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| 1 | Men who have multiple women without spending money or losing peace — what’s the logic behind it?Sounds like Communism. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.Most guys are better than him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 04:15 AM |
| -1 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.It doesn't matter if you're the richest guy on Earth. Your attitude is gross. And let me guess, in your lack of self-awareness, you believe she actually loves you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.What I'm saying is that there isn't much motivation for women to have sex with men, because they can usually get much better orgasms on their own. Men tend not to be all that great at sex with women (sure there are some men who are, but any given guy there is a lot higher chance that he'll fumble it even if he tries). Meaning the incentive to sleep with a guy has to come from something else. That's why women are annoyed when you just want sex: "oh here's another desperate loser who wants to use … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.🤮🤮 Gross dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.More, but quantity doesn't mean quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.So you have to be attracted to the woman, but it doesn't matter if she's attracted to you. She should go for you because you're the one with the resources? Why is it ok for it to be important for you, but not for her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 03:35 AM |
| 0 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.Those tend to be of pretty low quality though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Watch people oppose thisI'd never be offended if my fiance asked me to sign a prenup. It's just good adulting. It doesn't mean he doesn't trust me. As adults, we must keep in mind that relationships between people can change. There is nothing to guarantee that we won't end up hating each other's guts a few years down the road. I myself don't trust myself to never hate him, I don't know the future. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/08/20 10:41 PM |
| 4 | How do I stop thinking like an incel?I am trying to say that shitty people can be men and women, just like awesome, loving people can be man and women. Basically that you shouldn't make idiotic generalizations like that over half the world's fucking population. Take each person as an individual. I've been treated badly by a couple of guys, but I don't go around making broad generalizations like "men are incapable of love", because experience has taught me that individual men differ a lot from one another, and I can't predict what t… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/20 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop thinking like an incel?Ugh! It's really sad when people think you have to give up pleasure and self-indulgence and adopt a conservative ethic, if not outright religion, to have a meaningful goal in life and work towards it, and treat people decently. They are not mutually exclusive. If for you they are, I think you have an issue. Most likely lack of emotional balance and maturity. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/20 09:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop thinking like an incel?Incels who rate women on a 1-10 scale are not shallow? They can't be sluts for obvious reasons, but they are shallow as fuck. Women absolutely can love, but if you think and act the way you do, you will never find yourself the target of that love. From where we're sitting, incels (notice I didn't say "men") definitely can't love and are most likely dangerous to get involved with. I'd avoid them like the plague simply out of fear for my physical safety. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/20 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Femaledatingstrategies is a toxic sub for womenI do agree with you that RP is teaching women to sociopathically dehumanize men and see them as resource providers. But RP doesn't see it that way. They think that somehow love will blossom in a union based simply on an agreement that he is a walking ATM and she is barefoot and pregnant at home. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Femaledatingstrategies is a toxic sub for womenI said the exact opposite. Read my comment again. I said that no matter how many resources the man provides, at the end of the day that is not what will make her love him. I said that this is what trp and alt-righters expect. The woman looks for resources and protection. If a man can provide financial security for her and her children, she will get the warm and fuzzies and fall in love with him. I'm saying the opposite. Love will happen because of who the man is. The resources might make him exc… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/20 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Femaledatingstrategies is a toxic sub for womenAlt-right types do say that, and they are RP. They push for traditional families built on man-provider woman-home maker, where he is interested in youth and fertility, and she is interested in resources and protection. And I think also some non alt-right conservatives think the same way. Those who support the traditional family pretty much have to, if not outright ok it, at least say it is to be expected and it is not a bad thing. But nobody, of any persuasion, likes to be fleeced. I think what … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Are we men , Hipergamous too?I don't think the word you want there is "polyandric" lmao | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/03/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.I agree with you 10000% that this "men pursue, women wait to be pursued" bullshit has got to stop. I don't know if it's feminism or patriarchy or whatever the fuck that's to blame for this, but I loathe this situation. As a woman who likes to initiate and pursue, it's not really any fun for me either. You guys are socialized that you have to pursue, if you like a girl you have to be the one to walk up to her and then arrange dates, pay for her meal or tickets and all that. From my perspective,… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/20 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Confusion about the 'traditional' family.I don't know where these folks get the idea that Eastern European women stay home. Most of the time, both parents have to work to keep the house running and food on the table. The countries are poorer, shit needs to get done, so none of that one-parent-stays-home fluff. And as for us kids in the 90s, we wanted our parents to stay the fuck out of our hair, which they did. We were playing outside, with the keys to the house on a chain around the neck. Parents couldn't pick us up from school so we … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | My first girlfriend cheated on me after asking to wait for sex and even after years later I am still no better at getting over it. A few months after that is when I found the red pill but I didn't know it was controversial at the time.Lol why specifically that? Why not some other religion/holy book? Yes, people go to religion when they are desperate. I make a point of never making big decisions when I am desperate/depressed/anxious, because they are very likely to be very bad ones. If I can avoid it, I don't even write routine e-mails in that state. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/20 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Femaledatingstrategies is a toxic sub for womenYeah it's sad that there are women who actually think the way redpill men say women think. The paradox I've noticed is that redpill teaches that it is ok and good for a woman to be after resources and protection because she needs them for herself and her children. But then when women do that, and they treat men like walking ATMs, the men start whining that their wives and girlfriends don't love them for them. Where the hell do they expect that love to come from? The whole system is a shit show f… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | I sometimes wonder how the fuck a woman could be attracted to meI hate steak and I like short skinny guys. Masculinity as it's conventionally defined (big, buff, and tough) doesn't appeal to me. But whatever "negative" trait someone has, there will be some people in the world who like exactly that. Women differ in their tastes, just like men. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/20 04:56 AM |
| 1 | My first girlfriend cheated on me after asking to wait for sex and even after years later I am still no better at getting over it. A few months after that is when I found the red pill but I didn't know it was controversial at the time.Yeah, I can see the advantage. An imaginary being will never let you down. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/20 04:35 AM |
| 1 | My first girlfriend cheated on me after asking to wait for sex and even after years later I am still no better at getting over it. A few months after that is when I found the red pill but I didn't know it was controversial at the time.I've been through something quite similar, though probably not as severe as you, but rejected, not given a chance, infantilized, feelings disrespected by the man I was in love with. I've been through this type of mental state and the fact of the matter is that no amount of pep talk and tough love, therapy, or medication and all that made a difference, really. Tough love especially made me want to punch people. I finally started healing when, after a few years, I realized that a guy I had feeli… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/20 04:21 AM |
| 6 | I am truly a misogynist.Yeah, these morons are the kings of ridiculous sweeping generalizations. It's funny because he is perfectly willing to accept that there are women who don't love their children (yet at the same time holding on to their belief that all women have this motherly instinct that overpowers anything else), but not that there are women who love their partners for who they are. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/20 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Older woman seem to be a little bit more easy to talk to engage with than younger womenYounger woman who likes older guys here. From my perspective, younger men seem not necessarily unsafe in the sense of life or death danger, but in general too intense and neurotic in everyday life. Like they haven't seen enough of life to calm down and know how shit functions so they are banging their heads against the walls. I am like that, so I need a man to counterbalance that. What am I going to do with another me? :))))) I'm friends with women who like younger men, cougar types. What they… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Competing with older men.Where did I say I do? He has an advantage in the sense that there are so many more women who want men their own age than there are women who want older guys. But he seems to be going for women who want older guys, and I'm saying that, for that demographic of women, he has about as much of an advantage as he has competing with a woman for a lesbian. If he went for "women in general", he wouldn't have a problem. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Impossible Male Beauty Standards and MasculinityIf you don't believe a woman when she says she loves you, maybe you will believe a woman when she says she loves someone else. My crush is about 5'7'', skinny, and narrow-shouldered. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Competing with older men.Exactly. Going for women who want older men as a young man makes about as much sense as being a man who consistently goes after lesbians. It's just not gonna work :) | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Competing with older men.Not really. He has an advantage for the demographic that likes traits he has, that's it. Speaking as a woman who likes older guys exclusively, there's nothing that a guy my age or younger can do that will make me attracted to him. But he shouldn't be going for me in the first place. It's not that young guys are not attractive, it's that they don't match my taste. I see 20-something year old guys I think are really cute and think "he's gonna be quite the heartbreaker in about 20-25 years". | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | As an ex red pill woman, I still feel like I’m unworthy, slowly becoming infertile on the basis I’m still not married with kids (24F)One of my friends is 35, she says she plans to have more kids (she has two) because she is still very fertile. My own mom in her 30s was still fertile as a bunny. I think you're pretty safe. And like u/poca_loca said, as you near your 30s, things will get better. My own 20s were horrible. I'm 31 now, and if there's something that I wish I could tell depressed and anxious 24-year-old me is that it gets better as you approach the 30 mark. It wasn't even that I was confused about who I was, I was… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | As an ex red pill woman, I still feel like I’m unworthy, slowly becoming infertile on the basis I’m still not married with kids (24F)Link to that, please! | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you guy believe in the Dual Mating theoryI don't think it's a strategy, so much as a coping mechanism. People didn't use to marry for love, but for economic considerations and the families of both partners were waaay to heavily involved. Women didn't have much choice in who they married. Under this situation, why shouldn't the woman choose to take a lover (like many men did)? The reason why the woman taking a lover stands out is that it would mean that her children are most likely not her husband's. Well, sure, but why the hell would t… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Shedding Incel/Redpill worldview seems impossible because it is so trueIt is like a Murphy's law, isn't it? When you wash your car it rains but don't try washing your car to make it rain, that doesn't work. Same here. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Shedding Incel/Redpill worldview seems impossible because it is so trueThen for you it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Vulnerability is not weakness, but neurotic insecurity is. Black/white thinking is. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Can't get over dick sizeDude, vaginas really are not that deep. I was actually looking to get a 5-inch dildo. I have a 5.5-inch one that I can't ride comfortably, because it pushes into my cervix, and there's only so much of that I can take. :)) As for the circumcision stuff, that made me angry. Those people who said that are complete morons. But just know that there are women who understand and appreciate the foreskin. As far as I'm concerned, I would rather prefer a foreskin to play with than a big-sized dick. I ho… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 01:38 AM |
| 3 | You Can’t Have Healthy Relationship With A Red Pill Man.Wow, you sound like such a jewel of a person... /s I'm uncomfortable with people falling apart in front of me too, but it's because I know I can't help them, and I feel their pain. I don't hold them in contempt and make them feel like a burden, because I wouldn't want to be treated like that if I were in their place. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 01:14 AM |
| 3 | There are 2 guys (High SMV and Infidelity)Actually, maybe her chances of cheating on Guy 1 are extremely low. Think about it like this. Any woman who is dating Guy 1 on purpose is likely pretty odd herself. If she is dating him, it's because that is what she really wants, and it's not easy to find. So once she has him, she's not really interested in anyone else. Now, Guy 2 is uninteresting. There are many like him. His gf is more likely to be superficial, and thus more likely to cheat if she gets bored or something. Yes, he is also mo… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | There are 2 guys (High SMV and Infidelity)I'll have to judge them for myself. "Not so socially aware with less than average social skills" doesn't tell me much. Lack of confidence also doesn't say anything about his person. "Kind of funny when he feels it" makes sense, awkward people tend to be like that, but they are genuine, which I like. I have no trust in whether he is "respected" or not, I don't think most people are capable of recognizing value when they see it. What are his interests, values, and intellectual level? That's what I… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/19 12:41 AM |
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