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Demerde-Toi/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 04:46 PM
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Are you talking about casual dating? Are you talking about having multiple women falsely believe they are in exclusive relationships with you?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/17 08:50 PM
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What's better than satire: a head-to-head battle to the death. First sub to thoroughly debunk the blue pill advice wins. May the most alfalfa sub win. In the interest of fairness I will log off for 48 hours.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 04:48 PM
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I'm a blue pill cuck and I got seventeen invites.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 03:35 PM
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Why do you object to being called white?
/r/ExRedPill11/10/17 12:37 AM
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Such virtuous pride-signaling.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/17 02:14 PM
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By virtue of that comment, I'm inferring you are albino.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/17 01:44 PM
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Do you think intersectional feminism is racist?
/r/ExRedPill10/10/17 12:03 PM
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Well, there's your answer: it's not the lifting or reading or expecting everyone to be adults. It's the belligerently uninformed anti-feminism.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/17 08:34 PM
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Do you think feminism and redpill are compatible?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/17 07:38 PM
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What's the 20% you disagree about?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/17 07:33 PM
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Well one of the things talked about there is how feminism lead to teaching girls to develop self-worth and self-esteem (provided positive images of femininity), but didn't do this for boys for a variety of reasons (described in those chapters) so that boys continued to learn​ their self-identity and value from patriarchy.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/17 07:31 PM
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Have you read Bell Hooks "Feminism is for Everybody" (2000)? Anyway if you are unfamiliar with it I'd recommend at least the chapters on feminist masculinity and feminist parenting.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/17 07:20 PM
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So basically, they'd pre-selected which one of them was designated to behave as a wing-man and were actually not behaving as interchangeable identical twins. Their behavior was biased by that knowledge to reinforce their own expectations about the outcome. For her, because their appearance/personalities were similar(-ish) she would have been even more keenly aware of the wing-man behavioral dynamic as cues that the brother was more available/interested. Did they also choose who would wear pherom…
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:52 PM
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Interesting. Was it double-blinded? That is, did the twins know which of the two had the pheromones?
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:21 AM
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American men were conscripted and didn't have the vote--it wasn't really a matter of choice. Voting rights were extended to 18yo and conscription ended because of opposition to the war. The idea that men in the West craved taking up arms and charging into battle is revisionist garbage. They never really had a choice.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/17 03:02 PM
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Generations and generations died for religious zeal and imperialist domination. Why do you think Americans didn't want to die fighting in Vietnam?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/17 01:20 PM
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lol maybe the West should go back to the glory days of full blown remorseless crusades and genocide? I'm sure the US could crack open the archives and deal with the middle east the way we dealt with the Native Americans.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/17 05:08 PM
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Well, I mean yeah. If "blue pill" = "nationalism" or "blue pill" = "religion" it makes sense. And indeed nationalists and religions use women as carrots to enlist and motivate men. But... what do you make of how the alt-right is crawling through the manosphere? (Also lol at the idea that WW2 forces could defeat modern forces. A few A10s would obliterate a blitz)
/r/ExRedPill03/10/17 04:06 PM
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Yeah, similar here. When I found redpill it made me look back at how I met my wife and sort of view it differently. I was sort of coerced into dating her and I secretly resented that and felt guilty about it--but at the same time she was somehow the most amazing thing ever. That was always a weird thing I never understood and felt guilty about. It always felt great but it was so far from my expectations of what "dating your future wife" would be like. For a while I thought redpill explained it--…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/17 02:43 PM
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What is it about the way women behave when you're mean to them that you like? You didn't enjoy behaving that way, so what did you get out of it?
/r/ExRedPill03/10/17 12:43 PM
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You respond to things in interesting ways so I decided to take a dive: I learned with my first girlfriend that if I mistreated her she was good and docile, if I didnt mistreat her she was the one starting problems. To the point I got addicted being abusive after she abused me and made horrible shit for a year. And then it was like my reality I just abuse her and dominate, abuse her and dominate her, unknowingly inside that I hated myself and didnt want none of that for me. I literally turned int…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/17 05:33 PM
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Ok, well if you want to debate opinions: my opinion is that women's desire for "hypergamy" and men's desire for "non-monogamy" are semantic games describing the same thing. Sure it manifests slightly differently due to cultural expectations. Particularly the perception that it is desirable for men to own women. To the extent that society still expects women to be property, women will "branch swing" once they've found a new "owner". And to the extent that society expects men to be uncivilized cad…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/17 04:45 PM
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I didn't read the link she provided but did it mention that other study that it's the wives that initiate divorce when they're sick? Men suck as caregivers and wives figure they're better off dealing with the disease on their own without a whiny manchild adding to their burden. Men are more than happy to accept care from their wives, but won't give it. To be fair, there may be a large generational effect at play. Hopefully.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/17 04:19 PM
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Human sperm don't compete. Sperm in humans is more about ensuring the sperm have complete genetics and won't waste the egg. All that shit from Sperm Wars that the manosphere loves to obsess over are from other species.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/17 03:55 PM
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Your analytical skills are shit as evidenced by your reliance on circular thought processes. I'll elaborate because I think you need to be walked through your ignorance. What you're trying to do is called "hypothesis testing". It's where you have a theory and you want to test that evidence supports it. This is a key step in the scientific process and since you readily admit that you hold science in disdain, I'm not surprised you fail understanding even the basics of how the process works. Let's …
/r/ExRedPill02/10/17 03:18 PM
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More than happy to engage in a source-less, reference-less debate. I did things to women that i'm not particularly proud of, but feel as if I was conditioned to act in such a way because of how they are in their nature Dunno. Seems like the sort of self-rationalization that abusers make. I've done things that are shitty, too. But when I'm aware that my behavior is not up to my own standards, I try to make amends and become a better person. Rather than find ways to blame my victims. The sources n…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/17 01:02 PM
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What I meant was: why do you think feminist women don't like the red pill? If it's as you say all personal improvement that produces desirable men--what's not to like about it? If that were the case, feminists would point at it and enthusiastically say "try this!" ... But they don't. So how do you explain that? If I understand correctly your answer is that you think feminists want to enslave men? I don't think that's true. Where did you learn that? My understanding is that feminism is more about…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/17 01:56 PM
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I don't know that you are implying? I've been very specific in my criticism of TRP and MRP that what I reject is misogyny and sexist oppression. So rather than make assumptions let me ask you what do you think feminists specifically object to about red pill? Do you think it's possible for a male feminist or male feminist ally to be "red pill"?
/r/ExRedPill21/09/17 11:22 PM
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I hadn't heard of Mode One. Searches on TheRedPill don't show him as being well known there but he's participating in the upcoming 21 Convention so maybe that will change in the future. Meta conversation about his book puts him in the Mark Manson category of reformed PUAs (i.e. "Purple" Pill). He seems more r\seduction material than TRP. I just skimmed the book briefly to get an idea of what it's about (and it was interesting enough that I added it to my reading queue) and I think the disconnect…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/17 01:33 PM
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You may have missed my edit. I think the PUA criticism of TRP (the specific r\TheRedPill subreddit) is a valuable discussion for exredpill. Many PUAs criticize TRP (the subreddit). And there are also multiple "Red Pill" communities. See here for example. The main sub rejects and has purged these original sources as "Purple Pill" and now follows the misogynist ideas of Rollo Tomassi's "The Rational Male" (all women are children​, all women are incapable of loyalty, all women are incapable of love…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/17 10:41 AM
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This isn't a debate. And if it were, non-TRP material is invalid support for TRP. Maybe you should take it to r/PurplePillDebate. Or maybe if you wanted to make a separate post to exredpill to discuss the parts of PUA you find useful. There are many PUAs who think TRP is misguided misogynist garbage. This thread is the wrong place for this, though.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/17 10:11 AM
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None of the things I listed above are Red Pill. I didn't go into go into how MRP uses these things to systematically dehumanize women. They are non Red Pill resources that have been appropriated. Yet somehow "Blue Pill" and feminism are evil. Really it just proves that "Blue Pill" and feminism works and people who do it wrong only have themselves to blame.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/17 09:54 AM
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Elsewhere you are saying you don't actually know what MRP is and that you are not and have not been a member. You really should not be saying these things work and giving testimony unless you know what you are talking about. MRP teaches that women are inferior, want to be dehumanized, and need emotional abuse and literally rape. This is not hyperbole. It's not what you think you are defending. Sometimes when you don't speak the language natively and you're from a different culture and you are no…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/17 09:28 AM
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Yeah, I know what you're saying. That's why "No More Mr. Nice Guy" (re: attachment issues, co-dependency, transaction mentalities) and "When I Say No I Feel Guilty" (re: assertive rights, assertiveness techniques, coping with criticism) and some of the Stoic/Buddhist perspectives (re: meditation, emotional control, understanding the limits of your control, only putting effort into achieving things that are truly within your control) are useful foundations. But all of that stuff predates PUA/TRP …
/r/ExRedPill20/09/17 03:22 PM
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If you want open and honest communication why not make the first move? What's to gain from abusing your partner in the hopes that she'll decide to be a better person than you are? As we see here she's completely lost respect and trust for him. Good luck with your stupid trolling.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/17 01:25 PM
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What's to like about female education again? I suppose you could appreciate that the rush of privileged white women into the workforce was perfectly timed to lock minority men out.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 11:53 PM
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Post the death threats to r/CreepyPMs
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/17 08:37 PM
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Occam, eh? What about Hanlon? Maybe she has an Etsy selling refill packs for Gloria Steinem PEZ dispensers. Or... how about this? Maybe OP ordered them himself and planted them to gaslight her?
/r/askMRP18/09/17 09:42 PM
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You want more? Maybe she was worried they would be outlawed when she needed one.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 06:53 PM
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Yes, still married and my wife knew and we're pretty great now :)
/r/ExRedPill18/09/17 06:37 PM
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Does it have to be some ongoing thing? She could have had a late period and after it came she placed an online order for her piece of mind. Then when it arrived she tossed it the back of the medicine cabinet and forgot about it. Seriously are you really going to pretend it's more effort and personal embarrassment to make an online order than it is to drive to the pharmacy and purchase the pill in person and risk running into people you know?
/r/askMRP18/09/17 06:34 PM
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Maybe she was afraid you were trying to get her pregnant? Do you expect her to tell you that?
/r/askMRP18/09/17 06:11 PM
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Ugh. As an exMRP I'm uncomfortable giving you advice, but is that something you feel you could give him clear feedback on and give him an alternative? Like rather than shut down the dirty talk help him find the types of dirty talk you'd be interested in? I'll be honest he very likely needs counseling to work through whatever is motivating him to explore misogyny and I would absolutely not make it your job.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/17 05:43 PM
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Oh... sorry my bad! I saw that comment and didn't realize it was askreddit. I thought there was selftext and that comment was additional context for the selftext. That comment I was asking about was probably meant as a reply to another deleted comment. And... it looks like it's been removed now, too.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/17 03:36 PM
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What did your original relationships post say? It's been removed by moderators so only you can read it now. Someone did reply to you in that thread with this though and it's a bit concerning: Anyone could do this. It is illegal as fuck. At least in the US with the 5th amendment and federal protocols. A warrant would need to be issued similar to searching a home. Also, if a cop did this and was proven to be doing so, would most likely be placed under investigation for some sort of seizure of pers…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/17 01:53 PM
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I agree. I would also make a complete and full copy of all his comments and posts first so that hiding and gaslighting is off the table. Not to set him up or to mine for outrage, but to force him to actually confront himself.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/17 01:46 PM
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Also Husband is reading TRP and MRP subreddit and following it 100%
/r/ExRedPill18/09/17 01:43 PM
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Ok so my opinion about your OP: You know you had more success when you were not overweight. You should be healthy weight for yourself anyway. You went to online dating because the logistics are very challenging working your shift. I don't know if you're upfront about your work schedule in your profile. Women who work evening shifts may be more compatible. There are subreddits that can give you advice about your profile. You sound bored and isolated. Find a hobby that involves interacting with pe…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/17 09:34 PM
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Your link implies your wife has full intimate knowledge of your red pill activity and accepts it as compatible with her faith. And that she agrees that existing christian forums are inadequate. You should post more about that.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/17 09:16 PM
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This sub is about helping people who want to escape the toxicity of red pill. It's not here to help you improve your hate cults and figure out how to work more good advice into your misogynist honey-traps and fine tune your sirens. You're completely backwards. If your soul wasn't dark you'd be doing the opposite and working to free cult members. MRP and RPChristians are all dehumanizing bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/17 08:47 PM
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A MeRP is a member of marriedredpill--it's what we call you on TBP. (See also: DeRPs because y'all end up divorced.) You're active in MRP, are a divorce attorney posting divorce strategy to MRP, and have flair. You also created, moderate and actively post to the Red Pill Christians sub. lol
/r/ExRedPill15/09/17 07:20 PM
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This is the RP advice he says he didn't want to know. You're making a lot of assumptions and being extremely reductionist about what OP means about RP and what he wants to know and not know. All he really says about red pill is that he already knows the red pill advice. But he doesn't say what it is which is a problem because red pill advice beyond "be an adult" and "hate women" is inconsistent and 99% eye of the beholder. The only real hint was that he's been watching MGTOW videos which leans a…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/17 06:38 PM
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What's the red pill advice?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/17 11:29 AM
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