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Something I noticed is that if I dont hit my upper back at the gym for a week my posture gets worse as my chest starts to tighten up and roll my shoulders forward. Deadlifting properly fixes this problem next day for me.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:51 AM
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I don’t know what your situation is for education and your geography and that might be true for income, but 5 years for your physique? Are you trying to compete for Mr. Olympia?
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:49 PM
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I also have a friend who is heavily into snapchats and get good responses from women there. You know what though? You are not him. Just cause it works for him, doesn’t mean it will work for you. You have to find your own thing my man.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:43 PM
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I never said you are blaming anyone, I’m saying you are blaming the world, and I agree with you to a certain point about the game being rigged, so what do you think we should do about the game being rigged? Sulk and complain? If you think it will take you years to get rid of the handicap then that is the only thing you can do, so focus on that. Stoicism and TRP will drastically reduce that time.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:41 PM
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Race definitely plays a part, but does that make gaming girls impossible? no. It just means you are playing on a harder difficulty. You can't change the game so the only thing you can do is to adapt and elevate yourself so you can participate in the game. Stop blaming the world for the cards you were dealt with, instead learn how to win with the cards that you were dealt with. Go read Enchiridion.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:11 PM
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So wait you have to invest your time to entertain her on snapchat to see if she will sleep with you? Sounds like beta orbiting to me.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:06 PM
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You need to understand what stereotype means. I come from an Asian background and people made fun of me in highschool (small town graduated with 15 kids) with many things. Small penis, smelly, nerd, computer geek, and etc, I was in your situation where I all I wanted was to fit in with the white kids. I grew up went to university and realized that I love the fact that I am different. Yes I fit in the stereotype I am in my last year of engineering, good with computers so people always come to me …
/r/askTRP02/11/18 10:50 PM
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No that is such a shitty excuse. It might make it harder for you, but it’s not impossible. Do not for one second think you are the only one with hardships. You think all those war veterans without limbs in Invictus thought their limbs were holding them back? No, they accepted their faith and did their best for their dreams.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 10:07 PM
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You don’t break out of the stereotype. I am also a member of visible minority so I know. You know what’s easier? Like the comment said, own that shit, why are you letting other people’s perception bother you so much?
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:55 PM
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Do not text her. You are way too invested in her. I get it, I had feelings like that, heck I still get it if I meet a really awesome girl. But my experience taught me that there are ALWAYS awesome girls. She’s not the only one. You will come off desperate if you text her.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:14 PM
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With the diversity of this community you’ll have different answers. But if you want to do it by all means go ahead. I assume you mean having sex not masturbating. Masturbating is always a no no.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:05 PM
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Sad to say, but he’s gotta learn this on his own. Just let him do his thing and be there to help him out once he falls.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 04:36 PM
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Don’t stop caring. Caring is very important and I think it makes you a better human being for it. However you need to learn how to prioritize on what you should care first. Not everyone or thing deserves your undivided attention. I suggest you figure out what is important for your self development and care about those, and you will quickly realize that you cannot possibly have enough to care about other things. Caring requires time and effort, these are valuable and you cannot get these back onc…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:36 AM
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I would leave it on the back burner. I had a similar situation like yours, and I just cut comms with her, didn’t talk to her for eight months. One night seen her at the bar so I go say hi and later on we go back to her place. One thing I learned is that you never burn bridges unless she’s a psycho. Just leave her and go look for someone else. Abundance Mentality is what you should read for this situation.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:29 AM
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I suggest you sit down and think deeply about what you actually want. Money can come from your dreams. Lifting, studying and reading books aren’t good goals, they are necessary. You however having a passion for let’s say saving the environment, starting a business, solve world hunger stuff like that is your passion. Once you realize your passions, chase after them, but make sure you keep lifting and read as these are requirements. If you have any questions you can DM me here I’d be more than wil…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:22 AM
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Agreed, day games are so much more genuine and easier. Picking up girls at a bar is next level.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 04:55 AM
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Fake it till you become it
/r/askTRP01/11/18 11:35 PM
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Hahahah red pill isn’t about restricting what you can or can’t say. It’s about finding the right situation to use it. If you open up to every girl with that line, yeah you are not gonna do shit. If you use it in a correct situation in a teasing tone I don’t see why you can’t. Don’t allow people on the internet to tell you what you can or can’t say. It’s up to you to think critically and decide if it fits your philosophy.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 11:22 PM
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Lol no one ever said you can’t use that, it’s when and how you say it. Also if your friend is physically bigger and better looking with a strong frame he’s gonna best you all the time. Go lift
/r/askTRP01/11/18 11:07 PM
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Lol if she’s a plate just make a comment on it, “that’s a nice hickie”. Of course wear a condom from now on and if you don’t like sharing just tell her you are not into that and say good bye, and watch her run back to you within a day or two saying how she will only sleep with you from now on.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:55 AM
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Hahahahaha not all girls. But when they do it’s for your insecurities, but some girls require more than the average to get off. Girls have different appetite and it’s our job to make sure we are adaptable and versatile enough to provide what she needs. I suggest you do more exploring with her to see what makes her tick.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:50 AM
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Redpill taught me stoicism and I am very grateful for that. I suggest you read the Enchiridion, there are many versions and are very short like 1-2hours of reading. Some points for you might be, Don’t try to control things that aren’t in your control (other people’s actions or feelings). Control only what you can control,(your actions and feelings) You talk about jealousy, ask yourself, “what good comes of me being jealous?”. You can feel jealous as that is human nature, but don’t act on your je…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:38 AM
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Don’t be afraid to show a little emotion, remember to tease. “I guess you get one more try at getting me to remember you, I do enjoy insert food item, not that it matters in this conversation...”
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:30 AM
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I would say, “true, how about you help me remember you better this time”
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:25 AM
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I was never good at taking girls home at clubs and bars, and fortunately I wasn’t too worried as I had plates and abundance mentality. So what do I do? I have fun by dancing with girls and kind of give off that Fun vibe. I would casually make eye contacts with girls I find attractive and if they look back and we lock eyes, I grin and go back to what I was doing. Now it’s time for you to find the right time, you aren’t just going to jump in head first to a group of five girls, that barely works. …
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:18 AM
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What’s the context? You left her at the bar last night? You ghosted her for a month? Is this one of your best friend where you left him at the bar for a girl and now he can’t get home?
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:08 AM
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I read this quote on TRP once, Priorities first, women all the time. Nothing wrong with thinking about women all the time, just make sure you get your shit done first.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:03 AM
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All women act childish once they get comfortable
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:58 AM
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As a man you are supposed to be their sanctuary. You have to provide and make them feel comfortable. This can only be done if you are an “alpha” (I don’t personally like this term). You have to genuinely be trying to help her when she is actually in need for help, not just being childish. I know Redpill talks about AWALT, but some situations you have to realize they are human beings that are going through hard times too, my dad told me this, “You have to realize that everybody has something that…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:46 AM
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What you are doing isn’t really effective as you are not giving her quality conversation. Red pill isn’t about being a dick and sending one word texts. It’s about teasing, push and pulling and other methods. Send texts that are funny and relatable to your encounter with her, but reply once a day until you set up another date.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:37 AM
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I suggest moving on to your other girls, and since she doesn’t matter you could shoot your shot and send her a text to see if she’s down again. If not, on to the next one.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:31 AM
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For me, loving yourself means doing things for yourself and putting yourself first. For example if my LTR asked me to do something but I already have plans, I’m not going to change my whole schedule so I can hang out with her. Another example is keeping up with your goals. If you set out to achieve something don’t allow anything to get in your way. When you get into a relationship your personal goals will fade away if you don’t work at it everyday.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 09:18 PM
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I think you mean when you run into her in public or something. If that’s the case, be friendly say hello, do the same stuff you would to an acquaintance, but nothing more.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:47 AM
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Yeah I think every little advice comes from being more confident in yourself and knowing what you are worth. It’s a journey, not just learn how to pass each shit test.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 03:34 PM
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I am also a firm believer on critical thinking, you gotta be able to take every information with a grain of salt and decide for yourself it its worth keeping or not.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 03:28 PM
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I completely agree with you, and what I’m trying to say is exactly that. Except we get shit tested by not just from women. We also get it from our managers, siblings, coworkers and etc
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 02:43 PM
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I suggest you work on yourself before you go out to clubs and such, you will only get hurt more. LIFT, read self-help books, set goals in your life, etc etc.
/r/seduction24/11/17 02:42 PM
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OP, clubs are designed to make you feel uncomfortable, no place to sit, loud music and etc. You will feel uneasy,especially if it’s your first time.
/r/seduction24/11/17 05:23 AM
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Have you thought hard about your friends? Do you really want to be friends with them? If they don’t fit your lifestyle you need to find new friends who can accommodate your new characteristics.
/r/seduction24/11/17 05:22 AM
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Amen brother! Keep on working!
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 02:56 AM
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Have you read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi? I believe what you are trying to do is become a PUA, where PUA mimics alpha behaviours towards women to seduce them. But the real alpha just does all these things and he is not faking it. Alpha is what you want to become, not a PUA.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 08:26 PM
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I think you have the TRP fundamentals wrong... you should be focusing on YOUR goals first, whatever that might be. Women come second to your goals, they are the side quests, and side quests are fun, but you shouldn’t spend too much time on it or you won’t be able to complete your main quest. Does that kind of put you into the right mindset?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 06:26 PM
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I really like this idea! This makes the most sense to me!
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:17 PM
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Hahah I want to say that, but I still have some of the BluePill left in me and just can’t bring myself up to say it. Thank you for the advice!
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:38 PM
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