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| – | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.Selection bias is at work, the men you're meeting will not be the touch starved social rejects, for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 10:08 AM |
| – | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.Relationships can be approached from the POV that being with someone would be nice, you could do something together that makes both of you better off, and is a natural step in your life. Or they can be approached from the POV that you are starved for affection of any kind and your mental well being hinges on it, you need the relationship to be fulfilled and happy, because your emotional needs are not met. The former is how healthy relationships happen, or how men get approached by women. The lat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 10:05 AM |
| 10 | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.My celibacy was voluntary, none of my relationships were initiated by me, it took me a very short time to lose my virginity when I decided to. I'm tall and good looking, my problem is not being neurotypical and not feeling the need to have sex, relationships or socialize on the same level as normal people. But just because my isolation was voluntary did not change the fact that I interacted with hundreds of involuntarily celibate men, social pariahs and shut-ins who could have the cops called on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 09:36 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menIn the words of Saint Hamudi: "I don't need more friends, I need pussy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 09:07 PM |
| 33 | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.Women handle it better because for most of the girls I know, a "dry spell" is a couple weeks to a month, and it only ever ends when they choose for it to end (they pick which guy will end it). For men a dry spell can be months to years, to decades, to life. If every woman I've met said essentially the same thing, if every girl I've been with always had a boyfriend prior, and not too long ago either, how am I supposed to take it at face value? I've been celibate for years in the past, every well … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 06:12 PM |
| 3 | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.Both are true, and it mostly depends on which one is more likely for you to fall into depending on your gender and the gender of the person talking down to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Dating Simplified: People's best match are other people in the same (similar) profession!Also every woman I've met who was a software developer was either already taken/married or very... peculiar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:53 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?I absolutely agree, maybe I misunderstood the tone of the comment. OP's story was poorly written, as it seemed to imply they were all dating the same exact individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:50 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?The "are we dating the same guy" groups aren't about 10 girls who are literally dating John Doe, they're for 1000s of girls in a city to find out how many of them Michael Smith is dating at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:42 PM |
| – | Q4M: For the men here who have suffered with dating struggles where they want to find a partner but can't, were you able to open up to your male friends about your struggles? If so, how did they respond? And do you believe we should talk more about this as men?I have found myself in the position of being the oldest in the room when dealing with zoomers in their late teens/early twenties and talking to them about this stuff was very refreshing. They are a lot more blackpilled than previous generations, some were open about being afraid of women or being hurt again, some were open about pursuing unsuccessfully, some were straightforward that they were incel. And I felt great to be in a position of being older, with more experience and seen as someone th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Testosterone Level Decreasing in Men, Increasing in WomenUsually the best players are physically active. Back when I used to play competitively most of my team mates were exercising regularly and abstaining from masturbation to enhance their performance in game. I know it may sound like a joke but it really does make a difference. And personally, after I started exercising again I did feel that I was even better than before, or could maintain the same level of play with less effort. Low test gamers don't usually win. (lmao) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 03:14 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menIt makes sense when you think about how women threaten others: social exclusion. Even back in middle school the way girls tried to force compliance was threatening social exclusion. Lines like "you won't have any friends if you do that", "nobody will want to hang out with you if you do that" or "you'll be a virgin forever if you do that" as only meaningful if you find the idea of not having any friends, people to hang out with or no sex as the worst thing possible. Even now as an adult, when you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menIt's crazy how that goes. I'm 28 but look 22. I'm not at all unattractive and have a girlfriend right now. Most of the time when women are being flirtatious their faces change when I tell them I'm actually 28, a software developer and live by myself instead of having roommates. Can practically see the $ signs in their eyes.The moment I go from being perceived as a silly and broke young guy to a funny and interesting adult with a career and my own place is I guess the moment the "compatibility an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Actually, getting into a relationship DOES fix many problems for youIn a sense it's just like the free market, some people keep giving their money to obvious scams then complaining they got scammed; yes, scamming is illegal and scammers should be prosecuted, but scams like the nigerian prince and fake microsoft licenses exist because people keep giving them money. It's more grey when the scam is well concealed, like many women will say that men lied to them or hid their true intentions from them, but I find that hard to believe when I could plainly see it myself… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkFew, if any, parents accomplish such a feat. All the more reason for it to be a meaningful endeavor. Foster parents exist. Agreed, I see being a parent, biological or not as something important and meaningful. I would argue that good foster parents are even more genuine because their love for a child is not owed or expected like a biological parent is, I think it is very admirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkThe act of creampie is not the difficult part of being a parent, that's the easy part. I would figure that taking care and raising a healthy, well adjusted human being who makes the world ever so slightly better with their presence is a pretty meaningful and good thing to do. As for the last part of your comment, I simply disagree, a cat or a dog or any other pet will never be on the same level as a human being, I think it's concerning how many people have that point of view nowadays, and I say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:47 PM |
| – | Men are still expected to be the breadwinners in an age where young women out-earn young men [Resubmitted for wrong flare]I don't know what to tell you, a 50% higher rate of erectile dysfunction does not mean that 50% of men have ED, yes it is correlated with obesity and age, but it also happens for other reasons, like lower T levels. Sperm count is also on the down trend. Is obesity to blame? Possibly, it's a worldwide phenomenon and obesity is trending upwards worldwide. I personally have had ED caused by medication, that happened when I was 21 years old. I didn't really tell any of my friends at the time, only m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:38 PM |
| – | Men are still expected to be the breadwinners in an age where young women out-earn young men [Resubmitted for wrong flare]It probably has to do with men not liking to share that intimate detail about their sex life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkDoesn't this go both ways? Meaning is ascribed by ourselves unto what we deem important. I don't want kids and never have, but I agree with the other poster's perspective more than yours. I work as a software developer, I love it, I started doing it for fun as a teenager, I get to work from home if I want to, I don't have to adhere to dress codes or deal with the public, and I get paid well for it. You know what I would do if I had infinite money? I wouldn't go to work that's for sure. Even if I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:09 PM |
| 4 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkI hate to be the "actually" guy, but I think there's a huge cultural aspect to this. Suicide is viewed negatively in western cultures due to the influence of Christianity and the view that suicide bars you from heaven and all that jazz. In other cultures, particularly eastern, this is not the case, and ritual or honor motivated suicide are somewhat more common. I won't make a comment on the particular mental state of the people who would willingly put themselves through suicide to regain their h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkStaring at the wall is usually what happens when I don't take the ADHD pills. Put a little effort in and get accurate insults for next time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Well, not for a woman at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.Only when they ask | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 03:52 PM |
| 4 | Actually, getting into a relationship DOES fix many problems for youI think it's that plus an easy way to dismiss and make people go away. Far easier to tell someone they need to "work on themselves" rather than address all the very real issues that person may be facing.Homeless? It's not the economy or societie's fault bro, you gotta work on yourself, just get a house if you're homeless. No job? Just shower and show up to a worksite and cold approach the manager and ask for a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Actually, getting into a relationship DOES fix many problems for youIt's because mental illness = invisible = not real = you made it up, fix your imaginary problems. There is a huge misconception that some immutable characteristics can be "fixed", for example, someone with autism can not be fixed, at best they can be made to wear a mask in social situations. Some things can be fixed, self love, confidence, being nice to be around, and so on. Unfortunately a lot of those are directly linked to other unfixable mental problems, and require a lot of time, effort and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 03:40 PM |
| – | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagThey really don't give a fuck, we might as well be "computer plumber man" for all its worth to a lot of people. They don't care because they don't have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingIncels are to chad what the proletariat is to capitalists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted mentl;dr: life IS exhausting and being a fat lazy hermit would be nice if it was possible to actually live like that, if I had infinite money I would have a butler/maid to do all my chores for me and I would just sorta exist: eat, sleep, game, repeat. If I won the lottery tomorrow, my life would change very little, I would probably stay at home more, play more videogames, jerk off way more, all of that. I was a NEET for a couple of years, there was no apparent end in sight to it until my parents sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted menYou sure you want to be a fat lazy hermit? Yes, there is nothing more I would like than to check out from life completely, forever. Do you assume everyone else does? No, but I don't care and that's irrelevant to the point OP made, which is that we have to do these things if we want to exist in society, live or have relationships of any kind. People who are set for life financially don’t just sit around doing nothing in my experience. I did when I was in that situation. Even today, life itself is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:54 PM |
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