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Then why do so many men here call women solipsistic for living her life according to their own goals and not a man’s goals? They think if a woman is not a man’s replacement mommy then they’re being oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:32 PM
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The difference is men demanding women drop everything to meet their needs and they are apparently “solipsistic” if they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:15 PM
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Men are raised believing women should serve them. Women are raised believing they need a man to have a complete life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:04 AM
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Feminists were in favor of women being drafted. Conservatives fought against the ERA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:35 PM
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That’s also true for older men that can’t get drafted. And they are more likely to be in favor of war. Not young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:32 PM
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Feminists have fought for the equal selective service. Conservatives always strike it down. As for increasing support for women being drafted, how about not raping your fellow soldiers? Why is that so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:30 PM
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Men are not hired based on merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:08 PM
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DEI is anti discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:08 PM
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Problems? This is just the balance slowly correcting itself. It’s hard to take you seriously when you think men no longer having slave wives as a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:07 PM
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You just made a whole lot of shit up. DEI exists to correct for bias. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:03 PM
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Everything is always a conspiracy when it doesn’t match up with your views, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:59 PM
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Incredibly vague. Do you mean simulation theory? Gnosticism? Quantum mechanics?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:48 PM
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Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:21 PM
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The government protects you and it protects me. Not just men. Lots of people grow food. Not just men. Lots of people build things and support in building things. Not just men. Women are soon to be the majority of those involved in medicine. Women don’t need to have sex with you for any of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:48 PM
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I don’t see it as a problem at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:45 PM
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And if they can’t find one they’re fine on their own. Men on the other hand can’t seem to stop demanding a woman put up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:23 PM
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It’s narcissistic and vain to live life how you want but it’s not narcissistic and vain to demand other people bow to your whims?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:54 PM
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Sir, we are discussing internet memes. You want to ameliorate those problems, be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:48 PM
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Sure. But women don’t have to fuck you for that. So they’re not going to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:44 PM
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Nah. If men meme then women will meme. Fair is fair. You can’t just act offended and go anti free speech because women do it when men do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:39 PM
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As not telling you your issues don’t matter. I’m telling you this isn’t an issue. Sure. They do it all the time. Look at every meme community. It’s all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:38 PM
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No. They are issues when they have real world consequences. Wake me up when women are committing mass shootings on men the way men are doing it against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:36 PM
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No. You don’t think it is. You know perfectly well none of this is actionable and are concerned with your own personal feelings rather than shutting with real world consequences. Someone saying mean things on the internet does not make you a victim. And the fact that you need to pretend trust it does just goes to show how frivolous internet “men’s issues” are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:35 PM
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Give an example then. Most of the time when internet men complain about deep topics women aren’t into it’s stuff like “Hitler wasn’t all bad historically speaking” and “evolutionary biology means women shouldn’t be leaders”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:31 PM
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Sorry, that’s what meme culture is. I see horrible things said about women every day in every meme subreddit. No one wants to close those down. It’s hypocritical to go after the feminists and their 2 bad memes just because you happen to be personally offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:26 PM
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These aren’t issues. These are memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:56 PM
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No. I’m saying you know it’s not a cause for concern and are just pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:56 PM
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You’re not afraid of women. You’re just pretending to be for moral posturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:20 PM
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Then if that’s the case we need to end all meme culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:18 PM
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Are you seriously afraid of a feminist uprising to kill all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:18 PM
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Because the jokes against men are neither serious nor actionable. I’m sorry your fee fees were hurt by the internet, but we’ve got mass shootings and increasing maternal mortality rates to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:16 PM
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People are unhappy because everything is more expensive and the system is falling apart. I don’t see the need to bring kids into this. Also, kids are a burden. So no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:10 PM
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Both genders should be useless to each other. About as useless as friends are to each other that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:55 AM
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The skills to be a “wife” you are describing are really just the skills to be a mother to a grown man who should do all of these things for himself. The disdain comes from the fact that he should just want a woman to be his sexy best friend, but instead he still wants her to be his fuck mommy that he really doesn’t like or enjoy hanging out with at all. You have it backwards. Women don’t want to be your mom. They want to be your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:54 AM
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Men are better now. Maybe during the Obama years possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:59 AM
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Ok. So you admit it’s not about nature. Women support the end of capitalism. Men should support the end of capitalism too if you want to end human suffering. We don’t have and have never had a meritocracy. We have spent all of human history being ruled by inbred lunatics and now we have to absolute worst people ruling the most powerful country in the world. IQ was invented to identify how children should be helped and is now exclusively used by racists and people that want to blow themselves bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:43 PM
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Male variability is hardly a good thing in and of itself and is influenced by outside factors. I bring up Scandinavian countries because they are doing better than everyone else. Female leadership is hardly an issue and may be just what happens when we advance as a culture. Humans exist to control and dominate nature. If we see biology that gets in the way we correct it. That’s the one factor that I consider to be true“human nature”. Science is about taking control, not just about accepting thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:08 PM
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That “honor” drives men to kill women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:05 PM
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Your wife is supposed to be your friend not your replacement mother. Is it not extremely unhealthy to want to have sex with your mother? Also, what does loving a man for himself mean? People are what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:55 PM
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It’s not biological reality. It’s prejudice. We can close that gap and are currently doing so. Scandinavian countries have a slight preference for female leadership and are doing better than everyone else as far as standard of living is concerned. Although I don’t like sex personally. It clearly exists for pleasure. The reproductive part is a biological mistake we must correct. Bringing people into this world unwanted is wrong and honestly incredibly evil as far as I’m concerned. The best thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:50 AM
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See that? Validating. Not pleasurable. Validating. Unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:39 PM
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I don’t think women would be any better in positions of power. They should still have opportunities for leadership as well as anyone else. Women do commit fewer violent crimes overall. Why that is the case is open for debate. Abortion is a good and responsible choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:23 PM
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Ok. My position in the debate is “if a woman says no sex for 6 months” you can find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:13 PM
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Still not you. The world was shaped by people who are not you. Men and women included. You don’t get to take credit or be included because you are a man. You don’t have “innovation”. Not nearly as capable by what metric? Women are quickly catching up with men everywhere. Men had thousands of years. Women had a few decades where they weren’t property.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:12 PM
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No. It’s just not really comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:25 PM
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Mostly rich men. Mostly white or Asian. Gee, I wonder why? And I’m sure none of that had anything to do with women not being allowed to be anything other than property for most of recorded history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:24 PM
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>According to US crime data from the FBI Crime Data Explorer, men represent nearly 80% of individuals arrested for violent crimes. This gender disparity is even more pronounced for certain offenses; for instance, roughly 88% to 90% of all murders and non-negligent manslaughters are committed by men. Similarly, the UNODC Global Study on Homicide notes that approximately 90% of all homicides worldwide are committed by male perpetrators. In victims' reports from the Bureau of Justice Statistics, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:20 PM
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You know perfectly well we were discussing violent crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:19 PM
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Who is a good guy? Not the OP. Not most of the men here. The bad guys are not scared to shoot their shot so they get more dates. And young people can’t tell red flags from green. So young women learn their lessons and set up boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:08 PM
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Because women are not attracted to men in the same way men are attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:06 PM
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Because younger people can’t tell the difference. It takes a while to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:05 PM
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I think they’ve just learned from their mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:01 PM
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So just say no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:59 PM
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A slap is not the same as smashing someone’s head through a door.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:50 PM
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Violent crime stats are available for everyone to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:50 PM
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It’s not unhinged to state the fact that most violent crimes are committed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:48 PM
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Close enough to 100% to justify the hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:27 AM
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Such a rare thing. Men are overwhelmingly the threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:14 AM
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Women’s everything is nowhere near as much as men’s everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:13 AM
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Mormons are all American, baby. And they are patriarchal as fuck. So are evangelicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:25 PM
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They don’t want either. They want partners. Both should work. Both should care for the kids. If they make the ill advised decision of having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:12 PM
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No. We should have MORE immigration. The second generation adopts the values of the majority culture and neutralizes the culture of origin. They get it values. We get their food and music. Win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:10 PM
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Only because of feminism. In other cultures they are. In religious communities they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:08 PM
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Nope. The mother follows the rules of patriarchy. She teaches the girl subservience and the boy entitlement. Is it betrayal? Yes. Internalized misogyny results in women betraying other women and themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:07 PM
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Family. Community. Sometimes the government. And yeah, since they give men authority they are patriarchal. And you are correct. Patriarchy does not recognize a persons gender outside of the binary. It will force you into the role assigned to you at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:06 PM
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Explain how.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:03 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:36 PM
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I’m a Cuban American. In my family I had to stop doing my homework to do housework because I’m a girl. My brother was allowed to just play video games and neglect any work at all. I was called a whore for having male friends when I was as young as 5 years old. My brother was allowed to do what he wants. I was not allowed to take karate because I’m a girl and girls don’t do that. My brother was allowed to do what he wants even when his grades suffered. My mother was 9 and her brother was 18. He w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:28 PM
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You are describing personal roles. Those are chosen. Gender roles are prescribed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:20 PM
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In most parts of the world they are. In most religions they are. Because they don’t have feminism to dismantle those gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:18 PM
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How is it dishonest? Gender roles dictate that women are servants to men. How is that not patriarchal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:30 PM
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Among immigrant groups it’s alive and well. And lots of religions too. Just look at the Mormons. And they can give you plenty of concrete examples of living with less freedom than their brothers I can tell you that for a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:26 PM
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Really? No culture or religion in the world has patriarchy? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:25 PM
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Poverty causes homelessness. Big shock. I know. Impoverished women get roped into prostitution which reduces their numbers. Most suicides have economic reasons behind them. Men don’t use pills like women do for suicide. They use guns and hanging. That’s good news on circumcision. Doesn’t change the fact that most men have never even considered it being an important issue. Or even an issue at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:06 PM
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Those are 2 problems caused by economics and one problem most men have not even considered caring about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:49 AM
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And workers and students. Not a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:40 AM
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Aside from economics all your issues are about getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:39 AM
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Back in the day, guys blamed Disney. Especially Aladdin and the be yourself message. You ain’t likable and attractive like Aladdin. Of course it doesn’t work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:18 PM
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In the developed world? No. In the entire world? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:15 PM
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Honestly I’m fine with this. Let the moms get weekend visits so they can be the cool parent that takes them to fun things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:39 PM
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You mean to their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:38 PM
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This one. It’s still just having a job. Which is something everyone needs anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:47 PM
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If I were interested in sex at all I suppose it would be the ability to penetrate instead of being penetrated. Sex is more likely to be pleasurable. Orgasms are more likely. No pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:45 PM
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If someone is loved for being attractive then that attractiveness fades and are no longer loved then how are they ever loved for who they are? That’s still their body. Who they are didn’t change. But their body did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:49 AM
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People are what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:09 AM
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We are engaging in behavior that exists outside of the body right now. Phrases like “you’ve changed” and “I’m not the man I used to be” are phrases for a reason. People become different people all the time. And it’s not by gaining weight or getting a haircut. Does a human retain identity when they change in attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:37 PM
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Yeah. Which means the person is appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:46 PM
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Yes. Because of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:46 PM
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To fuck women. Say what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:11 PM
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The hell do you think charisma is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:10 PM
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No a human is not a body. A person is their behaviors. A body is just flesh. This is why we can’t take men here seriously when they say they can love any woman. No. You want to fuck her flesh. That’s not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:08 PM
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Wanting someone just because they are a woman is wanting someone because they have a vagina. Not because of who they are. Wanting someone because they are attractive is also wanting someone because of an external quality. Not because of who they are. Personality is who you are. Not what you provide. Appearance is something a person provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:24 PM
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Yes, yes. Material conditions lead to changes in culture. We all know that. The particular changes in culture that those material conditions caused are the anti discrimination laws I mentioned allowing us to live our own lives and not have to depend on the misery of sex to make our way. And don’t bother me with threats, tiddymilkguzzler. Most men aren’t losers looking to ruin our lives. Just this lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:55 PM
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Everyone is supposed to cook and clean regardless of gender. Kids are a personal choice. Sex is only for when both people are in the mood not an obligation. And emotional support is supposed to go both ways and come from many sources The person you are in a relationship is supposed to be your best friend. Not your slave master and certainly not your replacement mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:43 PM
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You mean calling them pick mes? That happens. In either case people desperate for “relationships” is not an institutional problem. It’s a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:30 PM
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They are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:16 PM
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If men need a “relationship” so badly then that’s their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:11 PM
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And many of those conveniences come from laws removing discrimination against us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:05 PM
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If dating were actually important in life then this would matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:01 PM
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Does he have a relationship with those children?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:47 AM
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The father that raised the child should continue to raise the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:40 AM
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I only care about the wellbeing of the child. Put the woman in prison I don’t give a fuck. But don’t reject a child for something they do. Why the hell are so many of you ok with abandoning children?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:38 AM
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That’s not the child’s fault. Only the child matters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:25 AM
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The father that raised them is still their father and should raise the child
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:23 AM
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The alternative is to be treated by their father that raised them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:23 AM
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Ok. I don’t care. I only care that the father still love that child. Only the children matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:19 AM
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Lock the woman up and take care of the kids you are supposed to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:17 AM
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The victim is the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:16 AM
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Well that’s just ridiculous. It’s not murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:11 AM
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If he raised a kid then that’s his kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:10 AM
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Would you really just abandon a child you raised?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:08 AM
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You say this and then have zero empathy for abandoned children. You can’t just tell an 8 year old that you don’t want them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:05 AM
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I can fathom the destruction caused by a parent deciding they no longer love a child for a reason outside of their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:04 AM
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Do you think it’s right for a man to stop loving a child he’s had for 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:03 AM
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Most marriages in history have had no real love. Would a man take just stop loving a child he’s raised for years just because it’s not biologically his? That’s the real tragedy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:02 AM
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This isn’t rape and murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:59 AM
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Losing some money makes you a dead man walking? Just sue for your money back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:47 AM
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Sorry kid. Your mom shouldn’t have lied. You have no family now. Seriously ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:41 AM
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If I was born male my family would have undoubtedly treated me better. That alone wild have improved my life so much. I don’t care about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:33 AM
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It literately impossible. Best to just not bother with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:46 PM
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No. That’s sexualization. Which is fine with consent. Objectification implies contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:11 PM
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But why does that have to be paired with contempt?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:54 PM
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No. It’s you making a choice to see someone as lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:43 PM
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That’s a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:29 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:26 PM
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You love being seen as an object to be used and exploited by other people with no interest in you or your desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:26 PM
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Ok. But how did they feel about the victim though? Lots of people tend to blame the victim for whatever happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:31 PM
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Eating mushrooms doesn’t hurt or feel degrading. We are not talking about eating mushrooms. It’s a bad analogy. How about sounding? Do you know what that is? Look it up if not. Would you try that again if it hurt before?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:25 AM
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That’s because men are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:10 AM
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Then how is she supposed to figure that out? By looking at his nose?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:39 AM
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Well. About 80% of bisexual men reported only female perpetrators. So that’s interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:35 PM
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That tends to the source of our problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:43 PM
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And about 89% of bisexual women reported only male perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:47 PM
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A monopoly on creativity? As if Ursula K. Le Guin and Frida Kahlo never existed. You do realize women weren’t allowed to do much of anything for most of human history right? Only rich men were provided that opportunity most of the time. And it’s funny you mention Mozart. In his letters he recognized his sister as more talented than him in some ways. Of course she had to give everything up when she got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:44 PM
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No. Married moms do more work than single ones at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:28 PM
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Women get help and diagnosis. Men don’t usually try.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:28 PM
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Married red pill. They kept complaining that red pill advice ended up getting them divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:26 PM
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Ok. So marriage is bad for men then? Why want a traditional one? Those are the ones that hit you with alimony at divorce since the wife doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:11 PM
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Without any reason? It’s often harmful in many ways. That’s the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:56 PM
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How is it nonsensical? You can be together and get tax break. Why do you need to be married to have a house servant?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:55 PM
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Proves what? We find it repulsive because it is harmful and repulsive a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:23 PM
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In their pleasure. Not ours. Lots of men want to take pleasure in our bodies and don’t care if it causes us harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:22 PM
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Then why is childhood sexual abuse so common? Because perverted men are common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:58 PM
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It’s a threat because sex is a threat in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:55 PM
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This is reality. Sex is one of the leading cause of trauma. 1 in 4 girls experience childhood sexual abuse and it impacts them for the rest of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:55 PM
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Well it’s not. That’s not how are bodies work a lot of the time. That’s not what men are interested in a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:51 PM
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Because you are threatening us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:35 PM
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Lots of men do these things. Not worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:35 PM
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The lack of empathy is from men towards women. Sex is frequently harmful to us. Please acknowledge that. Your pleasure is not worth our pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:33 PM
15

It’s extremely common for sex to cause trauma. It’s always a risk. That’s why men’s desire towards us is horrifying. If you had a one in four chance opening a door and three had a some money and one had a hungry tiger then you would be scared too. Especially since for us sex is like the equivalent of 5 dollars whereas for men it’s like 1000.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:16 PM
1

I struggle to understand the attraction to someone that primarily exists to cook and clean for you. That’s like wanting to fuck one’s own mom. What’s the appeal? That said. No. Most marriages in history have involved bang maids. Loveless and exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:08 PM
1

No. They just get divorced faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:59 PM
3

Because their husbands become burdens. Especially if they have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:58 PM
1

Which one? The traditional model that’s all about extracting labor and resources? Or modern marriage that’s about finding your sexy best friend and being happy together? Because the latter is clearly the ideal no matter what you call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:57 PM
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No? Do you think anyone wants to be cut open? It would be solved by women electing to sterilize themselves in favor of using an artificial womb if they want a kid. By that’s still a choice to be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:52 PM
-1

That’s what traditional marriage is. Modern marriage is supposed to be best buddies that have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:35 PM
13

No one loves their bangmaid. You’re not supposed to want a sugar daddy either. No one loves their sugar daddy. Mind you. These are what actual traditional relationships look like. People married for transactional reasons and didn’t much care if they liked each other. Conservatives don’t mean these things when they say they want traditional relationships though. At least not ones from developed nations. They claim that they can have completely separate division of labor and still love their partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:38 PM
33

Why is it so hard from men to recognize sex as being something capable of causing harm and trauma? Why would prey be afraid of predators I wonder? Should prey have more empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:33 PM
3

I think at first he’d try to be as promiscuous as possible in order to live out his fantasy of being desired. He’d have some bad experiences and learn sex as a woman is not all it’s cracked up to be. If he then tries to attract an actual partner, that depends on what his ideal partner is. If he has the libido of an average woman then he’d aim high and have the same struggles as any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:44 PM
3

Because sex for men and sex for women are entirely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:16 PM
3

I wish you could have that and we didn’t have to be burdened by it. Too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:15 PM
6

It’s normal for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:11 PM
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How does one measure that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:11 PM
9

Sex is not friendship or human contact or anything meaningful. It’s a bodily function.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:25 PM
8

It’s gross. And it’s mostly just pointless. And you guys act like it’s the most important thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:29 AM
14

Have you ever had sex as a woman? It kinda sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:14 AM
16

Sex kinda sucks, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:09 AM
11

Why is it strange?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:07 AM
23

Why is that a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:06 AM
17

Shouldn’t men’s absolutely bizarre dependence on sex be considered a defect?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:03 AM
9

Sex is pretty gross all things considered and It’s repulsive to obsess over it. Average men are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:09 AM
10

You could have just left it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:31 PM
11

You can’t use a fairy tale as proof of anything. Especially since Eve’s actions would have been venerated as the bringer of knowledge if the Gnostics had won the fairy tale war. And they very well could have if history went just a little differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:30 PM
2

Sex does not alleviate loneliness for women. Sex does not have the value for women that it has for men. Just because someone wants to use a woman’s body does not mean they even like her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:16 PM
3

I think these are wannabe influencers looking for clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:28 PM
4

It is achieved through diplomacy, trade, and soft power. It is disrupted by war. Men can stop sacrificing each other to the meat grinder. There is no need.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:46 PM
7

What has kept us safe and well fed is economic interdependence more than anything else not war. And this administration has been trying to destroy that and isolate us. Most wars are unnecessary. We don’t need to keep waging for the benefit of the rich in the vain hope we invent some new technology when invention happens regardless. If you guys love war so much you can stop acting like martyrs over being drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:13 PM
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Falling birth rates are good. There won’t be enough jobs to go around in the future. Crime rates have been dropping since the 90s. Your penis not being touched is not a crisis. Individualism is good. With proper wealth distribution the welfare system would meet the needs and then some. Promiscuity is harmless. Police are necessary but need better training and priorities. War is usually unnecessary are absurd. There. Covered that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:16 PM
2

Then you don’t agree with me. Women who support these systems are progressives and want to actually solve problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:25 PM
1

I pay someone to clean my house. And what you are saying is nonsensical. Women with children obviously do more household chores than those without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:54 PM
3

There is no greater herd behavior than that of men who feel “emasculated”. That’s where all fascism comes from. The pettiness of sexual insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:38 PM
6

Except that they support social programs that will help society whereas conservative men do not. Progressive people, men and women alike, do not follow predominant beliefs. That’s what conservatives do. Progressives are supportive of evidence based solutions to help society and understand that the system is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:30 PM
5

All evidence points to them being effective and necessary. The majority of people who don’t support them are just not interested in solving problems but in punishing those they see as deserving of suffering. They do not care about evidence or efficacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:28 PM
1

I’m in my mid 40s. I don’t care about the beliefs of Gen X and Boomers. They’re dinosaurs. I only care about the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:32 PM
2

Yeah. And statistics and preference surveys say women my age and younger don’t want kids very much and prioritize career.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:22 PM
4

How is that clear when almost half of women my age or younger don’t want kids and most see career as their priority?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:40 PM
1

It requires coercion. We will not change our minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:38 PM
1

And this “empathy” takes the form of coercing women into surrendering their bodies. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:37 PM
4

The husband is ok with it because he knows if he just ignores it she’ll do it eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:19 PM
6

No it’s not a woman’s preference that she had less free time than a man. Do the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:14 PM
2

That’s exactly what you’re talking about. Any sex someone does not want to have is forced or coerced and that is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:09 PM
2

So then she’ll divorce him for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:07 PM
5

Or get a divorce. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:43 AM
8

Who says it was a need? You make the terms of your relationship and if they are not met you break up or divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:43 AM
1

Any sex one does not want to have is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:38 AM
3

You don’t see the harm in rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:37 AM
3

Discomfort? This is rape. You guys are talking about coerced sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:37 AM
4

Are you joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:42 PM
13

No. I’m ace. Why would I ever want to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:50 PM
5

DnD. Horror movies. Kayaking. Video games. Horticulture. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:12 PM
8

Yeah. You get a job. You work. You make money. You do whatever you want and enjoy life however you can. Your option is to stay under the thumb of someone that will inevitably disrespect, control, and abuse you just because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:23 PM
1

I’m not them, but free will is an impossibility. Everything we do depends on what happened before, what happened before that, and before that. Not to mention the processes in our bodies, hormones, receptors, mental illness etc. We are processes in motion. Not ghosts piloting meat suits making rational decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:01 PM
2

No they didn’t. Neighbors poisoned her dogs. She wasn’t sure if it was intentional. And she was harassed by people for having a mixed race family.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:57 PM
2

Yes. And then those men owned by their lords owned their wives and children and took their frustrations out on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:37 PM
1

Never at first. Only when they have you trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:24 PM
1

Women were property.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:24 PM
2

Well duh. There is some value in finding someone to love. There is no value in sex for its own sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:42 AM
1

No. It’s because now women are considered people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:37 AM
1

Pornography has always existed. Feminists protest against pornography. Abortion and divorce are good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:37 AM
0

They were shocked because they joined red pill to get their wives to have more sex with them and then it backfired.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:35 AM
2

Yeah yeah. Spiteful “nice” guys have sheets existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:38 PM
3

And yet married red pill exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:33 PM
2

Except that Chad and Tyrone can be perfectly nice and the dweebs can be resentful monsters. People lay down for fun. Commitment is not important for everyone and Chads get in to real relationships all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:32 PM
1

They usually never are. That’s what abusers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:30 PM
1

Because now people care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:30 PM
2

Extroversion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:32 AM
5

Those guys tend to be abusive men themselves and won’t admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:31 AM
3

Netflix and rap would have been banned? Feminists hate pornography so how does that make sense? What does Netflix have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:30 AM
6

Women are being abused less now not more. The leading factor in domestic abuse is financial dependence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:28 AM
10

Attractive men are not more likely to be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:26 AM
7

Tell that to the married red pill men who are shocked when their wives file for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:20 AM
11

Impossible to tell if a person is terrible until they are chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:19 AM
11

That second “safe” man is just as likely to be a bad relationship as anybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:16 AM
1

Women were also forced to do deadly jobs until their bodies broke. Remember the radium girls where they made radioactive watches until their jaws literally fell off? Remember the triangle shirt waist factory fire where mostly female workers were locked in and left to die to prevent them going on breaks? Now add in the expectation to give birth until you die on top of all that. No one got punished for doing anything to their wives. If anything it was common to spend the money they made on alcohol…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:52 AM
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How so? They controlled their own finances. They were allowed to have prestigious positions and education. They weren’t at the mercy of their wives like wives were at the mercy of their husbands. They were considered normal human beings. Not a misshapen inferior creature made to be property.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:09 AM
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You are oppressed if you are not allowed to choose your life for yourself and placed under the complete control of another person. And you are certainly hated if you are considered morally and intellectually inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:35 PM
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Women did not stay in the home. They worked in many fields. They just typically did not control their own finances. And don’t bullshit about it not being hate when religious texts all over the place explicitly hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:09 PM
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Aww. Are you completely passive? Women just shouldn’t select men at all if this is how they behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 05:00 AM
2

Not really. Maternal morality rate is lower is most developed nations. And they don’t have as many guns either. So lower murder rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:18 AM
2

In the US murder is more common than obstetric causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:43 AM
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The older ways of thinking are based on hatred towards women. Misogyny results in real world violence and oppression. Misandry results it people saying mean things on the internet. They are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:39 AM
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Really? They wouldn’t just convulse trust men commit more crimes? No one is advocating for castration. Don’t be ridiculous. There are actual bills out there to legalize murdering women that have abortions. There are people actually advocating removing the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:34 AM
1

That’s a lot of propaganda against women everywhere else. Women don’t value themselves there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:52 PM
8

And whenever they want is not very much at all with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:17 AM
6

You can keep them. Those gifts ain’t free.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:24 PM
14

Women don’t travel for sex. They don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:22 PM
9

Women don’t travel to hook up. And why go to a hostel when we can go to a hotel and not put up with strangers? Women tend to travel with friends for safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:20 PM
1

You mean in an incubator not another person’s body? That’s birth. You do realize the limit for abortion is when the it can survive outside of the body right? Not counting procedures done because the baby is missing organs and such and won’t survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:32 PM
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Her words used for satire. Are men and women treated differently? Do men generally have more authority than women in most societies throughout history? That’s patriarchy, baby. Also known as machismo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:28 PM
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But patriarchy has and still does exist. That’s undeniable. Male collective guilt is some sort of bogey man that’s haunting your dreams though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:17 PM
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Patriarchy and collective guilt of men are not the same thing. Do you deny men and women are treated differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:12 PM
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That’s what she was doing. You know that are pretending that you don’t. If her proposals horrify you then you should be horrified by how women are treated too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:10 PM
8

That’s not a feminist concept. It’s satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:08 PM
8

Plenty of funny rape jokes exist. Go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:07 PM
10

Abortion is illegal in many places. Child marriage is legal in many places. Divorce is illegal in many places. I don’t doubt state ordained impregnating programs are possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:07 PM
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It’s satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:05 PM
1

So? That has nothing to do with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:05 PM
7

You know very well what she’s doing and are pretending that you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:04 PM
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She said nothing wrong. If men having their bodies policed outrages you then you should feel that way about women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:03 PM
2

Bodily autonomy is from the feminist textbook. Collective male guilt is a bogey man invented by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:01 PM
5

Is not an excuse. It’s satire. That’s is explicitly the case. You are deliberately misrepresenting her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:59 PM
6

No such thing as unborn kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:57 PM
8

Nah. It was meant to sound abhorrent to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:57 PM
6

Joking to show that men shouldn’t have their voting rights taken away either? That would be fine then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:57 PM
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The point is that women are being treated that way right now. But when men are treated in dehumanizing ways it strikes a nerve. Maybe women shouldn’t treated that way either? Your example would be just fine if it was used to make a similar point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:54 PM
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No it’s doesn’t. Feminism supports bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:45 PM
1

Because it’s a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:44 PM
9

Don’t be ridiculous. You know what you’re doing. You know she’s not being serious. And you know this is not “established feminist doctrine”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:42 PM
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No you don’t. There are plenty of people that have never had sex and are fine. I think we would all be better off without it. Its this bizarre fixation people have on it that is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:53 AM
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You don’t die from lack of sex. Find other things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:38 AM
11

He was convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:23 PM
1

Your fault for not choosing better then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:53 PM
5

You can always just choose nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:44 AM
5

Red flags. Not the difficulty of leaving an abusive situation. The red flags are well known by that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:37 AM
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That’s not what the conversation has ever been about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:59 PM
3

That’s because of their extroversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:58 PM
11

So then men should listen to women, right? Why is it that when the bystander men talk about abusers they always say they never expected it because he was such a nice guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:57 PM
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Oh boy. The hypocrisy. Rules for ther but not for me. Red flags are almost never easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:56 PM
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I don’t think you were at fault. People don’t know what they don’t know. Are you advocating for beta bux? And you realize Billy the accountant can be just as bad, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:55 PM
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You first. You provide data that children are just fine in impoverished circumstances. Or to parents that are mentally ill or traumatized themselves. My experiences are not just my own. Several in my family and my community have suffered the same. It’s better to take the side of caution and not bring people into a family that’s is not prepared to care for and love them. Children should be planned. Not made to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:56 PM
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There’s a lot more examples of people who don’t want children or even quite a few who do want children who grow to abuse and resent the child. That’s what happened to my brother and I when our mom didn’t want us but had us anyway. That’s what happened to mom when grandma didn’t want her. That’s what happened to grandma with her mom too. All forced to have kids by their families all miserable and hateful because of it. Most people don’t qualify to be parents. Stop spreading misery in this world. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:25 PM
1

So just break up then. No big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:43 PM
2

Most relationships are not dead bedrooms. And half are the men being uninterested. Relationships end because everything ends. Nothing lasts forever. That’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:11 PM
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Yes. A relationship generally includes fucking unless they are ace.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:37 PM
3

Being brought into a family that resents you and does not want you is a life of suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:36 PM
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No. The definition of husband material is the same as yours of wifey material. This is someone I want to spend my life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:33 PM
3

It’s usually an embryo. Not even a fetus yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:07 AM
3

That’s even more absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:06 AM
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It’s not possible to be an unborn child. You have to be born to be a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:41 PM
8

So they should just be brought into existence to suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:24 PM
10

No such thing. It’s a contradiction in terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:23 PM
2

Would they live if they are still in the womb in that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:03 PM
3

Don’t you think it’s heartless to bring a child into this world only so they can suffer being resented by their family?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:55 PM
4

That doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:54 PM
4

When I was able to be alive outside of the womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:47 PM
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You heartless monster. I hope you understand that a child cannot live without love. They should never be accidents. My mother did not want me and abused me terribly for it. Just like her mother did not want her and did the same. Children should never be born unwanted. That’s true evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:46 PM
1

That’s an activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:39 PM
3

It’s not a child. It’s clump of cells. Imagine how irresponsible you have to be to allow that condition to become one if you aren’t completely certain you have the resources or emotional maturity to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:39 PM
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People should have all the consensual sex they want. And protection can fail. I really do look forward to the day when babies are born in labs only.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:37 PM
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Failures can happen. Medical complications can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:35 PM
5

Globally about 1 in 4 pregnancies end in abortion. About 1/3 of women in the US have had one. Good. Having children should be carefully planned not just a consequence of failed birth control methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:34 PM
3

It’s a part of a woman’s body. Not a separate human.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:31 PM
6

I think it’s evil to bring people into this world unwanted. They will only suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:28 PM
3

It is only a child when it’s born. Before that it is a medical condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:25 PM
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Because children are expensive and pregnancy is a horrible thing that leaves lifelong health complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:24 PM
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The women who have abortions are making a good, responsible choice. The women who keep unwanted pregnancies are idiots that are spreading more pain into this world. Yeah children are weak defenseless creatures who trust their momma with everything. This is why most people are not qualified to have children. They should have the self awareness to accept that and abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:21 PM
2

Ok. So? Extravagant bullshit is just a waste. Not happy? Break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:26 PM
9

Ok. Not happy? Break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:25 PM
6

If you’re using a vagina to orgasm you’re not doing it by yourself. If women have to rub one out when you’re done then they’re just masturbating. But if you really feel that you get nothing from the woman then please understand that sex is not important and you really don’t need to have sex at all! I would love men to accept this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:28 PM
1

This is spoken about constantly. The dilution is for men to listen to be vulnerable with other men. It used to be standard that best buddies were emotional lifelines. Too bad we moved away from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:57 PM
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If women have to orgasm all by themselves what is the point of sex? You’re not doing your part. You’re just using her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:56 PM
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One woman that wasn’t even a feminist murdering a man is not an indictment on feminism especially when you consider the all the murders in the world of men against women. Legalizing rape will reduce rape? That’s the craziest thing I’ve ever heard. Incels want to rape. If they can’t have that they want to murder. It’s what they are known for almost exclusively. Telling men they should get vasectomies so that they don’t have to pay child support is not a forced vasectomy. A forced vasectomy is whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:50 PM
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The worst I’ve heard from incels are murder plots, legalized rape, legalized pedophilia, the erosion of human rights for women etc. I don’t know where you’re getting forced vasectomies from. The worst I’ve ever seen from feminists is building a female only commune.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:43 PM
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10% is a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:14 PM
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It’s definitely a society issue and it’s caused by late stage capitalism and access to firearms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:00 PM
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Guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:59 AM
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Feminists aren’t saying men go crazy when they can’t get laid. Men say that. Feminists think men can live just fine without sex if they try.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:49 AM
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“Physical intimacy” is not about loneliness. You want physical intimacy? Go get a hug. You want to nut inside someone’s body? That’s what sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:07 AM
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Men’s issues such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:26 PM
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Men’s issues can be solved by democratic socialism. Unless men’s issues are all about access to sex. Which is just asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:25 PM
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Sex does not alleviate loneliness. Talking to people does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:17 PM
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No it’s not. Go masturbate is the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:16 PM
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You’re not a baby. Go hug your friends if you need body contact so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:16 PM
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They are still an issue. Women’s rights are still being questioned just because we are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:37 PM
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How are they ignoring it? Misogynists admit to all of it. They are mad that women don’t want to fuck them or have their kids or be subservient to them. It’s not an assumption. So if we believe misogynists at their word then why shouldn’t we believe misandrists at their word?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:02 PM
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Sex is not supposed to be a chore. It’s about both participants. If one is not in the mood it’s not happening. Don’t have kids if you don’t like being too tired for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:38 AM
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This is a joke, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:46 PM
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Yeah so? There will also be a man protecting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:02 PM
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That’s weddings. Men here obsess about having a woman that belongs to him in his mind. Most conservative men seem to do this. It’s the surest access to sex for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:43 PM
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Nothing wrong with not committing. Are either of them abusive or controlling?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:48 PM
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They don’t have telepathy either. They love the manipulator just as much as anyone else. They are blindsided just like everyone else and never believe such a “great guy” can be an abuser. The best thing a woman can do is weed out conservatives. That’s the best clue we are ever going to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:42 PM
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Honestly they were most likely neurodivergent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:41 PM
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And how would anyone know what kind of man he’s going to be until they try him out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:13 PM
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And how do you expect to activate telepathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:17 PM
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No one personally broncos from evolutionary strategy. Raising a child is about emotional fulfillment. Passing on genes makes no one particularly happy. Women don’t typically just become single moms by choice. Unless they’re going for a sperm donor and most of those are well off. A large number of single moms are divorced. How are they going to abort an 8 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:17 PM
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Everyone that’s roasting you here for one. You whine and moan about the lack of love and then you admit you done see them as equals. That’s a prerequisite. Then you claim they have to have children to prove they love you and you do what? Work a job you already have to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:19 PM
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I would say the same about yours. People are not supposed to be trapped in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:17 PM
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I would absolutely claim that. People aren’t trapped together anymore. People want relationships out of love and not survival. That’s definitely better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:33 AM
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What sacrifice? They’re the ones doing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:31 AM
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You can’t love someone that you don’t regard as your equal. You just want them to sacrifice themselves for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:39 AM
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Nothing lasts forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:20 AM
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There are no certainties in life. Why should this be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:20 AM
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Or she could just marry a man that doesn’t want kids. I’d sounds to me like you just want them as proof of her loyalty and not for you to put in the work of raising them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:18 AM
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Y’all really don’t understand consent, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:45 PM
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Being seen as sexy and being seen as an object are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:40 PM
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He came and went. It was Ronald Reagan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:11 PM
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So in visual porn they like women. In fanfiction they like men. And in commercial porn they like the heteros. Women are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:27 PM
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The richest man in the world and he had to “choose” IVF. Interesting. Maybe women being interested in lesbian porn means that you shouldn’t trust women around your wife then. Lol Women have a very reactive sexuality. The visuals are not the focus. It is about the details of the pleasure or the details of the relationship if they like the characters. They do seek out porn for themselves and it is largely written porn. And the written porn is very often about men having sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:50 PM
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Elon Musk’s kids are from IVF. The mothers are essentially surrogates who agreed to have them for pay. No one likes him. Fantasies are often a result of taboos. Not a reflection of what anyone wants. Or do you think most men are really interested in incest considering how common it is in porn? Woman like amateur porn when it is made with them in mind. It’s not as available as the lesbian porn. You would never watch gay porn because you have plenty of porn made for you. When women want porn it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:34 PM
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Dating. Is . Not. Money. Sex is not a resource. It’s an activity. One with the potential to be severely traumatic and dangerous. Women are not going to give up sex for men they don’t want. Not anymore. Elon Musk is not hot. Fantasies are just fantasies. They are exciting and safe. Lesbian porn is the only porn category with any focus on female pleasure rather than female humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:51 PM
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But would you put up with men being weird to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:50 PM
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Analogies don’t work. Getting laid as a woman and getting laid as a man are not the same. Getting laid for men is positive. Getting laid for women is more of a mixed feelings kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:21 PM
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Y’all can talk to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:19 PM
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Men in your DMs as a woman mostly feel threatening. Not complimentary. And I think most men feel the same way. Women in your DMs as a woman mostly feel complimentary. These things are not equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:18 PM
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Men would kill for the insane privilege of random men in your dms? Really??? I doubt that. Women would not mind at all having random women in their dms complimenting them. These things are not equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:25 PM
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All sexuality is genitalia rubbing and by definition very silly. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:21 PM
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Should she date men that are not hot? What would be the point of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:18 PM
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I’ve been reading this shit longer than most of you have ever even heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:35 PM
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They say treat women like they are the oldest teenagers in the house. Even though women usually manage the house and everyone’s needs. To the point that there are men that go to the dentist and don’t even know why they are there because his wife makes all the appointments like he’s a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:34 PM
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The majority? Most people are not successful with any of this and then wise up or turn to black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:32 PM
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That’s a bleak way to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:31 PM
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Negging and treating your SO like everything they say is worthless are social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:50 PM
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Red pill advice is bullying and manipulation. The fitness stuff is common sense that everyone will tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:17 PM
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The best age for women to have a child is in her 30s when her education is done and her career is on track. That is if she even wants a child at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:54 PM
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Hotter than Beyoncé?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 01:47 PM
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From an ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 01:46 PM
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It’s barely there. Most of the time it’s a gag.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:50 PM
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Then why are they there? It’s not called a money shot for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:23 PM
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To society? No. To the Epstein class that rules over us all however…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:52 PM
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But other people have. That’s what the I don’t need men thing is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:46 PM
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That’s right. You didn’t. But when women say they don’t need men that’s the idea they are against. The very common belief that women exist to marry and serve a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:45 PM
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There are women in every industry. There are male child care providers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:15 PM
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As a collective interested in keeping the species alive? Sure. But does every individual person have to marry? No. But until relatively recently women were considered worthless and pathetic if they didn’t. Unless she’s a nun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:13 PM
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Right. But that’s the point. They don’t need to get married for any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:11 PM
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Practically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:31 PM
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Ok. Needing a man means needing money though. That’s how traditional relationships work. What you’re describing is wanting someone to be desperately infatuated with you. It’s more of a want than a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:04 AM
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No. How so? Women had no choice but to marry for thousands of years. Now they don’t have to do that. They just need to make money and pay for stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:13 AM
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For money. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:44 AM
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Yeah. That’s why they don’t want to do it. The former group of men is taking credit and pride in another persons labor. The second group of women is saying no thanks, that sucks, not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:46 PM
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When women say they don’t need men they don’t mean they don’t need workers. They mean they don’t need sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:45 PM
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Hooray for beta bux then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:41 PM
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Are you sure about that? Boomers had marriages, but they are not known for being happy in their marriages. Getting married and having kids is just what you did because everyone did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:40 PM
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Anthropological interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:11 PM
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How much they lust after women’s beauty you mean. And if you think women can’t also lust like that you haven’t seen fanart and fanfic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:25 AM
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They never used to. It was a financial agreement. No one pretended to be in love. Now love is a factor. Or people can just pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:58 AM
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Holy shit that is a hilarious thing to say considering the treatment of women throughout all of human history. No, love was never an interest of part of the deal. It was for sex and breeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:45 PM
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You understand I was supporting you here right? Because the right circumstances is usually being a man because they tend to be filled with entitlement and rage. Any man a woman is with has the potential to be a danger. No such thing as a perfectly safe man or choosing perfectly unlike what these guys believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:39 PM
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Sex with a woman. Love was not a consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:42 PM
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Under the right circumstances anyone is capable of anything. It’s impossible to predict. Only way to win is not to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:40 PM
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Oh y’all think you’re the good men? The good men are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:36 PM
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They don’t seem to realize that they will be brutalized almost immediately in any post apocalyptic scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:16 PM
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Success in any endeavor is mostly luck. Capitalism is rigged and based mostly on the circumstances of birth. Dating is also based mostly on circumstances of birth. The difference is that dating is frivolous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:14 PM
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Sounds like petty whining to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:45 PM
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People say that. But then how do we know unless they report it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:50 PM
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Domestic violence rates are through the roof for bi women with male partners. And 1/3rd of lesbians were reporting abuse from male partners too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:09 AM
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A house is a thing. A new hip is a thing. Insulting is a thing. They are resources. Oil and coal is also produced and extracted by people. Those are resources still. Are you asking for government prostitutes then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:15 AM
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I doubt get what you mean by not being entitled to labor. No one is asking them to do it for free. The government pays them. Housing, oil, coal, and money are resources. Money that buys healthcare. I don’t get what you’re advocating for here. Are you trying to legalize rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:58 PM
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Ok. You want a prostitute? Maybe UBI can help with that. Which part is being referred to in the second paragraph? Healthcare or housing? Either way, the government can pay people for birth of those things. It’s not like they are given for free. Sex is not a resource. No one owes you access to their body. Stop obsessing over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:01 PM
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Being malnourished leads to health complications. Oh no! You’re missing out on an experience? What a medical emergency. I’ve never been to Disneyland. Do I deserve pity?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:50 PM
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Umm. Yes. People do die from being hungry and malnourished. Just go masturbate. You’ll be fine. Suicide rates are more about financial troubles than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:44 PM
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You’re not going to die from lack of sex. You don’t even suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:30 PM
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The money needed to properly access medical services is a resource. Other countries have it figured out. The US is deliberately cruel on this front. Housing is absolutely a resource and there is plenty to go around. Don’t be dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:29 PM
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Sexless? Virgin? Tomayto. Tomahto. If you’re not a virgin then you’re not sexless. No debt? In this economy? Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:19 PM
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No. Most young men are not virgins. And once again, sex is not a resource. No one owes you their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:04 PM
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Most men are workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:00 PM
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They’re making the world a more fair place for workers. Sorry you worship the billionaire class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:47 PM
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So you want women to stop trying to make the world a better place with less injustice and suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:41 PM
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JFC. Sex is not a resource. It’s an activity that no one should ever be ok pressured into. Money is a resource being hoarded by people at the top from the labor of people that actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:38 PM
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Hey man, you’re the one with the oedipal complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:20 PM
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So say the gender that can’t handle being celibate. So women should go for beta bux? Got it. Would you like to marry a woman you’re not attracted to if she was a good caregiver? What is the point of marrying an unattractive person? Better to be alone isn’t it? It’s so weird that guys assume all handsome men are abusive and all ugly men are saints.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:08 PM
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Men want women around for sex. So there’s that. Also, dangerous jobs are done by men because they pay well without a degree. More women should have the opportunity if they want it. I don’t see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:45 PM
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All the more reason to never date men. They want a woman to be their mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:08 PM
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Why should she choose that “friend” if she’s not attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:06 PM
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The baby boom was awful. It got us the boomers…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:03 PM
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Uh huh. Sure you are. Women learning to be cautious is not the same as blaming you. So many men here say women should learn responsibility for choosing bad men and then get mad when women try to be careful. Oh but you’re not a bad man? How would they know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:25 AM
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Once again. The responsibility is in the person committing the crime. How can a persons character be judged when they dedicate themselves to hiding who they are? I don’t date. I’m autistic. I can’t read people very well. I don’t expect it from other people either. Social cues seem like nonsense. I wonder if you hold the same standard for men who lose everything in divorce. They should have judged her character, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:22 AM
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No. All of the responsibility lies with the abuser. People are not mind readers. People can’t predict the future. It’s impossible to know. It takes a lot to leave an abusive relationship because when you try to leave is when you are in the most danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:05 AM
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No it’s isn’t because they will defend him and say he would never do that just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:42 AM
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No. One is abusing the other. The responsibility is in the abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:40 AM
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You’re not responsible for the scammers actions. Especially when it’s impossible to know it’s a scam until you’ve been scammed. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:11 PM
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Sometimes. And sometimes they end up not being great partners. Can’t know until you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:54 PM
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So stop trying? Ok. Most women are going to try to find the needle in the haystack. They might find it. Or give up. That’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:13 PM
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The only suitable change would then be to stop dating entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:12 PM
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Nah. Rejection is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:10 PM
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How do they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:10 PM
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They choose men they are attracted to. There is no purpose or incentive in choosing men they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:09 PM
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What actions are we referring to here? We thought it was abuse but apparently it’s not that. Men aren’t being blamed as a group. But once bitten. Twice shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:04 PM
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People have every right to reject someone. No one has a right to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:03 PM
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Women. To change what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:57 PM
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Nope. Human freedom is a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:56 PM
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They are. Women are more and more comfortable not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:56 PM
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That’s advice. Men ask advice and they are given advice. What else are we as we supposed to say? Sucks to be you and move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:55 PM
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Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:54 PM
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People are not accountable for other people’s actions. You are accountability dodging. Every accusation really is a confession isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:54 PM
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Rejecting someone is not a bad thing to do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:50 PM
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Imperfect methods. The only way to win is not to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:50 PM
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To change how?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:49 PM
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Of men. Men are responsible for those.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:47 PM
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Accountability for men’s actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:47 PM
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What else could you possibly mean? You know perfectly well women are blamed for being in an abusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:46 PM
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Like what negative outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:42 PM
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Men can’t attract women and they are blamed? No. They’re just unfortunate or unlucky. Unless they’re actually doing something wrong like trying to attract women with a verbal dissertation on the Turner Diaries or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:42 PM
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People are not mind readers. No one is responsible for another persons actions. Why should women be responsible for men’s actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:38 PM
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Why else would she?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:42 PM
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Cause it’s endearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:34 PM
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Lovers implies fun and good vibes. Can’t have that with someone bossing you around. I don’t know what you mean by the man setting the pace of the relationship or how a relationship even has a pace. People just have conversations like friends do. Lovers are friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:58 PM
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On the contrary. They’re always the ones having to tell the men to do his job. Do the dishes, take out the garbage, mow the lawn. As relationships progress the husband turns into a teenage boy with a mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:56 PM
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No. It’s gross. A relationship is a friendship. You’re supposed to be buddies. Anyway. The woman is the master when the man courts her and sets up dates to amuse her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:31 AM
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No. When she demands that he set up a date to cater to her it’s “obey me”. He’s doing as he’s told. Like a good little servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:29 AM
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Amuse me now. Chop chop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:06 PM
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It’s not providing direction. It’s providing amusement. Providing direction in the relationship as a leader would be ordering her around and telling her they are going to live together or get married at this specific date or they’re going to break up. Or telling her she can’t go out to girls night. She can’t talk to her male friends. My way or the highway stuff. Being a leader and not a partner is bad. I don’t think the servant/jester stage is any better either. Hanging out should be. There’s th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:05 PM
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I don’t date. So no. And the reason women go for it is because men have to convince them they are worth their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:17 PM
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To placate, charm. and amuse. It’s being a servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:17 PM
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All that dating stuff, the planning, the paying, the courtship is not leadership. It’s service.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:45 PM
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If their major concern is being expected to be the primary bread winner then yes, capitalism and income inequality are the biggest issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:22 PM
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The natural ultimate goal is a good time. That’s what money is for too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:46 AM
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Lots of people become DINKs, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:45 AM
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Sure. But the stereotype that the majority of men are in stem and the majority of women are in humanities is a myth. The most common are business. Men go into humanities more than stem. And women go into medicine, nursing, or pharmacy more often than the humanities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:01 PM
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It’s about 60/40 women to men. Not twice as many. There are also more men in social sciences than tech and engineering. Men overall study 25% stem compared to 75% anything else. Men aren’t stem lords.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:36 PM
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In the US? Government benefits? Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:54 PM
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The majority of people in the US study business, medicine, social sciences, biology, and psychology. There are more men in social sciences and business than in tech. There are more women in medicine or business than in humanities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:47 PM
1

I’m saying all of you would look better if you wore make up like actors do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:24 AM
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As we are so will you be. Hopefully y’all start wearing make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:33 PM
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True for women. Not directly true for men. They dress for women. Whom they want to have sex with to impress other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:12 PM
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All to attract women. Women have high standards now that men have to meet. Dance! Dance!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:00 PM
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I’m from a Cuban family. You better believe the gender bullshit there was terrifying. The idea of my father dating was laughable to him. He offered women money and they agreed to be a bang maid. Three marriages with 2 kids each marriage wrecked when they dared to ask him take care of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:44 PM
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I’m ace. No thanks on any of that. Men and women of your parents generation DESPISED each other. That’s where we get the boomer hate my wife jokes. Women were not seen as fully human. Not even by women themselves. People married for economic needs. Liking each other was not in the cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:12 PM
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Sarcasm tag missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:16 PM
3

So then they do monkey branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:12 PM
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What do you call a 50 year old man jumping to a younger woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:00 PM
6

That’s oddly specific to you don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:58 PM
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Take care of your responsibilities. Take care of your home. Take care of your health. Don’t expect other people to parent you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:43 PM
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No. It implies being a caregiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:10 PM
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What’s money have to do with it? Women don’t want to be a mom to a grown man. We don’t want to clean up after you and set up your doctor’s appointments. We don’t want to do all the chores while men play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:07 PM
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That’s a bizarre concept of childhood. I don’t think most kids shave their head unless they’re like Calvin from Calvin and Hobbes. And how does a kid set up a rocket company?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:04 PM
2

One of the most common porn categories is incest porn…what should we take away from that about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:04 PM
2

Everyone lies to make each other feel good. Not even just in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:55 PM
2

It’s ok to think it. Lots of people do. I don’t think anyone says it just no one actually says that Chad was better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:54 PM
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That shiny pick up owned by a rich guy is not being used for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:39 AM
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And if none of those red flags exist and things go to shit anyway as is usually the case? Waiting until marriage is stupid. Then you get really surprised like the dumb Christians and Mormons living with abusers. The best thing to do is date for YEARS before it gets to that point and find out what they are like to live with and what they are like in a crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:59 PM
2

There is some drinkable swamp water. Swamps can act like water purification systems but it’s hard to figure out which is which.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:57 PM
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Wow you put a lot of words into my mouth. Ugly men are not en masse good men just by virtue of being ugly. And yeah, a lot of them are resentful. And they’re not attractive so why should women give men they are not attracted to a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:55 PM
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And a lot of the time they seem fine then turn out to be unreliable at best once the kids are a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:24 PM
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It’s freaking impossible to figure out. Everyone thinks they’re good until things all go to shit. Then true colors come out. No one can ever tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:22 PM
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Every human being is a potential monster. Under the right circumstances anyone is capable of anything good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:12 PM
1

How? Is it written on their forehead?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:07 PM
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It’s almost impossible to tell a good man from bad. That’s why it’s swamp water. And don’t tell women ugly men are good men. They’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:35 PM
1

It balances things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:57 AM
2

So that a child he brought into this world can have what it needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:53 AM
2

Right. Because the horror of pregnancy occurs in their bodies. Biology is not fair. The law compensates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:46 AM
2

People shit out money in your world? Or what? Is it milked out of your teats?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:45 AM
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Are your organs being sold? Are they conducting medical experiments in you? No? Then that’s your personal liberty not your body. I would much rather all children receive a UBI instead of depending on their fickle parents. I will gladly pay more taxes for that. But since we don’t have that then people that produced the child pay. In absence of UBI, I’d even go so far as to support a window where unmarried men can opt out as long as abortion access is increased everywhere and married/divorced/opt …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:44 AM
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What is he selling a kidney?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:27 AM
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Making money is not a product of your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:26 AM
2

Adopted parents will then be the parents. If the father wants the kid instead he can take it and the mother has to pay the child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:25 AM
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That is not bodily autonomy. That’s financial autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:24 AM
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Money is not an organ or a product of your body. It’s just money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:23 AM
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Your body is not being affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:22 AM
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Right. The terrible process happens in their own bodies. The choice is theirs not yours. Once the baby is born it’s then a child and therefore more important than the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:12 AM
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It’s jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:46 PM
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Ok? So? Wouldn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:41 PM
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Wouldn’t it be nice if everyone treated each other delicately?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:30 PM
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But everyone opens doors for everyone else. It’s just courtesy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:29 PM
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The ERA would have made selective service gender neutral. Conservatives defeated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:27 PM
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They are looking for attractive men or peaceful single life. What you are describing is in this subs terms the classic beta bux scenario. Older men are seen as useful. Not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:59 PM
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Abuse of men is underreported because sex is pointless and gross? Men don’t value women either. They value vaginas and women are disgusted by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:27 PM
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Because women don’t like sex all that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:20 PM
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Everyone agrees though. As far as heterosexuals go, sex with women? High demand. Sex with men? Low demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:17 PM
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The unfortunate real world where men throw tantrums over female protagonists and women can’t post an image celebrating her phd without being harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:40 PM
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People gravitate towards religion for the sake of community and hope. Women are more interested in the former and depending on the culture more in need of the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:06 PM
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So what? Relationships don’t have to last forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:50 AM
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Isn’t that just true? You can pick one up on any street.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:34 AM
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That’s hilarious. Women can’t breathe in the direction of a man without men being offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:33 AM
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Don’t threaten me with a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:19 AM
1

Not their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:17 AM
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It’s is the height of maturity to enjoy independence. It’s the height of immaturity to need someone not even to be happy. Just to feel validated. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:16 AM
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Who decides that? Why should any woman care what men think her desirability match is? People like what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:13 AM
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There we go again. Taking credit for other people’s work. Women don’t have to be submissive to some customer service agent they are on a date with just because a couple of guys invented the airplane just like men don’t have to be submissive to a barista they’re on a date with just because women calculated the trajectory of the moon landing by hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:06 AM
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It’s not social media. People just like what they like. I don’t think porn distorts what men are attracted to either. I think what porn does for both men and women is normalize degrading sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:33 AM
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On social media everything is an apocalypse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:39 PM
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Really? Doesn’t seem like the women have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:16 PM
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Their influence stretches to every bit of modern conservatism and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:38 PM
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Financial dependence is not a good condition to be under. It is the biggest risk factor for abuse. And it certainly does not make up for lost wages or career advancement. Me can have it both ways. They can be fathers with no wage penalty. It is a joke to say there is no male privilege when that double standard exists. The Women are wonderful effect and the empathy gap are bullshit. It is a consequence of not being seen as a threat. It does not result in respect. Quite the contrary. Men are victi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:37 PM
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The current political climate including the manosphere and were orchestrated and influenced by Epstein through his influence on pol and Bannon’s on gamergate. Wage gap is still real. It exists as a motherhood penalty. Male privilege is undoubtedly real. Men are seen as the default and the only fully human people in most countries in the world. Rampant misogyny is absolutely real. Just look at what the people in power have been up to. Rampant sexual assault is real. Every woman has been the victi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:23 AM
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But that’s all the red pill is. Men advocating to other men to be amoral in dating. This includes lies, cheating, and manipulation. There is a big difference in lying about your past and lying about your intentions. A person’s sexual past is their own business. What they want out of a relationship actually affects you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:11 AM
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So say the people falling for psyops by Epstein and Steve Bannon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:54 AM
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There’s a difference between one night stands where everyone is on the same page and between straight up lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:51 AM
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Evolutionary psychology is quackery with no way to prove or disprove its claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:41 PM
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It’s impossible to respect and appreciate someone you control or see as lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:43 PM
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Wanting to fuck a woman is not loving or cherishing them. It’s neutral at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:42 PM
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If this was for women’s protection then they would have been able to divorce at will. The biggest threat to a woman has always been her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:41 PM
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Ok. So religions can drop their outdated narratives then if what you are saying is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:40 PM
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Women are not children. Treating any adult like a child, be it for their gender or another race is undoubtedly hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:38 PM
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That’s hatred. Treating adult human beings as inferior is hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:37 PM
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My mom got married specifically because she couldn’t have her own account where she lived as a single woman. And don’t give me that shit that people respected women more when they couldn’t vote. They had to work their asses off for any respect at all. They were not allowed because they were not deemed as full adults capable of making decisions for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:29 PM
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Resources for themselves or the people they were ruled by. The women and children were just resources as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:24 PM
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Their husbands? The ones most likely to hurt them? Not a bit of protection from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:22 PM
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Religion is most important for people with little hope or power. That’s why it’s the home of the poor and the desperate. Higher standard of living is correlated with lower religiosity. Women are just as likely to be misogynistic as men when raised in those environments. They think if they play the game they get what they need. It’s only the baaadd women that suffer. After all, tired just how things are. Just like my Cuban cousins that accepted their limited role because they thought it meant the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:19 PM
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Uh huh. You can read their minds I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:26 PM
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Men also have hormonal cycles throughout the day. And we all know testosterone is related to violence and anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:36 AM
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That’s cute to say when the major motivator of conservative movements is spite. And look, you reference fiction as your proof. Adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:35 AM
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Amber Heard will be vindicated one day. The scam played against her was outrageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:30 PM
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I say we’re here for no particular reason. But anyway. Childbirth is a grizzly business and OP wants to know what individuals want from it that makes it worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:08 AM
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We make decisions according to what we want out of life. Lots of people go against biology and decide not to have children. People have reasons to have children as well. They don’t just do it mindlessly out of biological imperative. They do it because it will make them happy in some way. Do you want children? Why? In what way will it make you happy? Will it give you meaning? Unconditional love? Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:15 PM
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Yes! That’s extremely misandrist and misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:10 PM
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And it’s all a lie because he doesn’t like you. A romance is a friendship. What you’re describing is not intimacy. It’s better to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:05 PM
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Content unavailable. All I’ve seen before are “We just had a baby. My wife isn’t paying as much attention to me. Whyyyy?” Followed by responses by the TRPs that she’s disrespecting him and sees him as a beta. No thought about the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:08 PM
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You can love someone you don’t respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:05 PM
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Nah. How about both?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:02 PM
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Disgusting mind game bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:01 PM
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The one where men are jealous of their newborns and torment their wives about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:56 PM
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Sure. That’s not an answer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:58 PM
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If there is no monogamy then there is no romantic relationship. You’re FWB. Make that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:22 PM
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It certainly wasn’t egalitarian back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:14 PM
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Splitting the bill is a feminist position and has been for a long time. Yeah she doesn’t owe you anything if you do chores. I don’t know if chores make men more attractive or not but if that idea is what it takes for men to help out? Whatever. Women are avoiding MAGA this is just true. Why wouldn’t they? Nah. TRP says manipulate and bully instead. Everyone expects monogamy in a relationship. Otherwise it’s not a relationship. What game are you playing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:18 AM
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You can’t be red pill and love your partner. That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:32 AM
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Really? All of them are ignoring everything their wives say and making them paranoid that they’re cheating for dread game?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:31 AM
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Then we’re taking everything women contributed with us. Including the basics of agriculture and software. Seriously though. Why are internet creepies so insistent on taking credit for the accomplishments of others? Just because a man did something somewhere doesn’t mean you deserve any credit for it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:11 PM
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I don’t know what was confusing about what I said. The clit is rarely stimulated during intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:28 PM
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Because men are desperate for sex and women can live without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:19 PM
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Stimulated outside of PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:19 PM
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Well what do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:16 PM
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I would also be happy paying taxes for childcare and healthcare provided by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:17 AM
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Beta bux means marrying a passionless choice for his resources. It’s a business deal. Just like most of human history. If a woman should find both desire and resources in a man then you should stop complaining about women’s high standards. That’s hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:14 AM
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So she wanted kids and didn’t have them? That’s very different from people who don’t want kids and don’t have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:12 AM
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Why are you wasting time on tik tok?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:11 AM
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Nah. We’re happy childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:11 AM
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I don’t understand the statement. Children owe nothing to their parents either. Parenthood must be selfless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:01 PM
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“Beta bux” is the right way to have a family. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:59 PM
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For it to grow outside if the body instead of endangering us and changing us irreversibly. You make it sound like they are crafted out of clay and inspiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:59 PM
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You don’t even have to leave your house to buy the stuff you want or get the entertainment or food you want. Life is safer than it’s ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:57 PM
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Also the easiest time to never have to put up with being a mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:54 PM
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As far as physical violence goes? Yes. They typically are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:27 PM
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You could say that, but misogyny has always existed regardless of women’s behavior. We just need to exist as a different type of person and there it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:29 PM
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Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:12 PM
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Well it’s the truth. Every woman has experienced hatred and abuse from men. You’ve always despised us. You’ve always seen us as lesser. Don’t you think that makes us upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:56 PM
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Sorry that happened to you. But you do know SA is a common experience among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:48 PM
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Were you raped? Were you treated like you are an inferior creature who couldn’t accomplish anything meaningful?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:43 PM
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You can’t see that persons life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:09 PM
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Misandry is a reaction to misogyny. Have you noticed the misogyny in this sub? It’s everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:51 PM
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So a lifetime of resentment sounds like companionship to you because at least you’d be miserable together? If so, this is why men wanting women more has nothing to do with loving them more like the OP is insisting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:37 PM
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The feminist stance is the bill is split. The patriarchal stance is the man pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:53 PM
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I have no idea who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:52 PM
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Eh? Fairer sex means hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:48 PM
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Says the person who claims women don’t pay bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:47 PM
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Please be serious. They are no more a person than a toenail. Cruelty is bringing a child into the world by mistake with a life you know will not support their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:39 PM
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A clump of cells is not a baby. It’s not a baby until it’s born. No child should never be born unwanted. Abortion is a responsible choice. Bringing a child into a terrible world to suffer is not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:48 PM
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A clump of cells is not a baby. It’s a baby when it’s born and no child should ever be born unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:46 PM
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There are no children involved in abortion. It’s shutting down a dangerous and harmful process occurring in the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:34 PM
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Very relevant. Sex is not loving someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:59 PM
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What do children have to do with love? Women don’t need to get married anymore. It’s not a top priority but if they find someone to love, maybe they will or just live together it’s the same thing. Wanting children means you absolutely need a ban either way lots of money. Having kids is like running a business.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:45 PM
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That’s a possibility but back then before feminism that was 100% the case
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:44 PM
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Women put up with men because they could not support themselves. They married for money. They don’t need your money know. So they can raise their standards. Why is this hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:18 PM
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That wasn’t romance, buddy. That was a need to be in a relationship to not be in poverty. It was transactional. Now women are looking for love. Most men are just not lovable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:02 PM
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Wanting someone as a garbage can for your semen is not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:58 PM
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Sex is entirely superficial. Stop mistaking attraction and lust with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:58 PM
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Sex is entirely superficial. It is the most superficial thing there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:56 PM
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Women love their children. Most men don’t love anyone. They don’t want to take care of their kids and they are only with women for sex..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:54 PM
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Before feminism, women married men they despised because they needed to be married to not live in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:51 PM
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Men are in lust. Most men do not love women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:49 PM
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Maybe? I haven’t seen any evidence of that. Ive seen lots of great cosplay though. So which cares where they’re from?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:00 AM
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Cosplayers? Sure. Links to an Only Fans? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:57 AM
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I’m just genuinely surprised I’ve never seen one then. Not once.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:50 AM
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I’m in every sort of nerdy hobby and I’ve never seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:29 AM
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I’m an asexual and I honestly hate how awful the sex industry is for the safety of women. But you’ve made OF sound so incredibly based.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:23 AM
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So then she should just put up with playing mommy to him for the rest of their life because of that? What’s the benefit here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:20 PM
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I think many more women agree with me than you’d think. Some men too. It’s used for validation more than connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:59 PM
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Why should we shame men being nice even if it’s for their own gain?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:46 PM
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Yes we know. Every tactic will be tried to get laid. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:24 PM
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Rape culture discussion started in second wave. Rape culture exists within our society and continues to be mainstream in most countries. Not needing a man or needing to have children started in second wave as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:34 PM
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Ted Bundy used to pretend to be injured to get women to trust him. Can’t judge a book by its cover. I’m perfectly fine with men avoiding romantic relationships with women to avoid gold diggers. Why are you more concerned with the content of their pants than with the content of their bigotry? Because the content of their pants can rape someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:05 PM
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It’s possible to tell if someone is dangerous? Tell us how. It doesn’t matter if a potential opponent is tall or fat. A man can defend himself better in most cases than a woman can. I’m sorry it hurts your feelings, but women are afraid of men. They have been and they always will be. Women are wary of being alone with strange men and wary that friendliness will be construed as sexual interest. Women all over the world, especially in developing nations, are told that it is their responsibility to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:41 PM
1

It’s impossible to tell who is dangerous. And Muslims and black people are not typically twice your size. People bring man vs bear up all the time so let’s use that here. Most bears are just going to leave you alone. They’re more afraid of you than you are of them. Should we assume they are harmless unless otherwise suspicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:02 PM
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I’m ace. I’ll never understand people’s obsession with something so disgusting and trivial. There is no meaningful emotional connection in sex. Just potential for disease and trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:20 PM
17

That’s not red pill. That’s just obvious. Red pill is negging. Treating every concern a woman has like the babbling of an infant. And destroying your marriage when your actual infant is born out of jealousy for loss of the spotlight. Oh, and all of the self help stuff one can find anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:27 PM
1

That’s great and it’s how all partnerships should be regardless of gender. But unfortunately that’s not what I see in everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:34 PM
3

No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:00 PM
2

No we’re not. You go even like us. You like vaginas and feeling validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:58 PM
-4

Get a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:14 AM
1

Very rare , not your body, pay for your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:13 AM
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Most women are not feminist unfortunately. They still think the patriarchal bargain will benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:11 AM
2

Male complaints stick out more because instead of important things y’all whine that no one has sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:10 AM
16

Jobs are important. Sex is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:02 AM
3

Women don’t like it as much so their standards are higher. Birth control exists and is very effective yet the desire is still lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:07 AM
5

Men have more sexual partners on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:05 AM
1

That’s gross. And very homoerotic. Might as well whip it out and compare dicks. But all we’re asking is that you not commit crimes. Is that too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:54 PM
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Please don’t set yourself up to date a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:47 PM
3

Because our assumption is you’ll play video games or cards or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:46 PM
1

There’s that solipsism word again. Stop it. Just say selfish. You think women are selfish for not having sex with men they aren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:42 PM
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I would gladly pay for my women Eww. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:34 PM
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Accountability for what? This guy was marrying a sugar baby prostitute. He knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:31 PM
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Why is it when women have bad experience with men guys jump in with “pick better” and “not all men”, but are perfectly fine with painting all women with the same brush over an obvious prostitute? This guy knew he was a sugar daddy. It wasn’t a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:28 PM
1

This isn’t even a guy thing. You are a psychological mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:43 AM
1

Man or woman. It doesn’t matter. You are you and are either behaving like yourself or not. Gender doesn’t matter here. They like you when you play pretend. Emotional masochist? Why do you hang around people you don’t even like and pretend to be someone you’re not? If, on the other hand, you were only doing this with your ex, why are you blaming women? You were playing a role with someone you were not compatible with. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:31 AM
1

Emasculation isn’t real. You’re just an unlikable person that shouldn’t be with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:57 AM
7

Can’t do that if you marry young and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:17 PM
5

I think they feel validated and powerful through sex more than loved going by what I’ve seen online throughout 2 decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:55 PM
3

This isn’t about not having sex. This is about sex not being the sole priority. Enjoying the persons company should at least rank higher than service and fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:20 PM
9

Who will then leave you with the kids at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:02 PM
3

In a family you mean? Yeah. Not even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:38 AM
9

And you’re using all the stuff everyone makes and you personally do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:35 PM
11

How about no? I do my job and pay my taxes. That’s enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:34 PM
10

That men provide? Please stop taking for credit for the work of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:34 PM
2

That’s fascinating. Please explain why spending time with another person is dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:14 AM
4

It’s worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:21 AM
7

Sexualization is objectification. It legitimately infuriates me that anyone sees me sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:20 AM
6

The memory of the one that left is forever tarnished by resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:10 AM
13

Yeah. Nothing lasts forever. Accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:09 AM
12

Those men get angry because those women aren’t doing what they see as their purpose. Being fuckable. These men don’t see any women as human. They exist as appliances to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:56 PM
22

Women are usually never loved at all. Just used for their body and domestic labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:55 PM
13

For pity’s sake. Pick an issue and start working.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:28 PM
10

See what? Shit or get off the pot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:25 PM
13

Because MRAs are lazy and have no real cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:21 PM
29

Someone not wanting to fuck you does not mean they don’t see you as human. Sex is frequently dehumanizing if it has any influence at all in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:18 PM
2

Literally yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:27 PM
2

Yes. Agreed. Safety and food are mostly assured so now we concerned ourselves with love and self actualization when we feel content enough. Developing nations still marry for stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:21 PM
2

Yeah. It’s one of the reasons their own demand is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:00 PM
4

If you say so. I think those unattractive women are just looking for a stupid adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:45 PM
7

Most would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:31 PM
3

From what I’ve heard, yes. But we’d have to talk to some directly to really know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:50 PM
8

This is a relatively new standard. In the past men knew the only reason a woman would want most of them is for resources and just accepted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:46 PM
6

I don’t think so. Gay men have lots of access to sex and still have high libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:42 PM
7

The supply for women is high because their demand is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:41 PM
11

They have the testosterone and equipment of a man. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:38 PM
3

Buy why would they bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:38 PM
7

The problem is biology. It’s pretty lame in most cases no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:37 PM
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I think one day Amber Heard will have vindication.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:08 PM
2

They should understand that the child will always come first and sex and dates will be less frequent. Expect very little until the end of toddlerhood. Grow up be an adult and take care of the kid you chose to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:45 PM
2

No one needs sex. You have a kid you make sacrifices for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:08 PM
8

The fun parts? You mean changing diapers, giving birth, recovering from the birth, nighttime feedings, potty training, cleaning up messes, cleaning up accidents. That fun? The man has it easy. All he had to do is pay a pittance. The custodial parent still pays more for child care in both time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:45 PM
6

The kid needs money. They don’t need your come all over his mom’s chest. That’s their dinner table.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:42 PM
7

Because it’s not true. Women want their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:37 PM
4

Meh. It’s not possible for me to understand this. It’s all just gross flesh to me. This is a sore and exhausted woman. It’s reasonable to expect things won’t get back to normal until after the terrible twos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:44 PM
6

Nah. It’s the poverty. Poverty has the most adverse childhood outcomes. Dads ignore their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:41 PM
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You haven’t seen the subreddit? It was bigger back in the day. The story is simple. Man gets married. Has a baby. Now he’s shocked that all of the attention is on the baby. He can’t understand why their sore and exhausted wife isn’t giving them as much attention as before. They don’t care what she has to say so they ask Reddit and go to that sub. They tell him that he’s unattractive bro. He had to lift bro. He has to hold frame and dread. Meanwhile the wife is begging for help with the baby. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:40 PM
6

They also pick up on the fact that their father doesn’t want anything to do with them. Take care of your kids and stop whining about dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:29 PM
6

Married red pill men. It’s always the same story.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:24 PM
2

It is. Sex is nothing but a biological function that leads to an orgasm. Meaningless momentary pleasure and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:21 PM
5

Just masturbate. It’s literally the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:17 PM
11

Sex is supposed to be a joyful activity. Not a responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:14 PM
9

And the kid is the number one responsibility. No time for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:13 PM
7

If you’re prioritizing sex over your child you’re a shitty human being. You made the choice to have kids. Accept the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:11 PM
3

Fathers only bother to ask for custody when they have money. Single moms are often poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:04 PM
2

Sex or kids. Pick one. It’s going to be a while before anything goes back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:01 PM
8

It’s the husbands fault., He needs to understand once kids are born only they matter for a good amount of time. Single father households do better because they only bother to ask for custody when they have lots of money. Men as a rule don’t want their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:51 PM
12

Not important. Don’t be disgusting. Take care of the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:50 PM
1

I’m ace. But the idea of sex with a woman is not nearly as off putting as sex with a man. And I do believe even most straight woman would feel this way if they were given a fuck or die choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:55 PM
0

And then most American men balk at the idea of social services to give people a minimum standard of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:30 PM
1

I don’t you’re understanding how different sex is for women than men. Heterosexual sex is not inherently enjoyable for women. It can be frightening and degrading. Most women would imagine sex with a woman being maybe not super appealing but not too scary. A cuddle party with some pussy eating probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:25 PM
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A woman would also choose a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:22 PM
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The female CEO thing is constantly criticized in feminist spaces. Liberal feminism and white feminism are constantly criticized in feminist spaces. People talk about positive masculinity because people ask for an alternative to toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:26 PM
1

Sure. Or just doesn’t have much fear in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:08 PM
0

Confidence. Dating drug abusing women they can have leverage over with access to drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:50 PM
0

That’s not very nice. That’s just average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:49 PM
3

That’s not attractive. That’s confusing and anxiety inducing. No one actually likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:48 PM
1

People do care about being caught. Certainty of punishment prevents crime. They don’t care about a man in the house. They’ll just shot him too. Besides most murders by strangers are men killing other men. Most murders of women are committed by husbands and boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:37 PM
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Exactly. Safety comes from creating consequences. If it is obvious that they will be caught then the likelihood of crime goes down. The certainty of punishment is a preventative measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:31 PM
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Protection comes from a ring camera and the police. The man in the house is the one most likely to cause harm. Men also pay people to fix things and to mow the lawn. And even then, that’s a house job not an apartment job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:45 PM
2

They are time consuming and add up. Especially cleaning furniture. God how I hate cleaning furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:42 PM
3

That’s an occasional job done only by people that live in houses not apartments. And even then, they often pay people to do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:41 PM
6

Then do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:40 PM
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Attempted detective work. The other women may not use that site. And of course no woman is going to find out until something happens to make her suspicious enough to look. And even then she may not find anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:41 PM
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That’s a silly assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:15 PM
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How would they know unless they do detective work? That’s what the site is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:14 PM
1

Jesse, what the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:10 PM
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What emotional meaning? Y’all talk about it like it’s a physical need you will die without. That’s just an orgasm. You can do that by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:31 PM
6

obvious reasons Centuries of oppression and discrimination. My new boss is a 55 year old woman. The new CPO of our company is a 60 year old woman. I’ve been promoted recently and I’m 43. What weird fantasy world are you talking about? You claim women are not promoted past 30 and then say they are not oppressed in the same breath. How does that make any sense? Your fantasy world is far worse than the real one. I don’t understand. Instead of being trapped with a husband that takes advantage of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:29 PM
8

What the fuck? You think older or heavier women are not promoted? The majority of women in higher positions are older just like the majority of men in higher positions. You’ve invented in your head this strange world where women only succeed through sexual harassment and sexual abuse by men and then say they don’t suffer? What is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:07 PM
3

Since when? MRAs have never done anything meaningful. And certainly haven’t fine anything about the draft. Feminists tried with the ERA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:08 AM
10

Where is the evidence that this happened? All the evidence points to conservatives funding against it and conservatives being against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:02 PM
6

Once again. Jesse, what are you talking about? Prove what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:56 PM
7

https://www.history.com/articles/equal-rights-amendment-failure-phyllis-schlafly It was conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:55 PM
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This is AI so bear with me while a verify. NOW's Stance: The National Organization for Women (NOW) has supported ending draft registration, citing concerns about gender equality and potential misuse, advocating for bills like the Selective Service Repeal Act. NOW (National Organization for Women) advocating for ending draft registration, while the system itself is still in place for men 18-25, with potential modern updates like including women in some scenarios. The U.S. hasn't had an active dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:52 PM
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Where are you getting that idea? Feminists are left wing. They don’t want a draft. Organizations such as SOS and WILPF have been brought up here both opposed the draft. The ERA would have made it gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:44 PM
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Jesse, what are you talking about? Women are more likely to be left wing they want to eliminate the draft. Feminists fought to get the equal rights amendment passed that would have included women in the draft. Conservatives shot it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:18 PM
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The equal rights amendment would have made selective service gender neutral. Conservatives shot it down. As for abolition. MRAs don’t want us to join any fight. They want us to do everything for them. Get the ball rolling in that and we’ll support it. Every leftist would.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:33 PM
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Once men have experience with women they realize the propaganda against women isn’t true. Once women have experience with men they realize the propaganda men is often true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:54 AM
3

Yeah. I don’t think mothers start to consider any of these things when they have kids. I don’t think this ever crosses the minds of fathers either. The one thought they have is to help their son become successful in their career at best. Or maybe sports At worst their thought is meh. Boys are easy. He’ll figure it out. Most people don’t think about any of that ever. Male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:46 PM
2

His point was if anything bad happens to me or any woman it’s our own fault because men are just like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:55 PM
2

These generalizations are things my parents taught me. Especially my father.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:06 PM
5

Ok, let me explain this to you because it is clear that you are confused. Sometimes, men only become interested in the rights of women when they have a daughter. They become aware of the discrimination snd danger she faces and wants her to be able to navigate this to have the best life possible. When mothers have a son, could this ever happen? She suddenly becomes aware of what? The dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:47 PM
5

What do women understand when they have male children?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:40 AM
1

And they will keep doing it because it gets them attention and that leads to profit. Consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:23 AM
1

The fandom will change depending on what the company decides will benefit them. It’s consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:21 AM
2

The people I see complying are men who demand every game with a woman in it must make her look like an anime girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:53 AM
1

Those aren’t hobbies. They’re business models.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:48 AM
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And they are witches that can see the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:11 PM
3

Women are hardly believed. They are accused of lying for no reason all the time. Mens lives are rarely even affected. The women’s lives are ruined. Judges go lenient to protect men’s promising futures all the time. Those movements exist because this is still a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:28 PM
0

White women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:17 PM
2

Domestic violence culminating in murder is not a made up problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:16 PM
1

In the culture of my parents, feminists were considered whores who were putting themselves in danger by not marrying by 18 and men were given sympathy for rape because they just can’t control themselves. Little girls include because they just mature so fast. It’s their responsibility to keep out of trouble!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:14 PM
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It’s considered the gravest crime known to man, which is why people do everything to excuse why it’s not rape but actually she was a whore who deserved it. It most countries of the world it’s treated as a crime a woman commits against her family less than a crime one person commits against another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:11 PM
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So you are talking about noting more than access to women’s bodies? Thanks for proving my point. That’s not a real problem. And I can assure you that women don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:11 PM
4

I don’t think moms particularly care if their sons get their dicks sucked. It would be weird if they did. That’s the only problem anyone here really cares about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:30 AM
2

Maybe try having a problem that doesn’t involve access to another person’s body and people will take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:28 AM
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It’s a silly question. Abortion is a responsible choice. Children should never be born unwanted. Having a child someone does not want and is not prepared for in any way is irresponsible and harmful to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:25 PM
1

But men and women are not equally attracted to each other and never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:14 AM
5

It sounds like they should just masturbate then and not bother with sex at all unless the guy eats pussy every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:09 PM
28

Lack of testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:45 PM
7

So why even bother with sex at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:42 PM
5

As there should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:41 PM
24

Women aren’t in the mood as often. But when they go for it, lesbians have a high orgasm rate because they eat pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:40 PM
0

That’s not a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:28 PM
2

I’m not. Women are not all that attracted to men. And sex is not great for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:17 PM
3

Because men want women more than women want men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:54 PM
0

Please understand that plowing and being plowed are very different things. Please understand that the latter is awful in most circumstances. The sex is like pizza thing only applies to men. Sex is very different and nowhere near as appealing for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:44 PM
1

It’s not. Women are not very attracted to men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:43 PM
1

Your response is baffling. Who do you think is being paid with taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:34 PM
1

Prostitution is often not a choice at all. You’re not being paid to protect anyone. So don’t do it. In most countries, society expects women to serve men. You can always move to those countries. Men pay for the first date because they need to convince a woman to be interested at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:30 PM
-1

I highly doubt that. I’m sure I make more money than he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:29 PM
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So is everyone. Taxes are a net good. More taxes. More government services.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:19 AM
1

I’m 43. I don’t get the appeal of body fluids or being touched. Self esteem comes from accomplishment. Not from acting like a filthy animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:13 AM
2

Personally I’m doing great.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:08 AM
-3

You’re forgetting that having sex as a woman just isn’t that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:03 AM
-2

No it’s not. It’s very easy to live without sex. Safer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:56 PM
-2

Why don’t you move your a Latin American country? Women are blamed for everything that happens to them and men get away with it in most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:55 PM
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You’re not a cop. No one’s asking you to protect anyone. The burden for paying on dates is on men because they’re the ones with interest. Homeless women end up in prostitution. It’s not a good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:52 PM
2

Only in the interest of not dating short men. The dick obsession is more of a guy thing. No one goes out of the way to bully a short guy that isn’t bothering anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:30 PM
3

Body positivity is about not bullying people. You don’t have to date anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:26 PM
4

No woman wants these things. We have our own money and can call the police. I don’t even know what lead means but it’s likely nothing good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:44 PM
2

That’s not a feminist thing. That’s a women not being particularly attracted to men thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:30 PM
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That’s a stereotype for a man not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:29 PM
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Yeah. You agree to it when you marry. Prenuptial agreements exist. And you can always marry a woman with a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:24 PM
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The definition of a marriage is mutual consent. Why did you marry a woman that doesn’t want to do anal if you want to do anal? That’s something you figure out before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:20 PM
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Too bad. Go to a prostitute or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:18 PM
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If there was mutual love and respect in a marriage you wouldn’t be insisting your wife have sexual experiences with you that she does not enjoy. If they were the best experiences she wouldn’t be so hesitant. They were terrible experiences and you want to hurt this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:17 PM
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Only date women that are into kinky sex then iif thats what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:12 PM
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Because time flows in only one direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:09 PM
2

And it’s gross. Stop acting like an animal and do something else. Or don’t. What do I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:07 PM
1

By definition sex is always perverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:02 PM
3

That’s hilarious. Children born into a cruel world. Grown men having to pay for their own perversions to suffer most. Good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:59 PM
2

Why are you upset about the birth rate? Do you want more teen moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:44 AM
3

Fewer partners than millennials but greater partners overall compared to what? They have less casual sex. Not that it’s a problem anyway if they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:22 AM
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The birth rate should tank. 8 billion people is too many. A great amount of that drop is fewer teen moms. It’s good news.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:21 AM
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Not necessarily. There is less of a demand for a shadow market if the demand is not increased by making going to a prostitute consequence free.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:54 PM
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No. What happened in countries that tried this was that demand outpaced supply. So they saw an increase in trafficking rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:17 PM
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It shouldn’t because trafficking will increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:29 PM
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Germany, Netherlands, Austria. Sweden and Norway saw the results and said full legalization is no good. Other countries followed this Nordic model.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:43 PM
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Once again. They tried that. Demand went up and trafficking increased. The number of Johns need to be kept down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:23 PM
3

They tried that. Demand went up. Trafficking increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:21 PM
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Yeah, but we don’t use those bodies are garbage cans for body fluids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:13 PM
3

If they keep that up then they won’t have clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:07 PM
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Then demand goes up and trafficking increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:55 PM
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I’ll just post again here. It does make sense. When prostitution was decriminalized it led to an increase in trafficking because demand went up. But if it is illegal to be a prostitute then they can’t go to the police when they are being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:54 PM
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It does make sense. When prostitution was decriminalized it led to an increase in trafficking because demand went up. But if it is illegal to be a prostitute then they can’t go to the police when they are being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:53 PM
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Yeah. That’s to prevent a rise in abuse and trafficking. Which tends to happen when the prostitutes can’t get help and there are no limits on the Johns.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:51 PM
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I don’t see what’s wrong with the last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:08 AM
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Dick has no value. Children are just a burden for a lot of people. Negative value. Family is a system of abuse for a lot of people. Negative value. Social validation? People should just mind their own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:04 AM
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Birth control and abortion exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:02 AM
9

All the more reason to never have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:00 AM
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Their business not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:00 AM
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Nah. Promiscuous women have no problem finding a partner if that’s what she wants. And she can just lie anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:59 AM
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Promiscuous women are ok people and literally harm no one. Nothing wrong with selfish. What do single mothers have to do with this? Birth control and abortion exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:56 AM
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They have fewer partners. Your logic is nonsense. The internet has socially isolated everyone. But either way, what’s wrong with being a slut? It’s none of your business. Why should women consider low value men? Lmao Literally no value in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:51 AM
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Why should they stop doing it? It’s not bad. If it is then men should stop doing it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:49 AM
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I don’t care at all for sex. But I think it’s gross not immoral. I don’t care other people do it. Nothing morally wrong with short term gratification. So don’t treat like it’s morally wrong. Women don’t care what you are attracted to. And your justifications for why it’s only ok for men are laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:49 AM
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And how does your weird definition translate into dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:51 PM
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Not necessarily. Blue pill can involve treating your partner like an equal person like feminists want. It can also be the benevolent sexism of traditional dating. Red pill is just mind games and bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:47 PM
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Please go out to a deserted island.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:10 PM
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It was your idea though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:58 PM
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I’m not saying they are overconfident. Pilots are saying they are overconfident. aviation experts say this confidence is unrealistic for untrained individuals due to the complex skills required, even with modern autopilot assistance. So, if you’ve never even learned the basics of flying, your chances of successfully landing a passenger aircraft with air traffic control’s help are close to zero. https://edition.cnn.com/travel/how-easy-is-it-to-land-a-passenger-plane You are engaging in survivorsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:53 PM
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Prove it then. You sponsor someone. Put your money where your mouth is. Remind us what happened with Billie Jean King vs Bobby Riggs all those decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:42 PM
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So easy to brag about something too expensive to do. You can’t beat Serena Williams. And you can’t land a plane without training.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:27 PM
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Not needing a man means not needing to be in a relationship with one. Everyone relies on civilization. You can beat Serena Williams? I dare you to try. This reminds me of the stat that says most men think they can land an airplane in an emergency with no training. The overconfidence is absurd. Can you beat Simone Biles with two years training?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:18 PM
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I’m ace. And autistic. I can’t stand the concept itself because of the smell and body fluids. Not too fond of being touched either. But for other women it’s all sort of things ranging from communication as you said, to hormones and biology, to trauma, to people like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:55 PM
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Since when are men “doing chores and taking care of children” told they’re probably messing up? A man so much as brushes his daughter’s hair and he’s called a hero dad. Women do all the childcare and chores and everyone shrugs because that’s expected anyway. The sexuality thing is an odd comparison. If men’s sexuality lands them in prison then they’re doing something wrong. Women building community are ignored. That’s just what they do. Women get attention for it? Girlboss (derogatory). Men do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:59 PM
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Pardon? I think a lot of people who are lonely is a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:21 PM
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Honestly yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:10 PM
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I don’t mean every man. I mean most men in this board.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:18 PM
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The physical attraction deteriorates quickly. Your body is your flesh prison not who you are as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:12 PM
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Girls scouts also do hiking and camping. As well as crafts and earn badges through activities and community service. Of course you’re only going to see them sell cookies. You’re not invited to the activities. They have a website you know. You can look there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:58 PM
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Right. What they look like. Physical attractiveness is what they mean. They want lust. That’s is also something someone provides. They don’t even care about being liked. That’s husband material and therefore an insult in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:55 PM
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You think Girl Scouts raise money by selling cookies so that they have money to sell cookies? It’s a beloved institution with lots of activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:16 AM
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Nah. I hate sex. Men are all right. Only about as shitty as women really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:59 AM
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Sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:56 AM
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Meh. I call that a weak spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:53 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:47 AM
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You hate women but want them to be your therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:47 AM
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It’s a motherhood gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:45 AM
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Why? They’re not harassing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:44 AM
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Nah. Women need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:34 AM
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Stop playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:32 AM
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I really don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:30 AM
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Yeah pretty much. It’s a really cute article too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:20 AM
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Why are women having hobbies the same level of threat to men as women being sexually assaulted are to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:20 AM
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Cute. See there you go. You don’t want friends at all. Also, why post such a positive article? Did you read it? Everyone in the sheds are getting along well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:17 AM
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Make friends with the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:14 AM
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Really? That’s odd considering women have friends and men are only interested in fighting a sex partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:14 AM
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It’s not a compliment. It’s an intentional threat and you know it. Men don’t need safety from women..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:13 AM
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Make friends with the women too. More friends more better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:11 AM
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Why do you need male only spaces? Just make friends either the men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:10 AM
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A. Hobby. Is. Not. A. Space. You can’t just say a hobby is only for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:09 AM
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Girls were allowed into Boy Scouts because they needed more money after all the sexual abuse lawsuits they had to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:07 AM
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Love and desire are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 09:43 PM
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I don’t see how physical attractiveness is intrinsic worth and not just another thing someone provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 09:41 PM
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It matters why. It’s not because women can fetches when they want. It’s because sex is mostly just meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:10 PM
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I’d rather marry no one. I hate sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:52 AM
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Tall and skinny? I don’t think you understand how a lot of women enjoy angular features.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:53 PM
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That’s hilarious. Marry the nerds or else? That’s not gonna happen. I say this as a STEM nerd myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:45 PM
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Women have an easy time being alone because sex is usually awful. Not because it is easy to find. And you said it yourself, the future will be full of single childless women eager to make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:41 PM
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Lots of women to form friends groups then. I’d love to join a book club someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:40 PM
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I’m 43. I’ve never had a better social life. I’m in 2 separate DnD groups. I’m invited to happy hour frequently. In the future, I look forward to more gaming and arts and crafts. Sounds better than putting up with kids. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:39 PM
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I’m an autistic asexual that has never wanted kids or sex at all. But to each their own. Having kinky sex is clearly more beneficial to the woman than bringing a burden into this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:37 PM
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Why do they have easier access to these things than men though? It’s because women aren’t as interested in ONS as men. If you had an easy time you must have something going for you. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:31 PM
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I would agree more of them are attracted than they were in the past since the purpose of marriage has shifted. But most? I honestly have no idea. Do you think most men are actually attracted to their partners and not just use them for easy stress relief? I don’t know this one either. But again I think more are attracted than they were in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:25 PM
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Everyone here is. They think things were better before feminism and online dating ruined everything. But people were always just using each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:08 PM
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Ok then. Do you want a woman that will ignore how ugly you are and like you for your personality and be your buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:02 PM
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But you want women to be shallow. You just want them to be shallow in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:59 PM
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Do think things were different in the before time? In the long long ago? All relationships back then were about what people could go for each other. Men did not expect attraction. They expected stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:57 PM
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He met her as a street rat. She only liked him as a prince when she realized that was who he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:50 PM
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Anyone that depends on another person is in danger of being taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:44 PM
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Yeah. That’s how it works. If neither parent wants the child they give it up for adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:24 PM
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I don’t see it as power as much as vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:24 PM
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The thing about hobbies is so odd. Women have more varied hobbies than men do. Crafting, baking, embroidery, gardening, yoga, reading etc are all female dominated. Even in geek spaces all the creative stuff like fan art, fan fiction, and cosplay are female dominated. Fan spaces would only be arguing and hating things without women around. The women I know are into kayaking, hiking, tennis, raising butterflies. All the men are into games and guns. One guy fixes cars..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:14 PM
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Their interest is lower and standards are higher. Why do you think the discrepancy exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:19 PM
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Men like sex. They like it a lot. What else is new?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:10 PM
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This is true. In my culture, girls are expected to do housework. Boys are allowed to just goof off. The intention is that girls will grow up to be wives and they will take care of their husbands who will get a job immediately after high school. But the real result are girls who learn to be independent and boys who never grow up surrounded by women who don’t feel the need to be a mom to a grown man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:16 PM
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People need support but it’s inappropriate to expect a partner to act like a parent. Unfortunately a lot of men are in this position because a lot of parents just don’t raise sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:04 PM
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Yeah that’s not what mankeeping is. Mankeeping is having a partner that acts like a teenaged son and needs to guided around like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:43 PM
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Why does anyone need to take care of another adult? They’re not children. Why do they need a mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:37 PM
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The women who give this advice are talking to guys who want to marry. But for some reason they want to marry a virgin and then are surprised to find she isn’t very sexual. Do you want to marry or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:07 PM
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Ok then your statement before was false then? The remaining guys don’t just have sex in LTR and marriage? So go ahead and try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:03 PM
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You just answered your own question. Apparently according to your logic, the way for normal guys to have sex is marriage. So marry a high BC woman I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:56 AM
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It’s the only way to be sure. Can’t lose if you don’t play.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:53 PM
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Don’t date men. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:33 PM
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I agree. Sex is absolutely disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:11 PM
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I’m saying people should do the job they are paid to do. Totally hawt guys aren’t worse than anyone else. Better to just not have kids until the situation improves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:00 PM
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Personally? I’m ace so it just seems normal to not want anyone. I can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:56 PM
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I’m asexual. I really don’t understand the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:27 PM
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What I want is to be alone. Men have always pretended to like women for sex. Ir not even pretend, just straight up make a business deal out of it. A loving relationship is more likely now than it was in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:25 PM
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Accountability for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:23 PM
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How can the women be losers when they get what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:23 PM
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Men paid by taxes. Not vaginas. No one needs a relationship for protection. Yes. I expect to feel sympathy for mothers because the plan is almost always for both partners to take care of the kids and then the husbands renege on the deal. Why shouldn’t men care for their own kids they decided to have? Why shouldn’t men take care if their home? Do you admit women are better off on their own? Nah. Women can do without relationships. Men are desperate for both because casual sex is out of reach for …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:08 PM
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That’s extremely unlikely to happen. The boyfriend being the abuser is far more likely. The boyfriend being attacked by the stranger is far more likely. I would expect a 911 call more than anything else. Women make provider money and pay bills. Why would anyone marry a woman that doesn’t? I don’t understand the last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:24 PM
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Should they not? Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:16 PM
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50% is a lot less than before. I don’t think it’s fair that men pay, but let’s face it. The reason they do this is because they wouldn’t see any value otherwise. It’s not about gender roles. It’s about being largely indifferent to whether they have a partner or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:41 PM
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Women do not demand men earn more. They look for the best deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:38 PM
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Men are not protectors. That’s a role for police and government. Both men and women are providers. Women are stuck still doing most of the housework and childcare. Dating is unequal because men on average like sex a lot more than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:34 PM
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No. Men have more free time than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:34 PM
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For the sake of complaining? Roe v Wade was overturned. Maternal mortality rates are going up. Birth control is at risk. We still don’t have Medicare for all. We still don’t have guaranteed parental leave. We still don’t have government funded childcare. Improvements slow down because the issues become more detailed and less broad. Of course kill all women would be serious. Of course any other group would be serious. Mass shootings motivated by misogyny happen. Mass shootings towards minorities …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 12:13 AM
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That has never been the case. The squeaky wheel gets the grease. When are you getting over that hashtag? It was years ago and clearly not serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:02 PM
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Because people actually listen to us now. Same with minorities. Same with LGBTQ people. You think we’re going to stop advocating for ourselves when it becomes easier to do so? Things could be worse but they could be better too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:28 PM
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That’s what happened to my cousin though. He begged for kids then decided it wasn’t actually fun and left after the second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:56 PM
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But then when we ask to have policies like Sweden we get yelled at and told that’s socialism and therefore bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:55 PM
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That’s not capitalism. That’s just having any economic system. Capitalism describes a system where some make money by working and others make money by owning the means of production. This is not the end of history. We can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:53 PM
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Where is the data on that? Increased suicide risk is related to lower educational attainment. Lower educational attainment is related to conservative values. Educated feminist men are doing much better than uneducated conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:50 PM
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You mean before the Reagan era when people had unions and pensions and could afford a house?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:47 PM
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They used to pay a lot more. Now most of it goes to offshore bank accounts instead investing in their workers and businesses. You can thank the government for the existence of the internet. Lots of things can and should be nationalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:24 AM
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I’m not taking about taking time away from your career. I’m talking about two working parents working 8 hour days while caring for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:21 AM
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It’s just a burden and less time and money. You keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:02 PM
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Impossible to tell until the kids are born. Then they’re stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:01 PM
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You can be gay, bro. No one’s stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:59 PM
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Men’s behavior is not women’s fault it’s their own. Men changing their tune when the kids are born are their own doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:52 PM
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Al the more reason to never marry or have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:47 PM
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How so? Do you think feminists are advocating for men to work out of the home and in the home while they do nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:59 PM
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That’s not how any of this works. When both partners work the agreement is almost always that both will work together in an egalitarian household. No traditional roles. Then when the kids are born that deal goes out the window and the mother is still doing most of the work. Women don’t want traditional provider men. Those work outside the home and do nothing else. They want egalitarian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:55 PM
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Feminists want to live in a world where fathers take care of kids as much as mothers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:45 PM
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Mothers choose jobs that make it easier to care for kids. Which is something mothers have to do because although men do more than previous generations, they still don’t do as much as mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:44 PM
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Men should have kids on their own then. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:40 PM
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If both work both take care of kids and home. That’s the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:37 PM
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Depending on another person is a one way ticket to being taken advantage of. Everyone needs a career and parenting should be equal if kids happen at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:36 PM
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Capitalism doesn’t benefit you if you’re not rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:34 PM
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It’s fucking bullshit that men can have careers and kids without issue an women can’t. Better for women to just never have kids then if nothing is going to change there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:33 PM
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Even if that were true, we’re talking sissy little slaps vs punches so hard they kill you. How does that contradict anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:26 PM
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lol what? Sex is down because fewer women are being forced or coerced into sex they don’t want to have. Less crime is being committed against women. That’s why there is less sex. It’s a good thing. Also, we have the internet now so people just spend time on that. That’s probably the biggest factor really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:18 PM
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I would have much preferred to have been treated like a little boy rather than a little girl when I was a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:30 AM
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I’ve done it. More than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:12 AM
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You think taxes go to feminists? Really? Not the poor? Not the military? Or schools, libraries, or the police? Not to the red states that just can’t handle themselves without money from blue states? They go directly to the pockets of people who want human right for women and somehow that’s bad for your sons? Ok, The billionaires are stealing wages from everyone. They are denying healthcare to people in need. They are hiding their wealth in offshore bank accounts instead of creating jobs like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:58 PM
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Men deserve economic equality. Stop missing the forest for the trees. The billionaires are your enemy. Not feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:54 PM
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Everything that has made women safer has made men safer too. You want to help men? You want to reduce suicide and the economic inequality that lead men to crime and danger? Embrace democratic socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:42 PM
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Compared to republicans? Yes. Republican policies are disastrous. Look at what is happened in now. Tariffs and a decrease in soft power are tearing apart the interdependence that protects us. The military thinks the current administration is an embarrassment. We are pissing off everyone including our allies. So conservative values aren’t doing well there either. Do you mean troops? Soldiers tend to enlist for vocational and education opportunities. Liberals can do just as well there. What do con…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:39 PM
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You think somehow, men becoming scientific and rational will make the United States easy to invade? Who do you think built the drones we rely on? Religious fundamentalists? What really keeps us safe is economic interdependence. So aren’t conservatives irrational for failing to appreciate that liberal ideal? Aren’t conservatives being irrational for hating liberals when all their doctors are liberal? When all their medical breakthroughs are made by liberals? Conservatives are lunkheads. They caus…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:57 PM
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Men are not inherently conservatives. Half of white women are conservative too. Lots of people are uneducated. Defy progress. Believe in religious nonsense. Worship the rich. That’s conservatism. No thanks with the big strong man stuff. I don’t like anyone touching me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:47 PM
14

The biggest protector for countries is not even the military. It’s economic interdependence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:40 PM
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How is it conservative to admit that police and military are necessary? When women say they don’t need protection they mean they don’t need to fuck a man for protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:37 PM
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Mozart claimed in his letters that his sister was better than him in many ways. But of course her career ended when she got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:35 PM
12

Protection from the police. Which could be men or women. Not from a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:33 PM
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The world is safer now than it’s ever been. Does society need police and soldiers to protect them? Sure. Sometimes. But do women need husbands to protect them? No. They are usually the ones they need protection from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:29 PM
1

It’s the only thing that has EVER been effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:58 AM
1

So form a union.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:46 AM
1

I don’t think it’s that many. And if it is, I really think men should abstain until that changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:39 AM
1

We shouldn’t and we don’t. Why? Because women convinced people that they shouldn’t. Just to be perfectly clear. You think men shouldn’t be held to the standard of paying for dates? Go out and convince people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:53 PM
1

No. They protested to remove those stigmas. You are asking this because you want to remove the social stigma for men not paying the bill. Correct. You have to earn that though. PROTEST
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:43 PM
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You said early 1900s. Women did not have the right to vote until 1920. They could not have a bank account in most places without a husband. It was legal to discriminate against them in the work place. It was legal to sexually harass them. It was legal to fire them for being pregnant. Many colleges would not accept them. Marital rape was legal. Date rape was not taken seriously. Women protested to change this. You can protest too. Women apply social pressure to remove stigmas. You can apply socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:36 PM
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Women were legally barred from a lot of things back then. Like several jobs, educational opportunities, voting, bank accounts. No one is forcing you to date expensive women. You want to start protesting and judo fighting the police to get women to pay half the way the suffragettes did for the right to vote? Go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:24 PM
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Nah. Kids born to first generation immigrants tend to assimilate. Besides, birth rates are going down everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:10 PM
2

We had a coworker that had a baby. She took leave and came back with no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:06 PM
3

Being trapped with an abusive husband and no money with a bunch of kids to take care of is not freedom in any domain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:05 PM
2

Most men don’t own businesses. Those businesses will leave you destitute when they fail unless you have money from your rich parents to keep you going. Having children is a nightmare I would gladly do without. Freedom is freedom to make your own choices. My choice is to work and spend my money on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:03 PM
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The biological urge in sex is for orgasms. That’s just facts. It’s not the same whether it’s validation or biological. You can soothe yourself biologically. For some reason people need to be validated by someone being attracted to them to be soothed psychologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:50 PM
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You just said biological imperative. That’s orgasms. Which you can do yourself. So it’s all about validation. Nothing more. I’m a disgusting freak? You’re the one that can’t handle celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:11 PM
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Just go jack it in the mean time. It’s the same thing. Unless you’re just looking for validation which is certainly the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:55 PM
13

You need a job to make money and live. You can hold out on dating until you find a better one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:41 PM
11

So don’t date women that expect you to be traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:49 PM
8

Going Dutch is a well known feminist take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:45 PM
10

So get nothing. But seriously though, there are plenty of women that split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:45 PM
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You don’t have to date women that want you to pay for dates. You can just straight up say no the way women say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:38 PM
17

Being responsible and doing things without being asked is an adult not a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:24 AM
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Teenagers are children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 03:29 AM
2

Yeah. Shyness, vulnerability, modesty, and pony tails.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:08 AM
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The question is rarely asked to gather data. It’s asked to tell women they don’t deserve justice or help. When it has been asked to gather data this is what was found. Opportunistic rapists don’t tend to target women dressed in sexy clothes as popular imagination suggests. They target women they view as vulnerable. They see shy and modestly dressed women as less likely to make a fuss and like pony tails more than anything because they are easy to grab onto without tearing and letting the woman g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:06 PM
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That’s rarely the situation though. A lot of these are perpetrators are family members especially when children are involved. A lot are partners and husbands. It’s usually people who are supposed to be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:46 PM
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Abruptly end or withdraw from these connections. That’s just ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:05 PM
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You mean ghosting? Why not just say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:01 PM
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Perjury is already punished. It’s impossible to definitively prove someone lied about sexual assault. Making an accusation without enough evidence punishable would mean no one would come forward anymore. People lie about all kinds of crimes. Why is sexual assault singled out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:57 PM
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Cool beans. That was always the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:54 PM
0

Ok. I guess ppd men are women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:29 PM
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No. Men are single because they won’t leave their dens and talk to women as ugly as themselves. A man can grow on a woman, but he needs to meet a baseline level of attractiveness in her mind. Yeesh. You’re reminding me of the old days when men said Disney movies lied to them. Aladdin said just be yourself? You’re not Aladdin, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:40 PM
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How is the mask off? Is Chad a word for attractive men or not? Why should anyone want to have sex with an ugly man? Give me an explanation here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:32 PM
1

The exceptions are common enough to make the distinction meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:03 PM
1

The blame for what? Lack of sex? Men blame women for that. Very external locus of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:01 PM
1

Why should a heterosexual woman want anything with a man that is not a hot chad? Also, people have seen enough incel killers to be suspicious. To the point that offline people think all incels are serial killers. That’s the only time they hear about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:57 PM
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Most abusers I’ve seen In my life are fat and middle aged. Most of the mugshots I’ve seen related to domestic violence look like drug goblins. Most serial killers and mass shooters are weird dweebs. Where is the data that abusers are hot? Please explain how the word solipsism applies here anyway? Solipsism refers to the idea that only one’s own thoughts are real. Red pillers throw the term about to mean selfishness. How does that term apply in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:55 PM
0

Oh wow. It’s almost like what we categorize as masculinity and femininity are arbitrary and based on life experiences of the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:39 AM
0

And yet men here pretend they will die without sex because the lack makes them so miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:57 PM
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Drunk drivers are one thing. It doesn’t matter if it’s a man or woman. Sexual assault is the fault of the perpetrator not the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:55 PM
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It’s a civilized take.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:49 PM
7

Guns mostly cause more problems than they solve through accidental death or suicide. How in the hell is a woman supposed to keep a gun on her all the time anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:48 PM
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The gun can be taken away and used against the woman. Penetrative sex can still happen and can still be painful. Good luck reaching for the gun then. (Edit: I’m not being serious about reaching for the gun in that situation. From experience I have to clarify dark humor.) The biggest men’s issue around here is lack of sex or lack of sex with a more attractive partner. That’s the definition of small.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:32 PM
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No it’s not his fault. People have a right to safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:27 PM
6

And a lot the time relationships are just bad and people shouldn’t stay in them out of some sort of emotional inertia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:44 PM
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I don’t know man. Abusive men come in all sizes. If it’s a danger either way women would rather go for someone they are attracted to and not the dweeb with the knife and Pokémon card collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:31 PM
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Statistically speaking, clubbing is less dangerous than women’s partners and families. Clothing has very little to do with it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:22 PM
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It’s a matter of safety. Dating is dangerous. Sex sucks. Pregnancy sucks. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:15 PM
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I’m talking about CDC data. I don’t know where lifetime stat comes from. The 60 ish% rate is for bisexual women. 89% of which report only male perpetrators. The 44% for lesbians is the total which includes both male and female perpetrators. The data is confounded. They didn’t separate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:10 PM
4

Then it goes from like 40% to 28% whereas the heterosexual numbers are about 35%.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:49 PM
5

A tolerable level of permanent unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:46 PM
3

1/3 is a significant portion and correcting for it would drop the percentage down to lower than heterosexual couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:02 PM
9

Right? Men here are so worried about beta bux but they want to go back to a time when that situation was guaranteed. Good luck being married to a woman that hates your guts for decades without end guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:28 AM
3

I’m probably going to regret this, but what is casual abandonment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:41 PM
5

Wait. I thought you guys wanted women to see beauty in unattractive men. It’s the most common lament around here. So what gives?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:28 PM
8

This is confusing. To you, a relationship is only valuable if both partners are attractive by your standards? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:26 PM
1

Asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:18 PM
1

I’m queer. I would never be interested in a male counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:14 PM
2

Yup! Asexual as hell right here. I don’t understand and I never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:14 PM
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What information? That women don’t want ugly men? Just stop being ugly and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:50 PM
1

Most of these women don’t want kids. Why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:48 PM
6

A persons body, trauma, and suffering is not a resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:46 PM
6

You’re comparing sexual slavery to paying taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:37 PM
1

Everyone votes for abortion to be legal when it’s put up to a vote. The people who are against it do so on religious grounds. You need to learn that your views are not mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:36 PM
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Because only women suffer the harm of reproduction. You know damned well that this garbage about paper abortion is not mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:35 PM
6

So you’re saying sexual slavery and government mandated girlfriends? And you wonder why no one likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:31 PM
2

Wants. Not needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:30 PM
2

I honestly think only men have “primal” lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:28 PM
1

Nah. The problem is late stage capitalism. Careers are fine. Not getting paid enough is the issue. Having children fucking sucks. Depending on another person that will inevitably take advantage of you fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:26 PM
6

Ok. Complain then. Just don’t be surprised that no one cares that they’re not getting their anime waifu.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:22 PM
5

What’s the alternative other than slavery?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:21 PM
5

So? If wishes were horses then beggars would ride. They should be happy with what they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:20 PM
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If they’re not virgins then they have nothing to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:18 PM
1

Too many video games, dog. Too much anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:15 PM
1

That’s because women needed men to survive back then. So they married men they weren’t attracted to. Even weird awkward men that exist more often now because they spent their formative years watching a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:14 PM
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They are developing autistic traits through constant screen time and little social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:13 PM
1

That’s why children but especially boys should not be allowed to play video games. Their developing brains can’t handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:12 PM
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If they are losers then their “match” is another loser. How are they not doing fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:07 PM
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Say what you will. A lot of people get their meaning from work and their own achievements instead of from the opinions of the awful people around them the way a lot of people here seem to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:42 PM
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No. You’re not the same exact human. You never step into the same river twice. The person is not exactly the same and the river is not exactly the same. Jail or debt is about past experiences. New experiences add on to that but don’t erase it. So the defining attribute of a person is that they are not a rotting corpse? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:20 PM
2

Jobs say a lot about a person and if their lives will be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:17 PM
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Gaining experiences, achievements, and education fundamentally changes a human and shapes who they are. What are electrical/chemical patterns other than the connections made by the brain or the rates of methylation in the DNA? That is produced by experiences and learning. It is what we do that defines us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:40 PM
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People can be a dedicated and talented tradesman and a shit ass white collar person. For example, a carpenter adds value to society. A landlord owning multiple buildings is the scum of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:26 PM
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Your achievements are still there. Your past actions still exist. Now you are adding new ones adding to who you are as a person. Meanwhile is you end up in a vegetative state, your flesh is still there, but are hardly a person anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:24 PM
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Correct. And career is important because it is an identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:56 PM
3

A career is an identity. Not caring about someone’s career is not caring about the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:54 PM
12

I completely disagree with this. People are their actions and achievements. People are not their bodies. Bodies are just disgusting flesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:53 PM
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Sex for men is an overwhelmingly positive thing. Sex for women is often mixed to negative. There is a difference in plowing and being plowed. Why is that hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:50 PM
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He shouldn’t have married a woman who has nothing. This is why men should concern themselves with woman’s career.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:00 PM
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Because assets are split in half in a divorce unless there’s a prenup that sets otherwise. That what he signed up for. She shouldn’t get alimony though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:53 PM
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Money is the most important factor in providing for a child. Poverty does serious harm to a child’s physical wellbeing and mental health. Besides, we are comparing a situation where a father provides child support and nothing else to a situation where a child is provided for by a reasonably wealthy mother. Obviously the sperm donor child is better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:11 PM
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No they don’t and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:39 PM
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Single women that use sperm donors tend to be well off. Single mothers not so much. I still think the best thing we can do is normalize abortion. All children should be planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:24 PM
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How about when he says he’ll be there to take care of the baby and then bolts halfway through once the reality sets in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:22 PM
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