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Or a clam bake
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 02:13 AM
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Gay marriages tend to be open marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 12:55 AM
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Oh yes. It gets them very far.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 12:54 AM
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You don’t seem to understand that the silent treatment and relational aggression exist because girls are taught to be people pleasers who don’t want to start problems. They think being indirect keeps plausible deniability and keeps the peace. Girls should be taught to be direct and throw hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 12:53 AM
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So if women can’t prioritize love and they can’t prioritize money then what should they want in a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:17 AM
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Isn’t holding out for a man that makes more than them logical? Get the highest value. It just makes sense. A house is supposed to be a place to live. Not an investment. Thinking of it as an investment is what ruined the housing market. That being said. It’s still a good investment for a single person. Why wouldn’t it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:10 AM
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Young single women now are more likely to own homes than men. They travel more? Great. That means they’re not wasting their lives doing nothing but gaming. Men make decisions in anger all the time. You are generalizing because of an internet post? Not logical. Very emotional. Women look for a spark in dating because that’s what dating is for. Emotional fulfillment. If you’re doing it logically then you’re looking for a business plan not a relationship. Also, you can’t criticize women for dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:05 AM
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That’s not violence. It sucks, but it’s not violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:00 AM
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Reality tv is mostly staged and heavily edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:29 PM
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Sorry man. You’re arguing something that just stands to reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:14 PM
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But it’s true. If we killed all the Rottweilers they wouldn’t need to protect us from Rottweilers. That’s just factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:06 PM
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Nothing staged or planned at all on reality tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:05 PM
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So? Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:37 PM
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Please understand that sex for men and women are completely different. It’s like a lion envying a zebra for being surrounded by a tasty herd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:19 PM
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I don’t understand this. There is a difference between not needing a man and wanting a man. Needing a man means marriage is a necessity for everyone. Like you can’t live a good life without a relationship. Of course some women want a relationship and children. And some don’t. That’s freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:17 PM
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People have their shit together by their own definition not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:11 PM
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Why? How is this your business?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:11 PM
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Most people will never find fulfilling relationships. They just settle and live resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:32 PM
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Oh wow! Attention! And dating opportunities? So great. So wonderful. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:19 AM
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Which is something more women are not interested in that many are willing to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:18 AM
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No such thing as masculine or feminine. Women can do jobs and lift weights. Therefore? Noting masculine about them. They just want to do what they want. Which is everyone’s right. When women say they don’t need a man they mean they don’t need to be in a relationship. Which is true. No one needs one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:38 PM
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Yes? Take my wife please. Those are jokes for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:23 AM
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You say that, but you know it’s what most people do. They date around. Find someone they like. Break up when it doesn’t work out. Try again. That’s normal. Were you sheltered or something? A high tiered celebrity? Oh my goodness. You were sheltered.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:07 AM
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They can if they find it fulfilling. Or if it’s their dream job. But you know most people are just doing it because they have to and lots of people are fucking miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:05 AM
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Yeah. For the most part that is true. Most people hate their jobs like most people used to hate their spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:27 AM
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You can’t be happy in a marriage that exists out of fear of poverty and that you can’t leave. Especially when you depend on that person which means they take advantage of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:18 AM
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Humans don’t have instincts. We are influenced by culture. People use IUDs now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:16 AM
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Falling in love is not pair bonding. We are not voles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:11 AM
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They never have existed. Marriage was a scam and only works now that it is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:09 AM
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Manufactured consensus? So says the gender more likely to be drawn into fascism out of sexual insecurity. You have no room to talk. Women have always worked. Women being properly compensated snd respected for their work did not depress wages. The nuclear family is a lie built from post war propaganda. I don’t even understand what the third paragraph is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:08 AM
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It comes from finding out what you want. The first person someone dates is unlikely to be the right match. Gotta try on lots of pants to the find the right fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:01 AM
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I fail to see how it’s any of your business how people live their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:00 AM
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So your argument is women are losing leverage? That’s funny. Every single post here is about how women have the advantage now and their standards are too high. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:56 AM
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No such thing as pair bonding. There’s such a thing as birth control. It sounds like you’re just jealous of women honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:37 AM
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They shouldn’t have existed. It’s good that’s they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:30 AM
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As they should. People generally shouldn’t marry until their 30s. People aren’t mature enough for it until then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:30 AM
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Domestic violence has overall been declining since women started to make their own choices instead of needing relationships for financial stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 07:44 PM
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Yeah that’s fine. Superficial sure. But it’s your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:03 PM
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No one cares why you reject women. They care that women shouldn’t be bullied for being obese and shouldn’t be spoken of as the anti christ for being a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:19 PM
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There is no presumption of special intuition. People have their preferences and why should that be questioned? Mind your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:16 PM
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Women are neurotic so talking helps meanwhile men are not neurotic so only mass shootings help? Ok. If boomers aren’t role models don’t bring up grandma as an example of a healthy relationship. The pay gap is a motherhood penalty. No one would treat you like a wallet if you were actually good company and not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:27 PM
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The company line around here is that therapy didn’t work. Isn’t that right? Look buddy. You’re the one acting like a victim. Complaining about relationships for men being transactional even though they were more transactional in the past. They were terrible. And yes, frequently abusive. Boomer jokes are all about hating one’s spouse for a reason. If you don’t want to be treated like a wallet like in the past and you don’t want to be a friend the way marriages are expected to run now, then what d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:03 PM
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Define “nice”. Nice guy typically means someone who will go into a rage when rejected then rant about how nice they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:05 PM
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You have to understand that some of the time bananas are harmful rather than fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:00 PM
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Oh honey. You’re describing lower class. Owning a home and being able to pay for stuff is part of the vanishing middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:49 PM
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If you own a house in my area you have to be more or less well off. Or very old. Everyone that isn’t lives in an apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:36 PM
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Minorities have always had much more to fear from majorities. Except if that minority is the wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:31 PM
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Without needing to be taught. Also note. Automatic response. People don’t have a yearning for children that is not learned by society or by seeing other parents and deciding they want that too. Even animals don’t really have that. They have an inborn tendency to want sex. Maybe to build a nest. Or to swim up river. They don’t even know why they’re doing what they’re doing. Just that they must. Humans know what they’re doing every step of the way. You could make the case that mammals have an inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:18 PM
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My brother pays someone for anything. He sure as hell won’t do it on his own. Neither did my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:14 PM
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According to Merriam Webster An instinct is a natural, inborn tendency for a person or animal to act, feel, or behave a certain way without needing to be taught. It is an automatic response to things happening around them. Nothing about survival. It would behoove you to think this thoroughly a little more before commenting. People may have an inborn instinct to fuck. Even that’s questionable considering how many religious couples end up confused on their wedding night. They do not have an inborn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:07 PM
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Then what’s the point of an instinct if it can be ignored? It merely becomes a behavior that sometimes occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:41 PM
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The once who talk about how they were all abused by their husbands? The ones who talk about how they were forced to have kids they didn’t want to have? The ones with death bed confessions about poisoning husbands that abused them or raped their kids? Those?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:40 PM
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Animals do not typically act counter to their instincts. Humans typically do act counter to every instinct people claim that they have. Maybe humans simply have different instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:11 PM
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How so? How can reproduction be an instinct if we are capable of saying no thanks out of rational self interest? This is not a thing among humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:34 PM
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Accountability for what? Picking better? Aren’t we supposed to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:32 PM
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Do you think that’s common? People usually call a handyman for stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:28 PM
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That’s not misandry. That’s legitimate fear of men that can hurt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:27 PM
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Oh really? Then what is it sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:21 PM
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Humans don’t have biological instincts. They can make good decisions that way. Like not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:38 PM
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There are plenty. Kids are a burden and a money sink. Soyboys sound cool. I don’t know what you define as meaningful. Does playing DnD count? Maybe Smash Bros? Cause I’m in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:28 PM
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A relationship is just friendship with sex. There is no leadership there. If he’s somehow the leader then he can tell his wife what to do. So why doesn’t he?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:51 PM
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I’m not disagreeing with you. I’m saying any boundary or requirement narrows the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:31 PM
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It makes a woman a 10/10 for a man that does not want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:24 PM
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Those people can pay others to take on the burden of a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:20 PM
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So what? Wanting kids also narrows the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:18 PM
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The hell is a high value man? High value changes with the individual. If a woman wants that sweet DINK lifestyle then that man that wants kids is not a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:17 PM
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Feminists aren’t demanding that. They’re demanding a responsible partner that isn’t broke. Men should demand that too. Pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:50 AM
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Another euphemism for wanting to cheat. Why is it ok to hate women but not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:46 AM
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He accepted a bad deal. Maybe he should pick better? Also, leadership? Do you live on a ship? Protection? That’s for the cops. Household and car repair? That’s for handymen and mechanics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:46 AM
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A loser who should never have married in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:42 AM
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The top three causes of divorce are lack of commitment, infidelity, and too much arguing. Women initiate because men are ok with an acceptable amount of permanent unhappiness as long as someone is having sex with them or cleaning the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:36 AM
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Good thing women tend to want an egalitarian marriage in which your partner is your best friend. Also, who has ever heard of a husband as a protector? That’s the government’s job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:34 AM
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It is tough. It puts women in danger. Catcalls are threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:54 PM
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Not just male. As an autistic female I don’t have many of these things either and I feel that I am unsuited for a romantic relationship. Which suits me just fine, but it also makes me struggle in all kinds of other relationships too. My cross to bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:53 PM
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Then why do so many men here call women solipsistic for living her life according to their own goals and not a man’s goals? They think if a woman is not a man’s replacement mommy then they’re being oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:32 PM
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The difference is men demanding women drop everything to meet their needs and they are apparently “solipsistic” if they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:15 PM
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Men are raised believing women should serve them. Women are raised believing they need a man to have a complete life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:04 AM
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Feminists were in favor of women being drafted. Conservatives fought against the ERA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:35 PM
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That’s also true for older men that can’t get drafted. And they are more likely to be in favor of war. Not young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:32 PM
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Feminists have fought for the equal selective service. Conservatives always strike it down. As for increasing support for women being drafted, how about not raping your fellow soldiers? Why is that so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:30 PM
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Men are not hired based on merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:08 PM
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DEI is anti discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:08 PM
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Problems? This is just the balance slowly correcting itself. It’s hard to take you seriously when you think men no longer having slave wives as a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:07 PM
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You just made a whole lot of shit up. DEI exists to correct for bias. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:03 PM
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Everything is always a conspiracy when it doesn’t match up with your views, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:59 PM
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Incredibly vague. Do you mean simulation theory? Gnosticism? Quantum mechanics?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:48 PM
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Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:21 PM
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The government protects you and it protects me. Not just men. Lots of people grow food. Not just men. Lots of people build things and support in building things. Not just men. Women are soon to be the majority of those involved in medicine. Women don’t need to have sex with you for any of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:48 PM
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I don’t see it as a problem at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:45 PM
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And if they can’t find one they’re fine on their own. Men on the other hand can’t seem to stop demanding a woman put up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:23 PM
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It’s narcissistic and vain to live life how you want but it’s not narcissistic and vain to demand other people bow to your whims?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:54 PM
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One feminist and 2 supposed redditors does not a crisis make. And no. I don’t think any of this is leading male victims to be taken less seriously as much as men’s advocates refusing to do anything aside from spending all their time on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:33 PM
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Because I don’t think men care very much at all what women think of them. And outside of internet time sinks, they don’t even notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:07 PM
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So you don’t want therapy from a licensed therapist, you want therapy from a girlfriend who listens to your problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:56 PM
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That’s called talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:30 PM
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It’s a phrase that points out men have a problem with violence. And the data shows that clearly. No because they’re not about male victims. They’re male perpetrators. If anything dehumanizes male victims it’s rape jokes at their expense and jokes about them not being able to defend themselves against a woman. These are mostly jokes made by other men but not exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:28 PM
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So it’s not job loss, deaths of despair, or guns that are killing men like the data shows. It’s men who just can’t stop thinking about 10 year old memes about no man in particular? I don’t think so. Go ahead and say what you want. It’s a free country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:23 PM
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So if talking to them won’t help. And money won’t help. How do men want people to care about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:16 PM
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The way I see it memeing about men is gender equality. If you can’t beat em meme em.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:11 PM
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The way I see it, memeing against men is gender equality. If you can’t beat em meme em.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:10 PM
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Rape jokes are often funny. Is it a sign of misogyny? Sure. A good amount of time. So what? I’m saying you don’t actually think that memes are causing harm. You don’t think women are going to kill all men. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:07 PM
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It’s not unrelated. The manosphere fuels mass shootings. That’s the difference. There are real world consequences. Should they be censored? Honestly no. Free speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:04 PM
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DEI isn’t quotas. It’s about challenging biases and giving people a chance. Meritocracy doesn’t exist and men are not at the top based on merit anymore than white people are. It’s all bias. I’m not reframing abortion choices as something for the greater good. I’m saying I’m disgusted with people who have kids just to give them up for adoption. I personally think they’re doing harm and I think they should just have an abortion. So then keep reforming the hell out of capitalism until is unrecogniz…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:03 PM
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Sir, we are discussing internet memes. You want to ameliorate those problems, be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:48 PM
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Sure. But women don’t have to fuck you for that. So they’re not going to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:44 PM
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Nah. If men meme then women will meme. Fair is fair. You can’t just act offended and go anti free speech because women do it when men do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:39 PM
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As not telling you your issues don’t matter. I’m telling you this isn’t an issue. Sure. They do it all the time. Look at every meme community. It’s all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:38 PM
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No. They are issues when they have real world consequences. Wake me up when women are committing mass shootings on men the way men are doing it against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:36 PM
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No. You don’t think it is. You know perfectly well none of this is actionable and are concerned with your own personal feelings rather than shutting with real world consequences. Someone saying mean things on the internet does not make you a victim. And the fact that you need to pretend trust it does just goes to show how frivolous internet “men’s issues” are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:35 PM
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Give an example then. Most of the time when internet men complain about deep topics women aren’t into it’s stuff like “Hitler wasn’t all bad historically speaking” and “evolutionary biology means women shouldn’t be leaders”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:31 PM
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Sorry, that’s what meme culture is. I see horrible things said about women every day in every meme subreddit. No one wants to close those down. It’s hypocritical to go after the feminists and their 2 bad memes just because you happen to be personally offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:26 PM
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These aren’t issues. These are memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:56 PM
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No. I’m saying you know it’s not a cause for concern and are just pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:56 PM
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You’re not afraid of women. You’re just pretending to be for moral posturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:20 PM
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Then if that’s the case we need to end all meme culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:18 PM
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Are you seriously afraid of a feminist uprising to kill all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:18 PM
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Because the jokes against men are neither serious nor actionable. I’m sorry your fee fees were hurt by the internet, but we’ve got mass shootings and increasing maternal mortality rates to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:16 PM
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People are unhappy because everything is more expensive and the system is falling apart. I don’t see the need to bring kids into this. Also, kids are a burden. So no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:10 PM
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Both genders should be useless to each other. About as useless as friends are to each other that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:55 AM
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The skills to be a “wife” you are describing are really just the skills to be a mother to a grown man who should do all of these things for himself. The disdain comes from the fact that he should just want a woman to be his sexy best friend, but instead he still wants her to be his fuck mommy that he really doesn’t like or enjoy hanging out with at all. You have it backwards. Women don’t want to be your mom. They want to be your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:54 AM
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Men are better now. Maybe during the Obama years possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:59 AM
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No. Men are better now. Maybe better during the Obama years possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:58 AM
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Everything everyone does is selfish. I’m saying it’s better than bringing people into the world without a clear plan. Children are a heavy responsibility and pregnancy is awful. They need to be planned for. Men being variable means they are on the lower end too and less reliable than women in performance. So it evens out. So who cares? If we haven’y found a system that works we should find one. Giving everything to the rich and going to war for them is not working so let’s stop. We can give peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:05 PM
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Ok. So you admit it’s not about nature. Women support the end of capitalism. Men should support the end of capitalism too if you want to end human suffering. We don’t have and have never had a meritocracy. We have spent all of human history being ruled by inbred lunatics and now we have to absolute worst people ruling the most powerful country in the world. IQ was invented to identify how children should be helped and is now exclusively used by racists and people that want to blow themselves bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:43 PM
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Male variability is hardly a good thing in and of itself and is influenced by outside factors. I bring up Scandinavian countries because they are doing better than everyone else. Female leadership is hardly an issue and may be just what happens when we advance as a culture. Humans exist to control and dominate nature. If we see biology that gets in the way we correct it. That’s the one factor that I consider to be true“human nature”. Science is about taking control, not just about accepting thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:08 PM
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That “honor” drives men to kill women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:05 PM
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Your wife is supposed to be your friend not your replacement mother. Is it not extremely unhealthy to want to have sex with your mother? Also, what does loving a man for himself mean? People are what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:55 PM
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It’s not biological reality. It’s prejudice. We can close that gap and are currently doing so. Scandinavian countries have a slight preference for female leadership and are doing better than everyone else as far as standard of living is concerned. Although I don’t like sex personally. It clearly exists for pleasure. The reproductive part is a biological mistake we must correct. Bringing people into this world unwanted is wrong and honestly incredibly evil as far as I’m concerned. The best thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:50 AM
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I don’t see how. They said they tried it. They didn’t like it. They’re not doing it again. What’s narcissistic about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:55 PM
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It’s narcissistic abuse to be honest? I mean sure I guess anyone could always lie and say they have never had oral sex and never want to try but the result is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:08 PM
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It’s not. People have their boundaries. It makes them less appealing. But it’s more shitty to push your partner’s boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:50 PM
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So? Just break up with him. It’s his choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:47 PM
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See that? Validating. Not pleasurable. Validating. Unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:39 PM
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I don’t think women would be any better in positions of power. They should still have opportunities for leadership as well as anyone else. Women do commit fewer violent crimes overall. Why that is the case is open for debate. Abortion is a good and responsible choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:23 PM
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Ok. My position in the debate is “if a woman says no sex for 6 months” you can find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:13 PM
2

Still not you. The world was shaped by people who are not you. Men and women included. You don’t get to take credit or be included because you are a man. You don’t have “innovation”. Not nearly as capable by what metric? Women are quickly catching up with men everywhere. Men had thousands of years. Women had a few decades where they weren’t property.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:12 PM
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No. It’s just not really comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:25 PM
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Mostly rich men. Mostly white or Asian. Gee, I wonder why? And I’m sure none of that had anything to do with women not being allowed to be anything other than property for most of recorded history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:24 PM
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>According to US crime data from the FBI Crime Data Explorer, men represent nearly 80% of individuals arrested for violent crimes. This gender disparity is even more pronounced for certain offenses; for instance, roughly 88% to 90% of all murders and non-negligent manslaughters are committed by men. Similarly, the UNODC Global Study on Homicide notes that approximately 90% of all homicides worldwide are committed by male perpetrators. In victims' reports from the Bureau of Justice Statistics, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:20 PM
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You know perfectly well we were discussing violent crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:19 PM
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Who is a good guy? Not the OP. Not most of the men here. The bad guys are not scared to shoot their shot so they get more dates. And young people can’t tell red flags from green. So young women learn their lessons and set up boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:08 PM
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Because women are not attracted to men in the same way men are attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:06 PM
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Because younger people can’t tell the difference. It takes a while to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:05 PM
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I think they’ve just learned from their mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:01 PM
12

So just say no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:59 PM
0

A slap is not the same as smashing someone’s head through a door.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:50 PM
1

Violent crime stats are available for everyone to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:50 PM
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It’s not unhinged to state the fact that most violent crimes are committed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:48 PM
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Close enough to 100% to justify the hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:27 AM
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Such a rare thing. Men are overwhelmingly the threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:14 AM
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Women’s everything is nowhere near as much as men’s everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:13 AM
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Support for abortion being legal in all or most cases was at 60%. Support for anti circumcision was at 30%. You’re making things up. And again, it’s a popular issue. People lie about all sorts of things to support their argument. You make up numbers why wouldn’t you make up where you are from? I have not heard about Ellen Driessen. I looked her up and it looks like she writes books about depression. So you want thoughts and prayers? How is that’s going to solve your problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:31 PM
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Abortion rights is one of the most popular issues today. And as per Pew Research Nationally, majorities of Americans consistently support abortion rights, with 60% to 62% of adults believing abortion should be legal in all or most cases and 51% to 53% explicitly identifying as pro-choice. Support leans heavily into the first trimester, with nearly 70% of Americans supporting abortion access early in pregnancy. So you admit that circumcision is not a popular issue? That most men don’t consider it…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:19 PM
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So first circumcision was one of the biggest issues that all men care about and all of you are clamoring for reforms. And now the oppressed don’t know they are oppressed and it’s fringe issue? So you agree that men don’t care? Great. As for care, women aren’t the ones convincing men that therapy isn’t worth their time. And don’t pretend you don’t know where you are. This subreddit is about men blaming all their problems on not being able to plow. I don’t buy the “ I live in Sweden” bit. But if m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:57 AM
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The difference in method absolutely explains difference in rate. How do you explain the fact that women are 3 times more likely to attempt suicide? It’s the methods that make the difference. How do you explain it then? Don’t tell me it’s lack of sex. That’s nice that you have a special interest group on the circumcision issue. But that’s all it is. Only 30% of people oppose the practice? That’s a minority. Most defend the practice then. Older people even more so. And even then, opposition does n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:20 AM
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I’ve read the studies. Women attempt 3 times more than men. Men use more lethal methods. I’m not saying economy is the reason men commit more suicide. I’m saying the methods they use is the reason they succeed in completing suicide. The reason people in general commit suicide tends to be economic. If there were a demand for banning circumcision either one would jump on it. There is no demand so they ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:39 AM
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The data is clear. Women attempt more and try again more often when they fail. Men use more lethal methods. Lower income people are at higher risk of suicide. I don’t know what gender discrepancy has to do with anything. Men don’t care very much about the circumcision issue and won’t vote based on it. It’s nothing their radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:03 PM
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Mormons are all American, baby. And they are patriarchal as fuck. So are evangelicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:25 PM
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Poisoning/overdose is still the more common method when worldwide attempts are taken into consideration for women. Economic insecurity is at the core of the majority of suicide. Give people economic security and rates will drop. End this late stage capitalist nightmare. You want proof about how little men care about circumcision? Have a candidate run on that issue as a main point. See how far that gets you compared to the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:24 PM
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Poisoning/overdose is still the more common method when worldwide attempts are taken into consideration for women. Economic insecurity is at the core of the majority of suicide. Give people economic security and rates will drop. End this late stage capitalist nightmare. You want proof about how little men care about circumcision? Have a candidate run on that issue as a main point. See how far that gets you compared to the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:24 PM
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They don’t want either. They want partners. Both should work. Both should care for the kids. If they make the ill advised decision of having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:12 PM
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No. We should have MORE immigration. The second generation adopts the values of the majority culture and neutralizes the culture of origin. They get it values. We get their food and music. Win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:10 PM
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Only because of feminism. In other cultures they are. In religious communities they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:08 PM
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Nope. The mother follows the rules of patriarchy. She teaches the girl subservience and the boy entitlement. Is it betrayal? Yes. Internalized misogyny results in women betraying other women and themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:07 PM
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Family. Community. Sometimes the government. And yeah, since they give men authority they are patriarchal. And you are correct. Patriarchy does not recognize a persons gender outside of the binary. It will force you into the role assigned to you at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:06 PM
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Explain how.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:03 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:36 PM
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I’m a Cuban American. In my family I had to stop doing my homework to do housework because I’m a girl. My brother was allowed to just play video games and neglect any work at all. I was called a whore for having male friends when I was as young as 5 years old. My brother was allowed to do what he wants. I was not allowed to take karate because I’m a girl and girls don’t do that. My brother was allowed to do what he wants even when his grades suffered. My mother was 9 and her brother was 18. He w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:28 PM
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You are describing personal roles. Those are chosen. Gender roles are prescribed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:20 PM
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In most parts of the world they are. In most religions they are. Because they don’t have feminism to dismantle those gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:18 PM
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How is it dishonest? Gender roles dictate that women are servants to men. How is that not patriarchal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:30 PM
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Among immigrant groups it’s alive and well. And lots of religions too. Just look at the Mormons. And they can give you plenty of concrete examples of living with less freedom than their brothers I can tell you that for a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:26 PM
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Really? No culture or religion in the world has patriarchy? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:25 PM
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Poverty causes homelessness. Big shock. I know. Impoverished women get roped into prostitution which reduces their numbers. Most suicides have economic reasons behind them. Men don’t use pills like women do for suicide. They use guns and hanging. That’s good news on circumcision. Doesn’t change the fact that most men have never even considered it being an important issue. Or even an issue at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:06 PM
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Those are 2 problems caused by economics and one problem most men have not even considered caring about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:49 AM
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And workers and students. Not a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:40 AM
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Aside from economics all your issues are about getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:39 AM
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Back in the day, guys blamed Disney. Especially Aladdin and the be yourself message. You ain’t likable and attractive like Aladdin. Of course it doesn’t work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:18 PM
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In the developed world? No. In the entire world? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:15 PM
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They’re supposed to happen often. Marriage is not supposed to last forever. People grow apart. It’s healthy and natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:05 PM
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Honestly I’m fine with this. Let the moms get weekend visits so they can be the cool parent that takes them to fun things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:39 PM
3

You mean to their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:38 PM
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This one. It’s still just having a job. Which is something everyone needs anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:47 PM
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If I were interested in sex at all I suppose it would be the ability to penetrate instead of being penetrated. Sex is more likely to be pleasurable. Orgasms are more likely. No pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:45 PM
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So then it’s not possible to ever love someone for who they are in your definition. People love traits. Never bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:59 PM
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If someone is loved for being attractive then that attractiveness fades and are no longer loved then how are they ever loved for who they are? That’s still their body. Who they are didn’t change. But their body did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:49 AM
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People are what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:09 AM
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We are engaging in behavior that exists outside of the body right now. Phrases like “you’ve changed” and “I’m not the man I used to be” are phrases for a reason. People become different people all the time. And it’s not by gaining weight or getting a haircut. Does a human retain identity when they change in attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:37 PM
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Yeah. Which means the person is appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:46 PM
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Yes. Because of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:46 PM
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To fuck women. Say what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:11 PM
2

The hell do you think charisma is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:10 PM
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No a human is not a body. A person is their behaviors. A body is just flesh. This is why we can’t take men here seriously when they say they can love any woman. No. You want to fuck her flesh. That’s not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:08 PM
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Wanting someone just because they are a woman is wanting someone because they have a vagina. Not because of who they are. Wanting someone because they are attractive is also wanting someone because of an external quality. Not because of who they are. Personality is who you are. Not what you provide. Appearance is something a person provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:24 PM
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Yes, yes. Material conditions lead to changes in culture. We all know that. The particular changes in culture that those material conditions caused are the anti discrimination laws I mentioned allowing us to live our own lives and not have to depend on the misery of sex to make our way. And don’t bother me with threats, tiddymilkguzzler. Most men aren’t losers looking to ruin our lives. Just this lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:55 PM
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Being a SAHM is fine but they should be careful entering a dependent position. Everyone should clean the house or just pay someone to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:45 PM
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Everyone is supposed to cook and clean regardless of gender. Kids are a personal choice. Sex is only for when both people are in the mood not an obligation. And emotional support is supposed to go both ways and come from many sources The person you are in a relationship is supposed to be your best friend. Not your slave master and certainly not your replacement mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:43 PM
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You mean calling them pick mes? That happens. In either case people desperate for “relationships” is not an institutional problem. It’s a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:30 PM
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They are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:16 PM
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If men need a “relationship” so badly then that’s their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:11 PM
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And many of those conveniences come from laws removing discrimination against us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:05 PM
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If dating were actually important in life then this would matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:01 PM
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You aren’t even listening to what I’m saying. I don’t care if the woman goes to prison. The father should not reject their child. They should continue to raise the child they have been raising.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:05 AM
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The child is the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:47 AM
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Does he have a relationship with those children?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:47 AM
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I don’t get why you’re so stubborn that it’s not ok to suddenly hate a child that you’ve loved for years. I don’t give a shit if someone goes to jail for fraud. Blood does not make a family. Only love does that and that should never be taken away from a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:46 AM
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Yeah. Abortion is a responsible choice. Surrendering a baby is a responsible choice. Telling an 8 year old that you loved for years that you hate them now is horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:43 AM
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The father that raised the child should continue to raise the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:40 AM
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I want the child to still be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:39 AM
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I only care about the wellbeing of the child. Put the woman in prison I don’t give a fuck. But don’t reject a child for something they do. Why the hell are so many of you ok with abandoning children?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:38 AM
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The child is the traumatized victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:32 AM
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The mental health of the child is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:29 AM
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Always their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:27 AM
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He’s an adult and needs to look after the kid he’s loved for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:27 AM
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Ok. So is the father abandoning them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:26 AM
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That’s not the child’s fault. Only the child matters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:25 AM
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The kid is the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:24 AM
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They should be raised by the man that raised them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:24 AM
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The father that raised them is still their father and should raise the child
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:23 AM
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The alternative is to be treated by their father that raised them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:23 AM
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You raised them. They are yours. You can’t take that love back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:22 AM
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Then she should be free to raise the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:21 AM
1

Solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:21 AM
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Teach men to love their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:20 AM
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You are dehumanizing children. You raised that kid. You owe that kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:20 AM
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Ok. I don’t care. I only care that the father still love that child. Only the children matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:19 AM
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That man had no relationship with the child. You raised them you are the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:18 AM
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You are a monster if you stop loving your child. That’s evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:17 AM
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Lock the woman up and take care of the kids you are supposed to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:17 AM
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The victim is the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:16 AM
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And that’s just pure evil. I don’t care if the woman goes to jail for 10 or 20 years. Abandoning a child is monstrous. You raised that kid then it’s your kid. Then you gots go on about when having no empathy. Only the children matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:15 AM
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Well that’s just ridiculous. It’s not murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:11 AM
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If he raised a kid then that’s his kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:10 AM
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Would you really just abandon a child you raised?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:08 AM
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You say this and then have zero empathy for abandoned children. You can’t just tell an 8 year old that you don’t want them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:05 AM
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I can fathom the destruction caused by a parent deciding they no longer love a child for a reason outside of their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:04 AM
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Do you think it’s right for a man to stop loving a child he’s had for 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:03 AM
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Most marriages in history have had no real love. Would a man take just stop loving a child he’s raised for years just because it’s not biologically his? That’s the real tragedy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:02 AM
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This isn’t rape and murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:59 AM
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Losing some money makes you a dead man walking? Just sue for your money back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:47 AM
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Sorry kid. Your mom shouldn’t have lied. You have no family now. Seriously ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:41 AM
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If I was born male my family would have undoubtedly treated me better. That alone wild have improved my life so much. I don’t care about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:33 AM
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It literately impossible. Best to just not bother with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:46 PM
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What does what you’re saying have to do with my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:11 PM
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No. That’s sexualization. Which is fine with consent. Objectification implies contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:11 PM
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But why does that have to be paired with contempt?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:54 PM
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No. It’s you making a choice to see someone as lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:43 PM
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That’s a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:29 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:26 PM
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You love being seen as an object to be used and exploited by other people with no interest in you or your desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:26 PM
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Ok. But how did they feel about the victim though? Lots of people tend to blame the victim for whatever happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:31 PM
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So you would try it just because it’s suggested and despite the fact you have no interest in having something shoved up your urethra? Ok, how about if you tried it once already with someone else and it was a literal bloody mess? Should she feel rejected and inferior if you say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:51 PM
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Eating mushrooms doesn’t hurt or feel degrading. We are not talking about eating mushrooms. It’s a bad analogy. How about sounding? Do you know what that is? Look it up if not. Would you try that again if it hurt before?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:25 AM
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That’s because men are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:10 AM
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Then how is she supposed to figure that out? By looking at his nose?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:39 AM
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Well. About 80% of bisexual men reported only female perpetrators. So that’s interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:35 PM
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That tends to the source of our problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:43 PM
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And about 89% of bisexual women reported only male perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:47 PM
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A monopoly on creativity? As if Ursula K. Le Guin and Frida Kahlo never existed. You do realize women weren’t allowed to do much of anything for most of human history right? Only rich men were provided that opportunity most of the time. And it’s funny you mention Mozart. In his letters he recognized his sister as more talented than him in some ways. Of course she had to give everything up when she got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:44 PM
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When we enter late stage capitalism and the world is headed towards the economic and environmental ruin that comes with the impossibility of endless growth. Yeah, people get more than a bit concerned about the state of things and our unsustainable future.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:41 PM
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It’s a capitalism is falling apart problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:57 PM
1

Hey man. You wanted to talk about pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:43 PM
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Like all red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:26 PM
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Like the women who used mommy’s little helpers in the 50s because they were trapped in a miserable marriage. The best way to not choose a defective man is not choose anyone at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:26 PM
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No. Married moms do more work than single ones at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:28 PM
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Women get help and diagnosis. Men don’t usually try.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:28 PM
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Married red pill. They kept complaining that red pill advice ended up getting them divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:26 PM
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I don’t get it. Update the laws to do what? And what’s a covenant marriage? A bangmaid and pay pig set up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:18 PM
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Ok. So marriage is bad for men then? Why want a traditional one? Those are the ones that hit you with alimony at divorce since the wife doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:11 PM
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Without any reason? It’s often harmful in many ways. That’s the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:56 PM
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How is it nonsensical? You can be together and get tax break. Why do you need to be married to have a house servant?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:55 PM
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Proves what? We find it repulsive because it is harmful and repulsive a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:23 PM
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In their pleasure. Not ours. Lots of men want to take pleasure in our bodies and don’t care if it causes us harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:22 PM
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Then why is childhood sexual abuse so common? Because perverted men are common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:58 PM
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It’s a threat because sex is a threat in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:55 PM
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This is reality. Sex is one of the leading cause of trauma. 1 in 4 girls experience childhood sexual abuse and it impacts them for the rest of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:55 PM
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Well it’s not. That’s not how are bodies work a lot of the time. That’s not what men are interested in a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:51 PM
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Because you are threatening us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:35 PM
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Lots of men do these things. Not worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:35 PM
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The lack of empathy is from men towards women. Sex is frequently harmful to us. Please acknowledge that. Your pleasure is not worth our pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:33 PM
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It’s extremely common for sex to cause trauma. It’s always a risk. That’s why men’s desire towards us is horrifying. If you had a one in four chance opening a door and three had a some money and one had a hungry tiger then you would be scared too. Especially since for us sex is like the equivalent of 5 dollars whereas for men it’s like 1000.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:16 PM
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I struggle to understand the attraction to someone that primarily exists to cook and clean for you. That’s like wanting to fuck one’s own mom. What’s the appeal? That said. No. Most marriages in history have involved bang maids. Loveless and exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:08 PM
1

No. They just get divorced faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:59 PM
3

Because their husbands become burdens. Especially if they have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:58 PM
1

Which one? The traditional model that’s all about extracting labor and resources? Or modern marriage that’s about finding your sexy best friend and being happy together? Because the latter is clearly the ideal no matter what you call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:57 PM
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No? Do you think anyone wants to be cut open? It would be solved by women electing to sterilize themselves in favor of using an artificial womb if they want a kid. By that’s still a choice to be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:52 PM
-1

That’s what traditional marriage is. Modern marriage is supposed to be best buddies that have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:35 PM
13

No one loves their bangmaid. You’re not supposed to want a sugar daddy either. No one loves their sugar daddy. Mind you. These are what actual traditional relationships look like. People married for transactional reasons and didn’t much care if they liked each other. Conservatives don’t mean these things when they say they want traditional relationships though. At least not ones from developed nations. They claim that they can have completely separate division of labor and still love their partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:38 PM
33

Why is it so hard from men to recognize sex as being something capable of causing harm and trauma? Why would prey be afraid of predators I wonder? Should prey have more empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:33 PM
3

I think at first he’d try to be as promiscuous as possible in order to live out his fantasy of being desired. He’d have some bad experiences and learn sex as a woman is not all it’s cracked up to be. If he then tries to attract an actual partner, that depends on what his ideal partner is. If he has the libido of an average woman then he’d aim high and have the same struggles as any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:44 PM
3

Because sex for men and sex for women are entirely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:16 PM
3

I wish you could have that and we didn’t have to be burdened by it. Too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:15 PM
6

It’s normal for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:11 PM
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How does one measure that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:11 PM
9

Sex is not friendship or human contact or anything meaningful. It’s a bodily function.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:25 PM
8

It’s gross. And it’s mostly just pointless. And you guys act like it’s the most important thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:29 AM
14

Have you ever had sex as a woman? It kinda sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:14 AM
16

Sex kinda sucks, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:09 AM
11

Why is it strange?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:07 AM
23

Why is that a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:06 AM
17

Shouldn’t men’s absolutely bizarre dependence on sex be considered a defect?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:03 AM
9

Sex is pretty gross all things considered and It’s repulsive to obsess over it. Average men are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:09 AM
10

You could have just left it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:31 PM
11

You can’t use a fairy tale as proof of anything. Especially since Eve’s actions would have been venerated as the bringer of knowledge if the Gnostics had won the fairy tale war. And they very well could have if history went just a little differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:30 PM
2

Sex does not alleviate loneliness for women. Sex does not have the value for women that it has for men. Just because someone wants to use a woman’s body does not mean they even like her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:16 PM
4

Why must this same topic be discussed incessantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:25 AM
3

I think these are wannabe influencers looking for clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:28 PM
4

It is achieved through diplomacy, trade, and soft power. It is disrupted by war. Men can stop sacrificing each other to the meat grinder. There is no need.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:46 PM
7

What has kept us safe and well fed is economic interdependence more than anything else not war. And this administration has been trying to destroy that and isolate us. Most wars are unnecessary. We don’t need to keep waging for the benefit of the rich in the vain hope we invent some new technology when invention happens regardless. If you guys love war so much you can stop acting like martyrs over being drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:13 PM
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You mean get plowed? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:00 PM
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Falling birth rates are good. There won’t be enough jobs to go around in the future. Crime rates have been dropping since the 90s. Your penis not being touched is not a crisis. Individualism is good. With proper wealth distribution the welfare system would meet the needs and then some. Promiscuity is harmless. Police are necessary but need better training and priorities. War is usually unnecessary are absurd. There. Covered that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:16 PM
-1

Men make women’s lives harder and lie about statistics. What else is new?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:03 PM
1

Like the ones that say single moms get more sleep and free time than married ones? https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/living-single/201906/single-moms-less-housework-more-leisure-than-married-moms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:56 PM
2

Then you don’t agree with me. Women who support these systems are progressives and want to actually solve problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:25 PM
1

I pay someone to clean my house. And what you are saying is nonsensical. Women with children obviously do more household chores than those without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:54 PM
3

There is no greater herd behavior than that of men who feel “emasculated”. That’s where all fascism comes from. The pettiness of sexual insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:38 PM
6

Except that they support social programs that will help society whereas conservative men do not. Progressive people, men and women alike, do not follow predominant beliefs. That’s what conservatives do. Progressives are supportive of evidence based solutions to help society and understand that the system is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:30 PM
5

All evidence points to them being effective and necessary. The majority of people who don’t support them are just not interested in solving problems but in punishing those they see as deserving of suffering. They do not care about evidence or efficacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:28 PM
1

I’m in my mid 40s. I don’t care about the beliefs of Gen X and Boomers. They’re dinosaurs. I only care about the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:32 PM
1

It’s just porn. Porn that the performer gets to control. If the men are dumb enough to pay for porn they deserve to get fleeced.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:24 PM
2

Yeah. And statistics and preference surveys say women my age and younger don’t want kids very much and prioritize career.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:22 PM
4

How is that clear when almost half of women my age or younger don’t want kids and most see career as their priority?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:40 PM
1

It requires coercion. We will not change our minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:38 PM
1

And this “empathy” takes the form of coercing women into surrendering their bodies. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:37 PM
0

I’m defending women engaging in sex work safely if that’s what they want to do. I’d rather this is one thing taken over by AI. I have no sympathy for someone dumb enough to pay for it. I don’t see how I’m a misandrist. I’m not advocating for taking men’s rights away. You want to subjugate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:10 PM
4

The husband is ok with it because he knows if he just ignores it she’ll do it eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:19 PM
6

No it’s not a woman’s preference that she had less free time than a man. Do the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:14 PM
2

That’s exactly what you’re talking about. Any sex someone does not want to have is forced or coerced and that is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:09 PM
2

So then she’ll divorce him for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:07 PM
5

Or get a divorce. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:43 AM
8

Who says it was a need? You make the terms of your relationship and if they are not met you break up or divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:43 AM
1

Any sex one does not want to have is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:38 AM
3

You don’t see the harm in rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:37 AM
3

Discomfort? This is rape. You guys are talking about coerced sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:37 AM
4

Are you joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:42 PM
13

No. I’m ace. Why would I ever want to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:50 PM
5

DnD. Horror movies. Kayaking. Video games. Horticulture. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:12 PM
8

Yeah. You get a job. You work. You make money. You do whatever you want and enjoy life however you can. Your option is to stay under the thumb of someone that will inevitably disrespect, control, and abuse you just because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:23 PM
1

I’m not them, but free will is an impossibility. Everything we do depends on what happened before, what happened before that, and before that. Not to mention the processes in our bodies, hormones, receptors, mental illness etc. We are processes in motion. Not ghosts piloting meat suits making rational decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:01 PM
2

No they didn’t. Neighbors poisoned her dogs. She wasn’t sure if it was intentional. And she was harassed by people for having a mixed race family.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:57 PM
0

Marriage for love was not a thing until relatively recently. People married for resources and stability. And women always worked. They just didn’t get to keep their money.,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:32 PM
2

Yes. And then those men owned by their lords owned their wives and children and took their frustrations out on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:37 PM
0

Holy shit. That’s a lot of racism you’ve got there. No wonder you don’t know fascism when you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:23 PM
0

By not being slaves? They’re not the ones committing all the violence and voting for fascism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:42 PM
0

I fail to see how sex between consenting adults is a moral issue. Society needs newborns? Sure. But not that many. The population could stand to go down a bit. Especially since jobs won’t be available. Accountable for what? The women are not being harmed if they handle OF all themselves. Oh the men are being exploited? Boo hoo. They don’t have to pay money. Honestly, the one thing AI can do for us is replace all porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:41 PM
1

Never at first. Only when they have you trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:24 PM
1

Women were property.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:24 PM
1

Sexual liberation is good. Pornography is just exploitation. I’ve never heard of women being mad at Only Fans. Only internet dweebs who are upset women can do sex work on their own terms instead of by putting themselves in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:23 PM
2

Well duh. There is some value in finding someone to love. There is no value in sex for its own sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:42 AM
1

No. It’s because now women are considered people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:37 AM
1

Pornography has always existed. Feminists protest against pornography. Abortion and divorce are good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:37 AM
0

They were shocked because they joined red pill to get their wives to have more sex with them and then it backfired.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:35 AM
1

They were there to be property of their husbands and to work to make money for their husbands and keep house for their husbands. They had no opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:08 AM
1

And the average woman was there to be an unpaid domestic servant and broodmare. They were given less education than the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:32 PM
1

I’m comparing average men to average women. Average women worked and had fewer educational opportunities than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:16 PM
1

No. Women’s literacy rates lagged being men. Women’s years of education lagged behind men until around 1950. You’re making stuff up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:30 PM
1

How was it better? They hardly were allowed any education at all aside from a scant few lucky wealthier women. At least middle class men could go to college depending on the era.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:55 PM
2

Yeah yeah. Spiteful “nice” guys have sheets existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:38 PM
1

Women had to work just like men had to work. The housewife thing was a blip in history only for upper middle class women. Everyone had to work. Bullshit. That Bible says you can beat your wife. People only started caring about that relatively recently. It was always common to neglect your wife and kids and even to physically and sexually abuse them. They were properly. Education is important for quality of life. Being barred from it is barbaric.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:37 PM
3

And yet married red pill exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:33 PM
2

Except that Chad and Tyrone can be perfectly nice and the dweebs can be resentful monsters. People lay down for fun. Commitment is not important for everyone and Chads get in to real relationships all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:32 PM
1

They usually never are. That’s what abusers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:30 PM
1

Because now people care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:30 PM
2

Extroversion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:32 AM
5

Those guys tend to be abusive men themselves and won’t admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:31 AM
3

Netflix and rap would have been banned? Feminists hate pornography so how does that make sense? What does Netflix have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:30 AM
6

Women are being abused less now not more. The leading factor in domestic abuse is financial dependence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:28 AM
10

Attractive men are not more likely to be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:26 AM
7

Tell that to the married red pill men who are shocked when their wives file for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:20 AM
11

Impossible to tell if a person is terrible until they are chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:19 AM
11

That second “safe” man is just as likely to be a bad relationship as anybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:16 AM
1

Women were also forced to do deadly jobs until their bodies broke. Remember the radium girls where they made radioactive watches until their jaws literally fell off? Remember the triangle shirt waist factory fire where mostly female workers were locked in and left to die to prevent them going on breaks? Now add in the expectation to give birth until you die on top of all that. No one got punished for doing anything to their wives. If anything it was common to spend the money they made on alcohol…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:52 AM
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How so? They controlled their own finances. They were allowed to have prestigious positions and education. They weren’t at the mercy of their wives like wives were at the mercy of their husbands. They were considered normal human beings. Not a misshapen inferior creature made to be property.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:09 AM
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You are oppressed if you are not allowed to choose your life for yourself and placed under the complete control of another person. And you are certainly hated if you are considered morally and intellectually inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:35 PM
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Women did not stay in the home. They worked in many fields. They just typically did not control their own finances. And don’t bullshit about it not being hate when religious texts all over the place explicitly hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:09 PM
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Aww. Are you completely passive? Women just shouldn’t select men at all if this is how they behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 05:00 AM
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Not really. Maternal morality rate is lower is most developed nations. And they don’t have as many guns either. So lower murder rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:18 AM
2

In the US murder is more common than obstetric causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:43 AM
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The older ways of thinking are based on hatred towards women. Misogyny results in real world violence and oppression. Misandry results it people saying mean things on the internet. They are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:39 AM
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Really? They wouldn’t just convulse trust men commit more crimes? No one is advocating for castration. Don’t be ridiculous. There are actual bills out there to legalize murdering women that have abortions. There are people actually advocating removing the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:34 AM
1

That’s a lot of propaganda against women everywhere else. Women don’t value themselves there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:52 PM
8

And whenever they want is not very much at all with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:17 AM
6

You can keep them. Those gifts ain’t free.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:24 PM
14

Women don’t travel for sex. They don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:22 PM
9

Women don’t travel to hook up. And why go to a hostel when we can go to a hotel and not put up with strangers? Women tend to travel with friends for safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:20 PM
0

So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:37 PM
1

You mean in an incubator not another person’s body? That’s birth. You do realize the limit for abortion is when the it can survive outside of the body right? Not counting procedures done because the baby is missing organs and such and won’t survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:32 PM
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Her words used for satire. Are men and women treated differently? Do men generally have more authority than women in most societies throughout history? That’s patriarchy, baby. Also known as machismo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:28 PM
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But patriarchy has and still does exist. That’s undeniable. Male collective guilt is some sort of bogey man that’s haunting your dreams though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:17 PM
2

Patriarchy and collective guilt of men are not the same thing. Do you deny men and women are treated differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:12 PM
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That’s what she was doing. You know that are pretending that you don’t. If her proposals horrify you then you should be horrified by how women are treated too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:10 PM
2

No. It’s not. And you know it’s not. Bodily autonomy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:09 PM
8

That’s not a feminist concept. It’s satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:08 PM
8

Plenty of funny rape jokes exist. Go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:07 PM
10

Abortion is illegal in many places. Child marriage is legal in many places. Divorce is illegal in many places. I don’t doubt state ordained impregnating programs are possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:07 PM
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It’s satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:05 PM
1

So? That has nothing to do with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:05 PM
7

You know very well what she’s doing and are pretending that you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:04 PM
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She said nothing wrong. If men having their bodies policed outrages you then you should feel that way about women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:03 PM
2

Bodily autonomy is from the feminist textbook. Collective male guilt is a bogey man invented by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:01 PM
5

Is not an excuse. It’s satire. That’s is explicitly the case. You are deliberately misrepresenting her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:59 PM
6

No such thing as unborn kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:57 PM
8

Nah. It was meant to sound abhorrent to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:57 PM
6

Joking to show that men shouldn’t have their voting rights taken away either? That would be fine then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:57 PM
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The point is that women are being treated that way right now. But when men are treated in dehumanizing ways it strikes a nerve. Maybe women shouldn’t treated that way either? Your example would be just fine if it was used to make a similar point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:54 PM
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No it’s doesn’t. Feminism supports bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:45 PM
1

Because it’s a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:44 PM
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Don’t be ridiculous. You know what you’re doing. You know she’s not being serious. And you know this is not “established feminist doctrine”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:42 PM
1

Right. It’s the validation. Which is anthropologically interesting to me since it used to be that men expected women to be with them for money and resources almost exclusively. And this was validating for them. Would you accept that or does it have to be based on attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:11 PM
1

Using another person as a garbage can for semen?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:21 PM
1

Education spending has everything to do with outcomes. The issue is where the money goes. Without oversight it often goes to administration or worse, to sports. It needs to go to teacher pay, educational materials, and reducing class sizes. I don’t buy the narrative that women grade boys unfairly. Girls have been outpacing boys in the classroom since the 1950s. I do think boys need more role models in school though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:07 PM
1

Find something else to give you validation other than the use of another persons body to secrete fluids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:44 PM
1

Want to die and actually die are different things. It’s the psychological fixation on validation. Not a physiological need.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:21 PM
1

No you don’t. There are plenty of people that have never had sex and are fine. I think we would all be better off without it. Its this bizarre fixation people have on it that is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:53 AM
1

You don’t die from lack of sex. Find other things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:38 AM
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He was convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:23 PM
1

Your fault for not choosing better then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:53 PM
1

You’re making the more extreme claim that poverty and mental illness don’t result in suffering. Abortion is the responsible choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:02 PM
5

You can always just choose nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:44 AM
5

Red flags. Not the difficulty of leaving an abusive situation. The red flags are well known by that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:37 AM
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That’s not what the conversation has ever been about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:59 PM
3

That’s because of their extroversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:58 PM
11

So then men should listen to women, right? Why is it that when the bystander men talk about abusers they always say they never expected it because he was such a nice guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:57 PM
12

Oh boy. The hypocrisy. Rules for ther but not for me. Red flags are almost never easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:56 PM
9

I don’t think you were at fault. People don’t know what they don’t know. Are you advocating for beta bux? And you realize Billy the accountant can be just as bad, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:55 PM
1

You first. You provide data that children are just fine in impoverished circumstances. Or to parents that are mentally ill or traumatized themselves. My experiences are not just my own. Several in my family and my community have suffered the same. It’s better to take the side of caution and not bring people into a family that’s is not prepared to care for and love them. Children should be planned. Not made to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:56 PM
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There’s a lot more examples of people who don’t want children or even quite a few who do want children who grow to abuse and resent the child. That’s what happened to my brother and I when our mom didn’t want us but had us anyway. That’s what happened to mom when grandma didn’t want her. That’s what happened to grandma with her mom too. All forced to have kids by their families all miserable and hateful because of it. Most people don’t qualify to be parents. Stop spreading misery in this world. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:25 PM
1

So just break up then. No big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:43 PM
2

Most relationships are not dead bedrooms. And half are the men being uninterested. Relationships end because everything ends. Nothing lasts forever. That’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:11 PM
5

Yes. A relationship generally includes fucking unless they are ace.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:37 PM
3

Being brought into a family that resents you and does not want you is a life of suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:36 PM
8

No. The definition of husband material is the same as yours of wifey material. This is someone I want to spend my life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:33 PM
3

It’s usually an embryo. Not even a fetus yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:07 AM
3

That’s even more absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:06 AM
13

It’s not possible to be an unborn child. You have to be born to be a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:41 PM
8

So they should just be brought into existence to suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:24 PM
10

No such thing. It’s a contradiction in terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:23 PM
2

Would they live if they are still in the womb in that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:03 PM
3

Don’t you think it’s heartless to bring a child into this world only so they can suffer being resented by their family?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:55 PM
4

That doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:54 PM
4

When I was able to be alive outside of the womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:47 PM
6

You heartless monster. I hope you understand that a child cannot live without love. They should never be accidents. My mother did not want me and abused me terribly for it. Just like her mother did not want her and did the same. Children should never be born unwanted. That’s true evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:46 PM
1

That’s an activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:39 PM
3

It’s not a child. It’s clump of cells. Imagine how irresponsible you have to be to allow that condition to become one if you aren’t completely certain you have the resources or emotional maturity to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:39 PM
5

People should have all the consensual sex they want. And protection can fail. I really do look forward to the day when babies are born in labs only.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:37 PM
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Failures can happen. Medical complications can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:35 PM
5

Globally about 1 in 4 pregnancies end in abortion. About 1/3 of women in the US have had one. Good. Having children should be carefully planned not just a consequence of failed birth control methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:34 PM
3

It’s a part of a woman’s body. Not a separate human.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:31 PM
6

I think it’s evil to bring people into this world unwanted. They will only suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:28 PM
3

It is only a child when it’s born. Before that it is a medical condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:25 PM
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Because children are expensive and pregnancy is a horrible thing that leaves lifelong health complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:24 PM
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The women who have abortions are making a good, responsible choice. The women who keep unwanted pregnancies are idiots that are spreading more pain into this world. Yeah children are weak defenseless creatures who trust their momma with everything. This is why most people are not qualified to have children. They should have the self awareness to accept that and abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:21 PM
2

Ok. So? Extravagant bullshit is just a waste. Not happy? Break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:26 PM
9

Ok. Not happy? Break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:25 PM
2

This isn’t about sex acts. She’s not getting off at all. The post is deleted but according to a quote from one of the comments she hasn’t had an orgasm in 5 years. Would a man find this acceptable? The solution is no sex in either case. So fine. He can have it his way and no sex then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:32 PM
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I read the discussion you posted. The issue isn’t that he won’t have sex with her. It’s that he’s using her as a sex toy. They’re right. He’s disgusting! That is entitlement on the part of the man not the woman. Why should she put up with sex if she gets nothing out of it? If he’s doesn’t cares about her orgasm they just shouldn’t be having any sex at all. That’s would be just fine. Way to misrepresent your stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:43 PM
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Sex is stupid. I don’t care who complains about it. If grading is such a problem maybe increase teacher pay so that more men will be interested in teaching. But we won’t because the department of education is being gutted and they’re looking into AI to replace everything. Despite the Cold War people were very optimistic about the future. The economy was booming and we really believed the best was yet to come. You work hard and you get everything you need was a common attitude. We were seriously …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:06 PM
2

That’s isn’t true at all. Reducing economic inequality is good for everyone and will reduce the pressure for men to succeed in this capitalist hell scape. The majority of men’s problems are economic in nature And no. Your example is not comparable. Women suffer greatly without abortion. Women go into poverty. Women die. Women were not happier when they had fewer rights. That’s like saying crime increases with ice cream sales. Correlation is not causation. Everyone is worse off now because we are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:12 PM
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If you’re using a vagina to orgasm you’re not doing it by yourself. If women have to rub one out when you’re done then they’re just masturbating. But if you really feel that you get nothing from the woman then please understand that sex is not important and you really don’t need to have sex at all! I would love men to accept this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:28 PM
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This is spoken about constantly. The dilution is for men to listen to be vulnerable with other men. It used to be standard that best buddies were emotional lifelines. Too bad we moved away from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:57 PM
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If women have to orgasm all by themselves what is the point of sex? You’re not doing your part. You’re just using her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:56 PM
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One woman that wasn’t even a feminist murdering a man is not an indictment on feminism especially when you consider the all the murders in the world of men against women. Legalizing rape will reduce rape? That’s the craziest thing I’ve ever heard. Incels want to rape. If they can’t have that they want to murder. It’s what they are known for almost exclusively. Telling men they should get vasectomies so that they don’t have to pay child support is not a forced vasectomy. A forced vasectomy is whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:50 PM
1

Sure. But how do you really want to fix it? Most suicide are a matter of economic insecurity. Ending the soul crushing machine of capitalism would be a good way to start don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:03 PM
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I don’t know, Kevin. Maybe we should encourage men to value the appearance of their corpse and maybe they’ll use pills too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:37 PM
1

So you agree we should ban guns to protect men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:16 PM
1

Violent methods are considered masculine and women want what they imagine will be peaceful deaths with minimal mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:07 PM
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The worst I’ve heard from incels are murder plots, legalized rape, legalized pedophilia, the erosion of human rights for women etc. I don’t know where you’re getting forced vasectomies from. The worst I’ve ever seen from feminists is building a female only commune.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:43 PM
2

10% is a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:14 PM
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Yeah. Because they don’t tend to use pills. They use guns or rope. The elevated suicide taste isn’t admitted more suffering. It’s about methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:11 PM
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The majority of male suicide cases are driven by economic concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:07 PM
1

It’s definitely a society issue and it’s caused by late stage capitalism and access to firearms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:00 PM
1

Guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:59 AM
2

Feminists aren’t saying men go crazy when they can’t get laid. Men say that. Feminists think men can live just fine without sex if they try.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:49 AM
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Then they should learn to let go of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:44 AM
0

So no real answer, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:39 AM
2

“Physical intimacy” is not about loneliness. You want physical intimacy? Go get a hug. You want to nut inside someone’s body? That’s what sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:07 AM
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Men’s issues such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:26 PM
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Men’s issues can be solved by democratic socialism. Unless men’s issues are all about access to sex. Which is just asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:25 PM
4

Sex does not alleviate loneliness. Talking to people does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:17 PM
4

No it’s not. Go masturbate is the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:16 PM
7

You’re not a baby. Go hug your friends if you need body contact so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:16 PM
13

They are still an issue. Women’s rights are still being questioned just because we are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:37 PM
1

How are they ignoring it? Misogynists admit to all of it. They are mad that women don’t want to fuck them or have their kids or be subservient to them. It’s not an assumption. So if we believe misogynists at their word then why shouldn’t we believe misandrists at their word?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:02 PM
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Sex is not supposed to be a chore. It’s about both participants. If one is not in the mood it’s not happening. Don’t have kids if you don’t like being too tired for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:38 AM
3

This is a joke, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:46 PM
8

Yeah so? There will also be a man protecting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:02 PM
10

That’s weddings. Men here obsess about having a woman that belongs to him in his mind. Most conservative men seem to do this. It’s the surest access to sex for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:43 PM
2

No one needs to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:55 PM
3

Nothing wrong with not committing. Are either of them abusive or controlling?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:48 PM
3

They don’t have telepathy either. They love the manipulator just as much as anyone else. They are blindsided just like everyone else and never believe such a “great guy” can be an abuser. The best thing a woman can do is weed out conservatives. That’s the best clue we are ever going to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:42 PM
2

Honestly they were most likely neurodivergent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:41 PM
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And how would anyone know what kind of man he’s going to be until they try him out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:13 PM
3

And how do you expect to activate telepathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:17 PM
3

No one personally broncos from evolutionary strategy. Raising a child is about emotional fulfillment. Passing on genes makes no one particularly happy. Women don’t typically just become single moms by choice. Unless they’re going for a sperm donor and most of those are well off. A large number of single moms are divorced. How are they going to abort an 8 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:17 PM
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It very clearly is much better. More choice. More freedom. Fewer murders. Fewer suicides. That’s what being trapped gets people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:43 AM
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Everyone that’s roasting you here for one. You whine and moan about the lack of love and then you admit you done see them as equals. That’s a prerequisite. Then you claim they have to have children to prove they love you and you do what? Work a job you already have to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:19 PM
1

I would say the same about yours. People are not supposed to be trapped in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:17 PM
1

I would absolutely claim that. People aren’t trapped together anymore. People want relationships out of love and not survival. That’s definitely better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:33 AM
1

What sacrifice? They’re the ones doing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:31 AM
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You can’t love someone that you don’t regard as your equal. You just want them to sacrifice themselves for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:39 AM
1

Nothing lasts forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:20 AM
2

There are no certainties in life. Why should this be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:20 AM
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Or she could just marry a man that doesn’t want kids. I’d sounds to me like you just want them as proof of her loyalty and not for you to put in the work of raising them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:18 AM
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Y’all really don’t understand consent, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:45 PM
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Being seen as sexy and being seen as an object are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:40 PM
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He came and went. It was Ronald Reagan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:11 PM
1

You mean like in the Hallmark movies where there’s always a nice family man running a Christmas tree farm? They have those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:50 PM
1

Because they always end with her taming him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:42 PM
1

Billionaires? Dude, one of the most popular fandoms is about a goofy middle aged demon with a soft heart and a fussy middle aged angel that bicker like an old married couple. In the fanfiction they get it on in every which way imaginable. They like their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:20 PM
2

Male attention is threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:05 PM
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What gets women off is sensation. The depiction of pleasure or the description of it. The fact that you have a need to frame yaoi as sinister is really telling. You are working from the final goal of women bad and then twisting everything in that direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:00 PM
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So in visual porn they like women. In fanfiction they like men. And in commercial porn they like the heteros. Women are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:27 PM
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The richest man in the world and he had to “choose” IVF. Interesting. Maybe women being interested in lesbian porn means that you shouldn’t trust women around your wife then. Lol Women have a very reactive sexuality. The visuals are not the focus. It is about the details of the pleasure or the details of the relationship if they like the characters. They do seek out porn for themselves and it is largely written porn. And the written porn is very often about men having sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:50 PM
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No. Women do not want men being interested in them in the same way men want women to be interested in them. The equivalent would be men being interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:35 PM
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Elon Musk’s kids are from IVF. The mothers are essentially surrogates who agreed to have them for pay. No one likes him. Fantasies are often a result of taboos. Not a reflection of what anyone wants. Or do you think most men are really interested in incest considering how common it is in porn? Woman like amateur porn when it is made with them in mind. It’s not as available as the lesbian porn. You would never watch gay porn because you have plenty of porn made for you. When women want porn it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:34 PM
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Dating. Is . Not. Money. Sex is not a resource. It’s an activity. One with the potential to be severely traumatic and dangerous. Women are not going to give up sex for men they don’t want. Not anymore. Elon Musk is not hot. Fantasies are just fantasies. They are exciting and safe. Lesbian porn is the only porn category with any focus on female pleasure rather than female humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:51 PM
1

But would you put up with men being weird to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:50 PM
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Analogies don’t work. Getting laid as a woman and getting laid as a man are not the same. Getting laid for men is positive. Getting laid for women is more of a mixed feelings kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:21 PM
2

Y’all can talk to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:19 PM
1

Men in your DMs as a woman mostly feel threatening. Not complimentary. And I think most men feel the same way. Women in your DMs as a woman mostly feel complimentary. These things are not equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:18 PM
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Men would kill for the insane privilege of random men in your dms? Really??? I doubt that. Women would not mind at all having random women in their dms complimenting them. These things are not equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:25 PM
2

All sexuality is genitalia rubbing and by definition very silly. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:21 PM
2

Should she date men that are not hot? What would be the point of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:18 PM
2

I’ve been reading this shit longer than most of you have ever even heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:35 PM
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They say treat women like they are the oldest teenagers in the house. Even though women usually manage the house and everyone’s needs. To the point that there are men that go to the dentist and don’t even know why they are there because his wife makes all the appointments like he’s a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:34 PM
4

The majority? Most people are not successful with any of this and then wise up or turn to black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:32 PM
3

That’s a bleak way to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:31 PM
4

Negging and treating your SO like everything they say is worthless are social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:50 PM
4

Red pill advice is bullying and manipulation. The fitness stuff is common sense that everyone will tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:17 PM
4

The best age for women to have a child is in her 30s when her education is done and her career is on track. That is if she even wants a child at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:54 PM
5

Hotter than Beyoncé?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 01:47 PM
2

From an ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 01:46 PM
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It’s barely there. Most of the time it’s a gag.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:50 PM
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Then why are they there? It’s not called a money shot for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:23 PM
1

To society? No. To the Epstein class that rules over us all however…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:52 PM
1

But other people have. That’s what the I don’t need men thing is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:46 PM
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That’s right. You didn’t. But when women say they don’t need men that’s the idea they are against. The very common belief that women exist to marry and serve a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:45 PM
2

It’s not provided only by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:42 PM
2

There are women in every industry. There are male child care providers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:15 PM
2

As a collective interested in keeping the species alive? Sure. But does every individual person have to marry? No. But until relatively recently women were considered worthless and pathetic if they didn’t. Unless she’s a nun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:13 PM
1

Right. But that’s the point. They don’t need to get married for any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:11 PM
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Practically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:31 PM
1

Ok. Needing a man means needing money though. That’s how traditional relationships work. What you’re describing is wanting someone to be desperately infatuated with you. It’s more of a want than a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:04 AM
4

No. How so? Women had no choice but to marry for thousands of years. Now they don’t have to do that. They just need to make money and pay for stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:13 AM
3

For money. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:44 AM
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Yeah. That’s why they don’t want to do it. The former group of men is taking credit and pride in another persons labor. The second group of women is saying no thanks, that sucks, not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:46 PM
3

When women say they don’t need men they don’t mean they don’t need workers. They mean they don’t need sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:45 PM
3

Hooray for beta bux then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:41 PM
4

Are you sure about that? Boomers had marriages, but they are not known for being happy in their marriages. Getting married and having kids is just what you did because everyone did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:40 PM
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Anthropological interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:11 PM
1

Ok. So men want women’s bodies and women’s service. We know. Not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:59 PM
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How much they lust after women’s beauty you mean. And if you think women can’t also lust like that you haven’t seen fanart and fanfic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:25 AM
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They never used to. It was a financial agreement. No one pretended to be in love. Now love is a factor. Or people can just pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:58 AM
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Holy shit that is a hilarious thing to say considering the treatment of women throughout all of human history. No, love was never an interest of part of the deal. It was for sex and breeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:45 PM
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You understand I was supporting you here right? Because the right circumstances is usually being a man because they tend to be filled with entitlement and rage. Any man a woman is with has the potential to be a danger. No such thing as a perfectly safe man or choosing perfectly unlike what these guys believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:39 PM
1

Sex with a woman. Love was not a consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:42 PM
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Under the right circumstances anyone is capable of anything. It’s impossible to predict. Only way to win is not to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:40 PM
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Oh y’all think you’re the good men? The good men are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:36 PM
1

It’s not a need. It’s pretty worthless honestly unless you want a kid. Please explain how people feel about sex doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 01:07 AM
1

I’m not making an argument. I’m asking you to make yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:25 PM
2

They don’t seem to realize that they will be brutalized almost immediately in any post apocalyptic scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:16 PM
2

Success in any endeavor is mostly luck. Capitalism is rigged and based mostly on the circumstances of birth. Dating is also based mostly on circumstances of birth. The difference is that dating is frivolous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:14 PM
1

Please keep going. Explain how people feel about the sex they have doesn’t matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:11 PM
1

Sounds like petty whining to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:45 PM
2

People say that. But then how do we know unless they report it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:50 PM
1

Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:08 AM
1

An experience of mutual trauma and disgust. Which is fine by you at long as sex is had. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:41 AM
3

Domestic violence rates are through the roof for bi women with male partners. And 1/3rd of lesbians were reporting abuse from male partners too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:09 AM
1

“Misery loves company” sex. Oh joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:56 AM
1

Ah. Mutually traumatic and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:35 AM
1

I stand by what I said. And of course the prostitute will sleep around before marrying them. And afterwards as well. It’s always been the case. That’s traditional marriage for you. You seem to think there will be some revolution of the “undesirables”. Cute. You’re not as numerous or daring as you think. Keep dreaming though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:35 AM
1

No matter how traumatic or disgusting the experience is, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:49 AM
2

Yes. And the government would compensate. No problem. Coercion is rape. Sex out of desperation is rape. Marriage for security and resources is prostitution. Undesirable men should accept sexlessness because no one really wants them. They can be a beta bux to a prostitute if they want. But that’s all they can get. Which has been most marriages in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:48 AM
1

You invented penicillin, bro? A mutual experience is one both want to have. If people are not attracted to the other person then it’s not a mutual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:40 AM
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You didn’t invent or build anything. People are perfectly happy to give houses and penicillin to the government to distribute as long as they get paid. Selfish people? You literally want to take people’s bodies away from them because you want an “experience”. That’s as selfish as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:34 AM
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They are things that are created. They are made for people to take. People’s bodies are not made for people to take. You can’t just use another persons body. What consequences? If people only have sex to avoid consequences then that’s rape. If people have sex for money that’s prostitution. What’s good for the many is the acceptance of sexlessness for the undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:29 AM
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Too bad. You don’t get access to other people’s bodies only your own. You’re not making any sense. I never want sex ever. If I “give a lot of it” then I’d be having sex. Why would I ever want to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:26 AM
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The house is a thing. Plenty exist already. Medicine is a thing. Medical devices are things. I meant insulin. Auto correct made a bad choice. Toast are things. Ok so you are advocating for rape. Healthy dating is when people can say no thanks. I’d rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:22 AM
0

Sex is not important in the slightest. People would be better off without it honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:19 AM
4

A house is a thing. A new hip is a thing. Insulting is a thing. They are resources. Oil and coal is also produced and extracted by people. Those are resources still. Are you asking for government prostitutes then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:15 AM
2

They died from malnourishment and exposure too. They still do. Sex is not important and it is not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:07 AM
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I doubt get what you mean by not being entitled to labor. No one is asking them to do it for free. The government pays them. Housing, oil, coal, and money are resources. Money that buys healthcare. I don’t get what you’re advocating for here. Are you trying to legalize rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:58 PM
3

Ok. You want a prostitute? Maybe UBI can help with that. Which part is being referred to in the second paragraph? Healthcare or housing? Either way, the government can pay people for birth of those things. It’s not like they are given for free. Sex is not a resource. No one owes you access to their body. Stop obsessing over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:01 PM
4

Being malnourished leads to health complications. Oh no! You’re missing out on an experience? What a medical emergency. I’ve never been to Disneyland. Do I deserve pity?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:50 PM
5

Umm. Yes. People do die from being hungry and malnourished. Just go masturbate. You’ll be fine. Suicide rates are more about financial troubles than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:44 PM
6

You’re not going to die from lack of sex. You don’t even suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:30 PM
9

The money needed to properly access medical services is a resource. Other countries have it figured out. The US is deliberately cruel on this front. Housing is absolutely a resource and there is plenty to go around. Don’t be dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:29 PM
10

Sexless? Virgin? Tomayto. Tomahto. If you’re not a virgin then you’re not sexless. No debt? In this economy? Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:19 PM
17

No. Most young men are not virgins. And once again, sex is not a resource. No one owes you their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:04 PM
7

Most men are workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:00 PM
12

They’re making the world a more fair place for workers. Sorry you worship the billionaire class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:47 PM
8

So you want women to stop trying to make the world a better place with less injustice and suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:41 PM
24

JFC. Sex is not a resource. It’s an activity that no one should ever be ok pressured into. Money is a resource being hoarded by people at the top from the labor of people that actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:38 PM
0

Hey man, you’re the one with the oedipal complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:20 PM
-1

So say the gender that can’t handle being celibate. So women should go for beta bux? Got it. Would you like to marry a woman you’re not attracted to if she was a good caregiver? What is the point of marrying an unattractive person? Better to be alone isn’t it? It’s so weird that guys assume all handsome men are abusive and all ugly men are saints.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:08 PM
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Men want women around for sex. So there’s that. Also, dangerous jobs are done by men because they pay well without a degree. More women should have the opportunity if they want it. I don’t see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:45 PM
3

All the more reason to never date men. They want a woman to be their mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:08 PM
2

Why should she choose that “friend” if she’s not attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:06 PM
1

The baby boom was awful. It got us the boomers…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:03 PM
1

So you agree? Everyone is bad and it’s best to just never look for a relationship because the odds of finding a good one are so small it’s not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:45 AM
1

As I said I don’t date. I hate being touched. My concern is always for other victims. And no. Bad people are not their own flavor. As in what people call the Anna Karenina principle, good people are all alike but bad people are bad in their own way. And they know how to hide it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:28 AM
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I’ve never once seen the men of the manosphere blame that man nor men ever take responsibility for choosing their bitch of a wife. I still maintain that bad people come in all flavors and you can’t plan for crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:57 AM
2

Uh huh. Sure you are. Women learning to be cautious is not the same as blaming you. So many men here say women should learn responsibility for choosing bad men and then get mad when women try to be careful. Oh but you’re not a bad man? How would they know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:25 AM
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Once again. The responsibility is in the person committing the crime. How can a persons character be judged when they dedicate themselves to hiding who they are? I don’t date. I’m autistic. I can’t read people very well. I don’t expect it from other people either. Social cues seem like nonsense. I wonder if you hold the same standard for men who lose everything in divorce. They should have judged her character, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:22 AM
2

No. All of the responsibility lies with the abuser. People are not mind readers. People can’t predict the future. It’s impossible to know. It takes a lot to leave an abusive relationship because when you try to leave is when you are in the most danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:05 AM
1

No it’s isn’t because they will defend him and say he would never do that just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:42 AM
1

No. One is abusing the other. The responsibility is in the abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:40 AM
2

Women get generalizations all the time. Constantly. But when the shore is on the other foot you cry about it. Yeah not all men. But enough men to show a pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:28 PM
3

What other negative outcome ones do women get? Getting rejected? Meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:27 PM
5

You’re not responsible for the scammers actions. Especially when it’s impossible to know it’s a scam until you’ve been scammed. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:11 PM
2

People venting on the internet bothers you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:02 PM
6

Because the “negative experience” is usually just being rejected or ghosted. Not being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:01 PM
2

Sounds like you got a weak spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:58 PM
2

Can’t know if they’re bad men until you engage 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:57 PM
3

Sometimes. And sometimes they end up not being great partners. Can’t know until you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:54 PM
4

So women have agency to not date and they should stop dating because when they have negative experiences they vent and this bothers you for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:47 PM
2

So men are to blame because they are bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:43 PM
2

Not really. One guy I’m talking to claims women are to blame because they date men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:39 PM
3

And you say it’s by not dating men because men are bad and that is women’s fault somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:35 PM
2

Ok. So men bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:34 PM
4

Ok. So you are saying “men bad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:26 PM
2

That negative outcome is abuse. But OP said that’s not it. So what is it? People have no control over another persons actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:25 PM
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Is no one’s fault. Is just unfortunate for the man. You don’t want advice on how to avoid it? Ok. Maybe you can’t avoid it. I don’t know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:23 PM
3

What choices? Her choice of dating men at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:21 PM
3

OP didn’t mention any bad outcomes. It sounds to me like you’re upset about people venting about bad dates as if it has anything to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:20 PM
5

What outcomes? Once again, no one is to blame for another person’s actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:15 PM
2

Hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:15 PM
6

So stop trying? Ok. Most women are going to try to find the needle in the haystack. They might find it. Or give up. That’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:13 PM
6

The only suitable change would then be to stop dating entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:12 PM
7

Nah. Rejection is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:10 PM
3

How do they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:10 PM
7

They choose men they are attracted to. There is no purpose or incentive in choosing men they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:09 PM
2

What actions are we referring to here? We thought it was abuse but apparently it’s not that. Men aren’t being blamed as a group. But once bitten. Twice shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:04 PM
10

People have every right to reject someone. No one has a right to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:03 PM
5

Women. To change what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:57 PM
7

Nope. Human freedom is a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:56 PM
10

They are. Women are more and more comfortable not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:56 PM
6

That’s advice. Men ask advice and they are given advice. What else are we as we supposed to say? Sucks to be you and move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:55 PM
2

Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:54 PM
6

People are not accountable for other people’s actions. You are accountability dodging. Every accusation really is a confession isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:54 PM
10

Rejecting someone is not a bad thing to do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:50 PM
5

Imperfect methods. The only way to win is not to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:50 PM
7

To change how?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:49 PM
3

Of men. Men are responsible for those.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:47 PM
7

Accountability for men’s actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:47 PM
6

What else could you possibly mean? You know perfectly well women are blamed for being in an abusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:46 PM
3

Like what negative outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:42 PM
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Men can’t attract women and they are blamed? No. They’re just unfortunate or unlucky. Unless they’re actually doing something wrong like trying to attract women with a verbal dissertation on the Turner Diaries or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:42 PM
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People are not mind readers. No one is responsible for another persons actions. Why should women be responsible for men’s actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:38 PM
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Why else would she?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:42 PM
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Cause it’s endearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:34 PM
1

If he’s controlling the woman then why is he planning dates for her majesty’s amusement? Also, is said strong man doing his chores without being told like an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:07 PM
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Lovers implies fun and good vibes. Can’t have that with someone bossing you around. I don’t know what you mean by the man setting the pace of the relationship or how a relationship even has a pace. People just have conversations like friends do. Lovers are friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:58 PM
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On the contrary. They’re always the ones having to tell the men to do his job. Do the dishes, take out the garbage, mow the lawn. As relationships progress the husband turns into a teenage boy with a mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:56 PM
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No. It’s gross. A relationship is a friendship. You’re supposed to be buddies. Anyway. The woman is the master when the man courts her and sets up dates to amuse her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:31 AM
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No. When she demands that he set up a date to cater to her it’s “obey me”. He’s doing as he’s told. Like a good little servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:29 AM
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Amuse me now. Chop chop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:06 PM
3

It’s not providing direction. It’s providing amusement. Providing direction in the relationship as a leader would be ordering her around and telling her they are going to live together or get married at this specific date or they’re going to break up. Or telling her she can’t go out to girls night. She can’t talk to her male friends. My way or the highway stuff. Being a leader and not a partner is bad. I don’t think the servant/jester stage is any better either. Hanging out should be. There’s th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:05 PM
1

I don’t date. So no. And the reason women go for it is because men have to convince them they are worth their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:17 PM
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To placate, charm. and amuse. It’s being a servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:17 PM
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All that dating stuff, the planning, the paying, the courtship is not leadership. It’s service.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:45 PM
3

If their major concern is being expected to be the primary bread winner then yes, capitalism and income inequality are the biggest issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:22 PM
1

The natural ultimate goal is a good time. That’s what money is for too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:46 AM
1

Lots of people become DINKs, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:45 AM
1

Sure. But the stereotype that the majority of men are in stem and the majority of women are in humanities is a myth. The most common are business. Men go into humanities more than stem. And women go into medicine, nursing, or pharmacy more often than the humanities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:01 PM
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It’s about 60/40 women to men. Not twice as many. There are also more men in social sciences than tech and engineering. Men overall study 25% stem compared to 75% anything else. Men aren’t stem lords.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:36 PM
2

In the US? Government benefits? Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:54 PM
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The majority of people in the US study business, medicine, social sciences, biology, and psychology. There are more men in social sciences and business than in tech. There are more women in medicine or business than in humanities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:47 PM
-1

No one has ever said appearance doesn’t matter. They said being interesting can make up for appearance in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:13 PM
1

So she should have sex with that guy just because she knows him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:10 PM
1

It’s not improbable that women will die from needing an abortion. It happens everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:07 PM
1

I’m saying all of you would look better if you wore make up like actors do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:24 AM
1

As we are so will you be. Hopefully y’all start wearing make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:33 PM
7

True for women. Not directly true for men. They dress for women. Whom they want to have sex with to impress other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:12 PM
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All to attract women. Women have high standards now that men have to meet. Dance! Dance!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:00 PM
3

I’m from a Cuban family. You better believe the gender bullshit there was terrifying. The idea of my father dating was laughable to him. He offered women money and they agreed to be a bang maid. Three marriages with 2 kids each marriage wrecked when they dared to ask him take care of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:44 PM
1

I’m ace. No thanks on any of that. Men and women of your parents generation DESPISED each other. That’s where we get the boomer hate my wife jokes. Women were not seen as fully human. Not even by women themselves. People married for economic needs. Liking each other was not in the cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:12 PM
9

Sarcasm tag missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:16 PM
3

So then they do monkey branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:12 PM
7

What do you call a 50 year old man jumping to a younger woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:00 PM
6

That’s oddly specific to you don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:58 PM
8

Take care of your responsibilities. Take care of your home. Take care of your health. Don’t expect other people to parent you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:43 PM
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No. It implies being a caregiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:10 PM
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What’s money have to do with it? Women don’t want to be a mom to a grown man. We don’t want to clean up after you and set up your doctor’s appointments. We don’t want to do all the chores while men play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:07 PM
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That’s a bizarre concept of childhood. I don’t think most kids shave their head unless they’re like Calvin from Calvin and Hobbes. And how does a kid set up a rocket company?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:04 PM
2

One of the most common porn categories is incest porn…what should we take away from that about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:04 PM
1

I don’t date. I’m going by conversations with women that do. And they assume ALL men think like that. The jocks and the nerds. So they go with it. It is commonly accepted wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:33 PM
1

Most men will consider her for the streets and throw her in the garbage. That’s why sex on the first date is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:29 PM
1

Because they think that’s implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:22 PM
1

Yeah. They want to lock that one down not throw him in the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:20 PM
1

Do you have any idea how hard that is to find? Those are the ones women want to lock down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:16 PM
1

Not necessarily. From what I understand, they’re hookup material because the women are bored and they can forget about them easily enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:14 PM
1

Them being a stupid himbo whore, typically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:07 PM
1

Well yeah. It is surprising that “I love you and want you all to myself forever” is an insult. Hookups are disposable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:53 PM
1

So that are telling you directly that you’re not hook up material? Are they just not sleeping with you on the first date? How do you know they never do that anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:00 PM
1

Are you expecting women to be rude enough to tell you that you are less attractive than other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:58 PM
2

Everyone lies to make each other feel good. Not even just in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:55 PM
2

It’s ok to think it. Lots of people do. I don’t think anyone says it just no one actually says that Chad was better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:54 PM
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That shiny pick up owned by a rich guy is not being used for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:39 AM
1

And if none of those red flags exist and things go to shit anyway as is usually the case? Waiting until marriage is stupid. Then you get really surprised like the dumb Christians and Mormons living with abusers. The best thing to do is date for YEARS before it gets to that point and find out what they are like to live with and what they are like in a crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:59 PM
2

There is some drinkable swamp water. Swamps can act like water purification systems but it’s hard to figure out which is which.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:57 PM
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Wow you put a lot of words into my mouth. Ugly men are not en masse good men just by virtue of being ugly. And yeah, a lot of them are resentful. And they’re not attractive so why should women give men they are not attracted to a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:55 PM
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And a lot of the time they seem fine then turn out to be unreliable at best once the kids are a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:24 PM
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It’s freaking impossible to figure out. Everyone thinks they’re good until things all go to shit. Then true colors come out. No one can ever tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:22 PM
1

Every human being is a potential monster. Under the right circumstances anyone is capable of anything good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:12 PM
1

How? Is it written on their forehead?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:07 PM
1

You have not backed those claims reasonably at all. You can’t compare pregnancy to paying money. So it doesn’t count because the state does it? Do you mean the government? Do you mean the not on the federal level? Either way I don’t see the point. People want men to pay for their kids. It is accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:56 PM
1

You can claim that about anything. Child support is also collectively accepted. It’s the law. No one is going to take your claim seriously if you claim bodily autonomy. You will be laughed out of court.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:29 PM
1

So is paying for the children you brought into this world. You don’t seem to understand the difference between financial autonomy and bodily autonomy. You want to make a claim that your financial autonomy is being violated? Ok. But don’t act like child support is the same as forced surgery or pregnancy. No one is ever going to take that seriously as an argument for abandoning your responsibility to your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:06 PM
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It’s almost impossible to tell a good man from bad. That’s why it’s swamp water. And don’t tell women ugly men are good men. They’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:35 PM
1

It’s does not come from your body. Taxation is not a violation of bodily autonomy and neither is paying so your own children don’t starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:29 PM
1

Not the same thing. Being taxed is not a violation of bodily autonomy and neither is having to pay so your own children don’t starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:27 PM
1

It balances things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:57 AM
2

That’s financial. Had nothing to do with the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:57 AM
2

So that a child he brought into this world can have what it needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:53 AM
2

Right. Because the horror of pregnancy occurs in their bodies. Biology is not fair. The law compensates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:46 AM
2

People shit out money in your world? Or what? Is it milked out of your teats?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:45 AM
1

Are your organs being sold? Are they conducting medical experiments in you? No? Then that’s your personal liberty not your body. I would much rather all children receive a UBI instead of depending on their fickle parents. I will gladly pay more taxes for that. But since we don’t have that then people that produced the child pay. In absence of UBI, I’d even go so far as to support a window where unmarried men can opt out as long as abortion access is increased everywhere and married/divorced/opt …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:44 AM
5

What is he selling a kidney?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:27 AM
3

Making money is not a product of your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:26 AM
2

Adopted parents will then be the parents. If the father wants the kid instead he can take it and the mother has to pay the child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:25 AM
2

That is not bodily autonomy. That’s financial autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:24 AM
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Money is not an organ or a product of your body. It’s just money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:23 AM
2

Your body is not being affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:22 AM
5

Right. The terrible process happens in their own bodies. The choice is theirs not yours. Once the baby is born it’s then a child and therefore more important than the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:12 AM
4

It’s jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:46 PM
2

Ok? So? Wouldn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:41 PM
6

Wouldn’t it be nice if everyone treated each other delicately?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:30 PM
5

But everyone opens doors for everyone else. It’s just courtesy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:29 PM
6

The ERA would have made selective service gender neutral. Conservatives defeated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:27 PM
1

I’m ace. Sex is objectively gross. It’s fine if that’s what consenting adults want to do. But it’s gross and owed to no one. It is often just demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:53 PM
1

Men see women as accessories for sex not as people. No one is owed sex. Sex is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:31 PM
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They are looking for attractive men or peaceful single life. What you are describing is in this subs terms the classic beta bux scenario. Older men are seen as useful. Not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:59 PM
1

Abuse of men is underreported because sex is pointless and gross? Men don’t value women either. They value vaginas and women are disgusted by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:27 PM
1

Because women don’t like sex all that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:20 PM
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Everyone agrees though. As far as heterosexuals go, sex with women? High demand. Sex with men? Low demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:17 PM
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The unfortunate real world where men throw tantrums over female protagonists and women can’t post an image celebrating her phd without being harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:40 PM
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People gravitate towards religion for the sake of community and hope. Women are more interested in the former and depending on the culture more in need of the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:06 PM
1

So what? Relationships don’t have to last forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:50 AM
1

Isn’t that just true? You can pick one up on any street.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:34 AM
2

That’s hilarious. Women can’t breathe in the direction of a man without men being offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:33 AM
1

Don’t threaten me with a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:19 AM
1

Not their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:17 AM
3

It’s is the height of maturity to enjoy independence. It’s the height of immaturity to need someone not even to be happy. Just to feel validated. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:16 AM
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Who decides that? Why should any woman care what men think her desirability match is? People like what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:13 AM
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There we go again. Taking credit for other people’s work. Women don’t have to be submissive to some customer service agent they are on a date with just because a couple of guys invented the airplane just like men don’t have to be submissive to a barista they’re on a date with just because women calculated the trajectory of the moon landing by hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:06 AM
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It’s not social media. People just like what they like. I don’t think porn distorts what men are attracted to either. I think what porn does for both men and women is normalize degrading sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:33 AM
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On social media everything is an apocalypse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:39 PM
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Really? Doesn’t seem like the women have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:16 PM
1

Their influence stretches to every bit of modern conservatism and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:38 PM
1

Financial dependence is not a good condition to be under. It is the biggest risk factor for abuse. And it certainly does not make up for lost wages or career advancement. Me can have it both ways. They can be fathers with no wage penalty. It is a joke to say there is no male privilege when that double standard exists. The Women are wonderful effect and the empathy gap are bullshit. It is a consequence of not being seen as a threat. It does not result in respect. Quite the contrary. Men are victi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:37 PM
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Financial dependence is not a good condition to be under. It is the biggest risk factor for abuse. And it certainly does not make up for lost wages or career advancement. Me can have it both ways. They can be fathers with no wage penalty. It is a joke to say there is no male privilege when that double standard exists. The Women are wonderful effect and the empathy gap are bullshit. It is a consequence of not being seen as a threat. It does not result in respect. Quite the contrary. Men are victi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:36 PM
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She was attracted to you and didn’t like your personality or interests. Not my type can mean that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:46 PM
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The current political climate including the manosphere and were orchestrated and influenced by Epstein through his influence on pol and Bannon’s on gamergate. Wage gap is still real. It exists as a motherhood penalty. Male privilege is undoubtedly real. Men are seen as the default and the only fully human people in most countries in the world. Rampant misogyny is absolutely real. Just look at what the people in power have been up to. Rampant sexual assault is real. Every woman has been the victi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:23 AM
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But that’s all the red pill is. Men advocating to other men to be amoral in dating. This includes lies, cheating, and manipulation. There is a big difference in lying about your past and lying about your intentions. A person’s sexual past is their own business. What they want out of a relationship actually affects you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:11 AM
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So say the people falling for psyops by Epstein and Steve Bannon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:54 AM
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There’s a difference between one night stands where everyone is on the same page and between straight up lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:51 AM
2

Evolutionary psychology is quackery with no way to prove or disprove its claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:41 PM
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It’s impossible to respect and appreciate someone you control or see as lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:43 PM
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Wanting to fuck a woman is not loving or cherishing them. It’s neutral at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:42 PM
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If this was for women’s protection then they would have been able to divorce at will. The biggest threat to a woman has always been her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:41 PM
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Ok. So religions can drop their outdated narratives then if what you are saying is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:40 PM
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Women are not children. Treating any adult like a child, be it for their gender or another race is undoubtedly hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:38 PM
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That’s hatred. Treating adult human beings as inferior is hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:37 PM
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Protected like children. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:31 PM
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My mom got married specifically because she couldn’t have her own account where she lived as a single woman. And don’t give me that shit that people respected women more when they couldn’t vote. They had to work their asses off for any respect at all. They were not allowed because they were not deemed as full adults capable of making decisions for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:29 PM
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Resources for themselves or the people they were ruled by. The women and children were just resources as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:24 PM
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Their husbands? The ones most likely to hurt them? Not a bit of protection from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:22 PM
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Religion is most important for people with little hope or power. That’s why it’s the home of the poor and the desperate. Higher standard of living is correlated with lower religiosity. Women are just as likely to be misogynistic as men when raised in those environments. They think if they play the game they get what they need. It’s only the baaadd women that suffer. After all, tired just how things are. Just like my Cuban cousins that accepted their limited role because they thought it meant the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:19 PM
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Uh huh. You can read their minds I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:26 PM
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Men also have hormonal cycles throughout the day. And we all know testosterone is related to violence and anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:36 AM
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That’s cute to say when the major motivator of conservative movements is spite. And look, you reference fiction as your proof. Adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:35 AM
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Amber Heard will be vindicated one day. The scam played against her was outrageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:30 PM
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I say we’re here for no particular reason. But anyway. Childbirth is a grizzly business and OP wants to know what individuals want from it that makes it worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:08 AM
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We make decisions according to what we want out of life. Lots of people go against biology and decide not to have children. People have reasons to have children as well. They don’t just do it mindlessly out of biological imperative. They do it because it will make them happy in some way. Do you want children? Why? In what way will it make you happy? Will it give you meaning? Unconditional love? Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:15 PM
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Yes! That’s extremely misandrist and misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:10 PM
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And it’s all a lie because he doesn’t like you. A romance is a friendship. What you’re describing is not intimacy. It’s better to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:05 PM
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Content unavailable. All I’ve seen before are “We just had a baby. My wife isn’t paying as much attention to me. Whyyyy?” Followed by responses by the TRPs that she’s disrespecting him and sees him as a beta. No thought about the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:08 PM
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You can love someone you don’t respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:05 PM
2

Nah. How about both?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:02 PM
2

Disgusting mind game bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:01 PM
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The one where men are jealous of their newborns and torment their wives about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:56 PM
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Sure. That’s not an answer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:58 PM
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If there is no monogamy then there is no romantic relationship. You’re FWB. Make that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:22 PM
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It certainly wasn’t egalitarian back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:14 PM
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Splitting the bill is a feminist position and has been for a long time. Yeah she doesn’t owe you anything if you do chores. I don’t know if chores make men more attractive or not but if that idea is what it takes for men to help out? Whatever. Women are avoiding MAGA this is just true. Why wouldn’t they? Nah. TRP says manipulate and bully instead. Everyone expects monogamy in a relationship. Otherwise it’s not a relationship. What game are you playing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:18 AM
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You can’t be red pill and love your partner. That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:32 AM
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Really? All of them are ignoring everything their wives say and making them paranoid that they’re cheating for dread game?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:31 AM
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Similar? Ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:23 PM
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Then we’re taking everything women contributed with us. Including the basics of agriculture and software. Seriously though. Why are internet creepies so insistent on taking credit for the accomplishments of others? Just because a man did something somewhere doesn’t mean you deserve any credit for it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:11 PM
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I don’t know what was confusing about what I said. The clit is rarely stimulated during intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:28 PM
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Because men are desperate for sex and women can live without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:19 PM
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Stimulated outside of PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:19 PM
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Well what do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:16 PM
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I would also be happy paying taxes for childcare and healthcare provided by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:17 AM
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Beta bux means marrying a passionless choice for his resources. It’s a business deal. Just like most of human history. If a woman should find both desire and resources in a man then you should stop complaining about women’s high standards. That’s hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:14 AM
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So she wanted kids and didn’t have them? That’s very different from people who don’t want kids and don’t have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:12 AM
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Why are you wasting time on tik tok?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:11 AM
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Nah. We’re happy childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:11 AM
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I don’t understand the statement. Children owe nothing to their parents either. Parenthood must be selfless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:01 PM
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“Beta bux” is the right way to have a family. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:59 PM
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For it to grow outside if the body instead of endangering us and changing us irreversibly. You make it sound like they are crafted out of clay and inspiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:59 PM
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You don’t even have to leave your house to buy the stuff you want or get the entertainment or food you want. Life is safer than it’s ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:57 PM
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Also the easiest time to never have to put up with being a mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:54 PM
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As far as physical violence goes? Yes. They typically are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:27 PM
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Oh wow. Being with a man integers the idea of having a hostage to torment rather than being alone. What a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:44 AM
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How many edgy boxes do you need to tick?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:10 PM
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I’m ace. Why would I do that? Men do those things because they want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:05 PM
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You literally said women are like children. It’s repugnant. Men having an intense desire to have sex with women is not a sign that they have more love than the other way around. It is not any more selfless than women wanting to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:32 PM
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You could say that, but misogyny has always existed regardless of women’s behavior. We just need to exist as a different type of person and there it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:29 PM
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Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:12 PM
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I’m not hearing a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:58 PM
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Well it’s the truth. Every woman has experienced hatred and abuse from men. You’ve always despised us. You’ve always seen us as lesser. Don’t you think that makes us upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:56 PM
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So you admit if something fits in a Petri dish then it’s not a human life. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:51 PM
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Sorry that happened to you. But you do know SA is a common experience among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:48 PM
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Were you raped? Were you treated like you are an inferior creature who couldn’t accomplish anything meaningful?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:43 PM
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Why should there be? The distinction isn’t love. It’s the presence of lust and an expectation of exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:40 PM
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You can’t see that persons life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:09 PM
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You mean asexual? Yes. But please answer, why should there be a distinction between love for a friend or life partner? The only distinction I see outside of lust is exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:58 PM
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Misandry is a reaction to misogyny. Have you noticed the misogyny in this sub? It’s everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:51 PM
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So a lifetime of resentment sounds like companionship to you because at least you’d be miserable together? If so, this is why men wanting women more has nothing to do with loving them more like the OP is insisting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:37 PM
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All of them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:58 PM
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An embryo is a smear a Petri dish. Is that more precise for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:57 PM
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The feminist stance is the bill is split. The patriarchal stance is the man pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:53 PM
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I have no idea who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:52 PM
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Anger is an emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:50 PM
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Individuals are not statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:49 PM
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Eh? Fairer sex means hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:48 PM
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Says the person who claims women don’t pay bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:47 PM
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Please be serious. They are no more a person than a toenail. Cruelty is bringing a child into the world by mistake with a life you know will not support their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:39 PM
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See? No love is possible from you. You can’t love those you have contempt for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:09 PM
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Men spend all their lives hating women and using their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:58 PM
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It’s worse than that. You see women as children. That’s not equal. You cannot have a romantic love without equality. You can’t have love with that level of contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:58 PM
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Once again. Your desire for the sex is shallow. The most shallow thing there is. Your desire for a mommy you can fuck is pathetic and immature. Needing each other means using each other. There was no love in old fashioned relationships. There was no respect. There was utility. Good riddance to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:30 PM
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Why should there be one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:25 PM
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Yeah. There’s love. Then there’s love with lust along for the ride. It’s unfortunate that we only see that one as a special life partnership. I think friends can be that too. But oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:20 PM
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Yeah. You love your friends and family too. Love is having a close friend. Sex and pooling resources are extra stuff for romantic partners but it’s not love in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:11 PM
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A clump of cells is not a baby. It’s not a baby until it’s born. No child should never be born unwanted. Abortion is a responsible choice. Bringing a child into a terrible world to suffer is not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:48 PM
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A clump of cells is not a baby. It’s a baby when it’s born and no child should ever be born unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:46 PM
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You are the one that brought up trans people for absolutely no reason. Living independently is love. Being independent is love. Being with another person should be for joy despite not needing each other. Needing another person to fulfill duties is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:39 PM
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Wanting a bang maid is not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:36 PM
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Men want women for sex and domestic labor. That’s not love. That’s personal gain. Women used to need men for money. They can electrician money now so they don’t need a relationship with a men. They want men when they fall in love. If that doesn’t happen? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:35 PM
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Then why don’t women want me men but men are desperate for women to do everything in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:03 PM
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There are no children involved in abortion. It’s shutting down a dangerous and harmful process occurring in the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:34 PM
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Enjoying spending time with the person. Being happy for their successes. Being there for them when they’re down. Sex or pooling of resources come with relationships but they’re extra things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:32 PM
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Women are perfectly fine living independently. Men are the ones looking for a mommy. Also, trans women? Seriously? Right wing men are the ones that commit mass shootings and you know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:17 PM
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Men keep saying that. Then live their whole lives chasing orgasms, making decisions out of insecurity, and voting out of spite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:15 PM
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Very relevant. Sex is not loving someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:59 PM
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What do children have to do with love? Women don’t need to get married anymore. It’s not a top priority but if they find someone to love, maybe they will or just live together it’s the same thing. Wanting children means you absolutely need a ban either way lots of money. Having kids is like running a business.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:45 PM
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That’s a possibility but back then before feminism that was 100% the case
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:44 PM
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Women put up with men because they could not support themselves. They married for money. They don’t need your money know. So they can raise their standards. Why is this hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:18 PM
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That wasn’t romance, buddy. That was a need to be in a relationship to not be in poverty. It was transactional. Now women are looking for love. Most men are just not lovable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:02 PM
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Wanting someone as a garbage can for your semen is not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:58 PM
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Sex is entirely superficial. Stop mistaking attraction and lust with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:58 PM
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Sex is entirely superficial. It is the most superficial thing there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:56 PM
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Women love their children. Most men don’t love anyone. They don’t want to take care of their kids and they are only with women for sex..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:54 PM
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Before feminism, women married men they despised because they needed to be married to not live in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:51 PM
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Men are in lust. Most men do not love women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:49 PM
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I’m just trying to understand your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:28 AM
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Don’t see much cosplay outside of cosplay specific places. Most anime characters wear revealing clothing. So I don’t see the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:16 AM
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I just don’t see why it bothers you. You want cosplay you get cosplay. If you make the assumption that the cosplayer is promoting an OF that’s a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:06 AM
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Maybe? I haven’t seen any evidence of that. Ive seen lots of great cosplay though. So which cares where they’re from?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:00 AM
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Cosplayers? Sure. Links to an Only Fans? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:57 AM
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I’m just genuinely surprised I’ve never seen one then. Not once.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:50 AM
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I’m in every sort of nerdy hobby and I’ve never seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:29 AM
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I’m an asexual and I honestly hate how awful the sex industry is for the safety of women. But you’ve made OF sound so incredibly based.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:23 AM
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So then she should just put up with playing mommy to him for the rest of their life because of that? What’s the benefit here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:20 PM
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Sorry no. That’s not going to happen. Women always have been and will always be afraid of men. This may surprise you but thedarksideofhumanity.com is not a reputable source.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:02 AM
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I think many more women agree with me than you’d think. Some men too. It’s used for validation more than connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:59 PM
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Why should we shame men being nice even if it’s for their own gain?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:46 PM
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You keep acting like I don’t want men to be afraid of women. I keep saying I’m fine with that. The burden of proof about female serial killers is on you. Where are all the bodies? An accusation of rape whether false or otherwise is more likely to ruin the woman’s life and drive her to suicide cause she will be treated like garbage. I’m comparing oranges to mandarins more like. What’s the difference esteem the two? What do you want women to do? I think women will always be afraid because men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:43 PM
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So you are claiming with no evidence that there are lots of female serial killers they just haven’t been caught? Ok. The burden of proof is on you. Of course women should be afraid of serial killers? They already are. It’s impossible to know if someone is a rapist or murderer. Better to treat every grenade like a live grenade. A phone can kill? I haven’t found that app. Haven’t earned my trust and you might be a rapist are the same thing. Women will always be afraid of men. Maybe when we all hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:29 PM
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Yes we know. Every tactic will be tried to get laid. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:24 PM
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There are very few. The majority of them existed back when toxicology was hardly developed and they could poison with impunity. Usually for insurance scams. But I’m ok with men being afraid of them anyway. It means they haven’t earned your trust that they aren’t a rapist/murderer. It’s distinction without a difference. No one’s pointing a knife at you. They’re just not getting in your car. People don’t point knives at each other. They point phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:53 PM
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Plenty of ugly murderers exist. Have you seen most known serial killers? I think the assumption of danger is valid. I don’t care if men are afraid of women too. I don’t see much difference in either scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:37 PM
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Rape culture discussion started in second wave. Rape culture exists within our society and continues to be mainstream in most countries. Not needing a man or needing to have children started in second wave as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:34 PM
1

How are ugly men safer?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:27 PM
2

You mean people should be afraid of me in a dark alley? That’s amazing. I’d love that. And yes. Men should think twice before visiting a prostitute for many reasons. Aileen Wuornos is one of the reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:12 PM
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Ted Bundy used to pretend to be injured to get women to trust him. Can’t judge a book by its cover. I’m perfectly fine with men avoiding romantic relationships with women to avoid gold diggers. Why are you more concerned with the content of their pants than with the content of their bigotry? Because the content of their pants can rape someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:05 PM
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It’s possible to tell if someone is dangerous? Tell us how. It doesn’t matter if a potential opponent is tall or fat. A man can defend himself better in most cases than a woman can. I’m sorry it hurts your feelings, but women are afraid of men. They have been and they always will be. Women are wary of being alone with strange men and wary that friendliness will be construed as sexual interest. Women all over the world, especially in developing nations, are told that it is their responsibility to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:41 PM
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It’s impossible to tell who is dangerous. And Muslims and black people are not typically twice your size. People bring man vs bear up all the time so let’s use that here. Most bears are just going to leave you alone. They’re more afraid of you than you are of them. Should we assume they are harmless unless otherwise suspicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:02 PM
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I’m ace. I’ll never understand people’s obsession with something so disgusting and trivial. There is no meaningful emotional connection in sex. Just potential for disease and trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:20 PM
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That’s not red pill. That’s just obvious. Red pill is negging. Treating every concern a woman has like the babbling of an infant. And destroying your marriage when your actual infant is born out of jealousy for loss of the spotlight. Oh, and all of the self help stuff one can find anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:27 PM
1

I don’t get this and never will. The best way to have peace is to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:51 PM
1

You hate yourself because your heart still hopes for what? A wife that will shut up and do the housework so that you have “peace”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:51 PM
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That’s great and it’s how all partnerships should be regardless of gender. But unfortunately that’s not what I see in everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:34 PM
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No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:00 PM
2

No we’re not. You go even like us. You like vaginas and feeling validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:58 PM
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You hate yourself. That’s not women’s problem that’s yours. Can you tell me what part of yourself you hate that women love? Red pill exists because women don’t have to put up with duty sex anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:55 PM
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An acceptable level of permanent unhappiness. Yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:53 PM
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America is not the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:29 AM
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Get a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:14 AM
1

Very rare , not your body, pay for your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:13 AM
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Most women are not feminist unfortunately. They still think the patriarchal bargain will benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:11 AM
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Male complaints stick out more because instead of important things y’all whine that no one has sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:10 AM
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Jobs are important. Sex is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:02 AM
1

Awesome. I want that too. Yes please . Choose the AI and porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:22 AM
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Women don’t like it as much so their standards are higher. Birth control exists and is very effective yet the desire is still lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:07 AM
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Men have more sexual partners on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:05 AM
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How is it homoerotic for men to imagine the thrusting of another man’s penis with awe and satisfaction? You tell me. The women are talking about the nice time they had. The restaurant or the vacation. Not the details of the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:34 PM
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That’s gross. And very homoerotic. Might as well whip it out and compare dicks. But all we’re asking is that you not commit crimes. Is that too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:54 PM
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Please don’t set yourself up to date a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:47 PM
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Because our assumption is you’ll play video games or cards or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:46 PM
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If their answer to not being able to use a woman’s body as a garbage can for their fluids is violence then they should be locked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:44 PM
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There’s that solipsism word again. Stop it. Just say selfish. You think women are selfish for not having sex with men they aren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:42 PM
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I would gladly pay for my women Eww. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:34 PM
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Accountability for what? This guy was marrying a sugar baby prostitute. He knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:31 PM
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Why is it when women have bad experience with men guys jump in with “pick better” and “not all men”, but are perfectly fine with painting all women with the same brush over an obvious prostitute? This guy knew he was a sugar daddy. It wasn’t a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:28 PM
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You are the only one. This is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:05 PM
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Sir, you are literally spending time with incompatible people and resenting them for liking you because you hate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:59 PM
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Showing basic courtesy is “emasculating”? Dude. Your combined posts in this thread just show that you hate yourself and kept respect any club that would have you as a member. To the point that you think wearing a mask is basic courtesy. This is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:46 AM
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This isn’t even a guy thing. You are a psychological mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:43 AM
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Holding back. Walking in eggshells. Act softer. That’s playing a role. A role you chose to play for some unfathomable reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:41 AM
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Man or woman. It doesn’t matter. You are you and are either behaving like yourself or not. Gender doesn’t matter here. They like you when you play pretend. Emotional masochist? Why do you hang around people you don’t even like and pretend to be someone you’re not? If, on the other hand, you were only doing this with your ex, why are you blaming women? You were playing a role with someone you were not compatible with. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:31 AM
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Emasculation isn’t real. You’re just an unlikable person that shouldn’t be with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:57 AM
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Absolutely not. They like the couples they ship together and wouldn’t want to spoil the dynamic with themselves. In the case of fanfiction, when the couple is not written to be a gay couple and they ship them anyway it’s because the passion and bond between them is usually better than what you would find in a normal heterosexual romance. Those are often written like crap. But best friends or enemies? So much more spark.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:13 PM
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Can’t do that if you marry young and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:17 PM
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I think they feel validated and powerful through sex more than loved going by what I’ve seen online throughout 2 decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:55 PM
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This isn’t about not having sex. This is about sex not being the sole priority. Enjoying the persons company should at least rank higher than service and fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:20 PM
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Who will then leave you with the kids at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:02 PM
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In a family you mean? Yeah. Not even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:38 AM
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And you’re using all the stuff everyone makes and you personally do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:35 PM
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How about no? I do my job and pay my taxes. That’s enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:34 PM
10

That men provide? Please stop taking for credit for the work of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:34 PM
2

That’s fascinating. Please explain why spending time with another person is dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:14 AM
4

It’s worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:21 AM
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Sexualization is objectification. It legitimately infuriates me that anyone sees me sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:20 AM
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The memory of the one that left is forever tarnished by resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:10 AM
13

Yeah. Nothing lasts forever. Accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:09 AM
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Those men get angry because those women aren’t doing what they see as their purpose. Being fuckable. These men don’t see any women as human. They exist as appliances to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:56 PM
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Women are usually never loved at all. Just used for their body and domestic labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:55 PM
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For pity’s sake. Pick an issue and start working.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:28 PM
10

See what? Shit or get off the pot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:25 PM
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Because MRAs are lazy and have no real cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:21 PM
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Someone not wanting to fuck you does not mean they don’t see you as human. Sex is frequently dehumanizing if it has any influence at all in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:18 PM
2

Literally yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:27 PM
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Yes. Agreed. Safety and food are mostly assured so now we concerned ourselves with love and self actualization when we feel content enough. Developing nations still marry for stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:21 PM
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Yeah. It’s one of the reasons their own demand is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:00 PM
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If you say so. I think those unattractive women are just looking for a stupid adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:45 PM
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Most would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:31 PM
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From what I’ve heard, yes. But we’d have to talk to some directly to really know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:50 PM
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This is a relatively new standard. In the past men knew the only reason a woman would want most of them is for resources and just accepted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:46 PM
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I don’t think so. Gay men have lots of access to sex and still have high libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:42 PM
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The supply for women is high because their demand is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:41 PM
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They have the testosterone and equipment of a man. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:38 PM
3

Buy why would they bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:38 PM
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The problem is biology. It’s pretty lame in most cases no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:37 PM
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I think one day Amber Heard will have vindication.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:08 PM
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Are you illiterate? They don’t sleep the 18 hours all at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:48 AM
5

It’s more like medical advice really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:35 PM
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Babies should be born from artificial wombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:46 PM
6

Seriously dude just go wack it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:45 PM
3

All the more reason to never have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:44 PM
2

They should understand that the child will always come first and sex and dates will be less frequent. Expect very little until the end of toddlerhood. Grow up be an adult and take care of the kid you chose to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:45 PM
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No one needs sex. You have a kid you make sacrifices for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:08 PM
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Are you a child? Babies don’t sleep for 18 hours all at once. It’s intervals of 4 hours here and 3 hours there and will wake up at any time matter chat you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:55 PM
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They are disgusting. And they need constant care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:08 PM
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The fun parts? You mean changing diapers, giving birth, recovering from the birth, nighttime feedings, potty training, cleaning up messes, cleaning up accidents. That fun? The man has it easy. All he had to do is pay a pittance. The custodial parent still pays more for child care in both time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:45 PM
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The kid needs money. They don’t need your come all over his mom’s chest. That’s their dinner table.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:42 PM
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Because it’s not true. Women want their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:37 PM
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Meh. It’s not possible for me to understand this. It’s all just gross flesh to me. This is a sore and exhausted woman. It’s reasonable to expect things won’t get back to normal until after the terrible twos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:44 PM
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Nah. It’s the poverty. Poverty has the most adverse childhood outcomes. Dads ignore their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:41 PM
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You haven’t seen the subreddit? It was bigger back in the day. The story is simple. Man gets married. Has a baby. Now he’s shocked that all of the attention is on the baby. He can’t understand why their sore and exhausted wife isn’t giving them as much attention as before. They don’t care what she has to say so they ask Reddit and go to that sub. They tell him that he’s unattractive bro. He had to lift bro. He has to hold frame and dread. Meanwhile the wife is begging for help with the baby. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:40 PM
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They also pick up on the fact that their father doesn’t want anything to do with them. Take care of your kids and stop whining about dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:29 PM
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Married red pill men. It’s always the same story.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:24 PM
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It is. Sex is nothing but a biological function that leads to an orgasm. Meaningless momentary pleasure and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:21 PM
5

Just masturbate. It’s literally the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:17 PM
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Sex is supposed to be a joyful activity. Not a responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:14 PM
9

And the kid is the number one responsibility. No time for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:13 PM
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If you’re prioritizing sex over your child you’re a shitty human being. You made the choice to have kids. Accept the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:11 PM
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Fathers only bother to ask for custody when they have money. Single moms are often poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:04 PM
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Sex or kids. Pick one. It’s going to be a while before anything goes back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:01 PM
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Lack of desire is a fact he has to accept not a responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:58 PM
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Why did you have kids then? Everyone knows kids change everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:56 PM
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It’s the husbands fault., He needs to understand once kids are born only they matter for a good amount of time. Single father households do better because they only bother to ask for custody when they have lots of money. Men as a rule don’t want their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:51 PM
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Not important. Don’t be disgusting. Take care of the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:50 PM
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I’m ace. But the idea of sex with a woman is not nearly as off putting as sex with a man. And I do believe even most straight woman would feel this way if they were given a fuck or die choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:55 PM
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And then most American men balk at the idea of social services to give people a minimum standard of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:30 PM
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I don’t you’re understanding how different sex is for women than men. Heterosexual sex is not inherently enjoyable for women. It can be frightening and degrading. Most women would imagine sex with a woman being maybe not super appealing but not too scary. A cuddle party with some pussy eating probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:25 PM
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A woman would also choose a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:22 PM
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The female CEO thing is constantly criticized in feminist spaces. Liberal feminism and white feminism are constantly criticized in feminist spaces. People talk about positive masculinity because people ask for an alternative to toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:26 PM
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Sure. Or just doesn’t have much fear in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:08 PM
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Confidence. Dating drug abusing women they can have leverage over with access to drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:50 PM
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That’s not very nice. That’s just average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:49 PM
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That’s not attractive. That’s confusing and anxiety inducing. No one actually likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:48 PM
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People do care about being caught. Certainty of punishment prevents crime. They don’t care about a man in the house. They’ll just shot him too. Besides most murders by strangers are men killing other men. Most murders of women are committed by husbands and boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:37 PM
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Exactly. Safety comes from creating consequences. If it is obvious that they will be caught then the likelihood of crime goes down. The certainty of punishment is a preventative measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:31 PM
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Protection comes from a ring camera and the police. The man in the house is the one most likely to cause harm. Men also pay people to fix things and to mow the lawn. And even then, that’s a house job not an apartment job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:45 PM
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They are time consuming and add up. Especially cleaning furniture. God how I hate cleaning furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:42 PM
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That’s an occasional job done only by people that live in houses not apartments. And even then, they often pay people to do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:41 PM
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Then do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:40 PM
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Oh yeah. Most people don’t know they exist. And of course you’re not going to get good information especially if aliases are being used. This stuff is niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:45 PM
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Attempted detective work. The other women may not use that site. And of course no woman is going to find out until something happens to make her suspicious enough to look. And even then she may not find anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:41 PM
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That’s a silly assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:15 PM
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How would they know unless they do detective work? That’s what the site is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:14 PM
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Jesse, what the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:10 PM
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What emotional meaning? Y’all talk about it like it’s a physical need you will die without. That’s just an orgasm. You can do that by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:31 PM
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obvious reasons Centuries of oppression and discrimination. My new boss is a 55 year old woman. The new CPO of our company is a 60 year old woman. I’ve been promoted recently and I’m 43. What weird fantasy world are you talking about? You claim women are not promoted past 30 and then say they are not oppressed in the same breath. How does that make any sense? Your fantasy world is far worse than the real one. I don’t understand. Instead of being trapped with a husband that takes advantage of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:29 PM
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What the fuck? You think older or heavier women are not promoted? The majority of women in higher positions are older just like the majority of men in higher positions. You’ve invented in your head this strange world where women only succeed through sexual harassment and sexual abuse by men and then say they don’t suffer? What is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:07 PM
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Since when? MRAs have never done anything meaningful. And certainly haven’t fine anything about the draft. Feminists tried with the ERA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:08 AM
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