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Hi a male feminist checking in here. I won't answer for "women" at large. But I can clear up some misconceptions for a fellow man. So there's a lot to unpack here. Now I have a favor to ask. Every social movement has its extremists and nut jobs. Let's set aside extreme positions from social media and talk about mainstream feminism. I think one of the biggest misconceptions about feminism is the idea that feminists want to abolish masculinity or gender. Feminism is about abolishing patriarchy whi…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/26 01:17 AM
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They don't actually want women as they are. They want their warped idea of women. And if you don't conform to their ideal then obviously you must be the problem 🙄 It couldn't possibly be their toxic mindset. Which admittedly as a man even in my 30s I have moments where those differences are a bit baffling. But I've always had fun learning about my partner and finding those differences. Even after 10 years together she can still surprise me.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/26 12:25 PM
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So I was getting ready to respond to the previous topic. Recognizing when you aren't in a good headspace is a good thing. Sometimes we all need a break. I've been there too for what it's worth. Taking a break when you realize you aren't in the right headspace is a good thing. But please don't stop trying to improve. Because isolating indefinitely isn't the solution. Isolation makes feelings of hopelessness and despair worse. I hope to see you again. You're also welcome to DM me any time.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 02:05 PM
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The thing is this type of "woo is me I'm mentally ill" post isn't engaging thoughtfully here but I'm going to take you at your word that you are trying. Engaging thoughtfully to me would be something like What did you learn? How has your thinking changed? Are there any ideas or concepts you still find challenging? Or saying thank you to the people who took the time to respond to you. This community is a labor of love. No one besides the journalists lurking are getting paid to be here.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 12:21 PM
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I don't think these statements are opposed to each other (as you've indicated by using Or). The fact that dehumanizing ideology promotes violence is not novel and is well documented in psychology and history. Dehumanizing language makes people more prone to violence. Social media also influences language and I do believe that the powerful are shaping those trends. So it would be fair to call social media a tool of power. Case in point look at how woke went from an obscure term in black communiti…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/25 01:15 PM
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Because they're trying to find rational reasons to justify their beliefs. And like a lot of good propaganda it has a grain of truth. Our genes and evolutionary history almost certainly influence our behavior. There's two big caveats on that. 1) Humans are different than other animals. Just because we are influenced by our genes one way doesn't mean we will act on it. 2) There's been a lot of generations since "the caveman days". We've evolved since then. Agriculture has changed us significantly.…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/25 03:58 PM
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I hear you. And it's easy to think that in the abstract especially for people who prefer direct communication styles. But it's also another thing to hear those things from someone you are attracted to. On the other hand from women's perspective they're not sure how you are going to react. A lot of women have dealt with men who can't handle being turned down and either get angry or violent. So they choose to proceed with caution.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/25 02:33 PM
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Welcome! So one of the things that makes these ideologies so insidious is that adolescence and young adulthood are messy and difficult times in life. They know that and they prey on those insecurities. It kind of universally sucks and part of it is making mistakes along the way. I'm 34 and what you're describing about rating and stuff in the early teen years is nothing new. So give yourself some grace we all made mistakes. So what do you do? Enjoy life. Make real life friends. Learn about the wo…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/25 04:58 PM
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Posting variations of the same vague question day after day is getting spam-y. Redpill is a really big topic. If you want to discuss something you're going to need to pick a topic and put a little more effort into these posts. We want to talk, discuss, or help you. But you need to meet us part of the way.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/25 12:57 PM
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Yeah but that has absolutely nothing to do with telegony. Epigenetics involves changes in how DNA is regulated due to environmental factors. We're all carrying around a bunch of DNA that isn't used all the time. It gets switched on and off. That's epigenetics in a nut shell. That still came from the parents and grandparents. It sounds to me like whoever is pushing this is using scientific terms (that dont support their conclusion) to try to push an agenda. And unfortunately they're relying on pe…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/25 03:54 PM
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Because that's not all how DNA & biology work. At all. I don't know how to say this gently... But I'm concerned that you say you're 50/50 on this. Where are you getting this information from? Why do you find it credible?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/25 03:35 PM
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Have you checked out the redpill detox kit? There's a lot of good links in there. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/s/V6ycTA8IBO Here are a few threads from this sub dealing with hypergamy. Others have done a good job of addressing this topic in the past so I'm not going to reinvent the wheel. If there's something specific you'd like to discuss or have questions about I'd be happy to. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/s/iHJJcJJ7n4 https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/s/lX7vkkjgw4 https://www.red…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 12:48 PM
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I did the same with the blue pill mindset, and it didn’t work the same way What do you consider "the blue pill mindset"?
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 11:42 AM
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Can you be a little more specific about what claims you want debunked? You're asking a really broad question about a broad topic.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 11:27 AM
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You're right it doesn't make sense when you think about it logically. But it makes more sense when you think about it in terms of patriarchy. "Patriarchy is a system that advantages men and dominates oppresses and devalues women." The value system you described does exactly that. It elevates and advantages sexually experienced men, while reducing the value of sexually experienced women.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/25 02:17 AM
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Life isn't fair. I wish it was. I don't think "having money, power, and fame is an advantage" is exactly a hot take.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:47 AM
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Because relationships aren't a reward or punishment for behavior. It's a bond between human beings. It takes attraction, commitment, romance, communication and a lot of other things. There's a degree of randomness. Sometimes life is unfair and a person whose otherwise wonderful just doesn't meet the right person. Women arent a reward for your good behavior True. Expecting a girlfriend for being nice is manipulative I'm not sure manipulative is the word id use. No one is entitled to another perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:51 AM
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