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Owen Cooper was 14 when the movie was filmed. Child actors who are even younger go through a LOT within the movies that would be inappropriate in real life. There's hundreds and hundreds of shows and movies where kids are murdered, tortured, raped, beat, etc or exposed to terrifying monsters, people, or situations. Where the lines they say are completely inappropriate, whether sexual, graphic, or laced with profanities. Where the kids are either the victims of something, or the perpetrators of t…
/r/MensRights24/04/25 08:55 PM
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/r/MensRights02/08/24 03:10 AM
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Obviously I was a kid (born in '89), but I remember when the Girl Power slogans were popular and all the adjoining stuff. I remember the changes made in cartoons, in the attitudes of teachers, in people in general And I can remember, even then, thinking about how stupid it all was. I supported the equality stuff, but I noticed how quickly it turned to superiority and it made me take a number of steps backwards. And then I got pregnant at 19. . .and it REALLY hit me how much control I had over th…
/r/MensRights01/08/24 12:41 AM
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This is. . .actually a huge chunk of what made me turn towards Men's Rights when I was a kid. I grew up in the 90's/00's and it was super common to hear from my peers and parents alike. Some boy is bothering you, hit him in the balls. He's annoying, kick him in the balls. Big, bad scary predator man is trying to kidnap you/rape you, kick him in the balls as hard as you can so you can get away. It was treated as a joke, And worse. . .by other guys, too. Hell, just this weekend, my hubs brother wa…
/r/MensRights31/07/24 03:46 PM
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Okay well. . . As a general thing, no. Not a bad thing to be turned on by making your partner cum. That being said, it's absolutely possible to make your partner's orgasms about yourself and from my own personal experience, that feels kind of yucky. I'm not someone who likes to orgasm every time. I view sex as a bonding, mutually enjoyable experience. Not just as a means to an orgasm. And I am very clear about that when sex is on the table with my partners. Sometimes it can't happen, sometimes I…
/r/MensRights27/01/23 03:38 PM
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Star Trek. . .you mean one of the pioneering shows that had massive diversity, strong black characters, strong female characters, strong disabled characters, strong characters who don't or struggle to conform to society. Star Trek. . .the show with one of the first and biggest in sci-fi culture to have the "you can do it! Overcome diversity! Anyone can be anything" ideals. . . .wut?? The fact that they single out THAT show. The show with Yara, Seven of Nine, Captain Janeway, Jordy, Data. . . I m…
/r/MensRights06/08/19 04:29 AM
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Knowing this and knowing how easy it would be for me to do some pretty terrible things to my partner is a large chunk of the reason I started actively reading about and support Men's Rights. I had always disagreed with feminism, ever since I was a kid. I grew up in the 90s and Girl Power! was a thing, and a girl can hit a boy but boys can't hit back was often said by my classmates, things like that, and I just thought it was dumb. But when I got pregnant with my first child and I realized how mu…
/r/MensRights21/07/19 06:39 AM
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Testimony to how bad things have become Too true :(
/r/MensRights16/04/18 10:28 PM
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While I greatly appreciate the thought, I disagree. Exceptional behaviour should be rewarded and I don't feel like this is, or should be, viewed as exceptional behavior. It's like a ceremony for walking your dog or cooking your kids dinner. Like...these are things you're SUPPOSED to do. . . But like with common sense...common decency is not so common anymore. But it should still be within the level of expectation, not exceptional :(
/r/MensRights16/04/18 09:49 PM
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Depending on the situation, we have conversations about an assortment of things. Sometimes it's just a call out (hey, this is not cool to think it's okay) and sometimes it leads to in depth discussions about the current state of things. I'm really not sure what you're driving at here. Why are you implying that Men's Rights is not a good thing to talk about and call attention to, even casually or in a general sense?
/r/MensRights13/04/18 11:45 PM
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I'm still not sure exactly what you mean. . .especially in THIS forum. . .Are you saying Men's Rights is not something to be vocal about and to bring up?? In relevant conversations, I do bring up Men's Rights, I do call out sexism against men when I see it from my friends, etc. That's what I mean by being vocal about it. Most people I know would...just as an example...laugh at a video of a guy getting beat on by a girl. Or, even if they ARE uncomfortable with it, they wouldn't say anything. I do…
/r/MensRights13/04/18 11:15 PM
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What do you mean "what for?" ???
/r/MensRights13/04/18 10:35 PM
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We weren't married at the time (not even considered common law at that point-in Canada). And yea. . .I could easily enough just...moved back in with family. Told them some story about him being abusive or something, kept the pregnancy hidden, and poof. He'd never have known.
/r/MensRights13/04/18 05:37 AM
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The shock I receive whenever I tell that story always makes me sad. I can't imagine doing anything else. It's just...basic decency. And to know that it's so unusual that it would illicit praise and awe is just. . .sad. Speaks a lot to how things currently are :(
/r/MensRights13/04/18 05:34 AM
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It definitely makes a difference. I'm a mother. I was never a feminist, or even feminist leaning, I never really bought into the whole "girl power" thing. But until I got pregnant, I really didn't think too much about men's issues beyond the whole "it's not really fair that a girl can hit a boy, but a boy can't hit a girl back (I grew up with the whole "you NEVER hit a female, ever, for any reason)" The moment I found out I was pregnant, literally the moment, I realized I held all the cards. Had…
/r/MensRights12/04/18 04:11 PM
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Person Adultchild XP
/r/MensRights31/12/17 03:04 AM
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Okay, that makes sense :) I understand what you're saying now.
/r/MensRights05/11/17 10:06 PM
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Is equity not the problem that we're facing now? Women feeling like they're so disadvantaged that they need this hand up using things like women's only scholarships and diversity hiring where companies are required to have a certain percentage of female workers, and whatnot? I mean, don't get me wrong. There are certainly situations where people start at a disadvantage (ghetto schools immediately spring to mind) but there have been plenty of people who have pushed through those barriers and made…
/r/MensRights05/11/17 06:45 AM
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I won't disagree with you in principle. Although I'm unsure why you believe it's not possible to enforce equal responsibility? Could you clarify that a bit please? :) I DO support equal opportunity along with equal consequences, so if you disagree that that is egalitarianism, what word would you use?
/r/MensRights05/11/17 06:41 AM
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Next come Traditional Conservatives, or tradcons for short. The group your talking about seems to fall under this general category: people who see that the current system is rigged against them, and struggle to bring things back to 'traditional' conditions. Depending on the group, this can range from what it seems you desire, egalitarianism, to TRUE traditionalism, which is basically a reinstatement of the Patriarchy as it is dictionarily understood. Now it's important to state that alongside th…
/r/MensRights05/11/17 06:38 AM
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That's what got me so confused, if it WERE feminists, I would just shrug it off as generic crazy. But the group is dedicated to ANTI-feminism, traditional women! I'd never had a problem there before, I may not agree 100%, but at least it all basically made sense. And then one of them (an admin, although I didn't find out til later) posts something to the effect of: You cannot agree with both traditionalism AND egalitarianism. And I was like..wait, what? Why not? I think men and women are equal, …
/r/MensRights05/11/17 02:28 AM
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Wasn't feminists though! That's why I was so confused! It was supposed to be an ANTI feminist group of women who subscribe to traditional roles and values.
/r/MensRights05/11/17 12:44 AM
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I was arguing the meaning, I wasn't kicked for using the word, but for being argumentative. The original post was something to the effect of: You cannot be traditionalist AND egalitarian. I posted that I disagreed with that view. I can subscribe to men and women functioning in different roles (aka traditional roles) while still being equal contributors. Men and women are equal, but different.
/r/MensRights04/11/17 11:41 PM
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The definition specifically states equal rights and opportunities, not flat equality (which is kind of the point I was arguing) Their side was that egalitarian means flat equality-males and females being interchangeable in any role. That the dictionary definition no longer applies because the word has been highjacked. My side was that it's defined as equal rights and opportunity, not equal results.
/r/MensRights04/11/17 11:41 PM
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If you're selling with sex, then why are you so surprised when that's what people are looking to buy??
/r/MensRights30/10/17 03:50 PM
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Start at 8:00 on Netflix. It's just after that.
/r/MensRights24/10/17 08:50 AM
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I'm here :) and definitely female :p Never heard the term honey badger though. Gonna have to look that up :)
/r/MensRights17/06/17 01:36 AM
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I'm here :) and definitely female :p Never heard the term honey badger though. Gonna have to look that up :)
/r/MensRights17/06/17 01:35 AM
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That's exactly what the coverage (at least some of it) HAS said!!! Stupid stupid stupid XP
/r/MensRights23/05/17 05:37 PM
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Men do tend to wear loud shoes as well. Business shoes on a hard surface tend to make a rather distinct sound. And I assume they do it for similar reasons that women do. It's... authoritative. It speaks to power and distinction.
/r/MensRights22/05/17 05:21 PM
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I haven't posted here in about a week and got a ban too. Friggen ridiculous. Cause apparently supporting Men's Rights negates the fact that I'm female.
/r/MensRights20/05/17 03:24 AM
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That was..... satisfying. Hope she rots XP
/r/PussyPassDenied14/05/17 06:35 AM
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There's another one that I'm actually in. I saw an article about it and went looking. Apparently the original has been shut down or something. I got curious and went looking, got into the new one. Sad thing is, this article isn't an exaggeration. This kind of thing isn't one tiny blurb blown out of proportion. This kind of shit is common, like, every day type of common. I've seen TONS of catfishing posts. Both girls asking how to, asking for advice on, asking other girls to message their boyfrie…
/r/MensRights12/05/17 06:19 PM
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http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/fl-lf/famil/stat2000/p4.html There's Canadian stats on how often men get custody. Take from that what you will. In my personal experience? It all depends on how much mom wants dad involved. If she doesn't want him around, she will make his life hell and he's going to have a terrible time seeing his kids.
/r/MensRights12/05/17 03:05 AM
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Unfortunately, I think most of what you're going to get is anecdotal evidence. I've heard of situations where police won't even take the report (not necessarily about rape, but domestic abuse, etc as well) From my personal experience, in a generic 'I was drinking, blacked out, and something happened' type of scenario, maybe 1/4 to 1/3 will automatically believe a male victim. More like 1/2 to 2/3 if the situation is laid out in detail. As for women, I'd say it's more like 90% will believe that s…
/r/MensRights12/05/17 12:49 AM
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I have 2 boys, 8 and 3.5 years old. This is my fear. I know the power that 'I' hold, just by being female. I know the damage that I could do to my partner, their father. I know how easy it would be. I mean..I worry about my daughter too, as I assume all decent parents would. But I hope to raise her to not have the victim mentality, to be able to protect herself as best as she can, and to not take advantage of those in vulnerable positions. But's it's really my boys I'm concerned about. They coul…
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 08:28 PM
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I have 2 sons. I have nothing to prove to the guys here and everything to prove to them :) I'm aware of the power I hold purely on the basis of being female and it makes me sick to know that one day, that power may be used by someone else to hurt my children. I've only just begun my road and I learn a little more each day and get a bit more vocal with my knowledge.
/r/MGTOW28/04/17 04:32 PM
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I worded that badly, I clarified in another post. I tend to stay quiet in male centered spaces. I know my opinion is generally not wanted or relevant. I do however, speak up in day to day situations where I see injustices taking place (against men or women, but I've noticed most situations that I feel a need to step in on have involved male victims, mostly because men tend to be dismissed in those situations) Had not heard of the blue wall of silence though, I'll go look that up
/r/MGTOW27/04/17 02:31 PM
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I stay quiet in men centered spaces such as this, because I know my opinion isn't wanted here. But I do speak up for men where I can, when I see women calling oppression, or saying men can't be victimized, or that sort of thing. I don't have the power to fix all the wrongs, on either side of the coin. But I DO speak up where I can, which is a lot more than most people can say, and even a small difference is a difference.
/r/MGTOW27/04/17 01:30 PM
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I don't disagree in the slightest. There's bad males out there too, no doubt, but the systematic acceptance of the badly behaved female is just...wrong.
/r/MGTOW27/04/17 11:29 AM
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We exist :) I know I just tend to stay quiet, especially in forums like this one, that are male centered. But trust me, there are females out there who know and fully acknowledge how awful and crazy some other girls can be.
/r/MGTOW27/04/17 09:33 AM
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Even with a female 'escort', this happens. Hubby and I have 3 kids. When I was heavily pregnant and/or with a newborn, he would be the one playing with the kids while I sat off to the side. I've had other women come up to me and ask if I was okay with 'that man' around my kids (in some cases, even when seeing us arrive together). Now...Hubby is a teddy bear. He's 6'5" but about as non threatening looking as they come. Has a baby face even with a beard XD I tend to just give them a weird look and…
/r/MensRights21/04/17 10:43 PM
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That's the scary part. Not only did HuffPo run the original article, they ALSO ran a separate article DEFENDING the first one after they got complaints!!!
/r/MensRights20/04/17 06:55 PM
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I just had this argument!! XD twice actually. Once in the feminism sub where apparently pointing out that some people distance themselves from the label while still agreeing with the (surface) points is because the crazies are the ones representing the movement in the media. And once on FB where saying Men's Rights is just as legitimate as feminism and that men deserve their own representation for male issues. Do feminists have like...Pre practiced sentences with which to meet certain things? Li…
/r/MensRights14/04/17 03:36 AM
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Men done need to feel desire or be forced chemically to get an erection. Stimulation alone can do it, there's even such thing as fear based erections...Could be a million reasons why.
/r/MensRights11/04/17 11:22 PM
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You missed 'men can't be raped' and 'if he was hard, he obviously wanted it because legit desire is the only reason guys get hard' and 'he was obviously cheating on his gf and lying about it now to get out of trouble' and 'pft, why would a girl even want to that to a guy' Sorry....Sore spot for me lately XP
/r/MensRights11/04/17 08:50 PM
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From my understanding, they look for signs of trauma (bite marks and scratches on the body, vaginal scratches or tearing, etc). A certain amount of trauma can indicate an unwilling participant (although could also be caused by rough sex). They also look for hair and skin transfer (under the nails, pubic hairs, etc). And, of course, the possibility of semen or other bodily fluids that could provide a DNA link to the accused.
/r/MensRights10/04/17 08:52 PM
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Women's sexuality has pretty much always been more fluid. Holding hands, kisses, general physical affection is more common place and accepted. In many ways, looking at 2 women, it's much more difficult to judge, based on general shows of affection, whether they're lesbians or whether they're just BFFs. Men, on the other hand, tend to be expected to hold back on their affection, especially with other men. Add onto this the control and harem fantasies, and, in general, a women being more sexually …
/r/MensRights10/04/17 08:49 PM
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There are plenty of activists out there, regardless of whether you believe it to be right or wrong, who are happy to attend rallies, sign petitions, and talk about the issues, even offering solutions, without taking the big risks in their own lives. It's one thing to say and talk about how people of color deserve a seat on the bus, it's a lot different being the first one (first few, first many) to actively take that step and sit in the forbidden seat. It takes a certain bravery to put important…
/r/MensRights09/04/17 12:09 AM
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Once again, not everyone is willing to take the risk to their career and/or relationships. While there are some who are (and good on them) it's unrealistic to expect that kind of sacrifice from everyone.
/r/MensRights08/04/17 11:21 PM
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For what it's worth, I have a preference towards male babysitters (always preferred male teachers when I was in school as well). I have 2 sons (and a daughter) and, even though their dad is in their lives (we're together, he's an active dad), you can never have too many positive male role models in this world. Unfortunately, I find more and more that I am in a rapidly shrinking minority when it comes to this. World tends to say penis=predator. It sucks, it's horrible. And not just for the grown …
/r/MensRights08/04/17 08:42 PM
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There's a lot of 'should not's in the world, this is one of them. One gender should not systematically fear the other. But that's how it is. If you're willing to stand up and fight in the face of it, good on you. Many are not. For those who are not willing to sacrifice everything in persuit of what's right or what 'should' be, it is easier to keep their head down, do what they have to to protect themselves, maybe pick their battles.
/r/MensRights08/04/17 08:30 PM
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It's more than sad, it's sick. And once again, this is coming FROM A WOMAN. Men are not safe in this world anymore. With a word, a woman can destroy a man, regardless of facts. She can end your career, your marriage (if it's not rock solid), she can put you in jail. She can take your money and your children. Women are highly dangerous and should be treated as such. That's not to say that every woman is like this, there are some reasonable/good ones out there (I'd like to think I'm one of them) b…
/r/MensRights08/04/17 03:09 PM
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Not actually a bad idea, although depending on the laws in your area, you might need to disclose that you're recording and all that. :P Look, I get it, it's CRAZY. But better to be safe than fired for harassment. Depending on the job, shit like that can get you black listed. I assume the guy likes the industry he's in. And now, he's got a black mark on his record, regardless of official complaints. Better to be safe than sorry. Bitches be crazy.
/r/MensRights08/04/17 08:49 AM
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Do not talk to women at work, except about work, and only when it's directly relevant. Don't socialize, but be civil. And always make sure there is a witness...No private interactions if you can possibly help it. It sucks, I know, and I'm sorry. There's just too much risk with harassment issues. And now, you basically have a record. Anything else that gets reported now becomes a pattern. And this advice is coming from a woman.
/r/MensRights08/04/17 08:24 AM
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God that was good. That was just....that was good XD
/r/PussyPassDenied03/04/17 10:53 PM
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I would be SO pissed off if this was happening at my school, even BEFORE I knew about MRA and feminist stuff (aka, back when I was actually in school). If this was my kids school, I'd be down in the principals office explaining exactly why crap like this is just NOT okay. Those boys deserve an apology and the whole school should have an additional presentation explaining why the previous assembly was inappropriate and what SHOULD have been said, instead of pointing the finger and placing blame o…
/r/MensRights03/04/17 09:21 PM
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Yes....Yes you CAN be that stupid.... Unfortunately. Willful ignorance is a mighty powerful​ thing
/r/MensRights02/04/17 05:52 AM
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I got banned just a couple days ago (and now I get to argue with a moderator) because I said that people under the feminist banner taking extreme actions and shutting down other groups conversations (like the conference in Toronto and the backlash against the Red Pill documentary) makes the group look bad. The explanation given when I asked why I was banned (I answered the question that was asked, and did it respectfully, even talked to the OP afterwards and was agreed with)? -'I already told yo…
/r/MensRights01/04/17 12:19 AM
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You have a good point :) I was thinking it was more along the lines of the oppressed sympathizing with the differently oppressed, but I honestly don't know all that much about Indian (or assorted Asian) cultures beyond a lot of the typical stereotypes. But what you said does make sense. And regardless of the reasoning behind it, I wish it was more prevalent over here to have women sympathizing with men's issues (and vice versa).
/r/MensRights30/03/17 09:33 PM
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Good luck!
/r/MensRights30/03/17 06:08 PM
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Good for her! Especially in a place like India. I can only imagine the difficulties she and her group are facing. I with we'd see more of things like this in Canada and the USA, but of course we won't. Women have it too good, why would the want to give it up? Reminds me of the article about the mom who was 'suffering' being a part time parent, or a blurb I read recently about a group of friends trying to explain to a rich girl about how it's not so easy to just 'not be poor'. There's no concept …
/r/MensRights30/03/17 04:35 PM
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After reading something on Reddit, I recently posted to an all female group on Facebook. I had an idea about the responses I was going to get (and I was correct) but I was curios anyways. The situation I laid out was this: A man and his girlfriend are at a party, possibly one in their own home. They are mingling and drinking, not together throughout the night. At some point, the man has had too much to drink and blacks out. He wakes up receiving oral from a woman he doesn't know/barely knows. As…
/r/MensRights18/03/17 12:20 AM
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110% for it. First conversation I had with my partner when I discovered I was pregnant (18 years old, in the relationship less than a year), was what WE wanted to do. And I told him that his decision was independent of mine. If I wanted the baby and he did not, I would let him walk away, no questions asked, I would never go after him for money, but the understanding was also that I would not prevent the child from finding him. I also told him that if I decided I couldn't do motherhood, but he wa…
/r/MensRights13/03/17 08:16 PM
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"They are teaching little boys in Australia now that masculinity equals violence and rape and that men are "privileged"" This is why. Men are indoctrinated at a young age. They are told they are bad, they are wrong. They are taught to protect women at all cost (women and children first off the sinking ship), including their own freedoms, lives, etc. Men are told to suppress their desires, wants, and needs for the good of the group. And they are told that the good of the group is protecting and d…
/r/MensRights13/03/17 06:38 PM
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. . .I actually have a preference towards male babysitters... Guess that makes me an abusive parent for putting my kids in danger?? Just....Omg XD what do her and her husband do? Is HE allowed to watch the kids?? Statistically, those who have the most access are more likely to be the abuser. Family, close friends, people the kids are in frequent contact with. If she's so worried about close male relatives, I'm really curious how she feels about her husband. Her numbers even say that 13% of abuse…
/r/MensRights24/02/17 10:21 AM
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This. So much this. And that's coming from a woman. Really, it's not always done in a cruel way. There are times where, honestly, I'm just sad and need to know that someone cares enough to notice that something's really wrong and actually try to find out what it is. 'What's wrong' can be taken in such a passing way. Just like being greeted by the cashier, 'Hey, how's your day?'. It's a social nicety that really doesn't mean anything. The cashier really doesn't care how your day is going. I don't…
/r/MensRights05/02/17 09:29 PM
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And these are the crazy 'women' that made me readjust my bf's attitude. When we met, he was VERY much on the side of 'never strike a female for any reason, EVER'. Luckily, his mom agrees with me. If a PERSON is a threat, regardless of gender, you put that threat DOWN. Use the least amount of effective force, but do what you gotta do to put it down and make sure it stays down.
/r/MensRights05/02/17 08:28 AM
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It kinda amuses me that what they're picking on being 'feminine and lady-like' and not 'wasting the boy's money' where I would think there are much more important things to be offended by. Like: -make a plan for the date and tell the girl what you're doing -have creative ideas for the date Both assume that the boy is the one to ask the girl on the date, and thus the one to plan it. -open the door for her Umm...Strong, independent woman needs her door opened? And uhh...how many times have feminis…
/r/MensRights13/01/17 01:50 AM
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I'm a stay at home mom, and I totally think it's worth it, for me :) I love being around my 3 kids and I feel like I'm much more suited to running the home and working from here than I would be working outside the home. My partner is kinda terrible with the domestic stuff, so I know that even if I was working, I would still be pulling the lion share at home. So he works outside of the home, I take care of things here, and, when the kids are in school full time (youngest is 3, so in a few years),…
/r/MensRights10/05/16 09:48 PM
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OMFG XP As a woman. . .I fricken HATE this. I have said it before. I will continue saying it. I have never been afraid of a man because he was a man. I have had situations where a man has acted aggressively towards me, and yes, been worried about the situation escalating. And I have had females act aggressively and been just as worried about the situation escalating. I have never walked down a street at night in fear that a man would attack me. I have never walked through a dark parking lot, in …
/r/MensRights06/05/16 02:42 AM
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Just curious what exactly the point here is? I got 4/4 so. . .yea :P
/r/MensRights12/03/16 06:04 AM
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You have no idea XD it's still going on actually, and yup....not 5 minutes ago, I got the "you're a broken record" post. I think I'd be happy if even just one person rethought their support and their stance on this one issue. But it frustrated me enough that I reached out to friends and family on my personal page as well, for the first time, so...we'll see how that goes XD
/r/MensRights27/12/15 04:40 AM
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It's still shocking me. It just honestly never even crossed my mind that men and women weren't equal. I knew that there was a time when women were viewed as less than men, being property, not being able to vote, not allowed careers, etc. But I grew up thinking that was over and done with and things were okay now. It wasn't until I started sharing what I had told my partner. People looked at me like I was CRAZY to continue a pregnancy I didn't want (with no moral objections to abortion), that I w…
/r/MensRights27/12/15 02:26 AM
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It is. I've been an equalist/men's rights supporter since before I knew there was a term for it. When I unexpectedly got pregnant at 19 with my first child, the first thing I did was sit down with my partner and tell him that his choice was independent of my own. If I chose to keep the baby, and he wanted out, he was free to leave and I would never ask him for anything. Likewise, if I decided I couldn't do parenthood, and he wanted to give it a go, I would carry to term and sign over my rights. …
/r/MensRights27/12/15 01:57 AM
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As happy as I am that there is a man who is receiving alimony, I'm SO disheartened and sickened at the responses to this story. There are DOZENS of replies, that I haven't posted, and almost all of them are along the same lines. I would say/write/do so much worse, what a manchild, not much of a man if he's taking money from his ex wife, should get off his lazy ass and get a job etc etc etc. . .
/r/MensRights27/12/15 01:27 AM
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With the letter's...I might make the suggestion to keep copies, and to send them via registered mail (or whatever it's called) to ensure that someone has to sign when they get received. It looks good on you to be able to say "look, I sent them all these letters, I made the effort, AND they were received by SOMEONE. If the letters never got to the kids, that's on someone else"
/r/MensRights23/12/15 11:11 PM
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As a woman, I can't imagine doing this. I can't imagine being with a person for so many years then turning around and hating them that much. I can't imagine preventing my kids dad from being there for them. It's just really beyond me that anyone can be that selfish. I am so sorry for what you're going through. You're kids are getting older. I don't know where you live, but maybe look into the weight that kids opinions have on changing custody agreements. That may swing things more in your favor.…
/r/MensRights23/12/15 07:33 PM
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I think it was really the previous generation who really imposed that boys are not allowed to act girly. But as I mentioned at the end of my post, it seems to drastically be going the other way now with boys becoming more and more forcibly feminized with traditional male type things being viewed negatively. I do agree with you that there seems to be little in between on the girls side though. Young girls who like both sides of things, trucks and dolls, are usually looked at oddly and encouraged …
/r/MensRights21/11/15 05:27 AM
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Personally, I think it has more of a negative effect on boys. Tom boys, girls who act 'boyish' have been much more widely accepted than boys who act 'girly'. It seems to be more that this kind of gap is getting wider. If you look at older versions of Lego ads for example, it was way more gender neutral, appealing to kids with imagination, instead of these ones for girls and those ones for boys. There are dozens of TV shows geared towards girls and a few gender neutral ones, but almost nothing ge…
/r/MensRights20/11/15 06:59 AM
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Not sure how this will come across, coming from a woman's point of view, but here goes :) I'm not a small woman. I'm 5'7". I for one do NOT assume that a bigger guy is more threatening. I tend to be more comfortable around the bigger guys, guys who are heavily tattooed, basically, those guys who may seem threatening to others. I have never crossed the street or gone out of my way to avoid a bigger guy on the street, even at 3am in the not so good areas of town. I, personally, tend to be more thr…
/r/MensRights03/07/15 04:28 AM
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I'm also a mother. I have 2 sons and a daughter, and you know what, damn rights, I'm angry too. I'm angry that I have to watch my son get less help in school. I'm angry that he will know that, based on his gender, he'll have less opportunities for scholarships, job opportunities, etc because someone has to meet a legal quota for how many women need to be in a workplace. I'm angry that I have to teach him to never hit a girl. Not to not start fights, not to not hit PEOPLE, but to NEVER hit a GIRL…
/r/MensRights13/05/15 05:16 PM
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