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You don't even have to go all way to the 90s. Just the music out right now is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:27 AM
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Personally it's pretty scary but it's a result of the current huge polarisation over social political issues, there's very little moderacy at least online and a lot of younger people spend a lot of time online so it's easy to get swayed with extreme ideas all around. I just hope it leads to more decent discussions. I recently saw a woman give a talk on TikTok and she had a shirt written 'the future is male and female' so there's that and I hope to see more of that
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/25 08:20 PM
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Does this include nurses? Bc then it makes sense
/r/MensRights21/05/25 09:14 AM
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Doesn't everyone?
/r/MensRights21/05/25 09:13 AM
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It really is, I'm a girl and it's sickening to see so many blatantly misandrist content on tiktok, I'm convinced these women are literally actual femcels. Bc irl no women ik actually hate men like that. Sometimes I get lost in different ideas on social media and I start to think the world is ending until I go outside and talk to real people again lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/25 09:32 PM
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Yup, I've been through periods where I spent so much time online and did nothing else in my life and I could literally feel myself get brainwashed into believing extreme things I never agreed with before. Stepping outside and interaction with people irl helps bring me back to reality and reality is pretty chill
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/25 09:28 PM
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As a girl with two older brothers who are very decent normal people and that I care about a lot, and especially for one of them who is really quiet and often keeps to himself, it really hurts me when I see blatantly misandrist content on social media. I literally had to dm one girl on TikTok who made a boohoo video on the male loneliness epidemic bc it literally felt like a direct attack at even people like me who have experienced some severe depression. Since when do we blame people for their l…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/25 09:25 PM
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As a girl they make us all sick, the amount of plain misandry I see on tiktok is just sickening
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/25 06:25 AM
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Well it seems he's already doing what you want why are you worried he'll stop. If he doesn't stop no need to worry, only start worrying when he stops lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 03:08 PM
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Welp🥀 I guess marriage is just a scam all around. But that would only be if you plan on having a sahm or tradwife. If she makes money or even earns more you'll benefit from a divorce
/r/MensRights14/05/25 07:43 PM
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You know it's not just as simple as women being bored and choosing to divorce their husbands, and you answered my question of why men get married as well. For the benefit of both sides and especially if children are in the picture so they don't have a broken home. I do agree that a lot of women have simplified what marriage should be and hell I get frustrated by self centered takes from women online as well but then again I think about my mum and how I watched her in her marriage, a lot of women…
/r/MensRights14/05/25 07:38 PM
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Also this can only be said about women who want to be sahms and tradwives, otherwise we live in a time when women are encouraged to be financially independent so that in the event of bad situations they can support themselves and the kids bc men are not gods,
/r/MensRights14/05/25 02:02 PM
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That's what marriage WAS, why do you think women and even young girls are so obsessed with love stories and romance and as a result they love the idea of marriage? Bc they love men, they love the idea of love itself. Owning property is what marriage was for back then and it wasn't just women, men married strategically for the same reasons as well. There's evil women out there of course and I always encourage men to stay away from materialistic women, though a lot of men seem to not care when a w…
/r/MensRights14/05/25 01:11 PM
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It's not insane, literally a prenup is all that's needed to get rid of the risks. And the single dads doing better is bc those dads who stay are usually the good ones, they do better economically and usually for courts to grant fathers custody they have far more advantages especially economically and academically than the mother, meanwhile with single mums there's a larger pool of women in varying living situations.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 08:30 AM
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And also I believe people should be more accustomed to the idea of marriages just not lasting, divorces have almost always existed in many places around the world, I believe it's only catholicism that forbids it. Either way my point isn't to say that people should get married just that there's still people who go into it and there are benefits for both men and women. That's literally the point of marriage, you don't do life on your own, and it's better to have children within a marriage so that …
/r/MensRights14/05/25 08:08 AM
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Well it'll be slavery if you're marrying someone you don't care about. People are still getting married today bro, if you haven't found sb you share goals with and love each other then don't get married. I've seen people talk about how marriage has changed, back then it was basically a societal requirement and it was mostly arranged. Marriage for love is a very new thing so people just have to navigate that, and pre nups are getting more popular, if you are afraid of losing your stuff, get prote…
/r/MensRights14/05/25 07:54 AM
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A lot of men get drained dry because society is designed around draining men dry, I'd argue society markets a lot more stuff for women to buy in literally almost every sector except gaming and men spend a lot of money on gaming as well. This problem is literally just men who spend money on women when they don't have to. I always tell men to stay away from materialistic women if they want to keep their wealth, society isn't against you lol. And the girls you see spending so much are very often sp…
/r/MensRights14/05/25 07:50 AM
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Because of love? Like what is the point of marriage? Back then it was bc life was all about procreation and for property ownership
/r/MensRights14/05/25 07:24 AM
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I mean why do men marry at all in the first place?
/r/MensRights14/05/25 07:23 AM
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See the thing men don't understand about why feminists are against thos e traditional gender roles is the feeling that they keep them from doing other things outside the home. If you live alone obviously you'll do it all alone, duhhh but when you are in a house with other people, you expect some help, like me the youngest girl with two older brothers, I couldn't do the chores and cooking alone with two older boys in the house just lying around, when I get my own family I'll do it for my children…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/25 10:19 AM
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Keep in mind in the past marriage and starting a family was pretty much a major societal requirement. Heck even marriage for love is a very new concept. Marriage and having children was very much more of a contract, a strategic arrangement for property ownership and management of power. And I believe a cause for the decline in childbirth is that life itself has gotten bigger, there's more to life than just eating, working and reproducing like it was back then bc life in most places was on surviv…
/r/MensRights09/05/25 08:49 AM
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Idk how true that is
/r/RedPillWives06/05/25 05:15 PM
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I have also expressed how unwise it is, but ik from the perspective of women it's not always intentional to just sit comfortably and wait till you're 40 to start thinking of kids. There's comments about how modern women are all delusional and mentally ill and dumb
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:57 PM
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So what exactly should women do? Bc baby mama culture specifically is often a result of women having kids with whatever partners they have, without waiting to consider if this relationship will be long term or not, so yeah it is pretty much single motherhood I guess, point still stands. Bc if we want more women to start having kids earlier and faster it'll likely result to a lot of single mums. Im 20, most friends I have are in their 20s and believe me a lot of women do think about when they'll …
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:55 PM
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Men getting older is a problem as well, and health, highly overlooked issue
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:50 PM
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It's not just delusion, you do realise most women would want to have kids before their 40s, life happens and most people would want to have their children when they are stable and with the right partner otherwise we'd have a much larger scale of baby mama culture
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:50 PM
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Wow you do realise most women would want to have kids before their 40s, life happens and most people would want to have their children when they are stable and with the right partner otherwise we'd have a much larger scale of baby mama culture
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:49 PM
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Men getting older is a problem as well, and their health, often very overlooked
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:48 PM
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It's not just delusion, most women I know would want to have kids before their 40s, life happens and most people would want to have their children when they are stable and with the right partner otherwise we'd have a much larger scale of baby mama culture
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:46 PM
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Not necessarily abuse, people lose parents all the time, if one is stable and capable they can definitely raise a child properly
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:46 PM
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It's not selfishness, most women I know would want to have kids before their 40s, life happens and most people would want to have their children when they are stable and with the right partner otherwise we'd have a much larger scale of baby mama culture
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:43 PM
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It's not selfishness, most women I know would want to have kids before their 40s, life happens and most people would want to have their children when they are stable and with the right partner otherwise we'd have a much larger scale of baby mama culture
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:42 PM
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I'm trying to understand why men are so upset about women having kids later in life, it's sort of funny actually bc one would want to have children when they are ready and stable, bc otherwise we should be praising the baby mama culture but no, they are ridiculed all over the internet
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:36 PM
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Women can definitely have kids past 40, I have an aunt who had always wanted a girl bc she already has sons, so she kept trying and suffered a miscarriage but ultimately she got what she wanted at 40, it's not absolutely impossible, life happens for some women and they end up being 40 plus without having had the chance to have kids it's not stupid, it's not just delusion. And besides most women would like to have kids much earlier than later in life when they have the strength to carry and care …
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:34 PM
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Within the last few minutes? Not really bc a lot of the comments are ridiculing women for not having kids at their 40s. I was just a little confused bc the op was talking a 40 plus woman who doesn't want kids so I'm just wondering what the point it exactly, bc most ppl are on the side that it's stupid for women to want kids past 40 yet the quoted woman in the op doesn't want kids so I'm like huh?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 12:26 PM
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But the woman he's quoting literally doesn't want kids, I'm just confused cause I think he didn't phrase his point well enough. Also idk a single woman who is intentionally waiting to get to their 40s to have kids, life just happens sometimes not everyone is lucky enough to be where they want to be in their 20s and 30s when they can have kids
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:45 AM
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So wtf are you calling denial? According to the op we have a 40yr old woman who isn't sure they want kids so what exactly is the problem here?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:34 AM
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Not necessarily wise tho. But some people just don't have the fortune of being able to have kids much younger so..
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:32 AM
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Exactly, op didn't phrase himself properly cause who is that quote coming from? The man or the woman in question?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:30 AM
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It's not as easy as you make it seem, not all women have the luxury to just have their kids in their 20s. It's baffling how this is just incomprehensible to so many of you
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:29 AM
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Now you know when y'all say things like this it sounds offensive, I believe most women want to have kids as early as they can, when they have the strength and health for it
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:27 AM
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What exactly are you talking about? Weren't you talking about a woman above 40 who doesn't want kids so what exactly is the problem?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:26 AM
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What exactly are we talking about? The op is talking about a woman above 40 who doesn't want kids so what exactly is the problem?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:25 AM
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What exactly are we talking about? The op is talking about a woman above 40 who doesn't want kids so what exactly is the problem?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:25 AM
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So you agree with the women who don't want kids after 40?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:22 AM
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What side of the argument exactly are you on?
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:21 AM
1

Isn't this limerence? Mine lasted a few years, on and off, the most intense period was last year for about a whole year but I'm getting better now, I can do several days at a time without thinking of him obsessively. I think it just has to go away on its own
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 06:08 AM
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This is actually insane
/r/MensRights03/05/25 10:18 AM
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I feel like the op is just a case of as she said a girl who mostly had guy friends in her life, bc I've seen the same thing happen to other girls, you become dillusioned to how women act and only want to be around men, now I'm not excusing the behavior of those women she encountered, it just sounds so cartoonish like those women are not on average what you'd find anywhere, just a loud minority of women. But my point is female friendships poke fun at each other as well it's not just a men thing. …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 06:03 AM
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I really don't think so, as much as men have more similarities with each other than with women, each man is still different from another man, same way women are not all the same, my best friend growing up was practically the opposite of me and a guy I've liked for a while is a closer friend to her than he is to me, it would be a big mistake on his part to think his knowledge of my friend could help with his relationship with me
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/25 06:10 PM
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This isn't even remotely true in my experience which is why I personally hate radfems but to say that women often are the shamers is just false, I have always been very soft-spoken, and quiet and I hang around girls more bc they understand me while guys take it as an opportunity to poke fun at me whether or not it's out of attraction, it makes me uncomfortable, in like a mocking kind of way always feeling the need to point out how quiet and softspoken I am. Idk where y'all live that apparently w…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/25 05:51 PM
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Career cooking is vastly different from home cooking and apparently it has its roots in the military so small wonder it's so high energy and competitive
/r/MensRights02/05/25 04:19 PM
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A lot of women today refused to learn how to cook because of traditional expectations
/r/MensRights02/05/25 04:17 PM
2

Blame that on the alpha male red pill community for reinforcing traditional stereotypes
/r/MensRights02/05/25 04:15 PM
1

Is cooking suddenly sth men consider a good thing???🤯🤯
/r/MensRights02/05/25 04:13 PM
-1

It's strange, isn't it, a lot of mothers feel the same
/r/MensRights02/05/25 04:11 PM
2

ohh I see, I understand. I wonder if the the gay best friend trope in media has influenced this such as in chick flicks and if you've seen in some soap operas
/r/MensRights25/04/25 05:17 PM
0

Nah you're right sorry, that's a weird thing to say
/r/MensRights25/04/25 05:09 PM
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I didn't check a variety of studies, I just looked up what could be the cause of this based on the statistics I saw because it's sth I have never considered and those were basically some of the reasons they put down and I can say from my limited exposure it's kind of true and it's sad because societal discrimination plays a part, among various other things
/r/MensRights25/04/25 05:07 PM
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I believe you, I can't argue because I haven't really been around gay men that much and just in general I'm not exposed to how men feel about gay men other than what I see online where there's often a lot of homophobic jokes and slurs, but among the women I'm surrounded by I don't really see it unless it's someone a girl was attracted to and then later found out they were gay and they express disappointment but it's usually just in a lighthearted way, like how women have been obsessed with Jonat…
/r/MensRights25/04/25 05:02 PM
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What comment sections were you looking at, because a lot of them were disgusting
/r/MensRights25/04/25 02:09 PM
1

that's sth new I've learned today🤔. I must say lesbians are usually mentally unstable in my experience, identity crisis, alcoholism and sth called butch/femme or whatever
/r/MensRights25/04/25 12:21 PM
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Really tho? But yeah I agree blaming the patriarchy for everything is stupid
/r/MensRights25/04/25 11:25 AM
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I'm not talking about gay men
/r/MensRights25/04/25 11:24 AM
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It's true that feminists can be just as homophobic but you can't deny that the it's a lot more prevalent among men and especially men who are obsessed with appearing masculine
/r/MensRights25/04/25 10:17 AM
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But I do wonder tho, this system was literally built for boys, girls only joined in later, why is it suddenly harder. I've been thinking maybe indoor studies has always just been a more female thing, because girls definitely are more comfortable staying indoors and are more likely to endure struggle quietly
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/25 05:51 AM
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This shouldn't even be a subject matter, women get abused but so do men, society should condemn both, because what will we gain if femicide rates go down but men continue to die and be abused and no one wants to talk about it
/r/MensRights25/04/25 05:06 AM
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I'm a girl and this is really sad, a lot of women do take feminism way too far but I feel like a problem is also within the male space, because for instance that teacher who slept with her students, it was mostly women calling it out and the men we're overwhelmingly defending it saying the kids were stupid for reporting her. Men's voices in situations of them being harmed matter and it just doesn't help when some other men are working so hard to drown out the voices of real victims. I think idea…
/r/MensRights25/04/25 05:04 AM
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