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Delusionaldally/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:13 AM
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Delusionaldally/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:14 PM
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Better doesn’t mean good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:51 AM
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Yep height isn’t something I care too much about btw I’m 5’0
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:45 PM
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Requirements: taller than 5’0, have a penis, 6-8in and girthy, been to college, hairy chest, lean, the skinny to normal body weight Preference: hairy body, black, not solely from America, slim,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:24 AM
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I’ve been heartbroken. It actually felt painful and I slept in bed for more than 12hrs. a day, stopped having out with friends and became depressed but I don’t hate men. I think if you hate a gender it’s not really relevant to heartache mainly entitlement. I’m still not over it and everything I try to date they know about him but I guess you just have to take it one day at a time. Some days are good and some days are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:28 AM
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Why wait for other men to do it, do it now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:49 AM
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Oohhh so scary
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:23 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:19 AM
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I’ve seen it a lot in my personal life. I get it, you people hate women but try to think critically for a second and stop looking for the first thing to use to combat me with. I’ve been emotional and had it thrown in my Face by my mother and male partner who knows how hard it already is for me to open up. I know this because it used to consume a large part of my life and as an adult I’m starting to get used to the idea despite the risk. Chill out and stop downvoting me because you disagree when …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:07 AM
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There are many other examples that was just the most shocking one. It is not a gendered thing. For a while I never opened up but through time I got to see it as strength. It’s powerful to trust someone and be vulnerable not knowing the outcome so a man who does that becomes instantly likeable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:44 PM
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A friend of mine had two miscarriages and the guy got mad that no one asked about how he was handling it. When they have arguments he weaponizes the situation by saying “you can’t even do your job as woman” so being emotional and having someone throw it back in your face is not a gendered thing. It’s a shitty people thing. From my experience I always fall hard for men who are vulnerable and tell me everything emotional about them. It could be because I grew up repressing my emotions, only saw my…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:48 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:32 AM
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I come here for entertainment but sometimes it gets so dark I have to take a break for a bit. It’s chilling to know we could we walking along people who think like this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:40 AM
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Thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:15 AM
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I find that hard to believe. If a man is that desperate I find it hard to believe there isn’t several skin like mold vaginas that are heated anywhere on the Internet. If all you want is a life like mold you will definitely find that on the Internet, I’m not asking you I’m telling you. Which makes me suspect this has nothing to do with a vagina in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:12 AM
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I wish these disturbed individuals will understand this. Women do not obsess over them like they apparently do to us. They come up with whole conspiracy theories and shit. Prostitution can be legal whatever..but if most women who are doing it are vulnerable or desperate that shouldn’t happen in a functional society. I saw up in the thread that someone said all men want is a hole and they don’t care if a thousand men pump a woman in a glory hole, even if she has infections (which mind you can spr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:14 AM
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Oprah doesn’t have a husband. She has a partner, she keeps him around for years but never make it official through marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:45 PM
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It depends on the circumstance. If there is an energy and it’s appropriate no woman will be weirded out or pissed you approached them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:44 PM
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The amount of money my fat friend made on Onlyfans is absolutely insane. I mean men (lots of men) are going out of their way to pay to see her. Yet I’m sure these men berate fat women. I personally know a guy who chase a a beautiful fat friend of mine. She uses him and treats him like an all around trash but he always shit talks fat women. People need to live their truth and start living their own lives
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:30 AM
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Great for you! I also do my own eyebrows and stay fit. Its very easy for me to build muscle (from dad’s side) and I rarely wear makeup. I only wear it if I’m going out somewhere which is not too often. About the fitness thing, I keep costs down because I don’t need to go to the gym. I do my morning and evening yoga, stretches, abs, and some moderate cardio and I’m done for the day. I’m mainly focused on toning up, which I did(yay!)I started working out because all though I look healthy I had a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:36 PM
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...you do realize the privilege beautiful people have translated to real tangible benefits right? Dressing nice and walking across campus I was offered an internship from a staff I never spoke to. People treat you nicer when you look out together, more likely to randomly give you life advice that’s actually changed my life. That’s all I’ll say on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:52 PM
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That’s all I was saying. This was a response to a man saying he doesn’t understand why women won’t date down and this is my response to that. I could go into more long term things but everyone knows that’s, I wanted to talk about something very few people touch on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:49 PM
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It’s remarkable how a woman will talk about an abusive relationship and everyone runs down her throat about why she’s not accepting responsibility. But when a man talks about his abusive relationship people just listen and say “damn that’s fucked up” and keep it pushing. Never did I not accept responsibility for my actions, it was a dark time in my life and I grew past it. Nothing is scarier than trying to break up with a man who doesn’t “accept it”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:47 PM
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I don’t know if you men do everything you do to attract the opposite sex but that’s not how I work or how most women work. I have $500 as play money to do what I want every month. If you don’t have that we’re in two very different leagues. I’m not asking any man to pay for anything I do, I can more than afford it sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:41 PM
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I’ll look into it once I finish what I have now. But I just wanted to say spending $90 to last a year and change on Paula’s choice works out to about the same as buying 7-11 Ordinary stuff in the year. I don’t want an intensive routine because I’m less likely to stick to it. I have tried a handful of their stuff but nothing really worked for me. I’m really cheap so I didn’t pay for it, I was borrowing my roomate’s stuff, wasn’t really impressed and moved. The BHA thing Paula’s choice completely …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:44 AM
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What gold am I digging?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:24 PM
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Who said I wear long nails? I have school and a job. In the summer sure I’ll get long nails but those short well structured long lasting nails cost $100
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:17 PM
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Of course not. I use a toner, the bha, and a sunscreen. I was using the cerave moisturizing cream but I realized I’ve allergic to it so I’m trying to find a substitute. And I buy my stuff on sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:13 PM
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It’s one broke man who guilt tripped me into being with him and wouldn’t accept it when I tried breaking up with him. One day I gave him a heads up, blocked him and moved on with my life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:11 PM
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I recently found out I’m allergic to CeraVe. The ordinary products I haven’t tried yet because I bought my skincare for the year. I’m definitely cheap where I can and open to spending less lol, thanks for the recommendation though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:10 PM
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This is the cost of beauty products and services. I work out and live a healthy life style. The omission of that information doesn’t mean I’m not healthy it just wasn’t relevant to the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:05 PM
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About the lashes, I don’t get caterpillar lashes. It’s looks natural and people find it cute. Nothing I’m doing is for a man but men like it, anyone saying they don’t have no concept of natural looking lashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:02 PM
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You’re threat of capturing women from the east doesn’t make me jealous it makes me worried for their safety. I volunteer in organizations to stop human trafficking and I’ll keep fighting for as long as I’m able. I’m not broke once again. And money has never been an issue in my relationships with the exception of the guy I mentioned in the original post. I take my wallet out at dinners and the man always take care of the meal. I’ll repeat it once more IM NOT BROKE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:45 AM
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Never said I wanted to be Cardi B. I’m saying she looks better after she had the money to invest in herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:26 AM
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Good cause I don’t know you to be attracted to you mr. high value man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:24 AM
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Ahhh I see. I meant If you don’t have $500 a month to spend on beauty we aren’t a fit because money is very important. I’m not asking a man to pay for any of this but if you were me and you couldn’t afford it we’re just incompatible and that’s okay. I didn’t even get into the nitty gritty but especially if were dating to get married you’re finances need to be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:14 AM
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Not really. My fathers ugly and my mothers pretty and all the kids are good looking. And I think the idea of doomed to ugliness is a western idea. I watched a Korean movie and a mom told her insecure teenage daughter something to the effect of “so what if you’re ugly? Worry about what you can fix in life, get surgery, get cosmetic procedures, whiten you’re teeth, clear your skin and stop complaining” a beautiful persons looks can fade without upkeep. As long as you look good, great aura and pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:10 AM
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I brought up Cardi B because her before and after fame are drastically two different people. Regardless of what you think of her she definitely looks better than before
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:54 AM
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Cool. I had a lot of skin issues as a kid and my skin is very sensitive. I tried to thrift one time with some friends and my skin was itching like crazy and then I developed a rash. Thrifting just isn’t for me and I shop infrequently and intentionally. I don’t have that many clothes and wear everything in my closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:53 AM
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I’m not doing it to attract men. In fact I typically do not like male attraction. I’m socially anxious and would rather be left alone unless I’m in the mood the socialize which isn’t very often. I’m doing this because it’s fun. I used to feel ashamed of womanhood and now I’m not. By the way I attract men of all walks of life it’s more about who I accept. Also no where ever did I talk about a man subsidizing me, I can’t figure out why this keeps happening but if I have to repeat it I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:50 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:46 AM
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😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:39 AM
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Thrift store clothes itch even after washing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:38 AM
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I’m not broke. I’m sure where you got that from. And it sounds like you’re trafficking women to get $15k based on location.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:25 AM
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Nah I used to have skin issues (not acne) soap would mess my skin up. If you want recommendations check out Paula’s choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:22 AM
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Kim k is a naturally attractive woman and she does this and more. And I don’t NEED to do this I WANT to do this. I didn’t mention essentials to living I talked about beauty. And I think most women are naturally attractive anyways. Dressing up and taking care of myself is fun and liberating. Also not sure why people keep mentioning the need to pay for any of this when I said I pay for my own shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:20 AM
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I’m not a prostitute. I don’t want a man to give me money to do what I gotta do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:48 AM
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The everything in a (_) is what I spend every month. I’m not buying contacts every month but I use them almost every day when I’m outside. And sadly I’ve had rough experiences with cheap salons. A friend of mine got a cute manicure for $50, I went and got nail infection on almost all my nails. It was a struggle to get my refund so I either do my own nails or pay my nail tech the $100. My real eyelashes are very short and I want to wake up looking like a doll so the strips won’t really work for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:44 AM
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I think most men are beautiful too. I’ve only met a few people I would consider ugly, unattractive sure but ugly not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:26 AM
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That was the only broke men I dated. He was also the first guy I had sex with so I felt like I had to stay. I was giving chance to losers to be nice. You live and you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:25 AM
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What makes you think I’m a thot lmao. I’m as basic as they come
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:23 AM
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I never said I did it for a man or expect him to compensate for it in any way. I started getting hit on by grown men when I was 10, I was disgusted and scared. I spent my teen years covered up even when I was sweating my pits out in summer. if I was walking I’d always carry a sweatpants or sweatshirt to cover up. It’s only recently as in last year I finally said fuck it I’m going to live my life the way I want and look how I want. If I’m looking “slutty” I walk with a group of girlfriends or tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:34 AM
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Does she splurge on her skincare though? Cause at this point I’m genuinely curious cause I’m trying to cut back on costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:26 AM
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That’s the thing though, no one wants him. He’s unattractive, have a nasty personality and is broke. The women he wants don’t want him but expected to keep me when he’s not it. He guilted me into being a relationship and it didn’t end until I gave him a heads up and blocked him. I’m just trying to help my fellow human out to achieve the life they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:25 AM
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Can you answer the first part of her question? Would the husband notice when the wife is off? Cause the first thing you described is just love (you shouldn’t have to ask for that in a partner) but if you think it’s one sided you’re in for a rude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:25 AM
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Then they’re just jackasses who don’t know what they want. If they don’t respect you’re clearly communicated words, they’re not the one for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:33 AM
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I’d say bring it up first since that’s not the ‘normal’ way people operate. I’m demisexual and I find letting someone know that from the start makes understanding each other better. I’ve been in a similar situation like you but have learned just talking about it clears up any issues someone have on their side
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:29 AM
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I’m not going to be in a relationship with someone going through financial hardships and not help, and I’d expect the same. Also it’s one thing to have insecurities about you’re finances but if you’re going to complain you actually have to work. Nobody cares about you’re sob story, we’re all struggling. This is the US there is no good reason to have less than a dollar in you’re account and dating another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:42 PM
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Someone with a low SES is definitely a bad choice to date, especially if you’re a woman who has her shit together or is getting there. I’ve dated broke and rich. Broke people have no business being in a relationship. I want to have kids and when I get pregnant I’ll probably stop working for a year or so to bond. I grew up in poverty (not US poverty with social services). It’s extremely irresponsible to make you’re economic issues someone else’s responsibility. I dated someone who was very cheap.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:33 PM
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Any girl reading this: if a man expresses this opinion run! This is rape and assault. You are not obligated to have sex when you don’t want to and you should enjoy sex when you are getting enjoyment out of it. I seriously need to say this because this is extremely harmful and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:26 AM
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In this little scenario you conjured up, why should women be forced to support a society that does not support them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:22 PM
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How is pleasuring a man I like an insult 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:17 PM
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You’re not very bright. Read this thread again and really think for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:29 AM
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Everyone is entitled to respect proving once again that any man who can’t find a relationship in the freest time at any point is history is a genuinely awful person. And wanting forced sex and relationship with women makes you a terrible person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:17 AM
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Why not ask if you can lmao. Unwanted men are losers the real world isn’t that hard. Not having your first kiss by 21 is one thing but thinking you’re entitled to sex with women (and failing at that) makes you a loser. Sex isn’t that hard to get, plenty of ugly, broke, shy men have sex. Reading this sub you’d think were living in a dystopian society. Get a grip, go outside, work on you’re mental health. I mean that seriously, it’s not weak to ask for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:37 AM
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It’s been that way for years and it’s taken generations for women to fight for the rights we have and you think we’ll give it up that easy? And it’s interesting you people are usually the type to talk about capitalism and self sufficiency but get pissy when you lose. If you can’t find a woman in this generation (and you think you are entitled to a woman) you HAVE to be a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:00 AM
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Cool story. I’d rather off myself than be with a man I don’t want. I’ve suffered enough abuse to live life unhappy and build resentment to an asshole I have to tolerate. So many men are upset that women refuse to settle and taking away people’s freedom is the quickest way to actually start a revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:24 AM
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Y’all will be fine with a pocket punani or maybe you’ll just die out. Humans adapt and if you can’t you get eliminated, just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:15 AM
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“If women don’t give me sex and companionship we will start a revolution” get over yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:11 AM
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The only men who had really messy places were losers. Men who clean their bathrooms and wash dishes exist. The men on this sub are something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:07 AM
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I can’t understand why you think having sex is a man’s god given right. Even if you think it is take it up with your god.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:57 AM
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Is this a threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:55 AM
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I promise you I don’t fucking care. Most people don’t think like you so I atleast have that peace of mind to fall back on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:21 PM
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Gist: women are useless and weak. They’re only around for babies... k dude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:54 PM
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I saw they posted a picture of a random woman from tinder and ripped into her. There was absolutely nothing wrong with her all she said was that she has kids and they made it seem like “how dare a single mother try to date anybody.” Its cyber bullying and I hope that sub gets kicked off Reddit. Imagine if she saw what those creeps said. And just because you won’t date a single mother doesn’t mean men, better men than you won’t. I don’t think about them unless they are brought up. Whole sub reeks…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:18 PM
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Do you actually know any rich people on a personal level?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:59 AM
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Okay triggered much. And yes, someone’s preference is their preference. If you don’t meet someone’s then move on. You aren’t entitled to anyone and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 10:43 PM
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So liking someone’s face means you like the person themselves? If their face change after a serious accident or their personality is crap but you’re still interested, that means you like them for who they are? Please recognize the flaws in your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 09:43 PM
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You framed a man making less as a reason to end a relationship. It’s definitely not about losing respect it’s about men’s internalized uselessness which is a turn off. Look at how Wendy Williams husband treated her even though she was the main earner. For the most part women just want emotional support and money is linked to stability because money is very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 09:42 PM
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A lot of context is missing to your response. How a guy treats a woman in the courting stage sets a precedent for how the relationship is going to go. Cheap men who want to share meals aren’t relationship material. It has more to do with their attitude than the money itself. Once a relationship gets serious women definitely spilt vacations and meals by a joint account or some other way. And about your last point, those men tend to get very disrespectful because they feel emasculated and after YE…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 09:29 PM
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Most women in the developed world are not looking for men to provide for them 100 even 80% of the time. I also see a rise in men wanting to have this sort of primary breadwinner relationship. It’s not exploitative to want your partner to have more money than you, it’s how they treat you. I’ve been with wealthy people and never exploited them but the broke men I’ve been with has tried to exploit me because of superficial things they see. A rich man can also exploit a poor woman he’s in a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 09:11 PM
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If money is a woman’s criteria it is what it is get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:51 PM
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I don’t need a partner I want one. I think that’s where we’re having a disconnect. Of corse their are shitty people both rich and poor but I pick out men with similar interests and of that group the wealthy men are more compatible with me. I’m not even obsessed with money, in fact I have a lot of weird hang ups about it. I know I can provide for my future kids so whoever I’m with needs to be able to do the same and provide my kids with the life I want. And rich guys I’m attracted to (I don’t eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:51 PM
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It’s a criteria get over it. If someone doesn’t want to date a vegan it’s their criteria. Stop getting mad at people when you don’t fit their criteria. Don’t be with them, you’re not missing out on anything. I’m certain you’ll find someone you gel with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:41 PM
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Does plastic surgery and cosmetic procedures not exist? Cosmetic includes dental and spa treatments btw. You can always control your face and money. The question is weather or not that’s a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:16 PM
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Well for me, I live in a major city. It’s not hard to find someone with money. I certainly wouldn’t travel abroad to another country to be with a man who makes significantly less than I do. It’s just as easy to fall for a rich man as a poor man, most of it has to do with proximity. So I go to places where rich men are prominent, not intentionally we tend to have similar interests. Aside from that compatibility is the biggest factor. A lot of people on this sub overlook this for some very strange…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:15 PM
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Yeah and their attractiveness depletes. Not a hard concept
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:07 PM
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I know you believe men control relationships but i have been asked to be in relationships and I’m not interested. Also (shocker) not a die hard to get into a relationship that won’t benefit me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:40 PM
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Yeah that would make sense if my family aged badly. My mother looks like she’s in her 20s and my grandmothers look 40. We stay looking young. A relationship should benefit me if all that’s holding it together is what once was, that’s tolerance not love. It’s interesting that the men in this group have such strange mentalities that are aimed at trapping young women in relationships. Also, notice how I said I would stick with him if he loses his money but he has to get his shit together, and that’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:03 PM
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Personally I would stay with them. But if they make no effort to get back to where they were in life I’m bouncing. For example, if I married a trust fund kid who invests and has a lot of money but he loses wit through bad luck, fine. There should still be comfort money saved up. I have enough money to last me a year without any significant changes to my lifestyle so I expect the same security from my partner. If they don’t try and do everything in their power I’m leaving cause broke men and ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:57 PM
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You can definitely want a partner to have money and still love them for who they are. Love is conditional in all aspects, you may just think someone else’s is unreasonable and yours aren’t. Same thing if you get with a woman and she gains a lot of weight which you find unattractive. If you love her for her would you stay with her when she’s morbidly obese and smells funky because the rolls trap moisture? Both money and weight can be controlled and is based on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:48 PM
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So is money
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:41 PM
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I’m going to take that as a no. My grandmother and a couple older women I know never dated or have sex after their SO passed but I don’t know a man whose done the same. It’s their business but it’s not love, that’s an inability to accept what’s happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:37 PM
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If the roles reversed would you not date after your wife died. Let’s say, you are 29 newly married and have one kid, are you going to marry or date again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:12 PM
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I’ve never read something so wrong and baseless before. Even from men on twitter who say the strangest things. You must live in an alternate reality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:53 PM
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Again the man I’ve been with also had the same thing happened to him. Maybe you just have two much time on your hands (no disrespect) to understand. I definitely feel it but if you only have one hour of sleep before you have to do an intense assignment out with people you can’t. Women definitely get horny I don’t know why your so hell bent on telling me what my body experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:31 PM
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What I’m saying is that I’m not an anomaly most women are built like this. And if you’re horny you can masturbate. The reason I didn’t is cause I didn’t notice enough to do it. I was busy with things in my life. The same thing also happened to a guy I was seeing. Sometimes being busy is the cure for the feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:41 PM
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Lmao I meant relationships with large age gaps. But I hope you are treating her well. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:51 PM
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It’s not about you having options. Most people in life have options. A lot women in long term relations regret it and talk about grooming they experience etc. and from my own fathers experience he only dates young girls and I see how he treats them, it sucks and I call him out for it. A lot of men do this, if you don’t kudos
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:42 PM
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This is so long and I’m not going to go into everything so the one thing I will touch is the sex drive thing. Before I had sex I was horny all the time, i am demisexual so that may complicate somethings but for years I wanted to have sex. Like masturbating multiple times a day like crazy. Once I had sex and realized how I was being used as a toy for another human’s enjoyment I despised it. It was gross, disgusting, and I did not look forward to it. Gay men don’t just pound each other and go abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:31 PM
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I don’t know if my time can’t off rude but I genuinely hope you don’t mistreat her. Women who leave age gap relationships tend to have bad experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:15 PM
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Not only was everything you said wrong. But women have sex drives. Chances are if she’s never in the mood she’s not into you. I thought I had a low sex drive until I got with a man who was great in bed. He wasn’t great because he was choking me out and spitting in my face. He listened to my needs, learned my body, made me feel sexy and comfortable. Going from wanting sex only three days while ovulating to every day with that guy showed me something. Women have sex drives but when someone uses yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:54 PM
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58 with a 21 year old in a long term relationship. Sounds like my dad. Anyways, just treat her nice. Don’t manipulate her because she is naïve now. If she is she’s with you and don’t have abandonment issues, daddy issues, or is depending on you for money I wish her well. I hope you see her as a person and not an object to flaunt, I hope you don’t see her age as a reason to flex. I hope she isn’t left broken if/when the relationship ends. I hope you act out of love even when she doesn’t ask. Have…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:07 PM
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I don’t understand because there are terms and symbols and typos I can’t make sense of. And I am a woman I thought that was clear from the post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:00 PM
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The thing is though women aren’t fishes. Were people perfectly capable of independent and complex thought and analysis. I get it was just a comparison but it highlights the ineffectiveness I talked about. I don’t speak extensively on attraction because that’s a separate topic but to make it short. You should consider what the other person wants when you are attracting them. For the most part take care of your hygiene and health, be interested in a genuine conversation to learn if there is a vibe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:49 PM
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I don’t understand what you wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:38 PM
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Yes definitely in actual relationships I haven’t had any major issues that couldn’t be solved with communication. All my issues were when I was hooking up and got exposed to how some men operate. A guy can have a good career but be selfish and wonder why no one wants him, a guy can be broke and expect a woman to be with him, a guy can be nice in the beginning and even tell you he is manipulative but I was like “omg he’s changed.” It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:37 PM
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I would urge you to look at the quality of those relationships. A guy holding money over a woman’s head because he knows she wouldn’t be with him with out the money or status is bound to cheat, disrespect him and leave with the swiftness. I’ve seen it and this is how people get burned. I also want to say just cause someone has been in relationships doesn’t make them a good source for information. If the relationships were short, toxic, had a lot of secrets it’s not counted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:34 PM
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Everyone is an individual but can we acknowledge there is a pattern? When I’m discussing social media in a group of people my age I will probably say “we” even if something doesn’t individually apply to me. I may say something like “we need to take care of our health” to my family who typically eats bad but I don’t makes sense. And what I said in this post many women across different social media sites and in real life agreed. It’s a broad generalization but it’s grounded in something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:24 PM
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