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I couldn't have value or self-esteem feeling like I did, though. Sounds like you're on your way, but be careful with this last statement. You're basically saying "I couldn't feel the way I wanted to, because I felt the way I did", and that's bullshit. As a man, your emotions are always a controllable response to the culmination of your circumstances. You're not a bitch. You're not a flag stuck up on a flagpole, whipping around helplessly in an endless torrent of feelings. You're a man. You have …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 10:44 PM
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Why do you want someone around who doesn't want to be with you? Understand that this is a very fundamental part of what women are and how they operate. As a man, all you should really "need" from a girlfriend is sex, and even that you should be able to get elsewhere, if necessary. From an emotional standpoint, it may hurt like shit when she leaves you, but pragmatically speaking, you don't lose all that much. When a man leaves a woman, she loses a bunch of things for which she depends on him. Ph…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 10:16 PM
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Don't save them; they don't want to be saved.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 10:04 PM
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Late reply, but I'm sorry what??? "Nuked her"? A "softie"? She asked for commitment. OP stated honestly that he wasn't ready for it and explained why. She cried, and OP didn't judge her for it at all. In fact he comforted her. Then she tried to withhold sex under the guise of plausible deniability, so that she couldn't be blamed for it. OP called her bluff and let her go home, politely walking her out. And then what happened next? This "softie" who had "feelings" for OP never called him again. N…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 11:18 PM
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don't believe a female when you confront her with these truths Amend that sentence to "don't confront a female about anything, ever". You stand absolutely nothing to gain by confronting a woman verbally about her behavior. Meanwhile, she gets nothing but valuable information from you. How you feel about the situation. How valuable or invaluable the relationship is to you. If you're dumb enough to offer it, she gets a full and honest accounting of what the consequences of her continued bad behavi…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 08:08 PM
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Nah, they'll just have to flee to somewhere warmer as refugees. You know, somewhere like Turkey, Syria, or Iraq.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 07:29 PM
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Fight Club and Gone Girl. But especially Fight Club, because it's fucking Fight Club.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 02:56 AM
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You're treading on the edge of some pretty dark territory here. There's a decent case to be made that if you're feeling like garbage, you're actually doing it right. One could make a fairly cogent argument that what women are really after sexually is a guy who is 100% K strategy-oriented. That the most sexually attractive thing a man can be in the long-run is an absolute ruthless and uncaring pussy hound. That maybe what the female subconscious craves is a man who is expertly adept at constantly…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 06:29 PM
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They're not beliefs or assumptions. You don't talk about them. You don't consciously practice them. You don't even think about them from an objective standpoint. Beliefs and assumptions are consciously chosen or abandoned based on reason. They are not that. They're weaknesses. A man who thinks that a woman will appreciate his subjective uniqueness does so because he has little to offer in terms of objective value, because he is weak. A man who thinks that his relationship with a woman is "specia…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 10:30 PM
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The counter-argument of course being, the tax you pay the government is not for use of your own land, but for maintenance of the peaceful and stable environment which allows you to sustainably own property. In an unregulated environment, you own that land yourself until two motherfuckers or a motherfucker with a gun comes along and takes it from you. If you have more friends or a bigger gun, you can keep your land, but if not, you're up shit creek. The government, with all of its redundancy and …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 07:59 PM
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Careful lumping depression in with the rest of that stuff. More than anything, depression is a symptom of the world we live in. Back in the day you were born. Your parents sheltered you for a few years, maybe 3. Then you started playing/romping around with other kids. The older kids would pick on you. They'd beat you up. You also had to worry about getting eaten by wolves, getting lost in the woods, getting kidnapped by peg-legged kid-fucking neanderthal retards, drowning, floods, fire, etc. The…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 11:42 PM
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You are correct on the first point. Inevitable was the wrong word to use. One principle that guides me in dealing with women is one that I call "Schrodinger's Thot". It's the idea that every woman you meet is both a whore and not a whore, both stable and unstable, both fickle and loyal, until you uncover empirical evidence that confirms one or the other. Strategically, the best way to treat them is to enjoy women and be decent to them, but never to implicitly trust them. You are going to run int…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 04:32 PM
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I've said this before, and I'll say it again: Yes, if you deal with women on any kind of a regular basis, over time you will inevitably run into those who act out, scream at you, damage your property, and even hit you in an attempt to get a rise out of you. Yes, if you are any kind of man, you are at least twice as strong as any woman you're involved with, and striking her is a weak and underhanded move. And yes, if you do that, 99 times out of 100 you deserve to be looked down upon. But this is…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 11:52 PM
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The worst case he can fix it by divorcing the woman. But if he stays, it's on HIM to fix it or stop complaining and just live with what he's got. I'm partial to "or not get married in the first place, because marriage is just a superficial benchmark for a woman to brag about to her girlfriends and mom, and does not absolutely nothing to make her appreciate a man more or increase her sexual attraction to him".
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 11:14 PM
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Jesus Christ, are you me? But seriously, this is what all marriages are, to one extent or another. One of my cardinal rules in dealing with the opposite sex is to remember that no matter what, you can always count on a woman to pull the slack out of whatever length of leash you give her. It doesn't matter if its 10 feet long or 10 miles. They are designed to be selfish. They are designed to test boundaries. They are designed to take unearned benefits for granted. They are designed to always want…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 10:31 PM
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"less than she deserves" Ugh. "Deserves". The worst word in all the English language. You could almost say it's inherently female. It allows women to say "I want this, and I should have it", but without ever having to explain why. If a woman says "I've earned this", you can point to evidence that might dictate that she hasn't. If she says "it's only fair that I get this", guess what? Everyone knows life isn't fair. But when the term "deserve" is used, it makes her claim irrefutable. You don't ha…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 03:58 PM
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It's not disingenuous at all. No one in this thread is advocating giving single mothers a hard time for saying "my kid comes first", shaming them, taunting them, etc. It's not personal. You are misreading responses whose primary message is that they're simply not worth getting involved with. Forget that the kid in question isn't yours. Any relationship in which the woman does not make the man her primary focus is an unhealthy one, no matter the reason.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 07:33 PM
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Treats her poorly Openly tells her she isn't good enough Compares her unfavorably to not just one, but every woman he's ever been with Is "manipulative" Keeps her on her toes 24/7 Lol this motherfucker's game is on point. She ain't never leaving.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/18 08:15 PM
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No. Wrong. "Forced" is not what's going on here. Women cannot force men to do anything without conscripting other men. Ever. In the past, the women of our species who tried to actually force men to do their bidding were bashed over the head and disposed of post haste. They died out eons ago. No, if you are in a relationship with a woman that is in any way undesirable, it is one person's fault: YOURS. Own your actions. Take responsibility and walk the fuck away. That's what being a man is.
/r/MGTOW05/12/18 05:27 PM
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Literally no one in this thread has suggested giving someone "grief" because their kids come first. I don't know where you read or even inferred that. Frankly, it sounds like you're projecting your own experience with single parenthood onto the OP and the people commenting. You don't give someone whose kids come first a hard time. In fact, you should never feel obligated to give them anything. Not your money, not your time, not your resources, not your attention. Because no matter how much you l…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 05:04 PM
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I wouldn't react. Attempting to shame someone is always just an ankle-deep power grab; the person is only looking for a reaction, any reaction to reinforce their own significance. Whatever she had to say wouldn't affect me, as her opinion is not of any importance to me. The fact that this woman has masculinized herself by training for war and punching people in the face all day, and as a result has developed astronomical standards for masculinity in male partners, is not my problem.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:41 PM
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No doubt. But remember, how she speaks and acts reflects upon her. How you respond to it reflects upon you. Muay Thai world champion, doctor, lawyer, Susan B. Anthony, whatever she is, she's still just a woman. She's doing what they all do: throwing her ridiculous standards out there hoping some chump will believe the hype. And no one has. She's 42 years old and single. The market has spoken. When men fail, it's obvious. We are fired, ostracized, dumped, cheated on, beaten, and killed. When wome…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:16 PM
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We don't punish women as harshly for any crime, because women are more biologically valuable than men. Let's use an extreme example to illustrate: Tribe A has 20 women and one man. Tribe B has 20 men and one woman. In Tribe A, the one man can impregnate 20 women virtually all at the same time, whereas in Tribe B, each man must wait a minimum of 9 months for his "turn" to reproduce with the one female. And that's not to mention the high probability that within Tribe B, 3 or 4 of the strongest, mo…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 05:03 PM
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Important lesson: The "Trust Issues" Shit Test A lot of the time, a woman like those described above will "open up" to you in the early stages of dating about her "trust issues". There are two very important things to remember here. Any "trust issues" she may or may not have as a result of previous relationships are: A) Not your fucking responsibility. B) Never your fucking problem. If she brings something like this up, recognize it for what it is: an immediate attempt to leverage her emotionali…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/18 11:14 PM
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I watched the entire Podcast last night. A lot of you are missing the real lessons here: That's such a cruel and terrible thing to say. Who gives a shit? It's one woman's opinion, and a 42 year old one who has no life partner and who's been hit over the head too many times at that. Don't invest time and energy into the opinions of someone you care nothing about. Bitches ain't shit. Don't like her opinion? Next. I'd like to see her take a beating like that and act differently. That would prove ex…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:53 PM
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Internalize this now: Nothing ever really backfires on women. They are simply not held accountable for bad behavior to anywhere near the extent that men are, and really have not been at all since we stopped branding them with a scarlet letter for being capricious and adulterous. Not all women are bad decision makers. Not all bad decisions are made by women. But when women make bad decisions in arenas in which men are involved, it is always men who end up shouldering the blame and bearing the cos…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 07:58 PM
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If a bitch gives you shit, it's better you dump her or she will. Actually, it's better you dump her or she won't. Women don't usually do overt break-ups. They don't like the blame, the accountability. Instead, she'll be more likely to hang around, taking what she can get from you time, attention, and money-wise, while having sex with you less and less. Getting what she wants on her end, while giving up less of what you want. In other words, a bad deal. We talk a lot about abundance here, mostly …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 05:12 PM
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Jake le Dog explained it concisely. In addition to lowering the weights and working back up from time to time, stopping altogether for 5-10 days is helpful. The only reason to ever stop training for 6 months would be to rehabilitate a serious injury.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 10:34 PM
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There is no reason to pay up to tolerate someone else* Which you will once she becomes comfortable in the relationship and begins to demand more and more from you, even as her looks and visceral appeal to you begin to fade.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 05:52 PM
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Good post. Not a lot of peer-reviewed, repeatable studies have been done on the causes and effects of DOMS. It good that you relied on them, and not on bro-science. It's important to remember that soreness is never there for no reason: when you're sore, your body is always trying to tell you something. Overdoing it in the gym and being unbearably sore the next day isn't necessarily a good thing. Not being able to walk up stairs sucks. Working out when you're that sore can result in injury. Reall…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 05:46 PM
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Look, I know things seem like they're getting worse, but it's just the nature of the beast. abortion on demand People use this term like you can dial it up with your cable remote and *poof*, bye-bye baby. You can't. I've paid for more than one abortion; they're expensive as shit. If you're in the wrong state, they're almost impossible to get. And it's still totally illegal, everywhere, to abort a baby beyond the 2nd trimester. gay marriage What does two dudes wanting to get married have to do wi…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 05:16 PM
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It may be an easy solution for her, but it's not the ideal one. Her ideal solution is for the government to willingly strong-arm for her and summarily throw men in jail should they lie or omit even the smallest detail while she and all other women vet men for quality and sexual viability. She believes, she knows, that she is a wonderful, virtuous princess who deserves a man from the highest available echelon, and anyone getting in the way of this process, for any reason, is to be punished like t…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 04:01 PM
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Nothing in this article is worth your fervor. The vast, vast majority of people are reasonable enough to completely disagree with this outlandish premise, and vote against it ad infinitum. New laws in the dating area should focus on lies that... have a potentially large dignitary or emotional impact. Emotional and dignitary impact are non-quantifiable and only definable by the person who experiences them. The legal system has nothing to do with matters that only have an impact in these areas, an…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 10:16 PM
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Idk it seems to me that most women would think a guy saying "clearly you sent this to me by mistake" was being genuinely incredulous, like he couldn't believe it was happening. Especially over email with no tone or vocal inflection. The best response is none at all. The second best is "ok". I don't get at all how this would have the desired effect.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 03:44 AM
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We men aim to smash the highest quality possible, but once we get there, we dont straight up dismiss anything worse than a 9 - we are still capable of appreciating them and even doing them if the situation requires it. While I agree with most of what you are saying, realize that you are framing this part of it solely from a male point-of-view. You use the word "appreciate" in a way that implies men and women "appreciate" each other in the same way. They don't. A woman shows her true appreciation…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 11:33 PM
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Maybe I'm missing something here, but can someone explain this response to me like I'm 5? I honestly don't get how this is ballsy.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 10:28 PM
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Reading this makes me cringe at myself. There have been many times in my life where a woman contacted me after a break-up for "closure", and I responded with anger, or sadness, or explanation, or trying to win her back. She's only ever there for herself. To deflect the blame for the break-up and failure of the relationship off of herself, and onto you. She doesn't give a shit about you anymore; if she did, she would still be fucking you. The only good response is no response. Anything else valid…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 05:29 PM
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Any shit test by a plate is easy to pass, as long as one thought remains constant at the core of your frame: You are fucking her, and it's not costing you a god damn thing. Women are all hard-wired to do the same dumb thing that inevitably leads them to sadness and boredom: trading sex for social status and material bullshit that they think will make them happier. The apotheosis of their sexual strategy, the absolute apex that nature designed them to achieve, is to move from high-value man to hi…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 09:45 PM
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"It's funny you mention that, because my dick actually is my cell phone. It gets wifi and perfect 4G reception everywhere. Here, try it out, make a call." Then climb on top of her and smack your dick up against the side of her face.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:56 PM
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The problem is not that your committed girlfriend wants to go to the club, nor is it that you have to decide whether or not her going is okay. The problem is that you have a committed girlfriend in the first place.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:52 PM
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An outside opinion on what? The title of the sub is 'Ask the Red Pill'. So ask something.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:42 PM
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If 150 bucks is that much of an issue for you, then you have much bigger problems than this whiny bitch.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 06:40 PM
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Honest question, not intended to be condescending: Why did you make this post?
/r/askTRP13/11/18 06:33 PM
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it's taboo for a guy to even mention it Recognizing that it's taboo is important, but you have to take the next step and recognize why. It's a shit test, just like everything else. Men navigate the world through action; women through words and social positioning. A man criticizing a particular woman, or even worse, women in general, is just another form of complaining. Women love to complain, but hate when men do it. Women find cold, rational male efficiency extremely attractive. When a girl you…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/18 05:59 PM
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Nah 10% chance you'll end up in the end zone 10% chance you'll end up in the friendzone The other 80% is just me trying to get some free food 80/20 rule uber alles
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/18 09:09 PM
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While I don't disagree with you, it does bring up an interesting point of contention: Is getting married failing bitch management?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 07:00 PM
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Except that exercise is overwhelmingly good for you. 95% of people who exercise do it to a healthy degree, and it benefits them. Throwing up what you eat is bad for you. Doing it a little bit is bad. Doing it a lot is worse. It stains your teeth. It leads to vitamin deficiencies. It weakens your bones and connective tissue. Eroding your esophagus over time can lead to ulcers and esophageal cancer. Look that shit up; it's not one of those 'uh-oh, kinda scary' cancers. The 5 year survival rates ar…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 06:43 PM
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"This drive for muscularity could be a sign that young men don’t have mastery over their lives, but they may feel that they’re mastering how to work out. In this context, in simple terms, you could say that girls vomit, while boys are much more preoccupied with exercising than normal." Lol, did she really just compare bulimia to lifting weights? What the actual fuck?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 04:33 PM
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It doesn't go both ways. Not at all. When a man eventually loses sexual attraction to his wife, marriage and divorce statistics show that it's highly likely he will stick with her and continue to provide her with food, shelter, physical protection, financial security, spending cash, as well as the social status of having a man devoted to her. She continues to receive all this into her later years, with the trade-off being that he is less enthusiastic about sex and doesn't initiate it quite as of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/18 09:55 PM
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Delete Facebook. Delete Instagram. Spend less time watching TV/YouTube. Install ad block on your computer to avoid advertisements. Divert your attention elsewhere when you can't avoid them. Do not buy products that do not provide financial return or add tangible value to your life. Do not engage in girly discussions about houses, cars, clothing, accessories or any other stupid "lifestyle" bullshit. You're just making yourself look like a gaylord. Maybe most importantly, delete Tinder/Bumble/Hing…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 06:09 AM
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Any opinions? Lol yeah, don't call your own post mediocre. If it's mediocre, why would you post it? Girls like persistent guys who are willing to fight not quitters. This sentence is the core of your post. It's kinda true, but not totally. I would phrase it more like "women enjoy it when men are persistent in pursuing them, fight for them, and aren't willing to quit on them easily". The are two possible reasons for this: Reason A) She's actually into you. She wants to make sure you're actually i…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 11:05 PM
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Glad someone picked up on this.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 09:56 PM
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Make no mistake, if you're on a date or out with a woman, spending any amount of time and energy on her, you are trying to impress her. Frame it however you want; you are still the one taking the initiative, putting forth your attention in hope or anticipation or expectance of her approval. Obviously the individual's mindset and level of experience will play a part in his level of success/satisfaction. YMMV; I'm not discounting that. But over time, repeated exposure to these false stimuli has th…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 09:51 PM
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You raise a very good point. While it's still her behavior that's the issue rather than her beliefs, blaming her for the dissolution of the marriage would ultimately be going against everything TRP teaches. You cannot force accountability on women for bad behavior, and even if you can they will never accept it. They'll burn the house down before taking blame for the bad paint job. For men, bad relationships are a disastrously costly and time-consuming. For women, bad relationships are okay at th…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 05:38 PM
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I can’t even think about having sex for the moment. Uh, yeah you can. Why wouldn't you? You did nothing wrong, and she told an atrocious lie to try to make herself feel better. Plus, if you were to willfully abstain from sex, it would just make it look like you did something wrong. Which you didn't, right? Part of what she was after was an emotional reaction; she didn't care how low she had to stoop to get it. Only that she got it. Don't be a pussy. Don't let her win. ​
/r/askTRP06/11/18 10:44 PM
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Homosexual Lewis Boil, you are incorrect. The root motivation of all human behavior is our sexual imperative. For men, it's to have as many options sexually as possible. Money and status = increased sexual options. There are of course practical limits to this, but the components of our brain responsible for sex drive are not sophisticated enough to recognize them, let alone to mute said drive when those limits are broached. From a male psychological standpoint, more money and power = more sex, a…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 10:05 PM
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Woo boy, that comment is a disaster area. Imagine bragging on the internet about your oh-so-amazing and emotional "realization" that a solid and consistent dicking is more important to you than all the faux-equalist storybook nonsense feminism has to offer, and that it only took 16 years of wasting your beloved husband's time, energy, and hard-earned resources for you to arrive at it and promptly throw all of that in the garbage. And with your name and picture right next to the comment! Amazing!…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 08:19 PM
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The ability of women to carefully craft statements on the fly to externalize blame and create positive spin never ceases to amaze me. However, about 6 months ago it was revealed that one of the main instructors (redacted), was pursuing romantic relationships with various students, all young women, and all within a short time frame or overlapping. The use of the verb "pursuing" here serves to immediately make the instructor the active and even aggressive party and minimizes the role of the women …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 05:09 PM
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Next time, choke slam her into the chalk dry wall, spin her around, tear her lulu lemon yoga pants apart exposing her supple butt cheeks, and jam your already-engorged dry cock into her asshole. Then pin her to the wall and ream her out, sneering and taunting her mercilessly as you let loose a torrent of alpha sperm into her soft pink bowels. Wait nine months, return to the same spot, and then rejoice, laughing triumphantly as tiny, nymph-like butt babies pour forth from her and dance joyously h…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 10:32 PM
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No, and don't. Every break-up that ever occurred in the history of humanity happened because a woman was unwilling to compromise in order to retain a man's time and attention. The fact that you broke up means she does not value those things anymore. She used to have to bend over and get fucked by you to get your time and attention, and now you're going to offer them to her for...what? Her company? Her saccharine wit and original sense of humor? Her having your back with a wicked right hook if a …
/r/askTRP05/11/18 08:56 PM
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At the outset of a relationship, women build an image of the man they're with inside their heads. It is this unfailingly confident, masculine image that they become infatuated with, rather than the man himself. It's one of the more favorable things about women: they actually give us the benefit of the doubt. Of course, you know that you're not Superman. You have your doubts. Your insecurities. Your weaknesses. And your ability to deal with them is what makes you a man. But there is no rule writt…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 05:52 PM
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As I've said on the other neo-Nazi, misogynistic shitlord-laden subs I post on with this username, I'm not in this for Karma or EC points or special labels. I would much rather the ideas I put forth stand or collapse based entirely upon their own merit, free of any contextual advantage or credibility boost. That aside, I do appreciate you taking the time to recognize my contribution.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/18 07:59 PM
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37-year-old dudes whose 'looking for' OKCupid age bracket spans from the fresh-faced bloom of 18 to the withered, decrepit heights of 25, I'm looking at you. ​ Yeah, we know. And we're not looking back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 10:13 PM
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Guys that have been rejected all their lives. There is usually a reason why. And as much as I emphatise, I can't date them out of pity. I am turned off by the very thing every other women before me was. ​ Uhhh...what kind of dates are you going on? Are guys sitting down to dinner with you and immediately spilling their guts about their difficulty finding dates and past romantic failures? Seems kinda flimsy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 10:12 PM
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Easy, killer. Am I saying that she's not to blame for all of this? Fuck no. She deceived him for sure. She was a willing and enthusiastic servant for a guy who offered her basically nothing, and a cold, capricious prude to the man who offered her security and a comfortable life. It's a horrible thing to do. But at the end of the day, stamping your feet over how unfairly he was treated is a waste of energy and does him no good. She is a woman, which means society will never hold her accountable f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 04:30 PM
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Ignore all of these idiots telling you "hurrr if you bothered posting about it, your frame sux". It's a good example of an important aspect of female behavior, and it's a worthy post. It's important to remember that women are a group of people who, for the entirety of their evolutionary history, have not been able to lift heavy objects, hunt for food, fight in wars, defend their loved ones, do stressful jobs, invent important things (some exceptions exist, but not many), or generally be responsi…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 03:37 PM
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The first comment is fucking remarkable. Female solipsism encapsulated. Women are truly incapable of understanding how costly commitment and investment in one woman are to a man, and to be honest, I don't think they want to. She's incredulous. "Why would he be so upset? Why is he so jealous? It was a mistake. She was insecure. She was manipulated." It's total bullshit. We're men. We don't give a fuck about context, or feelings, or intent. We care about what we're giving, and what we're getting. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/18 07:33 PM
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This is one of the worst pieces of advice I've ever seen on TRP. If you need that explained for you, you haven't spent nearly enough time on the side bar. Please delete this.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 06:05 PM
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Option A: She's not that into you and is blowing you off. Option B: She is actually inhumanly busy and doesn't have free time to spend with you. Either way, the solution is the same. Why would you waste time on a woman who wasn't really into you? Why would you waste time on a woman who was too busy to ever see you?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:12 PM
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Which is the curse?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 03:25 PM
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Relevant side bar item: The Medium is the Message When it comes to men, women do not do accountability. They do not do responsibility. They do not do direct communication. A woman is never going to tell you "I am not very interested in you." Mixed signals are her version of "No, but without me actually having to tell you no".
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 10:17 PM
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Yep, you fucked up. Not only by letting her find your post history, but also by ever actually admitting that it was yours (assuming your real name wasn't attached to it). One of the most striking things about TRP is that it is full of truths that, while absolutely undeniable, are too harsh to ever be spoken aloud. In very much the opposite way, liberalism/feminism is full of specious, socially-palatable bullshit that, while completely factually incorrect, is unfalsifiable in polite company, beca…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:55 PM
6

This is a good question, and since no one bothered to answer it: “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 04:39 PM
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There is no "heat" to come back with. Once she makes it obvious she does not value your attention, the only winning move is not to play. Any "witty" comeback you might spit out is just more validation for her; she made you mad, and now you feel the need to get even, and that makes her feel significant. Remember: With women, all attention, even negative attention, is a form of validation. Do not give it to her unearned.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 04:19 PM
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In theory, if you eat nothing but skinless chicken and steamed broccoli, no. From a practical standpoint, it absolutely will. Your appetite goes through the roof.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 02:57 PM
1

The dude says he wants to avoid face fat. Stronglifts is super heavy and makes your face look fatter. What's your issue here?
/r/askTRP18/10/18 04:47 PM
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You didn't disagree with anything I wrote.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/18 02:35 AM
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Great post. This does not get talked about enough. To take it one step further, it is important to realize that every habit can be considered an addiction. Every behavior we habitually engage in is due to the existence of a dopamine feedback loop. The key is whether or not the behavior itself is tangibly constructive or a waste of time. Example: I lift weights habitually. I feel great when I do it, and ancy and useless when I don't. The feeling of accomplishment at having done the work or hit a …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 10:45 PM
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I wouldn't suggest stronglifts. Deadlifting and squatting 3x per week makes your neck thicker and your traps huge. Basically it makes your face look fatter no matter what.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:11 PM
3

That's a nice username you got there.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 03:47 PM
3

You need to be more specific when you talk about 'junk food'. For some people, a cheat meal is pan-fried chicken and collard greens instead of baked chicken and a spinach salad. For others, it's half a pizza. For others, a whole one. For some people, a cheat meal is eating a large bag of Funyons and a liter of Mountain Dew because they're too fucking lazy to get their sweaty, pimpled ass up off the couch for an actual meal. There is a marked difference between eating something great-tasting and …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 09:54 PM
11

I appreciate you giving me big ups, but the Contributor label, karma, and EC points are not things I'm at all concerned with. It's the reason I leave my rambling, emotional stream-of-consciousness posts with zero net upvotes in place instead of deleting them. I'm not here for brownie points. I'm here to help people.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 07:52 PM
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If you're in a relationship with a woman, she's trading sexual attractiveness and access to her uterus, things she was born with and has done virtually nothing to earn, for your time, attention, and resources, things you have worked and toiled to make valuable since you were 13 years old. Apologies are for restoring an equilibrium between peers. Between equals. Men and women are not equal. If she fucks up, withdraw your attention until she is pleasant and compliant again. If you fuck up, what th…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 09:57 PM
2

Their lack of internalized capacity to reason is why a man should never, ever capitulate to a woman as described here. She has strong feelings. She is reacting to those feelings. She doesn't know why she is having those feelings. She has not reasoned through it, or even consciously thought about it. She is doing what weak beings instinctively do: creating a loud and out-sized reaction to a negative stimulus in order to shock those around her into providing a positive outcome. Like a small dog ba…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 04:44 PM
10

Probably worth pointing out that the college professor who was busting people over the head with a bike lock got off with 3 years probation.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 03:23 PM
2

The tough thing to wrap your head around is that despite how much they jockey for it, women do not actually want power, and their stated desire for it is just a shit test. Women want to constantly angle for power and try to wrestle it away from men if they are able, in order to prove a premise: that any man who can have power taken, cajoled, or legislated away from him by a woman is not truly a man and does not deserve to have it in the first place. Then, when society collapses and chaos ensues …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 10:07 PM
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Good post. One thing to add: Don't ever forget that to women, negative attention from a man is a form of validation. You arguing with her means her point of view must be important enough for a man to address. You getting angry at her means she must be significant enough to affect a man emotionally. You insulting her means she must be enough of a threat or she upset you enough that you need to cut her down. You hitting her means that she shook your frame so badly that you basically had to "cheat"…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 06:16 PM
1

Yeah, just want to clarify: I am definitely not suggesting it's unhealthy or wrong for men to have these thoughts; just that it's pointless and self-defeating to act upon them. ​
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 02:59 PM
3

I usually avoid using the word 'conspiracy' to describe it. I consider it no more a conspiracy than I would a pack of wolves preying on a flock of sheep. I think the real question is, if it is a conspiracy, do you consider women complicit in it?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 09:31 PM
13

Agreed. Posts like this, while fun, are ultimately useless and foster the wrong mindset. Remember: The #1 thing women are on the lookout for is men who have a negative attitude toward women in general. Read enough satirical responses to (admittedly) self-absorbed , solipsistic female bullshit like this, and you realize that when women say or write crap like this, it's just another shit test. It's bait. A carrot to induce men to call her out on her unwitting narcissism and rationalization. To all…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 08:46 PM
7

One of the best posts I ever read on here, paraphrased: If at any point you expect someone you care about to accept your worst, you're a garbage person. ​
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 08:45 PM
1

There's really nothing "joyous" about it. Posts like this, while fun, are ultimately useless and foster the wrong mindset. Remember: The #1 thing women are on the lookout for is men who have a negative attitude toward women in general. Read enough satirical responses to (admittedly) self-absorbed , solipsistic female bullshit like this, and you realize that when women say or write crap like this, it's just another shit test. It's bait. A carrot to induce men to call her out on her unwitting narc…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 08:32 PM
3

I'm not being glib when I say this: You should have never texted her another word after she responded 'yes' to your 'hey'. ​ That is not an appropriate response to a friendly attempt to initiate a conversation. That is the way a boss on her period speaks to an employee, or a cranky librarian speaks to a loquacious child. ​ The subtext of that curt, one-word reply is that she wants to make you feel like a nuisance. It's a bare-faced attempt at a power grab. No self-respecting man should ever put …
/r/askTRP21/09/18 07:36 PM
5

Actually, youth and fertility are in infinite supply. Men keep getting older; women stay the same age. That's precisely this chick's problem.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/18 03:47 PM
1

It may matter to them, but it doesn't matter to you. ​ Internal locus of control. You can only control the things you can control, so thinking about it or dwelling on it for even a second is a waste of time. When you cold approach, you are going to get rejected. Often. In fact, half of all rejections are just shit tests, so if you aren't getting rejected, you're doing something wrong. Some women aren't going to like your height, your face, the shape you're in, your haircut, the clothes you're we…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 07:39 PM
7

In all my years on the internet, I have never seen so much virtiol and disgust toward any other group. It just goes to prove that human group structure does not, under any circumstances, tolerate men who complain. ​ The only people who are even slightly publicly supportive and empathetic toward these self-described incels, are incels themselves. Literally everyone else hates them. In my estimate, that hatred stems from: The fact that they are failures. It is a cruel truth of human nature that ev…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 10:01 PM
4

Somebody should just add a "2-date Rule" to the side bar. In theory it's a great idea to only associate with women who are hopelessly attracted to you and can't help but fuck you on the first date. But in practice, it just doesn't work like that most of the time. ​ At some point, once you've built up enough SMV, you may get to this point, but in the interim, you're just missing out on relatively cheap and easy lays. ​ Most women have strong enough social conditioning to withstand even the most i…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 07:47 PM
22

The lack of intent doesn't make the consequences any less severe. Or any less likely to occur.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 07:22 PM
5

It is simply too bitter to think that, even if get a loving wife, she'll hate me once i try to treat her as a true friend. ​ She won't hate you. She just won't want to fuck you. If you're cool with that, then go ahead. ​
/r/askTRP14/09/18 08:55 PM
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ROFL, but behold the shit storm that ensues when a man lists off the various flaws of women he has dated REEEEEEEEEE
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 08:52 PM
17

"Why is it so hard to turn a ho into a housewife?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 07:30 PM
1

Women project weakness and victimhood because Prince Charming only ever rescues a Damsel if she's in distress.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:06 PM
4

That's not the point. ​ AWALT = Schrodinger's Thot Every woman is both a hoe and not a hoe until empirical evidence confirms one or the other. ​ By the time you figure it out, you'll already have dumped thousands of hours and dollars into the one you 'settled' on. Again, not a trap you want to let yourself fall into.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 10:03 PM
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Great post, but in the context of women, it's a fucking pipe dream. ​ Accountability? Responsibility? Morality above reproach? 99% of women want zero part of that shit. They say they do, when things are going well, in order to keep face.But in the long run, it simply does not behoove them or benefit them in the way that playing a weak, helpless victim does. No matter what, some marginally-fuckable Melvin will always be right around the corner to "save" her from herself ​ Relying on a woman to ow…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 09:48 PM
7

"Be polite, be professional, but have a plan to kill everybody you meet." -Gen. James Mattis
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/18 10:04 PM
1

Got my heart broken by this woman named Tammy, But hoes gon' be hoes, so I couldn't blame Tammy. -Dwayne Michael Carter, Jr.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 03:17 PM
2

YOU CAN'T FIRE ME! I QUIT!
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 02:55 PM
1

I have been in a lot of similar situations. It boils down to the same two things everything does: Frame and abundance. ​ The more people you approach, break the ice, and talk to, the less weight each individual interaction has to you. Most people appreciate the shit out of someone who is willing to reach out. The majority will just be happy they don't have to keeping standing around awkwardly waiting for a conversation to materialize out of thin air. ​ Of course, you're going to run into a few p…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 08:40 PM
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While it's an important truth to accept, you're only examining one side of the coin. ​Men love conditionally as well, but in a much less severe way. The things that men love women for are subjective, and in no way performance-based. Not a woman on the planet has to work and toil as hard as any man does to maintain her value. The glow of her skin, the shine of her hair, the gleam of her smile, the curvatures of her tits, her hips, her ass, etc. These are things she is born with. She doesn't have …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 08:28 PM
8

While I wouldn't advocate self-destructive behaviors, I have found that one of the best ways to crack a plateau is to slack on your diet and not train for 7-10 days, and then pick it back up. It breaks down your acclimation to the work. You come back and you feel exhausted again. You're sore for 2 days. You lose progress, but once you hit that plateau again, it seems like you have more momentum to break through it.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 09:24 PM
1

Most legal jurisdictions worldwide, but especially in the US, have some version of Common Law Marriage. If you and your partner: ​ A) Express intent to be married B) Publicly hold yourselves up as a married couple C) Cohabitate ​ then you are legally married, like it or not. ​ Most governments, their court systems, and their police do not care about your 'special set of rules for you and your bitch'. They will consider you married, and you will be subject to all of the constantly-changing laws r…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 09:09 PM
15

Upvoted. Your message is still sound.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 07:19 PM
14

Honestly if you've been going to the gym for 8 months and you don't look forward to it most of the time, you're doing something very wrong.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 07:04 PM
9

Far less public media on it. Far less social media on it. It's far more socially acceptable to oppose it. That depends entirely on the prevailing political sentiment wherever you happen to live. And that still doesn't matter. Women have two primary hard-coded concerns in life: To appear as superficially virtuous and desirable as possible to everyone around her. To shit test men as thoroughly and continuously as possible, in order to not end up getting impregnated by a loser. Feminism is still th…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 08:42 PM
3

Good post. In regard to to critcism 1, I'll admit that's the first thing that jumped into my mind. I think the entire question rests on a false premise. The correct premise is this: Fuck anyone who tries to make you justify improving yourself. Men aren't judged on the justification or purpose for their mission. Men are judged on fucking results. Your quest to maximize you value as a man is nothing you ever have to justify to anyone, for any reason. It's literally no one's business but yours.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 09:49 PM
11

You want someone who will be an asset and not a constant liability to your happiness and lifestyle. No matter her lifestyle, personality type, or physical makeup a woman is always a liability. Never an asset. They do not have to make a net positive contribution to a relationship, because they are artificially scarce. Women default to a minimum standard of behavior, because some guy will always be willing to put up with it. That is the market equilibrium in which they exist. If you have one who's…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 09:26 PM
2

Except no one does 5 different things 5 days out of the week for a living. Almost by default, the thing you ultimately end up becoming an expert in is your career. Your remaining time should be used maximizing other valuable traits and skills in whatever order you see fit. It's good advice for men to begin with and focus most of this time on fitness, because it's the most visceral and evident form of self-improvement. Game doesn't come easy, but you can literally improve on it at any time, provi…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 07:19 PM
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Spot on, except for one thing. No confident, self-actualized man would bother publicly shaming or belittling or getting offended by someone offering him a job and salary that is beneath his level of qualification and experience. He would just ignore it. At the very most, he would chuckle about it later with his friends and co-workers. That man's value and achievements are measurable. They are evident to everyone around him who knows his job title and has an idea of how much money he makes. No am…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 10:20 PM
19

If that were the case, maybe a few of them could learn to parallel park.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 09:09 PM
14

It doesn't matter if people "feel okay" with how this is playing out. Japan now has the second-lowest birthrate on the planet. A population crisis wherein the vast bulk of people living there are old and non-productive. Not enough taxpayers to foot the bill for their versions of social security and medicare. No one is going to give a shit how the "genders" feel about it if their society starts crumbling around them.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 09:04 PM
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Just being a successful business person wasn't enough because politicians aren't successful business people, and successful business people don't become politicians. That used to be how it worked, but it's not anymore. Successful, well-regarded individuals used to take time away from their endeavors in the private sector to run for elected office, as an act of service to the public. They took a giant pay cut, had to move, and didn't hold nearly as many responsibilities, but it was seen as a way …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 08:43 PM
-4

Funny, they used to say that about Germany. And Sweden. And the UK.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:29 PM
23

Prostitutes? First I've heard of it, other than hiring those 5 chicks to pee on a bed, which sounds more like a gag to me. I'll give you that Ivana was not super attractive, and it shows in their kids. But Marla Maples? Have you seen a picture of her when she was younger? Smoke job. And Melania is hotter than either of them, and also 30 years younger. Say what you want about the guy's character. I don't like him either. But he was a real estate mogul in NYC in the 80s. He was on TV and the cover…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:22 PM
25

Funny, they used to say that about Germany. And Sweden. And the UK.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:06 PM
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Right. But the problem with that "tit-for-tat" compromise, which women are seemingly unable to foresee, is that the downside of not engaging in it is waaay worse for women than it is for men. Unless he is an abject professional failure, a man unmarried and childless at the age of 40 probably has some kind of sports car, a condo, some cool friends/connections because he still goes out, free weekends because he doesn't have to spend them at tee ball practice, and a couple of younger women on speed…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 04:35 PM
19

Politics are boring and dumb. People who talk about it too much have trouble finding dates. Trump slayed an ungodly amount of pussy back in his heyday. Has been married to 3 very attractive women. Watch what they say, not what they do.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:54 PM
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One thing you can be sure of is that women will not take steps to change this or improve the situation. Reactivity to male initiative is fundamental to how women work. It's not something that can be eradicated or adjusted. It's kinda fucked, but you really have to hand it to them: every woman has a pretty firm idea of what she's convinced she deserves from a man, and she's usually not willing to settle for less just because better is not available. There is only one hill that women are willing t…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:07 PM
1

What this guy said. Working in the lower rep range trains your CNS to recruit more muscle fibers. More likely to make you stronger without getting as big. Try sets of 12 for a bit and see how that works for you.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:19 PM
2

What rep range are you working in? eg 3-5, 6-10, 12-18
/r/askTRP14/08/18 10:14 PM
1

Yes, it will indeed resonate with her Nope, you're wrong. Here's why: because it projects high-value. It absolutely does not. Words do not project high value; actions do. Women communicate through words; men through their actions. It shows he's not desperate and thirsty. He's got things to do, other options for dates, and doesn't care too much about her. Actually it shows the opposite. Exercising other options and not dealing with a girl who's lukewarm about him would show that he has other opti…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:59 PM
7

You should go read the sidebar and not type another word on this sub until you're finished with it.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:34 PM
1

Read between the lines. Her manifest message is "Aw, shucks. I'd really like to see you, but now is not a convenient time, and also I'm an understanding person in case you didn't know." The latent content is, "You're not that attractive and I'm on the fence about you. You can keep messaging me and giving me attention, and maybe at some point I'll exercise my option to meet you. But probably not. Also, here's a dose of plausible deniability so you can't call me a bitch for rejecting you." Not tha…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:31 PM
3

Bad advice. "Strike while the iron is hot" is logical male advice. It will not resonate with her emotional vagina-brain. Furthermore, women don't have to strike while the iron is hot. She's a woman. The iron is always hot lol.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:36 PM
1

Why would loud music discourage 'weak' men from approaching?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 04:39 PM
2

Pointed question: Who is 'they'?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 03:55 PM
7

Honestly the 'shocker' hand symbol is the biggest red flag in this whole story. Never met anyone of value over the age of 17 who did that.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 02:37 PM
1

Yeah tbh I didn't want to alienate anyone specifically, but you know Arabs can't read so...
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 09:47 PM
58

As I get older (30), I've started to prefer venues with barriers to entry. Parties. Music venues. Comedy clubs. Art galleries. Bars that charge a cover. Some bars even have age limits (23 and up, 25 and up, etc). Women like exclusivity. It doesn't have to be expensive; they just like being in places that are hard to get into, where they're roped off from the riff raff. In my city, I live 3-4 blocks off of the strip where most 18-25 year old chicks and dudes seem to go out. It sounds pretty fun i…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 09:26 PM
4

Getting rich women into bed is the same as any other woman. The things that trigger female arousal are basically universal. They're only malleable over the long term and can't be faked sustainably (height, musculature, personal confidence, skin, hair, etc.). They don't vary much from woman to woman, regardless of background. For richer or poorer, pretty much all women want to fuck Rob Gronkowski. When it comes to LTRs, rich girls are tougher prospects because they have a higher and more ironclad…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 08:09 PM
1

Oh, well they're just not old enough to to have experienced the allure of a guy who can get away with treating them like crap lol.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:16 PM
9

"I respect that that matters to you" and then handing her your phone with the 'new contact' screen open would have been the perfect response.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:05 PM
2

No. Fuck no. You have 112 waking hours in a week. I don't want to hear that you can't spend 3 or 4 of them lifting.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 10:59 PM
1

How old are you, and how old is your friend? Be honest.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 10:51 PM
2

There is a huge difference between not being good with money, and not making enough to maintain a basic standard of living. No one ever fucking talks about it. People write the poor off as being bad with money. How the fuck do you know? Maybe they eat Bush's baked beans and shit off the dollar menu at McDonalds 6 nights a week, but they're still in the hole because they can't find a job that pays more than 25k a year. The point is that not having enough money to manage anything is not 'being bad…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 08:48 PM
1

You are correct, and I'm not saying it wouldn't. The figures are just something to keep in mind.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 08:12 PM
1

For 90% of people, acne happens when they're in their teens. Of those 90%, another 90% of them have acne purely for hormonal reasons. I appreciate what you're trying to do here, but it is important to note that for 81% of people with acne, the answer is simply wash your face, exercise regularly, and wait it out.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 07:25 PM
2

I usually look for creative, non-competitive activities like painting, music, cooking, etc. Male hobbies are usually outcomes oriented. I work on cars so I'll have a cool car to drive with few expenses. I trade equities and derivatives because it earns me some money on the side. I dabble in carpentry so that I'll have cheap furniture with a cool story behind it. Women are decidedly more process-oriented. The hobby is much more about displaying an interest in and dedication to something, rather t…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 07:16 PM
3

I deleted my previous comment because I realized I answered the wrong question. You were asking about LMR, and the example you gave is not LMR. LMR occurs right before you're about to hook up. What you experienced is a shit test. Shit tests do not have to be addressed. The best response is to make a joke out of whatever she says, but if you can't think of anything to say, you can just ignore them. LMR can be ignored, but if you're going to ignore it, you need to clearly know the difference betwe…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 04:25 PM
12

If a woman says something that displeases you, or doesn't line up with what you want, the best thing you can do is act like she didn't say it. Literally, just pretend like she didn't say anything and keep talking about what you were talking about before. Women aren't after explanations, or rationality, or even objective reality. She was combating a narrative in her head that went something like "he's cute, I'm thinking about sex now, which means he must be thinking about sex too, and I don't wan…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 04:01 PM
9

Rofl, copy and paste. Doesn't matter; still true.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 08:16 PM
69

"There are no feminists in a house fire." - Bill Burr This post is a long-winded (albeit thorough) way of saying that women want the benefits of being a man without the attendant responsibilities. The most profound effect of achieving freedom is binding oneself to the utter vastness of freedom of choice. You get to do what you want, but at the same time, you have to learn how navigate a virtually unlimited spectrum of life choices with both great and horrible outcomes, without assistance and gui…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 07:54 PM
19

"Don't stick your dick in crazy" is a phrase that needs to fucking go. "Don't stick your dick in crazy" doesn't actually mean "don't stick your dick in crazy". It means any and all of the following: Don't invest in crazy. Don't get attached to crazy. Don't let crazy borrow your car. Don't let crazy live at your place. Don't underwrite crazy. Don't let crazy dig your condoms out of the trash bin. Don't marry crazy. Sticking your dick in a woman, independent of any of those other behaviors, is enj…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 03:42 PM
22

To be honest, 28-35 year olds are second-tier, even for casual hookups. They're not nearly as hot on average, and they ask way more forward and prying questions about your life, where you live, what you do. I once walked out of a Bumble date because this chick would not stop asking me about what my "5 year plan" was within the first 15 minutes of the date. I deflected, made jokes about it, but she seemingly got annoyed at them, and she just kept pressing. Eventually I discreetly called an Uber, …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 07:28 PM
2

You're one of the better contributors on this sub, and it's a wonder you're not endorsed yet. However, I think this whole debate is just too externally focused. Brad? Chad? Alphas? Betas? Who cares? None of those are women, and information about them doesn't help me succeed with women. Maybe it helps in knowing when you're expressly outmatched and whom not to compete with directly in the moment; I'll give you that. But that's really as deep as you should read into it. At the end of the day, bein…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 10:53 PM
26

Lol so true. Just turned 30 and this is the reason why I cap my dating apps at 25.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 09:50 PM
11

Men build what they are able. Women destroy what they are able. Every form of female behavior is a shit test to some extent. No exceptions. It is part of a woman's biological imperative to chip away subtly but constantly at everything a man is, says, and does, if it can be chipped away at. The only way to test the integrity of a castle is to try to knock it down.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 08:48 PM
94

You're talking about this woman like she's an exception to the rule. She's not. She is the rule. Women don't do accountability. They are more than happy to take credit for things that make them look responsible and virtuous, but when shit hits the fan, the vast majority of them run for the hills. They simply can't handle being blamed for negative outcomes. Pragmatically, socially, and sexually, accountability is all downside for them. They have nothing to gain by accepting fault.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 07:15 PM
1

The 80% dating the dweebs are fucking someone else on the side.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 05:14 PM
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Flush your fucking condoms.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 05:01 PM
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Differentiation is needed here. Being good/nice is a very good thing. It's one of the things that separates men from women. Morality, true morality, is male in origin. Living your life by a moral compass is inherently masculine. Treating people how you would want to be treated (provided it doesn't cost you anything) is what makes society stable and peaceful and productive. But being a good person is the last step in self-actualization. Steps that comes before it include power, wealth, influence,…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 04:35 PM
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I wouldn't say society is 'designed' to rob a man of his power and dignity; just that people tend to treat power and dignity like a zero- or minimal-sum game. It's desirable, and there's a very limited amount to go around. We're kind of ape-ish when it comes to discerning the difference between the two, particularly when acting in groups. TL;DR it's usually better to air on the side of being a dick, because people tend to write off kindness as weakness.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 04:01 PM
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If she gives you mud crabs, you should soft next her.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 10:16 PM
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$9 million from an income of 90k/year. Great, so if the guy can figure out a way not to spend any money for the rest of his life, he'll pay it off in 100 years. I wonder how much this trick bicycling idiot spent on court costs and attorney's fees to learn that you can't squeeze blood out of a turnip. Fucking idiot.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 09:04 PM
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Granted, it's pretty easy to reflect back and learn from your enemies while drinking wine out of their skulls.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 10:46 PM
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Upvoted. There are way too many people on this sub whose answer to every problem with a woman is to be completely and instantaneously fastidious with your time and attention. Cut contact and ghost her, whatever the cost. It makes no room for nuance. Yes, women's standards (particularly BPD women's) are extraordinarily low when it comes to high-value men. I've said before, if you are paying attention to a woman, you are validating her, and she is winning. But so much of intersexual behavior that …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 10:22 PM
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I have to disagree. Net-net, abortion is a positive compared to widespread birth of illegitimate children without a choice for the parent(s) to opt out. An abortion ban would give women enormous leverage in terms of using pregnancy and childbirth to extract resources from unwilling men. Legal abortion at least gives both men and women the opportunity to have a conversation and a viable alternative to "I have to have this baby, and so you have to pay for it." You are correct that high birth rates…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 09:35 PM
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Lol god, you guys are such Melvins sometimes. Small talk is a normal social convention, as is putting on a friendly countenance during it. Nothing about it is intended to be genuine or revelatory. It's merely a ritual to signal to others that you're not socially retarded or a psychopath. By no means should you have a dopey grin on your face the whole time, but if you're sitting there stone-faced while someone you haven't seen in a while is making a polite, enthusiastic attempt to engage you, cha…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 09:20 PM
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In my opinion, it's not really about abstaining or being celibate, but about the context in which you do it. Masturbation is fine. Porn is fucking not. When you spend time on Pornhub, you're creating a made-up fantasy world in which you're some fat, hairy Arabic bedouin who has control over the closest desert oasis for 600 miles. You have an imaginary harem full of women who are willing to fuck you 6 at a time in exchange for a daily ration of water. If that were actually the case, great; why th…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 08:10 PM
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Ignore all the people who are telling you you fucked up and caved by letting a girl back in after she flaked on you. "If you were alpha, you wouldn't have to deal with a flake, blah blah blah". You're not here because you're a natural. None of us are; not even ECs. We're here because we're not naturals. It doesn't matter how much you focus and develop yourself in other aspects of your life; when it comes to choosing men, women are children and they only know how to follow the crowd. They only wa…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 07:34 PM
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Lol. TRP: The only place where you can go from reading a thread about how morality in the absence of choice is merely a rationalization of male weakness, to one about how to bang patchouli-smelling chicks with dreadlocks while listening to Wilco.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 10:13 PM
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You very literally say black people aren't rejected for simply being black but then go on to say that as long as they can speak/talk/act like the people in power (who are white) then they can succeed. It's not hipocrisy, because that isn't what I said. In fact, that is precisely what I didn't say. Mainstream society, white society, whatever the hell you want to call it, doesn't summarily reject black people for being born with dark skin and curly hair. It rejects them for embracing acting like t…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 07:30 PM
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I noticed you ctrl-v'd this post in MarriedTRP. There is definitely some overlap between this sub and that one, and this is not part of it. You probably should have titled this post How to Be Accused of Rape by Your Wife if you were going to post it there. Someone, maybe AFTSOV, recently made a post lamenting how TRP is full of back-of-the-class motherfuckers standing up, making speeches, and polluting the sub with bullshit, when they should be dead quiet and balls deep in the sidebar. You are o…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 10:29 PM
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Don't be semantic. It should be obvious that when I say a degree will matter forever, I mean for the rest of the life of the person who holds it. The squeeze on human capital that the advancement of AI creates will affect everyone, but the ability to code and maintain itself will be the last and least likely form of sentience it will gain. And even then, maintaining that capacity for machines to self-maintain will require people who can code. Machines will learn the ability to consistently draw …
/r/askTRP27/07/18 10:07 PM
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I'm 30, so my answer is biased toward the old books. Pragmatic, but sugar-coated answer: Study something analytical/numerical that is naturally interesting to you. Something that gives you a hard skill set. If you get into a top-tier academic school, math or astronautics/aeronautics. If you go to a state school, any kind of engineering or business management. Failing that, a hard science. Just don't go to college with a general aim of becoming well-rounded. You can do that on the internet on you…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 09:56 PM
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I can't believe no one has said this yet: FUCKING STUDY. Make good grades in school. The average HB7+ follows rules and convention well enough to get into college. As a guy, if you're not part of that club, they look at you like fucking garbage. Don't fall pray to the lie that education is overvalued. It is incredibly important, but for different reasons than you think.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 09:36 PM
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That isn't disrespect. She didn't comment directly about you, or frame the statement in a way that involved you. Treat it like fuel though. Keep it in mind that women are always passively on the look-out for a better deal. So be the best deal. AWALT. Now if she ever says anything like that in front of you, it means she's no longer walking on eggshells and it's time to reevaluate.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 09:18 PM
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You're making a huge presumption. You're assuming she meant "I want to stay in your life, and I'm willing to let you have sex with other women to get that", when all she actually said to you is "I want to stay in your life". She's baiting you with ambiguity to get your attention back on her.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:53 PM
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ROFL what kind of evil harlot blows a guy but doesn't finish him off?? Soft next.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:43 PM
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I'm glad someone brought it up. As a matter of objective fact, it is not a zero-sum game. But the way women view it, it absolutely is. The definition of a non-zero-sum game is one in which a resource exchange creates value that is greater than the sum of its parts. But beyond the moment in which she is receiving it, the value of that excess good you created together is subject to dive-bomb the moment she perceives your value to have diminished or you to be a less-than-ideal partner. Suddenly, th…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 08:15 PM
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I'm white. College-educated. Grew up in a wealthy family with southern roots, inter-generational assets, property, etc. The content of black culture (glorification of violence, thug attitude and mannerisms, sociopolitical victimhood, and saggy pants) is life to 90% of black people. Aspirational goals. They adopt these mannerisms and values as a result of growing up with the mistaken impression that mainstream white society summarily rejects them at birth as a result of their skin being black. Th…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 08:01 PM
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Ass Trump all MAGA: Make Ass Great Again
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 03:15 PM
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It's like half the species are psychopaths from the prism or vantage point of men's understanding. This is maybe the most crucial component of any discussion of sexual strategy. From our point of view, of course women look like capricious, narcissistic psychopaths. They are pitifully weak in all of the ways that we are strong. We feel that way about women because as men we are capable of being confident and assertive and securing our own resources. It's not something that we would ever look for …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 02:47 PM
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That's a really good point. But it begs a fairly important question. To some degree, every person in the planet who isn't a hermit can be categorized into a group that engages in this type of indictment of "original sin" in its opponents. So is the existence of that behavior really all that significant? Is it exceptional, or is it just a boilerplate shortcut in argumentation and consensus-building? If everyone is guilty of something, then is anyone really guilty?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 04:54 PM
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Remember, her preaching about honesty is only to get you to show your hand so she can fuck you in the ass with your own masculine values in a pseudo-pegging frame power grab. A woman is never entitled to the truths of how you conduct your life. Treat her like the police and STFU. Women aren't people lol. No but seriously, 99% of women live in a world where social consensus and reputation is 1000x more important than objective truth, honesty, fealty, etc. They simply don't value these things, par…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 03:13 PM
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That figure is a combination of obesity and being overweight. Divided up, the figures for the US population are approximately 40% obese, 30% overweight, and 30% healthy weight range, give or take a few points in each. Also, it's very important to note that statistics like this almost always use BMI, which skews very heavily in favor of women because it doesn't differentiate between muscle and fat mass. Btw, I just want it to be known that I'm not fighting in favor team fat dude or anything like …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 02:31 PM
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Differences don't need to be resolved if we can coexist without killing each other. 100% of empirical evidence points to war being an inevitable outcome of human existence. Over the entire course of humanity, it has never not happened eventually.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 07:52 PM
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Allow me to amend that. 9/10 women would have been creeped out because of their adherence to that double standard. Most women wouldn't have said anything though, because most women don't do direct confrontation.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 07:30 PM
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Looking at old photos is reserved for friends and men they are interested in. Point of clarification: looking at old photos is reserved for her old friends, and men she is interested in. Sometimes, I think some women have no business being on social media. Nope. It's men that have no business being on social media. It's just an example of another double standard. Women consider obsessing over old friends and men they are interested in on Facebook to be normal behavior. They do not expect of them…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 07:04 PM
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While this kind of diplomacy might serve the world better on a large scale I would argue that isn't true either. Avoidance of conflict and confrontation between nations doesn't narrow the chasm between nation states. It widens it. Direct confrontation between entities comes at a cost: for individual men, it's physical violence, and for nation states, it's war. This costs peace and lives. But it inevitably gives way to understanding, empathy for the other side, and desire to maintain, in perpetui…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 06:47 PM
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Except it's not an opinion. It's an objective, statistical fact that 40% of American women are obese. A full 2/3 are overweight or obese. They're not attacking the man or his opinion. They're attacking their own feelings.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 06:24 PM
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I completely understand the point you're making. You're arguing it cogently. I just think you're totally wrong. As a man, the reputation you end up with is completely secondary to the kind of value you provide. Whether it's making people laugh and being fun to be around, doing well enough in school to get into a top-tier college, being great at parties, or having a high-profile job, status is what drives the quality of a man's life. Reputation is just a temporary and secondary side show to how m…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 03:05 PM
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The police have nothing to do with this situation. Like you said, you didn't do anything wrong. I don't know about you, but I would never be willing to work for or with anyone who made a hiring decision based on hearsay about a past relationship. It should not affect your decision-making. We live in the age of perpetual outrage. Even if you patently lied to a girl, promised to date her, fucked the shit out of her, and then broke up with her, people would be furious for what, a month? Maybe two? …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 04:34 AM
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Nope, there's no such thing as a fuckboy. As with all character assassinations and attempts to undermine your self-image, the accusation only has as much merit as you allow it to. If somebody throws that in your face, just laugh, be otherwise unreactive, and go about your day. Unless you left something out of your story, you never lied to her; she just made a bunch of assumptions about what she as entitled to, and is throwing a fit because they didn't pan out. You didn't do anything wrong. So ow…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 02:11 AM
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Lol what the fuck are you (or him for that matter) complaining about? When a woman drags you after you break up with her, she's practically advertising for you. Telling the whole world how much of an asshole and commitophobe you are= "I didn't get what I wanted, and what I wanted was YOU YOU YOU." Newsflash: men only break up with women when they think they can consistently do better. You asserted that you are high-value through your actions, and she amplified that message by publicly going apes…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 08:59 PM
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Yeah that's not the purpose of alpha and beta at all. They're not rigid, strictly definable categories like the ones you're listing. Alpha and beta are purely comparative behavioral terms, used on a case by case basis. Thy do not describe individual men on a static basis. Example: there's a story posted on TRP that always stuck out to me. This guy had it all going on, handsome, wealthy, good job, cool friends, and an HB9 girlfriend. An absolute catch compared to most other guys. But then his gir…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 04:27 PM
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The enjoyment of the Party Years has to be weighed against the fact that she’s progressively losing the attention of the men she would like to have ‘enthusiastic’ validational sex with, and the necessity of a long-term security with a long-term partner. Thus, the rationalization engine kicks into overdrive. She must convince herself that the less exciting (arousing) but better provisioning guy who’s happy to have her at 30 represents the type of guy she ‘should‘ have been with all along. Rollo, …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 04:13 PM
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Lol so true. By far the best part of their hook is that it's masked by plausible deniability. It's brilliant, really. "Oh well if you aren't getting matches, you must not have a quality profile, you must not be trying hard enough" or the ultimate character assassination "you must not be exceptionally attractive". Of course, no one wants to admit to any of that, so better keep your head down and keep swiping like a good boy, you useless, brainless consumer-drone pussy-hound fuck.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 10:50 PM
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The beauty in most of these comments is that it has content that noone dares to say except for a few because it might be too harsh of a truth If you haven't noticed, that's literally all that the Red Pill is. It's the reason this place exists. Some truths are simply too severe to be spoken aloud. Some realities of this world are so harsh that they can cripple the self-worth of those about whom they are spoken, and wreck the reputation of those who speak them at the same time. Try speaking about …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 09:51 PM
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Being busy is a good thing, and a woman should never be the main focus of your life. I'll probably make a post about it at some point, but even beyond the actual results it generates, being busy is a status symbol. Every successful person on the planet pretends they're busier than they actually are. It's all upside, and zero downside. And if you don't, people will squeeze out all of your free time, and all of that abundance you've cultivated will mean jack shit. That said, it doesn't sound like …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 07:22 PM
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The way this story is written and sort of left unresolved is a good lesson in itself. It's very tempting when reading it to ask "What the fuck? Where's the damn payoff? I want an update on how miserable and broken she is now." But that's not the point. Having ghosted on an ex who severely disrespected me, I can tell you that most of the time, if you're doing things right, you're never going to get that payoff. You're never going to get an update. She's probably going to go beserk and text and ca…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 05:47 PM
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Good post. Only thing I'll add is that regarding Minimum Viable Product, remember that starting out, you're offering what you are able to the market (others) because you aren't able to offer more. Most companies on the other hand, release suboptimal versions of products by choice, because it's good marketing. If you dump all of your resources into the initial version of your product and make it perfect, you not only have no way to improve it, but people are probably never going to buy another on…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 09:36 PM
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You're onto something here, if not quite 100% correct. One fundamentally weak assumption that TRP relies on (and that maybe you are relying on) is that the qualities that constitute AF and BB are static throughout all phases of a woman's life. It's simply not true. I turned 30 today and at this point have fucked and dated women from their late teens up into their early 40s. In my opinion, the most brilliant deception of all of femininity is that even as women age and their value declines, their …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:00 PM
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Men have incredible practical intelligence, but awful social intelligence. We, to some extent, intrinsically understand what makes a person valuable to society, but as a result, we suck at picking up on subtextual cues and latent meaning in the words of others. Objective value has nothing to do with hidden messages. Women have incredible social intelligence, but are deaf, blind, and retarded when it comes to practical intelligence. They're fundamentally handicapped in determining what makes a pe…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:00 PM
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Lotta dudes in this thread trying to redirect blame on OP for what happened, tossing advice down from your high horse, partially out of good intention, but mostly out of desire to feel superior to him. You're right that the guy made mistakes and lost frame, and ultimately as a man in an LTR everything is your fault (that's part of why she likes and dates you in the first place). These are all problems to solve and mistakes to avoid in the future. But the issue here is not his conduct. It's hers.…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 04:57 PM
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If feminism is cancer on the liberal end of the spectrum, Islam is mental retardation on the conservative end. It's a sheep-herding ideology designed to keep a bunch of inbred, uneducated desert-dwelling goat-fuckers in line by putting power over worthless land and scarce resources in the hands of the man with the largest sword. It may be effective in maintaining the integrity of the family unit by coercion, but the rest of it is antiquated, dogmatic garbage.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 04:29 PM
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Lol, I never realized these were abbrevs for steroids. I always thought it was just retard speak.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:56 PM
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Couple of things: Schedule. Starting out, 7 of 14 days is probably manageable, but believe me when I say that those weights get really heavy, really fast. I did close to 18 months total and after the first 6 weeks, 3 days a week was all I could manage at the most. Two other concerns are looks and injury prevention. SL got me strong. Really strong. Way stronger than I've ever been in my life. But the minute I did something new that involved dynamic torque and rotation of my knees, I started havin…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 10:46 PM
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In my experience it's not necessarily that there's downside to this type of girl(i.e. she's crazier than normal girls), just no upside. All women are just the same lol. The way they dress, the way they talk, music, hobbies, etc. is all just a marketing gimmick; an attempt to fill a niche that makes them feel 'unique'. They're all just after a tall, good-looking guy with cool friends and a big dick. But yeah, good advice. Going for "alternative-looking" chicks just because you've had bad experien…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 10:20 PM
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ROFL the first real LTR I had was with a girl who was 20 when I had just gotten out of college. Smoking hot, but 20 years old in every way. She used to get pissed off and hit me with the drunken "I'm done" text every once in a while. It's a shit test, designed to get your male hamster spinning. "What does 'I'm done' mean? Is she breaking up with me? What is she done with? What does this mean for us?" She didn't actually say any of that; it's designed to get you jealous and insecure in a way that…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 10:09 PM
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Seems the downvote fairy is indeed strong in this thread lol. Interesting point about misogyny and misandry. In my experience, it's mostly MRAs and the like who use 'misandry' to describe fat, unattractive, angry feminists. They're not really asserting that these women hate men; that's silly. Nearly all women have a deep-seated yearning for the attention and desire of men. The term is mostly used to point out that these women are bitter and frustrated that the men whom they want, don't want them…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 09:48 PM
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This kind of thing doesn't get talked about enough. I think we're all guilty of spending too much time in that head space, because any time spent at all there is too much. I occasionally find myself talking to myself on the drive home, imagining elucidating other people with fundamental truths and RP principles that I've internalized, and which have improved my life. Then I realize that: A) Whatever energy I'm spending in that mode of thinking is wasted. I'm not actually changing or accomplishin…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 09:26 PM
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Because it isn't about caving to her. It's about caving. It's internally focused and has nothing to do with the bitch in particular. When you cave and lose frame, you're undermining your own masculinity in a pretty profound way. State control and frame is the only real power men have left. Withdrawing attention when necessary is a huge part of that. Take morality out of it for a moment. In the past, when a woman got out of line, her husband could smack her back into it. If a woman withheld sex, …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 06:26 PM
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Ok, even given that you are correct (which I don't believe you are), who fucking cares? Your buddy is cutting the hot chick down publicly as an ego defense mechanism. He doesn't believe he stands a chance with her, so he's re-framing the situation by calling her less attractive than she actually is. Same thing with his boss: he resents that she is in charge of him or some behavior of hers that reminds him of that fact. He's insulting her as an act of pure catharsis, and so what? At the end of th…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 04:53 PM
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Good post. Men have enormous amount to gain (socially, sexually, professionally) by publicly expressing abundance and contentment. A man who makes life seem effortless, who seems to have it all figured out, will draw both men and women into his world like moths to a flame. You know what women have to gain by making it seem like they have no problems and have everything figured out? Nothing. Throughout human history, men have solved problems by identifying, evaluating, planning, and doing. Women'…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:25 PM
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If men who truly hate women (as in want all women dead) do exist, then they are extreme outliers likely driven by serious mental instability or illness (i.e.; narcissistic psychopathy, not 'toxic masculinity'). The tiny percentage of men who feel compelled to physically attack or hurt women just because they're women have no more group significance to the social narrative than men who feel to compelled to harm redheaded children or post office employees. If and when behaviors rooted in those mot…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 02:56 PM
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Its not a shit test, but a real play for power on a political level. Feminism is different things to different assholes. Maybe to our politicians looking to shepherd the masses into thoughtless compliance, and to our corporate plutocracy looking to redistribute purchasing power in order to hock their useless products to all instead of just half, feminism is an actual power play. But for women, just ordinary women, it is not. Women do not really want power and never have. They are incapable of wi…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 10:43 PM
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"Whoop whoop." Don't mind that; just the shit test/power talk alarm going off as usual. Women trend liberal, even if they don't call themselves that. It's just another opportunity to have their cake and eat it, too. Those "beliefs" she holds are just boilerplate talking points; surface-level opportunities to show off how generally "kind" and "tolerant" she is toward people of all different ethnic groups, sexual orientations, walks of life, etc., but without actually putting any real time, effort…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 08:58 PM
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Seems like she was really concerned that you were fucking with her meal ticket, but maybe not in the way that you think. Did she have any good reason to assert that TRT causes dangerous health effects? Do you think she was studied on the matter? Had she reached an unbiased scientific conclusion that any and all use of exogenic T is bad for a man? I think she is more likely threatened by the prospect of her dependable, betafied-by-aging life partner suddenly becoming more masculine and attractive…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 07:49 PM
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Women are horrendously fickle. It's one of nature's cruelest jokes. It's been years since I realized it for the first time, and it still makes my stomach turn. Time, effort, prior investment, material gifts; the value of these things to a woman is based entirely upon her attraction to the man giving them, within whatever singular moment she is receiving them. If a man is performing up to whatever standard she sets, they are gifts from God. If he is failing, they are needy, stifling, suffocating,…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 07:15 AM
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Never thought about the reciprocity aspect of it; good point.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 06:32 PM
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You ever have that moment where a woman you're dating is telling you about her problems, and you respond by offering her an actionable solution, and she ends up getting mad? Why? You were just trying to help. It's because she doesn't want to solve her own problems. She wants you to listen to her bitch cathartically about them until you get sick of hearing about them and solve them yourself. She will never ask you directly to solve them, because that would involve accountability; you could end up…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 05:53 PM
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I'm not confusing aggression with assertiveness. Being assertive is a component of male aggression. Violence or the threat of violence isn't necessarily a component of being aggressive; it can be, but it doesn't have to. Height is statistically correlated with higher pay and faster career advancement; this is proven and not controversial in the least. You would be foolish to assume that there is not a similar effect when it comes to physical fitness. Willingness to assert yourself and ask for/ne…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 02:08 AM
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In terms of equities and trading, this is not a good question for TRP, or even a platform like reddit. The responses you'll be most likely to read are the most popular/upvoted ideas. Markets for equities and derivatives correct continuously for the popularity of any given position or idea, so ceteris paribus, when you follow the herd, there's a good chance the action is already behind you. Regarding investment capital, when you go to a casino, you assume that whatever money you bring with you wi…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 07:16 PM
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(cancer was fun once but would be pretty lame to experience twice) Lol, someone get this guy a wheelbarrow for his fucking balls. Great story.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 07:00 PM
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"I can't be around my family, and I dont have anyone else to hang out with. I have nowhere else to go, so I come around here, and I have sex with you, it's the price I pay. ROFL. Imagine the category 5 shit storm if you said something like "look, you ain't that cute, your titties kinda saggy, and you're trash on top. But I fuck you anyway because no one else answers my calls. It's better than nothing."
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 04:08 PM
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Betas are favored for reproduction in modern societies because of restrictions on female promiscuity put in place by those societies, not because of pure female preference for them. Women are taught their entire lives that no matter what they do, they have to find a stable, predictable provider type to settle down with for marriage. This is especially true the higher up you go in family income brackets. Enforced monogamy also has a profound effect on mate choice and retention. Up until recently,…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 03:15 PM
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Let's forget for a moment that height, physical fitness, and male aggression (up to a point) are strongly correlated to career advancement and earnings potential in most fields. You're missing the bigger picture. Maybe a big part of the reason Chad is a dark triad, irresponsible, motorcycle-riding motherfucker is that he was raised by a father who was a dark-triad, irresponsible, motorcycle-riding motherfucker. Maybe that motherfucker of a dad wasn't even present in his life. Maybe he was raised…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 03:02 PM
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Finish the story, dickhead. Did you get your money or not?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 01:50 AM
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At the same time, this also starts an ongoing pattern of cognitive dissonance where their primal needs for sex and satisfaction is always at odds with society and how it views those urges as a bad thing. So they put on the facade of being the pure "girl-next-door" while repressing their inner-slut, which only amplifies it more when she is allowed to cut loose. It's interesting to me how most of TRP views the AF/BB dynamic through a moralistic lens. Women's biological imperative/tendency to get p…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 10:38 PM
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“I treat girls like shit because its what they did to me until I started making money” It's important to note that his attitude, while perhaps justified, is totally fucking self-defeating. Even the tiniest bit of bitterness and generalized anger toward women is cancer when it comes to dealing with chicks. To women, a man who advertises any negative opinion of women in general sets off alarm bells that he's a FUCKING LOSER; if he's angry or frustrated with women, it means he must have had trouble…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 07:29 PM
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It's a strange paradox. Yes, of course it's a bitch that we get sold this Disney Channel myth of a truly loving, supporting woman/gf/wife who's there for us when times get tough, only to find out the hard way that when a man opens up or expresses weakness, most women withdraw sexually at best, or bail entirely at worst. On the surface, that condition of our existence seems almost tragic. But if you really think about it, is that truly what you want from a woman? Some sort of cooing matronly figu…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 04:16 PM
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Underrated metaphor is underrated.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 08:27 PM
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See above. If she doesn't take proactive steps to fix a behavior that is unacceptable to you, then she doesn't care about you that much, and you shouldn't care about her.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 10:59 PM
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You don't necessarily have to just move on. But don't argue with her. Don't reason with her. Certainly don't issue ultimatums. These are all forms of validation, and attempts to negotiate desire. Desire cannot be negotiated. You respond to negative behavior simply by withdrawing your time and attention. You don't explicate anything. If she's worth being around, she'll recognize the problem and fix it herself. If she doesn't, then she's probably not that into you or not worth being around. The ke…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 10:58 PM
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Meh. Women have been masking/inflating their real value in the name of catching dick for eons. Makeup, jewelry, hair-styling, expensive clothing, high heels,This is just the newest version of that. The really tough pill to swallow is the fact that a man's time has zero value to a woman. She simply doesn't give a fuck that you spent 2 hours texting her and another hour arranging for and traveling to a meet-up, only to find out the hard way that she's a disgusting ham-planet. It isn't her time, so…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 08:53 PM
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Your first gf? Here's what you do: Make a flimsy attempt at avoiding contact/thinking about her Eventually break and text her Respond to her texts with a lot of emotion and vulnerability Take her back and spend a bunch of time with her Realize she doesn't see you the same way now that she's made you break your resolve Spend a few months in a relationship she doesn't really want to be in but tolerates because you pay for dates and shit Eventually get broken up with, but more likely just cheated o…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 08:33 PM
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God damnit. Don't talk to the police, means don't talk to the fucking police. "Hurrr durr, I have texts as evidence that exonerates me." Shut up, nerd. They are paid experts at spinning shit however they want to in order to get you into court and get a conviction. If they want to meddle in your private business, let them get a warrant. "Sorry officers, but I'm not going to be answering any questions without an attorney present". The chances they take you to jail on some he-said-she-said bullshit…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 08:05 PM
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Your post and its title have conflicting messages. Women absolutely can change on their own. They're certainly capable of it; I seen't it myself. The important thing to remember is that it ain't your job to change them, and more even importantly, trying to help a woman change doesn't fucking work. Remember, the ultimate female goal is validation; whatever gets them male attention is optimal, good or bad. By focusing on a behavior that needs changing, you are thereby validating that behavior and …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 07:01 PM
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That's dismissive and derisive, and maybe worse, it doesn't add anything to the conversation. The whole feminine imperative thing may seem like a conspiracy theory on the surface, but you'd be naive to write it off altogether. The world we live in is becoming increasingly feminized. It's not just that men aren't taught the right ways to interact with the opposite sex. Many men are actively taught the wrong ways by women all along the way. "Just be yourself" "Women appreciate a man who is kind an…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 04:49 PM
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Your second sentence is not true at all. The act of approaching puts you at a simultaneous advantage and disadvantage with a woman. They more-or-less cancel each other out. Yes, walking up to a woman and striking up a conversation out of nowhere makes it glaringly obvious that you're interested; you are laying your shit on the line to some degree. It's the reason why you can't lash out and call a woman a bitch or a cunt if she shoots you down harshly. Everyone knows, including you, that you were…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 03:31 PM
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I agree with everything you're saying, but at the same time, you can measurably improve your life by leaps and bounds implementing TRP principles and still make little to no head-way in actually approaching and gaming women. Approaching women and winning their attraction is just as much about effectively advertising and showing off your value as a man as it is about building that value in the first place. For women, a man just being measurably and objectively great is not enough. If it were, eve…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 10:36 PM
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You're a smart cat, but in trying to categorize PUA and TRP in such a black-and-white manner, you're kinda talking out of both sides of your mouth. How can any movement/technique that proposes using tricks, gambits, and behavioral patterns to give a man leverage in getting what he wants from women be considered pedestalization? If anything, it exposes women for how simple and easy to fool they are (if you assume it can be effective). At the same time, Red Pill advocates for a lot of really good …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 10:09 PM
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Interesting post. I've always thought of it like this: The default condition of men is scarcity of sexual/reproductive opportunity, in exchange for abundance of opportunity for everything else (wealth, property, social status, strength, confidence). The default condition of women is abundance of sexual/reproductive opportunity, in exchange for scarcity of opportunity for everything else. The measure of the quality of any man or woman's life is how effectively they are ability to trade on their r…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 08:02 PM
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Misogyny. Lol. Such a thoroughly-weaponized and yet nonsensical term. Seriously, what the fuck men actually hate women? Sure some men might be frustrated, yes even angry at women? But hate? Seething, desire-to-destroy-and-humiliate hatred? It's laughable bullshit. We literally depend upon women for the continuation of the species. The capacity to express any malice or violence toward women has been so thoroughly bred out of men over the ages that we gang up and beat the shit out of a man who hit…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 09:56 PM
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Eh...there is definitely a difference between the two, and it's important to understand that difference in social and professional settings. But when it comes to the way women perceive it, there really isn't, or at least they're unable to discern that difference. Women are reliably self-interested. Pretty much every interaction they have is aimed at material reward or enhancing people's opinion of them. They very rarely ever do anything, big or small, out of pure, unfettered moral compulsion or …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 08:13 PM
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Solid post. The Light Switch Effect is real and can happen at any point, and with any woman, not only in relationships. The minute she perceives you as second-best, whether it's because another guy shows up, or because of some little slip-up of yours that planted a seed of subconscious doubt in her mind, the night-and-day difference is immediate and obvious. It's lame af. Abundance is the only way to beat it. Women be shoppin', and they have no shortage of places to shop. Set up and sell your wa…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 07:35 PM
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Man, this story hit me right in the feels. Being disabled is a rough hand to be dealt, especially as a man. It's hard for women, too, but they get the added 'bonus' of victimhood, which fits women like a velvet god-damn glove. The thing you should focus on is that, as men, our job is to play the hand we're dealt to the best of our ability. In a way, all of that negative shit that you dealt with, getting fucked with, picked on, ghosted/swapped out for an "upgrade" by women, having difficulty at w…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:23 PM
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Nah. You're the one asserting that regular women and actual prostitutes will be just as likely to try to get men to pay them money just before having sex. It's up to you to back that one up.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:32 AM
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A hooker can be counted on to act no differently than any other woman? Bit of a reach.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:24 AM
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I know they keep me safe. This is getting off topic, but it's an important reminder: The US Supreme Court has definitively ruled that the police's job is to uphold law and order, and that's it. They have no legal or constitutional duty to keep you safe.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 08:12 PM
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I personally wouldn't go with something canned. Dead silence or a canned statement can come off as pretentious and rude, and being rude to a cop is never a good idea. Something as simple as "Hey, I understand you guys are just doing your job, but I'm familiar with my miranda rights and I'm not going to be answering any questions or engaging in any dialogue without a lawyer present." If they say anything else, just be silent.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 07:43 PM
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You're a prosecuting attorney? Shut your mouth, man! You're gonna hurt your bottom line. Good post. Also merits repeating, for the thousandth time: Don't ever talk to the police. No questions, no answers. Nothing. Innocent, or guilty. Doesn't matter. They are not your friends. There are not there to help. They are allowed to lie to you, and the court system will try its damndest to fuck you if you lie to them. Making arrests and getting confessions is how they get paid and promoted. Keep your fu…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 07:03 PM
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Stop hamstering. It doesn't matter why you blocked her; it matters that you blocked her, and what you communicated to her and to yourself by doing so.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 05:22 PM
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You fucked up by blocking her at all. Blocking a woman subcommunicates "I can't stand seeing pictures of you or reading your messages because you have such a powerful emotional effect on me". That's all the validation she could ever want or need. The best answer is to literally pretend like she doesn't exist, or if you run into her, act like she's just an acquaintance you've met once or twice.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 05:04 PM
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Only that you saying all that makes zero difference. She's still a hooker. Be aware that she's going to string you along, smile at you, laugh at your jokes, flirt with you, tease you, get you alone and hard as granite, and only then start negotiating payment for services rendered. Prepare to leave with blue balls.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:59 PM
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The need for critical thinking no doubt developed over time, but it happened slowly. Only over the last 150 years did the demand for it and degree necessary skyrocketed far beyond the average person's ability to adapt and cope. That paradigm shift forced men to redefine the meaning of the words "ability" and "success", while women were free to adapt at their own choice and leisure (entering the workforce, but not being the primary provider for a family), or not at all.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:53 AM
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Wrong. Words levied against you as instruments of war are only as effective as you allow them be. Women criticizing or attacking you as a man are not out to present a logical, factual assessment of why you're wrong or bad. You're giving them too much credit. Their standards simply aren't that high. All they're after is a reaction. If a woman (or women) criticizes you or accuses you of something, and you respond by taking it seriously, you've lost. They're only ever after emotional validation, th…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 10:04 PM
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besides, don’t you guys want a relationship? Or is TRP strictly in regards to people looking for sexual gratification? No. "A relationship" is a goal state for women, not men. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, which men want. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, which women want. A man saying "I want a relationship" about no one in particular is pathetic. The subtext is "I feel lonely and unfulfilled in my own life, and need someone to fill that void. It doesn't matter very much who." You're l…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 09:31 PM
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I agree with your overall message, but the same time, I take major exception to this: Sure there's good women and bad women just as there's good shits and bad shits. Women like shit are beneath men. Men are supposed to spend their lives inventing, planning, fighting, not thinking about women all the time. You really think bronze age dudes transcribed their arguments with wifey onto clay tablets and shared it with other bronze age dudes? No! They were too busy killing other bronze age dudes. Wors…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 04:38 PM
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Am basically deaf in one ear from drunken shenanigans at 19 (not just from loud noise). Am a musician. Had to quit because of it. Ten years later, I notice a difference in the ranges I can hear clearly with each year that passes. Ten years from now, I'll probably need to have to have hearing aids. Take care of your fucking ears.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 05:20 AM
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This post is like a week old and no one is reading this, so it'll be my last response. I'll say it again: women are not waging war against masculinity. The act of waging war against something is married to the desire to destroy it. Women love masculinity. They need and are emotionally dependent on masculinity. What feminism and #metoo and every other female empowerment movement is about is not empowering women at all. Women are not interested in actually having power; generally speaking, they ar…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 05:36 PM
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It's not a "War on Masculinity". There is no such thing, and suggesting that women are a threat to you only weakens your frame as a man. Women don't know the first thing about waging war; this is a group of people who can't even afford to get into a fight, lest they scuff their perfectly exfoliated skin or ruin their $35 manicure. Nevermind knowing how to win one. Women are just doing the same thing they've been doing for thousands of years: evaluating and filtering out weak men. Women unionize.…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 09:47 PM
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It was brutal and I definitely overdid it. I did get waaay stronger than I've ever been in my life, but that was all. It might not result in injury, but the routine will definitely limit you in terms of athletic potential if you rely too heavily on it. I'll probably make a post on it in the next few days that'll include my lift numbers, diet (LOL), and habits.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 07:46 PM
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It's the manifestation of her subconscious desire to believe she is with a man who holds her to a high standard of behavior, because he is discerning and has other options. She wants to believe that she has to apologize or make up for every little misgiving or disappointment. She wants to believe that she can't afford to make mistakes around him because he is attractive enough that he has a better deal around the corner. It's also a soft shit-test. She isn't really repentant for some dumb little…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 09:55 PM
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This is a good post and all of your points are valid (if a little non-specific), and this comment probably too late not to get buried, but... One thing I nearly always find frustrating about advice involving improving your finances is that it focuses entirely on cost-cutting. Being thrifty is good I suppose, but needing to be thrifty is not. It inherently limits the personal image and quality of lifestyle that you project to the world. Up to a certain point, cost-cutting and thrift is useful and…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 09:19 PM
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How did it get broken? Where was it sitting? Were you using it? If it's cheap, why is it so important to her? Is there sentimental value? Is it important just because it's the one she uses all the time? What's a clumsy-ass girl with tiny little girl hands like her doing using a breakable coffee mug anyway? How about I buy you one of those YETI thermos mug things? A little girl like you would look cute af carrying a big ole coffee mug into work every day. Then again you'd look cute in a granny wi…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:49 AM
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Sorry man, you're not paying me, so I'm not gonna dance. Like I said, you're free to address my ideas based on merit or ignore them if you think they have none. If I choose to publish personal experience or anecdotes, it will be because I deem them relevant contributions, not because anyone else demands them. In the meantime, if something about the way I write or my post history smells fishy to you, I don't know what to tell you other than stop reading.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:39 AM
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Come on, man. What's my n count? How many LTRs? What's my experience with women? Where am I in my life? Here's one for you: Why bother asking these questions when you have no way of knowing if the answers to them are real or not? I could tell you my n count is zero, or triple digits, or anywhere in between, or that I reproduce asexually by farting out glow-in-the-dark embryos, as could anyone else you asked. It wouldn't add anything to what is put forth here, and only serve to buttress or underc…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:02 AM
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It takes two to tango. Give me an example of an impropriety you might commit in a relationship with a woman, one that you feel would merit an apology, and I will.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:33 PM
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For what it's worth, I hit Stronglifts 5x5 hard as fuck for 18 months, ate like a bear, and added minimum 60% to all of my lifts, while doing nothing else. No cardio, no yoga, no HIIT. I mean nothing. The next summer I did some high-impact watersports shit for a whole weekend. Twisting, falling, putting torsional pressure on my knees. Now the cartilage behind my kneecap is fucked; my right knee pops and grinds when I bend it, and it hurts at night. My arms, legs, and back were strong as fuck in …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:08 PM
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Nice. Then maybe that was the right course of action in that specific context. Maybe she was looking forward to the date, and was left absolutely gutted. Maybe your frame with her is just that strong, and anything other than silence was a godsend to her, because it meant you actually give a shit. It's also possible that when the date fell through she went out with her girlfriends. Galentine's Day. Maybe she met a cool, attractive guy while out, and he charmed the pants off her, and then fucked h…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 09:37 PM
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Over-generalization of the content of the post I referenced? Check. Drawing false equivalencies without referring to specific passages? Check. Lazily cobbled-together pejoratives and the completely baseless assumption that I think I should be an EC? Check. I didn't quote my other post, because the point of this post wasn't to draw attention to my other writings. Whether it was objectively good or objectively bad, or up-voted or down-voted, is not the focus here. The focus is on the nature of the…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 03:37 PM
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Software engineering is a poor parallel because it is 100% objective and content-oriented. All of the things you listed were objective, black/white mistakes in the coding process. The perceived ease with which your fingers hit the keystrokes, the pleasantness of the hum of the CPU as you worked, the relaxing ambience provided by the flickering glow of the monitor. None of these subjective, qualitative aspects of coding make a difference in the procurement of the final product.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 12:25 AM
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Conceding authority to a leader in a male group is a form of hive-mind. "None of us are sure individually, but as a group we think this guy is probably the most capable of leading." The fact that we evaluate leaders by a different set of criteria than we do our friends and confidants is evidence of that in itself. Of course it doesn't just apply to choosing/allowing leadership, but also to grading/ranking existing members of the group, and to evaluating potential add-ons to the group.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 11:32 PM
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You see a girl across a crowded bar. You're well-dressed, well-groomed, in shaped, and you're feeling good. You've got a line in your back pocket thats worked a dozen times. You approach her. You deliver the pick-up line and smile confidently. She rolls her eyes, turns her back, and goes back to talking with her friends. What the fuck happened? Everything objective you had right. Maybe you didn't make eye contact immediately. Maybe your voice trembled for half a syllable. Maybe there's a guy the…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 11:23 PM
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Much appreciated. The point I'm making draws several parallels that are all fairly complex. I would prefer it to have been more concise, but this is about as brief if I could get it. If I can carve out time and am able to summarize it, I'll DM you with the result. Otherwise feel free to quote whatever portions of it you like, prefereably with attribution.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 10:58 PM
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Entitlement is a behavior and mindset that most women are in love with, because you can act as entitled as you see fit to anything (or person) you want, and as long as you don't overtly state "I am entitled to X", you're shielded by plausible deniability. One of the foremost rules of sales (women are constantly selling men on committing to them) is that you presume the sale is already going to happen. Female entitlement is merely a subconscious psychological power play.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:23 PM
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Well no: Men and women both catch diseases. Men and women are both endangered through the potential of bad partners (women more likely to be physically injured, men the only ones going to jail). And pregnancy?? I think we've all noticed that child support is legally mandated in all Western countries. So no, responsibility and consequences is not uniquely bestowed upon the female. And most especially in the case of pregnancy, it's only the female that can absolve herself of this responsibility, n…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 10:08 PM
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Interesting take, Uncle Vasya. Falls directly in line with the idea of divergence of insecurities between men and women. I forget who put it forth (probably Rollo), but the gist of it is that for men, our primary insecurity in life is death (while working, hunting, defending, fighting a war, or engaged in a conflict with another tribe member) because we are disposable and it is our job to face risk. On the other hand, women do not have nearly as strong a programmed fear of death because they hav…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 03:55 PM
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GTFO here with your "measured", "nuanced" response. Women are the ENEMY, heretic! No, in all seriousness, you're right; it's definitely important to consider all angles when breaking down an issue this complex. I think you pointed toward the correct answer, but didn't quite state it overtly. #PayAttentionToMeToo isn't just a shit-test or a power grab; it is both. That's why women seem to love it so much. It is often said around here that women don't want to win with a man; they want to lose, but…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 03:41 PM
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It was not the fight, obviously, the #metoo witches banded together to reduce your SMV (girls want to be proud of their BF) and she dumped my ass the instant the bitches threatened me. It's pretty obvious from reading this that the breakup was your fault. You allowed the #metoo brigade to break your frame. The contents of what happened don't really even matter. Your girlfriend felt threatened and confronted you about the whims of some group of harpies who heard an extremely one-sided account of …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:05 PM
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The approach of banning discussion of the issue outright was too heavy-handed and lacked the nuance necessary to combat it effectively. Were threads parroting the same 3 points about #metoo within a protracted period becoming exhaustive and taking up space unnecessarily? Yes. Was the correct response to outlaw discussion outright? Definitely not, and it misses the forest for the trees. #MeToo has never been outcome-oriented. It has never been about changing laws or overtly altering the fabric of…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:02 PM
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The Anger Phase is strong in this one. Why are men shamed for having sexual desires? Shamed for being men? God forbid a guy wants a relationship because that means he has no abundance and no other girls want him. God forbid a guy wants sex because that just means he's a pig with just one thing in mind. Stop being a faggot, you faggot. It's all a shit-test, and by taking that shit-test seriously, you are failing it miserably. When you approach a woman and make it known you're attracted to her, sh…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 10:44 PM
1

Lol, you do realize that literally everything you just said buttresses my point, right?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 09:38 PM
1

When encountering shit tests from women, I find it useful to remember that shit tests are women's way of probing a man's fortitude and ability to succeed under pressure in a world in which she has absolutely no experience nor any idea how to succeed in herself. If you were a blind man trying to find your way down the sidewalk in a busy and unfamiliar neighborhood, you'd probably be cautious to the point of irrationality as well.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 06:49 PM
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Men have evolved to further the Human Species, women simply nurture it. Not true. Men and women have each improved the species over the course of human history through separate means; men by striving, creating, and competing against each other overtly and for measurable reward, and women by acting as a filtering mechanism so that only the most fit/successful/attractive of men were allowed to pass on their genes. Nurturing is something women do for children, but it is the wrong word entirely to d…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 06:30 PM
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Seriously man, and mind you this comes from Dr. Deontological Sanders, a Ph.D. with dissertation from Shitlord University in Soul-Crushing, Embrace-the-Void Cynicism, what you are saying is really fucking dark, and more importantly totally wrong. Yes, women have a pronounced tendency toward vapidity. Yes, their interests are often superficial and almost universally underpinned by their need to inflate and broadcast their value to desirable men. Yes, 95% of them are only interested in the same gi…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 09:36 PM
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It is really important to understand that on the whole, women who are bitches absolutely do not disqualify themselves from genetic selection. Maybe from having a peaceful, healthy relationship; maybe from getting a guy as good as they might otherwise; but certainly not from having biological kids. Behavior (being timid, weak, insecure, lacking ambition, etc.) disqualifies men from reproducing, but not women. Put quite simply, as long as she is not physically malformed or horrendously ugly, there…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 02:59 PM
3

And if I'm being completely honest, your face-value judgments and shaming tactics are classic girl moves. Men quantifying and systematizing behaviors in order to accurately predict and maximize outcomes is the foundation that modern civilization was built on. Assuming women are to be treated differently from literally everything and everyone else on the planet is catering to the feminine imperative and a profound error in judgement. In the presence of women and the cocktail party milieu, yes, it…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 10:07 PM
2

I think it's worth pointing out that the act of tracking these kind of expenditures as they relate to plates has more value than that of merely a financial ledger (nickels and dimes, as you put it). Remember that while attractive women are parsimonious and even capricious in how they give out sex, attractive men are the same way with how they give out time and attention. There is a rough (not nearly perfect) correlation between a man's time and attention and the money he spends. Women assign val…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 06:07 PM
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1) You never, EVER quit your job without another one already lined up, and certainly don't make a show of doing it. It doesn't matter what kind of negative behavior/disrespect you experience (unless it's illegal, in which case you go to HR or the police). Quitting a job on the spot is a short-sighted, emotional decision that will follow you around for the next 5 years minimum. 2) "Never let anyone tell you what you're worth" is a completely meaningless statement. A person is only ever worth what…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 08:30 PM
1

Part of understanding and internalizing the principles put forth in RP is looking both upward and downward; developing an unencumbered view of what makes men, men and what makes women, women. That includes actively rejecting the Big Cancerous Lie that is progressive gender equalism.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 04:30 PM
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Before reading, please understand that this post isn't meant to be dismissive and comes from a place of absolute compassion, because I was bullied as a boy as well. Suck it up. As a man, it is your job to triumph over hardships like these and make yourself stronger by doing so. In a peaceful and prosperous society like ours, don't be surprised to find women seeking out/creating artificial hardships for men in order to weed out the weak. Feminism and #metoo are just examples of this. We often rid…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 07:42 PM
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I agree with the gist of your post, but there's a larger idea at play here: The living often use the dead as a means to their own ends. Funerals are for the living, not the dead. When people congregate to mourn the loss of someone in their community, they do not do so for the benefit of the deceased (who, being dead, cannot benefit). Funerals enable that person's survivors to establish common ground and forge stronger relationships using that loss as a stepping stone. When the Japanese bombed Pe…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 04:10 PM
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The notion that men and women are destructive in the same way is a false equivalency. Men destroy things that threaten the value they create, and do so using their strength and resolve; women do so by excluding and rejecting, using their own comparative advantage: choice through natural abundance of options. As men test theories and ideas to their breaking points in order to better ascertain which ones can be used to create value, so do women test the fortitude and resolve of the men around them…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 04:52 AM
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I clearly denote in the body of the post that this entire dynamic is the result of immutable biological forces that are molded and fine-tuned over the eons, which no one person could ever alter or affect, and explicitly state that none of this is ever worth getting angry over. Edit: From what I've seen around here, it's way more common to get lambasted for bothering to defend yourself than for actually being in the wrong (which I'm not). Let it rain with the downvotes.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:50 AM
22

Having read your original post (which for some reason you failed to link to), I see absolutely zero proof for your assertion that nothing happened between these guys and your girlfriend. Her father is merely politicking the situation well, getting you on his side (and by extension hers), and doing everything he can to make sure his baby is absolved of any blame or negative social repercussions. That's his job as her father, regardless of any impropriety on her part. I am sick to death of seeing …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 05:00 PM
3

In order to understand the answer to your question (which is a good one), we have to look at how the concepts of "success" and "winning" are viewed differently based on gender. Central to male psychology and the social structures that are derived from it is the idea that men compete against each other for measurable outcomes. I referred to this in the original post. We do not consider ourselves to have "won" or "succeeded" in any exchange unless we are the recipient of some tangible prize or ben…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 10:11 PM
3

If it was my contention that men should never approach or interact with women, the last thing I would do is write a 9-paragraph wall of text about approaching and interacting with women. The idea is that, all other things equal, in any interaction with a woman, having your social attention and validation means way more to her than having hers ever would to you. Any time you are paying attention to/validating a woman without having first received something valuable from her, you are giving up mor…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 07:34 PM
6

Correct. The amount and value of the attention/validation you give her depends entirely upon what she has already given up for you.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 07:23 PM
24

Good luck convincing any woman that she doesn't "deserve" every single thing that she wants from her male partner, or that a man "deserves" to have even a single request met by a woman he's seeing if it doesn't simultaneously benefit her. Entitlement and solipsism are built-in and accepted features of female biological firmware, but are considered repulsive in men, by both women and other men. The entire idea of "deserving" anything is an ego-defense/preservation mechanism. In reality, something…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 06:05 PM
23

Your children will be better off down the line knowing that their father was willing to make a difficult decision and excise a profoundly negative influence in his life, than if you simply remained, play-acting as the supplicating family man/provider to a woman whom they will eventually and in one way or another discover had zero respect for you (which she displayed openly by cheating on you). Your children may hate you at first for leaving her; that should be no surprise to you. But the court s…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 07:34 PM
50

Worth pointing out that you have no reason to wait to end things. Whatever entertainment/"enlightenment" you gain by sticking around to see how this plays out will in the end be more costly to you than having some self-respect and just cutting ties. Her infidelity may have been, and in all likelihood was, rooted in BP behaviors you were displaying, but that absolutely does not serve as an excuse for her betrayal. The optimal course of action here is to consolidate physical, admissible evidence o…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 06:36 PM
1

Here's a theory: Tinder's algorithm likely must work harder to maintain male users' interest than it has to for women's. For the average man, if an acceptable match is not found within a time span he considers reasonable, he will perceive lower-than-acceptable return on his investment (time spent) and disengage. Maintaining the average man's time and attention likely requires an intermittent feast-or-famine pattern of matches as a baseline; this has certainly been the case in my experience on th…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 07:25 PM
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