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What is a shadowban? Why would this warrant a shadow ban? Link to rules please
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:37 AM
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Huh? Just block me if you don’t want to see my comments
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:23 AM
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True, amount of rejections on it’s own is a meaningless stat
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:21 AM
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Nope. They’re unable to get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:09 AM
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A bad way of saying it.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 03:16 PM
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Its not reality. And yes but not trash
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 02:29 PM
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Nope.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 02:20 PM
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No. They are worse at certain things. Doesnt make them trash
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 01:18 PM
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Nope they dont
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 01:04 PM
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Yeahh that doesnt make someone trash
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 12:20 PM
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Define trash
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 12:03 PM
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Because their worth is not determined by the things you think it is
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 12:00 PM
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Theyre not trash
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:52 AM
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Yup, it’s like a self-fulfilling prophecy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:12 AM
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No, they’re not.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 09:24 AM
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if you say so
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 11:45 PM
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Facts. A lot of people just need a fucking reality check instead of endlessly whining in an echo chamber full of delusional incels who will reinforce their negative beliefs about women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:42 PM
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Lol. I’m sure women are really dissapointed that they wont get to date an incel like you
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 11:29 PM
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Like I said, same thing. Fumbling a potential shot because of an assumption
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 11:19 PM
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Eh, you assume his same mentality for dating post 30 right? Impossible a women will like you, she’s just ‘settling down’. Boils down to the same thing really. Also, with a negative mentality there’s a good chance you miss opportunities because you dont see them through a negative lens.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 10:32 PM
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Imagine how much these incels like to meme about mindset etc, while OP literally admits to fucking up his own chances due to being insecure. When women talk to him he automatically assumes they are settling and see him as a walking wallet. Depressing really
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 09:29 AM
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Yes, just like not showing emotions can put women off you.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 04:24 PM
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Yeah big lack of empathy from them in that case
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:11 PM
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So you tried opening up to them? And they didnt give a shit or?
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:49 PM
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Well I never had it with my father sadly but a few of my friends I could yes. Even with them for me it was in a different way than I could open up with women
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:47 PM
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I’ll have to do some research but I’m sure that there’s a study out there. Do you believe that most men can openly discuss emotions with other men?
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:42 PM
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Males can be good friends with each other, but if the friendship doesn’t give the safe space to discuss feelings it’s surface-level friendship. Unfortunately a lot of male friendships are like this. It doesn’t make them bad people, the stigma that opening up = feminine causes this and affects friendships
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:37 PM
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You can’t resolve issues with your own partner by talking to your friends about it. In some cases the partner needs to know what you are feeling. And yes it’s the same for true close friendships. If you can’t open up, it’s not a real friendship.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:33 PM
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Tell me how a relationship can possible succeed when it is not a possibility to safely discussion emotions. I’m gonna assume this question comes from your lack of experience, since there is absolutely no way a relationship won’t go nuclear if the guy cannot speak about his feelings with his partner. If the guy ever wants to discuss anything with his partner regarding his emotions he will have to bottle it up and inevitably explode
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:29 PM
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They dont encourage it less than fathers. Like I said women do most of the emotional nurturing. And no, it’s not irrelevant. In all succesfull relationships the guy can open up to his wife/gf (a lot)
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:24 PM
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A lot of fathers do not encourage sons to show emotions because they themselves do not know how to do it well. And man, if you cant even open up to your own fucking GF/wife that relationship was doomed from the beginning
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:19 PM
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Good that there is no toxic masculinity in your group of male peers. Most men cant say the same. Women do most of the emotional nurturing when having a child. Fathers are often told not to show their emotions and to be a “rock” for the family and “be strong”.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:15 PM
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Both false. Toxic masculinity because among male peers it’s considered feminine to talk about your feelings (even with male friends), while women talk about their feelings with each other more often. And yes there are women who will use it against you. We are talking about averages here. It’s a biological fact that women are more empathetic than men
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:06 PM
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It’s toxic masculinity that promotes this kind of behavior, not women. Women are naturally more empathetic than men.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:02 PM
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The fact that you disagree on the statement that the giga majority of women cares about mens feelings literally says enough how you view them. You seriously think that the vast majority of them doesn’t give a shit when you open up and show vulnerability? Depressing
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 08:57 PM
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No need to insult. Stop the ad hominems. Yeahh it’s definitely not the giga majority that doesn’t care about mens feelings. Yes you have a hard time compared to attractive men. Doesn’t mean you can give up like a defeated loser in your early 20s lol Obviously you never said all are bad, but you sure make it sound like a lot of them are! If according to you men do these things just as much as women, why even bring them up in the context of male virginity?
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 08:50 PM
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“women dont give a crap” implies all. if you meant otherwise you’d say most women or half or something like that (and not after I call you out on it) it’s not about fault. It’s about the delusion and shoving away responsibility to external factors which you have no control over. And now “there can be bad women”. Good job, much more nuanced and correct. You said that even ugly women don’t want to date you, implying that they have high standards and that they are dating out of their league due to …
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 08:43 PM
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Not really my fault if I take statement like they are written. Why are you trying to downplay you blaming your country? According to you it’s a big part of why you are a virgin. You do blame women. According to you: men don’t open up due to women not giving a crap about mens feelings women are shallow women have high standards regarding looks women gaslight men about their preferences I don’t mind people disagreeing with me, that’s why I’m here. If I couldn’t handle it I’d go to inceltear to mak…
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 08:35 PM
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Yes I got banned. Not for insulting you though. Got it for reality checking some users in the so called safe space that is r/virgin. Easy way to just put the responsibility on the reader for “jumping to conclusions” when you intentionally make blanket statements. And no, not using ad hominems isn’t baby sitting. Agreeing with people who blame genetics/their country/women is though
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 08:23 PM
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Lmao didn’t get banned for insulting you. Not gonna spend time searching it: you said it yourself that it happened often between our discussions. And no I don’t think it’s important to cater to feelings of strangers like a babysitter. Especially when they are arguing from a hostile position.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 08:16 PM
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So you don’t think it’s important to be more precise in your wording when you would otherwise make ridiculous generalizing statements about a whole gender? Always happens to coincidentally be something negative about women and when you are called out in it you add most/average to not come across as an women hater 😂
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 08:03 PM
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No, moving the goalposts is saying “women dont give a crap” and then afterwards saying “on average”. Its clear what you meant
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 07:27 PM
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It is. Good thing you corrected your generalizing statement about women. Good boy
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 07:22 PM
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Cringe. You know thats not what I meant
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 06:58 PM
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I see. Define average
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 06:23 PM
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Agree. But I responded to the statement “women dont give a crap”
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 06:09 PM
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I doubt women call you shallow just because you believe leagues exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:56 PM
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No, they get traumatized by bad experiences and use that to falsely conclude that all women dont care
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 05:54 PM
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They dont do it because they think women dont give a crap about them (which isnt true obviously)
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 05:37 PM
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Never heard that before in my life, guess we met different women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:36 PM
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What a generalization
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 05:09 PM
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They absolutely can. Just need to be realistic about your own ‘league’
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:18 PM
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Well I’d say those women are confusing their own personal taste with conventional attractiveness. If a woman genuinely believes Henry Cavill is ugly she’s an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:29 PM
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If she is personally not attracted to him, but can see why others would (because he is conventionally attractive), no. If she calls him ugly straight up, yes I would call her deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:00 PM
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We’ve been over this before. One can say beauty is subjective while also acknowledging the fact that there are ‘leagues’. This is called conventional beauty (or lack thereof). It’s beautifully said because some incels are so deluded about womens beauty standards nowadays :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:48 AM
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Beautifully said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:09 PM
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Its almost if looks are subjective 😂
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 09:12 PM
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Cool. Sounds like a big project indeed, and one that is very complex. GL with it mate
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 11:49 AM
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Good to hear mate, makes sense why u argue blackpillers if u have this experience
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 10:29 AM
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May I ask you to share a bit more details? What lead you to have more success with women despite getting fatter etc?
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 01:48 AM
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Agree
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 09:52 PM
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LOL not at all,it can mean they want to fool around and keep fucking other women. A lot of men cant commit
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 01:35 PM
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Wanting to have sex with is something different than a relationship. That’s why women are a lot more cautious about men lol. I think the vast majority of women could get easy sex since men are so desperate
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 12:44 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 11:36 AM
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because a lot of men are so desperate that they’d tap any woman tbh
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 09:15 AM
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I know, I answered ofc not because I know you dont do those things. Was talking about the other blackpillers
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 07:52 PM
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ofc not, a lot of blackpillers are incels who will insult you with all types of ridiculous things if you challenge their worldview
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 06:48 PM
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True. The whole thing is just a big coping mechanism
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 12:43 PM
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Yeah I know, just said I see it a lot the other way around aswell.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 02:07 PM
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Facts. It’s also why guys put attractive women on a pedestal and behave like simps
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 12:18 PM
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I know your life on romantic level is giga tough compared to conventionally attractive dudes. I do still believe that you can have a fulfilling romantic life though
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 07:26 PM
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Listen, I dont believe in guaranteed succes. All I would like for you to do is not give up so early at this age. The future is too unsure to do it so quickly. Otherwise you will spend the rest of your live thinking “what if I had tried”. It genuinely pains me to think that the past experiences must have been so bad that you lost hope
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 07:24 PM
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Not sure how many you will meet. That depends on the path you take in life and how many new people you encounter. But you have the option to meet many more
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 07:20 PM
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It’s an understandable train of thought if that’s all you have experienced. That doesn’t make it a correct one or a useful one though. There are too many goddamn women out there to make such a bold statement
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 07:16 PM
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Sad to hear you genuinely believe that every woman outside of that group thinks you are ugly
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 07:13 PM
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Who? The demisexuals and ones who fetishize you? 😂
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 07:03 PM
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Even that can change over time. Also, do you think all women find you ugly?
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 06:46 PM
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I worded it poorly. Yes it can make it appear when it wasn’t there. Seen it happen enough times
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 06:30 PM
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Yes, but sexual attraction can increase over time due to ones personality. Ive seen and heard it happen with female friends who fell for a guy who they never thought they’d ever sleep with
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 02:44 PM
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Yes, because for them your looks were apparently too big of a dealbreaker. It’s not like that for every woman who isn’t a demisexual or fetishizes you
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 02:27 PM
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Man, how you have come to the conclusion that all you can get are demisexuals and women who fetishize short and ‘ugly’ men is beyond me. There are women who can love you mainly for your personality (who aren’t demisexuals) and who don’t fetishize you.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 02:24 PM
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Yes, but its what I was referring to. It may be limited but its definitely not limited to demisexuals lol
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:34 PM
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Your pool is not limited to demisexuals. And okay, that sucks. But I was referring to women who sleep with random guys easily.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:10 PM
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Yes unfortunately it has been 0 so far. But judging by what you have told me about yourself (you take good care of yourself, think about style, workout, are not a woman hater like a lot of guys here, have good social skills) I genuinely think that it’s only a matter of time until you find a woman who is compatible with you. Do not get discouraged by your male peers who get sex with random women easily. I can guarantee that those types of women are not the women you want to be with
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 12:52 PM
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No need to be a jester. A woman who you need to be a jester for doesn’t respect you and doesn’t like you for who you are.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 12:32 PM
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Doesn’t seem like you know how to apply it. Still a pity considering you are so young and have given up already. With people like shadowcats age its more understandable
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 11:44 AM
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Not the same thing, seems like you don’t know how to apply deductive reasoning. Unfortunate that you let past experiences dictate your future
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 11:41 AM
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I know what that is. Applying statistics you find online to your personal life to justify inaction is something else though
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 11:11 AM
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Lot of assumptions you are making there which can’t be proven for your situation.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 10:55 AM
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Yup. Better to give up because ‘the odds are low anyway’
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 10:24 AM
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Nope. Just a reason to justify inaction
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 09:34 AM
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Cant guess accurately at all tbh
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 10:11 PM
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Not really, since you dont know who you’ll meet
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 05:45 PM
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Cool imma practice predicting the future then
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 10:36 AM
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Not clear at all. Unless you are a psychic of course.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 09:58 AM
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Well I said subjective because it can differ from person to person the reason I said pre 30 is because in that age range you are usually exposed to more situations that can cause you to meet new people and expand your social circle (one of the best ways to find a partner), but that doesn’t mean it’s doomed after that
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:00 AM
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Subjective, but pre 30 i’d say. After that it gets really hard
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 09:32 PM
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Nah. Especially not at a young age.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 09:07 PM
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Yeah if a relationship is not a priority for you, sure.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 08:55 PM
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Yes thats all past rejections. None of those are a reason to give up, unless finding a relationship is not important for you.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 08:49 PM
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They are not clear at all. When we are talking about something as complex as finding a compatible partner, there are too many personal circumstances at play to come to a probability. Looking at past rejections is not enough.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 08:12 PM
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No way for them to know for sure unless they give up
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 07:57 PM
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Trying to find a relationship and banging your head against a wall? Yup it is
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 09:50 AM
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It’s not a cliche. You all love to meme on the importance of confidence but look how your negative perception is ruining your life. Calling people ‘trash’ for being unable to find a relationship, jesus christ
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 09:05 AM
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That’s a depressing definition
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 07:15 AM
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Nobody is trash for being unable to find a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 07:15 AM
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Still a pity.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 10:29 PM
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Beautifully said
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 02:17 PM
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If you want to give up and justify inaction, yes.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 11:26 AM
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No, I am assuming they gave up AFTER blaming external factors. Could be that they tried and failed
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 11:21 AM
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Could be, but until you give up and blame external factors you never know what will happen.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 11:14 AM
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If you want to justify inaction and stay single/virgin for the rest of your life, agreed.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 11:11 AM
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Wtf are u talking about
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 04:36 PM
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I didn’t need to be there. I can tell enough by the statements you write.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 03:49 PM
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They are.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 11:42 AM
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No, convenient is blaming things you have no control over in order to justify inaction.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 07:18 AM
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Hard concept? We were talking about dating with autism and mental disorders. It seems like you don’t even know why the women in your life have rejected you. But I guess it’s convenient to blame your autism and mental disorders for your lack of success with women.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 12:08 AM
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All of those who didn’t want to go on a date with you because you have autism and mental disorders.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 11:54 PM
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I asked how many women on average rejected you specifically because of autism/mental disorders.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 11:37 PM
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Just curious how big your sample size is in order to make such generalizing conclusions
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 07:19 PM
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Aha. How many told you that may I ask?
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 07:09 PM
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Damn. Those people explicitly told you that they didn’t desire you because of your autism and mental disorders?
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:33 PM
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So? Doesnt mean you cant desire someone who does have those things
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:24 PM
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So the 30% doesnt/didnt desire their partner according to you?
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:13 PM
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That’s not the bs I called out. You said that nobody desires an autistic person. Simply incorrect. It’s not a requirement to ‘cure’ your autism and mental disorders to get a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:05 PM
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that’s the nature of an online forum. gotta call out bs when I see it tho!
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 05:29 PM
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If you want to use that as an excuse to sit around and do nothing, be my guest.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 04:32 PM
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Same. Its giga cringe
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 01:53 PM
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I think this sub is quite lenient with those types of comments unfortunately
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 09:43 PM
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Well tbh its very scary how often those people get upvoted with women hating statements
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 09:38 PM
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Maybe you don’t, but plenty blackpilled people here say that it’s all that matters
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 09:32 PM
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Oh. Didnt know there were no autistic people in relationships
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 06:04 PM
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Agreed.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 10:36 AM
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? Any advice is bad anyway in they eyes of incels, whats the point?
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 08:55 AM
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Depends on the woman.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 08:31 AM
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Luckily you don’t need to cure those to find a woman!
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 07:40 AM
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Ofc its not brutal. These delusional incels love to believe that the current state of dating is doomed so it doesnt make them feel too bad about being unable to find a woman. The fact that they think this woman represents the current dating market is enough proof that they dont touch grass
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:01 AM
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Hahahahahahahahhahahaha jesus christ what a depressing outlook on women 😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:15 PM
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Bad social skills, bad style, bad physique, bad hygiene, inability to take care of yourself mentally and financially.. could be a lot of things
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 09:00 AM
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I know that may seem like a fantasy to someone in your situation, but things will get better. I believe in you bro!
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:45 AM
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Dont need to change anything. Im not the one rotting in my room for 3 days contemplating the meaning of life
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:43 AM
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There it is. Knew you were one of those who blame womens standards
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:42 AM
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These subs are pretty entertaining with creatures like you 😂
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:41 AM
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Maybe look at the top comment
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:40 AM
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Hahahahahha that was a troll post 😂😂 but I didnt expect you to be able to notice that
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:39 AM
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Maybe they’re not as average as you think. It’s literally in the word average. But it makes sense since a lot of incels think women have unreasonably high standards
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:39 AM
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You are talking about yourself right?
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:36 AM
-1

Try going outside instead of rotting in your room 😂
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:27 AM
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Alright you are too far down the rabbit hole, my bad
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:22 AM
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The average man has friends and success with women.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:19 AM
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From your own post. The average man does not rot alone and suffer in silence 😂
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:18 AM
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Not sure how that means she’s lying.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 03:44 PM
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How do you know she’s lying?
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 03:30 PM
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Well, good for her I guess. For me looks are important, guess they aren’t for her.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 03:26 PM
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Not sure why that is worth pointing out, but okay.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:56 PM
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Your question is not the gotcha that you think it is. Of course she wouldn’t date any funny guy. There are a lot more factors to be taken into consideration.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:49 PM
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Relax mate. Also, in the context if this discussion to which I replied, she said that, for her, a guy that can make her laugh becomes attractive even if she didn’t think he was attractive beforehand. So we were talking about ugly guys.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:44 PM
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Semantics? You asked me to point to a comment, and I did. Then you moved the goalpost.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:39 PM
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Pretty irrelevant. Now that’s something else than “irrelevant”.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:37 PM
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The title of your latest post. “Yet another anecdote proving how irrelevant personality is for dating”
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:33 PM
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??? You are kidding right?
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:28 PM
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Thats the truth most here that don’t want to hear. It contradicts their belief that personality doesnt matter and it’s all about looks.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:56 PM
1

Well who knows you might get tempted again.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 07:43 PM
1

All I can say is good try, and you took the rejection nicely. Sucks she wasn’t attracted to you. Keep trying mate
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 05:16 PM
1

He doesnt actually want to get out his situation, not sure how you haven’t noticed that by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:45 AM
-1

Its definitely a niche group. This echo chamber just makes it seem bigger than it really is
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 07:55 PM
1

If yours included pedo, I could say the same for u. Go namechange
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 10:15 AM
1

Pedo
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 10:11 AM
1

I think u meant to respond to u/ItoshiSae10 ?
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:30 PM
6

Blaming women? Wtf are u on about
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:42 PM
3

They can just not be her type. That doesn’t mean the guy is ugly. Same thing other way around.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 03:21 PM
1

🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:17 PM
1

Yes unfortunately some people dont have the self knowledge/insight to pick a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:25 PM
1

No, they are literally unhappy in those marriages. Thats why personality is important
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:22 PM
1

They see it, and they hope it will change or they think they can compromise. After a while they realize they cant. I meant your first point*
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:20 PM
1

They’re not hiding it. Idk where you are getting that from Also: first doesnt make sense. Incels are perma complaining about how doomed standards are for men yet they still want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:37 PM
1

I agree the guy is being lazy in your scenario. But you are completely delusional if you think societal standards dont cause this Second point: it can cause divorce. People sometimes think they can change others or put up with lazy behavior. After a while its too much and the woman can decide to divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:08 PM
1

But it’s true? Doesn’t have anything to do with personality in most cases. Due to societal standards the burden of household tasks is often placed on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:41 PM
1

You’re certainly blowing the first example of men not washing their ass out of proportion to support your argument that personality is not important. Most men definitely know how to wash their ass 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:26 PM
1

Well if you dont want to be in a relationship and have sex, thats fine. Nobody forcing you to
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 09:19 PM
1

Approaching is not the same as taking initiative to date. You can feel out whether or not a girl might be interested
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 02:26 PM
1

That sucks. But you dont necessarily have to approach. It could happen organically
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 02:06 PM
1

Why not
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 01:33 PM
1

You dont know it will take ten years. You are automatically assuming she will be settling down.
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 08:09 AM
1

Yeah well the people who think looks dont matter at all are smoking some good shit I can understand why you think that after 10 years of trying. But its not doomed man, you never know who you are gonna meet. Stop referring to yourself as an ugly guy. A woman who is worth it for you will not call you that. Just keep working on yourself as you have been doing and stay patient. Im 100% sure it will pay off
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 01:18 AM
1

Personality > looks. Do people actually regularly tell this to you? It’s not bs friend. You dont need to be some form of a jester. You can find a woman who you can have an equal relationship with who likes you for who you are. I dont mean this as a fucking cringe platitude. There are good women out there
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 01:11 AM
1

I have no idea what all those color pills mean so im not sure what u mean by that. Idk why you see everything so black and white. Both looks and personality are important. With productive I meant helping you reach the goal of attracting women, not debating people on reddit 😂
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 01:06 AM
1

You probably arent doing things worse than them. for them its easier since they are taller and more conventionally attractive. So they dont need to do shit for it. I just dont see how this mindset will result in anything productive
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 01:01 AM
1

You can do everything right and still not get any women if you are a deformed burn victim maybe. But even a “short ugly guy” can get women if he improves in other areas. hiding behind factors u cant do anything about is a losers mentality
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 12:56 AM
1

Idk why you are taking these opinions of people around you as facts. You need to be looking at the lack of results. If you arent getting women, you’re doing something wrong. It’s simple
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 12:53 AM
1

Because it’s hard to tell someone the truth lol
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 12:47 AM
1

Ofc hes doing something wrong, but its hard to say what it is over the internet. Probably being gaslit by girls
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 12:43 AM
1

Dont tell incels about the things women have to deal with, they’ll come up with some crazy cope excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:41 PM
1

Ah okay.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 07:30 PM
1

Not true. It’s just harder. But they are out there for sure
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 04:30 PM
1

I hope that will change for you.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 03:13 PM
1

Well, I mean this genuinely: good shit bro. Sounds like you are taking good care of yourself even though it may not directly give you women. Definitely keep it up, I can assure you, that even if your chances are as low as you say they are, they would be MUCH lower if you didnt do all of these things. Do you think your ‘game’ or ‘rizz’ as ppl call it is good?
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 10:56 AM
1

I don’t know the answer to your question. Do you think there are ways for you to improve your looks?
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 10:46 AM
1

That is a misinterpretation of stats. If 1% of women are demisexuals that does not mean u can only get that 1% lmao
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 10:38 AM
1

This assumes that only demisexuals would be attracted to you, which of course doesn’t make sense. Sucks to hear that you think finding a woman for you is like searching for a unicorn. I hope your view changes in the future
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 09:50 AM
1

Sucks to hear that the women you have encountered all cared about height. Does that mean you have stopped trying to find a woman? Because that would be a waste. Out of curiosity, where are you getting the <2% number from btw?
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 09:46 AM
1

They don’t speak for the majority. A woman can talk about her own preferences. And yes, even if its not the majority it helps the odds of short guys. Who even cares about the majority? Does having a trait that the majority doesn’t like mean that it’s doomed? Ofc not 😂
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 09:38 AM
-1

There’s always an excuse that incels use. Even when a woman explicitly says she doesnt care about height for example she must be lying!!
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 02:42 PM
1

Incels are delusional it’s that simple
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 09:18 AM
-4

A woman of value does indeed not like it when men use language such as pump and dump.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 11:36 AM
-3

lmao depressed incels
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 05:02 PM
0

Nearly all women bisexual😂😂😂 my fucking eyes the state of this sub
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 08:03 AM
2

Never said it’s uncommon. A lot of women sleep around these days.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 08:16 AM
2

Also, as wrong as it is, misogynistic men have higher chance of succeeding with women like the one you described.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 07:59 AM
2

A woman who shows that type of behavior doesn’t have self respect. Going to bed with a guy like that so quickly proves it.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 07:56 AM
1

What is the point of this anecdote? Who cares about women who go to bed with guys that easily?
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 07:43 AM
-1

No bullshit is going on homie. It’s all in your warped perception
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 11:31 PM
1

I dont use it like a debunk when people say that looks matter. Anyone who says looks dont matter and that they are subjective is retarded. It just irks me when people pretend like they cant do anything just because they are short (not saying you do this)
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 07:01 PM
1

You still don’t seem to understand it. Either taste is subjective or objective. not what I said Yes it is. You said my gf would go for a taller guy if there were 2 versions of me. This implies that if there were a taller guy (not like me) she would still choose me. (The shorter one)
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 06:02 PM
1

So you’re saying it’s possible for a short guy to be liked more than a tall guy by being attractive in other ways than height? Also, it’s definitely not as rare as you make it seem. The bar isn’t very high height wise. Most women I know have the only requirement of not being taller than their boyfriend. As long as their boyfriend is taller than them, most don’t care from my experience.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 04:52 PM
1

Yeah so she’d rather be with a tall guy than me I guess. Let’s hope she doesnt leave me
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 04:44 PM
1

yup. either that or im lucky or my gf doesnt truly love me and isnt actually attracted to me. She must have settled.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 04:43 PM
1

guess im a jester then
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 04:40 PM
1

Well one would be delusional to think that short guys have it just as easy as tall guys. That’s not the way I use it. However, I do think its FAR from doomed and there are enough ways to succeed with women as a short guy
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 03:16 PM
1

But it is a debunk to those who say women only date tall chads. :)
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 03:07 PM
1

Im not shifting the goalpost. Just trying to understand your way of thinking. No need to get offended. I dont need to explain how its subjective. Something can still be subjective while a majority prefers a certain thing. There does not need to be a perfect distribution for something to be subjective.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 02:38 PM
1

I prefer a girl too with a perfect hourglass figure, big tits, big ass, great face aswell. Does that mean I dont date other girls? Do u believe women only date tall men?
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 02:18 PM
1

So its subjective?
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 02:13 PM
1

Ah now its “most of the time”. Which is it?
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 02:01 PM
1

Not Scandinavia. Guess I was one of the lucky short guys in a country with tall guys then! Since women only worship tall men.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:57 PM
1

No clue. I am 1.75m in a country where the average height is 1.86m. Havent really encountered any problems. Also, even if certain traits are more desirable it’s still subjective.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:23 PM
1

No. If something is objective it’s not something you “can agree on”. It just is. If you can have another opinion, its subjective.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 12:01 PM
1

Cant be both. If its objective everyone likes the same. If its subjective, taste can differ.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 11:46 AM
1

If its not completely objective its subjective
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 11:44 AM
1

No. More people liking certain artists singers does not make it objective. If music were objective everyone would listen to the same stuff.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 11:41 AM
1

once the music objectively reaches a certain level then it becomes subjective No such thing as an objective level. For example, I despise metal music. I’d rather listen to your singing than metal 😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 11:29 AM
1

It’s clearly subjective since people like a lot of different genres. The fact that most people listen to pop doesn’t change that
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 11:19 AM
1

True there are elements of objectivity. Still subjective though.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 11:14 AM
1

Is music taste not subjective because most people listen to pop? And some genres are niche?
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 09:01 AM
1

I see.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 12:21 PM
1

Where?
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 12:20 PM
1

Done that plenty with incels. He also gets a notification from my message, so he knows ;)
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 12:16 PM
1

Where I mentioned that its weird that u dont say anything about his incel beliefs XD thats literally calling it out
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 12:00 PM
1

Called it out tho :)
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 11:42 AM
1

I didn’t partake in the discussion itself Called out how weird it is that you didnt mention his disgusting incel mindset, so didnt keep it shut
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 11:27 AM
1

Exactly, I mentioned how weird it was and thus calling out his retarded mindset
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 11:22 AM
1

… yes?
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 10:57 AM
1

I know u dont approve of it, just weird that arguing with rob has higher priority over someone who says women need to suffer. Weird priorities
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 10:36 AM
1

I dont approve of what he said Yet u choose to argue with ROBYoutube instead of the dude who says that “chad chasers have to suffer” 😂
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 10:06 AM
1

I agree, but I’d rather die alone than settle for a woman I dont 100% want
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 01:16 PM
1

Those are the only one who matter no? Who gives a shit about dumb immature women who want their bf to get into a bar fight for them😂
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 11:49 AM
1

Depends if the woman has a brain or not. An intelligent woman will not like it when a man gets into useless ego-based conflict with drunks.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 11:21 AM
1

yeahh u are mentally ill
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 10:19 AM
1

Its just a way for them to cope. Thats it
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 12:15 AM
1

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 12:13 AM
1

Yes the 3.5 billion women argument in particular is retarded I agree.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 08:58 PM
0

Ye when u word it like he did it seems retarded. Normal people dont actually gives this advice to that extreme extent tho
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 08:31 PM
-5

No, he didnt nail anything. Its a way to make fun of actual good advice
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 08:05 PM
1

You increase your chance of meeting someone if you drop the victim mentality
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 07:50 PM
-1

more than a buzzword in your case
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 07:46 PM
-4

keep circlejerking.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 05:20 PM
1

Well if she said it to insult you I can understand why you dont talk to her about her problems. Sorry to hear that mate
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 03:30 PM
1

So? Does she know that you think you will never find a woman?
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 03:17 PM
1

Tell them that you will not procreate since you were blessed with unlucky genetics and that no amount of self-improvement can help you since you are fit, charismatic, have a good personality and are confident. I think your mother might be able to help you
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 03:14 PM
1

The debunks are all over the post history. You’re just too blind to accept them. Idc about winning an internet argument with you, since I know I am right. I just love watching delusional people. It’s not a red herring. Im genuinely curious when/if you are going to tell your parents. They spent a lot of years raising you, many ancestors died before you to get you here, just to have you end up like a delusional incel? Jesus that is a BIG waste
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 02:56 PM
1

Not really. Also when are you going to tell your parents? Why are you dodging the question?
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 02:53 PM
1

Nope 😂 you can win an argument and insult at the same time. Btw when are you planning to tell your parents?
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 02:45 PM
1

Ad hominem!!! Btw when are you planning to tell your parents?
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 06:13 AM
1

Yes because you mentioned I did it so I brought up you did it. I can understand why you think like this though. You have female friends who disrespect you and gaslight you by telling you they’d date you if you were taller/more handsome. So that obviously means your personality is awesome. Too bad u got unlucky genetics. Nothing else to do I guess! Going to sleep now little man. Talk to you tomorrow for my daily source of entertainment.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 11:09 PM
1

Accuse you? Its not that serious lmao not gonna spend my time resding through post history for u doing something i dont care about. On the contrary, I think its good that u do it “Debunked me on it” 😂😂😂. Its not so niche as you word it. But I understand why you want to think that. It gives you inner peace to think that u have no chance because of your genes
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 11:02 PM
1

Homie I dont care that you bring up stuff outside the convo, it’s important to argue with the person and all his/her ideas, not just the particular one being discussed in a specific reddit post at that moment. I know why you are so insistent on defending the looks arent subjective standpoint😂😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 10:58 PM
1

you are the one who brings up things outside of the convo usually 😂 there is a reason ur advocating for this delusional standpoint
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 10:50 PM
1

yes cope more, personality doesnt matter and you are being doomed by the objective beauty standards!
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 10:47 PM
1

Cope
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 10:35 PM
-1

Its definitely about coping
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 10:05 PM
-1

Ye looks are definitely subjective. Saying they are objective is just a nice way to cope and justify doing nothing
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 09:43 PM
1

Facts. Better to just blame your genetics instead of taking responsibility
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 12:27 PM
-1

Agree.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 09:49 AM
1

Agreed!
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:06 PM
1

Attraction can be caused by different factors, including confidence. But if she isnt attracted to you then it doesnt matter :)
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 03:57 PM
1

Umm.. obviously she didnt? XD your point is?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 03:20 PM
1

? If you want it to bloom into something it can take time. Some great relationships start as friendships. Try to see it as a possibility its a a great sign she took initiative to see you
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:34 PM
1

Doesnt matter if its that or no friends 😂 Gj! there might be at least one healthy friendship if she also puts in effort. Way to go
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:04 PM
1

They are using you for attention because you PERSONALLY admitted to it being a onesided friendship because you do all of the complimenting, interviewing and making them feel good 😂😂😂. The way they treat you makes it obvious
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 01:48 PM
0

They are using you for attention because you PERSONALLY admitted to it being a onesided friendship because you do all of the complimenting, interviewing and making them feel good 😂😂😂. The way they treat you makes it obvious
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 01:48 PM
-1

Theyre telling you that they’d date you if you were more handsome/taller, since they obviously wouldnt and are just using you for your attention ☠️☠️☠️
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 12:12 PM
-2

Yes the same women u are confident with are gaslighting u 😂😂 nice confidence to be in a one sided friendship
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:52 AM
-1

Lol all these angry incels are letting their anger out on you. Keep going champ
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:21 AM
1

?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 03:02 PM
1

Yes it does, she thought confidence was the only reason she liked him. You told her that was not the case. Now she can look for those other traits that she didn’t know she was attracted to. Thanks!
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 02:59 PM
1

No but now she knows her own preferences more accurately! Now she can find a better fitting partner. Thanks!
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 02:54 PM
1

Yeah thanks for educating her on her preferences! Now she can look for a better partner
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 02:49 PM
1

Guess u/ezbyte is just clueless and has no idea why she likes him. Thanks for educating her!
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 02:46 PM
1

Can u tell me what I like about my girlfriend next please? I always thought it was her personality but maybe u can enlighten me
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 02:38 PM
1

U should be a dating coach since u know everyones preferences
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 02:27 PM
1

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 02:22 PM
1

Hhahahahahahhahahahahahahha yes mate u know her preferences better than she does u/ezbyte are u reading this?😂😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 02:15 PM
1

Makes sense that u’d doubt it. But I think she knows best why she likes her partner and not a random redditor.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 02:08 PM
1

But you are speaking directly to her. “Thats still not the only reason you are attracted to him”
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 02:01 PM
1

Nope. It could be that her personal preferences differ from most women. Women are not a monolith.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 01:26 PM
1

Lmaoooo ur so deluded that u can’t stand her reasons for being attracted to him
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 09:37 AM
2

😂😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 05:34 PM
0

? Do u not understand how stopping to spend time on incel forums and wasting multiple hours a day can have a big impact on someones life?😂😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 02:42 PM
0

Its good advice.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 09:34 AM
1

You are not a lazy weirdo. You were dealt a harder hand in life. Choosing not to pursue love doesn’t make you lazy.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 09:01 PM
1

It’s not over for you
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 06:38 PM
1

Just like your friendships. XD
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 12:27 PM
0

You are spineless. You let another girl get harassed and you did nothing.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 02:23 PM
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