| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 57 | Having realistic standards is highly important. | CMV | Depressedcolette | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:23 AM |
| 0 | Based on the post ’women are not attracted to genuinely nice guys’ | Discussion | Depressedcolette | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 10:24 AM |
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| 4 | The existence of a concept such as "Madonna/whore complex" shows that society demonizes male sexuality.You don't even understand the meaning of Madonna-Whore complex! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 01:09 AM |
| 8 | The existence of a concept such as "Madonna/whore complex" shows that society demonizes male sexuality.Dude get educated. You haven't seen air, what are you breathing right now then? Have you seen Pluto? It exists without you seeing it. All the researchers with their methodological studies have seen it, just open your eyes and read a damn paper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Latam: The "Peperas" and the "Tomaseras" are women who seduce men and introduce sedatives into their drinks. They strip them of everything of value and throw them on the streets. Some of these men die. But this is not considered gender violence against men because of their condition of being men.Yup, they should have been with someone who could protect them. Too bad they couldn't wait till marriage or this wouldn't have happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Women need to give men more chances for a while before ghosting them out forever...You deleted it, you seem defensive. And I didn't misunderstand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Women need to give men more chances for a while before ghosting them out forever...Why are women obligated to care about lonely men? She gave perfectly good reasons. People have their own lives: jobs, hobbies, friends and families. Why would anyone take out time from their lives and entertain a man who makes inappropriate jokes and gets sexual too fast just because he's lonely? No one is entitled to a woman's time just because he's a ’lonely man’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 02:51 AM |
| 9 | Women need to give men more chances for a while before ghosting them out forever...Yup. Most guys when rejected get all defensive and come up with the most ridiculous ’see what you are missing on’. And if you still say no, verbal abuse. Well, gotta ghost those weirdos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 02:31 AM |
| 6 | Women need to give men more chances for a while before ghosting them out forever...The most reasonable comment on this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 02:27 AM |
| 7 | Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract?Yup, men are all about women's rights when it comes to sexual liberty and stuff. That support suddenly goes away when women start demanding for equal pay, bodily autonomy etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 12:44 AM |
| 4 | Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract?Yeah, seems like guys get too upset about the one forum all about women. I don't necessarily agree with every idea on there other than but insightful some discussions on porn addiction, date rapes etc. Men don't seem to mind the multiple subreddits based on incel ideology. These subreddits pop up everywhere. Where does men's apprehension go then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 12:42 AM |
| 19 | Women who have careers and RP mindsetYou didn't answer the question though. What if you don't make it? How are you going to provide for the woman you chose because she didn't have a career? How expensive it is to survive today? More than the ’one man earns enough to support the family’ style of the 70s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:47 AM |
| 21 | Women who have careers and RP mindsetExactly! It feels sick. ’cashiers who are prettier’ and ’I won't deal with BS just because you have a job’. I hope no woman has to deal with his BS, job or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:44 AM |
| 20 | Women who have careers and RP mindsetAnd what if you don't ’make it’? What if your partner was more capable and you made her sacrifice her career because you wanted to be the ’provider’? Aren't two lives ruined because of fragile male ego? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?I agree on many parts. Men have no problems stating their preference for Virgin women but when women say they want handsome, well-adjusted men, the reply always is: you don't like nice men. The hypocrisy is unbelievable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Based on the post ’women are not attracted to genuinely nice guys’There's a whole world outside USA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Based on the post ’women are not attracted to genuinely nice guys’Exactly! He was dating Diana’s older sister when he saw her. She was just 14. He treated her horribly. Also notice: no men commenting here. Because they know they can't defend their shitty behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 10:41 AM |
| 26 | There is a core misunderstanding of what "average" is.Yeah, some people just don't get that. Just two days ago some dude made a post and all the comments from him said ’I think 80% people are below average”. Like don't ya get what average means?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:51 PM |
| – | Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women?Have you considered there are women who don't? How would you know who does what? Isn't it better to treat everyone humanely then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 11:35 PM |
| 6 | A lot of average/below average women have terrible personalitiesSeems like you have no grasp of basic mathematics at all? What makes you think you're qualified to engage in such debates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 11:09 AM |
| 2 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beI don't think you've understood the context | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 08:52 AM |
| 14 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beKeyword: ’at college’; the boys women are dating in college are educated/working towards advanced degrees. Calling them badboys to spew hateful rhetoric is not right. And as per your other claims, young virgins and immigrants are generally not very financially secure. That amount of power imbalance should be criminal. Seems like men don't have any problems taking advantage of the downtrodden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 09:47 PM |
| 16 | if men have to commit to women to get "wifey" behavior from women (cooking/cleaning nurturing), do women have to earn husband behavior? (financial providing, protection)It's astonishing that at this day and age cooking and cleaning is seen as something women do. Do men not clean their houses? Do they have their moms come over once a week and do it for them? No one expects traditional behaviour, what with all the casual daring. No woman wants to raise a man child who doesn't even know basic things like cooking and cleaning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 06:14 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?This post meaning the replies to the original post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:56 PM |
| 3 | if the population were 75% men and 25% women, would women have more or less privilege in society?Not few years. It's been illegal for almost four decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:41 PM |
| 1 | if the population were 75% men and 25% women, would women have more or less privilege in society?Thousands of women were killed across the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:16 PM |
| 8 | if the population were 75% men and 25% women, would women have more or less privilege in society?What is illegal in India: finding out the gender of your baby. No one's going to stop anyone from having an abortion as long as the gender of the baby is not known. No doctor is going to abort a baby without talking with the patient first. It is legally required that the patient knows all the implications. And no doctor can straight out deny an abortion in India (unlike some states in the USA). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:10 PM |
| 1 | if the population were 75% men and 25% women, would women have more or less privilege in society?If you think women are valued more than men answer this: in the past, States like Oregon persecuted average women for practising medicine/healing by calling it witchcraft. The one's doing it were average men (masons, farmers etc). Where in this scenario are women valued? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:08 AM |
| 7 | if the population were 75% men and 25% women, would women have more or less privilege in society?Abortion is legal in India. They did this by eradicating female foeticide and infanticide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:03 AM |
| 2 | if the population were 75% men and 25% women, would women have more or less privilege in society?India has never had a one child policy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:00 AM |
| 3 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Interesting. Can see broad range of tastes in this post. My tastes are a lil similar to yours I'm a woman so I'll give preferences for men: Tall (but not too much, I'm quite short) ~5'10 Nice hair (idc about straight or curly) In good shape, works out. I don't need abs but I'm not quite attracted to beer bellies Nice fashion sense Education is important (well spoken and intellectual) Also: no radical political opinions! Celeb crushes for reference: Cillian Murphy (ok he's short but he's gorgeous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:34 AM |
| – | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenJust like women don't care about your macho-provider act. Move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 06:15 PM |
| 0 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenHold my hand? I've constantly tried to prove my worth because of sexism in the academic environment. I have to work twice as hard due to all the roadblocks. How dare you make such a presumptuous statement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenIt's more than an incompatibility at this point. Political inclination is not a standard, it's an elimination criterion. Standard would apply to the people left after elimination. Standards are like: education, behaviour, job, respectability, looks, personality etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 08:31 AM |
| 0 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenI agree that standards should be raised. I can't stomach going out with any republican. But I disagree with her that men have to buy women stuff to meet the standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenI never claimed that. I just pointed out that women bring more to the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 08:11 AM |
| 0 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenIn my class of 44 people, there are 9. This is however no indication of women not having serious professions. See nursing school stats, medical school stats, teachers are mostly women. There are fewer women in tech but the number is increasing day by day. Why? Because women are given the opportunity now. Men have been encouraged to pursue science since the times of the Romans. Women have been only given 200 years or so. Instead of the discouraging, be supportive. Let women get the education they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:06 AM |
| -4 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenWomen have engineering degrees. PhDs. They're scientists, programmers, researchers etc. You sound like a serious failure of the education system. I myself am in my final year of an electrical engineering degree. And you think SAHM do nothing? Is raising a child right not important? Seems like you're an example of a child not raised right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:53 AM |
| 0 | If you’re reading this as some who frequents PurplePillDebates, I challenge you to get below 11% body fat just once in your lifeDo you think people making posts like this are educated in basic biology? Not fit for debate if you're not acquainted with basic facts about what you're debating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:48 AM |
| -4 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenDo you think women only bring ’immaculate vaginas’ to the table? Women are educated and have more assets now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenIt might be hard to believe but some men have a functioning brain. None of my guy friends at uni are like ’ew feminists’. But then again, they have an education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedFFS are you a moron? Girls don't watch specific shows. I've watched iron man, avengers, matrix, and close encounters of the third kind: whatever you consider manly. I've also watched pride and prejudice, mad men and modern family: whatever you consider feminine. Are you so delusional that you believe that women watch mad men and want to go back to how things were? Get your head out of your ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 05:07 AM |
| 18 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedWomen's Independence is a bad thing? What kind of archaic, patriarchal society do you envision? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:09 PM |
| 29 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedHow can it hurt both sides? Women have more freedom than ever. They're getting educated and independent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:04 PM |
| 14 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?If you're seeing others, you should discuss it. People need to make their own choices. If you want to see multiple women, it is your choice. If she wants exclusivity, that's hers. And in general, it's better to know if your partner is seeing others or not: for safety (STDs, emotional attachment etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 05:37 PM |
| 4 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?I don't live in the west. There is an entire world outside the USA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 05:06 PM |
| 19 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?As a woman, I generally assume that the guy I'm seeing is interested in me exclusively. I have an explicit conversation about it after we've been on 2-3 dates. It's not a question of entitlement. It's the norm. If you're going against the norm, you'll have to have an explicit conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Pathetic? Just go and scroll. Why are you unnecessarily attacking people for things you can do yourself? this, this, this, this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:58 AM |
| 0 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Put some effort in and read some other posts on this sub too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Having realistic standards is highly important.This data has been proven false by researchers. Bring a corroborated study then we'll discuss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 08:58 AM |
| -1 | Having realistic standards is highly important.This data is from OkCupid which is not reliable. The company has been falsifying data for many years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 08:57 AM |
| 0 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Read the posts. That is not criticism. On the other hand, blaming women for low birth rates is. Get educated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 08:17 AM |
| 5 | Having realistic standards is highly important.This place is full of criticism of women. Don't you see the misogynistic memes, men rallying against femisimn, bodily autonomy being taken away? Are there equivalents of this for unsuccessful men? From what I've seen, men tend to make other men feel inadequate not that I'm completely disregarding the fact that some women do it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Going through some posts on this sub and reading the posters’ comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Exactly my point! Don't have unrealistically high standards and blame others for not meeting them. There is so much hypocrisy: people never blame themselves for not meeting others’ standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:59 AM |
| 24 | Is a 29 year old asking out an 18 year old waitress creepy?Exactly! She is an adult but there will be a big power imbalance. Also, she might be kind to him because he's a customer. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Having realistic standards is highly important.There's no way to regulate what kind of medic (pics/videos) people post in the current landscape. Do you think such kind of regulation is required? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Having realistic standards is highly important.But not love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Are you trying to imply that isolated individuals require mental health professionals first and foremost? Before getting into any kind of relationship, stability of mind is absolutely important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Having realistic standards is highly important.The algorithm on these apps pushes only attractive individuals forward. It is true that the algorithm only learns from your behaviour but who can stop liking attractiveness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Having realistic standards is highly important.As per your logic, there are no LVW. Only queens. And they should not settle for mediocre men claiming to be kings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:38 AM |
| 4 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Yes, it will only hurt to use your partner as an escape from the loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Having realistic standards is highly important.What is a LVW to you? Don't you think that the men blaming women for their misery (check other posts on this sub) are the LVM? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:35 AM |
| 11 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Do you think social media/dating apps have a part to play here? Being bombarded with pictures of beautiful people all the time might lead to the skewed perception of attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Do you think social media/dating apps have a part to play here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:31 AM |
| 8 | Having realistic standards is highly important.You do have a point. Rather be single than make yourself and your partner miserable. But the key here is to be single and happy. Most of the posts here are men blaming women for their unhappiness and single status. What are your thoughts on this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:28 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Men that are tender and loving in the bedroom instead of rough and dominant are doomed to be mediocre, forgettable loversSeems like you have met many women. You're no one's best sex ever yet, right? Work on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 08:36 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Men that are tender and loving in the bedroom instead of rough and dominant are doomed to be mediocre, forgettable loversExactly! Best sex depends on the moment and the kind of mood you're in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 17 | CMV: Men that are tender and loving in the bedroom instead of rough and dominant are doomed to be mediocre, forgettable loversWhy do you speak for all women? You're not a woman so don't try to make a declarative statement disregarding the replies of women in this thread. You should not post in a sub for discussion/debate if you don't want to have one. There are different subs for opinions. Getting to your question: as no one likes to eat their favourite food every fucking day, women don't like to have the same kind of sex every day. No matter how much they like it. Variety is important. No one wants a strictly dominati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 17 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapThis is certainly not true. Studies have shown that women without children live longer and are healthier due to a lack of stress on the mind and body. Also, due to greater savings, most women without children pursue their passions/careers more fiercely and that can be very fulfilling. I think society has evolved beyond the point where a woman's goal in life was to have children. Women are succeeding in science, politics, sports etc. There is more to contribute to the world than just children. Pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapStudies have shown that relationships with larger age gaps tend to fail. So most people date/marry around their age. And it's not like women stop liking sex magically at 30. Older women engage in casual sex too. The orgy/switching kink was very popular among couples during the late 70s. So, we cannot infer that people in relationships don't have casual sex either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 06:48 PM |
| 22 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapYes, this sounds more like envy. And I couldn't find any studies regarding people with a higher body count tend to cheat. But from some articles I've read...most relationships with large age gaps tend to fail so I don't understand the point he's trying to make about older men attracting younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 06:41 PM |
| 10 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menWhat is the aim of this question then? Do you just want to soothe your false convictions about women through this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:03 AM |
| 10 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menYou need to stop blaming women and work on yourself. People tend to complain that women are attracted to successful and fit men. Yes, why wouldn't they be? Get your life on track before laying all the blame on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | There are thousands of guys that make a beautiful woman feel special any given day but has any beautiful woman ever made you feel special?I can't speak for him but I try to make him feel special... I always try to make my gifts thoughtful and related to things he is interested in. Also, some love notes are sprinkled around the month. I hope I'm making him feel special. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:38 AM |
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