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| 377 | 64% of men 'believe women should contribute to the date' but 76% 'feel guilty taking women's money'. Make it make sense 🤡 | DISCUSSION | Delirious_Duchess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:44 PM |
| 269 | Have any of you experienced worse street harassment since lockdown? | DISCUSSION | Delirious_Duchess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:38 PM |
| 153 | Is it just me or are many men disgusted by women's bodies? | DISCUSSION | Delirious_Duchess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:44 PM |
| 121 | Potentially OT; has anyone else had an influx of trolls in their inbox? | DISCUSSION | Delirious_Duchess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | 22,000 women were asked if they had ever woken to their male partner having sex with them, 51% said yes | MALE DEPRAVITY | Delirious_Duchess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 11:01 PM |
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| 20 | She's a 35 year old mom, he's 58 grandp..dadJ0hn Stam0s (since it was censored in OP's post I disguised the name just in case). I've heard so many girls go on about how well he's aged and how he "literally looks the same!!" like.... no he don't lol he looks old and he looks even older next his daughter-wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:48 PM |
| 23 | Beijing is doing everything to pressure it’s female citizens to have more children, except actually making it materially easier to be a mom. There’s already a gender imbalance and a soon to be crisis in elder care. Chinese Women are telling them to get bent. 😆That documentary made me cry so much. I remember that woman talking about how she killed her baby by feeding it bleach and she had this horrible smile on her face. I don't even know if the mothers are mentally stable after that. I know a lot of them genuinely think baby girls are worthless, but what must it take to kill your own children time and time again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:44 PM |
| 17 | Yes, all women. But, of course, NoT aLl MeN. Stay safe out there, sisters.I'm really sorry you experienced that, I hope you're managing as well as possible and are in a safe place now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:41 PM |
| 2 | You don't need that weird gaze anyway 🤡💩✌️💋I hate this godforsaken movie and all the idealisation and worship around it (especially by scrotes) SO. MUCH. So many people romanticise the characters even though they're awful and the movie doesn't exactly help by glamorising all the depravity to the extreme, and not even in a satirical way On a purely technical note it's not even one of Scorsese's top 10 best honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:27 PM |
| 43 | This is just like men including ugly ones like in this clip to be so pickyI still can't believe they tried to convince us that a fat Gwyneth Paltrow wasn't good enough for Jack Black like... c'mon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:22 PM |
| 3 | "Why won't women date me? I'm a NICE guy!""haha yeah bro she was begging me to be her boyfriend but I'm not a simp so I said I'd think about it because there's still so much pussy for me out there" reality: he asked her for sex and she said she wanted to wait until she knew him better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 54 | 64% of men 'believe women should contribute to the date' but 76% 'feel guilty taking women's money'. Make it make sense 🤡They know it's not right/fair but I don't know if most men are even aware enough to recognise it as guilt and accept that it's wrong and why. That's why so many become resentful towards their pickme girlfriends who pays half on everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:35 PM |
| 269 | 64% of men 'believe women should contribute to the date' but 76% 'feel guilty taking women's money'. Make it make sense 🤡Yep, I've basically taken myself out and unfortunately there is also an annoying man there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:24 PM |
| 118 | 64% of men 'believe women should contribute to the date' but 76% 'feel guilty taking women's money'. Make it make sense 🤡Some comic posted on Vox about finances in relationships, TLDR: comMunICatION The title from comes from a quote in the comic from a 2015 study, but I couldn't find a source for it? Over half of men are having an absolute joke if they think I'm going to pay to take myself on a date whilst enduring the company of man who 1. might be a legitimate threat to my wellbeing 2. most likely makes more money than me 3. did not spend even a quarter of what I did to prepare for our 'date' (clothes, cosmetics… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:49 PM |
| 131 | Louis Jourdan - French heartthrob who married his childhood sweetheart; they stayed together till her death in 2014He also choose to use his mother's maiden name (he was born Louis Gendre). At 19 he was forced into an labour work gang by the Nazis, he refused to star in any German propaganda films and fled Paris, and his father was arrested by the Gestapo. He joined the French Resistance where he worked until France's liberation. All this all he went on to have a successful career, two stars on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, a happy marriage, and died at the age of 93. We love to see it 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 08:26 PM |
| 55 | THE LOWEST VALUE MEN ON TELEVISIONRoss from Friends. I could write an essay on this but you already know he sucks. I think Joey could count too, even though he had his decent moments in helping Rachel and Phoebe when they were pregnant, he treats all other women like trash. Barney from How I Met Your Mother. I hated that stupid playbook thing, it was essentially him lying and tricking women into sleeping with him, and of course all the women were super gorgeous but also idiots that couldn't tell he was lying no matter how ridicu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 02:17 AM |
| 17 | Men pretend they're clueless and incompetent to avoid being self-sufficient and accountable. This is how women end up doing most of the house work. The "mental load" of organizing and managing falls to the women. Link in comments for more about the invisible labour of "mental load".I like (and by that I mean I hate) how the implication is "because women are cRaAaZzYy and irrational about paint!!" and not "because men have terrible taste." Have you seen how most men decorate? They probably wouldn't paint the walls at all, even if they were cracked or peeling. The more ~visual~ gender my arse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:04 PM |
| 68 | HOW THE HELL HAS NO-ONE POSTED KEANU YET? Seems like a dope af person, too.Keanu does genuinely seem like a sweetheart, very humble, considerate, and intelligent, I've heard nothing but good things about him. He's been through some really horrible stuff with both his girlfriend and baby girl dying. I'm glad he seems to have found happiness now. Also young Keanu was absolutely gorgeous, he's 90% of the reason I rewatch Much Ado About Nothing (young Denzel is the other 10%) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 23 | HOW THE HELL HAS NO-ONE POSTED KEANU YET? Seems like a dope af person, too.Yeah a lot I've guys I've seen idolise him because of John Wick and it's like... you know that's not actually who he is irl right? I feel like that definitely moved him up in men's eyes compared to when he was doing 'fluffier' stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:11 AM |
| 75 | Is it just me or are many men disgusted by women's bodies?That's so true!! Pheromones are a proven natural aphrodisiac, you have to wonder if blaming women for the way they 'smell' isn't just projection for some men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:32 PM |
| 89 | Is it just me or are many men disgusted by women's bodies?The way men can't even handle hearing about after-labour trauma/care is baffling to me. Like sir, your wife has just endured that or is currently dealing with it for the sake of your child, and you can't even handle hearing about it?? You should be falling over yourself to listen, support, and understand her. The sTRonGeR gENdER strikes again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:23 PM |
| 160 | Is it just me or are many men disgusted by women's bodies?💀"we're super straight manly men but any normal part of a woman's body that doesn't appeal to my incredibly strict idea of what is sexy is so disgusting that I have to go hang out with my bros to get over it" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:32 PM |
| 117 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.I don't doubt they'll do this kind of behaviour again. They have no empathy, they only cared when they thought they might get in trouble. Once they see there's no repercussions they'll continue. Scumbags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:33 PM |
| 37 | your money? what money? lmaoThe number of men who don't wash their nails or foreskin properly and then blame their girlfriends for always getting UTIs... far too much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:22 AM |
| 73 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himWashing your own asshole is gay because you touch man ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:20 AM |
| 78 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himThere's something really pleasing about walking past a decently groomed man and getting the slight scent (note: slight scent) of a really nice cologne. I've actually stopped in my steps before when a great smelling guy has walking past. It's kind of depressing that the art of smelling nice has disappeared in men, they have no idea how much more appealing they'd be if they looked and smelled clean (or maybe they do, they're just too lazy and entitled to do it) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:17 AM |
| 274 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himThis was painful to read because it's literally the truth and so many women don't see it/so men many refuse to see it because it benefits them. Also the dingleberries and aggressive vulva rubbing 😖don't forget the reluctance to perform oral on women, despite expecting it himself, and when he does it it's just him licking at the hole for like 1 minute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:13 AM |
| 85 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himThe negative downvotes lmao, the scrotes are mad. They truly cannot stand any criticism even that criticism is as simple as "have basic hygiene, be decently groomed", yet they expect women to effortlessly look like sex dolls. Pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Today I removed a troll post designed to paint FDS as Anti-gay & called AHS out in the comments. Oddly, one of the AHS mods suddenly banned me from their profile. I have NEVER contacted this mod personally. Wonder how this mod 1) knew about this REMOVED post & 2) figured I was talking about them? 🤔The 'AgainstHateSubreddit' subreddit. They try to paint FDS as a hate subreddit even though it's literally just dating tips, personal experiences from women, and advice for women, usually about protecting ourselves or leveling up. AHS is incredibly toxic, biased in what they do and don't define as a 'hate subreddit', and was exposed for posting ch!ld p0rn in subreddits they don't like to get them banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 01:24 AM |
| 37 | Unpacking the Male Gaze: Birds of Prey vs. Suicide Squad (I feel like this is why the odds are always stacked against women, because so much popculture is all about MuH PeNiS)I think this also ties into men hating any fashion trend women find fun or comfortable. Does anyone else remember the many, many articles about the number of men who hate high waist jeans, overalls/jumpsuits, oversized clothing, dark lipstick etc because it's "not sexy". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 12:30 AM |
| 29 | Unpacking the Male Gaze: Birds of Prey vs. Suicide Squad (I feel like this is why the odds are always stacked against women, because so much popculture is all about MuH PeNiS)I hated the way in Justice League every scene Gal Gadot was in, the camera was centred on her ass. Literally EVERY time she entered a scene the shot was 90% her ass, it was so creepy. Don't even get me started on the Amazons' sexy bikini armour or having a teenaged Barry Allen/The Flash fall face first onto Diana's boobs 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 12:26 AM |
| 53 | The first time a new guy takes 24H+ to text, call, or reach out in any form? Don't bother acting chill, move on.Yes! I never got the 'waiting for him to call/text' trope. If he's taking so long that you have to sit by the phone waiting, you already know how he feels about you. Save your time and move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 12:23 AM |
| 60 | Yikes, they’ve somehow found something worse than walk dates."He's not trying to eat"??? What does that even mean!!! It's not a five course meal, it's a small cone of ice cream!! This sounds so sus I really hope she didn't go. Also imagine having the audacity to ask to meet at the GROCERY STORE (after saying you didn't want to eat? Then why meet at a store that sells nothing but food??). What are the odds he would try and get her to pay for his groceries lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 12:15 AM |
| 140 | When women get angry, we call out men for their behavior and speak out about why we’re angry. When men are angry, they resort to abuse, harassment, rape, and murder. My dear male lurkers, we are not the same. We would never do this to youIt's sad that the last line isn't a commonly accepted truth anymore (if it ever was). I'm so tired of hearing rubbish like "equal rights, equal fights" from men. Men are already abusing, murdering, and mutilating women. The average woman is aware of that fact that they have a physical disadvantage when fighting a man (unless the guy is small or the woman is a trained fighter/incredibly strong). They try to act like a light slap from a 115lb 5"5 woman is equivalent to a full force punch (because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 11:56 PM |
| 34 | When women get angry, we call out men for their behavior and speak out about why we’re angry. When men are angry, they resort to abuse, harassment, rape, and murder. My dear male lurkers, we are not the same. We would never do this to youHow tf is that your first thought upon reading this news?? These men are actually sick in the head and deranged. But this is the sub people want banned bc "golddigging bitter femcels" (their words) are more of a threat to society than incels, despite the fact that incels literally brutally murder women and commit mass shootings. Revolting. May those poor women rest in peace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inAh that was the issue, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:19 PM |
| 31 | What have you been spending your money on since you’re no longer wasting it on a terrible relationship/dating?I finally saved enough up to start apartment hunting and relocate to Crete (had to be put on hold because of lockdown tho). I can't wait to have my own place with my own things, decorate it with my own cute style, and not be stuck with ugly bland furniture, grey walls, dirty socks on the floor, beard clippings in the sink, or general man stink (you know the one) On a smaller level I've also been updating my wardrobe, I have so many nice outfits I'm going to wear once lockdown is over!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Chronic illness, CPTSDYes!! I have CFS/ME and Fibromyalgia, and it's a nightmare. I was diagnosed as a pre-teen, a few doctors mentioned that childhood trauma is a common cause. I looked at my parents like 👀, but of course they never acknowledged it. I also battle with very severe OCD and clinical depression, they don't acknowledge that either. I've had a lot of therapy, I feel like my relationship with my mum is slightly improving, but I still have fantasies of just letting my parents have it and basically saying "y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inCould someone please explain how people are able to post videos or images in this subreddit? Whenever I try the option is greyed out, is there a rule for how long you have to be a member, or how many posts you make first, or is there a mod you can ask for permission? Sorry if this has already been explained elsewhere! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:33 AM |
| 26 | Woman confronts, foils man’s attempt to abduct young girl after raping herWoman: Do you know him? Little girl: No I don't know him and he told me (unintelligible) and I'm really scared. I'm really scared, I'm really scared I was just trying to go to school. Thank you so much, thank you thank you I had tears in my eyes listening to her, she sounds so terrified and grateful. Imagine being snatched up when you're just trying to walk to school. I hope she can recover from this and have some trauma therapy. The woman who helped her is a hero | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Potentially OT; has anyone else had an influx of trolls in their inbox?This is perfect, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 03:03 PM |
| 84 | Uhhh... I think the title speaks for itself 🤢🥲The trend of Hollyweird men dating women like 30 years younger than them is seriously disturbing. I lowkey feel like we're being brainwashed to accept this as okay and normal when it's clearly not and never will be. The amount of actors with blatantly predatory/grooming behaviour still being hailed and accepted because tHeY'Re tAlenTeD!! tHeY'rE bOTh aDULtS!! is blegh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 02:00 AM |
| 42 | Came across this today I have no wordsIt's sad and scary how many posts I've seen on Reddit about men whinging about their SO's fecal matter during anal etc. Like, sir. You are sticking your dick into the opening specifically for shitting, what do you expect? It doesn't have any self cleaning features like a vagina, and even with douching/enema there's only so much she can do. It's like they expect women's bodies to warp themselves out of their natural order to avoid doing anything that might make their pp soft | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:54 AM |
| 57 | Great thread. I get it’s a joke but it erases the violence and often horrifying nature that has come with being a housewifeBingo! If you look into the history of working women (I recently watched a really interesting documentary about the history of women working as shopgirls), many of them wanted to stay on when men returned from war. They spent years in their job, working hard to be promoted to a decent position, just to lose it all when men returned to the workplace and were immediately preferred over a woman who had spent years in the role, had experience, understood the job and company etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:49 AM |
| 78 | It’s more than just therapy. They need to beat the socialization that causes them to be so narcissistic.It reminds me of how sociopaths (or psychopaths?) and narcissists learn to mimic sympathetic behaviour without any of the actual feeling. Like they learn to sound healthy, supportive, comforting etc without actually feeling any of it. It's kind of scary because I legit feel like I never know if men seeming healthy and understanding is an act and he's just going to rip it away and reveal his true form | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:45 AM |
| 91 | So glad to see women actually standing up for themselves. No means no.What IS it with men and blowjobs tho?? That's definitely the last sexual act she would ever want to do considering she had surgery IN HER MOUTH, but of course that's the one he wants because men are like OBSESSED with blowjobs, I swear it's a sickness. And then they never want to do cuni back. Plus blowjobs are kind of gross because men don't take care of their weenies and you have to have your jaw open all the time :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 40 | No lies here 💀"nO oNE caREss aBoUT mEN'S meNtAL hEALth!!" ok so talk to your buddies about why they don't care about your feelings, tf is that my fault as a woman?? The only people I've ever seen speak against men crying or talking about mental health are other men because then you're a "pussy simp soyboy snowflake" or whatever Also when men say they've been told "boys don't cry", yeah by who?? Has every man on the planet exclusively been told that by their mum or something? Otherwise it's still other men lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:29 AM |
| 19 | First, it was anal; Second, this scrote kept a hidden condom from 8 years ago and didn't know condoms expire. But it's so funny to have a grown ass man not knowing basics.In their mind if they get one pregnant, they'll just move onto the next one. Statistics of men cheating and abandoning women during pregnancy prove this isn't even joke, they actually think like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:31 AM |
| 16 | First, it was anal; Second, this scrote kept a hidden condom from 8 years ago and didn't know condoms expire. But it's so funny to have a grown ass man not knowing basics.Just a little humour the day lads!! Just a little something to make you smile!! Hope this gives you a laugh and puts a smile on your face!! That's how you caption a funny picture of a puppy, not an anecdote about you manipulating your wife into letting you shove your sad crusty dick into her ass. Men are a different kind of evil | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:29 AM |
| 21 | Anyone else deal with men in their life who don’t wash their hands? Or basically unhygienic?The logical gender strikes again. And if you point out all the disgusting germs that are crawling about on their hands you're 'nagging' them. I've also had men use my OCD against me to gaslight me into believing I'm just being obsessive like no jerk this is basic hygiene 101, who raised you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:08 PM |
| 16 | Anyone else deal with men in their life who don’t wash their hands? Or basically unhygienic?The way I've dealt with men doing all these exact things and had to clean up after them 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:05 PM |
| 72 | True statement, wrong conclusion. Why "be a hoe"? Why not "focus on yourself, love yourself, level up"?The way it's a man encouraging young women to be a hoe 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:01 PM |
| 39 | Friendship with straight males is a lieThis is why men are always making fun of women for wanting to talk about ~fEeLiNGs~ or being overemotional or whatever, um no that's normal, men are just emotionally stunted and cold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:18 AM |
| 33 | You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling.And saying she 'slapped her friend around' I'm sure it was a joke, but can we not :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:15 AM |
| 217 | Teenage girls are proud to be approached by college guys. They really believe they are ”the winners of the game”🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️If you're a minor 'pulling' grown men they're pedos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:13 AM |
| 25 | I said “men are actually awful” and this is the response I’m getting. I said this in response to a woman who said that she was harassed by a man. why is there more outrage over a statement instead of the fact women are literally being harassed?This happened to me too!! I told him to stop staring and he made out like it was my fault for taking selfies, like taking a picture of yourself is justification for being ogled by a random creepy old guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:11 AM |
| 184 | ...or will he?I hate how men have the absolute audacity to 'joke' about things they know are disturbing, especially for women. I had a guy I went to school with 'joke' about raping me, I replied "why on earth would you think you could say that to me?" and blocked him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:05 AM |
| 40 | Remember to subtract 5 inches from a man’s height 😂"iT's 8 iNchES" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 12:58 AM |
| 252 | Men are stressfulI'm convinced this is why so many women in relationships become so much more insecure, they believe their man has changed because of something wrong with them, they're not attractive enough, they're boring, they don't try hard enough to please him etc, when in reality he's just comfortable being who he is - a lazy, ungrateful, disrespectful bum - to feel like he has to keep being the kind, appreciative, respectful version of himself he pretended to be at the beginning of the relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 12:49 AM |
| 24 | Gets one teeny tiny taste of objectification and immediately seeks out a female sub to tell his whole story and somehow thinks he ranks high enough to Personally Apologize for decades of misogyny. Comments all bowing at his feet."I was fine with viewing women as just body parts I find attractive until it happened to me :( sorry ladies :( this experience was really painful for me :( now I know exactly what you women feel like after having seen one (1) advert that shows an attractive shirtless man :(" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | I see your terrible gifts and I raise you this plastic cup. Story in comments.The only thing he could offer that was 6 inches lmao 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:12 PM |
| 56 | Is porn just normalised cheating?The downvotes are probably just lurking scrotes. It's definitely on the same level as cheating, and personally I do consider it cheating because you've chosen to be involved sexually with another woman instead of me, your romantic and sexual partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:27 AM |
| 117 | Is porn just normalised cheating?I absolutely view porn as cheating, always have always will. I've had so many people tell me I'm out of my mind, I'm unreasonable, and I'll never find a man. Fine, I'd rather never find a man and be happy than have a man who is fantasising about having sex with other women. I don't tolerate porn for a second, if you need to jerk off imagine me. He's wants to have sex with her not me, he's emotionally prioritised her and not me. I'm right here and you chose another woman. Just like men who cheat,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:25 AM |
| 99 | If I’m happy and I know it, start dating? No thanks!People get so mad about it. They literally can't conceive of a woman being happier single than she is in a relationship, and it makes them confront questions about themselves they can't handle because they never looked into healing themselves and growing emotionally and mentally (i.e. for women, why did I settle for a toxic useless bum who causes me misery and doesn't value me, and for men, does this mean women notice that I'm a lazy, emotionally immature, selfish manchild and won't fuck me) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 10:21 PM |
| 12 | Why do men pm women of this sub to ask questions about things they could easily google?The level of audacity... is astronomical This hasn't happened to me (I'm still pretty new) but I did have a man message me to tell me I'm a dumb c*nt 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 09:29 PM |
| 82 | Is it just me or is there a mild conspiracy to make women lower their standards of physical attractiveness?Basically everything is accepted and praised on men now. A man with stretch marks? Wow so brave! A woman with stretch marks? Ew gross cover those up you fat cow. It's crazy how standards for men are just getting lazier and more acceptable but standards of women have gotten to the point where we literally can never achieve them. Men don't even have to look healthy or well put together, but women have to have massive perky boobs, a tiny curvy waist, round hips, big bubble butt, hair to the floor, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 33 | Smh!!!!! Stuff like this is why I will probably never date until my kids grow up.Gentlemen?? I don't see any gentlemen here. Real gentlemen would respect a mother, especially a single one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:54 AM |
| 71 | The delusion. The scrotacity lolI'm 25 this year so hopefully I'll hit the wall and instantly be transformed into hideous old hag and they'll leave me alone, but I'm sure some kind selfless soul can still take one for the team and muster up the strength to tell me I still make his pp hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:13 AM |
| 20 | Is that what you’d like to hear? After inquiring why he provided his address within the first 5 min of convo. 🧐🙄And then you ask him what the "special unique feelings about you" he has are and he replies it's the feeling of his pp getting hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:09 AM |
| 33 | Can we talk about how conventionally unattractive men manipulate their way into dating a woman completely out of their league, and then destroy her self-esteem so she starts to believe this scrote is the prize when really she is.CONCEPT ART MUPPET LMFAOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:24 AM |
| 281 | Scrolling through tik tok and all the top comments are saying to leave him and that this isn’t healthy or good for her. I am LOVING that we are telling the younger generations that they don’t have to deal with their porn obsessed boyfriends. 🥰The way they're just laughing about it.... ew. I would've dumped him the second I saw the first one. Men who are fine with ogling other women in sexually provocative situations all day checked out of your relationship a long time ago (if they ever even checked in) Also is it just me but are big boob fetish guys always the actual worst?? Idk just something about guys who idolise massive boobs is always so toxic and gross. It's obvious they just see women as a pair of boobs for their consumption, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 15 | 2020 was an awesome year!I'm really glad to hear your achievements, well done!! 🥳🎉 I've found myself getting so caught up in all the crappy stuff that happened this year, it's become hard to remember there were any positives going on at all. I didn't accomplish as much as I hoped, but this has reminded me to sit down and write a list of good things, no matter how small, that happened. Well done especially on your move, buying your condo, and dumping toxic people!! All three can be really daunting, but are huge accomplis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:25 PM |
| 230 | Y'all, they literally don't stop 😂 I've already posted here a couple days ago with a screenshot from their sub about the rings people are posting 🖕The bitterness and jealousy is strong. They can't stand seeing both a woman doing better than them, and the knowledge that she did it without a man. Also possibly unpopular opinion; I think we should stop/limit posting things from anti-FDS/aggressively misogynist subreddits like this on here. Regular subreddits are fine, but we know these guys hate us and we know they exist. Protect your time and wellbeing from their hate and negativity by not sharing their posts and giving them the attention th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:17 PM |
| 49 | At this point they could rename themselves as r/ThoughtPolice and I will see no differenceWomen not fucking me is FeMaLe pRiviLeGe!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 41 | At this point they could rename themselves as r/ThoughtPolice and I will see no differenceOh my God. Every time I think I've heard the absolute worst thing men are doing, something even worse comes along. I couldn't have even imagined something like that. Those men seriously need to be locked up for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:28 PM |
| 87 | At this point they could rename themselves as r/ThoughtPolice and I will see no differenceThe second half of your last sentence - YES. Literally go on any subreddit related to true crime, unsolved murders, crime scenes etc, it's all the most gory pictures of women humanly possible, and all the men in the comments are so indifferent or try to justify a woman being disembowelled, dismembered, raped etc because her husband was jealous or bored of her. But let there be ONE woman who murders a man and suddenly it's "tOXiC fEMinINitY!! iF tHe rOLeS wErE rEVeRseD!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on this?They don't ever (or rarely) truly change, at most they just learn to pretend more convincingly/for longer next time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:15 AM |
| 21 | Shitty NVM lazily catfishing me22 in dog years?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:10 AM |
| 26 | This man knows something at leastThe same men who complain when you have more than 5 pubic hairs because "iT's gRoSs" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:20 PM |
| 24 | Queen EnergyDoes anyone know her username? I can't read that blurry little writing lol Edit: Found it, it's babyjfromtexas ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:14 PM |
| 35 | This is why you never move on with a boyfriend!!A. I hope the girlfriends sees this and dumps him B. If this is a joke, it isn't funny Also I've read multiple stories of men charging their girlfriends rent for a place they already own, so I could believe it's true honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 01:03 AM |
| 15 | A rant about "equality" and pregnanciesMen LOVE acting like they have a significant part in pregnancy and it's 'equally as hard on them', um no the fuck it isn't love. Physically you do nothing and emotionally you do nothing, and no one will ever expect you to. Add the additional three months to the mothers so they can have six months, it's not like the men need them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 01:01 AM |
| 4 | One of the three jewellery pieces I bought myself for Christmas. I am also selling the gifts my NV ex bought me so I can put the money towards something I actually like. I will put my comment in the thread belowSuch a beautiful, delicate design. Also your nails are lovely and healthy, do you take a supplement for them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:39 PM |
| 15 | ‘on women being the “sensitive” sex’Women absolutely have a higher pain tolerance than men imo, just the daily experience of being a woman is painful. Period cramps, labour pain, hormonal migraines, plucking/tweezing/waxing/shaving, high heels, tight bras etc. The fact that many of us were raised believing 'beauty is pain', ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 184 | The Energy We’re Taking into 2021It's 100% projection because most men even in their 20s look like trash. Aside from general ugliness they have poor grooming, hygiene, and fashion sense. The average women in her 40s is easily more attractive than the average 25 year old man just on the basis on looking well kempt. Just compare these 40+ actors with man boobs, lumberjack beards, and bald temples who insist on exclusively dating 19 year olds, whilst their female counterparts are still beautiful and elegant, and don't degrade them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:14 AM |
| 35 | Feminine Hygiene vs Erectile Dysfunction CommercialsSo true, ads marketed to men are all about reassuring them how amazing they are and how they deserve the best because they're powerful or whatever. Ads marketed towards women are all about telling you you're an ugly piece of shit who will die alone because your body has natural functions like ageing or having periods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 90 | The sooner they get their robots the better for usNot them thinking we're jealous of their inanimate waifus. By all means, take your perversity and emotional fragility out on a doll, leave me out of it. Also hilarious that men will insist they can't go to work and do chores for their human wife who is also working/doing 90% of the chores/raising a child/emotionally supporting her pissbaby husband, but will do so for a doll who contributes literally nothing. It's a scam | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:35 PM |
| 380 | ‘on women being the “sensitive” sex’The fact that women bleed for a week and don't die, carry and nurture a whole other human being for nine months whilst still able to function (albeit with difficulty), and then proceed to push that other human being out of an orifice the circumference of a golf ball, but are continually shamed for being dirty and gross because of these things, and considered the 'weaker sex' by the people who can't withstand a flick to the ballsack. I have to laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 53 | “Women mature faster than men” is one of the most violent and abusive rhetorics used to excuse the behaviors of men and punish women/girls.Girls are forced to mature faster by a society that treats them like adults by setting unreasonably high expectations, having them be mini-mothers that co-run the house whilst their brothers and male relatives get to lounge around or play, sexualise them before they've even hit puberty, and blame them for any kind of abuse, assault, or discrimination they receive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:28 AM |
| 78 | "MeN dOnT gEt AnY CoMpLiMeNtS"Is this the "I aIn'T nEvER seEN tWo pREttY bEsT frIENds" guy?? He can choke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:25 AM |
| 553 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏"wHy dO wOMeN cARe sO mUCh aBoUT hEIghT??" says the man who only wants to a date size 6 woman with a tiny waist, huge perfectly round ass and tits, who earns a lot of money (but not enough to emasculate him duh), goes 50/50 on everything, has super model hair down to her ass, cooks and cleans for him, like his boring dude hobbies like playing video games for 10 hours (but isn't better at them than him), is completely hairless from the eyelashes down, look like she's always wearing makeup whilst … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:24 AM |
| 16 | An oldie but a goodie. 31 year old man tries hit on a group of teenagers. Gets called a predator and argues with them instead of just leaving. Proceeds to get bullied by same group of teenagers 😂LMAOOO birthday queens 👑The absolute audacity of this creepy ass man to think it was okay for him to hit on a bunch of teenagers (nine-TEEN dumbass). I see Hollywood age gaps have really deluded men into thinking that would ever pass in the real world, like real women don't see how disgusting and weird it is for a 30+ man to be with a teenager | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:18 AM |
| 56 | men created a society where women are told that having sex is shameful, then get murdered when they turn down sex."Why can't I just use women's vaginas to masturbate myself - and then throw them to the side, completely disregard their feelings, talk about them in the most vile disrespectful way possible, make jokes about their body and childhood, demonize them constantly, and in some cases literally murder them because I resent them for having sex - without them acting like it's a big deal :(" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:14 AM |
| 11 | Porn causes mental illness and paraphilia and everyday there is a post like this one asking if it’s ok to be bothered by this apologetically. How to keep shifting the tide?"I know I should trust the man I'm about to marry..." unless the man you're about to marry is lying to you, getting off to other women, and hoarding porn including creep shots (?? gross). The thing is deep down she knows he's a piece of shit because if she felt comfortable with him she'd confront him directly about it, but since she knows he'll give her a pissy manbaby reaction, she's come to Reddit first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:09 AM |
| 60 | “My Legacy 🤡” yeah sure - of sexism and homophobia.The other irony of Henry VIII is that it's the sperm that determines gender, so it's his fault he had daughters. Also he was thought to have syphilis (and generally rubbish health due to his terrible eating habits, regular jousting injuries, and constant ulcers) which caused so many of his wives to have multiple miscarriages and stillbirths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:05 AM |
| 61 | I am speechlessThe vagina is a muscle, it doesn't 'loosen' like skin. Even if the skin around the opening tears during labour (and as you mentioned, this gets stitched up anyway and will go back to normal), or your hips/pelvis widen, the actual walls of your vagina don't magically because loose and flappy after birth. Using that logic any child after the first should just slip out, tampons would never stay in etc. Men are just dumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:58 AM |
| 27 | Men who get a rise from or think it’s funny to “wind people up” or scare people.This reminds me of guys who purposefully touch you after you tell them not to touch you. Any time a man displays this kind of behaviour just run immediately, fast and far away. He's immature, selfish, and doesn't respect you, your feelings, or your boundaries and most likely never will. This also includes guys who insult you "as a joke" and say you can't take a joke/are too sensitive because you don't find it funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:47 AM |
| 35 | Coomer logic: "You can't jerk off to MY loved ones abuse but I should be allowed to jerk off to yours! 😡".Sorry for being dumb but what does coomer mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:58 PM |
| 7 | Reddit gamers are having mental breakdowns over CP2077 and it's a reminder of why we don't date gamersThis got worse the more I read 🤢The vulva thing - ew (and I guess all women in this universe are completely bald from pubic hair too?). The BJ thing - ew (and I guess there's no option for female characters to receive cuni?). The passed out naked character - ew (passed nude women is such a creepy but common trop in scifi specifically for whatever reason). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:56 PM |
| 147 | as soon as a guy says this, run. this is him telling you that he’s manipulative as hell.They use the most overdramatic language and magnify every emotion to the extreme to villainize their girlfriend and victimise themself like "I forgot to wash the dishes in the sink (which she has politely asked me multiple times to do since she does all the other domestic work, but I never actually do) and she started freaking out (she was rightfully upset), I tried to calm her down (I dismissed her feelings) and she got all huffy at me (she was frustrated with my minimising her feelings). I jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:01 AM |
| 52 | I'm not even slightly gay, but I can't imagine hanging around grown men after seeing stuff like this.I'm not watching this bc I don't want to mess up my Youtube recommendations with sexist garbage but I can tell from the video title and that ugly ass jacket that he's trash. All trash misogynist men have that one light coloured bomber jacket that they think paired with anything is a 'good' outfit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:50 AM |
| 24 | Scrote doesn't want women lifting and being physically (or mentally) strong, would rather have us do our nails while listening some soft musicThat last sentence though "Do you make all the decisions for the benefit of yourself, or do you trust at all in a man..." um no I don't trust at all in a man because they have repeatedly proven that they don't have women's best interest at heart even when that woman is his own wife/mother of his child/relative etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:54 PM |
| 11 | Seen on r/hinge. My NPD LVM father used to do this to me and my sister all the time on visitations. Lock the doors/windows and fart/smoke in the car (we were as young as 10/8 respectively). Some men really just find making women uncomfortable amusing, even if those “women” are just children.I hope any woman he does this to vomits all over his car | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:51 PM |
| 16 | Seen on r/hinge. My NPD LVM father used to do this to me and my sister all the time on visitations. Lock the doors/windows and fart/smoke in the car (we were as young as 10/8 respectively). Some men really just find making women uncomfortable amusing, even if those “women” are just children.Hearing a man make "girls don't poop/fart!!" jokes is an immediate turn off for me, you just know he's actually admitting that he wishes women didn't have normal bodily functions that he finds 'undesirable' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:50 PM |
| 124 | Men of reddit live in a fantasy where truth and lies are reversed. 90% of people who suffer from anorexia are women but I guess society is kinder to overweight women.Literally!! I have to laugh when men try this "women just have to be good looking, men have to be (insert basic adult qualities here)!!" bit. So... you're admitting you only value women for what they look like? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:46 PM |
| 24 | It's gonna be a yikes from me sis"Teehee my boyfriend prioritizes a bunch of pixels over my right to express myself, totally normal behaviour in a healthy relationship!! There's absolutely nothing I can do about this dynamic because cuz it's just what boys are like!! #hessosilly #menamirite #feelsorryforthesinglegirlies" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 10:55 PM |
| 18 | “Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll spend the rest of your life with”Since I started eating alone I actually prefer it to eating with others a lot of the time. I don't feel rushed, I'm not trying to eat and talk or listen at the same time, I can order whatever I want, I can read or listen to an audiobook, I can people watch, I'm more likely to be adventurous with food, I can take time to reflect on my thoughts. I love it, it's me time and I find it so mindful and relaxing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 10 | FaceTime date with seemingly HVM reveals his repulsive apartment. This is why you FaceTime first, imagine arriving here in person. Needless to say, that was our last conversation.The thing is men's homes are always dirty. Not just untidy, not just a few things that need to be put away, but actually filthy with dust, old food, trash, mould etc everywhere. You can't tell me these kind of men know how to wash properly either. I can smell the skidmarks, BO and smegma from here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 01:30 AM |
| 11 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄Men really cannot hear anything about women's suffering without relating back to how hard things are for them. Especially on Reddit they love saying "men have it equally hard" or my person (least) favourite "if the roles were reversed women would get away with it!", no they don't and no they wouldn't. Maybe it's because literally 99% are sex crimes are committed by men and something like 0.1% of rape claims are false. Men really like to believe that women gain sooo much for claiming false rape, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | And they wonder why we call them incels...Honestly it's always pissed me off that men can tell how big women's boobs are and mock them for it, but we have little way of knowing how big their dicks are when dick size is something that actually can effect sexual pleasure unlike boobs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:53 PM |
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