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Depressedkid1998/r/seduction02/02/20 01:51 AM
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ConversationDepressedkid1998/r/seduction26/06/22 01:05 PM
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Yeah, i have had 3 kinds of dates A) managed to lead up to sex, good date B) makeout session, leads to sex in 2nd date C) nothing happens, i get ghosted or “no chemistry speech”
/r/seduction20/05/26 12:54 PM
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New years eve, i’m in a relationship though When i was single it’d vary between multiple partners or none at all
/r/seduction04/01/25 10:39 AM
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Let the dude express his feelings in peace without getting shamed.
/r/seduction16/06/24 06:38 PM
1

Look man, i’m short myself, i’m an engineer ( almost, only thesis left) in a good college and i have a great girlfriend, i can feel you what you’re talking about. However, the path goes down the same for every man, you need to get money, be in shape and be confident regardless of ur height, the process is the same for everyone, it may be harder on the confidence due to your height, but the path is the same for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/23 02:24 AM
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I do, i just feel like since i was a shy short kid my small talk during dates didn’t develop that well so i’d just be good enough to fly under the radar and do well on a first date but couldn’t keep it up. I also had problems getting interesting date spots with fun activities. Do i use them as fleshlights? No. Do i like speaking to them? Yes. I don’t know why ur coming at me with stupid accusations which do not reflect the truth or anything i said. I mentioned sleeping because it’s a good metric…
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:00 AM
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How do i fix it ?
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:14 PM
1

Unless they changed the boost on the first day then it’s very weird, i use to have 35/40 several times i’ve restarted, it’s a 95% dropoff lol
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:34 PM
11

Idk why downvoted, probably due to changing topic but i agree with what you said, however this doesn’t seem like a date
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:58 AM
2

Not in a drought because im still in touch with fwbs that are previous but i’ve noticed i haven’t gotten with someone new for like 1 year
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:59 PM
2

Make it a vague going with the flow kind of answer. Imagine you meet a girl and off the bat they say they want a relationship, you might want it too but when it’s that early it’s a scary thing to hear
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:32 AM
1

Yeah, luckily i was ghosted i wouldn’t have the strength to leave back then
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:23 PM
4

Yeah i figured, the sad part is their constant loop of one day she’s into you, one day she’s not kept me entertained and yearning for her everytime she showed me love again. Cycle was -> sex -> she was the most submissive friendly lovely girl-> couple weeks pass she slowly turns cold -> sex again -> redo behaviour until one day the 2 weeks becomes forever
/r/seduction22/05/22 07:29 PM
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The 6 months was exactly how long these hotter girls who’ve previously had interest me started losing interest. It’s the beginning of being the most dry ass conversation and way too much stuff going on so they “can’t” meet up
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:53 PM
9

Good mindset but if you take into account women only 1h car away from you, and lesbians and women that already have a boyfriend/married then that 80% cutoff is massive
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:38 PM
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People say alcohol a lot but whenever i order a drink every single girl says they're fine and don't want anything or just a glass of water lmfao. They only drink on encounters after we had sex
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:19 PM
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We’ll get through it some day
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:23 PM
19

Im 5’4 but i say im 5’5 on the internet, even when im anonymous i lie because im afraid of being shamed by 1 extra inch, when i measured 5’5 once and im pretty sure he got it wrong. It’s such a detriment to my mental health, like holy shit i have a good engineering degree, i have 8-9 bodycount but guess what im still short. I still go on tiktok and see the same shit men under 6’ are friends, go on r/tinder and every post that a dude effortlessly picks up a girl he’s tall. You go on r/bumble and …
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:35 AM
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All my sex encounters have been due to online dating apps, clubs and bars only destroyed my self esteem unfortunately
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:12 PM
2

Wrong, smart girls cheat too, they get caught less.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 11:06 AM
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SAME LMAO. We dated for 9 months i was 18 she was 17, she had already done it and wouldn’t shut up about doing it with precautions and whatever. The big day comes, she’s too scared, next time doesn’t feel ready, 3rd time says she feels pressured and she says it feels like im only dating her to get laid. Dude holy shit what a shit show, how did i handle all of that garbage for 9 months, especially when i was 21 and literally had sex with an absolute gorgeous girl on the same day that i met her, l…
/r/seduction21/12/21 08:47 PM
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Same also with a diff sense of style, but only pulls it off cause shes hot
/r/seduction21/11/21 02:37 PM
1

Just take a bunch of pics, i’ve taken prob 1000 and 3 turned out good. I mean maybe 20-30 were good but some of those had repeated outfits so i just selected 3 overall
/r/seduction15/11/21 02:40 PM
1

Most EU countries kids leave late, the northern EU countries the government supplies them with houses for free My country is portugal and i know a very good amount of people living with their parents or living alone in a uni on a different city and when they finish it they come back to their parents house
/r/seduction14/11/21 04:43 PM
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Much appreciated
/r/seduction14/11/21 03:24 PM
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What do you mean im doing a masters in civil engineering and im 23 i had a couple internships and side jobs but im still full time college there’s no way i can afford a small apartment dude im not rich
/r/seduction14/11/21 03:10 PM
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Dude most EU guys live with their parents until 30 or like 28+ , houses are fucking expensive Except northern countries the government gives them houses afaik
/r/seduction14/11/21 02:24 PM
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Depends on ur build, oversized when done right looks good on skinny dudes, you should dress according to how you like the most
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:59 PM
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If she started making out fast then it probably ain’t ur looks no?
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:05 PM
1

Good places to set up dates ? Like a park or
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:32 AM
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Damn been there, girl was into me 24/7 and ghosted me after sex, been there, prayers to that guy
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:35 PM
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23 lost virginity at 21 slept with 8 between 21 and 23
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:04 PM
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They mostly lie, i have slept with 7, 1 of them refused to tell me, one said 6, the rest said between 1-3
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:32 PM
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I have a trimmed beard, if i shave i look like a 40 year old man that has a boring 9 to 5 and is depressed, i prefer having one and some girls are really into it. Yes i know my username lmao
/r/seduction29/05/21 06:24 PM
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Ultra male, jean paul Gaultier , girls complement me on that one
/r/seduction29/05/21 06:21 PM
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i dont know much about signs or wanna offend but every gemini girl i met was hella narcissistic lmfao also hot and cold all the time, good luck bro, in the end zodiac signs are basically birth month racism anyways
/r/seduction22/05/21 07:44 PM
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im lucky, i am a leo, this scores me major points with crazy chicks cause they think i have crazy confidence like a CEO before they even meet me
/r/seduction16/05/21 08:17 PM
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It does help, also the girls if you can call them, some dont cause they get scared, but the ones who you call i always got a date. I’ve restarted convos with flakes and set dates, but i just got ghosted again
/r/seduction10/05/21 09:54 PM
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Im in a dry spell i’ll have to have sex first again and i’ll let you know how it goes haha
/r/seduction19/04/21 08:27 AM
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The congruent one is very important
/r/seduction12/04/21 12:14 PM
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Depends on the app, i dont get many on tinder but i get often on badoo
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:13 PM
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I think i need higher trustworthyness, i can text game but get ghosted when i propose arranging plans oof
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:03 PM
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I recommend editing and playing around the contrast/brightness, it improved my ratings a lot
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:00 PM
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what did ur selfies look like? In public? at ur bed? I was looking through all my smiling pics and they all look so fake/forced, which sucks cause i wore a retainer for 2 years lmao
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:00 PM
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How many voters do u wait before it’s solid? I got 7,2 in 6 votes and 7,5 in 18 votes. They’re both serious looking tho, i need a smiling pic but the ones i have theres always something wrong with it, in one of my smiling pic my shoes actually have holes LMFAO but the pic is cool, guess i need to take a photo shoot with a friend
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:30 PM
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Isnt that above average?
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:52 PM
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I just think im really boring in bed, i have this whole fun guy confident charisma but in bed im a wuss
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:37 AM
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Foreplay during penetration ? How?
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:35 AM
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Condoms, they’re randoms from dating apps so i cover myself, i did unprotected some times back in the day with my ex
/r/seduction04/04/21 02:34 AM
1

If you have some good advice i would never refuse! My goal is to finish college and get a cool job, while that i wanna live my life and improve my dating skills/sex so when i meet a girl i really desire i know i have the confidence and skillsets to pull it off :)
/r/seduction04/04/21 02:10 AM
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I think im missing passion during sex? When im on a date i can loosen up and have fun, i do my best to hold frame, let her talk and do some fun comments to keep the conversation going, escalate and whatsoever, but when it comes to sex i need to be a bit more animalistic and less “stoic” i suppose, but yes thanks for the tips, i just need practice i suppose, im in my head so much everytime i go for sex i just assume there won’t be a second time and i just tense up and am unable to cum and whatsoe…
/r/seduction04/04/21 01:48 AM
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Because i slept with over 9 chicks and 6 of those i never saw them after we had sex, first date sometimes ended up in sex or the second one, and never had sex after that with them. Im also in a dry spell atm, but i know for a fact i must not be good lmfao
/r/seduction04/04/21 12:37 AM
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This, ive gotten dates but didnt keep them cause my sex wasnt good enough, i need actual sex advice, i know solid game
/r/seduction03/04/21 11:40 PM
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True but videocall guarantees ur not catfishing
/r/seduction22/03/21 11:23 PM
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Using the videocall to build attraction
/r/seduction22/03/21 11:15 PM
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Im talking about those who are “maybe” dates, where u want her to be 100% in on the date, i usually have success on dates, but maybe bad pics idk its harder for dates to happen, once they happen i do fine
/r/seduction22/03/21 11:15 PM
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I felt the same, then i got a dry streak and i got back to being miserable, you should explore dating and have fun but you really should be able to have fun by your own, which i don’t know cause im still currently miserable
/r/seduction26/02/21 06:12 PM
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lmao
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:18 PM
1

I just wish they would be more transparent, if you don’t wanna hang out, sure i have another girls anyway who cares, but it’s the illusion of making u feel needed, like some sort of “i’ll shelter you from the storm” instinct i have. If they ghost i don’t ever reply and on the bright side, it’s more fun meeting new girls, u learn more life experiences, discover new things and stories so i like it, i don’t feel like i dislike the hooking up culture, i just dislike how it’s “ handled” .
/r/seduction24/02/21 03:18 PM
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It comes to a point where for me, most of the girls returning comes down to this, “ i miss you bla bla”, we hook up again and then after sometime it gets cold again, i’d rather try out new girls and leave those who disrespected you by not having the integrity of speaking to you before leaving, aka ghosting
/r/seduction24/02/21 02:15 PM
0

Wow great answer buddy, keep going after girls who don’t know you exist
/r/seduction24/02/21 12:51 PM
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Why should he answer someone who obviously doesn’t care about him/ ghosted him?
/r/seduction24/02/21 12:30 PM
3

I am getting that atm but i have had success, slept with 6 girls from dating apps, every girl i went out on a date i ended up sleeping with, some multiple times, others just once, which i calculate it’s probably im not good at sex? I think my game on the date is good, i just dont know what to do after i’ve slept with them, do i fuck more? Do i go to a picnic? Do i kiss them in public? Not allowed to kiss in public due to being too romantic too fast? That kinda stuff
/r/seduction22/02/21 08:50 PM
3

What frequency does it make it a pattern? 5 girls? 10?
/r/seduction22/02/21 12:40 PM
1

How many flakes until u stop play it cool and just block her? 1,2,3?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 09:01 PM
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I think jewelry can be a good stand out, just not overused like a ring on each finger. But for example a watch+bracelet or a necklace goes well tastefully
/r/seduction19/07/20 09:52 PM
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If she invites u to her house it’s definitely a sign she has interest my man, i always go for the kiss on the first date anyways
/r/seduction27/06/20 10:55 PM
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They dont respond to me, i made it clear i wanted a date and she said yes, couple days before she cancelled and didnt asked to reschedule, i sent her one week after another date she never answered after that. Every day watches my IG stories... what the fuck. Maybe wanna see what shes missing out? I have no ideia.
/r/seduction30/05/20 03:46 AM
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Her last is gonna be 27 so ill keep in touch
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:55 PM
1

Im 21 years so i dont email much, ill keep her on the backburner i guess
/r/seduction18/05/20 09:21 PM
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The girl in question i meet during quarentine so it was hard to actually meet up, i do go for average girls like 5,6 or 7 but i can’t. The girl who i talked to a month i ghosted her and she’s hitting me up so i’ve said a date or nothing. Im talking to a cute girl now too but she like i am is in exams and can’t meet up for at least 2 weeks, is 2 weeks too long for a date to be set up? Thanks
/r/seduction18/05/20 08:43 PM
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How the fuck do u get girls to not flake ? I’ve talked to girls for 1 months, 2 months they all gave excuses. I’ve tried sooner to not waste time 2-3 weeks or 1-2 weeks. Nope , excuse. I’ve done it in the first 3 days and again more bullshit excuses even though convos are great and they answer fast, some of these girls i even sexted. What the fuck help me please how do i fucking set up a date
/r/seduction18/05/20 08:09 PM
3

I feel the same maybe i should get a couple beers before going on dates
/r/seduction07/05/20 01:57 PM
4

That’s a lot of listening i have to process haha
/r/seduction06/05/20 07:12 PM
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I’ve been talking with this girl for a month, lots os facetimes and stuff, anyway , quarentine is over (in my country ) so i set up a date and we’ve talked so much so i wonder how imma keep a conversation going on the date we’re going next week
/r/seduction06/05/20 04:54 PM
0

New question is, how often you should text while in quarentine? If not i try once a week, maybe 2 if they are into me including spending the night here
/r/seduction28/03/20 09:29 PM
2

Yep, hooking up with this girl for months, every time i mention im feeling down she goes cold and distant. Just have to deal with it by myself, fucking sucks.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 08:33 PM
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Its hard when so few females actually validate u and give u pussy u get attached as fuck, i have to pretend to not give a fuck and slowly die inside then they always come back but it shouldn’t be this hard
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 09:27 PM
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That happened to me as well, she kept messaging saying she loved being with me, etc etc, i got too complacent and now i have to go nc and make her miss me
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 09:52 AM
2

What method is that
/r/seduction16/02/20 08:45 PM
172

Just don’t fall in love man, that girl sounds like an awful girlfriend
/r/seduction07/02/20 02:13 AM
1

Should i try dating apps?
/r/seduction02/02/20 01:56 AM
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Agreed, people are allowed to have weak moments, i get down emotionally really easily, but after some wallowing and self pity even i started getting my shit together. It’s a process, results will come sooner or later
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:30 PM
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There’s some truth here, and also some girls do like dick pics, but i guess it has to be someone you’ve been dating for a while i suppose not outta nowhere
/r/seduction19/01/20 07:52 PM
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Yeah... this sub has gone to crap lol what is this
/r/MGTOW08/12/19 10:27 PM
3

Actually ridiculous lol
/r/MensRights18/09/19 11:51 AM
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This post is shit and doesn’t belong here at all
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 12:20 AM
1

I would live there for free? Why is this supposedly a hard question
/r/MGTOW13/07/19 08:34 PM
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Doesn’t deserve * as well
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 10:13 AM
5

Look, he set his “ demands “ and she broke them, so he does have reason. Although those demands are a bit weird, like, if you breath then i’ll break up with you. Maybe he doesn’t trust her friend or something but at first sight something feels off.
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 10:27 AM
2

Thank you :)
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 07:03 AM
10

That’s a whole new level of patience jesus christ man
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 12:01 AM
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I think a decent sized table to study, work or play games on would be good for a pc on top of it
/r/MGTOW09/02/19 01:23 PM
2

You cannot be serious.
/r/MGTOW19/01/19 05:03 PM
2

She was with him before he got rich, doesn’t mean all his hardwork and the risks he took mean that she deserves 50%, but to my understanding she is no gold digger.
/r/MGTOW12/01/19 12:00 AM
1

Damn what a rough year
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 09:20 PM
2

Some of those were way too relatable..
/r/MGTOW30/12/18 04:53 PM
1

Some of the comments there are pretty awesome
/r/MGTOW16/12/18 02:03 PM
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If ur defining quality is nice you bet your ass woman think you’re garbage. Also if you’re not handsome or rich, they’ll think they deserve much better even though they can be 500lbs whales. Entitlement off the charts.
/r/MGTOW16/12/18 12:36 AM
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I think discipline, im not the smartest but studying a lot and you can make it
/r/MGTOW14/12/18 12:26 PM
3

That mam was pretty unnecessary
/r/MGTOW11/11/18 12:58 PM
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Im afraid an answer is not needed
/r/MGTOW11/11/18 12:57 PM
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What do you actually talk about when you banter, do you have a topic to go to , or is it off the moment ?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 01:07 PM
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Don’t really mind it tbh
/r/MGTOW04/08/18 07:59 AM
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The fuck is wrong with these hoes
/r/MGTOW26/07/18 11:44 AM
1

What the hell is wrong with people
/r/MGTOW03/04/18 12:44 AM
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What does masculine as fuck mean? Cant dance in public?Cant cry?Gotta be alpha in the group of friends? I do not understand.
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