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Picky eaters always takin shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:37 PM
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While I'm not red pill, I'm sure some guys had heard the following lines that red pilled them: "I wish more guys were more like you" "You're a really nice guy" "You'll find someone who'll you will make happy someday" "You're too nice" "I see you like a brother" "I wish my boyfriend were more like you"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:22 PM
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I find femcel communities very amusing due to the constant infighting they have due to the women there with boyfriends, sex partners, situationships etc... and then the fakecel accusations start flying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:52 PM
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Just making sure, I complimented a women's heels, then read online that compliments on heels could be perceived as inappropriate. Something about them being inherently feminine/sexual...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:59 PM
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Q4W: Is it appropriate for a man to compliment a coworker's high heels?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:07 AM
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They wouldn't be saying that if the private schools their kids were at had shootings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:45 PM
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It's interesting on the Trump side that "Having Children" is above "Being married". So are they having kids out of wedlock?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:41 AM
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There already is a split with views on Transgender women. Trans inclusive vs trans exclusionary feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:08 AM
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She says "touch a boob" but I'm pretty sure that is sexual assault...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:02 PM
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I don't think I would ever passport bro, and even if I did I probably wouldn't want to do it with anyone on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:51 PM
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That woman need to acknowledge men have it harder in dating. Even if every woman collectively all agreed and acknowledge it, nothing in dating would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:51 PM
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Bakery, ice cream or coffee shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:08 AM
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Will be a wizard in less than two years, most likely I'm autistic. I often wonder how people can "people" so easily. It seems I'm missing a software update but it never installed. Or like I'm a creature in human skin trying its best to be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:49 PM
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Just act like a normal human being JFC Most of the men here wouldn't be here if we could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:24 PM
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Certain activities feel like couple/group activities. I can do things like go to the mall and watch a movie alone, but activities like going to a sit down restaurant I don't have the guts to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:28 AM
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Not so sure, even the femcel sub has many users on there that aren't actually virgins. Loneliness though, I could see that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:01 AM
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Zero, I'm in IT so very few women around and I don't get out much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:49 PM
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Had a strange dream where the FBI was having escorts have sex with age 25+ male virgins. Real weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:07 PM
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😢
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:52 PM
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A little bit is ok, as long as they don't make it weird. Constantly making comments, saying the n word, and putting down other races is where I would draw the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:00 AM
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At what point would you consider a guy being desperate? Getting on dating apps and putting yourself in scenarios where you are around women doesn't sound desperate, but basic dating advice. Or is trying to get in a relationship or get a partner desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:35 PM
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I think the logic is used because: More men want sex with women then women want sex with men. Women are much more fine with being single then men are. Because men generally do the approaching, women are on the receiving end and get to judge the interaction. Even many of the "single" women aren't really single, just look at femcel msg boards, many of them will talk about boyfriends and having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:02 PM
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Isn't the average male in a relationship though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:47 AM
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I don't think you create red pill men. What red pills men is usually failing at love in some way. Just takes a couple of Google searches, a little bit of videos, and your algorithm giving you what you want to see. I know that is how I found it. I've long abandoned the red pill, and acknowledged I don't have what it takes to attract women, and I'm not willing to put in the work to do so. It's not women's fault I'm single, but mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:40 AM
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Woman said I had a nice smile. She was going door to door for a company so it might have been a tactic, but it made me feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:08 PM
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I think unconditional love does exist. Just look at the families/spouses of some murderers. In some of their cases they are still loved, but heavily disgusted by their actions. Or some go further and swear their innocence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:28 PM
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😢
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:12 AM
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I see it more from a gaming perspective. If most people are using a paid DLC to win, you have to buy the paid DLC to stand a chance. Or compensate somehow in some other way to not need the paid DLC. You could complain about the DLC, but it's there, and for now the Devs have no plans to nerf or remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:28 PM
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It seems to me like you either pay the date or lose access to over half the dating pool. At least in the USA. If dating is a numbers game, the best idea seems to be to pay. Maybe in the future when gender roles are less rigid it will change, but for now it seems to be the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:17 PM
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Drink more water
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:34 PM
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Q4W: Have you ever looked at a guy and thought he is giving off incel vibes? Some friend of mine said that some guy was giving her "major incel vibes". It got me thinking as a late 20's virgin if I might be giving off any energy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:06 PM
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Unsure why they are making incels out to be some massive threat. Women are more likely to die to their spouse than some incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:59 PM
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Whenever this question is asked, it seems like certain traits women can easily narrow in on like desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:53 PM
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My mom is someone who I will always value in my life. She is colorful, energetic, positive, and extroverted. She does little dances or sings to herself from time to time when in a good mood which makes me a little happy to see that she is in a good mood. She is the main reason I could never be a red piller or incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:56 AM
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I only started watching porn because of my failure to attract women, so I would definitely give it up if I was successful in getting a GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:38 PM
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No, but that might be because I can't detect IOI.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:21 PM
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Double Dash, Diddy Kong & Para Troopa/Koppa. Triple Red/Green shells are great for getting those in front of you, and when in first the Big Bananas are very obstructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:45 AM
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Some traits are highly detrimental to success with women. Being boring, high inhibition, meekness, shyness, low confidence/self esteem, low social ability, no rizz/swag/it factor all traits that will screw you over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:47 PM
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If you like sports that's a good one to use. Long as it is a popular one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:18 PM
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I float between giving up and not. At 28 I know I'm young but having zero experience at this point is pretty telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:44 PM
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INTP Most of the guys being I is not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:26 AM
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I would lie but I suck at lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:22 AM
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I dunno, I've gone to multiple different churches in my life and the women always outnumber the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:50 PM
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Hate how accurate this is for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:52 PM
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If you are called a "nice guy" it means they think you are boring, unattractive and you make them drier than the Sahara. If you were told that you would be pissed, they say the nice version.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:44 PM
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I would probably say volcel. I'm near autistic and have some stuff I need to work out mentally/psychologically. If I could take a "normal person" pill I would be fine. I don't bother with women currently because it's a pointless effort. I can't get to a romantic/sexual place, only a friend one. I've tried asking some girls out before, it's either excuses or I'm too nice(boring/no sexual attraction).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:15 PM
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You put yourself in the friendzone. You could easily after the rejection tell the girl you are not interested in friendship and cut contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:18 AM
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Useless vague advice. I know women are people, my issue comes with making it romantic/sexual. Generally I'm seen as "too nice" which I recognize as being boring and making women as dry as the Sahara. Flirting, charisma, "aura", rizz, sexual energy or whatever you call it I don't have. Next you will say more generic advice like "be myself".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:05 AM
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But that still has nothing really actionable besides, "get to know them".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:47 AM
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I dont date dudes, but if I did idk id probably fall for the dude who just shows up, is chill, and has a good time time How can a guy take action on this though? You want a guy who doesn't ask you out or try and hit on you. But how will he get with you if he can't do either of those things? This is coming from a place not of criticism but curiosity. It feels like a lot of advice is "try but without trying".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:24 AM
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No, I'm not overweight and wouldn't want a partner overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:00 PM
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All men want is for women to acknowledge their immense privilege in dating and socializing, and to stop attributing success in these areas entirely to merit and virtue.". I feel like this acknowledgement is useless. It won't change dating whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:37 PM
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Weird/intense staring. Unwanted touching. Strange movements. Very overt sexual comments too soon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:08 PM
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Most normal people don't go on online message boards and discuss dating pills. They are too busy living their lives to give a shit about pills. This sub attracts damaged/broken people, and those who like to watch a dumpster fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:33 AM
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Forever alone women sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:23 AM
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I think the problem is there is no real objective. "Just have fun" gives no steps or instructions besides "have fun". Nothing really actionable to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:39 PM
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Congrats. Guess there is always a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:44 AM
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Waiting until marriage. By this do you mean a virgin, or someone who won't have sex with you until marriage? If the former you sound pretty screwed, but the latter might be doable. Even my religious parents married 25+ years both had sex before marriage. Would you be willing for a low n count, say under 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:07 AM
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MLG gaming memes were amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:43 PM
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Rarely, but I think it's due to my poor sleep habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:06 PM
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Don't most women like masculine men and most men like feminine women? If you want to cast the widest net it sounds like a no brainier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:16 PM
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It seems like the "ick" is given from weird, creepy, awkward, and socially not normal behaviors. An potentially abusive person probably isn't doing any of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:26 PM
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Tism: Pretty high I'm assuming. I find it difficult to connect to others. Often I have the feeling I'm not human. Or that I'm some "thing" pretending to be human. Never been officially diagnosed but my high school counselor noted I was "socially behind my peers". Face: Above average, but I'm not good at smiling. My default face has been noted to look kind of dead. Height: ~6 ft Weight: ~170. My personality is 100% the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:54 PM
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She says that women(referring to Zoomers) would take advantage of the fact that I can. My mom is old fashioned and generally believes in more traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:44 AM
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Many guys here(myself included) most likely haven't felt raw desire from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:48 AM
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No seething, I briefly think about all the bending down the guy would have to do to kiss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:24 AM
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I dunno, my mom has constantly told me to never tell a women that I can cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:58 PM
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Sounds like BS to me, most women don't go for younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:07 AM
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The idea sounds pretty funny. "Honey, I'll be down for family dinner in a second, just finishing up a post on PPD". Or maybe they are scrolling together?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:38 AM
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Completely fine with it. I'm not big on animals so I wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:04 PM
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Any image examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:28 PM
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If you mean muscles or an athletic frame I am 100% fine with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:19 PM
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Sex is literally supposed to feel pleasurable. Both men and women like it. You are probably giving off a vibe that women don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:59 AM
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Delusional or not it doesn't really matter. If you were selling a product, and nobody was buying it, calling your potential customers delusional wouldn't achieve anything. You would need to market the product to be more appealing for customers, or modify it. You have two options: Improve or give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:46 AM
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Logic would dictate that if women are not interested in you then you are undesirable. To be more desirable you have to increase your marketability, or improve yourself... And pill communities/incels are a minority of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:25 PM
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A women could get away with it more. Awkward girl can be quirky, adorkable, and "shy anime waifu". Traits found in social awkwardness aren't desired in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:28 PM
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Ass, outside those choices legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:32 PM
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Man, have you guys actually met women that are into you? Pretty much...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:22 PM
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Yes, cause it also comes with being perceived as boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:18 PM
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There is an easy way to get out the friend zone. Stop being friends with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:03 PM
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I'm very aware, I said "most men here" as in men on the PPD sub, not most men in general. Most men have relationships, lose their virginity in their high school years, and don't go on forums talking about pills. I know I'm not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:05 PM
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I think being aware it exists and experiencing it first hand are two very different things. And considering most men here struggle with dating, we all probably have never experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:58 AM
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Make it obvious it is not a subject you wish to discuss. Most people aren't confrontational and when they realize you clearly don't want to talk about it they will back off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:48 AM
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They're amazingly 750 calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:39 AM
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"Your honor let it be known I was just joshing"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:34 AM
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It's unfortunate but that's how it is. Either adapt, quit or change your playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:14 PM
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Kind of a dick move in the first place to flip the turtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:54 AM
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I don't know why this sub makes a massive deal of being single from both sides. Cause most of the people who are here and single don't want to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:19 AM
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I wonder why a non single guy would even want to be here. Red pill and black pill both attract men who struggle with dating/romance. Someone successful with women isn't thinking about pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:09 AM
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Let's say it is the fault of the current society. Doesn't change anything. You still have to adapt. Let's say a new OP strategy is found in a fighting game. Yes you can complain and blame the new strat, but regardless it is still there. Either learn to play around it, or have it forever in your way. Be good, get good, or give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:05 PM
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Doesn’t eat fruit/veg (random but a guy I dated briefly had the palette of a 10 year old and it was a huge ick). I really wish I could like veggies more, but 90% of them taste really gross or have bad texture to me. Only ones I eat are the ones that barely count like potatoes, onions, and beans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:21 PM
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I would say regardless it doesn't matter. Even if it was acknowledged as "truth", men who have trouble with dating would still have trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:58 PM
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I can talk with women at a decent level, it really expands to a general problem of not understanding the flow of conversation at times. When people do the whole "Do you like x, how about y, what about z?" bit, I frequently am not realizing they are trying to get conversational topics. I say no to all three most of the time, which leads the person to give up 65% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:30 PM
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No she really doesn't. I'm 27, I believe she is in her late 40's early 50's, and has 3 kids. She was just trying to find subjects to talk about. My less then stellar conversational skills made her give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:25 PM
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Some woman at my workplace asked if I was married and I laughed in response. Hope I didn't freak her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:44 PM
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Yes, and very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:39 PM
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27, never have personally. Never been part of a crowd that goes to parties or gets drunk. I hate crowds and loud noises though so I would most likely be miserable in such a place. I'm gonna go with it's pretty rare. Whether it be high school or college parties seem pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:37 PM
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From my understanding it sounds like: If you are a 5, you shouldn't be trying to shoot for 7-10's. But at the same time, you shouldn't have desperation, and want to get with anything with a pulse. The hard part is getting rid of desperation when you are desperate with no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:27 PM
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Easier said then done. I've given up on dating/romance mostly at this point, but I still feel like I have a chance at times. Wish I could turn off that desire at times, but it is kinda scary to think about not having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:51 PM
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If only 7's and below have sex with you doesn't that say what league you are in? You can say you are 9 till you are blue in the face and it won't mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:33 PM
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Not surprised. Peeked in yesterday and there was incel-lite content.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:35 PM
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Could be a chicken or the egg scenario. "I watch porn because I can't have sex". "I can't have sex because I watch porn". For me I only started watching it at the age of 19. After unsuccessful attempts at romance during high school I started watching it consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:44 PM
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Once some mom yelled to me and my friends that her daughter thought one of us was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:46 PM
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Mostly here to observe, I rarely debate. I visit here and some other dating subs to keep watch of the dating scene. It is a great reminder that some people have no business in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:48 PM
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I'm boring myself, so I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:50 PM
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I think to some degree yeah. Maybe you start with some light femdom stuff. Red light green light joi, edging, denial play. The usual. I feel down the line you could slip to the more hard femdom stuff. CBT, CEI, cage, sissy, BNWO and all that stuff. Most femdom creators have both sorts of content. I think you can easily fall into the other ones if you don't establish a limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:20 AM
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Had never heard the term before, but yeah that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:31 AM
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Why would they be here though? You don't go Red pill, black pill, or incel unless you were struggling with dating. Why would a guy with no troubles be here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:08 AM
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Are awkward or spectrum-y and see a normal level of banter and flirtation as a performance. Nail on the head for me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:18 PM
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B, but you can get out of the friend zone whenever you want. Either cut contact or slow ghosts out of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:13 AM
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Worst probably. Went from briefly looking at the red pill, going to purple, then black. I feel sometimes I'm slipping into nihilism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:02 PM
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Boring Neurodivergent Socially behind
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:20 PM
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Perspective, like seeing the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:13 AM
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Part of the problem is "blue pill" technically never existed. Red pill was the thing, blue was anti red. It never had ideology, major posters or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:01 PM
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The empathy means nothing. A guy struggling with sex/relationships will struggle with or without it. Trying to get that empathy is a waste of time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:13 PM
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Isn't that for everything though? Some people are naturally good at some things, and not at others. Some are gifted in math, science, sports, music and what not but would struggle in other fields. Some will have to try even harder at certain things to be adequate in comparison to those who naturally excel at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:15 AM
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Same here. Need a little pizzaz or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:50 AM
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What would one have to gain about lying about their dating struggles? Seems kind of dumb. If I'm gonna lie, I would go in the opposite direction and say I am an extreme sex haver or something along those lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:56 AM
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Men are more likely to hold in their emotions, but they still feel them. Can lead to emotions cooking like a pressure cooker and exploding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:41 PM
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I'm personally not, but it sounds logical. Like leaving the country to get a good paying job in the city. In this case leaving an area you believe you have low dating options to one with seemingly more. Sounds like a no brainier
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:40 PM
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26 and still can't grow a beard. I cannot shave for months and still not have much except uneven chin hair and weird looking stache.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:53 AM
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If they cared or not doesn't matter. You would still be struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:47 PM
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There won't be one. Those who are romantically/sexually successful will continue to do so. Those who aren't will either continue to struggle, learn how to get good, give up trying, or permanently give up. USA will most likely end up like Japan. Guys will start turning to other methods of coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:25 PM
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Stoicism(TRP belief) and Nihilism are somewhat close. Although I think Nihilism can easily result in a broken person. Stoicism is the much easier to digest and much healtheir.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:41 AM
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Agreed. "Be good, get good, or give up"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:48 PM
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Option one. I can cook and clean, so I have no problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:43 PM
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If I ever do end up having sex I sure as hell don't want anyone pissing on me, or requesting to be pissed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:39 PM
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I'm a loner, so I wouldn't mind being with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:20 PM
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Games I've bought this year: Octopath Traveler(Got it for $23.99) Spark the Electric Jester 3 Freedom Planet 2 Here Comes Niko Liked the latter 3, barely started Octopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:21 AM
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Just keep a 2nd on standby at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:16 AM
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I guess I see the point of it, but see it as an extreme response which helps nobody. Like telling a lesbian to have straight sex if they miss sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:40 PM
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I normally agree or at least see the point of your takes, but this ain't one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:19 PM
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I don't think men really fear harsh rejection. I think in general people fear rejection. Worse when you put yourself out there and really let yourself be open, only for reality to hit you. Not worth the trouble or hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:13 PM
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Either improve yourself to the level women will want you or give up and keep getting with escorts. Either way nothing will change by doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:39 PM
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Doesn't she have the say though? Yes or no to the date? What's complicated about that? That's the choice. It's much more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:12 PM
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From an sexually unsuccessful man's perspective all women choose not to have sex with them. Easy conclusion to make. A much harder conclusion to make is why they won't, and how to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:42 PM
2

She's not yours, it's just your turn. All women are like that. Enjoy the decline. Lift and eat healthy. Never marry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:15 PM
2

I have given up. I have way too many issues for me to have any sort of chance. It would require a whole lot of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:56 PM
1

I only text my family, she can go right ahead. I would ask to see hers too just in case she was projecting her guilt on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:46 PM
1

I would still have all my mental/psychological problems so nothing would change. Maybe hope the other body isn't lactose intolerant. I can eat a bunch of Mac and cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:26 AM
2

The men are probably getting banned, or have given up debating. I'm mostly here to lurk personally. I've already given up attempting romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:36 AM
3

Being quiet/shy and boring is much worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:38 AM
1

Max 30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:16 PM
1

I'm gonna go with yes. TRP, dating sites/apps, match makers and the large industry built on dating exist purely because of it. Some know though. I know what I could probably do to be successful with women. Get confidence, fix my mental health, lay off the more niche porn, gain social skills etc... But knowing and doing are two different things. Fixing all that would take years for me. Too much. So for now I'm fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:17 PM
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Probably a bunch of closet weebs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:13 PM
1

It doesn't matter what us men think, women for the most part control the dating scene. Thus they decide what is right and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:03 PM
2

Talking about a work spouse or just a friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:15 PM
1

Someone asking for juice. You don't need juice, you need water. But the juice is tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:11 PM
2

Yes. It's one of those things that eats away at you. Rationally you know there are plenty of fish in the sea. But when rejections pile up it's hard to remember that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:47 PM
3

He's doing nonstop nut November apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:22 PM
1

I would definitely get with a tall girl. But then again I have a slight fetish for that sort of thing so I'm biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:18 PM
2

I do agree sex is not a need. I would put sex on the level of good tasting food. In order to sustain yourself you need to eat. However it doesn't exactly have to taste good. It just needs to be nutritious enough so you don't get malnutrition. Same with sex. You don't need it. You can just masturbate if you want to release. But I assume most don't want to solely masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:02 PM
1

No. Even if I'm much too guarded and untrusting. I would keep them at arms length like everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:44 AM
6

You could easily go the other way. Instead of trying harder to beat the game, you could just quit the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:18 AM
1

New job I started last month. Now instead of being a shut-in I'm a shut-in with a pretty good paying job!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:54 PM
0

Has anyone sent you furry porn🤔. Oddly specific example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:51 PM
2

Men do about the same. Women we want to have sex with but not be in a relationship with. Women we want to have sex with and be in a relationship with. It makes sense. Maybe Chad/Stacie aren't relationship material but are fucking material.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:45 PM
3

26(4 years till wizard), no dates, no kisses. Got a nice list on why: Boring Socially Inept Social Anxiety Shut in Avoidant Attachment Nice Guy TM (Working on this one) Not Selfish Quiet Untrusting of others Not vulnerable Can't emote properly People pleaser Weird stuff like not moving my arms when moving. I conscioussly have to move them. I still walk weird even after that. Those are off the top of my head. Mostly all mental stuff. Probably need years of therapy among other things. For now I ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:54 PM
1

I agree, same with the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:36 PM
3

Nothing really specific. I just realized I was pretty screwed up. The way I viewed life and romance was wrong. If I ever want to date I would have to do a complete personality overwrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:36 AM
7

What led me to TRP was a complete failure in my romantic life. No girlfriends, no dates, no kisses, no romance. What got me out was reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and "Models". I realized I was boring, a nice guy, and socially inept. I learned the path for me to ever be able to have romantic success was far too tedious and long for me to ever commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:26 AM
54

Women have little incentive to be the initiator.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:16 AM
10

I dunno. Mine comes from being boring and socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:55 PM
2

I found the TRP sub late teens. Sounds accurate. It is a natural progression to me. You realize that you dating/sex life is lesser or non-existent compared to your peers. So you do some searches online. Eventually you will probably dip into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:19 AM
1

Have you ever tried women's boxer briefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:15 AM
1

Yes. I know I personally am garbage at being in pictures. I can't make a smile on command without it looking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:12 AM
1

No, but I'm slightly curious about it. Might look into it one day to get at minimum an understanding of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:10 AM
1

You can ask Gwen Stacy why it's a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:05 AM
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Makeup and fake lashes are pretty standard for women to use though. Not sure about push up bras.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:19 PM
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Probably not. Unless he has some niche fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:53 AM
3

If a woman approached me I would assume she wants something. Either that or she is assertive. Probably has a bit of a body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:15 AM
3

introverts tend to have higher bodycounts. Are you sure you didn't mean lower?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:25 PM
1

First
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:00 AM
4

I assume most guys probably want their girlfriend/wife about 3-4 inches shorter. High heels would make an equal height woman taller than them. I personally have no height preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:50 AM
1

Staying home. 26 male
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:56 AM
1

I don't use OLD, I know I wouldn't be able to take it. Also, the hope is that the system will be used responsibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:54 AM
5

New funny idea for OLD. The black ball. Let's say for whatever reason you really didn't like your date/interaction. Maybe she used you for a meal ticket. Maybe he was a douche. For whatever reason you can give someone a black ball(you will get a limited amount to prevent spamming them). After someone gets a certain number, their profile will have a mark showing they got a lot of them. The only concern is people using them out of saltiness or spite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:23 AM
1

Probably wouldn't at all, just the idea seemed amusing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:01 AM
2

Came up with an idea to spice up tinder/OLD in general. I call it "Hot Commodity." If a guy gets a majority(let's say 66%) of women to swipe right on them, they get marked as a hot commodity. The guy can see this as well as any woman who looks at their profile. Maybe every 2 weeks it refreshes. I wonder if the new system would at all affect the swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:37 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:19 PM
1

Yeah it is strange. If 18% of 25-29 year olds are virgins, the no date percent is even lower than that. There are dozens of us!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:00 PM
2

I'm more surprised about how much people value celebrities statements in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:52 PM
3

Good men find good women and vice versa. They probably aren't one of the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:18 AM
7

The term milf exists for a reason. 30's and 40's aren't too old at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:06 PM
1

It is pretty sad. I was working in Target once, and a couple approached me and they asked if a guy should get a present for Valentine's day. The woman insisted she didn't have to give a present.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:23 AM
1

I have all 5, wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:09 AM
1

I think it's highly important. High School is the testing ground for dating. You can afford to have a mediocre date because everyone is new to it. Later everyone has some expectations on the minimum experience and on what to expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:47 AM
1

Talking to myself. Being caught masturbating sounds horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:10 PM
1

Nothing further than fist bumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:14 PM
12

I don't think anyone would disagree with you on this. Shy girls/women actually have appeal. See romance movies and anime. Shy guys are generally used as self inserts and not as the desired piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:09 AM
2

People hate accepting reality. Like with interviews. Yes, they are annoying. But you have to either play along or not get the job. Same with dating/sex. Accept the rules or else things will never work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:02 PM
2

Not in favor. Sounds like regulations on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:52 PM
2

Degree or certifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:49 PM
1

https://youtu.be/IjzoufuMxVc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:55 AM
2

I was going for a Justice League Unlimited reference but I screwed it up. It's supposed to be Crazed Loner. I am a loner though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:03 AM
1

🪞
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:15 PM
1

I have one. I wish sometimes I could turn it off sometimes. It keeps me in my head way too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:14 PM
3

Women have more variations of clothes than men. A guys polo shirt would look the same on many guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:11 PM
1

It exists, there are a couple of subs for "cuck queens"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:09 PM
7

At least you're honest 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:03 PM
3

I have a strong feeling this won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:33 AM
3

I believe in love, but don't think that everyone will get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:20 AM
4

Enabled or not, trash behavior is trash. Not women's fault some guys act toxic and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:45 AM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:56 PM
1

I don't think I can get any worse than I already am. I know for a fact I will never cross the line to the more far out there stuff anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:07 PM
2

Actual Female Dommes tend to NOT FUCK their Male subs. For obvious reasons. That's why you tend to see all this Chastity cage shit, Cuckolding, etc. I watch femdom porn, and I get real sick of this. I don't want cuckolding, Chasity cage, cei, ball busting or any of that stuff. But my god there is so much of it nowadays. I just want the simple stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:24 PM
1

Why not both? Mommy teacher porn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:24 PM
15

Yeah I'm in the undesirable boat as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:53 AM
38

I think as others have said, if a woman has interests in you she will make it easy. Women most likely don't have interest in you, thus you never experience that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:17 AM
2

I'm 26 and have given up. I'm socially stunted too much to bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:14 AM
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Pic of the shirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:37 PM
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Never celebrated it, parents think it's satanic. When I move out I will celebrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:36 PM
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Be fine with it. No hair and we good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:35 PM
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Seals, cause they are like water dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:31 PM
22

I think most guys don't want a pity date/relationship. That would lead to both parties being unhappy. At most for many men it is a simple acknowledgement that dating is somewhat difficult as a guy is all that is wanted, especially with much of the burden to start the process is on men, and if they don't do the process they will be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:03 PM
2

It doesn't matter what you label yourself, people will label you with whatever you will please.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:39 AM
2

Sounds like sour grapes to me, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:25 AM
3

100% coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:48 PM
1

I would say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:20 PM
1

Same answer as before, Resentment. One thing to say you are over it. Another thing entirely is to practice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:56 PM
1

In today's environment, most of them probably go to MGTOW or black pill instead of the next step.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:48 AM
4

Some guys never leave the anger phase and just stay angry. And even those who do leave it probably have some amount of resentment towards women left.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:35 AM
4

The collapse of Rome happened because they didn't have anime sex bots. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:53 PM
3

I'm gonna assume many don't have the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:33 AM
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Popular female twitch(also has Only fans) streamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:02 PM
3

Don't then, you will die alone and most likely nobody will care. The game's rules are set. Either play the game or don't. EDit: OP blocked me. Truth hurts I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:58 PM
0

Agreed, I think women want maturity, and generally older guys have a little more of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:46 AM
0

Starting my first full time job Monday and already dreading working the next 30+ years of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:45 AM
8

Probability wise, doesn't this mean a guy is screwed either way? Swipe right more, you are seen as desperate. Swipe right less, fewer probable matches. Seems lose lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:40 PM
1

Circle Crusher
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:00 AM
2

No, I don't think I would do any sort of unnecessary surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:56 PM
22

Acknowledged or not doesn't matter. Doesn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:03 PM
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There is a fetish for just about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:57 PM
1

I have a feeling they have little reason to be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:41 PM
2

I was rewatching House the other day, and I think one of his lines sum up dating options for men: "There are three choices in this life: Be good, get good, or give up. Naturally be a good option, become a good option, or give up entirely becoming one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:07 PM
2

I've for the most part given up. I'm trying to get a decent full time job. I'll work, enjoy various kinds of entertainment (TV, movies, video games). Maybe find a hobby. I'll go to about 40-50 or so and see if I get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:43 AM
1

They are probably sipping wine in amusement at our struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:45 AM
1

Experience and a brief dip in the Red and Black Pill. I don't hate women, but at most they become acquaintances for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:37 PM
2

I think it's meaningless because it changes nothing. Dating won't change because a woman knows a man's dating struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:53 PM
1

I think some guys like it. The varying range of emotions probably keeps it interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:20 PM
1

Probably the unpredictable part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:47 PM
3

Yes, I do think love exists. My parents have been happily married for 30+ years and they are what I think love is. I also think not everyone will get to have love or experience love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:33 PM
3

Germany, love me some bratwurst on a kaiser roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:05 AM
1

Depends, what type of bread?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:34 AM
1

My plan currently is to get a place, work a job I don't hate, and enjoy my hobbies. Living alone will put the cost down greatly, so that's a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:32 AM
3

Most guys probably see it that way because men have to actively initiate most of the dating process. So of course they have to look at what women want, and qualify for it. Most guys probably don't think of a women's perspective in dating because it is very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:32 PM
1

If you stay with her long term it's a story you can laugh at later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:20 PM
3

Next up: "Why rape is actually a good thing."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:46 PM
1

Isn't Prince Charming the one in Cinderella though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:44 PM
0

It could matter if your/their n count reflects your/their values. Sex means different things to different people. For some it's an act only done between those who are married. Others it's something you do after meeting someone drunk in a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:26 AM
3

There is some truth to what you say, but the reality is the reaction to all this for some people is to not bother. Why bother playing a game stacked against you? Why bother putting months/years worth of improvement into a system with lower odds?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:19 AM
5

Sounds like Nice GuyTM .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:34 PM
1

I don't think so. No matter how much you may try to rationalize in your mind you prefer not being in a relationship, deep down you can't lie to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:29 PM
4

Probably because red pill men generally have a more traditional view on what they want women to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:43 PM
7

Currently 25, can confirm I have given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:04 AM
1

Improve, settle, or give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:59 PM
9

I don't know man, I know for a fact I wouldn't some women I don't know to send me a vagina pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:58 PM
1

You forgot about gamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:55 PM
1

Sadly there probably are mother's who breastfeed way too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:42 PM
1

I'm done man. I've provided more then enough proof to you. Looking at some of the other people you have been debating I see the pattern of you arguing in bad faith. Continue listening to Candace Owens and other shills spoon feeding giving you false history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:13 PM
1

Still no mention of those democrats that switched? I've shown you through the voters and Nixon that the definitions switched. The policy is still consistent. The southern Dems were pro states rights, just like Republicans today are. Also for lower government, and less taxes. And what of "the great society" and "war on poverty" that decimated black homes and created a state of dependency? Not to mention the continuance of liberal policies that create a system of inequity. . Not relevant to our cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:38 PM
1

The war on drugs which targeted minorities, and "Law and Order" which again, targetes minorities. Nixon's era you couldn't do obvious racism, but disguised racism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:52 PM
1

I'm not gonna hold your hand and guide you through just because you want to play stupid. Confederacy was southern states. Southern Democrats were Southern(hence Southern Democrats). South now votes Republican. Confederate flags are waved by.... Ding ding Ding! Republicans. Why? Because they share the same views. Civil Rights act was opposed by the South. Voting rights act was opposed by the South. Strom Thurmond and the dixiecrats are another perfect example. Go read, stop playing stupid. Or go …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:38 PM
1

The opposition is consistent. Southern states. Who today are mostly Republican and in the past were the Confederacy and southern Democrats. Stopping getting history from PragerU or whatever Revisionist source you are using .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:41 PM
1

Where we non-npcs learn that the southern democrats which are equivalent to today's Republicans instituted poll taxes and literary tests as a way to suppress poor and non-white voters?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:41 PM
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Women I'm attracted to. I can be friends, I stumble trying to go any further. I wouldn't be surprised if I had some sort of social disorder. I'm not autistic or anything, but relating to people and trying to become emotionally close is difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:34 PM
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I personally don't blame women or Chad but myself. The amount of effort I would have to do to be compatible with women is enormous. A truly daunting task I'm unwilling to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:07 PM
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Red Pill, Black Pill, MGTOW and incel all are reactions to failures with women, so the bitterness makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:13 PM
3

BMI without exercise amount and waist measurement can be inaccurate for those who workout.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:54 AM
1

I'm not sure. I don't know how good/bad sex is, so I don't know if it's worth not orgasming.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:18 AM
1

Probably not. Wouldn't want to lose my virginity to such a scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:47 AM
3

People with denial fetishes could get off on it, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:12 AM
3

A Twitchthot is advertising a product. You give money, she gives you some attention. Writing your name, a shout-out, maybe something more or less. Whatever she gives it is an understood agreement between both parties. A guy who says he is not looking for a relationship and gets with a girl that understands that is in agreement. If the girl in this scenario knows that he doesn't want a relationship, but she does on hopes he changes is in full blame here. A guy who is not looking for a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:09 AM
1

As long as I get quick refills I tip good. Man or Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:46 PM
1

Desperation makes a guy simp. Why would a guy having sex on the regular need to simp for some e-girl or any women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:43 PM
3

After reading through TRP(had a brief phase of looking at it) at first it felt like a revelation of what I was doing wrong. Later though it destroyed my outlook on dating. The dating process seems beyond exhausting whenever I read about it. The "truth" freed me, but probably in a negative way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:10 AM
5

QFW: If the first kiss is bad, is it over? I'm curious cause I have heard that it can be a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:03 AM
1

This has always been a problem for me, because it's an easy catch 22. I only date people who are my friends.... But I don't want you befriending me just to get in a relationship. The answer seems like to ignore the rule, and just try anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:52 AM
1

Which waifu on the pillow?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:43 PM
6

Probably because single fatherhood is less common. Wikipedia says 80% of single parents are mother's, so that means only ~20% of single parents are fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:33 PM
3

Women are the gatekeepers to relationships and sex. A guy must be able to fill a women's checklist or else he will get neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:00 PM
2

Be boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:35 AM
1

I'm just making it clear, I'm saying that asking for N count is a bad idea. I am not endorsing rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:17 AM
1

I don't think it's an excuse to rape someone. I'm saying asking for N count is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:09 PM
1

It's a dumb question to ask. She could easily lie about it, and if she doesn't she can't magically make it lower. Even if she is honest with a low number, you could think she is lying. EDIT: I believe I'm being misunderstood here. I think it's dumb to ask for N count and I do not endorse rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:20 PM
5

If it were simple there wouldn't then TRP, Blackpill, and Incels wouldn't exist. No pick Up Artist. No money to be maybe off of single men desperation. But it all exist. Many men struggle with it. Cause women are people, and people are anything but simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:13 AM
13

It's one of few things FDS is absolutely right on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:44 PM
1

Read a summary, sounds much more interesting already.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:38 AM
2

Haven't read it. Have only read R&J, MacBeth, and Othello. All required readings during high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:44 AM
1

It sounds fake. Why would you keep the background check info? There is no benefit to keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:07 AM
2

Romeo and Juliet. It has been the weakest Shakespeare story I have read. MacBeth is a much better in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:04 AM
1

Bunch of non neuro typical people here most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:15 PM
1

How old we talking, 30's, 40's, 50's?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:16 AM
1

I'm assuming for some men consistent rejection makes them hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 11:24 PM
3

Give yourself a funny flair and your good to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:05 AM
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I feel like it would be a weight removed. I try not to think about it, but no matter what it's in my head that I have never had sex or had a girlfriend. Something that the vast majority of people my age(25) have done by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:32 AM
2

I wouldn't have the guts to do it, but it's a really great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:21 AM
5

You got to lie for the internet points.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:37 PM
10

Either try or don't. Either way the world doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:36 PM
2

A lesson in minding your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:22 PM
2

Visuals do help. But what if it was a women with big and perky boobs? And I don't pay attention much to aerola so I wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:08 AM
1

Do you have any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:50 AM
1

One thing I'm looking forward too moving out. We don't celebrate Halloween cause of it's "satanic origins". If I ever somehow get kids I will give them the Halloween I never got.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:40 AM
4

Off to clown school. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:29 AM
1

I think any guy who is Perma single most likely has issues. Whether it be socially, mentally, physically, or emotionally something is there. The question comes will anything be done to change said issues. For some the answer is no. Much easier to go to your coping mechanisms then change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:06 AM
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I'm in about that position. 25 year old virgin. I don't think I could do it. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where someone didn't like me back. So the other way around of only her liking me, I think it would be cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:00 AM
1

I think women are adapting better then men. Due to rising amounts of simps, an option to take advantage of them is present for women. If wanted, they can use Tinder and get the cream of the crop. With feminism, the option to be a career women is a available. In education, women are more present then ever before. The men who greatest benefit is the highly attractive. The rest of men aren't adapting. Some yearn for a system that isn't coming back. Many have given up. Finding dating/women to diffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:41 AM
2

Even if it is realized, it changes little. I don't think women would all of sudden change their attitude on men if they realized men work the majority of those jobs.. And them getting with a guy for duty or sense of courtesy certainly won't be any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:37 AM
1

Create a little bit of distance from him. You probably shouldn't be alone with him in certain spaces to avoid doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:45 PM
3

I can agree. Source: Have been called nice and am indeed boring
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:12 AM
1

I'm sure some people get off to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:10 AM
1

That fact that you ascended at least means you can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:04 AM
4

I don't think you need money to attract women. And if you do, it's probably not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:36 AM
36

If she looked at me I would think nothing of it. If she actively came up and approached I would assume from experience she is trying to sell me something. If she actually is hitting on me I would screw it up somehow by not noticing signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:32 AM
1

I feel like the readings are also good. No More Mr. nice Guy I would recommend to any "nice Guy". And Models is good for character.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:38 PM
2

Unfortunately Self Respect can't be put in a needle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:33 PM
2

MFA Uniform. It may change over years but it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:32 PM
2

I don't see a problem. Hetero or Bi, she likes me so it's alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:36 PM
1

Can I ask specifically why? The whole show I feel she never stands out much beyond sassy black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:22 AM
1

I'm surprised. I never really see Donna fans. Her character was really uninteresting for me. Edit: uninteresting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:04 AM
2

I wouldn't consider myself "incel" but I am a virgin. I've realized that my personality is 100% incompatible with attracting women. I've also realized that the effort it would take to change my personality is too great. Thus I stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:47 PM
0

Black Pill spreads easy, especially nowadays. It's easy to give up and blame your problems on some thing/one else that is out of your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:53 PM
2

I have, and I think it's an excellent book. While I didn't use it's advice for dating, I have applied in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:23 PM
1

This place has always leaned red. Although recently but leans black pill and FDS/Pink pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:38 PM
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👏 So brave 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:32 PM
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Yes, I've been completely unaware on a couple of occasions. It took me years later to realize it. And on the other side I've liked girls/women who didn't like me back even though I thought they did. Although in those situations they were flirts who I later realized were like that with everyone. I think they genuinely are clueless. I know that is my situation. A girl/women could like you but never say or do a thing about it simply cause of gender roles. And because guy can't pick up the near non …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:58 PM
3

Yeah, having a poor middle and high school experience probably will cripple you for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:51 PM
5

All you have to do is get get a very out their preference, and claim you are being kink shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:37 AM
1

I would argue that women are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships to a degree. So yeah, I think they do have that power. You have a choice of either change or not, and TRP chooses change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:10 PM
1

Overly quiet, highly inhibited, too much in their head, often emotionally distant, very reserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 08:14 PM
3

INTP as usual. I would love to know the correlation with virginity and MB. I bet INTP would be the most common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:26 PM
1

Adequate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:31 AM
3

Probably a cultural thing. Some of the states have very strict rules about being with minors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:32 PM
2

I've read it, and I think it's a must read for nice guys. It shook me out of all the behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:33 PM
1

Nope, I tried homecoming during freshmen year, realized an event like that wasn't for people like me. So I didn't do prom either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:03 AM
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I don't think I ever could. While I wouldn't misgender someone, in my mind I can't equate a bio women as a trans women. The second she reveals(assuming she passes) all attraction would be lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:25 PM
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I'm assuming he/she is wondering how desperate you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:17 PM
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There is no solution. The dating scene will shift to how it is in Japan. More men will either be pushed out of the dating scene or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:50 PM
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1st one. Initiating is the part I struggle with most so that makes it easier. And no sex till marriage is fine, I haven't done it for 25 years, I can wait another one or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:35 PM
1

We can get weirder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:40 PM
1

Your favorite hentai and favorite doujinshi?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:20 AM
2

People definitely know it's cringe, like the how incest porn has become so common people make memes about "stepbrother" and how some girl gets stuck in a washing machine. Also why we have videos like this: https://youtu.be/0DPdnsj9KP4
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:16 PM
1

There are certain groups that believe you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:23 AM
2

From what I've read of TRP, they know they are just taking their turn. As for me, I never assume attraction and that either A it's how they normally are to everyone or B they are acting to get something. Works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:58 AM
6

That explains what I have been doing wrong. I haven't been making cool sand piles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:17 PM
1

Nice toned and muscular legs look amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 05:47 AM
1

I think it's cause of a change over the years. TRP requires effort, and MGTOW is certainly not what it claims. Blackpill is the simple solution. You were doomed before it began. You can put the blame on your genetics, your looks, your height, but never you. It has a easy appeal to someone struggling. Sprinkle in some black pill "science" and it seems great.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:46 AM
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There is a couple, but they probably will be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:39 AM
2

If there is a good reason it sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:39 PM
1

Very specific kink, any particular verses you would want to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:37 PM
3

Some girl said I have really nice eyelashes and that she was jealous of them. I don't really know what is a good eyelash but a compliment is a compliment I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:27 AM
1

Of all of these I would only want 5. I wouldn't do it myself, but it's nice for those who want the option. And if we can find a way to prevent sex trafficking through prostitution legalization, then that's a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 11:06 PM
3

I would recommend Models or No More Mr Nice Guy if you are looking for self improvement. They are very fantastic books.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:59 AM
2

I'm fine with makeup as long as it's not overdone. Some concealer, lip stick, and maybe some eyeliner is fine. When it looks like it is caked on your face I think it's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:54 AM
3

I feel like Katy is more famous then Zoey. I didn't even know who she was till you said her name. Only movie I have seen with her is Elf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:47 AM
1

Mods I implore you to crack down on any blackpill/incel posting in this sub, don’t give them a platform. This content is really mentally harmful to young men. While I think it's fine for them to not be here, they definitely still exist in other places off Reddit like .co(visited there once, it is a cesspool).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:00 AM
5

It's easier to blame someone else. Actually changing yourself takes work and effort. In my case though I have realized I'm a boring, homebody, anxiety ridden nerd, and that I'm too lazy and unwilling to do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:54 PM
2

Any place with it allowed will probably get banned due to racist stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:48 PM
1

I deserve a loving partner , I deserve a relationship, I’m entitled to it all and i deserve it because I’m amazing. I’m going to get what I want nommatter what, i will have what other men are thrown. Life owes you nothing, and the only thing promised to you is that you will die one day. I would give advice, but blind leading the blind and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:58 AM
6

The Manosphere does blame orbiters/"beta" males for a lot of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:47 AM
3

Open to anybody, what should the number one goal of feminism be at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:13 PM
1

Why are so many people looking for a way to codify human interactions on here!? Because it would be easier that way. Imagine you wanted sex so you do x, y and then z. Simple and done. But it's not like that. It is complex. You could do x, but x could be many different things. Then do y, but who knows how badly you screwed up x so maybe y won't happen. Then you might do z. But who knows, maybe you did x, y, and z right, but you cought them on the wrong day? Leading to a fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:41 AM
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Overweight Unattractive Face Not listed but Transwomen I feel like the rest I could make work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:35 AM
2

Yes, that's why you always hear men saying women are "hard to understand", "like aliens", "foreign", or "too confusing".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:04 PM
5

If you have zero hope/chance, then why does it matter? Complain or not, they will still be alone. Might as well vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:32 AM
4

Fine with it. And fine with taxpayer money going to it. I also support preventive measures to make the need for abortion lower like: Easy access to birth control and condoms.(also paid by tax payer money). Proper sex ed class(no abstinence only as it doesn't work).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:38 AM
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Having a period sounds awful. Especially how I hear some women have to deal with period cramps, hormonal changes, or migraines. Also if you are a girl with big boobs. Must be frustrating having some idiot looking at your tits while you are trying to talk to them. Also the price of bras and their rarity. My mom struggles to find bras in stores die to her size, and I had to direct her to a good site(I lurk /r/bigboobproblems) and she hates the cost. Minor one is pockets. Girl pockets suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:04 PM
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🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:50 AM
3

Because we have been taught that virgin men are pathetic. The cool guys in TV are the ones who are are good with girls and have sex. The ultimate show of being a loser(as a guy) is the opposite, being bad with girls and being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:49 AM
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Rise of depression, social anxiety, and just overall bleak outlook on life. The moment you realize you will probably be doing a 9-5 for the majority of your life and that dating is too hard, why bother? Easier to get an ok job, find a good cope(video games, porn, drugs) and just do that. Accumulate wealth? Meaningless, you will have no one to give it to. Self improve? Your previous failures have hurt you to much to bother. You will still face rejection. Online dating? Do I even need to go there?…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:00 AM
1

Yeah I would do it. I'm a leg guy so there is only more to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:06 PM
2

They way they act is irrelevant, if she is hot she will be sought after. I've known a couple of these girls. And of course, they will popular around guys. One of them friends with a drug dealer, the other had no female friends because "I don't trust other women".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:34 PM
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I'll mix it up. I'll take a more dominant, working women. I could do the whole house husband bit. A n count less then 20 would be fine with me. Attractive is a given, cause who doesn't want someone attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:05 AM
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Nope, it peaked a while ago. As some others mentioned the black pill, incel, and MGTOW communities are much more tempting for men down on their luck. Self improvement takes a lot of effort, work, and in the long run for many its not worth it. Changing your entire self just to get sex is too much for some. The future will be more men not having sex, not going into the red pill. Probably we will end up more like Japan. More men not even bothering trying to have sex or even try. "Herbivore men" wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 06:50 AM
1

I meant maybe higher tech ones of the future with robotics and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 04:12 AM
1

Will they become the norm someday and become very popular among men?? Perhaps, I personally don't think so. I feel like VR porn would be much more popular. Do women feel threatened? If a women felt threatened by a doll they should probably do some inner reflection on why. Would the men on the sub ever get one?? I wouldn't. I wouldn't trust the tech. It could screw up somehow and crush me or my bits. Is it a viable alternative for sexless men? I don't think so. Part of the problem is a lack of va…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 03:00 AM
1

I'm curious, how did you get out of INTP?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:47 AM
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It benefits women cause free/cheaper alcohol, and benefits men cause more girls. I don't think it's sexist, it's capitalism at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:20 AM
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Male INTP Extroversion: 1 Emotional Stability: 16 Agreeableness: 2 Conscientious: 2 Openess/Imagination: 76 Test is about as expected. Highly anti social loner who keeps in his head too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:10 AM
2

You shouldn't, and I know I shouldn't, but simply telling myself that doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 02:42 PM
3

Mediocre daily sex is better then the zero I have now, so definitely that. I feel like having sex so amazing once would be awful. It would probably be like being given an amazing desert but never being able to have more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:15 AM
2

As someone who did briefly dip into RP, I think it's so easy to get into the "rage phase" and never leave. I could understand why Redpillers wouldn't consider people in rage phase as "true red pill".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:51 PM
2

It doesn't help that after it immediately news channels: BREAKING NEWS, CIVIL WAR POSSIBLY IMMINENT!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 10:55 PM
0

Then it probably isn't good. Being "nice" is bare minimum a person should be, so I think it's a poor descriptor of oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:43 AM
2

Don't call any men "nice guys". Approach guys more, although this one of will take a long time to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:27 AM
4

I used to workout and do other sorts of things to improve. But after a while it felt pointless. I've just accepted how I am, and if anything ever happens(probably won't) then accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:13 PM
1

I wouldn't mind a girl with experience considering I have none. I don't really have a preference either way. Although, I'm not sure if I would tell that I'm a virgin, I have heard that women don't want virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:10 PM
2

I feel like the highest average N-Count is probably women, but I think that certain men have higher then the highest of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:59 PM
4

I'm not saying that you should in detail say why you don't like someone, just don't say misleading statements that could cause confusion. Do you tell women in detail why you don't want them? If that were to ever happen, yes. I wouldn't go into super detail and be an ass, but I would say why. Do you only reject women because they aren't perfect? I've never rejected a women, but none have asked me out either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:06 AM
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A guy would wonder if he is such a "perfect guy" then why not him? It's not very helpful, and honestly I would rather a girl/women not say it at all. The extra part you added would be helpful however, but most women wouldn't go that far and only say the first part. Like if a women were to say. "I wish my boyfriend was like you" it would cause confusion. If they want a boyfriend like them, why doesn't the girl get with them then? It overall isn't helpful, and would just make a guy more confused i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:02 AM
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I don't hate women, I lean toward neutral. If something could be changed I would like them to be more direct. Stuff like telling a guy that he's "the perfect guy, just not for them" or that he's "too nice". I know what it means now, but hearing things like that is confusing when you are a teen. Led to me ultimately being confused with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:30 AM
2

I find much worse you go to a site with a recipe and they have their multiple paragraph talk about the recipe. I want the recipe dang it, not your whole story on why you made a cake!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:13 AM
3

It takes confidence to approach a women, so it is needed for men. A women does not need to approach, so they don't need it. A girl who is less confident would probably let a guy get away with more, as well as look to him more, therefore more valuable to those looking for someone more submissive. A guy with no confidence is seen as weak, and is probably the type to pine after a girl but never ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:49 AM
3

Cause submissiveness is valued in women and rarely in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:51 AM
1

I don't say it, but I have been called a nice guy or too nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 08:25 AM
3

Probably, having it right now is a hinderence anyway. I could jerk off less too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 08:32 PM
10

It means they don't see you as a sexual option. I've gotten it before plenty of times before. At first I thought it was a compliment, until I realized who was and wasn't having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:14 PM
3

Cause women are shamed for having sex, men are shamed for not. I think I would lie about being a virgin so I wouldn't be made fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:57 AM
0

1) Did you try to find a committed relationship / significant other in your youth? Yes. 2) Why was it unsuccessful? I was too boring and didn't really understand women. Watched too much movies where a couple naturally come together. That doesn't happen. You have too make every step. 3) What would you differently if you could go back in time? In freshman year make sure to start hanging around women more, ask more girls out. Take hints better, be less of a sperg, learn to romance and escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:54 AM
0

Male pride/ego. It's a double edged sword cause it gives confidence but can lead to arrogance As someone who used to be a "Nice Guy", then that and simping. Degrading themself and doing whatever it takes for sex. Oneitis/going after one girl and obessessing over her even though there are plenty of other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:07 PM
11

We argue whether or not it is worth it too date as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 08:11 AM
1

Either that or more lonely people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 08:09 AM
1

After assuming interest a couple of times and failing each time, I never assume interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 01:31 AM
1

It's like reading a book, you need the ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 12:26 AM
1

I realised I kept doing it, so I stopped having female friends. I feel like certain guys can't have female friends or else they sooner or later start liking them. I'm one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 12:15 AM
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A failsafe would be amazing, but I know it doesn't exist. I find relationship/sex stuff to difficult and have accepted my fate. Get a mid range job, video games, tv, and porn. Do that till I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:37 AM
1

There is a whole lot of degen stuff out there that is worst then any Incel fiction. Furry, unbirthing, vore to name a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:27 PM
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