| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Random text from unknown number saying “Hey” ?No. If she really liked you she will contact you again. It was only a bait (which kind of worked since you get interested). Would an Alpha with options care if a girl sent a text when he has options? | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 12:19 PM |
| 4 | Girl I took out last week isn’t sure about meeting up again because she bumped into her ex and realised she needs time to get over him. Keep pushing or forget about it?No. Your post shows some kind of mild oneitis and lack of abundance. Picture yourself this - Would an Alpha with plenty of options do this or would he go for his more willingly options instead? There you have your answer. A | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 12:16 PM |
| 5 | Want to make sure I'm not wasting my timeShe doesn´t want to be seen as a slut, simple as that. A kind of ASD, if you will. Also, see her actions, don´t listen to her words. This a text book example of Red Pill, you should know this by know. Ignore and escalate. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Great LTR, but I want to play the field. Should I break up?I suppose you are young. If you are young, there is no real reason for you to be in a LTR before 30-35. Your future value will be much higher than it is today. If you are older, it is a bit harder if you agreed on a monogamous relationship. If you are high value man, she would rather share you than be in a LTR with a low value man. Your question does not imply that though. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Just broke up, 23 years old, still in college. What should i do?We can't answer the question if it is worth your effort. Only you can do that. Don't let strangers decide your destiny. However, if I were about to try, do you want to do it because you want to or because you want to earn cash? If it is the latter, there are more interesting ways to do that. You need to decide what you want from life. Where do you want to live? What do you want to do for a living? Do you want to have a family? Write your plan down. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 05:13 PM |
| 326 | Love my LTR girlfriend, but she has gained weight and doesn't care/try to lose weightYou cannot force people to change. They can only change if they want to. Clearly your LTR doesn't. One of the key principles of TRP is "medium is the message". Pay attention more on what they do,less what they say. You need to accept the fact that your LTR won't change for you. Therefor you have two options: Stay with her regardless of what she does or leave her. It is really that simple. It is tough, but she got her chance. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Could really use some advice (ex)How many girls do you have in your plate rotation? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | HS Senior here looking to set up a club at school.Not necessarily bad, but if you really want to learn something new, try to get to know someone more experienced than you. The danger with these kind of clubs is that you all are on the same level and in order for you to develop you need to gain knowledge from someone who is better than you. Another con is that when you will excel, and you will, the other ones will use the "crabs in a bucket"-mentality. If I were you, I would look for someone you admire and try to learn as much from him as poss… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 04:26 PM |
| 6 | HS Senior here looking to set up a club at school.Why do you wanna set up a club? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 04:18 PM |
| 15 | Why would a girl care if you next her?You answered your own question in the last sentence. "Of all the guys that would do Anything to get me, why did HE got away? It most be something special about him. And why didn't he want me? I need to find out..." | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 04:17 AM |
| -1 | How to switch off my inner dialogue / stop overthinkingThen do some more projects / hobbies. Clearly you have too much time on your hands. My point is that you keep yourself preoccupied with interesting stuff. Since you got time to post this, you probably aren't as busy as you think. Either that or meet a shrink. Your call. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 09:57 AM |
| 1 | How to switch off my inner dialogue / stop overthinkingAre you insane? How could I eat from my snickers stash if I were fasting? Kids these days... | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 09:04 PM |
| 4 | Women talking/acting like submissive children..WTF lolNo, they want you to be the man that calls the shots, so they can be submissive. That's a difference. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 07:09 PM |
| 8 | Women talking/acting like submissive children..WTF lolMy kid is soon 4 years old and I recently realised that the interactions I have with him isn't very different from the relationships I have with my plates (except the sex, of course). You need to set boundaries, tell them what to do and be a leader. Just like when you teach a child. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 06:42 PM |
| 4 | How to switch off my inner dialogue / stop overthinkingNo, it is like saying you can stop yourself from being hungry. You can't, but you can decide what you will eat Thinking is human. Every human thinks But you can replace your thoughts with other thoughts. That why it is not productive to give advices such as "stop thinking". Give people a "do" advice instead. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 06:39 PM |
| 7 | How to switch off my inner dialogue / stop overthinkingYou cannot stop your overthinking, but you can replace it. Mostly you overanalyse because you have too much time on your hands. Start lifting heavy shit. You will be so busy and tired that you won't have time to think. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men happy being betas? Is it done unknowingly?The answer you seek is social conditioning, you can read a lot about it in Rollo Tommasi's The Rational Male. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 06:21 PM |
| 8 | On dealing with shaming from peersEither they are threatened or want to test you to see how solid you are. Nevertheless, proceed and do you, no matter what they think of you. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 05:20 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys reconcile loving women if you need to take out the "love" to score most consistently? Am I missing something here?Don't focus too much on what society wants, but what you want to do in life. In the end, that is all that matters. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?You relate your confidence to The size of your dick. You need to stop tjat shit ASAP. I have a small dick, still I jeep The coming for more. Why? Because I am excellent in ved and a couple of other things in my life where I gain confidence. You get confidence through abundance, if you are good at multiple things it will show. Actually, a woman commented on my dick recently. "It looks tiny", she said. "It is what you do with it that counts", I replied and gave her a hell of a ride. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Giving unsolicited adviceYes, but not because I was rubbing his face in it. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:34 PM |
| 32 | How do you end a soft next?She called your bluff. Set up a date, if she flakes - Hard next. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What's the TRP advice once you get old?You clearly haven't read the sidebar. Look up Uncle V's splendid Corporateland-series. And read all of them. No cheating. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Giving unsolicited adviceI have been in your situation. TRP is hard to swallow, Especially if you don't listen. Don't try to preach to non-believers. Had a friend who struggled with this. No matter how hard I tried, he didn't listen. After a while, he got it and was reachable for new ideas. Patience is your best friend. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:25 PM |
| 11 | Giving unsolicited adviceRule one about TRP - Do not talk about TRP. Rule two about TRP - Do not talk about TRP. Remember - You can lead the horse to Water, but not force it to drink it. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Was about to kiss a girl who’s on an LTR but stopped out of fear... any way to test the waters first, or should I just done it?As I told you - Only one way to find out. Kiss her. If she kiss you back, you know. If she doesn't, you know. You win either way. The only reason you ask this question is that you fear rejection. You need to decide what is worse - Rejection or regret? | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 07:11 PM |
| 2 | How can we help improve TRP's image?Why is it important to market TRP? If the fools don't want to believe it, it's their loss. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 06:06 PM |
| 7 | A plate turned me down twice, today she turned me down the third time: hard next or comfort her to keep her around?Three strikes. She is out. You have two other plates. Meet them instead. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Girls asking for meMeet her and find out. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 05:59 PM |
| 23 | Soft next?Still see her, but demote her to plate status. She is not LTR material. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Was about to kiss a girl who’s on an LTR but stopped out of fear... any way to test the waters first, or should I just done it?Only one way to find out. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet submissive women?Thanks, but I think I need to more precise with my question. I know what to look for and for the most part also how to spot them, but the question is WHERE do I find them? I'd like to think that they don't hang out in the same places as other women, but I might be wrong. Do I find them at the grocery store or the library? Those kind of answers I am looking for. Also, what to do if you are not tall yourself? I am 176 cm (yeah, european homie). Not short, but not tall either. How can I compensate … | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Walked out on a girl, was this handled appropriately?You dodged a bullet there, mate. Good work. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 05:07 AM |
| 2 | How tf am I supposed to respond to “Do you love me?”Say "I love you when you make me sandwhiches" and give her a big fat smile. She will hate you. And love you. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Walking out on red flagsThis is not uncommon. She has love bombed you, a strategy that apparently has worked well for her with you. I think you know the answer on this one. Maybe have her as a plate, but nothing more. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Finding an opportunity and seize it or dream big?Great advice and Thanks. The big problem is that I don't have much free time. I have a son who is three years old. I got a baby sitter 2-3 nights a week, but the rest is on me. My dream job requires me to be to work at least 5 evenings / nights a week, so there is the dilemma. If I didn't have a child, the decision would be a lot easier. My options I either to to for the job I am at now or to adjust my dream job so it fits my everyday life (but with the result that isn't Exactly what I Wanted). … | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 10:10 AM |
| – | A year of approaching women - This is what I learntI agree with most of the post. But, because there's always one. I do not feel like I am selling when I approach women. I more think that I am testing them. More like "OK, you got the looks, but have you got the personality? Are you cool or just a jar on the shelf?". So, when I approach, it is not about me selling anything. It's more like I am testing the product before buying. This mindset makes it easier for me to approach, because I do not lay pressure on myself to sell anything. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Friendzone after sex with coworker, then mixed signals. How to deal with it?Fuck. I am down in some deep shit here. As I told all of you, I decided to next her and don't give her any attention. Which I did. Still, I am not sure what to do. She texted me last weekend some random shit, which I didn't respond too. And whole this week I have ignored her at work. Thankfully, we do not work at the same departments, but I am still a little bit puzzled. I do not really need to go to her part of the Office, but earlier I did just to chat and flirt with her. Last week I did not g… | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Friendzone after sex with coworker, then mixed signals. How to deal with it?Thanks a lot, guys. I guess I really needed a slap in the face regarding this case. From now on, she is nexted in my head. If I see her at work, I will of course say "hi" but not more than that. No replies to her texts. Strictly professional. If she wants something from me, she will let me know. And then it will be on my terms. I do not feel like being friendzoned. | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 01:43 PM |
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