us has only been growing, and it's been crazy to see how unaware so many people are of it. Heck, it's a contributor to how Harris lost, and now the d party i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:31 PM |
| 8 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.100%. I learned a long time ago to get over rejection, but I care about making people unsafe, and women have spoken very loudly on this issue, that it makes many if not most of them feel unsafe to be approached. So, are we supposed to just ignore that? Ironically, this ends up filtering for men who don't care about women's feeling of safety, which further sours women's view of men, because the men who aren't approaching anymore are the decent ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsA lot of people will take what they can get. Women aging out tend to settle for men that they're not that attracted to, because they seem nice. Men believe that these women who said yes to marriage actually love them. However, younger women often crazily prefer men who have options and status. Men with options are more likely to cheat, and criminals have status of a kind. But eventually many of these women tire of getting treated shittily, and get with a decent man even though it's boring. And a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 03:03 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sAh yes, since the assholes running things have similar genitals as me, that means that I cannot be oppressed by them! And feminists still claim to advocate for men too... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 01:31 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sI have heard at least in Germany, MGM is illegal as well. I have heard the occasional feminist say they think MGM is bad, but it's *never* something included in activism, despite many feminists claiming to be advocates for everyone, not just women. It's something that only benefits males, so even if there is some concern, it's just not a priority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Love Isn’t a Transaction—It’s a TransformationThe redpill asserts that you cannot demand anything, you cannot own. One of the most common phrases is "She's not yours, it's just your turn"... Precisely expressing that there is nothing you can do to make someone loyal to you, and that you need to let go of that idea, and that any relationship carries risk of betrayal/infidelity. So either suck it up and accept the risk, or MGTOW. This is redpill because the conventional narrative of "happily ever after", and the legitimacy of the vow "til dea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Love Isn’t a Transaction—It’s a TransformationOr a lack of awareness of the blue pill. Remember, the offering of pills is "You take the blue pill, the story ends; you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill, you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 07:15 PM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsIt's more normal than ever for bills to be split, for both partners to work (or man stays home), for hoe behavior to be accepted, and for chivalry to be dead. "women don't owe men shit" -> "no one owes anyone anything". Gender roles are in large part about what men and women are supposed to do in relation with each other, that is, what they "owe" the other side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 06:06 PM |
| 2 | What makes a man a bad manThis is a lot of the point of the red pill... that being a good man isn't what gets women. There's a whole laundry list of things, but at the end of the day, it comes down to how you make her feel, crucially if you make her feel the butterflies, the "chemistry". And at a deeper level, some bad men get women outright addicted to them, where being with him sucks, but sometimes it doesn't, and quitting/leaving is somehow worse. People don't get addicted because they rationally decide they want to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 02:33 AM |
| 3 | What makes a man a bad manWell, not sure that one can reasonably say a good man is unfaithful, selfish, sexist, or cruel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Serious question: what are the downsides of marriage?You can pool resources and build a life together without marriage. And I don't know anyone that fears marriage itself, it really is the divorce issue. Clearly it's not true that a third of men are abusive assholes, so a whole lot of women are leaving because marriage is hard, not because of abuse or similar. Skydiving is fun until you pull the drawstring and nothing happens. Being sold on going skydiving is all nice and well until you find out that a third of the time, nothing happens. And it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 01:44 AM |
| 4 | Befriending women will not make a differenceBefriending women is only a multiplier. If you're not attractive to women to begin with, making friends with women won't matter. But if you're "the talk of the town", it will make a huge difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:59 AM |
| 4 | Befriending women will not make a differenceI can't speak for him. But my sister is in the corporate world and she has told me about how careful I have to be because she's seen men she knows be slapped with false allegations. And a common way for men to get burned is to get bailed on for "chad". I've had this happen, where a woman asked for a second date with me, and then on the day of canceled because she made plans with another guy. That is a small example, but 100 of those little things will eventually make you feel a certain type of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Befriending women will not make a differenceThis is something I wish people outside this space would realize. People aren't getting redpilled by some pipeline, they're getting redpilled by having these experiences, and then the only people who will listen to them and explain to them are people in some niche community. It should be parents and such that are telling kids about how to navigate the dating world as they come of age. After all, the parents figured it out, so they must know something about how dating works. But the blue pill per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesThink about what had to have gone wrong here. Either no one in this woman's life told her this was a bad idea, or people did and she ignored it. Either way, pretty sad state of things how often this kind of violence happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesThe only solution ultimately *is* men keep women safe. That does not have to mean controlling women. But it certainly isn't a good thing for women that good men don't feel it's good or worth it to do or say something to possibly save a woman from getting harmed. Men are stronger and faster than women, generally speaking. So they are both the greatest threat and greatest protectors of women. We can work towards a future where men don't control women, but women also accept good men's help dealing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:36 AM |
| 2 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesBased. He finally caught his big break, and I guess he figured he was never going to make it to mainstream, he's maxing out what gets him attention and views from crazy people, because that's what brings in the dough. It's sad though, to see him go off the rails like this. Just adds evidence for people to claim that redpill is inherently misogynistic when it attracts so many misogynists and so many creators at least eventually appeal to that crowd. It actively sabotages the needed (esp for young… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:28 AM |
| 2 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spaceshoe_math has also been rapidly growing in popularity, but with this kind of nasty aggressive commentary, he's doomed himself to being stunted. Even if you legitimately believed that arranged marriage was the solution, this is not how you win people over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:20 AM |
| 1 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesWhether you support abortion or don't, if you're being objective, you had to have known that RvW wasn't going to last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:16 AM |
| -1 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesThis is a huge reason that arranged marriage is a horrible idea. But what I see is that if *something* doesn't happen to fix the degeneration of society, and in this context, dating culture, it's going to get really bad, ugly, and violent. I don't want arranged marriage, and letting this problem continue to build til a breaking point is how you get arranged marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:12 AM |
| 1 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesYou assume that only "unattractive, socially stunted losers" are redpill. A lot of men get redpilled because they finally hit the gym or go to a frat party or just have enough experience with women to get the picture that women aren't just "sugar, spice, everything nice" and are people that are just as flawed as men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:10 AM |
| 3 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesIt's sad for me to see hoe_math crashing out like this, because he's made a lot of good explainers and self improvement advice on youtube, but I can't be promoting someone who is dehumanizing a dead woman like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:07 AM |
| 0 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesFrankly it's been good to see those people fall by the wayside, because the degenerate plate spinner behavior is not good for anyone, hoe behavior is harmful regardless of gender, and we really need to get to the part where we discuss what kind of new social rules we should be promoting for people to follow, because this whole "no rules" thing is killing people, and the people it doesn't kill, it's seriously damaging mental health and life outcomes. Arranged marriage is not a good answer though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesI haven't heard anyone around me use the term women's intuition, but it is ridiculous that it still exists even a little bit. *Mother's* intuition is for sure a thing. But we have so so much evidence now of women getting involved with clearly bad men, being told to not do it, and then paying the price for it. And oftentimes, that price is pretty fucking horrible. No decent person wants women to experience violence like this woman did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesUgh, when creators like hoe_math crash out like this, it means that they can no longer be recommended to people. His youtube vids are great, but you cannot be defending and making light of the murder of someone like this, and slinging around insults in that way. The fallacy fallacy is at play though. Someone making an argument for something in a shitty way does not mean that that something is partially or entirely false. It seems pretty clear that fatherless behavior is becoming a really big pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 11:58 PM |
| 9 | It's not mysogynist for guys to tell their gf not to wear revealing clothes or not being comfortable with her going to clubs with her girlfriends.It's a choice to get drunk, and let's be real, by the time you're dating and insisting on still going out clubbing, you know how alcohol affects you. All alcohol does is remove inhibition, it does not "influence behavior", it reveals desires. Idk about you, but I could be black out drunk and not rape someone. Because that's not something I would ever want to do, or think is ok. So removing inhibition makes no difference. And yes, I have plenty of experience getting very drunk in various environm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 09:18 PM |
| 3 | It's not mysogynist for guys to tell their gf not to wear revealing clothes or not being comfortable with her going to clubs with her girlfriends.Well then you see what happened with Jonah Hill. He realized the kind of woman she was, didn't cave with his boundary, and left. And he got criticized just the same. You can't always know, and telling men in general to only date women with no social media or anything like that is just not realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 09:11 PM |
| 5 | The biggest issue in gender is simply that men die faster single.I also think men are worse at developing social/support networks, and as for the divorced men, being married significantly reduces the pressure to do so. Lacking a support network is a significant risk factor for suicide, so this tracks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 09:09 PM |
| – | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationWhile you're right about this, I still think that women often get "porn brain" like men can, but with novels and movies, or making an amalgam of all the things they liked best in their past partners, making it impossible to match up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?It's always easier to criticize "the other side", and men and women have been driven to believe that the opposite sex is an enemy of some sort. Wonder where that idea came from... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 04:49 AM |
| 0 | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.I would say from my experience is that when there has been an issue, it's been because of "alpha widowing". That is, she's had her mind blown by someone(s) in the past, and it's impossible to perfectly replicate that experience for her. Most of the time it's been no problem to get her to finish though. It's kind of like how men commonly get messed up by porn, except with one night stands or flings instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 04:14 AM |
| 2 | In a world where you could easily have casual sex with women, would you still prefer to marry/LTR/commit to a “low n” woman?Yes. This has been the most frustrating thing to me about modern dating. Right from the start I wanted to look for the kind of woman that would be nice to have a family with some day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 04:07 AM |
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