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| – | Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etcIf everyone does it then the effect is same. Or, it's even worse because when the tall guy uses insoles he would be expressing himself and if short guy uses it he would be insecure or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 05:33 AM |
| 2 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerIf we have to compare them to serial killers to make shy guys seem better then that's still very unflattering isn't it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?If anything it's opposite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 06:39 AM |
| 1 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testMy blood type is so recessive she will need to plan really diligently to paternity fraud me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards womenHm being constantly asked to self regulate while positing the opposite sex incapable of doing bad breeds contempt. Also ableist, ethnic and lookist stereotyping and other stuff like that adds to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Women are hypocritical about sex work.I think the main hypocrisy is not about men vs women but different men. Not everyone is shamed same, it differs by class/social status/prior relationship status. Like inexperienced men considering it, rich dudes doing hedonistic shit with it, a depressed sex addict celebrity, a boomer visiting south east asia etc and I feel like the first one is the one with the least favorable connotations nowadays because it's related to the cursed incel/nice guy character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Women are hypocritical about sex work.It's not men vs women but different men. Not everyone is shamed same, it differs by class/status. Like inexperienced men considering it, rich dudes doing hedonistic shit with it, a depressed sex addict celebrity being called out for it, a boomer visiting south east asia etc and I feel like the first one is the one with the least favorable connotations nowadays because it relates to the cursed incel/nice guy character | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 01:33 AM |
| 1 | The logic on bathroom laws targeting trans peopleWe are different. You want gender neutral toilets because you're worrying about well being of trans people. I want them because it's hot /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Why should men feel sympathy for women’s right to an abortion?Power dynamics is an overall unfruitful framing in debates like this. Abortion should be allowed or not regardless of men having anything to gain by defending it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?I think it's some type of lizard brain ick that people try to rationalize by saying thing like they don't have skills to navigate the relationships or I can't teach him about sex like saying fat women are undesireable because it shows a lack of self-restraint or short men are unattractive because they can't be protectors. You could be experienced in an abusive relationship, a relationship with no physical intimacy, in a long-distance one, or in a explicitly transactional one and it will pass the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 07:19 PM |
| 1 | The Scum manifesto has some good points…Isn't there a chapter like "sex should be abolished so we can all be friends" in the most infamous manosphere book | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:21 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men are constantly contradicting themselves when they shame a woman for doing OF or being a porn starSometimes things that dont affect us directly or even might give us opportunities might be uncomfortable in downstream. So think about the golddigger/passport bro/age gap discourse. These are inequal arrangements where most people inside these dynamics accept the trade offs and a lot of people would dabble with the softer variations of them if it comes to that but some people outside the dynamic are looking at how it affects the dating market and make scenes trying to "fix" the imbalances like l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 06:54 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Too many men believe that women are wonderful. Not only progressives, but misogynistic types too. They think women are just brainwashed by the evil feminist establishment and stuff instead of them being rational people acting according to material incentives and posthoc'ing their moral philosophy/ideology around their lived realities just like men. Oh also the culture war around character designs and castings in media is cringe and waste of time and energy for all involved. Just don't watch/buy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Women choosing abusive men is a skill issueHere imagine a "myth of x" meme where a woman and an abusive man say "I consent" and the wojak says "I don't" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 06:29 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMaybe it's not that women don't like men but they have an inner aversion to normal distributions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Go bag and DNA tests are equivalentI didn't know what a go bag is and looking into it isn't this something you should already have ready in case of natural disasters and stuff? I wouldn't be annoyed by a woman having a go bag because I know I won't be doing something that will make her leave so I think the analogy is a little wrong. I mean it's a little humiliating but she has the right to be paranoid so if that makes her feel better so why not. Also I don't think the scales match because of the retroactive nature of paternity fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Basing off the 80/20 theory- for those of you in the 80% would you rather not have sex or be alone?Sounds like a good friend. I guess wouldn't say no to a friend unless I have better options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Do most men here come from married two parent homes?Divorced, dad is an incel and mom is a femcel afaik | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?Dont forget about r/menslib for general male issues discussion and r/inceltears for socializing with peers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If you’re a man and can’t find a partner, it’s just natural selectionTheory of evolution is a descriptive theory not normative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 01:36 PM |
| – | I think I was mistaken on what the blue pill is - could you clarify something for me: do you see the blue and pink pills as diametrically opposed to each other?Is black pill blue pill according to the non-red pill is blue definition? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Do autistic guys get a bad reputation for hook up culture because fiction often portrays them as demisexual?I think people are quick to just call men who fail in some specific type of social engagement or are quirky in some way autistic and men self diagnose it a lot too. Just like some people are short some people will be bad at conversations. That doesn't mean they are "midgets" necessarily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 06:18 AM |
| – | Do you know your enneagram type?I have a different result every time I try. But I'm virgo that I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 10:49 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The weirdest gooning practice I've seen is some type of digital corruption fetish. They deactivate their AV and install specific malware that'll show porn pop ups until the computer gets unusable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Red pill advice teaches men how to sabotage healthy relationships.Yeah I agree that any framework used strictly without nuance could or would play out negatively | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Red pill advice teaches men how to sabotage healthy relationships.I think variations of the same post can be written for blue pill or for women. In the end the assumption that people don't know what is good for them and they fumble around relationships because of that is a really patronizing starting point and inaccurate too. People just navigate between different "tools" with different trade offs for their different needs and desires and if it doesn't work that's because there is some already existing conflict in that relationship in terms of interests and ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Glorification of step dads is harmful to societyReal step dads are probably better than the government being the communal step dad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop trying to get women to like them.I thought black pill content was forbidden /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:32 PM |
| 3 | What increases your sense of self-worth outside of romatic/sexual validation?Only half serious. But basically, if you feel suffering and feel let down by your environment one of the ways you reclaim yourself is to feel spite about your situation. You just think the alternative. You start imagining that the world would be better off without you. And what naturally follows is, you should keep going as you did until now, and make everyone else worse off by just creeping along instead. Sounds like a toxic mindset but I wouldn't be surprised if it saved a lot of lives in some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 07:23 AM |
| 3 | What increases your sense of self-worth outside of romatic/sexual validation?Being angry about things and generally being a nuisance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?I think you're confusing it with a betabuxx situation or situations where men complain about women complaining about long term compatibility issues with an otherwise attractive man. They don't say marry with those you aren't attracted to, they say use looks as a filter less initially so maybe I can show you who I am and we can connect at a deeper level or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 11:04 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah it makes sense that personality is more important than looks except the cases where looks are more important than personality. Nah just kidding I agree. But that "personality" does not mean morals or prosociality, it means having a personality that is either sexy or useful Oh also I'm not sure if "there is no male loneliness epidemic" is a blue pill take. It's like a horseshoe where most blue and red pillers would agree that it exist while blue pillers call it patriarchal socialization prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 12:07 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This shit is depressing. It's like men are only allowed to complain about problems as much as the solution to their problem is empowering women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 11:29 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Personality might be more important for those who are looking a certain way. Categorically calling personality way more important than looks sounds wild to me since having down syndrome or being a quadruple amputee is still part of looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 11:23 AM |
| 1 | If PUA/RP-Game is Manipulation of Woman why is Makup not?Because men aren't meant to be choosers anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Red pill men: does a woman's virginity/sexual past matter to you and if so why?People have this thing called jealousy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 09:37 AM |
| 0 | A lot of male self-improvement advice is useless because it still keeps women at the centre.I mean, what you're saying makes sense from a hedonistic logic. Minimize pain, maximize pleasure etc. It's good to have friends because being lonely feels bad, it's good to have a brisk walk daily to keep yourself healthy so you don't get back pain in your later years, and it's good to be disciplined enough to skip soda to avoid future toothache and dentist anxiety. This is fair. However, I don't think it's self-evident that decentering women and self improvement are better by themselves. It's s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:49 PM |
| 2 | A lot of male self-improvement advice is useless because it still keeps women at the centre.What is the point of self improvement? To attain something, isn't it? Ultimately that's a woman for most men. Or stuff to substitute like games, porn or even sex workers. If it weren't for their libido most men would live like ascetic monks, desire is suffering after all. Learning to be satisfied with a simple life would much easier than challenging yourself constantly. Self improvement for the sake of self improvement or being an independent person for the sake of being an independent person se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 10:33 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Some normies are being paid to write black pill erotica while my incels are lying down and rotmaxxing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Porn analytics reveal surplus of queer men?Human sexuality is already weird. People can find one thing about a guy dressing like a woman that's sexy and extrapolate a full fantasy from there. In addition to that the people's tastes get weirder when it's being absorbed with a flat screen so it can get compartmentalized easily. Same logic for drawn or written porn. Don't think too much about it it doesn't mean people are gay or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Would you switch genders if you could?Nah I'm over my female prime 2late | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men have a victim mentality when it comes to romance and dating?Because they think they are victims | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:54 AM |
| 4 | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menHuh the "natural state" probably included some self balancing mechanisms like natural selection beating sexual selection or antisocial people being shunned instead of being made CEOs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Conspiracy : We will see never seen levels off self improving in the next Years for Men, and it will get really bad.Even then how much a person will be able to elevate his status in such a competitive environment via novel methods? Also I believe a lot of people have a disposition to avoid "cheating" even if not cheating is to their detriment. Pride, prosocial behavior, or possibly a hereustic of "Someone who selects me when I'm at my best wouldn't be worth the effort" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:16 PM |
| 1 | It's 2040. Sex robots are still not mainstream. Here's why.Teledildonics + VR will be enough, at some point your brain fills in the blanks, see: phantom senses. Even right now the VR ERP scene is rather dystopian, you just need to add AI to the mix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Women don't chase Chad because women don't experience post-nut clarityI stopped having post nut clarity at some point, my body and soul accepted the filth ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 03:31 PM |
| 47 | Conspiracy : We will see never seen levels off self improving in the next Years for Men, and it will get really bad.Nah most men will give up and cope with escapism instead. We can observe this in countries that are one step ahead of West in terms of gender incompability trends, e.g Japan, South Korea, China. There might be a minority of brutal biohacker looksmaxxers but that won't change the trend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 01:15 PM |
| -1 | A woman who actually loves you would never accept one-sided open relationshipsDo you think the same for all kinds of non-monogamy or only for polygyny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 03:50 PM |
| – | Would you enter a relationship your ideal female partner if you could never have sex again?Something is better than nothing isn't it? Kind of a bad place to ask this question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Blood donationRegulate mandatory MAID and organ donation for incels ass post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating?Because a lot of them believe that women are actually wonderful but act not-so-wonderfully because they're co-opted by evil feminists or liberals or something. So maybe if we try hard to show the right way, they would start acting like this! Or something like that. Another answer would be they believe that people are malleable with social conditioning. A lot of people believe this, actually, and once you start with this axiom you skip looking into material reality in a neutral way and you're jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 11:18 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I mean isn't that what juice is not worth the squeeze means? A lot of people explicitly or subconsciously prefer being alone to being in a transactional or situational relationship with the hopes it becomes genuine one day and stays that way because it's difficult to find energy to sustain it or because it makes them feel like a loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 10:58 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Lebanon has democracy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 10:45 AM |
| 1 | What do you feel like hinders you most in dating?Not getting any IOI's, high risk aversion, inexperience, living in a culture where relationships are deemed transactional, probably some genetic basis (basically my father is an incel and mom is a femcel and they had sex once before divorcing to conceive me) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Would you be willing to die alone so that maybe just maybe the next generation of men have a fighting chance at a normal dating life?If we assume the 80-20 rule or some type of attraction pyramid thing is accurate I don't think the provider/settling model will be sustainable either way. Too much distraction around us and not enough information friction between genders online so they can't keep the "dirty secrets" from one another. Add that we're comfortable enough to have pride. The result is it's a matter of time until a lot of people discover/develop their own coping mechanics instead of finding a partner, and at that point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 11:15 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the recent trend of female dating content types pushing the idea that mens dating woes are the result of "capitalism" and material inequality?A society with economic equality and strong social support systems would be one where you could vet partners more in accordance with your attraction than their efonomic utility, so maybe it would be better for all involved: those who are coupled would be choosing each other purely by attraction and those who are not chosen wouldn't get lied to, assuming the last leftover crowd has some kind of cope. But it doesn't follow that if we solve inequality, we solve romantic loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 08:02 AM |
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