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| 6 | Need a boostI can’t answer all of those from personal experience, but I just wanted to say something about this part: “I am doing well but mentally I’m still messed up.” I think a lot of men quietly live in that space for a while after divorce. From the outside things look okay, but internally, it still feels heavy, confusing, or unfinished. For what it’s worth, the fact that you’re asking these questions makes me think part of you already believes there might be a future worth moving toward — even if you c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/26 09:37 AM |
| 3 | Did anyone else completely lose themselves after divorce?I think a lot more men go through this than we talk about. What you wrote about feeling disconnected from who you used to be really stood out to me. I hear versions of that quite a bit — almost like divorce doesn’t just change the relationship, it changes the relationship with yourself for a while. And the “I thought I just needed motivation” part resonates too. Sometimes exhaustion disguises itself as laziness or lack of discipline. I’m curious — when you started feeling better again, what do y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/26 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Feeling trapped even though I am seperatedFirstly, that you're posting here indicates an attitude and outlook that you are NOT a loser. I get that it can feel that way. But is it? Really? You're showing what you value but protecting your kids. That says a lot This kind of situation is different for everyone, but what you're describing - the confusion, self-doubt and feeling of being trapped is a common theme. Be careful of buying into those ideas of 'everything about you is terrible and wrong' You don't sound broken, you sound exhausted… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Wife Considering Divorce Wants to Record ConversationsI would expect that kind of request in a relationship where there are trust issues. Those kinds of relationships make me want to cover myself in every way possible. It sounds like you're doing that yourself by not talking much. By keeping it that way and being careful about what you say, and even more careful about what you agree to, will keep you safest. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 10:45 AM |
| 1 | It’s 3 am and I’m 2 days away from starting a break from my abusive wife. I’m scared to say the least.Pulling your head out of the sand is a positive first step. By keeping in mind why you did it will help you keep it out of the sand. Staying aligned with that understanding will keep you on your path. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 10:40 AM |
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