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RELATIONSHIPSDependentInternal875/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 06:42 PM
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People will take as much as they can get while giving as little as they think they can get away with, it's sad but it's the reality of life. The way to subvert this is to have strong boundaries and expectations. No being exclusive without a relationship, men who want to be exclusive for months without a relationship want all the benefits of monogamy without any of the responsibilities of a relationship. No oral sex, men will just think "this is good enough" and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/24 02:27 AM
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I would start with reading the Surrendered Wife by Laura Doyle. It lays a solid foundation for everything while also talking about how our upbringing resulted in the behaviors we have today. It's a very insightful book.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/24 09:44 PM
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A man who's 52 and has never been married before likely isn't going to have his first marriage at 52. IIRC, every year past 38, the chances of a man ever marrying drops dramatically with every passing year afterwards. Men see living together as a way to delay marriage, women see it as a step towards marriage. If you don't want to act like a wife while getting none of the commitment a wife gets, then hold firm.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/24 10:40 PM

Look at other places it's de criminalized, they still get to consent or not consent to individuals. This is false, Dutch sex workers are only allowed to deny a certain number of clients per year without being fired, I believe the number is 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:12 AM
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The best thing for you to do is maintain your dignity and work towards building life up on your own again. Crawling back to him and begging him to stay together will only serve to degrade and humiliate you and hurt your self worth.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/24 05:58 PM
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Thank you, I will. I psyche myself out about these sorts of things sometimes because of fear of abandonment, but this sub has helped me learn the importance of boundaries and self care.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 09:05 PM
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It's not a way of life, just something that we frequently have as a part of when we have sex.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 08:44 PM
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It's a frequent part of when we have sex, but not outside of our sex life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 08:44 PM
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Thank you, the good advice seems to be to tell him my feelings, reassure him that I was indeed into it before, and see where things go/see what his solution is.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 08:41 PM
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He will react with kindness, but I mostly fear it hurting our intimacy with one another. I also fear he may think I was never into it when I was.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 08:39 PM
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I don't understand, is hamstering only a thing if the fear or hurt is irrational? The most recent example was from a manager today and falls under the resources category you listed. I talked about something I had accomplished in my personal life and she immediately downplayed it and dismissed it, and I felt very hurt and upset about it for the rest of today.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 08:01 AM
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Do you have any advice when your hamster runs when you try to be vulnerable but it goes poorly? This extends to almost every interpersonal relationship I have, not just romantic.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 01:06 AM
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